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2024.05.14 20:59 Massive-Outcome-4087 I have dad-feelings for my ex-teacher
My ex-highschool-teacher and now mentofriend helped me through a really rough time in my life when my parents threw me out on account of being trans in my late teens and I got really attached to him. I think his attention and approval replaced the approval and attention I missed from my own parents, and I really depended on him to provide it for me. I felt so lost and helpless and he guided me through it with such compassion, offering emotioal support in the form of long talks, uplifting pats on the shoulder and even the occasional hug. He lent me some really good books to take my mind off my problems and he even gave me some money once, when I was completely broke. He was the one to take me to a hospital when I thought I didn't have the strenght to live on anymore and he visited me there a lot. He was listed as my emergency contact there. He never asked for anything in return and I feel really grateful for his guidance and support.
When I graduated and moved on to university, there was a really painful break between us. I had told him all this - that I feel really attached and that I hoped to stay in touch. He got defensive, claiming we never had anything more than a normal teacher-student relationship, obviously scared of being accused of overstepping a boundary (which I didn't mean at the time). For a while, there was awakard silence, but then we got back in touch through an old extracurricular that I used to take with him, that was a poetry circle. He invited me back to join it (which is normal, a lot of ex-students come by this particular poetry circle) and it felt so good to earn his respect and appreciation back. I had always written only for him to like it, I knew his preferences and catered to them specifically. Only now, I couldn't write at all - especially not for him. I was blocked by the fear of writing something that he didn't like and losing his approval, that I still now feel like I desperately need and want. I hate that I still need and want it, and I would very much like to disconnect his fatherly approval from my self-worth. In a way, I feel like writing now is like asking my partner for sex (which I struggle with) in that it makes me vulnerable to a rejection that I don't think I could handle receiving. I even quit the poetry circle in hopes that if it's not for him to read, I'd want to start writing again. It was very painful to do because I feared I would never see him now. But now, he invited me and my partner to his birthday in a few weeks. I am very excited to see him again but I'm also scared. Am I still only looking for his approval? Can I be friends with this man? Do I have to cut ties in order to become independant? I would like to change this weird dynamic of me looking up tp him so much and him being kind of uncomfortable with that, but I don't know how. Any ideas?
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When I graduated and moved on to university, there was a really painful break between us. I had told him all this - that I feel really attached and that I hoped to stay in touch. He got defensive, claiming we never had anything more than a normal teacher-student relationship, obviously scared of being accused of overstepping a boundary (which I didn't mean at the time). For a while, there was awakard silence, but then we got back in touch through an old extracurricular that I used to take with him, that was a poetry circle. He invited me back to join it (which is normal, a lot of ex-students come by this particular poetry circle) and it felt so good to earn his respect and appreciation back. I had always written only for him to like it, I knew his preferences and catered to them specifically. Only now, I couldn't write at all - especially not for him. I was blocked by the fear of writing something that he didn't like and losing his approval, that I still now feel like I desperately need and want. I hate that I still need and want it, and I would very much like to disconnect his fatherly approval from my self-worth. In a way, I feel like writing now is like asking my partner for sex (which I struggle with) in that it makes me vulnerable to a rejection that I don't think I could handle receiving. I even quit the poetry circle in hopes that if it's not for him to read, I'd want to start writing again. It was very painful to do because I feared I would never see him now. But now, he invited me and my partner to his birthday in a few weeks. I am very excited to see him again but I'm also scared. Am I still only looking for his approval? Can I be friends with this man? Do I have to cut ties in order to become independant? I would like to change this weird dynamic of me looking up tp him so much and him being kind of uncomfortable with that, but I don't know how. Any ideas?
2024.05.14 20:58 No_Egg8632 Broke up a friendship because I couldnt communicate my feelings
I had a friend I knew since we were 10, lets call her Raya. Me and her have been pretty close, or I thought. We would always hang out, do things together, etc. but we had a pretty bad fall out recently because I couldn’t tell her everything I wanted to say.
Starting from the beginning, Raya moved into a flat pretty close to mine because it was close to her college. I took that as a great opportunity to hang out with her more because we were already so close. So i start inviting her over to mine, inviting her to outings, and to parties i went to.
We were mostly fine, up until my birthday party. I was in a sad mood because a lot of my friends weren’t able to attend, and Raya wasn’t exactly helping me in any way either. She was just talking a lot and not letting us get a word in. She would constantly interrupt whatever I was gonna say and it was really discouraging for me. When things like that happen I tend to go nonverbal. While at the party me and another one of my friends were talking about how low our pay is and how we could barely afford rent and stuff. And Raya decided to butt in and brag about how much she made at her current job, and how she was able to pay her parents bills. It made me really upset because I started comparing myself to her. I was taking a break year and working full time so it made me feel like a failure because how was she able to do all that on top of juggling school. And months later I confronted her about it, she said she was trying to make me feel better by letting me know she had my back. But I still don’t understand how that even correlates to what she said. She also had to ask my boyfriend what to get me for my birthday, which I felt hurt by because she’s known me since elementary school.
Another incident was at a party I invited her to she kept flirting w my boyfriend’s friend. She had a pretty bad record with guys, and she tends to dump them at the drop of a hat. Neither me and my boyfriend wanted that for his friend so we told her to cut it out. But, a week later we go to another party and she does the same thing. And she did it at every party I invited her to, even when she started dating someone else. I wish I had her boyfriends social so I could have told him, but I didn’t.
I eventually confronted her about all those things, and her first response wasn’t an apology or acknowledgment that she did wrong. It was that she was autistic (i did know this beforehand), and had a hard time understanding social queues. I also told her that i felt our relationship was very much one sided, and how I felt like she knew nothing about me and how I always had to make plans with her and how she never texted me first. I felt like she didn’t care about me and was using me for the things I did for her. She said she had no idea i felt that way and would like to start over with me to get closer. I was hesitant but i eventually said yes.
The next month was fine, we hung out and she even initiated it a couple times. But as time went on I kinda realized if she really cared about me she would’ve already been doing those things. She got a new boyfriend and was gushing about how well she knew him and how she’s getting him a super personal gift and it planted that seed in my head. I don’t want to be treated like her boyfriend lets make that clear. But all the basic things she knew about him like his birthday and his job, it made me realize she didn’t even know those things about me.
I hosted another party later that month and I invited her one last time. It was already cemented in my head I wasn’t going to be friends with her anymore after that. So party starts and she does her Raya thing. Constantly talking over people, bragging about this that and the third, and whatever else. It was really annoying me and I was kinda drunk at that time. She told me, in a way i think she thought was funny, ‘haha im so drunk i got your boyfriend and his friend mixed up’ and I just thought ‘ugh i want her to leave’. And for context boyfriend and his friend are both black but thats where the similarities end. So i was like ‘They look nothing alike what are you racist or something?’ And it sobered both of us up. I knew she was upset and pretty soon after she left.
I apologized the next morning and she was like ‘I need time to think on it’. We didn’t speak for a month and then she texts me out of the blue ‘its fine, i forgive you. But dont do that again’. So I thought it would be another reset. I invited her for a girls night with my other friend, but my other friend couldn’t show up so I tell Raya ‘hey other friend cant come, but youre still free to come right?’ And she was like ‘Uh no i have an exam to study for’ even though she initially agreed to come when my other friend was gonna come.
I decided then and there I didn’t want her in my life anymore so I invited over Raya to my house one last time and told her I didn’t wanna be her friend anymore. And she gets so mad, she leaves and goes home and sends me paragraphs about how friendship isn’t about how much you know about a person but being there for them. And how I never acknowledged her autism and how I always treated her like shit and how I was the same girl i was in high school (i wasnt the nicest then i can admit).
But my issue was, i know autistic people need to be told things very directly but I told Raya countless times before I wasn’t raised in an environment where i could freely say what I feel, it was literally the reason I was in therapy (and she knew i was going too). And i also tended to get overwhelmed by my emotions and go nonverbal. But I guess she also decided to not remember that about me. I could have done it better, i could have been nicer, and i could have told her that we just weren’t compatible as friends anymore. I wish I hadn’t said what I said at the last party. And i hate how our friendship crashed and burned so quick. She was so important to me, but it’s better for the both of us to not be friends anymore I think. But I cant help but think I couldve done better.
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Starting from the beginning, Raya moved into a flat pretty close to mine because it was close to her college. I took that as a great opportunity to hang out with her more because we were already so close. So i start inviting her over to mine, inviting her to outings, and to parties i went to.
We were mostly fine, up until my birthday party. I was in a sad mood because a lot of my friends weren’t able to attend, and Raya wasn’t exactly helping me in any way either. She was just talking a lot and not letting us get a word in. She would constantly interrupt whatever I was gonna say and it was really discouraging for me. When things like that happen I tend to go nonverbal. While at the party me and another one of my friends were talking about how low our pay is and how we could barely afford rent and stuff. And Raya decided to butt in and brag about how much she made at her current job, and how she was able to pay her parents bills. It made me really upset because I started comparing myself to her. I was taking a break year and working full time so it made me feel like a failure because how was she able to do all that on top of juggling school. And months later I confronted her about it, she said she was trying to make me feel better by letting me know she had my back. But I still don’t understand how that even correlates to what she said. She also had to ask my boyfriend what to get me for my birthday, which I felt hurt by because she’s known me since elementary school.
Another incident was at a party I invited her to she kept flirting w my boyfriend’s friend. She had a pretty bad record with guys, and she tends to dump them at the drop of a hat. Neither me and my boyfriend wanted that for his friend so we told her to cut it out. But, a week later we go to another party and she does the same thing. And she did it at every party I invited her to, even when she started dating someone else. I wish I had her boyfriends social so I could have told him, but I didn’t.
I eventually confronted her about all those things, and her first response wasn’t an apology or acknowledgment that she did wrong. It was that she was autistic (i did know this beforehand), and had a hard time understanding social queues. I also told her that i felt our relationship was very much one sided, and how I felt like she knew nothing about me and how I always had to make plans with her and how she never texted me first. I felt like she didn’t care about me and was using me for the things I did for her. She said she had no idea i felt that way and would like to start over with me to get closer. I was hesitant but i eventually said yes.
The next month was fine, we hung out and she even initiated it a couple times. But as time went on I kinda realized if she really cared about me she would’ve already been doing those things. She got a new boyfriend and was gushing about how well she knew him and how she’s getting him a super personal gift and it planted that seed in my head. I don’t want to be treated like her boyfriend lets make that clear. But all the basic things she knew about him like his birthday and his job, it made me realize she didn’t even know those things about me.
I hosted another party later that month and I invited her one last time. It was already cemented in my head I wasn’t going to be friends with her anymore after that. So party starts and she does her Raya thing. Constantly talking over people, bragging about this that and the third, and whatever else. It was really annoying me and I was kinda drunk at that time. She told me, in a way i think she thought was funny, ‘haha im so drunk i got your boyfriend and his friend mixed up’ and I just thought ‘ugh i want her to leave’. And for context boyfriend and his friend are both black but thats where the similarities end. So i was like ‘They look nothing alike what are you racist or something?’ And it sobered both of us up. I knew she was upset and pretty soon after she left.
I apologized the next morning and she was like ‘I need time to think on it’. We didn’t speak for a month and then she texts me out of the blue ‘its fine, i forgive you. But dont do that again’. So I thought it would be another reset. I invited her for a girls night with my other friend, but my other friend couldn’t show up so I tell Raya ‘hey other friend cant come, but youre still free to come right?’ And she was like ‘Uh no i have an exam to study for’ even though she initially agreed to come when my other friend was gonna come.
I decided then and there I didn’t want her in my life anymore so I invited over Raya to my house one last time and told her I didn’t wanna be her friend anymore. And she gets so mad, she leaves and goes home and sends me paragraphs about how friendship isn’t about how much you know about a person but being there for them. And how I never acknowledged her autism and how I always treated her like shit and how I was the same girl i was in high school (i wasnt the nicest then i can admit).
But my issue was, i know autistic people need to be told things very directly but I told Raya countless times before I wasn’t raised in an environment where i could freely say what I feel, it was literally the reason I was in therapy (and she knew i was going too). And i also tended to get overwhelmed by my emotions and go nonverbal. But I guess she also decided to not remember that about me. I could have done it better, i could have been nicer, and i could have told her that we just weren’t compatible as friends anymore. I wish I hadn’t said what I said at the last party. And i hate how our friendship crashed and burned so quick. She was so important to me, but it’s better for the both of us to not be friends anymore I think. But I cant help but think I couldve done better.
2024.05.14 20:57 John-Farson Gift ideas for adult daughter moving to Ireland?
My adult daughter's birthday is coming up and I'd like to get her something special that's related to her upcoming move to Ireland (from the U.S.) She has plenty of clothes and is prepared for the weather. She loves Ireland and all things Irish, she's a reader, loves music. I'd like something useful but also special. Something in the $150-$200 range would be ideal. Ideas would be most welcome!
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2024.05.14 20:53 Ok_Faithlessness5210 I don’t know what to do. Please help.
I don’t even know where to start this. I’m at my wit’s end. My husband and I married in November 2017, and separated October 2020. We had a child together in 2016. I would be here all day telling the story (I’m happy to if prompted), but in a nutshell, there was a lot of narcissistic abuse involved and I eventually got to the point that I was so depressed I actively wanted to unalive myself every day and tried to, once (obviously unsuccessfully).
At the time which we separated, we were living two hours away from our hometown so that I could attend a college that I ultimately had to drop out of once we separated because I could not afford to stay there on my own. We could barely afford to live there together. That doesn’t mean much, we could barely afford to live at our hometown either because there was financial abuse involved within that narcissistic abuse that I mentioned before. Upon separation, we both moved back to our hometown, separately. We genuinely went our separate ways with only communication regarding our son, 95% of the time. We even quickly went about finding new partners. There was a lot of aggression on his end after separating and I have hundreds of screenshots of verbal abuse from him in the months following. Neither one of us could afford lawyers, so we were trying to navigate fair custody of our child ourselves to the best of our abilities. For the most part, we did well to split that evenly with some rough patches here and there, usually involving pick up and drop off. Again, because neither one of us could afford a lawyer, this also hindered us actually getting a divorce. Neither one of us really knew how to go about getting a divorce without lawyers involved (and I still don’t) and I think most of his lack of trying was from laziness, and expecting me to do everything in that regard (exactly as the rest of our marriage was).
Worth noting at this point, we were both living in the state of Georgia, not far from the Alabama state line. I eventually (October 2021) found a job in property management across the state line over in Alabama, and was given the opportunity to move to the property for which I worked, with my then partner and his child from a previous marriage. I took this opportunity, which put me about 45 minutes away from my hometown, but still managed to get our son to and from school for the remainder of the school year and we continued to split custody of him evenly throughout the school year and the following summer. At this time I attempted to find a lawyer to start up the divorce process but was told that I have to wait six months of living in the new state before I could do anything, as well as a price tag that was outrageously out of my means. That being said, I didn’t pursue that option.
When the new school year (2022-2023) started, and I enrolled our son into a school in my new state, his father agreed, and we were in a mutual understanding about custody at that point. The understanding being, that on any weekends and school breaks that he wished to spend time with our son, I would happily drive him to 45 minutes over to our hometown for them to spend time together and handle all of the transportation. Since I made the decision to move away, he just had to let me know when he wanted to arrange the visits. These arrangements never happened. The only instances in which he reached out were Father’s Day, Christmas, and Thanksgiving. And chose to only spend an hour to two hours with our son at a time on each of these days. In the past, I did not ask for financial assistance since we split time evenly, however now, since it wasn’t split evenly, he did agree that it would be fair for him to pay some amount of financial assistance in the way of child support. As you can imagine, that also never happened.
In November 2022, I decided that I was not happy with my job choice, and that I wanted to go back to the college that I was at prior to our separation. I waited for my son to finish out his school year, separated from my partner, and moved back to Georgia and found a job and a house that I could afford on my own. I have a new partner (medium distance, he lives in the hometown) now that treats me and my son very good, I make just enough to barely get by if I’m smart with my money and make sacrifices, and I am the happiest I’ve ever been. I’m a full-time college student in a very demanding major (natural resources management with a focus in wildlife management), and a full-time employee working as many hours as I possibly can at a local assisted-living facility. All while being a single mom to the sweetest elementary school aged boy you’ll ever meet. (I know I mentioned having a partner and then turned around and said single mom— my partner and I live two hours apart from each other and I do not ask him for any financial assistance with anything regarding my bills, and we split expenses when we do get to spend time with each other. “Single mom” doesn’t mean “single person”)
All of this to say, since the summer of 2022 ended, my son’s father has seen him a combined total of less than 24 hours. Holidays only. Not even for his birthday, he only got a phone call on the past two birthdays. I have paid for school breakfasts and lunches, summer care programs, afterschool care programs, all of the finances that come with being a parent completely alone since then. He has paid me all of $50, on two occasions for a total of $100, in that time. I haven’t tried the child support office because I am told by his family members that he is constantly getting a new job, and then getting fired from it, he barely pays his extremely low rent already (the house is owned by a family member of his), and there’s no point in waiting to see if it gets taken out of his taxes because he owes on his taxes every year. Truthfully it’s not even about the money, I’m doing just fine paying for our sons expenses, I’m just brokenhearted for him that he doesn’t understand why his father doesn’t want anything to do with him.
The reason I broke down today, is from finding out that he up and moved away from our hometown in the middle of the night to God knows where in Virginia. Apparently with—- HIS FIANCÉ. I just found out they were engaged. I don’t care, I’m happy for them. However, we are still married and around two years ago, we had a conversation over the phone that involved him crying and begging me not to tell her that we weren’t actually divorced yet because he had told her that we /were/ divorced. I have no idea if anything changed in that time, but I don’t even know anything except her first name to even be able to reach out to tell her otherwise? I’m hesitant to reach out anyway because his mother helps me out occasionally and we have a great relationship and I don’t want to put a strain on that. She is disappointed that her son abandoned his son, however, she still has love in her heart for her son.
Now that he has moved, and I have no idea where, just the state, how do I get a divorce? What do I do? Why are lawyers so expensive, I don’t know what to do???
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At the time which we separated, we were living two hours away from our hometown so that I could attend a college that I ultimately had to drop out of once we separated because I could not afford to stay there on my own. We could barely afford to live there together. That doesn’t mean much, we could barely afford to live at our hometown either because there was financial abuse involved within that narcissistic abuse that I mentioned before. Upon separation, we both moved back to our hometown, separately. We genuinely went our separate ways with only communication regarding our son, 95% of the time. We even quickly went about finding new partners. There was a lot of aggression on his end after separating and I have hundreds of screenshots of verbal abuse from him in the months following. Neither one of us could afford lawyers, so we were trying to navigate fair custody of our child ourselves to the best of our abilities. For the most part, we did well to split that evenly with some rough patches here and there, usually involving pick up and drop off. Again, because neither one of us could afford a lawyer, this also hindered us actually getting a divorce. Neither one of us really knew how to go about getting a divorce without lawyers involved (and I still don’t) and I think most of his lack of trying was from laziness, and expecting me to do everything in that regard (exactly as the rest of our marriage was).
Worth noting at this point, we were both living in the state of Georgia, not far from the Alabama state line. I eventually (October 2021) found a job in property management across the state line over in Alabama, and was given the opportunity to move to the property for which I worked, with my then partner and his child from a previous marriage. I took this opportunity, which put me about 45 minutes away from my hometown, but still managed to get our son to and from school for the remainder of the school year and we continued to split custody of him evenly throughout the school year and the following summer. At this time I attempted to find a lawyer to start up the divorce process but was told that I have to wait six months of living in the new state before I could do anything, as well as a price tag that was outrageously out of my means. That being said, I didn’t pursue that option.
When the new school year (2022-2023) started, and I enrolled our son into a school in my new state, his father agreed, and we were in a mutual understanding about custody at that point. The understanding being, that on any weekends and school breaks that he wished to spend time with our son, I would happily drive him to 45 minutes over to our hometown for them to spend time together and handle all of the transportation. Since I made the decision to move away, he just had to let me know when he wanted to arrange the visits. These arrangements never happened. The only instances in which he reached out were Father’s Day, Christmas, and Thanksgiving. And chose to only spend an hour to two hours with our son at a time on each of these days. In the past, I did not ask for financial assistance since we split time evenly, however now, since it wasn’t split evenly, he did agree that it would be fair for him to pay some amount of financial assistance in the way of child support. As you can imagine, that also never happened.
In November 2022, I decided that I was not happy with my job choice, and that I wanted to go back to the college that I was at prior to our separation. I waited for my son to finish out his school year, separated from my partner, and moved back to Georgia and found a job and a house that I could afford on my own. I have a new partner (medium distance, he lives in the hometown) now that treats me and my son very good, I make just enough to barely get by if I’m smart with my money and make sacrifices, and I am the happiest I’ve ever been. I’m a full-time college student in a very demanding major (natural resources management with a focus in wildlife management), and a full-time employee working as many hours as I possibly can at a local assisted-living facility. All while being a single mom to the sweetest elementary school aged boy you’ll ever meet. (I know I mentioned having a partner and then turned around and said single mom— my partner and I live two hours apart from each other and I do not ask him for any financial assistance with anything regarding my bills, and we split expenses when we do get to spend time with each other. “Single mom” doesn’t mean “single person”)
All of this to say, since the summer of 2022 ended, my son’s father has seen him a combined total of less than 24 hours. Holidays only. Not even for his birthday, he only got a phone call on the past two birthdays. I have paid for school breakfasts and lunches, summer care programs, afterschool care programs, all of the finances that come with being a parent completely alone since then. He has paid me all of $50, on two occasions for a total of $100, in that time. I haven’t tried the child support office because I am told by his family members that he is constantly getting a new job, and then getting fired from it, he barely pays his extremely low rent already (the house is owned by a family member of his), and there’s no point in waiting to see if it gets taken out of his taxes because he owes on his taxes every year. Truthfully it’s not even about the money, I’m doing just fine paying for our sons expenses, I’m just brokenhearted for him that he doesn’t understand why his father doesn’t want anything to do with him.
The reason I broke down today, is from finding out that he up and moved away from our hometown in the middle of the night to God knows where in Virginia. Apparently with—- HIS FIANCÉ. I just found out they were engaged. I don’t care, I’m happy for them. However, we are still married and around two years ago, we had a conversation over the phone that involved him crying and begging me not to tell her that we weren’t actually divorced yet because he had told her that we /were/ divorced. I have no idea if anything changed in that time, but I don’t even know anything except her first name to even be able to reach out to tell her otherwise? I’m hesitant to reach out anyway because his mother helps me out occasionally and we have a great relationship and I don’t want to put a strain on that. She is disappointed that her son abandoned his son, however, she still has love in her heart for her son.
Now that he has moved, and I have no idea where, just the state, how do I get a divorce? What do I do? Why are lawyers so expensive, I don’t know what to do???
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2024.05.14 20:49 BlueNova03 First rifle build, decided to go for a more budget build for the first one.
 | I've been into firearms for almost a year and have had this rifle since last summer. For my birthday decided to complete it as a first rifle build. Goal was for my first build to be on a budget and when all's said and done this build was around $1000. What're some thoughts on this one and what's some ideas or suggestions for later? submitted by BlueNova03 to NJGuns [link] [comments] |
2024.05.14 20:43 MysteriousAir9390 Meeting up with my ex tomorrow after almost 2 months NC
So, there's a lot to this to be honest, but I really just need advice. I am the first to say to never crawl back to someone who doesn't value you, and I have no problem cutting people off. But my most recent ex is different. I have never felt love for someone so deeply in my life, and while it was painful to completely ignore him, I did it up until yesterday (I know I fumbled).
We started dating July 2023 until March 2024. Things were amazing at the beginning and I was confident that I saw a future with this man. He was sweet, caring, shy, athletic, smart, funny, and cute. He checked all of my boxes. For context, we are both in undergrad going to school about an hour from each other. In January, he began studying for a graduate school entrance exam, and it is notoriously difficult. I made it clear to him that I would support him through the next 6ish months, because I knew it would be stressful. Things were fine for about the first month, and then he started to turn all of the stress into anger toward me. It was belittling me, never making the time to see me, and just being dry. Finally I had enough and broke it off shortly in mid march, and we patched things up a week later. Then, another week later, he claimed he wasn't giving me the best he could, and that he was breaking up with me. While I was heartbroken, I knew I would be okay. Life goes on, you know?
Then, a few days later, he started blowing up my phone and accusing me of moving on. I had literally no idea what he was talking about. After being accused of stuff I didn't do, I decided to go fully no contact. He messaged me several times every day for about a month and a half but I answered nothing. I didn't want to entertain it (he was acting insane tbh), and I knew it would set my healing back a lot. When I say he went insane, he went insane. I won't go into detail but it was concerning.
About a month after, I had hooked up with a guy from high school who goes to the same school as me. It really didn't mean anything, and I was honest about not wanting anything. I had a couple of random hookups after that as well, but again, didn't really mean anything. I know it sounds bad, but everyone I was with was on the same page. I never stringed anything along. Maybe I'm a bad person for doing that, but with the way I was treated toward the end of the relationship and the harassment I dealt with, I think I was well within my rights.
So, I've been home from school for a bit. Meeting new guys and having conversations with new people made me miss how well my ex and I clicked. He really is my comfort person, and I hate to admit that. But he was so gentle and I missed the way he used to be. I decided to text him back finally after going ghost. He was very pushy about knowing if I had been with anyone else since the breakup and when I told him it really wasn't his business, he got upset. I invited him over tomorrow, so we'll see what happens. But my real question here is: should I tell him and be honest about me being with other guys if he asks, or should I just keep it private? I really think he lost any right to knowing about those parts of my life when HE dumped ME, and then begged for me back in the most out of pocket ways. On the other hand, I wish he would just get his act together and that we could have the future we always talked about. So, if that were to happen, I don't want to have anything to hide. I know this is messy, but what do I do?
submitted by MysteriousAir9390 to ExNoContact [link] [comments]
We started dating July 2023 until March 2024. Things were amazing at the beginning and I was confident that I saw a future with this man. He was sweet, caring, shy, athletic, smart, funny, and cute. He checked all of my boxes. For context, we are both in undergrad going to school about an hour from each other. In January, he began studying for a graduate school entrance exam, and it is notoriously difficult. I made it clear to him that I would support him through the next 6ish months, because I knew it would be stressful. Things were fine for about the first month, and then he started to turn all of the stress into anger toward me. It was belittling me, never making the time to see me, and just being dry. Finally I had enough and broke it off shortly in mid march, and we patched things up a week later. Then, another week later, he claimed he wasn't giving me the best he could, and that he was breaking up with me. While I was heartbroken, I knew I would be okay. Life goes on, you know?
Then, a few days later, he started blowing up my phone and accusing me of moving on. I had literally no idea what he was talking about. After being accused of stuff I didn't do, I decided to go fully no contact. He messaged me several times every day for about a month and a half but I answered nothing. I didn't want to entertain it (he was acting insane tbh), and I knew it would set my healing back a lot. When I say he went insane, he went insane. I won't go into detail but it was concerning.
About a month after, I had hooked up with a guy from high school who goes to the same school as me. It really didn't mean anything, and I was honest about not wanting anything. I had a couple of random hookups after that as well, but again, didn't really mean anything. I know it sounds bad, but everyone I was with was on the same page. I never stringed anything along. Maybe I'm a bad person for doing that, but with the way I was treated toward the end of the relationship and the harassment I dealt with, I think I was well within my rights.
So, I've been home from school for a bit. Meeting new guys and having conversations with new people made me miss how well my ex and I clicked. He really is my comfort person, and I hate to admit that. But he was so gentle and I missed the way he used to be. I decided to text him back finally after going ghost. He was very pushy about knowing if I had been with anyone else since the breakup and when I told him it really wasn't his business, he got upset. I invited him over tomorrow, so we'll see what happens. But my real question here is: should I tell him and be honest about me being with other guys if he asks, or should I just keep it private? I really think he lost any right to knowing about those parts of my life when HE dumped ME, and then begged for me back in the most out of pocket ways. On the other hand, I wish he would just get his act together and that we could have the future we always talked about. So, if that were to happen, I don't want to have anything to hide. I know this is messy, but what do I do?
2024.05.14 20:40 New-Tale4197 Mother and daughter rescued two months ago. Daughter doing weird things now
 | These two have a beautiful relationship it’s really cute lol. Daughter is 7 months old and has attitude. Today she started to try and feed on her mother. Uhhhhhh what’s the best way to address this. Like she is literally trying to get some milk, and bless the mama heart she is being patient but I can tell it’s getting to her. I have no idea what triggered her to start back but any advice is welcome and needed please. submitted by New-Tale4197 to cats [link] [comments] |
2024.05.14 20:33 Khaotic23 I have a secret crush on my roommate.
I (23f) have a pretty big crush on my rommmate (23m) and I havnt really told anyone.
good thing he can’t see this post..
He’s so fucking great, I look forward to seeing him after my shift and we hang out like every single day, it’s usually the highlight of my day! I know he’s seeing a girl right now (not sure how srs tbh, he talks to me about her and I see her at the house weekly) but he flirts with me, or what I perceive to be flirting, like for example..
“(a joke I made on a day out) hey man you better pay me back or i’ll slap the shit out of you randomly in the middle of the night” “Jokes on you i’d like that”
“have you seen the cherry blossom trees on our block! they’re so pretty!” “you’re so pretty!”
(lying in my room) “Wow I’m hot right now” “YEA you are”
“I’m gonna go take off for a bit & hop in the shower” “ok don’t take forever or i’ll have to join you!” “are you serious..? because I wouldn’t say no” “nono i’m joking around!”
“wow looking good tonight!”
“Man I hate when guys cat call & stare but I don’t mind sometimes here & there when they’re cute & just do a quick glance” “so wb if I glanced at you on the street, would you like it” “I think so yea” “okok cool!”
stuff like that.
To be honest everytime he flirts with me or tells me i’m pretty I get butterflies. He has no idea I like him, I don’t think i’ll say anything tbh, not sure. We have such a great dynamic and I really enjoy spending time with him. It does still hurt that i’ll prob just keep these feelings inside.
Just wanted to get this off my chest. Thanks for listening :)!
submitted by Khaotic23 to confessions [link] [comments]
good thing he can’t see this post..
He’s so fucking great, I look forward to seeing him after my shift and we hang out like every single day, it’s usually the highlight of my day! I know he’s seeing a girl right now (not sure how srs tbh, he talks to me about her and I see her at the house weekly) but he flirts with me, or what I perceive to be flirting, like for example..
“(a joke I made on a day out) hey man you better pay me back or i’ll slap the shit out of you randomly in the middle of the night” “Jokes on you i’d like that”
“have you seen the cherry blossom trees on our block! they’re so pretty!” “you’re so pretty!”
(lying in my room) “Wow I’m hot right now” “YEA you are”
“I’m gonna go take off for a bit & hop in the shower” “ok don’t take forever or i’ll have to join you!” “are you serious..? because I wouldn’t say no” “nono i’m joking around!”
“wow looking good tonight!”
“Man I hate when guys cat call & stare but I don’t mind sometimes here & there when they’re cute & just do a quick glance” “so wb if I glanced at you on the street, would you like it” “I think so yea” “okok cool!”
stuff like that.
To be honest everytime he flirts with me or tells me i’m pretty I get butterflies. He has no idea I like him, I don’t think i’ll say anything tbh, not sure. We have such a great dynamic and I really enjoy spending time with him. It does still hurt that i’ll prob just keep these feelings inside.
Just wanted to get this off my chest. Thanks for listening :)!
2024.05.14 20:33 One-Blood-8373 New Creature Idea: EYES
 | It is hand drawn, so don’t judge, and obviously he wouldnt be as cute as my drawing 😂 submitted by One-Blood-8373 to ContentWarningGame [link] [comments] I was just thinking about some stuff that could potentially be added to the game because I do that sometimes . And I came up with an idea for a creature called EYES or THE EYES, or something along the lines of that The whole idea for this creature is that if you see three of these eyes hidden randomly around the map, then you know you’re screwed. While wandering around any map, you may come across an eyeball floating in the middle of nowhere, if you look at it, you will be one step closer to summoning EYES, you have to spot all three of the different eyes in order to summon him, you summon him then you’re gonna purposely look at these eyes, but if you don’t wanna summon him, then try your hardest not to look at them. EYES Would be a level 4 threat, since he has the ability to one hit you and Insta kill, he is about as fast as the GRABBER, so he is quite fast. EYES makes eerie screeching noises, and his eyes glow a dim yellow in the dark. It will be very difficult to escape him since he wont stop following you once you summon him, so you would want to get some footage and get out of there ASAP. EYES cannot be shocked using a shock stick and cannot get caught in a good ball. |
2024.05.14 20:32 AmbitiousAdvantage92 Gus Gus is one year old!
 | My big cuddle bug turned one on May 11th so I wanted to share some of my favourite moments from the last 12 months with you guys. I love this furry maniac to the moon and back and it's been amazing to watch him grow. Some of his favourite things are: butt scritches, drinking water from the hose, eating snow, wrestling, and puppies!! We're going to celebrate this weekend with birthday cookies and a trip to the dog park ♥️ submitted by AmbitiousAdvantage92 to greatpyrenees [link] [comments] |
2024.05.14 20:30 LunarCrab712 Question about Factorio
So I was thinking buying Factorio for my birthday but is expensive af in my country (never spent more then 15 euro for a game) and I wanna put some questions about the game.
I think that's all I wanted to ask. Ty for everyone reading this and for everyone who took time to comment. I've played the demo and I liked it, I had a very trashy factory and I have much more to learn.
Sorry if there are too many question but I wanna make sure on what to expect when I spend 32 euro on a game.
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- Is the game forgiving?
- Are the bugs a big problem?
- How is the game difficulty?
- How many hours can you spend on the game?
- How are the multiplayer servers?
- Is the game still getting updates or is finished?
- How many fps Factorio gets?
- How are the mods?
I think that's all I wanted to ask. Ty for everyone reading this and for everyone who took time to comment. I've played the demo and I liked it, I had a very trashy factory and I have much more to learn.
Sorry if there are too many question but I wanna make sure on what to expect when I spend 32 euro on a game.
The Factory Must Grow!!
2024.05.14 20:29 Accomplished-Case-84 Am I trans or gay? Please give your childhood experiences that helped you know.
I am a closeted gay boy (16) in highschool with homophobic friends who I am really close with and don't want then to drop me. As a kid my expierences werent like having a crush on a guy but were more like doing feminine things. I have had this thing where I would get turned on my trans women and crossdressers, not because they were attracted but because I wanted to crossdress.
The first accurance of this happening was when I was like in 1st grade where I had the family Ipad and I searched men with lipstick and got like euphoria from it.
Later in 4th grade I was more femme than Inhave ever been. I used to dress in my mothers dresses and my sister litteraly would help me wear her dresses (thank god she doesnt remember that). I would grow my hair out long and all these things gave me the euphoric affect.
In 6th grade I am surprised how no one thought I was gay. It was around the time of vsco girls and they used to wear scrunchies around their rists so I thought if I did that it would be super feminine. Some girl would give them to me because she had a crush on me but I would wear them and act superrrrr gay but would hide them outside of school. There was also a gay kid in our school and I would ask him a lot of questions.
During quartine I discovered drag and became obsessed but after a while I would surpress the thought of drag and me trying to crossdress because I was trying to be straight. Then when we went back to school from quarantine I changed to look a lot more masculine, started getting into football, and made all my homophobic friends. There was also a time where my mom saw me following a bunch of drag queens and told me that if my friends saw this they would treat me differently but I told her it was a hacker and she believed it.
During high school would go in and out of phases where I would be gay one week and straight the next. I would always deny myself that I could be gay until this school year (10th grade) on my birthday and I was in my room before school looking at men on instagram I told myself I can't control it and just fully realized that I was gay.
A little off topic but this spring I had been liking a lot of posts of naked men on instagram and my mon has my account and she for some reason checked the likes. She confronted me once seeing the likes and said that I should not like things like that and that if i was gay she would support me but I just said ok. My mom now knows but respects me by not talking about it. I am at a place where I don't care as much and if I were asked by a stranger I would say I was gay.
I would really like an answer or just an idea. thanks
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The first accurance of this happening was when I was like in 1st grade where I had the family Ipad and I searched men with lipstick and got like euphoria from it.
Later in 4th grade I was more femme than Inhave ever been. I used to dress in my mothers dresses and my sister litteraly would help me wear her dresses (thank god she doesnt remember that). I would grow my hair out long and all these things gave me the euphoric affect.
In 6th grade I am surprised how no one thought I was gay. It was around the time of vsco girls and they used to wear scrunchies around their rists so I thought if I did that it would be super feminine. Some girl would give them to me because she had a crush on me but I would wear them and act superrrrr gay but would hide them outside of school. There was also a gay kid in our school and I would ask him a lot of questions.
During quartine I discovered drag and became obsessed but after a while I would surpress the thought of drag and me trying to crossdress because I was trying to be straight. Then when we went back to school from quarantine I changed to look a lot more masculine, started getting into football, and made all my homophobic friends. There was also a time where my mom saw me following a bunch of drag queens and told me that if my friends saw this they would treat me differently but I told her it was a hacker and she believed it.
During high school would go in and out of phases where I would be gay one week and straight the next. I would always deny myself that I could be gay until this school year (10th grade) on my birthday and I was in my room before school looking at men on instagram I told myself I can't control it and just fully realized that I was gay.
A little off topic but this spring I had been liking a lot of posts of naked men on instagram and my mon has my account and she for some reason checked the likes. She confronted me once seeing the likes and said that I should not like things like that and that if i was gay she would support me but I just said ok. My mom now knows but respects me by not talking about it. I am at a place where I don't care as much and if I were asked by a stranger I would say I was gay.
I would really like an answer or just an idea. thanks
2024.05.14 20:28 Purcell1020 Gift Ideas
My friend is turning 30 this year and we spend a ton of time fishing together. Primarily fly fishing, but we hit the ice too. I want to come up with a creative gift with a fishing theme for his birthday in December. Does anyone have some ideas? A theme around 30 or his birth year of 1994 is cool, but not necessary. Appreciate any tips!
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2024.05.14 20:21 Plus-Ad-7246 AITA for being with my bsf uncle and hiding ir from her
Just for a quick backstory I (23F) have been interested in my best friend's uncle (27M) since I was 12. I met her uncle when I was 12. He's your average athletic guy. Fit, funny, good looking. We bonded over music. He told me stories of his past. He'd even help me study french when I needed help on my homework One night I went to my best friend's house. Unaware that she wasn't at home, but he was there. So we began to talk eventually I confessed my feelings for him. He was shocked. But then my best friend came So we exchanged instagrams. Decided to continue our conversation afterwards. Later that night he texted me asking so many questions on when did I have a crush on him, why I had a crush on him. I told him everything and eventually he confessed that he too felt the same way but it was wrong due to a bunch of complications. We'd still continue to talk but within two weeks of texting back and forth, we decided to make it official Although we agreed to keep it a secret. It felt so right he is special it killed having to pretending to either be single or date another guy. After he and I were together for 7 months I asked him if we could get a more physically involved he told me no since i was too young by this time i was already 13.
I felt I had made to relationship a bit awkward so i distanced myself a bit and would only speak to me bsf and try to ignore him. I remember so clearly how upset he was he'd nonstop text or call and when I'd go over he'd try and talk my bsf eventually noticed and told me to be careful her mom walked in and overheard our conversation telling me the same thing. Later on her mom asked her to help her with something so I sat on rocking chair sofa and i see the door open and he walks in I greeted him and he just walked past i couldn't say i was surprised after all I was avoiding him first but he stopped at the doorway of the kitchen walked back and i a low tone he was scolding me so a talked back and we had our first argument I knew i was in the wrong so in mid sentence i put my arms around his neck and kissed him he put his arms around waist and pull away from the kiss to tell me how much he missed me and he had a surprise since he knew i was coming we then heard my bsf and her mom coming so he went back outside and sat back down and acted like nothing had happened.
2 months after I turned 15 we almost got caught doing it on her sister's bed Which he was where he was sleeping at the time I felt happy. Our relationship lasted for 4 years. One day in the morning when I woke I saw a message from him, I felt nauseous. He said he was sorry, but he had to leave, so he broke up with me over text, he said he really wished He could've stayed but It didn't feel right. He didn't want to hide who he was with. He said that being with me would only hurt both of us, I was so depressed, I'd constantly cry couldn't get over it And I couldn't tell my best friend.
(So now where i really need help) I recently went to my bestfriend's new house. I was invited to her mother's birthday party. And as a surprise, her uncle came, and we saw each other again. We catched up a bit and just talked from time to time. My best friend would look at us. Make faces, so I tried my best to avoid him after a while. When I'd look at him, he was talking to a girl I did not recognize I assumed that was his plus 1 or something, so I ended up drinking. Eventually I was drunk to a point that I couldn't walk my best friend's mom told the uncle (her cousin) to take me to her room So I could rest a bit. My best friend came along with us. I could hear them discussing about how she suspected that I had a crush on him or if there is something going on to quit it, he kept denying everything so she warned him that she would be keeping an eye on him. Her mom called her so she had to go, When she left the room, I stood up, but he told me to lay down and rest. And I started crying. He comforted me and I told them I was upset, and he explained that the girl who he was talking to was his sister.
I felt like an idiot. He then told me that it was cute how i was jealous in the heat of the moment we kissed and did it again. He then proceeded to tell me how much he missed me. how he never forgot me and that I'm still very special to him.He asked to be in a relationship again but I don't know? I feel guilty. Having to hide it from my bestfriend . I'm scared of what she'll do or say when she finds out What do I do? I have no idea?So what I wanna know is AITA for not telling my bestfriend about her uncle and I?.
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I felt I had made to relationship a bit awkward so i distanced myself a bit and would only speak to me bsf and try to ignore him. I remember so clearly how upset he was he'd nonstop text or call and when I'd go over he'd try and talk my bsf eventually noticed and told me to be careful her mom walked in and overheard our conversation telling me the same thing. Later on her mom asked her to help her with something so I sat on rocking chair sofa and i see the door open and he walks in I greeted him and he just walked past i couldn't say i was surprised after all I was avoiding him first but he stopped at the doorway of the kitchen walked back and i a low tone he was scolding me so a talked back and we had our first argument I knew i was in the wrong so in mid sentence i put my arms around his neck and kissed him he put his arms around waist and pull away from the kiss to tell me how much he missed me and he had a surprise since he knew i was coming we then heard my bsf and her mom coming so he went back outside and sat back down and acted like nothing had happened.
2 months after I turned 15 we almost got caught doing it on her sister's bed Which he was where he was sleeping at the time I felt happy. Our relationship lasted for 4 years. One day in the morning when I woke I saw a message from him, I felt nauseous. He said he was sorry, but he had to leave, so he broke up with me over text, he said he really wished He could've stayed but It didn't feel right. He didn't want to hide who he was with. He said that being with me would only hurt both of us, I was so depressed, I'd constantly cry couldn't get over it And I couldn't tell my best friend.
(So now where i really need help) I recently went to my bestfriend's new house. I was invited to her mother's birthday party. And as a surprise, her uncle came, and we saw each other again. We catched up a bit and just talked from time to time. My best friend would look at us. Make faces, so I tried my best to avoid him after a while. When I'd look at him, he was talking to a girl I did not recognize I assumed that was his plus 1 or something, so I ended up drinking. Eventually I was drunk to a point that I couldn't walk my best friend's mom told the uncle (her cousin) to take me to her room So I could rest a bit. My best friend came along with us. I could hear them discussing about how she suspected that I had a crush on him or if there is something going on to quit it, he kept denying everything so she warned him that she would be keeping an eye on him. Her mom called her so she had to go, When she left the room, I stood up, but he told me to lay down and rest. And I started crying. He comforted me and I told them I was upset, and he explained that the girl who he was talking to was his sister.
I felt like an idiot. He then told me that it was cute how i was jealous in the heat of the moment we kissed and did it again. He then proceeded to tell me how much he missed me. how he never forgot me and that I'm still very special to him.He asked to be in a relationship again but I don't know? I feel guilty. Having to hide it from my bestfriend . I'm scared of what she'll do or say when she finds out What do I do? I have no idea?So what I wanna know is AITA for not telling my bestfriend about her uncle and I?.
2024.05.14 20:13 BugDapper4436 22(m4f) looking for long-term roleplay partners for romance and slow burn rps,and also possibly be friends off roleplays:)
Please try to read the entire post:)Hi Litte bit about me I'm 22 years old man from India, doing my engineering,I have now time again to get back into rp ,I have got a pretty good experience with roleplays I have been doing them for like two year's now ,I can't do very long responses but I can definitely do enough for you to work with!
As you might have guessed from the title I'm a huge sucker for romance and I'm very interested in any kind of love stories,if you are also a sucker for romance I'm your guy;) also one more thing I'm looking for long-term partners please don't message me if you can't commit for long-term or you Ghost,if you are not interested in the rp anymore just let me know and we can stop,it's better than ghosting...
Coming to plot idea's Plot1:- I have this in mind about doing a roleplay with lots of love scenes,a classic slice of life type scenarios with cute romantic scenes just like in a fantasy movie!if tare a fan of love stories we can create a plot together in any era and make a beautiful love story from it!
Plot2:-so I have always wanted to try this out if I get someone who like this kind of plots,it's about a love story between a older women whos in her 30s and she doesn't believe in love or marriage or having kids,but which changes later when a young man enters into her life who is in his 20s, this will be a love story between them and has lot of potential to it I believe it you are interested we can explore more on this one!
And finally if you didn't like the plots I have in mind we could do a classic slice of life type scenarios,or even do any plots you have!
Well that's it I guess for now if you find this post interesting please feel free to message me:) also have DISCORD I prefer to rp there! Have an amazing rest of your day!
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As you might have guessed from the title I'm a huge sucker for romance and I'm very interested in any kind of love stories,if you are also a sucker for romance I'm your guy;) also one more thing I'm looking for long-term partners please don't message me if you can't commit for long-term or you Ghost,if you are not interested in the rp anymore just let me know and we can stop,it's better than ghosting...
Coming to plot idea's Plot1:- I have this in mind about doing a roleplay with lots of love scenes,a classic slice of life type scenarios with cute romantic scenes just like in a fantasy movie!if tare a fan of love stories we can create a plot together in any era and make a beautiful love story from it!
Plot2:-so I have always wanted to try this out if I get someone who like this kind of plots,it's about a love story between a older women whos in her 30s and she doesn't believe in love or marriage or having kids,but which changes later when a young man enters into her life who is in his 20s, this will be a love story between them and has lot of potential to it I believe it you are interested we can explore more on this one!
And finally if you didn't like the plots I have in mind we could do a classic slice of life type scenarios,or even do any plots you have!
Well that's it I guess for now if you find this post interesting please feel free to message me:) also have DISCORD I prefer to rp there! Have an amazing rest of your day!
2024.05.14 20:10 Accomplished_Spell87 Please help me think of a savage pickup line to put on a joke present for my boyfriend’s (25/M) brother (20/M)?!
My boyfriend’s (25m) brother (20m) is turning 21 soon and I think it’s fair to say him and my boyfriend couldn’t be more different if they tried.My boyfriend is caring, attentive - a one woman man! His brother however is a few years younger and is a bit of a player with a savage sense of humour - so OBVIOUSLY I want to get him a joke present for his 21st birthday!
He is going on a lads holiday in a few months and he makes no secret of the fact that he is probably going to try and sleep with as many women as he can while he’s there so my idea was to get him a stamp with a pickup line on it followed by his number so that he can stamp his number on girls he hits it off with when he’s out clubbing - It was an idea I stole from TikTok and I know he’s going to find it hilarious!
My issue is, I don’t know what pick-up like to write on the stamp - my boyfriend suggested “I’m not great at maths, but I’m a 10, you’re a 10 and together we’re: (insert number)” but it doesn’t feel funny or savage enough!
So here I am, asking strangers on the internet for their best suggestions - any ideas you have would be greatly appreciated!! Go wild 😎
Logistics: can’t be more than 5 lines on the stamp so ideally, short and sweet is best 😄
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He is going on a lads holiday in a few months and he makes no secret of the fact that he is probably going to try and sleep with as many women as he can while he’s there so my idea was to get him a stamp with a pickup line on it followed by his number so that he can stamp his number on girls he hits it off with when he’s out clubbing - It was an idea I stole from TikTok and I know he’s going to find it hilarious!
My issue is, I don’t know what pick-up like to write on the stamp - my boyfriend suggested “I’m not great at maths, but I’m a 10, you’re a 10 and together we’re: (insert number)” but it doesn’t feel funny or savage enough!
So here I am, asking strangers on the internet for their best suggestions - any ideas you have would be greatly appreciated!! Go wild 😎
Logistics: can’t be more than 5 lines on the stamp so ideally, short and sweet is best 😄
2024.05.14 20:05 lizcookiee My BDC collection (all ogs!)
 | have my collection of the cookie butter (it’s my absolute fav) my true OG ogs include berry, lavender, birthday, cookie butter, swiss miss, mint, coconut, and mango!!! (also just bought another OG formula berry on depop since they’re discontinuing her) submitted by lizcookiee to glossier [link] [comments] |
2024.05.14 20:02 Mandeesdragon AITA for trying to explain myself at me reception
I (32) female married my (50) male significant other last October. The wedding had a few hiccups, but otherwise was a beautiful ceremony. I didn't notice anything was really wrong though until the reception. My ministers husband decided to take pictures during the ceremony (he often does this of anything that his husband does). I didn't think anything of it until he asked us during the reception why we had no photographer and if we would like him to take photos of the reception as well. It was a weird observation as my dad had asked a family member months ago to take pictures of my big event. I thought nothing of it until I said something to my dad and brother and my brother explained to me that the family member approached him before the ceremony throwing a fit about how I had replaced her with another photographer. I went to talk to her to try and explain how I had no idea the minister's husband was going to take photos. As I tried to explain as I wanted her to take photos for us as planned she said "not the place." I continued to try and explain. She then very loudly called me a "btch" in front of everyone. I walked away to go to the kitchen where my dad was to tell him what just happened and she continued to call me that word louder and louder until she could be heard through the entire reception hall over the music and loud enough all of the guests plus us in the kitchen could hear her. I tried to ignore her, but she wouldn't stop until my dad had to kick her out. I found out later that she made fun of us and our ceremony during the whole thing calling it a "sht show" amongst other things, before going out and getting drunk between the ceremony and reception (I didn't find all of this out until 2 months afterwards). My parents and husband all tell me that I am NTA as I didn't know the minister's husband was planning on taking photos. However, the other family member and her kids are all telling everyone it's my fault as I was clearly lying about knowing about the other photographer and I am the reason she got kicked out of the reception.She refuses to peak to us despite me apologizing for not letting it go at the reaction. My dad tried to explain to her what happened and she told him that he is lying to protect me. She has a history of bullying not only my dad his whole life, but also me and would throw tantrums or start fights at our birthday party's, graduations, etc. Even tried to at my beother's wedding, but his ex wife's grandma stopped her ( just for background information). AITA?
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2024.05.14 20:01 Agreeable-Craft7456 My girlfriend (19f) is putting doubts in my head about her leaving me (18m). How should I approach this?
Should I be worried that my GF (19f) is going to leave me (18m)?
This is a really long story so please bare with me.
Ok so first of all, you're all going to see that I'm not innocent in this but I just couldn't help myself as you'll see.
So for context, my gf and I have been dating for 3 months now at long-distance. I've visited her every 2 weeks since we met and I feel we really do like/love eachother.
However, there has been some road bombs since we started dating but this story only concerns one of them.
And it's important to note that my GF has had a few "crushes" and 1 or 2 short "relationships" in highschool before me. One of those includes a crush on a guy who we'll call Frank. This was at most just the 2 of them having a deep interest in eachother and they both knew. All of this being around 2 years ago.
In early April, my GF's older cousin got an invitation from one of her friends, who we'll call Oliver, to go to his Birthday Party. And he told my GF's cousin to invite all of her cousins if she wanted to. Including my GF.
And lord and behold, guess who was also going to the party? Frank.
And when Frank got word that my GF was going, my GF, who at the time told me all of this btw, said that Frank let out a joyful "yes" in response to her going.
Now, I obviously HATED hearing this, but I appreciated the fact that my GF told me when she didn't have to if she didn't want to.
So a week goes by and the party is coming up...
Everything is going well between us until...the night of the party. On the day of the party, we were both good as usual. We talked, called, she went to work just before the party and she sent me cute pics of her and all that stuff until after her shift.
After she finished work, she was immediately taking the bus to the party and that's when things went south. We called whilst she was on the bus and she suddenly became so cold to me. I can't explain it but she just became cold and her tone sounded mad at me. I kept trying to talk to her until she cut the call and texted me: "we're done".
I called her back and texted but she was still cold. I to talked her about all the things we've said and done and what they meant to her and she basically said "I don't care". I was depressed but after trying too much, I stopped texting.
2 hours later, at around 1am, I get a text from her calling my name:
"Toby?"
I answer:
"Yes?"
To which she replies "I'm sorry". It kept going a bit like that until she started telling me about why she ended it. And the first reason was because we were so far apart. And I'm like, ok sure, I understand that, but why not talk to me about it rather than making me feel so shit about myself?
That kept going for a bit and a few other things happened but aren't important. Let's skip to when she arrived back home.
As she was back home, in her bed, we continued texting. And this is when she told me the second reason as to why she ended it. Which was the fact that, a week earlier, I brought up how she's going to uni soon and that I was concerned about her meeting new people there and potentially leaving me. And I guess this kinda backfired because it apparently put doubts in her head about whether or not I'd leave her. So essentially, she ended it before I could, so she wouldn't have to endure that pain.
So we talked we talked we talked, and in the end, about 4 hours of reassuring her later, we got back together.
So the next day, we started talking about the party. And that's when she opened up about something. So apparently, Frank, had approached her during the end of the party when she wanted to go home and started talking to her about how he left his old gf and blah blah blah, obviously trying to show an opening but my gf didn't show any interest, allegedly. I didn't think much of this, even though once again, I HATED it.
Now let's skip to today.
So this is where I also become an AH in this. A week ago, when I was visiting her, she logged into her Instagram on my phone because her phone died. And when I left, she didn't log out.
So curiousity got the best of me. I snooped around in her DMS. First of all, there are absolutely zero guys in her DMS. Cool. But the main reason I was snooping was actually precisely because I wanted to see what she was gossiping to her close friends about, especially on the night of the party.
And as I scroll, I see something.
In one of her DMS with her friend, she talked about the moment Frank got word that she was going to the party.
And to cut it simple, she talked about how he was excited she was coming and all that until I see:
"I feel bad"
Her friend replies:
"About what?"
To which my gf replies:
"About thinking for a second about leaving Toby for Frank".
When I read this, my heart, dropped.
The next messages were her friend saying I'm better, my gf agreeing and all that stuff.
But then my gf says "put me back on the right path please". Like what?
She then went on to say that she knew Frank wasn't worth it regardless of what she felt and that she was just flattered in that situation. "As all girls are".
Needless to say, regardless of the fact that they said I was better, that hurt me like a mf.
And then in another DM with another friend, they talked about the moment Frank approached her at the party. And essentially, they said what I said earlier but in no way did my GF say anything like "No I'm not interested" or "I have a BF". In fact, she was talking about how bad his flirting skills were with her.
I feel so down rn after having seen all of that.
But it's worth noting that my GF expressed many times before that she doesn't support cheating in any way. She HAS good values (doesn't like exposing herself, partying often all that stuff) and she is a good person overall. And she has expressed recently as well, to her friends via DMS, about how much I make her happy and that I have no red flags or whatever. And that she loves me a lot.
So I just don't know what to think or do.
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This is a really long story so please bare with me.
Ok so first of all, you're all going to see that I'm not innocent in this but I just couldn't help myself as you'll see.
So for context, my gf and I have been dating for 3 months now at long-distance. I've visited her every 2 weeks since we met and I feel we really do like/love eachother.
However, there has been some road bombs since we started dating but this story only concerns one of them.
And it's important to note that my GF has had a few "crushes" and 1 or 2 short "relationships" in highschool before me. One of those includes a crush on a guy who we'll call Frank. This was at most just the 2 of them having a deep interest in eachother and they both knew. All of this being around 2 years ago.
In early April, my GF's older cousin got an invitation from one of her friends, who we'll call Oliver, to go to his Birthday Party. And he told my GF's cousin to invite all of her cousins if she wanted to. Including my GF.
And lord and behold, guess who was also going to the party? Frank.
And when Frank got word that my GF was going, my GF, who at the time told me all of this btw, said that Frank let out a joyful "yes" in response to her going.
Now, I obviously HATED hearing this, but I appreciated the fact that my GF told me when she didn't have to if she didn't want to.
So a week goes by and the party is coming up...
Everything is going well between us until...the night of the party. On the day of the party, we were both good as usual. We talked, called, she went to work just before the party and she sent me cute pics of her and all that stuff until after her shift.
After she finished work, she was immediately taking the bus to the party and that's when things went south. We called whilst she was on the bus and she suddenly became so cold to me. I can't explain it but she just became cold and her tone sounded mad at me. I kept trying to talk to her until she cut the call and texted me: "we're done".
I called her back and texted but she was still cold. I to talked her about all the things we've said and done and what they meant to her and she basically said "I don't care". I was depressed but after trying too much, I stopped texting.
2 hours later, at around 1am, I get a text from her calling my name:
"Toby?"
I answer:
"Yes?"
To which she replies "I'm sorry". It kept going a bit like that until she started telling me about why she ended it. And the first reason was because we were so far apart. And I'm like, ok sure, I understand that, but why not talk to me about it rather than making me feel so shit about myself?
That kept going for a bit and a few other things happened but aren't important. Let's skip to when she arrived back home.
As she was back home, in her bed, we continued texting. And this is when she told me the second reason as to why she ended it. Which was the fact that, a week earlier, I brought up how she's going to uni soon and that I was concerned about her meeting new people there and potentially leaving me. And I guess this kinda backfired because it apparently put doubts in her head about whether or not I'd leave her. So essentially, she ended it before I could, so she wouldn't have to endure that pain.
So we talked we talked we talked, and in the end, about 4 hours of reassuring her later, we got back together.
So the next day, we started talking about the party. And that's when she opened up about something. So apparently, Frank, had approached her during the end of the party when she wanted to go home and started talking to her about how he left his old gf and blah blah blah, obviously trying to show an opening but my gf didn't show any interest, allegedly. I didn't think much of this, even though once again, I HATED it.
Now let's skip to today.
So this is where I also become an AH in this. A week ago, when I was visiting her, she logged into her Instagram on my phone because her phone died. And when I left, she didn't log out.
So curiousity got the best of me. I snooped around in her DMS. First of all, there are absolutely zero guys in her DMS. Cool. But the main reason I was snooping was actually precisely because I wanted to see what she was gossiping to her close friends about, especially on the night of the party.
And as I scroll, I see something.
In one of her DMS with her friend, she talked about the moment Frank got word that she was going to the party.
And to cut it simple, she talked about how he was excited she was coming and all that until I see:
"I feel bad"
Her friend replies:
"About what?"
To which my gf replies:
"About thinking for a second about leaving Toby for Frank".
When I read this, my heart, dropped.
The next messages were her friend saying I'm better, my gf agreeing and all that stuff.
But then my gf says "put me back on the right path please". Like what?
She then went on to say that she knew Frank wasn't worth it regardless of what she felt and that she was just flattered in that situation. "As all girls are".
Needless to say, regardless of the fact that they said I was better, that hurt me like a mf.
And then in another DM with another friend, they talked about the moment Frank approached her at the party. And essentially, they said what I said earlier but in no way did my GF say anything like "No I'm not interested" or "I have a BF". In fact, she was talking about how bad his flirting skills were with her.
I feel so down rn after having seen all of that.
But it's worth noting that my GF expressed many times before that she doesn't support cheating in any way. She HAS good values (doesn't like exposing herself, partying often all that stuff) and she is a good person overall. And she has expressed recently as well, to her friends via DMS, about how much I make her happy and that I have no red flags or whatever. And that she loves me a lot.
So I just don't know what to think or do.
2024.05.14 19:54 ehhrud Fursuit paws from Amazon
Hey all,
I’m a dad to a pretty dope girl who’s into the fandom and community here and we’re looking to support her at home. My wife (stepmom) and mother-in-law are working on a fursuit body for her birthday and I’ve been tasked to check Amazon for paws. My question is, are there any decent and affordable options on the platform that are worthwhile and affordable, or am I better off looking elsewhere and waiting. Admittedly I know very little about the hobby/community here, this is her first fursuit and her birthday is this Friday. I may have waited too long but I’m looking here for suggestions/ideas. We’ve got the tail and body covered and are working together on the head/face, the fur is longeshaggy black/white if that makes a difference.
Thanks in advance,
A not knowledgeable dad
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I’m a dad to a pretty dope girl who’s into the fandom and community here and we’re looking to support her at home. My wife (stepmom) and mother-in-law are working on a fursuit body for her birthday and I’ve been tasked to check Amazon for paws. My question is, are there any decent and affordable options on the platform that are worthwhile and affordable, or am I better off looking elsewhere and waiting. Admittedly I know very little about the hobby/community here, this is her first fursuit and her birthday is this Friday. I may have waited too long but I’m looking here for suggestions/ideas. We’ve got the tail and body covered and are working together on the head/face, the fur is longeshaggy black/white if that makes a difference.
Thanks in advance,
A not knowledgeable dad
2024.05.14 19:53 01bof01 AITAH for telling my girlfriend I don’t want one of her friends to attend her birthday party she’s throwing at my house?
My girlfriend and I are both 21 years old. I had this friend since 4th grade, and we were extremely close. They have also been extremely close with my current girlfriend since middle school. About 3 years ago this friend and I had a big falling out, a year later we patched things up and moved on, at least I thought so. We would hang out all the time, we would play games, everything was normal. The friend went off to college and we started to drift apart a little, and I just assumed that was the reason. Then I found out from someone else that the friend told them that they don’t think I’m a good person, and they hope me and girlfriend break up because she deserves someone better than me.
This obviously really hurt, and I was really bothered by this. Again, my gf has been friends with this person for years, I understand them still being friends and I wouldn’t try to stop them from being friends, but it does bother me that she’s so ok with our friend saying that.
My girlfriend and I have had multiple talks about it. She doesn’t agree with our friend at all, we’ve even talked about it amongst other mutual friends and no one has any idea why they would’ve said that.
I wasn’t going through all this again after we already had a falling out. I don’t feel like patching things up again, just to get hurt again. We haven’t spoken in months, never even talked about what happened. Now my girlfriend wants to throw her birthday party at my house which I am happy to do, but she wants to invite this friend. I could be cordial, and the friend could be here without any problems, but I just feel like I have enough self respect for myself to not invite someone who said that about me, and about my relationship, into my home.
I feel like it’s important to add that this friend is interested in men, just to make it clear they’re not trying to end our relationship for personal gain
Is this petty? Should I just be ok with it?
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This obviously really hurt, and I was really bothered by this. Again, my gf has been friends with this person for years, I understand them still being friends and I wouldn’t try to stop them from being friends, but it does bother me that she’s so ok with our friend saying that.
My girlfriend and I have had multiple talks about it. She doesn’t agree with our friend at all, we’ve even talked about it amongst other mutual friends and no one has any idea why they would’ve said that.
I wasn’t going through all this again after we already had a falling out. I don’t feel like patching things up again, just to get hurt again. We haven’t spoken in months, never even talked about what happened. Now my girlfriend wants to throw her birthday party at my house which I am happy to do, but she wants to invite this friend. I could be cordial, and the friend could be here without any problems, but I just feel like I have enough self respect for myself to not invite someone who said that about me, and about my relationship, into my home.
I feel like it’s important to add that this friend is interested in men, just to make it clear they’re not trying to end our relationship for personal gain
Is this petty? Should I just be ok with it?