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2009.10.16 01:45 ramsayfraser Workouts: Free Workout Videos, Images & Plans

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2013.03.01 03:51 JBurto What is this, a subreddit for ants?!?

What is this, a _________ for Ants?? Reddit's Preeminent Subreddit for All Things Tiny and Miniature! (Not about literal ants)
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2009.02.12 23:49 Blackhat Library: Hacking techniques and research

Focused on the ongoing discussion and documentation of vulnerabilities and exploitation techniques. Please read the rules before posting here.
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2024.05.29 04:48 Immediate_Tour_2466 I met the same guy I used to play with online during Covid after two years on another game.

Before everything, english is not my first language, so I apologize if there are some mistakes in my post.
I’ll try to be short as I can.
Back in 2020 I used to play Apex Legends a lot, and one day I met this guy, he is from another country so we never actually met in real life. But we became friends and we have kept playing togheter kinda everyday for the two next years.
Then we eventually get bored of the game and slowly stop playing and interact with each other.
Flash forward to today, I came back from a long day and I’m two or three beers up, I decide to call my friend and play a game of League of Legends (I played this game a lot when I was in high school, but now its only for fun.
First game with my friend and we get a troll teammate, and everybody notice so we start chat with the enemy team.
At some point an enemy player ask if i was playing apex, and i say yes, same nick, did we met before? And he say yes and the username and i went silent while i was talking with my friend.
I mean what were the odds? Billions in Billions.
I told him we mist met because there is something that has to happen, or the other option is that he is a fed, but I’m not doing anything strange so I guess is some sort of glitch/destiny.
I’ll keep you posted
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2024.05.29 04:48 emolun Been on two dates now I'm going away for a month

So I've (F21) been seeing this guy (M21) two times over the span of one month because of some back and forth. The last date was great, and we plan to see each other again. Only problem is I am going away for a month to visit my family who lives in another city in just under 3 weeks. I am thinking about getting a flight back and forth to come back for a week so I can see him, but I am not sure if this is a stupid idea. My concern is of course that he will find someone else and that I will never forgive myself for leaving for so long and letting this special connection die. It really makes me heart ache thinking about leaving for a month and not seeing him at all, but part of me is wondering if this is also an unhealthy way to think since we have only seen each other twice.
What do you think? Should I try to come back, or just stick with my original plan and trust that things will work out between us still? How should I deal with these emotions?
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2024.05.29 04:48 Oladips203 How to Validate Your Business Idea – From Someone Who’s Been There

You’re lucky, You're reading this because you’re one of these three people:
  1. You've been told your idea sucks by a friend or someone you look up to.
  2. You’ve even consumed multiple million-dollar business idea videos on YouTube or TikTok that only give you vague advice like “put yourself out there” or “you need to market.”
  3. You’ve probably wondered if you should quit your job, I mean you’ve seen multiple $1,000,000 success stories, it can’t be that hard, right?
Well, let's just say you’ll be surprised. But trust me getting it right is easier than you think. You’ll soon see how easy it is to validate any idea!
1/ As someone who has consumed hundreds of vague pieces of content telling you how to start that $1 million startup without actually giving you anything concrete, I want to make validating your idea easy and practical for you. I'll be using Refro, a team management software we are in the process of launching, as a visual guide. Lastly, I want you to pay attention because I have a reward waiting for you at the end of this write-up.
(x)
2/ The first thing you need to do is to list out your network. Yes, network… network… network… and what I mean is the people that are immediately connected to you one way or the other. Relax, remember it's meant to be easy. Let me clear your doubt, pause for a minute, and ask yourself “How many contacts do I have on my phone?”. I’m sure it’s over 100 and this is me being modest. You’ll be surprised how much people are willing to help even if your immediate contact doesn’t have the information you need, get them to refer you to their network... This way, I went from having no network to speaking with university professors, folks at big companies like Oracle, and participants in startup incubators and I got to identify with their ideas and pain points which helped me form the base ideas for Refro.
3/ Now you're wondering, is that all? No relax a bit, good things take time. You need to gauge interest and if people have any interest in your product you trap them by collecting their emails, trust me they are your lifeline. How you communicate with your “trapped” audience is key as they’ll be first to use your product and also give you feedback. Here’s a protip to trapping your audience, use a waitlist website, it is the most natural and unsuspecting way. Here’s an example of mine - https://www.refro.space/ -. fancy, right?
4/ With the waitlist, it is extremely easy to get feedback on must-haves on your product and to communicate with your audience to validate the demand of your product. What you’ll need next is more people for your waitlist, so you need traction. What I used to gain more eyes on Refro project is product Hunt, This is the best starting point for SaaS(Software as a Service), Trust me you cannot go wrong here. As proof, My Refro project even got among the top product launches for the day,
With the waitlist, we identified must-have features and validated the demand. Next, we needed to find a platform for our target audience and build traction. If you’re a SaaS, a good starting point is Product Hunt. Not to brag, but guess who had one of the top launches for the day on Product Hunt? Refro.
5/ Now this is the final step to solidify your product image, build your MVP. An MVP is the simplest version of your product that allows you to test your concept with real users. It’s crucial because it helps you validate your idea with minimal resource
If you ever want to check out our MVP, you can always sign up on our website. And remember, I am here to help – reach out to me anytime if you have questions or need clarification. We're in this together!
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2024.05.29 04:48 Novel_Telephone_646 Posting same content on shorts, reels, tiktok copyright / strike + automation?

I’m currently working on creating content to post on all three platforms! I was wondering if I post the same video on all three platforms would it be an issue when I try to monetize the youtube channel. The content is original content and I’m using original audio trying to avoid using music would the original audio / video be striked / copyrighted since it’s cross posted by me on three different platforms??
Also, is there an automation tool that I can use to have it post the content on all three platforms??
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2024.05.29 04:48 22sunsmate Loud squeak when shifting

Loud squeak when shifting
Hey guys I just picked up this T4R at 130k miles and as you can hear in the video, there is a loud squeak when I shift into drive or reverse. Could this be the driveshaft? I def need to grease it because I feel the clunk when taking off from a red light or slowing down to a halt for one.
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2024.05.29 04:47 Oladips203 How to Validate Your Business Idea – From Someone Who’s Been There

You’re lucky, You're reading this because you’re one of these three people:
  1. You've been told your idea sucks by a friend or someone you look up to.
  2. You’ve even consumed multiple million-dollar business idea videos on YouTube or TikTok that only give you vague advice like “put yourself out there” or “you need to market.”
  3. You’ve probably wondered if you should quit your job, I mean you’ve seen multiple $1,000,000 success stories, it can’t be that hard, right?
Well, let's just say you’ll be surprised. But trust me getting it right is easier than you think. You’ll soon see how easy it is to validate any idea!
1/ As someone who has consumed hundreds of vague pieces of content telling you how to start that $1 million startup without actually giving you anything concrete, I want to make validating your idea easy and practical for you. I'll be using Refro, a team management software we are in the process of launching, as a visual guide. Lastly, I want you to pay attention because I have a reward waiting for you at the end of this write-up.
(x)
2/ The first thing you need to do is to list out your network. Yes, network… network… network… and what I mean is the people that are immediately connected to you one way or the other. Relax, remember it's meant to be easy. Let me clear your doubt, pause for a minute, and ask yourself “How many contacts do I have on my phone?”. I’m sure it’s over 100 and this is me being modest. You’ll be surprised how much people are willing to help even if your immediate contact doesn’t have the information you need, get them to refer you to their network... This way, I went from having no network to speaking with university professors, folks at big companies like Oracle, and participants in startup incubators and I got to identify with their ideas and pain points which helped me form the base ideas for Refro.
3/ Now you're wondering, is that all? No relax a bit, good things take time. You need to gauge interest and if people have any interest in your product you trap them by collecting their emails, trust me they are your lifeline. How you communicate with your “trapped” audience is key as they’ll be first to use your product and also give you feedback. Here’s a protip to trapping your audience, use a waitlist website, it is the most natural and unsuspecting way. Here’s an example of mine - https://www.refro.space/ -. fancy, right?
4/ With the waitlist, it is extremely easy to get feedback on must-haves on your product and to communicate with your audience to validate the demand of your product. What you’ll need next is more people for your waitlist, so you need traction. What I used to gain more eyes on Refro project is product Hunt, This is the best starting point for SaaS(Software as a Service), Trust me you cannot go wrong here. As proof, My Refro project even got among the top product launches for the day,
With the waitlist, we identified must-have features and validated the demand. Next, we needed to find a platform for our target audience and build traction. If you’re a SaaS, a good starting point is Product Hunt. Not to brag, but guess who had one of the top launches for the day on Product Hunt? Refro.
5/ Now this is the final step to solidify your product image, build your MVP. An MVP is the simplest version of your product that allows you to test your concept with real users. It’s crucial because it helps you validate your idea with minimal resource
If you ever want to check out our MVP, you can always sign up on our website. And remember, I am here to help – reach out to me anytime if you have questions or need clarification. We're in this together!
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2024.05.29 04:46 AdLeft7477 German dance song named String?

Every now and then this song pops back in my head and i can NEVER remember it! I would say late 00s/early 10s i heard it. Musoc video was two guys djing in a club, bunch of women dancing. Lots of butt shots; mostly german lyrics with one english line being "girl show me your stri-i-i-ing". Please help i want this earworm gone!
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2024.05.29 04:46 EmploymentRich7114 My Skyrim game keeps crashing instantly after downloading mods (xb1 s)

Hey guys, I'm new to modding on Skyrim, done a lot of research and tried to place these in the right order. I have 93 and have a lot of space left tbh and don't know what the problem is. It doesn't even let me go into the game at all and crashes instantly... I'll show you my load order list
1.unofficial Skyrim special edition
  1. Simple workaround
  2. EFPS 2.3
  3. reforging to the masses
  4. City trees (AIO)
  5. Swift chaos- monster
  6. MODERN WEAPONS V26
  7. Video game weapons in Skyrim
  8. Rich merchants of Skyrim xb1
  9. The horror below- a horror mod
  10. The dread knight- ebony warrior remake
  11. Diverse dragons collection xb1
  12. BIG: MORE KILL MOVES AND DECAPITATIONS
  13. OPEN WORLD BOSSES
  14. XB1 LAMPPOSTS OF SKYRIM
  15. MINIMALISTIC AUTO SAVE
  16. ITS JUST TIME- A DYNAMIC TIMESCALE MOD
  17. dragon wall wisdom- readable dragon walla
  18. Extended guard dialogue
  19. Sensible interface- updated
  20. Nordic skyhud
  21. Oblivion interaction icons- centaur
  22. SWF2: Taylor SWF
  23. Nordic UI SWF2 HUD
  24. TESG load screen replacer- SSE port
  25. EHI redux
  26. Isilmerials LOTR weapons
  27. ARS Metallica
  28. 360 walk and run
  29. Just blood - SWF edition
  30. R.a.s.s. (shaders and effects)
  31. 20 PCT more perks points xb1
  32. 50 PCR more perks points xb1
  33. Ordinator - perks of Skyrim
  34. Phendrix magic evolved
36.apocalypse - magic of Skyrim
  1. Thunderchild - epic shouts and immersion
  2. Strange runes lite
  3. Weightless souls gems and ingredients
  4. Old kingdom - crafting add on
  5. Sounds of Skyrim - complete
  6. A bows whisper - bow sound
  7. Wander (original v3.1)
  8. Rainbows over waterfalls
  9. red mountain volcano - tamriels natural wonder
  10. True storms special edition xb1 rain and thunder
  11. Mintys lightning during storms mod
  12. Skoglendi - a grass mod
  13. Landscape fixes for grass
  14. No grassias by knight4life
  15. Movement and behaviors enhanced 2.0
  16. Sekiro combat S
  17. Violens - a kill move mod SE xb1
  18. Super SMIM'D IK512
  19. fluffworks (fluffy animals)
  20. Skyland - a landscape texture overhaul
  21. night sky HD 8K
  22. Witcher 3 styled farm fences
  23. Royal armory
  24. Transparent and refracting icicle and frost atronach xb1
  25. Elsopas quivers
  26. ELFX shadows
  27. ELFX shadows enhancer
  28. Updated - enhanced lights and FX
  29. Dawn waters w/natural waterfalls
  30. Xb1 insignificant object remover
  31. My INI performance
  32. Valravn - integrated
  33. SS hit stop - updated 2023
  34. 2S4M ghosts visual makeover
  35. A list of MIHAIL monster mods such as the fanged goutis, worm mouths, animal flesh atronachs, water hags, and the wraith of crows
  36. Woolly rhino xb1
  37. Playable skeleton races - become a lich
  38. Xb1 dragon man - werewolve replacer player only SE 1.0
  39. feral dragons avatar
  40. Xb1 vampire lord replacer - spectral dragon priest skeleton
  41. Reasonablely buffed perks
  42. Xb1 spectral argonian skull spell - ghost version
  43. 4 enchantments
  44. Ancient dragonborn power xb1
  45. SRE strange random encounters
  46. The betrayed armour by cALAMIN - standalone version
  47. Yaldabaoth armour
  48. Xb1 easier mining and chopping
  49. Comprehensive first person animation overhaul - CFPAO
  50. fast leveling
  51. Dynamic impact - slash effects X
  52. Just a simple ALT start mod
Please if you have any way on how to help me please do!!
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2024.05.29 04:46 FloofySkuntank Not-Stars Action ep.7

Not-Stars Action ep.7
Suggestion by Proofracer: Last time on Not-Stars Action! The teams were forced to study for a night in order to prepare for a medical exam… except Harold. We knocked him out since he was the only one that knew the trick of this challenge. For the Grips Dakota barely studied and was too much of a health nut to eat the pizza. Noah and B as fellow brainiacs had no need to study. Noah found the pizza to be way too greasy and B didn’t trust it.
When the time came to quarantine everyone Ezekiel was the first to get itchy. This created a lock down and sealed everyone inside, with them was someone in a hazmat suit who quarantined everyone who got sick. Leonard used his time in quarantine to convince some of the other sick members about how threatening Dawn can be. Eventually it was up to Dakota, Noah, and B to solve this conundrum. Noah was the first to find out the books were fake while B pointed out the pizzas itching powder and pepperoni boils. Dakota… tried to help, getting everyone water and ice packs, but sadly she wasn’t the one to solve the mystery, giving the win to the Gaffers! The Gaffers was also given an extra reward. The unusually aggressive hazmat woman… EVA! Who is this seasons first returnee. Something she’s ironically used to. She’s now the newest Gaffer, against her original team! Much to Leonard’s dismay.
With the Grips at another loss. They went to elimination. Marshmallows went to Sammy, Trent, Dakota, Leonard, Brick, Harold, and… Staci. Dawn is shocked and confused. She asks why and some of the team mention how she is a threat and kind of scary. Dawn is hurt and says she didn’t realize so many people felt so strongly about her… She rubs her arm, clearly hurt that she’s viewed as scary. She says she is sorry but she still wants to participate. She pulls out her immunity pin and hands it to Chris. Chris announces that Dawn has played her immunity pin. This means the player with the second highest amount of votes goes home… goodbye Staci. Leonard is shocked, realizing he’s not only hurt Dawn but had caused his best alliance mate to go home. Dawn walks away from her team. Worrying Brick. The team disperses as Leonard sits there stunned. He messed up big time…
Votes for Staci: Dakota, Brick, and Dawn
Votes for Harold: Sammy
Votes for Dawn: Staci, Leonard, Trent, and Harold
*Sammy was worried for Harold’s health.
*Harold is still unconscious, Leonard snuck in and voted for him.
With that it’s still fifteen players remaining! How will Dawn cope knowing her team wants her gone? How will Ezekiel cope if his team learns about the immunity pin? How will Leonard cope knowing he’s the reason Staci is gone? Will Eva cope by beating her old team into a paste? But enough about coping! It’s time for these teens to be afraid! In round one of our horror challenge each team will pick three killers to scare three non-scarers round one will have the first killer and a non-scarer in the woods. Round two will have them in the bathroom, and round three will have the make-out scare with a killer and two non-scarers. Whatever team doesn’t scream the loudest overall will get the advantage of having to scare the other team out of a tent before sunrise. If they can, they win! If they can’t, they lose. Who will show off their bravery? Who will cry like a little baby all the way to the lameosine? That’s for YOU to decide!
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2024.05.29 04:44 ThrowRArentaballoon Since I’ve moved home, I have been resisting the urge to reach out to him. I didn’t think I’d miss him this much. What do I do? 29 M 26 F

I’m struggling right now, because I recently moved back home, and have been resisting the temptation to reach out to my guy friend.
We had a thing for a little while, and I know for a fact there was flirting, and interest on his part. However, despite knowing of my feelings, I never asked him out on a date, never got upset the one time he couldn’t make an engagement and never pushed him
He on the other hand, continued to bring this up-that he didn’t want to date because he has trust issues. Even after I said I was fine with staying friends. He was bringing it up months later. It got ridiculous.
I’m talking my level of self control with this was two messages in three months stating I was fine with being friends.
I didn’t think I’d miss him, but it stings so much being home and knowing I can’t talk to him, because he shut me out. Why did he cut me off?
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2024.05.29 04:44 CaterpillarForeign My sister shamed me for going after her friend in front of him

So my cousin Emily (30F) took myself(23F) to her best friends bridal shower. The bridal shower took place at her male bffs place who is also bffs with the bride. They're all friends from college. My cousin has kissed this male bff and they occasionally sext sometimes with no intention of it going anywhere but out of boredom. At this bridal shower, it's pretty visible to me and everyone that him and one other guy is flirting w me and taking turns doing so. We are all drinking and me and these two guys are talking about the Knicks and taking shots left and right. All the bridesmaids are discussing wedding stuff. I am interested in neither of the guys - they're 32/34year olds and I'm in love with a guy who im in a complicated situation with. I am just having fun and drinking and playing pool. I find a cig in my bag and went to smoke it and one of the guys followed me out. He's groping me while I have a cig in my hand and holding my bag in the other hand but I'm not pushing him away but also not going in for a kiss. I finally give a kiss back one time and then I hear people coming out so we leave. My cousin has kissed this guy and they sexr occasionally. She always tells me she kissed him once while drunk but they're really good friends and that's he's a bum doesn't do anything - smokes pot and plays video games.
The next day he follows me on instagram and asks me out on a date saying I'm the most beautiful girl he's ever seen. I've been in terrible situations w guys the past 3 years and haven't been out on a date ever. So I already know my cousin is buddies w him and me and my cousin are very close like sisters so I do to my cousin and I'm thinking this is very unserious and me and Mr cousin are probably gonna laugh at it and I say to her "hey you're friend has been flirting w me and he kissed me that night two days ago. I apologize to her saying I should have told her earlier and shouldn't have kissed him but I was blacked out but he's been mostly wholesome w me so I was wondering if he could take me out on a date but only coz I wanna dress up and be dined and wined coz all the men in the past has made me feel like shit and the last guy I dated made me pay for everything and it definitely lowered my self esteem. So I wasn't attracted to him or wanted something out of this but he recommended a fun date idea and I was tempted.
My cousin has a completely unexpected reaction and she started shaming me and blasted on her guy friend and her friend gaslighted her saying I was coming on to him and my cousin believed him and told me that I broke her heart going behind her back. She said "I can NEVER talk or hook up with any of her friends without getting her permission and I should be ashamed of myself and I am crazy to take this situation lightly" she humiliated me in front of her frjend by not believing her sister but siding with him. She also knows I've been in therapy and have been in the worst depression of my life the past two years. A few months ago she would have to check on me weekly to make sure I was ok. So for her to shame me for some guy who she's only kissed and shaming my character for a mistake I made while I was drunk out of my mind doesn't make sense to me. Am I delusional and completly wrong in this?? Or am I Justified in thinking why couldn't she have thought to give me a break and not break my spirit even more for a guy that's probably not even that important in her life.
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2024.05.29 04:44 EmploymentRich7114 My Skyrim game keeps crashing instantly after downloading mods (xb1 s)

Hey guys, I'm new to modding on Skyrim, done a lot of research and tried to place these in the right order. I have 93 and have a lot of space left tbh and don't know what the problem is. It doesn't even let me go into the game at all and crashes instantly... I'll show you my load order list
1.unofficial Skyrim special edition
  1. Simple workaround
  2. EFPS 2.3
  3. reforging to the masses
  4. City trees (AIO)
  5. Swift chaos- monster
  6. MODERN WEAPONS V26
  7. Video game weapons in Skyrim
  8. Rich merchants of Skyrim xb1
  9. The horror below- a horror mod
  10. The dread knight- ebony warrior remake
  11. Diverse dragons collection xb1
  12. BIG: MORE KILL MOVES AND DECAPITATIONS
  13. OPEN WORLD BOSSES
  14. XB1 LAMPPOSTS OF SKYRIM
  15. MINIMALISTIC AUTO SAVE
  16. ITS JUST TIME- A DYNAMIC TIMESCALE MOD
  17. dragon wall wisdom- readable dragon walla
  18. Extended guard dialogue
  19. Sensible interface- updated
  20. Nordic skyhud
  21. Oblivion interaction icons- centaur
  22. SWF2: Taylor SWF
  23. Nordic UI SWF2 HUD
  24. TESG load screen replacer- SSE port
  25. EHI redux
  26. Isilmerials LOTR weapons
  27. ARS Metallica
  28. 360 walk and run
  29. Just blood - SWF edition
  30. R.a.s.s. (shaders and effects)
  31. 20 PCT more perks points xb1
  32. 50 PCR more perks points xb1
  33. Ordinator - perks of Skyrim
  34. Phendrix magic evolved
36.apocalypse - magic of Skyrim
  1. Thunderchild - epic shouts and immersion
  2. Strange runes lite
  3. Weightless souls gems and ingredients
  4. Old kingdom - crafting add on
  5. Sounds of Skyrim - complete
  6. A bows whisper - bow sound
  7. Wander (original v3.1)
  8. Rainbows over waterfalls
  9. red mountain volcano - tamriels natural wonder
  10. True storms special edition xb1 rain and thunder
  11. Mintys lightning during storms mod
  12. Skoglendi - a grass mod
  13. Landscape fixes for grass
  14. No grassias by knight4life
  15. Movement and behaviors enhanced 2.0
  16. Sekiro combat S
  17. Violens - a kill move mod SE xb1
  18. Super SMIM'D IK512
  19. fluffworks (fluffy animals)
  20. Skyland - a landscape texture overhaul
  21. night sky HD 8K
  22. Witcher 3 styled farm fences
  23. Royal armory
  24. Transparent and refracting icicle and frost atronach xb1
  25. Elsopas quivers
  26. ELFX shadows
  27. ELFX shadows enhancer
  28. Updated - enhanced lights and FX
  29. Dawn waters w/natural waterfalls
  30. Xb1 insignificant object remover
  31. My INI performance
  32. Valravn - integrated
  33. SS hit stop - updated 2023
  34. 2S4M ghosts visual makeover
  35. A list of MIHAIL monster mods such as the fanged goutis, worm mouths, animal flesh atronachs, water hags, and the wraith of crows
  36. Woolly rhino xb1
  37. Playable skeleton races - become a lich
  38. Xb1 dragon man - werewolve replacer player only SE 1.0
  39. feral dragons avatar
  40. Xb1 vampire lord replacer - spectral dragon priest skeleton
  41. Reasonablely buffed perks
  42. Xb1 spectral argonian skull spell - ghost version
  43. 4 enchantments
  44. Ancient dragonborn power xb1
  45. SRE strange random encounters
  46. The betrayed armour by cALAMIN - standalone version
  47. Yaldabaoth armour
  48. Xb1 easier mining and chopping
  49. Comprehensive first person animation overhaul - CFPAO
  50. fast leveling
  51. Dynamic impact - slash effects X
  52. Just a simple ALT start mod
Please if you have any way on how to help me please do!!
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2024.05.29 04:42 CaterpillarForeign My sister shamed me for going after her ex in front of him.

So my cousin Emily (30F) took myself(23F) to her best friends bridal shower. The bridal shower took place at her male bffs place who is also bffs with the bride. They're all friends from college. My cousin has kissed this male bff and they occasionally sext sometimes with no intention of it going anywhere but out of boredom. At this bridal shower, it's pretty visible to me and everyone that him and one other guy is flirting w me and taking turns doing so. We are all drinking and me and these two guys are talking about the Knicks and taking shots left and right. All the bridesmaids are discussing wedding stuff. I am interested in neither of the guys - they're 32/34year olds and I'm in love with a guy who im in a complicated situation with. I am just having fun and drinking and playing pool. I find a cig in my bag and went to smoke it and one of the guys followed me out. He's groping me while I have a cig in my hand and holding my bag in the other hand but I'm not pushing him away but also not going in for a kiss. I finally give a kiss back one time and then I hear people coming out so we leave. My cousin has kissed this guy and they sexr occasionally. She always tells me she kissed him once while drunk but they're really good friends and that's he's a bum doesn't do anything - smokes pot and plays video games.
The next day he follows me on instagram and asks me out on a date saying I'm the most beautiful girl he's ever seen. I've been in terrible situations w guys the past 3 years and haven't been out on a date ever. So I already know my cousin is buddies w him and me and my cousin are very close like sisters so I do to my cousin and I'm thinking this is very unserious and me and Mr cousin are probably gonna laugh at it and I say to her "hey you're friend has been flirting w me and he kissed me that night two days ago. I apologize to her saying I should have told her earlier and shouldn't have kissed him but I was blacked out but he's been mostly wholesome w me so I was wondering if he could take me out on a date but only coz I wanna dress up and be dined and wined coz all the men in the past has made me feel like shit and the last guy I dated made me pay for everything and it definitely lowered my self esteem. So I wasn't attracted to him or wanted something out of this but he recommended a fun date idea and I was tempted.
My cousin has a completely unexpected reaction and she started shaming me and blasted on her guy friend and her friend gaslighted her saying I was coming on to him and my cousin believed him and told me that I broke her heart going behind her back. She said "I can NEVER talk or hook up with any of her friends without getting her permission and I should be ashamed of myself and I am crazy to take this situation lightly" she humiliated me in front of her frjend by not believing her sister but siding with him. She also knows I've been in therapy and have been in the worst depression of my life the past two years. A few months ago she would have to check on me weekly to make sure I was ok. So for her to shame me for some guy who she's only kissed and shaming my character for a mistake I made while I was drunk out of my mind doesn't make sense to me. Am I delusional and completly wrong in this?? Or am I Justified in thinking why couldn't she have thought to give me a break and not break my spirit even more for a guy that's probably not even that important in her life.
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2024.05.29 04:42 Disastrous_Emu_8636 PLEASE HELPPPPP

IM LOSING MY MINDDDD. I can’t find this one song and it would play a lot on the vevo channel and the title is long summer something or something summer. (Summertime sadness keeps coming into my mind but ik that’s not it) and the singer is like an Asian who looks like she’s in her early 20’s. And the whole music video is set in a grocery store and she’s just walking around with a shopping cart singing, and there’s drone shots around the store of other people (btw everyone is Asian) and there’s this one guy on a skateboard, skating around the store. Please help😭😭😭
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2024.05.29 04:40 Dramatic_Shame_5897 bisexual or just mentally exhausted?

terrible anxiety and confusion, please advise
throwaway for obvious reasons.
to preface this, i have OCD and had a very bad case of religious/conspiracy OCD about three years ago, where I became an anxiety-ridden, hermited, anti-social husk of myself.
i have been straight my entire life (18M), i had no questions about being straight, and still only get sexually aroused by females. my social groups of friends consist mostly of other guys, but i have a few friends who are girls too. its been pretty standard. i have dated and had sexual interactions with two girls. my parents have never forced heteronormativity, and we have a few gay family friends and family that we treat just like normal.
i’ve always felt pretty comfortable around other guys, and have never wanted to engage in anything romantic/sexual with another male. i am able to make those standard “gay with the homies” jokes and be around other dudes in close-knit environments no problem.
here’s the issue:
a week ago, i was at work and saw a cute girl. i kept trying to sneak closer looks and realized that she was actually a pretty feminine-looking guy. i couldn’t look him straight in the eye after I figured that out, and i’ve been having anxiety about being gay ever since.
it was my graduation from HS week, and i had all kinds of fun activities that i really wanted to enjoy, but this anxiety not only kept me having as much fun, but also made me uncomfortable around other guys, and girls too. even good friends i had good friendships with for years, i could not act like normal around.
i was trying to date a girl ive known for awhile now, but i’ve also been having doubts about that because of uncomfortable i am. i do not enjoy any of the things i used to as well, like video games, volleyball, and watching movies. i am having trouble interacting with people too. anytime i see a guy even remotely good-looking, i get anxiety about being gay.
ive been on all kinds of gay porn sites and subreddits, and watched all kinds of gay movies since then to explore, but did not enjoy/care/get aroused for any of it.
despite this, i always get intrusive thoughts about “what if i am gay, and you live your entire life closeted” or “you know you’re gay you’re just scared to admit it” i feel so down in the dumps and all ive been doing is staying on my phone. i am still able to get off to straight porn like always. i feel guilty now though, and i fear for the mental anguish this will cause for the rest of the summer and beyond.
i am planning to talk to my therapist about this tomorrow, but i have been a mess for a while now.
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2024.05.29 04:40 Disastrous_Emu_8636 PLEASE HELP ME FIND THIS SONG😭😭

PLEASE HELP ME FIND THIS SONG😭😭
IM LOSING MY MINDDDD. I can’t find this one song and it would play a lot on the vevo channel and the title is long summer something or something summer. (Summertime sadness keeps coming into my mind but ik that’s not it) and the singer is like an Asian who looks like she’s in her early 20’s. And the whole music video is set in a grocery store and she’s just walking around with a shopping cart singing, and there’s drone shots around the store of other people (btw everyone is Asian) and there’s this one guy on a skateboard, skating around the store. Please help
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2024.05.29 04:38 No_Literature_9785 I need some advice.. 28M and 27F. She had. secret lover behind my back. Is there anyway to fix the relationship ?

Im 28 M and she is 27F. We started dating in early 2017. I was a single dad when she met me and we clicked right away. Unfortunately I didn’t have proper boundaries set with my babymomma which caused my relationship with my new gf to become difficult and stressful. I did set boundaries and I was showing her that I was focused on her and my kid and no one else. We were good for a while. About two years went by and at this point we are together like she is my girl my rock my partner. Unfortunately her and I did have problems. We would argue over simple stuff and we both had some anger issues we were working on. At the end of 2019 she chose to take a break and left me but not really left me. Her and I would still go and spend everyday together after she made her choice to take a break. So that kinda messed with my head and in my heart I knew I wanted to be with her so I did whatever I could to be with her. She felt the same way but she put restrictions on me. I wouldn’t be able to hug her or hold her hand. She would tell me we aren’t together remember that. Even on new years we spent it together I went for a new years kiss like how we did the year before but she refused. It was my first time dealing with something like this. So I chose to just keep it going hopefully one day her and I get back together. She’ll see that I’m working on myself ti be the very best version of me for her. Fast forward to march of 2020. She is having me drop her off earlier and earlier at her house. Then one day I went on. Her instagram. I trusted her so I wouldn’t check her stuff. But this time I did I checked her tagged photos and right there was a picture of her with some guy hugging and kissing. Caption read” Loml❤️” I lost it. I called her she didn’t answer I told her I knew what was up and that she had a new bf. I told her thanks for lying and making me think I’m the problem. Her response was “I’m not doing this right now. I’m going ti block you”. She called me the next day asking if we could talk. Of course I went and talked to her. Before I knew it. Her and I were hanging out like normal again. Except this time I would drop her off early and we were back to having sex. She would still go and be with the other guy at night but during the day she was with me. That lasted till may when her guy found out that she was still hooking up with me and spending all this time with me. They broke up and her and I got back together. Crazy so far right.? It gets crazier. Fast forward a year later to my 26 birthday , we are still together. We live in our house we have two cats and very stable financially we had just came back from our first vacation. Things were great except for that day we celebrated my birthday and I was working the night shift so I took her to her moms house for her to visit and I would pick her up after. She gets out the car and leaves her phone. I notice right away but she’s already inside. Her phone receives a notification. It’s a Snapchat , I thought it’s her best friend then I look it closely and see it’s just a face emoji. I immediately open it and it was a guy she had been talking ti behind my back. And not only was she talking to him but they were having full on sex talks and nudes where sent and saved. I saw it all. She was calling him names like babe or daddy or papi. I scrolled all the way as much as I could. It stretched all the way back to 2017. Then I realized this kid was the one that she would tell me she was talking to but as friend and nothing more. She told me this 2018. I was naive and trusted her. She came in the car for her phone but instead I showed her what I found out. She said it was all fake and none of that meant anything to her. Clearly at this point I know she’s lying even more but I still chose to work things out. We did work things out and remained together. But now I have trust issues that I’m working past. Fast forward to 2023 October to be exact. We broke up because we were having financial issues and our anger was getting a bit out of hand. But we still saw each other every single day after that. About a month in she began to act differently. She would not let me touch her iPad while to switch to new shows to watch or to scroll on YouTube for us to watch anew video or whatever we wanted to watch. I would call her out on her behavior and tell her she is acting sneaky. She denied and denied said I was tripping. Okay so at this point I know something is up. That’s when she gave me the phone I had bought her back after she got herself her own phone. I get the phone and decided to download Snapchat and instagram. And before I could even blink I see that the phone saved her login info. I had two choices look through her stuff or erase it not invade her privacy. I chose to look through her snap first and right away I see 5 different guys Snapchating with her. At the very top was the guy she had been talking to since 2017 the same guy I caught her up on my birthday. She was planning a vacation to go see him. The guy is stationed in Tokyo he’s a marine. She was telling me she was going to Mexico. But in reality she was leaving to Tokyo and I just had to be ok with it. She gave me a blowjob literally the day I confronted her about it. She was leaving to spend valentines week with him. And she did leave. When she came back she tried to talk to me but I was in shambles. My heart was broken. eventually I gave in and said yeah let’s hangout. Before I knew it we were spending everyday together again and we were behaving like a couple again. But then came reality hitting me hard. I was using her iPad earlier this month and I went on her calendar to figure out a date for us to go on a trip. When I opens the app I saw may 31st listed as Tokyo trip. She was leaving once again at the end of the month and wouldn’t be back till June 7th. My world once again came crashing down. She said sorry but was still going and she tried to say she is doing it because she wanted to travel. It’s all bs on my mind because her and I could’ve traveled anywhere we wanted to. Now it’s the week of her leaving and she tells me that when she comes back we’ll work on being together again. I know it sounds like I’m an idiot and rightfully so. My actions of taking her back over and over have made it be ok for her to do this. I’m confused and pretty messed up in the head that I don’t know what to do or how to handle any of this anymore. Is it better to just leave and work on myself without her anymore or stay and wait for her ?
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2024.05.29 04:38 Informal-Party-4345 Evolution of humor in the sitcom Friends

Evolution of humor in the sitcom Friends
Hello! I am currently doing an extended essay for one of my social classes in college for my phd. in the evolution of humor in the TV series friends. I have created a survey, and I was wondering if you guys would be willing to help by filling it out. It only takes 10 minutes! In order for the videos to work, you have to click on the 3 little dots on the top right upon opening the survey and then open it in a browser. If you have any questions, let me know! Thank you, and have a nice day!
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2024.05.29 04:37 shouldIworkremote Hiring an assistant to paste stuff into ChatGPT?

Hi guys. I currently use ChatGPT to generate images for YouTube videos, it works great however it takes a while to do.
I tried automating this with the API, however it does cost quite a bit and sometimes as you know it outputs images with nonsensical text.
I was wondering about even hiring a part time assistant to simply paste prompts into ChatGPT to generate images, regenerating them as necessary if there’s something messed up like nonsensical text.
I feel like it may even cost less than using the API and it would have the added benefit of having a human being able to regenerate the image if something is wrong
Of course there is the 30 messages per three hours limit but that may delay things by max one day which probably isn’t a big deal?
Is this a reasonable idea? Or am I delusional?
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2024.05.29 04:37 Dear_Musician8609 First Pregnancy was a miscarriage

I need to just let it all out and I just feel like this is the safest place. I’m 19 (f) found out i was pregnant middle of may and with in a week of finding out I then had a miscarriage. I got off birth control a while back bc my body just was breaking out in hives from every kind of birth control. My bf 19 almost 20 (M) and I use the pull and pray method, i knew the risk and didn’t mind as we’re going onto 3 three years and just being careless. Well with that being said I missed my period in beginning of May and after not getting it for 13 days i went and bought tests. (my periods use to be very irregular so it wasn’t anything out of the blue). I went to work one day and that morning i had thrown up and had tons of gas in my stomach. I took 5 test all positive. I don’t have insurance at the moment and waiting to hear back and was just going to go the next week to a obgyn to confirm. When my bf 19 (M) found out he flipped out on me wanting an abortion and couldn’t believe i wouldn’t get one. I quote “i can’t believe you’re choosing this thing over me by not getting an abortion.” I couldn’t believe how he was acting and told him he had every right not to be in the baby’s life and can leave at or i can go somewhere else at any giving time, i knew the consequences and felt ready to be a mom after raising my siblings. He fought abt an abortion the entire rest of the week that I had found out and then by the next week something felt wrong. After i felt off the next morning i immediately went to planned parenthood to get checked out because i was absolutely covered in blood when i woke up. It made me so angry seeing so many woman getting abortions while i couldn’t stop crying over losing mine. I have always been pro choice in my beliefs but in that moment and still i just felt so much hate and jealousy because they’re killing their healthy babies (that’s me emotionally assuming). While i lose one that i wanted. They couldn’t confirm the miscarriage so I go tomorrow for an appt but i’m pretty sure i passed the fetus after looking at other photos. I haven’t stopped bleeding. It’s a constant reminder that my baby died. I love my bf to death but i can’t help but blame him and be mad at him about losing this baby. He fought so much with me abt an abortion could it have been the stress that caused me to lose the baby? He doesn’t even seem upset. The day after i went to doctors/woke up bleeding I cried in the bathroom for hours and he sat on videos games outside the open door. How do i stop feeling hate? When does everything stop reminding me that my baby died? When will i stop blaming myself and everything to one around me? Why didn’t anyone warn you how heart breaking it is to lose your baby.
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2024.05.29 04:37 mylastactoflove probably not the best place to reach out but I don't know who else to talk to

I'm supposed to be sleeping right now but I can't. he turned 19 this week. incredible how time flies, right? he was 11 when we first met. he was 17 when we last talked.
this will sound so ridiculous but I saw a girl posting a silly thirst trap sort of video. she put a mask on and I got goosebumps. she had eyes like his. crazy how that type of thing can get to you like hitting your elbow on the table. like breathing water. it's surprising and painful and you just have to take a moment to understand and deal with what's happening. god, am I never going to see him again? I shouldn't worry about that, actually. he's not mine and never was and was never meant to be mine, ever. I rationalized the idea we weren't compatible, I even got over his substitute who was equally impossible to have. I'm interested in other guys, I'm living another life. I was doing so well, why, why does it keep haunting me? how do I purge his imprint off my mind?
I should burn his things. his phonecase, whatever other stupid fucking memorabilia my emotional trash of a brain decided to keep and all the things I wrote and never sent him. I wonder if he thinks of me. I wonder if he regrets never kissing me. I still hope, deep down, that one day we will meet as I wait for the train I take everyday and to his eyes I'll be pretty, and he will think of me as sweet, smart and fun. and he'll hurt just as much as I do. hoping is a vile little thing when it comes to the real word. a sadistic tool for fairytales to take revenge on the miserable for existing. I'm tired of hoping for things. I'm hoping he's not doing so well either, even if it's selfish of me. but he grew charming, good-looking, experienced since he ever thought of me kindly and I can barely see myself in the mirror and recognize the glass girl without crying. thinking about it, I'm useful for something after all. time to check his instagram again. still nothing. I kind of wish he would just post something, even if it hurts me, just so I could have something real for once. maybe the illusion of closure. he never told me how he really felt and I still hope he'd say something more than just an experience.
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2024.05.29 04:37 Informal-Party-4345 Evolution of humor in the sitcom Friends

Hello! I am currently doing an extended essay for one of my social classes in college for my phd. in the evolution of humor in the TV series friends. I have created a survey, and I was wondering if you guys would be willing to help by filling it out. It only takes 10 minutes! In order for the videos to work, you have to click on the 3 little dots on the top right upon opening the survey and then open it in a browser. If you have any questions, let me know! Thank you, and have a nice day!
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