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Jessica Chastain

2012.02.28 17:40 jesuz Jessica Chastain

Fansite for actress Jessica Chastain
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2016.01.11 19:17 ShowBaggs Olivia Taylor Dudley pics and info.

Post your pics of the hot actress Olivia Taylor Dudley. Some of her films include; Chernobyl Diaries and The Vatican tapes.
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2012.05.20 05:41 Barbara Palvin

Reddit's arrogance in all but ignoring the mods needs has resulted in only harming our users. This sub went dark due to the terrible handling of Reddit's API pricing changes and policy decisions. /Save3rdPartyApps/. Under duress and for the benefit of our users, we are reopening the Subreddit despite this issue not being resolved.
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2024.06.09 04:29 LastChancellor Berbakti sampai drop out UI

Sejak saya mulai berkutat dalam komunitas Arknights dari 2021 sampai sekarang di 2024, saya susah payah dengan sendiri membuat berbagai macam panduan & konten untuk komunitas Arknights, beberapa contoh:
Selain konten yang saya inisiatif sendiri, saya juga dengan rela mengerjakan pertanggung-jawaban komunitas Arknights, bahkan ketika jadwal Arknights bentrok dengan kuliah saya:
Dan selain mengerjakan konten, saya juga sudah mengorbankan hampir semua waktu saya untuk membantu menjawab pertanyaan di semua sosmed Arknights; mulai dari reddit, Twitter, Facebook, dan segala jenis server Discord Arknights dari yang paling kelas kakap seperti server official & Rhodes Island HQ, sampai yang paling kelas receh seperti Krinjnek.
Saya rela mengorbankan segala hal untuk berbakti kepada komunitas Arknights, karena saya sangat amat mencintai Arknights dan komunitasnya, sehingga saya sangat amat ingin komunitas Arknights berkembang dari dunianya yang sempit.
Dan saya sendiri sudah melihat apa yang terjadi ketika tidak ada orang yang mau bertanggung-jawab untuk berbakti pada sebuah daerah komunitas Arknights, maka daerah tersebut akan langsung terporak-porandakan dengan misinformasi dan spoiler
Tapi
Orang tua mengira saya cuma main game, universitas tidak mau mengakui pekerjaan saya sebagai magang, dan dalam komunitas Arknights sendiri, tidak ada yang mau meneruskan perjuangan saya, jadi saya dari 2021 sampai sekarang terpaksa mengerjakan semuanya sendiri.
Dan pada akhirnya, setelah menghabiskan 12 semester, sekarang saya terpaksa drop out dari fakultas Teknik Elektro UI, karena saya tidak ada Waktu lagi untuk mengerjakan skripsi saya.
Tidak ada ijazah, tidak ada pengalaman kerja, tidak ada resume;
Apakah saya tidak punya harapan lagi untuk hidup?
Mohon maaf kalau anda tidak percaya bahwa saya drop out, saya bisa menunjukkan riwayat kuliah saya kalau anda mau
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2024.06.08 13:55 Mouseymouse44 Very depressed woman in my 20's. Scrolled through my Instagram reels and made a note of the kind of content of each reel. It's genuinely pretty horrific.

Heyo, as the title says, I marked down the type of content I was shown on each reel in my notepad. The fact I'm depressed and my gender I think affects the data so I included it. I had a few ads and benign posts here and there so I didn't mark them down. To clarify. This is ten minutes of reels.
For "coupletrap" I mean the kinds of relationship tiktoks that make the couples relationship look incredible and lovely while giving you 0 information about those people. Usually targeted at single people or those unhappy with their partners. Thirst trap is pretty self explanatory: hot guys, hot girls, flexing or saying/doing something hot into the camera. The romanticising partner abuse may be surprising. My last partner was physically abusive to me. So the reels have gone from "here's what to do if you think someone is hurting you" to people defending it, text boxes about how it's good with hyperpop music, people showing marks / scars / etc. Guys talking about what they'd do to hurt women. Again with filters and music and it's all way way too much. I understand kink and consensual stuff like that but trust me this is not that. And I watch them because it scares me and holds my attention.
The fact the algorithm shows you things you "want" to see as someone who's borderline suicidal is quite a terrifying concept. Especially since a lot of the data of me being mentally unwell will be gathered from searches of me trying to seek out therapy, coping strategies, and methods to get well.
The internet knowing you as a mentally ill person is a bit like giving a manipulative partner every single secret and dark thought you have for them to use against you. Facebook, tiktok twitter, YouTube, heck even Reddit are not your friends. They will do anything. Including jeapordise your wellbeing drastically. To sell you ads.
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2024.06.07 22:22 rbt_rndll ISO Healing foils

Hey all. I've been trying like heck to track down the phantom spheres, fountain or song of storms FS Healing print. No luck on EBeans or in WCEO on Facebook. Any chance someone in here has got one they'd part with (or know someone that does)? Thanks!
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2024.06.07 21:26 lazymentors How Internet is reacting to IG boycott, Pinterest success & new brand collaborations?

The latest Friday review and marketing insights are out on newsletter, one of the sections is below. Let me know what you think:

What did Internet say?

  1. People, including some advertisers aren’t happy about unskippable ads on Instagram.
    1. In January, TikTok’s report came out sharing unskippable ads may harm engagement.
  2. A new study from Pinterest is making marketers thirsty to join the platform. Why? It shares the platform generates 170% more total attention than other platforms.
    1. I love Pinterest but the platform gaslights you a lot. First, they need to highlight engaged audience on profile instead of total audience. The Total metric is similar to X’s post views. Having more total audience aka views means nothing if people aren’t engaging.
    2. About the study, Pinterest talking about a passive and active attention is important. Most marketers are only after attention as we discussed in a previous post, understanding attention theory is a must.
    3. Yes, People enjoy content on Pinterest as they claim in the study. But people aren’t happy about your ads, the study shows biased in that part.
      1. Most brands aren’t Pinterest-first, A lot of repurposing going. Making people hate the ad experience, Pinterest needs brands that follow more rules of creativity than performance.
  3. Departure of Virginie Viard from Chanel is kind of being celebrated by fashion lovers.
  4. GQ’s Article ‘Merch is dead’ is getting roasted by Internet’s best newsletters, short answer: Merch is very much alive. My Reads:
    1. Why is wearing merch so embarrassing? by emily north.
    2. Everything is Merch from Ana Andjelic and Eugene Rabkin.
  5. Protests against AI training: Adobe and Meta are getting called out for their new terms of use.
    1. First a little rant: INSTAGRAM SUCKS FOR RESEARCH.
      1. There is a viral ‘add yours’ template where creators are sharing their anger against AI. I saw it once in a random story, I can’t find that story or template because there is no feature to do so.
      2. Hashtags no longer show the layout to see recent posts or stories.
    2. #metai #creatorsagainstai and few other hashtags highlight how artists are leaving Meta over AI terms.
      1. Part of the problem is opting out of AI training is not easy. EU’s Noyb has already filed complaint against AI, let’s see what happens in US.
  6. Brand Collaborations getting love: Dunkin x Scrub Daddy and Vacation Sunscreen x Erewhon Smoothie.
  7. Meta Advertisers: Music on Image Ads is a no + Meta’s test to have multiple objectives under 1 campaign is kind of useless and cash grab.
  8. Against the Trend: Dr. Harini Bhat’s 20 minute-long video summary of Flight MH370 felt like a 5-minute video. A masterclass in engaging video storytelling.
  9. 🍲 Chipotle: I feel bad for Chipotle’s marketing team, they created the perfect social media post. Only to have their CEO’s interview mess things up, people are now trolling his interview.
  10. Recommendations: Christina Garnett’s podcast with copywriting legend, Vikki Ross + A mega post sharing e-commerce funnel creation and examples.
  11. Updated Insight: The TikTok guide shared duets and stitches can help your content reach more relevant audiences, as the link juice travels from one video to other.
    1. This recent post from Joanna Williams hinted at another use-case, using amount of organic stitches and duets with creator’s video as a metric for Influencer selection.
  12. The Worst: Spotify’s CEO tweets about cost of content being zero. The Online Community didn’t like that, probably because content isn’t free.
    1. Because of CEOs like him, the word ‘content’ is becoming meaningless.
Read the complete post here, and do upvote if you liked what was shared, see you on Sunday with marketing news version. 🧃
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2024.06.07 21:11 Kylegreenbeans AITAH for thinking Pride Month and corporations promoting it is nothing but a way for them to make money?

Yep, that’s right I said, companies like Facebook, instagram, or whoever uses pride month and suddenly change their logos into a rainbow is nothing but marketing.
Heck google over here is putting a famous man advocating for gay rights on their website. But in the end, these types of companies don’t really care that much about pride month. It is all just a marketing stunt or campaign, advocating for something they really don’t believe in, all just to make money.
Sorry LGBTQ people but these companies don’t care about you guys. And heck, I don’t really believe in this LGBSATAN crap too. So am I the asshole?
Also I’m new to this subreddit so may need some help uwu.
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2024.06.07 21:06 lazymentors Pinterest meets Reddit, then the Instagram boycott thing. What's up?

The latest Friday review and marketing insights are out on newsletter, one of the sections is below. Let me know what you think:

What did Internet say?

  1. People, including some advertisers aren’t happy about unskippable ads on Instagram.
    1. In January, TikTok’s report came out sharing unskippable ads may harm engagement.
  2. A new study from Pinterest is making marketers thirsty to join the platform. Why? It shares the platform generates 170% more total attention than other platforms.
    1. I love Pinterest but the platform gaslights you a lot. First, they need to highlight engaged audience on profile instead of total audience. The Total metric is similar to X’s post views. Having more total audience aka views means nothing if people aren’t engaging.
    2. About the study, Pinterest talking about a passive and active attention is important. Most marketers are only after attention as we discussed in a previous post, understanding attention theory is a must.
    3. Yes, People enjoy content on Pinterest as they claim in the study. But people aren’t happy about your ads, the study shows biased in that part.
      1. Most brands aren’t Pinterest-first, A lot of repurposing going. Making people hate the ad experience, Pinterest needs brands that follow more rules of creativity than performance.
  3. Departure of Virginie Viard from Chanel is kind of being celebrated by fashion lovers.
  4. GQ’s Article ‘Merch is dead’ is getting roasted by Internet’s best newsletters, short answer: Merch is very much alive. My Reads:
    1. Why is wearing merch so embarrassing? by emily north.
    2. Everything is Merch from Ana Andjelic and Eugene Rabkin.
  5. Protests against AI training: Adobe and Meta are getting called out for their new terms of use.
    1. First a little rant: INSTAGRAM SUCKS FOR RESEARCH.
      1. There is a viral ‘add yours’ template where creators are sharing their anger against AI. I saw it once in a random story, I can’t find that story or template because there is no feature to do so.
      2. Hashtags no longer show the layout to see recent posts or stories.
    2. #metai #creatorsagainstai and few other hashtags highlight how artists are leaving Meta over AI terms.
      1. Part of the problem is opting out of AI training is not easy. EU’s Noyb has already filed complaint against AI, let’s see what happens in US.
  6. Brand Collaborations getting love: Dunkin x Scrub Daddy and Vacation Sunscreen x Erewhon Smoothie.
  7. Meta Advertisers: Music on Image Ads is a no + Meta’s test to have multiple objectives under 1 campaign is kind of useless and cash grab.
  8. Against the Trend: Dr. Harini Bhat’s 20 minute-long video summary of Flight MH370 felt like a 5-minute video. A masterclass in engaging video storytelling.
  9. 🍲 Chipotle: I feel bad for Chipotle’s marketing team, they created the perfect social media post. Only to have their CEO’s interview mess things up, people are now trolling his interview.
  10. Recommendations: Christina Garnett’s podcast with copywriting legend, Vikki Ross + A mega post sharing e-commerce funnel creation and examples.
  11. Updated Insight: The TikTok guide shared duets and stitches can help your content reach more relevant audiences, as the link juice travels from one video to other.
    1. This recent post from Joanna Williams hinted at another use-case, using amount of organic stitches and duets with creator’s video as a metric for Influencer selection.
  12. The Worst: Spotify’s CEO tweets about cost of content being zero. The Online Community didn’t like that, probably because content isn’t free.
    1. Because of CEOs like him, the word ‘content’ is becoming meaningless.
Read the complete post here, and do upvote if you liked what was shared, see you on Sunday with marketing news version. 🧃
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2024.06.07 21:06 YentaMagenta I sincerely feel bad for folks flocking to Cara

I admit the headline is click-/rage-baity, but I also mean it.
Here's the TLDR: Cara is a lovely idea that currently lacks a viable long-term business model. Surviving in a form that reflects its current principles will require acts of charity or a sea-change in the public's willingness to pay for social media.
I think we can agree that Instagram and Facebook have become an annoying morass of promoted content and outright advertising. I hope we can also agree that the content-farm AI-generated images taking over Facebook are obnoxious (albeit sometimes hilarious). For people who were purely interested in seeing/promoting photography, Instagram is no longer home. As for DeviantArt, I can't even fully wrap by brain around whatever drama is happening there.
Given the enshittification of popular social media platforms, who could blame creatives for seeking something new that is simple and free of paid content and AI? I do both real-world photography and AI art. But I might very well be willing to shell out for a platform that served me high-effort content free of advertising and algorithmic interference—even with the restriction that I could only post my non-AI work there.
Unfortunately for all of us, the long-term viability of such a platform is questionable, even before any staunchly AI stances are taken into account. Operating and hosting an image-based social media platform is expensive and labor intensive. For Cara, these costs are compounded by the fact that they intend to scan for AI generated images—something which does not even reliably work. There is also, of course, the need for ongoing protections/moderation to prevent illegal/abusive content.
Then consider that the users of Cara are going to be strongly inclined to try to ferret out and report anything they suspect has even a whiff of AI. This is a content moderation nightmare. Either you're too strict and creators of non-AI content get frustrated for being blocked or banned—whether because of false positives or false accusations. Or you're too lenient and anti-Ai creatives rebel when the platform sees increasing amounts of content that contains at least some AI. Put all of this together and you have a recipe for at best a walled garden and at worst a corral of recrimination.
It remains to be seen whether the masses care enough about their selfies and Insta stories being digested by AI to want to abandon their established accounts and the network effects of entrenched social media. To give an example, Elon Musk is a liar, a racist, and increasingly unhinged. (Sorry, but facts are facts, Muskrats.) But this has yet to bring about Twitter's complete downfall. It thus seems unlikely that normies are going to abandon their social media over generative AI concerns. This would mean that artists who restrict themselves to Cara miss out on essential opportunities to market to a broad audience.
I therefore see three main categories of possible outcome for Cara:
One is short- or long-term collapse. Maybe they get more near-term angel investing or crowd funding, maybe they don't. But either way the money runs out someday and the party ends. Another possibility is that they are forced to renege on some of their promises/principles. This could mean anything from bringing in advertising and paid content, to softening their stance/enforcement regarding artwork that incorporates AI. And finally they could experience a miracle and discover that angel investors and/or the public at large are willing to pay in perpetuity for an ad-free and ostensibly "AI-free" experience. (I use the scare quotes because keeping all AI out still seems like a losing battle).
All in all, the chances that Cara continues to exist in a form that pleases its current user base seem remote. But if this turns out to be the dawn of mass-scale, wholly noncommercial social media for high-quality art, then I'll celebrate right along with the artists.
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2024.06.07 19:34 Open-Culture-5711 Rover Fanart

Rover Fanart
Hello! I haven’t fixed my username yet (I kinda just started on reddit), and I would like to showcase my recent WuWa fanart!
I have different social media handles, if you’d like to see more of my works, here are my respective accounts:
Twitter: @kaiiirine Instagram: @kktx Facebook: Kai Illust Tiktok: @kaiirine Cara: @kaiirine
I just got back from drawing and this is the recent glowup of my art. I would like to hear and read your thoughts about my recent work! :DD
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2024.06.07 13:41 Shotgunn19 Social Media Advice

Social Media Advice
Hey everyone,
I wanted to get some advice from you all. I'm a digital artist for fun, I don't earn any money from it with the very rare exception of a commission but over the past year or so have found an art style that enjoy drawing. The drawings have attached are just a few drawings Ive done so far this year and you can see that they range from self portraits to drag queens to Pokémon and other fan art drawings along with some friends and family artwork.
The advice wanted to get is to do with social media. I am on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, TikTok and as of a few days ago, Cara aswell. I've always only had a small following on Instagram and never seemed to pass 100 or so likes on a post but now I'm finding lI'm barely getting past 10 likes on a post and it's all people know. do all of the techniques I've heard to help increase you followers like the use of hashtags, being active, engaging with followers in stories and engagement with other accounts but they don't seem to do anything other then making some artist friends online
I know I said don't earn money from the drawing and I do it for fun but as many of us on here Would agree, it's nice to get some sort of reactionand feedback for the hard work that we are proud of.
So the advice lI'm looking for is what have you found works for you to get some more engagement on your posts and increase your following. Also if anybody has been Shadow banned on Instagram how do you know because am cautious that it has happened to people and am unsure if this could bea reason for the lack of engagement
It probably would be a silly idea to make this post and not plug my page incase any of you wanna be friends on insta and keep up to date on my other drawings. My page is shotgunnproductions_art
I hope you all have a lovely day and any advice would be appreciated even if it's advice on how to improve my artwork
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2024.06.07 13:40 Shotgunn19 Social Media Advice

Social Media Advice
Hey everyone,
I wanted to get some advice from you all. I'm a digital artist for fun, I don't earn any money from it with the very rare exception of a commission but over the past year or so have found an art style that enjoy drawing. The drawings have attached are just a few drawings Ive done so far this year and you can see that they range from self portraits to drag queens to Pokémon and other fan art drawings along with some friends and family artwork.
The advice wanted to get is to do with social media. I am on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, TikTok and as of a few days ago, Cara aswell. I've always only had a small following on Instagram and never seemed to pass 100 or so likes on a post but now I'm finding lI'm barely getting past 10 likes on a post and it's all people know. do all of the techniques I've heard to help increase you followers like the use of hashtags, being active, engaging with followers in stories and engagement with other accounts but they don't seem to do anything other then making some artist friends online
I know I said don't earn money from the drawing and I do it for fun but as many of us on here Would agree, it's nice to get some sort of reactionand feedback for the hard work that we are proud of.
So the advice lI'm looking for is what have you found works for you to get some more engagement on your posts and increase your following. Also if anybody has been Shadow banned on Instagram how do you know because am cautious that it has happened to people and am unsure if this could bea reason for the lack of engagement
It probably would be a silly idea to make this post and not plug my page incase any of you wanna be friends on insta and keep up to date on my other drawings. My page is shotgunnproductions_art
I hope you all have a lovely day and any advice would be appreciated even if it's advice on how to improve my artwork
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2024.06.07 10:14 gin9429 AITOO that keeps on receiving m*rder/d3ath-related content from facebook?

im so tired of facebook giving me contents that are not something that i would rlly like to see. i often just scroll past these types of photos/videos/documentaries but just now, i had a mini heart attack from a screaming guy that was on my feed. what the heck am i supposed to do??
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2024.06.07 04:20 Guilty_Cattle9081 I took all of my art off of Meta this week.

I took all of my art off of Meta this week.
Acrylic gouache and colored pencil on toned mixed media paper.
I read the articles. I did my due diligence, read the policies. I’ve been on Facebook for fifteen years, Instagram for ten; nearly every commission I’ve ever gotten came through those channels. I’m a small artist with a cumulative 4k followers between FB/IG so it’s not as if I’ve lost my livelihood, but… I’m disgusted. A company that built itself off of the backs of creatives, off of our photographs, now taking them without our consent to feed a machine that will only do us harm? It’s deplorable. And I know it’s been happening for a long time. Early on, we still had the illusion of choice. That particular balloon has popped.
I’ve downloaded Glaze and deleted all of my pieces. From now on, I’m only posting new ones, and everything will be Glazed. Even that doesn’t feel like enough, though. I’ve just launched my own website and a Cara account, and I’m decently active on here where there’s a great community. I’m hopeful that I’ll be able to continue connecting with new clients and other creatives. I’ve heard Pinterest is pretty great too, so I’m slowly working on that as well.
Overall it feels violating to have no control. I’m not big on that feeling, and seeing artists I deeply respect like Nathan Fowler on board with projects like Glaze reinforces my uneasiness. So many artists and creatives stand to be hurt by this move. It’s like staring down a monster with no face.
What do you think?
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2024.06.06 15:17 MainPsychological984 Estou percebendo que nos últimos tempos os São Paulinos estão gostando mais da nossa situação, atual do que o nosso principal rival direto.

Não sei oque está acontecendo, mas o São Paulinos estão em todos os cantos falando muita merda do Corinthians seja no Facebook, insta YouTube, todo canto. Oque essas putas querem em? Não se contentam em ser o segundo rival e ficam forçando uma rivalidade com o Corinthians para tentar tomar o lugar do arquirival verde?
E outra, os São Paulinos falam demais, portanto, o Corinthians está sendo humilhado e denegrido por grande parte dos times do Brasil, perdemos para o Botafogo jogo passado, e a quantidade e engajamento foi altíssima em todas as redes esportivas, uma par de gente falando mal e metendo o pau no Corinthians.
Porque ninguém fala do Santos? Porque quando o São Paulo estava na Sula e perdeu a final para o Dell valle neguinho, não desmerecia a “série B” da liberta? A realidade é só uma, Corinthians incomoda muita gente, mas essa raparigas são Paulinas estão demais, eu nunca entendi a real rivalidade de São Paulo x Corinthians pois só levam peia do timão, mas eu tenho uma ideia do que pode ter acontecido, para não ficarem de escanteio como o Santos, eles ficam mordendo e beliscando o Corinthians para não ficarem de escanteio também, o Corinthians é oque dá mídia, e chega a ser feio oque esses caras fazem, ultimamente eu tenho mais raiva dos São Paulinos, do que propriamente os palmeirenses, apesar de eles zoarem também.
Nós tínhamos que cancelar essa rivalidade com esse time fdd, jogar só por obrigação e não rebater nada que nos dizem, logo logo cairiam no limbo do esquecimento assim como o Santos, rival para mim é só os de verde, o resto é um joguinho mais acirrado nada mais que isso.
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2024.06.06 13:05 androbuntu Cara Memblokir Akun Facebook Orang Lain

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2024.06.06 06:18 Superb-Fly8983 My Relationship is falling apart, please help!

So where do I start about a few weeks ago I took a trip to Mexico and of course I went to meet and spend time with family and their friends, on my trip I met a cousin who happens to be trans so of course he dresses as a woman at all times and I found it to be interesting, but not in a bad way and I'm not one to judge so of course I met and spent time getting to know him or her ...I guess, anyways in some of the family gatherings we would have drinks, play games and kid around day and do stupid stuff and take some pics of our drunken selfs, in some I was laying in bed next to him laughing or just taking selfies, there were times where we would go out to eat (keep in mind I went out with different family members moments at time). Not just my trans cousin, also he happened to work at a plaza where there was a type of Walmart I would go to along with other stores and he happen to work in one of these stores, so when I would go out to pick a few things, I would stop by and say hi and sometimes even offer to bring or her food for him if he wanted it, heck I even offered him rides home if I was around by the end of his shift, now of course I don't see anything wrong with this, but to my sursprise I told my gf about this because she saw some pics of us on his Facebook page (which btw I had no idea he had posted). Which is ok until I saw that some of these pictures had peculiar captions stating how much he admire and cared for me and even “loved me”. he also put up heart emojis with smiling faces and screenshots of when I would video call him, now of course me and my gf were upset, especially my gf, but I was more surprised than anything, so I immediately told him to take all that stuff down and well he didn't and I asked him why he said “why should I”? I said because it’s not true and even lied to my gf and texted her via FB that I was going to go back to Mexico in a few months in order to be with him and have a life together and I'm like wtf?! Idk why he is going this but I sures hell never engaged in a relationship with this person, for various reasons 1) were family maybe distant but family nonetheless 2, He's trans (which I'm not into). 3. Never ever did I say I was in a relationship with him. But perhaps I made the mistake of joking around and playing along with him by complementing him at times trough text or saying things like "how you doing today beautiful"? But in a joking manner, because that’s how as family/friends we get along but I guess my joking around was taken into the wrong direction or perhaps I made a mistake by saying that to him at times, but I had no intention of anything with him when I said those things, I was just being nice and playing along, but now I'm in hot water and my gf won't believe me and it doesn't help that he blatantly lied to her and said that we're a couple and so on, I'm really pissed at him for all this that I stopped talking to him. But I want to work things with my gf. I tried my best to explain everything to her multiple tímes, but she just won't believe me or doubts of me. I even told her that I maintained contact with him so he could talk to my brother about being trans (which we talked about in our trip). So I figured our cousin would be the best person to give advice to my brother on how to carry out the procedure of being trans, which all this is true, but I’m at lost right now and I don’t know what else to
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2024.06.06 03:55 joao_orhardt Reflexões Livre-associativas 1 - sobre a Martina Oliveira

A ideia de montar este post nasceu de duas linhas de associações diferentes. Minha cabeça vai juntando as coisas meio na doida, e daí de repente vem um resultado que me dá vontade de escrever (e cá estamos).
A 1ª linha começou com um meme pesado +18 (https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=432761002850504&set=a.122000297259911) comparando a Martina Oliveira com a protagonista do mangá hentai Metamorphosis. Quem não leu, não leia. Eu não li nem lerei.
A 2ª linha foi num desses memes de luta livre com áudios zoeiros. Num desses áudios colocaram a frase "se eu largar o freio" de um modo musical. E aí meu ouvido "prendeu" o som no juízo, e ele ficou remexendo ao longo do dia até eu parar pra procurar se era de alguma música. E é, né, "se eu largar o freio", sambão do Péricles. Mas o que me chamou atenção não foi a frase em si (mas podia ter sido), foram os acordes. Fiquei ouvindo o trecho até conseguir achar "o que" aqueles acordes estavam me lembrando. E era a música da cena clímax de Divertidamente. Não sei se tem alguma relação real entre os acordes, mas meu ouvido ficou satisfeito quando chegou lá. É justamente a cena em que a filha volta pra casa dos pais arrependida e começa a chorar profundamente lembrando das cenas do passado (sim, chorei horrores quando assisti, sobretudo pela música),
Na convergência dessas linhas, deixe eu juntar os elementos.
1- Metamorphosis poderia ser só um pornozão, e por isso mesmo farei questão de não ler, mas li na wikipédia o enredo, já que estavam comparando com a Martina. E é bastante depressivo. Basicamente, era uma garota tímida (como tem aos montes), meio "A Feia Mais Bela", mas na época da escola ainda. Acontece que ela decide mudar de vida quando vai pro ensino médio, quer ser um pouco menos tímida. E segue uma rota de decadência. Eu cheguei a ver o mangá: o começo até virar pornô mesmo e o final. Nesse começo tem uma cena importante: depois que ela fala com a mãe e que a mãe a leva pra um salão de beleza pra cortar cabelo, se arrumar etc., ela vê o pai, que era um homem sério e de cara pesada, ficar sem jeito quando a vê. E isso faz ela sentir uma espécie de orgulho.
[Nota de rodapé: Uma nota importante que dificilmente vocês ouvirão por aí. 1º boa parte do nosso comportamento é derivado diretamente do nosso corpo. É praticamente um pré-determinismo, não estou brincando. A criança tem uma vida, mas depois que ela entra na puberdade, seu corpo a impulsiona a uma imensa gama de atos, muitos deles incontroláveis, que ela não teria se tivesse permanecido no corpo de uma criança. Do mesmo modo, MUITO da cultura é uma derivação direta das condições físicas. Mas deixe eu ir mais direto ao ponto: o corpo do sexo feminino impõe ao seu dono uma insegurança BRUTAL, Isso não é sexismo, são hormônios. O corpo masculino não passa por uma variação interminável de ciclo hormonal, fora a vergonha de conviver socialmente com o sangramento menstrual etc.. Para o homem, ao contrário, pau duro frequente, na puberdade, se tem o fator de vergonha social, fisiologicamente gera um prazer que o coloca numa posição de estabilidade e "auto-estima" inimaginável para a mulher por padrão (sem meditar no tema). Por outro lado, o corpo belo, o corpo que é desejado pelos outros gera um orgulho, uma tendência a querer usufruir das vantagens da fraqueza fisiológica dos outros, que ficam "encantados" (no duplo sentido) com o dono do corpo belo. A beleza tende a gerar um problema seríssimo, e nada pior do que um psicopata bonito. Mas, nesse caso, não: é apenas uma menina. Quando a menina, em toda a sua insegurança corporal, começa a perceber que os homens a olham e ficam embaraçados (e embaraçados porque eles olham involuntariamente, mesmo se não quiserem; o corpo naturalmente se vira pra olhar, e se você o força pra não virar, isso também é perceptível), cresce nela um "demoniozinho", uma sensação de poder similar a do homem com corpo belo, mas ainda mais forte, porque nem homens nem mulheres olharão outros homens com a mesma intensidade e frequência que os homens naturalmente olham para as mulheres (e as mulheres olham umas às outras ao sentirem esse poder rebaixado, quando veem os homens olhando pra outras e não pra elas).
Toda a cultura MGTOW e afins deriva dessas questões fisiológicas, mas Nessahan Alita e derivados preenche de confusões. O que importa é: entre a insegurança e a sensação de poder, ambos derivados do corpo e não da livre escolha das meninas, elas acabam se metendo em confusões terríveis, na proporção em que desconhecem a diferença entre seus corpos e suas vontades. Quanto mais burra for uma cultura (e a nossa é BRUTALMENTE burra), mais as mulheres seguirão rotas animalescas, de um lado, e os homens, revoltados ao verem seus sonhos quebrados pelo orgulho feminino, também seguirão rotas animalescas: em parte pra esvaziar o tesão, em parte para compensar o orgulho ferido, em parte na tentativa de achar uma rota feliz na vida, que cada vez mais parece impossível. Mas as mulheres também não estão numa rota feliz: se há mais prazer nelas do que neles (pelo sexo fácil), no fundo, elas estão construindo uma sucessão de tristezas, que serão percebidas tão longo consigam olhar a vida não mais pelos olhos do corpo, mas pelos da inteligência (o que virá gradualmente a partir do momento em que elas envelheçam e percam esse encanto).
/Fim da nota de rodapé]
Então vejam só, esse momento em que a jovem de seus 15 anos percebe que seu pai perdeu totalmente a postura diante da beleza dela é quando acorda o "demônio interior", ou a tendência a fazer bosta. E é o que ela vai fazer daí pra frente, não porque ela quer, mas porque seu corpo vai induzindo-a a atrair pessoas, que deixam nela marcas visíveis e invisíveis (nos modos de agir, de olhar, nas expectativas de vida etc.) que a direcionam a uma rota trágica. Em suma, a jovem engravida depois de muito hentai e drogas, e decide manter o bebê, mas a vida dá tão, tão errado, que ela se suicida por overdose. Mas o mangá termina com uma visão de como poderia ter sido se ela e o bebê tivessem sobrevivido. É ela num parque, com a filha, de uns 8 anos, e ela lembra do passado e fica triste, mas a filha está lá para lembrá-la de que ela não é mais quem fora no passado. O mangá termina com o óculos da protagonista quebrado, no banheiro onde ela tomou a dose extra de heroína.
2- Tem um filme que lembra muito esse tipo de enredo. É o Requiem for a dream. É a mesma ideia: como uma sucessão de pequenas falsidades e escolhas ruins direciona uma tragédia shakespeareana. Mas nesse caso os protagonistas terminam em posição fetal (e quem assiste também). Isso lembra, de um lado, a ideia de reencarnar para pedir uma 2ª chance na vida, porque lembra também o arrependimento: "e se eu pudesse começar tudo de novo, eu teria como ter vivido de outro modo?"
Na vida é MUITO difícil se arrepender Em parte porque existe uma imensidão de circunstâncias marcadas no nosso corpo e na nossa memória (a virgindade não se restaura, nem as lembranças do que fizemos se apagam de nós), mas sobretudo pela pressão social. A sociedade quer que ajamos de acordo com o o nosso corpo, de um lado, e com o que construímos historicamente, de outro. Ela nos prende numa jaula, e se sua vida passada foi algo que você gostaria de abandonar, essa jaula tem leões ferozes que vão querer te devorar se você tentar seguir uma rota diferente. É por isso que dificilmente uma prostituta deixa de ser prostituta (a não ser que abandone qualquer ambiente que se lembre de quem ela foi, mas hoje, em tempos de redes sociais, a coisa piorou), e por isso que até hoje tem gente querendo que Winderson Nunes e Luísa Sonza voltem.
3- A música de Péricles em geral é um homem reclamando de uma mulher: ele trabalha pra caramba, e a mulher não faz nada, nem arruma a casa. Mas, em geral, essa música é mais associada com a posição dos pais para com os filhos. Em geral é a fase mais bela da vida, porque, enquanto somos crianças, seja pelo corpo infantil, seja pela presença dos pais que media a nossa relação diante da sociedade, temos uma maior facilidade de mudar. Em geral, são juízes muito menos severos do que a sociedade, e na maior parte das vezes somos nós os ingratos, mas só percebemos quando já é tarde demais. Divertidamente expressa também essa mensagem.
4- Vez por outra lembro de um vídeo da MC Pipokinha agradecendo a Deus no meio de um show de plena putaria e parando pra orar, porque Deus teria tirado ela da pobreza e colocado numa vida melhor. (Em outra ocasião?) O pessoal ficou chamando ela de puta e ela retruca: "esse é o meu trabalho". Quando lembro dessas coisas, não consigo deixar de imaginar a criança que elas foram, e a criança que elas "vão ser" no final da vida. O que será que diriam? O que pensariam? O que foi a vida para elas? Apesar de tudo no Brasil hoje poder ser amenizado por uma boa dose de zoeira - Martina é a Beiçola, e já tem até cenas, como numa pseudo-série, do Beiçola e sua filha -, por baixo das risadas ou julgamentos, existem pessoas e rotas de vida em que se misturam os destinos impostos pelo corpo, pelas condições iniciais de vida (às vezes muito sofridas e não aceitas), pela falta de orientação por parte da cultura (o que significa pessoas com conhecimento suficiente para orientar bem), os pecados pessoais (porque sempre tem também), mas também as necessidades da vida (pagar as contas, ter um nome para poder suprir desde a carência até o desejo de status, mas aí já se misturam com os pecados),
E a nossa vida segue, e segue, e vai pra onde? O freio já foi largado, a vida nunca para.
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2024.06.06 03:38 squeezydoot What's a good place to promote my comic?

I've tried Instagram, Imgur, Cara, Pinterest, Twitter, Facebook, TikTok and Threads and still nobody is seeing my work. Are there any subreddits around here that might like a silly, mental health focused, fantasy adventure comic?
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2024.06.05 21:11 lennaie bitey ~6mo fenale

So one of my rats bites me hard enough to bleed, but she doesn't seem aggressive by any means. I once posted about this in a facebook group and was told I'm in denial about my rat being a dangerous menace, and that rats like mine need to be pts, so I've been hesitant to ask for advice.
Most of the time my hand is in the cage, she does not bite me. But when she does bite, there is no warning, and it hurts real bad. She has never lunged at me. She doesn't act weird when I have my hands in there to clean, interact with my other rats, refill food, etc. She is not even remotely aggressive to her cagemates. I think she may have a food association with my fingers. When it first started, I was feeding her a treat and one of my other girls tried to get it before her, so she nipped at it very fast and hard but completely missed and grabbed my finger. Ever since then it's difficult to interact with her because I never know when she's gonna bite the absolute shite out of me or be an absolute angel.
She has also gotten better over time. One time months back, she made me bleed for 45mins. The bites have gotten less severe over time, but still drawing blood. But the first time I fed her baby food on a spoon she bit the heck out of it before realizing she needed to lick. She still bites the spoon every time without fail. She also used to take treats very hard when I hand fed her. She has been way more gentle over the last couple months but still occasionally grabs it like a monster lol. So its not just my hand she's nipping.
At the end of the day she's my baby and I'm in it for the long run. I will never give her up. I am determined to work with her, and I'm willing to accept that this could never change and she will always bite. She's a very happy rat and as long as she's happy then so am I. But any advice on curbing this habit would be much appreciated. Might be worth mentioning she is a "fancy" from petco but they do not separate their feeders from fancy. All their rats are allegedly fancies, but mostly sold as feeders. I think they're bred differently?
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2024.06.05 19:05 androbuntu Cara Menyembunyikan Foto di Facebook dari Orang Lain

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2024.06.05 16:08 enieto87 Lo de la tal "Gente de Zona"... que que la película es de 1985...

Pero que buen mega mega vergazo... que pelotazo nos metieron...
Bien perfectamente planificado...
"Esta es la gozadera..." "El shamballa" el "Kulandera" no se que mamadas...
Falta que nos quedemos aquí... a que sigan haciendo lo mismo... los "primates".
Gente con mente primaria...
Solo conocen el putear a los demás...
El vato ese el de la cara desfigurada... el tal Fernando...
En el Facebook... se iba a EEUU. Se ponia una playeras de los "Giants". Ya viste lo de "American Chopper".
Y yo donde mo acredite? Un solo lugar en 10 años... donde anduve con el... un negocio de que me están hablando...
Como si trajera yo la personalidad de otra gente...
Habla el tal Arturo ese... empiezan con su lista de Suecia... hasta candidatos de la elección... "ese trabajo era para un chiquillo..."
Candidatos... imagínense esas mamadas... puro parásito... "Pardillos"
Como siguen con Ratzinger... y el papa de Ernesto a uno de los participantes le decía "el chino Adrian". Piensan que te van a liberar...
Ese también es comensal de la mesa de Arturo...
Imagínense que me importe... el tal Arturo ese es un pendejo fracasado...
Me dan mi pasaporte... busco la manera cobrar mi lanita... me puedo ir a cualquier parte...
Me voy a quedar con los cavernicolas...
Cuantos años tiene la película de los croods?
"Se van a quedar conectados... por vergas..." "sin valor sin nada..." "sin horizonte" sueñan estos pobres simios agresivos y pendejos... pero bueno... hubieran contratado sirvientes... patiños...
"Me puedo ir a Surinam..." a cualquier lugar en medio de la nada... es lo que se... "Sri Lanka..." etc etc...
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2024.06.05 15:16 reincarnateme Has anyone seen the Whatsup ads?

Has anyone seen the Whatsup ads?
Has anyone seen the Keith Gill /Roaring Kitty? WhatsApp ads on Facebook? Masterclass, GME, what the heck is this?
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2024.06.05 06:14 Srg_pro La chica de ojos bonitos 😍

Grupo estoy un poco triste así que me voy a desahogarme un poco aquí porque la verdad no tengo con quién platicar esto.
Bueno hace exactamente un mes en un grupo aquí en Reddit sobre confesiones y relatos conoci a una chica, la verdad ya no recuerdo bien como di con su perfil, creo que leí una confesión que hizo y después me metí a su perfil y decía que se podía platicar con ella, tenía sus gustos y sobre que le gustaría platicar. Bueno como también quiero conocer gente nueva entonces me animé a mandarle mensaje, a ver qué sucedía, en su perfil tenía sus gustos y la verdad compartimos varios, ella tiene 19 años y yo 21 y la verdad en ese rango de edad me gusta conocer gente y platicar. Me respondió el mensaje, me presenté con ella, le conté sobre la nueva música que estaba escuchando y ella me recomendó más música (gracias a ella empecé a escuchar rap en ingles, me recomendó Post Malone y 21 Savage y la canción de Taylor Swift y Post Malone - Fortnight ahora me hará recordar a ella) bueno seguimos platicando casi diario, nos contábamos sobre nuestro dia a día, sobre la universidad, sobre nuestros planes, platicábamos de todo. En su perfil había otra confesión que había hecho en el mismo grupo y está decía que en ocasiones se sentía insegura con su cuerpo y no se sentía bonita, cuando yo leí eso inmediatamente le mandé mensaje y le dije que nunca se sintiera así que ella es muy bonita, pasaban los días y ella en su perfil subia fotos sobre sus outfits de cada día yo siempre le ponía un comentario bonito sobre su outfit y/o su físico y también le comentaba que seguramente tenía una hermosa carita (ella siempre tapo su cara por privacidad y por miedo a que un conocido encontrará su perfil y leyera lo que publicaba) yo le hacía esos comentarios para darle un bonito alago y tal vez alegrarle su día. La semana pasada me dijo que yo sería el primero en ver su cara, me propuso un juego para describir su cara y si le atinaba a un 80% me enviaba una foto de su cara, desafortunadamente no le atiné pero ella me dijo que si le atinaba al color de sus ojos si me mandaba la foto pero también falle, me dijo que sus ojos son de un color entre azul y gris entonces le dije que tenía unos hermosos ojos y que con su hermosa carita hacían buena combinación. El viernes que fue el último día que platicamos le dije que si me mandaba una foto de sus hermosos ojitos y la foto de su hermosa carita esperaba hasta que ella quisiera mandarmela y ella me dijo que si, me mandó una foto de sus ojos pero tapando la mitad de su cara y la verdad sus ojos son demasiados hermosos y lo poco que se veia su cara se veía que es muy bonita. No pude sacar de mi mente esos hermosos ojos durante todo el fin de semana. Ayer lunes le iba a confesar eso, ví que había subido una foto de su outfit pero no le mandé mensaje porque no me quería ver fastidioso, solamente le hice un bonito comentario como en todas sus fotos que iba subiendo, en la tarde quise mandarle mensaje y en su perfil me salió [deleted] no se muy bien si eso sale porque tal vez Reddit le suspendio su perfil por unos días o porque Reddit le borro la cuenta por incumplir con alguna política o regla o ella borro su perfil. Y la verdad eso me puso muy muy triste 🥺 ya tenía mucho tiempo que no platicaba con una chica como ella, le pedí su Instagram para conocernos mejor y seguir platicando pero ella no lo pasaba por lo mismo de que tenía miedo que algún conocido viera su perfil y sus publicaciones, me arrepiento no haberle pasado el mío. Espero algún día volver a dar con ella y poder conocernos más, SI LLEGAS A VER ESTO POR FAVOR MÁNDAME MENSAJE 🥺 QUIERO SEGUIR CONOCIENDOTE.
Si alguna chica entre 19 a 25 años quiere platicar puede mandarme mensaje, la verdad soy buen amigo y podemos platicar de todo. Quiero conocer gente nueva, hacer nuevas amigas, quiero regresar a mis tiempos de antes cuando conocí gente en facebook y poco a poco nos fuimos haciendo amigos a veces hasta el punto de conocernos en persona. También si algún chico quiere platicar puede mandarme mensaje, la verdad amigos tengo bastante pero no está de mas conocer a más.
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