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2024.05.19 09:30 relationshipguy254 Relationship Problems: What To Do If Your Partner Isn't Willing to Change?
When you're in a committed relationship or married and your partner doesn't want to change, but they're doing things that bother you, like hanging out with friends you don't like, not calling you, or flirting with others, what should you do? Should you just wake up and leave, find another relationship, or try to force them to change? Let’s explore this in the perspective of not simply leaving but looking at it from an angle where you’re using it to help you grow. This only applies for relationships which are somewhat unhealthy but not abusive.
The first thing to do when your partner does something you don't like is to understand how it affects you personally, not just externally. If you feel really upset or sad when your partner doesn't answer your calls, it might mean there's something you need to address within yourself. It could be your own insecurities, fears of losing them, being alone, abandoned, or cheated on.
So, it's important to focus on yourself first. When you take a step back and reflect, you might realize there are aspects within yourself that need your attention. I've seen this happen with someone close to me. She wanted her partner to change, but after talking with her, she realized that she had been neglecting herself and always putting her partner's needs before her own, constantly trying to please them and impress them. In fact, she had never even taken herself out.
When you look within, you realize that there are things you've never done for yourself because you're so ingrained in your partner and their behavior or the desire for change. And it's not your fault; it's just that sometimes, due to how we've been taught about relationships, we become very focused on the other person. We put all our attention on them, forgetting about ourselves. Before even thinking about wanting your partner to change their behavior, look at yourself. Then, after self-reflection, begin to change certain aspects within yourself. Start by shifting away from prioritizing others over yourself, establishing boundaries, and acknowledging your own needs.
Then, what you'll realize is that there are two possible outcomes. You may find that your partner feels challenged to begin their own journey of growth. Sometimes, when you start asserting your independence, setting boundaries, and being true to yourself, your partner may feel threatened. This could lead to them reacting with anger, or they might respond in a positive way.
They might also decide to change because you're no longer tolerating their behavior. You're not entertaining their subtle manipulation or playing the victim. Sometimes, partners engage in these behaviors because they've done them for a long time and you’ve also been knowingly/unknowingly enabling them, but when you assert yourself, it can prompt them to change. They might start seeking help because they realize it's not just about losing you; it's about improving themselves.
And even if your partner doesn't change right away, if they don't change, when you focus on yourself, you'll know the best course of action. You won't be acting out of fear but out of prioritizing yourself or seeing the situation clearly. So, it's a win-win situation for you. You'll reach a point where you can be okay with the relationship or with your partner changing their behaviors, but you can also be okay without the relationship.
That's the essence of working on yourself. It's about giving yourself options, rather than feeling confined to making something work no matter what. When you focus on personal growth, it might inspire your partner to change, but ultimately, the one who changes will always be you. It's important to be okay with whatever outcome, knowing that you'll have a better life whether you stay in the relationship or not. So, before repeatedly asking your partner to change their behavior, take a moment to understand how their actions affect you.
This applies to relationships with typical challenges, not abuse, but personal growth is essential regardless of the relationship. Rather than viewing the relationship as a lifelong commitment, see it as a journey for personal growth and learning. By focusing on growing the you, you might positively influence your partner, as they say, "iron sharpens iron." But if they don't, you'll be better equipped to determine the best path forward for yourself.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
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The first thing to do when your partner does something you don't like is to understand how it affects you personally, not just externally. If you feel really upset or sad when your partner doesn't answer your calls, it might mean there's something you need to address within yourself. It could be your own insecurities, fears of losing them, being alone, abandoned, or cheated on.
So, it's important to focus on yourself first. When you take a step back and reflect, you might realize there are aspects within yourself that need your attention. I've seen this happen with someone close to me. She wanted her partner to change, but after talking with her, she realized that she had been neglecting herself and always putting her partner's needs before her own, constantly trying to please them and impress them. In fact, she had never even taken herself out.
When you look within, you realize that there are things you've never done for yourself because you're so ingrained in your partner and their behavior or the desire for change. And it's not your fault; it's just that sometimes, due to how we've been taught about relationships, we become very focused on the other person. We put all our attention on them, forgetting about ourselves. Before even thinking about wanting your partner to change their behavior, look at yourself. Then, after self-reflection, begin to change certain aspects within yourself. Start by shifting away from prioritizing others over yourself, establishing boundaries, and acknowledging your own needs.
Then, what you'll realize is that there are two possible outcomes. You may find that your partner feels challenged to begin their own journey of growth. Sometimes, when you start asserting your independence, setting boundaries, and being true to yourself, your partner may feel threatened. This could lead to them reacting with anger, or they might respond in a positive way.
They might also decide to change because you're no longer tolerating their behavior. You're not entertaining their subtle manipulation or playing the victim. Sometimes, partners engage in these behaviors because they've done them for a long time and you’ve also been knowingly/unknowingly enabling them, but when you assert yourself, it can prompt them to change. They might start seeking help because they realize it's not just about losing you; it's about improving themselves.
And even if your partner doesn't change right away, if they don't change, when you focus on yourself, you'll know the best course of action. You won't be acting out of fear but out of prioritizing yourself or seeing the situation clearly. So, it's a win-win situation for you. You'll reach a point where you can be okay with the relationship or with your partner changing their behaviors, but you can also be okay without the relationship.
That's the essence of working on yourself. It's about giving yourself options, rather than feeling confined to making something work no matter what. When you focus on personal growth, it might inspire your partner to change, but ultimately, the one who changes will always be you. It's important to be okay with whatever outcome, knowing that you'll have a better life whether you stay in the relationship or not. So, before repeatedly asking your partner to change their behavior, take a moment to understand how their actions affect you.
This applies to relationships with typical challenges, not abuse, but personal growth is essential regardless of the relationship. Rather than viewing the relationship as a lifelong commitment, see it as a journey for personal growth and learning. By focusing on growing the you, you might positively influence your partner, as they say, "iron sharpens iron." But if they don't, you'll be better equipped to determine the best path forward for yourself.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
2024.05.19 03:01 relationshipguy254 Why Do Some People Go All in Into a New Relationship After Leaving an Abusive Relationship
When someone goes "all in" into a new relationship, it means they're diving into it headfirst without really thinking too much about it. They don't take the time to really understand the other person or consider if it's the right thing for them. You might see them on dating apps like Bumble or asking friends to set them up with someone. It's like they're desperate for a relationship, even if they haven't fully moved on from their last one. So, why does this happen?
Most people desire a new relationship to escape from themselves. This is especially true for those who have been in abusive relationships. Leaving such a relationship brings up a lot of emotions to deal with. They might feel like they're not worthy, fear being alone, or worry that they'll never find love again. So, they feel a sense of emptiness or lack.
When someone is feeling a lack of many things, it can be painful and uncomfortable. Leaving a toxic relationship might make this feeling even more intense because now there are no distractions. You start to see yourself more clearly. You notice the emptiness inside, and you become aware of how your mental health has suffered. You realize how much you relied on the other person.
Yes, even though the previous relationship was abusive, you come to realize that you weren't really independent. You were heavily reliant on their validation and support, even for basic things like financial support. All those past traumas and pains now surface. When you're in pain, it's natural to seek relief. For many people, diving into a new relationship seems like the best way to find relief from the hurt they're feeling.
That's why they feel compelled to throw themselves fully into a new relationship. But the only way to truly understand what's happening is to heal first, to fully address the pain. However, there's a trap here. Trying to escape the pain might lead them straight into another toxic relationship. Because they're vulnerable and desperate, they don't take the time to carefully assess the new person. They still seek validation and the intense affection that toxic people often give at the start of a relationship. This is why there's a higher chance of getting into another toxic relationship after leaving one.
There are many factors at play here. You haven't taken the time to truly understand yourself, your pain, or your boundaries. You haven't addressed the aspects within yourself that might attract you to toxic relationships. So while it's natural to want to dive into a new relationship, you need to be cautious. Otherwise, you might find yourself in another toxic situation, which will only prolong your suffering. Running away from pain doesn't make it disappear; instead, it often leads to more suffering.
But when you face the pain, you're transformed. So instead of looking for another relationship, even if you are looking for another relationship ‘so that it can help you walk through this pain’. Go for therapy first, find yourself. If you really feel that the pain is so overwhelming, then find help. In therapy, at least you'll find a safe space for you to process these emotions.
And after that process, you will get out of it as a better person, as someone who understands themselves, someone who knows what they want in a relationship, someone who goes into a relationship because it's an aspect of choice, not an aspect of fear, someone who loves themselves, someone who understands what they can't tolerate from others and just someone who's just full of life, not someone who's wanting a relationship or who wants to fully get in because they want to escape themselves. So, don't escape yourself, but instead, face the pain. The pain is already there, and it never goes away till you face it.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
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Most people desire a new relationship to escape from themselves. This is especially true for those who have been in abusive relationships. Leaving such a relationship brings up a lot of emotions to deal with. They might feel like they're not worthy, fear being alone, or worry that they'll never find love again. So, they feel a sense of emptiness or lack.
When someone is feeling a lack of many things, it can be painful and uncomfortable. Leaving a toxic relationship might make this feeling even more intense because now there are no distractions. You start to see yourself more clearly. You notice the emptiness inside, and you become aware of how your mental health has suffered. You realize how much you relied on the other person.
Yes, even though the previous relationship was abusive, you come to realize that you weren't really independent. You were heavily reliant on their validation and support, even for basic things like financial support. All those past traumas and pains now surface. When you're in pain, it's natural to seek relief. For many people, diving into a new relationship seems like the best way to find relief from the hurt they're feeling.
That's why they feel compelled to throw themselves fully into a new relationship. But the only way to truly understand what's happening is to heal first, to fully address the pain. However, there's a trap here. Trying to escape the pain might lead them straight into another toxic relationship. Because they're vulnerable and desperate, they don't take the time to carefully assess the new person. They still seek validation and the intense affection that toxic people often give at the start of a relationship. This is why there's a higher chance of getting into another toxic relationship after leaving one.
There are many factors at play here. You haven't taken the time to truly understand yourself, your pain, or your boundaries. You haven't addressed the aspects within yourself that might attract you to toxic relationships. So while it's natural to want to dive into a new relationship, you need to be cautious. Otherwise, you might find yourself in another toxic situation, which will only prolong your suffering. Running away from pain doesn't make it disappear; instead, it often leads to more suffering.
But when you face the pain, you're transformed. So instead of looking for another relationship, even if you are looking for another relationship ‘so that it can help you walk through this pain’. Go for therapy first, find yourself. If you really feel that the pain is so overwhelming, then find help. In therapy, at least you'll find a safe space for you to process these emotions.
And after that process, you will get out of it as a better person, as someone who understands themselves, someone who knows what they want in a relationship, someone who goes into a relationship because it's an aspect of choice, not an aspect of fear, someone who loves themselves, someone who understands what they can't tolerate from others and just someone who's just full of life, not someone who's wanting a relationship or who wants to fully get in because they want to escape themselves. So, don't escape yourself, but instead, face the pain. The pain is already there, and it never goes away till you face it.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
2024.05.18 21:01 relationshipguy254 Why Do Some People Go All in Into a New Relationship After Leaving an Abusive Relationship
When someone goes "all in" into a new relationship, it means they're diving into it headfirst without really thinking too much about it. They don't take the time to really understand the other person or consider if it's the right thing for them. You might see them on dating apps like Bumble or asking friends to set them up with someone. It's like they're desperate for a relationship, even if they haven't fully moved on from their last one. So, why does this happen?
Most people desire a new relationship to escape from themselves. This is especially true for those who have been in abusive relationships. Leaving such a relationship brings up a lot of emotions to deal with. They might feel like they're not worthy, fear being alone, or worry that they'll never find love again. So, they feel a sense of emptiness or lack.
When someone is feeling a lack of many things, it can be painful and uncomfortable. Leaving a toxic relationship might make this feeling even more intense because now there are no distractions. You start to see yourself more clearly. You notice the emptiness inside, and you become aware of how your mental health has suffered. You realize how much you relied on the other person.
Yes, even though the previous relationship was abusive, you come to realize that you weren't really independent. You were heavily reliant on their validation and support, even for basic things like financial support. All those past traumas and pains now surface. When you're in pain, it's natural to seek relief. For many people, diving into a new relationship seems like the best way to find relief from the hurt they're feeling.
That's why they feel compelled to throw themselves fully into a new relationship. But the only way to truly understand what's happening is to heal first, to fully address the pain. However, there's a trap here. Trying to escape the pain might lead them straight into another toxic relationship. Because they're vulnerable and desperate, they don't take the time to carefully assess the new person. They still seek validation and the intense affection that toxic people often give at the start of a relationship. This is why there's a higher chance of getting into another toxic relationship after leaving one.
There are many factors at play here. You haven't taken the time to truly understand yourself, your pain, or your boundaries. You haven't addressed the aspects within yourself that might attract you to toxic relationships. So while it's natural to want to dive into a new relationship, you need to be cautious. Otherwise, you might find yourself in another toxic situation, which will only prolong your suffering. Running away from pain doesn't make it disappear; instead, it often leads to more suffering.
But when you face the pain, you're transformed. So instead of looking for another relationship, even if you are looking for another relationship ‘so that it can help you walk through this pain’. Go for therapy first, find yourself. If you really feel that the pain is so overwhelming, then find help. In therapy, at least you'll find a safe space for you to process these emotions.
And after that process, you will get out of it as a better person, as someone who understands themselves, someone who knows what they want in a relationship, someone who goes into a relationship because it's an aspect of choice, not an aspect of fear, someone who loves themselves, someone who understands what they can't tolerate from others and just someone who's just full of life, not someone who's wanting a relationship or who wants to fully get in because they want to escape themselves. So, don't escape yourself, but instead, face the pain. The pain is already there, and it never goes away till you face it.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
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Most people desire a new relationship to escape from themselves. This is especially true for those who have been in abusive relationships. Leaving such a relationship brings up a lot of emotions to deal with. They might feel like they're not worthy, fear being alone, or worry that they'll never find love again. So, they feel a sense of emptiness or lack.
When someone is feeling a lack of many things, it can be painful and uncomfortable. Leaving a toxic relationship might make this feeling even more intense because now there are no distractions. You start to see yourself more clearly. You notice the emptiness inside, and you become aware of how your mental health has suffered. You realize how much you relied on the other person.
Yes, even though the previous relationship was abusive, you come to realize that you weren't really independent. You were heavily reliant on their validation and support, even for basic things like financial support. All those past traumas and pains now surface. When you're in pain, it's natural to seek relief. For many people, diving into a new relationship seems like the best way to find relief from the hurt they're feeling.
That's why they feel compelled to throw themselves fully into a new relationship. But the only way to truly understand what's happening is to heal first, to fully address the pain. However, there's a trap here. Trying to escape the pain might lead them straight into another toxic relationship. Because they're vulnerable and desperate, they don't take the time to carefully assess the new person. They still seek validation and the intense affection that toxic people often give at the start of a relationship. This is why there's a higher chance of getting into another toxic relationship after leaving one.
There are many factors at play here. You haven't taken the time to truly understand yourself, your pain, or your boundaries. You haven't addressed the aspects within yourself that might attract you to toxic relationships. So while it's natural to want to dive into a new relationship, you need to be cautious. Otherwise, you might find yourself in another toxic situation, which will only prolong your suffering. Running away from pain doesn't make it disappear; instead, it often leads to more suffering.
But when you face the pain, you're transformed. So instead of looking for another relationship, even if you are looking for another relationship ‘so that it can help you walk through this pain’. Go for therapy first, find yourself. If you really feel that the pain is so overwhelming, then find help. In therapy, at least you'll find a safe space for you to process these emotions.
And after that process, you will get out of it as a better person, as someone who understands themselves, someone who knows what they want in a relationship, someone who goes into a relationship because it's an aspect of choice, not an aspect of fear, someone who loves themselves, someone who understands what they can't tolerate from others and just someone who's just full of life, not someone who's wanting a relationship or who wants to fully get in because they want to escape themselves. So, don't escape yourself, but instead, face the pain. The pain is already there, and it never goes away till you face it.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
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2024.05.18 16:42 writerchic Free File Fillable Forms has been down for many days
I live abroad, and don't owe any taxes to the IRS, but unlike most countries, American citizens still have to file every year. I need an extension beyond the 2 months they give us, and wanted to file form 4868, and the IRS website directs you to their Free File Fillable Forms or one of their Free File software partners. Well, the fillable forms website has been down since I started trying it a few days ago, on all browsers (I get the sad face and "This site can't be reached.") And the Free File software partner I use literally doesn't have 4868 in their forms. So annoying. If they are going to make us file from abroad, at least make it possible!! Grrr. Guess I have to call them Monday.
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2024.05.18 15:30 relationshipguy254 Can Someone with Low Self-Esteem have a healthy Relationship?
Today I'd like to answer this question: can someone with low self-esteem have a healthy relationship? Self-esteem is the feeling that you are worthy, that you have value, or that you have a purpose or a sense of importance in life. So it's more generally like having a good relationship with yourself.
It's really hard to have a healthy relationship when you have low self-esteem, but sometimes you might find a great partner who will support you and help you build your self-esteem. They can help you grow and improve your self-esteem but those are rare occasions and doesn’t just happen. Let’s first understand the steps to get to that healthy relationship. When you have low self-esteem, it means you can't assert your boundaries or needs. People will take advantage of you. You might seem confident on the outside, but inside you struggle.
When you have low self-esteem, people who are good at exploiting others will target you because they know you won't say no. You won't set boundaries or prioritize yourself; you'll prioritize them instead. So, when you're dating or looking for a relationship, you'll be very vulnerable to manipulative people because you don't put yourself first.
This also makes it hard to attract or maintain a healthy relationship because you'll end up with people who only give you superficial validation, not those who allow you to express your true self. They'll provide you with gifts, they'll love bomb you, they'll take you places, but they'll just offer you these superficial features because those are the things you enjoy, not the things which challenge you on a deeper level. That's what low self-esteem looks like.
Also, you will be desperate to keep that relationship because you don't believe in yourself deeply. You doubt yourself and feel unworthy. You might reach a point where you believe you don't deserve a healthy relationship, thinking it's not for you or people like you because you have a low sense of self-worth.
So when you have those beliefs, it will be really hard for you to keep a healthy relationship or to leave a toxic relationship. Even if you find yourself in a healthy relationship, you may find ways to sabotage it because it's not something you are used to. You feel like an outsider; you may be paranoid or suspicious because you feel like an imposter in the relationship. It's not your thing. You feel like you deserve places where people hurt you, places that reinforce what you deeply believe about yourself.
So instead of looking for a relationship when you have low self-esteem, the best place to start is to find that esteem first. Find that value in yourself. Believe in yourself more because the more you do that, the more you realize that a new relationship can be an escape from seeing yourself for what you are, from seeing the emptiness inside. Yes, you can find a supportive partner, which is okay, but sometimes, most times, you will find people who will just exploit you. So it's better to take matters into your own hands and take full responsibility for your life in the present moment. If you have low self-esteem, work on it.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
submitted by relationshipguy254 to healfromabuse [link] [comments]
It's really hard to have a healthy relationship when you have low self-esteem, but sometimes you might find a great partner who will support you and help you build your self-esteem. They can help you grow and improve your self-esteem but those are rare occasions and doesn’t just happen. Let’s first understand the steps to get to that healthy relationship. When you have low self-esteem, it means you can't assert your boundaries or needs. People will take advantage of you. You might seem confident on the outside, but inside you struggle.
When you have low self-esteem, people who are good at exploiting others will target you because they know you won't say no. You won't set boundaries or prioritize yourself; you'll prioritize them instead. So, when you're dating or looking for a relationship, you'll be very vulnerable to manipulative people because you don't put yourself first.
This also makes it hard to attract or maintain a healthy relationship because you'll end up with people who only give you superficial validation, not those who allow you to express your true self. They'll provide you with gifts, they'll love bomb you, they'll take you places, but they'll just offer you these superficial features because those are the things you enjoy, not the things which challenge you on a deeper level. That's what low self-esteem looks like.
Also, you will be desperate to keep that relationship because you don't believe in yourself deeply. You doubt yourself and feel unworthy. You might reach a point where you believe you don't deserve a healthy relationship, thinking it's not for you or people like you because you have a low sense of self-worth.
So when you have those beliefs, it will be really hard for you to keep a healthy relationship or to leave a toxic relationship. Even if you find yourself in a healthy relationship, you may find ways to sabotage it because it's not something you are used to. You feel like an outsider; you may be paranoid or suspicious because you feel like an imposter in the relationship. It's not your thing. You feel like you deserve places where people hurt you, places that reinforce what you deeply believe about yourself.
So instead of looking for a relationship when you have low self-esteem, the best place to start is to find that esteem first. Find that value in yourself. Believe in yourself more because the more you do that, the more you realize that a new relationship can be an escape from seeing yourself for what you are, from seeing the emptiness inside. Yes, you can find a supportive partner, which is okay, but sometimes, most times, you will find people who will just exploit you. So it's better to take matters into your own hands and take full responsibility for your life in the present moment. If you have low self-esteem, work on it.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
2024.05.18 09:10 editableforms Equipment Lease Fillable PDF Template
 | Download our fillable Equipment Lease PDF template for a hassle-free way to formalize leasing agreements. Easily customize terms, details, and conditions for any equipment lease arrangement. submitted by editableforms to u/editableforms [link] [comments] Equipment Lease Form |
2024.05.18 09:02 HayDStack What are your thoughts on the Globemaster Annual Calendar
 | Did not know these existed. Personally I think they may look bette more unique than Rolex daydate/ datejust. submitted by HayDStack to OmegaWatches [link] [comments] Curious your all's thoughts on this watch. Don't see it very often in this forum or in real life. I have a new SMP300 and love it as my first watch, brainstorming for my next watch, want to continue collecting Omega. I love the brand and want to continue collecting these watches. Please let me know, thank you. |
2024.05.18 07:46 Money_Key5550 Pocket dimension was good.
Okay so first it looked too hard. But when you think about it, you get tons of free refreshes from calenders and website. It was an challenge like they said this would be in blog post.
Now community outraged and we get this "fix", and its a joke. Lot of endgame (also ftp) are just hitting auto and go trough it.
We 'as an community' were asking harder gameplay content and as scopely provides it, reddit community sets up fire... Rewards wasnt that good for this outraged... Even many f2p players got it done with this harder level.
We as community cannot wait that we can clear everything. This wasn't star gating(or anything To do with money), this was just a hard gameplay content, as we as community asked. Now scopely will never make it after this.
Thanks community!
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Now community outraged and we get this "fix", and its a joke. Lot of endgame (also ftp) are just hitting auto and go trough it.
We 'as an community' were asking harder gameplay content and as scopely provides it, reddit community sets up fire... Rewards wasnt that good for this outraged... Even many f2p players got it done with this harder level.
We as community cannot wait that we can clear everything. This wasn't star gating(or anything To do with money), this was just a hard gameplay content, as we as community asked. Now scopely will never make it after this.
Thanks community!
2024.05.18 03:01 relationshipguy254 Healing Journey: Are you Addicted to Working on Yourself?
Healing Journey: Are you Addicted to Working on Yourself?
Are you addicted to working on yourself?
Let's say you've left an abusive relationship or gone through a horrible experience in life, and now you really want to pursue personal development and the spiritual path. You're now working on yourself, which can include buying crystals, doing yoga, praying, meditating, journaling, going to the gym, and other positive or we can call them ‘spiritual’ activities. But do you realize that there is a point where you can get addicted to working on yourself?
This is something which is very close to me as I’ve been addicted to it at some point in life, especially early on to the point I considered going to a temple and just be a monk. I am glad I didn’t run away from life but got the guidance I needed at the time I was considering that possibility. While these activities are beneficial, it's possible to become addicted to them and use self-improvement as a form of avoidance strategy instead of a tool for genuine self-growth. It's a double-edged sword that can either help you progress or keep you stuck, but at the same time, it's necessary.
What Are Some of The Signs You’re Addicted to Self-Improvement?
Constant Dissatisfaction with Life
A common sign that you may need to tone down your self-improvement efforts is when you generally feel dissatisfied with life despite the progress you've made. For instance, you may be more emotionally stable now, have better finances, don't think about your ex anymore, and understand boundaries. However, you still feel constantly dissatisfied and crave more retreats, meditation, therapy sessions, and other self-improvement activities.
This dissatisfaction may indicate that focusing solely on self-improvement is not making you feel better, but rather perpetuating feelings of discontent. It's as if no matter how much progress you make, it's never enough. This is huge red flag, and it shows that your approach to self-improvement is not well-balanced and it’s becoming counterproductive as you’re still seeking more and more instead of seeing and basking in your progress.
Obsessive Behaviour
You're spending lots of time and energy on improving yourself. You're buying books, going to retreats, reading articles, and more. When you look at your day, it's all about self-improvement. It feels like your whole life revolves around it. Instead of just living life, you're always focused on the next thing to make yourself better. It's like you're obsessed with it. Everything you have—your time, energy, money—is all about improving yourself. You might find it hard to chat with a friend because your mind is always on things like when you'll get that kombucha or go to that hot yoga class. You're basically obsessed with self-improvement and spend all your time on it, instead of actually living life and enjoying it.
Neglecting Other Areas in Life
When you're addicted to self-improvement, you might start neglecting other parts of your life. You might ignore your family and friends, isolate yourself, and only want to talk to ‘spiritual’ or ‘conscious’ people. You might even consider going to a temple. While you're suffering inside, others are living their lives normally. They go to work and maintain a balance, but you don't want to work and just want to avoid everyone. You see everyone else as unaware, just like you feel. So, you end up neglecting everything else. You start developing this arrogance now that you ‘know’ and they don’t know which still soothes your identity.
The Problem with Addiction to Self-Improvement
That's what it looks like when you're truly hooked on self-improvement. Been there, done that. I was so caught up in it that I'd get upset if I missed my morning meditation because I was spending time with friends or family. It feels like you're chasing something big, like enlightenment or whatever. You might even consider quitting your job to meditate in the mountains all day. But is that really the answer? It's like a double-edged sword.
When you find yourself stuck in a toxic relationship or addicted to something, it usually means there's an underlying addiction issue. You can even become addicted to self-improvement activities, but it doesn't necessarily mean you're growing as a person. It just shows that addictive behavior is still part of who you are or of how you perceive yourself.
Your object of addiction can be self-improvement, so it's the instance where the content of addiction changes to something seemingly beautiful, but the structure (your identity or your addictive or your compulsive nature) remains. So, despite engaging in positive activities, you're not really changing—you're just masking the addiction with something attractive. It can be deceiving because instead of realizing you're not making progress, you might convince yourself you're on the right path. It's like having beautiful roses tied to chains. Eventually, you might realize you've been doing this for years without feeling any better. That's when seeking help becomes necessary.
You end up thinking that now you ‘understand’ the subconscious and conscious mind, all those meditations, all those types of therapies. You now are in the state of knowing, and nothing is as deceptive as knowing. When you know, you will not seek help from third parties. You will not seek an opinion from that party. And the ego (or the self you’re improving or feeding) loves that. The ego is telling you, "Ah, what's the point of going for therapy if you know, like you've been studying these books for 40 years?"
In fact, one of my fellow therapists shared an experience where he worked with a client who had been practicing meditation for 40 years. After a session with them, the client expressed, "I’ve been practicing meditation for 40 years, but I’ve never felt this lighter, and I’ve never reached this state."
This happens because meditation, while intended to bring freedom and clarity, can sometimes morph into an addiction or a protective mechanism. Instead of helping you progress, it can keep you trapped in your current state or identity. It's like being stuck in a loop where you're not truly addressing the underlying issues. So, in essence, it becomes contradictory because the very practice meant to liberate you ends up keeping you stagnant. That's the problem with approaching these aspects sometimes by yourself.
Basically, our minds are pretty good at finding things that make us feel good or distract us, even if they don't actually help us grow or change. It's just how we're wired - we tend to stick with what we know and what feels safe, rather than facing the challenges that come with trying something new.
Take a Break from Self-Improvement to Improve
Taking a break from self-improvement activities, like reading books or doing meditation, can be eye-opening. Sometimes, we get so caught up in these practices that we lose sight of ourselves. By taking a break, even just for a week, you might notice feelings of anxiety, sadness, or loneliness creeping in. Instead of pushing these feelings away, try observing them without judgment. This can help you become more aware of what's really going on inside you.
Sometimes, we realize that our efforts to improve ourselves might actually be masking deeper fears or avoiding facing difficult emotions. Self-improvement can be great, but it can also become addictive, making it hard to see beyond it. That's why therapy is so valuable. A therapist can provide an outside perspective, calling out patterns or behaviors we might not notice ourselves. They challenge us to confront our issues directly, rather than relying on coping mechanisms. It's important to address our problems head-on instead of just covering them up with quick fixes or instead of waiting or looking forward to the next spiritual retreat.
In conclusion, while all these self-improvement techniques and practices are necessary and amazing, you need to be watchful if they’re helping you to sleep instead of waking you up. Sometimes it’s necessary to have an intervention of therapy to help you challenge your patterns before you entertain your unconscious patterns with self-improvement. Hope you found this interesting, guys. Let me know about some of the self-improvement techniques you're using, and also let me know once you take a break from them and see how it goes. That's how you see the nakedness beyond all these tools or this addiction.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
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Are you addicted to working on yourself?
Let's say you've left an abusive relationship or gone through a horrible experience in life, and now you really want to pursue personal development and the spiritual path. You're now working on yourself, which can include buying crystals, doing yoga, praying, meditating, journaling, going to the gym, and other positive or we can call them ‘spiritual’ activities. But do you realize that there is a point where you can get addicted to working on yourself?
This is something which is very close to me as I’ve been addicted to it at some point in life, especially early on to the point I considered going to a temple and just be a monk. I am glad I didn’t run away from life but got the guidance I needed at the time I was considering that possibility. While these activities are beneficial, it's possible to become addicted to them and use self-improvement as a form of avoidance strategy instead of a tool for genuine self-growth. It's a double-edged sword that can either help you progress or keep you stuck, but at the same time, it's necessary.
What Are Some of The Signs You’re Addicted to Self-Improvement?
Constant Dissatisfaction with Life
A common sign that you may need to tone down your self-improvement efforts is when you generally feel dissatisfied with life despite the progress you've made. For instance, you may be more emotionally stable now, have better finances, don't think about your ex anymore, and understand boundaries. However, you still feel constantly dissatisfied and crave more retreats, meditation, therapy sessions, and other self-improvement activities.
This dissatisfaction may indicate that focusing solely on self-improvement is not making you feel better, but rather perpetuating feelings of discontent. It's as if no matter how much progress you make, it's never enough. This is huge red flag, and it shows that your approach to self-improvement is not well-balanced and it’s becoming counterproductive as you’re still seeking more and more instead of seeing and basking in your progress.
Obsessive Behaviour
You're spending lots of time and energy on improving yourself. You're buying books, going to retreats, reading articles, and more. When you look at your day, it's all about self-improvement. It feels like your whole life revolves around it. Instead of just living life, you're always focused on the next thing to make yourself better. It's like you're obsessed with it. Everything you have—your time, energy, money—is all about improving yourself. You might find it hard to chat with a friend because your mind is always on things like when you'll get that kombucha or go to that hot yoga class. You're basically obsessed with self-improvement and spend all your time on it, instead of actually living life and enjoying it.
Neglecting Other Areas in Life
When you're addicted to self-improvement, you might start neglecting other parts of your life. You might ignore your family and friends, isolate yourself, and only want to talk to ‘spiritual’ or ‘conscious’ people. You might even consider going to a temple. While you're suffering inside, others are living their lives normally. They go to work and maintain a balance, but you don't want to work and just want to avoid everyone. You see everyone else as unaware, just like you feel. So, you end up neglecting everything else. You start developing this arrogance now that you ‘know’ and they don’t know which still soothes your identity.
The Problem with Addiction to Self-Improvement
That's what it looks like when you're truly hooked on self-improvement. Been there, done that. I was so caught up in it that I'd get upset if I missed my morning meditation because I was spending time with friends or family. It feels like you're chasing something big, like enlightenment or whatever. You might even consider quitting your job to meditate in the mountains all day. But is that really the answer? It's like a double-edged sword.
When you find yourself stuck in a toxic relationship or addicted to something, it usually means there's an underlying addiction issue. You can even become addicted to self-improvement activities, but it doesn't necessarily mean you're growing as a person. It just shows that addictive behavior is still part of who you are or of how you perceive yourself.
Your object of addiction can be self-improvement, so it's the instance where the content of addiction changes to something seemingly beautiful, but the structure (your identity or your addictive or your compulsive nature) remains. So, despite engaging in positive activities, you're not really changing—you're just masking the addiction with something attractive. It can be deceiving because instead of realizing you're not making progress, you might convince yourself you're on the right path. It's like having beautiful roses tied to chains. Eventually, you might realize you've been doing this for years without feeling any better. That's when seeking help becomes necessary.
You end up thinking that now you ‘understand’ the subconscious and conscious mind, all those meditations, all those types of therapies. You now are in the state of knowing, and nothing is as deceptive as knowing. When you know, you will not seek help from third parties. You will not seek an opinion from that party. And the ego (or the self you’re improving or feeding) loves that. The ego is telling you, "Ah, what's the point of going for therapy if you know, like you've been studying these books for 40 years?"
In fact, one of my fellow therapists shared an experience where he worked with a client who had been practicing meditation for 40 years. After a session with them, the client expressed, "I’ve been practicing meditation for 40 years, but I’ve never felt this lighter, and I’ve never reached this state."
This happens because meditation, while intended to bring freedom and clarity, can sometimes morph into an addiction or a protective mechanism. Instead of helping you progress, it can keep you trapped in your current state or identity. It's like being stuck in a loop where you're not truly addressing the underlying issues. So, in essence, it becomes contradictory because the very practice meant to liberate you ends up keeping you stagnant. That's the problem with approaching these aspects sometimes by yourself.
Basically, our minds are pretty good at finding things that make us feel good or distract us, even if they don't actually help us grow or change. It's just how we're wired - we tend to stick with what we know and what feels safe, rather than facing the challenges that come with trying something new.
Take a Break from Self-Improvement to Improve
Taking a break from self-improvement activities, like reading books or doing meditation, can be eye-opening. Sometimes, we get so caught up in these practices that we lose sight of ourselves. By taking a break, even just for a week, you might notice feelings of anxiety, sadness, or loneliness creeping in. Instead of pushing these feelings away, try observing them without judgment. This can help you become more aware of what's really going on inside you.
Sometimes, we realize that our efforts to improve ourselves might actually be masking deeper fears or avoiding facing difficult emotions. Self-improvement can be great, but it can also become addictive, making it hard to see beyond it. That's why therapy is so valuable. A therapist can provide an outside perspective, calling out patterns or behaviors we might not notice ourselves. They challenge us to confront our issues directly, rather than relying on coping mechanisms. It's important to address our problems head-on instead of just covering them up with quick fixes or instead of waiting or looking forward to the next spiritual retreat.
In conclusion, while all these self-improvement techniques and practices are necessary and amazing, you need to be watchful if they’re helping you to sleep instead of waking you up. Sometimes it’s necessary to have an intervention of therapy to help you challenge your patterns before you entertain your unconscious patterns with self-improvement. Hope you found this interesting, guys. Let me know about some of the self-improvement techniques you're using, and also let me know once you take a break from them and see how it goes. That's how you see the nakedness beyond all these tools or this addiction.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
2024.05.17 21:01 relationshipguy254 Is It Possible to Break a Narcissist Mentally?
Today I'll be answering this question, “Is it possible to break a narcissist mentally?”
This is a very common question, especially when you're feeling bitter and angry after leaving a narcissistic relationship. Of course, feeling angry and resentful toward them is very common. Don't beat yourself up for feeling this way. You're angry because they hurt you, crossed your boundaries, betrayed you, lied to you, and did all those painful things to you. So it's perfectly okay to feel angry.
But what's not okay is what you do with this anger. That's why someone might ask about breaking them mentally, which means focusing on them or seeking revenge. While it's normal to want revenge, doing so means you're forgetting about yourself and not acting from your true self. You're not thinking rationally or logically; you're acting as someone still bitter and hurt by the past.
It's like making a major life decision while under the influence of your pain, and you may end up doing something you'll later regret. I've seen people say they ended up doing things like breaking the narcissist's car or destroying their belongings. Then, they found themselves in jail or lost custody of their kids.
That's simply because they acted with tainted emotions. Yes, you are bitter and you've been hurt, but if you really want to hurt yourself more, act out with this bitterness and anger. You'll end up doing something you'll later regret. Some things you might do could be irreversible. Calling someone a name is reversible, but some actions can lead to deep regret, sinking you further into a pit of darkness and bitterness.
So, breaking a narcissist mentally is not something you should be aiming for. Instead, you should focus on dealing with the fact that you've been mentally broken. Wanting to break the narcissist's mentally means they've already broken you mentally, and now you're chasing revenge fantasies. You cannot truly get even with someone who lacks moral conscience, empathy, or genuine feelings.
You can't get even with them; you'll just be battling endlessly and it’s a game which you’re already losing as you’re already losing yourself. The only way to truly move on is to focus on yourself. Set boundaries, work on your personal growth, and regain your self-confidence because that's what's been broken. You may not believe in yourself or trust yourself right now, and you might feel bitter and hopeless. You might even doubt that you'll ever be in a healthy relationship again.
If you focus on what you've lost, you'll stay stuck. Instead, remember that there is a life waiting for you once you overcome this. You can learn that some people don't care if they hurt you and move forward so easily. It's up to you to look inside and understand yourself. Being in a narcissistic relationship can break you mentally, but you can heal by focusing on yourself and your future.
If you keep trying to break the narcissist mentally or seek revenge, you're not freeing yourself from the pain. You're just staying stuck in it. It's like having a wound and, instead of treating it, you keep focusing on who caused it. This means the wound stays open, and the person who caused it can hurt you again. Narcissists are manipulative and don't really care, so trying to break them will only hurt you more.
Instead, focus on yourself and let go of revenge fantasies. By focusing on your healing, you regain your strength. In the end, it's you who needs to heal, and by focusing on yourself, you start to take back control of your life.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
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This is a very common question, especially when you're feeling bitter and angry after leaving a narcissistic relationship. Of course, feeling angry and resentful toward them is very common. Don't beat yourself up for feeling this way. You're angry because they hurt you, crossed your boundaries, betrayed you, lied to you, and did all those painful things to you. So it's perfectly okay to feel angry.
But what's not okay is what you do with this anger. That's why someone might ask about breaking them mentally, which means focusing on them or seeking revenge. While it's normal to want revenge, doing so means you're forgetting about yourself and not acting from your true self. You're not thinking rationally or logically; you're acting as someone still bitter and hurt by the past.
It's like making a major life decision while under the influence of your pain, and you may end up doing something you'll later regret. I've seen people say they ended up doing things like breaking the narcissist's car or destroying their belongings. Then, they found themselves in jail or lost custody of their kids.
That's simply because they acted with tainted emotions. Yes, you are bitter and you've been hurt, but if you really want to hurt yourself more, act out with this bitterness and anger. You'll end up doing something you'll later regret. Some things you might do could be irreversible. Calling someone a name is reversible, but some actions can lead to deep regret, sinking you further into a pit of darkness and bitterness.
So, breaking a narcissist mentally is not something you should be aiming for. Instead, you should focus on dealing with the fact that you've been mentally broken. Wanting to break the narcissist's mentally means they've already broken you mentally, and now you're chasing revenge fantasies. You cannot truly get even with someone who lacks moral conscience, empathy, or genuine feelings.
You can't get even with them; you'll just be battling endlessly and it’s a game which you’re already losing as you’re already losing yourself. The only way to truly move on is to focus on yourself. Set boundaries, work on your personal growth, and regain your self-confidence because that's what's been broken. You may not believe in yourself or trust yourself right now, and you might feel bitter and hopeless. You might even doubt that you'll ever be in a healthy relationship again.
If you focus on what you've lost, you'll stay stuck. Instead, remember that there is a life waiting for you once you overcome this. You can learn that some people don't care if they hurt you and move forward so easily. It's up to you to look inside and understand yourself. Being in a narcissistic relationship can break you mentally, but you can heal by focusing on yourself and your future.
If you keep trying to break the narcissist mentally or seek revenge, you're not freeing yourself from the pain. You're just staying stuck in it. It's like having a wound and, instead of treating it, you keep focusing on who caused it. This means the wound stays open, and the person who caused it can hurt you again. Narcissists are manipulative and don't really care, so trying to break them will only hurt you more.
Instead, focus on yourself and let go of revenge fantasies. By focusing on your healing, you regain your strength. In the end, it's you who needs to heal, and by focusing on yourself, you start to take back control of your life.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
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2024.05.17 15:02 relationshipguy254 Healing from Abuse: Are you Feeling Like an Outlier in Your Healing Journey?
Today, I want to talk about feeling like an outlier in your journey to healing. Being an outlier means feeling like you're different from others, like your path to healing isn't the same, or that therapy won't help you, or that getting better isn't something you believe is possible for you. It's like feeling separate or unique in your struggles.
A common concern I encounter from clients is when I explain that healing doesn't necessarily require a long time, like a year or more. Many respond with doubts, saying things like, "but... I don't think it will work for me," or "I just feel like my situation is so different." Some even express feelings of unworthiness, saying, "I think this is too good for me." While it's true that everyone's path to healing is unique, including yours.
In my experience working with clients, I've noticed that this concern is quite common. When a concern becomes widespread among many clients, it suggests that most people share this perspective. Many feel like outliers. You might think you're an outlier because your mind generates various legitimate or seemingly legitimate excuses to keep you stuck where you are. Feeling like an outlier is a common excuse.
Of course, let's first address the logical aspect of why you might feel like an outlier. Let's say you've been attending therapy for a couple of years now, and you haven't noticed much progress. Yes, there has been some progress, but you still feel stuck. Despite making strides, you continue to experience persistent pain. You might wake up feeling tired, dwell on thoughts of your ex, or feel traumatized or triggered from time to time.
Naturally, when you've been in therapy for a significant period and you perceive limited progress, it's understandable to conclude that you're an outlier. It seems logical to think that if something isn't working for you, then perhaps your situation is different, and you may never overcome it. This is how your mind deceives you.
So, your mind will develop mechanisms to keep you in that comfort zone, and some of these mechanisms can be deeply ingrained beliefs that prevent you from seeking help or considering alternatives or other possible scenarios. Your mind may not allow you to see the possibility that perhaps the therapy you're undergoing only addresses the surface level of the problem or provides a simplistic or a wrong solution or conclusion.
Our issue with many therapies is that they sometimes simplify matters by concluding, "it's trauma, let's work with trauma," or "it's the inner child, let's focus on the inner child." However, without thorough investigation, these conclusions can keep you trapped in a cycle. It feels more like guesswork. This is why you might genuinely feel like an outlier, but you're not. The person who encountered the problem is still you, and it's the same mind which will provide us with the solution.
It's simply following the same path that led to the development of this problem. By understanding this, you can uncover why you're feeling stuck. You might believe you're an outlier because your mind has grown accustomed to being stuck in this position or state of pain for a long time, perhaps since childhood. Your mind becomes resistant to change because it has become familiar with this pain. Sometimes, you might find yourself in therapy not because you genuinely want to change, but merely to convince yourself that you're seeking help. However, you remain trapped in the cycle of pain.
Also, sometimes you need to question yourself, like, "Hey, why have I been going to therapy for the past three, four months? Am I genuinely making progress?" Sometimes, you just need to be honest with yourself. If you're not making progress, it's okay to change your therapist. There's no problem with that. Yeah, because what's the point of paying session by session when you genuinely feel that you're not making progress? Sometimes, you just have to have that deep conversation with yourself or ask yourself, "Am I really making progress, or am I just going there to feel reassured?"
Because sometimes therapy can become another crutch. When it fails to empower you to stand up on your own, it becomes a crutch. When something becomes a crutch, you're not truly willing to let go of the past completely. You just want something to lean on to feel better temporarily.
But real growth means being willing to go all the way, to take the road less traveled, and to challenge deeply ingrained beliefs. Because once you overcome these beliefs, you realize that you were the one who found themselves in the problem, and you are the one who can find your way out. It's possible to overcome what you've been through. It's possible to overcome those beliefs, and it doesn't have to be as complicated as you might think. The moment you start overthinking it, you'll only make it more complicated. But if you simply seek the help you need, you'll see that this journey isn't complicated at all. It's actually an enjoyable journey, and you just have to commit and enjoy the process.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
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A common concern I encounter from clients is when I explain that healing doesn't necessarily require a long time, like a year or more. Many respond with doubts, saying things like, "but... I don't think it will work for me," or "I just feel like my situation is so different." Some even express feelings of unworthiness, saying, "I think this is too good for me." While it's true that everyone's path to healing is unique, including yours.
In my experience working with clients, I've noticed that this concern is quite common. When a concern becomes widespread among many clients, it suggests that most people share this perspective. Many feel like outliers. You might think you're an outlier because your mind generates various legitimate or seemingly legitimate excuses to keep you stuck where you are. Feeling like an outlier is a common excuse.
Of course, let's first address the logical aspect of why you might feel like an outlier. Let's say you've been attending therapy for a couple of years now, and you haven't noticed much progress. Yes, there has been some progress, but you still feel stuck. Despite making strides, you continue to experience persistent pain. You might wake up feeling tired, dwell on thoughts of your ex, or feel traumatized or triggered from time to time.
Naturally, when you've been in therapy for a significant period and you perceive limited progress, it's understandable to conclude that you're an outlier. It seems logical to think that if something isn't working for you, then perhaps your situation is different, and you may never overcome it. This is how your mind deceives you.
So, your mind will develop mechanisms to keep you in that comfort zone, and some of these mechanisms can be deeply ingrained beliefs that prevent you from seeking help or considering alternatives or other possible scenarios. Your mind may not allow you to see the possibility that perhaps the therapy you're undergoing only addresses the surface level of the problem or provides a simplistic or a wrong solution or conclusion.
Our issue with many therapies is that they sometimes simplify matters by concluding, "it's trauma, let's work with trauma," or "it's the inner child, let's focus on the inner child." However, without thorough investigation, these conclusions can keep you trapped in a cycle. It feels more like guesswork. This is why you might genuinely feel like an outlier, but you're not. The person who encountered the problem is still you, and it's the same mind which will provide us with the solution.
It's simply following the same path that led to the development of this problem. By understanding this, you can uncover why you're feeling stuck. You might believe you're an outlier because your mind has grown accustomed to being stuck in this position or state of pain for a long time, perhaps since childhood. Your mind becomes resistant to change because it has become familiar with this pain. Sometimes, you might find yourself in therapy not because you genuinely want to change, but merely to convince yourself that you're seeking help. However, you remain trapped in the cycle of pain.
Also, sometimes you need to question yourself, like, "Hey, why have I been going to therapy for the past three, four months? Am I genuinely making progress?" Sometimes, you just need to be honest with yourself. If you're not making progress, it's okay to change your therapist. There's no problem with that. Yeah, because what's the point of paying session by session when you genuinely feel that you're not making progress? Sometimes, you just have to have that deep conversation with yourself or ask yourself, "Am I really making progress, or am I just going there to feel reassured?"
Because sometimes therapy can become another crutch. When it fails to empower you to stand up on your own, it becomes a crutch. When something becomes a crutch, you're not truly willing to let go of the past completely. You just want something to lean on to feel better temporarily.
But real growth means being willing to go all the way, to take the road less traveled, and to challenge deeply ingrained beliefs. Because once you overcome these beliefs, you realize that you were the one who found themselves in the problem, and you are the one who can find your way out. It's possible to overcome what you've been through. It's possible to overcome those beliefs, and it doesn't have to be as complicated as you might think. The moment you start overthinking it, you'll only make it more complicated. But if you simply seek the help you need, you'll see that this journey isn't complicated at all. It's actually an enjoyable journey, and you just have to commit and enjoy the process.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
2024.05.17 09:30 relationshipguy254 Is It Okay to Feel Physically Disgusted When You Look at The Abuser And Liar?
Today, I want to tackle the question of why you often feel disgusted when you see your abuser or your abusive ex. It's like an instinctual reaction when you lay eyes on them, and suddenly you're hit with this intense feeling of disgust. You might see them on social media or in person, but you still have this disgusting feeling. It's like your body's saying "ugh!" and you might even feel like throwing up. But why does this happen?
The primary reason for feeling disgusted when you see your abuser is that it triggers feelings of self-disgust. You recall moments of pain and mistreatment with them. When you see them, it's a reminder of the trust you placed in them, the intimate moments you shared, and how they betrayed that trust. Seeing them brings back memories of what they subjected you to, leading to self-blame, self-criticism, and feelings of regret for trusting them in the first place.
It's more like stirring the pot of stuck emotions and sensations within you. Their mere presence serves as a catalyst, reigniting all the unresolved feelings and memories tied to the abuse. You're suddenly confronted with a flood of questions and doubts about yourself, questioning why you didn't leave sooner, why you ignored the warning signs, and why you allowed yourself to stay in such a harmful situation. These thoughts primarily blame you for staying, intensifying the feelings of self-disgust when you encounter them.
That's also the silver lining in all of this because when you feel that disgust, it indicates that there's still something within you that needs addressing. It's a signal that there's lingering self-hatred or negativity stemming from the past experiences with your ex. However, by confronting and working through these negative emotions, you can reach a point of indifference. You'll still feel disgusted when you see them, but it will be more about their behaviors rather than internalizing it as a reflection of yourself.
It's more like... you're thinking, "Who behaves like that?" It's a moral kind of disgust, directed at their actions rather than yourself. Initially, though, it might feel like self-disgust because you're reflecting on yourself in relation to them, remembering all the things they subjected you to. This triggers unresolved wounds and painful experiences you haven't fully processed yet.
But as you heal, seeing them might still evoke a bit of disgust, but it's not about the unresolved issues within you anymore. Instead, it's a moral disgust toward their behavior. It's crucial to recognize these feelings when you encounter your abuser and view them as opportunities for growth. Releasing these emotions will make you feel lighter and you will grow and recognize tour strengths. So, while feeling physically disgusted or wanting to puke when you see them is normal, it's a sign of triggering new emotions or reminding you of past experiences that still need processing.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
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The primary reason for feeling disgusted when you see your abuser is that it triggers feelings of self-disgust. You recall moments of pain and mistreatment with them. When you see them, it's a reminder of the trust you placed in them, the intimate moments you shared, and how they betrayed that trust. Seeing them brings back memories of what they subjected you to, leading to self-blame, self-criticism, and feelings of regret for trusting them in the first place.
It's more like stirring the pot of stuck emotions and sensations within you. Their mere presence serves as a catalyst, reigniting all the unresolved feelings and memories tied to the abuse. You're suddenly confronted with a flood of questions and doubts about yourself, questioning why you didn't leave sooner, why you ignored the warning signs, and why you allowed yourself to stay in such a harmful situation. These thoughts primarily blame you for staying, intensifying the feelings of self-disgust when you encounter them.
That's also the silver lining in all of this because when you feel that disgust, it indicates that there's still something within you that needs addressing. It's a signal that there's lingering self-hatred or negativity stemming from the past experiences with your ex. However, by confronting and working through these negative emotions, you can reach a point of indifference. You'll still feel disgusted when you see them, but it will be more about their behaviors rather than internalizing it as a reflection of yourself.
It's more like... you're thinking, "Who behaves like that?" It's a moral kind of disgust, directed at their actions rather than yourself. Initially, though, it might feel like self-disgust because you're reflecting on yourself in relation to them, remembering all the things they subjected you to. This triggers unresolved wounds and painful experiences you haven't fully processed yet.
But as you heal, seeing them might still evoke a bit of disgust, but it's not about the unresolved issues within you anymore. Instead, it's a moral disgust toward their behavior. It's crucial to recognize these feelings when you encounter your abuser and view them as opportunities for growth. Releasing these emotions will make you feel lighter and you will grow and recognize tour strengths. So, while feeling physically disgusted or wanting to puke when you see them is normal, it's a sign of triggering new emotions or reminding you of past experiences that still need processing.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
2024.05.17 03:30 relationshipguy254 Why Feeling Alone is The Time for Self-Reflection and not another Relationship.
Today I'd like to answer this question, "I always feel alone. I want to share my feelings with someone, but there is no one who can understand me. How can I get rid of it?"
Even when we're surrounded by others, we still experience our feelings and emotions on our own. We're the ones who feel joy, sadness, and everything in between. While there may be things happening around us, we're the ones reacting to them. So when you feel alone and wish someone understood you, it's not necessarily about them understanding. It's more about you understanding what it means to be alone.
It's like you're still figuring yourself out. Those feelings you're experiencing, you can't just make them disappear. Instead, you need to embrace and feel them. Being alone isn't necessarily a bad thing, it's actually a chance for self-reflection and introspection. Take that time to understand why being alone scares you or why are you afraid of being alone.
That's when you really start growing. Instead of seeking understanding from others, it's about understanding your own feelings when you're by yourself. If being alone brings up painful emotions like worthlessness or helplessness, it's a sign that there's some inner work to be done. You need to go deeper and address these issues within yourself before trying to find solace in someone else.
Feeling alone and experiencing negative emotions can actually be a beneficial place for personal growth. It's not about trying to eliminate those feelings; instead, it's about acknowledging them and viewing solitude as a chance to develop self-reliance and emotional maturity. While some might seek refuge in new relationships to avoid being alone, that's just avoiding the underlying issue. It's easy to be tempted to escape those feelings or seek someone else's understanding, but the real insight comes from observing and confronting the fears and insecurities that surface when you're alone.
It's more like masking the negative emotions with a bandage, when your authentic self is urging you to address them. The more you seek external validation or distractions, the more you evade these feelings that simply need acknowledgment, processing, and release. Once you confront and release them, you'll discover that being alone is actually quite beautiful place where you belong.
Even when slight fears emerge, view them as chances for personal growth. Use these moments to address your weaknesses and leverage your strengths. Without confronting these fears and feelings when alone, it becomes difficult to form genuine connections with others, as those connections would stem from fear rather than authenticity. However, once you confront your fears and connect with yourself, you'll find it easier to connect with those around you.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
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Even when we're surrounded by others, we still experience our feelings and emotions on our own. We're the ones who feel joy, sadness, and everything in between. While there may be things happening around us, we're the ones reacting to them. So when you feel alone and wish someone understood you, it's not necessarily about them understanding. It's more about you understanding what it means to be alone.
It's like you're still figuring yourself out. Those feelings you're experiencing, you can't just make them disappear. Instead, you need to embrace and feel them. Being alone isn't necessarily a bad thing, it's actually a chance for self-reflection and introspection. Take that time to understand why being alone scares you or why are you afraid of being alone.
That's when you really start growing. Instead of seeking understanding from others, it's about understanding your own feelings when you're by yourself. If being alone brings up painful emotions like worthlessness or helplessness, it's a sign that there's some inner work to be done. You need to go deeper and address these issues within yourself before trying to find solace in someone else.
Feeling alone and experiencing negative emotions can actually be a beneficial place for personal growth. It's not about trying to eliminate those feelings; instead, it's about acknowledging them and viewing solitude as a chance to develop self-reliance and emotional maturity. While some might seek refuge in new relationships to avoid being alone, that's just avoiding the underlying issue. It's easy to be tempted to escape those feelings or seek someone else's understanding, but the real insight comes from observing and confronting the fears and insecurities that surface when you're alone.
It's more like masking the negative emotions with a bandage, when your authentic self is urging you to address them. The more you seek external validation or distractions, the more you evade these feelings that simply need acknowledgment, processing, and release. Once you confront and release them, you'll discover that being alone is actually quite beautiful place where you belong.
Even when slight fears emerge, view them as chances for personal growth. Use these moments to address your weaknesses and leverage your strengths. Without confronting these fears and feelings when alone, it becomes difficult to form genuine connections with others, as those connections would stem from fear rather than authenticity. However, once you confront your fears and connect with yourself, you'll find it easier to connect with those around you.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
2024.05.16 21:01 relationshipguy254 How Do Narcissists Act When You Start Giving Someone Else Attention and Not Them?
When you're in a relationship with a narcissist, it's incredibly draining and damaging to your self-esteem. You may become so accustomed to their behavior that you feel isolated from the outside world. However, let's say you become aware of their abusive behaviors and decide to start seeing other people or going out on dates. Maybe you're still in the relationship, considering breaking up, or you've recently broken up. You're now focusing on someone else, and they're hardly getting any of your attention. How would they react?
Rage
The first reaction typically is rage. They'll become extremely angry at you for moving on. Seeing you with someone else triggers their deep insecurities, and they often suppress this anger until it bursts out explosively. They may display aggressive or violent behavior, perhaps even breaking things, as their insecurities are laid bare. Being close to them during such outbursts is not advisable.
Hoovering
Another possible reaction is that they may try to lure you back. Narcissists thrive on power and control, so when they see someone else getting your attention, they may see it as a challenge to their superiority. They might exploit your vulnerabilities and weaknesses to manipulate you into returning to them. Their goal is not genuine change but to reaffirm their sense of superiority. They may apologize, ‘change’ their behavior temporarily, or resort to love bombing to win you back, all to maintain their position of dominance and control.
Play Victim
Another tactic they might employ is playing the victim. Seeing you with someone else may trigger their insecurities, causing them to accuse you of cheating or blame you for not wanting to salvage the relationship. They may guilt-trip you by claiming you were supposed to be there for them forever. In their eyes, your actions are a betrayal, and they may twist the situation to paint themselves as the victim, turning the blame onto you and making you out to be the abusive one.
Smear Tactics
Another tactic they may use is to smear your name. When they see you giving attention to someone else, they may start spreading lies about you to your family or mutual acquaintances. They might claim that you're being unfaithful or suggest that you were the problem in the relationship. By tarnishing your reputation, they aim to manipulate others into sympathizing with them and viewing you as the one at fault. This tactic allows them to elevate their own reputation while diminishing yours in the eyes of others.
So, those are some of the things that may happen when you redirect your attention away from the narcissist. However, it's important not to dwell too much on the potential consequences of shifting your focus onto someone else. Sometimes, you might be tempted to seek attention from another person as a way of seeking revenge or to prove to the narcissist that you're still desirable. But that's not the purpose of the your healing journey
If your intention in seeking out someone else or giving them attention is solely to make the narcissist feel bad, then you're approaching the healing journey from the wrong angle. While it might provide a momentary sense of relief or closure, ultimately, you're still caught up in a competition with the abusive person.
So instead of directing your attention inward and focusing on your own healing, you're inadvertently engaging in the narcissist's manipulative games. While it's fine to see other people if you choose to, doing so with the sole purpose of getting back at the narcissist or proving something to them only perpetuates the toxic cycle. In the end, you'll find yourself trapped in another unhealthy relationship, unable to move forward and sinking deeper into the same patterns of exploitation and manipulation.
Focus on yourself and prioritize your own healing without being overly concerned about the narcissist's reaction. While it's beneficial to gain insight into their behavior, the most important thing is to understand your own motivations. Are you seeking revenge or trying to escape from your own pain? Ultimately, true growth comes from facing your emotions and experiences head-on.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
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Rage
The first reaction typically is rage. They'll become extremely angry at you for moving on. Seeing you with someone else triggers their deep insecurities, and they often suppress this anger until it bursts out explosively. They may display aggressive or violent behavior, perhaps even breaking things, as their insecurities are laid bare. Being close to them during such outbursts is not advisable.
Hoovering
Another possible reaction is that they may try to lure you back. Narcissists thrive on power and control, so when they see someone else getting your attention, they may see it as a challenge to their superiority. They might exploit your vulnerabilities and weaknesses to manipulate you into returning to them. Their goal is not genuine change but to reaffirm their sense of superiority. They may apologize, ‘change’ their behavior temporarily, or resort to love bombing to win you back, all to maintain their position of dominance and control.
Play Victim
Another tactic they might employ is playing the victim. Seeing you with someone else may trigger their insecurities, causing them to accuse you of cheating or blame you for not wanting to salvage the relationship. They may guilt-trip you by claiming you were supposed to be there for them forever. In their eyes, your actions are a betrayal, and they may twist the situation to paint themselves as the victim, turning the blame onto you and making you out to be the abusive one.
Smear Tactics
Another tactic they may use is to smear your name. When they see you giving attention to someone else, they may start spreading lies about you to your family or mutual acquaintances. They might claim that you're being unfaithful or suggest that you were the problem in the relationship. By tarnishing your reputation, they aim to manipulate others into sympathizing with them and viewing you as the one at fault. This tactic allows them to elevate their own reputation while diminishing yours in the eyes of others.
So, those are some of the things that may happen when you redirect your attention away from the narcissist. However, it's important not to dwell too much on the potential consequences of shifting your focus onto someone else. Sometimes, you might be tempted to seek attention from another person as a way of seeking revenge or to prove to the narcissist that you're still desirable. But that's not the purpose of the your healing journey
If your intention in seeking out someone else or giving them attention is solely to make the narcissist feel bad, then you're approaching the healing journey from the wrong angle. While it might provide a momentary sense of relief or closure, ultimately, you're still caught up in a competition with the abusive person.
So instead of directing your attention inward and focusing on your own healing, you're inadvertently engaging in the narcissist's manipulative games. While it's fine to see other people if you choose to, doing so with the sole purpose of getting back at the narcissist or proving something to them only perpetuates the toxic cycle. In the end, you'll find yourself trapped in another unhealthy relationship, unable to move forward and sinking deeper into the same patterns of exploitation and manipulation.
Focus on yourself and prioritize your own healing without being overly concerned about the narcissist's reaction. While it's beneficial to gain insight into their behavior, the most important thing is to understand your own motivations. Are you seeking revenge or trying to escape from your own pain? Ultimately, true growth comes from facing your emotions and experiences head-on.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
2024.05.16 15:30 relationshipguy254 What Motivates Someone to Become A "Flying Monkey" For Someone Else Instead of Standing Up For Themselves Or Their Loved Ones?
A flying monkey is someone who is enlisted, whether knowingly or unknowingly, by the abuser to carry out their manipulative actions or agendas. Rather than offering support you the abused, these people—whether they're parents, friends, or others close to you—choose to align themselves with the abuser, sometimes even continuing the abuse on their behalf. It's particularly challenging when people whom you've trusted for a long time, possibly even before encountering the abuser, begin siding with someone who has made your life unbearable, especially when you're trying to move forward. You might have hoped or expected that these friends or loved ones would stand by you, offering support as you heal from the abuse. However, when those who were once supportive transition into becoming flying monkeys, it can leave you feeling confused and questioning why they've turned against you. So, what motivates flying monkeys to do a narcissist's bidding?
Manipulation
The first reason is manipulation. When someone becomes a flying monkey, it's often because they're also being manipulated. Manipulative people are skilled at tactics like guilt-tripping and gaslighting. They might use these same methods on the flying monkey, making them feel like they have to go along with their plans. Just like they manipulated you, they might use similar tactics to control the flying monkey and get them to do their bidding. The flying monkeys may not be aware that they’re being manipulated or under the spell of the abuser.
Sense of Loyalty
Another reason is loyalty, or rather, misguided loyalty. In many cases, flying monkeys believe they're acting in the best interest of either the abuser or even you. They may genuinely think that by siding with the abuser, they're showing support. For instance, if the flying monkey happens to be the abuser's sibling, they might feel obligated to support their family member no matter what. Loyalty to family or close relationships can blind them to the abuse, causing them to ignore it or even participate in it. This sense of loyalty may stem from shared past experiences or simply long-standing friendships.
Low Self-Esteem
Another aspect to consider is that flying monkeys may have low self-esteem. When someone lacks confidence in themselves, they find it challenging to stand up for themselves or assert their own opinions. They easily succumb to persuasive words, especially from someone with a dominant personality like an abuser. Feeling intimidated by conflict, they prefer to keep the peace and avoid confrontation. They don't trust in their own abilities or voice, leading them to believe they're better off going along with the abuser's demands for the sake of maintaining a false sense of harmony.
Desire for Approval or Belonging
Another aspect to consider is the desire for approval or a sense of belonging. Flying monkeys may seek the approval of the abuser, believing that by aligning themselves with them, they can avoid becoming a victim of their abuse. This is especially true if the abuser holds a positive public reputation or a position of power. The flying monkey may believe that the only way to gain favor from the abuser is to support them, as they crave and prioritize their approval. This desire for approval can stem from various aspects, including personal values, support, or even their own well-being.
Conclusion
There are various motivations behind someone becoming a flying monkey. However, understanding these reasons doesn't mean you should sympathize with or tolerate their behavior. Whether it's a flying monkey or an abuser, if someone is causing you harm, it's essential to take action to protect yourself. This might involve cutting them off or distancing yourself from them. Remember, both flying monkeys and abusers are harmful, and you don't owe them your sympathy or compassion. Focus on your own well-being and growth first. Eventually, you may come to realize that manipulation affects us all in different ways.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
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Manipulation
The first reason is manipulation. When someone becomes a flying monkey, it's often because they're also being manipulated. Manipulative people are skilled at tactics like guilt-tripping and gaslighting. They might use these same methods on the flying monkey, making them feel like they have to go along with their plans. Just like they manipulated you, they might use similar tactics to control the flying monkey and get them to do their bidding. The flying monkeys may not be aware that they’re being manipulated or under the spell of the abuser.
Sense of Loyalty
Another reason is loyalty, or rather, misguided loyalty. In many cases, flying monkeys believe they're acting in the best interest of either the abuser or even you. They may genuinely think that by siding with the abuser, they're showing support. For instance, if the flying monkey happens to be the abuser's sibling, they might feel obligated to support their family member no matter what. Loyalty to family or close relationships can blind them to the abuse, causing them to ignore it or even participate in it. This sense of loyalty may stem from shared past experiences or simply long-standing friendships.
Low Self-Esteem
Another aspect to consider is that flying monkeys may have low self-esteem. When someone lacks confidence in themselves, they find it challenging to stand up for themselves or assert their own opinions. They easily succumb to persuasive words, especially from someone with a dominant personality like an abuser. Feeling intimidated by conflict, they prefer to keep the peace and avoid confrontation. They don't trust in their own abilities or voice, leading them to believe they're better off going along with the abuser's demands for the sake of maintaining a false sense of harmony.
Desire for Approval or Belonging
Another aspect to consider is the desire for approval or a sense of belonging. Flying monkeys may seek the approval of the abuser, believing that by aligning themselves with them, they can avoid becoming a victim of their abuse. This is especially true if the abuser holds a positive public reputation or a position of power. The flying monkey may believe that the only way to gain favor from the abuser is to support them, as they crave and prioritize their approval. This desire for approval can stem from various aspects, including personal values, support, or even their own well-being.
Conclusion
There are various motivations behind someone becoming a flying monkey. However, understanding these reasons doesn't mean you should sympathize with or tolerate their behavior. Whether it's a flying monkey or an abuser, if someone is causing you harm, it's essential to take action to protect yourself. This might involve cutting them off or distancing yourself from them. Remember, both flying monkeys and abusers are harmful, and you don't owe them your sympathy or compassion. Focus on your own well-being and growth first. Eventually, you may come to realize that manipulation affects us all in different ways.
Note from the Author
If you’re ready and you’d like my help with healing, finding peace in life and breaking free from these toxic patterns, then you can book a FREE BREAKTHROUGH CALL with me HERE. Happy healing 💙💙. Feel free to share and comment! Use this information with caution, it comes from my own thoughts & bias, experiences and research😊.
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I am available to take on tasks on a daily, weekly, or monthly basis, as well as one-time projects of any size. Please ensure that the budget reflects the quality of work you can expect.
For transparency, an initial deposit/upfront payment can be necessary prior to my commitment. 60-150usd.
MOP (USD) Crypto, Wise, PayPal
MOC you can dm me or book here calendly.com/bkforhire/20min (discord, telegram, gmail contacts here - serious offers only)
Timezone Flexible, availability <30 hours/week (reachable 7days a week)
Portfolio/Contact bkforhire.netlify .app, work & samples (pinned in profile, ongoing update)
For hassle-free transactions & complete project autonomy. Contact me to secure your go-to developer. Inquiries welcome.
2024.05.16 13:55 bkking420 [for hire] Seeking remote/freelance jobs. project-based, or long-term. DM email chat book forhire
I specialize in providing bespoke web development services and custom solutions, leveraging over a decade of experience in remote work environments. (global)
looking for recurring work 2-4hday, available for months or longer commitments. full time WFH here. contact me to have a discussion.
Here are just a few of the services I can provide:- Python, Django, AI, Web Scraping, Automation, Chat bots, Micro and Complex scripts
- 2D Game Back-end Development (Game engine or Web based)
- Online shop, Payments and Custom build platforms (Front-end and Back-end Development)
- API Integration and Cloud Services
- PHP (Laravel/WordPress) HTML CSS JavaScript NodeJS React/NextJS/Flutter Mobile Applications UX/UI
- Security and Penetration Testing Services
- Passionate about developing web solutions for any market or target audience
- Flexible and able to adapt to changing project needs
- Willing to learn and explore
- Clear and consistent communication
- Project management, organizational and documentation skills
I am available to take on tasks on a daily, weekly, or monthly basis, as well as one-time projects of any size. Please ensure that the budget reflects the quality of work you can expect.
For transparency, an initial deposit/upfront payment can be necessary prior to my commitment. 60-150usd.
MOP (USD) Crypto, Wise, PayPal
MOC you can dm me or book here calendly.com/bkforhire/20min (discord, telegram, gmail contacts here - serious offers only)
Timezone Flexible, availability <30 hours/week (reachable 7days a week)
Portfolio/Contact bkforhire.netlify .app, work & samples (pinned in profile, ongoing update)
For hassle-free transactions & complete project autonomy. Contact me to secure your go-to developer. Inquiries welcome.
2024.05.16 13:43 bkking420 [for hire] Seeking remote/freelance jobs. project-based, or long-term. DM email chat book forhire
I specialize in providing bespoke web development services and custom solutions, leveraging over a decade of experience in remote work environments. (global)
looking for recurring work 2-4hday, available for months or longer commitments. full time WFH here. contact me to have a discussion.
Here are just a few of the services I can provide:- Python, Django, AI, Web Scraping, Automation, Chat bots, Micro and Complex scripts
- 2D Game Back-end Development (Game engine or Web based)
- Online shop, Payments and Custom build platforms (Front-end and Back-end Development)
- API Integration and Cloud Services
- PHP (Laravel/WordPress) HTML CSS JavaScript NodeJS React/NextJS/Flutter Mobile Applications UX/UI
- Security and Penetration Testing Services
- Passionate about developing web solutions for any market or target audience
- Flexible and able to adapt to changing project needs
- Willing to learn and explore
- Clear and consistent communication
- Project management, organizational and documentation skills
I am available to take on tasks on a daily, weekly, or monthly basis, as well as one-time projects of any size. Please ensure that the budget reflects the quality of work you can expect.
For transparency, an initial deposit/upfront payment can be necessary prior to my commitment. 60-150usd.
MOP (USD) Crypto, Wise, PayPal
MOC you can dm me or book here calendly.com/bkforhire/20min (discord, telegram, gmail contacts here - serious offers only)
Timezone Flexible, availability <30 hours/week (reachable 7days a week)
Portfolio/Contact bkforhire.netlify .app, work & samples (pinned in profile, ongoing update)
For hassle-free transactions & complete project autonomy. Contact me to secure your go-to developer. Inquiries welcome.
2024.05.16 13:35 bkking420 [for hire] Seeking remote/freelance jobs. project-based, or long-term. DM email chat book forhire
I specialize in providing bespoke web development services and custom solutions, leveraging over a decade of experience in remote work environments. (global)
looking for recurring work 2-4hday, available for months or longer commitments. full time WFH here. contact me to have a discussion.
Here are just a few of the services I can provide:- Python, Django, AI, Web Scraping, Automation, Chat bots, Micro and Complex scripts
- 2D Game Back-end Development (Game engine or Web based)
- Online shop, Payments and Custom build platforms (Front-end and Back-end Development)
- API Integration and Cloud Services
- PHP (Laravel/WordPress) HTML CSS JavaScript NodeJS React/NextJS/Flutter Mobile Applications UX/UI
- Security and Penetration Testing Services
- Passionate about developing web solutions for any market or target audience
- Flexible and able to adapt to changing project needs
- Willing to learn and explore
- Clear and consistent communication
- Project management, organizational and documentation skills
I am available to take on tasks on a daily, weekly, or monthly basis, as well as one-time projects of any size. Please ensure that the budget reflects the quality of work you can expect.
For transparency, an initial deposit/upfront payment can be necessary prior to my commitment. 60-150usd.
MOP (USD) Crypto, Wise, PayPal
MOC you can dm me or book here calendly.com/bkforhire/20min (discord, telegram, gmail contacts here - serious offers only)
Timezone Flexible, availability <30 hours/week (reachable 7days a week)
Portfolio/Contact bkforhire.netlify .app, work & samples (pinned in profile, ongoing update)
For hassle-free transactions & complete project autonomy. Contact me to secure your go-to developer. Inquiries welcome.
2024.05.16 13:35 bkking420 [for hire] Seeking remote/freelance jobs. project-based, or long-term. DM email chat book forhire
I specialize in providing bespoke web development services and custom solutions, leveraging over a decade of experience in remote work environments. (global)
looking for recurring work 2-4hday, available for months or longer commitments. full time WFH here. contact me to have a discussion.
Here are just a few of the services I can provide:- Python, Django, AI, Web Scraping, Automation, Chat bots, Micro and Complex scripts
- 2D Game Back-end Development (Game engine or Web based)
- Online shop, Payments and Custom build platforms (Front-end and Back-end Development)
- API Integration and Cloud Services
- PHP (Laravel/WordPress) HTML CSS JavaScript NodeJS React/NextJS/Flutter Mobile Applications UX/UI
- Security and Penetration Testing Services
- Passionate about developing web solutions for any market or target audience
- Flexible and able to adapt to changing project needs
- Willing to learn and explore
- Clear and consistent communication
- Project management, organizational and documentation skills
I am available to take on tasks on a daily, weekly, or monthly basis, as well as one-time projects of any size. Please ensure that the budget reflects the quality of work you can expect.
For transparency, an initial deposit/upfront payment can be necessary prior to my commitment. 60-150usd.
MOP (USD) Crypto, Wise, PayPal
MOC you can dm me or book here calendly.com/bkforhire/20min (discord, telegram, gmail contacts here - serious offers only)
Timezone Flexible, availability <30 hours/week (reachable 7days a week)
Portfolio/Contact bkforhire.netlify .app, work & samples (pinned in profile, ongoing update)