Quotes for dating someone

My GF (34) and I (33) have been together for 4 years. We have a son together. I have to highlight how loyal she has always been. She is a big introvert and I have NEVER been having any doubts about, nor have I ever been jealous... until now!About 2 years ago my GF got a new job in a company that has a lot of branches around in other countries. Due to this, she is travelling from time to time (lets say 3 times a year), and I have never had any reasons to be paranoid of insecure about it because of the way she is, she is not keen on the travelling because of the type of a person she is, she is not good at smalltalks or bonding with colleagues or people in general.
About 5 months ago she came to me telling me that her boss wanted her to go to (lets say) Paris for 3 days for a project that she had been working on since starting that new job. I knew she was working with a male co-worker on the project because that has never been a secret, she has always told me he was a very nice guy, very helpful and good at the job, but always assured that he was married with kids, and very not charming or her type at all. However, about 2 weeks before the trip I started noticing that her private phone became a lot more secret, but I wasnt sure if this was just myself telline me this, or if it was actually true because I would never expect something like this from her at all. She has very little friends, and she is barely ever on the phone (unless its family) and certainly not hiding it from me. I let it go until about 3-4 days before the trip. I was lying in bed reading when she got back home late (fitness class), she took her phone and sat on the couch in the living room and suddenly I could hear that she was texting with someone, like a lot (I know because she is one of those people who has the sound on when typing) for a long time (about an hour - 1,5) before I couldnt bare it anymore so I went out and confronted her asking who it was.
She almost jumped out of the couch almost as if I had just busted her in the middle of a murder, confessing that it was him, but that he was just a friend, saying he was not her type, he was married etc etc etc. basically defending herself. I was in shock and kinda blacked out so I dont remember much of that talk / discussion, but shortly after she "had" to urgently go for a shower, funny as she had been home texting with him for more than an hour, but suddenly shower couldnt wait. I was paranoid, insecure and afraid of what was actually going on. I couldnt believe it. next morning during work she wrote to me not to be worried and that it was just nice to have a "friend". I asked her if he was flirting with her, and she told me she did not feel like he was. I did not talk to her for 2 days after that before she came to me one evening saying that she missed me and that she was ready to have a second child with me (Something I have wanted for a very long time so that was a big thing for me) and suddenly everything had changed.
Monday morning she left for Paris and I didnt hear from her ALL day despite the fact that she knew exactly how worried I was. That evening around 8h00!!! pm ish she sent me a text saying she would call in 20 min. More of an "in 20 min, I have a bit of time so be ready!" in a very stressful way. We had a video call for about 20 min and I could sense immediately that she was tipsy if not drunk! and she told me they had just gotten back from work, and that they (according to her, another female colleague, the guy and herself). however, we spoke for about 20 min, she told me she missed me and loved me and it made me feel very good. I slept okay that night.
Next day (last full day in Paris) I didnt hear from her at all again. In fact I texted her during the afternoon that I felt a bit ignored, but again she told me they were busy and that I had nothing to worry about. That evening it was same story. around 8 pm she calls me, I didnt pick up because I was driving, and she asked me when I would be available for a call, again in a very stressful way, so I texted her asking why it was so urgent to which she answered and I quote "We worked so much all day, and I just want to see you because Im so tired I might fall asleep any minute".. AT 8 PM!!! on a business trip... I knew that was bullshit, but I chose to believe it. We had the call as I got home, and after 20 min she says the same, that she had to go to bed because she was so tired, lying on the bed in clothes.!
Next day she had to travel all day back home, this was on valentines day (very ironically), and again I barely heard from her all day. We had agreed long in advance that she would pick up our son and take him home before going to a fitness class (very expensive one that she had paid for in advance). Before arriving home I went for roses since it was valentines day. I got home just in time to see her before her class. She told me she had missed me and that she would never go back to that place, and that she would most probably dump that entire project. She went to her class, but left both her private and her work phone at home. I have never done anything like this before in my life because I had never had reason to do so. But my gut and my intuition told me that something was wrong. I opened the screen on her private phone and could see that she ofcourse had messages from him. I didnt manage to guess her pin code and instead I took her work phone, guessed the code first time and saw the very first message in their chat on Zoom. It was from the night she had told me about the second baby (only 2 nights before the trip) and I quote "Peace has been reinstated at home by a miracle, I will see you Monday"......... My heart pumped harder than ever before and ofcourse it caught my curiosity and I HAD to see more. For weeks, maybe months they had texted nonstop, all day during work via Zoom and evenings and weekends via whatsapp. Now, again my GF is not flirtatious at all so to her defence I would say most of her messages was simple answers which can be interpreted in both ways whereas he was very offensive, at one point very shortly before the trip she even asks him if he is flirting with her to what he is answering "I will let you decide that" and to which she replied "it doesnt bother me at all". I also found out that the night we had a video call when she told me she was too tired, while I was on her screen she had sent him a text sayin "ready to go"
She came home, I confronted her, she begged me to give her another chance assuring me nothing happened physically at all, and that they just had drinks. Next morning we both took off from work. I was exhausted and still in shock. That morning she called in sick, told him that she needed to talk to him in person and they had a call. She told him to stop texting her, and that what they have been doing was wrong and crazy and he agreed, but it didnt stick for long. Only a few days later he sent her messages saying that he missed talking to her and that it was all a misunderstanding, that nothing happened that can be considered cheating etc etc. I know that because she showed it all to me. She didnt reply to his messages.
Its been 4 months now, and I have had some really difficult days with bad thoughts and worries because they still work together which is really hard on me. We still talk about it from time to time when I need to share my worries. She keeps assuring me that they are strictly professional, and that they do not talk about anything but work. They have stopped communicated on whatsapp during evenings or weekends, that I know for sure, but about 1 months ago I felt so insecure that it got me to take her work phone again, and as I wanted to snoop I found that she had changed her pincode again which ofcourse sends me a signal that something is going on (at least in my head). What I CAN see are only the zoom messages on the start screen that he is sending to her (the notifications she is not removing from the start screen), but I cant read the messages she is sending back to him. I check the phone almost every evening since then, and funny enough she ALWAYS without exception has messages from him and it is very rarely something about work, it is not flirtatious either, but it is personal stuff that is not related to work which she promised me they wouldnt. For example her work requires her to work one weekend every 3 months and even saturday 10 pm he asks her if she needs any help and I know that he only does so to start a conversation with her, I mean 10 pm at night on a saturday you sit with your work phone in hand asking your colleagues if they need help?
I almost feel stupid for asking because, especially now that I have been writing it all down and read it through, it seems very obvious to me that I cant trust her, but I would like to hear your take on this. Should I be worried still? Can I trust her, should I leave her?
Should I confront her about the snooping ?

Hi all, I’m looking for a verse which I’m very sure I read in the Bible but I’m not able to find it now. It basically says, “if you see a wrongdoing or injustice happening to someone in front of you and you don’t say anything, you are equally guilty of that sin” I found James 4:17 closer to it, but it’s not the same, can someone please quote that verse if you know, thanks!!

Back in January, I met a woman (31) who liked me (32) right away (she told me that I’m really good looking, she wanted to chat etc.). She lives in another town, but I messaged her after our brief meeting, saying I'd love to see her again. We started texting, exchanging long messages and getting to know each other. She was coming out of a painful breakup and therapy, so I decided to take things slow, give her time and space, and let things develop naturally. I told her I'd really like to get to know her better. She texted me multiple times about how highly she thought of me and liked my hobbies. She made the impression of a high-quality individual, who is self-aware, works on herself and her patterns, loves to read about psychology and relationships. She even shared that she tends to pull away when she gets emotionally close to a man. After that, she stopped contacting me for a month, then reached out again. Basically she pulled away every time when the conversation was really good. Eventually, the contact stopped, but she liked almost all my Instagram stories and posts (which I know doesn't necessarily mean anything). She also asked me random things without replying to my previous messages. Nine weeks into messaging, I wrote to her that I'd be attending a concert in her town and asked if she'd be around. She stopped responding after that. After the concert, she liked a few of my Instagram posts, then posted a vacation picture, mentioning she was dating someone new, living together for a few weeks already, talking about children, and having two vacations planned together (this being the first). Feeling shocked, I immediately deleted her from all social media. Two days later, she messaged me, asking if she'd hurt me. I didn't respond. This was a girl with whom I really wanted to be patient yet direct, without any games, but this whole thing left me kinda disappointed. I know that I probably had high expecations and she did not owe me anything, but this felt as if she was only leading me on while not even mentioning that she was dating some other guy during the whole time, with whom she is really rushing into a commited relationship.
What do you guys think - did she lead me on or just was not interested at all?
I absolutely did not know about her dating someone else, but I did not ask either. It was just really weird that she mentioned that she wanted a slow burn romance (because of bad past experiences) with someone emotionally mature, so it was weird to see her jumping into a new relationship, while immediately living together, travelling, talking about kids (she shared about it).
tl;dr - I met a girl from another town, we started messaging, I wanted to meet her and possibly date her. she was pullling away anytime we got emotionally closer. she was dating a guy for the whole time - did not mention anything about it. she got confused why I deleted her and stopped messaging.

I'm currently off work sick with depression amd had to meet up with my manager today for a welfare check. We met up at a local bacafe and sat outside. Things started out OK, he was asking how I was doing and about if I'm going back to work etc, he's really easy to talk to and the conversation turned to how stressful things are at home at the moment (I found out that my husband was on a BDSM dating site which absolutely tore me apart, to the point where I was planning my suicide). I told him that I had found out about my husband being on a dating site and explained how hurt I was by it and that me and my husband are going to try working on our marriage. This is where is gets a bit weird...
He nodded and said "Have you ever considered it? Having an affair?"
It surprised me to say the least and I ended up admitting that I had, in the past and before I met my husband, had an affair. He followed up by saying "well it happens to us all at some stage". The meeting ended shortly after that because he needed to be back at the office. But the question threw me a bit, it was so out of the blue and I haven't stopped wondering why he even asked that? I don't want to get into another affair, especially with how fragile I am at the moment.
It's not really something someone would ask is it? I really need help trying to understand this.

Tl;Dr:
My best friend got engaged to someone she knew in high school and hasn't talkd to in years who is long distance in just 5 months. I can't really tell her my honest opinions without it coming off as jealousy. How do I help her, or do I just let her do this?
The meaty version:
I met my best friend years ago. I used to do makeup effects for movies/TV, but when I started I took gigs for basic makeup for various things. She was a model, 19, just starting out. We got along way more than we should and hooked up after the shoot. We went out own ways and life took us in a weird loop back to each other, seven years later.
We met again at my new job. It was hard to stay in the business, so I had to make ends meet with Trader Joe's. That's where I saw her again, and we clicked like we did back then. It was just friends at first. We had both been out of bad relationships and I just wanted to better, so we hung out a lot as friends. After a year, she wanted more and I very hesitantly complied. She broke up with me about a year and a half later, and it broke my heart. I really tried to hate her and not talk to her, and it was easy because at that point she moved stores for other reasons, so I thought I'd never see her again. She understood, too, and left me alone, but checked in on me.
We somehow reconnected a couple months later. I don't even understand how, honestly. We just gravitate to each other. And we became close friends again, and have been for the last 5 or 6 years. She is my best friend, and I care about her a lot. We hang out all the time. If not physically, via text or mostly Discord. We do everything together when not at work.
It's been fine for years. I am demisexual, so dating is usually not a priority to me, but I have dated a bit. Usually friends, all know about my friendship with my Bestie, and nobody has really cared. She is bi and leans way more towards women, and it's pretty evident lol. She's told me I was the only guy she's dated as an adult and she's not usually interested in men. But I was struggling a while back with feeling those feelings for her and as I was going to come out to her, she told me she had been dating someone.
I know she had been to Florida a couple months back, and according to her and her timeline of events she met up with this guy she had a crush on in high school. They both liked each other back then, but both never acted on it and they lost contact. And apparently on this trip, they met and he just started his transition and they met up and things happened. She has gone to Florida twice, for only a week at a time, and around Balentines day he proposed. Five months later. She said she didn't tell me because she felt like she started to suspect I had feelings for her and she didn't want to hurt me, or lose me as a friend.
We were fine after. We had a big talk, I told her my feelings, and look. I get it. It's weird. But she's still my favorite person, so I was in. And being demi, you get feelings for friends and only friends, lol. Would I want more? Absolutely. Do I need it? Absolutely not. My love doesn't end at sexual interest or lack of. I did take some space, though, and we eventually got back into our usual groove.
The timing of everything is already weird, but then I could see little things. The guy got her a gift. I was there when she opened it, and she didnt like it. It was a shirt she'd never wear, and she complained about how he does that often. She complains about him a lot for different things. Usually I try to be devils advocate, I dont want to rag on the guy, but most of the time in my head I'm thinking he doesn't know her at all. How could they? They barely know each other. They've lived whole lives. Hell, he went from being a woman to a man and she didn't even know.
Meanwhile, we go out and I get her. I know her drink, I know her go to food order from any spot, we finish each other's sentences, our characters compliment the other. I'm not saying I want her. I'm just saying that her and this guy don't know what they're doing and they're moving way too fast. And I don't know how to tell her any of this. I'm not fighting for her, I'm just worried she's setting herself up for failure. What if she moves all the way over there?! Away from her family and friends and then this thing implodes. She's going to be alone and too proud to ask for help. Or, I could be wrong and they work.

I live in Scotland.
This issue has been ongoing for over 6 months, where someone reported a false incident to my car insurance, and they refused to provide any evidence like photos of the damage to their car. The only evidence they have is a witness who left a note on their car saying it was my car who hit their car and drove off.
The location of the false incident confirmed they had no CCTV footage of this incident on the date.
I even had the police investigate me 2 months after the false incident was reported and the police dismissed the case as they had no evidence to charge me with a hit and run.
The week after the police visit, 2 months after the false incident, my insurer sent in an engineer to inspect my car, who noted scratches in a few places, which were not there when the police visited just 1 week prior.
I have Photo and video evidence of how I scratched the car, because I purchased a dash cam and installed it on the day the police visited.
I made complaints and recorded every interaction with the insurer and I have a copy of the police report which I gave to the Ombudsman, as the insurer has not been responsive for months.
The Ombudsman have informed me the third party is willing to go to court with their witness, but that my insurer is still waiting on the third party to send in evidence, after 6 months we have had nothing from them. The Ombudsman informed me that my insurer is doing the right thing and that they cannot help me more.
Citizens Advice are not picking up their phones and they are only open in their beaureus on days and times where I am at work.
What can I do, in order to defend my innocence and get this claim removed and voided from the system? I have no evidence that I didn't do it, it's not like I have a video of me not hitting anyone, because I only purchased the dashcam 2 months after the false incident frightened me into buying one.
The insurer can take a witness note as evidence, but the police didn't pursue the claim as they had no real evidence.
Is there any law which states that a claim which has not had evidence provided for x amount of time should be voided? Like a statue of limitations or something or other?
What would this look like if I did want to go to court? Can the court accept a witness note as stand alone evidence?
What more can I do to clear my name? I'm not rich hence why I'm posting on here and trying free services, but if I need to go into court, is there free help I can get?
Do I stand any chance here?

This is really random and I didn’t know what subreddit to even go to for this, but I was reminded of here and maybe someone can help me figure out which PC game this comes from. I apologize if this doesn’t belong here, but people are excellent here when it comes to vague memories.
I don’t remember much about the game because I couldn’t have been older than 3 or 4 at the time, but there was a Busy World of Richard Scarry game I played (poorly lol) over and over, and I have been struggling to identify which game my memory of this comes from.
My family and I have been quoting Lowly Worm for like 27 years (give or take) now as an inside joke because of this game. All I remember is I think I was making Huckle do something with a red house in the woods? Whatever I was doing though, I messed up every single time.
And every time I did, the game’s way of telling me to try again was Lowly saying in the goofiest voice ever that lives rent free in my entire family’s head because they heard it on repeat so much, is “sOmEtHinG iS wRoNg HeRe!”
It was necessary for me to type it like that because he had this weird way of saying it, and it’s been driving me insane because I can’t find anything online with him saying that in a game lol.
My older siblings and my parents alike will still say it the exact way as the worm did whenever something goes terribly wrong in our lives and none of us have heard the actual sound byte other than from each other in years.
All of the play throughs on YouTube for multiple Richard Scarry games seem to be focused on doing them correctly and missing out on the fun of also making mistakes, considering how creative they used to be in a lot of these games with either random reactions or some out of place tiny animation in a corner.
And while some of them on there look familiar, I’m still unable to pinpoint which one my specific memory comes from.
All I do know 100% is that it was for PC and I remember picking it off the shelf (after being lifted up) at I think Toys R Us back when the boxed cd games became more common and available.
If anyone is able to help me identify the exact game and help me torture my family with this sound now that I’m 30 years old and wantingg to make them all groan over it for the first time in decades, I would greatly appreciate it.

My 17 year old asked to go out of town with his partner and her family for a week. I got a call from my ex that he didn't want our son to be given a "Free pass for sex" so didn't want him to go. I said that was silly because they have been dating well over a year they have probably already had sex. His reply, "I know they have" I asked if our son told him that and he responded, "No I was listening in and heard the whole thing" 😳 my ex admitted that he had installed Spyware on our son's phone and he could listen at anytime. I found it incredibly gross that he did that to my son and his girlfriend. She is 18, not sure if that matters legally that she is an adult.
I divorced my ex because he was abusive. He's been arrested for it a few years back. I realized that some of the things he has said to me seem odd like he knows very specific conversations I've had with my kids. I now know it's because he can listen in on their phones. This makes me feel very vulnerable and like I can't be comfortable in my own home.
So my question: is sending "spyware" to someone else's home legal? Is listening to your child have sex illegal or just creepy af?

Hi everyone, I was wondering if someone could provide insight on my situation.
My ex boyfriend and I (26,23) have been together for 2,5 years. We both agreed that the connection was very special from the beginning, I think I could say he was my first "real" love. During this time we had two long-distance periods of 5 months due to me studying abroad. The first one was planned, went just fine and everything was right back after. The second one wasn't planned, but he encouraged me to take the opportunity. It was rough as we were in different time zones, but when I came back everything "clicked" for me again.
Two months after I got back he broke up with me out of the blue, saying that he just doesn't love me anymore and had been feeling that way for a few months already. I understand that our relationship has gotten a bit "stale" due to me being busy studying, but I genuinely felt fulfilled and happy and he never indicated any problems. He said he still wants us to be "best friends" and agreed to go to relationship counseling on "neutral grounds". A week after the breakup he said he was going on a date. I was naturally upset and said I'm still going to get counseling, alone or with him. A day before our first session he came over, said he canceled the date and went with me. For about a month it was going well, then he suddenly said he wanted to date the other girl because he's in love with her and not with me. That was a week ago. They're not even together yet and she's already the wallpaper of his phone, saved as "my eternal love", all the works lol, I suspect it was like that the whole time, although he swears he didn't cheat. It's all so gross, she's like the polar opposite of me, he says "her personality fits him better" and "they share more hobbies and do more stuff".
Obviously I'm heartbroken. I feel like I have made too many mistakes to hope for reconciliation, I should have gone NC from the beginning. It's also very confusing for me, the day after he told me he wanted to be with someone else he came over, cuddled with me all night and then we impulsively slept together in the morning. He's begging me not to move away, texts me every day, and claims he still wants to "do stuff" together. That all makes me feel like he's just in a rebound, but it might just be wishful thinking. I'm still seeing a counselor myself, this has been actually traumatic for me. I have already made the decision to go NC last week and stopped initiating conversation, but he texts me every day (basic low effort stuff like how are you, updates from his day, etc), even a concerned "I haven't heard from you, is everything okay?" What on earth does he want??? Can we reconcile somehow?
This is all so convoluted. I'll be thankful for any supportive words :)

Today I got the text message that my review is complete.
I followed the auto-bots reply in someone elses post to see if I could find out what's happening with my claim. I pressed 1, then 6 and it says I'll be put through to someone. I then entered my DOB and then it asked something about benefits / last paid or claimed? Can anyone walk me through the process as this question stumped me, I cannot remember when I put the claim in for PIP, or is this a last payment date? I am so confused, stressed and I really got myself in a muddle so hung up. Any help greatly appreciated, thank you.

Long story short, I sold a 2011 Subaru forester to my girlfriends brother and now it has a leaking head gasket. I told him all the issues I knew with the car (A/C was making weird noise and the past history, work done to date etc. He took it for a long drive (borrowed the car for a camping trip), and said he liked it and would like to buy it off me. I sold it to him for 11k and it had 120,000km's on the engine.
2-3 months went by and the head gasket is leaking, took it to the mechanic and was quoted 8K for a engine transplant (78,000kms on it). I felt bad as he told me about it and decided to chip in 2.5K to get the engine done.
Did I do the right thing?

Has anyone else had this happen? It's taken this package longer to get to us from inside our own city than it did to get from Texas to Michigan...
Driver ran ahead of schedule on the original delivery date, which is fine and happens occasionally so whatever - we came home from work that afternoon to a blank pickup slip with no information on it whatsoever. No notice of which Access Point our item will dropped off at, nothing. I stop by the shipping center that normally handles our stuff that same afternoon and I'm told that I can't get my package from the driver (he's still in the parking lot at this point) and will have to wait until the next day. Again, whatever.
Next day comes, and still no delivery. My wife made a visit to the Access Point and the employee (third party shipping partner) said that the driver had already been there that day to drop off the previous day's missed deliveries. Several boxes, none of them ours, and tracking still reads that it's out for delivery by end of day. We then spend the entire afternoon on the phone trying to get ahold of an actual person to figure out why the driver never handed our item off. We were assured that "your item will be delivered to the Access Point by 7pm there's evening. I've called and spoken with both the driver of your truck and my manager to confirm this." It's now 7:30, our package has been scanned to an unknown local location (presumably the local hub), and our drop off point closed at 6pm. Beyond livid at this point.
As of this morning (5/17) we're stuck at another "Departed from facility" tag from 9pm last night and unsure of whether we're actually going to receive a rather expensive package that should have been here two days ago..
TLDR - Spent entirely too much money for an item and shipping and got nothing but literal hours of run around from "customer service". Is someone trying to steal my package or are they seriously just that incompetent?

I’ve been friendly with this girl for a few months now as we were in a class together at college this past semester. We’ve started talking very heavily the past week or so, typically staying up until 2-3 am to text with each other, but I’m having a tough time getting a read on the situation. She’s made a lot of comments about how she thinks she thinks we get a long really well and even had me take a personality test to see how our personality types fit together. I thought that really cute actually and according to her we’re very compatible. She also made a few comments that I would typically consider flirting such as calling something I tell her about myself cute and saying how funny she thinks I am. However, I’ve made attempts to flirt with her and I’m not 100% certain she realized I was flirting. We had an interesting conversation last night about it being really tough for her to read social cues, knowing how are other people are feeling, and needing people to be pretty direct with her that made me realize this. So I guess the advice I’m looking for is exactly how direct I need to be when expressing my interest? And if that works out is there anything else I should be aware of when dating someone with autism?

[F4M] looking for creative detailed dominant players, school theme play. all characters are 18+. discord only I'm a school girl who's nerdy,sweet and innocent.i have never dated anyone and usually rejects most of the guys. But i have a busty figure, fairly big tits and a round ass,a decent height,long hair,thick thighs with flawless fair skin that makes me pretty.all this wasted on me who's not interested to date anyone.You're my classmate who has a crush on me,we have just exchanged some conversations a few times.i am not interested in you neither we are friends.you're an above average student in studies and sports, people know you cause of your academic achievements.everyday u see me in red skirt and white shirt in school and bus(we both share the same bus to home) and desires start to rise inside you and you feel lustful towards me,having dreams about me, jerking off to me at home etc.soon this lust becomes an obsession and you just wanted me to be yours at all cost,you were like my biggest fan,you know and stare at each and every corner of my body that you could see, visualising me in different positions under you.one thing i wasn't aware is that I'm submissive in nature and bed to a real respectful dominant man. This is not a romantic play.both characters are adults I need a detailed creative guy who can describe me,my body, his thoughts and the situation.this'd be a slow burn plot with buildup to intimacy.If you could send gifs or pics related to the scene that's a plus but not necessary! Also someone who'd come up with ideas for the scene together and not just expect me to do everything,we can brainstorm together.Dm me if you like the idea or could put ur ideas into it to make it good roleplay for both of us.pls dm me with some effort of your writing style if you loved the idea cause i only want players who'd enjoy and be invested in it.dont dm me with just hey/hi or sticker,i don't reply.more into my kinks and limits is in my profile previous posts. Thanks!

Summary of Domestic Violence lies
My gf of 1.5 yr whom I referred to as my wife has lied to police about Domestic violence and had me arrested multiple times and is now throwing my stuff out/ selling it/ destroying it / converting it.
There is no contact order and she filed a restraining order with hearing coming up soon
I had to take a plea deal to get out of jail so how do I sue her if I plead guilty to some fucking lies 😪😪😪
i want to sue her for ruining many incomes I had, emotional turmoil for having another man immediately in my home and bed and making me experience these events, and physical harm from having to live homeless with extreme fibromyalgia pain with no property or access to my finances. I have to prove that she is mentally unwell and how she caused equal if not more damage to the property. She cuts herself since 12 years old and then makes me look like the aggressor when I have to be worried about her and keep checking on her because she’s hurt her self before via pills or cuttingand hitting things in an emotional stupor to the point where her hands are numb and bruised. fetalpositioning in the bathroom for hours for example. She does that so often and puts me in a strange position to where I can’t feel comfortable with her being alone. We could be out doing laundry or grocery shopping and she’s so quick to jump out the car as if I’m threatening her and I’m put in a position where all I want is for her to just get in and we can go home and be calm. She’s fetal positioned in the snow, mid drive and laid there in the snow where any nearby residents can easily call 911 and I’d be getting arrested there for no reason as well. She incomplete called 911 at least 4 times during our relationship. She has zero initiative or perception of building a life. She’s quit jobs for no reason at all, missed days and blamed me for that. She would skip work whenever she felt like and even quit jobs for no reason like Walmart for example. June 20 - August 9 2023 When I went to Dominican Republic for an emergency trip to get help with my fibromyalgia, she felt the need to quit her job then as well with little regard for the financial situation, she had a guy come over then as well at least 3 times. She was going to strip clubs doing who knows what while I was away and aware that she was out to such venues. Upon my arrival, I was forced to lose my crypto investment valued at $4000.00 approximately to keep us from eviction which would now be worth about $15,000.00 and was once valued at over $70,000.00. She had little regard for the things I was doing to build a life. Clearly she was not on a progressing mindset with me. She spoke to me about having my children and marriage because we loved each other whole heartedly but then lies to the state of IN and states what we were simply dating or have dated when we had a very serious, intimate, sexual relationship that I 1000% was intent on creating a life for us. I should have seen the red flags 🚩. I have been taken for granted and my life and liberties are not to be infringed upon like this. She lied to police and now I have a record and have to refund $1000+ from my Etsy business. Not only that but she has all my property meaning I cannot sign into my email and do very basic things such as access to my debit card balance or logging into anything at all . She has access to my personal phone and laptop, and has probably tampered with critical evidence that I need to prove that I am not abusing that woman. She has destroyed some or all of my property by throwing it outside for anyone to steal or whether to destroy. I have at least $4000.00 worth of property in the house that she may or may not have destroyed. A no contact order does not give the “victim” the right to convert / destroy or sell my belongings. If she was so “terrified” of me, she would not have paid over $2000.00 to bail me out when she had me tased and arrested in January 2024. Only to cry wolf again 2 more times in April 2024. I need Justice and I need it Now. You think you’re on the same page as someone, building a life with them, and they disregard your entire life as if it means nothing. She has trauma from her past but putting me in jail and ruining my life was nowhere near necessary. I was saving my money to move into my own place when she got me arrested. I never intentionally hurt her, only restrained her or even self defense after taking more than 10 hits from her. Please help.
List of Suffering
Destruction of property (my lock box was broken into. I found my old ponytail from when I cut my hair in 2013 Junior year in Dominican Republic) Unable to change clothes after jail because I only have one outfit Needlessly tased (heart felt like it was going to stop) Unnecessary U-Haul arrangements Pain from having to sleep on hard, urine, soaked concrete benches while in Marion county booking (26 hours to get me processed on April 19, 2024) Being threatened by inmates (violent offender, said he bite my nose off randomly) About $80 unnecessarily spent on commissary in Marion county ADC jail Neglect of my health (no meds from outside jail, fibromyalgia, pain, 10 out of 10, no glasses for my astigmatism, unable to go to my urology appointment for my suspicious lump, my EBT has been canceled and I am unable to eat freely, not eating well in Marion county, adult detention center(jail) , can’t maintain my Maryland bridge implant (tooth) , hindrance of my disability claim with Atticus, homeless now with no property while in intense pain (was writhing in PAIN at ADC ) Extreme, L5, S1, spine and nerve pain midsection and up to neck and arms April 22 to April 23 if jail footage is available unsanitary conditions, reusing dirty towels, and clothes gave me rashes in Marion county adult detention center jail Stress of losing my valuable possessions Stress of having to focus, my limited energy to battle against Madeline Christine Fenwick, who is a loved, beloved part of me, legal or not. (not anymore obviously) Stress of life, ending life, changing false claims and unjust charges leading to extreme loss of wages, due to improper investigation Lies and slander on my name and record Time wasted Money, wasted, and lost Brain rotting in jail, more than once Disorientation of date and time while in Marion county adult detention center jail Drinking unsafe, water inside Marion county, adult detention center jail Eating and forcing myself to eat disgusting tasteless food in Marion county adult detention center jail Neck pain from uncomfortable sleeping conditions in Marion county adult detention center jail Having to eat other peoples food scraps, inviting unknown bacteria into my body in Marion county, adult detention center jail because they don’t feed you enough Humiliation from having to shower or use bathroom and presence of approximately 60+ men Having to make makeshift tools, such as a basic pen No access to basic Internet Life uprooted for no justifiable reason Extreme boredom, anxiety and resentment, for no justifiable reason well in Marion county, adult detention center jail No money or help from the outside(my only contact was Madeline whom I cannot contact due to unjust NCO) no access to my property or belongings or home via unlawful protection order Cannot take care of my hair inside Marion county Adult Detention Center, jail Having to hoard food and unsafe temperatures only to still go hungry in Marion county, adult detention center jail Had a fight in jail and scraped my elbow pretty bad inviting who knows if the carpet in there has ever been cleaned thoroughly Mouth and oral sanitation. Difficult to maintain in Marion county adult detention center jail No access to my personal business with income hindered unjustly by Madeline Christine Fenwick, while in Marion county adult detention center jail and afterword as I am homeless now Very little sleep well in Marion county adult detention center jail Having to hand wash clothes that is three times my size as that is what I was given in Marion county Adult Detention Center, jail Another man’s bodily fluids on my bed (she already has someone else in my home from her new job)

about a year and few months ago i met her in my class in a coaching class at first i wasn’t attracted to her(she had friends she sits together her friend was the first one i took a glance)as a teen boy i was attracted to females a lot few weeks into the class i started noticing her but wasn’t attracted to her a lot but slowly few months into i started getting feeling about her but i had a friend who also liked her so i thought i should not interfere (but my friend was also engaged with many other women at the time and) so few months go by my felling grew for her and i started thinking about her a lot but i was very insecure and didn’t also wanna interfere my friend and may be she liked someone else so i never experienced my feeling for her ( in between this months she started noticing me and my friend looking at her and me and her made multiple eye contacts i asked my friend the same question he said not more than 5 also caught her glancing at me few times when she sit behind me. one of my another friend not in the class happens to date that girl’s best friend and that friend told me that she told her friend i was handsome and she like my hair i believe this was true because that guy was my close friends for 5yers )but still i didn’t do anything i wanted to but couldn’t i was emotionally very weak but my friend that is with me in the same class proposed her and got rejected after that every thing went normal my friend didn’t say anything but i my love for her kept growing and the class ended so i couldn’t see her anymore its been 8 months i haven’t seen her ( she was very insecure so she always hide her face with a mask so i couldn’t see her face properly for a long time but she removed her mask after few months even after that she always shit in front of me or behind so i could only see her face properly for few seconds when she entered the class but few months before the class ended she took it off i think because she noticed me and my friend looking at her as a young teen boy i easily get attracted to girls but no matter how beautiful that girl was i always moved on only in few days after not seeing that girl but i couldn’t move on even after 8 months

Hi guys,
I just joined this reddit because I am in search for someone to quote a BIG collection of models in North part of Italy.
I have searched around and unfortunately no answer, I hope to be in the good place to ask.
If someone can give me a suggestion where I can go (maybe a shop) or a person to contact would be perfect.
Or in other way, where I can sell with the right amount of money tthe tons of models I have.
Thanks for helping!

Salam all, I’m 23, I would say my life is comfortable for me (mentally specifically) so my only reason to marry is for a strong partner, affection, romance, to rely on him (for him to thrive in his masculinity and me femininity) which means I have no interest in marriage if it’s a downgrade from the comfort my family provides الحمد لله, which was the case when my hand is asked. Basically I wanted to give a quick introduction about myself which will outline my interests and disinterests in a future husband, (the post might be long as I have to write examples because everyone has different views and I’d like to avoid misunderstandings), my number one priority - STABILITY. I’m talking about all aspects of stability 1.Religious stability- I’m not even going into basics because that’s a given, supporting each other into understanding the Quran and listening to lectures and so on 2. Financial - it’s up and down with money BUT he takes care of the finances no matter what with no lazy attitude 3.emotional stability - emotional intelligence and patience and strong personality to set boundaries when families especially cross them (we have to respect our family members but he wants to enforce boundaries and has his own opinion not spineless agreeing only for the reason his parents suggested something for example), I have ADD which requires a MAN not a boy to put in the effort to understand and learn about it.
My personal reference: His personality revolves around acting for the sake of allah (actions speak louder than words) and what pleases allah swt not the people and has strong loyalty to his religion and culture (ofc traditions that align with what allah dictated otherwise it’s a red flag) I’m Palestinian so you’ll get why I’m set on culture! Fluent in Arabic and appreciates the language as it is لغة القرآن, works out regularly (above 175cm) and seeks health as a lifestyle as again laziness decreases his masculinity which is unattractive and is committed to the health of a relationship wether it’s deep discussions or dates or weekend holidays. Would prefer to spend the first few years in a foreign country basically for more experiences wether it’s work or travel which will increase the privacy and intimacy of a relationship which is also a plus I would prefer to have one child (negotiable but I like to be clear) and small celebrations to cut on costs (invest them in the relationship not the people) I love to cook and bake! But he’ll clean up after because I’ll be dead tired, I think a man would do it anyways without asking him
Everyone has preferences no shame in that, it just shouldn’t transform into skyrocket standards which won’t benefit you بالدنيا و الآخرة. I don’t mind having conversations to discuss this further (respectfully with limits) with someone who’s serious about marriage.
May allah make it easy for all of us and grant us goodness here and the hereafter, thank you.

This sound bad I know. But lately I’m feeling super distance in this, I 19F was born in the church and from birth till 11 I loved church but ever since being in young women I’ve began to dislike. This is mostly because of people around me, I had no friends, teacher just made me so uncomfortable and every time they do camp, they always told me to think about and force me to go no matter how hard I told them I don’t want to go. I have never felt so alone.
I did have some good time in young women it only lasted 9 months before boundary has change and I was ended up in a new ward with no one I knew. I’m know in relief society but i don’t fit in, the only reason why I keep going is for my family because I was made to. I never wanted to go to class (second hour) and people always keep asking my parents why I never go to class which my parents can never found a answer for, they would keep ask me to go to class but even if I did, I would be on my phone. I do believe in jesus and everything, I just don’t like people around me thinks being a member is their entire personality and they are trying to make me have the same feeling as them. So my parents and other members are pushing me away from church.
My family have always told me that I have to marry someone that’s a member, I have a boyfriend of 1 year and he isn’t a member, he’s a atheist. I introduce him to them and they did like him great and think he’s a good boyfriend and a husband one day but they making him become members of the church and making us to get married in the temple, I understand why they want us to get married in the temple because we will be together in the spiritual world but making my boyfriend go to church is not the way to go. I feel really bad because it had made us argue a lot because of it because he doesn’t want to go to church (I don’t to) but I keep begging him just so my parents would like him which is kinda why I don’t like church because my parents said he has to go to church or we are to remain as friend and not get married.
I remember one time I wanted to go formal (prom in America) but I wasn’t allowed to have the dress I wanted because it didn’t fit the church standards which I feel like it’s so out of date and it took me months to convince my parents to let me but it definitely took a toll in our relationship..
I’m not sure if I want to leave church because I just hate it or I want to leave to spite my family but overall I just don’t want to go anymore….
P.s I’m ranting but even thought I’m calm I still feel the same and it sounds messy but yeah… please don’t hate me because I don’t want to be a member anymore….

We met on a dating app, i was travelling and she invited me to a martial arts retreat. One week of training and laughing and sharing. Organically our bond grew, so at the end of the retreat under a beautiful full moon, we decided to travel together and we kissed for the first time.
And we travelled together for two months in her van and her mad dog. It was a incredible adventure with ups and down, tears of joy and sometimes of sadness, but the bond grew and grew. I never opened myself to anyone like this before and i feel truly blessed for having experienced that.
First symptom : Same age but she experienced A LOT before me, while i'm just starting to open myself to women. She really pushed her desire to be a committed couple while i was shaky partly because of my attachment style, me feeling uneasy about her past, and maybe because i wasn't attracted enough. After one month of dating when i expressed that i would most likely not commit to her, i got bombarded by emotions that were unknown to me. The day after that when she said (but not think) that it's ok to let me go, and to not force me into something that i didn't want, i felt so loved, so accepted, that for the time it told her that i loved her.
So the travel continues, even more adventures, even more fun, even more love. After that we parted ways, and one month later i am supposed to come see her in her country.
Second symptom : In the meantime, i keep it for myself but i went on her ex instagram and was intoxicated by jealousy. (They still see each other once per year for one week..) I stop and think about something else, just a harmless slip right ? Also i reinstall the apps, we are not official, i don't have the guts to pursue anyone though, so i'm a bit passive.
So i go visit her in her country and once again it's great. I'm open about the fact that used the apps before seeing her, and she understands, now they are removed. Our time here was so simple. Less adventurous but sooo sweet. Everything so smooth. When i leave her at the airport i leave her as my girlfriend, and look at her with loving eyes. I remember that on the last day, instead of having sex, since she was a bit sick, i just said good bye to every part of her body, one by one. Our time together was tender and loving.
Third Symptom : I was supposed to see her in two months. But little by little, with the distance i grew a bit cold and started to be bothered by my lack of experience compared to her. Watched a lot of content on the matter, and grew bitter. I started to look at her with cold eyes, seeing her physical flaws and so on. The external sources of stress of my life didn't help. I reinstall the apps and feel the frustration, this time it's a real betrayal even though i don't have the guts to see anyone.
I didn't know at that time but retroactive jealousy was slowly creeping in my mind. At some point i asked the dreaded question of BODY COUNT, and the answer of course had a terrible effect. After that i was haunted by intrusive thoughts and bursts of anxiety i've never felt before, luckily i seeked a therapy a week before because i was haunted by other aspects of my past. I really tried hard to get through it, i try to reshape my views of sex, of her, of men and women, on relationship but it was too hard. On top of that i really felt guilty about putting her through that i really deeply felt that it was better for her and for me to stop. The guilt was destroying me but at least it prevented me from consciously shaming her and reproach her things that she had done in the past. After four days of crying everyday i tried to end it, but the tickets for the week that we planned were taken so we agreed to see each other and bet on the therapy. She always wanted to go on.
After i returned, the anxiety returned in full force, and she felt it. She had nightmares of me abandoning her each week. I was feeling more and more guilty, to the point where the retroactive jealousy and i my own desire for other experiences were an afterthought. I ended it for real two days ago.
Now she is free from me. I know it was the best decision, even though she wanted to go on, i know that our lives didn't match (Adventurous girl wanting to settle, avoidant guy wanting to finally explore). Also my issues just ran too deep : The abysmal self esteem, the retroactive jealousy, the fucked up attachment style, the fucked up views on sex leading to envy and anger on top of jealousy.
I feel utterly empty and miserable on all the aspects, the only good thing is that she can now move on. It fucking hurts but the guilt was eating me from the inside because i cared about her so much, but could not love her properly. I felt the urge to end it in my body, i didn't sleep, i didn't eat. Even my thoughts, muddled and marred by guilt and jealousy. I had to stop it.
I'm feeling suicidal and really wish i was someone else, someone who could've make things work. As i feared, opening myself to someone revealed all the reason why i didn't until now. Life as a monk, death, or change.

My ex broke up with me on July 2023 (day before our anniversary). It became a situationship for 8 months until I chose to go no contact as it was ruining my mental health not being able to have the title and date. During this entire time, we did have sex, we would kiss and she would say she loved me and missed me. A month later, she’s dating someone else and posting about it on her IG story and all the dates/trips they are taking — that shattered my heart since I’m still in love with her and felt so easily replaced.
I’m slowly accepting it is over and we can never be anything again. Fast forward to now, a woman who caused issues in our relationship followed me on IG. (Ex thinks I cheated on her with this woman since a video surfaced of me talking to her privately — I can guarantee nothing happened). Anyways, I accepted the follow request and followed back and we got coffee. Truth be told the thought came to mind “maybe I should date this individual” but after getting coffee, I’ve learned our values do not align and she seems immature plus I haven’t had enough time to heal.
I think my ex knows or just recently found out as she shared something on threads about betrayal. (I know, I know, I should not be looking at her social media — I’m working on it!) it caused me anxiety and made me worry because I don’t want her thinking there is something going on. I haven’t spoken to that woman but still have her on social media.
Am I an asshole for following this woman back even though she caused issues in our relationship? Should I even care what my ex thinks? I’m just trying to live my life the same way my ex is without considering me. As delusional as I sound, does this ruin my chances of ever getting back with my ex?

What I'm looking for -
Anything goes really. We can spend quality time online or we can meet in real in a few weeks if you are closer to haryana or punjab or chandigarh or delhi . (I also visit mumbai sometimes )
(If you are from outside India, that's also fine since I don't care which part of the world I live in if I can be with someone I love.)
Then we can go for long walks, go on a date/outing. While I love physical affection like cuddles, hugs, kisses , I love a nice company too and will respect your boundaries if you don't want to be touched in the first meeting.
Ideally, I'm looking for a meaningful medium term relationship but which has a potential to turn into something everlasting in future. But I'm open to casual setups too in case you feel you aren't ready for serious commitment.
I don't understand people who go through traditional route of arrange marriages. How can they bypass this dating phase and jump into the nuptials directly. Also, if you don't test out the compatibility beforehand, you could very well end up in a deadbedroom situation, which is big cause of divorce.
Personality type :
Physically, I'm tall ( 6'0" ), cute, neither the most handsome nor ugly, average built and medium wheatish complexion.
I am a semi-introvert. - I don't have social anxiety or anything but I am avoidant of certain people, yet find it easy to talk to strangers. Although I can't approach women in real life. I'm pretty blunt by nature. I can speak well in stage and on public , get into conversations with Co-passengers in trains, buses etc. Yet, I feel intimidated/uncomfortable talking to my relatives, immediate neighbors, school friends. I'm fluent in English and Hindi.
I'm more the thinking type than feeling. But I do feel bad for hurting someone. I fall In love fast but do not get attached too fast.
I'm super blunt and straightforward. Sometimes chill, sometimes intense. I have great anger control, a friendly amicable temperament.
I prefer voice chat because although time is not an issue for me, we can express emotions clearly and I can explain myself more elaborately than text where I have to cut down. But texting is good too and has its own advantages. Or alternatively, if you are not comfortable speaking, you can just listen. I can sing you a song on call.
Hobbies and passions :
I love watching crime, thrillers and inspirational movies. I love reading books especially non fiction books and web articles, forums, blogs.
I like puzzle games / board games. . I don't play much video games anymore. But I can play to give you company. MOBA, FPS, anything .
I used to play all kinds of sports in my college days but now it's just football & badminton