Hefty trash bags

Everything, and anything is an argument. Fridge is broken I’m gonna call the land lords to get a new one “No it’s not we just have to unplug it for a day or two” I bought a new microwave after us not having one since December “Thats a stupid thing to spend money on, I won’t even use it” (I didn’t even ask him to pitch on it) talking with my other roommate how I saw our community garbage bins are full because someone was kicked out? “No it’s not I was just there taken out the trash” He doesn’t pay for the toilet paper because he “doesn’t use it”(he does) he doesn’t pay for garbage bags because he “doesn’t use them just put in his trash In the bags we where already gonna throw out” (isn’t that using them?) refused to buy his own laundry soap or pitch for the bulk bucket the rest of the house buys because he “never washed his clothes maybe only once a month” this is just today. I could go off about other times through out the 7 years he’s been here
He doesn’t work, he doesn’t leave the house to get groceries instead he orders cases of Kraft dinner from Amazon. he games all day, and just complains about American politics (we’re Canadian) and how stupid people in the world are. no one in the house can listen to music without him getting genuinely upset about how dumb the lyrics are or watch a show because “why do they have to show people making out in shows?!” “This shows so dumb that not even realistic”.
Just needed to vent. Today he’s been especially argumentative.

Kid Rock is the musical equivalent of a wet cigarette. His songs, personality, and politics roll up into a garbage bag of a person. However, the white-trash part of me can't help but hum along to "Picture" whenever I hear it.
Similarly, I hated Drake before it was cool. His music is the definition of "dumb it down." And yet, I must concede that "Passionfruit" is a bop.

Link to most recent update: update 1
TLDR: Just wanted to give the update that no one asked for or wanted, but my marriage is over, I think for good. Y’all were right. How do I pick up the pieces?
We lived separately from June to March, with us officially moving out in September (took us a while). His dad started throwing my things into trash bags during the actual move because I was taking too long to pack. Then when I started crying because our home was being dismantled, he tried to comfort me as his dad huffed and puffed at my emotions.
I did a vacation with my parents, and took a month to go away by myself, he joined me for a week. We still met up almost every weekend to spend time together and bond. We still talked everyday but then my gal friend and I took a 2 week long vacation that I extended a whole month. I invited him to join for some and he declined. On our last night together before I left, we got into a fight about how I seemed distracted. This resulted in me sobbing alone, in his mother’s basement for an hour. We made up, but it still stuck with me.
I learned a lot about myself in this trip. I traveled, met new people, tried new foods, and did things that I used to only dream about. Alone. I did it by myself and it felt so good to reclaim my identity. My friends said I was glowing like they hadn’t seen in years. While I was away on my trip, he checked in, but things felt different, at least for me. Didn’t call me or offer to call, not even on my birthday. But that’s on me too, the telephone works 2 ways.
I came home. We saw each other that weekend and were discussing plans for the future. I mentioned that I want to go back for a few months later this year- and he fell silent. I admit, I shouldn’t have brought this up at all. But I felt disingenuous not mentioning it because this is what I wanted to do with my future. He stayed silent on the way home and got out of my car and told me not to come in. I got emotional, babbled about losing myself in the relationship and I realized I needed a step back, and I asked him for a break. He said “okay” and slammed the door.
I took the time away to think. He called me saying he spoke to a therapist, didn’t want to lose me, and that he was so sorry and he would do better. This weekend, he came over to my parents house with flowers. I cooked us a meal, we ate together and talked, then I told him I couldn’t do it anymore. He asked when I stopped loving him and I told him the truth. That I loved him and I’m still in love with him, and that’s what made this so difficult. That I’d been fighting for months. That I missed myself and she was finally back. We’d both been growing, but separately. He said that his parents’ relationship shouldn’t have an effect on us. I told him that they didn’t, but the choices made after did. He told me he’d be willing to break up and wait for a few months, but I also can’t promise him something I can’t guarantee myself in the future. I gave him back the rings. We spent the night together crying, reminiscing and laughing.
I love him. I will always love him. I want to be with him, but I can’t right now. Actions have repercussions that we don’t always see until we hit the breaking point. I’m so heartbroken.
Could have done more, be more, do, something? How do I convince myself I did the right thing? Did I do the right thing?

Has anyone got opinions on what to do with physical patterns you aren't going to use or have finished with? I ended up with quite a few brand new Little House Needleworks patterns that are still in the ziplock bags, but I really don't like primitive style pieces personally so I'm never going to stitch these.
I kind of hate to take them to the thrift store and have them end up in the trash (they're literally just pieces of paper from a donation sorting perspective?) but I don't know anyone who wants them personally. I guess I could put them on Marketplace or something?
Any idea of what else I can do with these?

Really random, but it could be useful. If you tape a trash bag, tarp, blanket, or whatever to the bottom of the inside. You’d have to use duct tape and tape a decent way up the glass and tape the bag or whatever to your rows of tape and smash it. The tarp or whatever will catch everything above the tape and now you just have an open back window or windshield. For any reasons you could need that

Washer broke and my in laws have been doing our laundry while we move out in a few days. They live in another county and our schedules didn’t align so I just asked them to leave the bags at my door since we live on the 4th floor and no one else lives above us so I figured in the 4 years I have lived here and nothing has been stolen what can happen. Well I was wrong, we get home and my husbands work clothes and all his Nike fits are gone along with shirts he’s only worn a few times so I look for them in the big garbage cans and nothing so I knocked to the people that live next door and he apologized he had a friend over and his friend must’ve figured it was trash so the friend takes it so I tell him I really need the clothes back and he says he’ll text the friend to bring it back so 20 minutes later I hear a knock on his door and a minute after a hear a knock on mine and it’s my neighbor with my husbands clothes. He apologized and states his friend should’ve never taken them and I go to bed thinking everything is still there. WRONG my husband wakes up to go to work this morning and all his work pants are gone so I check the rest of the bags and sure enough all the shirts and Nike sweaters and pants are also gone. I was gonna let it go but it’s just too much money to reorder everything especially with the move so I left a note on their door and hope I get the clothes back. Any suggestions? I know it was a dumb move of mine but I never figured anything would get taken since we live on the very top floor

Grew up in NYC; lived in BTV a long time. I have yet to find a classic (meaning, inauthentically Chinese but authentically American take-out Chinese) egg roll up here--one that's as big around as a New World Tortilla burrito, with a thick deep fried wrapper, crammed tight with shredded cabbage and other veggies, so hefty you need to cut it in half, comes in a waxed paper bag. If you know what I'm talking about, can you help me satisfy this craving?

Hi all! First time trying these so I had a few questions. Hubby & I moved into a new apartment a few days ago and have seen 4 roaches of various sizes and types. We have someone coming out later this week to treat but we've also gotten these traps. We put out 5 of them so far around areas we may think they'd be.
My questions are: 1. Will this attract roaches from other units? 2. Should I expect to see an influx of roaches running around? We've only noticed them in the evening/night. 3. How close do the roaches have to be to the trap to "smell" it & want to go in? 4. Will disposing the full traps into my trash can attract more? Or should I put it in a ZipLoc bag and seal it?

So basically, I, 22 M, Live with my mom, brother (20 M), and other brother (9 M).
My dad drives truck on the road 24/7 and is never home and my younger sister got evicted.
My mom accuses me of all kinds of crap I didn't actually do and on top of that we have several ridiculous rules with no reason for them that we have to follow, and she saddles us with all her responsibilities while complaining even if we did what we were supposed to.
For starters let's talk about her pets, she has five cats, two dogs, two snakes, two birds, a tank full of fish, and a tortoise.
Somehow because she works a full shift even though she's weak and old and really shouldn't be on her feet like that, me and my brother are saddled with the responsibilities of taking care of all her pets on a daily. The majority of which are locked up in cages all day everyday.
Now I want you to know that all of these pets do in fact belong to her and my dad.
I didn't even mention my youngest brother's pet ferret, due to custody issues he's hardly ever here so we also have to take care of his ferret, additionally me and my brother are trying to focus on school and to add the fact that we have personal chores we have to do is even worse.
On average our chores take about 6 to 7 hours a day to finish, we must take out the dogs multiple times a day and feed them once a day, feed the cats both in and out of her bedroom and give water to the cats out of her bedroom twice a day, take care of our younger brothers ferret, take care of her two birds who have a specific diet and if we mess up feeding them even slightly too much we get yelled at. Then we have to clean the bathroom, wash the dishes, clean the kitchen, take out the trash, clean the floors some of which is carpet, some of which is tile, clean the laundry room and both living rooms, and apparently we are expected to do all of this daily.
I haven't even mentioned every single thing we have to do but it gets worse somehow, we don't even live in the house, now some chores I can understand like washing the dishes and keeping the bathroom clean because we use those spaces, but other stuff we don't even really go in so essentially we're tasked with her chores on top of our own and taking care of her pets which are a hassle.
Add to the fact that because since both dogs are pretty much constantly locked up, one ever since he was a puppy and was never potty trained, and the other probably locked up since she was a puppy and never potty trained either, one will poop in her cage, roll around in it and make a nasty mess which we have to clean up daily, and the other likes to scream and yelp his little behind off whenever we let the big one out, so on top of that we are also tasked with ignoring him until he's quiet so that he can go out too and if we don't let him out because he keeps whining then we get in trouble.
This leaves me almost no time during the day to get my studies done and or have time for myself.
God forbid we forget to do even one thing cuz we'll get screamed at, she's never happy and never thankful for anything we do and only looks at what we didn't do to complain at, I've never gotten a thank you for doing a single chore while living here.
I'm talked down to for my likes and my choices, I have my painful past hung over my head constantly, I'm told that I have issues and I need therapy when the one who's giving me issues is the one telling me to get therapy, and I'm constantly accused of things I didn't do or yelled at for the most miniscule things.
I've been accused of such ridiculous things as well, breaking random rules, stealing things, being a liar, and touching things I'm not supposed to touch, for example I've been accused of stealing and eating pork chops that weren't mine, stealing mail and bringing it over to the neighbors so that I can get my mail because I'm not allowed to touch the mailbox, and the latest incident includes turning the thermostat up to 84 in the middle of summer.
This most recent incident had her come to the door of the building adjacent to the main house where she sleeps in, knock on it and then start threatening me with violence, saying I was playing dumb and that I know what I did when clearly I didn't, she didn't even tell me what I had done wrong and we stood there going back and forth for about 5 minutes before she finally accused me of turning the thermostat to 84, now I want you to know I have no idea where the thermostat is, on top of that her excuse for why I would do such a thing was ridiculous saying I was mad about a rag that had to get thrown away, and now she won't let me go in the house unless she's there.
Add to the fact she works a full-time shift 5-6 days a week and the only hours that I was allowed in the house to begin with were between 10:00 a.m. and 10:00 p.m. so yeah this is ridiculous.
I know that this is technically illegal seeing as I pay her rent and I receive mail here which means I'm a tenant allowed to be inside the house, but I just don't see any way to go about this without jeopardizing my place to live before getting paid next month so that I can find a new place, I want to confront her but that could cause serious issues for me including homelessness.
I've had enough of her horrible behavior toward me but I'm scared to confront her, the reason I'm writing this post in the first place is because my brother had to go inside the house and make dinner for me, usually I'm the one who cooks but today since she's at work and I need to avoid trouble as much as possible he had to bring a plate out on the steps for me to eat outside, where we both subsequently got eaten up by mosquitoes.
I am begging for help and suggestions here, where I live the law states that an eviction process can take up to 25 days and costs $340 to file but that much should be nothing to her considering I just recently gave her rent less than a week ago.
Additionally she cannot kick me out for 30 days if I receive mail here but I don't know where this will go if I confront her.
I cannot cook my own meals, I cannot access the big bag of frozen chicken I just bought a couple days ago for meals, I can't go inside to wash my hands or take a shower and I stink horribly, I can't go inside to do my laundry, and I can't even use the box of hair dye that I just bought because I can't go wash it out after I put it in, I can't even brush my teeth anymore, the building in the back where me and my brother is sleep in has no toilet, no sink, no shower, no stove, and damn near all my toiletries are inside the house.
I am stuck in one of the most painful positions I have ever found myself in life, I've gone from a physically abused childhood to a mentally abused and neglected early adult life, again please help me!!!
I'm begging for your suggestions on what I should do.

I'm just confused why my friend got so much more threads than me : we're around level 50, pretty much did only dungeons and we're at 2000 vs 2300 threads.
Could this be just from trash loots? I usually try to loot but sometimes i just keep walking. We're both on first character, idk if that would make a difference.
Also there's this ONE thread in my bags that i cant use for some reasons.

For context: I live in a low income NYC apartment. I have had a pipe leaking for over a year. It would flood the hallway and bathroom and damaged several floors below us. It would sound like a waterfall behind the walls whenever our neighbor above used their bathroom. It was caused by the tub from the apartment above. After the year mark they finally fixed the pipes but not the walls. This leak was from the bathroom and kitchen shared wall. My daughter’s room shares the adjacent wall with the bathroom and has had water damage as well to that wall. When the leak was going on they cut power to the only outlet in the bathroom. The lights could turn on but we couldn’t use the outlet on the wall that’s shared with the kitchen. They have since turned it on but that is all they have done so far. The walls are crumbing the bathroom wall and kitchen is almost non existent and they used trash bags, cardboard, and duct tape to cover it. Now to my question: my daughter hasn’t been able to use her air conditioner since the leaks began without tripping the breaker box. Which was possible before the leaks. My room and my sons room also share the same circuit with my daughter but we are fine to turn both on at the same time. But if me and her or my son and her ACs are on then it trips. Could this be due to water damage? She’s tried it on the wall adjacent to the damaged wall with the same result. Our rooms are small so we only use 5k BTUs with energy saver on. I want to notify them if the electrical has also been affected or they won’t bother to fix it or even check themselves.

Alright, so we will start from the top.
When first dating my husband there were comments from his family herd secondhand from others that knew his family.
Comments like, "You know she's dated A LOT of guys before you."- my father in law. And "You guys should just try long distance"- Sister in law. There was the incident where his Mom came to my husband crying and begging for his sister's to be in the wedding as my brides maids even though I didn't know them very well and his one sister thinking we were moving too fast.
There's the awkward me having to tell my father in law my weight in front of multiple family members on a family reunion trip. Making me feel really uncomfortable because I had gained weight and I knew it..
The overall feeling invisible and out of place in the room at most reunions. Not really having the same option or challenging beliefs of others. Most of the time I want to have deep conversations and not just surface level conversations. That and his family is really into sports, which good for them, but I am definitely more of a lets garden and read a good book kinda gal.
Basically, I am the married in black sheep and to be honest that's okay with me. What's not okay is this tale I am about to tell. Sit down and get comfortable.
At the recent family reunion it seemed to start off awful my kids get MAJOR carsick (I have 4) and my daughter throws up on the way to said event. Leaving us to realize we left our bathroom bag at home. Which no big deal, till I have no glasses with me and if your blind like me you know when contacts come out and no glasses are on might as well be completely blind.
We make it to said reunion and we are paired with another family with young kids my husband is 1 of 6. All the young children are supposed to share a room next to ours upstairs. I told my husband I was nervous about this and he tells me his usual, "It'll be fine"
Naturally it wasn't. We kept our youngest in with us who kept me up all night since I was brest feeding and my husband's nipples are useless. So when I say I was up all night, it was literally just me up all night. Not to mention my kids aren't the kind that sleep anywhere and they have internal alarm clocks of 630-7am there's no sleeping in for them unless they are ill. It was frustrating because I would go to put my kids to sleep and 30 minutes later their kids would come in and be super loud and wake my kids up. I'm sleep deprived they are sleep deprived and not to mention I probably live in burn out 90% of the time due to not having any community or family support.
On day 3 of trip I am then tasked with watching additional children without my consent. Like one parent was out exercising another left to go with pretty much everyone else to play basketball. My MIL was at breakfast with some of her friends. So, it's me and 6 kids at a random air bnb somewhere cold and I am exhausted. (Don't worry, I had that beef out with my husband later)
Did I mention that some of the family came with covid?
The next day the whole family was supposed to go on a hike but it would have been an hour and a half drive to the hike and an hour and a half back. We were to leave the day after and our drive to the reunion was the longest. So, we told them no not happening my MIL wasn't happy.
That night my youngest was having a hard time sleeping and started to develop a cough I thought greeeeeat is this covid? I LOUDLY announce my kids are going to sleep before heading over to our house that we are sharing. As my husband and I are trying to get our kids to sleep. My SIL decided it was the perfect time and place to bathe her kids loudly in the bathroom that is IN the kids room. Despite there being 2 additional bathrooms. My husband popped his head in and asked them to be quiet that their cousins were trying to go to bed. Ignored by the SIL.
When all kids were finally asleep I went down to grab some medicine. For my youngest and my MIL asks for probably the 3rd time if we could change our mind about going on the hike. I said no not happening. She asked if there was anything else wrong. To which I looked at my sister in law and said "Hey could you use a different bathroom next time? Or tell us when you're putting your kids to bed tomorrow night. It was kindof inconsiderate when I was putting my kids down to wake them up and be that loud.." her response, "I didn't know" I said "okay, tomorrow night can you use a different bathroom?" She said okay and halfway up the stairs I hear it..
"I have been so freaking nice to her can you believe that?!.. " and goes on to trash talk me more with her husband and my 2 in laws. I walked back down and said if you have something to say then say it to my face.
To which my MIL gets involved and said, "You should have said something in the moment." And told her that she was being too loud (not knowing at this point my husband DID). You should have told her to move. To which she chimes in and says, "It's their bathroom too!" To which I then say "There are 3 bathrooms in this house I am exhausted, my kids are exhausted, and now I am being told I am wrong for asking you to use a different bathroom?" My MIL dismissed me and told me to go to bed.
I was livid. I was dismissed and treated like a child. My in laws let her talk shit about me and didn't even defend me and apparently people are doing me a favor by being nice to me? I was DONE.
I told my husband what happened and that I wanted to leave that I was over this and treated with disrespect. He said that's fine I get it. I packed up and we were going to leave. My MIL saw this the next morning and cried told me I was being selfish gaslit me and told me I attacked my SIL that didn't I see her crying? I was like nope because when my contacts are out I can't see.
My husband let her and my father in law rip into me. (He said he didn't want to be involved big betrayal to me that we have had to work through) I tried to talk to my SIL and apologize if it came off as me :attacking her" as my MIL put it. And she walked away from me and wouldn't even let me talk to her. It was awful. If you, "Love" someone and want them to feel like family idk about you, but this ain't the family for me.
I have since distanced myself there was back in forward emails with my MIL about what I "should" have done. Lots of I'm sorry, but's.. and I wasn't about to deal. I told her we can disagree and give our relationship space. She tried sending a letter asking to start over, but never truly apologizing. My SIL too. Nothing.
I can take a lot of crap in my life truly. And I have. But this. This was just too much. I decided boundaries are the best way to go. I'd be cordial, but I am NEVER going to a family reunion again. And to be honest, I don't want to have a relationship with any of them because to me it's toxic and manipulative. I apologized for using a tone, but I never yelled as my MIL claimed. And as far as asking someone to be more mindful of my kids I am not going to say that I am sorry for it.
Months later after me no contact with my MIL she calls me to, "hash it out". She starts off with that "she's sorry, but that there seems to be something else going on with me.. I have been a part of the family for so long to act out with such "anger" (because she's still claiming that I was or am angry) I have to have something else wrong." I told her there have been instances over the years and interactions with family members that don't make me feel like I belong. I was candid and volunerable with her. Wrong. Move.
"Wow it sounds like you have a lot of insecurities that you may need to work through have you thought about seeing a therapist for your mental health?" -MIL
I am ALL about mental health, therapy is for EVERYONE. But WTF. I set a boundary she doesn't like it now I need therapy, because I don't want to play nice and be manipulated? Then halfway through the conversation of me defending myself and reliving the trauma I already experienced she says, "well, maybe I have nothing to be sorry for.." there it is folks. Can we say narcissist?
What are YOUR thoughts?

Hey! I need some help here because I don't know what to do. Please don't judge me, I've been severely burnout for the last month, I tried really hard keeping up with the whole house. So a few weeks ago I threw some meat in a trash bag planning to throw it away the next day (I live in Spain so the communitary trash is not in front of my house), however I started my finals stats next day so I forgot there was meat in the bag. A couple of days ago I 2 dead worms on the floor and I remembered I fucked up. I'm absolutely terrified of insects, worms etc so I'm so scared to pick the bag up and go down three floors and walking to the community trash bin. I do have autism also so the thought of a worm touching the bag I'm touching makes me feel super bad to the point I don't enter the kitchen since the day I saw that. I'm so scared Idk what to do, how do i deal with this. I have no one to ask for help to do it for me, they will judge me so bad.

I really appreciate this channel so much.
So, I have read that throwing away a hoarder’s belongings can be explosively traumatic. And given my theory that my mother’s hoarding is linked to her own mother discarded her belongings as a teen, I worry about it retriggering her trauma.
That said…..I need some advice.
My folks live in a large house. Not a McMansion or anything, but a four bedroom split level…a nice home that they have pretty well beaten to hell.
Most of the rooms are stuffed with junk. I’ve had some small victories in her allowing me to haul broken furniture and appliances to the dump, but when it comes to anything else, it’s a no go.
I feel like I could trash several bags of old clothes (clothes from the 70s and 80s…..gaudy, ridiculous stuff by today’s standards), board games, and books (SO MANY BOOKS) without her ever knowing.
How risky would this be to you all?

Ok so first of all I am a user with 2 years of playing the mobile version,1.5 Years playing tarkov and i have been playing the PC version this late weaks and always made sure to stay over 1.7M on my stash
I am going to try to explain and prove why this game is not gone be p2w or focus to trick you to buy gear and koens.
First, about all the stupid nonsense about the devs wanting to sell koens in the final version
On this interview from Insider gaming, they interview the main Producer lead, where he assures that no MTX will let you buy Koens in the final version or puss you to do it.
(https://insider-gaming.com/interview-arena-breakout-infinite-with-producer-onrry-sun/)
Here i post the direct line Yiming Sun says:
(However, it’s important to note that players who pay gain no direct advantage in combat abilities. The in-game economic system will not be designed to push players to “pay for in-game money.” We will ensure that the majority of players can get sufficient in-game money without paying to support a positive gaming experience.)
OK so once we got that clear out off the way let's go with the problem about the player base not being able to make profit in raids.
In tarkov people tend to make loot runs and full their backpacks with junk loot, which its not a bad option if your SUPER broken, but i can assure you,FOCUS on PVP more that picking trash on the floors,most items are color coded for a reason, and grey its the worst,if you fill up your bag with only trash white items dont expect to get more than 35k.
This game Whole core design its about getting in a raid,killing,looting the hot spots and safes,extract and repeat
I am not saying that loot runs are useless, you can still profit doing loot runs whit pistols and sks, but making a good amount off money with this strat is gona be longer than improving on PVP skills
,you can do loot runs IF you know where to loot, the main problem is that the CURRENT maps that are in the beta are IMP the worst for starter players,
First we got the Farm map, a map that its shaped like a BANANA (You wonder why i point this out),
Its gotta do with the way the players rotate across the map,lets assume that you Spawn in the villa side off the map,
this means that if you want to extract you will run into players at one point,since your extract its on the left side off the map and the other teams sits on the right side,also if you try to rotate across the far sides off the map you will eventually AGRO 1 single scav and the entire half map will ear you and rush you,THIS IS WHY many players hate the current state off PVP,players need bigger maps,Valley its ok FOR NOW, the only solution It's to add more maps like Northridge, which it's not banana shape, and it will prov be the best map
Also lets talk about the 4 squad man discord groups,i heard allot off people its been running into them, its normal,
since there are only 2 maps,in the mobile version we used to have a similar issue were most off the normal Farm raids were full off t5 and t6 chads, the only solution i can give it's to wait for them to add Armory, which its like a more open version map were 99% off gigachads in the mobile run when they want fast money.
Also you need to understand that the game its focus on playing with friends, they want you to run whit your homies,so they can recover your loot if you die,the economy may seem unbalanced but its actually really smart,every rare item its worth at least 50-80k which its enough for a basic kit,but at the same time stuff like bullets armor,and guns are extremely expensive,this way we don't require wipes,since most average players will never stack craize amounts off Koens, so the average player will not be running T6 and killing new player base
AND NO! ,its not made that way so you Swipe your card every time you die to a noob with a UZY,
If you want to run M4s with m995 bullets every raid you gotta WORK for it,and i mean REALLY work it,since the average t6 loadout costs around 300k
many people come from the Super broken economy in tarkov where every end wipe people stack 50-80M rubles,
But you have to understand, in order to make the game free WIPE you need to make most items worth dog shit and make the rare items REALLY valuable ,cuz if every item was worth at least 20k,many people will spend days running VALLEY and picking trash only to then have Millions on their stash.
The devs DON'T want that to happen in their game,cuz then people who enter the game will be greeted whit old player base running full m61 t6 loadouts.And for a Life service game that ITS TERRIBLE.
Also you about the player base running whit poor loadouts,you need to understand that the game not only has ping matchmaking, it also has a lobby loadout value filter.
So 4example,les assume you and your homie run a Valley lockdown macht were your both running with mp5 and basic t4 loadouts, around (90k each one),the system will make sure to put you in a macht with the similar money range players,so if every time you go in a raid with a T3 and a ak74 with PS bullets don't expect to kill squads full off juice loot.
I hope i provided more info and resolved questions,i see allot off randoms saying craize things and misinfo, pls just wait for the game in the global launch, this ITS NOT TARKOV ,the game will not stay in this state forever like many modern games, it will go UP from now on.
Ask any question below or doubt you have,ill try respond them

So I'm living near to an ASDA car park in the UK and every now and then some local lads show up revving their engines in their punto or their clio for 5 or 10 minutes at a time 3 or 4 times a night. They're fine, we've all been that age showing off to your mates, trying to impress the girls, not my cup of tea and I haven't personally done it this way but whatever..
This last 2 weeks, a new batch of dickheads have shown up in what appears to be spaceships that make the LOUDEST put-put sound every time their car does ANYTHING. This is an absolute new breed of trash bag. 11am through till 3am most nights i can expect these fucking little pricks to show up and just cause as much fucking noise as they can.
I'm pretty sure the car park has cameras up everywhere so with that in mind, how can I fuck these little dickheads tin cans up without obviously getting caught or causing any unnecessary damage to any innocent parties property in the process?

I'm a lifelong backpack-wearer, but my wife and I recently spent two weeks in Japan, which changed my outlook on EDC. I never wanted to wear the heavy/bulky backpack, so I spent most of the trip with a canvas tote, while my wife used her Uniqlo crescent sling. The trip has made me want to convert to the sling lifestyle, but I'm having a hard time picking one for my needs after reading a ton and watching lots of reviews.
Normal/at-home EDC

• iPhone 13 mini
  
• Airpods
  
• Slim/card wallet
  
• Chapstick
  
• Maybe a charging cable/dongle or two
  
• Possibly a small water bottle
  
• Also have a kid on the way, so this will probably soon expand to a diaper or two
  

While traveling or on longer outings

• The real challenge - Fujifilm XT30 ii; currently I just have the kit lens which I know is all-but impossible for anything smaller than 6-8L, but I intend to buy the 27mm pancake lens, so consider my options according to that form factor
  
• Passport
  
• Spare cash
  
• Anker 20k mAh power bank
  
• Possibly small umbrella or rain jacket
  
• Hand sanitizer
  
• Small plastic bags for trash
  

I'm personally less interested in "pocket clearing" and would be open to some things being outside the sling e.g. phone/wallet/chapstick or umbrella. To me, it's more about carrying the "extras" like the camera, airpods, cables, powerbank, etc. that would need to go in a bag regardless of form factor.
I've basically narrowed it down to three bags, (but am open to suggestions otherwise):

• Aer Day Sling 3 (tight fit, but seems like it would conceivably work and provide the sleekest/smallest form-factor)
  
• Bellroy Venture 6L (also tight fit, but reviews seem like it could work and I don't really want to get any bigger due to size/bulk/weight)
  
• Patagonia Atom 8L (seems like a good compromise of aesthetics and overall room, at the cost of less organization; also don't love the single-shoulder design, but strap seems the most comfortable)
  

Some of the priorities I'm looking for in the bag itself:

• Sleek/small form factor - I don't want a big/bulky/square bag. I'm looking more for the aesthetics of like Japanese/Korean fashion than "messenger bag, but worn on the back." I also have a small frame (5'6" 130lbs, male) and don't want to be dwarfed by the bag.
  
• Top priority for capacity is probably fitting the "normal" EDC plus camera for street photography
  
• Comfort/fit - I'd like it to be comfortable for all-day wear, especially with heavier items like the camera or water, I'd prefer it not to slide too much (i.e. stay on my back when walking), and ideally I can switch between shoulders, though I can part with that if the Atom or similar is truly the best choice.
  
• Organization - I love how the Aer and Bellroy have lots of organized, separated pockets while still retaining the large main pocket, but again, I can probably give this up if something like the Atom is the best choice
  

TL;DR: For EDC plus XT30 ii with pancake lens, plus possibly a few other small things, should I go with the Aer Day Sling 3, Bellroy Venture 6, or Patagonia Atom? Or something else?

So I was REALLY sick for like 3 wks after coming back from seeing my daddy. What I thought was severe migraines was something else. During that time I had my only refill for my arthritis meds filled. This stuff is like gold for my all over 2 types of crippling crappy arthritis. I took one prescription out of the little med bag but not my arthritis meds. My daughter was getting the bedside trash from my room & I tossed the bag in the trash. 🫢 She didn't hear anything & I was so lethargic that I wasn't thinking. I'm on day 3 with no meds & I'm in pain, swollen, stiff & mean. I'm hoping my orthopedic surgeon will call in a new prescription tomorrow. Insurance won't pay for it, so $$$ I'll have to sell a kidney 🤣. So 🙋‍♀️ here I am feeling like a moron.

I’m throwing my toddler a cat themed party soon and found these set of what would be the party favors BUT after reading several posts about Knick knacks and plastic ‘junk’ in the trash I don’t want to spend money on something that will just be thrown out.
Personally I wouldn’t mind what is being offered here especially the bag, but I’d love to hear what you guys think.
P.S. I put junk in quotation marks because my toddlers current favorite toy is a Pom Pom and a little plastic car he got in Easter. So one moms junk is a toddlers treasure!
Package includes: 12 x Squeeze toys 12 x Paw print rubber bracelets 12 x Cats make-a-face stickers 12 x Kawaii pens 12 x Cat keychains 18 x Spiral cat notebooks 12 x Cat drawstring backpacks 1 Bag cat stickers (50 styles)
12 kids so one of each and several stickers