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2024.05.19 00:06 alt-to-tell-or-not88 WIBTAH if I tell our son my side of the story as to why his mother and I are not together and one big family?
For context my ex wife of nearly 10 years and I divorced around 3 years ago because we could not come to agreement with a plan of care for my mother who had dementia. I wanted to fund privately she wanted to use place her using medicaid.
Our kid is starting to ask why aren't we a family together. I explained that we are still a family and that both of us love him and will always be their for him. This is when he told me that my ex told him that the reason we are not together was because I made the choice to break our family apart to care for my mother. He did not say it like that.
I explained that my mom their grandmother is sick and that she needs extra support and care, but is does not detract from how much I love him. This is when my son told me my ex explained that grandma could go live and make friends and we could visit often.
I did my best to change the subject at that point, cause I know he is a kid looking at this from kids lens and will not understand the complexity and reasons why I refused to put my mother in a nursing home.
I know he will not understand that I would have placed my mother if it meant I could place her in a facility of my choice but my ex did not want me to limit what money our family could use. She wanted her to use Medicaid. I refuse to go down that route.
Yes, she is the primary during the divorce I did agree to let her have the house so our son can remain close to his friends and family that lives in the area. I am paying both child support and spousal support but it has a time limit. Just meant to allow her to get into the workforce.
Yes, because of those expenses I cannot afford to place her where I wish. So I am paying for homecare and yes I am staying with my mother.
I am toying with explaining my side but I doubt my kid will understand and I also do not wish to frame his mother in a negative light, even though I know I do not get the same consideration. My son already asks why I cannot come over, and yes I do tell him because I am taking care of my mom or for work. Though the real reason is she does not want me around and to be fair she knows exactly how to push my buttons and does what she can to goad me into an argument.
So I avoid going over to limit my interactions with her, not my son.
I do not think my son is old enough to understand all of this. So would I be an asshole if I tried? Should I just let it go and wait until he is older?
I know I can make a stink with the courts but even then I do not wish to put more strain on our family than need be.
Sorry forgot to add our son's age he will be 8.
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Our kid is starting to ask why aren't we a family together. I explained that we are still a family and that both of us love him and will always be their for him. This is when he told me that my ex told him that the reason we are not together was because I made the choice to break our family apart to care for my mother. He did not say it like that.
I explained that my mom their grandmother is sick and that she needs extra support and care, but is does not detract from how much I love him. This is when my son told me my ex explained that grandma could go live and make friends and we could visit often.
I did my best to change the subject at that point, cause I know he is a kid looking at this from kids lens and will not understand the complexity and reasons why I refused to put my mother in a nursing home.
I know he will not understand that I would have placed my mother if it meant I could place her in a facility of my choice but my ex did not want me to limit what money our family could use. She wanted her to use Medicaid. I refuse to go down that route.
Yes, she is the primary during the divorce I did agree to let her have the house so our son can remain close to his friends and family that lives in the area. I am paying both child support and spousal support but it has a time limit. Just meant to allow her to get into the workforce.
Yes, because of those expenses I cannot afford to place her where I wish. So I am paying for homecare and yes I am staying with my mother.
I am toying with explaining my side but I doubt my kid will understand and I also do not wish to frame his mother in a negative light, even though I know I do not get the same consideration. My son already asks why I cannot come over, and yes I do tell him because I am taking care of my mom or for work. Though the real reason is she does not want me around and to be fair she knows exactly how to push my buttons and does what she can to goad me into an argument.
So I avoid going over to limit my interactions with her, not my son.
I do not think my son is old enough to understand all of this. So would I be an asshole if I tried? Should I just let it go and wait until he is older?
I know I can make a stink with the courts but even then I do not wish to put more strain on our family than need be.
Sorry forgot to add our son's age he will be 8.
2024.05.19 00:00 No-Lettuce1152 3 Month Old Can’t Breathe On His Own! Long Post…
Age: 3 Months
Sex: Male
Height: Unsure
Weight: 7lbs
Race: Black ———————
hello all .
i am looking for some advice, some questions to ask the doctors caring for him, just help in general.
my son is a twin (Baby B). they were born 27w0d on Feb 9 2024 but they were due May 10th 2024. they both graduated from the NICU and came home. Baby A came home doing fine and still is, but Baby B almost died and he’s now in the PICU on a ventilator not able to breathe on his own.
so here’s a quick backstory on Baby B- they were both on track, just growing and maturing as much as they could while in the NICU. they both had Grade 2 brain bleeds in NICU, but that is common for babies born extremely premature. we were told that it would absorb on its own, and they wouldn’t suffer from any disabilities stemming from that. Baby B was on a conventional ventilator for 12hrs in the NICU one time. even on the High Flow machine, he would desat, Baby A hardly had this problem. Baby A came home a week before Baby B, because B would constantly desat. B wasn’t even home for a week when tragedy struck. The morning of his first Pediatric Appointment, I noticed he was grayish, but he was still breathing. Days leading up to that he slowly stopped eating as much, but I didn’t stress to bad because I knew he was going to the Dr. The pediatrician said he was “fine”, clearly he wasn’t. But immediately after that appointment they had an Eye Dr Follow Up to go to. There is when their dad noticed something terrible was coming about, he was visibly GRAY with a blue nose & lips. The Eye Dr brought over a different doctor who he said could help, but even that doctor said he was “fine”. Their dad brought them home and I picked B up out of his car seat and he was limp, blue, with a heart beat so faint I thought he was going to leave us.
Ambulance came and he’s been at Vanderbilt Children’s Hospital for almost a month now. They’ve found some things but everything they have found they said it isn’t why he can not breathe on his own. Brain Bleed went to another spot, but they said that’s not why. Found Pneumonia, but they said that’s not why. Both of his lungs partially collapsed, but they said that’s not why either. They took him off of the ventilator, but they just called me and said that his heart rate dropped very low and they had to do CPR to get it back up. They still don’t know what could be wrong, I even requested a Pulmonologist like a reddit user told me to do. They said it’s nothing they can see that’s causing his apnea.
At this point I’m LOST. What does this sound like to you all ? What could this be ?? Every question I asked, every question Dad has asked just seems sugarcoated. They talk to us like dummies. Please someone, direct me somewhere.
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Sex: Male
Height: Unsure
Weight: 7lbs
Race: Black ———————
hello all .
i am looking for some advice, some questions to ask the doctors caring for him, just help in general.
my son is a twin (Baby B). they were born 27w0d on Feb 9 2024 but they were due May 10th 2024. they both graduated from the NICU and came home. Baby A came home doing fine and still is, but Baby B almost died and he’s now in the PICU on a ventilator not able to breathe on his own.
so here’s a quick backstory on Baby B- they were both on track, just growing and maturing as much as they could while in the NICU. they both had Grade 2 brain bleeds in NICU, but that is common for babies born extremely premature. we were told that it would absorb on its own, and they wouldn’t suffer from any disabilities stemming from that. Baby B was on a conventional ventilator for 12hrs in the NICU one time. even on the High Flow machine, he would desat, Baby A hardly had this problem. Baby A came home a week before Baby B, because B would constantly desat. B wasn’t even home for a week when tragedy struck. The morning of his first Pediatric Appointment, I noticed he was grayish, but he was still breathing. Days leading up to that he slowly stopped eating as much, but I didn’t stress to bad because I knew he was going to the Dr. The pediatrician said he was “fine”, clearly he wasn’t. But immediately after that appointment they had an Eye Dr Follow Up to go to. There is when their dad noticed something terrible was coming about, he was visibly GRAY with a blue nose & lips. The Eye Dr brought over a different doctor who he said could help, but even that doctor said he was “fine”. Their dad brought them home and I picked B up out of his car seat and he was limp, blue, with a heart beat so faint I thought he was going to leave us.
Ambulance came and he’s been at Vanderbilt Children’s Hospital for almost a month now. They’ve found some things but everything they have found they said it isn’t why he can not breathe on his own. Brain Bleed went to another spot, but they said that’s not why. Found Pneumonia, but they said that’s not why. Both of his lungs partially collapsed, but they said that’s not why either. They took him off of the ventilator, but they just called me and said that his heart rate dropped very low and they had to do CPR to get it back up. They still don’t know what could be wrong, I even requested a Pulmonologist like a reddit user told me to do. They said it’s nothing they can see that’s causing his apnea.
At this point I’m LOST. What does this sound like to you all ? What could this be ?? Every question I asked, every question Dad has asked just seems sugarcoated. They talk to us like dummies. Please someone, direct me somewhere.
2024.05.18 23:58 Pretty-Sink8244 AITA for not wanting to be my elderly Mom’s Social Wingman?
Let me start off by saying I am a classic middle-aged introvert. The older I get the pickier I am about who I want around me so now that I work at home my human interactions are limited. My mom on the other hand is an elderly— people loving extrovert. She is someone who thrives off of lots of interactions with lots of different people and is extremely patient even among people who I consider to be rude. Before my father‘s death, for example she tolerated his bad moods and his verbal abuse. Where as I had no tolerance for his abuse or anyone else’s since then.
Most of my adult life naturally me and my mom have not lived under the same roof, but now we do due to my father death and her being alone in the house that was way too large for just her. The difficulty I am having is that my mom loves to socialize with just about anyone and always expects me to be the social wingman whether I want to or not(some of the people she likes to have over I consider to be somewhat obnoxious, but she constantly says to me you have to find the best in everyone). She invites people over and assumes that I will want to socially interact with the same people. Also when I have told her that doing so often makes me uncomfortable (cringe). She is a typical extrovert in that she does not believe that being an introvert is actually a “thing”. When I say I don’t want to she says that I actually don’t really mean it or she thinks that I am just being plain mean when in fact, I require alone time to recharge my batteries so that I can be available for the people I love-like her.
Just like most families the caregiving of my elderly parent has fallen on one person which is me. I look after her (mobility issues) in addition to maintaining a full-time client facing job and being a full-time pet parent. Very recently, my mom complained that she misses the dinner parties and luncheons that were held in my childhood home I personally absolutely hated because she invited people over for dinner parties each and every week ! Now she has this idea that she would like to have summertime tea parties in her backyard for women in our local area. To an introvert that sounds like a horror show, but I cannot get that across to her. Of course my mom being happy pleases me very much but why is it that so often the things that please her so much send me into a panic!
My mother and I both reside about 3000 miles from my childhood home and we have many family members that still live in the town I grew up in. Recently due to a death in the family we are planning a trip back to my childhood hometown and my mother is already planning all of the social interactions with people and wants to include me in all of them and also expects me to involve her in any of my social interactions on the trip, which will be very limited because the trip I think should be focused on supporting our family member that lost a son.
The thought of having to spend five straight days with my extrovert mother who is planning on spending time with relatives and mostly her friends without having much time to myself alone is sending me into a panic. When I try to explain how this is making me feel my feelings are usually dismissed as being invalid and she makes remarks when I try to explain how this is making me feel—my feelings are usually dismissed as being invalid—-she says “once we get there, you will have such a good time around everyone (she is the one who has a great time with everyone) I want mom to be happy and I want to support my relative that lost her adult son so I am not sure how to approach this. I told mom we really need to go to support our relative that lost her child and she agrees, but she is also calling almost everyone she knows in our hometown to tell them we will be there.
How do I tell my elderly mom that I do not have to be involved with every interaction with every social occasion because I need to reserve my energy to be able to care for myself and her ? Or should I swallow my feelings because after all, I am just being a selfish asshole?
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Most of my adult life naturally me and my mom have not lived under the same roof, but now we do due to my father death and her being alone in the house that was way too large for just her. The difficulty I am having is that my mom loves to socialize with just about anyone and always expects me to be the social wingman whether I want to or not(some of the people she likes to have over I consider to be somewhat obnoxious, but she constantly says to me you have to find the best in everyone). She invites people over and assumes that I will want to socially interact with the same people. Also when I have told her that doing so often makes me uncomfortable (cringe). She is a typical extrovert in that she does not believe that being an introvert is actually a “thing”. When I say I don’t want to she says that I actually don’t really mean it or she thinks that I am just being plain mean when in fact, I require alone time to recharge my batteries so that I can be available for the people I love-like her.
Just like most families the caregiving of my elderly parent has fallen on one person which is me. I look after her (mobility issues) in addition to maintaining a full-time client facing job and being a full-time pet parent. Very recently, my mom complained that she misses the dinner parties and luncheons that were held in my childhood home I personally absolutely hated because she invited people over for dinner parties each and every week ! Now she has this idea that she would like to have summertime tea parties in her backyard for women in our local area. To an introvert that sounds like a horror show, but I cannot get that across to her. Of course my mom being happy pleases me very much but why is it that so often the things that please her so much send me into a panic!
My mother and I both reside about 3000 miles from my childhood home and we have many family members that still live in the town I grew up in. Recently due to a death in the family we are planning a trip back to my childhood hometown and my mother is already planning all of the social interactions with people and wants to include me in all of them and also expects me to involve her in any of my social interactions on the trip, which will be very limited because the trip I think should be focused on supporting our family member that lost a son.
The thought of having to spend five straight days with my extrovert mother who is planning on spending time with relatives and mostly her friends without having much time to myself alone is sending me into a panic. When I try to explain how this is making me feel my feelings are usually dismissed as being invalid and she makes remarks when I try to explain how this is making me feel—my feelings are usually dismissed as being invalid—-she says “once we get there, you will have such a good time around everyone (she is the one who has a great time with everyone) I want mom to be happy and I want to support my relative that lost her adult son so I am not sure how to approach this. I told mom we really need to go to support our relative that lost her child and she agrees, but she is also calling almost everyone she knows in our hometown to tell them we will be there.
How do I tell my elderly mom that I do not have to be involved with every interaction with every social occasion because I need to reserve my energy to be able to care for myself and her ? Or should I swallow my feelings because after all, I am just being a selfish asshole?
2024.05.18 23:53 grumpylittleteapot Struggling with issues my kid is having in school, but scared if I post anywhere its just going to be "this is why I homeschool"
I'm a huge believer in public school after my terrible homeschool experience. I also recognize schools are underfunded and lacking resources. My son's in kindergarten and for the most part is great. His teacher and all school staff are lovely, and he's thriving. But we have 2 issues. One is he's so advanced in math that he's bored during the math portion (class is adding numbers together that make 20, he's doing multiplication and division for fun at home) so now he says he hates math, and I don't want him hating something he excells in. Other issue is one kid in the class that has violent outbursts. My kid has started having violent outbursts at home, and while I believe it has more to do with stuff happening with his dad (my ex) I also think he's learned some of the behaviors from this kid.
So I have these real issues that I'd love to get other parents perspectives on, but anytime you mention problems at school it turns into a free for all of home school moms justifying their abuse
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So I have these real issues that I'd love to get other parents perspectives on, but anytime you mention problems at school it turns into a free for all of home school moms justifying their abuse
2024.05.18 23:50 txtfile2025 How my parents treat my sister’s kids
My sister has a 4 year old daughter and a near 1 year old son that my family brings to the house for the weekend every other week. My parents are extremely rough with them, with my mom yanking the 4 year old around by the arms and yelling at the near 1 year old and punishing them for things they do that are common for their age, doing things like locking them in rooms and telling them to “shut the hell up” and saying “I’m going to backhand you”. This is just the basics of what they do and I’m honestly just concerned for them and their safety and how it’ll shape who they are, am I right for being worried?
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2024.05.18 23:48 AcceptableSet3916 "Jealous wedding guest ruins the money shot": An Essay About The Woman In The Photo
First of all, I would like to say THANK YOU to all of you that showed so much love to my first post ever in Reddit!
Since my girl Millie got too much hate for wearing white and ruining the best photo of the wedding, I decided to write her sad story and share it with all of you. It's a LONG tale, full of ups and mostly downs (TLDR at the end of the post). Sooo, grab some cookies and popcorn while I spill the tea ;)
******WARNING******** The story features what I believe to be unsettling content (pregnancy loss) for some. It's hidden as spoiler, so please don't click it if it's a sensitive issue for you. <3
Our story starts with poor young adult who shall not be named (because I don't remember her name). God (me) had big plans and challenges for her, as she started with 0 simoleons in an off the grid island, with hopes of her becoming a millionaire. She moved in the big island without money, a place to sleep, a toilet, nothing. The challenge goes like this: raise money from beachcombing, buy a towel to sleep on, buy a bush to pee in, snorkel, plant and build a life from zero. And, under no circumstances communicate with another sim.
This challenge was too difficult. The loneliness and hardships, the struggle to just survive and find food, led this young girl to her death by drowning in the middle of the ocean. It was too soon, so God decided to try this challenge again, giving the new sim a head start.
That leads us to the protagonist of the story, Millie Carson.
Millie Carson is a young adult who moved in the same island, like a castaway. All she found on that island was a towel, some planted trees, a toilet bush and a grave.
The ghost from the grave came often to haunt and tease her and finally became her enemy.
At first, young Millie tried to stay away from other sims but, since they kept coming and visiting, God decided that it was ok for her to have some friends.
Millie's neighbors were Miki and Ali, a happy couple with two babies. They kept visiting and bringing food to their poor young neighbor, since she was struggling so much. Millie grew close with Ali, who came swimming to her island sometimes.
Meanwhile, Millie learned some skills that earned her some money and food. She became really good at fitness, gardening and fishing. Little by little, she earned enough money to buy diving supplies and took up some diving photography and treasure hunting. All those helped her build a tiny wood home which finally had a toilet and a shower and even a fridge. Life was getting better for Millie, until she started having feelings for her married neighbor...
Millie was attracted to Ali: his long blond hair, his green eyes and dark skin. To her surprise, Ali was interested in her as well. She tried to fight it but it was over her own power to resist. They made sweet woohoo and became a couple, while he was still married with two kids.
Love makes you do stupid things and that's what happened to Millie. She fell in love with a married man and, surprise surprise, she got pregnant with his kid.
While on her 1st trimester, she visited her neighbolover's home to tell him the news. His wife, Miki, opened the door and the sight was unbelievable: She was pregnant as well, on her 3rd trimester. Millie chatted with Miki as nothing was wrong and even socialized with her kids for a bit. But it was now time for Ali to learn the truth. Millie pulled him aside and told him everything.
To her surprise, Ali was content with being a parent to their child. Millie felt his support and fell even harder for him, causing her to do the unthinkable: Woohoo with him all over his tiny house while his wife and two kids were inside! They woohood EVERYWHERE: The small single bed, the kitchen sink, the counters, standing... They almost got caught by Miki, but hopefully she was so pregnant that it took her an eternity to reach the woohoo spot.
Millie started thinking about their future. Tormented by her jealousy, she asked Ali about Miki. Miki's super pregnant belly was an indicator that Ali still loves and woohoos with his wife, two-timing both women. To her dismay, Ali confessed his love about Miki, but he was willing to keep his relationship with Millie. But that wasn't enough for Millie...
Without hesitation, Millie served Ali an ultimatum: It's her or Miki. No love triangles, no hiding. Her kid needed a father and she needed support as a poor young woman. All those pregnancy hormones made her unreasonable - she came between a happy couple and now she felt that her lover's wife stole him from her, even though they were already together! The irony!
Millie couldn't get over her feelings, so she invited Miki over and told her EVERYTHING. That she was pregnant. That the father was poor Miki's husband. Miki got even yelled at for sleeping with her own husband. Millie was out of control.
Like a tsunami, a force that couldn't be stopped, Millie called over Ali and told him to break it off with his wife. It was now or never. Ali did as told and suddenly Miki broke down crying, hating life and those two who ruined it.
Eventually, Miki left and the.. happy couple were finally alone. Millie asked Ali to move in and he gladly accepted. He even proposed and they stayed engaged until after their baby girl, Angelique, was born.
Meanwhile, even though Miki was hating them, she still came over with extra food like a good neighbor. But her relations with the couple never improved much.
The happy couple decided to get married. Millie wore a pretty but simple boho white dress, hair down and golden jewelry. But her joyful smile was the prettiest jewel she could wear. It was a lovely, quiet wedding on the seashore, during sunset.
Soon after, Millie got pregnant again but wasn't ready or happy for it. Unfortunately, there were some complications with the pregnancy and baby Donovan was born dead. They buried him under a lemon tree and cried for many seasons about him.
Ali started helping Millie with gardening, fishing and diving. But his dream was to finally earn his degree in Communications. He still had 3 classes to pass and then he could enter the PR world. He soon earned his degree with a low to medium score and was ready to start working. There was a huge problem, though...
The island was off the grid and he could not apply for the job, not use the very much needed internet. A decision had to be made: Should they live on this island forever, living off the land, or they should move somewhere else and follow Millie's dream to become millionaires?
The choice was easy. The couple moved to Finchwick, in a big cottage house with a big garden, front and back. They brought with them the plants they had gardened with so much love and also bought some chickens. Life was good for a while, baby Angelique was growing but woohoo life was... fine.
Ali found a job in PR and had to work all day, even from home. He had to polish his charisma and writing skills and meet new people. So, that made Millie a stay at home mom, a gardener, a housekeeper. But there was no time for her lifestyle needs: outdoor living and working out. She became frustrated and was always in a bad and uncomfortable mood. She had gained a lot of weight from her pregnancy, she hardly recognized herself in the mirror...All this bad mood made her cranky. Everytime Ali tried to woohoo with her, she had no drive. So, their love life went down the drain...
Meanwhile, Ali was doing great at work, earning at least 2000 simoleons per day. He had met many people, and one of them became a really good friend of his. His name was Gabriel and he was thin, with black short hair, dark skin and modern makeup.
Ali was tormented by his feelings when he hang out with Gabriel. He couldn't understand how a man can be attracted to another guy like that. He was open to the idea, but had never acted upon it. It wasn't the looks - Gabriel was pretty basic. But there was something about the both of them that made him feel... amazing. The attention he got from Gabriel, the friendship.. It was like they knew each other from another lifetime.
Every time Gabriel came over, Ali got excited. He was interested in his words and inner world, not only his appearance. One night, he couldn't take it anymore. While they were talking the backyard table, Ali started flirting with Gabriel. Things got heated fast and they shared the most beautiful first kiss. That was exactly what he always wanted to feel, but was missing from his other relationships. He proposed to have woohoo in the home office, while Millie and Angelique were sleeping unaware upstairs...
They woohood hard and many times. It was a total WoohooFest. Morning came and Ali, having not slept at all, got ready to go to work. He didn't forget to kiss his wife goodbye, but he spent the entire day thinking about Gabriel. By night, he had decided to ask Gabriel to become his boyfriend.
Millie on the other side, was getting better. She bought a walking machine and she often went swimming in the river. Her woohoo drive was coming back strong and that meant more time with her beloved husband. They started woohooing more often, but Ali was also missing Gabriel...
God suddenly had an idea! Ali should ask Millie to have expanded woohoo with someone else, and that someone else couldn't be other than (yes, you guessed it) Gabriel. Ali went on and asked his wife and God told her that yes, it would be fun! So, unaware of God and her husband's plans, she happily accepted to engage in multiple sim woohoo...
Ali was so excited! He couldn't believe his ears! He immediately called over Gabriel and explained the situation. Gabriel accepted as well and it was time for Gabriel to meet with Millie. Millie tried to get to know him but for some reason he was distant. She tried to flirt with him but he didn't reciprocate. Millie got embarrassed and locked herself in her room for some time, to recollect herself. It shouldn't be so hard, right?
At the same time, Ali made his move on Gabriel and they woohood. Gabriel was more than excited to get together with Ali. So, why not Millie?
After Millie got over her embarrassment, she came out the room. Ali proposed having multiple woohoo and they did it. Everyone had a pleasant time.
After that, they got together two more times. But, the last time, at Gabriel's house, was the final blow.
Millie kept trying to flirt alone with Gabriel, not getting the message but, DUDE. He was NOT into her. It was heartbreaking. She tried so hard for her husband, her self esteem and again, she was turned down. A second choice. She didn't deserve it. And then, she though about it. The flirt between Ali and Gabriel. How they would have woohoo, the three of them, but Gabriel was rejecting her. It was time for answers...
Millie first told Ali to end the expanded woohoo agreement. It was too much for her. He wasn't happy about it, but he agreed. And then, she asked the million dollar question: "What's going on between you two?". Ali tried to hide it, told her they were only friends. But God was starting to feel bad about poor Millie, so had her ask again: "WHAT'S GOING ON BETWEEN YOU TWO?"
The answer was like a knife, going through her heart. Ali loved Gabriel and that's all she needed to know. Their woohoo life was non existent before and now had found someone who made him feel better, more... alive! That's all Millie needed to know. She went over to Gabriel and try to make a last, desperate woohoo pass at him. Once more, he rejected her. It was all so clear. She was the third wheel.
Her ego and her heart were stomped on the ground, like a cockroach. A beautiful, kind, hard working sim shouldn't go through all that. She headed back home, to the privacy of her bedroom and cried her eyeballs out. Ali didn't come home that night and went straight to work.
The next day, Millie invited Gabriel over. Oooh no, she wouldn't let him have Ali so easily. She would humiliate him first. He came over and she started yelling at him. Her face was red and hot, she was fueled by rage. She ending up giving him the beating of his life. When Ali came home from work, both his lovers were black and blue from fighting.
Baby Angelique started crying. She had woken up. Millie rushed upstairs to help her toddler with her needs, but Ali and Gabriel stayed downstairs. Ali tried to comfort Gabriel, asking him to stay. He didn't care about his marriage anymore. God led them to the hall upstairs, outside the bedrooms. They started woohooing again, right there, like animals!
Poor Millie, as she opened her daughter's bedroom's door, she caught her cheater husband in the act! THE AUDACITY!!! And if it that wasn't enough, when she went over to slap him, he acted like she wasn't there and went to woohoo in the shower with his boyfriend - AGAIN! WTH!!!
At this point, Millie knew it was time to give Ali the boot and kick him the hell out of their home, and so she did. After Ali's lover left, the married couple had a long, heated conversation that only had one outcome - Ali had to move out immediately.
So, he left and rented a one-bedroom apartment in the city. He also decided to ask Gabriel to live with him, and Gabriel happily accepted. A new chapter started for Ali but unresolved things were left in the middle with his wife that needed to be dealt with.
While all these took place, Millie had gotten close with celebrity Rahul Chopra. They became good friends and she was invited to his wedding. It was a one of a kind event because Rahul had a shotgun wedding with his wife when they were teenagers due to unwanted pregnancy. After many kids later, Rahul's eldest daughter, with the villainous valentine aspiration (long story) decided to break her eternally faithful parents up for fun. So they did break up, but they were so made for each other, like puzzle pieces, that it was impossible to not end up together again.
Rahul fell back in love with his wife and they decided to do it right this time. They planned the perfect wedding event in San Myshuno's park, during sunset. The whole family was there and their 2nd child, Philip (YA) would take the professional pictures of the wedding.
The ceremony started, everyone (almost) was seated and the photographer (and me) were preoccupied with taking the happy couples pictures. As the ceremony ended, the couple was ready to share their first kiss as husband and wife. The air was filled with confetti that floated playfully around them, the fireworks were set off behing them and the sun was showering them with the warmest rays. It was a one time opportunity to get the perfect picture. Philip got ready to press click. And then, she appeared.
Millie, clearly bothered and heartbroken by other people's love, made a run for the exit and ruined Philip's perfect photograph. The angry look on her face would forever haunt Philip's mind. Why would that woman ruin this happy moment and why the hell would she wear white at someone's wedding? I mean, you wouldn't mistake her for the bride, who wore an expensive wedding gown, but still... Something was wrong with this girl and Philip had to find out...
After the wedding, Millie went back home. The days passed and the divorce was not finalized. She asked her kid who she wanted to stay with, but without reply. She called Ali over, but he texted back he didn't want to come over. Millie had her -now child- daughter call over her dad. This time, Ali responded positively and soon after he arrived. Millie took him straight to the lawyers to see who will get custody of Angelique.
This time, God had no plans, God left it all to luck. So, unfortunately, Ali won custody of Angelique, who immediately went to live with him. Now, Millie was alone. Only her and her money and her baby son's grave in the front yard. Now she was angry, NOW HE WOULD PAY.
Millie grabbed Ali and went once again to the lawyers. It was now time to split the estate. At least 100k simoleons in the bank, plus whatever the house is worth. Millie wants to get everything, but once again, God won't interfere. She comes back home, head down, beaten - she lost 80k.
She turns to her new friend, Philip. He is basic, but he's a good guy. He lives alone in an apartment in San Myshuno, studies Fine Arts in university, comes from a good family. He also has a girlfriend that lives across the hall from him, but Millie doesn't know. And God tells her to come onto him. Now Philip has two girlfriends and God must interfere.
God and luck are playing games with Millie's life.
As I'm writing her story, there's only one thing I feel: Sad.
This girl started out with hopes and dreams. So I think that we should forgive her for attending a friend's wedding wearing white. Some God forgot to change her formal outfit and it was all she had to wear. She's going through a lot!
Her story ends for now, but if you guys like it I might write more about her life's adventures.
Also, what should she do with Philip? Let me know in the comments!
If you read this whole essay / story , you are amazing! And thanks! Hope you liked it! :)
TLDR: YA woman starts with 0 money in off the grid island. Wants to earn a million. Gets pregnant by married neighbor with kids. Marries him and they buy new home. They get pregnant second time, lose the baby.He gets a good job, meets new people, gets new guy friend, has woohoo with that friend. The 3 of them have expanded woohoo. Woman breaks it off. Woman confronts husband about loving other man, he confesses he loves him. Woman kicks him out and he lives alone in flat. The other guy moves in with him. Woman heartbroken, goes to friends wedding wearing white, is angry at happy couple's love, ruins the married couple kiss photo. Photo becomes famous on Reddit. Woman loses custody of only child. Woman loses 80k simoleons after splitting estate. Woman becomes girlfriend of the photographer from the friend's wedding. Photographer already has another girlfriend.
*****EDIT*********** I can't believe I forgot to write this, but Millie also drowned in the ocean while being fatigued from diving for treasures. I decided to not save and give her a second chance. Her life is dramatic, UUUUUUGH!!!!
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Since my girl Millie got too much hate for wearing white and ruining the best photo of the wedding, I decided to write her sad story and share it with all of you. It's a LONG tale, full of ups and mostly downs (TLDR at the end of the post). Sooo, grab some cookies and popcorn while I spill the tea ;)
******WARNING******** The story features what I believe to be unsettling content (pregnancy loss) for some. It's hidden as spoiler, so please don't click it if it's a sensitive issue for you. <3
Our story starts with poor young adult who shall not be named (because I don't remember her name). God (me) had big plans and challenges for her, as she started with 0 simoleons in an off the grid island, with hopes of her becoming a millionaire. She moved in the big island without money, a place to sleep, a toilet, nothing. The challenge goes like this: raise money from beachcombing, buy a towel to sleep on, buy a bush to pee in, snorkel, plant and build a life from zero. And, under no circumstances communicate with another sim.
This challenge was too difficult. The loneliness and hardships, the struggle to just survive and find food, led this young girl to her death by drowning in the middle of the ocean. It was too soon, so God decided to try this challenge again, giving the new sim a head start.
That leads us to the protagonist of the story, Millie Carson.
Millie Carson is a young adult who moved in the same island, like a castaway. All she found on that island was a towel, some planted trees, a toilet bush and a grave.
The ghost from the grave came often to haunt and tease her and finally became her enemy.
At first, young Millie tried to stay away from other sims but, since they kept coming and visiting, God decided that it was ok for her to have some friends.
Millie's neighbors were Miki and Ali, a happy couple with two babies. They kept visiting and bringing food to their poor young neighbor, since she was struggling so much. Millie grew close with Ali, who came swimming to her island sometimes.
Meanwhile, Millie learned some skills that earned her some money and food. She became really good at fitness, gardening and fishing. Little by little, she earned enough money to buy diving supplies and took up some diving photography and treasure hunting. All those helped her build a tiny wood home which finally had a toilet and a shower and even a fridge. Life was getting better for Millie, until she started having feelings for her married neighbor...
Millie was attracted to Ali: his long blond hair, his green eyes and dark skin. To her surprise, Ali was interested in her as well. She tried to fight it but it was over her own power to resist. They made sweet woohoo and became a couple, while he was still married with two kids.
Love makes you do stupid things and that's what happened to Millie. She fell in love with a married man and, surprise surprise, she got pregnant with his kid.
While on her 1st trimester, she visited her neighbolover's home to tell him the news. His wife, Miki, opened the door and the sight was unbelievable: She was pregnant as well, on her 3rd trimester. Millie chatted with Miki as nothing was wrong and even socialized with her kids for a bit. But it was now time for Ali to learn the truth. Millie pulled him aside and told him everything.
To her surprise, Ali was content with being a parent to their child. Millie felt his support and fell even harder for him, causing her to do the unthinkable: Woohoo with him all over his tiny house while his wife and two kids were inside! They woohood EVERYWHERE: The small single bed, the kitchen sink, the counters, standing... They almost got caught by Miki, but hopefully she was so pregnant that it took her an eternity to reach the woohoo spot.
Millie started thinking about their future. Tormented by her jealousy, she asked Ali about Miki. Miki's super pregnant belly was an indicator that Ali still loves and woohoos with his wife, two-timing both women. To her dismay, Ali confessed his love about Miki, but he was willing to keep his relationship with Millie. But that wasn't enough for Millie...
Without hesitation, Millie served Ali an ultimatum: It's her or Miki. No love triangles, no hiding. Her kid needed a father and she needed support as a poor young woman. All those pregnancy hormones made her unreasonable - she came between a happy couple and now she felt that her lover's wife stole him from her, even though they were already together! The irony!
Millie couldn't get over her feelings, so she invited Miki over and told her EVERYTHING. That she was pregnant. That the father was poor Miki's husband. Miki got even yelled at for sleeping with her own husband. Millie was out of control.
Like a tsunami, a force that couldn't be stopped, Millie called over Ali and told him to break it off with his wife. It was now or never. Ali did as told and suddenly Miki broke down crying, hating life and those two who ruined it.
Eventually, Miki left and the.. happy couple were finally alone. Millie asked Ali to move in and he gladly accepted. He even proposed and they stayed engaged until after their baby girl, Angelique, was born.
Meanwhile, even though Miki was hating them, she still came over with extra food like a good neighbor. But her relations with the couple never improved much.
The happy couple decided to get married. Millie wore a pretty but simple boho white dress, hair down and golden jewelry. But her joyful smile was the prettiest jewel she could wear. It was a lovely, quiet wedding on the seashore, during sunset.
Soon after, Millie got pregnant again but wasn't ready or happy for it. Unfortunately, there were some complications with the pregnancy and baby Donovan was born dead. They buried him under a lemon tree and cried for many seasons about him.
Ali started helping Millie with gardening, fishing and diving. But his dream was to finally earn his degree in Communications. He still had 3 classes to pass and then he could enter the PR world. He soon earned his degree with a low to medium score and was ready to start working. There was a huge problem, though...
The island was off the grid and he could not apply for the job, not use the very much needed internet. A decision had to be made: Should they live on this island forever, living off the land, or they should move somewhere else and follow Millie's dream to become millionaires?
The choice was easy. The couple moved to Finchwick, in a big cottage house with a big garden, front and back. They brought with them the plants they had gardened with so much love and also bought some chickens. Life was good for a while, baby Angelique was growing but woohoo life was... fine.
Ali found a job in PR and had to work all day, even from home. He had to polish his charisma and writing skills and meet new people. So, that made Millie a stay at home mom, a gardener, a housekeeper. But there was no time for her lifestyle needs: outdoor living and working out. She became frustrated and was always in a bad and uncomfortable mood. She had gained a lot of weight from her pregnancy, she hardly recognized herself in the mirror...All this bad mood made her cranky. Everytime Ali tried to woohoo with her, she had no drive. So, their love life went down the drain...
Meanwhile, Ali was doing great at work, earning at least 2000 simoleons per day. He had met many people, and one of them became a really good friend of his. His name was Gabriel and he was thin, with black short hair, dark skin and modern makeup.
Ali was tormented by his feelings when he hang out with Gabriel. He couldn't understand how a man can be attracted to another guy like that. He was open to the idea, but had never acted upon it. It wasn't the looks - Gabriel was pretty basic. But there was something about the both of them that made him feel... amazing. The attention he got from Gabriel, the friendship.. It was like they knew each other from another lifetime.
Every time Gabriel came over, Ali got excited. He was interested in his words and inner world, not only his appearance. One night, he couldn't take it anymore. While they were talking the backyard table, Ali started flirting with Gabriel. Things got heated fast and they shared the most beautiful first kiss. That was exactly what he always wanted to feel, but was missing from his other relationships. He proposed to have woohoo in the home office, while Millie and Angelique were sleeping unaware upstairs...
They woohood hard and many times. It was a total WoohooFest. Morning came and Ali, having not slept at all, got ready to go to work. He didn't forget to kiss his wife goodbye, but he spent the entire day thinking about Gabriel. By night, he had decided to ask Gabriel to become his boyfriend.
Millie on the other side, was getting better. She bought a walking machine and she often went swimming in the river. Her woohoo drive was coming back strong and that meant more time with her beloved husband. They started woohooing more often, but Ali was also missing Gabriel...
God suddenly had an idea! Ali should ask Millie to have expanded woohoo with someone else, and that someone else couldn't be other than (yes, you guessed it) Gabriel. Ali went on and asked his wife and God told her that yes, it would be fun! So, unaware of God and her husband's plans, she happily accepted to engage in multiple sim woohoo...
Ali was so excited! He couldn't believe his ears! He immediately called over Gabriel and explained the situation. Gabriel accepted as well and it was time for Gabriel to meet with Millie. Millie tried to get to know him but for some reason he was distant. She tried to flirt with him but he didn't reciprocate. Millie got embarrassed and locked herself in her room for some time, to recollect herself. It shouldn't be so hard, right?
At the same time, Ali made his move on Gabriel and they woohood. Gabriel was more than excited to get together with Ali. So, why not Millie?
After Millie got over her embarrassment, she came out the room. Ali proposed having multiple woohoo and they did it. Everyone had a pleasant time.
After that, they got together two more times. But, the last time, at Gabriel's house, was the final blow.
Millie kept trying to flirt alone with Gabriel, not getting the message but, DUDE. He was NOT into her. It was heartbreaking. She tried so hard for her husband, her self esteem and again, she was turned down. A second choice. She didn't deserve it. And then, she though about it. The flirt between Ali and Gabriel. How they would have woohoo, the three of them, but Gabriel was rejecting her. It was time for answers...
Millie first told Ali to end the expanded woohoo agreement. It was too much for her. He wasn't happy about it, but he agreed. And then, she asked the million dollar question: "What's going on between you two?". Ali tried to hide it, told her they were only friends. But God was starting to feel bad about poor Millie, so had her ask again: "WHAT'S GOING ON BETWEEN YOU TWO?"
The answer was like a knife, going through her heart. Ali loved Gabriel and that's all she needed to know. Their woohoo life was non existent before and now had found someone who made him feel better, more... alive! That's all Millie needed to know. She went over to Gabriel and try to make a last, desperate woohoo pass at him. Once more, he rejected her. It was all so clear. She was the third wheel.
Her ego and her heart were stomped on the ground, like a cockroach. A beautiful, kind, hard working sim shouldn't go through all that. She headed back home, to the privacy of her bedroom and cried her eyeballs out. Ali didn't come home that night and went straight to work.
The next day, Millie invited Gabriel over. Oooh no, she wouldn't let him have Ali so easily. She would humiliate him first. He came over and she started yelling at him. Her face was red and hot, she was fueled by rage. She ending up giving him the beating of his life. When Ali came home from work, both his lovers were black and blue from fighting.
Baby Angelique started crying. She had woken up. Millie rushed upstairs to help her toddler with her needs, but Ali and Gabriel stayed downstairs. Ali tried to comfort Gabriel, asking him to stay. He didn't care about his marriage anymore. God led them to the hall upstairs, outside the bedrooms. They started woohooing again, right there, like animals!
Poor Millie, as she opened her daughter's bedroom's door, she caught her cheater husband in the act! THE AUDACITY!!! And if it that wasn't enough, when she went over to slap him, he acted like she wasn't there and went to woohoo in the shower with his boyfriend - AGAIN! WTH!!!
At this point, Millie knew it was time to give Ali the boot and kick him the hell out of their home, and so she did. After Ali's lover left, the married couple had a long, heated conversation that only had one outcome - Ali had to move out immediately.
So, he left and rented a one-bedroom apartment in the city. He also decided to ask Gabriel to live with him, and Gabriel happily accepted. A new chapter started for Ali but unresolved things were left in the middle with his wife that needed to be dealt with.
While all these took place, Millie had gotten close with celebrity Rahul Chopra. They became good friends and she was invited to his wedding. It was a one of a kind event because Rahul had a shotgun wedding with his wife when they were teenagers due to unwanted pregnancy. After many kids later, Rahul's eldest daughter, with the villainous valentine aspiration (long story) decided to break her eternally faithful parents up for fun. So they did break up, but they were so made for each other, like puzzle pieces, that it was impossible to not end up together again.
Rahul fell back in love with his wife and they decided to do it right this time. They planned the perfect wedding event in San Myshuno's park, during sunset. The whole family was there and their 2nd child, Philip (YA) would take the professional pictures of the wedding.
The ceremony started, everyone (almost) was seated and the photographer (and me) were preoccupied with taking the happy couples pictures. As the ceremony ended, the couple was ready to share their first kiss as husband and wife. The air was filled with confetti that floated playfully around them, the fireworks were set off behing them and the sun was showering them with the warmest rays. It was a one time opportunity to get the perfect picture. Philip got ready to press click. And then, she appeared.
Millie, clearly bothered and heartbroken by other people's love, made a run for the exit and ruined Philip's perfect photograph. The angry look on her face would forever haunt Philip's mind. Why would that woman ruin this happy moment and why the hell would she wear white at someone's wedding? I mean, you wouldn't mistake her for the bride, who wore an expensive wedding gown, but still... Something was wrong with this girl and Philip had to find out...
After the wedding, Millie went back home. The days passed and the divorce was not finalized. She asked her kid who she wanted to stay with, but without reply. She called Ali over, but he texted back he didn't want to come over. Millie had her -now child- daughter call over her dad. This time, Ali responded positively and soon after he arrived. Millie took him straight to the lawyers to see who will get custody of Angelique.
This time, God had no plans, God left it all to luck. So, unfortunately, Ali won custody of Angelique, who immediately went to live with him. Now, Millie was alone. Only her and her money and her baby son's grave in the front yard. Now she was angry, NOW HE WOULD PAY.
Millie grabbed Ali and went once again to the lawyers. It was now time to split the estate. At least 100k simoleons in the bank, plus whatever the house is worth. Millie wants to get everything, but once again, God won't interfere. She comes back home, head down, beaten - she lost 80k.
She turns to her new friend, Philip. He is basic, but he's a good guy. He lives alone in an apartment in San Myshuno, studies Fine Arts in university, comes from a good family. He also has a girlfriend that lives across the hall from him, but Millie doesn't know. And God tells her to come onto him. Now Philip has two girlfriends and God must interfere.
God and luck are playing games with Millie's life.
As I'm writing her story, there's only one thing I feel: Sad.
This girl started out with hopes and dreams. So I think that we should forgive her for attending a friend's wedding wearing white. Some God forgot to change her formal outfit and it was all she had to wear. She's going through a lot!
Her story ends for now, but if you guys like it I might write more about her life's adventures.
Also, what should she do with Philip? Let me know in the comments!
If you read this whole essay / story , you are amazing! And thanks! Hope you liked it! :)
TLDR: YA woman starts with 0 money in off the grid island. Wants to earn a million. Gets pregnant by married neighbor with kids. Marries him and they buy new home. They get pregnant second time, lose the baby.He gets a good job, meets new people, gets new guy friend, has woohoo with that friend. The 3 of them have expanded woohoo. Woman breaks it off. Woman confronts husband about loving other man, he confesses he loves him. Woman kicks him out and he lives alone in flat. The other guy moves in with him. Woman heartbroken, goes to friends wedding wearing white, is angry at happy couple's love, ruins the married couple kiss photo. Photo becomes famous on Reddit. Woman loses custody of only child. Woman loses 80k simoleons after splitting estate. Woman becomes girlfriend of the photographer from the friend's wedding. Photographer already has another girlfriend.
*****EDIT*********** I can't believe I forgot to write this, but Millie also drowned in the ocean while being fatigued from diving for treasures. I decided to not save and give her a second chance. Her life is dramatic, UUUUUUGH!!!!
2024.05.18 23:46 Labmom192125 Is this a normal feeling to have coming from being an only child to having 6 younger siblings?!?
I’m a 28 year old female. I was adopted by my maternal grandfather and step grandma at 4 years old but I have been with them since I was 10 weeks old. They are the only parents I’ve ever known. They received custody from me because my dad’s ex-wife (who filed a dcfs case to get custody from her daughter -my biological mother). My dad and his ex wife had 2 kids, a son and my biological mother. It was an open adoption with my bio mom until a certain age when my parents stopped allowing the visits due to some concerns with the living situation I would stay in when I was there. My brother was 18 years old when I was born and he’s the only person I had in my childhood, even though he was in a much different place in life than myself due to the age difference.
I’ve suffered from some mental health struggles due to the adoption. I was in 2nd grade when I was diagnosed with severe ADHD, severe anxiety in 6th grade, and severe depression after the loss of my dad’s dad in 2009. Having been diagnosed with anxiety at such a young age and the trauma I had been through being adopted made me more likely to see situations as traumatic and more likely to develop ptsd from situations.
Now that I’ve told you the back story I’m really hoping this reaches the right people that understand or can relate to what I’m going through.
Growing up I always wanted siblings my age. But I basically grew up as an only child as my older brother was starting his own life and after I was no longer allowed to go over to my bio moms house she didn’t come around as much.
I’ve never really had my bio father in the picture but I knew who he was and that was never hidden from me. To me (despite the court case with the adoption and how he really felt about the situation) he’s always been one of the 3 people that abandoned me. I’ve struggled with personal relationships my whole life due to the trust issues from the ptsd. My biological father has 7 living children, myself being the oldest.
I had a relationship for a little while with the 2nd born. Then that ended as she had some issues with our biological father after she moved in. Then we quit talking. Well about 2 years ago now I got in touch and really close to the 3rd born who was 17 when I met her. She’s now 19 and living across the street from our biological father and our other sister lives down the street just a few houses down. And she’s now aloud to be around the “kids”, which are our 4 younger siblings still living in the house with our bio father.
My bio father and I haven’t really gotten along as I’ve always seen him as a trigger and one that abandoned me. I’ve been working on myself for some time now and was ready to work on that trigger and have a relationship with my 4 youngest siblings. But because my bio father says I need to have a relationship with him first I’m not aloud to be around the kids. I know he is the parent and doing what he thinks is right but I also don’t live across the street or down the street. It’s a 1.5 hour drive each way for me to get there. I honestly feel like I’m being replaced by my 3rd sister. The one that I’ve been closest to (and really the only person I talk to) now that she’s aloud to be around them.
I also feel like I’m being treated differently because I was raised differently than them. I also feel like I’m being left out and it hurts seeing the people you desperately need in your life to move forward and your sister your closest with is becoming more interested in them than me.
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I’ve suffered from some mental health struggles due to the adoption. I was in 2nd grade when I was diagnosed with severe ADHD, severe anxiety in 6th grade, and severe depression after the loss of my dad’s dad in 2009. Having been diagnosed with anxiety at such a young age and the trauma I had been through being adopted made me more likely to see situations as traumatic and more likely to develop ptsd from situations.
Now that I’ve told you the back story I’m really hoping this reaches the right people that understand or can relate to what I’m going through.
Growing up I always wanted siblings my age. But I basically grew up as an only child as my older brother was starting his own life and after I was no longer allowed to go over to my bio moms house she didn’t come around as much.
I’ve never really had my bio father in the picture but I knew who he was and that was never hidden from me. To me (despite the court case with the adoption and how he really felt about the situation) he’s always been one of the 3 people that abandoned me. I’ve struggled with personal relationships my whole life due to the trust issues from the ptsd. My biological father has 7 living children, myself being the oldest.
I had a relationship for a little while with the 2nd born. Then that ended as she had some issues with our biological father after she moved in. Then we quit talking. Well about 2 years ago now I got in touch and really close to the 3rd born who was 17 when I met her. She’s now 19 and living across the street from our biological father and our other sister lives down the street just a few houses down. And she’s now aloud to be around the “kids”, which are our 4 younger siblings still living in the house with our bio father.
My bio father and I haven’t really gotten along as I’ve always seen him as a trigger and one that abandoned me. I’ve been working on myself for some time now and was ready to work on that trigger and have a relationship with my 4 youngest siblings. But because my bio father says I need to have a relationship with him first I’m not aloud to be around the kids. I know he is the parent and doing what he thinks is right but I also don’t live across the street or down the street. It’s a 1.5 hour drive each way for me to get there. I honestly feel like I’m being replaced by my 3rd sister. The one that I’ve been closest to (and really the only person I talk to) now that she’s aloud to be around them.
I also feel like I’m being treated differently because I was raised differently than them. I also feel like I’m being left out and it hurts seeing the people you desperately need in your life to move forward and your sister your closest with is becoming more interested in them than me.
2024.05.18 23:38 Patratacus2020 I got angry for being called a liar and untrustworthy
Am I wrong for being angry/upset for being called a liar and untrustworthy for telling my daughter that the movie popcorn has "butter" poured on top of it at the theater? The question came up from my daughter asking whether the movie popcorn has any nuts/peanuts in it because she has a nut allergy. I simply said, "No, it's just popcorn and butter and some salt." I know the liquid stuff they put on the popcorn isn't butter, even though the concession stand person asked if I wanted "butter." I grew up eating this stuff and have bought some in the past. I know it's some oil with coloring and salt. It could also be some other type of fatty substance they use, but I'm confident it doesn't contain nuts or tree nuts. The reason they even use this "butter" stuff in the first place is to keep it from going rancid if they use real butter. It's also cheap, so adding nuts would increase the cost. I know there is hazelnut flavoring (also fake and has no actual hazelnuts), and that's more expensive than "butter."
Anyway, my wife got pissed at me about lying to my daughter, and she deemed that I couldn't be trusted. My daughter has asked about whether there are nuts in pretty much everything. It's good that she's looking out for herself, but when she does this all the time, it gets pretty old. I didn't want to interrogate the concession stand staff about whether the popcorn or the fake butter stuff had any nuts/peanuts in it.
My wife kept bringing up trust a lot in the past several years because one time many years ago, I told her I wanted to get a divorce during a heated verbal argument because she was driving me nuts.
Here are some of the situations that have accumulated over the years and made me resent her more and more. I think I'm a trustworthy person, and I try my best to live with integrity. I have a high-paying professional job. I don't have any vices (alcohol, drugs, gambling, etc.). I also don't do much other than going to work and coming home. I go grocery shopping on the weekend and spend most of the time doing household chores on doing stuff on the computer.
I used to think I was a responsible person, and I tried my best to succeed in life. I try to spend as much time with my kids as possible so they know I'm there for them. My father wasn't around much when I was younger so I don't want to make the same mistake. We have been married for 15 years at this point but I'm just getting more and more sick of being in this relationship. I want my kids to have an intact family but it's just getting harder and harder. I don't have any other woman in my life so it's not even a part of the equation. I'm just not happy being questioned all the time and treated like a piece of garbage.
Anyway, I got really upset today after she called me a liar and said I was untrustworthy for telling my daughter the fake butter stuff is butter. I decided to walk home from this event we were supposed to get dinner together. I'd rather come home and cook my own dinner than be accused of something I can't even comprehend anymore.
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Anyway, my wife got pissed at me about lying to my daughter, and she deemed that I couldn't be trusted. My daughter has asked about whether there are nuts in pretty much everything. It's good that she's looking out for herself, but when she does this all the time, it gets pretty old. I didn't want to interrogate the concession stand staff about whether the popcorn or the fake butter stuff had any nuts/peanuts in it.
My wife kept bringing up trust a lot in the past several years because one time many years ago, I told her I wanted to get a divorce during a heated verbal argument because she was driving me nuts.
Here are some of the situations that have accumulated over the years and made me resent her more and more. I think I'm a trustworthy person, and I try my best to live with integrity. I have a high-paying professional job. I don't have any vices (alcohol, drugs, gambling, etc.). I also don't do much other than going to work and coming home. I go grocery shopping on the weekend and spend most of the time doing household chores on doing stuff on the computer.
- She got mad at me because I painted the window sill with polyurethane because it was getting moldy waiting for her to decide what wood treatments to put on the windows. This took almost a year and the wood already was getting moldy.
- She got mad at me for not telling her about a joint account I have with my mother. My mom felt that it was unfair that my wife has an investment account that her dad setup for her since she was a child. She never told me how much she has in that account, but we pay thousands in taxes every year because of it. When my wife found out about my account, she demanded that we split that money. I did so for my account, but she never shared her money from her own account with me because it's still invested. I have no idea how much money she has, and I don't care since it was her money before we got married. It just seems lopsided that somehow my money must be shared with her.
- She got mad at me for getting in a fight with my mom when we went to visit her at my childhood home overseas. My mom was upset with us because she paid for the plane tickets (~$6k total) to fly to visit and offered her house for us to stay, but we repaid her generosity by only spending less than a couple days with her during our 2-week visit. My wife didn't want to stay in the city and would instead go off exploring. I got in a fight with my mom trying to defend my wife when my mom was accusing her of being ungrateful and rude to the family. Even today, my wife keeps saying how she can't trust my mom because "your mom is unstable and explosive".
- She got mad at me for going to San Francisco for a week to get my mom (72 years old at the time) coming from overseas to visit a couple of places she wanted to visit for planning to relocate to the Bay Area. She didn't know anyone else in the US so she asked me to help her. She paid for all the expenses. At this point my mom also didn't like my wife so she didn't ask her to come. My wife said I shouldn't go and just let my mom deal with it herself. I hadn't seen my mother in 3 years at this point so I did want to see her and help her. I was also worried about her safety. My wife's family was living 10 minutes away from us so she couldn't understand why I would want to see my mom.
- She got mad at me for planting grass seeds in our backyard when she went away for the weekend. Up to that point, my wife had already spent hundreds of dollars hiring random people to come to pluck out goutweed from the backyard to get rid of them. I read somewhere that grass can outcompete with goutweed so I decided to just plant the seeds. I didn't want to tell her because she kept delaying the decision to do anything with the backyard and we have goutweed growing everywhere despite all that money spent to get rid of them. The grass actually worked, and we have a grass lawn now instead of a goutweed field as long as I mow the lawn. She said I was sneaking behind her back to plant the seeds. It made her not trust me.
- She got mad at me for wanting to take a business trip that could further my career at the company I was working for. I passed on it and I lost the promotion.
- She got mad at me for not wanting to send the kids to private school ($18k/year per kid and we have 2 kids). I was making $135k/year but I left the job because my wife said that I spent too much time at work and not enough with family. I took a lower paying job so I can spend more time with family, but the private school cost is just making it difficult. She was only working part-time but had to go full-time because I don't make as much as I used to.
- She got mad at me because I sometimes came home half an hour late after 5 pm and didn't make dinner in time for the kids to go to bed by 7:30 pm. The older one is in 6th grade and the younger one in 3rd grade. I have to make breakfast and dinner everyday and I also have to do all the dishes. Her job is to put the kids to bed. I also have to drop the kids off every morning at their private school and I can't drop them off before 8:30 am and it's over half an hour away from my work the wrong direction. I could never get to work before 9:00 am and my wife demanded that I need to be home by 5 pm to make dinner.
- She demanded that I spend at least an hour or more every day with her after the kids go to bed even if I see her everyday at breakfast and dinner. She got mad when I wanted to teach a pottery class some evenings 2-3 times a week because I used to enjoy pottery and teaching. I had to quit because she got mad at me for not spending time with her.
- She got mad at me for starting a golf equipment business. She hated the products I was making because she didn't play golf and disliked golf. She wasn't supportive and probably couldn't wait for the business to fail so I stop spending time on it. The business is still going but not making that much money, but it's only been a couple of years.
- She got mad at me for not wanting to have sex a lot with her anymore. She really let herself go after having the kids while I still trying to maintain my fitness. I used to go running every other day but pretty much quit at this point because I couldn't do all the cooking and cleaning and still have time to go running.
I used to think I was a responsible person, and I tried my best to succeed in life. I try to spend as much time with my kids as possible so they know I'm there for them. My father wasn't around much when I was younger so I don't want to make the same mistake. We have been married for 15 years at this point but I'm just getting more and more sick of being in this relationship. I want my kids to have an intact family but it's just getting harder and harder. I don't have any other woman in my life so it's not even a part of the equation. I'm just not happy being questioned all the time and treated like a piece of garbage.
Anyway, I got really upset today after she called me a liar and said I was untrustworthy for telling my daughter the fake butter stuff is butter. I decided to walk home from this event we were supposed to get dinner together. I'd rather come home and cook my own dinner than be accused of something I can't even comprehend anymore.
2024.05.18 23:33 StoopidSandvich Why did the emperor hate Angron but adore Vulkan?
This is a headcanon of mine that only makes more sense to me the more I think about it but I wanted to run it by other lore scholars (hopefully with more knowledge than I)
I think the Emperor designed Vulkan and Angron to be his two most compassionate sons. Vulkan is Vulkan there isn't any explanation needed there, but Angron prior to the nails was actually a deeply caring and honorable individual, refusing to kill his comrades in the face of death, being deeply protective of those he called brother even after the nails, and even having empathic abilities that allowed him to soothe the anguish of his fellow gladiators. (before the nails killed that part of him)
If this is the case why is it that the Emperor praises Vulkan at every turn but seems to make no effort to help Angron at all? It is my belief that it is because Vulkan reminded him of Erda while Angron reminded him of himself.
In Vulkan he saw genuine humanity and compassion, something the emperor actually deeply values, and I believe it's something he valued in Erda hence why he never sought her out when she left (also because I think it would be nice if at least one primarch inherited something from their mom other than the necessary chromosome) and big E praises Vulkan for being genuinely human and humble, it's why the emperor had him craft the talisman of 7 hammers (aside from him being the only living loyalist with the know how to actually make it) because he knew the only way it's use (incinerating Terra should the emperor die on the throne) could actually be considered a good idea was if Vulkan agreed. If the nice primarch, the human primarch, the humble primarch, would agree that this horrific super weapon was acceptable than that's the only way to genuinely know it. More heartless and colder primarch's like Dorn or the Lion would look at it mathematically and pragmatically but would completely forget to even think of the ethics of it. Not Vulkan he wept upon hearing it's true function, it broke his heart to know the galaxy had been damned to such a point it might need this talisman, and the emperor knew that, and needed that emotion and empathy to the common people of Terra to aid his judgement. (Personally I think that if the Emperor heard Vulkan turned traitor he'd actually start thinking he's the bad guy because of how much he valued Vulkan's compassion and empathy)
But in Angron he saw the death of humanity, a being that was meant to be genuinely human and kind but had that part of them mutilated. Something that slowly happened to the Emperor himself he slowly lost his own humanity, becoming colder. And seeing that in his son caused him to subconsciously hate his son (for all of the Emperor's intellect he has a massive gap when in comes to emotional intelligence) it's why he didn't/couldn't fix Angron's brain in master of mankind. He saw in Angron the death of what would have made him human that happened in himself and because of that he didn't see Angron as worth saving. I believe that if he cared about Angron any more, even as a tool, he would have attempted something more that looking at his brain and giving up but because Angron acted as a mirror to all of the flaws of himself Big E didn't want to fix him. Even if it couldn't be done in that surgery I think he could have made more sophisticated and specialized tools to fix his son in a different surgery later. But all Big E saw was the dead humanity that was affecting himself, he saw a being that should have been compassionate, should have been empathic, should have been human but had all of that torn out by force, and in it he saw himself, the part of himself he hated the most. (And I my opinion him doing something like this makes him a much more interesting character) and this meant when Angron turned traitor it just affirmed to the Emperor he was right to hate Angron and therefore right to hate those parts of himself.
Tell me thoughts and corrections because I've been stewing on this for a while and want input
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I think the Emperor designed Vulkan and Angron to be his two most compassionate sons. Vulkan is Vulkan there isn't any explanation needed there, but Angron prior to the nails was actually a deeply caring and honorable individual, refusing to kill his comrades in the face of death, being deeply protective of those he called brother even after the nails, and even having empathic abilities that allowed him to soothe the anguish of his fellow gladiators. (before the nails killed that part of him)
If this is the case why is it that the Emperor praises Vulkan at every turn but seems to make no effort to help Angron at all? It is my belief that it is because Vulkan reminded him of Erda while Angron reminded him of himself.
In Vulkan he saw genuine humanity and compassion, something the emperor actually deeply values, and I believe it's something he valued in Erda hence why he never sought her out when she left (also because I think it would be nice if at least one primarch inherited something from their mom other than the necessary chromosome) and big E praises Vulkan for being genuinely human and humble, it's why the emperor had him craft the talisman of 7 hammers (aside from him being the only living loyalist with the know how to actually make it) because he knew the only way it's use (incinerating Terra should the emperor die on the throne) could actually be considered a good idea was if Vulkan agreed. If the nice primarch, the human primarch, the humble primarch, would agree that this horrific super weapon was acceptable than that's the only way to genuinely know it. More heartless and colder primarch's like Dorn or the Lion would look at it mathematically and pragmatically but would completely forget to even think of the ethics of it. Not Vulkan he wept upon hearing it's true function, it broke his heart to know the galaxy had been damned to such a point it might need this talisman, and the emperor knew that, and needed that emotion and empathy to the common people of Terra to aid his judgement. (Personally I think that if the Emperor heard Vulkan turned traitor he'd actually start thinking he's the bad guy because of how much he valued Vulkan's compassion and empathy)
But in Angron he saw the death of humanity, a being that was meant to be genuinely human and kind but had that part of them mutilated. Something that slowly happened to the Emperor himself he slowly lost his own humanity, becoming colder. And seeing that in his son caused him to subconsciously hate his son (for all of the Emperor's intellect he has a massive gap when in comes to emotional intelligence) it's why he didn't/couldn't fix Angron's brain in master of mankind. He saw in Angron the death of what would have made him human that happened in himself and because of that he didn't see Angron as worth saving. I believe that if he cared about Angron any more, even as a tool, he would have attempted something more that looking at his brain and giving up but because Angron acted as a mirror to all of the flaws of himself Big E didn't want to fix him. Even if it couldn't be done in that surgery I think he could have made more sophisticated and specialized tools to fix his son in a different surgery later. But all Big E saw was the dead humanity that was affecting himself, he saw a being that should have been compassionate, should have been empathic, should have been human but had all of that torn out by force, and in it he saw himself, the part of himself he hated the most. (And I my opinion him doing something like this makes him a much more interesting character) and this meant when Angron turned traitor it just affirmed to the Emperor he was right to hate Angron and therefore right to hate those parts of himself.
Tell me thoughts and corrections because I've been stewing on this for a while and want input
2024.05.18 23:22 hiphipohno Wife going to a concert - but used to be involved with the Musician. Unsure of how to feel about it and need some advice.
My wife and I have gone through a bit a rough patch, but both of us are committed, honest, and are trying to rediscover the safety and security we had with one another when we fell in love. Finances, children, careers, life - has been stressful, so we’ve been doing therapy for about 2 years and have been communicating better than ever. There has been some ups and downs but we’ve been really honest with each other and are working through our issues. I’m thankful for that.
One of the issues is my insecurity and depression over us having a dead bedroom - but I’ve learned that her past and sexual history led to her not really having the same associations with sex that I do. I want our sex to be fun, playful, enjoyable, and loving. But to her, these are difficult concepts, because her relationship to sex began with trauma - followed by a ton of hookups in her 20’s as she was finding herself and living her life. I’ve learned, through therapy together - that she is really regretful of this time, and she has hangups over sex because of it. Again, we are working through this. We are a classic example of anxious (me) and avoiidant (her) attachment. She is finding ways to step out of her comfort zone and be more reassuring to me, and I’ve learned to not place all of the pressure on her to make me happy. I have to do that myself.
I have struggled a bit with retroactive jealousy, in that its hard for me to understand that she would so willingly have sex with other men, yet sex with me is so difficult. She thinks I want her to be a version of herself that has long vanished, and was young, confused, and lonely. But I don’t want that version of her. I just want both of us to feel safe. I want to connect with her on a higher level.
All of this is important context, I promise.
So her, as the avoidant attached person, needs my help to create spaces for her where she can be herself. Be social. Go out with her friends. She feels like so much of her is wrapped up in being a mom, wife, and having a career, that she needs this time to feel like herself, and connect with herself. So I’ve been really trying to help create these moments for her. And encourage her to do it.
So, here we are - she’s going to a concert next week. Great! With her best girlfriends. Great! A band she really loves. Great!
And I’ve found out she used to sleep with the lead singer.
Now, I know she wants a night out. I know she can just go enjoy herself. But my anxiety over this is spiking hard. I feel insecure comparing myself to him, his success, etc. I talked to her about how I was feeling, but made it clear that I wasn't judging her or holding her past against her. I don’t care that she slept with him (once, 15 years ago) but I do care that she is going to the show. Its not her past thats bothering me, its her choices in the present. I just can’t wrap my head around how to feel about this, and why she would want to go. She assured me that she is not trying to reconnect with him, isnt planning on reaching out to him - and would do nothing to jeopardize our life together. I want to believe her.
I have 2 choices - 1) try to work on the safety and security that we’ve worked hard to reclaim. Encourage her to have a good time, reinforce that I do trust her. And deal with my insecurities by myself. She explained to me that she’s not trying to re-live her past, that she’s had no contact with him since and isnt trying to again. She just wants to go to the show and fun night with her friends, enjoy the music, and that’s it. I can take her word for it and try to be the confident and reliable partner she wants me to be.
Or 2) I can ask her to not go, but I can’t deal with feeling like I’m being controlling or needy, both for her sake and mine. I don’t want to hold her back, but her going to this show and watching a (very successful, famous, and well known) musician do his thing.
I don’t want to undo any of the work we’ve done thus far. Because honestly, things have been really great for a couple months. We’ve been trending upward, feeling connected, and have started to be sexual with each other again. I don't want to have an argument over this and set us back. But I feel how I feel, and my jealousy around this whole thing is very real.
That’s it. Sorry for the wall of text. I’d appreciate any new perspectives or advice around this.
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One of the issues is my insecurity and depression over us having a dead bedroom - but I’ve learned that her past and sexual history led to her not really having the same associations with sex that I do. I want our sex to be fun, playful, enjoyable, and loving. But to her, these are difficult concepts, because her relationship to sex began with trauma - followed by a ton of hookups in her 20’s as she was finding herself and living her life. I’ve learned, through therapy together - that she is really regretful of this time, and she has hangups over sex because of it. Again, we are working through this. We are a classic example of anxious (me) and avoiidant (her) attachment. She is finding ways to step out of her comfort zone and be more reassuring to me, and I’ve learned to not place all of the pressure on her to make me happy. I have to do that myself.
I have struggled a bit with retroactive jealousy, in that its hard for me to understand that she would so willingly have sex with other men, yet sex with me is so difficult. She thinks I want her to be a version of herself that has long vanished, and was young, confused, and lonely. But I don’t want that version of her. I just want both of us to feel safe. I want to connect with her on a higher level.
All of this is important context, I promise.
So her, as the avoidant attached person, needs my help to create spaces for her where she can be herself. Be social. Go out with her friends. She feels like so much of her is wrapped up in being a mom, wife, and having a career, that she needs this time to feel like herself, and connect with herself. So I’ve been really trying to help create these moments for her. And encourage her to do it.
So, here we are - she’s going to a concert next week. Great! With her best girlfriends. Great! A band she really loves. Great!
And I’ve found out she used to sleep with the lead singer.
Now, I know she wants a night out. I know she can just go enjoy herself. But my anxiety over this is spiking hard. I feel insecure comparing myself to him, his success, etc. I talked to her about how I was feeling, but made it clear that I wasn't judging her or holding her past against her. I don’t care that she slept with him (once, 15 years ago) but I do care that she is going to the show. Its not her past thats bothering me, its her choices in the present. I just can’t wrap my head around how to feel about this, and why she would want to go. She assured me that she is not trying to reconnect with him, isnt planning on reaching out to him - and would do nothing to jeopardize our life together. I want to believe her.
I have 2 choices - 1) try to work on the safety and security that we’ve worked hard to reclaim. Encourage her to have a good time, reinforce that I do trust her. And deal with my insecurities by myself. She explained to me that she’s not trying to re-live her past, that she’s had no contact with him since and isnt trying to again. She just wants to go to the show and fun night with her friends, enjoy the music, and that’s it. I can take her word for it and try to be the confident and reliable partner she wants me to be.
Or 2) I can ask her to not go, but I can’t deal with feeling like I’m being controlling or needy, both for her sake and mine. I don’t want to hold her back, but her going to this show and watching a (very successful, famous, and well known) musician do his thing.
I don’t want to undo any of the work we’ve done thus far. Because honestly, things have been really great for a couple months. We’ve been trending upward, feeling connected, and have started to be sexual with each other again. I don't want to have an argument over this and set us back. But I feel how I feel, and my jealousy around this whole thing is very real.
That’s it. Sorry for the wall of text. I’d appreciate any new perspectives or advice around this.
2024.05.18 23:21 lilgreenrosetta Wife wants a divorce. I don’t. What do we tell the kids
I’ll try to keep context brief. Wife was diagnosed with depression two years ago. Has been on SSRI since, but refuses therapy. She has ups and downs but when she’s down she feels our marriage is doomed, mainly because we don’t have sex and she knows she’ll never want to have sex again. She’s wanted a separation before but so far always changed her mind. I don’t want a divorce, but I’m pretty sure it’s actually going to happen this time.
It feels wrong to be open to the kids (5&12) and say that mom is leaving dad, or that mom wants a divorce but dad doesn’t. Then again saying we both decided this together would be a lie.
I’m thinking the lie is probably best for the kids, but I honestly don’t know.
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It feels wrong to be open to the kids (5&12) and say that mom is leaving dad, or that mom wants a divorce but dad doesn’t. Then again saying we both decided this together would be a lie.
I’m thinking the lie is probably best for the kids, but I honestly don’t know.
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American Reunion [Unrated] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Anchorman 2: The Legend Continues (Vudu or iTunes)
Annie [2014] (MA + Sony points)
Arrival [2016] (Vudu)
Art Of Self-Defense, The [2019] (MA)
Assassin's Creed (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA)
Atomic Blonde (MA)
Avengers: Infinity War (MA + 150 points/no iTunes option)
Battleship [2012] (iTunes/ports 4K)
Baywatch (iTunes 4K)
Beauty & The Beast [2017] (MA + 150 points/iTunes option is expired)
Beguiled, The [2017] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Beirut [2018] (MA)
Ben-Hur [2016] (Vudu)
Best Man Holiday, The [2013] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Blackhat [2015] (iTunes/ports)
Black Panther [2018] (MA + 150 points/no iTunes option)
Bohemian Rhapsody (MA or Google Play/ports)
Book Club [2018] (iTunes 4K)
Boss Baby, The [2017] (MA)
Bourne Legacy, The (iTunes/ports 4K)
Boy, The [2016] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Boyhood [2014] (iTunes)
Boy Next Door, The [2015] (iTunes/ports)
Breakthrough [2019] (MA or Google Play/ports)
Bridesmaids [Theatrical] (iTunes/ports)
Broken City [2013] (MA)
Bumblebee (iTunes 4K or Vudu HD)
Cabin In The Woods, The (Vudu/GP HD or iTunes 4K)
Captain America: Civil War (MA only/no points or iTunes option)
Captain Phillips [2013] (MA + Sony points)
Captain Underpants: The First Epic Movie (MA)
Case For Christ, The [2017] (MA)
Choice, The [2016] (Vudu or iTunes)
Company Of Heroes [2013] (MA)
Contraband (iTunes/ports)
Cowboys & Aliens [Theatrical] (iTunes/ports)
Curse Of Chucky [2013] [Unrated] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Daddy's Home (iTunes 4K)
Dark Tower, The [2017] (MA + Sony points)
Dead Again In Tombstone [2017] (MA)
Dead In Tombstone [Unrated] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Dead Man Down [2013] (MA)
Deepwater Horizon (iTunes 4K or Vudu/GP HD)
Despicable Me 2 (iTunes/ports 4K)
Despicable Me 3 (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA)
Devil's Due [2014] (MA or Google Play/ports)
Diary Of A Wimpy Kid: Dog Days (MA, iTunes or Google Play/ports)
Diary Of A Wimpy Kid: The Long Haul (MA, iTunes or Google Play/ports)
Django Unchained (Vudu)
Downsizing (iTunes 4K)
Downton Abbey [2019] (MA)
Dracula Untold (iTunes/ports 4K)
Dragonheart 3: The Sorcerer's Curse (iTunes/ports)
Dredd [2012] (Vudu)
Dr. Seuss’ How The Grinch Stole Christmas [2000] (MA)
Duff, The (iTunes or Google Play)
Edward Scissorhands (MA or Google Play/ports)
Emoji Movie, The [2017] (MA + Sony points)
Ender's Game (iTunes 4K or Vudu/GP HD)
Epic [2013] (MA)
Equalizer, The [2014] (MA + Sony points)
Equalizer 2, The (MA + Sony points)
Escape From Planet Earth (Vudu)
Everest [2015] (iTunes/ports 4K)
Ex Machina (Vudu)
Exodus: Gods & Kings (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA)
F9: The Fast Saga [2021] [Theatrical & Extended] (MA + Universal Rewards points)
Fast & Furious [2009] (iTunes/ports 4K)
Fast & The Furious, The [2001] (iTunes/ports 4K)
Fast & The Furious: Tokyo Drift, The (iTunes/ports 4K)
Fate Of The Furious [F8] [Theatrical] (MA 4K)
Fences [2016] (iTunes 4K or Vudu HD)
Fifty Shades Darker [2017] [Unrated] (MA 4K)
Fifty Shades Of Grey (iTunes/ports 4K)
Finding Dory (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA + 150 points)
Flight [2012] (Vudu or iTunes)
Fortress [2021] (Vudu or Google Play)
Frozen [2013] (iTunes/ports 4K+ 150 points)
Fury [2014] (MA + Sony points)
Game Of Thrones season 1 (iTunes)
Get Out [2017] (MA)
Ghost Team One [2013] (Vudu or iTunes)
Gifted [2017] (MA or Google Play/ports, iTunes option is expired)
God Bless The Broken Road (Vudu or Google Play)
Gods Not Dead 2 [2016] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Gods Of Egypt (Vudu/GP HD or iTunes 4K)
Great Wall, The [2017] (MA)
Grey, The [2012] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Guardians Of The Galaxy Vol.2 (MA + 150 points/no iTunes option)
Guilt Trip, The [2012] (Vudu)
Hacksaw Ridge (Vudu or Google Play/iTunes option expired)
Hail, Caesar [2016] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Halloween [2018] (MA)
Hansel & Gretel: Witch Hunters [Unrated] (Vudu or iTunes)
Hateful Eight, The (Vudu or Google Play)
Heat, The [2013] [Theatrical] (MA or Google Play/ports)
Hell Or High Water (Vudu or Google Play)
Hercules [2014] (iTunes 4K or Vudu HD)
Hitman's Bodyguard, The (Vudu or Google Play/iTunes option is expired)
Hobbs & Shaw [2019] (MA)
Home [2015] [DreamWorks] (MA)
Home Alone [1990] (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA)
Homefront [2013] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Honey 2 [2011] (MA or iTunes/ports)
How To Train Your Dragon 2 (MA)
Hunger Games: Mockingjay Part 1, The (iTunes 4K or Google Play HD)
Hunger Games: Mockingjay Part 2, The (Vudu)
I Am Wrath (Vudu)
Instant Family (iTunes 4K or Vudu HD)
Internship, The [2013] (MA or Google Play/ports)
Invisible Man, The [1933] (MA)
I Still Believe [2020] (iTunes 4K or Vudu/GP HD)
It Follows [2015] (Vudu)
Jackass 3 [Theatrical] (Vudu or iTunes)
Jack Reacher (Vudu)
Jack Reacher: Never Go Back (Vudu)
Jack Ryan: Shadow Recruit (iTunes 4K)
Jason Bourne [2016] (iTunes/ports 4K)
John Henry [2020] (Vudu)
John Wick (iTunes 4K)
John Wick 1 & 2 (Vudu or Google Play)
John Wick: Chapter 2 (iTunes 4K)
John Wick Chapter 3: Parabellum (iTunes 4K) or all 3 for $5
Joy [2015] (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA)
Jumanji: Welcome To The Jungle (MA + Sony points)
Jurassic World (iTunes/ports 4K)
Jurassic World: Fallen Kingdom (MA)
Justice [2017] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Kick-Ass 2 [2013] (MA)
Kidnap [2017] (iTunes/ports)
Killer Elite (iTunes/ports)
Kingsman: The Golden Circle (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA)
Kingsman: The Secret Service (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA)
Last Knights [2015] (Vudu)
Last Vegas [2013] (MA + Sony points)
Last Witch Hunter, The [2015] (iTunes 4K or Google Play)
Let's Be Cops [2014] (iTunes/ports 4K)
Life [2017] (MA + Sony points)
Life Of Pi (iTunes/ports 4K)
Lockout [2012] [Unrated] (MA + Sony points)
Logan [2017] (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA)
Lone Survivor [2013] (iTunes/ports 4K)
Longest Ride, The (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA)
Lorax, The [2012] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Love, Simon [2018] (MA)
Lucy [2014] (iTunes/ports 4K)
Maleficent (iTunes/ports 4K + 150 points)
Mamma Mia! Here We Go Again [2018] (MA)
Mandela: Long Walk To Freedom (Vudu)
Man With The Iron Fists, The [2012] [Theatrical] (iTunes/ports)
Marauders (Vudu)
Martian, The [2015] [Theatrical] (iTunes/ports 4K)
Mary Poppins [1964] (MA + 150 points)
Maze Runner, The [2014] (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA)
Maze Runner: The Death Cure [2018] (MA or Google Play/ports)
Maze Runner: The Scorch Trials (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA)
Mechanic: Resurrection (Vudu/GP HD or iTunes 4K)
Men In Black 3 (MA + Sony points)
MI-5 [2015] (Vudu)
Mile 22 (iTunes 4K)
Mindgamers [2017] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Miracles From Heaven (MA + Sony points)
Mission Impossible: Fallout (iTunes 4K)
Mission Impossible: Rogue Nation (iTunes 4K)
Miss Peregrine's Home For Peculiar Children (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA)
Moms’ Night Out [2014] (MA)
Monuments Men, The [2014] (MA + Sony points)
Mortal Engines [2018] (MA)
Mortal Instruments: The City Of Bones, The [2014] (MA + Sony points)
Mother's Day [2016] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Mountain Between Us, The [2017] (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA)
Mummy, The [2017] (iTunes/ports 4K)
Murder On The Orient Express [2017] (MA or Google Play/ports)
My Big Fat Greek Wedding 2 (iTunes/ports)
Neighbors [2014] (iTunes/ports)
Night At The Museum: Secret Of The Tomb (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA)
Noah [2014] (Vudu)
Non-Stop [2014] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Norm Of The North (Vudu or iTunes)
Now You See Me 2 (iTunes 4K or Vudu/GP HD)
Nut Job, The [2014] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Oblivion [2013] (iTunes/ports 4K)
Ouija [2014] (MA)
Overlord [2018] (Vudu)
Oz: The Great & Powerful (MA + 100 points)
Paddington (Vudu)
Paranormal Activity [2009] [Theatrical] (iTunes)
Paranormal Activity 2 [Unrated Director's Cut] (Vudu or iTunes)
Paranormal Activity 3 [Extended] (Vudu or iTunes)
Paranormal Activity 4 [Unrated] (iTunes)
Paranormal Activity: The Marked Ones [Theatrical] (iTunes)
Passengers [2016] (MA + Sony points)
Percy Jackson: Sea Of Monsters (MA or Google Play/ports)
Pet Sematary [2019] (iTunes 4K or Vudu HD)
Philomena (Vudu)
Pitch Perfect (iTunes/ports 4K)
Playing With Fire (iTunes 4K or Vudu HD)
Predator, The [2018] (MA or Google Play/ports)
Project Almanac (iTunes)
Prometheus (MA or Google Play/ports, no iTunes option)
Proud Mary [2018] (MA)
Purge: Anarchy, The (iTunes/ports 4K)
Quiet Place, A [2018] (iTunes 4K)
Ralph Breaks The Internet (MA + 150 points/no iTunes option)
Red Dawn [2012] (Vudu or Google Play)
Redemption [2013] (Vudu)
Replicas [2019] (iTunes 4K or Vudu/GP HD)
Resident Evil: The Final Chapter [2016] (MA + Sony points)
Riddick [Unrated] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Rings [2017] (Vudu)
R.I.P.D. Rest In Peace Department (iTunes/ports 4K)
Rise Of The Guardians [2011] (MA)
Risen [2016] (MA + Sony points)
Robin Hood [2018] (iTunes 4K or Vudu/GP HD)
Rock Dog (iTunes)
Rogue One: A Star Wars Story (iTunes/ports 4K + 150 points)
Roman J. Israel, Esq [2017] (MA + Sony points)
Rush [2013] (MA)
Saban's Power Rangers (iTunes 4K or Vudu/GP HD)
Safe House [2012] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Savages [2012] [Theatrical] (iTunes/ports)
Scorpion King 3: Battle For Redemption (iTunes/ports)
Secret Life Of Pets, The (MA 4K or iTunes/ports 4K)
Secret Life Of Walter Mitty, The (MA or Google Play/ports, iTunes option is expired)
Seventh Son [2015] (iTunes/ports)
Sex Tape [2014] (MA + Sony points)
Shack, The [2017] (Vudu, iTunes or Google Play)
Show Dogs [2018] (MA)
Silver Linings Playbook (Vudu or Google Play)
Sing [2016] (iTunes/ports 4K)
Sinister (Vudu, iTunes or Google Play)
Sisters [2015] [Unrated] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Skyscraper [2018] (MA)
Sleepless [2017] (iTunes/ports)
Sparkle [2012] (MA)
Spider-Man 2 [2004] [Theatrical & Extended] (MA + Sony points)
Spider-Man: Homecoming [2017] (MA + Sony points)
Spider-Man: No Way Home [2021] (MA + Sony points)
Split [2017] (iTunes/ports 4K or MA HD)
Spy [2015] [Unrated] (MA, iTunes or Google Play/ports)
Star Trek [2009] (iTunes 4K)
Star Wars: The Force Awakens (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA + 150 points)
Step Up All In [2014] (Vudu)
Step Up Revolution (Vudu or Google Play)
Straight Outta Compton [Unrated] (iTunes/ports 4K)
Super 8 (Vudu)
Super Buddies (MA without points)
Taken 3 [Unrated] (MA, iTunes or Google Play/ports)
Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles [2014] (iTunes 4K or Vudu HD)
Terminator: Genisys (iTunes 4K)
The Night Before [2015] (MA + Sony points)
This Is The End [2013] (MA + Sony points)
Top Five [2014] (iTunes)
Top Gun (Vudu)
Total Recall [2012] [Theatrical & Director's Cut] (MA + Sony points)
Tower Heist [Theatrical] (iTunes/ports)
Tremors: A Cold Day In Hell (MA)
True Blood season 4 (iTunes)
True Grit [2010] (Vudu or iTunes)
Tyler Perry's Acrimony (Vudu, iTunes or Google Play)
Tyler Perry's A Madea Family Funeral (Vudu, iTunes or Google Play)
Twilight: Breaking Dawn Part 1 (iTunes 4K)
Uncle Drew [2018] (iTunes 4K or Vudu/GP HD)
Underworld: Blood Wars (MA + Sony points)
Vendetta [2016] (Vudu)
Venom [2018] (MA + Sony points)
Walk Among The Tombstones, A (iTunes/ports)
Walking With Dinosaurs: The Movie (MA, iTunes or Google Play/ports)
War Room [2015] (MA + Sony points)
Why Him? [2016] (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA)
Wolf Of Wall Street, The (iTunes 4K or Vudu HD)
Woman In Black, The [2012] (MA)
Wonder [2017] (Vudu/GP HD or iTunes 4K)
Wonder Park [2019] (iTunes 4K or Vudu HD)
Woodlawn [2015] (MA or iTunes/ports)
X-Men: Apocalypse (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA)
X-Men: Days Of Future Past (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA)
Your Highness [2011] [Unrated] (iTunes/ports)
Zootopia (MA without points)
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💲2 SD
127 Hours (iTunes/ports)12 Rounds [2009] [Extreme Cut] (iTunes/ports)
Aliens In The Attic (iTunes/ports)
Amelia (iTunes/ports)
Beasts Of The Southern Wild (iTunes/ports)
Black Swan (iTunes/ports)
Date Night [Unrated Extended Edition] (iTunes/ports)
Dr. Seuss’ Horton Hears A Who! (ITunes/ports)
In Time [2011] (iTunes/ports)
Jumper [2008] (iTunes/ports)
Percy Jackson double feature [Lightning Thief & Sea of Monsters] (MA)
Ramona & Beezus (iTunes/ports)
Street Kings (iTunes/ports)
Three Stooges: The Movie, The [2012] (iTunes/ports)
Unstoppable [2010] (iTunes/ports)
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$1 Codes
💲1 HD
13 Hours: The Secret Soldiers Of Benghazi (Vudu)2 Guns (MA)
Alex Cross (Vudu)
Bad Grandpa [Theatrical] (Vudu or iTunes)
Bad Moms (iTunes/ports)
Battleship [2012] (MA)
Big Hero 6 (Google Play/ports)
Book Club (Vudu)
Bourne Legacy, The (MA)
Bring It On: Worldwide Cheersmack [2017] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Deadpool (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA/GP)
Divergent (iTunes 4K or Vudu/GP HD)
Divergent Series: Insurgent, The (iTunes 4K or Vudu/GP HD)
Duff, The [2015] (Vudu)
Dying Of The Light (Vudu)
Everest [2015] (MA)
Expendables 2, The (iTunes 4K or Vudu/GP HD)
Expendables 3, The [Theatrical] (iTunes 4K or Google Play HD)
Fast & Furious 6, The [Extended] (iTunes/ports 4K)
Fast & The Furious, The [2001] (MA)
Fast & The Furious: Tokyo Drift, The (MA)
Fast Five [Extended] (MA)
Fate Of The Furious, The [8] [Theatrical or Extended] (MA)
Fault In Our Stars, The [2014] (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA/GP)
Frozen: Sing Along Edition (MA without points)
Furious 7 [Extended] (iTunes/ports 4K)
Ghost In The Shell [2017] (Vudu)
G.I. Joe: Retaliation (Vudu)
Girls Trip [2017] (MA)
Good Day To Die Hard, A [2012] [Extended] (MA or Google Play/ports)
Hidden Figures [2017] (iTunes/ports 4K or HD MA)
Hillsong: Let Hope Rise [2016] (MA or iTunes/ports)
Hugo (Vudu)
Hunger Games, The [2012] (iTunes 4K)
Hunger Games: Mockingjay Part 1, The (Vudu)
Huntsman: Winter's War, The [2016] [Extended] (MA)
Identity Thief [2013] [Theatrical] (iTunes/ports)
I, Frankenstein (Vudu, iTunes or Google Play)
Inside Out [2015] (Google Play/ports)
Jack Ryan: Shadow Recruit (Vudu)
Jason Bourne (MA)
Kevin Hart: Let Me Explain (Vudu)
Leprechaun: Origins (Vudu)
Les Misérables [2012] (MA)
Let's Be Cops [2014] (MA only/no iTunes option)
Lucy (MA)
Minions [2015] (MA)
Mission Impossible: Fallout (Vudu)
Mission Impossible: Ghost Protocol (Vudu)
Mission Impossible: Rogue Nation (Vudu) or both for $2.50
Now You See Me [Extended] (Vudu or iTunes)
Parental Guidance [2012] (MA)
Perks Of Being A Wallflower, The (Vudu or Google Play)
Pitch Perfect (MA)
Red 2 (Vudu)
Ride Along 2 (MA)
RIPD Rest In Peace Department (MA)
Safe [2012] (Vudu or Google Play)
Secret Life Of Pets, The (MA)
Selma (iTunes)
Skyfall (Vudu or Google Play)
Snitch (iTunes 4K or Vudu/Google Play HD)
Star Trek: Beyond (Vudu)
Star Trek: Into Darkness (iTunes 4K)
Taken 2 (MA or Google Play/ports)
Ted [Unrated] (MA) or [Theatrical] (iTunes/ports)
Terminator: Genisys (Vudu)
Transformers: Age Of Extinction (iTunes 4K)
Transformers: Dark Of The Moon (Vudu)
Trolls [2017] (MA)
Twilight: Breaking Dawn Part 2 (iTunes 4K)
Tyler Perry's Madea's Witness Protection (iTunes)
Tyler Perry's Temptation: Confessions Of A Marriage Counselor (Vudu or Google Play)
Unbroken [2014] (MA)
Warm Bodies (Vudu)
What To Expect When You're Expecting (iTunes)
World War Z (Vudu)
Zootopia (Google Play/ports)
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💲1 SD
21 Jump Street (MA + Sony points)Act Of Valor (iTunes)
After Earth [2013] (MA + Sony points)
Alpha [2018] (MA + Sony points)
Amazing Spider-Man 2, The [2014] (MA + Sony points)
American Hustle [2013] (MA + Sony points)
Bad Boys For Life [2020] (MA + Sony points)
Big Mommas Like Father, Like Son (iTunes/ports)
Captain Phillips (MA + Sony points)
Charlie's Angels [2019] (MA + Sony points)
Cloudy With A Chance Of Meatballs 2 [2013] (MA + Sony points)
Concussion [2015] (MA + Sony points)
Dirty 30 (Vudu)
Dog's Way Home, A [2019] (MA + Sony points)
Equalizer, The [2014] (MA + Sony points)
Equalizer 2, The (MA + Sony points)
Evil Dead [2013] (MA + Sony points)
Family, The [2013] (iTunes)
Forbidden Kingdom, The (iTunes)
Glee: The Concert (iTunes/ports)
Goosebumps 2 [2018] (MA + Sony points)
Grown Ups 2 (MA + Sony points)
Hangover, The [2009] [Theatrical] (iTunes/ports)
Haywire (iTunes)
Heat, The [2013] (iTunes/ports SD)
Here Comes The Boom [2012] (MA + Sony points)
Hotel Transylvania 3 (MA + Sony points)
Hours [2013] (Vudu)
Ice Age: Dawn Of The Dinosaurs (iTunes/ports)
Immortals [2011] (iTunes)
Insidious: Chapter 3 (MA + Sony points)
Insidious: The Last Key (MA + Sony points)
Insidious: The Red Door [2023] (MA + Sony points)
Interview, The [2014] (MA + Sony points)
Journey To Bethlehem [2023] (MA + Sony points)
Jumanji: The Next Level (MA + Sony points)
Knight & Day (iTunes/ports)
Looper (MA + Sony points)
Men In Black III [2012] (MA + Sony points)
Mirror Mirror [2012] (iTunes)
Mortal Instruments: The City Of Bones (MA + Sony points)
Night At The Museum: Battle Of The Smithsonian (iTunes/ports)
Once Upon A Time In Hollywood [2019] (MA + Sony points)
Olympus Has Fallen (MA + Sony points)
Orange Is The New Black season 1 (Vudu)
Overcomer [2019] (MA + Sony points)
Parker [2013] (MA + Sony points)
Percy Jackson & The Olympians: The Lightning Thief (iTunes/ports)
Perfect Guy, The [2015] (MA + Sony points)
Perks Of Being A Wallflower, The (iTunes SD only)
Peter Rabbit [2018] (MA + Sony points)
Pixels [2015] (MA + Sony points)
Predators [2010] (iTunes/ports)
Public Enemies [2009] (iTunes/ports)
Rise Of The Planet Of The Apes (iTunes/ports)
Robin Hood [2010] [Unrated] (iTunes/ports)
Safe Haven (iTunes)
Scoob [2020] (MA)
Shallows, The [2016] (MA + 150 points)
Sicario: Day Of The Soldado (MA + Sony points)
Sparkle [2012] (MA)
Spider-Man: Far From Home [2019] (MA + Sony points)
Spider-Man: Into The Spiderverse (MA + Sony points)
Spider-Man: No Way Home [2021] (MA + Sony points)
Star, The [2017] (MA + Sony points)
Still Alice [2015] (MA + Sony points)
Taken [2009] [Extended Cut] (iTunes/ports)
Thousand Words, A [2012] (Vudu)
Twilight: Breaking Dawn Part 1 (Vudu SD only or iTunes SD only)
Tyler Perry's Madea's Tough Love (Vudu)
Underworld: Awakening (MA + Sony points)
Venom: Let There Be Carnage (MA + Sony points)
Vow, The [2012] (MA + Sony points)
When The Bough Breaks (MA + Sony points)
Zombieland: Double Tap (MA + Sony points)
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Super Cheap SD & HD Codes
All movies are 3 for $1 each/must spend at least $1 on total order.Cabin In The Woods, The (Vudu SD only)
Croods, The (iTunes/ports SD)
Diary Of A Wimpy Kid: Dog Days (iTunes/ports SD)
Expendables 2, The (Vudu SD only or iTunes SD only)
Expendables 3, The [Unrated] (iTunes HD only)
Fast & Furious 6 [Extended] (MA ports HD)
Fast Five [Extended] (iTunes/ports HD)
Furious 7 [Extended] (MA ports HD)
Hunger Games, The (Vudu SD or iTunes SD only)
Hunger Games: Catching Fire, The (Vudu HD only)
John Wick 3 (Google Play HD only)
Jurassic World (MA ports HD)
Life Of Pi (iTunes/ports SD)
Mechanic: Resurrection (Vudu SD only)
Now You See Me 2 (Vudu SD only)
Star Trek: Into Darkness (Vudu HD only)
Star Wars: The Force Awakens (Google Play/ports HD)
Transformers: Age Of Extinction (Vudu HD only)
Twilight: Breaking Dawn Part 1 (Vudu SD only)
Twilight: Breaking Dawn Part 2 (Vudu SD only)
2024.05.18 23:16 Stunning_Quote_357 My mom took advantage of me
Hello. I'm new to this sub, but I am very angry and upset. This is my story: I used to live in some apartments and had an ok life living in the apartments until I fell into a deep depression and couldn't keep a job, so the money I had saved started to deplete due to paying my rent and my bills. One month I didn't think I was going to make the rent so I had to move and I told my mom this. She then offered me to go live in a house with her new boyfriend and take care of her boyfriend's mom thinking that this is her way of helping me. She told me that after the mom passed then I could continue to stay in the house and possibly take over the mortgage and pay the mortgage of the house. I agreed, but I told her it would have to be after my lease was up, but then she said that I had to go sooner because her boyfriend wouldn't keep the job for me so then I had to break my lease to go and help her sooner. And I moved out and helped her take care of the older lady and the older lady eventually passed away 11 months later. They gave me 2 months to look for a job and so I did look for a job and I couldn't find one until the 4th month and I didn't have money right away to pay them for the first two months. (I honestly should have filed for unemployment at this time, but I didn't because it may have come out of my mom's bf's pocket, I don't know if that's how that works). Anyway, so a tree fell on top of the roof of the house I was staying in and then both her and her bf told me that I could no longer stay at the house because they were going to sell it after they fixed the roof that the tree fell on top of because they didn't have the money to keep me there anymore. I ended up having to move to a room that an older woman was renting, but I could only last a month there since the older woman was terrible to me (blasting music in the morning and just saying horrible things about me under her breath whenever she walked by me.) My sister then helped me move out again, but she has three kids, one being a teenager. It was awful because her teen son would lock his door because he didn't want me going in his space which is understandable, but his bathroom was the only bathroom that I could shower in and his room was the only place I could put my work computer in. (I work from home.) I needed to get out of that and be able to have access to my work, so I found a studio. I've been living in this studio for over a year now and a few months ago, I started getting real sick that I had to take leaves of absences from work. Recently, I found black mold in my unit and bothered the landlord to come out and fix it. I asked my mom for help and what she told me was, "it's not my problem you choose your place." She doesn't want to help me. Growing up, she would take my things away because she didn't like the music that I was listening to. I was also neglected as a child. She gave me only the bare minimum because it's the law. She also told me that I don't respect her, when I helped her. She didn't want to take care of the lady anymore and that's why she handed the caregiving to me. They were making me work 6 days a week almost 24/7. Her and her bf (now husband.) when I was sick, they would barely try to help me with taking care of the lady. I was sick with a fever and my mom would go off somewhere and when the lady was yelling for help, I was the one to go and help with what she needed. Now that I'm sick myself, she won't help me. She never will. She says I'm a grown up now so that means I'm not her problem anymore. Thank you to anyone who is reading this.
TL,DR: my mom told me basically that I'm not her problem anymore after I helped her take care of her then bf's now husband's mother before she passed.
Update: I confronted her and told her that I'm now speaking up for myself and that I know I shouldn't be treated like this. Her response: (insert picture of her with her new husband) blank and I are in (insert a major city). We are having a good time! And this is all after telling her that I'm dying from mold toxicity.
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TL,DR: my mom told me basically that I'm not her problem anymore after I helped her take care of her then bf's now husband's mother before she passed.
Update: I confronted her and told her that I'm now speaking up for myself and that I know I shouldn't be treated like this. Her response: (insert picture of her with her new husband) blank and I are in (insert a major city). We are having a good time! And this is all after telling her that I'm dying from mold toxicity.
2024.05.18 23:10 HoozyThot The real villain of season 1
Was Louis’ mom imo. She practically pushed him into Lestat’s arms. She blamed him for his brother’s death and ostracized him when he was at his lowest point. Then she blamed him for not visiting anymore and looked vindicated when he lost his temper on his nieces’ birthday. That’s your son, lady, why are you expecting the worst from him and rejoicing when it comes?
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2024.05.18 23:04 Welcome-Loose CONSTANTLY HARASSED BY AN APT MANAGER DOWN THE STREET! Who can find out anything about this manager & who owns the building?
 | Background info: the manager of “REGENCY AT THE PARK”, apartments on 600 whitnall highway in Burbank keeps harassing, intimidating, & threatening my family & myself over parking outside of his building. The building is on whitnall highway, which only has 1 side parking. I live about 4 houses down. The tenants in his building have under ground parking. Every one else has to park on the streets basically first come first serve kinda thing. It’s annoying because most of the people are retired or don’t go to work, so it’s always hard to find parking. Within 3 yrs I’ve had 3 encounters with this guy. First time he came out & said something about my car being a little too far out. I looked at him & said , sure. The next time was at night, my music wasn’t loud but i opened the door with the music still playing to go to my trunk, then got back in. All of a sudden an old dude came running out, then knocked on my windshield & ran back in the house.. who does that? Not speak? Or even knocks on a window at night running full speed!? He’s always looking out of the window, peaking out of his balcony or looking whenever I park any where near. Fast forward last Thursday: my mom said an old guy spoke to her about her truck being parked there for “days “, (it was parked 3) & she told him her son moved it around while she was out of town. When she told me, she did say it was a regular conversation and wasn’t negative but I wanted to speak to the manager to let them know this tenant is constantly bothering me & I’m tired of it. I walked to go see if I saw the manager. I pressed the intercom that says “manager “. I told him I wanted to complain about a tenant. He came out &’that’s when I realized he was the old guy!! I told him to stop bothering me or anybody else abt parking & to not talk or say 1 word to anybody in my family. I told him He doesn’t own THE STREETS! That’s whenHe got hostile & flipped me off & gave me the middle finger.later, I called the number to the “office & left a message. Today I received a text from “the office”, & its full of grammatical errors and lies. Basically saying it’s my fault, blah blah blah. What office text & not calls or leaves a message? It’s obviously the same guy. In 2024, how does the true owner of the building not put out accurate information or have any info available? He’s obviously an on site manager, but how can I find out who owns the property? He’s falsely impersonating the office. This is like how managers were in the 1950s! Any one know this guy, or heard anything abt him. How can I complain to the owner?? Would the police do anything?? I’m sure others have complained. submitted by Welcome-Loose to burbank [link] [comments] |
2024.05.18 23:04 CerealPrincess666 From the raisedbyborderlines community on Reddit
 | For those who haven’t read, I recently recvd some validation from my dBPD mothers therapist: submitted by CerealPrincess666 to raisedbyborderlines [link] [comments] https://www.reddit.com/raisedbyborderlines/s/quJkEEmSVb She is reluctantly ‘respecting’ my boundaries of not wanting incessant texting/calling, as I work. Full time. Unlike her. And I have a young child. And I’m in school. But y’all know good n well she dgaf I get these texts from my grandmother (her motherinlaw), reporting my mother’s worsening paranoia and delusional shit. My dad died little over a year ago, which has obviously latched onto as an excuse for her actions, and neither one of us has truly grieved him due to those said actions. My dad was also my grandmothers oldest, and only son. Granted, she has a plethora of mental health and addiction problems herself, she doesn’t need this shit. My dad was young and died of terrible cancer. But, I don’t know if my gma chooses to engage her because she has that attachment to my dad but I’m like…what do you want me to do about it?? My mother is an adult. Yes, she has some serious mental health issues (that I’m starting to think might be exceeding BPD?) but she is not under my charge: I can make no decisions for her, I can’t have her involuntarily committed (she is voluntarily hospitalized enough on her own), all I can do is continue contact with her psych, and stick to my boundaries. I just wish others wouldn’t unconsciously enable her. My mother knows my gma is going to tell me these things. The camera scenario happened after she purchased one, on my suggestion (bc she would just call me like THERES A WHITE WASHRAG IN MY APARTMENT. I DONT HAVE WHITEWASHRAGS) and if someone was coming in there, she can give her evidence to the police. She then tried to use the camera as a rouse; she claimed she had no earthly idea how to set it up, and needed me to do it. I declined. She clearly figured it out. She’s 55 and when to a digital data entry school when I was a kid (early ooughts), I kno she can work this thing. Now she’s seeing ‘figures’?? We did like, a Mother’s Day tea thing and comparatively, it went okay. While my kid was getting her face painted, she tried to suck me into her problems with someone entering her apartment , and I told her I wouldn’t discuss it with her. Then, she contacts my grandmother. This is more of a rant than anything, but if anyone else has a BPDparent who is worsening with age, I’d love to hear about it! I cannot stress how many times I’ve told gma , and my mom’s bff, to not engage her when she’s like this, and they do it anyway. |
2024.05.18 22:59 Barch3 Wife Bridget Ziegler, who co-founded conservative "Moms for Liberty," and Husband Christian Ziegler, state GOP chair, ‘prowled’ Florida bars to hook up with women for three-way sex, police memo reveals
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2024.05.18 22:59 Barch3 Wife Bridget Ziegler, who co-founded conservative "Moms for Liberty," and Husband Christian Ziegler, state GOP chair, ‘prowled’ Florida bars to hook up with women for three-way sex, police memo reveals
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2024.05.18 22:57 lpsmenace Why is my chill cat on edge lately?
(Pumpkin) She keeps being REALLY clingy, more so than her usual. She keeps freaking out over seeing birds and the stray cat through the windows which she has never bothered her before. Is it some anxiety or territorial thing? She has the friendliest and most submissive demeanor, but whenever she sees the stray tomcat now its the first time I have EVER heard her hiss and growl. She fluffs her tail and freaks out. She's indoor only, and fixed. She tears up the blinds and goes under curtains.
However, 3 of our other cats are actually the outdoor tom's kids we rescued last year. They hiss at windows and don't recognize him as their dad anymore, but they still see Pumpkin as their adopted mom. I don't think she behaves that motherly, but is it her way of being protective of her almost grown babies?
The tomcat only tries to swat at his rescued son through the glass, but he usually is just as frightened and jumps back when he sees Pumpkin and his daughters. However, pum has known him through window stalking for over a year and didn't mind his presence at all before. Is there anything I can do besides boarding up the windows? Oh, and we don't want to scare away tomcat bc neighbors don't like him, and we are by a busy road.
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However, 3 of our other cats are actually the outdoor tom's kids we rescued last year. They hiss at windows and don't recognize him as their dad anymore, but they still see Pumpkin as their adopted mom. I don't think she behaves that motherly, but is it her way of being protective of her almost grown babies?
The tomcat only tries to swat at his rescued son through the glass, but he usually is just as frightened and jumps back when he sees Pumpkin and his daughters. However, pum has known him through window stalking for over a year and didn't mind his presence at all before. Is there anything I can do besides boarding up the windows? Oh, and we don't want to scare away tomcat bc neighbors don't like him, and we are by a busy road.
2024.05.18 22:55 Beneficial_Yam_194 Just venting about my mom being unsupportive
Yesterday we had a fight and at the end the topic shifted and she said will NEVER call me by my name or he/him. I've been out to her for abt 7 years. She's said similar stuff but never this clear cut. What's hurts more is how she says it so casually. She says it like she's not angry with me and I can't be mad. Like its totally normal ane not a big deal. That she refuses to respect the most important thing to me. She almost sounds like she pities me, like "oh honey you know thats never going to happen" She just can't understand that my heart is totally broken, she can't understand why I hate being around her. She literally said today "I don't feel like we were agruing" and its INSANE to me she doesn't even understand that she is saying relationship ending things to me. My dad sucks and my mom is all I've had my whole life. The older I get the more I realize she sucks even worse. How's she's destroyed me in every way. I've been in denial for so so long, and I'm realizing I get it from her. After f*cking me up like this, she can't do this one kindness.
Please don't say anything about "its a transition period" im sick of hearing that after 7 years. Even if I only told her explicitly who I am around 15 yrs old, she KNOWS I've been disconnected from myself and birth gender since forever, she's just scared to admit it or connect the dots. Im sick of being patient. She doesn't care. She doesn't see how much it hurts. I hate seeing other ppl with supportive parents. I seethe with jealousy and I want to be adopted so bad. I have no one and thats why I cling to my bf even when I shouldn't.
I think the cherry on top is if someone dmed her rn asking if she supported me, she'd say yes. Probably use my correct name and they/them pronouns. She can do it to look good for friends and strangers. But not when im literally begging her.
Its that stupid comment "I wonder why my kids won't talk to me anymore??" I was her golden child. And she's throwing me away because im not a cisgender son.
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Please don't say anything about "its a transition period" im sick of hearing that after 7 years. Even if I only told her explicitly who I am around 15 yrs old, she KNOWS I've been disconnected from myself and birth gender since forever, she's just scared to admit it or connect the dots. Im sick of being patient. She doesn't care. She doesn't see how much it hurts. I hate seeing other ppl with supportive parents. I seethe with jealousy and I want to be adopted so bad. I have no one and thats why I cling to my bf even when I shouldn't.
I think the cherry on top is if someone dmed her rn asking if she supported me, she'd say yes. Probably use my correct name and they/them pronouns. She can do it to look good for friends and strangers. But not when im literally begging her.
Its that stupid comment "I wonder why my kids won't talk to me anymore??" I was her golden child. And she's throwing me away because im not a cisgender son.
2024.05.18 22:50 Mountain_Impress_968 My mom doesn't want to be my mom anymore
My father is retired, he is not working anymore, though he is 53 years old.
My mom is still working but she doesn't want to work anymore, it's a lot of pressure for her as she has a director position.
My sister has TLP and she is just insane, mad at everyone all the time with no reason and generating a mad ambience all around us.
I feel the weight of having a sister like that, sick, with no clear future as there are not many positions for her career in my country. I know my parents will die at some moment and that i will be alone, having the duty of raising my sister, take care of her, and assuring her a good life.
My mother is sick of being judge, mistreat and poorly valued by all members of the family, is sick of the responsibility of having a job, sometimes shes sick of my dad too, and she has let us know that she doesn't know what shes doing with us anymore.
I already talk to her telling that i feel sorry and bad for her not wanting to take care of a hlme anymore.
I feel broken and I've been struggling with depression for a couple of years. The only reason i stay here it's because i don't want to cause my family any pain or guilty.
I have several problems on my own and I feel the urge to carry the problems of all my family first. It is never time to talk about me and what is happening, it's always about my sister o my mother not wanting anything anymore.
I struggled everyday, every single day it's a challenge for me, I lost my friends, I have never had a girlfriend, I feel so alone and the least i need it's to have problems with my family.
I wonder if this is the normal experience of life, It's not my fault being born or being a weight for my mother, i try to be a good son, i study hard, i clean my room, i try to bring peace for my family.
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My mom is still working but she doesn't want to work anymore, it's a lot of pressure for her as she has a director position.
My sister has TLP and she is just insane, mad at everyone all the time with no reason and generating a mad ambience all around us.
I feel the weight of having a sister like that, sick, with no clear future as there are not many positions for her career in my country. I know my parents will die at some moment and that i will be alone, having the duty of raising my sister, take care of her, and assuring her a good life.
My mother is sick of being judge, mistreat and poorly valued by all members of the family, is sick of the responsibility of having a job, sometimes shes sick of my dad too, and she has let us know that she doesn't know what shes doing with us anymore.
I already talk to her telling that i feel sorry and bad for her not wanting to take care of a hlme anymore.
I feel broken and I've been struggling with depression for a couple of years. The only reason i stay here it's because i don't want to cause my family any pain or guilty.
I have several problems on my own and I feel the urge to carry the problems of all my family first. It is never time to talk about me and what is happening, it's always about my sister o my mother not wanting anything anymore.
I struggled everyday, every single day it's a challenge for me, I lost my friends, I have never had a girlfriend, I feel so alone and the least i need it's to have problems with my family.
I wonder if this is the normal experience of life, It's not my fault being born or being a weight for my mother, i try to be a good son, i study hard, i clean my room, i try to bring peace for my family.
2024.05.18 22:49 FromAuntToNiece Late bloomer breakup: Who is really at fault?
https://life-with-aspergers.blogspot.com/2010/11/aspie-myths-he-wont-miss-me.html
One of the comments near the bottom is worth digesting. Hard.
From all appearances, it looks like the older man behaved in a red pilled manner.
Concerning his attachment style: Is he a dismissive avoidant, or is he a fearful avoidant with a disorganized attachment style?
Concerning his fantasy about being with a younger woman: Is this a generic younger woman, or was he romantically limerent for one particular woman?
The "Anonymous" woman knows the distinction between "extremely selfish" and narcissism, and does not rush to call her former partner a narcissist.
Is she herself a divorced single mom, one of the very demographics that draws red pilled ire?
How many arguments did it take before the breakup? Did they get the chance to live together?
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One of the comments near the bottom is worth digesting. Hard.
This is such a sensitive subject for me. 8 months ago I broke up with my BF. I strongly believe he has aspergers, he does too. I was really devastated as I gave it my all. He did not. He told me he didn't love me, that he never felt anything but anger towards me. He treated me very badly, I see it clearly now, I was too emotionally involved with him to see clearly. He was cheap beyond cheap. He was verbally , mentally cruel to me. He never took accountability for any of his actions in the relationship. He blamed me for everything. He wad extremely selfish & immature. I was too kind, too nice, ugh I find it hard to write about! So hurtful! Sure, sometimes I'm lonely & miss being with someone, but how could I miss being treated like shit? I don't. I am upset with myself for accepting his abusive behavior, but he had no right to treat me so demeaningly. I was his first girlfriend at age 46 for him. No woman would ever date him. He's been on POF since 2005! He has a fantasy of being with a younger woman. I found out he is a cross dresser & addicted to porn. I gave him a chance! I put up with his eccentricities. I was willing to work at it! He took me for granted & disrespected me as a woman. He was unable to ejaculate during sex. Ironically, he's bitter towards me & still blames me. I was a fool & I take responsibility for that. I don't care what Anyone says: I will Never date a man with aspergers ever again. They truly are not worth the heartbreak or the work. Every blog I have ever read about woman in these relationships6 sacrifice their heart, time & energy constantly accomodating their every need. I am truly grateful I got out of it. In hindsight I should have dumped him immediately, thats my only regret.....Who is really at fault for this late bloomer breakup?
From all appearances, it looks like the older man behaved in a red pilled manner.
Concerning his attachment style: Is he a dismissive avoidant, or is he a fearful avoidant with a disorganized attachment style?
Concerning his fantasy about being with a younger woman: Is this a generic younger woman, or was he romantically limerent for one particular woman?
The "Anonymous" woman knows the distinction between "extremely selfish" and narcissism, and does not rush to call her former partner a narcissist.
Is she herself a divorced single mom, one of the very demographics that draws red pilled ire?
How many arguments did it take before the breakup? Did they get the chance to live together?