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Confused regarding SP

2024.03.28 05:37 Goofy_143 Confused regarding SP

Hello everyone, I am new to LOA. I started last month.
I decided to blocked my SP on his social media accounts (FB & Instagram) because he broke up with me (again), just to make some space for us. Almost 2 months in NC. Btw, we're in long distance. I unblocked him because I wanted to test the law, but then found out that he blocked me on his Instagram account.
Then last monday, he added me on facebook. Then deleted, then he added me again. Today I confirmed his friend request. Then I found out he unfriend me after I accept the request.
I’m focusing on myself right now. I find it he’s kinda weird? He didn’t even send a message regarding this. I’m confused rn.
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2024.03.27 23:42 Strange-Percentage21 Trying to keep parental rights in Kansas

Trying to give my brother advice on how to handle his current custody situation in Kansas.
He was very close with his son and was awarded split custody after a long, difficult mediation that began because the mother wanted full custody after meeting her now husband. Things were going alright for a while and then she randomly blocked my brother and our entirely family's phone numbers and social media accounts, and moved in to a new house with her husband. We do not know the address. My brother has not seen his son since this took place, almost three years ago. My brother has continued to pay child support and hopes that something will change one day so he can regain a relationship with his son. His case workemediator have done nothing to help and he hasn't had the funds to hire a lawyer. I know he contacted a legal aid option once before but I believe they weren't taking on any new cases at the time. The situation has unfortunately gone on a very long time now, despite our attempts at messaging her family online about trying to connect with her and see the child. A few months ago, her husband unblocked our mother on facebook and said she could see the child for a few hours in a public space but could not bring my brother. The child was ecstatic to see my parents again, because they also had a close relationship prior to the time we were blocked. After that meeting, my mother was blocked again and all communication was once again cut off. We have been stuck in this cycle. Today, my brother was served papers attempting to take away his parental rights because the stepfather wants to adopt his son. We are now trying to contact lawyers and my parents are looking at refinancing their home to help him afford a lawyer. I'll be the first to admit there hasn't been enough effort at resolving the situation, but all we can do is focus on the present for now. Im wondering: after all this time, what are his chances? What advice should I give him?
I will add that we are currently gathering evidence of all of our attempts to contact the ex and her family as I'm sure that will be helpful for the lawyer to see.
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2024.03.27 21:33 article67 Most guys will never know the rush that comes from rejecting a hot younger woman. It's better than sex.

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2024.03.27 19:25 PatsySniffer Need outside perspective and not sure how to feel

Not sure how to feel and need outside perspective
Okay so here goes. Me and my ex were arguing quite a bit the last few months and she decided to move out and break up with me, I was angry and hurt but I didn't stop her or beg for her. I still spoke to her as we were still emotionally tied.
She came back to visit for a few days at mine after about two weeks and we had a great time, sex, emotional connection etc. Literally back to how we always felt. She didn't want to leave and I guess part of me thought she was being vague about what she wanted. I didn't want to her to leave, but at the same time I was already hurt from the break up so I was not going to take any initiative to invite her back into my life so soon. I never disagreed with her, but told her to go home for now to give her space to think as I didn't think she really knew what she wanted.
Now her, living back home (it's far from where we were staying together), I began feeling like she was keeping me as an option while she moved back home as a single women again.
My confidence started to twindle and she made hurtful remarks calling me a simp on one occasion because i shared a song that she assumed was about her. She then found i was friends with a women from my college on facebook and began getting weird and asking why i would add random women on facebook and i said no, she added me and she is in our same social circle in collegel. I could tell her tone had been off and then she make a remark saying how "no women could ever want me hahaha" it was a joke she said and we usually are thick skinned when we joke but this was different to me as it was during a break up. She got mad at me for saying it hurt me as i felt sensitive at this time (breakup).
A few days later I eventually just decided I couldn't stay in contact with her anymore. I sent her an apologetic but heartfelt message saying I need to cut her off to heal. She met me with anger and how she wanted to make it work with me blah blah. I told her that if she didn't tell me explicitly that she wants me back for good then anything but bread crumbs isn't going to work for me and I was told to fuck off and that I'm hard to please. She blocked me on everything and said she doesn't want to hear from me again. I made a promise to myself to grant her that wish and haven't contacted her once and do not plant to after that and still don't.
She unblocked me a few times and blocked me again on Facebook as she kept appearing on my feed again. I didnt block her, i did not see the need and I have self control enough not to message her. I knew it was her wanting me to reach out.
So now 6 weeks has past since and I hear through mutual friends that she is with another women (she is bi). It doesn't Phase me but I'm told they are in a relationship which to me seems very quick considering it's only been just over 5 weeks since we parted.
My questions I guess are do you think she genuinely wanted to make things work with me and just needed space and should I give her that?
Did I make the right choice here? As much as I care for her part of me thinks I dodged a bullet with how she handles me breaking things off with her.
Also do you think she will contact me again? I have a lot of her stuff at my home and part of me thinks since she blocked me to just ignore it and let her contact me if she wants it back.
Thanks
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2024.03.27 16:15 Ok-Market2307 Advice

Advice
I’m 30 y/o male and my ex is 20 we were together for almost 2 years and had plans of getting married and starting a family. We had both moved from our hometown to a different state to pursue a working opportunity we lived together for the extent of it. I had a child that lived back in my hometown so I’d visit him once a week and my ex became very attached also. We started having problems and she wanted to breakup so I decided I wanted to move back to my hometown to be closer to my son and family and she wanted to stay. We’ve been broken up for 7 months and she started randomly hitting me up once a week about a month ago about things that were a little important but she didnt necessarily need to reach out for them. She reached out to say sorry for my grandma passing also . I told her there was no reason we should be talking and she blocked me on twitter, where she’s most active and also Facebook. It’s been 2 weeks since she blocked me and has since unblocked me on twitter. I know I probably care too much. But what’s going on ?
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2024.03.27 05:19 crazyeyesgonebad1 Shouldn't polyamorous people be open and honest about there relationships and tell people of interest that they are polyamorous before flirting with them? A polyamorous man lied to me. Is he really polyamorous or just a cheater?

I'm a female, Got chatting with a guy online afew months ago. He seemed very interested in me and my life. We chatted every day and even did phone s£x 🫣 I wanted to be with him and he only lived afew hours away. But soon I was getting this bad feeling something wasn't right here. Afew google and Facebook searches I came across his WIFE on facebook! It's clear as day they are married. I felt sick to my stomach and hurt. I confronted him the next day and he acts dump to my question ( are you married ) then asked me who told me. So I sent him a screenshot of him and his wife's wedding photo from her profile. Then he said his polyamorous and his wife doesn't care. He even has another girlfriend. I was so angry at him I couldn't even write the text message. He apologies but that's not good enough. I even spoke to his wife on the phone to check that he wasn't lying. I missed out on potential dates because I really liked him and literally stayed faithful to him even though we haven't even met in person yet. I was planning to drive to him for the weekend soon. I even asked him before we got flirty if he was married or seeing anyone and he said no. He said I could ask any questions about him being polyamorous and how it works. Problem is he literally thought I was okay with it because I had such a strong attachment to him we still kept at it. I know I should of just blocked him. Now things was out in the open he kept telling me what his doing with his wife in the bedroom and this made me very uncomfortable. I told him how this upsets me but he only did it again. Still haven't met up in person weeks after finding out the truth. One day he said meeting up is on hold because he lost his job. Typical 🙄 when I got chatting with someone else when not talking to him, he got angry at me! I'm trying to move on and made it clear I'm not interested anymore and he still won't stop sending me filthy texts. His behaviour is like his obsessed with me. I felt like his trying to force me into a relationship that i don't want to be a part in. He was planning to spend the holiday with another new woman and I have had enough of this and blocked him and his girlfriends. Never unblocking them and have moved on. But his still trying to get my attention with fake accounts with very similar names to him. I have blocked so meny accounts it's unreal. Seems I have attracted a polyamorous madman. I feel his a cheater and the wife just puts up with it because she's naive. Has anyone else been thorw something like this? I'm not against polyamorous people but it's something I don't want. I only want one partner and he should only want one partner. My question is, shouldn't polyamorous people be open and honest about being polyamorous and they should tell someone that they want to get involved with sexually that they are polyamorous before flirting?
I still don't understand polyamorous it sounds like a living nightmare and meny people are going to get heartbroken. A week ago I met another guy who was polyamorous and didn't tell me. I just blocked him straight away. Unbelievable
Just to say I'm not hating on this but there's so meny polyamorous man out there not telling people about them being polyamorous. This lying idiot broke my heart.
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2024.03.26 22:06 PatsySniffer Not sure how to feel and need outside perspective

Okay so here goes. Me and my ex were arguing quite a bit the last few months and she decided to move out and break up with me, I was angry and hurt but I didn't stop her or beg for her. I still spoke to her as we were still emotionally tied.
She came back to visit for a few days at mine after about two weeks and we had a great time, sex, emotional connection etc. Literally back to how we always felt. She didn't want to leave and I guess part of me thought she was being vague about what she wanted. I didn't want to her to leave, but at the same time I was already hurt from the break up so I was not going to take any initiative to invite her back into my life so soon. I never disagreed with her, but told her to go home for now to give her space to think as I didn't think she really knew what she wanted.
Now her, living back home (it's far from where we were staying together), I began feeling like she was keeping me as an option while she moved back home as a single women again.
My confidence started to twindle and she made hurtful remarks calling me a simp on one occasion because i shared a song that she assumed was about her. She then found i was friends with a women from my college on facebook and began getting weird and asking why i would add random women on facebook and i said no, she added me and she is in our same social circle in collegel. I could tell her tone had been off and then she make a remark saying how "no women could ever want me hahaha" it was a joke she said and we usually are thick skinned when we joke but this was different to me as it was during a break up. She got mad at me for saying it hurt me as i felt sensitive at this time (breakup).
A few days later I eventually just decided I couldn't stay in contact with her anymore. I sent her an apologetic but heartfelt message saying I need to cut her off to heal. She met me with anger and how she wanted to make it work with me blah blah. I told her that if she didn't tell me explicitly that she wants me back for good then anything but bread crumbs isn't going to work for me and I was told to fuck off and that I'm hard to please. She blocked me on everything and said she doesn't want to hear from me again. I made a promise to myself to grant her that wish and haven't contacted her once and do not plant to after that and still don't.
She unblocked me a few times and blocked me again on Facebook as she kept appearing on my feed again. I didnt block her, i did not see the need and I have self control enough not to message her. I knew it was her wanting me to reach out.
So now 6 weeks has past since and I hear through mutual friends that she is with another women (she is bi). It doesn't Phase me but I'm told they are in a relationship which to me seems very quick considering it's only been just over 5 weeks since we parted.
My questions I guess are do you think she genuinely wanted to make things work with me and just needed space and should I give her that?
Did I make the right choice here? As much as I care for her part of me thinks I dodged a bullet with how she handles me breaking things off with her.
Also do you think she will contact me again? I have a lot of her stuff at my home and part of me thinks since she blocked me to just ignore it and let her contact me if she wants it back.
Thanks
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2024.03.26 21:00 Chanelx99 AITIAH for blocking my grandmother

My(24F) grandmother has always been obsessed with me in the worst way. I attempted to block her a few years ago and she called the police on me to do a wellness check. When they wouldn’t force me to unblock her, she called DCF and said I was abusing my child (who was at school at the time), I ended up having to fight that shit in court for a year. So blocking her has NOT gone over well in the past. But I did it, I blocked her again. And now my WHOLE family is guilt tripping me.
The reason I blocked her is a bit of a long story so I’ll try to just hit the main points. Her (grandma) and my ex boyfriends(23M) new girlfriend(28F) are BESTIES. (Dated him 6 years ago when I was a teenager). The current girlfriend (S) has befriended all my friends and family, posts horrible things about me online, showed up at my job, added my current boyfriends exs (and their families) on Facebook, comes to my families Christmas, and just does everything in her power to try to replace me in ppls lives/make people not like me.
Obviously this behavior weirds me out and disturbs me but don’t worry it gets worse. My grandmother was over at my house last week. She brings up S to me and I candidly mentioned a few things she does that bothers me or creeps me out. As we’re discussing this I LOOK OVER AND SHES SENDING S GIANT PARAGRAPHS AS WE’RE TALKING ABOUT HER!! Like high school fucking bullies. Left a horrible taste in my mouth but I still hadn’t blocked her for this.
The final straw was yesterday. My mom’s FIL passed away. Instead of talking to her grandchildren, my grandmother reaches out to S to let her know some man she’s never met passed away. S was posting about it on Facebook before I even knew he had passed.
So I gave my grandmother an ultimatum. “You’re either this random girls grandma or you’re my grandma but you can’t be both” her response was basically that she doesn’t have time for me, I’m overreacting, and she doesn’t care how she makes me feel. So I blocked her. Now I’m getting guilt tripping, even threatening messages from relatives because I blocked her. Trying to use the fact that she hacks into my bank account as leverage to weasel back into my life. My whole family (excluding my siblings) thinks I’m the asshole. I feel like I’m living in a horror movie. I’m overwhelmed by their meddling, sabotaging, and obsession with my life at this point. But according to my grandmothers minions “life is fragile” and I need to “keep my loved ones close”.
So, has grandma burned the bridge for the last time or am I the asshole?
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2024.03.25 19:10 compassionatesoulz My ex's BPD "doesnt get triggered" by her new boyfriend followup

This is a followup post to my previous one.
My ex is posting on BPD/ptsd Facebook groups about her new guy being calm and "doesnt trigger her BPD". Meanwhile I am painted as a narcissist who triggered her BPD.
She's been on meds and in therapy for 8 months now, and still with "new guy" after 6 months. Maybe she is better off?
What I dont get is why she says these things behind my back, but irl she unblocked me on insta, keeps texting me whenever she has an excuse to do so and now I hear she wants to work on my shift(we have the same job.)
Why not just curse me, block me and stop texting me to get horrible me out of your life?
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2024.03.25 16:19 Sky095 "I can't be in a relationship rn" 1 week later she's in one

To keep it detailed but also short as possible we had broken up new years eve, I got removed from a server we were in together (she did it I'm sure but didn't wanna admit) & when that happened I stepped up & said "No more contact, I'm sorry but it was uncalled for since I did nothing wrong but I still wish you the best." keep in mind we ended originally on what seemed like good terms, she (wanted) to keep in touch. Fast forward a few weeks after the server removal I get a message on IG about a couples posts w/memes, I didn't know how to respond since we weren't together anyways & no words were said from her side she just sent the post that's it. I didn't respond then 10min later she deleted the collection (she added the post to "our" past collection at the time) & I got advice from a few other friends if I should reach out saying "I didn't respond because we aren't together anymore & I wasn't sure what you wanted but I never hated you & (still) wish you the best whatever you're doing."
So I did just that, I sent the text the next day & immediately I get a phone call from her at work no hesitation. It was a mistake though, because I asked her a few specific questions all of which she lied about. She said she (didn't) send me the message & blamed it on insomnia even though it was 10am where she would have been at work anyways, she also said she (didn't) block me on Facebook & during said call I got unblocked (so I'm just like ok no worries) again because if she wanted to get back in touch I told her it's ok to add me but her choice, lastly for her own server she said she "deleted" it vs removing me which again was a lie since I had a friend still in it. I just at that point knew she wasn't being honest, but I asked her "Look, what are you looking for? Like do you wanna get back into a relationship at all or like?..I'm sorry I'm just not sure how you're feeling" and she responded back saying "I don't have time for a relationship rn, I have too much going on & need to focus on myself, and my dog passing away too." I was kinda done, I had already stopped contact on my end anyways even before the server removal so I just said ok no worries & we ended the call there more or less. Then about 4 days later I actually get into a new relationship with someone I started talking to who admitted to having feelings for me, and honestly I liked her a bit too so I thought to give it a chance. We both put on our IG how we're taken by each other (but) then a week later my ex sends me a text about donating to her sister's school, it was copied & pasted I could tell but it made me think how's she doing? Well she (also) updated her IG to put a new relationship w/hearts next to the initials, but then there was the date of Dec. 30th 23 (one day before we broke up) and that date also had hearts...I had no idea if the date was referencing me & her or them but for 3 months she never talked about a new guy or being in a new relationship to anyone so it makes it all stranger. The original (reason) for the breakup was she stopped taking her anti-depressants & didn't want me seeing how she is w/out them, that her emotions got in the way & she lost feelings for me. In the end I wanted nothing more than an apology for what happened since we were together for almost 2 years, and then if she's willing to tell me I'd like to someday hear the truth on why she did what she did but it's back to me just letting her do her own thing. It's been that way for a while especially now I've got someone else, it just hurt seeing her do this (and also slept with that new guy less than 4 months together, found that out from another source).
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2024.03.25 07:02 PlatypusHuman9196 situationshit and backburner??


we've been talking since august, first 3 months hmm good, lagi ako nakangiti and all whenever im talking to him kasi it's my first time na may makausap ng gantong katagal? he is a varsity player, future ncaa if maline up man this season 100. ginagawa namin yung updates, kulitan and such pero within that 3 months ni hindi man lang niya matanong facebook ko or ig! then i got the courage to open up with that matter and he only answered "kilala mo naman ako, bat di mo isearch HAHAHAHAHAHA" and well i did, i sent him a friend request and pati sa ig pero t*ngina di man lang niya nagawa iaccept at tinatawanan niya lang ako HAHAHAHAHAHA

that made me think, itutuloy ko pa ba? pero as cancer sign girly, napangunahan ng emotional bond and attachment so tinuloy ko.
there is also a point, way back december 2023, i confessed to him na i like him na and told him na if i don't have the chance just tell me and di man lang niya ko binigyan ng clear answer HAHAHAHAHA like me: "may chance ba ko?" siya: "siguro HAHAHAHAHA" like hUH???????
then again i continued kasi nga tanga ako, not until napuno na ko nung feb, i opened up the same concerns and still got the same answers. I asked him kung gusto pa ba niya ituloy 'to and he said "di na siguro kung nasasaktan lang kita" like hey ALAM MO PALANG NASASAKTAN AKO THEN WHY DI KA NAG EEFFORT NA WAG AKO SAKTAN??? and with that, i got the courage to end it.
I cried syempre, super attached ako e, i blocked him sa tg, ginawa lahat para lang di ko siya ichat ulit. Kaso super nag relapse ako one time and I unblocked him pero di ko siya chinat. Binago ko yung bio ko to and didn't expect na mag rereply siya thru bio niya rin :< and that HAHA CHINAT KO ULIT.

Now, we are talking ulit, akala ko nagbago na pero gago same pa rin HAHAHAHAHAHAH siguro may minimal changes like lumalandi na siya pabalik pero all in all, still the same.

And sadly, i got attached ulit. I don't know how to end it again, gusto ko pero 'di ko alam paano. Im also mad sa sarili ko kasi chinat ko pa, now andito nanaman ako sa cycle na 'to. Please tell me how to detach little by little. Nasa sistema ko na kasi siya, ang hirap hirap. Alam ko namang I deserve better than this pero bat di ko siya kayang bitawan??????

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2024.03.24 15:38 iscrimsonata so my wife and I got into a fight during her period, and as usual, I fell victim to her monthly hormone monster

so my wife and I got into a fight during her period, and as usual, I fell victim to her monthly hormone monster
I was blocked but was immediately unblocked after, but when I open messenger it still says "this person is unavailable on messenger"
we call still call each other, when I click om call back from a previous call. I can also messenge her through the Facebook app specifically. And we are already friends again on Facebook.
things I've tried: •log out and in again •restart my phone. •report on meta
what should I do? should I just wait it out?
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2024.03.23 17:00 Simou096 My Facebook got hacked and I want to either recover it by my current phone number or by email.

My Facebook got hacked and I want to either recover it by my current phone number or by email.
Greetings, someone recently successfully accessed my account, the way he accessed my account was by connecting it with my old phone number that has been inactivated long ago, but got transferred to someone else (this is the policy of the sim card provider), I forgot to remove that phone number from my account, now my problem is the account is registered with two phone numbers (my current and my old phone number), so when I open Facebook I find my account blocked and the only way to access it is by confirming my identify or by my old phone number, I tried to confirm my identify which didn't work, so now I want to access it and unblock it with either by my current phone number or by my email, so I
Note: 1) It's impossible for me to recover my old phone number or block it or interfer in any way with it, when I lost it, it wasn't on my name so I can recover it, so after a while of being inactivated it got transferred to someone else.
2) The guy who hacked to my account didn't remove my current phone number (I will post a Screenshot), he just hacked to insult and curse at everyone in my Messenger including my family members.
3) Facebook sent me an email telling me that my password got reset by my old phone number that's how I knew the guy used my old phone number to access my account.
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2024.03.23 13:56 Technspice_YT Why is there no chat support for meta business?

I am running an ad and once it reaches every second, they charge my card. Due to this, my bank account block the transaction due to suspicious activity. now that I have solved the problem with the bank and approved the payment again, the ads are blocked, saying payment is not going through. i checked with my bank they said there was no attempt to debit the USD after the unblocking. now i have no options to find a solution for this. If anyone out there knows a way to chat with the Facebook team, please help me.
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2024.03.22 21:09 InternalPea1198 Hmm

Hmm
Just out here, casually threatening to sue people. Then proceed to do the exact same thing she’s accusing this man of. 🥰
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2024.03.22 18:21 Fabulous-Yard-6206 I want to get a restraining order against my ex

I was wondering, can I? He reached out to me on March 13th, wanting to apologize but I didn’t accept it.
Our relationship was very toxic, he used to hit me and get mad at almost everything like a spoiled brat not getting what he wanted. He’s also a rape apologist. Then cheated on me with 4 different women, ending the relationship.
But 6-7 months later he unblocked me on everything, then tried to apologize for everything he’s done and that he’s “had time to reflect in navy bootcamp and he’s a better person”.
I am still hurt and scared of him so I didn’t accept it and told him to fuck off and told him to keep me blocked. I’ve blocked him but he keeps popping up with his other account and trying to monitor my activities on my different accounts on Instagram and Facebook.
I want to get a restraining order because he still knows where I live and he and his partner that he’s with now are very aggressive people. Is it possible in Oregon? I know that they have to be a threat but he’s a really aggressive person in general and don’t feel comfortable unless I have a restraining order.
I don’t want to talk to him ever again and he needs to move on but he won’t.
Edit; I just was told that the whole reason he contacted me is because to try to ruin my relationship with my fiancé. I just want to be left alone but I don’t know what to do. Can he be charged?
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2024.03.22 18:05 RubKey3772 My story

I have an ex that discarded me in January this year. Funny thing is it seems I'm restricted on facebook messanger, but unblocked elsewhere. I've stayed away. I got with this ex (who I dated almost a decade prior) a bank account, job, car and let my exwpbd live with me for free. My exwbpd needed a car and due to repossessions on their record got a deal with the pre-owned auto place in my town. They had to pay nearly in cash 3 months of just shy of $900, while I put down a down-payment of $6k. I got a personal loan to have the $6k. My exwbpd is driving away on a car that's paid for, but I'll be paying this loan for about two years now. A part of me is wondering how this person will survive. Between this time around of a dating and the last time we dated they became a single parent of two children with two different parents. Not only that, but there are two evictions on their record that happened between the time we dated the first time and now. I believe in my state it takes 7 years for evictions to leave one's records. I think private landlords are getting less and less common. I can't imagine commercial landlords allowing my exwbpd to rent with them. My bank stated when I got my exwbpd a bank account that if they get a loan via a credit union to pay off everything that is in collections. I have been in NC, but me not being blocked anywhere is odd. Our last encounter resulted in some reactive abuse done by me, but it was a build up of months of her abuse. I heard through a friend that the exwbpd is living at a hotel. The exwbpd I feel will ruin things at their job and probably run out of money. I'm just throwing myself at work and will have to move. I've never posted on here, and just wanted some feedback. Thanks to anyone who takes the time to read this.
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2024.03.22 15:13 Interesting-Layer843 Ex unblocked me on facebook

Not sure what to think of this, my ex had me blocked on FB for a week and then yesterday all of a sudden unblocked me and I have no idea what to think. She hasn't reached out to me even though I wish she did but I'm not reaching out because I don't think she wants to hear from me. Am I overthinking this?
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2024.03.22 03:38 clearnebulous I'm so tired of all the strange men coming up and talking to me at work for no reason

I work at a hotel. Yes, I know its expected of me to have to talk to people, even weird men. I've only been working here nearly a year, and honestly, despite it being a nice job, I fucking hate it that they feel the need to talk to me. I'm in my early 20's, but I've been told by multiple people over the years (before I started working there, and while working) that I look 14/15. I've been able to make myself look older more recently, but a lot of the encounters were before that.
Majority of the time, they don't even need anything from me. Today, one of them has tried talking to me numerous times. The first two times were to tell me a joke, and both times he leaned on the counter to the point where his hands where over the counter. The third time he came around he just walked up to me and held out two of his fists and went "pick a hand." I kinda awkwardly went with it, and he tried giving me chocolate. I politely told him I was lactose (I am, but normally I don't care) and he's like oh okay and wandered off. He also asked when I got off, and I just vaguely answered him (oh..in a couple of hours.)
Another man went up and asked me the pool hours, I told them, he turned around and went to leave then turned right back around and tried talking to me. Another one was explaining how he finally got an apartment, like..out of nowhere. Last weekend one randomly bought me sushi (yes, I ate it, I fucking love sushi) out of nowhere. He also said before that "hello beautiful....person". I was weirded out and felt validated at the same time, it was weird (I'm nonbinary, being referred to as person versus woman makes me feel validated).
It's honestly pretty mild, I know, but it happens a lot once it picks up. I've had guys talk to me for HOURS. When I first started (last summer), I was hit on several times (by both men and woman). I stupidly allowed one to friend me on facebook (I wouldn't give him my number) and he asked for my nudes. I told him off, blocked him, and he came up to the desk and asked me to unblock him. I just avoided that conversation.
My manager was only around for one, where they were trying to ask for my snap, and basically told them to leave me alone. He's not often around, however. I don't mind being sociable, but when its men in theirs 50s-60s who make it their mission to constantly talk to me is when it makes me uncomfortable. I can handle people around my own age, and they actually seem like they want to get to know me, and value my personal space. I've only had one guy who looked younger than me try and hit on me, and that's it. The rest have been older.
I've added a couple people on snapchat, and they were perfectly friendly, and around my age. No flirting whatsoever, even from the opposite gender.
This is more so a vent, as I've never been treated like this before I started working at a hotel. Even when I've worked previous jobs, and was exposed to different groups of people as a minor. Like, I don't mind talking to older generations as long as they respect my personal space and don't ask weird questions. Like, if you ask when I get off and you've been constantly trying to talk to me, I'm going to get weirded out. I've noticed if they're interested in me, they generally lean on the counter / close to me as possible, which happens a lot more than you think.
Don't get me wrong, I love being social and talking to customers. I've talked to people for HOURS just about various things. I talked to these two older men (40s?) for hours last summer. They respected my space, and was in fact literally across the room, sitting at a table, talking about comic stuff and movies with each other, and me when I wasn't busy.
I think the most uncomfy I've gotten besides being asked for nudes, is when this truck driver in his 50's was telling me various stories, and he was telling me sexual stories about how people will do gross things while driving next to truck drivers, and try and get them to look. Like..you really needed to tell me that? Or I guess the time someone called me, asked me how old I was, and then asked me if I've been f-cked at work, and if I would like to try. God, that was the worst, maybe. I had a full blown panic attack after that, afraid he'd find me after work. He did not.
My favorites however, is when people around my age genuinely have a conversation with me. I've gotten compliments on my outfit / earrings. It made me a little weirded out with the amount of men who complimented my dress the day I wore one to work.
Sorry for the long rant but I was just getting progressively more ranty to my friends and decided to spare them for awhile and rant on here instead.
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2024.03.22 03:30 repent1111 Facebook unblocking issue, Long covid and memory loss pluss data handling equals, nonsense.

Hello,
I have unblocked a few of profiles on my facebook. But I cant remember a single one of the ones I deleted. Can someone help me figure out if there is a log for the profiles that you unblocked? Tried googling something with recently unblocked, but found a youtube video telling me to check my search bar. Didn't work as you might expect.
If anyone has any clever ideas, please let me know.
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2024.03.22 02:46 H4wkeye47 Heatblur Phantom Mini-Update

https://www.facebook.com/heatbluposts/937659301456874?ref=embed_post
𝐃𝐂𝐒: 𝐅-𝟒𝐄 𝐌𝐢𝐧𝐢 𝐔𝐩𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞!
As we continue to push on all fronts in the runup to release, we'll be sharing more frequent small snippets of work and technologies created for the F-4E and future aircraft. This time around lets talk a little about JESTER;
𝐉𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐀𝐏𝐐-𝟏𝟐𝟎 𝐕𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐀𝐥𝐠𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐦 A really challenging part of building JESTER for the Phantom, has been the way that he uses and interfaces with the radar. The APQ-120 is an old, pulse only radar, and utilizing it in a complicated environment is a true challenge as you have to, well, interpret the smudges.
We wanted JESTER to be as authentic in this respect as possible, and just as we have a vision algorithm for jester's eyeballs for anything going on outside of the cockpit, so too do we wish to simulate how he sees and interprets the radar screen.
Using convolutions of the radar scope, we've come up with a way to fairly accurately and authentically recreate what a real WSO could understand from a given radar image. Jester will not "cheat" and see contacts through clutter or other radar returns, but rather, will interpret the radar screen using a mathematical model. We've tried to tune this as accurately to what a real human would be able to see as possible. See the attached images for examples of how JESTER interprets contacts and the convolution provides them.
𝐉𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐒𝐰𝐢𝐦𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐞𝐬 - 𝐎𝐫 𝐇𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐬, 𝐄𝐲𝐞𝐛𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐕𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞 We've also just in the last couple of days introduced more advancements to JESTER. We had hoped we could get away with a single action-queue for JESTER for all things related to his actions: i.e. speaking, flipping switches or looking somewhere. Unfortunately, we noticed a "slowdown" in JESTER once all of his functionality started slotting into place, necessitating the need of adding what can be dubbed as "Swimlanes".
Swimlanes are a sort of coroutine/multitasking system, split across the natural elements of a human: Hands, eyes, and voice. Each can independently execute tasks, like a real human. I.e., look at something, say something, or manipulate sometihng. This way we have naturally split JESTER's ability to do things in a more natural way, and thus not inhibiting cockpit manipulation while speaking, and vice versa.
In addition, we've also introduced a barrier system to complement the swimlanes. This acts like sort of a synchronization point which can synchronize two or more swimlanes where necessary. Very useful in a situation JESTER should specifically execute actions in a specific order, even if that sense or appendage is otherwise free. Think for example of a situation where JESTER flips a switch and then confirms that he has flipped it.
With the swimlanes in place, we've now unblocked the task blocking and queuing issues we've been running into, yielding a more natural and responsive JESTER. 📷
Check out the simple and quick diagram below; and also an example of how the swimlanes are used in the API.
Thanks for the support and stay tuned for more quick-fire updates!
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