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My girlfriend and I are looking to join an intramural co Ed basketball league but haven’t been able to find one that specifically says coed and that is 5v5 any tips?

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My (21F) boyfriend (26M) and I have been together for a year. I met him on a ski trip last year and he's always been this very outgoing, energetic guy that people love being around. We loved going out and experiencing the world together.
All of a sudden, March rolls around and he starts spending most of his days watching college basketball. No problem. But I start noticing that's all he was doing. I was under the impression that it would lift after the season was over but it kept getting worse. He stopped going outside and instead would stay in and play video games all day and talk to random people on discord. He also stopped showing up for his intramural basketball and hockey games (yes he does both) and saw a huge decline in his studies (he's a grad student). Even his friends started complaining that he's becoming a hermit and also ruining his own life.
I shit you not, when I asked why he said "it's just a phase don't worry". Like he's some emo teenager and I'm his mom. He also just doesn't give a shit about anything. His friend's birthday was recent, he just ordered a gift from Amazon and got someone else to give it to him instead of showing up. He wasn't busy that day, just playing Valorant and NBA 2K. The other day was my friend's birthday and he said he didn't want to go. So I pulled the classic "but I want to"..that usually motivates him since he likes going out with me. Instead he responds with "ok go then" while mindlessly staring into his computer. After my friend's party I went to his place with my roommate just to check on him...he is in the same place he was 5 hours ago. He doesn't go to the gym anymore, doesn't go to class, doesn't do shit. He also sleeps like 5 hours a night. Before he used to look like he was 22. Now he looks mid 30s. His room is so disgusting now with plates and wrappers all over the place. We haven't had sex in 3 weeks because he refuses to come over to my place and I am not rolling around in his room until he cleans it.
This is not the same person I met a year ago. He's less mature and less fun. He's becoming out of shape and he's ruining his future by not focusing on school. I'm so divided rn because we've been together for so long and I want to make it work but he's making it so so hard to sympathize with.

So my gpa was a 3.95 my junior year and I didn’t do to good freshman and sophomore year I’ll have a 3.4 when applying these will be my stats when I do apply I’m also instate, and my essay is about being adopted from South Korea and dealing with racism

I'll break this down for ease of reading:
Topic question: Why is my knee acting this way?
Time: over 2 weeks but slightly better now than originally
Main symptoms: stiffness, tightness behind in the leg armpit that pops periodically. Sometimes pain upper left of the knee cap. No pain or resistance moving leg around or standing from a chair. No pain moving knee cap. Sometimes when I wake up it is very tight and I literally cannot move it for a bit.
Secondary symptoms: hip flexor area tightness. Tightness in lumbar. Tightness and pain on the inner thigh, possibly between the Sartorius and Gracilis.
Cause? I had been playing intramural sports as well as general exercising to trim off the fat. I have been active in baseball, football, marching band, and basketball my whole life. This semester in Intramurals we Went from volleyball to basketball to pickle ball. I never had a moment playing that I felt an injury, it just kind of started hurting on my way to class one day.
Me: I'm a 6'2 270s male 26yo. Active in sports but dad bod.
Basically, it is stiff almost all the time now. It really only pops in the back if I stand upright too long. Standing in one place generates pressure in the leg armpit. I have been wearing a copper compression sleeve, sleeping elevated, stretching multiple times a day, ice, and ibuprofen. It still doesn't cooperate.
Disclaimer: I am not expecting a diagnosis and have no intention to take anybody as the gospel. I promise to not blame anybody for incorrect information and will never pursue legal actions for any advice given. I am just a simple man looking for help from those that are experienced or knowledgeable. All help is greatly appreciated.
Edit: tightness is and pain in the leg armpit and above the knee. Tightness in thigh is middle front facing, and thigh tenderness is somewhere on the inner 45* facing and middle.

Good evening, I'm new here in Reddit and I discovered this app on tiktok so allow me to release my frustrations and pains here.
I'm 22 yrs old (F) and I'm currently working na. I decided to share my story here because no one really knows what I feel since then.. esp i don't have my own circle of friends.
First year HS when I met J and we're not on the same section, I saw him everyday because some of my classmates were his friends, I don't like him at first.. kasi medyo maingay sila na mag babarkada and hate ko talaga ang maingat esp na natutulog talaga ako during vacant namin. I didn't mind them and months had passed at intramurals na namin.
J joined the basketball team at ako? Wala, I'm not sporty kaya taga nood lang ako at sumasali lang sa class dance presentation. I'm fan of basketball that's why I chose to watch it and cheer to our year level. He's good in basketball.. can't deny that. I cheered him in silence since we're on the same year level naman. I was really amazed of how he play...
Months had passed again and i guess my classmates noticed me looking at him and they started to teased me towards him, Syempre indenial tayo. Lol.
I thought everything will just be normal after but when i opened my facebook i found out that he added me on facebook and so I accepted him and he sent a lot of like sticker and btw it happened last 2013. So i got upset and chatted him what was that for and he said "Na pindot ko lang" so i didn't mind him then nag m-manual type ata sya ng emoji kasi nag send sya ng [[Midfing] at basta nag away kami don and i told him na "Bakit nag add kapa at mag sisinuplado ka?" And he answered me "Kung pwede lang sana ma undo (Unfriend)" Sabi ko pwede naman ah at pwede mo rin ako ma block and since HS pa ako at eme-eme pa so ako nag block sa kanya.
FF. 2nd year HS were just normal, we don't talk it's like we're totally strangers.. idk if he knows me kasi sabi niya napindot niya lang naman ang add sa Facebook. Despite what happened to us (Sa chat) i was still cheering him every intrams namin. Minsan nagkaka eye contact kami pero hindi ako nag aassume, but yes i know na crush ko na sya.
All of our teachers knew that i was into him that's why every time na dadaan sya samin pinapapasok sya sa room and they will tease us. Sa room din sya namin nag tatambay every vacant since friends nya classmates ko.
3rd year HS at hindi ko na ma isa isa memories namin basi for me happy ako na kahit minuto lang yon ay napasaya niya puso ko at don na ako nababahala kasi parang hindi na normal, Nag seselos na ako, na iinis na ako at nalulungkot ako pag wala sya. I tried to divert my feelings to someone kay CJ 4th year HS sya and he was a nice guy and very gentlemen. Sa months na pag uusap namin i can say that we're in good terms but i know to my self na si J parin gusto ko.
Alam ko na mali na parang pinapaasa ko si CJ but i told him everything naman at inaccept niya din reason ko kasi nararamdaman din naman daw niya. I lost contact with CJ and tried to stop my feelings for J pero it's not easy.
FF.
4th year HS and it will be the last year na makita ko sya because we will be studying in different university na sa college. As what i said i really tried to forget him but it's really not easy.. so go with the flow nalang ako. Hindi ako na iimik everytime na tinutukso kami. One time naka charge phone ko and my classmate which is his friend took my phone and tried to unlock my phone but they couldn't guess the pattern so my classmate ask him "J_______ ano ang pattern?" I just watched them and he grabbed my phone from my classmate and tried to connect the dots and formed letter J .. like wth? but that wasn't the pattern of my phone.
2 months before our graduation was our town fiesta and we're all busy practicing our dance presentation again and as usual samin sya naka tambay. Hapon noon ng pumasok sya na lasing nahh.. tipsy nalang at dumeretso sila sa classroom namin. Sa tabi ko sya pinaupo ng classmate ko at vinideohan kami nila. Some of his classmates were also there and teased us.
Ayon nalang year after nalaman ko na may girlfriend na sya at ang girlfriend nya ay isa rin sa tumutukso samin.
I thought infatuated lang ako, I thought crush ko lang talaga sya. Pero 11 yrs na at ang hirap niyang kalimutan. Gusto ko din naman maging masaya kahit hindi na sana SYA, Okay lang. He's happy now and i think deserve ko din naman maging masaya. I really tried to forget him, I really tried to move on kahit walang kami pero kung saan na medyo hindi ko na sya na iisip diyan naman sya nag papakita sa panaginip ko. TANGINA ANG HIRAP. PARANG BINABANGUNGOT AKO. GUSTO KO LANG NAMAN MAGING MASAYA.
ANONG GAGAWIN KO.

What are my chances with this school list? Are there any others I should consider adding? Thanks!

1. cGPA and sGPA as calculated by AMCAS or AACOMAS 4.0cGPA, 4.0sGPA
2. MCAT score(s) and breakdown. Include all (non-voided) attempts. 510 (129/123/130/128)
3. State of residence or country of citizenship (if non-US) VA, ties to NY
4. Ethnicity and/or race AA Male
5. Undergraduate institution or category Top 100
6. Clinical experience (volunteer and non-volunteer) -6000 Hours paid work experience throughout undergrad into my gap year with the homeless/refugees in field hospitals and shelters in leadership roles. Three different experieces here. -300 Hours paid work experience as a covid-19 testing site manager during covid. -100 Hours ED Volunteer.
7. Research experience and productivity -1000 hours clinical research assistant (volunteer) running device outcomes research on TAVTMVR cardiac procedures. (1 pub, 3rd author)
8. Shadowing experience and specialties represented -200 Hours CT Surgery, Interventional Cardiology, Anesthesia, IM
9. Non-clinical volunteering -800 Hours as a Disaster Action Team Responder (volunteer) with the Red Cross. -250 Hours as a wish granter (volunteer) with Make a Wish foundation. - 250 Hours with American Cancer Society (volunteer)
10. Other extracurricular activities (including athletics, military service, gap year activities, leadership, teaching, etc) -Intramural Basketball, have played all my life.

Rank	School Name	Status
1	Albany Medical College	Neither	No notes added by user
2	New York Medical College	Neither	No notes added by user
3	Jacobs School of Medicine and Biomedical Sciences at the University at Buffalo	Neither	No notes added by user
4	State University of New York Downstate Medical Center College of Medicine	Neither	No notes added by user
5	NYU Grossman Long Island School of Medicine	Neither	No notes added by user
6	Howard University College of Medicine	Neither	No notes added by user
7	Georgetown University School of Medicine	Neither	No notes added by user
8	George Washington University School of Medicine and Health Sciences	Neither	No notes added by user
9	University of Virginia School of Medicine	Neither	No notes added by user
10	Eastern Virginia Medical School	Neither	No notes added by user
11	Virginia Commonwealth University School of Medicine	Neither	No notes added by user
12	Virginia Tech Carilion School of Medicine	Neither	No notes added by user
13	Marshall University Joan C. Edwards School of Medicine	Neither	No notes added by user
14	Wake Forest School of Medicine of Wake Forest Baptist Medical Center	Neither	No notes added by user
15	Meharry Medical College	Neither	No notes added by user
16	Drexel University College of Medicine	Neither	No notes added by user
17	Geisinger Commonwealth School of Medicine	Neither	No notes added by user
18	Lewis Katz School of Medicine at Temple University	Neither	No notes added by user
19	Pennsylvania State University College of Medicine	Neither	No notes added by user
20	Morehouse School of Medicine	Neither	No notes added by user
21	Tufts University School of Medicine	Neither	No notes added by user
22	Tulane University School of Medicine	Neither	No notes added by user
23	Sidney Kimmel Medical College at Thomas Jefferson University	Neither	No notes added by user
24	West Virginia University School of Medicine	Neither	No notes added by user

I was playing intramural basketball at my college where I was going for a layup and very forcefully dropped my shoulder into some other guy’s chest and made him fly away, leading to his glasses breaking. Am I at fault at all for this? Because, in my opinion at least, there is a lot of contact in basketball and he should have known the risks of wearing glasses, and especially normal ones and not sport glasses. I just want to know because he pressed me after the game and tried to get me to zelle him $500 on the spot or he said he would take the case to campus police.

with 12 texas schools already, I’d rlly appreciate help finding a few OOS schools. I’m thinking 10-12 is my goal. My ECs aren’t necessarily anything to write home about especially without a lick of research, but I hope yall can cook up a couple that might overlook that with my decent stats and decent clinical
research: None 😭 pursued this too late because I graduated a semester early. so when I reached out to a few PIs they all declined since I’d only have that semester unfortunately.
clinical volunteering:
160hrs hospital (200 more projected)
140hrs hospice (160 more projected)
clinical paid:
840hrs PCA, at-home care for disabled clients
120hrs scribe at urology clinic (my gap year job, projected another 1600hrs)
shadowing: 250hrs cardiology/internal medicine, might get like 6-8 hrs with a different invasive cardiologist as well
non-clinical volunteering:
100hrs fraternity-based philanthropies and campus involvement
50hrs community council campus involvement (more abt this later)
150hrs various events at my local elementary school/hometown during summers
leadership:
150hrs president of community council during freshman year, basically led my dorm building and coordinated a bunch of events and fundraisers for the dorm and campus food bank during covid.
100hrs philanthropy chair of my fraternity
misc/hobbies:
social fraternity involvement and team captain for intramural basketball and volleyball
5000+ hrs piano starting from 4th grade, I have a cute story abt this as well that I’m excited to write abt
and that’s pretty much it unless I can think of another hobby lmao. now here’s what I got school list wise OOS:
LSU NOLA/Shreveport (my undergraduate school is LSU and I did a lot of my ECs in baton rouge obviously)
Tulane (lmk if I should keep this one idk if it’s too much of a crapshoot but I can at least talk about wanting to stay in Louisiana long term)
Hackensack
Sidney Kimmel
Vermont
Wake Forest (strong ties to NC as well)
and just a bunch of random ones admit.org told me. but with only 10OOS these are very subject to change and that’s why I’m here. what yall think? WAMC//Am I Cooked?

Wondering if there are any active men's basketball leagues in town? I can't seem to find anything online.

Hey all!
I just moved to Singapore from the United States and am currently living in the Little India area. I was hoping to join some kind of intramural soccer or basketball league because I love the sports but also wanted to meet some new people. However I'm not really sure how to navigate it. I see some apps that have you pay??? Not sure if that's the norm or some weird shit cuz that's not how it works back in the US.
Anyway, if anyone has suggestions or plays regularly and doesn't mind a friendly American joining I'd greatly appreciate it :)

I’m currently in college, and there is someone I’ve met recently who I’m interested in. I’ll call him Alex. Over a month ago, we both ended up on an intramural sports team together.
So Alex is extremely shy. When he first joined our team, he rarely spoke or showed any outward emotion. It took a few weeks before he was more comfortable talking with us. Now, while he is still very reserved, he is more comfortable occasionally joking around with all of us and smiling/laughing.
I started liking him pretty early on. I was initially drawn to him because I thought he was really cute and athletic. I would talk to him a few times during our group practices, but it was mainly about volleyball. Even then, I already had a small crush on him because whenever he would speak to you, he was so sweet.
Then, there was one night our group had been hanging out, and it was the first time he opened up about himself. It was at this time when I realized that I REALLY liked this guy. He was talking so passionately about his interests and openly laughing and joking. I felt like this was the first time I was getting a glimpse into his personality, and I actually felt internally starstruck (corny I know). Since then, we’d casually interacted whenever our group was together to play. However, he would still be way more reserved in these settings where there were more people.
So the “eventful” stuff started roughly a week ago when we actually began interacting more one-on-one. Last week, four of us had been planning to play together. However, two of them ended up not coming, so it was just me and Alex. We ended up not playing volleyball at all. Instead we casually played basketball with one another for quite a long time. I’m not very skilled at it, so a lot of the time was spent with him showing me some basics. During this time, we would make light conversation and joke around. So we ended up staying an extended period of time at this gym just walking around together and talking. Again, most of our conversations were pretty casual and light. So then he asks if I wanted to watch a basketball game on his laptop. So I agree and we go to another location. As I mentioned, we’re both in college so we’re on campus in public. However, we’re in a relatively quiet and private location now, and it’s just us. There’s not a ton of conversation happening, but we ended up staying and watching the game together and talking about general school stuff until it’s around midnight. So that was the first time we hung out one-on-one.
Without getting into too many details, I will say we’ve hung out together one-on-one twice more since then. One of them occurred after volleyball once everyone else had left. The latter was actually because he reached out to me and asked if I’d be interested in watching a basketball game with him. I think this is one reason why I’m unsure if he’s interested or is simply being friendly. As I’ve mentioned, he’s very reserved, rarely talks in our team’s groupchat, yet he personally texted me and asked if I wanted to watch with him. Though I could be wrong, he doesn’t strike me as a person who would typically initiate spending time with someone. The other part of me thinks he’s simply happy to have found someone who is also enthusiastic about watching basketball (Also I‘ll just put it out there. Basketball’s perfectly fine. But my interest in it mainly stems from the fact that HE enjoys it, and I like being in his company😅) and sports in general because he’s also someone who enjoys a wide range of physical activities as a pasttime. Because he’s naturally shy and sweet, it’s hard for me to actually tell whether he likes me or not.
At the same time, he has made some potential indicators that he is interested. For starters, when we’re watching together, we’re always sitting pretty close to one another on the couch. Also I’ve noticed especially in the last two times we’ve hung out that he’s talking and joking a lot more with me now. Compared to when we’re in a larger group in public, he’s now more talkative and relaxed and joking back and forth with me. We always end up hanging out with one another until super late. And after that, he offers to drive me back to my car. I’ve noticed that he’ll also open doors for me or let me walk first. On one of the days we hung out, we were going to buy some ice cream. I initially wasn’t going to because I wasn’t interested in any of the available flavors, but he asked if I’d want to share a pint together to try this specific flavor out (which he proceeded to pay for). So by the second time we’d hung out one-on-one, we were sharing ice cream. I also noticed during our most recent hangout (the one where he reached out to me on text), he seemed fairly nervous when I first arrived. Furthermore, during all of the times we’ve hung out, he’s never in any rush to leave. I feel like he’s always wanting to stay longer. During one of our hangouts, there was a warning for a bad storm, yet he didn’t seem like he was interested in leaving despite me telling him he should because I didn’t want him caught in the storm should it get worse.
Although there are signs he likes me, I can’t help feeling doubtful. I can’t tell if he sees me as just a friend or he is interested in me, primarily because of his sweet and shy demeanor. Another thing is that I feel like we don’t talk much about our personal lives or ourselves in general. Now, maybe I’m just pretty inexperienced in the dating scene, but it does make me unsure if he likes me when most of our conversations remain fairly light and casual. I guess we’ve really only hung out with one another a few times, so it’s still quite early to tell. I’m sure only time will tell, but I can’t help thinking about it constantly. He is potentially the first guy I’ve ever truly liked, which makes it really hard for me to see things from a clear-headed perspective.
He has asked if I’d be interested in watching the next game with him sometime next week, so that’s the most recent update. So… thoughts and opinions?
Tldr: I like this guy who is naturally very shy and reserved. We’ve recently spent more time together just the two of us, but I’m not sure if it’s because he’s being friendly or he likes me.

I am 17 years old and I have played soccer all my life and have been doing track for a few years but recently I have become very interested in basketball. I have never played any organized basketball other than just intramural basketball at school. I know that I do not have the best build for it (5’11 and a short wingspan) but I still enjoy it a lot and want to become better. I want to know what are the first steps I should take and the first things to develop in my game. I want to know any sort of tips or advice or anything because I can’t help but feel like it’s too late to start learning.

Needing some help finalizing my list for this upcoming cycle. Always appreciate input from others on here. Open to MD/DO. I've heard of some schools favoring the last 36 hours/units undergrad or graduate.
Demographics-
25M, ORM, TN resident (strong WA ties, satisfy OOR reqs), no family in medicine
Stats-
uGPA: 3.3 Biochemistry Major (T10 public uni, dont think it matters per se)
Masters GPA: 4.0 (34 Units) Biomedical Science, Alpha Chi honors
MCAT: Took on 4/26 (FL avg 518, felt pretty good afterwards, so hopefully 515+)
Extracurriculars-
Clinical Hours: ~5000 hours (1.5 years as scribe for Orthopedic Spine Surgeon, 1.5 years as MA for Interventional pain specialist and General ortho surgeon), and ~100 hours as an EMT (have certification)
Shadowing: ~25 hours Neurology, ~25 hours Orthopedic Trauma
Research: 450 hours with targeted therapeutics, no pubs but working on a 1st auth pub for multiple sclerosis (won't be finished before application submission tho)
Non-Clinical Volunteering: 300 hours with disadvantaged youth population in my community (helped raise over $80k during undergrad to help supply kids with school and sports equipment). 120 hours with Best Buddies. ~100 hours volunteering at local homeless sheltesoup kitchen type
Non-clinical Employment: 700 hours at a golf course, ~250 hours DoorDash
Leadership: Held multiple leadership positions in my social fraternity over 3 year span
Clubs/Intramurals: Health Professionals Association, IM Basketball and Soccer
Hobbies: Football, Basketball, Golf, Chess, Weightlifting, Video Games
LORs- 2 physicians (MD and DO), 3 science profs, 1 writing prof, 1 old research internship boss
Current School List-
MD:
University of Tennessee
East Tennessee State University
Belmont (Frist COM)
Univ of Washington
Washington State U
TCU
Tulane
Eastern Virginia
Texas AM
UT Tyler
Ohio State
Penn State
Univ of Alabama Birmingham
Creighton
West Virginia
DO:
Debusk- Knoxville
Michigan St
Kansas City COM
Philadelphia COM
Univ of North Texas
VCOM Auburn
Baptist Health
Sam Houston
Again, I really value any and all input since we got people from every stage of this journey on here. Hoping to end with around 30 schools, so please offer any recommendations. Bonus points if they have a big football team/sports culture.

Hi, I'll be an incoming freshman later this year and I've never played basketball. I've been watching a lot of NBA games and want to start playing and could be decent, I'm 6'3 and semi-athletic. How can I go about playing? (intramurally I'd assume) As far as I know, there is the main team, sport club, and intramural. How good is each tier? Also, where can I practice? I'll be living in the dorms (not sure which yet), so are there courts around outside or would I need to go to a rec-center? I'll need somewhere to practice shooting. Thanks!

I just started playing basketball about a month ago with an intro to basketball intramural course that was offered at my uni gym. A little before then I played a pickup game with some friends and realized I want to play as much as possible and get better at it too. I've gotten really into it and been watching the playoff games with my team in it (76ers). I honestly want to get good enough to the point where I can compete at some professional level but I started so late (currently 20yo freshman in uni) and didn't do many sports in high school aside from martial arts. I'm also 5' 9" on a good day which is sort of a disadvantage. I'm confused on where to start and how to get better by myself at the gym. What I want to know is, how do I train myself to be a good player and what are the prospects of competing having started so late?

GPA: cGPA = 3.7, sGPA = 3.55
MCAT: 508, 127/127/125/129
Ethnicity: Southeast Asian (ORM)
State of Residence: Prefer not to say, small state with one medical school
Clinical: Paid - 1100+ hours as an MA; Unpaid - Volunteer MA at clinic I helped start up, Prospective EMT from June onwards.
Research: 12 credits (300 hours) of biophysics, hoping to have one publish/presentation. Really just wet lab stuff, nothing eye-popping
Shadowing: 70+ hours across Rheumatology, Cardiology, Endocrinology, Anesthesia, FM, Pediatrics, OBGYN
Leadership: President and treasurer of a university club for 2 years. Student Leader on campus helping with career and resume questions (200 hours).
Volunteering: Helped start up a free health clinic for the underserved population, still have not seen patients yet but hopefully this summer (this is an MME, 70+ hours). Cancer Support volunteer (40 hours), local mosque volunteer (200 hours),
Extra: Intramural soccebasketball all four years. GPA straight 3.9+ dating back to the beginning of junior year (huge upward trend). 4 straight Dean’s List, 5 total. Plan to work as an MA/CRC next gap year, and get EMT this summer.
Really just looking for edits/additions on my current school list, as well as what I should focus on in terms of volunteering/ECs. Thank you!
MD Schools

1. Nova Southern
2. West Virginia University
3. Eastern Virginia
4. Indiana
5. University of Wisconsin
6. University of Vermont
7. Loyola University
8. Geisinger Commonwealth
9. Cooper Rowan
10. Albany
11. University of Toledo
12. Wright State University
13. University of Minnesota
14. University of Kansas
15. Rush Medical
16. Wayne State University
17. Lewis Katz
18. Pennsylvania State University
19. Quinnipiac University
20. Oakland Beaumont
21. Medical College of Wisconsin
22. Wake Forest University
23. TCU
24. Tulane University
25. Florida International
26. Belmont University

I recently joined Intramurals in our university representing our college as a team captain in League of legends. During the game with other college, I accidentally press ctrl+6 cause I was in tempo and I got 3 kills and got them ace during the clash.
Tho the rules written as it is allowed to badge or emote during the game. Then again they appealed a letter for disqualification because it was considered "Trashtalk" and "taunting" cause it doesn't boost any moral and it was called "unnecessary bragging" and even compared it to professional sports play that they note "nobody uses a badge during play".
They even gave as an analogy that what if there's a basketball play, then got a point shouting "Holy mother fucker, I'm really good at this game" while the other side of the team was hearing you. What would we feel?
And the coach of the opposing team end the conversation that "That's why league of legends is toxic, because of people who uses badge after the game ends."
I felt that those words said are too much for me to handle just for badging.
Should I accept it or not?

I recently joined Intramurals in our university representing our college as a team captain in League of legends. During the game with other college, I accidentally press ctrl+6 cause I was in tempo and I got 3 kills and got them ace during the clash.
Tho the rules written as it is allowed to badge or emote during the game. Then again they appealed a letter for disqualification because it was considered "Trashtalk" and "taunting" cause it doesn't boost any moral and it was called "unnecessary bragging" and even compared it to professional sports play that they note "nobody uses a badge during play".
They even gave as an analogy that what if there's a basketball play, then got a point shouting "Holy mother fucker, I'm really good at this game" while the other side of the team was hearing you. What would we feel?
And the coach of the opposing team end the conversation that "That's why league of legends is toxic, because of people who uses badge after the game ends."
I felt that those words said are too much for me to handle just for badging.
Should I accept it or not?

Does anyone play here? What are generally the best times to go? Is pickup ball a thing here?
Just went to the NYC E 61st street location for the first time. Came in around 8:45pm on a weekday and went up to the basketball court. Some kind of intramural team had just finished their games, so I got to shoot around for 45 minutes until they closed the space down at 9:30pm. I was happy with it but would like to play with other pickup-ers sometime.
Also LOL this location is like an abandoned gym before its abandoned. I love it.

So it started when I was about to enroll in our summer class during my first year of college. I am a nursing student and he is a criminology student, the first time I saw him was in front of our school when me and my classmates were photocopying our documents to enroll for our summer class. While we are on the other side of the road fronting our school, he is sitting on his motorcycle just beside the gate of our school it was approximately 3 pm and so the golden sunkiss went on his face, and damn he looks fine with it! He has a sharp nose and what I really melt about him is his monolid eyes, idk if he has this unique monolid one, or maybe because it is the type of eyes that I like, then naka middle part pa ang hairstyle nya that time. He has this chinito look, he is often called “pirut” by my friends because of his chinito eyes. He is Chinito and he has a good body and medyo ma height din. Mestizo sana sya but he tanned maybe because of playing basketball pero ang swabe ng tanning sa skin nya. That day, he went to us since parang boring sya dun na naka-upo sa motor nya to talk to my classmate kase magkaibigan pala sila since they were classmates during high school, they talked for a short time and then we went to the offices to enroll na.
Nung second-year na kami after summer class, I had a lot of exposure to school activities from our department. Our professors as well as the dean pushed me through a lot of representations from the College of Nursing and Allied Medicine Sciences. I came to be Ms. Socialization, Queen of the night in Prom and the craziest thing is Ms. “school” (not gonna mention the school), which has the craziest crowd that I didn’t expect to come through since mahiyain ako ever since pero gusto nila and the colleagues as well kaya pumayag na lang ako for the sake of them sa mga events na yan. I often received compliments din from somebody but I do not entertain kase if hindi ko naman talaga gusto. Since 2015, wala kase ako masyado dito sa amin since nag aaral ako in another city during my high school until the pandemic happened then I came back here pero nag o online class pa ako ‘nun so I just seen rarely outside kase I was an indoor type of person until the busiest college journey came. After I graduated from SHS I enrolled my college here na kaya yung sa school namin parang halos magkakilala lang karamihan sa kanila except for me na parang bagong muka for them.
It was time when I was about to enroll for 3rd year na just last year (2023) for 1st semester. Medyo late ako nag enroll and sinadya ko talaga yun kase hindi na mahaba pila. In the office, when I finished submitting my enrollment form I was sitting on the chair waiting for my student’s copy then he just came in and stood in front of me and faced me at a slight distance, siguro kase nakita nya likod ko gusto nya atang tingnan if ako yun and he was looking at me pero the same thing hindi ko sya pinansin, maybe he came to enroll din that time. As I received my copy I go to the finance to pay for my miscellaneous fee na and as I was about to receive my receipt he immediately came in I guess to pay as well pero parang hinahabol nya ako pero nung na received kona receipt ko I left immediately and I heard him talking to someone besides me. Dedma lang ako kase I believe naman that my feelings aren’t supposed to lead us into a romantic relationship but still, I am observant.
Kahit dedma ako it made me confused about him if he like me as well and the worst thing is he keeps on giving a hint of liking me back. Ewan ko ba pero yung mga kaibigan nya nung high school na kaibigan or classmates ko ngayon kinakaibigan nya kahit di nya naman yun pinapansin dati. There was a time when I and our mutual friend passed by, he talked to them while we were walking, tatanggalin nya na sana paningin nya sa mga kaibigan ko pero nung nahagilap nya akong nakasunod tinitigan nya ako na parang huminto yung mundo nya when he saw me, e ako naman minsan lang akong titingin, nung nakita kong ‘sya yun sa daan na ulit ang titig ko pero I saw how his reaction went on me and that is usual, ganon yung common reaction nya whenever he saw me pass by kahit nung second-year pa kami.
And there was this time during our intramural, I play for scrabble with my classmates and a guy which is our mutual friend din to represent our department when he pass by us, habang nakatalikod ako kinausap nya naman ang kaibigan namin na kaibigan nya rin sa tabi ko hindi ko namalayan na sya yun kase naka focus lang ako sa ibang department na naglalaro ng scrabble habang inaantay namin ang play namin nung sa bandang likod ko na sya tiningnan nya ako and sinilip pa nya yung muka ko napansin ko na lang na ‘sya nung tumingin ako kung sino habang nakatalikod na sya’t inaalis sarili nya sa paglakad.
Another one was when I just arrived at the event when my classmate called me to come over while she was sitting on the bleacher at the gym watching the basketball game, she asked me about some medical stuff since medics sila sa laro while we were talking with her I absentmindedly extend my sight and then I saw him again staring at me while I’m talking while he is sitting in slightly distant on the left front of the bleacher turning his head onto me, maybe they are waiting for their next basketball game after that one. When he saw me turning my eyes around him, he immediately acted like he was doing something at his back but I immediately left the place after the small talk naman since may game din kame that time sa volleyball.
Last year in October I went to Manila to visit my siblings and spend weeks on vacation in Baguio and sometimes nagma myday ako, he never missed seeing any of my days and sometimes nag ha heart react din sya sa mga myday ko. When I came back, we had this socialization event in school and it was held in the hotel. As I was talking with my friends he kept on walking around near us and obviously he kept glancing at me. When the event was about to start we refused to walk the carpet so me and my friends leave the venue while they were standing beside the exit so dun na kami dumaan yun lang kase ang exit. That time, he tried to talk to me complimenting how I style and something but I ignored him as I should kase it wasn’t a type of conversation naman that should be answered. Ewan ko nahiya ata sya since kasama nya mga kaibigan nya and classmates nya from criminology so he didn’t talk again. Umalis na din kami ng mga friends ko.
One time me and my classmates went to my classmate's house to do schoolwork and so my boy's classmates got along with us then they came to play basketball with my classmates on a small court in front of my classmate's house and when they were about to leave after playing I looked at him, as I turned my sight I saw him looking at me already habang nasa labas na sya inaantay kasama nya sa motor. And one night nag stay din kami at the same house pero hindi naman kami nag overnight we suppose to finish the requirements then uwi na kami, I went outside to buy something in sari-sari store then nagulat ako na nakita ko sya sa labas tapos parang sumisilip-silip pa sa loob ng gate, nakapag eye to eye kami that time and I was shocked kung anong ginagawa nya dun but I immediately turned my sight away naman and he was shocked din when our eyes met and so am I kung bakit sya nandun tapos sumisilip-silip pa. He immediately leaves naman riding his motorcycle since I go to the store. It's just weird how it always happens to us but we never talk, it’s like our actions and eyes spoke but never by our voice.
And I remember one time when we just arrived in school after our hospital duty with my group-mate to enter the class naman eksakto din na dumating sya riding his motorcycle sa may bandang parking ng school. Before we entered that gate, we got to talk with my classmates beside the school gate kase they asked me about sa duty namin for something and then I saw him from afar sa may parking hindi nya muna ipinasok yung motor nya instead nakahawak lang sya sa manabela ng motor nya while turning his head to us, kahit hindi deretso ang mata ko sa kanya I can see him and he was there until nakapasok na kami ng gate.
This February on this year we also had a prom event in celebration of Valentine’s Day. Everyone was outside waiting to start the event and walk the red carpet we were taking a picture when he kept walking around us, it’s giving me like he wanted to talk but he did not have the guts to initiate and wait for me to call him first. As the event started, we were sitting on the other side while he was sitting on the other side almost fronting us but he kept on wild looking and running his glance on me and so am I.
Recently, we bump each other outside the school while we were going out of school they got down from his motorcycle with his classmates to enter their class, as we got closer side by side on the way he was like he coughed deeply like “uhum uhum” I do not know if it is a real sore throat or he was like teasing me. One time we walked with my classmates and crossed the road as I crossed the road aba’y nag beep sya ng motor nya while looking at me in fact malayo pa naman motor nya and halos nakatawid na din naman ako, like I was thinking now does he really want my attention??
To cut a long story short, I found out na in a long-term relationship pala itong si guy, for what I know is more or less 4 years na sila, paminsan sino soft launch pa nya si girl. I respect their relationship and ngayon pa kaya na alam kong in an RS sya na pansinin or what sya even before kahit crush ko sya wala din naman, dedma din naman ako kahit kasama nya mga kaibigan ko I didn’t talk to him. I’m really curious of why he acts like that whenever I am around. I am about to think na baka lang kase he slightly wonder-struck to me or does it right to admire someone while being in a relationship? For me, it’s not but I heard from someone na okay lang daw pag ganun (not about our situation). I do not have a clear answer so I want a bunch of your opinions at least. I ignore everything naman, I just wanna know what can you say about this.

Hi guys do we have any leagues for Intramural Sports in the area looking for a basketball/Flag football league???

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Im 6'1 and am a slashing foward for an intramural basketball team in my university and I also just do pickups as well.
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