Bapa mertua

Sorry, this is Manglish but the only what I know how to vent.
I’m so tired of the shit that comes with a husband who only fikir nak lepaskan diri dia saja. Why must I go out of my way to senangkan kau when my kesenangan is never a priority? You pull a face when I’m asking that you drop off our son for religious school in the morning which is 5 minutes away, even though it doesn’t interfere with your morning routine of going to work; expecting that I - who work late nights until midnight - drag myself out of bed to drop him off instead. Kenapa hal kewangan rumah I have to manage and think about while kau goyang telur? If I’m not bringing up financial matters, kau senyap je, thinking I got everything covered? You’re perfectly fine with me paying the bill when we bring my dad out for dinner. Takde sikit pun malu that your wife - a woman - is paying the bill in front of your bapa mertua? What happened to men being providers? Where’s my pillar of strength?
Silap diri lah tunjuk ciri strong independent woman dari awal. Maybe those whiny dependent females are the smart ones because men automatically step up if a woman shows signs she can’t do things by herself.