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2009.11.29 05:02 RAPT0RJESUS Think correctly

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2024.05.14 20:58 DigitalSchism96 Is this game going to make me depressed?

Weird question I know, but I'm looking for something to play right now and this game has been on my radar forever.
That said, I am not in the head space to deal with any kind of tragedy and it seems to have some darker themes. In as spoiler free way as possible would anybody be willing to tell me if I'm going to end up feeling bad at the end?
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2024.05.14 20:57 eternalscrub96 [US-CA] [H] GMK Tuzi, GMK Metropolis Midnight [W] PayPal, Other Keycap Sets, Artisans?, Linear Switches, TGR Tomo Stainless Steel Weight

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Hello mechmarket,
I currently have the GMK Tuzi and GMK Metropolis Midnight sets sealed in their original boxes. I bought them thinking I was going to be able to use them, but I don’t (yet) own a keyboard that I feel would go well with either of these sets. Long story short, rather than having them sit around in a box, I am hoping to trade them for items I can use right now or just sell them.
As mentioned in the title, I would like to get my hands on some better-suited keycap sets. I would either like to trade for a set of Black or Indigo Cerakey Keycaps V2 with legends, GMK Evil Dolch, or GMK Darling.
In addition to better-suited keycaps, I am looking for linear switches. I would like to trade for Vintage Cherry MX blacks, Gateron Black Box Ink V2s, Geon Black Linear Switches, and/or other linear switches you may have lying around. I do ask that the offers to trade switches for one of the keycap sets be somewhat reasonable. I am okay with taking a negative trade but nothing egregious.
I would also be willing to trade for some artisan keycaps as long as they are in decent condition. I would want to trade for an Evangelion-themed artisan and/or one of the Rama artisan keycaps(especially wave artisans).
The last item I would be willing to trade for is an unblemished, polished stainless steel weight for the TGR Tomo. I know these are in high demand so I can show some flexibility with this trade.
If I were to sell, I would like 100 USD per set plus shipping. If shipping the keycaps in bags is fine, I would like 95 USD flat. 90 USD if local (94305).
I am not looking to buy anything(my wallet can no longer afford it), but if you have an item I haven’t listed that you would like to trade, feel free to send an offer.
Thanks for your interest!
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2024.05.14 20:36 SirenInAction [Online] [Other] new players wanted

Hello!
I have a small group of 3 looking to find new players to start a campaign together via discord. Our designated DM will be starting with a Bunkers and Badasses themed campaign.
We are adults, ages ranging 20's-30's, we are hoping for chill, kind people to roleplay togethelearn together in a judgment free zone.
We will be using discord for comms and a server invite can be sent upon request. We don't have a time set yet, but are leaning towards once a week on weekends.
Please respond to this post or message me if interested. You can also add/message via discord: demonessdaki
Thank you for reading, have a lovely day!
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2024.05.14 20:35 Frequent-Coyote-1649 Album Reviews: KOI NO YOKAN

Album Reviews: KOI NO YOKAN
Hey there. It's been a while, hasn't it?
2012's Koi No Yokan is considered one of the more upbeat sounds Deftones made, being a harsh contrast with most of the band's discography so far. With such a turn, can KNY live up to their record?(Spoilers: yes.)
  1. Swerve City
She breaks, her horses... With strange, distance voices...
I think this might be my ONLY real hot take this time around... I don't really like Swerve City. Like, I REALLY don't like Swerve City. I feel it was included just so the album had a definitive single, and it's inclusion as a opener is... A pretty bad choice, honestly. It reminds me of Back To School and that is not a good thing. The lyrics are the best part of the song, they paint the picture of the album really well. But it sorta loses impact with how repetitive it gets after the first chorus. Thank god it's so short because this feels really off in such a flowing album. One of the few songs I actually skip.
Final song ranking: 6/10
  1. Romantic Dreams
AAAAAAHHHHH! I wish this night would never end!
This song is the reason I don't like Swerve City. Romantic Dreams is so much better of a opener it's actually kinda hilarious it isn't. It does such a great job to introduce the themes of the album and the overall vibe of raw emotion, even down to it's name! And that chorus, my LORD. I used to think that people saying they fucked to Deftones was weird but after listening to this? I 100% get it. This shit is unashamedly romantic and I'm 100% into it. Also that melodic riff in the start and end is downright orgasmic.
Final song ranking: 10/10
  1. Leathers
THIS IS! YOUR CHANCE! REVOLT! RESIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIST!
Somehow, after so many relistens, I STILL get caught out by the jumpscare lmao. I honestly kinda love how it just keeps up the sheer intensity the whole way through. Normally they would use this type of intensity to signify raw anger, but using it almost like a display of love oddly work out? It's a very unique sound, and the almost body horror picture painted via those lyrics... This song is gruesomely romantic, if such a thing exists.
Final song ranking: 9/10
  1. Poltergeist
What can I say?! I think your head is fucked! Go on, drive me, WIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIILD!
Keeping up that gruesomely romantic vibe, Poltergeist is a visceral and brutal song that is actually sorta playfully horny at the same time? The lyrics are fucking amazing, I LOVE the raw contrast of pretend-hatred and fury, and the sheer amount of love the narrator actually seems to feel. If there was ever a tsundere anthem, this should be it. Also the clapping is great, you guys are just MEAN
Final song ranking: 9/10
  1. Entombed
Shapes, and colors are all I see...
Man. The almost dreamy guitar in here is fantastic. It is such a massive VIBE of a song. It always gets me in such a mellowed tone and it's so soothingly romantic. It serves well as a break from the sheer intensity from the past 2 songs and gives such a surreal experience to it. And the synths work wonders to solidify the vibes. Lord, this song is flawless.
Final song ranking: 10/10
  1. Graphic Nature
Tell me how you do it! Every time it takes my knees out...
I think this song takes the title of most appropriate title for a song ever. It sure as hell paints the graphic nature it gives excellently. It's a oddly mellow song considering it's harsher guitars, and the just absolutely dirty lyrics, yet it still contains a softer tone at the same time. It's harsh and soft at the same time, peak Deftones honestly.
Final song ranking: 9/10
  1. Tempest
TURNING IN CIRCLES! BEEN CAUGHT INTO STASIS! THE ANCIENT ARRIVAL, CUT THROUGH THE END! I'D LIKE TO BE TAKEN, APART FROM THE INSIDE! THEN SPIT THROUGH THE CYCLE, RIGHT TO THE END!
Alright fuck it, I can't pretend to be unbiased anymore. Tempest is THE best Deftones song ever. I won't be taking any discussion at all. It is a perfect combination for everything I personally enjoy in music, and it warps in such different directions I can't not love it. It evolves and changes so much, while still capturing that lovely Deftones feel, while also feeling very experimental and consistently novel. It's almost like a metal King Crimson and THAT is the largest praise I could possibly give to any band ever. It's perfect, one of the best songs I've ever heard period.
Final song ranking: 10/10
  1. Gauze
I can't stop, what you began...
Anything that came after THE best Deftones song would have struggled to keep up, honestly, I kinda feel bad. But Gauze... Is actually pretty damn good regardless. Really underrated. It kinda feels like a culmination of what the album has done so far: melodic, harsh, dreamy, and sheer intensity. It grabs all the great parts so far and mashes them up in a emotional mix that never fails to absolutely murder my balance.
Final song ranking: 10/10
  1. Rosemary
There's no sound... But the engine's drone... Our minds set free to roam...
Again, breaking the unbiased view again. Tempest is the best song Deftones ever made, but Rosemary is definitely number 2. It's got almost every single great element that Tempest has as well, and honestly? It almost has a conclusive vibe to it, even though the album is far from over when it kicks in. It's a perfectly realized concept through the end, and it wraps up perfectly all the vibes built through the album. Also flawless.
Final song ranking: 10/10
  1. Goon Squad
Designed, special, for you, by me.
Lord this title has aged badly LMAO, aside from that this song is actually really damn good, like Jesus. I love how it keeps up the outro of Rosemary and then lets out it's own vibe, giving out some of the most intense vocals and riffs in the entirety of Deftones... Only to hit you with such a melodic and flowing chorus. It's a amazing hit of bait and switch.
Final song ranking: 9/10
  1. What Happened To You?
Far ahead... (Of our time, now...) Floating through...
And we arrive to the end. What a beautiful journey, and what a beautiful finale to cap everything off. I think this is the ONLY positive Deftones closing song ever and honestly? It's fantastic. If any album deserved a happy conclusion, it's definitely this. It's such a great twist because with Deftones, you usually expect the closer to be the darkest or saddest song in the album, but this song... It's maybe the most positive and loving in it. Which is quite a feat considering Romantic Dreams exists. I love basically everything about it, the drums, the guitars, the bass, and Chino's vocals sell perfectly this amazing closer that actually gives off the vibe of a happily ever after, if anything. What a beautiful and fitting way to cap off this romantic trip.
Final song ranking: 10/10
Final album ranking: 9/10, absolute masterpiece, the peak of Deftones' experimental era and the absolute peak the band ever reached in consistency and songwriting. Excluding Swerve City, nothing here is below phenomenal.
Deftones album ranking so far:
1. Koi No Yokan
  1. White Pony
  2. Diamond Eyes
  3. Around The Fur
  4. Saturday Night Wrist
  5. Adrenaline
  6. Deftones
Deftones top 10 for me so far:
  1. Tempest
  2. Rosemary
  3. Passenger
  4. Be Quiet And Drive
  5. Digital Bath
  6. Xerces
  7. Pink Maggit
  8. What Happened To You?
  9. Entombed
  10. Gauze
Next time around... fuck's sake, Gore.
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2024.05.14 20:26 BIGHANKSMECHANICSHOP College Offense, 2006 Rose Bowl & Keeping a 15 year old game fresh. (blog post)

So to start, when I play HC I have my system, and I use it. I have a West Coast Zone Block Scheme playbook I created using Mike Shanahan's as a base, and throughout the years that is what I've ran. Updating it from time to time, but the fundamental core of my playbook was 25-30 runs a game with a work horse RB, zone stretch plays in singleback or Near, setting up the play action boot rollout. And for the last 8 or 9 years, It's the only offense I've used. Until this weekend.
This last weekend I was drinking my morning Coffee watching broncos press conference about bo nix, and at the end of the interview YT recommended me the 2006 Rose bowl game, Texas vs USC. (The greatest college football game of all time) as I watched the game on my iPad, inspiration hit me & dusted off my PS3.
For the First time ever in HC I created a College offense. As my Base playbook I used Michigan spread, Knowing how dominant Hammermill is, I decided to use his simple 75 play playbook. I added a single back two TE set to his book, about 15-20 plays in this formation, and added some shotgun passes as well. In total my playbook is 115 plays, which in contrast is rather limited compared to my 160 play westcoast book.
My defense is typically a 3-4 man pressure based off of Wade Phillips playbook. As a Broncos fan, when I play HC I try to recreate the two best era's of Denver Broncos football. Mike Shanahan's offense with Wade Phillips no fly zone defense. In the theme of new-to-me-playstyle, I used the 3-3-5 Mustang and added 14 plays in a 3-4 front. 89 plays total, The 3-3-5 is completely foreign to me, but I did know it requires 2 strong safeties and a single high free safety that is a true centerfielder. the 3 down lineman need to be big & strong, essentially 3 nose tackles
I like to create back stories to my coach, as much as Madden and Head Coach are Football games, to me I play them Like an RPG as well. where did my coach come from, what is his background and how did he become a head coach. etc
"Dom Mastroianni aka 'the Maestro' is a Guru, specializing in getting the best out of his players. He took Ole Miss on a miraculous run in the SEC. Not exactly a mad genius on either side of the ball, his specialty is helping his players maximize their potential. Leader of Men and Motivator."
With my playbooks & lore set, I I took over the 49ers, A team I've never used before. My 50k coach points were to be saved until just before the preseason, where I'd buy Charm > Motivator and have 5k left over to put into performance. as part of my lore after acquiring motivator, I will max out performance to level 4 before buying other skills.
My first move as head coach was to trade for Vince Young & Reggie Bush, two guys who I hoped would become stud's in Hammermills playbook. Coupled with me watching the 2006 rose bowl and rush to motivator on my skill tree, I felt good about what these two could do. No other trades were made. I signed Free agent Eugene Wilson & Stacey Andrews.
As the draft came along, I wanted to target guys who were extreme athletes and use the potential boost of motivator to increase their intangibles and overall ability. Since I was using motivator so early, I gave up most of my 2009 draft to collect players who had great combines and measurables, I wanted to have 8 or 9 very solid picks and turn these players into superstars and maximize their potential.
My Draft went as followed
Limas Sweed, VY's teammate at the university of Texas - 1st Round
Martellius Bennet TE - 2nd Round
Desean Jackson WR - 2nd Round
John Greco RT - 3rd Round
Tom Zibikowski SS - 3rd Round
David hale LG - 4th Round
Zack Bowman CB - 4th Round
Steven Justice C - 5th Round
Peyton Hillis FB - 5th Round
Hank Smithers DT - 6th Round
Frank Okam DT (converted LE) - 6th Round
Darrell LongBottom DT - 7th Round
Sweed, Bennet, and Zibikowski are 3 guys I never draft. But sweed is 6'5 and with his potential boost he can reach a 99 speed, 95 catching. His injury rating is still bad, but not as bad. Zibikowski and bennet had similar changes, bennet is now a 96 potential speed with his 6'7 frame. a matchup nightmare. between him and vernon davis's measurables there isnt a single linebacker who can matchup with them.
The preseason was just as much me learning the playbook as they players. My first regular season game was a nail bitter, 37-34 victory over the cardinals that came down to the wire. Vince young finished 22-31 with 345 passing yards and 4 TD's. Reggie Bush 13 Attempts 74 yards, 2 catches 28 yards and 93 return yards. I wrapped up my season last night and went 8-8. My typical first years are 10 - 12 wins and playoff birth.
But the new challenge of learning both a defense and offense playbook with entirely new players has been a shot in the arm for me. The most fun i've had playing this game in a long while. I apologize about the long blog post, & if you made it this far thanks for reading. I've got a firm grasp on the michigan spread offense which features alot of option plays & overall I'm very excited for the start of this next season.
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2024.05.14 20:26 samw_99 My story “I got grabbed” was removed

Can someone explain to me specifically why this was removed, and how I’d be able to edit it without defeating the purpose of the entire story?
It was removed for breach of the “CORROBORATION/PROOF” rule, though after reviewing those terms, I don’t believe that I’ve broken them.
“A dream, a nightmare, a hallucination, a vision, a bout of sleep paralysis, is drunk and/or high, was in a coma or otherwise an altered state”— none of these are the reason behind my main character’s paranormal experience, and I’ve given no indication whatsoever in the story to suggest that they are.
In fact, I’ve outright denied the idea that my main character imagined her experience about as much as I possibly could for a story with a first person perspective.
The main character says “it definitely happened. It’s not the kind of thing you can just imagine, and I’m sure now that it wasn’t a dream,” in the second paragraph— a sentiment which she consistently attests to throughout the story, and a sentiment which is never walked back on or brought into question by the narrator.
My narrator was in a sound state of mind at the moment of her encounter, and is practical and methodical in her investigation of what happened. Any implication that she has become mentally unwell occurs long after the inciting incident which the story is built around.
I would like to respectfully request that this story be reevaluated. In the short time that it was active on nosleep, it clearly connected with people. If it cannot stand as is, then I need someone to help me make it fit the guidelines without defeating the entire purpose of the story and betraying its themes.
The nosleep subreddit is filled to the brim with stories in which the narrator’s words are taken at face value. When a narrator in a different story says “I walked to the store,” it’s not like the author HAS to give tactile, irrefutable evidence that the narrator actually walked to the store. The audience simply accepts that the narrator walked to the store. This concept of innate credibility is the bedrock upon which my entire story is built.
I do not believe my work would benefit from being altered to fit these guidelines as rigidly as possible, nor do I think that is a fair standard to hold it to. In fact, if I were to change the contents of my story in such a way, the themes which set it apart from others like it would be lost.
In short, I do not understand why my story was deleted, I do not know how to alter it to fit the guidelines beyond any shadow of a doubt without destroying its central purpose, and I refuse to believe that nosleep is not the right place for this work. I implore you to reconsider my submission, or to at least work with me to find a solution which keeps the story’s themes intact.
Here is my story:
I got grabbed
Last night, when I was home alone, a hand reached out from under the couch and grabbed me.
Nobody was there to see it, and nobody that I’ve told believes me, but it definitely happened. It’s not the kind of thing you can just imagine, and I’m sure now that it wasn’t a dream.
I was watching TV when it happened. The remote fell under the couch and I started fishing around for it without really looking, not wanting to get up from my seat. I brushed it with the tips of my fingers and it slid further underneath.
I was super annoyed— I had to get down on my knees to reach it. I finally found the remote, and that’s when it grabbed me.
As I pulled the remote out into the light, a hand shot up from under the couch and wrapped its fingers around my wrist.
I was able to yank myself away quickly. It didn’t hold on tight— just enough that I felt a little resistance. I jumped to my feet, obviously terrified.
I didn’t scream or anything. I was honestly too scared to even make a sound. My heart was beating so fast that my ears started to ring. The TV was still going, commercials droning on while I tried to process what had just happened.
The hand had only come out about a foot from under the couch. It had an arm attached to it, though I wasn’t able to see past its elbow, and it slinked back below the couch as soon as I pulled myself free from its grasp.
It didn’t hurt, and it didn’t leave any sort of bruise or mark or anything on my wrist, but I definitely felt it, and I definitely saw it.
All I could do was stare at the spot where the hand had appeared. I stood there for what felt like an eternity, until I heard the unmistakable sound of footsteps right outside my front door.
I live in a second-story apartment. It’s a pretty cramped place and a pretty old building, so whenever someone comes over I can usually hear footsteps from the moment they enter the building downstairs.
I guess I was so freaked out by the hand that I didn’t even notice someone was outside until they were already opening the door.
My roommate walked in on quite a scene. She immediately registered how off the vibe was. I could see it on her face.
She found me standing upright in the middle of our living room, TV remote in hand, facing away from the screen while Full House’s laugh track filled the air. I’m sure I’d think it was odd too.
“Hey…” she said, shifting a paper bag full of groceries in her arm while she pocketed her keys, “You good?”
I felt like I was caught with my pants down, but just seeing a familiar face brought some of the blood back to my fingers.
“N—yeah,” I stuttered. I came back online, and flicked the TV off.
I felt her eyes on me as she walked over to the kitchen. There’s no wall or anything dividing the two rooms. Like I said, the place is pretty cramped.
She started putting her groceries away as if everything was normal, but I could tell she wanted to ask what was up.
I kept looking back and forth between her and the couch. I can’t explain it, but I already knew that if I looked under there, I wouldn’t find any trace of whoever (or whatever) grabbed me.
As she started loading up the fridge, I dropped to my hands and knees once again. Without taking even a second to ready myself, I brought my head down to the ground and looked under the couch.
Nothing.
Pretty much what I expected. There was barely enough room for me to squeeze my arm under there for the remote. No way a whole person could fit beneath that thing, and even if they could, there’s no way I wouldn’t have seen them or heard them or something before they grabbed me.
“Seriously, what’s up?”
I looked up to see my roommate standing right behind me, arms crossed, clearly concerned.
I knew I was acting strange, and I knew that nothing I would come up with in the next five seconds could possibly excuse my behavior. I made a judgement call, honestly not really caring about how it would be received.
“I uh… something grabbed me earlier.”
“What?”
“Under the couch. I dropped the remote, and when I picked it up, a hand reached out from under the couch and grabbed me.”
Took her a second to respond.
“What the fuck are you talking about?”
“That’s it. A hand reached out and grabbed me by the wrist. It happened like a minute before you got here.”
That part might have been a lie. I actually have no idea how long I had been standing in the middle of the room before she showed up.
“Wait so like someone broke in?”
“No. It’s just like I said. A hand reached out, grabbed me, and then it was gone.”
She just kinda looked at me for a while. I don’t blame her, but it’s not like there was any way for me to sugarcoat it.
“Are you sure?”
“What do you mean ‘am I sure?’ Yes, yes I’m fucking sure!”
My voice broke a little when I said that. I was still down on my knees, like I was praying for her to believe me.
“Okay well obviously that didn’t happen Sam.”I let out a desperate laugh and threw my hands up in the air. I slapped them down on my thighs dramatically and shook my head in exasperation.
“Yeah obviously it sounds fucking crazy but you asked what happened and that’s what happened. I don’t know how else to describe it. I’m just being honest.”
I pulled myself up to my feet and walked around to the armrest of the couch. She kept studying me, probably thinking this was all a prank or something.
“What are you doing?” She asked, arms still glued across her chest.
“I’m checking under the couch.”
I pushed one end of the couch away from the wall. It was pretty heavy, and the coffee table stopped me from moving it too far. I dragged the coffee table towards the TV to free up some space.
My roommate started staring at the spot I was clearing as if she expected to see something there too.
I went back over to the armrest.
“Can you help me?”
She snapped out of her trance and silently went to grab the other side. We pulled the couch away from the wall, revealing a thick rectangle of dust that had not seen the light of day since we moved in a year ago.
I dropped to my knees once more and began wiping away the grime with my bare hands. There was nothing but the floorboards beneath it. No surprise.
I sat there for a second, eyes darting around the floor. No fingerprints in the dust, no scratches or marks or anything. I felt the tension in the room dissipate as my roommate found her voice again.
“I think you must have imagined it.”
I didn’t. There’s no way.
“Dude, no. I felt it and I saw it. Clear as day. It was a hand, and it grabbed me. That’s not the sort of thing you can just imagine.”
She scoffed, any fear left in her giving way to frustration.
“Whatever. This is fucking stupid. I’m going to bed.”
She stomped off towards her room.
“Wait.”
She spun on her heels as I stood up, probably expecting me to tell her I was joking about the whole thing.
“Can you help me flip the couch over?”
She rolled her eyes.
“Sure. But I’m not helping you put it back.”
She helped me lift the couch off of its legs and tilt it onto its front cushions, exposing the fabric underneath. She disappeared into her room and I went to work studying the underside of the sofa.
There was a zipper lining the bottom, but I found nothing inside when I opened it up. Just a hollow wooden frame and a bunch of crumbs.
I sat back against the wall, more tired than scared at that point.
I can’t believe she thinks I’m making this up. Why would I even do that? What purpose would it serve?
As I solemnly went about rebuilding our living room, I decided that the next day (today) I was gonna take off work, wait for her to leave, and really get to the bottom of this.
I didn’t sleep at all last night. Every nook and cranny of my room felt like a door left wide open, with something sinister waiting on the other side.
What if the hand comes back? What if it wants to hurt me next time? How can I even protect myself?
After like ten restless minutes in bed, I decided to move to the floor. I couldn’t help it. I kept imagining the hand reaching up from under the bed and grabbing me again.
I made a makeshift sleeping bag out of my comforter and some pillows, and I laid on my side so I could keep an eye on the underside of my bedframe while I slept. Maybe “slept” isn’t the right word. Even down there, I couldn’t bring myself to close my eyes for longer than a minute.
Eventually sunlight began to peek through the blinds, and I heard some movement within the apartment. My roommate was finally up. I heard the front door close, and it was time to get to work.
I nearly threw my back out yanking the couch away from the wall to reveal the floorboards underneath. They aren’t real floorboards, just the kind of cheap-o fake shit they put in crappy houses to make them look more modern. Our whole apartment is like that— a thin coat of paint slapped over an old building from the 40s or whatever.
My dad actually owns this building. He lets me and my roommate stay here as long as we pay him $500 a month, which is way cheaper than most places in my area.
It’s not really an apartment building to be honest. You can tell it used to be a family home before some realtor swooped in and broke it up into apartments. There are a lot of those around here.
Anyway, the fake wood came up easy. It was only about a quarter inch thick. I was able to pull up the first plank by hammering a kitchen knife into a slit between the boards, and then I peeled a few more away by hand.
After prying away about a dozen of these fake floorboards, I started to realize that I wasn’t going to find anything without making a significantly larger dent. Right beneath the thin layer of fake wood was a layer of very real, very thick wooden beams that seemed to span well beyond the hole I had managed to claw open.
My back crackled and popped as I sat back on my heels to admire my handiwork and contemplate where to go from there. I knew I would need a power saw or some kind of heavy duty tool to get any deeper, but I was afraid of two things:
  1. That these beams were supporting the entire second floor of the building, and cutting through them would make the whole thing collapse
  2. That going any deeper would lead me into the ceiling of the apartment below us, and whoever lives there would call my dad before I could see what I needed to see.
Regardless of the risks, I knew I had to keep going. I was certain that something was down there. Whatever grabbed me had to have left some sort of evidence.
I can’t stop thinking about that fucking hand.
I’m not supposed to have it, but my dad gave me a master key for the whole building in case of emergencies. He could really get in trouble if anyone found out, but if this isn’t an emergency then idk what is.
There’s a service shed around the back of the building, which has seen none of the love that the main building saw when it was renovated. Decades worth of rusty antiques and rotting furniture line the walls. A shiny, modern tool bench sits unnaturally in the middle of the chaos.
I rifled through all of that shit as fast as I could. I’m not really close with my dad all things considered, and I’m sure he’d be super pissed if he found me out there. He’s so secretive about random shit all the time, and he’s constantly dropping by the building unannounced.
I found the jigsaw under a pile of old newspapers and ran back upstairs.
I probably should have checked the driveway to see if anyone was home first, because the saw made so much noise. The cord barely reached from the outlet to the spot where the couch used to be, but as awkward as the angle was, I was still able to get it in there.
I went as small as possible with my first few cuts. I started with a single beam, cutting out a section about 6x6 inches wide. I slid the chunk of wood out, and, to my relief, didn’t immediately see the plaster that would be my downstairs neighbor’s ceiling.
A tuft of insulation stuck out where I made the hole. I didn’t know that stuff is made from fiberglass or whatever, and I got a really bad splinter when I went to yank it out.
I fished some leather gloves out of my roommate’s closet and got to work on the insulation. I pulled and pulled but couldn’t get a good enough grip to remove anything more than a few bits about the size of a tennis ball.
I went back in with the jigsaw, cutting bigger and bigger chunks until I had cleared a hole about two feet in diameter.
No sign that I was gonna bring the building down, that’s good.
I hacked away for hours. More wood came up, more insulation came up, and when I finally hit a fragile-looking layer of drywall, I knew the jig was up. That’s definitely my neighbor’s ceiling. Fuck.
My roommate and I got in a screaming match when she got home. I made a pretty big mess but I don’t really give a fuck honestly.
I don’t give a fuck if she believes me. I fucking hate that bitch. I told her if she tells my dad what I’m doing, I’ll bash her brains in with the hammer. That shut her up. She left with a bag full of her clothes like an hour later.
Tomorrow I’m going to wait for our downstairs neighbor to leave and start investigating from the bottom-up. If there wasn’t any evidence on the floor up here, there HAS to be something on the ceiling down there.
If I do find something, I’ll post again. I doubt anyone will even believe me, but at this point I just want everything written down somewhere accessible in case something bad happens.
There has to be something down there. Something grabbed me. And I’m going to find out what it is.
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2024.05.14 20:15 MotownMurder Is there such a thing as a "New World" government?

Ever since New Vegas became the most beloved Fallout game by diehards, there's been a lot of talk about this theme that shows up here and there, mostly in the DLC but sometimes in the base game too: That the Old World destroyed itself, therefore any society that represents the Old World is also destined to destroy itself. That you need to get over your "Old World Blues" and pick something new for the wasteland to have a hope of constructing anything worthwhile that can last. What's more, after the release of the Fallout show, and seeing certain plot developments that happen there, this sort of discussion has made a serious comeback, for reasons (if you know you know).
On the surface, I guess this makes for a plausible moral for the series; Don't imitate the doomed past, build something new. But...is that even possible? What would constitute 'new'? After all, all of the existing factions are unambiguously failures by that measure:
On and on it goes...just about every stable, coherent faction is dominated by Old World values, or at the very least, Old World symbolism, and thus are doomed to fail by the thematic rules of the setting. What else is left? The raiders? The super mutants? Was the Master right all along? Is there ANY possible society that can fit this criteria?
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2024.05.14 20:14 ApprehensiveEqual214 Original brands?

Original brands?
I know this sub is for OCs, but have any of you thought up any original businesses or brands in Hell? It’s one of my favorite things to do while making Hellaverse content!
Restaurants, clubs, products, places, and things, I want to hear all your ideas. If it could feasibly fit into the show then let’s have it!
One I regularly allude to in my fic is Pizzarolli’s, a Fizz-themed pizza chain with many locations throughout the Seven Rings. Think little caesars but even more evil. Plus with every 6th pizza you get a free movie rental at Hornywood Video!
Trimmed pic of Frisk, my hellcat OC featured in my fics. Link to Act One in my profile
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2024.05.14 20:02 CG-07 "Torch is not able to use GPU"

These are the steps I followed to install the program
  1. Download and install Python (I am sure I have activated the add python to path option)
  2. Download and install Git
  3. Download and install stable diffusion through CMD (this is the Github link: https://github.com/AUTOMATIC1111/stable-diffusion-webui )
but when I try running webui-user.bat, I get the following error:
venv "D:\Stable Diffusion\stable-diffusion-webui\venv\Scripts\Python.exe" Python 3.10.6 (tags/v3.10.6:9c7b4bd, Aug 1 2022, 21:53:49) [MSC v.1932 64 bit (AMD64)] Version: v1.9.3 Commit hash: 1c0a0c4c26f78c32095ebc7f8af82f5c04fca8c0 Traceback (most recent call last): File "D:\Stable Diffusion\stable-diffusion-webui\launch.py", line 48, in  main() File "D:\Stable Diffusion\stable-diffusion-webui\launch.py", line 39, in main prepare_environment() File "D:\Stable Diffusion\stable-diffusion-webui\modules\launch_utils.py", line 386, in prepare_environment raise RuntimeError( RuntimeError: Torch is not able to use GPU; add --skip-torch-cuda-test to COMMANDLINE_ARGS variable to disable this check Press any key to continue . . . 

Solution methods that I tried but did not work

01.- I tried to edit the code in the webui-user.bat file to:
u/echo off set PYTHON= set GIT= set VENV_DIR= set COMMANDLINE_ARGS= --skip-torch-cuda-test to COMMANDLINE_ARGS call webui.bat 
but after that I got the following error
venv "D:\Stable Diffusion\stable-diffusion-webui\venv\Scripts\Python.exe" Python 3.10.6 (tags/v3.10.6:9c7b4bd, Aug 1 2022, 21:53:49) [MSC v.1932 64 bit (AMD64)] Version: v1.9.3 Commit hash: 1c0a0c4c26f78c32095ebc7f8af82f5c04fca8c0 Installing clip Installing open_clip Installing requirements Launching Web UI with arguments: --skip-torch-cuda-test to COMMANDLINE_ARGS D:\Stable Diffusion\stable-diffusion-webui\venv\lib\site-packages\torch\cuda\__init__.py:740: UserWarning: CUDA initialization: The NVIDIA driver on your system is too old (found version 11010). Please update your GPU driver by downloading and installing a new version from the URL: http://www.nvidia.com/Download/index.aspx Alternatively, go to: https://pytorch.org to install a PyTorch version that has been compiled with your version of the CUDA driver. (Triggered internally at ..\c10\cuda\CUDAFunctions.cpp:108.) return torch._C._cuda_getDeviceCount() if nvml_count < 0 else nvml_count no module 'xformers'. Processing without... no module 'xformers'. Processing without... usage: launch.py [-h] [--update-all-extensions] [--skip-python-version-check] [--skip-torch-cuda-test] [--reinstall-xformers] [--reinstall-torch] [--update-check] [--test-server] [--log-startup] [--skip-prepare-environment] [--skip-install] [--dump-sysinfo] [--loglevel LOGLEVEL] [--do-not-download-clip] [--data-dir DATA_DIR] [--config CONFIG] [--ckpt CKPT] [--ckpt-dir CKPT_DIR] [--vae-dir VAE_DIR] [--gfpgan-dir GFPGAN_DIR] [--gfpgan-model GFPGAN_MODEL] [--no-half] [--no-half-vae] [--no-progressbar-hiding] [--max-batch-count MAX_BATCH_COUNT] [--embeddings-dir EMBEDDINGS_DIR] [--textual-inversion-templates-dir TEXTUAL_INVERSION_TEMPLATES_DIR] [--hypernetwork-dir HYPERNETWORK_DIR] [--localizations-dir LOCALIZATIONS_DIR] [--allow-code] [--medvram] [--medvram-sdxl] [--lowvram] [--lowram] [--always-batch-cond-uncond] [--unload-gfpgan] [--precision {full,autocast}] [--upcast-sampling] [--share] [--ngrok NGROK] [--ngrok-region NGROK_REGION] [--ngrok-options NGROK_OPTIONS] [--enable-insecure-extension-access] [--codeformer-models-path CODEFORMER_MODELS_PATH] [--gfpgan-models-path GFPGAN_MODELS_PATH] [--esrgan-models-path ESRGAN_MODELS_PATH] [--bsrgan-models-path BSRGAN_MODELS_PATH] [--realesrgan-models-path REALESRGAN_MODELS_PATH] [--dat-models-path DAT_MODELS_PATH] [--clip-models-path CLIP_MODELS_PATH] [--xformers] [--force-enable-xformers] [--xformers-flash-attention] [--deepdanbooru] [--opt-split-attention] [--opt-sub-quad-attention] [--sub-quad-q-chunk-size SUB_QUAD_Q_CHUNK_SIZE] [--sub-quad-kv-chunk-size SUB_QUAD_KV_CHUNK_SIZE] [--sub-quad-chunk-threshold SUB_QUAD_CHUNK_THRESHOLD] [--opt-split-attention-invokeai] [--opt-split-attention-v1] [--opt-sdp-attention] [--opt-sdp-no-mem-attention] [--disable-opt-split-attention] [--disable-nan-check] [--use-cpu USE_CPU [USE_CPU ...]] [--use-ipex] [--disable-model-loading-ram-optimization] [--listen] [--port PORT] [--show-negative-prompt] [--ui-config-file UI_CONFIG_FILE] [--hide-ui-dir-config] [--freeze-settings] [--freeze-settings-in-sections FREEZE_SETTINGS_IN_SECTIONS] [--freeze-specific-settings FREEZE_SPECIFIC_SETTINGS] [--ui-settings-file UI_SETTINGS_FILE] [--gradio-debug] [--gradio-auth GRADIO_AUTH] [--gradio-auth-path GRADIO_AUTH_PATH] [--gradio-img2img-tool GRADIO_IMG2IMG_TOOL] [--gradio-inpaint-tool GRADIO_INPAINT_TOOL] [--gradio-allowed-path GRADIO_ALLOWED_PATH] [--opt-channelslast] [--styles-file STYLES_FILE] [--autolaunch] [--theme THEME] [--use-textbox-seed] [--disable-console-progressbars] [--enable-console-prompts] [--vae-path VAE_PATH] [--disable-safe-unpickle] [--api] [--api-auth API_AUTH] [--api-log] [--nowebui] [--ui-debug-mode] [--device-id DEVICE_ID] [--administrator] [--cors-allow-origins CORS_ALLOW_ORIGINS] [--cors-allow-origins-regex CORS_ALLOW_ORIGINS_REGEX] [--tls-keyfile TLS_KEYFILE] [--tls-certfile TLS_CERTFILE] [--disable-tls-verify] [--server-name SERVER_NAME] [--gradio-queue] [--no-gradio-queue] [--skip-version-check] [--no-hashing] [--no-download-sd-model] [--subpath SUBPATH] [--add-stop-route] [--api-server-stop] [--timeout-keep-alive TIMEOUT_KEEP_ALIVE] [--disable-all-extensions] [--disable-extra-extensions] [--skip-load-model-at-start] [--unix-filenames-sanitization] [--filenames-max-length FILENAMES_MAX_LENGTH] [--no-prompt-history] [--ldsr-models-path LDSR_MODELS_PATH] [--lora-dir LORA_DIR] [--lyco-dir-backcompat LYCO_DIR_BACKCOMPAT] [--scunet-models-path SCUNET_MODELS_PATH] [--swinir-models-path SWINIR_MODELS_PATH] launch.py: error: unrecognized arguments: to COMMANDLINE_ARGS Press any key to continue . . . 
02.- I also tried the following method but it didn't work:
I hope you can help me and thank you in advance for responding.
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2024.05.14 20:01 Lordzoot Good Habits? A Review of Habit Rouge EDT, Rouge Prive and the Parfum

For many, Guerlain’s Habit Rouge represents a high watermark in perfumery. Since its original release in 1965, the composition has been beloved by gentlemen (and ladies) across the world. It is also a well known favourite of many of the most well regarded perfume historians and reviewers out there and, because of that, one could well argue that there is precious little further useful opinion that can be added to the existing cannon (and they may well be right!).
Still, Jean-Paul Guerlain’s multi-faceted composition has been no stranger to a remix over the years and, since Delphine Jelk took over from Thierry Wasser as in-house perfumer at the historic French house, she has managed to deliver a staggering three new takes on the fragrance in as many years. What better opportunity could there be, therefore, to undertake both a reappraisal of the original release and, in doing so, compare it to some of the new kids on the block? Note: I have not sampled the first of Jelk’s flankers, 2022’s Habit Rouge L'Instinct but, given the almost unanimous negativity surrounding it, it’s not high on my hit list! We’ll be looking at Rouge Prive and the Parfum today.
Habit Rouge EDT (1965)
The concept behind Habit Rouge (or ‘Red Coat’, if translated in to English from its native language) was to create a perfume that brought to mind the jackets worn by the landed gentry when they went hunting. In the UK, we’re no stranger to this nefarious practice - our own fox hunting aristocrats also wore red coats and, despite now being banned, the idea of chasing helpless creatures to their deaths is still a subject of debate in our national politics (with right wing politicians often promising to offer a ‘free vote’ to MPs on the issue to energise their base).
As an animal lover myself, this is perhaps the only element of Habit Rouge I find somewhat jarring. There is nothing within this perfume which brings to mind sport, adrenaline, blood, or violence. I find it somewhat curious, consequently, that Guerlain sought to relate it to hunting. The only thing wearers of Habit Rouge were likely to be chasing on its release were sexual partners!
That statement isn’t made wholly in jest either. Habit Rouge is a gentleman’s fragrance, but it carries within its structure not only aspects of formality and traditional masculinity, but also sensuality and sensitivity. It is, as such, a fragrance well suited to old fashioned romantics. Indeed, if it didn’t have these traits, I’d argue that it wouldn’t have survived for the almost 60 years that it has. When you think about it, it’s almost incredible that, despite how radically concepts of masculinity have changed over the years, Habit Rouge has still been a regular seller for Guerlain, with devotees now spanning across 5 generations.
Created to be the younger brother to the company’s 1925 release, Shalimar it, like its sibling, contains a citrus top note, which descends into a floral heart, before culminating in a vanillic leather and amber base. Habit Rouge is not simply a three card trick, however, and its complete run of notes can be summarised as follows (as per Basenotes):
Top Notes: bergamot, lemon, rosewood, basil, pimento
Heart Notes: sandalwood, carnation, patchouli, cedar, rose, cinnamon
Base Notes: vanilla, amber, moss, leather, benzoin, labdanum, olibanum
When it comes to the head of the perfume, the real star of the show is the bergamot, which radiates wonderfully off the skin when first sprayed. Whilst it is effervescent, though, it is also a powdery affair. In fact, it can most accurately be described as being akin to orange sherbet - fizzing whilst maintaining a chalkiness. It is warm and reassuring as opposed to enthusiastic. It also maintains a cologne like structure, however, by incorporating herbal and spicy notes through the use of basil and rosewood.
This accord is then joined to a rose and carnation-dominant middle phase, through which the powdered facets of the fragrance continue to run, and through which the fragrance begins to show its romantic side.
Finally, the dry down of the fragrance provides a semi-sweet backdrop with the vanilla taking the edge away from the traditionally masculine moss and leather accords and combining with the rest of the ingredients to produce a soft, light amber.
It is not hard to see, in this context, why Habit Rouge has continued to be successful over the years - it, essentially, captures hearts and minds because it resonates with the personality of its wearer in a way that other traditional masculine fragrances can sometimes struggle to do (as they were often, like their owners of the period, more buttoned up).
Habit Rouge - Rouge Prive (2023)
That doesn’t mean that the EdT of Habit Rouge smells like it was composed yesterday, however. It just means that it has aged like a fine wine as opposed to being the perfume equivalent of a kipper tie. In fact, if it were any item of clothing, I’d compare it to a 1960s slim lapelled suit - of its time, but still stylish today.
Still, as the years have gone by, the term ‘legibility’ has become more and more important in the perfume industry, and there now seems to be a distinct trend towards the creation of perfumes whose formulas are more streamlined than Habit Rouge. Or to put it another way, perfumers are being encouraged to reduce the number of notes in a perfume’s composition, with the aim of producing a more direct product. For lovers of vintage fragrances, legibility can be an anathema but, personally, I have no issue with the principle behind the concept. Nor it appears, does Delphine Jelk. Enter Habit Rouge Rouge Prive.
Top Notes:Bergamot, Ginger
Middle Notes: Orange Blossom, Iris
Base Notes: Leather, Patchouli, Vanilla
As can be seen from the notes list, Rouge Prive maintains the structure of Habit Rouge (bergamot, floral, vanillic leather), but switches out or culls a number of the traditional accords that were contained within the original. Gone are the cologne-esque elements. Gone too are the powdery rose and carnation. The leather, meanwhile, has been amped up and modernised - more akin to Tom Ford’s Tuscan Leather than Knize 10. Whisper it quietly, but it also seems that Jelk has snuck an oud accord in to the base too.
Given the number of changes, you could be forgiven for thinking that Rouge Prive would end up smelling completely different to the EdT, but fans of the OG need not worry - this is still unmistakably Habit Rouge. To paraphrase Persolaise (my favourite reviewer of perfumes), it’s like the whole perfume has simply been redrawn with clean bold lines. The bergamot continues to shimmer and, in spite of the florals being listed as Orange Blossom and Iris, the ultimate accord generated is still interpreted by my nose as being a rose. It is very much a rouge perfume as opposed to an orange or purple one (which is, incidentally, roughly what you get if you combine an iris hue and orange on a colour wheel…).
Where Rouge Prive differs to the EdT is in its brute strength. The leather note really does have a serious kick to it and, given that, the perfume is pulled from the bottom up, as opposed to the top diffusing off the skin to reveal the heart.
Whilst I’ve always found the EdT to perform quite well, the longevity of the Prive is genuinely outstanding, again due to the material in the base. Pleasingly though, the dry down still does maintain the powdered amber facets contained within the original. It’s a superb flanker that updates Habit Rouge without necessarily ripping up the original composition.
Habit Rouge Parfum (2024)
Not to rest on their laurels, Guerlain have now revisited Habit Rouge again in 2024, introducing a parfum version to go alongside new stablemates Vetiver Parfum and L’Homme Ideal Parfum.
I’ll say in advance that I’m a little sceptical of the allure of parfums myself, as I often find that the actual performance difference between fragrance concentrations can be completely counter-intuitive (I have EdTs that vastly out-perform EDPs and Parfums, both in terms of silage and longevity). In addition, given that Rouge Prive was already quite beastly, the necessity for a parfum to be made only a year later seems curious to me.
Parking those views for the moment though, the theme across these three new releases appears to be alcohol. In the case of Habit Rouge, the drink of choice is listed as rum, although there seems to be confusion in that regard, with Jelk being quoted in the marketing as saying:
For Habit Rouge Le Parfum, I Created a leathery vanilla liqueur with plenty of bold bourbon-inspired intensity
Perhaps Guerlain are suggesting that the perfume has been matured in bourbon casks? Hmm. In any event, the notes list for this one is as follows:
Bergamot, Vanilla, Rum, Patchouli
Well, I did say perfumers were streamlining their notes list, didn’t I!
What’s most striking to me about the Parfum is, firstly, how base heavy it is (we’re talking sub-woofer level) but, secondly, how patchouli dominant it is - there’s a definite chocolate element in that respect, but my nose also detects something slightly medicinal, smoked, and perhaps even burnt (think coffee beans). When combined with the vanilla, the result is a perfume that very much lies within the domain of the gourmand.
This is somewhat a blessing and a curse - if you’re not a particular fan of the EdT or Prive’s floral elements, you’re likely to get along a lot better with the Parfum. At the same time though, I’d argue that the floral heart of Habit Rouge is, to a large extent, key to its DNA, and vastly reducing the components that make this element ‘sing’ lead to a very different fragrance profile.
My second critique is that the perfume, generally, feels less balanced than Rouge Prive. I have no issue with the concept of a Habit Rouge that focuses on patchouli - readers of my previous pieces will know that I’m a huge fan of the note - I just wished that, on a technical level, the Parfum still maintained a decent top end. As it is, the whole thing sits very deep against the skin, with any radiance from the bergamot being buried by the heavier materials. This ultimately leads to a fragrance that, rather than being a sparkling rouge, comes across as a heavy-set chocolate and beige. Because of that, I can’t decide whether or not I’ve truly fallen for the Parfum.
That being said, you honestly couldn’t go wrong with any one of these three and I’ve no doubt they’ll appeal to different elements of the fragrance market. I look forward to Jelk’s next flanker in 2025, even if these variations are becoming a little bit akin to Marge Simpson’s Chanel jacket…!
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2024.05.14 19:48 midnightmeatloaf Need help understanding behavior in this subreddit please

Need help understanding behavior in this subreddit please
Yesterday I saw a post in which a user indicated a plan to game the system by signing up to be a recurrent guardian sponsor, and then cancel the subscription in order to save a few dollars, but still receive benefits of being a sponsor.
I commented that I didn't think this was ethical behavior. And I stand by that... The Finch devs work INCREDIBLY HARD for us. They come up with new themes and implement them every month. The free version of this app has no ads! They literally GIFT users the paid version, valued at $49.99 if users can't afford it. Of all the apps to try to hack the price tag on, y'all picked this one? Like if you want to steal from Walmart, that's one thing. But don't steal from the small independent mom and pop shop that actually pays its employees a fair wage.
I don't understand why so many of you condoned the behavior of trying to exploit the devs to receive guardianship without paying the price they asked for. Guardianship is optional, and meant to be altruistic. I am a guardian, and I could only afford the Ally tier, but it is what it is. I would never even think to sign up for a renewed subscription at a lower price, with the intention of cancelling it to still reap the benefits but at a lower price. How anyone could do that for this app in particular is beyond me. I'm not angry, I'm just profoundly confused...
Honestly, I don't care about the 22 downvotes; I could care less about my imaginary Reddit points. But I do care that no less than 22 of you thought to publicly voice your opinion on my comment discouraging a user from trying to exploit the devs in order to achieve guardian status.... I'm really concerned that so many people are publicly expressing condoning financial exploitation of the Finch devs to achieve guardian status. It doesn't make sense to me. I don't think anyone with this type of character should be a guardian, but clearly I am missing something because I am in the minority and a lot of you thought I was in the wrong. I just don't get it.
Soooooo... If any of the 22 of you who voiced your opinions on my comment want to help me understand what I'm missing, I would greatly appreciate it. Or am I truly in the minority in thinking this behavior isn't okay?
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2024.05.14 19:42 Scared-Carpenter4288 They hid their relationship with ex. Are they codependent? Did I jump the gun? Feeling lost.

This is a long 'get it off my chest'. Met A online while they were engaged to and living with Z. A and I hit it off very hard, very fast. The romance was intense, and A would sometimes say things that rubbed me the wrong way: “I want to be with you at the end of the universe” and the like -- things that seemed very “mono-minded”. Z had had a secondary partner for a year at this point, while A had not kept one since they asked Z to open the relationship. A and I met up once IRL during this time. I did not meet Z, nor did I ask to. I said eventually that I may be falling too hard to handle being secondary.
Also… I’ve been around poly enough to be able to tell A’s engagement was failing, and told them so. A insisted that while their love for Z was not intense or sexual anymore, they were still in love and planned to get married. I was not trying to replace Z, but simply saw it as a matter of fact that they were ‘over’, and trying to use poly to fill the cracks or branch off, which A denied. A was desperate to keep me around and said they wanted me to be “co-primary”, which felt ridiculous given the engagement.
Eventually, I left due to the distance making it impossible to get my needs met in the way I wanted with this person, and I was too emotionally invested to find a primary partner if I was seeing them (I generally consider myself more “poly-saturated at one partner” than mono).
Three months later, I get a 15-minute VM: I was right, they were no longer engaged, and they still held a torch for me. A told Z about their unhappiness, and despite attempts to rekindle, it was over. A+Z were now ‘queer platonic’, a phrase I admit I’d only heard a couple of times. I assumed that this was a relationship like mine with my ex — we live together, care for our home together, are best friends, and are part of each other’s families, but we are not ‘together’ and cannot ‘break up’. I was a bit skeptical (my ex and I needed a couple of years at minimum, with lots of discussions, breaks in contact, time living apart, etc. to get to that healthy point), and I felt that A needed to be single: they’d had two nearly back-to-back LTRs (both failed engagements) since their teens, and I didn’t feel that jumping into things with me was the best idea. Being stupid and still in love, of course, I waited barely any time before jumping back. I tried whenever I could to get A to do more for themselves, as they seemed so focused on me. Looking back I would say with certainty they have codependency issues, and I felt like I could “fix” it somehow.
We spent the next few months talking, planning a long-term future together, where they’d move and our general timelines. I asked that, due to our distance and the complications of our history, I’d like us to start off monogamously for a mutually-agreed on period of time. They readily accepted, and I planned to ask them to be my primary this summer.
1st flag: A and Z were still partnered online. When asked, A said “I don’t use the (gay) apps much [not true] and don’t care what my profile says [questionable, given my perception of them]”. I let it pass for months, nothing changed, and then was firm that (1) I knew that they were not being honest, and needed to tell me what wasn’t being shared, and (2) It was important to me that they were publicly single before we coupled. To (1), they admitted that Z had asked A that they not make their breakup public yet. Z had had recent personal problems, and A felt bad pushing the issue, especially after initiating the breakup. To (2), A said they would revisit the question with Z soon. I felt hurt, and they were worried we had escalated too quickly, so we took a month break.
Towards the end of this break, A finally talked with Z, saying they wanted to pursue me. This did not go over well, but A was insistent. I was glad, but days later I still had some discomfort based on things A said, and, taking a wild guess, I asked — “Hey, is Z insisting you keep him as a partner, so he’s your platonic/nesting partner and I’m the ‘romantic’ one?”. A admitted this was true, and that, while they wanted a clear breakup, their life was too enmeshed with Z to risk his reaction. They even worried Z would kick them out of his house and take back his car if they did not stay partnered. They also said I “should have said something sooner” to pre-empt this situation, which seemed… nuts, especially since we talked about mono/being single. I said I would not participate in this arrangement. They said I was making ultimatums, but I felt that ‘surprise poly’ was an exception. I felt completely betrayed by all this. I asked A if this situation would end once they found a way to move out, and they said they ‘didn’t know’. They could not stand hurting him further (this was the refrain over and over) or risking what they had. I ended things then, because:
  1. I no longer knew how to trust A after seeing this pattern multiple times
  2. They had gone back on our agreement that they be single and we start off mono — without communicating to me beforehand or after, only telling me because I guessed.
  3. The poly situation I was being asked to come into exists primarily out of fear of loss.
  4. I felt, selfishly, like whatever A+Z had was always going to be chosen above what A might have with me, or that Z and I would be forced to be ‘enemies’ for A’s resources given the bad blood.
I’m feeling very adrift and frustrated right now. I’m a pretty independent person, and pride myself on being honest and upfront now, because that skill took me a LONG time to learn. A is slightly older than me, and I just don’t understand why they couldn’t be clear with me or Z. I’m feeling insecure because I haven’t had a partnership as long as A+Z, and part of me thinks I’m being immature and trying to rush their decoupling… but also, A is the one that reached back out, and I’m not trying to set their life on fire. I just think everyone will move on in a more healthy way with honesty. I worry that I should have been more open to the poly situation, but I also know that I’m free to set my own boundaries — also, I didn’t walk in knowing that A+Z were now basically NPs. I think I was given the runaround. Ugh.
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2024.05.14 19:26 Fickle-Lavishness-41 My experience with SM Global Package in Japan for Taemin

Hi everyone!
I wanted to give a detailed review of my experience with sm global package for taemin’s metamorph concert in tokyo at the nippon budokan. I am months delayed in posting this (thanks to grad school) but I initially wrote it out of post-concert depression prior to returning to the states back in March.
buying the global package, twin ver:
the package was announced sometime in december 2023 if im not mistaken and I stayed up until midnight (pst) on 1/22 to book a twin package for ‘course c’ which was 2N3D (sunday concert 3/10) for my friend and I. The packages that included all three nights (5D3N) of the show sold out the quickest, but there were still packages available for individual show days. As a tip to make things easier, make sure to have your friends’ passport info to input in advance so the booking goes easier if you are booking a twin package. If you are the one making the booking, make sure to have the global package app downloaded as they will send you notifications along the way about day of show schedule, merch preorder, etc. They ask that you relay this info to your partner when you purchase a twin package, as you are the primary reservation holder. You also cannot split the cost while booking, it must go on one card through paypal. When booking, you have the option to request extending your stay at the hotel through sm c&c, but since we were planning to go to Kyoto after the concert, we just checked out the day after the concert as planned. Also we didn’t have any ACE memberships, but if I remember correctly, you can enter that info to get an exclusive MD benefit.
merch preorder:
Prior to arriving in Japan, we got a notification at around 6pm pst on 2/28 (11 days prior to the show) with our exclusive merch preorder links which went live at midnight that same night. The prices were in yen and you pay using paypal. I had no problem getting the MD I wanted, however since there were limits on the amount of MD you could purchase (including the 2 different pins, which were 1 per order) I had to ask my friend if I could purchase an additional pin through his MD preorder link since there were 2 different pins in this specific concert MD. The day of the show (3/10) at around 10am, we picked up the MD we preordered with ease and pulled our concert seat tickets and received our global package exclusive gift (a mag safe wallet) and let the staff know which transports we would be taking (round trip bus or one way to/from the venue). I was a ljttle disappointed in the global package benefit MD as I had seen what the metamorph show in Korea had received (I think it was a handwritten letter from Taemin and a little lego figurine of him 🤧). Everything was smooth and efficient. Even after the concert, I was able to get into the MD line to purchase more, even though most of the MD was sold out.
checking in/out of the hotel & hotel review:
We stayed at the Hotel Monterey Hanzomon which was really close to the venue and across the street from the Hanzomon subway line, so it was very accessible by public transit. My friend and I both flew into Haneda and it took a little less than an hour to get to the hotel from the airport via public transit, but after a 12.5 hour long flight it was exhausting. When I asked the people at the airport if there was an airport limousine to the area, they said it wouldn’t take me close enough to the hotel and recommended I take the subway. We had met a few people in line for the MD pickup who said that we (allegedly) had a nicer hotel than those who did the NCT 127 global package for their Tokyo dome show (same weekend) but all in all, Hanzomon was an economy hotel with nothing to write home about. I will say the breakfast buffet included was really nice and I’m glad we didn’t skip out on it. When we checked in the day before the show, we just showed our passports and checked in like any other hotel. In the lobby there was a whiteboard with all of the concert info (opening times for md pickup, bus schedules, and concert schedule) displayed in english, korean, chinese, and japanese. I was a little bummed to find out that the concert (which took place in the middle of the afternoon) was only going to be an hour and a half maximum, even though NCT’s concert was almost 4 hours (!!!) in length.
day of show:
We had breakfast in the lobby around 8:30/9ish then after that we got to the sm desk at 9:45am to pick up our md and pick our tickets for the show (thanks to the tip from another fan on reddit, well worth getting there a little before the booth opened). I did notice the ACE membership MD benefits were nice, but neither me nor my friend have any fanclub memberships. It was relatively straightforward, they checked our passports and handed us a lanyard that acted as our bus pass and then one person per twin package picks the pair of tickets at random (in sets of 2 so you sit with your friend) and we got seats in section A3 (floor) which were great. They asked us if we wanted a seat on the bus ride round trip or one way and we originally said only one ride to the venue, but my friend decided to take the bus back too once we got to the venue so we notified the SM staff and they added us to the roster for the ride back easily. When we got to the venue (an hour and a half-ish before doors) they escorted us to the front and we were let in immediately. The efficiency was incredible. They didn’t check my bag prior to entering like how they would for a concert in the US so I didn’t bring a water bottle into the venue but thankfully they had vending machines inside and concessions on the top levels of the venue. We also went to a booth upstairs to pair our lightsticks for the show, since the Japanese Shinee Lightstick app is only available for Japanese phones, so we showed our ticket locations and they were able to calibrate. The show was short yet sweet, we did not see anyone ejected for taking photos/videos but we were too scared to risk it. If you are caught filming or taking photos they will make you delete the photos/videos and kick you out with no sign of return, but I think because it was the last day and we were in the middle of a crowd, it was a little easier to get away with. There was a sadness in the air because it was Taemin’s last concert as a soloist under SM, but overall the show was incredible. One thing of note though is Japanese audiences are very quiet, they tend to clap rather than scream in between songs and there were times where you could hear someone from the rafters sneeze and it would resonate, so be prepared for that cultural difference. We still screamed when it felt appropriate to do so and the fanchants were loud but it was definitely strange to be golf clapping in between songs, especially in comparison to shows in the US where fans are barking 💀. It was nice to be able to hear Taemin speak uninterrupted during the ments, without pick-me fans interjecting their screams. He spoke exclusively in Japanese and there was no translator so we were left to guess what he was saying. A K-fan next to us was live Papago-ing his ments to Korean and I would peek and read what the translation was. Also shout out to this lovely K-shawol because she let my friend borrow one of her lightsticks! Once the show ended, everyone queued up to leave the venue in an orderly fashion and we cleaned up any trash we saw and we went out to the MD booth to buy any last minute MDs before going to the bus. On the bus, they gave us each a (unthemed) bag with some strawberry cookies and a waterbottle and we had a fun time air-dropping photos and videos from the show with other (braver) global package attendees. Everyone we met was so lovely and everything about the global package went very smoothly and efficiently.
closing thoughts:
the day after the show, we took advantage of the free breakfast and checked out with ease. The SM C&C staff left the whiteboard in the lobby and left a nice note for us and we wrote our thank yous on there. Overall, the package cost was $1559 for 2 people ($779 ea, 2 twin beds for 2N3D) and even though it was pricey it was so worth the convenience of not having to try to buy tickets locally, which I heard sold out entirely during fan club presale. Please note that this cost did not include airfare or transit to/from the airport. The concert coincided with my spring break and Taemin is one of my ults, I just wrote a paper on him for grad school so it was a no brainer, I had to be there no matter what lol. I was a bit disappointed in the lack of theming (I heard the concerts in Korea come with themed rooms, themed snacks, etc) and the lack of transportation to and from the airport (which I heard is sometimes an option for shows in Korea and would have been a great benefit). But otherwise the hotel was clean and convenient (a little small, but that’s how it is normally in an economy hotel in Japan), breakfast was good, SM staff were helpful and nice, and we made some new Shawol friends in the meantime :)
overall, I would absolutely book with global package again, but I would definitely want to see a show in Korea to compare the benefits. It was an unforgettable experience to be apart of the pearl aqua ocean 💎
if you have any questions ask away! prior to booking this package, I took the advice of another fan under and it was really helpful so I wanted to offer any insight based off my experience.
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2024.05.14 19:09 annie_m_m_m_m Call for written shares on the theme of "Our biggest game changers and life hacks after diagnosis/identification" to be read anonymously at the beginning of the May 21 meeting

Hi everyone,
I'm looking forward to our Tuesday meeting on "Our biggest game changers and life hacks after diagnosis/identification". At this time, I'm collecting shares on that theme to be read anonymously at our meeting on Tues, May 21.
Anonymous written shares are read at the beginning of the meeting to provide inspiration for our live spoken and written shares, which make up the majority of our meeting time.
If you would like to provide a written share for our meeting, please DM about 4-6 sentences to me, u/annie_m_m_m_m. I will compile the shares in a document to be read at the meeting. I will not include your username on the document. Or feel free to use a throwaway account for your DM for even more security :)
Our questions for the week will be:
Thank you so much to all contributors. Your share will help kickstart our discussion.
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2024.05.14 18:57 CharlieWaitress111 I was watching YouTube content creator “THE CORNERVERSE”. And she said something profoundly true when it came to Otis Maeve/Ruby. When O said to Otis that his sex issues stemmed from his Dad cheating on his Mum and destroying the family.

I was watching YouTube content creator “THE CORNERVERSE”. And she said something profoundly true when it came to Otis Maeve/Ruby. When O said to Otis that his sex issues stemmed from his Dad cheating on his Mum and destroying the family.
This would explain the difference between his sexual relationship with Maeve and Ruby. And why it’s not as cut and dry. And also the way Otis views both Ruby and Maeve in regards to his life. And also the difference in Otis’ relationship with these two women.
Otis was never scared to have sex. He was just scared of the implications of it. Jean said that sex ruins lives when Otis was younger and he remembered that statement ever since. As we saw with Otis having causal sex with Ruby throughout the summer and even when they got together. The reason for that is because Otis simply didn’t care for Ruby like that. There was no fear because for Otis as there was nothing to lose. He quite LITERALLY wanted to fuck the pain away from assuming he lost Maeve after the voicemail message debacle. There was no attachment to Ruby like that. As we all know, Otis never had feelings for Ruby and he certainly wasn’t in love with her or even loved her at all. So it was easy for Otis to have a sexual relationship with someone like Ruby who he didn’t have that emotional connection with. There wasn’t anything at stake with Ruby. This isn’t me saying this as a MOTIS fan. It’s an irrefutable fact and truth. That’s why it was so easy for Otis to loosen up and be more care free in relation to sex. That’s why when everyone says Otis seemed more at ease with Ruby it’s because with Ruby he had nothing to lose. So it was easier to be more carefree. Because Otis literally did not like Ruby like that. As harsh as that sounds for the ROTIS fans. It’s the truth. Ruby was always just a rebound for Otis because he thought he couldn’t have Maeve.
When it comes to Maeve. This is where his sex issues comes into play. We all know Otis is clearly in love with Maeve and always wanted her. As he himself said, it’s always been Maeve. So unlike Ruby, there IS a lot at stake here with Otis when it comes to Maeve. Someone who he loves. Otis LOVES Maeve. So based off the fact that sex is what destroyed his family and the people he loves. Remi cheating on Jean is what caused Otis’ sex issues. He LITERALLY saw his father having sex with a woman that wasn’t his Mother. So because of that, like we saw in episode 6 of Season 4. After Maeve’s Mums funeral. When they tried to have sex. That’s why Otis kept thinking of his Mother. Which is the trauma that caused his sex problems. Like i previously stated, the reason why Otis was able to have sex with Ruby so much and kept that sexual relationship is because he didn’t love Ruby and didn’t have any attachment to her like that. He didn’t rate her the same way he rates Maeve. Maeve is on a pedestal when it comes to Otis. The only reason why Otis was FINALLY able to have with Maeve is because before the had sex they broke up. So in Otis’ mind. There isn’t much to lose now. The love is still there. But the situation and circumstance is different now. He wasn’t in a relationship with Maeve anymore so it was easier for Otis not to get hurt as Maeve was no longer his. Even though… ( Maeve will FOREVER be Otis’ and vice versa ). That also explains why in Season 4, Otis’ whole theme was being scared that he’ll lose Maeve. That’s why their long distance relationship didn’t really work. Yes, they BOTH were missing each other. But when Maeve told Otis upon her lecturer’s discussion with her that there would be a good chance that she could stay in America more long term, Otis freaked out. Because his greatest fear was losing Maeve. That’s why Otis was seen to be irrational and insecure when it came to Maeve. Because when it comes to Maeve there’s so much at stake for Otis. What’s why Otis TOLD Ruby about his greatest fear of losing Maeve and being left behind.
TLDR?: Sex was never an issue with Otis. The person to have sex with WAS. Otis didn’t care for Ruby and that’s why it was easier to have sex with her. It was harder for Otis to have sex with Maeve BECAUSE he cares so much about her and he loves her the most.
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2024.05.14 18:56 CharlieWaitress111 I was watching YouTube content creator “THE CORNERVERSE”. And she said something profoundly true when it came to Otis Maeve/Ruby. When O said to Otis that his sex issues stemmed from his Dad cheating on his Mum and destroying the family.

I was watching YouTube content creator “THE CORNERVERSE”. And she said something profoundly true when it came to Otis Maeve/Ruby. When O said to Otis that his sex issues stemmed from his Dad cheating on his Mum and destroying the family.
This would explain the difference between his sexual relationship with Maeve and Ruby. And why it’s not as cut and dry. And also the way Otis views both Ruby and Maeve in regards to his life. And also the difference in Otis’ relationship with these two women.
Otis was never scared to have sex. He was just scared of the implications of it. Jean said that sex ruins lives when Otis was younger and he remembered that statement ever since. As we saw with Otis having causal sex with Ruby throughout the summer and even when they got together. The reason for that is because Otis simply didn’t care for Ruby like that. There was no fear because for Otis as there was nothing to lose. He quite LITERALLY wanted to fuck the pain away from assuming he lost Maeve after the voicemail message debacle. There was no attachment to Ruby like that. As we all know, Otis never had feelings for Ruby and he certainly wasn’t in love with her or even loved her at all. So it was easy for Otis to have a sexual relationship with someone like Ruby who he didn’t have that emotional connection with. There wasn’t anything at stake with Ruby. This isn’t me saying this as a MOTIS fan. It’s an irrefutable fact and truth. That’s why it was so easy for Otis to loosen up and be more care free in relation to sex. That’s why when everyone says Otis seemed more at ease with Ruby it’s because with Ruby he had nothing to lose. So it was easier to be more carefree. Because Otis literally did not like Ruby like that. As harsh as that sounds for the ROTIS fans. It’s the truth. Ruby was always just a rebound for Otis because he thought he couldn’t have Maeve.
When it comes to Maeve. This is where his sex issues comes into play. We all know Otis is clearly in love with Maeve and always wanted her. As he himself said, it’s always been Maeve. So unlike Ruby, there IS a lot at stake here with Otis when it comes to Maeve. Someone who he loves. Otis LOVES Maeve. So based off the fact that sex is what destroyed his family and the people he loves. Remi cheating on Jean is what caused Otis’ sex issues. He LITERALLY saw his father having sex with a woman that wasn’t his Mother. So because of that, like we saw in episode 6 of Season 4. After Maeve’s Mums funeral. When they tried to have sex. That’s why Otis kept thinking of his Mother. Which is the trauma that caused his sex problems. Like i previously stated, the reason why Otis was able to have sex with Ruby so much and kept that sexual relationship is because he didn’t love Ruby and didn’t have any attachment to her like that. He didn’t rate her the same way he rates Maeve. Maeve is on a pedestal when it comes to Otis. The only reason why Otis was FINALLY able to have with Maeve is because before the had sex they broke up. So in Otis’ mind. There isn’t much to lose now. The love is still there. But the situation and circumstance is different now. He wasn’t in a relationship with Maeve anymore so it was easier for Otis not to get hurt as Maeve was no longer his. Even though… ( Maeve will FOREVER be Otis’ and vice versa ). That also explains why in Season 4, Otis’ whole theme was being scared that he’ll lose Maeve. That’s why their long distance relationship didn’t really work. Yes, they BOTH were missing each other. But when Maeve told Otis upon her lecturer’s discussion with her that there would be a good chance that she could stay in America more long term, Otis freaked out. Because his greatest fear was losing Maeve. That’s why Otis was seen to be irrational and insecure when it came to Maeve. Because when it comes to Maeve there’s so much at stake for Otis. What’s why Otis TOLD Ruby about his greatest fear of losing Maeve and being left behind.
TLDR?: Sex was never an issue with Otis. The person to have sex with WAS. Otis didn’t care for Ruby and that’s why it was easier to have sex with her. It was harder for Otis to have sex with Maeve BECAUSE he cares so much about her and he loves her the most.
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2024.05.14 18:38 DrewV4321 Donkey Kong Country 2 is my favorite 2D platformer!

Hi, I'm new to this subreddit, I have DKC2 and 3 physical SNES cartridges (I use to have DKC1 when growing up and yes I 101% it on NSO recently) DKC 2 is my favorite tho. Crocodile Isle is an amazing location and has very different vibes compared to Donkey Kong Island. The atmosphere is amazing and the music is incredible (my favorite themes from this game is Krokodile Kacophony and Krook March). I REALLY enjoy the challenge this game has, I seen people hey really mad, but honestly I never really yelled or felt that angery, I guess I have alot of patience, and I also just have really fun. The levels are fun and creative. I think it has the best bosses in the og trilogy, all of them are fun and challenging. I love getting all the collectables and getting to play the harder levels in the lost world as I go. Diddy Kong is my favorite Kong, Dixie is a close second. It has my favorite version of K. Rool, I seen a lot of people prefer his original design in DKC1 but I think his design in 2 is just as amazing, and makes him fittingly more threatening looking, he's also alot more threatening in this game, he kidnapped Donkey Kong, and you see at the end that he's abusing him as DK is tied up. His final boss is amazing, I actually prefer Krocodile Kacophony over Gang-Plank Galleon, his attacks are really fun to avoid while still having a set pattern (alot more challenging, complex and fun than his fight in DKC1 imo), and the way DK break free at the end to finish him off is just so good, the secret final boss is really good too (not as good as the the first final boss tho imo) where he comes back and you only get to attack him at the end. I also really love th graphics for these games, I think DKC2 did them better tho, I love the pre-rendered 3D models compressed to 2d sprites and the backgrounds and environments so much. What do you guys think of this game? Honestly it's tied with my other favorite 2D platformer, Yoshi's Island for the SNES. :)
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2024.05.14 18:36 starryeyedq The Themes of The Boys

As we get into the new season, I just thought it would be fun to track and discuss the themes and motifs this show has kept up throughout the seasons so far so we can see how they play out in Season 4:)
NOTE: I have not read many spoilers. I don't mind if they come into the discussion, but please mark with a tag for anyone who doesn't want to see them!
Honestly, when I really laid all these out, it made me appreciate the writing so much more, even in moments I didn't really care for the first time around.
Plus analyzing stuff like this is fun for super cool people. Join me!
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This is probably the main theme of the series and the thing that becomes the biggest downfall for all our protagonists. "Saving Someone" has now become something that puts the viewer on edge.
How many times has a character exclaimed "I'm trying to save you," when actually all they're doing is trying to serve their own selfish agenda and alleviate their own guilt or affirm their image of themselves?
I could seriously write a whole essay about this and how it ties to the idea of What it Means to Be a Hero. But feel free to discuss it more in the comments.
The Boys is constantly exploring how Vought and The Boys bend the truth to serve their own agenda and are constantly asserting that the definition of truth typically belongs to whoever has the power (Power being another big motif).
Justice vs. Vengeance is also a big one that keeps coming up. Starlight is arguably the only character who is earnestly pursuing true justice on this show and tbh, it cramps everyone's style. MM and Hughie also great characters to follow for this because they are both genuinely trying to do the right thing and are often seduced by Butcher's much more attractive Vengeance call.
This is another one that could turn into a whole essay and one that I'd probably have to go back and take more notes to explore. But I think it really ties into this idea of Power and Responsibility. Because isn't that the cornerstone of what it means to be a parent?
Children are seen by society as the ultimate innocents who must be protected at all costs, but they are so often abused and exploited by the people who are supposed to protect them - Even when it's unintentional. Parents so often see children as extensions of themselves rather than individuals. Simply tools to affirm their own existence or be mirrors of themselves (which ties into the whole selfish "I'm trying to save you" theme).
We see this explored with Ryan a lot, but this was beautifully culminated at the end of S3 when MM realizes he needs to be honest with his daughter about what he's been going through, not to justify his mistakes, but to show her respect and acknowledgement of a two-way relationship.
Oh man. This is another one that's like... A whole ass paper.
Super powers are definitely a vehicle to explore societal power with woman and POC on this show and the daunting idea that even with superpowers or wealth, race and gender can still be used as kryptonite.
We see it touched on in the ongoing discussions of how to properly "play the game" and achieve real power.
We see the Power and Women explored pretty in depth in Season 2, but Ashley is a really awesome ongoing exploration of this theme through a gender lens as she rises to power at Vought.
A Train and Noir are an obvious example of this exploration through a racial lens, but it's definitely also been touched on through pretty much every character of color on this show. I think they really got into it in a really interesting way on Gen V as well, but I don't want to bog this down any harder.
Just making sure everyone is on the same page - Toxic Masculinity does NOT mean that masculinity is inherently toxic. It is meant to focus on the unhealthy presentations and expectations of performing the role of "being a man."
Toxic Masculinity really became the focus of Season 3. We see that most clearly in the character of Soldier Boy (though I do worry that due to Jensen Ackles natural charisma, it didn't quite achieve the impact the writers intended), but also in Hughie.
Although many people (including me) felt like it was a disappointing step back for Hughie, I'm actually leaning back the other way on the rewatch. I think that the feeling powerless (which is something we feel as ordinary citizens all the time) moment Hughie had when he realized all the work he did with Neuman was built on a lie probably threw a lot out of whack. It makes perfect sense that the comments about his vulnerability and softness might start hitting a little differently than they used to.
Frenchie and MM on the other hand, are great examples of characters of healthy masculinity in their willingness to share power, be vulnerable, and self reflect so that they are able to support the interests of their loved ones.
This is the final theme I'll mention because it's a big one and I think it's going to be important in the upcoming season. Where does real power come from? Money? Strength? Social influence? Knowledge? Relationships?
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Okay I'm tired of typing and it's likely that only four people will comment on this if I'm lucky.
I hope you enjoy discussing (feel free to add your own big themes if I missed any) and I hope that being aware of these themes make the upcoming season more fun to watch.
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2024.05.14 18:31 Adorable_Hawk_7409 [Job] Juliet, Where Art Thou'? <2024-05-16 20:00(UTC)>

{2024-05-16 20:00 (UTC)}
Player count: 4-5.
Duration: 5 Hours.
Communication: A working microphone for Discord voice chat, access to Roll20 for a lobby.
In game location: Seattle.
Game theme: Extraction.
Game type: Pink Mohawk.
Threat level: High.
Prerequisites: Patience & respect for everyone on the table.
IC Response: How does your character feel about train rides.
OOC Response: A link to your character sheet, your role and comfortability with it between 1 and 10. (Take your best guess), your discord username, the date of your last run & if you have had less than 5, and if you have a hard time limit.
Content Warnings: The usual.
What's up chummer? Got a bit of returning business. J is waiting at the meet. 21,000 nuyen, a delicate flower needs to be set free.
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2024.05.14 18:16 HalfFeisty8493 45/M Looking to chat

I work from home and currently very busy procrastinating, so here I am.
Looking for chat partners, to talk about... whatever. From latest tv show we watched to the deep existential questions of our lives.
I'm a very open-minded guy. Happy to talk with anyone from anywhere about mostly anything.
As for hobbies and interests, I tend to switch interests very often and very fast... but repeating themes are writing and other creative outlets. I like psychology and learning about the nature of people, read, watch too much tv, occasionally play a video game.
You? you just be you.
If you are interested feel free to send a message :)
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2024.05.14 18:15 Angren1991 Pulverize Companion Druid - FREE ASPECTS in the season journey! Build Guide LVL & Endgame

Hey Guys! Angren with a Season 4 Starter Guide for all Pulverize Lovers that wanna have an easy start!
The Pulverise Druide will be one of the most favourite if not the absolute favourite Build in Season 4 of Diablo 4 for Druid players.
The pulverize Druid is really simple though. Its just generate resource with your basic skill then cast your companion skills on cooldown for more clarity buffs and then just smash with your pulverize.
Blizzard will introduce a themed starter Aspect set for the battle pass for every class and for the druid it will be pulverize. So you will get the shockwave aspect the blood boiling aspect and maybe something like aspect of the stampede for complete free if you will progres in the season pass. So if you want to have a guaranteed smooth and nice lvling experience until you have tempest roar and can go for werenado the Pulver Druid will be the absolute right choice for you in season4.
🧐 I will show you how to go trough in the skilltree, which aspects you should take, also which Spirit boons you should go, your gear and affix priorities.
Below the youtube Video there is an summary of the Build!
there is also a charplaner in the description guide!
Youtube Guide:
https://youtu.be/niQ3TZRsecE
Build overview:
Quick rota:
Rota:
  1. Cast companion skills for clarity buff 2
  2. keep companions on cooldown
  3. smash enemies with pulverize
  4. cast maul/Stormstrike for resource gen
Gear Prio:
Defensive:
  1. Max Resis
  2. Max Armor
  3. Max Life
Offensive:
  1. maul ranks
  2. crit chance
  3. overpower damage
  4. max life
  5. cc dmg till 40% earth paragon node
  6. Crit Damage
  7. Willpower
  8. Int if resis not maxed
Spirit boons:
Skilltree overview:
Why CC damage?
because of Earth Legendary Paragon Node Cap 40%
1 Hand or 2 hand?
2 hand because of shockwave aspect
Which glype to max first?
Overpower glyph to 15 first
Shapeshifter 15 first
other Glyphes to 15 first
After 15?:
Same as above
Endgame Guide:
Uber Uniques?
Yes, switch out your helm + Ring against Shako + Ring of starless skies
Which aspects to trade first?
No need thanks to season journey
SPIRIT GEN HOW?
  1. spirit per second (TRY TO GET THIS EARLY ON AND MASTERCRAFT IT!)
  2. spirit on kill (TRY TO GET THIS EARLY ON AND MASTERCRAFT IT!)
  3. resource cost reduction
  4. Resource gen
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2024.05.14 18:11 The_Flameee Help, my portals won't link or work at all like they should [java]

any portal i try to light and go through doesn't link at all, this leads to too much portals and could ruin my server, this isn't the obfuscation thing and im pretty sure its a mod i have.
here's a full list of my mods and the footage: Sky Structures
Dark Paintings Kotlin for Forge Easy Anvils [Forge & Fabric] Dungeon Crawl Konkrete [Forge] Dangerous Stone Cutter [Forge/Fabric] [Let's Do] API AutoRegLib Chalk AmbientSounds 5 [Let's Do] Beachparty Biome Music[Forge/Fabric] Savage Ender Dragon[Forge/Fabric] SuperMartijn642's Config Lib Extra Zombie Drops YUNG's Better Jungle Temples (Forge) Skeleton Horse Spawn Serene Seasons Name Tag Tweaks Radium Reforged Bookshelf Sooty Chimneys FullBright Cloth Config API (Fabric/Forge/NeoForge) Torch Slabs Mod WATERMeDIA: Multimedia API Tough As Nails Artifacts Cultural Delights CodeChicken Lib 1.8.+ Just Enough Items (JEI) Night Lights Savage & Ravage Enchantment Descriptions Spelunkery Second Chance (Forge) Sit Naturally Spawning Vex Visuality: Reforged HT's TreeChop Make Bubbles Pop [Client] [Forge/Fabric/Quilt] Sophisticated Backpacks Pitch Perfect Not Enough Animations Better Allay [FABRIC/FORGE] [ETF] Entity Texture Features - [Fabric & Forge] Universal Bone Meal [Forge & Fabric] Another Liquid Milk Towns and Towers YUNG's Better Desert Temples (Forge) YUNG's Better Nether Fortresses (Forge) Death Knell Special Drops Portfolio Mouse Tweaks The Aethe Durability Tooltip Golems Are Friends Not Fodder Kiwi 🥝 (Forge) Double Doors Bedspreads (Fabric/Forge/Quilt) Toast Control Placebo Supplementaries Squared Abnormals Delight Clear Water Respiteful The Twilight Forest CreativeCore YUNG's API (Forge) YUNG's Better Dungeons (Forge) MmmMmmMmmMmm (Target Dummy) Edibles Aquaculture 2 Chunk Sending[Forge/Fabric] Better Climbing Server Performance - Smooth Chunk Save[Forge/Fabric] Alex's Mobs Silveroak Outpost Chef's Delight [Forge] Ensorcellation Curios API (Forge/NeoForge) True Darkness Neapolitan Berry Good Supplementaries [Let's Do] Bakery Entity Collision FPS Fix Simple Shops Realistic Sleep Rare Ice (Forge/Fabric) Better Fog TerraBlender (Forge) Texels Paintings Cave Rats Buzzier Bees Chimes Stronger Snowballs Grabby Mobs Falling Leaves (NeoForge/Forge) Sophisticated Core Clear Lava and Water Alex's Delight Nyf's Spiders End's Delight CoFH Core Every Compat (Wood Good) Cupboard Another Furniture Carry On Farmer's Delight Drip Sounds (Forge) XP From Harvest Reworked Eating Animation [Forge] Path Under Gates Hourglass Cook your food Diet (Fabric/Forge/Quilt) Despawning Eggs Hatch YUNG's Bridges (Forge) Domestication Innovation Incubation Brewin' And Chewin' Extra Delight Beautify! Comforts (Fabric/Forge/Quilt) Snow Under Trees YUNG's Better Mineshafts (Forge) Variant Tools and Weaponry - More Weapons Let Sleeping Dogs Lie (Forge) SwingThroughGrass YUNG's Extras (Forge) Better Fullbright TheDirtyStuff Blueprint Clumps Neko's Enchanted Books Moonlight Lib YUNG's Better Strongholds (Forge) Void Fog Framework More Mob Variants Villager Names CullLessLeaves Reforged (Unofficial) Lucent YUNG's Better End Island (Forge) Chat Heads Detail Armor Bar [Forge] AppleSkin Snowballs Freeze Mobs Food Effects YUNG's Better Ocean Monuments (Forge) Iceberg [Forge] Mod Name Tooltip Architectury API (Fabric/Forge/NeoForge) Snuffles Snow! Real Magic! ⛄ (Forge) Naturally Charged Creepers Just Enough Effect Descriptions (JEED) Cat Jammies Biomes O' Plenty Super Simple Voice Radio Tumbleweed GeckoLib Pet Pass: Trade Your Pets Presence Footsteps [Forge] Starlight (Forge) [Let's Do] Vinery Citadel [Let's Do] NetherVinery [EMF] Entity Model Features [Fabric & Forge] Random Mob Sizes Better Fps - Render Distance[Forge] Puzzles Lib [Forge & Fabric] Fullbright UB Collective Nature's Compass Fresh Animations Smarter Farmers (farmers replant) Easy Shulker Boxes [Forge & Fabric] Simple Tomb Amplified Nether Copperized Advancement Plaques [Forge] YUNG's Better Witch Huts (Forge) Tax Free Levels (Fabric/(Neo)Forge) Boatload Camera Mod Simple Voice Chat Better Advancements Wool Tweaks Responsive Shields Carpet Trapdoors [Forge] Duckling Contact Nether's Delight Xtra Arrows Entity Culling Fabric/Forge Do a Barrel Roll Model Gap Fix Easy Magic [Forge & Fabric] MidnightLib Just Zoom [Forge] Catalogue Blur (Forge) Notes MrCrayfish's Gun Mod Farmer's Respite Iron Chests Twilight's Flavors & Delight Dynamic Lights Item Highlighter [Forge] Forgery 
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Dont mind the darkness, its another mod i just fixed
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