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2024.05.17 11:19 hunegypt After completing high school in Argentina, Cohen moved to Israel and this past December, he enlisted into the IDF.

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2024.05.17 11:16 sabasajja "Give us an opening prayer"

Been an athiest for about 7 years now. (Thanks George Carlin, Christopher Hitchens, Richard Dawkins, Derren Brown, and you know, common sense).
Haven't set foot in a church to pray in this period. Only went two years ago for an uncle's funeral in Jinja.
A while back during a family meeting, the kind attended by lots of staunch religious boomers - aunties, uncles, parents, etc, I was asked to lead the family in an opening prayer.
I refused.
I didn't explain myself or anything.
I simply said no.
This raised a lot of mumbling, grumbling and lots of confused faces.
People looked at me with this expression of "huh?"
There was a brief moment of awkwardness. "Is he gonna 'disobey' his elder and not do what he's told?"
I stood my ground and rode out the awkwardness.
Thing is, there is no god. Payers achieve absolute fuck all. There is no point in praying. Let's just move on with the program and be done with it.
Felt a surge of power and confidence after they left me alone and asked someone else to do it.
Fellow Ugandan athiests here, learn to stand your ground.

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2024.05.17 10:59 W1nger_69 KIT CBS MEI

Hello everyone, just got accepted to KIT Carl Benz School Mechanical Engineering International program. As I understood they offered me an indirect admission, so I have to attend PreSemster.

Is there is a way to avoid preSemester? Cuz I don’t wanna spend over 5k euros for that + I got invited couple days ago, so I have to apply for visa which takes 3weeks to 3 month. Open a blocked account with 11,208 euros on it. (I kinnda accepted the fact that I cant avoid it, but still, if some1 knows something)
I am confused on enrollment application. They ask me for a health insurance, “Please fill in whether you are legally insured or exempt. In the case of applicants with legally health insurance, it is mandatory to provide their health insurance number. Please do not enter a health insurance number if you have an exemption.” Is it the same insurance I apply for a visa? Or something else? I also received this in my letter of admission “Present this letter of admission to a German public health insurance company and apply for "Meldegrund 10" for enrollment. The health insurance company will send us the legallcy required confirmation directly in electronic form. Persons with a private health insurance status should contact any public health insurance company to be exempted from compulsory insurance. The notification will be sent directly to KIT” Pls help, I am so confused
What would you generally say about accommodation? I have heard that it is very hard to get one, so you should apply as soon as possible. I am probably going to apply for a HaDiKo student residence, and hope to get admitted. Is there any tips or reccomendations?

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2024.05.17 10:57 W1nger_69 KIT CBS MEI

Hello everyone, just got accepted to KIT Carl Benz School Mechanical Engineering International program. As I understood they offered me an indirect admission, so I have to attend PreSemster. 1) Is there is a way to avoid preSemester? Cuz I don’t wanna spend over 5k euros for that + I got invited couple days ago, so I have to apply for visa which takes 3weeks to 3 month. Open a blocked account with 11,208 euros on it. (I kinnda accepted the fact that I cant avoid it, but still, if some1 knows something)
2) I am confused on enrollment application. They ask me for a health insurance, “Please fill in whether you are legally insured or exempt. In the case of applicants with legally health insurance, it is mandatory to provide their health insurance number. Please do not enter a health insurance number if you have an exemption.” Is it the same insurance I apply for a visa? Or something else? I also received this in my letter of admission “Present this letter of admission to a German public health insurance company and apply for "Meldegrund 10" for enrollment. The health insurance company will send us the legallcy required confirmation directly in electronic form. Persons with a private health insurance status should contact any public health insurance company to be exempted from compulsory insurance. The notification will be sent directly to KIT” Pls help, I am so confused
3) What would you generally say about accommodation? I have heard that it is very hard to get one, so you should apply as soon as possible. I am probably going to apply for a HaDiKo student residence, and hope to get admitted. Is there any tips or reccomendations?

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2024.05.17 10:56 streptobiotic16 Confession to my lovecrush.

I choose this platform to say sorry to a person I hurt 15 years ago. I know we have our own lives today but I would like to take the courage to say sorry. For me to also move on and validate the feelings I had this moment. I'm not a good writer but I want to share my story. Do you guys experienced having no memory of a certain situation in your life? It's like you remember the person but not fully apprehend what "really" happened to both of you? Seems like there is a missing puzzle in the big picture? It happened to me and realized everything after all the embarrasing things I did. I was like acting the victim before and not knowing I am to blame after all. Year 2023 when I came back in my country, I'm working overseas by the way. As I went home, I declutter my personal things and there I saw some letters wayback 15years ago. Letters during our retreat activity college days. I read all their sweet messages and I stumbled to read a letter written by my crush. After reading his short and sweet letter I'm sobbing. Tears rolling down my cheeks and asking myself, what was my reaction when I read his letter before? Like what did I do?!! Did I read this? I'm thinking so hard searching for answers in my head about his letter but got no answer. It was so vague to me that I cannot find the answer I'm looking for in my mind and in my memory. All memories and emotions were bleak during that specific time. Throughout the day, all I'm thinking about was his letter. Thoughts like, yeah, I do have a crush on him during college days and it is too impossible that I disregarded that letter. I'm thinking crazy things already about his letter yet I cannot remember what really happened. I contacted my close friend who's been with me since college. She's like my sister from another mother who knows everything since college days. I started the convo sending her the letter he wrote for me and instantly she recognize who wrote it. She even ask me what did I do when I read the letter before or did I even bother to read the letter? I told her I cannot remember what I did before but one thing that's clear to me was our friendship seemed to drift away even before the graduation day. That's why I was'nt able to contact him after graduation day till up to present. Thinking, I was just the girl who just learned that the guy I like before, liked me back after reading the letter, my friend give me a silly suggestion of giving him a PM. Yes, we are classmates, friends during those days. He was on my list of friends in my socmedia yet after all this years, I never sent him a PM. I just wanted to say hi but I'm too embarassed to do it. Overthinking stuff and crazy ideas crossing in my mind. Then all of a sudden I saw in my screen 11:11am, immediately type hi and hit send button. Feeling embarassed that I pm-ed him first at the same time doubting if he still knows me, I'm too anxious in wanting to have or not to have a reply from him that time. Morning the next day upon checking my phone I got a reply from him, 👍 at 5:55am. Being weirdo again all I did was to talk to myself early that morning to give him a reply or not. I'm thorn of doing so or what. Then I just decided to give him a message of asking how is he, introducing myself, hope he's doing okay, message him because of blah, blah then wishin him luck and good day. Ugh, still embarassed. I thought it will be the end of our convo but he replied back saying he's doing okay. He remember me saying I'm his classmate and I'm happy that he's doing good now in his new career. He also ask how I'm doing and what do I do these days. We exchange 4-5 convo until he stop responding. I'm like yeah, that's it. I'm sure he's busy and I understand his profession demands time but I also want myself not to expect anything in REALITY. I'm being too emotional as of the moment that all I got to think was him and his letter creating imaginary things between us. I'm a rational person so as I pacify myself and calm down the thoughts in my mind, I decided to write everything in my journal. As I write down my thoughts, the question of how's and why's, slowly I remember everything that happened 15 years ago. I clearly remember the thoughts I had, the decisions I made and how I ghosted him. Circa 2009. 4th year college. I have a guy friend who's my classmate during 3rd year since we were block section. He's also my block groupmate. Maybe we became close because we were together most of the times. He's tall, lanky, sweet, caring, funny and brainy. He's the type of guy who only bring a notebook in the room, I never saw him with a bag in normal schedule of classes but hey he always pass. And as a cheapskate college girl, I used to take down notes and do everything as I can to not spend extra penny. I become aware of him being sweet to me by borrowing my notes saying she can understand my handwriting, sitting beside me on classes where sitting position is not required, going to library doing group activities, walking side by side in school aisle and seeing him giving me a sweet smile. Getting him caught staring at me then he will just smile mirorring his eyes. It seems like normal things right? But I can sense there is something behind those small gestures. I also shared this to my friend that I can sense there is something about him but he never confirm anything at all. He was never even bothered when he knew one of my girl friends told him she had a crush on him. I got a little jealous during that time, I even got jealous on her friends that were beauties during college days. He was a friendly guy but knows how to be a gentleman. Since, no admission of feelings in his part we continued to be good friends, him still giving the same care and treatment to me. I can't remember if it was 2nd trimester when we had our retreat activity. It was months also before our graduation day and then after that will have our in-house review for upcoming board examination. Everyone is excited to attend the retreat because we can give a rest on our tired minds. We rented a good place with a perfect weather during that time. During our last day, the last task given to us is write a letter to each person in your group. He was my groupmate during the retreat. We can read the letter after the activity or if we have time to spare. I decided to read mine when I got home. Me and him are still good during that time. When I arrived home, I started reading their letter, I read his letter last. His letter goes like this,
A_____, " I have met you on a cloudy Monday and now you never knew how much I loved the rain." Your a gentle child and very sincere. You are very concern to all the people around you and thats what make you different from others. You can carry things up and I know you can make it. Goodluck and Godbless. I am just on yourside waiting for you to tap me and call my name.
I'm shocked yet relieved knowing that what he's doing towards me is confirmed in his letter. It might be a indirect confirmation but I think it still says so. I'm happy to know he's not just a friend caring for me but someone special who took care of me all this time. But as my happiness took over me, that feeling of anxiousness and cowardice envelops my entire body. Confessing his feelings, then now, what? What will happen in our friendship? How do I face him, as I am shy girl before? If I tell him I like him too, what will happen to us? Graduation day is in the corner, inhouse review is giving us pressure, licensure examination will happen in next few months and I need to focus, to study to pass the exam. Those were my concerns at that time. So, I made up my mind. Without giving him any answer, without telling him what I have in my mind, without him knowing what I really wanted to say despite the concerns I had in mind. I let him go without telling him what I feel towards him that time. Following days at school, I started avoiding him. I dare not to look at him directly in his eyes. I never got to talk to him about his letter. And as days passes by giving him same treatment and distance, I saw him once looking at me, his eyes saying like giving up. From then on, our friendship drifted off. I never got to talk to him in our graduation day, even in succeding events after our licensure exam. I did pass my licensure, he also did. I'm not expecting he will talk to me or greet me if ever we crossed our path again. He was my first love. But I never give him the chance. There might be a future for our relationship but I never gave him a chance. To my lovecrush, I am sorry for ghosting you, for not giving you a chance, and for leaving you hanging-up. I know I'm a big coward, selfish, self centered and faint hearted person when it comes to you. Confessing and telling you what my heart wants before will NOT/NEVER change anything now. But I wanted to say this for me to let go of the feelings that I still have for you. Lovecrush, I like you too. I care for you too. I did become a scaredy cat before telling you my true feelings are but know that after all those days knowing you like me too, I always think of you. The heartbeak I give to myself and to you, left me no choice but to suppress the pain and convince myself to forget the painful choice I made. Thank you for letting me feel how special I am in my own way. Thank you for being my green flag.❤️ Thank you for being warm, caring, thoughtful and loving friend.🥰 Now, I will never ever forget the memories we shared before even if it brings joy and pain. It is now my treasure. Thank you so much lovecrush. You will always be my first love and first heartache.🙂 I know you can make it in life. You're such a kind hearted soul. Wishin you all the best in life! Takecare as always. Godbless!🙏❤️

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2024.05.17 10:11 Green_Vanilla_2615 Financial Proof for Visa Application

I got accepted to Amsterdam University and I am planning to attend it but my loan application is still being processed and i am currently out of India due to medical reasons, due to which I had send them an email requesting an extend of the date to apply.
But now, the bank is saying they can only issue a sanction letter saying that the loan has been sanctioned but can't dispurse the funds until the visa is approved.
Will a sanction letter be okay instead of bank statements?

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2024.05.17 10:09 fbbb21 A question for the hospice/palliative care nurses

Hi all,
I'm working in a hospice inpatient unit and have been here for coming up to 2 months. I will keep all info anonymous for patient and my own protection, but wanted to ask about how you feel in regards to attending patient's funerals.
When I was a carer in a residential home I went to a few, but felt that was different as I got to know them over a long time, and often I was accompanying other residents who wanted to attend.
I have been invited to a funeral for a patient who was in the hospice for his end of life care, and I had a fantastic (professional) relationship with the patient and their family, especially their spouse. The patient was young, as was their spouse and children, so it was a very emotional situstion. I felt I did a really good job with my part of their care, and received some wonderful feedback from them which meant the world to me.
I'm not sure if going to the funeral would be crossing boundaries, and even if I want to go or not. I didn't know this patient prior to their illness, I won't be sharing the memories their family will, and I'd feel almost a bit of an intruder despite being invited. I haven't yet had the chance to ask about the policy, if there is one, about attending funerals for patients but this is on my to do list. I've been on nights and weekends recently and haven't had the chance to catch up with my manager, hence why I've not clarified yet.
I've been thinking of sending a card to the patients spouse in place of attending, but I don't want them to feel that now their loved on has died, that I don't care at all. Of course I do, but I don't want to overstep or blur lines.
What are your opinions? Do you go to funerals for your patients? Why/why not?

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2024.05.17 10:03 jokerjokinnahhhjokic 'nggas barred'

damn is bagg gon be able to move around his city at all? if he do start goin back to wh heavy ('parade on king rd') i feel like his ass definitely gettin taxed 🥴

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2024.05.17 09:27 Specialist_Cell2174 Some thoughts on life and academia.

I keep thinking about my experience in academia (Ph.D. and postdoc), an unsuccessful attempt to escape and how I dug my grave with my own hands.
I keep reading about recent developments in US biotech industry and its has been absolutely disheartening. The job market right now is awful and it has not bottomed out.
I cannot help, but thinking how did I arrive at this point and what could I have done to save myself???
I am speaking here about my experience in life sciences. I hope that the situation is better in other areas, but life sciences are absolutely over-saturated, over-flowing and under-paid area of STEM, probably along with chemistry.
Long time ago, after 1 year into the Ph.D. program, I got a weird feeling. I quietly approached people in the lab, with whom I was on friendly terms and they confirmed my worst expectations. Essentially, the unspoken (and un-communicated!!!) assumption was that after a year or so a Ph.D. student should show to the PI outstanding results, worthy of publication in "Nature", "Science" etc. Obviously, with no help, no guidance, no support. The PI did not want to tarnish his academic CV with publications in low- or medium-impact journals! So, if you could not show a potential for a publication in "Nature" (or similar journal), the PI would simply lose interest in you and "dis-own" you. This meant no support of any kind, no interest in your defense and no recommendation letter. Nothing! I saw this done to several people in our group. The PI tried (in some cases very successfully) to sabotage careers of his subordinates.
Remainder of my Ph.D. was absolute mental torture. I knew that without support of the PI I had not a single chance for academic career. Basically, academic career was dead for me. Every day I experienced a mental torture of senseless work. I knew that it was absolutely pointless to continue my Ph.D. The project was going nowhere. The PI lost all interest. By then I knew very well, how competitive and cutthroat was academia. I could have just sat in my office, collected stipend for another year or more and walked away. There was no point of doing anything. It was like digging a hole in the ground and then filling it back with same soil. Again and again and again! Every day! Coming to the lab, doing senseless work, knowing that it was all meaningless and continue doing it over and over -- just to have something to put in the thesis. This experience crippled me to the point that now I absolutely cannot stand any meaningless work.
I defended my Ph.D. and somehow got a postdoc in a shitty lab. 3 years of my postdoctoral experience could be described by one word: abuse! Constant lies, gaslighting, micromanagement, disrespect, threats, being underpaid, being overworked. I clearly remember that I cried because I did not have a courage to commit suicide.
I tried to seek on-line, on various forums advice on how to get out of this situation. To put it short, I was "trolled" and bullied by academics to the point of mental meltdown.
Recently I tried to find a career coach / mentor. Needless to say, my search was unsuccessful. There is no help out there! Sure, there are people that gladly will take your money in return to sugarcoated fluff. But that's it!
I have been thinking a lot about career coaching / career guidance. You know what? Absence of good advice / a lot of bad advice was, probably, a final "death blow" to my aspirations.
First of all, I did not understand how hiring works and no one explained it to me. It is not that there is a great mystery about hiring, it is that no one ever explained it to me. Secondly, I falsely believed that I could capitalize on Ph.D. itself and a set of so called "transferable skills". Lie! No one hires based on transferrable skills! Transferable skills == soft skills. If you have only transferable skills = soft skills, you can get a job of an admin assistant. Because you need good communication skills and critical thinking when scheduling meetings and taking minutes. But! If you have transferable skills and a Ph.D., you will NOT get a job of admin assistant, because you are "over-qualified".
I always knew that my Ph.D. in molecular biology was completely worthless! Yes, I had to learn every single method and protocol myself, without any help! Yes, I worked 60 hr and 80 hr weeks. But you cannot put this on resume and hope that HR will value it. Even today, years after I completed my Ph.D., I can explain every single methods and every single experiment that I did. Because I did everything on my own, without any help!!! I should be proud of myself, but I actually hate myself -- because I cannot sell it. Because market values "rock-stars", because market values what's trendy and what's in demand!
I was led astray by all this trash advice about "customizing your resume" and "highlighting transferrable skills". I have missed an opportunity of a lifetime!!! 5 or 6 years ago people, who attended coding bootcamps, could actually get a job as a programmer!!! Yes, not too long ago employers were actually scooping people, who completed coding bootcamps!!! That would have been my chance of getting the hell out of academia. I had a gut feeling that my Ph.D. was a complete waste of time, I suspected that I need to write-off Ph.D. as a loss and re-educate myself completely to have a chance! And I have missed an opportunity of a lifetime to learn how to code, to get into bootcamp, to get an entry-level coding job and move on from there. Now there are ongoing layoffs in tech and job market is flooded with junior coders. The gates are closed.
Instead, I wasted my time tinkering / customizing my resume and thinking how to sell "transferrable skills". Wrong, wrong, wrong! I do not think that anything like it will ever come again. When you can teach yourself, when you can get through the bootcamp and get into a field with good pay and career growth!!!
To all people out there: I cannot stress enough, watch out for bad advice!!! Look for a good advice -- its worth it's weight in gold!

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2024.05.17 08:40 abjinternational A-League star chooses to play finals footy with the Mariners over attending his own mother's funeral

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2024.05.17 08:33 ProfessionalHumor933 The Haunted Diaries stories part 1

This summer vacation rosy and her family went to their ancestral home in New Jersey their was rumors that the house was built by her ancestors for hiding their black magic in 1896 many children were went missing near the house but one day a person saw one of the people who lived their murrding 2 children and performing a spell the person ran to the village and told every people and the village people went to the house and saw blood dripping from. The house 2nd floor the killed many family members the beeged for forgiveness but the village people didn't show mercy so the family gave them a curse that no one will never come to this house if someone comes they will die so many years no one came but rosy grand father bought this home but his grand father died very soon after he bought the house he left the house to rosy but rosy didn't believe in this story he and her husband went to the house and stayed they planned to stay there for a long time but rosy husband went for a business trip so rosy was alone in the house but one day rosy heard some thing in the 2nd floor she slowly went to 2nd floor and opens the door and some energy pulls her from Bhiend and claws her throat and kills her her husband attends her funeral she was buried under the houses back yard the ghost smiles and leaves for his home killing one more person.

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2024.05.17 08:32 yycmscl What should I do.

My MIL who passed away in January is being memorialized and interred on May22. Her son, my husband, adamantly refuses to attend given that he “has made his peace” with her passing. Since we have known about the event for months I still went ahead and booked flights, car and hotel rentals and booked professional and health-related appointments to coordinate while we are in town. I was hoping to twist his arm into attending his own mother’s funeral. We live in Calgary and the memorial is held in Ottawa. I planned on attending as planned with or without him to support and be there for his family with whom I have a 22year relationship. She (MIL) came to terms with her sons same sex relationship and his parents have adopted my family into theirs open arms.
Now here’s where it gets complicated. Monday my husband suffered a severe bout of food poisoning and he is now in the ICU in septic shock from E.coli. Today he is still intubated and semiconscious responding only to verbal commands. He has no concept and certainly little awareness when I visit. However the prognosis is good and should recover within a week or two ( he also underwent an exploratory laparotomy last night that he needs to heal from before any hospital discharge ). My adult daughter and her soon to be husband are local and I have asked them to visit at least once daily. I am to leave in 36 hours
I am a retired physician myself and am aware of the medical complications that can still happen -he is not out of the woods yet by any means. Please abstain in the comments any medically-related posts since I will either refute them wholeheartedly.
What I want to know - and if there are any ethicists out there PLEASE chime in- do I travel 5 days away while the hubby is in hospital and mostly unaware of my existence but for the hour I’m allowed to visit ? do I go ahead with the plan to support his family during this ordeal and attend to the commitments I have arranged during that time ? OR do I stay at bedside or at least local “in case” his situation deteriorates (which chances are minimal given his progress from death-bed to stably unstable) and need to reschedule the commitments and not be the support for his family ?
To be clear I will ALWAYS be available for any medical decisions by telephone EXCEPT for the times I will actually be airborn (4hr flights)

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2024.05.17 08:30 No-Leg-3400 Bought item kit advertised as new from a website, yet had signs of usage, and then failed 3 days later. Seller refused to offer a refund upon return, and PayPal refused dispute and appeal based on clearly false claims from seller claiming I modified and damaged the item. No idea what to do now.

Hi!
I really don’t know where to start with this one. It’s definitely going to be a long post as I don’t want to miss on any potentially crucial detail, hence apologies for posting something this long.
Here’s my best attempt at summarizing what happened without losing on any detail (feel free to ask for clarification if anything isn’t clear):

I bought a proxmark3 rdv4 as part of a kit which also comes with several of its accessories from an online website selling these kinds of things.
When I received it, I noticed several smudges on the device itself and the cards that came with it where scratched up to severely, which immediately alarmed me but I really tried to brush it off to just being caused by the manufacturing process.
Three days after first receiving it, it completely died on me during usage. And showed no signs of life whatsoever.
Naturally contacted the online website’s support and explained the situation, and they responded asking me to try some troubleshooting steps to try to isolate the issue and potentially fix it remotely, all of which didn’t work.
Hence they offered to look into it themselves by having me send it back to them.
However, I insisted on returning the full kit back for a full refund as it is no longer fit for purpose due to both being defective and the fact that I wouldn’t trust a replacement either to not fail the same way now that I experienced this. And since this was 3 days since receiving it, and even 4 days since placing the purchase, it was well within the 14 days period the Consumer Rights Act 2015 allows for. Hence I asked them to just return the full kit for a full refund instead.
Yet they (or shoud I say he as it turns out this “company” is actually just one person) refused and said since I now opened it I am no longer eligible for a refund and kept insisting that sending it back for repaireplacement was my only option. (Which is nonsense as how was I supposed to even know it was defective if I didn’t open it!!!). They even went as far as stating their ToS also states that defective items aren’t eligible for a refund even if they are within the 14 day period (which is also nonsense as even their own ToS states that you can return faulty items for a full refund within 14 days. And either way the Consumer Rights Act 2015 gives me this right regardless of what their ToS say).
Then things started getting even more suspicious with this sellecompany. They started ignoring my emails stating my rights under the Consumer Rights Act 2015, and just resending the same email asking me if I accept to return it for a repair or replacement. Obviously I was not going to say yes as then they will use that against me and say I accepted to not get a refund but have it replaced instead.
So having paid by PayPal, it seemed straightforward. Just open up a dispute, explain the situation clearly and upload evidence. Which is exactly what I did.
Then through the PayPal disputes seller-buyer chat you get when first opening a dispute to try to sort things out together first, the seller again insisted on this whole ToS nonsense and then asked for the item back and provided a returns address but wouldn’t provide a returns label unless I accepted not to get a refund (again, not going to say yes to that). So what I did was instead return it under my own dime through Royal Mail Special Guarantee so there’s clear evidence. And uploaded the tracking details to the dispute.
Item gets delivered with proof of delivery and a signature and everything (because I thankfully decided to send it special guarantee), yet the seller kept asking for it back and not acknowledging that it’s already been delivered. (Even more suspicious!).
And when I clearly stated even the tracking showing proof of delivery and everything, suddenly the story changed and the seller now has it back… and then things got even more interesting.
The seller went above and beyond straight up making false statements claiming I damaged and modified the item (which I didn’t do). And the funny thing is, not only is what he was saying contradicting with the manufacturer’s own instructions, but his false allegations even contradict themselves! For example, he said the device outer cover is sealed and that I broke the seal and forced the cover open against the manufacturer’s usage instructions. Yet then claimed the tool which is INCLUDED in the box by the manufacturer specifically to open the casing showed signs of usage. Anyone with a brain without even knowing a thing about the device would instantly realize: Why would the manufacturer seal a device and not condone opening it yet include a tool specifically to do exactly that? And to add to that, the reason why you would open the outer casing is to access a SIM slot under there, which you then plug an also INCLUDED SIM-SAM adapter to that slot to use it… hence again, why would the manufacturer include an adapter in the box which can’t even be used without opening the plastic cover. And mind you all of these are part of the main device box, these aren’t the additional accessories that also came with the kit. Hence none of these could have possibly been aftermarket things not recommended by the manufacturer. See how even someone who doesn’t know anything about the device can instantly tell how these allegations conflict with each other? And to add to that, the seller also claimed that I admitted that I flashed aftermarket software to the device and that the device failed immediately after, and pointed towards one of my emails who he previously claimed he never received (again! Super obvious lie!). Yet that wasn’t what I even said, I said that I updated it to the latest version exactly as the manufacturer getting started docs instruct you to, and it was working fine (hence the failure did not occur after the update!) and the failure only happened 3 days later while I was just reading one of the included NFC cards (yes, one of the ones scratched). Hence again, more clear lies.
So at that point I clearly explained exactly how his lies conflict each other and conflict with the manufacturer instructions and supplied proof as well with manufacturer documentation and the full terminal log showing all of the things I did and commands I ran with the device, and escalated the claim for PayPal to review.
PayPal despite saying they will provide a verdict in 5 days, took weeks and them suddenly asked me to provide a police report. Yet when contacting the local police they said they don’t deal with these kind of things (which I expected), so now I am being asked for something that the police don’t even provide. Gave the PayPal customer service a call and explained that… and they rudely just kept repeating that I have to provide that or else my case will be closed in the seller’s favor.
After looking around I found the action fraud website so reported the incident there and thankfully the report letter you get after submitting mentions it being a police service, hence that would definitely work. So I went ahead and supplied that to the dispute and again it said they will provide a verdict within 5 days. This time they took even longer than last time and after keeping me on my toes for possibly a month+ they just simply rejected the claim saying I modified/damaged the item effectively blindly siding with the seller despite the clear lies and despite the clear explanation and evidence I supplied showing that.
So I appealed the decision and this time re-wrote the full explanation and evidence in case it wasn’t clear the first time and emphasized everything and made sure it was super clear with numbered bullet points and everything. Yet again they took their time and kept me waiting for weeks, eventually rejecting the appeal too for the same reason. (Clearly they couldn’t be bothered to even read a work I said nor even use any brain cells to see how obvious the lies are from the seller).
Once your appeal gets rejected then there’s no way to re-open the dispute anymore nor create a new one. So rang the PayPal support again and explained the situation and after the agent looked at the dispute even he agreed that the sellers lies were as clear as day and that my explanation and evidence further proves that, and was confused as to why it got rejected. So he said he will escalate to their head office and I should receive a response in 3 working days. And I immediately asked him: They rejected it twice already and blindly sided with the seller, wouldn’t they just do the same? And he assured me that the head office is a different team from the team that handled the dispute.
Over 2 weeks later… and I still haven’t heard back from anyone. So I gave them another ring. This time the agent that I got straight up started blaming me for “modifying” the item and saying the same nonsense and after straight up going over how all of them are lies (the same way I went over that twice already in my dispute and appeal, but this time I could actually say it verbally in real time to him as it was a phone call), he kept coming up with random nonsense excuses like saying PayPal disputes don’t handle defective items (which is nonsense) and then also went on saying that since the failure occurred 3 days after and not immediately it’s also not covered (again, nonsense), so I reminded him of my rights under the Consumer Rights Act 2015 and he went on saying but that’s not what they PayPal ToS says, and I also reminded him of the signs of usage I also clearly mentioned in the dispute and appeal hence even the item wasn’t as described as it was advertised as new (which in itself entitles me to a full refund even if the device hadn’t failed) and I straight up told him PayPal operates in the UK and all UK laws apply to them and they can’t legally deny my rights regardless of what their ToS says (and by the way, nowhere in the ToS either was it saying anything this guy was claiming). So regardless of what I kept saying he just kept coming up with excuses and nonsense so I knew that phone call was going nowhere. He even went as far as saying that I should resolve this with the seller directly (AS IF I HAVENT BEEN TRYING TO DO THAT FROM THE BEGINNING TO NO AVAIL WHICH IS WHY I HAD TO FILE A DISPUTE IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!).
At that point I had reached a dead end as the seller wasn’t cooperating, PayPal was blindly siding with him regardless of what I did, and to top this off and I couldn’t even file a dispute with my bank as I had used my card from my home country, and apparently when I spoke to them they said they don’t even file disputes unless the item simply hasn’t arrived (which in itself is just stupid on top of all of the stupidity I have faced so far).
So now I was out £509.99 for the kit, plus the £7.65 I paid out of pocket for postage to return it (which honestly I could have written off if I would have at least gotten the money for the kit refunded), and now I don’t even have the device nor the whole kit as that’s been returned to the seller. So I am out both the money and the kit. And the seller gets to keep the whole kit and probably scam someone else with it as well, plus gets to keep the money.
So I now filed a case with the financial ombudsman as it been wayyyyyyyyyyyy over 8 weeks and PayPal still hasn’t resolved this nor even wants to (thankfully didn’t need a final response letter due to how long it’s taken otherwise that in itself would have been a nightmare to try to get from PayPal judging by my experience with them so far). But I am honestly not hopeful at all as I have never my life ever won an ombudsman case, as they always blindly side with the company (yes, the same way PayPal blindly sided with the seller), hence no wonder companies confidently refer you to them because they know you probably won’t win.

Hence all of that being said, what are my options now? I am guessing probably small claims court, but if I lose that too then I will also be out the fees for that on top of the already massive losses. Plus I am an international student hence won’t be in the UK over the summer and my schedule during the academic year might not give me time to attend the hearing. Plus I can’t speak legalese and I am generally terrible at communicating on the spot due to my ADHD, hence that also won’t be in my favor. And I can’t afford to have someone represent me either.
I am really sorry if I am sounding super negative, I just really don’t know how to handle this, especially considering how much money I lost now which in itself has been a nightmare.
Any advice would greatly be appreciated whether here or through DMs (my DMs are open if you don’t feel comfortable sharing advice here).
Thanks!

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2024.05.17 08:20 Professional_Cap350 Discover India Like Never Before: Top Tour Operators You Can Trust

Introduction

Are you dreaming of exploring India, but feeling overwhelmed by the sheer size and diversity of this incredible country? You’re not alone! Planning a trip to India can be a daunting task, but with the help of a trusted tour operator, your journey can be as seamless as it is unforgettable. In this blog, we'll dive into why choosing the right tour operator is crucial and introduce you to the top services and benefits they offer. Get ready to discover India like never before!
An India tour operator specializes in creating and managing travel itineraries within India. They offer customized packages, guided tours, accommodation, and transportation, ensuring a seamless and enriching travel experience. With extensive local knowledge, they handle all logistics, allowing travelers to fully enjoy India's diverse attractions and cultures and india tour operator
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Why Travel to India?

Historical Riches

India is a land of ancient history and rich heritage. From the majestic Taj Mahal to the intricate carvings of Khajuraho temples, the country is a treasure trove of historical wonders. Each monument tells a story of its own, drawing you into the depths of India’s storied past.

Diverse Cultures

India’s cultural diversity is one of its most striking features. With over 2,000 distinct ethnic groups and more than 1,600 languages, every region offers a unique cultural experience. Festivals, dance forms, music, and cuisine vary dramatically, providing a kaleidoscope of cultural richness.

Natural Wonders

From the towering Himalayas in the north to the serene backwaters of Kerala in the south, India’s natural beauty is unparalleled. Whether you're seeking the thrill of a jungle safari, the tranquility of a beach retreat, or the peace of a mountain trek, India has it all.

The Importance of Choosing the Right Tour Operator

Stress-Free Planning

Planning a trip to India involves a lot of logistics—accommodation, transportation, itineraries, and more. A reputable tour operator takes care of all these details, allowing you to relax and enjoy your vacation without the stress of planning.

Expert Knowledge

Tour operators have extensive knowledge of India’s destinations. They can guide you to the best spots, hidden gems, and local favorites, ensuring you don’t miss out on anything worth seeing.

Safety and Comfort

Traveling in a foreign country can be intimidating, especially when it comes to safety and comfort. Tour operators ensure your safety by providing reliable transport and accommodations, and their local expertise helps you navigate any challenges smoothly.

Top Services Offered by Indian Tour Operators

Tailor-Made Itineraries

Every traveler is unique, and so are their preferences. Top Indian tour operators offer customized itineraries that cater to your specific interests, whether you’re into history, nature, adventure, or culture.

Guided Tours

Knowledgeable guides can make a world of difference in your travel experience. They offer insights and stories about the places you visit, making your journey more enriching and enjoyable.

Accommodation Arrangements

From luxurious hotels to charming homestays, tour operators arrange accommodations that suit your budget and preferences. They ensure you stay at the best places, adding comfort to your adventure.

Transport Services

Navigating India’s vast geography can be tricky. Tour operators handle all transportation logistics, providing everything from private cars to domestic flights, ensuring smooth travel between destinations.

Unique Local Experiences

Want to learn Indian cooking or partake in a traditional festival? Tour operators can arrange unique local experiences that offer an authentic taste of Indian culture.

Benefits of Using a Tour Operator in India

Time-Saving

With a tour operator, you save precious time on planning and logistics. This means more time to explore, relax, and enjoy your trip.

Cost-Effective

Tour operators often have partnerships with hotels, transport services, and attractions, allowing them to offer better rates than you might find on your own.

Hassle-Free Experience

From booking to itinerary changes, tour operators handle all the details. This hassle-free experience means you can focus entirely on soaking up the sights and sounds of India.

What to Look for in a Top Tour Operator

Reputation and Reviews

Start by researching online reviews and testimonials. A good tour operator will have a solid reputation and positive feedback from previous travelers.

Range of Services

Ensure the tour operator offers a comprehensive range of services, including customized itineraries, guided tours, and local experiences.

Customer Support

Responsive and reliable customer support is crucial. Choose a tour operator who is available to assist you throughout your journey.

Pricing and Value

While pricing is important, value for money is crucial. Compare what different tour operators offer in their packages and choose the one that provides the best overall value.

Popular Tour Packages

Golden Triangle Tour

The Golden Triangle—Delhi, Agra, and Jaipur—is a classic introduction to India. This tour covers the iconic Taj Mahal, the vibrant markets of Jaipur, and the historic sites of Delhi.

Kerala Backwater Cruise

Experience the tranquil backwaters of Kerala on a houseboat cruise. This serene journey offers a glimpse into the slow-paced life of Kerala's villages and lush landscapes.

Rajasthan Royal Heritage Tour

Explore the majestic palaces and forts of Rajasthan. From the pink city of Jaipur to the blue city of Jodhpur and the golden sands of Jaisalmer, this tour is a royal treat.

Himalayan Trekking Adventure

For adventure enthusiasts, the Himalayan trekking tours offer breathtaking views and challenging trails. Popular treks include the Markha Valley in Ladakh and the Roopkund Trek in Uttarakhand.

Goa Beach Retreat

Relax on the sandy beaches of Goa, known for its vibrant nightlife and Portuguese heritage. This retreat is perfect for those looking to unwind and soak up the sun.

Specialty Tours Offered by Indian Tour Operators

Wildlife Safaris

India’s national parks and wildlife sanctuaries are home to diverse flora and fauna. Enjoy a safari in Ranthambore, Jim Corbett, or Kaziranga to spot tigers, elephants, and rhinos.

Culinary Tours

Indulge in India’s diverse culinary traditions with a food tour. Learn to cook traditional dishes and sample regional specialties, from spicy street food to royal Rajasthani feasts.

Cultural Immersion Trips

Immerse yourself in Indian culture with trips that focus on local traditions, crafts, and festivals. Visit artisans’ workshops, attend local festivals, and learn about India’s cultural heritage.

Spiritual Journeys

Explore India’s spiritual side with tours to holy sites and ashrams. From the ghats of Varanasi to the ashrams of Rishikesh, these journeys offer spiritual enrichment and peace.

Customer Testimonials and Success Stories

Hearing from previous travelers can provide insight into what you can expect from a tour operator. Look for testimonials that highlight positive experiences, excellent service, and memorable trips.

Current Trends in the Indian Tour Industry

Sustainable Tourism

There’s a growing focus on sustainable tourism practices. Tour operators are incorporating eco-friendly options, supporting local communities, and promoting responsible travel.

Adventure Tourism

Adventure tourism is on the rise, with more travelers seeking thrills. From trekking and rafting to paragliding and scuba diving, India offers numerous adventure activities.

Wellness Tourism

India, the land of yoga and Ayurveda, is a popular destination for wellness tourism. Many tour operators offer packages that include yoga retreats, spa treatments, and Ayurvedic therapies.

Tips for an Unforgettable Indian Tour

Best Time to Visit

India’s climate varies significantly, so plan your visit according to the region and season. The winter months (October to March) are generally the best time to explore most parts of the country.

Essential Packing Tips

Pack light but include essentials like comfortable clothing, a good pair of walking shoes, sunscreen, a hat, and any necessary medications. Don’t forget a power adapter for your electronics.

Health and Safety Advice

Stay hydrated, avoid drinking tap water, and be cautious with street food. It’s also a good idea to have travel insurance that covers health and safety emergencies.

Inbound Travel Company in India

An inbound travel company in India specializes in organizing travel services for international visitors coming to India. They provide comprehensive packages that include accommodation, transportation, guided tours, and unique local experiences. With expert knowledge of India's diverse destinations and cultural heritage, these companies ensure a seamless and memorable experience for travelers, managing all logistics from arrival to departure and inbound travel company in India

Conclusion

Choosing the right tour operator can make all the difference in your Indian adventure. With their expert knowledge, customized services, and commitment to your comfort and safety, they ensure you discover India in the most enriching way possible. So, pack your bags and get ready to explore the incredible diversity and beauty of India

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2024.05.17 08:10 Equizzie My BF’s mood depends on everything I do

My (20F) boyfriend's (21M) entire mood depends on how much I talk to him during the day. Or entirely little things, he will act like a sad puppy when I get back to him after I let him know I'm busy. I've only done this once, and that was today because I attended a funeral for one of my really good friends and we'd ride motorcycles together everyday last summer. Now that I'm responding he's being a little dry like I have no idea how to reply to these texts. But if I don't he will genuinely panic and think I'm abducted. I used to really be happy with him but because of his mood swings it has made me over time not want to be with him anymore even though I love him. I'm the kind of person who doesn't want to give up on it unless I really have too. Funny enough, this is actually our second time being together. We ended the first time because he cheated on me, so l got a new boyfriend a week later. We came back to each other based on feelings while being apart and it was really exciting and hot at first, but now things are unfolding and I'm realizing that I'm not really like happy to be with him. He doesn't make life any more exciting. Our conversations are so dry now a days and it's pretty obvious I'm very checked out. I don't know how to have this conversation that I'm losing feelings and will I gain them over time? The only way I'd want him again was if he lived closer, (he lives an hour away), went to the gym everyday, be more funny and carefree (he's really serious but a good lover.) idk. I just wish we had more fun together.
TLDR: my boyfriend and I are dating for the second time and I’ve already lost interest in him. We’re only 4 months in and I least expected this and need advice.
What do you think? Can we come back from this? I’m like really checked out but I don’t wanna be

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2024.05.17 07:46 Evening_Lime5833 am I wrong for not wanting to talk to my brother?

I come from a family of six siblings, and I am the fourth child. Recently, my third sibling passed away, and we all gathered for the funeral. My second brother, D, attended and tried to connect with me, but I wasn't interested. He was confused about my reluctance, but I ignored him because I was focused on mourning our brother.
About a week later, D texted our mom, asking why I wouldn't speak to him. So, I sent him a message explaining my reasons. I told him that he had abandoned our family to live elsewhere. We grew up in a very religious, Pentecostal household, attending church multiple times a week and adhering to strict rules like no electronics and specific dress codes. However, D decided he didn't want to follow these practices anymore and moved in with friends. He never tried to contact us after that.
You might wonder why my parents didn't intervene. D had his friends take our parents to court, claiming they were forcing their beliefs on him, even though we had the choice of attending church or not.
So, he left us and cut off all communication. Now, after our brother's death, he wants to reconnect. I asked him if he only wanted to reconnect because of our brother's passing, but he claimed he had always wanted to get to know me. I told him he's had my entire life to do that, but now I'm an adult and not interested.
When I was younger, I wanted to get to know him, but now I don't really care for him. I know some might think I should give him a chance, and others have suggested I should reconnect with him. However, my main issue is that I don't want to talk to someone who only wants to reach out because they feel guilty about a missed relationship with our deceased brother.

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2024.05.17 07:35 spongevirus Well okay

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2024.05.17 07:34 mertzie_plays I am questioning everything - marriage issue - getting divorced - REALLY LONG

I hate to make really long posts, but i think without context, the weight of my questions will not make sense. If you don't want to read the whole thing, I understand, but PLEASE don't comment if you are only going to read the last 4 sentences...
Pre 2008, She was kind of a gothic girl, attempting to recover from some questionable teenage choices. Was forced to go to Catholic school and mass until she was in HS, at which point she went to a public school and got pretty crazy. She had vaguely religious beliefs and morels (for the most part) but was 100% non practicing.
I was NOT religious growing up "at all". My dad was a brutal SOB, that was verbally and occasionally physically abusive to everything in his path. I did spend 6 months living with my sister and we went to "super church bible study service" on Saturdays. As I got older I started to have a non denominational blind faith.
We meet in 2005. By 2008 marriage was on the table and even though we had been 100% non practicing, she insisted that we get married in the catholic church. I had no issues with it. We did the classes, attended mass, and got married. Almost immediately after the honeymoon... she decided that she didn't really like going to a catholic church and after a little church shopping, we stopped going to any church.
Early 15 - 6 years married, IMO, everything in our lives up to this point has been going well. Of course we had some bumps in the road, but nothing major and no lasting issues. Now, she is pregnant and about to pop with out first child.
After my son is born she got very weird. For one... she stopped wanting to have sex, and previously that was a very common way for us to bond. I thought she may be having some PPDepression and thought nothing much of it. She took to parenting a baby really well, no issues there. Around the one year mark she started going out with "work friends", not coming home till midnight or 2am. She had NEVER done anything like this before, and I my mind started to wonder and wander....
2016, She came home drunk after a night of hanging out with "work friends". Now, keep in mind, usually she would come home half intoxicated and either jump into the shower or go straight to bed... but this night she came home and wanted to have sex (with protection).
And she is pregnant again.
Sex again goes full stop and she did not manage this pregnancy as good as the first. With our son or the unborn, but our relationship was a dumpster fire.... I change jobs so to could work normal hours and be more available for my son and her. Baby girl is born.
Despite a near immaculate conception, I was hoping a second child would make her happier... It didn't. It made it worse. Everything in our relationship is still BAD. She was so distant that I questioned if the girl was even mine. All the circumstances combined... secretly did a paternity test and the girl was/is mine. That put my mind somewhat at ease, but things were still rough... but about to get worse.
2017, Even though our marriage didn't feel like a marriage anymore, we were not outright fighting a lot. She was just very distant and had this "ora" of hate towards me. This was beginning of the inevitable end. She tells me that she can't stand sleeping in the same bed as me anymore.... considering she was only like 4 months post birth, and still nursing, it was stupid for here to go downstairs and sleep on the couch. So being the nice guy... I did.
Days turned into weeks, and I was really starting to struggle with the situation as a whole. But I kept giving her space... talking with her when she felt up to it. Weeks turned into months. The couch turned into a bed... in the basement. Months turned into years... but i don't want to get ahead of myself.
Over 17/18 she started getting very dark. Like I could see that she was having a psychotic break. I talked with her parents and they said she was diagnosed bipolar as a tween. I tried to be supportive. I tried getting her to go to counseling, with me, without me, anywhere, anyhow... she refused. We were still having regular conversations after the kids went to bed... where she mostly went over everything I had ever done wrong... beating me into the ground... I would apologize over and over. Sometimes it was "leaving the seat up that morning"... sometimes it was for some stupid thing I did 5 years prior.
Note, during our marriage, I never drank, did drugs, gambled, cheated, etc. I wasn't abusive in any way; quite the opposite actually, I was and in some ways still am very passive and let people walk all over me because I am so viscerally opposed to turning into my dad, that I tend to tolerate being mis treated rather than reacting to it.
SO over time, these discussions became less frequent but more toxic. They were more of an opportunity for her to verbally attack me for all kinds of things.. even things that were not real... or did not happen the way she remembers. She told me she didn't ever really love me, and that she lied, and she should have never married me, etc... Like really hateful stuff. I was seeing a counselor at this point because this was destroying me. I started thinking about divorce, but I kept hoping she would pull through. The conversations eventually stopped and we were just two disconnected people living in the same house.
As the kids started to grow into toddlers, she started to show anger towards them. Not like in daily life, but anytime they did something wrong. Now, admittedly, I am HYPER sensitive to this because of my childhood. She was becoming verbally abusive to them. Maybe not with the words chosen, but she would outright SCREAM at them... like "loose her shit, scream at them" for 5 minutes. It got to the point I was recording it.
After about 5 HUGE screaming fights with me about it... (I was threatening to call CPS on her and divorce her), she broke down and accepted that she was doing wrong.
Over the next few months, she started wanting to got to church. She was screaming at the kids less. While me and her were still just room mates, she seemed to be healing. As months turned into years, she continued to treat the kids better, and at this point we were going to church fairly regularly as a family. You would think this is where things get better... and you'd be wrong.
By 2021, she had dove 1000% into religion. And only practices the most extreme parts of almost every Christian based religion. No Pork, kosher only, All holidays are pagan. Mothers day, fathers day, birthdays, pagan. Christmas and easter are not guaranteed correct dates, pagan. Speaking in tongues... like anything that you can think of that a non Christian would call crazy... she does that.
Meanwhile she has become more and more toxic towards me. From not letting me spend time with the kids alone; to yelling at me, calling me a liar, evil, toxic, etc... even in front of our kids.
About 6 months ago her delusions skyrocketed. Behind closed doors, she believes that she is a prophetess. And she is blaming me for things that never happened. One example, she came running into the room, yelling at me "because I just called him stupid".... me and my son looked at each other, like what the heck is she talking about? I never called him stupid. We were talking about something silly he saw in a video. I told him "that's kinda stupid, don't ever do anything like that". A specific example... tonight I am tucking my daughter in... after out hugs and kisses, I am walking out and stumbling over things on the floor... I say to her "honey, you should focus on cleaning in here this weekend, the mess is getting a bit ridiculous". She smiles, throws me the "i love you sign" and says, "I know dad, I will".... and before my daughter could even finish her words, my wife is yelling from another room "how dare you call her ridiculous?". She comes trudging into the room, and shake my head and retreat back to my basement... she follows me the entire way, yelling at me for being rede and disrespectful to her daughter. Telling me that she will stand up for her daughter.... the entire way back to the basement.. , for something that didn't even happen.
But I digress, this kind of stuff has been happening more regularly. About 3 months ago, I put cameras up in the common areas of our house, because I am honestly scared that she is going to accuse me of doing or saying something that never happened. Something that she could scream from the roof tops. Something she could say in front to a police officer or a judge to get a divorce and full custody. I have used these cameras and recordings to prove to her, on several occasions, that she is wrong about a specific situation or downright delusional with others. And while she initially seemed receptive to "being called out", anymore she finds any proven inaccuracies to simply be an attack on her.
I am getting verbally assaulted over something that didn't happen... Shortly later, I pull the video and PROVE that she is wrong about it, and she STILL denies it or downplays it... I get angry... then that turns into her claiming that I am being verbally abusive TO HER!
This week, I told her that I am actively filing for divorce - not as a threat, but because I am actively working with an attorney, gathering the paperwork, and I am divorcing her.
Expecting her to attempt to reconcile, she leaves me a one page letter that has me question her sanity. I write her a 5 page letter in response, I clipped the last page, it is all text but NSFW.
I am using an imgur link of the letter and response, as posting pics is questionable in the rules. https://imgur.com/a/n6pJOBv
I guess my main question is: WHAT THE HECK am I doing, is she doing, are we doing... ? Am I okay or justified in getting a divorce? Should I feel bad about wanting to get full custody? Could her issues be a mental disorder or should I just "chalk it up" to religious freedom? I am questioning MY faith completely because of her actions justified by her faith. - How am I supposed to get past this?
Honestly, I am not even sure what to ask... I think I am just looking for approval or understanding... I would appreciate any constructive input.

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2024.05.17 07:12 Connect_Paper_3510 How Does a CELPIP Prep Course Help You Succeed? Strategies and Techniques?

The Canadian English Language Proficiency Index (CELPIP) is a vital gateway for immigration, citizenship, and professional opportunities in Canada. Acing this computer-based test requires focused preparation, and a well-structured CELPIP prep course can be your game-changer.
Why Choose a CELPIP Prep Course?
While self-study is an option, enrolling in a celpip preparation course offers a multitude of advantages:

Structured Learning: Prep courses provide a clear roadmap to CELPIP success. They break down the test format, task types, and scoring criteria into easy-to-understand modules, ensuring you target all areas effectively.
Expert Guidance: Benefit from the knowledge of experienced instructors who possess CELPIP expertise. They can identify your strengths and weaknesses, offering personalized feedback and tailored strategies to maximize your score.
Practice Makes Perfect: Courses provide a wealth of practice materials, including mock tests that mirror the actual exam environment. This hones your test-taking skills, builds time management expertise, and boosts your confidence on test day.
Vocabulary & Grammar Expansion: Many courses include targeted vocabulary-building exercises and grammar drills specifically aligned with CELPIP requirements. This refines your fluency and ensures your writing and speaking meet the expected standards.
Personalized Feedback: Some courses offer one-on-one sessions or small group settings. Here, you can receive invaluable feedback on your writing and speaking samples, allowing you to pinpoint areas for improvement and tailor your approach for optimal results.

What to Expect from a CELPIP Prep Course:
The exact structure and content can vary depending on the provider and format (online vs in-person). However, you can generally expect the following:

Comprehensive Test Overview:

This initial stage lays the foundation for your CELPIP success. A good prep course will provide a thorough breakdown of the following:

Test Format: You'll gain a crystal-clear understanding of the CELPIP structure, including the number of sections, time allocation for each, and the types of tasks you'll encounter.
Task Types: Each CELPIP section (Listening, Reading, Writing, and Speaking) involves specific task formats. The course will meticulously explain what each task entails, what skills are assessed, and how to approach each one effectively.
Scoring Criteria: Understanding how your test is scored is vital. The course will demystify the scoring rubrics, highlighting what examiners look for in each section and how to maximize your points in every task.
Essential Test-Taking Strategies: There are proven strategies to approach the CELPIP that can significantly improve your performance. The course will equip you with time management techniques, active listening skills, effective reading comprehension approaches, and valuable writing and speaking frameworks – all designed to help you excel on test day.

Targeted Skills Development:

Acing the CELPIP isn't just about memorizing facts. It's about honing the specific skills required for each section. Here's how a prep course helps you achieve that:

Listening: Sharpen your listening comprehension by focusing on identifying key points, understanding accents, and following the flow of conversations and lectures.
Reading: Develop effective reading strategies to tackle various text types, improve your reading speed and comprehension, and strengthen your ability to analyze and infer information from the passages.
Writing: The course will guide you in crafting clear, concise, and grammatically sound essays and letters that meet the specific CELPIP writing requirements. You'll learn effective vocabulary building techniques and practice writing under timed conditions.
Speaking: Gain confidence in your spoken English! The course will provide opportunities to practice speaking on various topics, refine your fluency and pronunciation, and develop the ability to organize your thoughts and express yourself clearly and coherently.

Practice & Mock Tests:

Practice truly makes perfect when it comes to the CELPIP. A good prep course offers a wealth of practice materials to solidify your learning:

Practice Questions: Test your understanding with a variety of practice questions that closely mirror the format and difficulty level of the actual CELPIP exam.
Full-Length Mock Exams: Simulate the real test environment by taking full-length mock exams under timed conditions. This allows you to identify areas that need further work, get comfortable with the exam format, and develop effective time management strategies.
Personalized Feedback: Some courses provide opportunities to receive feedback on your practice writing and speaking tasks. This invaluable feedback helps you identify and rectify any shortcomings before the actual test.

Choosing the Right CELPIP Prep Course:
With a plethora of courses available, selecting the perfect fit is crucial. Consider these factors:

Learning Style: Do you prefer online flexibility or the structure of an in-person class? Choose a format that aligns with your learning preferences.
Course Content: Ensure the course covers all aspects of the CELPIP and offers the level of detail you require.
Budget: Prep course costs can vary. Determine your budget and find a course that delivers value for your investment.
Student Reviews: Read testimonials from past students to gauge the course's effectiveness and instructor quality.

Invest in Your Success: Enroll in a CELPIP Prep Course Today.
Taking the CELPIP can feel daunting, but with a strategic prep course by your side, you'll be well-equipped to conquer the test and achieve your Canadian aspirations.

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2024.05.17 07:11 Sweet-Count2557 Things To Do In Agadir Morocco in 2023

Things To Do In Agadir Morocco in 2023
We're always looking for new places to explore and experience, and there's no better destination than Agadir in Morocco.
Situated on the Atlantic Ocean coast, this bustling city is filled with unique attractions that are sure to keep us busy.
From local markets where we can find the perfect souvenirs, to historical sites that provide insight into the area's culture, there is something for everyone in Agadir.
We can also sample delicious traditional dishes or bask in the sun at one of Agadir's many beaches.
With so much to do and see, it's easy to see why Agadir should be at the top of our travel list!
Experience the Sun, Sea and Sand
Feel the warmth of the sun on your skin as you gaze out over the crystal blue waters of Agadir's shoreline - a perfect spot for some beachside relaxation!
Whether it's to soak up some sun, take a dip in the ocean, or just relax and enjoy the views, Agadir has something for everyone. With its white sandy beaches and luxurious resorts, there is no shortage of ways to spend your time here.
For those looking to truly indulge in their vacation experience, why not visit one of Agadir's many spas? Choose from an array of treatments such as facials, massages, and body wraps that'll leave you feeling refreshed and rejuvenated.
The local staff is sure to make you feel right at home with their friendly nature and attentive service. And if you're looking for something even more unique, check out traditional hammam baths - a perfect way to cleanse both body and soul.
Agadir offers a plethora of opportunities to relax by the sea. Take part in water activities like surfing or stand-up paddleboarding while soaking up the stunning surroundings; go snorkeling or scuba diving among colorful coral reefs; rent a kayak or sailboat; have fun on jet skis!
Whatever your preference may be, there's something here for everyone to enjoy under the Moroccan sun!
Explore Agadir's Local Markets
Immerse yourself in the hustle and bustle of Agadir's local markets - it's a shopper's paradise where bargains are an understatement!
Explore culture, barter shopping, and find something unique that you won't find anywhere else. Wander around the vibrant stalls to discover everything from traditional Moroccan crafts, such as carpets and ceramics, to modern items like jewelry and clothing. You can even try your hand at bargaining with the merchants for the best deal possible.
Agadir's markets offer a unique insight into everyday life in Morocco. From the locals discussing their day over freshly-brewed coffee to the scent of spices wafting through the air, these bustling bazaars are full of surprises.
With each purchase you make, you'll be helping to support small businesses and contribute to local communities. Take some time during your visit to Agadir to explore its lively markets - it's sure to be an unforgettable experience!
Whether you want to take home trinkets or simply admire all of the colorful sights and sounds, there's something for everyone here. Who knows what hidden gems await?
Enjoy the Cuisine of Agadir
Taste your way through Agadir's mouthwatering cuisine and tantalize your taste buds with its delectable dishes! From the classic Moroccan tagine to the freshly-caught seafood from the Atlantic Ocean, there is something for everyone in Agadir.
Enjoy a true culinary tour by taking part in various taste testing activities throughout the city. Discover new flavors and savor some of the country’s most iconic dishes such as couscous, pastilla, or kefta. Sample local specialties like zalook—a spicy tomato sauce made with olives and preserved lemons—or bissara—a thick soup made of dried fava beans.
Get a real feel for traditional Moroccan cooking by sampling street food like msemen, a flatbread stuffed with vegetables, meat or cheese; briouats, fried phyllo dough stuffed with meats; and sardines cooked over an open flame. Wash it all down with refreshing mint tea or locally brewed beer.
Agadir also offers plenty of opportunities to find international fare that caters to all dietary preferences. Vegetarians can try veggie tajines while those looking for something more familiar can order up pizzas and burgers at one of the city’s many restaurants.
For dessert, why not sample some Arabic sweets like knafeh—an orange-drenched syrup cake filled with soft cheese—or halwa chamia—the perfect combination of dates, almonds and honey? Finish off your meal with a shot of argan oil distilled from Morocco's famous argan trees for an authentic experience you won't soon forget!
No matter what type of cuisine you prefer, exploring Agadir's culinary scene will be one unforgettable gastronomic adventure! With its variety of flavors from around Morocco and beyond, you'll have no shortage of delicious options when dining in this vibrant port city.
Visit the Valley of the Birds
Experience the enchanting beauty of the Valley of the Birds, where vibrant birds soar across a majestic sky and lush greenery can be found at every turn.
Located in Agadir, Morocco, it's the perfect destination for spotting wildlife and night camping. It's no surprise that it has become one of the country's most popular tourist attractions.
The valley is home to an array of different bird species, from owls to parakeets and colorful peacocks. Whether you're a keen birdwatcher or just want to take in some beautiful scenery, there's something for everyone here.
And with its stunning backdrop of mountains and sand dunes, you won't quickly forget your experience at this magical place.
At night, visitors can enjoy stargazing under a blanket of stars or even try their hand at night camping amidst the peaceful surroundings.
If you're looking for a truly unique adventure in Agadir that'll stay with you long after your visit's over, then look no further than the Valley of Birds!
Take a Day Trip to Paradise Valley
Take a day trip to Paradise Valley and explore its tranquil beauty. You'll be surrounded by stunning mountains, lush greenery, and vibrant birds that will captivate you throughout your visit.
Discover the wildlife in this beautiful oasis; take pictures of exotic species of birds, observe marmots scurrying along the cliffs, and get up close with mountain goats as they graze on the grassy slopes. Climb up one of the majestic mountains surrounding Paradise Valley for a breathtaking view of the landscape below you.
Take in all that nature has to offer while breathing in the fresh air. The pool at Paradise Valley is an ideal spot for taking a dip after exploring all day. The cool waters provide relief from the summer heat and are perfect for swimming or just sitting back and relaxing in its pristine atmosphere.
You can also take part in some activities such as fishing or kayaking, making it a great place to spend a whole day outdoors. A few restaurants are available to grab something quick after your adventure; enjoy Moroccan cuisine such as couscous or tajine before heading back home with plenty of memories!
When visiting Morocco's Agadir region, don't miss out on a trip to Paradise Valley - its natural beauty is sure to leave you mesmerized! Whether you're looking for an adventurous outing or just want some peaceful time away from it all, this valley is sure to exceed your expectations.
If you're feeling daring enough why not try hiking through its trails? With so much to see and do here, it's no wonder why people come from all over the world just for this experience!
Take a Journey Through History
Delve into the past and uncover an ancient world of stories waiting to be discovered in Paradise Valley. When visiting this area, there are many opportunities to explore its rich history and learn about the influences that shaped it over time.
Discovering artifacts from centuries ago, visiting museums that showcase local culture, taking a guided tour to learn more about the region’s history, and participating in traditional activities or ceremonies - all offer a chance to embark on an adventure through time.
Explore the ruins of old settlements and examine ancient artifacts that tell tales of days long gone. From discovering ancient pottery to learning about traditional practices, there is much to be discovered when exploring historical sites in Paradise Valley.
Get a glimpse into the lives of those who came before us by taking part in cultural events such as a Berber wedding ceremony or going on a cooking tour with locals to sample some delicious Moroccan cuisine.
On your journey, take advantage of knowledgeable guides who can provide insight into what life was like back then and introduce you to fascinating characters from times past.
No matter how you choose to experience history here, one thing is certain - you will leave with memories that will last a lifetime! With its wealth of archaeological discoveries and cultural activities, Paradise Valley offers something for everyone looking for an educational yet fun getaway.
Unwind at Agadir Beach Resort
We've taken a journey through history exploring Agadir's past, and now it's time to unwind and relax!
After taking in all the sights of the city, nothing beats retreating to a beach resort. Agadir is home to some of Morocco's best resorts, offering plenty of activities for every type of traveler.
From camel trekking and boat excursions to luxury spa treatments and swimming pools, there's something here for everyone. Agadir Beach Resort is one of the most popular destinations on the coast.
This luxurious resort offers guests breathtaking ocean views from every room while also having access to world-class amenities such as private beaches, golf courses, tennis courts, and more.
The resort also has five-star restaurants serving up delicious Moroccan cuisine paired with exquisite international wines that will make your stay even more enjoyable.
With its stunning landscape, top-notch amenities, and endless activities available at Agadir Beach Resort, you're sure to have an unforgettable experience when visiting this paradise by the sea!
Whether you're looking for rest or adventure, this is definitely the place for you!
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the best time of year to visit Agadir?
We're always looking for the best time of year to take a road trip to Agadir, Morocco. The beach resorts in this region are some of the most beautiful in the world, and we want to make sure we get the perfect combination of sunny weather and clear skies.
So, when is it ideal to visit? We've heard that March is one of the better months. Temperatures hover around 23°C (73°F), making it warm enough to enjoy outdoor activities, while not being too hot like during peak summer season.
Is there a way to explore Agadir without a car?
We're always looking for ways to explore Agadir without breaking the bank, and renting a car isn't an option.
Fortunately, there's plenty of ways to get around town without four wheels!
Hiking trails are a great way for us to hit the ground running and take in all that Morocco has to offer.
The public transportation is also a great resource – it might not be as convenient as having our own set of wheels, but it's much cheaper and surprisingly efficient.
So if you're looking for an adventure in Agadir but don't want to shell out on car rental fees, consider taking advantage of these options – they'll help you get the most bang for your buck!
What are the most popular activities for families in Agadir?
We're always looking for fun activities the whole family can enjoy while visiting Agadir, Morocco. From beachside resorts to wildlife safaris, there is so much to explore!
If you're interested in an outdoor adventure, then a guided wildlife safari is a must-do activity. Experienced tour guides will teach you about the local fauna and flora while taking you on an exciting journey through the area's many scenic landscapes.
For something more relaxed, why not spend the day at one of Agadir's many beachside resorts? With plenty of hotels offering amenities such as pools and restaurants, it's easy to find something that suits your needs.
So whether you prefer an action-packed excursion or a quiet day by the sea – Agadir has something for everyone!
Are there any guided tours of Agadir available?
When it comes to exploring Agadir, guided tours offer a great way to get the most out of your experience.
Tour options vary from boat trips around the harbor and private beach excursions to cultural tours of the city's museums and markets.
Weather conditions are generally pleasant year-round, making any time a good time to take a tour.
Whether you're looking for a leisurely day trip or an informative exploration of Agadir, there's likely to be a guided tour that meets your needs.
Are there any cultural festivals or events in Agadir?
Weaving together the cultural significance and traditional crafts of Agadir, Morocco, there are numerous festivals and events that take place throughout the year. These events are sure to captivate and awe.
From the International Festival of Hassan II in January to the International Gnaoua World Music Festival in June, there are a plethora of opportunities to explore Moroccan culture as well as international influences.
In addition, you can participate in traditional Islamic celebrations such as Eid al Fitr or attend markets like Night Souk where you can find local merchandise and entertainment.
With so much to see and do in Agadir, we invite you to join us in experiencing these amazing cultural gatherings!
Conclusion
We've had an amazing journey in Agadir, Morocco! From exploring the local markets to taking a trip through history, we've seen and experienced so much.
The Valley of the Birds was truly out of this world and Paradise Valley was pure paradise. Of course, nothing beats relaxing at Agadir Beach Resort either.
It's been a truly memorable experience that we won't soon forget. This journey has been likened to life itself - sometimes it can be hard or unexpected, but if you keep your eyes open you'll find beauty everywhere.
We may not have known what to expect when we started this adventure, but now our hearts are full and minds enriched with knowledge from our experiences in Agadir.

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2024.05.17 06:59 Connect_Paper_3510 How Does a CELPIP Prep Course Help You Succeed? Strategies and Techniques?

Structured Learning: Prep courses provide a clear roadmap to CELPIP success. They break down the test format, task types, and scoring criteria into easy-to-understand modules, ensuring you target all areas effectively.
Expert Guidance: Benefit from the knowledge of experienced instructors who possess CELPIP expertise. They can identify your strengths and weaknesses, offering personalized feedback and tailored strategies to maximize your score.
Practice Makes Perfect: Courses provide a wealth of practice materials, including mock tests that mirror the actual exam environment. This hones your test-taking skills, builds time management expertise, and boosts your confidence on test day.
Vocabulary & Grammar Expansion: Many courses include targeted vocabulary-building exercises and grammar drills specifically aligned with CELPIP requirements. This refines your fluency and ensures your writing and speaking meet the expected standards.
Personalized Feedback: Some courses offer one-on-one sessions or small group settings. Here, you can receive invaluable feedback on your writing and speaking samples, allowing you to pinpoint areas for improvement and tailor your approach for optimal results.

What to Expect from a CELPIP Prep Course:
The exact structure and content can vary depending on the provider and format (online vs in-person). However, you can generally expect the following:

Comprehensive Test Overview:

This initial stage lays the foundation for your CELPIP success. A good prep course will provide a thorough breakdown of the following:

Test Format: You'll gain a crystal-clear understanding of the CELPIP structure, including the number of sections, time allocation for each, and the types of tasks you'll encounter.
Task Types: Each CELPIP section (Listening, Reading, Writing, and Speaking) involves specific task formats. The course will meticulously explain what each task entails, what skills are assessed, and how to approach each one effectively.
Scoring Criteria: Understanding how your test is scored is vital. The course will demystify the scoring rubrics, highlighting what examiners look for in each section and how to maximize your points in every task.
Essential Test-Taking Strategies: There are proven strategies to approach the CELPIP that can significantly improve your performance. The course will equip you with time management techniques, active listening skills, effective reading comprehension approaches, and valuable writing and speaking frameworks – all designed to help you excel on test day.

Targeted Skills Development:

Acing the CELPIP isn't just about memorizing facts. It's about honing the specific skills required for each section. Here's how a prep course helps you achieve that:

Listening: Sharpen your listening comprehension by focusing on identifying key points, understanding accents, and following the flow of conversations and lectures.
Reading: Develop effective reading strategies to tackle various text types, improve your reading speed and comprehension, and strengthen your ability to analyze and infer information from the passages.
Writing: The course will guide you in crafting clear, concise, and grammatically sound essays and letters that meet the specific CELPIP writing requirements. You'll learn effective vocabulary building techniques and practice writing under timed conditions.
Speaking: Gain confidence in your spoken English! The course will provide opportunities to practice speaking on various topics, refine your fluency and pronunciation, and develop the ability to organize your thoughts and express yourself clearly and coherently.

Practice & Mock Tests:

Practice truly makes perfect when it comes to the CELPIP. A good prep course offers a wealth of practice materials to solidify your learning:

Practice Questions: Test your understanding with a variety of practice questions that closely mirror the format and difficulty level of the actual CELPIP exam.
Full-Length Mock Exams: Simulate the real test environment by taking full-length mock exams under timed conditions. This allows you to identify areas that need further work, get comfortable with the exam format, and develop effective time management strategies.
Personalized Feedback: Some courses provide opportunities to receive feedback on your practice writing and speaking tasks. This invaluable feedback helps you identify and rectify any shortcomings before the actual test.

Choosing the Right CELPIP Prep Course:
With a plethora of courses available, selecting the perfect fit is crucial. Consider these factors:

Learning Style: Do you prefer online flexibility or the structure of an in-person class? Choose a format that aligns with your learning preferences.
Course Content: Ensure the course covers all aspects of the CELPIP and offers the level of detail you require.
Budget: Prep course costs can vary. Determine your budget and find a course that delivers value for your investment.
Student Reviews: Read testimonials from past students to gauge the course's effectiveness and instructor quality.

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