Writing a letter of resignation nurse

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Hi everyone, a client's employer keeps scheduling client for when our sessions are supposed to take place, despite client constantly reminding employer they don't respect client's schedule. I'm wondering if anyone has a template or an idea of how to write a letter to employer stating this hour as a need/blocked out time for client? This is something client agreed to.

I have notice of termination, reason is under performance and I am still on probationary period. So we have like 5 types of trainings before regularization, I am on the 3rd part now. The maintaining average/score for overall is 85% and I am merely points away to meet the 85%. Still, I failed to achieve the maintaining score for the most recent training. The environment and people are good and easily adaptable but it is night shift, but hybrid setup.
This is my first job, as a fresh grad last ber months, I applied by last week of January and hired by February, I've got ABOVE average salary with the company so you can tell that the company I am working for is high standard. What can I do to avoid termination record for the good of my career for long? Can I file for resignation and what shall I include in resignation letter?
Thanks

Names have been changed to protect those involved.
One of my earliest memories of flirtation dates back to around June of 2022, during a casual encounter at Clowns'R'Us. I vividly recall asking for a bottle of pop, and his playful response, something along the lines of "if you give me all the love in your heart forever." Although the exact details have blurred over time, the impact was profound - my heart raced, and my mind buzzed with excitement. Following that moment, I found myself increasingly captivated by him. With my marriage already strained, and unsure of his relationship status, it was a pivotal moment just before he began dating Jennifer.
Our flirtatious banter continued to evolve over the span of several months, with him often taking the lead, while I, admittedly shy, mustered courage for occasional bold interjections. One memorable exchange occurred during our shared enjoyment of Bawls energy drinks, when he jokingly remarked about the universal need for "bawls in their mouth" – a humorous prelude, in hindsight. Another instance arose while we were sealing envelopes, where I inquired about the type of stamps, playfully alluding to my penchant for licking things. His reaction was a delightful mix of surprise and amusement. “That was dirty!” He exclaimed in response. As our connection deepened, he extended an invitation to his Discord server, aptly named [Removed for privacy]. There, our interactions took on a more playful tone, even to the point of incorporating a playful flirtation with a porn bot. While I no longer have access to the server, certain memories, like his virtual gesture of "licking," remain vivid.
Feb 6, 2023 I took a leap of faith and decided to make my move on Discord. After months of teasing and listening to his claims about how large his penis is, I found myself deeply attracted to him. I confessed my feelings, though the specifics of our conversation elude me as I deleted the messages afterward. While he initially turned me down, I persisted, and our flirtatious dynamic continued.
Feb 8, 2023 I spent an hour on a video call with him on Discord. During our conversation, he casually mentioned missing seeing a certain physical attribute (due to Jennifer not having them - breasts), and without hesitation, I boldly showed him mine. The expression on his face made it clear that he appreciated the view, and I couldn't help but crave to see that look again. Additionally, he mentioned a dating website where I could find a picture of his penis, under the account name "[Removed for Privacy]" Unfortunately, that account has been deleted since then.
Feb 9, 2023 We had another video chat, but I was feeling down and ended up in tears. Unfortunately, he didn't offer much comfort and turned me down once more. After that encounter, I decided to take a step back for a while. He was preoccupied with getting The Outpost up and running, as well as finalizing the split from Clowns'R'Us.
March 12, 2023 It was Sunday. The Outpost was open. I don't recall who all was working other than Bobby, myself, and Richard. Tiffany was also there as it was the weekend. I was in the backroom untangling wires, and Richard came into the back and said something along the lines of "I wish I was at home in bed getting a blow job right now", so I replied with my willingness to help him out with the blow job. He looked around to figure out where we could do it without getting caught, as the store was open at the time (it was the middle of the afternoon). I personally had been thinking about parking somewhere on the way home, and doing it in the car. He didn’t seem to want to wait that long. In the end, he stood in front of the door to the backroom and I knelt in front of him. “Don’t tell anyone”, he told me. The whole thing only took like 30 seconds that time. He later blamed it on his bite injury causing him issues, but I honestly think it was mostly just nerves on both our parts. Although the encounter was short-lived, it left me contemplating whether it was due to performance issues or sheer desire on his part. He didn't even have time to get fully hard, and it left me believing he was kinda on the smaller side. When he's fully soft, his dick hides like a turtle. I think it's cute, lol. But he’s a grower, not a show-er. When he’s fully hard, it’s a decent size, I later learned.
Afterward, he admitted it was a mistake and promised it wouldn't repeat. Although I was saddened, I reluctantly accepted his explanation for a while. I confided in my best friend about the incident when it happened, but a few days later, I falsely claimed it never occurred, leading to a heated argument between us - our first major disagreement.
April 26, 2023 I overheard him make a comment to someone during the work day about missing titties. So after everyone else left for the night, and it was just me and him working, I offered to show him mine again. He accepted the offer. I begged him to touch me. He asked if he would get in trouble. I told him no. He took off his glasses and put his head in between them. Then he let me suck him off again. He lasted much longer this time. We both agreed afterwards that it was the last time.
May 3, 2023 Richard was giving me and the annoying kid a ride home. After he dropped the annoying kid off, I mentioned to him that I really didn't feel like going home yet, cause I didn't want to go home to an empty house. He suggested I could clean his bedroom for some extra cash. Jennifer was on her way to Chicago that night. We went to his apartment. I can't fully recall the timeline of events that night, so I'll try to get everything in order as best I can. I started tidying up his bedroom. He had me change the sheets on his bed, and afterwards he made a comment about how he should have asked me to clean naked. I sat on his bed while he talked to Jennifer on the phone for a bit, joking with her about K-pop music. Then he came back to his bedroom and shut and locked the door. I knew at that point that something would happen between us. I tried to kiss him, and he said he doesn't kiss. I asked him to finger me, and he said "no, because then I'll never get rid of you." He made a comment later about how he couldn't fuck me without a condom. Up to that point, I didn't think he'd even be willing to do so at all. After that I sat down, and reached to grab his dick cause I knew he was still willing to do something. He asked if I was trying to do what he thought I was trying to do. I said yes. He laid down on the bed and let me suck him. At one point, he grabbed his dick and had me suck on his balls. I had never done this before, or ever even been asked to do this before, so I did the best I could with it. He seemed to enjoy it. After he was done, he sat and played his new COD game for a few minutes, then took me home. We were at his apartment from 10:09 PM until 11:29 PM. I think this was the night I really started to fall in love with him.
May 19, 2023 I don't recall too many details about this time. We were in the backroom of the Outpost again. I showed him my tits and while I was sucking him off, he asked to fuck them. He was sitting in a chair, and I was kneeling in front of him, so it was exactly the best angle for doing it, but I did my best with it.
May 25, 2023 I don't recall too much about this time either. I believe I started it this time, asking him if he wanted anything, and he said "why not, after the day I've had" or something to that effect. This time he sucked on my tits. I then sucked him off again. Again, in the backroom of The Outpost. I think this was the time when I stopped towards the end cause I wanted to get a good look at his dick fully hard, because I was always too busy to get a good look when he was fully hard the last few times. I didn’t know he was about ready to cum. He grabbed my head and said “put it back in” and basically jammed it down my throat, lol. I enjoyed it though. After this though, he almost always grabbed my hair and held my head down as he was about to cum.
May 31, 2023 This time, again in the backroom of The Outpost, when I showed him my tits, he said "that's nice" and just wanted me to get down to sucking him, so I did. I don’t really remember too much about this time either. The memories all blurred together with time.
June 8, 2023 I was in the backroom, chatting with my husband on the phone, when Richard came in and sat next to me. From the way he looked at me, I knew exactly what he wanted without any need for discussion. I quickly ended my call with my husband, explaining that I had to finish cleaning some consoles. Seeing the newly installed camera in the backroom, I remarked about it to Richard, prompting him to unplug it. He mentioned we needed to hurry before Kevin came to the back, so I did my best to accommodate him swiftly. True to his word, Kevin was headed towards the backroom barely a minute after we finished.
June 13, 2023 Though I didn't know it at the time, this would be the last time for a while. He had already unplugged the camera when I figured he was wanting to do something. I made a comment about it, and he said he just didn't want to be watched by anyone. I can't recall exactly what I said, but he said something about "would it be so bad if we didn't do it" or something to that effect. He let me suck him off anyway though. I asked him again why he wouldn't kiss me, and he said he just didn't want to. I told him I wanted him, and he said I couldn't have him.
June 20, 2023 Jennifer chose to end her relationship with Richard by leaving a letter for him at The Outpost. Richard was deeply affected by the breakup and asked Bobby to give me a ride home that evening. Seeking clarification about our own relationship, I inquired about it, and Richard expressed his desire for us to remain just friends. Despite his stance, I held onto a glimmer of hope, purchasing condoms at the gas station that night, hoping for a possibility that he might reconsider. As time passed and it became apparent that my hopes were unfounded, I decided to leave the condoms in The Outpost bathroom for someone else to use or discard.
In the subsequent months, I confided in a handful of individuals about the events that transpired between us. As a consequence, he terminated my employment temporarily. Furthermore, he resorted to intimidation tactics, threatening to ostracize me from The Outpost community if I dared to disclose our truth to others. He concocted a fabricated narrative, alleging that I had initiated advances toward him, only to concoct falsehoods in a bid to extort him.
Let's examine the absurdity of his accusations. If indeed I were fabricating tales for the sake of manipulation, wouldn't it be far more sensational to claim a physical intimacy beyond reality? Instead, I recounted the truth: instances where I provided him with gratification without reciprocity, enduring his rejection of any emotional connection.
This isn't merely about defending my integrity; it's about unveiling the truth that has been obscured by his deceit.
Towards either the end of November or the beginning of December, I was working there a lot again.
December 18, 2023 We were in the backroom of The Outpost again. Everyone else had left for the night, and we were working quite late. I begged him to let me do it (suck him off) one last time. He asked if I was recording him on my phone because he didn't trust me. I unlocked my phone and handed it to him. He asked if I thought I was prettier than Jennifer because he had turned her down that night. He asked if I was prettier than Autumn because he also turned her down that night. In the end, he let me do it. I think maybe he forgot to unplug the camera. He asked me to show him my tits. This was around 3 AM on the morning of the 18th. After I sucked him for a bit, he sucked on my tits again, and I enjoyed it so much I almost came. I kept repeating his name over and over while he was doing it. Afterwards, we both agreed it was the last time. He told me that any man would accept a blowjob, but it doesn’t mean anything.
December 27, 2023 We were in the backroom of The Outpost again, but he had Tiffany (his daughter), so I really didn't expect anything to happen that night. We had done stuff one other time when Tiffany was there, I can't remember which time, but she was asleep on the couch that time, and this time she was wide awake. He asked her to go play Fortnite for a bit. Then he asked me if I was trying to do something. I said, sure, but Tiffany's here. He said we could go to the bathroom, but we had to stop if she came into the backroom. I went in there, and sat on the toilet while he stood. While I had his dick in my mouth, he asked me "you know, this still doesn't mean I'm into you, right?" I shook my head yes in response, as I had my mouth full at the time. His words hit me hard, and I couldn't hold back the tears when I got home. Despite my love for him, hearing those words while engaged in that act was incredibly painful.
January 3, 2024 This was the day Trina overfilled her car with oil. Richard was giving me a ride home, but we first had to follow his mechanic to Trina and Damian's car, and then follow the car back to his mechanics. While we were in the car, I told him that I didn't want to stop what we were doing, even if it was just that. He tried to say that we weren’t doing anything, but in the end we went and parked outside of his apartment, and he had him suck him off in his car. We stopped every time a car came in our direction. He came so hard I felt his whole body tense up. I remember being jealous, because I wanted him to make me cum like that. I wanted to tell him that it drove me crazy that he lets me do that, but I can't touch him at all when anyone else is around. I told him in the car on the way home that I'll quit asking him if I could do it, but I'd never tell him no. We were parked outside his apartment from 11:51 PM to 12:13 AM.
January 14, 2024 Tiffany was there again. Again, he asked me in the back if I was trying to do something. I said "If you want." He told me to go into the bathroom. He went to check on Tiffany and then came to meet me in the bathroom. He wasn't hard at all, and I actually had a little trouble finding it with my mouth this time. He mentioned that if I'm so good at it, why do I keep ignoring his balls. So I sucked on his balls again too.
January 24, 2024 I know he was starting to get bored with me, so I think he decided to try to switch things up a bit. He asked me if I was trying to do something. I responded again “if you want” and he said, “that’s not what I asked” so I reminded him that I wasn’t going to ask him again, but I wouldn’t ever say no. He turned off all the lights in The Outpost, and we went out and sat on the couch at the back of The Outpost. It was dark enough that nobody could see us and the mall was closed. He asked to fuck my tits again and I obliged. He told me he couldn't understand why I kept doing it. I didn't really have an answer for him at the time. I love him. That's why. But I couldn't tell him that again.
January 31, 2024 At the back of The Outpost again, with the lights out again. He tried to use the VR to watch porn at first, but with the lights out, using the VR wasn't really an option. He didn't know that I'd been fantasizing about doing just that for over a year, so I immediately started thinking of solutions to that issue. I sucked him off on the couch, and he again said he couldn't understand why I kept doing it. I told him because it's all he'd let me do. And I like knowing I can get him off. And that I enjoy it. It's fun. And he tastes really good.
February 6, 2024 I had ordered an infrared light on Amazon, to enable use of VR in the dark. I really wanted to live out my fantasy with him. I brought it into The Outpost and gave it to him as a gift. That night, he sat in his chair at the back of The Outpost with the lights out, watching porn on his VR while I sucked him off. Afterwards he said it was interesting. I asked if he had ever done that before, and he said no. I asked him if he enjoyed it and he said that to be honest, he was kinda getting bored, or something to that effect. In the car, on the way home, he told me that he needed me to quit. What we were doing, he clarified. I knew then that we were done, and that my days at work were probably numbered.
On Saturday, February 24th, 2024 he told me my services were no longer needed.
On March 16th, 2024 Richard has Bobby call me and ask if I want a job. I returned to work on March 17th, 2024. At this time, I am attempting to avoid being alone with Richard going forward.
March 26th, 2024 Richard scheduled me to work today, even though Bobby wasn’t working to give me a ride home, leaving Richard to give me a ride home. Tiffany was here, and everyone else had left for the night. We were in the backroom, and he said “I’m trying to decide - do I let her drain it or no” At first I said I didn't know. He asked if I was gonna get crazy again. I said I am crazy. But I said yes. We went to the bathroom and took care of business. He left the bathroom before I did because Tiffany had come into the backroom. I stood in the bathroom and waited for him to send Tiffany back to the front of the store for a bottle of water before I exited the bathroom.
April 6th, 2024 I was eating a pickle in the backroom. Richard came back to go to the bathroom. When he came out, I said to him “We’re done, right?” He was like “with what?” I’m like “You know what” and he said “yeah”, and I said “ok, I was getting bored too.” So I think it is finally over. Jennifer is coming back into town on April 7th, 2024, and they are planning on getting an apartment together.
April 19th, 2024 We were working late tonight, pricing out blu-rays and getting them listed on eBay. Richard’s phone went dead so we took a break and went into the backroom. As I’m writing this, my head is swimming and I’m exhausted because I just got home, but I’m trying to remember most of what happened. He’s like “we got 10 minutes until the phone charges, what do you want to do?” and I said I didn’t know. Then I think he asked what I was thinking about, and I said I was wondering if he wanted me to do something, and whether or not I should say yes, because I can’t keep giving and giving and not getting anything in return. He said he wasn’t touching my pussy. I asked him if he would at least kiss me. He said no, because he only does that with people he loves. But then he said he’d play with my boobs again. So I rolled my chair over to his and pulled my tits out for him to play with. I asked him if he wanted to see a pic of how big they used to be before my surgery, and he said yes, so I showed him the pic on my Discord server. Then he wanted to see what else was on that channel. I didn’t want to show him because I didn’t want him to be mad because it was the channel where I kept records of what me and him did. But I showed him and he made me delete them while he watched. I'm not surprised he made me do that. I kinda expected him to. Then we got back to fooling around, he sucked on my tits, then I started sucking him. He said he could get a blowjob every day, and it’s so relaxing. He mentioned that there was a gang bang that he had thought about taking me to, he thought I’d enjoy it. Then I stopped and told him I wanted to fuck him so bad. He said he didn’t know what I had or didn’t have. I told him I didn’t have anything. Then he made me pinky promise to never talk about it to anyone. And I got up, took off my skirt and panties and finally had sex with him for the first, and most likely last time. It didn’t last very long, I only got off once, then he made me climb off and he came all over the floor. Then we agreed to never talk about it again. In the car on the way home, I told him I’ll keep taking care of him until Jennifer comes back, if he wants, and it will stay between us. He said he’d let me know. So yeah, it’s not over just yet.
April 24th, 2024 We were alone at the store again. We were in the back room and he asked me if I meant what I said about keeping “draining him” until Jennifer gets back. I told him yes, and asked him where. He asked me where I wanted to. I immediately told him “the massage chair”, cause that’s been a fantasy of mine since he got the damn thing (I didn’t tell him that part though). He vetoed that because the cameras were on in the store. So I cleared off the chair in the backroom for him again. I asked him again if I could kiss him. He let me kiss him on the cheek. Then we got down to the usual business. He told me in the middle of it that I didn’t seem to be too bored with it. LOL. In the car on the way home, I asked him if he’s a sex addict. He said he’s not. He says he just has “stress issues”. I’m not really sure what to make of that.
May 6th, 2024 We were getting ready to leave for the night, it was around 1 A.M. and after he shut off all the store lights, he stopped in the doorway and asked if I wanted it. I said sure, and so with all the lights still out, I asked if the massage chair was working. So we went back into the store to check. It wasn’t working, so we went back into the backroom with all the lights off. I took my time with it, cause I know we are running out of time. In the car on the way home, I told him again that I do just want to be friends with him. Then I told him that “pequeña polla” means little dick, and he said he’s only small for people he doesn’t like, lol. I then asked him if he lost a couple inches when he gained all the weight. He said that he had. I said “thought so”.
While the essence of what I shared remains true, there might be some slight discrepancies in the timing of events. Conversations and interactions may have taken place on different dates than initially recalled, but the substance of our experiences remains consistent. I kept a record of every time we messed around and the dates it happened, all on my private Discord channel. I have ways of proving I was where I said I was, when I said I was.
I composed this document not as a means to coerce Richard, but rather to address the truth of our situation. My aim isn't to extract anything from him; all I seek is for him to acknowledge his role in this matter. Admittedly, my involvement with him was misguided, a lapse in judgment on my part. Yet, it's essential to recognize that his involvement was equally misguided—he pursued it as eagerly as I did. However, the crux of the issue lies in my feelings; I fell deeply in love, a sentiment not reciprocated by him. Throughout our interactions, there were moments where I felt manipulated, even gaslit. Still, despite these red flags, my affection persisted.
From the onset, Richard professed care for me, yet reiterated his lack of attraction. I was fully aware that I was being used, yet I allowed it to happen repeatedly. This admission isn't an attempt to manipulate or victimize but rather to confront the stark reality of our dynamic. It's time for Richard to acknowledge the impact of his actions and the emotional toll it took on me. Let's address this with honesty and integrity, for only through acknowledgment can we begin to heal and move forward.
Certain portions were refined by ChatGPT, acknowledging my occasional struggle with articulation, yet maintaining the utmost accuracy in depicting the sequence of events.

My best friend is having a really hard time of it at work.
He's ND (ASD & ADHD) and he's apparently said to a colleague in their initial one-to-one (a new team and they're in different countries) that her taking the call in her bedroom or on the bed was "weird" (exact word), they have never met IRL. My mates now on the receiving end of his boss (a director) under the context of some sort of subversive message that could he's said something tantamount to like Sexual Harassment. The piece that's adding context here is that 3 weeks prior he was on a works night out and told his male colleagues about dating on tinder, no specific details of private detail mentioned in that pub talk, but he's been reported for that too.
Now, my understanding is that behaviour associated with his neurodivergent noggin adds a layer of complexity that I just don't know about, and I obviously want to support him as best I can.
The HR team at his work have basically said that it's not a formal matter and can be handled with what I understand to be a written warning. He's told me that his employer hasn't had training on handling or working with ND people.
His manager is now telling him he might not be suitable to operate in his senior role.
My questions are: 1) does he have a leg to stand on because of his ND noggin? 2) is the younger colleague he spoke with overreacting as I believe, and what can be done about that as he's really clear that he didn't mean anything by it as that's simply not how his brain works 3) his HR person implied he was going to lose his job in the initial call, that was then followed up in writing (email) that he's just going to get a stern written telling off, and now his manager is implying he's going to lose his job again. As his employer haven't had ND training or appear to be aware of working with ND people like this, is there anything that can be done as he's not sleeping well, he's not eating properly, and he's generally in a bit of a mess 4) if he resigned do you have enough info to determine whether he could win a tribunal? 5) anything else?
Thank you all!

Edit: Original post was deleted due to being a repost. Check the first post here. This is an update post https://www.reddit.com/UnresolvedMysteries/comments/1bfnp5o/unknown_woman_is_hit_by_a_car_and_has_lived_in_a/
Clarinha has been buried at Maruípe Municipal Cemetery today, May 14th, at 1:45 PM. Her funeral was attended by hospital staff who took care of her. Coronel Jorge Potratz, the doctor who watched over her during these last 24 years stated "It is a great relief to close this chapter, allow her spirit to rest properly. The cycle is closing, but her story remains open." He placed a white rose in her hands before the casket was closed.
She'll have a tombstone with her picture, the name "Clarinha" and a bible verse that still has not been choosen.
My write-up on the case:
Okay, so it's my first write-up here. I had always wondered why Jane/John doe cases were so famous in English speaking countries, while here in Brazil lots of unindentified people pass away everyday and no one bats an eye. We don't even have a name like "Jane doe" for those people, I think.
Well, there's a notorious case of an unindentified woman who passed away recently that caught my attention. On June 12th, 2000, a woman who had been hit by a car was brought to São Lucas State Hospital in Vitória, Espírito Santo state. It was lovers' day in Brazil (our version of Valentine's) and she was a white woman who didn't have any form of identification on her. I wish I could find more details on the incident, but I can't. She was rescued by an ambulance and was uncouncious when she got to the hospital, and spent the next 24 years that way.
It was noted she had a c-section scar, which meant she had had at least one child, but no one ever came to look for her. They tried to identify her so she could receive some sort of pension, but they weren't able to. On the next year, she was transfered to the Military Police Hospital and has been there ever since, under the care of Dr. Jorge Potratz, and has been named Clarinha by hospital staff. Dr. Jorge had been taking care of her as if she's his own daughter, paying for personal care items for her with his own money. Besides that, Brazil's Unified Health System allowed her to be hospitlized for the past 24 years without anyone having to pay for her healthcare. She didn't need any kind of life support besides a feed tube due to problems in swallowing caused by the accident. A doctor noted that in the scale for comas, which goes up to 15, she's around 7 or 8.
On 2016, TV show Fantástico did a segment about her, which brought the attention to the case. Several missing people families came from all over the country to check on her, but it was no success. A woman from Minas Gerais state thought she could be her missing sister. Her sister left the town of Ipanema on 1999 stating she was going to sell clothes. She left all her documents and 2 kids behind. It wasn't her.
They tried to take her fingerprints, but since her hands remained closed as a result of the accident, her fingertips got all roughed up and they were unable to get a clear print. Norma, a nurse who took care of her, said she called the name of a missing person who was thought to be her and Clarinha opened her eyes for a moment, the article doesn't specifies but I think it was proven it wasn't her.
Clarinha passed away on March 14th, 2024 after sufferig bronchoaspiration (no idea of what it is). They think she was around 40 or 50 years old. The police compared her DNA and figerprints to 12 missing people cases and found no match. Dr. Jorge Potratz took care of all the legal requirements for her to not be buried as an unindentified person.
Personal comments I have regarding the case:

• They did collect her DNA and probably still have it. Yeah, genetic geneology could help solve the case, but it's not that common here in Brazil due to being extremely expensive.
• She was buried, which means her body can still be exumed if needed.
  
• She was not on life support, the only medical care she needed was being fed through a feeding tube, which was probably how she ended up dying. "Turning off life support" would mean letting her slowly starve to death.
  
• In one of the G1 articles I posted down here, there's a picture of her with her eyes open. They're brown.
  
• Yeah, she could be foreign, as well as she could be Brazilian. There's the human trafficking theory going around and I wanted to note that this kind of thing happens a lot in Brazil, people are trafficked from one state to another, she could very well be one of those cases, although I think someone would have said something at this point. I
  
• "Imagine the cost of keeping her alive for that long!!!!" Free healthcare, don't worry about that. Really.
  
• Maybe some international attention would help solving this, that's why I'm making this update post.
  

Sources:
https://g1.globo.com/es/espirito-santo/noticia/2024/05/09/clarinha-ultimo-dna-da-negativo-e-corpo-de-paciente-nao-identificada-ja-pode-ser-enterrado.ghtml
https://g1.globo.com/es/espirito-santo/noticia/2024/03/15/morre-clarinha-paciente-misteriosa-internada-em-coma-ha-mais-de-20-anos-no-es.ghtml
https://g1.globo.com/espirito-santo/noticia/2016/04/resultados-de-dna-dao-negativo-para-possiveis-parentes-de-clarinha.html
https://g1.globo.com/espirito-santo/noticia/2016/01/clarinha-vai-passar-por-tratamento-para-recuperar-digitais-no-es.html
https://g1.globo.com/espirito-santo/noticia/2016/01/mulher-em-coma-ha-15-anos-ainda-nao-foi-procurada-em-hospital-do-es.html
https://g1.globo.com/espirito-santo/noticia/2016/01/clarinha-em-coma-ha-15-anos-no-es-e-procurada-30-vezes-em-1-dia.html
https://g1.globo.com/espirito-santo/noticia/2016/01/me-ensina-todo-dia-diz-medico-de-paciente-em-coma-ha-15-anos.html
https://www.agazeta.com.bes/cotidiano/despedida-e-enterro-de-clarinha-tem-data-e-local-para-acontecer-em-vitoria-0524
https://www.folhavitoria.com.bgeral/noticia/05/2024/paciente-misteriosa-clarinha-sera-enterrada-na-terca-14-em-cemiterio-de-vitoria
https://g1.globo.com/es/espirito-santo/noticia/2024/05/09/clarinha-ultimo-dna-da-negativo-e-corpo-de-paciente-nao-identificada-ja-pode-ser-enterrado.ghtml
https://g1.globo.com/es/espirito-santo/noticia/2024/05/14/clarinha-paciente-misteriosa-que-ficou-em-coma-por-24-anos-e-enterrada-no-es-ciclo-vai-se-fechar-mas-historia-dela-segue-aberta.ghtml

I was diagnosed with mild ddd from a VA Xray last year. In their diagnosis letter they said to consider getting an MRI if it gets worse or show symptoms of radiculopathy. The VA team nurse I was in contact with kinda just blew me off when I asked to get one. Then I went in to see my VA pcp Dr again and he said an MRI wouldn’t show anything different and I don’t need it. So I tried going to a civilian Dr, they said they could request an MRI but it may or may not get approved, and they would usually require physical therapy before moving up to an MRI.
My whole reasoning for trying to get it is mostly from what other people have said on this community. It can show a lot more issues including nerve damage, and help as solid evidence for a claim.
Right now I could either keep trying to get it from the VA. Or I could do a 6 hour round trip and pay $600 at one of those walk in MRI places.
What do y’all think, Is it worth trying to get it?

I am considering starting a letter-writing campaign calling on the University of Victoria to condemn blatant antisemitism and genocidal rhetoric in the encampment as a result of two things:

1. The highly discriminatory, xenophobic demand that current Israeli exchange students be expelled and future students be denied entry on the basis of their nationality. This is a direct quote taken from the encampment's instagram page, (@)peoplesparkuvic: "We demand that the university cut all academic ties with Israeli universities and Zionist academics. This includes cancelling all ongoing and future academic exchanges with Israeli academics and institutions, including but not limited to, visiting scholars, student exchanges, and partnered publications."

I shouldn't have to spell out how and why this reeks of antisemitism just like one shouldn't have to explain why Trump banning travellers from 7 Muslim majority countries reeked of xenophobia and racism. I shouldn't have to explain why effectively deporting Jewish students by ending their exchange is putting a smile on Hitler's corpse. I shouldn't have to explicate how academic exchanges serve to expand the viewpoints of the students involved, whereas confining them to study entirely in Israel only reinforces anti-Palestinian views. Finally, I shouldn't have to explain how such a blatant act of discrimination invigorates the most radical, fundamentalist, genocidal factions of the Israeli government by vindicating claims of widespread antisemitism and a global threat to the Jewish people.

1. The pervasive use of the phrase, "from the river to the sea".

There is an ongoing, fiery debate as to whether this phrase constitutes genocidal rhetoric, and yet encampment protestors have splattered this mantra on massive signs and have no trouble reciting it in the face of Jewish students. Whether one is personally using the phrase as an intentional call for a Jewish genocide is entirely irrelevant. Terrorist organizations which explicitly call for the expulsion and genocide of Jews in Israel have coopted that phrase and have clearly murderous intentions when promoting and popularizing it. Countless Jewish people view it as a call for genocide and ethnic cleansing. ~That alone~ should be enough to have it wiped from the lexicon of progressive, liberal movements. It's like using a sauvastika as a symbol for Palestinian liberation, then, when confronted, arguing that the sauvastikas and swastikas, because of their origin and alleged beneficent intent in this context, are not in fact genocidal symbols. Yeah, right. Sure. Is there really no better maxim we could come up with than the one popularized by the PFLP and Hamas? Are we really that morally bankrupt?
If we want to do anything besides pour gasoline on the IDF bonfire that is Gaza, we need to be able to condemn discrimination and crimes against humanity across the board. That includes not only the ongoing, inexcusable war crimes committed by the IDF, the Israeli settlements, and the denigration of Palestinian rights; we need to also condemn the ongoing, inexcusable slaughter and rape of civilians by Hamas and other Palestinian terrorist organizations, the constant bombardment of Israeli cities by terrorist rockets, and the festering genocidal rhetoric of the millions who cheered on October 7th and welcomed murderers and serial rapists as heroes and liberators. We need to be able to distinguish between setting up a Palestinian state with a relatively progressive government, and, on the other hand, condemning women, LGBTQ people, and religious minorities to a life under the despotic regimes of Islamic fundamentalists like those currently suffering under Taliban rule in Afghanistan.
We need to make sure that our own protest movements are truly divorced from the very things they purport to denounce. That looks like condemning hate and unjust discrimination across the board, not manifesting it in a different form. Let's change our approach while we still can.

I live in 3rd world country that is going downhill by the day. I work a job that earns me $96(Ghs1200) a month. I live far away from the job and the transport costs drain more than 60% of the money not to talk of even food. I eat once a day. Because of how expensive transport to work is, sometimes I come up with excuses not to go. I realized I can't continue with the work anymore. I've sent my resignation letter and would be quitting there 2 weeks time. It's draining me financially and mentally. I'd be incredibly thankful if anyone here could get me something that could earn me at least $20 for food.

https://archive.is/gR1E0
Residents voted in favor of a non-binding resolution to create a shared fire district with Charlemont, to use a portion of town land on Pond Road for park and recreational purposes, and to change the town clerk position from elected to appointed during Monday’s Annual Town Meeting.
Roughly 25 residents gathered at Rowe Elementary School for a roughly one-hour-long Annual Town Meeting that followed a three-article Special Town Meeting.
Residents approved most of the 27 warrant articles, including the town’s roughly $5.29 million fiscal year 2025 budget (Article 7), unanimously without discussion. Residents also approved a residential property tax increase from $5.01 per $1,000 valuation to $5.29 per $1,000 valuation while the town completes the second year of a $1.85 million road resurfacing project.
Article 21, which asked voters to designate an approximately 2-acre wooded parcel of town-owned on Pond Road for park purposes, inspired discussion, with some residents suggesting the land be left as it is, or approved for park purposes under the condition that the town add language protecting residents’ right to hunt on the land.
Resident Fred Williams said since the parcel was set up to be designated parkland in accordance with the “Percy Brown covenant,” or the use restrictions established for the Pelham Lake Park land donated to the town by Percy Brown, hunting would likely not be permitted there.
“There’s one in the language either in the deed or the language of the vote in the Town Meeting has ‘parcels acquired for park purposes,’” Williams explained. “If the sentiment is strong enough [we can] change the wording to allow hunting on this little 2-acre parcel.”
Residents voted to strike references to the covenant from Article 21 before passing it unanimously.
Voters later passed Article 24 unanimously, allowing the town to pursue a shared fire district with the town of Charlemont and to establish a district-wide Prudential Committee to expend the funds approved by district meetings.
According to a statement provided by the Rowe Fire Department, the district would help the two towns combine firefighting equipment and staffing resources to provide better mutual aid services. Rowe Fire also noted that the district’s creation would take about four years after the article’s passage.
“These changes are going to require a huge increase in administration time, record keeping, modifications to current stations, medical physicals for responders, certification for firefighters and officers along with what we are currently burdened with,” the Fire Department stated.
After discussion, residents also passed Articles 22 and 23 to amend the town’s general bylaws, making the town clerk position a Selectboard-appointed position, rather than its current status as an elected position. According to Selectboard Chair Chuck Sokol, the change is intended to allow the town to promptly fill the position in the event of a sudden resignation or if the town clerk is not satisfactorily performing required duties.
“We have been very fortunate in that the last several town clerks we’ve had are effective at their role,” Sokol said. “That’s not necessarily always the case and when there is an elected position that is derelict in their duties, which are very important duties, the mechanism to remove or replace that official is through a recall election.”
In response to resident Bill Reardon’s concern that the power of elections should be left to residents, and not local government bodies, Finance Committee Chair Dan Pallotta noted that an elected official could, in theory, be absent for three years and remain on the town’s payroll.
“It’s a modern world now and we need checks and balances, unfortunately,” Pallotta said. Monday’s meeting concluded with the announcement that after roughly seven years serving on the Selectboard, Sokol will not seek reelection in Saturday’s town election. In an interview, Sokol said he will soon be moving to Braintree. Bill Baker, who formerly owned Baker Office Supply in Greenfield, will run for Sokol’s position through a write-in campaign.
“The town of Rowe is a delightful town and is well supported by its community,” Sokol said. “It’s been a pleasure to serve on the Selectboard. I felt very supported in that role, but life takes different turns and it was time for a change.”

For those who are like me and use M365 Business Premium for personal use, what do you use it for?
I use Business Premium because I use all of the features of Office in my day to day life (writing letters, managing finances through spreadsheets and PowerBI visuals, plus I enjoy having my phone enrolled in Intune knowing I have more control over it, and the various other things a normal person wouldn’t give a shit about, for example:

• Assigning all my personal documents, files and PDFs a sensitivity label.
  
• Making sure all of my devices’ apps update the second an update is released.
  
• Setting up SSO on all my apps like 1Password, Sophos, ManageEngine etc.
  

I’m sad I know, but I do enjoy making full use of a product, especially when it’s paid for and also helps me learn about things I can then implement in a work/production environment safely.
And I would never ever go back to having a free email account like @gmail.com, it’s just so unprofessional.
Cheers.

Hello! I‘m not sure if this is the right place to post my request, however, it‘d be just so cool if my plans would work out and i‘m running out of places to request letters.
I‘ll have 15 minutes to talk in front of thousands of people at the Zürich pride… I was thinking of telling them YOUR stories and showing them what being queer means in other parts of the world! It‘d be so lovely if you could share your experiences with me. There‘s no „right“ or „wrong“. Write down whatever feels right for YOU. Wheter you feel like diving super deep down into a love story of yours or just giving me some informations of the political situation considering the lgbtq+ community in your country - everything’s much appreciated. Of course i‘d also send you something back:). Please send me a message if you want more informations or if you already feel like participating. Thank you all so much already.
Best wishes, Karolina🌻

I would like to share some tips that helped me do well on all my ATI exams! For reference, I got a level 3 on all but one ATI exam! Fundamentals was my first ATI exam ever which I got a 2, and it helped shaped the way I continued to study for ATI. I hope this helps anyone who is either struggling with ATI or wanting to increase their scores.

• This one is obvious, but ATI is your best resource. Start early. Utilize the book. It’s not a typical textbook so it is easier to get through compared to your average 2,000+ page textbook. If you start early and it’s not huge like the med-surg one, you can get through the majority of the chapters before test time. You do not have to read every word.

How I utilized ATI textbooks:

• For courses that required an ATI exam, I read the chapters that corresponded with the lectures - except med-surg… have you seen that thing? I relied on the Lewis Med Surg book that was required for our class because our Med-Surg 1 & 2 class HEAVILY tested on that book.
• I get highlighter happy at times, but I tried to limit myself to highlighting important things that would jump at me if I had to later refer back to a chapter. I highlighted drug names in green. I also highlighted measures/numbers/lab values and random facts that ATI likes to throw at you in. Like if you have a latex allergy, you can be allergic to strawberries kinda thing.
• Do the practice questions at the end of the chapters. If you don’t want to read the chapters, at least do the questions (usually only 5) to see if there are any gaps of knowledge. If you get something wrong, refer back to the book to read over that section.

Practice Exams/Dynamic Quizzes

• Plan to complete all dynamic quizzes for that subject. If you can only do ONE thing, complete all the quizzes. I can’t emphasize that enough. You hear it over and over again, but read to understand rationales, writing out the ones for unfamiliar topics or easily forgotten details. They will help in future ATI exams! The goal isn't to memorize practice questions, but to learn and understand. Refer to the book for content review when needed. If you know you have 400-1,000 questions to get through, start early. Mark the ones you get wrong or guessed correctly so you can review later and when your exam gets closer.
• Take Practice A & B exam and take it seriously. As tempting as it may be, do not google the answers. These exams give you an idea of areas you are struggling with. I recommend doing focused reviews because it takes you to the exact area where you missed the question. I would hand write the areas I missed.
• If you see the same thing over and over again during your quizzes and practice exams, pay attention. ATI is giving you hints on what you may see on the exam.

Extra Tips for ATI

• Be familiar with National Notifiable Conditions for those dreaded “which one do you report?” questions. You don’t have to memorize them — just know the main ones. There is a page in the Community ATI book with some of the main ones, but the CDC website is a quick reference. Bookmark it!
• Know antidotes, especially to common drugs.
• Know what you can delegate to UAPs and LPNs. In short, do not delegate what you can EAT (Evaluate, Assess, Teach). Remember, LPNs can only reassess after the RN has done the first assessment. This includes if a patient came back from surgery. The RN will assess and do vital signs if the patient has come back from surgery or is unstable, not the LPN and definitely not the UAP. Also, LPNs cannot do the initial teaching, but they can reinforce the teachings (example: self-administering insulin).
• Review frequently missed content because a lot of that stuff may be on your exam.

Outside resources

• The only resource outside of ATI I used are the LevelUpRN videos, which I am sure many of you already know about. Her playlists follow ATI closely enough without her getting sued again lol. If you can get your hands on her cards, that’s great but do not neglect the quizzes.

Test taking prioritization strategies you have to understand:

• Least invasive vs most invasive, acute vs chronic, unstable vs stable, expected findings vs unexpected findings (aka complications), & ABCs go without saying.
• Go through the NurseLogic 2.0 modules (under the learn tab) if you need help with prioritization. This is often what gets us the most but you’re always going to RUN to the patient who will die without intervention first. If you see a patient with stridor vs chest pain, who do you think is the priority? What about the patient with laryngeal edema or the stroke patient with hemiparesis? The patient with a sudden, severe headache or the patient with heart failure and 2+ edema? The asthmatic patient who stopped wheezing or the patient with chronic angina clutching their chest after walking?
• In a disaster situation (moreso for the community & leadership ATI exam), the patient who will die without intervention, but can survive with intervention is the priority (red tag). The patient who is dying (SCALP, not facial lacerations, fixed and dilated pupils) is the least of the priority (black tag) due to limited resources.

Other test taking strategies

• Go with what you know, but if you see 2 answer choices that are basically the same but worded differently, eliminate those. If you see 2 answer choices that are opposites, one of them may be the answer.
• When in doubt, avoid absolutes like “always, never, only, everyone” (unless it’s something accurate like ALWAYS practice hand hygiene lol but ATI usually doesn’t use absolutes like that)
• Look for keywords. Is the question asking what the nurse should do FIRST or what is the best nursing action?

It’s true that ATI will test you on things from other courses (some you haven’t taken yet), but the majority of it will be over the course you are studying for. The goal isn’t to get every question correctly. The goal is to use prior knowledge and test taking strategies to help you at least narrow down to 2 answer choices, and hopefully choose the right one. After doing a bunch of questions, you start to see patterns and understand how ATI wants you to choose the answer.
I know this is a lot, but I just wanted to be as thorough as possible. Please let me know if you have any questions! I am happy to help! 😊

So, your child's getting an acceptance letter to Hogwarts. Via an owl. A bloody owl. First thought? That's a scam. My parents wouldn't even consider this to be true, let alone answer that stuff. But even if they were. How to find Diagnoalley? And if all goes well, my parents would've never opted for an owl. How do they write their children then? Sketchy letter, strange people selling all kinds of hilarious stuff, then the barrier to 9 3/4 (how do you even cross this, is there a first years 101 included in acceptance letters to Muggle parents?!)... I would never have been able to go. Even if Dumbledore came by, in person, to sort things out. My mum would FREAK out. Strangers know I live in the smallest bedroom? Heck, they would probably tell the police some fuckwit was stalking their precious little girl. I'd never make it in time for the first of September. I'd probably be able to go when I was 18, if that was an option.

I don't know if I need advice or just to vent, I may do by the end of this post though.
I'm moving jobs... My current work placement has been a killer for my mental health. I get both physically and verbally abused at work by the kids I look after. They're a lot and sometimes it leads to restraints to keep them or us safe. I've been working here for the last two years and have struggled from time to time. Recently I've had to take a month off to try and stabilise again, but it got scary. I started to hallucinate sounds and became unbearably paranoid. It was a constant battle in my own brain. They've changed my medication over to Ablify and I honestly feel more confused and am struggling to process more than before. I got a doctor's note to help me have a phased return back to work when I started to feel better, but it said that I need to avoid stressful situations including restraints. I'm grateful for that because I don't enjoy restraining kids. I don't think it's right. My boss got really funny about it and has gotten occupational health involved... At first I was really paranoid about this, but today I had an interview for another job. I got the job and am looking forward to starting something new. Maybe I'll get back into working with kids when I feel stable but for now I thought a change may be good. Anyway I still have an occupational health appointment on Monday... I don't know what they're going to ask and I don't know how I feel about all of this... I need to hand in my resignation letter tomorrow and I guess we will go from there. I'm a bit afraid that I do or say something stupid and it'll affect me in the new job. I'm so confused and overwhelmed... Am I doing the right thing? Has anyone else been here before? Why do I feel like I'm a bad person?
I hope this isn't that confusing to read. I'm struggling to process all of this.

Hi all. I’m a teacher in WA currently on maternity leave. My maternity leave goes through the end of the school year and I will be on Paid Family Medical Leave until July. Due to many issues I’m sure you all understand, I will not be returning to teaching next year.
Since I am on maternity leave now, I’m not quite sure the best way to exit. I’m not planning on signing next year’s contract, so what’s the best way forward for me? I was planning on going in and talking to my principal and department head and letting them know I’m not planning on returning, and immediately after emailing a letter of resignation to HR with my admin CCd. I am technically not breaking my current contract I don’t believe but should I reach out to HR first and confirm?
Additionally, do I have to worry about not receiving the remainder of my FMLA if I let them know my plans to not sign next year’s contract?
Thanks in advance for any insight!

hii, ive been writing poetry as a hobby for some time now but ive never really shown anyone, so id like to share my work, maybe receive some criticism .
in every crease in my brain
ever scar i obtained
people i ever clutched
all the lips i have touched
between the dirt
sunken deep in the soil
known by ants like crumbs
the letters i boil
words like explosion enlightens
i scream them to the wind,
while its breathing freightens
fingers go still, close over my wrist
breathing stops, falls out of my grisp
mouth falls slack, lips drying
mind goes berserk, coherency flying
known all across the canvas
deep rooted in my blood
making my bones feel anxious
my heart begin to pump

Hi,
I have been volunteering for a reproductive health org for about a year and I the founder agreed to write an LOC for me but she asked me what she should highlight and I have no idea what to tell her.
I am a member of a smaller and newer branch of the org that focuses on young people, and we have not done a single thing since I have started. I have created numerous social media posts that the org never posted, and I even went about creating a great Notion and taught everyone how to use it.
I have read people creating docs that pretty much tell the letter writer what to say but I am not sure how to go about that.

I am struggling with whether or not I should quit nursing school.
Here are the reasons why I shouldn’t quit:
1. The school I go to is affordable and nearby and the BSN is one of the only bachelor’s degrees it offers. I don’t think I’m able to transfer with a different school to focus on getting a bachelor’s or masters (just some viable degree) in something else (unless I decide to focus on STEM) because I have too many credit hours.
2. I will get a degree and license that I can use to get a job that’s in high demand. With a BSN I will allegedly make good money.
3. The work is rewarding.
4. I’ve picked something. Most people haven’t even settled on a major. I am only 20 years old, and I’ve already picked a major. How many people can say that?
5. I’ve already invested all this time, money and energy into this. Quitting would be a waste.
6. Most people don’t get a career in something they enjoy, because the things they enjoy will not make them money. Especially artists/writers, which is what I am. Only a lucky few from that group seem to make it doing the things they actually enjoy.
7. My parents seem to have it in their heads that I have to keep doing this and that I do enjoy and can handle it. They are not letting me quit unless I convince them really well.
Here’s the reasons why I should quit.
1. After doing a couple semesters worth of work related to nursing, I have recognized that I lack a passion for it.
2. I fail to see its appeal. I don’t understand why my classmates seem to enjoy or look forward to it. I have to force myself to enjoy it.
3. This degree is NOT just a degree. I need to be doing something nursing related with it, and with it, I would STILL need to be doing patient care for a fairly long stretch of time before getting a different job that would still require the degree.
4. The only thing I even remotely liked was clinicals and that was only because of the parts where I’m talking to people. Felt neutral towards the work, hated reading and writing paperwork.
5. I hate talking about nursing. On my own time, I am always looking for conversation topics concerning anything but nursing. I also lack an interest in it outside of school. On my own time, I am never watching medical TV shows or doing anything healthcare related. When I’m relaxing, I am trying to avoid nursing as much as possible. I see it as a chore, and not as something to look forward to doing.
6. I cannot see myself in this career. Long shifts, high stakes work environment, colleagues I can’t relate to, continuing education every 2 years, bad pay for something I don’t like, some possible traumatic experiences, verbal abuse from patients and colleagues, work NOT being as easy to get as people make it out to be, etc.
7. It does not come easy to me. I struggle with every facet of the schooling and need to REALLY push myself to succeed. For instance, in a prerequisite class, the thing that tripped me up and made me need to retake it was checking someone’s blood pressure.
8. Nursing doesn’t make good money. It is something you choose to do because you enjoy it (if even a little bit!). If you hate it, you need to look somewhere else. (Now, what makes me doubt this point is that with a BSN I CAN make good money, from what I’ve heard…) Every nurse I’ve spoken to has shared the sentiment that you should not be doing it just for the money.
9. My professors have all asked me if I really want to be doing this, my peers seem to also have noted that all I seem to talk about around them is how much I hate nursing school. I know it is absolutely normal to hate the schooling part, but I cannot see myself enjoying working with ANYTHING related to the subject, either.

This is a very dumb situation that I personally would never allowed myself to be in, and I'm merely trying to help a friend so, bear with me.
My roomate- who I just entered a lease with a completely different landlord which I was approved- isn't knowledgeable or willing to manage the exit procedure from their previous landlord. As a token of kindness, I'm trying to seek advice on her behalf as she is also my friend, so here goes.
We live in Atlanta, and her previous landlord appears to have gone back on their agreed upon vacancy notice after mediating her exit from the lease and is now suing her for 3x the amount expected. There is a written notice to vacate signed by both parties for her to be allowed to exit, with a deadline and prorated rent so that it fits within a 30 day notice range. Her lease was defaulted by her previous roomate who claimed he was actually planning on moving out and didnt intend to resign, two days into a new lease (he already signed the document). Personally I would have kept him on the lease, but supposedly the agent and property manager told her she could move out after she released him from the contract. Personally I felt this was the leasing agent manipulating her into being saddled with all the legal trouble of breaking the lease and the status of the home. I have no explanation as to why they would do that. Thinking the agent was on her side, she signs the document without reading it, allowing him to be completely off the hook for leaving without notifying the landlord. It's kind of giving me a headache to write all of this because if I was present I would have caused some kind of cataclysmic event and rebuilt a post holocene society not unlike the mad max universe and played out the storyline of all the movies in chronological order to prevent this. But alas, I was not.
So now they have given a date to vacate with a prorated rent, easy enough. Only now, after returning to the home, they have decided to pursue an eviction instead. Not only that, they are requesting rent from months that have already been paid, with fees, and a month past the agreed upon prorated fee. There is written documentation and proof of mediation, as well as reaching out to the company to ameliorate, even the leasing agent finally answered and said "oh wow, that doesnt make sense" and its like. wow. ok. insert norm macdonald news anchor picture here kind of moment. any help is appreciated