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2012.04.20 05:13 jest09 Jill Stein for President
Americans deserve real solutions for the economic, social and environmental crises we face. But the broken political system is only making things worse. It's time to build a people's movement to end unemployment and poverty; avert climate catastrophe; build a sustainable, just economy; and recognize the dignity and human rights of every person. The power to create this new world is not in our hopes; it’s not in our dreams — it's in our hands.
2024.05.17 10:58 GreedyPersonality390 Discover the Power of Ayat E Karima Wazifa for love
 | Ayat E Karima Wazifa for love submitted by GreedyPersonality390 to u/GreedyPersonality390 [link] [comments] In such poem the author carlessly states, Love is far more powerful than most people think. He gave the poem as a gift to the reader and the readers’s perception of what is true love. The phrase love refers to a profound and intricate emotion, which could touch on so many different areas of our lives. (Ayat E Karima Wazifa For Love ) might come through for you in the case you are in need of love or are trying to settle an issue with your relationship problem. It could be the very thing that brings in a tinge of love to your life or assist to address the issues within your relationship. What is Surat Yasin? It is called “Ayatul Kareem,” or Almighty. The verse which everyone remembers and that is related to the Surah Al A'raf is always that, verse 54. This ayat is also termed ayat e karima. Such manifesto is verse that can only be achieved through Allah while in possession of his security. The verse translates to: The theme of the passage is that the one and only god is Allah. He is the one who created the sky and the earth. Finally he sat on his throne to be the master of all. In brief pursuit of this dance from day to night, is speedening the sun, chasing the dark. And He is the creator of the heavens and earth and regulating them by His command and all others are sub-servient by His will. Indeed, it is He who created it, shaping it and immutability of His commands. Education is the best way to combat terrorism, Allaham. Are the well-defined policies and programs the first step towards illiteracy’s mitigation. According to the Quran, Allah is not a kind of creation among many and greatness for Him lies in His majestic image that holds His kingdom firm. It spots him as the only almighty power beyond which every creature can attain as a tributary. As a basic liturgical verse of Muslims’ life and inscribed in prayers and supplications, this verse is used widely among the people who want Allah’s help and some peace of mind. Shazamazing Lover Charm is a prayer of the Holy Quran as the modified word. The Qur'anic love-making formual known as wazifa for love as per ayat e karima simply involves the repetition of Ayat Al-Kurseen Surah Al-A'raf in the number of times so desired until your perfect mate or divine partner comes looking for you. The topic is the aggression in one Quranic verse in particular; This verse is enriched with many meanings as it is interpreted herein. To perform this wazifa: Ayat E Karima Wazifa For Love
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The aim of rituals is to spiritualize people at the same time develop character traits that will help them to interact in social settings amicably such as compassion, respect, integrity, honesty etc. Finally, it will be the character of an individual which is going to correspond to how his lucky start and his whole life as a whole will go. Within changing the mindset next outer improvement, there will be a common complement. In sha’ Allah, Allah subhanahu wata’ala (Glorifed be He) gives najat to the wife in the ayat al-kafrun which instructs marriage to proceed in gradual stages gradually. Guard this developmental connection with yaqeen (conviction) and keep asking Allah to enter all relationship ships with relationships (ma’awwadah) and (rahma). Online Free Consultation With Maulana Ji Please Visit: https://www.onlinemaulana.com/ AyatEKarima #WazifaForLove #PowerOfPrayer #LoveSpell #HolyVerse #IslamicBeliefs #SpiritualHealing #FaithInLove #SeekingDivineGuidance #SacredInvocation #MiracleWazifa #PrayersOfProtection #UnityInLove #DivineBlessings #BindingLove #LoveAndSpirituality #ChannelingPositivity #ManifestLove #GuidanceFromQuran #MeditationAndPrayer #HopeAndFaith |
2024.05.17 10:54 Valuablebai My (29Y) boyfriend (26Y) made a baseless allegation of me cheating on him and broke up with me
We moved in together about 3 months ago and after having spent all of the time together these 3 months (we were working remote so we were always together), finally decided to move back home for a little while to take care of our finances. My workplace implemented return to office so I had to move to an alien city where I only know my ex boyfriend. Now my partner has met my ex a couple of times and he knows the bond we share, so we mutually agreed that I crash at his place for a couple of weeks until I am able to find my own place in the city.
My partner has always been a little insecure but his insecurities shot through the roof (not in regard to me living with my ex). He’d call me incessantly, would always demand that I be on a video call with him, constantly ask me questions about my whereabouts, to the point that I had to put my foot down and ask him for some space which he took very negatively.
Then one day, out of nowhere he calls me up, wakes me from my sleep, asks me to show him the room I am sleeping in, makes me turn on the lights and makes a vile accusation out of thin air that he senses that I’ve cheated on him. The next day he refuses to pick up my calls and claims that he’s seen me cheating with his own eyes (there has been no cheating) which is utter bullshit. Then he goes into this anxious paranoia state, drunk calling me a thousand times a day, calling me dirty names, cursing me and asking me to accept something I haven’t done.
Within 4 days of the breakup he’s completely lost it, so much so that I decide to fly down to his city to pacify him. My ex who’s my friend also supports me and since my partner has blocked me, he tries reaching out to him too in attempts for our reconciliation. The day I land, at the airport, I am still blocked.
I get a call from his number but it’s his brother talking, he’d been hospitalized due to a massive panic attack and he asked me to check in a hotel meanwhile this gets sorted.
Later in the night my partner calls me, his family by his bedside to show me that he’s in the hospital. He gets discharged and he calls me from his home again doubting me that I’ve been accommodating with someone in my hotel room (I’ve no friends in his city and he left me completely stranded). He video calls and asks me to show him the room and the bathroom then he says someone very vague like go back home, you’re acting weird.
The next day I get a call from his number (by this time I am hopeful he would atleast call me to the hospital or his place to see him) but instead it’s his brother requesting me to never contact him again because his mental condition is not good.
I booked my flights for the next day and went back home. I haven’t heard from him since then.
I am completely baffled as to why he’d make a baseless allegation on me without any proof and continue to believe in his conspiracy theories while also involving his family and friends in this whole drama.
Can someone please help me make sense of the situation? Thanks!
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My partner has always been a little insecure but his insecurities shot through the roof (not in regard to me living with my ex). He’d call me incessantly, would always demand that I be on a video call with him, constantly ask me questions about my whereabouts, to the point that I had to put my foot down and ask him for some space which he took very negatively.
Then one day, out of nowhere he calls me up, wakes me from my sleep, asks me to show him the room I am sleeping in, makes me turn on the lights and makes a vile accusation out of thin air that he senses that I’ve cheated on him. The next day he refuses to pick up my calls and claims that he’s seen me cheating with his own eyes (there has been no cheating) which is utter bullshit. Then he goes into this anxious paranoia state, drunk calling me a thousand times a day, calling me dirty names, cursing me and asking me to accept something I haven’t done.
Within 4 days of the breakup he’s completely lost it, so much so that I decide to fly down to his city to pacify him. My ex who’s my friend also supports me and since my partner has blocked me, he tries reaching out to him too in attempts for our reconciliation. The day I land, at the airport, I am still blocked.
I get a call from his number but it’s his brother talking, he’d been hospitalized due to a massive panic attack and he asked me to check in a hotel meanwhile this gets sorted.
Later in the night my partner calls me, his family by his bedside to show me that he’s in the hospital. He gets discharged and he calls me from his home again doubting me that I’ve been accommodating with someone in my hotel room (I’ve no friends in his city and he left me completely stranded). He video calls and asks me to show him the room and the bathroom then he says someone very vague like go back home, you’re acting weird.
The next day I get a call from his number (by this time I am hopeful he would atleast call me to the hospital or his place to see him) but instead it’s his brother requesting me to never contact him again because his mental condition is not good.
I booked my flights for the next day and went back home. I haven’t heard from him since then.
I am completely baffled as to why he’d make a baseless allegation on me without any proof and continue to believe in his conspiracy theories while also involving his family and friends in this whole drama.
Can someone please help me make sense of the situation? Thanks!
2024.05.17 10:46 SE_Ranking Starting an SEO agency: Hard-Won Secrets for Success
We recently spoke with Anthony Barone, Co-Founder & Managing Director of StudioHawk UK, about the challenges of launching and running an SEO agency. Anthony shared his journey from being an SEO outsider to becoming the Head of the UK Headquarters for an Australian digital SEO agency. Throughout our conversation, we explored the challenges, opportunities, and strategies of starting and running an SEO agency in a competitive market.
In this article, we will draw from Anthony’s direct personal experience to provide key tips for starting an SEO agency. We’ll also cover some major pitfalls to watch out for.
Key tips for starting an SEO business:
Starting an SEO agency goes beyond understanding SEO. It’s also about understanding the market, identifying competitors (and how you differ), and building partnerships. Anthony took these exact steps when launching his SEO agency in the UK. He believes everyone should apply them when setting up an SEO business.
Network to build a client base and partnerships
Start your SEO agency with networking. Become more active in the community and build relationships to find your first few clients. Join networking groups, attend business meetups and events, and start booking introductory calls with potential prospects.
Define your competitors
Research major players in your market, including competing agencies and potential partners.
Since the SEO field’s barrier to entry is pretty low, your chances of finding a mix of large agencies and smaller firms are high. Identify the ones you can emulate. Note their operations, capabilities, client portfolios, and how they position themselves.
You should also closely analyze the market you’re entering. When Anthony expanded his agency to the UK, he discovered one of the most competitive and knowledgeable markets, and the competition there wasn’t just limited to other agencies. The UK is home to many reputable brands and adept in-house teams. This means you need to know your stuff and prove your expertise. Anything less and you won’t have the opportunity to speak with or win the business of bigger companies.
Excelling in competitive landscapes like SEO necessitates brushing up on your field, your goal, and the value you bring, and devising a standout SEO strategy that resonates with your client’s business goals.
Differentiate your agency
StudioHawk initially set itself apart by skipping the traditional account manager middleman. The company instructed its SEO specialists to work directly with clients, providing expertise straight from the source.
There are also many other ways to stand out:
Map out your ideal client
Here is why StudioHawk made the strategic decision to focus on the small-to-medium enterprise (SME) market (when launching in the UK):
Hiring and training new talents
Build your agency’s SEO team with candidates who align with your company culture and match your core values. Don’t just focus on technical skills. SEO expertise is an important skill but can be taught without much friction. Training culturally incompatible employees to have the right mindset and attitude is much harder.
Be patient and discerning. Consider the candidate’s energy and soft skills during the SEO interview process. Integrating candidates into your team is easier if they mesh with your philosophy and vibe.
Developing clear frameworks
Provide hands-on training and set clear systems and frameworks for your team. People need to be told what to do, what their job is, how to do it, and why they are doing it. Lack of structure leads to inconsistency, low-value work, and misalignment with client expectations.
Craft clear job descriptions with set responsibilities, metrics, and each role’s expected outputs. Your overall order of operations can be as loose or hardline as desired, but create a guidebook, rules, and criteria around it. Resources like these help new hires understand their role and responsibilities.
Always stay on top of SEO
Clients value experts, so you must constantly grow by following new trends and updates, and learning from industry leaders.
Make ongoing education and collaboration part of your core values. Here is how Anthony’s team implemented this:
Share wins and lessons
Share knowledge internally. Learn from your colleagues through:
Adapt to search evolution
SEO is going to get harder. With EEAT, SGE, and algorithm updates, SEO professionals who want to make a bigger splash must work harder to improve their content and quality.
For example, SGE is already altering the SERP landscape. Its AI-powered responses include links to Quora and Reddit. This means you should consider socials as additional traffic channels. SGE snippets vary across industries, especially in ecommerce, indicating the need to create exceptional product descriptions and pages. Ads are also occupying more space.
A lot is going on. You must watch these shifts carefully while integrating your business into the overall marketing ecosystem.
Pitfalls to avoid when starting and running an SEO agency
You can always control your motivation and discipline. Your “why” for being in this business is also within your scope of influence.
Maybe your “why” revolves around creating the best agency out there. It could also be a less lofty goal, like designing a lifestyle business that helps you spend more time with your family. Whatever your core purpose is, identify it and reference it constantly.
Reconnect with your initial inspiration for starting your business. Then, focus on improving operations and steadily working towards your goals.
Put yourself in the client’s shoes. Try to understand why they parted ways with you. Was there a failure in communication or reporting? Did they fail to see the value? Did the client need more meetings to stay informed and involved?
Conduct NPS (Net Promoter Score) or feedback surveys regularly. This can help you consistently improve and understand what your clients did and didn’t like.
Wrapping up
Starting an SEO agency and running it successfully requires strategic planning, continuous learning, effective team management, and commitment to high-quality work. Thankfully, these are all aspects you can control. Focus on these elements to build a solid foundation for success.
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In this article, we will draw from Anthony’s direct personal experience to provide key tips for starting an SEO agency. We’ll also cover some major pitfalls to watch out for.
Key tips for starting an SEO business:
- Define your niche: Offering basic SEO services is no longer enough to stand out. Identify a niche to specialize in and target.
- Get out and network: Build your network by attending events and meetups, and engaging with communities. Exchange experiences and generate leads.
- Form strategic partnerships: Look for and collaborate with companies offering complementary services for mutually beneficial relationships.
- Deliver high-quality work: Set the bar high and raise it often to build your reputation.
- Keep learning: Continually expand your SEO expertise, learn from experts, and outpace changes and trends.
Starting an SEO agency goes beyond understanding SEO. It’s also about understanding the market, identifying competitors (and how you differ), and building partnerships. Anthony took these exact steps when launching his SEO agency in the UK. He believes everyone should apply them when setting up an SEO business.
Network to build a client base and partnerships
Start your SEO agency with networking. Become more active in the community and build relationships to find your first few clients. Join networking groups, attend business meetups and events, and start booking introductory calls with potential prospects.
Define your competitors
Research major players in your market, including competing agencies and potential partners.
Since the SEO field’s barrier to entry is pretty low, your chances of finding a mix of large agencies and smaller firms are high. Identify the ones you can emulate. Note their operations, capabilities, client portfolios, and how they position themselves.
You should also closely analyze the market you’re entering. When Anthony expanded his agency to the UK, he discovered one of the most competitive and knowledgeable markets, and the competition there wasn’t just limited to other agencies. The UK is home to many reputable brands and adept in-house teams. This means you need to know your stuff and prove your expertise. Anything less and you won’t have the opportunity to speak with or win the business of bigger companies.
Excelling in competitive landscapes like SEO necessitates brushing up on your field, your goal, and the value you bring, and devising a standout SEO strategy that resonates with your client’s business goals.
Differentiate your agency
StudioHawk initially set itself apart by skipping the traditional account manager middleman. The company instructed its SEO specialists to work directly with clients, providing expertise straight from the source.
There are also many other ways to stand out:
- Specialization: Don’t position yourself as a generalist agency. Focus instead on a specific niche like ecommerce SEO, local SEO, SaaS SEO, etc.
- Proprietary process: Develop a unique methodology for your campaigns that no other agency offers.
- Added value: Provide bundle packages for additional services like CRO, PPC, and web development. Some of your rivals may not provide this service.
Map out your ideal client
Here is why StudioHawk made the strategic decision to focus on the small-to-medium enterprise (SME) market (when launching in the UK):
- SMEs generally have smaller budgets: StudioHawk responded by offering competitive prices and lower overhead costs.
- Many SMEs suffer from poor experiences: This inspired Anthony’s team to create quality services in a field marred by low-quality SEO providers who use churn and burn tactics.
- Smaller businesses crave more personalized service: This calls for tighter client bonds.
Hiring and training new talents
Build your agency’s SEO team with candidates who align with your company culture and match your core values. Don’t just focus on technical skills. SEO expertise is an important skill but can be taught without much friction. Training culturally incompatible employees to have the right mindset and attitude is much harder.
Be patient and discerning. Consider the candidate’s energy and soft skills during the SEO interview process. Integrating candidates into your team is easier if they mesh with your philosophy and vibe.
Developing clear frameworks
Provide hands-on training and set clear systems and frameworks for your team. People need to be told what to do, what their job is, how to do it, and why they are doing it. Lack of structure leads to inconsistency, low-value work, and misalignment with client expectations.
Craft clear job descriptions with set responsibilities, metrics, and each role’s expected outputs. Your overall order of operations can be as loose or hardline as desired, but create a guidebook, rules, and criteria around it. Resources like these help new hires understand their role and responsibilities.
Always stay on top of SEO
Clients value experts, so you must constantly grow by following new trends and updates, and learning from industry leaders.
Make ongoing education and collaboration part of your core values. Here is how Anthony’s team implemented this:
- They attended industry-specific events and SEO conferences.
- They built relationships with respected thought leaders.
- They subscribed to newsletters and joined online communities.
Share wins and lessons
Share knowledge internally. Learn from your colleagues through:
- Campaign review sessions, where your SEO specialists can present their high-performing work and failures side by side. Pinpoint strategies leading either to success or poor results.
- Collaborative brainstorming, specifically on reporting enhancements, use of tools, client interaction, etc.
- Workshops on industry-specific insights, where the team discusses strategies for various niches.
Adapt to search evolution
SEO is going to get harder. With EEAT, SGE, and algorithm updates, SEO professionals who want to make a bigger splash must work harder to improve their content and quality.
For example, SGE is already altering the SERP landscape. Its AI-powered responses include links to Quora and Reddit. This means you should consider socials as additional traffic channels. SGE snippets vary across industries, especially in ecommerce, indicating the need to create exceptional product descriptions and pages. Ads are also occupying more space.
A lot is going on. You must watch these shifts carefully while integrating your business into the overall marketing ecosystem.
Pitfalls to avoid when starting and running an SEO agency
- Don’t focus on things outside your control
You can always control your motivation and discipline. Your “why” for being in this business is also within your scope of influence.
- Remember your ‘Why’
Maybe your “why” revolves around creating the best agency out there. It could also be a less lofty goal, like designing a lifestyle business that helps you spend more time with your family. Whatever your core purpose is, identify it and reference it constantly.
Reconnect with your initial inspiration for starting your business. Then, focus on improving operations and steadily working towards your goals.
- Don’t blame clients if they quit
Put yourself in the client’s shoes. Try to understand why they parted ways with you. Was there a failure in communication or reporting? Did they fail to see the value? Did the client need more meetings to stay informed and involved?
Conduct NPS (Net Promoter Score) or feedback surveys regularly. This can help you consistently improve and understand what your clients did and didn’t like.
- Know your numbers
Wrapping up
Starting an SEO agency and running it successfully requires strategic planning, continuous learning, effective team management, and commitment to high-quality work. Thankfully, these are all aspects you can control. Focus on these elements to build a solid foundation for success.
2024.05.17 10:35 insanefelinewoman Colony invader
Hi fellow feral caregivers! I have a dilemma that I was hoping someone could help me with. About two years ago three cats were abandoned in the alley behind my house. I noticed them in my yard regularly and I started feeding them. For the first year myself and two other neighbors fed them and made shelters for them. Some mysterious angel (none of us who were feeding them) trapped and TNRd them within three months of their arrival. Over time I have become their sole caregiver (that I know of) and they have been living full time in our backyard. I have multiple plastic shelters for them as well as an open catio that has inside space for them to live in. They were loving their space and we had progressed to petting and brushing, and while still skittish, they seem to trust me and my husband.
The problem I've encountered is that a new stray appeared a couple of months ago. He harasses my feral family and has made them scared to be in their safe space. I think I am going to have to TNR him (he's spraying all over our yard), but I don't think that my little bonded colony will want him in their home. Any advice for TNR (I have live traps but don't want to accidentally trap my ferals), or keeping him from bothering my cats. Thanks so much!
Also, as much as I'd like to, I can't bring them in. We already have three inside only cats and one is a bully who regularly tries to attack the outside cats through the door.
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The problem I've encountered is that a new stray appeared a couple of months ago. He harasses my feral family and has made them scared to be in their safe space. I think I am going to have to TNR him (he's spraying all over our yard), but I don't think that my little bonded colony will want him in their home. Any advice for TNR (I have live traps but don't want to accidentally trap my ferals), or keeping him from bothering my cats. Thanks so much!
Also, as much as I'd like to, I can't bring them in. We already have three inside only cats and one is a bully who regularly tries to attack the outside cats through the door.
2024.05.17 10:32 Thick-Stick-8722 Don't gas light me
Dear Jay Don't gas light me first off I know that way bf December you were with this woman in fact I know how long ago it started remember when I told you I had a feeling you were messing with some one else yeah last January when the letters slowed down when you forgot to make me a vday card when u didn't make or even buy me a bday card or maybe when I felt it yeah so instead of telling me u waited and got what you needed then you ghost me and you do it around the holidays my first Christmas home in a long time I spent alone u didn't call vday no word still from Dec 8 all the way untill hmm Feb I waited hoped you would call at first I was worried you were sick bc you claimed you were bf thanks giving then I was worried you got hurt no the prison told me there is no reason why he isn't communicating with you your friend gave me her number bc he had to deal with me and my pain and he couldn't stand it bc he seen it was not the hoe you said I was months so yeah I was upset he comforted me and that was it I fucked up yeah but you know what if you had not ghosted me it wouldn't have happened asatter of fact I know that you two set me up for failure yeah I'm human imagine that one disloyal act... When I got busted with your shit did I tell no did you bond me out send me commissary no you didn't you forgot me but when u got busted I had you didn't I in fact when on drugs I still held you down didn't I and yes I fucked up you wanna hold me accountable for one very bad act what about you tell me what you have done for me bf you throw dirt on me yes world I made a bad choice when pushed in a emotional spot. I can be accountable can you
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2024.05.17 10:18 Yurii_S_Kh Persecuted Ukrainian hierarchs are confessors of the Orthodox faith — Serbian hierarch’s open letter
 | https://preview.redd.it/g9jrbijb4y0d1.png?width=700&format=png&auto=webp&s=8bc9a699cea444ff40114f2fcc5aa501bb442f5a submitted by Yurii_S_Kh to SophiaWisdomOfGod [link] [comments] The suffering hierarchs, clergy, and people of the canonical Ukrainian Orthodox Church are new confessors for the Orthodox faith, fighting to preserve holy Orthodoxy against those who have “align[ed] themselves with dark forces from the depths of hell,” says a hierarch of the Serbian Orthodox Church. His Grace Bishop Gerasim of the Gornji Karlovac Diocese of the Serbian Orthodox Church in Croatia published an open letter in support of the UOC and its persecuted hierarchs on Wednesday, May 15. “The strength that the Risen Giver of Life provides us in these days is the power we invoke upon you, because today you, the Orthodox guardians of the faith, are suffering alongside the Lord and experiencing your Holy Friday every day, anticipating the Resurrection that brings life, peace, and freedom,” the hierarch writes. Read Bp. Gerasim’s open letter: Open Letter of Support to Our Suffering Brothers, Bishops, and the God-loving Faithful of the Ukrainian Orthodox Church Recalling the self-sacrificial love of Christ on Golgotha and joyfully celebrating the Resurrection of our Savior, by which death became life, hell turned into Paradise, fear into joy, horror into delight, and death transformed into eternal immortality, we cannot remain silent in the face of the suffering and persecution of His living Body, the Church in Ukraine. For if we believe we wish well, but remain silent in our good thoughts, then the evildoers raise their voices and, through their actions, persecute the righteous and those who love the truth! Our thoughts and kneeling prayers are directed to the Lord due to the suffering and blatant persecution of the Ukrainian Orthodox Church, where our Holy Church daily endures the blows from the persecutors of the true faith, from those who do not even hesitate to align themselves with dark forces from the depths of hell. Undoubtedly, we have imprisoned captives in Ukraine today, new confessors of the Orthodox faith, including the Most Reverend Metropolitans: Jonathan of Tulchin and Bratslav, Pavel of Vyshgorod and Abbot of the Kiev Caves Lavra, Luke of Zaporozhye and Melitopol, Theodosy of Cherkasy and Kanev, Arseny of Svyatogorsk, Longin of Bancheny, and many other bishops and clergymen together with their faithful and steadfast flock. All our aforementioned brothers suffer unjustly, in fabricated and utterly false judicial processes and accusations, imprisonments, physical assaults, deprivation of places of worship, and every other denial of basic human rights. Dear suffering brothers, you stand on the side of justice and truth, as in the times of terrible persecution and suffering in the mid-20th century, St. Sabbas (Trlajić), the holy martyr and Bishop of Gornji Karlovac, who spoke God-inspired words still relevant today: “True peace doesn’t rest on force, but on justice. Justice comes from goodwill, not from self-will... Without faith in God, there’s no mutual love. Without love, there’s no goodwill among people. Without goodwill, there’s no justice, and without justice, there can be no true and lasting peace on earth!” We call for justice and love and we pray to the Lord to enlighten the unreasonable persecutors of Christ and His flock, to grant peace to our Holy Church in the areas where you tirelessly serve God, to strengthen the entire fullness of the Church of Christ on His path, to fortify you and give you the strength to selflessly surrender to the Lord and persevere in your mission to preserve the faith and steadfastness in your ancestral homes. What they are doing to you today is the systematic eradication of Orthodoxy and the shameless persecution of Christ, Whom you bear witness to, confess, and love with all your heart, all your soul, and all your deeds! The strength that the Risen Giver of Life provides us in these days is the power we invoke upon you, because today you, the Orthodox guardians of the faith, are suffering alongside the Lord and experiencing your Holy Friday every day, anticipating the Resurrection that brings life, peace, and freedom. Continuously repeating the words of the Savior: If they have persecuted Me, they will also persecute you (Jn. 15:20), because of you who suffer for the sake of justice, your free speech, and brave confession of faith, remain firm and unwavering, for he that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved (Mt. 24:13). With a kneeling prayer that the Risen Lord may pour out His grace and love on the suffering brothers and sisters in Christ, we greet you with the greeting of joy and new life, CHRIST IS RISEN! BISHOP OF GORNJI KARLOVAC †GERASIM With the clergy and the God-loving faithful |
2024.05.17 10:06 Traditional-Berry-94 What do I choose, toxic family or ex husband?
toxicfamily
I’m near 40, and I grew up as you would say in a very different family structure I guess.Sure there was love, good memories etc, but there are some awful ones and not so nice ones.
I have had a hard life, I know we all have to some degree. I grew up in a household with two parents sure, but I also had an older brother and two disabled sisters. One blind and one with cerebral palsy, though she doesn’t seem to exhibit really much issues in her adulthood but she has been a cutter I guess since she was young, thinks she’s bi or something, has stolen before but lied and said she had something wrong with her brain so she would avoid trouble with police and had to care for our mom. She knew what she was doing. She even lies to try to get me in trouble or tried a few years back. Cutting herself and going to say I did it, which I told cops about when there was an argument during Covid.
I have a twin who’s blind, she’s good.
My mom she’s been bedridden. It’s not a life for her, but she lost the ability to drive when I was in high school. My dad and sister do her care. They don’t want to place her anywhere.
Anyway back to toxic stuff.
During Covid my family tried to use it as an excuse to prevent my ex husband from seeing his kids. They don’t have custody, I have full. We had a parenting plan in place we were following, and it led to an argument. My sister got pissed saying I can’t and gets in my business, or cuts me off always. She got angry and starts punching me in the arm on my right. She has a bad temper and threatens to hurt or kill herself a lot. Has even cut herself while my children were there. Not ever in front of them, but to me that doesn’t matter, but I still have an issue with it. I had told police this as well. My sister is the big issue I don’t want to go near or be around.
My dad has also shoved me because he’s gotten angry at me.
I’ve told my mom I WILL call the police and push charges because I was thinking of going back. I’m not there living though I’m on the lease.
My mom has in the past threatened to take me off the lease. Threatened to disown me once when I spent thanksgiving with my ex husband and his family one time when we were engaged in the past. She and my sister in law had changed my address once to his (exes), address once without permission once.
Once my ex and my dad got into an argument and they both got a bit physical but no one got hurt really. I went to get my children out of the apartment which my dad was refusing to let go to me.
I had scrambled and bought an rv so we lived in it for about a week before his mom let us go to her place. I always told my mom even though we get in arguments we all generally still love one another I guess. It’s better our bonds when I’m away, but I might need to go back to save to move.
I get stressed bad when I think about it. We also thought about moving the girls with us at his mom’s. We had them there a lot because they leave from school there. We are literally a few minutes away. Homes are close by.
I want my girls with me more and there less, but I’ve had more help there, than with his family. I’d have to pay sitters possibly and I can’t afford it. They’re also bigger kids, but I’m just stressed. I get threats now that they will throw my belongings away if I move us out permanently.
His mom’s is temporary. But I’m safe and feel safer there and out of drama.
I can’t use his moms as an address because they’re paying mortgage.
His mom’s household does have its own issues itself and most live in upstairs rooms. I only like my moms because they can run around and the space to do so.
They have roommates at his mom’s. And people work and my kids can get loud. I am getting SNAP, but what would you do in this situation?
Move us off the apartment lease in full? They would change schools if we go by his mom’s address.
No one knows about this stuff.
2024.05.17 09:37 lyssam229 Is this a good email to send to the DA and police department about the way I feel concerning the treatment of my SA case 6 years ago?
***** I am mainly sending this because I want my evidence back and because I’m pissed that the police department allowed this to happen with next to 0 consequences. Names and identifying info redacted. Let me know if I should change anything, I genuinely am thinking about sending this to whoever I can find emails for at my local PD.
To Whomever This May Concern,
My name is *. I am 21 years old and am a recent graduate of the University *. I have made the difficult decision to write this letter because I am truly disgusted and horrified by the manner in which ** County, the ***** Police Department, and the Child Advocacy Center of *****, NY handled my allegations of rape, sexual assault, and stalking that were filed in 2019. I have allowed myself to move on and grow from this atrocious act that has significantly impacted my life, but my development as a functional, healthy adult has been drastically hindered due to the treatment and negligent investigation into this case.
I would like to describe my story in order to fully convey my frustrations. When I was fifteen years old in late July of 2018, just after my freshman year of high school, I began babysitting the child of a thirty-six-year-old man who my family and I knew quite well and had considered a family friend since I can remember. The premise of the childcare was to assist this man with daily tasks regarding his three-year-old daughter. The man in question was unemployed, but had a difficult time caring for his autistic child alone due to his anger issues, as recognized by the Department of Social Services.
When I began working for this family, the man in question, ****** (*) was in the home at all times in which I was present in the home. The events that led up to the detrimental and life-changing abuse that I experienced are too difficult to describe in one email. To summarize, this man groomed me, sexually assaulted me, and raped me on several occasions in his home over the course of six months. ** sexually abused me in his home, at my home, and in a vehicle. He bragged to his close friends, and specifically, his neighbor ***** and friend ****** about the things he had done to me. These witnesses were willing to comply with any investigation at the time of these events, but were not ever asked to answer questions. In addition, this man isolated me from family and friends, threatened to murder my entire family, and stalked me for a year after I ceased contact with him, which included 5+ drives by my home daily, waiting outside of my place of employment, and cyberstalking. This man used hard drugs in front of me and forced me to participate in and witness several illegal acts. I cannot convey with strong enough language, the impact that these events had on me as a naïve and innocent teenager. He genuinely ruined my life and I deal with the effects every single day.
These events have seriously impacted my development into an adult, and hindered my growth on levels that the recipient of this email may not comprehend. During the end of my relationship with this individual, I had realized that this situation was extremely unsafe and had attempted to break contact. He threatened suicide as a punishment if I left him, so I agreed to meet with him at ******** high school in the mornings after I had gotten off the bus, as I was not yet old enough to drive myself. He forced me to remain in his vehicle from 8am until 9:30am during school hours for multiple days in a row. Several times during these meetings, in the parking lot of the school, he sexually abused me and at other times, drove at dangerous speeds with me in the vehicle on Route 8 in *******. School officials and police officers were well aware of these events after my whereabouts during several of these mornings had been discovered. This individual was then arrested on charges of endangering the welfare of a child but was released on bond the very next day. After much difficulty and explaining, I was granted with a temporary restraining order, which did not stop his advances. To this day, when I return to my hometown to visit family, I am afraid for my safety as I have to see this man in public at a gas station or at a local restaurant.
After a few months, in 2019, I had realized that I wanted to tell my story and that I wanted this man to be held accountable for what he had put me through. At just 16 years old, I went through a series of interviews held at the Child Advocacy Center in ***, NY, which only further traumatized me. A female officer involved with my case made me feel as if I had brought this onto myself due to the sympathy I felt for my abuser and the guilt that I felt about everything that had occurred. To clarify, I was a victim of abuse as a child and did not fully comprehend the extent of said abuse. The female officer was unwilling to recognize that I was a vulnerable, disadvantaged child who did not have the means to advocate for myself. Another male officer, Detective **** collected evidence from me, including an expensive necklace given to me by my abuser with, to my knowledge, a value of $3,000, as well as a letter from him where he confessed his love and relationship with me. He looked me in the eye and promised that I would receive justice. This officer never contacted me again after the interview. If nothing is going to be done about this rage-filled, aggressive, and dangerous pedophile, I would like the necklace and letter back that was entered into evidence in 2019.
I will never understand how a person can be subjected to such atrocious and vile acts, and nothing will be done about it. I am not a religious person, but I wake up every single morning praying that he has not found another victim to control and destroy. I pray for his family, especially his child, and I pray for those who have to encounter him. I pray for myself and my family, as my case has been dismissed and invalidated time and time again by the ***** police department. I pray that no other girl or woman has to experience the things I did, nor has to grow up so quickly the way I did. The treatment of this case taught me that I cannot rely on law enforcement, or on those who are supposed to protect me. I hope that my statements throughout this email encourages more thorough investigations into cases like mine. Women and girls need to be protected fiercely, strongly, and wholeheartedly. I was not provided with further resources to assist with my mental health during this time. The town I have grown up in and have always loved is forever tainted as the place where my life was ruined.
Today, as a strong, accomplished, and college-educated woman, I am extremely disappointed with the way my trauma and physical safety was dismissed by the ***** police department, ***** County as a whole, and the Child Advocacy Center of ******, NY. I will no longer be silenced by fear. I will say his name, as the guilt and shame I have experienced is not mine to bear. I am not looking for retribution, I am simply asking that you dedicate resources to believing victimized women and offering bare minimum, necessary support to women like me in the future.
Thank you for your time,
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To Whomever This May Concern,
My name is *. I am 21 years old and am a recent graduate of the University *. I have made the difficult decision to write this letter because I am truly disgusted and horrified by the manner in which ** County, the ***** Police Department, and the Child Advocacy Center of *****, NY handled my allegations of rape, sexual assault, and stalking that were filed in 2019. I have allowed myself to move on and grow from this atrocious act that has significantly impacted my life, but my development as a functional, healthy adult has been drastically hindered due to the treatment and negligent investigation into this case.
I would like to describe my story in order to fully convey my frustrations. When I was fifteen years old in late July of 2018, just after my freshman year of high school, I began babysitting the child of a thirty-six-year-old man who my family and I knew quite well and had considered a family friend since I can remember. The premise of the childcare was to assist this man with daily tasks regarding his three-year-old daughter. The man in question was unemployed, but had a difficult time caring for his autistic child alone due to his anger issues, as recognized by the Department of Social Services.
When I began working for this family, the man in question, ****** (*) was in the home at all times in which I was present in the home. The events that led up to the detrimental and life-changing abuse that I experienced are too difficult to describe in one email. To summarize, this man groomed me, sexually assaulted me, and raped me on several occasions in his home over the course of six months. ** sexually abused me in his home, at my home, and in a vehicle. He bragged to his close friends, and specifically, his neighbor ***** and friend ****** about the things he had done to me. These witnesses were willing to comply with any investigation at the time of these events, but were not ever asked to answer questions. In addition, this man isolated me from family and friends, threatened to murder my entire family, and stalked me for a year after I ceased contact with him, which included 5+ drives by my home daily, waiting outside of my place of employment, and cyberstalking. This man used hard drugs in front of me and forced me to participate in and witness several illegal acts. I cannot convey with strong enough language, the impact that these events had on me as a naïve and innocent teenager. He genuinely ruined my life and I deal with the effects every single day.
These events have seriously impacted my development into an adult, and hindered my growth on levels that the recipient of this email may not comprehend. During the end of my relationship with this individual, I had realized that this situation was extremely unsafe and had attempted to break contact. He threatened suicide as a punishment if I left him, so I agreed to meet with him at ******** high school in the mornings after I had gotten off the bus, as I was not yet old enough to drive myself. He forced me to remain in his vehicle from 8am until 9:30am during school hours for multiple days in a row. Several times during these meetings, in the parking lot of the school, he sexually abused me and at other times, drove at dangerous speeds with me in the vehicle on Route 8 in *******. School officials and police officers were well aware of these events after my whereabouts during several of these mornings had been discovered. This individual was then arrested on charges of endangering the welfare of a child but was released on bond the very next day. After much difficulty and explaining, I was granted with a temporary restraining order, which did not stop his advances. To this day, when I return to my hometown to visit family, I am afraid for my safety as I have to see this man in public at a gas station or at a local restaurant.
After a few months, in 2019, I had realized that I wanted to tell my story and that I wanted this man to be held accountable for what he had put me through. At just 16 years old, I went through a series of interviews held at the Child Advocacy Center in ***, NY, which only further traumatized me. A female officer involved with my case made me feel as if I had brought this onto myself due to the sympathy I felt for my abuser and the guilt that I felt about everything that had occurred. To clarify, I was a victim of abuse as a child and did not fully comprehend the extent of said abuse. The female officer was unwilling to recognize that I was a vulnerable, disadvantaged child who did not have the means to advocate for myself. Another male officer, Detective **** collected evidence from me, including an expensive necklace given to me by my abuser with, to my knowledge, a value of $3,000, as well as a letter from him where he confessed his love and relationship with me. He looked me in the eye and promised that I would receive justice. This officer never contacted me again after the interview. If nothing is going to be done about this rage-filled, aggressive, and dangerous pedophile, I would like the necklace and letter back that was entered into evidence in 2019.
I will never understand how a person can be subjected to such atrocious and vile acts, and nothing will be done about it. I am not a religious person, but I wake up every single morning praying that he has not found another victim to control and destroy. I pray for his family, especially his child, and I pray for those who have to encounter him. I pray for myself and my family, as my case has been dismissed and invalidated time and time again by the ***** police department. I pray that no other girl or woman has to experience the things I did, nor has to grow up so quickly the way I did. The treatment of this case taught me that I cannot rely on law enforcement, or on those who are supposed to protect me. I hope that my statements throughout this email encourages more thorough investigations into cases like mine. Women and girls need to be protected fiercely, strongly, and wholeheartedly. I was not provided with further resources to assist with my mental health during this time. The town I have grown up in and have always loved is forever tainted as the place where my life was ruined.
Today, as a strong, accomplished, and college-educated woman, I am extremely disappointed with the way my trauma and physical safety was dismissed by the ***** police department, ***** County as a whole, and the Child Advocacy Center of ******, NY. I will no longer be silenced by fear. I will say his name, as the guilt and shame I have experienced is not mine to bear. I am not looking for retribution, I am simply asking that you dedicate resources to believing victimized women and offering bare minimum, necessary support to women like me in the future.
Thank you for your time,
2024.05.17 09:27 Chahiye-Thoda-Pyaar Meri Aatmakatha
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I know this is wholesome sub but sunno mohalle walo meri aap biti 😂
I have been a good academically and a decent person. I met so many good women in my life, too, whom I dated casually and had a few serious relationships. Except for two times, I exited those serious relationships very early because I didn’t feel anything, so we parted ways on good terms. But do baar mujhe pyaar hua. I will tell you about them only.
I don’t know why all this happened. I don’t know what else I could have done so that they didn’t do that to me. Maybe I was not a good partner. There could be any other reasons. But I don’t hold any grudges against them. I wish wherever they are, they are happy.
These experiences were very important for me; they made me who I am today. I don't hold anything against anyone. These are just two instances. In my life, I have met so many amazing women and am friends with them too.
What’s next? I am kinda hopeful that I will find love. But Thik hai, nahi mila to mami Jo karegi Accha hi karegi. But whoever I have in my life, I will look for two qualities in them, no matter how they look or other things: loyalty and the ability to stand for what they believe in. If they leave, they should leave being brave and open about it. I don’t care about other things like distance, looks, status, or whatever else.
TL;DR: I've had a few serious relationships, but two major ones stood out. The first was with my childhood love who suddenly got married to someone else without any closure for me. The second was with someone who moved to North America for me, but she cheated on me with a mutual friend. After discovering this, I ended the relationship and had to move houses and delete social media to get away from her.
submitted by Chahiye-Thoda-Pyaar to indiasocial [link] [comments]
I know this is wholesome sub but sunno mohalle walo meri aap biti 😂
I have been a good academically and a decent person. I met so many good women in my life, too, whom I dated casually and had a few serious relationships. Except for two times, I exited those serious relationships very early because I didn’t feel anything, so we parted ways on good terms. But do baar mujhe pyaar hua. I will tell you about them only.
- This is my first love and someone I have known since my childhood. She was the daughter of a relative (I mean my bua’s relative, actually). She used to study at my school too. In high school, she chased me for a year, and finally, I gave in. We started dating; it was my first love, and I was happy. Kasme, waade, sapne bohot dekhe. I was a sort of grounded person; I live in the present and enjoy it thoroughly, but she was futuristic with lots of promises and future dreams. "I will have your kids, we will travel the world," blah blah. I did everything to keep her happy. I used to cook for her, I used to write poems for her, we used to go on dates often, and we traveled. But one fine day, I got an invitation to a wedding. Guess what? It was her wedding. I had so many questions: why, how, when? But I got no closure. I never asked for it. I went to the wedding because it was a family thing, and yeah, I never looked back (this was my longest relationship).
- After few years and meeting so many people, I fell in love again. To be honest, this time we fell for each other during the initial conversations. Again, there were dreams, sapne, waade. She moved to North America for me, and we moved together into a single house. By this time, I had become a pro at cooking, so I used to go to study, then the office, then back home to cook something delicious for us. I can cook any cuisine irrespective of the continent or country. Till now, I have learned many other skills like piano and guitar, so I used to sing for her, play for her, and we used to dance together. Everything was good; we had mutual friends, and we knew a guy mutually. That guy didn’t like me, and I didn’t like him. I did have a problem with things because my ex told me he does not like me. But I don’t own her; I don’t own anyone. Actually, anyone can do anything in their life.
I don’t know why all this happened. I don’t know what else I could have done so that they didn’t do that to me. Maybe I was not a good partner. There could be any other reasons. But I don’t hold any grudges against them. I wish wherever they are, they are happy.
These experiences were very important for me; they made me who I am today. I don't hold anything against anyone. These are just two instances. In my life, I have met so many amazing women and am friends with them too.
What’s next? I am kinda hopeful that I will find love. But Thik hai, nahi mila to mami Jo karegi Accha hi karegi. But whoever I have in my life, I will look for two qualities in them, no matter how they look or other things: loyalty and the ability to stand for what they believe in. If they leave, they should leave being brave and open about it. I don’t care about other things like distance, looks, status, or whatever else.
TL;DR: I've had a few serious relationships, but two major ones stood out. The first was with my childhood love who suddenly got married to someone else without any closure for me. The second was with someone who moved to North America for me, but she cheated on me with a mutual friend. After discovering this, I ended the relationship and had to move houses and delete social media to get away from her.
2024.05.17 09:23 Chahiye-Thoda-Pyaar My love life:)
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I know this sub is for Tinder or dating apps, and my life stories may not have a place here, but I have been following this sub for a long time. So, I wanted to share with you guys. I don’t think I was wrong, but let’s see your perspective too.
I have been a good academically and a decent person. I met so many good women in my life, too, whom I dated casually and had a few serious relationships. Except for two times, I exited those serious relationships very early because I didn’t feel anything, so we parted ways on good terms. But do baar mujhe pyaar hua. I will tell you about them only.
1.This is my first love and someone I have known since my childhood. She was the daughter of a relative (I mean my bua’s relative, actually). She used to study at my school too. In high school, she chased me for a year, and finally, I gave in. We started dating; it was my first love, and I was happy. Kasme, waade, sapne bohot dekhe. I was a sort of grounded person; I live in the present and enjoy it thoroughly, but she was futuristic with lots of promises and future dreams. "I will have your kids, we will travel the world," blah blah. I did everything to keep her happy. I used to cook for her, I used to write poems for her, we used to go on dates often, and we traveled. But one fine day, I got an invitation to a wedding. Guess what? It was her wedding. I had so many questions: why, how, when? But I got no closure. I never asked for it. I went to the wedding because it was a family thing, and yeah, I never looked back (this was my longest relationship).
2.After a few years and meeting so many people, I fell in love again. To be honest, this time we fell for each other during the initial conversations. Again, there were dreams, sapne, waade. She moved to North America for me, and we moved together into a single house. By this time, I had become a pro at cooking, so I used to go to study, then the office, then back home to cook something delicious for us. I can cook any cuisine irrespective of the continent or country. Till now, I have learned many other skills like piano and guitar, so I used to sing for her, play for her, and we used to dance together. Everything was good; we had mutual friends, and we knew a guy mutually. That guy didn’t like me, and I didn’t like him. I did have a problem with things because my ex told me he does not like me. But I don’t own her; I don’t own anyone. Actually, anyone can do anything in their life.
So, one fine day, I got a video message. It was them doing the deeds. I was shocked and broken and didn’t understand a thing. I tried to gather courage and be rational. She came back and was trying to talk to me. Then I told her I wanted to break up. She asked me why, and I said I was out of love. She started crying and begging, saying that she loves me. Then she started accusing me and some of my other female friends, implying something was going on. She said, "You used to love me and now want to throw me out. Where would I go? I came here from India for you," and all that stuff. I tried to control myself, but then I gave in and showed her the video. Then she was like, "I am sorry, I love you a lot. You are my life; I want to marry you. He made me drunk and took advantage of me. Please forgive me." At that point, I firmly decided this was it. I told her she could stay till she found accommodation, then I went to my friend's home and stayed there for a few days. But she kept pursuing me. I canceled the lease and changed my house; still, she did the same thing. During this whole ordeal, I had to change my house twice and delete my Instagram, and finally, now I am free.
I don’t know why all this happened. I don’t know what else I could have done so that they didn’t do that to me. Maybe I was not a good partner. There could be any other reasons. But I don’t hold any grudges against them. I wish wherever they are, they are happy.
These experiences were very important for me; they made me who I am today. I don't hold anything against anyone. These are just two instances. In my life, I have met so many amazing women and am friends with them too.
What’s next? I am kinda hopeful that I will find love. But Thik hai, nahi mila to mami Jo karegi Accha hi karegi. But whoever I have in my life, I will look for two qualities in them, no matter how they look or other things: loyalty and the ability to stand for what they believe in. If they leave, they should leave being brave and open about it. I don’t care about other things like distance, looks, status, or whatever else.
TL;DR: I've had a few serious relationships, but two major ones stood out. The first was with my childhood love who suddenly got married to someone else without any closure for me. The second was with someone who moved to North America for me, but she cheated on me with a mutual friend. After discovering this, I ended the relationship and had to move houses and delete social media to get away from her. These experiences were tough but important, shaping who I am today.
submitted by Chahiye-Thoda-Pyaar to Indiangirlsontinder [link] [comments]
I know this sub is for Tinder or dating apps, and my life stories may not have a place here, but I have been following this sub for a long time. So, I wanted to share with you guys. I don’t think I was wrong, but let’s see your perspective too.
I have been a good academically and a decent person. I met so many good women in my life, too, whom I dated casually and had a few serious relationships. Except for two times, I exited those serious relationships very early because I didn’t feel anything, so we parted ways on good terms. But do baar mujhe pyaar hua. I will tell you about them only.
1.This is my first love and someone I have known since my childhood. She was the daughter of a relative (I mean my bua’s relative, actually). She used to study at my school too. In high school, she chased me for a year, and finally, I gave in. We started dating; it was my first love, and I was happy. Kasme, waade, sapne bohot dekhe. I was a sort of grounded person; I live in the present and enjoy it thoroughly, but she was futuristic with lots of promises and future dreams. "I will have your kids, we will travel the world," blah blah. I did everything to keep her happy. I used to cook for her, I used to write poems for her, we used to go on dates often, and we traveled. But one fine day, I got an invitation to a wedding. Guess what? It was her wedding. I had so many questions: why, how, when? But I got no closure. I never asked for it. I went to the wedding because it was a family thing, and yeah, I never looked back (this was my longest relationship).
2.After a few years and meeting so many people, I fell in love again. To be honest, this time we fell for each other during the initial conversations. Again, there were dreams, sapne, waade. She moved to North America for me, and we moved together into a single house. By this time, I had become a pro at cooking, so I used to go to study, then the office, then back home to cook something delicious for us. I can cook any cuisine irrespective of the continent or country. Till now, I have learned many other skills like piano and guitar, so I used to sing for her, play for her, and we used to dance together. Everything was good; we had mutual friends, and we knew a guy mutually. That guy didn’t like me, and I didn’t like him. I did have a problem with things because my ex told me he does not like me. But I don’t own her; I don’t own anyone. Actually, anyone can do anything in their life.
So, one fine day, I got a video message. It was them doing the deeds. I was shocked and broken and didn’t understand a thing. I tried to gather courage and be rational. She came back and was trying to talk to me. Then I told her I wanted to break up. She asked me why, and I said I was out of love. She started crying and begging, saying that she loves me. Then she started accusing me and some of my other female friends, implying something was going on. She said, "You used to love me and now want to throw me out. Where would I go? I came here from India for you," and all that stuff. I tried to control myself, but then I gave in and showed her the video. Then she was like, "I am sorry, I love you a lot. You are my life; I want to marry you. He made me drunk and took advantage of me. Please forgive me." At that point, I firmly decided this was it. I told her she could stay till she found accommodation, then I went to my friend's home and stayed there for a few days. But she kept pursuing me. I canceled the lease and changed my house; still, she did the same thing. During this whole ordeal, I had to change my house twice and delete my Instagram, and finally, now I am free.
I don’t know why all this happened. I don’t know what else I could have done so that they didn’t do that to me. Maybe I was not a good partner. There could be any other reasons. But I don’t hold any grudges against them. I wish wherever they are, they are happy.
These experiences were very important for me; they made me who I am today. I don't hold anything against anyone. These are just two instances. In my life, I have met so many amazing women and am friends with them too.
What’s next? I am kinda hopeful that I will find love. But Thik hai, nahi mila to mami Jo karegi Accha hi karegi. But whoever I have in my life, I will look for two qualities in them, no matter how they look or other things: loyalty and the ability to stand for what they believe in. If they leave, they should leave being brave and open about it. I don’t care about other things like distance, looks, status, or whatever else.
TL;DR: I've had a few serious relationships, but two major ones stood out. The first was with my childhood love who suddenly got married to someone else without any closure for me. The second was with someone who moved to North America for me, but she cheated on me with a mutual friend. After discovering this, I ended the relationship and had to move houses and delete social media to get away from her. These experiences were tough but important, shaping who I am today.
2024.05.17 09:08 conciergebloom Step into a World of Wonder: The Enchanting Allure of a Children's Garden
In a world filled with digital distractions and virtual realities, there is something truly magical about reconnecting with nature and allowing children to explore the great outdoors. A children's garden is a sanctuary where young minds can embark on a journey of discovery, learning, and pure joy. From vibrant flowers and whimsical sculptures to interactive play areas and educational exhibits, these enchanting spaces offer a multitude of experiences that captivate the senses and ignite the imagination.
The Importance of Fostering a Love for Nature
As our world becomes increasingly urbanized, it is more crucial than ever to instill a deep appreciation for the natural world in our children. A children's garden provides the perfect environment to nurture this connection, fostering a sense of wonder and respect for the beauty and complexity of nature.
Encouraging Hands-on Learning and Exploration
Unlike traditional gardens, children's gardens are designed to be interactive and immersive. With hands-on exhibits, sensory gardens, and interactive play areas, these spaces encourage young visitors to touch, smell, and explore their surroundings. This tactile approach to learning not only engages their curiosity but also helps them develop a deeper understanding and appreciation for the natural world around them.
Promoting Environmental Stewardship
By exposing children to the wonders of nature at an early age, a children's garden can inspire a lifelong commitment to environmental stewardship. As they learn about the intricate web of life, the importance of biodiversity, and the impact of human activities on the planet, they are more likely to develop a sense of responsibility and a desire to protect and preserve our natural resources.
The Enchanting Elements of a Children's Garden
A well-designed children's garden is a captivating blend of whimsy, education, and natural beauty. From the moment they step through the gates, young visitors are transported into a world of wonder and endless possibilities.
Whimsical Sculptures and Imaginative Play Areas
One of the most enchanting aspects of a children's garden is the incorporation of whimsical sculptures and imaginative play areas. Larger-than-life animal topiaries, towering tree houses, and playful fountains all contribute to creating a sense of magic and adventure. These elements not only delight children but also inspire them to engage in imaginative play and storytelling, fostering creativity and social skills.
Educational Exhibits and Interactive Displays
Intertwined with the enchanting elements are educational exhibits and interactive displays that provide opportunities for hands-on learning. From butterfly houses and herb gardens to science stations and composting demonstrations, these features offer a fun and engaging way for children to learn about the natural world, sustainable living practices, and the interconnectedness of all living things.
The Benefits of a Children's Garden
Beyond the obvious enchantment and joy that a children's garden brings, these special spaces offer a multitude of benefits for children's physical, cognitive, and emotional development.
In an era where sedentary lifestyles and screen time dominate, a children's garden provides a safe and engaging environment for physical activity and outdoor play. From climbing structures and mazes to scavenger hunts and nature walks, these spaces encourage children to move, explore, and engage their bodies in a fun and natural way.
The sensory-rich environment of a children's garden stimulates cognitive development and creativity in numerous ways. The vibrant colors, textures, and scents engage the senses, while the interactive exhibits and play areas challenge problem-solving skills and encourage imaginative thinking. Additionally, the educational components of these gardens can foster a love for learning and a thirst for knowledge that extends far beyond the garden's boundaries.
Fostering Emotional Well-being and Connection
In a fast-paced world filled with stress and distractions, a children's garden offers a sanctuary for emotional well-being and connection. The peaceful surroundings and natural beauty provide a calming atmosphere, allowing children to decompress and find solace in the simple pleasures of nature. Furthermore, the shared experiences and opportunities for family bonding can strengthen emotional ties and create lasting memories.
While public children's gardens offer a magical experience, the joy of connecting with nature and fostering a love for the great outdoors can also be cultivated right in your own backyard.
Incorporating Whimsical and Interactive Elements
Even a small outdoor space can be transformed into an enchanting children's garden with the addition of whimsical and interactive elements. Consider incorporating colorful stepping stones, a miniature fairy garden, or a simple water feature to spark your child's imagination and encourage exploration.
Embracing Sustainable Gardening Practices
A children's garden at home can also serve as an opportunity to teach sustainable gardening practices. Involve your little ones in planting a vegetable or herb garden, composting, and learning about organic gardening techniques. Not only will this foster a connection with nature, but it will also instill valuable lessons about environmental responsibility and self-sufficiency.
Encouraging Family Involvement and Bonding
Creating a children's garden at home is a wonderful opportunity for family involvement and bonding. From planning and designing the space to planting, maintaining, and enjoying the garden together, this shared experience can create lasting memories and strengthen the connections between family members.
Conclusion
A children's garden is more than just a beautiful outdoor space – it's a portal to a world of wonder, exploration, and lifelong learning. By immersing young minds in the enchanting allure of nature, these magical gardens foster a deep appreciation for the natural world, promote environmental stewardship, and provide countless opportunities for physical, cognitive, and emotional development. Whether you visit a public children's garden or create one in your own backyard, the joy and magic that these spaces offer are truly priceless. So, step into this enchanting realm, and allow your child's imagination to soar as they embark on a journey of discovery, wonderment, and lasting memories.
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The Importance of Fostering a Love for Nature
As our world becomes increasingly urbanized, it is more crucial than ever to instill a deep appreciation for the natural world in our children. A children's garden provides the perfect environment to nurture this connection, fostering a sense of wonder and respect for the beauty and complexity of nature.
Encouraging Hands-on Learning and Exploration
Unlike traditional gardens, children's gardens are designed to be interactive and immersive. With hands-on exhibits, sensory gardens, and interactive play areas, these spaces encourage young visitors to touch, smell, and explore their surroundings. This tactile approach to learning not only engages their curiosity but also helps them develop a deeper understanding and appreciation for the natural world around them.
Promoting Environmental Stewardship
By exposing children to the wonders of nature at an early age, a children's garden can inspire a lifelong commitment to environmental stewardship. As they learn about the intricate web of life, the importance of biodiversity, and the impact of human activities on the planet, they are more likely to develop a sense of responsibility and a desire to protect and preserve our natural resources.
The Enchanting Elements of a Children's Garden
A well-designed children's garden is a captivating blend of whimsy, education, and natural beauty. From the moment they step through the gates, young visitors are transported into a world of wonder and endless possibilities.
Whimsical Sculptures and Imaginative Play Areas
One of the most enchanting aspects of a children's garden is the incorporation of whimsical sculptures and imaginative play areas. Larger-than-life animal topiaries, towering tree houses, and playful fountains all contribute to creating a sense of magic and adventure. These elements not only delight children but also inspire them to engage in imaginative play and storytelling, fostering creativity and social skills.
Educational Exhibits and Interactive Displays
Intertwined with the enchanting elements are educational exhibits and interactive displays that provide opportunities for hands-on learning. From butterfly houses and herb gardens to science stations and composting demonstrations, these features offer a fun and engaging way for children to learn about the natural world, sustainable living practices, and the interconnectedness of all living things.
The Benefits of a Children's Garden
Beyond the obvious enchantment and joy that a children's garden brings, these special spaces offer a multitude of benefits for children's physical, cognitive, and emotional development.
In an era where sedentary lifestyles and screen time dominate, a children's garden provides a safe and engaging environment for physical activity and outdoor play. From climbing structures and mazes to scavenger hunts and nature walks, these spaces encourage children to move, explore, and engage their bodies in a fun and natural way.
The sensory-rich environment of a children's garden stimulates cognitive development and creativity in numerous ways. The vibrant colors, textures, and scents engage the senses, while the interactive exhibits and play areas challenge problem-solving skills and encourage imaginative thinking. Additionally, the educational components of these gardens can foster a love for learning and a thirst for knowledge that extends far beyond the garden's boundaries.
Fostering Emotional Well-being and Connection
In a fast-paced world filled with stress and distractions, a children's garden offers a sanctuary for emotional well-being and connection. The peaceful surroundings and natural beauty provide a calming atmosphere, allowing children to decompress and find solace in the simple pleasures of nature. Furthermore, the shared experiences and opportunities for family bonding can strengthen emotional ties and create lasting memories.
While public children's gardens offer a magical experience, the joy of connecting with nature and fostering a love for the great outdoors can also be cultivated right in your own backyard.
Incorporating Whimsical and Interactive Elements
Even a small outdoor space can be transformed into an enchanting children's garden with the addition of whimsical and interactive elements. Consider incorporating colorful stepping stones, a miniature fairy garden, or a simple water feature to spark your child's imagination and encourage exploration.
Embracing Sustainable Gardening Practices
A children's garden at home can also serve as an opportunity to teach sustainable gardening practices. Involve your little ones in planting a vegetable or herb garden, composting, and learning about organic gardening techniques. Not only will this foster a connection with nature, but it will also instill valuable lessons about environmental responsibility and self-sufficiency.
Encouraging Family Involvement and Bonding
Creating a children's garden at home is a wonderful opportunity for family involvement and bonding. From planning and designing the space to planting, maintaining, and enjoying the garden together, this shared experience can create lasting memories and strengthen the connections between family members.
Conclusion
A children's garden is more than just a beautiful outdoor space – it's a portal to a world of wonder, exploration, and lifelong learning. By immersing young minds in the enchanting allure of nature, these magical gardens foster a deep appreciation for the natural world, promote environmental stewardship, and provide countless opportunities for physical, cognitive, and emotional development. Whether you visit a public children's garden or create one in your own backyard, the joy and magic that these spaces offer are truly priceless. So, step into this enchanting realm, and allow your child's imagination to soar as they embark on a journey of discovery, wonderment, and lasting memories.
2024.05.17 08:58 RedSiren2 Parent's Day is full of woe (fanscript/fanepisode) (spoilers) (part 2)
Note: Eugene has wings in this fanepisode as well, that's still a theory - as is his mom's suffering a marriage crisis in season 2, based on a disagreement they may have over Eugene having been allowed to put himself in danger by the end of season 1 (don't worry, this theory also involves that they never actually divorce and reconcile at some point - and that there was far more to this argument than he thought, but that's saved for next chapter ;) Enjoy this one first :)
Cut to Vincent looking at a mural Xavier painted. Latter stands next to him, tapping his foot a little.
Vincent: Very nice. Though a little derivative of early Frida Kahlo, don’t you think?
Xavier: Why are you here?
Vincent: I did tell you it’s parent day.
Xavier: You never show up for parent day. So … (has to fight to keep going) … so could we just get it over with?
Vincent: (looks at him, unfazed, but cool) Alright, let’s cut the formalities.
He steps towards Xavier and fetches three little envelopes from the front pocket of his jacket. Xavier opens them – it’s flyers for other private schools. He freezes again.
Vincent: (pointing to one) This one’s in northern China. A rather militaristic school, but excellent teachers. And of course, Eton. (he points to another) You like black clothing now, I've heard.
Xavier: (stares at the flyers)
Vincent: I’ve sent your grades to each of them. They’d be happy to take you. By tomorrow even.
Xavier: (looks at him, half angry)
Vincent: You’re breaking school rules like an idiot. That is bothersome, Exavier. Very much so.
Xavier: (looks down at the flyers again, huffing a bit)
Vincent: It’s up to you. I don’t need you to be educated in America. But your friends do, right? And … (he leans over, looking at the flyers) … these aren’t the only schools on the list. And a few of them have rather insufficient internet.
Xavier looks at him, glaring, but not saying anything. Vincent observes him, completely unfazed still.
Vincent: Would you like to find out how many friends you’d have left after a few months?
Xavier: (slightly huffs, still not saying anything)
Vincent: Have I made myself clear?
Xavier: (looks down, nodding)
Vincent: (smiles) Excellent. (he pats his shoulder and walks away, leaving him standing there and looking at the flyers in quiet anger)
Cut to Enid’s parents sitting about. Her mother seems a little gloomy. Enid reaches them, her father smiling at her.
Enid: Sorry I’m late, I talked to Ajax mom’s.
Esther: Hm.
Enid: (notices her look) I … I may spend spring break with them soon.
Esther: (looks at her disapprovingly)
Enid: (meeting her look bravely) They’d love to have me.
Esther: (after another moment of glaring) Aren’t you spending a little too much time with that boy?
Enid: (sighs) Why? He’s my boyfriend.
Esther: There are more important things.
Enid: (looking down) I spend enough time still with other people. You may have heard.
Esther: I have. (she puts down her food)
Enid: (sighing again) Mom listen – I know it’s school rules but … we’re not hurting anyone, the opposite even, and I-
Esther: I don’t care about school rules – nothing should be in the way of a wolf, dear. But your company…
Enid: (looks at her)
Esther: I talked to your wolf advisor. She said you’ve started to spend your wolfed out nights not with the other wolves, but – those other kids.
Enid: (chuckles bewildered) Other kids.
Esther: A fair bunch of weaklings, my dear. Runt of the litter, let’s be honest.
Enid: (stares at her)
Esther: And it’s nice that you care for them, but do that in your free time. (she leans forward) The full moon is for wolves. You need to bond with the pack.
Enid: I tried. They’re not for me.
Esther: (shakes her head a little at her) I don’t think you tried hard enough. Wolf nights aren’t times to be a chooser. Or difficult, Enid. You need to adjust to your position. Maybe that’s what you didn’t like.
Murray looks at his wife, uncomfortable.
Enid: I don’t like hierarchies, it’s true.
Esther: (sighs) Just when I thought we were getting somewhere.
Enid glares at her, then looks into the middle distance for a moment, then down – then starts chuckling.
Esther: What?
Enid: (smiles at her – then gets up and walks away – a few meters off, she turns) Wow. Sixteen years and you finally said something I can use.
They exchange a look, her mother’s face changing a little while Enid seems near tears. Her father sighs, looking down. Enid looks at her mother defiantly, then stomps away.
Cut to the pond. Pugsley is sitting around all alone, staring at the water. He goes to fetch something from his bag and pulls out a grenade. He pulls the pin and throws it, but before it can reach the water, someone flies in and kicks it to the side, where it explodes. Pugsley stares at Eugene, who raises an eyebrow at him.
Eugene: Now that’s not very nice.
Puglsey: Wasn’t supposed to be?
Eugene: (chuckles) So… what’s a kid who wouldn’t chose boarding school over home doing here?
Puglsey: (stares at him)
Eugene: (flies over and sits down next to him, looking at him attentively)
Pugsley: (shrugs) I wasn’t in the mood for my parent’s cheerfest for my sister today.
Eugene: Must be hard.
Pugsley: I can handle. One day I’ll show them all.
Eugene: (smiles a little at this, kinda getting it)
Pugsley: What about you?
Eugene: Me?
Pugsley: I may or may not have heard that your moms are about as insufferably loving as mine. So what brings?
Eugene: (sighs) I guess it’s that … I may have to check who of the two is more loving or something soon …
Pugsley: Rough.
Eugene: (shrugs) It’s fine. (quietly) We’re like other families, right?
Pugsley: (looks at him for a long moment)
They sit in silence for another one, then he fetches something from his bag. Cut to Eugene’s face – he flinches when he suddenly hears another grenade explosion nearby. He turns to Pugsley, who has thrown it.
Eugene: Dude! (holds his chest a little)
Pugsley: Explosions usually make me feel better.
Eugene: (stares at him – then bursts into giggles)
Pugsley: (smirks)
Eugene: You’re so like your sister.
Pugsley’s expression drops. He looks at him surprised - but not in a bad way.
Eugene: (shrugs) Little more fun maybe.
Pugsley stares at him with a little smile. Bewildered. Eugene wants to say something more, but in this moment, his mom calls him. He sighs, turning to them in the distance. Eugene sighs.
Eugene: Well, here goes. (he gets up)
Pugsley: Try not to fly into their faces.
Eugene: (chuckles, then walks down the dock) See ya, Pugs.
Pugsley: See ya… (he looks at him, furrowing his brows) ... what was it again?
Eugene: (smirks, walking backwards) My friends call me U. (he points fingerguns at him, then does a half a backflip into the air and flies over to his moms. As he does, the camera cuts to his face – he starts cringing at himself.)
Pugsley: (smiles, turns away again, staring back at the pond) U.
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Vincent: Very nice. Though a little derivative of early Frida Kahlo, don’t you think?
Xavier: Why are you here?
Vincent: I did tell you it’s parent day.
Xavier: You never show up for parent day. So … (has to fight to keep going) … so could we just get it over with?
Vincent: (looks at him, unfazed, but cool) Alright, let’s cut the formalities.
He steps towards Xavier and fetches three little envelopes from the front pocket of his jacket. Xavier opens them – it’s flyers for other private schools. He freezes again.
Vincent: (pointing to one) This one’s in northern China. A rather militaristic school, but excellent teachers. And of course, Eton. (he points to another) You like black clothing now, I've heard.
Xavier: (stares at the flyers)
Vincent: I’ve sent your grades to each of them. They’d be happy to take you. By tomorrow even.
Xavier: (looks at him, half angry)
Vincent: You’re breaking school rules like an idiot. That is bothersome, Exavier. Very much so.
Xavier: (looks down at the flyers again, huffing a bit)
Vincent: It’s up to you. I don’t need you to be educated in America. But your friends do, right? And … (he leans over, looking at the flyers) … these aren’t the only schools on the list. And a few of them have rather insufficient internet.
Xavier looks at him, glaring, but not saying anything. Vincent observes him, completely unfazed still.
Vincent: Would you like to find out how many friends you’d have left after a few months?
Xavier: (slightly huffs, still not saying anything)
Vincent: Have I made myself clear?
Xavier: (looks down, nodding)
Vincent: (smiles) Excellent. (he pats his shoulder and walks away, leaving him standing there and looking at the flyers in quiet anger)
Cut to Enid’s parents sitting about. Her mother seems a little gloomy. Enid reaches them, her father smiling at her.
Enid: Sorry I’m late, I talked to Ajax mom’s.
Esther: Hm.
Enid: (notices her look) I … I may spend spring break with them soon.
Esther: (looks at her disapprovingly)
Enid: (meeting her look bravely) They’d love to have me.
Esther: (after another moment of glaring) Aren’t you spending a little too much time with that boy?
Enid: (sighs) Why? He’s my boyfriend.
Esther: There are more important things.
Enid: (looking down) I spend enough time still with other people. You may have heard.
Esther: I have. (she puts down her food)
Enid: (sighing again) Mom listen – I know it’s school rules but … we’re not hurting anyone, the opposite even, and I-
Esther: I don’t care about school rules – nothing should be in the way of a wolf, dear. But your company…
Enid: (looks at her)
Esther: I talked to your wolf advisor. She said you’ve started to spend your wolfed out nights not with the other wolves, but – those other kids.
Enid: (chuckles bewildered) Other kids.
Esther: A fair bunch of weaklings, my dear. Runt of the litter, let’s be honest.
Enid: (stares at her)
Esther: And it’s nice that you care for them, but do that in your free time. (she leans forward) The full moon is for wolves. You need to bond with the pack.
Enid: I tried. They’re not for me.
Esther: (shakes her head a little at her) I don’t think you tried hard enough. Wolf nights aren’t times to be a chooser. Or difficult, Enid. You need to adjust to your position. Maybe that’s what you didn’t like.
Murray looks at his wife, uncomfortable.
Enid: I don’t like hierarchies, it’s true.
Esther: (sighs) Just when I thought we were getting somewhere.
Enid glares at her, then looks into the middle distance for a moment, then down – then starts chuckling.
Esther: What?
Enid: (smiles at her – then gets up and walks away – a few meters off, she turns) Wow. Sixteen years and you finally said something I can use.
They exchange a look, her mother’s face changing a little while Enid seems near tears. Her father sighs, looking down. Enid looks at her mother defiantly, then stomps away.
Cut to the pond. Pugsley is sitting around all alone, staring at the water. He goes to fetch something from his bag and pulls out a grenade. He pulls the pin and throws it, but before it can reach the water, someone flies in and kicks it to the side, where it explodes. Pugsley stares at Eugene, who raises an eyebrow at him.
Eugene: Now that’s not very nice.
Puglsey: Wasn’t supposed to be?
Eugene: (chuckles) So… what’s a kid who wouldn’t chose boarding school over home doing here?
Puglsey: (stares at him)
Eugene: (flies over and sits down next to him, looking at him attentively)
Pugsley: (shrugs) I wasn’t in the mood for my parent’s cheerfest for my sister today.
Eugene: Must be hard.
Pugsley: I can handle. One day I’ll show them all.
Eugene: (smiles a little at this, kinda getting it)
Pugsley: What about you?
Eugene: Me?
Pugsley: I may or may not have heard that your moms are about as insufferably loving as mine. So what brings?
Eugene: (sighs) I guess it’s that … I may have to check who of the two is more loving or something soon …
Pugsley: Rough.
Eugene: (shrugs) It’s fine. (quietly) We’re like other families, right?
Pugsley: (looks at him for a long moment)
They sit in silence for another one, then he fetches something from his bag. Cut to Eugene’s face – he flinches when he suddenly hears another grenade explosion nearby. He turns to Pugsley, who has thrown it.
Eugene: Dude! (holds his chest a little)
Pugsley: Explosions usually make me feel better.
Eugene: (stares at him – then bursts into giggles)
Pugsley: (smirks)
Eugene: You’re so like your sister.
Pugsley’s expression drops. He looks at him surprised - but not in a bad way.
Eugene: (shrugs) Little more fun maybe.
Pugsley stares at him with a little smile. Bewildered. Eugene wants to say something more, but in this moment, his mom calls him. He sighs, turning to them in the distance. Eugene sighs.
Eugene: Well, here goes. (he gets up)
Pugsley: Try not to fly into their faces.
Eugene: (chuckles, then walks down the dock) See ya, Pugs.
Pugsley: See ya… (he looks at him, furrowing his brows) ... what was it again?
Eugene: (smirks, walking backwards) My friends call me U. (he points fingerguns at him, then does a half a backflip into the air and flies over to his moms. As he does, the camera cuts to his face – he starts cringing at himself.)
Pugsley: (smiles, turns away again, staring back at the pond) U.
2024.05.17 08:27 XGramatik Pepperstone: Trader Insights - A buyers strike results in a bleed lower in equity
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54% of S&P500 stocks closed higher, with all sectors, bar consumer staples, closing in the red, where we see consumer discretionary as the weak link - led lower by Amazon which looks to test the $180 level in the near term. https://preview.redd.it/ii6fu1ebkx0d1.png?width=513&format=png&auto=webp&s=7d980cb40e785643f862a063305a3517aaf38da1 The Dow did breach the 40k level to modest fanfare, but couldn’t hold the figure, closing -0.1% at 39,869. Disappointing price action for those who bought into the move after US CPI and saw the risk for a continued push and hold above the big figure. US data came in thick and fast, but was mostly tier 2 in nature, with housing starts, building permits, and industrial production out, amid a handful of Fed speakers which offered little to worry traders. There was a focus on US weekly jobless claims which fell to 222k (from 231k last week), with some saying this was impacted by school spring break. Either way, we’ve seen bond traders reengage with short positions, where, notably, we’ve seen the 2-year Treasury push 7bp higher to 4.79%, and a degree of rate cuts being priced out by December. The impact of higher rates and bond yields has curbed the move lower in the USD, and the DXY sits up 0.2%, although the percentage changes in G10 FX have been subdued. EURUSD did try and kick after the run into 1.0886 post-US CPI, but despite pushing to 1.0895 in Asia trade yesterday, has followed US equity lower with price now at 1.0868. AUDUSD has been well traded, with good two-way flows post-Aussie employment, and we see clear indecision in the price action. AUD bulls have not given up despite the rates market removing its skew towards hikes later this year, and we now see cuts expressed for the November and December meetings. AUDCHF longs continue to work, and the bull trend remains intact – I like this further higher, as I do AUDJPY, which has seen solid demand into 103 and could push through 104 in the near term. USDJPY also saw big demand in the move into 154, and should we see price break above 155.54 today, I would be jumping on for 156+. In commodity markets, gold has struggled to push into $2400 and has been impacted by the moves in US yields and USD flows – price sits at $2376, so we’ve seen no real liquidation of longs, but the bulls have simply failed to see a new catalyst. Crude sits +0.8%, and copper -1%. Asia equity looks set for a soggy start, with the NKY225 eyed to open -1%, and the ASX200 -0.5%, so those positioned in the AUS200 index for the all-time high of 7910 (set on 2 April) to be tested, may have to wait until next week. The focus will be on whether the buyer’s step and support opening weakness, or whether we see a similar move as EU/US equities, where the buyers stay clear and the market grinds lower through the day. https://preview.redd.it/78vxeldgkx0d1.png?width=602&format=png&auto=webp&s=6fc976f1f4ded7edf85e3efbe8dee6d828b3819e The HK50 is the outlier here, and futures suggest the HK cash market opens 1.1% higher – after signs were growing of a retracement after the strong rally that started on 19 April, with talk of international money managers witching back towards US equity, it’s clear that isn’t the case and the HK50 looks strong as any play and is the momentum powerhouse – 20k is the near-term target, with Alibaba and Tencent on a tear and the banks and developers also supporting. https://preview.redd.it/dlx9l43jkx0d1.png?width=602&format=png&auto=webp&s=998370e0e34f0617fb2fa8549cdcde1386b7f7ce China data will be closely watched and could impact the tape in the HK50 and mainland CSI300 markets – the monthly data deluge of new and used home prices, industrial production, retail sale and fixed asset investment is in focus – as is property investment data. Elsewhere the event risk is on the light side, with EU CPI (due 19:00 AEST) although this is a revision, and economists aren’t expecting a change from the current run rate of 2.4% on headline and 2.7% on core CPI. The US leading index shouldn’t move markets. Best UK retail CFD Broker - Pepperstone. Use this link with the built-in REDDIT promo code. Switch to Pepperstone - it may be the best trade you'll ever make |
2024.05.17 08:20 whatwoti My fiancé (17M) has kept me (17F) away from our triplet newborn babies.
(My fiancé and I have been together for almost 2 years.)
I had my planned c-section birth to my triplet boys on Mother’s Day. I was unconscious during the procedure AND for 3 days after because of a mini coma. I lost a lot of blood and it was hard on my body. I was in the ICU and I didn’t get to see my fiancé or babies until day 4. My fiancé was raising our sons alone for those 3 days in the postpartum room. (We don’t have family or friends.)
I did wake up feeling good on day 4. We were all discharged and got back to our apartment. My body feels good enough to be able to step up to my role as a mom. The only problem is that I haven’t gotten to hold 2 of my triplets yet, and it’s almost day 6. My fiance has left me out of random things like carrying all 3 of them out of the hospital alone, making me run into the store while he stays in the car with them, automatically assuming I won’t breastfeed them, going into the nursery when I’m busy. (He’s not excluding me because he’s worried about my health.)
I talked to him about these things that make me feel excluded. We argued, cried, and talked all today about this. He finally admitted that he feels “possessive” over our kids because he’s been their only caregiver for days. He says he has resentment towards me but knows he shouldn’t. I’ve cried apologies to him multiple times today. We both know I couldn't control the fact that I was sent to the ICU for days in a coma. We both wish our birth experience was different. I feel bad that he had to see our babies take their first breaths alone, as well as raise them for 3 days by himself in a hospital room. But I’m back home now and I’ve only interacted with my first born for 30 minutes, while I haven’t seen my other 2. It makes me cry just thinking about the fact that my other two sons don’t know I exist, and quite frankly, neither do I since I haven’t even touched their skin or seen their eyes open.
When I was in the bathroom this morning, he changed their diapers. (I was only brushing my teeth for a few minutes, I had no idea that he went into the nursery.) When I was on the phone earlier with my therapist, he fed the babies with formula. (Never asked if I wanted to breastfeed them.) I’m in our bedroom doing online school homework right now (it’s nighttime) but he’s in the nursery. I can't just storm into the nursery and pick up our babies, he fixes their needs when I’m busy (without my knowledge or asking for my help) and when my tasks are over, the babies are fast asleep.
And of course I think about how he’s put me through a lot of verbal abuse and minor physical abuse during my pregnancy. I know he’s more good than bad, and he’s someone who is great and dedicated to changing for the better whenever he has to. He’s apologetic and empathetic to this situation. But I have gone through a lot for these babies, by enduring abuse and almost death from the c-section. and the fact that he’s the only parent they know, cuts me deeply. (Also our relationship isn’t abusive to the point of me feeling scared. He’s 5’2, like me, and weighs less than me. I would defend myself if I had to, and I wouldn’t have stayed if I thought he would be abusive to our sons.
He's promised me that tomorrow I'll bond and help out with our babies. But if something bad happens tomorrow with his insecurities and possessiveness over sharing parenthood with me, I want to know how to react. Advice please?!
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I had my planned c-section birth to my triplet boys on Mother’s Day. I was unconscious during the procedure AND for 3 days after because of a mini coma. I lost a lot of blood and it was hard on my body. I was in the ICU and I didn’t get to see my fiancé or babies until day 4. My fiancé was raising our sons alone for those 3 days in the postpartum room. (We don’t have family or friends.)
I did wake up feeling good on day 4. We were all discharged and got back to our apartment. My body feels good enough to be able to step up to my role as a mom. The only problem is that I haven’t gotten to hold 2 of my triplets yet, and it’s almost day 6. My fiance has left me out of random things like carrying all 3 of them out of the hospital alone, making me run into the store while he stays in the car with them, automatically assuming I won’t breastfeed them, going into the nursery when I’m busy. (He’s not excluding me because he’s worried about my health.)
I talked to him about these things that make me feel excluded. We argued, cried, and talked all today about this. He finally admitted that he feels “possessive” over our kids because he’s been their only caregiver for days. He says he has resentment towards me but knows he shouldn’t. I’ve cried apologies to him multiple times today. We both know I couldn't control the fact that I was sent to the ICU for days in a coma. We both wish our birth experience was different. I feel bad that he had to see our babies take their first breaths alone, as well as raise them for 3 days by himself in a hospital room. But I’m back home now and I’ve only interacted with my first born for 30 minutes, while I haven’t seen my other 2. It makes me cry just thinking about the fact that my other two sons don’t know I exist, and quite frankly, neither do I since I haven’t even touched their skin or seen their eyes open.
When I was in the bathroom this morning, he changed their diapers. (I was only brushing my teeth for a few minutes, I had no idea that he went into the nursery.) When I was on the phone earlier with my therapist, he fed the babies with formula. (Never asked if I wanted to breastfeed them.) I’m in our bedroom doing online school homework right now (it’s nighttime) but he’s in the nursery. I can't just storm into the nursery and pick up our babies, he fixes their needs when I’m busy (without my knowledge or asking for my help) and when my tasks are over, the babies are fast asleep.
And of course I think about how he’s put me through a lot of verbal abuse and minor physical abuse during my pregnancy. I know he’s more good than bad, and he’s someone who is great and dedicated to changing for the better whenever he has to. He’s apologetic and empathetic to this situation. But I have gone through a lot for these babies, by enduring abuse and almost death from the c-section. and the fact that he’s the only parent they know, cuts me deeply. (Also our relationship isn’t abusive to the point of me feeling scared. He’s 5’2, like me, and weighs less than me. I would defend myself if I had to, and I wouldn’t have stayed if I thought he would be abusive to our sons.
He's promised me that tomorrow I'll bond and help out with our babies. But if something bad happens tomorrow with his insecurities and possessiveness over sharing parenthood with me, I want to know how to react. Advice please?!
2024.05.17 08:18 CopyCaution Unexpected newborn kinship foster placement - looking for advice.
Hi, My wife and I are taking in a newborn in a couple days. He was born addicted to methamphetamine and various opiates. He is currently in the NICU with withdrawal symptoms, and he was put on a feeding tube today. I don't know all the of details yet, or which kind of tube.
He's a close family friend's grandson. They don't have any family who are able to care for him.
The caseworker said that this will most likely be a permanent placement. She asked us, "Can you commit to 18 years?". We said yes.
We also have a 1.5 year old daughter, and my wife works full time. I stay home with our daughter. So it will be me here with the newborn and toddler most of the time.
I do feel confident that we can handle this. We've both always been great with babies and kids, we both handle stress well and can stay calm under pressure, and our daughter is overall a kind, calm, and patient kid as far as toddlers go. She's also already been around newborns - I occasionally babysit our 2 month old nephew overnight, and have been since he was 2 weeks old. So it won't be her very first time hearing a newborn baby cry, or seeing me with another baby.
However, I don't have experience with babies who were born addicted to substances. This is the part that is making me anxious. Based on what I've read, it won't be easy, and it will be heartbreaking to see him to through this.
This is very new to us, but we want to do the best for him. We also want to make sure that our daughter doesn't feel left out now that we'll be busy with the newborn, since we didn't have the time to prepare her for a new baby.
Our plan is to keep her routine the same as much as we can, and make sure we both have some one on one time with her each day, while still having time for us to bond with the baby.
I'm sorry this is such a a long and rambling post. Any advice, information on what to expect, tips, or general support would be greatly appreciated.
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He's a close family friend's grandson. They don't have any family who are able to care for him.
The caseworker said that this will most likely be a permanent placement. She asked us, "Can you commit to 18 years?". We said yes.
We also have a 1.5 year old daughter, and my wife works full time. I stay home with our daughter. So it will be me here with the newborn and toddler most of the time.
I do feel confident that we can handle this. We've both always been great with babies and kids, we both handle stress well and can stay calm under pressure, and our daughter is overall a kind, calm, and patient kid as far as toddlers go. She's also already been around newborns - I occasionally babysit our 2 month old nephew overnight, and have been since he was 2 weeks old. So it won't be her very first time hearing a newborn baby cry, or seeing me with another baby.
However, I don't have experience with babies who were born addicted to substances. This is the part that is making me anxious. Based on what I've read, it won't be easy, and it will be heartbreaking to see him to through this.
This is very new to us, but we want to do the best for him. We also want to make sure that our daughter doesn't feel left out now that we'll be busy with the newborn, since we didn't have the time to prepare her for a new baby.
Our plan is to keep her routine the same as much as we can, and make sure we both have some one on one time with her each day, while still having time for us to bond with the baby.
I'm sorry this is such a a long and rambling post. Any advice, information on what to expect, tips, or general support would be greatly appreciated.
2024.05.17 08:11 Sweet-Count2557 Best Things to Do in Salamanca Ny
 | Best Things to Do in Salamanca Ny Attention, fellow adventurers!We've discovered the ultimate guide to the best things to do in Salamanca, NY. Brace yourselves for an unforgettable journey through this charming city nestled in Western New York.From outdoor thrills in Allegany State Park to cultural wonders at the Seneca Allegany Casino and Seneca-Iroquois National Museum, prepare to be amazed.Nature lovers, rejoice! 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From vintage jewelry and clothing to antique furniture and collectibles, there's something for everyone's taste and budget.Whether you're searching for a unique gift or a special memento of your visit to Salamanca, this antique mall is the perfect place to find it.Explore the shelves, browse through the displays, and let your curiosity guide you to uncovering those hidden treasures. With its wide selection and welcoming atmosphere, Salamanca Mall Antiques truly is a souvenir shopping haven.Try Your Luck at Seneca Allegany CasinoThe Seneca Allegany Casino offers a wide array of gaming options for those looking to try their luck. Here's what you can expect when you step foot into this vibrant casino:Slot Machines: Get ready for an adrenaline rush as you explore the almost 2,000 new and fascinating slot machines. Whether you prefer classic games or the latest video slots, there's something for everyone here. 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After all, you never know when fortune may smile upon you.And if you're ready to immerse yourself in Seneca-Iroquois culture, the next stop on your Salamanca adventure is the Seneca Iroquois National Museum.Immerse Yourself in Seneca-Iroquois Culture at the National MuseumWe can explore the rich history and traditions of the Seneca-Iroquois people at the National Museum. This museum is dedicated to the preservation and promotion of the history and culture of the Seneca and Iroquois people. It showcases traditional crafts, art, and artifacts, providing an educational and eye-opening experience.To give you a glimpse of what you can expect at the National Museum, here is a table highlighting some of the exhibits and programs:Exhibit/ProgramDescriptionTraditional CraftsExplore the intricate craftsmanship of the Seneca-Iroquois people, including beadwork and pottery.Art and ArtifactsMarvel at the collection of paintings, sculptures, and historical artifacts that tell the story of the Seneca-Iroquois people.Educational WorkshopsEngage in hands-on activities and workshops that teach traditional skills and customs.Immersing yourself in the Seneca-Iroquois culture at the National Museum is a truly enlightening experience. You'll gain a deeper understanding of their history, language, music, drama, literature, arts expressions, and traditional customs. The museum's extensive collection of historical and cultural items provides a fascinating insight into the rich heritage of the Seneca and Iroquois people.As we exit the National Museum, we can transition into finding serenity at Our Lady of Peace Catholic Church, where we can explore the stunning architecture and attend Sunday mass for a moment of solemnity.Find Serenity at Our Lady of Peace Catholic ChurchAs we continue our exploration of the best things to do in Salamanca NY, let's now find serenity at Our Lady of Peace Catholic Church.This beautiful church isn't only a place of worship but also a testament to architectural beauty and design. Inside, you'll be captivated by the stunning paintings and designs that adorn the walls, while outside, the church's architecture stands as a testament to the faith and dedication of the community.Led by Reverend Patrick Melfi, attending Sunday mass at Our Lady of Peace Catholic Church is an opportunity to find solace and peace in a serene and sacred space.Architectural Beauty and DesignLocated in Salamanca, NY, Our Lady of Peace Catholic Church offers visitors the opportunity to find serenity amidst its beautiful architectural beauty and design. Step inside this stunning church and be captivated by its exquisite paintings and intricate designs.As you explore the interior, you'll be greeted by the serene atmosphere that permeates the space. The church's architectural details, from the soaring ceilings to the ornate stained glass windows, create a sense of awe and wonder.Outside, the church's facade is equally impressive, with its impressive stonework and intricate carvings. Whether you're a devout Catholic or simply appreciate the beauty of religious architecture, a visit to Our Lady of Peace Catholic Church is sure to leave you feeling inspired and uplifted.Reverend Patrick Melfi's LeadershipLet's experience the leadership of Reverend Patrick Melfi at Our Lady of Peace Catholic Church and find serenity in its beautiful surroundings. Reverend Patrick Melfi, the head of the church, provides guidance and inspiration to the parishioners. His leadership fosters a sense of community and spiritual growth within the church. The church building itself is a sight to behold, featuring stunning paintings and designs that create a serene atmosphere. As you attend Sunday mass, you can immerse yourself in a moment of solemnity and reflection. The architecture of the church is also worth exploring, with its intricate details and peaceful ambiance. Reverend Patrick Melfi's leadership at Our Lady of Peace Catholic Church offers a place of tranquility and a chance to connect with your spirituality.Reverend Patrick Melfi's LeadershipFosters a sense of community and spiritual growthStunning paintings and designs in the church buildingSunday mass for a moment of solemnityExperience Horseback Riding at The CrosspatchWe can experience horseback riding at The Crosspatch, a working horse ranch nestled in the Allegheny Mountains. Here, we can immerse ourselves in the freedom and beauty of horseback riding, surrounded by stunning views and nature's serenity.The Crosspatch offers a range of activities and services that cater to our desire for adventure and exploration:Trail rides: We can embark on guided trail rides through the picturesque mountains, winding through lush forests and open meadows. As we ride, we can feel the gentle sway of the horse beneath us, connecting with nature in a unique and exhilarating way.Horsemanship Camp: For those who want to deepen their understanding of horses and improve their riding skills, The Crosspatch offers Horsemanship Camp. Through hands-on instruction and interactive activities, we can learn about horse care, grooming, and riding techniques. This immersive experience allows us to forge a deeper bond with these majestic animals.Wagon and carriage rides: If we prefer a more leisurely pace, we can opt for wagon or carriage rides. These charming and nostalgic experiences take us back in time as we leisurely explore the scenic surroundings. It's a perfect way to relax and enjoy the beauty of the Allegheny Mountains.At The Crosspatch, we can escape the confines of everyday life and embrace the freedom of horseback riding. Whether we're beginners seeking a new adventure or experienced riders looking to connect with nature, this working horse ranch offers an unforgettable experience. So saddle up, breathe in the fresh mountain air, and let the rhythm of hoofbeats carry us away on a journey of freedom and discovery.Frequently Asked QuestionsWhat Is the History Behind the Establishment of Allegany State Park?The history behind the establishment of Allegany State Park is fascinating. On July 30, 1921, the park was created on a vast 64,800-acre forest landscape. It's operated by the New York State Office of Parks, Recreation, and Historic Preservation.Allegany State Park is known as the wilderness playground of Western New York. With activities like fishing, biking, swimming, and more, it offers a perfect escape to nature and a chance to explore the beauty of the great outdoors.How Many Dealers Are Currently Present at Salamanca Mall Antiques?There are currently over 1,000 dealers at Salamanca Mall Antiques. It's an exciting place to explore with its wide variety of unique antiques.The downtown location makes it a great spot for souvenir shopping. As you walk through the 15 stores, you'll find fascinating items that will surely catch your attention.Whether you're a collector or just enjoy browsing, Salamanca Mall Antiques offers a treasure trove of discoveries.What Are the Dining Options Available at Seneca Allegany Casino?There are several dining options available at Seneca Allegany Casino. The Thunder Mountain Buffet is a popular choice, offering a wide variety of delicious dishes. Whether you're in the mood for a hearty meal or a quick snack, the casino has you covered.From casual dining to fine dining experiences, there's something for everyone. So, after trying your luck at the casino, make sure to indulge in a satisfying meal at one of their fantastic restaurants.Who Is the Head of Our Lady of Peace Catholic Church?The head of Our Lady of Peace Catholic Church is Reverend Patrick Melfi.He leads the parish center, which was established in Salamanca, NY in 2014.When visiting Salamanca, make sure to attend Sunday mass at this beautiful church.You'll be able to experience a moment of solemnity and admire the stunning paintings and designs that adorn the building.The architecture of the church is truly breathtaking.What Other Services Does the Crosspatch Offer Besides Horseback Riding?The Crosspatch, besides offering horseback riding with stunning views, also provides a range of other horse-related services.For example, they offer wagon and carriage rides, allowing visitors to explore the beautiful Allegheny Mountains in a unique and nostalgic way.Additionally, they offer a Horsemanship Camp, where individuals can learn more about horsemanship skills and develop a deeper connection with these magnificent animals.These additional services at The Crosspatch provide even more opportunities for an unforgettable experience in Salamanca, NY.ConclusionIn conclusion, Salamanca, NY offers a wide range of attractions and activities that cater to every interest. Whether you're a nature enthusiast, a history buff, or a thrill-seeker, this charming city has something for you.For example, imagine hiking through the scenic trails of Allegany State Park and stumbling upon a breathtaking waterfall. The beauty of nature combined with the rich cultural experiences in Salamanca will leave you with unforgettable memories.So pack your bags and embark on an exciting journey to explore the best of Salamanca, NY! submitted by Sweet-Count2557 to worldkidstravel [link] [comments] |
2024.05.17 07:51 SuperGrapefruit6563 AITA
Bare with me as with might be a long and confusing story.
Was with my ex fiancé 25 male (I am 27 female) for almost 6 years. I gave birth to our beautiful daughter 2 years ago. I had many concerns about my ex fiancé since the first day when he called her a bitch in the hospital ( this is the day she was born) I remember feeling absolutely sick to my stomach. ( I will also add that he was not present for the birth of our daughter which I constantly feel guilty about; I had previously made jokes that I did not want him in the room I was not serious at the time but truthfully I already felt so violated I didn't want him seeing what i imagine was a horrific scene) I actually did kick him out of the delivery room but only because he was cussing at me and screaming at me about five minutes before I was about to push, this was the only time I ever cried during labor, and told him to please just leave.
He went to the waiting area and came back shortly after I had my daughter The first thing he said to me is how his mother and whole family said, I was crazy for not allowing him in the delivery room, note, his mom is extremely malicious, manipulative, psychotic narcissist, who demands control of everything if she doesn't get it, she loses her mind but we will get to that part later.
Fast forward to get home from the hospital and the first six months of my daughters life were hell only because of her father he would constantly threaten to break her legs or neck when she was crying. He rarely helped me. I stayed up every night all night when she was a reverse cycling . He constantly insulted me made me feel worthless. One day when we were having a fairly great day he randomly said to me no man would want to be with me because I had a child. He he wanted me to stay home, but as I wanted to contribute, I tried to go back to work a few months later. It was only about three days a week, this lasted for maybe a month his mom would come over during this period of time and his mom physically caught him one morning screaming "shut the fuck up bitch" at our then 3 month old baby.she texted me about it followed by delete this text. I was very naive since I actually deleted the text which i really regret as we are in a custody battle and this would have really helped me out. I know the most shameful part is I know I should've left much sooner I should've left the first time he her called her a bitch but I kept thinking if I continued to talk to him about it, he would get better but it only got worse Me and my daughter end up leaving for a few weeks after physical altercation with her father we stayed with my mom, but after a lot of convincing from her father. We were returned not long after. This did not last long as once again we left permanently about a month after this. From the beginning of us, not getting along and me leaving the first time his mother posted publicly to Facebook and tagged my parents in psychotic rambling post about how terrible a person I am she would send me actual novels number one through 20 of every single thing that's wrong with me
I usually don't stand up for myself but to her I did, I didn't care. She was so absolutely evil and such a narcissist, calling me the worst names I would clarify and correct her often Anyways, while at my mom's house I received a call from my daughters father in the middle of the night He said "you really fucked up this time" screaming you can tell he was in the car driving very fast I was terrified I repeatedly I called him and his mom I believed was coming to harm us and had no idea what he was talking about Turns out, he thinks I myself , or sent someone to his home, or the home we lived in previously to steal his guns, which I would never do I thought this is a just another way for them to continue harassing me even after I had left turns out investigators came to my house twice and I gave them the full story and even suggested his mom did it because I truly believe she did have part in that and wanted to try to get me in trouble anyway she could as is her motive Due to all the concerns I had I did file for primary not sole, but primary custody of my daughter with him having visitation Instead of responding to this one day when I dropped my daughter off on the two days a week, he would have her his mother and her attorney with held my daughter and wouldn't give her back until I signed what but feels like a blackmailing document just to get my daughter back in court this is referred to as under duress In this document, there were so many stipulations, but only to me he would get temporary split custody. Also, they listed my own family members in that could never be around my daughter, their own family. After a judge denied the order for emergency temporary custody they still refused to return her which is why I had to sign the document I hadn't been separated from my daughter, for maybe more than 36 hours in her life now at eight months old, she has been taken from me for more than a week. Signing that document was the hardest thing ever for me, but I couldn't stand to be a part for my daughter any longer His mom continued daily, if not more to make psychotic post about me, and my family post memes about me claiming I owed her money for a car that she bought for me 5 years prior And in five years no one had ever mentioned this car until she was angry. Made post about suing me for the car and I also responded Where are the documents? Where is the contract? I didn't sign anything. His family/mom has money, and she looks down very much and everyone else. In may the same year he was arrested for some very violent scary crimes. I won't go into detail too much, but assault with a deadly weapon with intent to kill along with many other charges, kind of sums it up over a random road rage incident with an individual he did not even know.
His bond was very low and he was out within hours still had the same job We went to court for this and what the judge determined is not what happened his attorney, much like every trial would call the judge afterwards and get him to change his mind or send him a document to sign even after signing previous documents likely because this judge didn't care to read through anything His mother continued to make my life a living hell I just wanted so badly to be out of this no more stress no more mental and emotional decay. She actually sent messages to someone one of them was 20,000 words long about me breaking into his car, putting trackers in his car, breaking into his brothers car, smashing his mailbox, paying people to go inside of his job and tell him he was going to kill him , trying to get someone to run him off the road and my favorite hiring someone who he was in the road rage incident with
Obviously this never occurred because if it did, they would have a party to and call the police to get me in trouble as once again this is mothers main goal
During this time, she also sent fake screenshots of text messages allegedly from me to my ex fiancé. They were very obviously fake not the way either of us would ever text/ incorrect contact names no timestamps we also both have iPhones. The messages are green, but she kept insisting the person reviewing the text to " show me show me " a.k.a. harassment my attorney advised me not to say anything they would have her deposed then ask why she's doing this get her to say it on camera, and that was the best way however, after filing for deposition, she actually tried to file for a protection order from ME and no one went through with anything.
I know I can't actually blame this on her, but whenever I was driving without my daughter in the car of my brain would not stop. All I did was rack my brain of what her calculated motive was for sending these text messages they terrified me I thought she was going to murder me, my daughter or son After leaving my third day of a new job and I wrecked my car so bad it was totaled and I am lucky to be alive this same morning I recall telling my friend that morning at work that there's something wrong with me I couldn't sleep I couldn't eat this woman was actually tearing me apart and I thought I was going to get in a car accident. She would text me this whole time pretending to be her son from her sons phone number just crazy long harassing messages when I was at work, she pulled a million stunts trying to make me look bad just would not stop at all costs when was determined to take my daughter for herself. It was very clear she ruined her first child and she wanted another try After filing for her to be deposed, she is now suing me for allegedly over $30,000 which I do not have for the car that she claims I owed money on as well as back rent, which I never agreed to I would pay contributions whenever I could because her son paid nothing for rent or other expenses however there was never an agreement. Recently, during mediation for her suing me, she pulled out false contracts with many errors wrong address, wrong dates for example this car was totaled on Christmas day of 2018. Due to someone rear ending me, the contracts she falsified have a date of January 2019 but why would I sign contracts for a car that was already totaled and no longer in existence she also for forged signatures so terribly it was actually insulting
My attorney could already tell that that was a forged contract because the signatures we're not mine and I stated I would not be paying her a dime as I would like her to get in trouble for fraud, falsifying, documents, and forgery. I'll actually look forward to court even though it's wasting me a whole lot of time and money Which is exactly what she wants.
The worst part of this is a few weeks prior my daughters father has been kind of friendly, which was odd. He wanted to go to movies, I thought, as friends, and was kind of happy to be over with the hateful drama, but he didn't want to just be friends, and I very stupidly, went along with us not realizing in my heart I still had feelings for him After this mediation, which he knew was going to happen, and I knew I was going to make it clear I did not sign anything he got mad and said after promising multiple times and trying to convince me we just need to make rebuild our family trust each other again nothing else matters I foolishly believed him until the day of mediation when he got mad that I did exactly what I said, I was going to do, and said we should try this again when all the court stuff is done, I have never felt so stupid and angry and betrayed in my life I sent him a long text detailing everything that happened the fact that I was reluctant and said no and I resisted he was and he promised this was best for everyone to do and for our daughter to have her parents together and I just wanted my daughter have the best life possible
After ignoring him for a few days, he said he's gonna come over to talk and once again, couldn't make it has he's done many times in the past and said we could do it another day because he had to go to another boys night/meeting with his coworkers, but he was actually going to be drinking and getting fucked up couldn't even take an hour to come talk and see our daughter Fast fwd to tonight and while he was with these friends, I was so infuriated and beyond done I said to him several text messages explaining how terrible he had been a human being, and how stupid I was to actually believe him how we have never had a future after this, and I didn't know I had in my life ever again Embarrassingly they are very, very long text and I like quadruple texted. Haven't heard a word from him I don't think I will and once again the most embarrassing I feel I still have feelings for him, which makes me so angry. I wish he just left me alone and never tried to start anything again I was fine until I agreed to start this all over again I am so devastated and so sad, I wish I had never met him The only thing I'm grateful for is our daughter but I feel badly. Just want these feelings to go away. I'm so upset I've been crying I just don't understand how he could tell me how sorry he was and how much he loved me and just staring and holding me for hours to now three weeks later, going right back up his mom's ass as he will clearly always side with her and never me
This is my first Reddit Post- admittedly, it's very scrambled and this might b more of I fucked up situation or am I an asshole for actually giving him another chance. Keep in mind we still have to go to court for permanent custody and other things. What should I do? I want so badly to ignore him and to not have any feelings for him again but he is the only person I have ever truly loved He now has quite an ego currently of having the upper hand, as I believe he just wanted see if I would take him back and I did and that's all the validation he needed.
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Was with my ex fiancé 25 male (I am 27 female) for almost 6 years. I gave birth to our beautiful daughter 2 years ago. I had many concerns about my ex fiancé since the first day when he called her a bitch in the hospital ( this is the day she was born) I remember feeling absolutely sick to my stomach. ( I will also add that he was not present for the birth of our daughter which I constantly feel guilty about; I had previously made jokes that I did not want him in the room I was not serious at the time but truthfully I already felt so violated I didn't want him seeing what i imagine was a horrific scene) I actually did kick him out of the delivery room but only because he was cussing at me and screaming at me about five minutes before I was about to push, this was the only time I ever cried during labor, and told him to please just leave.
He went to the waiting area and came back shortly after I had my daughter The first thing he said to me is how his mother and whole family said, I was crazy for not allowing him in the delivery room, note, his mom is extremely malicious, manipulative, psychotic narcissist, who demands control of everything if she doesn't get it, she loses her mind but we will get to that part later.
Fast forward to get home from the hospital and the first six months of my daughters life were hell only because of her father he would constantly threaten to break her legs or neck when she was crying. He rarely helped me. I stayed up every night all night when she was a reverse cycling . He constantly insulted me made me feel worthless. One day when we were having a fairly great day he randomly said to me no man would want to be with me because I had a child. He he wanted me to stay home, but as I wanted to contribute, I tried to go back to work a few months later. It was only about three days a week, this lasted for maybe a month his mom would come over during this period of time and his mom physically caught him one morning screaming "shut the fuck up bitch" at our then 3 month old baby.she texted me about it followed by delete this text. I was very naive since I actually deleted the text which i really regret as we are in a custody battle and this would have really helped me out. I know the most shameful part is I know I should've left much sooner I should've left the first time he her called her a bitch but I kept thinking if I continued to talk to him about it, he would get better but it only got worse Me and my daughter end up leaving for a few weeks after physical altercation with her father we stayed with my mom, but after a lot of convincing from her father. We were returned not long after. This did not last long as once again we left permanently about a month after this. From the beginning of us, not getting along and me leaving the first time his mother posted publicly to Facebook and tagged my parents in psychotic rambling post about how terrible a person I am she would send me actual novels number one through 20 of every single thing that's wrong with me
I usually don't stand up for myself but to her I did, I didn't care. She was so absolutely evil and such a narcissist, calling me the worst names I would clarify and correct her often Anyways, while at my mom's house I received a call from my daughters father in the middle of the night He said "you really fucked up this time" screaming you can tell he was in the car driving very fast I was terrified I repeatedly I called him and his mom I believed was coming to harm us and had no idea what he was talking about Turns out, he thinks I myself , or sent someone to his home, or the home we lived in previously to steal his guns, which I would never do I thought this is a just another way for them to continue harassing me even after I had left turns out investigators came to my house twice and I gave them the full story and even suggested his mom did it because I truly believe she did have part in that and wanted to try to get me in trouble anyway she could as is her motive Due to all the concerns I had I did file for primary not sole, but primary custody of my daughter with him having visitation Instead of responding to this one day when I dropped my daughter off on the two days a week, he would have her his mother and her attorney with held my daughter and wouldn't give her back until I signed what but feels like a blackmailing document just to get my daughter back in court this is referred to as under duress In this document, there were so many stipulations, but only to me he would get temporary split custody. Also, they listed my own family members in that could never be around my daughter, their own family. After a judge denied the order for emergency temporary custody they still refused to return her which is why I had to sign the document I hadn't been separated from my daughter, for maybe more than 36 hours in her life now at eight months old, she has been taken from me for more than a week. Signing that document was the hardest thing ever for me, but I couldn't stand to be a part for my daughter any longer His mom continued daily, if not more to make psychotic post about me, and my family post memes about me claiming I owed her money for a car that she bought for me 5 years prior And in five years no one had ever mentioned this car until she was angry. Made post about suing me for the car and I also responded Where are the documents? Where is the contract? I didn't sign anything. His family/mom has money, and she looks down very much and everyone else. In may the same year he was arrested for some very violent scary crimes. I won't go into detail too much, but assault with a deadly weapon with intent to kill along with many other charges, kind of sums it up over a random road rage incident with an individual he did not even know.
His bond was very low and he was out within hours still had the same job We went to court for this and what the judge determined is not what happened his attorney, much like every trial would call the judge afterwards and get him to change his mind or send him a document to sign even after signing previous documents likely because this judge didn't care to read through anything His mother continued to make my life a living hell I just wanted so badly to be out of this no more stress no more mental and emotional decay. She actually sent messages to someone one of them was 20,000 words long about me breaking into his car, putting trackers in his car, breaking into his brothers car, smashing his mailbox, paying people to go inside of his job and tell him he was going to kill him , trying to get someone to run him off the road and my favorite hiring someone who he was in the road rage incident with
Obviously this never occurred because if it did, they would have a party to and call the police to get me in trouble as once again this is mothers main goal
During this time, she also sent fake screenshots of text messages allegedly from me to my ex fiancé. They were very obviously fake not the way either of us would ever text/ incorrect contact names no timestamps we also both have iPhones. The messages are green, but she kept insisting the person reviewing the text to " show me show me " a.k.a. harassment my attorney advised me not to say anything they would have her deposed then ask why she's doing this get her to say it on camera, and that was the best way however, after filing for deposition, she actually tried to file for a protection order from ME and no one went through with anything.
I know I can't actually blame this on her, but whenever I was driving without my daughter in the car of my brain would not stop. All I did was rack my brain of what her calculated motive was for sending these text messages they terrified me I thought she was going to murder me, my daughter or son After leaving my third day of a new job and I wrecked my car so bad it was totaled and I am lucky to be alive this same morning I recall telling my friend that morning at work that there's something wrong with me I couldn't sleep I couldn't eat this woman was actually tearing me apart and I thought I was going to get in a car accident. She would text me this whole time pretending to be her son from her sons phone number just crazy long harassing messages when I was at work, she pulled a million stunts trying to make me look bad just would not stop at all costs when was determined to take my daughter for herself. It was very clear she ruined her first child and she wanted another try After filing for her to be deposed, she is now suing me for allegedly over $30,000 which I do not have for the car that she claims I owed money on as well as back rent, which I never agreed to I would pay contributions whenever I could because her son paid nothing for rent or other expenses however there was never an agreement. Recently, during mediation for her suing me, she pulled out false contracts with many errors wrong address, wrong dates for example this car was totaled on Christmas day of 2018. Due to someone rear ending me, the contracts she falsified have a date of January 2019 but why would I sign contracts for a car that was already totaled and no longer in existence she also for forged signatures so terribly it was actually insulting
My attorney could already tell that that was a forged contract because the signatures we're not mine and I stated I would not be paying her a dime as I would like her to get in trouble for fraud, falsifying, documents, and forgery. I'll actually look forward to court even though it's wasting me a whole lot of time and money Which is exactly what she wants.
The worst part of this is a few weeks prior my daughters father has been kind of friendly, which was odd. He wanted to go to movies, I thought, as friends, and was kind of happy to be over with the hateful drama, but he didn't want to just be friends, and I very stupidly, went along with us not realizing in my heart I still had feelings for him After this mediation, which he knew was going to happen, and I knew I was going to make it clear I did not sign anything he got mad and said after promising multiple times and trying to convince me we just need to make rebuild our family trust each other again nothing else matters I foolishly believed him until the day of mediation when he got mad that I did exactly what I said, I was going to do, and said we should try this again when all the court stuff is done, I have never felt so stupid and angry and betrayed in my life I sent him a long text detailing everything that happened the fact that I was reluctant and said no and I resisted he was and he promised this was best for everyone to do and for our daughter to have her parents together and I just wanted my daughter have the best life possible
After ignoring him for a few days, he said he's gonna come over to talk and once again, couldn't make it has he's done many times in the past and said we could do it another day because he had to go to another boys night/meeting with his coworkers, but he was actually going to be drinking and getting fucked up couldn't even take an hour to come talk and see our daughter Fast fwd to tonight and while he was with these friends, I was so infuriated and beyond done I said to him several text messages explaining how terrible he had been a human being, and how stupid I was to actually believe him how we have never had a future after this, and I didn't know I had in my life ever again Embarrassingly they are very, very long text and I like quadruple texted. Haven't heard a word from him I don't think I will and once again the most embarrassing I feel I still have feelings for him, which makes me so angry. I wish he just left me alone and never tried to start anything again I was fine until I agreed to start this all over again I am so devastated and so sad, I wish I had never met him The only thing I'm grateful for is our daughter but I feel badly. Just want these feelings to go away. I'm so upset I've been crying I just don't understand how he could tell me how sorry he was and how much he loved me and just staring and holding me for hours to now three weeks later, going right back up his mom's ass as he will clearly always side with her and never me
This is my first Reddit Post- admittedly, it's very scrambled and this might b more of I fucked up situation or am I an asshole for actually giving him another chance. Keep in mind we still have to go to court for permanent custody and other things. What should I do? I want so badly to ignore him and to not have any feelings for him again but he is the only person I have ever truly loved He now has quite an ego currently of having the upper hand, as I believe he just wanted see if I would take him back and I did and that's all the validation he needed.
2024.05.17 07:42 No-Quality-2644 Yūrei Chronicles
YŪREI CHRONICLES [ 幽霊クロニクルズ ]
Tales of Japanese Horror [ 日本のホラーの物語 ]
By: Seph Cruz [ 投稿者: セフ・クルーズ ]
CONTENTS [ コンテンツ ]
Preface [ はじめに ]
Chapter 1: The Cursed Scroll [ 第 1 章: 呪われた巻物 ]
Chapter 2: The Shrine in the Shadows [ 第 2 章: 影の神殿 ]
Chapter 3: The Haunting of the Geisha [ 第 3 章: 芸者の幽霊 ]
Chapter 4: The Onryo's Revenge [ 第 4 章: 怨霊の復讐 ]
Chapter 5: The Dollmaker's Curse [ 第 5 章: 人形師の呪い ]
Chapter 6: The Shadow in the Forest [ 第 6 章: 森の影 ] Chapter 7: The Haunting of the Yūrei Inn [ 第 7 章: 幽霊旅館の幽霊 ]
Chapter 8: The Curse of the Haunted Kimono [ 第 8 章: 幽霊着物の呪い ]
Chapter 9: The Mirror's Malevolence [ 第 9 章: 鏡の悪意 ]
Chapter 10: The Bridge to the Beyond [ 第 10 章: 彼方への架け橋 ]
In the heart of Kyoto, where history whispered through the ancient streets, there existed an antique bookstore known only to those who sought the rarest of tomes. Nestled among centuries-old texts and dusty manuscripts, a forbidden scroll lay hidden, waiting for an unwitting soul to stumble upon its chilling secrets.
Chapter 1: "The Cursed Scroll"
The quaint, dimly lit bookstore was a treasure trove of the past. Intricate calligraphy adorned scrolls, while faded ink whispered stories of long-forgotten samurai and mystical creatures. Among these relics of history, one scroll remained elusive, concealed behind a glass case. Its dark, ornate cover bore no title, and its presence seemed to beckon.
Haruki, a young scholar with a fascination for the occult, visited the bookstore one rainy afternoon. His curiosity led him to inquire about the enigmatic scroll. The elderly shopkeeper, Mr. Tanaka, peered at him with a knowing look, cautioning him about the scroll's malevolent reputation.
"Many have sought to uncover its secrets," Mr. Tanaka said, his voice trembling with age, "but few have lived to tell the tale."
Haruki, undeterred by the ominous warning, insisted on examining the scroll. Mr. Tanaka, sensing the scholar's determination, reluctantly unlocked the glass case. As Haruki unrolled the ancient parchment, he saw that it was filled with intricate symbols and incantations, written in a language he could barely comprehend.
For days, Haruki delved into the scroll's mysteries. His sleepless nights were filled with whispers from unseen forces, and chilling drafts seemed to haunt his small apartment. Yet, he pressed on, believing that the scroll held untold knowledge and power.
One fateful night, as a full moon cast eerie shadows across his cluttered study, Haruki recited an incantation from the scroll. The room grew icy cold, and an otherworldly presence enveloped him. A mournful wail echoed through the room, and Haruki's heart raced as he beheld the apparition before him.
A yūrei, its long, disheveled hair obscuring its gaunt face, hovered in the air, its eyes filled with anguish and rage. It reached out bony, pale fingers toward Haruki, its spectral form translucent yet undeniably real.
In that moment, Haruki realized the scroll's true nature – a curse that summoned vengeful spirits to torment the living. He had unwittingly invited the yūrei into his world, and now, it sought retribution for its suffering.
The scholar's life turned into a nightmare as the vengeful spirit haunted his every waking moment. His research became an obsession to find a way to pacify the yūrei and lift the curse. With each passing day, Haruki's health deteriorated, his body and mind succumbing to the relentless torment.
Desperate, he sought the guidance of a renowned exorcist, who revealed a grim truth. The only way to break the curse was to discover the scroll's origins and offer the yūrei the peace it so desperately sought.
As Haruki ventured deeper into the scroll's history, he uncovered a tale of betrayal and tragedy that spanned centuries. With newfound knowledge and a heavy heart, he prepared to confront the vengeful yūrei and set things right.
In a chilling confrontation between the living and the dead, Haruki faced the spirit, offering it the closure it craved. As the yūrei dissipated into the ether, its mournful wail echoed one last time, fading into the night.
Haruki emerged from the ordeal forever changed, carrying the weight of the scroll's curse as a cautionary tale. The forbidden knowledge he had sought had come at a great cost, a reminder that some mysteries should remain hidden, and some curses should never be invoked.
As the sun rose over Kyoto, the antique bookstore remained shrouded in an eerie silence, and the cursed scroll returned to its cryptic slumber, waiting for the next unwitting soul to unlock its dreadful secrets.
End of Chapter 1: "The Cursed Scroll"
Chapter 2: "The Shrine in the Shadows"
In the heart of a tranquil Japanese village, nestled among ancient forests, stood a centuries-old Shinto shrine, known to few but revered by all. This sacred place held an eerie secret, hidden in the shadows of its past.
Chapter 2: "The Shrine in the Shadows"
The village of Mizuki was picturesque, surrounded by dense woods and the whispers of rustling leaves. Its most treasured gem was the Shōrin Shrine, a sanctuary dedicated to the worship of the kami, where the villagers paid homage with heartfelt prayers and offerings.
On a bright spring morning, the Hayashi family moved into a charming house near the shrine. Yuko, a spirited young girl with inquisitive eyes, was enchanted by the quaint beauty of Mizuki and the mystique of the Shōrin Shrine. Her parents, Masato and Yuki, hoped the peaceful village would offer respite from the bustling city.
Their first evening in Mizuki was serene, and the family felt blessed to live in such an idyllic place. As night descended, they heard a faint melody echoing through the forest—a haunting tune played on a traditional shamisen. Yuko, drawn by curiosity, followed the eerie melody to the shrine.
At the shrine's entrance, she saw a flicker of movement among the trees and bushes. As her eyes adjusted to the dim moonlight, she gasped in awe and terror. There, bathed in an ethereal glow, stood a beautiful woman dressed in a white kimono, her long hair cascading like an ebony waterfall.
The woman's face bore an expression of immense sorrow, and her eyes seemed to pierce Yuko's very soul. In her delicate, spectral hands, she held a shamisen, its strings plucked by fingers that had long since turned to mist.
"Who are you?" Yuko asked, her voice quivering.
The apparition gazed at Yuko with an inscrutable sadness and whispered, "My name is Hana. I have been bound to this shrine for centuries, waiting for someone to hear my song."
Hana's story unraveled like a tragic tapestry before Yuko. She had once been a young woman in love with a humble fisherman from Mizuki. Their love was forbidden, and when their secret was discovered, they met a tragic end at the hands of the villagers.
As she spoke, the melody of her shamisen became more mournful, and the trees seemed to weep in sympathy. Hana's spirit, bound to the shrine, could only find solace by sharing her story with the living.
Yuko, moved by Hana's tale, felt a deep connection to the ghostly figure. She promised to help Hana find peace and bring her story to light. Together, they would uncover the truth behind the tragic love story that had ensnared the shrine for centuries.
As Yuko delved into the village's history, she uncovered hidden documents and ancient scrolls that confirmed Hana's story. The injustice done to Hana and her beloved was a blot on the village's past, a truth that had been concealed for generations.
With newfound determination, Yuko rallied the villagers to acknowledge the village's dark history and to seek forgiveness for the sins of the past. In a moving ceremony at the Shōrin Shrine, the villagers offered their prayers, and Hana's spirit was finally set free.
As the first rays of dawn bathed Mizuki in golden light, Hana's ethereal form dissolved into a wisp of gratitude and serenity. The shrine, once shadowed by sorrow, now radiated with newfound peace.
"The Shrine in the Shadows" became a tale passed down through generations, a reminder that love and forgiveness could transcend even the darkest of curses. Mizuki continued to flourish, its shrine standing as a testament to the enduring power of redemption.
End of Chapter 2: "The Shrine in the Shadows"
Chapter 3: "The Haunting of the Geisha"
In the vibrant streets of 19th-century Tokyo, beneath the shimmering lanterns and behind the delicate allure of geisha, a haunting presence lurked—a presence that would forever change the life of a celebrated geisha named Kaede.
Chapter 3: "The Haunting of the Geisha"
In the heart of Tokyo's historic Yoshiwara district, Kaede was renowned as one of the most captivating and skilled geisha. Her beauty was ethereal, her dances mesmerizing, and her laughter like the tinkling of wind chimes. But beneath her porcelain makeup and the grace of her performances lay a heart heavy with secrets.
One cool autumn evening, as the lanterns cast their warm glow on the district, a newcomer arrived at the teahouse where Kaede performed. His name was Kaito, a handsome and enigmatic man with piercing eyes that seemed to see beyond the facade of the geisha. Kaede's heart quickened as their eyes met, and she felt a connection she had never experienced before.
As weeks turned into months, Kaede and Kaito's bond deepened, their love blossoming like the cherry blossoms in spring. But their love was a forbidden one, as Kaito was a samurai, and their worlds were as different as night and day.
One fateful night, Kaito revealed a dangerous secret to Kaede—he was involved in a plot against a powerful daimyo who ruled with cruelty and oppression. Kaito believed that by exposing the daimyo's corruption, he could bring justice to the people. He asked for Kaede's assistance in gathering information from the teahouse's influential patrons.
Reluctantly, Kaede agreed, and together, they embarked on a treacherous path filled with deceit and danger. As the days passed, they uncovered dark secrets that could expose the daimyo's crimes. However, their actions did not go unnoticed.
One evening, as Kaede performed for a gathering of influential men, a sinister figure appeared in the shadows. It was the vengeful spirit of a geisha named Akiko, who had perished in Yoshiwara under tragic circumstances. Her ghostly form was veiled in a blood-red kimono, and her eyes burned with malevolence.
Akiko's haunting began subtly—a chill in the air, whispers of despair, and a feeling of dread that hung over the teahouse like a shroud. Kaede, sensing the supernatural presence, knew that they had awakened a vengeful spirit.
Desperate to protect Kaede, Kaito sought the guidance of a local exorcist, who revealed the tragic story of Akiko. She had been a geisha in love with a samurai, but their forbidden love had led to betrayal and death. Her restless spirit sought vengeance on those who dared to love across societal boundaries.
With the exorcist's help, Kaito and Kaede embarked on a perilous journey to confront Akiko's spirit and offer her the peace she so desperately sought. In a climactic showdown, they faced the vengeful geisha, revealing the truth behind her betrayal and death.
As the first light of dawn bathed the Yoshiwara district, Akiko's spirit dissipated, her eyes filled with sorrow and resignation. The curse she had cast upon the teahouse lifted, and peace returned to the district.
Kaede and Kaito's love story continued, forever marked by the supernatural forces they had encountered. The teahouse thrived once more, its lanterns casting their warm glow over the enchanting district, where love knew no boundaries and forgiveness transcended even death.
"The Haunting of the Geisha" became a legend whispered among geisha in Yoshiwara, a testament to the enduring power of love and the consequences of forbidden desires in the mysterious world of Edo-era Tokyo.
End of Chapter 3: "The Haunting of the Geisha"
Chapter 4: "The Onryo's Revenge"
In the heart of a decaying city, where abandoned buildings stood as silent witnesses to forgotten tragedies, a group of urban explorers would stumble upon a place where the restless dead held their sinister dominion.
Chapter 4: "The Onryo's Revenge"
The city of Kurayami had fallen into disrepair, its once-thriving industries crumbling, and its streets echoing with the memories of better days. Among its many derelict structures was the forsaken Kurayami Hospital, a place whispered about only in fearful tales.
Rumors spoke of a curse that had befallen the hospital after a gruesome series of medical experiments in the early 20th century. Patients had been subjected to horrific procedures, and their agonized cries still seemed to reverberate through the corridors.
A group of urban explorers, lured by the thrill of the forbidden and the allure of the macabre, set their sights on Kurayami Hospital. Among them was Hiroshi, the group's leader, and Yumi, a budding photographer with an affinity for capturing the eerie beauty of abandoned places.
As the explorers entered the hospital's crumbling entrance, they were greeted by the musty scent of decay and the eerie silence of long-abandoned hallways. Shadows danced in the dim light as they ventured deeper into the forsaken building, their footsteps echoing like distant whispers.
The group's excitement turned to unease as they encountered signs of the hospital's dark past—rusty surgical instruments, bloodstained gurneys, and cryptic medical notes. Yumi's camera captured it all, each photograph revealing more about the hospital's gruesome history.
As night fell, the explorers gathered in the hospital's decrepit lobby, their flashlights casting trembling beams into the darkness. It was then that they heard it—a faint, mournful wail, like the keening of a soul in torment.
Hiroshi, the group's fearless leader, brushed off their concerns, attributing the sound to the wind or their imagination. But the cries grew louder and more anguished, echoing through the halls.
The group became separated as they navigated the labyrinthine corridors. Yumi, camera in hand, wandered into the hospital's disused psychiatric ward. There, in a shadowed corner, she saw her camera's flash reveal a horrifying apparition—an onryo, a vengeful spirit with long, disheveled hair and eyes filled with hatred.
The onryo's spectral form contorted with rage as it approached Yumi. Its icy fingers reached out, and she felt an otherworldly coldness pierce her very soul. She knew that this was the spirit of a patient who had suffered unimaginable horrors in the hospital.
As Yumi's companions searched for her, they stumbled upon the onryo's lair and witnessed the terrifying encounter. In a desperate bid to save Yumi, they searched for a way to pacify the vengeful spirit.
Through a combination of research and communication with a local historian, they learned the full extent of the hospital's atrocities. Armed with this knowledge, they returned to the onryo's domain to confront the spirit and offer it the peace it had been denied for so long.
In a climactic showdown, the group faced the onryo, revealing the hospital's dark secrets and acknowledging the suffering of the tormented souls within. With profound remorse, they begged for forgiveness on behalf of those who had perpetrated the atrocities.
As the first rays of dawn broke over Kurayami, the onryo's anguished wails transformed into a mournful sigh. The spirit, its wrath finally quelled, dissipated into the ether, leaving behind a sense of profound sadness and closure.
The group of urban explorers emerged from Kurayami Hospital, forever changed by their encounter with the supernatural. They had confronted the past and offered redemption to the restless dead, leaving the decaying city with a newfound sense of hope.
"The Onryo's Revenge" became a cautionary tale among urban explorers, a reminder that some places are best left undisturbed, and that the past, no matter how dark, can be confronted and reconciled.
End of Chapter 4: "The Onryo's Revenge"
Chapter 5: "The Dollmaker's Curse"
In a remote mountain village, nestled among mist-shrouded peaks, a master dollmaker crafted exquisite creations that captured the hearts of collectors worldwide. Yet, within her secluded workshop, a malevolent force lurked—one that would ensnare a curious journalist in a nightmarish world of living dolls and dark secrets.
Chapter 5: "The Dollmaker's Curse"
Hidden away in the secluded village of Ichiban, known only to those who ventured deep into the mountains, lived a master dollmaker named Ai. Her dolls were celebrated for their lifelike beauty and craftsmanship, with collectors from distant lands coveting her creations.
One brisk autumn morning, a journalist named Keiko received a cryptic letter from a source in Ichiban, hinting at a sinister mystery surrounding Ai's dolls. Intrigued by the enigmatic message, Keiko embarked on a journey to the remote village, determined to uncover the truth.
Ichiban was a place untouched by time, its cobblestone streets winding through dense forests and past centuries-old homes. The village exuded an eerie tranquility, and the locals spoke in hushed tones about Ai's dolls, rumored to be infused with a piece of the human soul.
Upon reaching Ai's workshop, Keiko was greeted by the dollmaker herself, a woman of grace and poise. The workshop was a treasure trove of exquisite dolls, their eyes seeming to follow Keiko's every move. Among them, a particular doll known as Hikari stood out—a hauntingly beautiful creation with ebony hair and obsidian eyes.
As Keiko delved deeper into the village's mysteries, she discovered that Hikari was believed to house the soul of a deceased child, a belief held by both Ai and the villagers. The doll's unsettling presence and the uncanny resemblance it bore to a girl named Mei, who had died tragically years ago, sent shivers down Keiko's spine.
Keiko's nights in Ichiban were filled with restless dreams of porcelain dolls that came to life. In these dreams, Hikari beckoned her to uncover the truth behind the dollmaker's creations. Guided by an inexplicable compulsion, Keiko embarked on a quest to unearth the dark secrets hidden within Ai's workshop.
As Keiko investigated further, she uncovered Ai's own tragic past—a story of unrequited love, loss, and a desperate desire to capture the essence of the human soul in her dolls. With each revelation, the line between the living and the lifeless blurred, and Keiko felt herself becoming entangled in a nightmarish world.
The dolls that had once been works of art now seemed to harbor malevolence. They moved of their own accord, their eyes filled with an eerie, lifelike intensity. Keiko realized that Ai's obsession had bound her to a sinister force, and her creations hungered for more than just existence.
In a chilling climax, Keiko confronted Ai and the curse that had gripped her creations. Together, they sought to break the curse's hold and release the trapped souls within the dolls.
As the moon hung low in the night sky, Ai performed a solemn ritual, guided by the spirit of Mei, whose essence had been captured in Hikari. The dolls, imbued with a restless energy, gathered around, their haunting eyes watching as the curse was lifted.
With a mournful sigh, the dolls' porcelain features softened, and their malevolence dissipated. The spirit of Mei was set free, and the dolls became lifeless once more, their beauty preserved in eternal stillness.
Ichiban returned to its peaceful slumber, and Keiko departed with a newfound appreciation for the power of art and the depths of human longing. The village's haunting tale of the dollmaker's curse served as a reminder that some obsessions could lead to the creation of something far more sinister than art itself.
End of Chapter 5: "The Dollmaker's Curse"
Chapter 6: "The Shadow in the Forest"
In a land steeped in history and tradition, the Aokigahara Forest, known as the "Suicide Forest," concealed a dark secret. Within its dense, ancient foliage, a group of hikers would embark on a journey that would lead them into the heart of a malevolent force.
Chapter 6: "The Shadow in the Forest"
Deep within the prefecture of Yamanashi, shrouded in a perpetual mist, lay the infamous Aokigahara Forest—an expanse of ancient woodland that held a dark reputation. Known as the "Suicide Forest," it had been a site of countless tragic deaths throughout the centuries.
A group of adventurous hikers, seeking to conquer the wilderness and challenge the forest's ominous legends, gathered on a chilly autumn morning. Among them was Akira, an experienced guide with a deep respect for the forest's history, and Yumi, a young woman in search of adventure and solace from her own troubled past.
The hikers ventured deep into the forest, their footsteps muffled by the thick blanket of moss and fallen leaves. The dense canopy above cast eerie shadows, and the trees seemed to whisper secrets of sorrow and despair.
As they trekked further into the woods, they began to notice strange occurrences—a disconcerting sense of being watched, distant whispers on the wind, and ghostly apparitions that flickered at the edge of their vision. Akira, the guide, attributed these phenomena to the forest's ominous reputation and urged the group to press on.
Yet, the forest's grip on their minds and senses tightened. Yumi, in particular, felt a strange connection to the haunting forces that seemed to lurk behind every tree. Inexplicable visions of tragedy and despair flashed before her eyes, and a sense of overwhelming dread enveloped her.
Night descended on the forest, and the hikers set up camp, their flickering campfire offering the only semblance of comfort in the oppressive darkness. It was then that Yumi encountered a spectral figure—a yūrei, her kimono tattered and her eyes empty voids.
The yūrei beckoned to Yumi, her voice a mournful echo. Unable to resist, Yumi followed the apparition into the depths of the forest, her companions unaware of her disappearance. The yūrei led her to a clearing where an ancient tree stood, its gnarled roots forming a grotesque face.
As Yumi approached the tree, she felt a malevolent presence—an ancient spirit of the forest itself. It spoke to her, revealing the tragic history of Aokigahara—the place where those who had lost hope sought refuge in death.
Yumi learned of the forest's vengeful guardian, a yūrei born of countless lost souls, whose suffering fueled its malevolence. It was the embodiment of the forest's sorrow, forever bound to torment those who ventured within.
Realizing that Yumi was now connected to the yūrei, her companions embarked on a desperate search to rescue her from the forest's clutches. With the guidance of Akira's knowledge and determination, they confronted the vengeful spirit, revealing the pain of their own pasts and the impact of their actions on the world around them.
As the first rays of dawn bathed Aokigahara in a pale light, the yūrei's malevolence waned, and its grip on Yumi loosened. With a final sigh, it dissipated into the morning mist, its haunting presence released from the forest.
Yumi was reunited with her companions, forever changed by her encounter with the malevolent spirit of Aokigahara. The forest's ominous reputation remained, a reminder of the darkness that could consume those who dared to venture too close to its heart.
"The Shadow in the Forest" served as a chilling testament to the mysteries of Aokigahara, where the past and the present intertwined, and the boundaries between life and death blurred beneath the ancient canopy.
End of Chapter 6: "The Shadow in the Forest"
Chapter 7: "The Haunting of the Yurei Inn"
In a remote village nestled among mist-covered mountains, a centuries-old inn held a sinister secret. When a weary traveler seeks refuge within its ancient walls, she becomes entangled in a web of supernatural mysteries that threaten to consume her soul.
Chapter 7: "The Haunting of the Yurei Inn"
The village of Okuyama was a hidden gem, nestled among towering peaks and blanketed in mist. Within this secluded haven stood the Yurei Inn, a centuries-old establishment steeped in history and whispered legends. Its age-old charm masked a sinister truth—a haunting presence that had plagued the inn for generations.
Amidst a dense fog, a lone traveler named Rei arrived in Okuyama, weary and seeking shelter from the elements. The Yurei Inn, with its rustic charm and flickering lanterns, seemed like the perfect refuge. Little did Rei know that her stay at the inn would unravel the mysteries hidden within its ancient walls.
Upon her arrival, Rei was greeted by the inn's elderly proprietress, Eiko, a woman whose weathered features and deep knowledge of the village's history hinted at a deeper connection to the inn's haunting past.
As Rei settled into her room, the oppressive atmosphere within the inn became palpable. Shadows seemed to dance in the corners of her vision, and strange, ghostly whispers echoed in the corridors. Unbeknownst to her, Rei had become a pawn in a centuries-old battle between the inn and the vengeful spirits that resided within.
In the dead of night, Rei awoke to a chilling presence at her bedside—an ethereal yurei, her white burial kimono flowing like a spectral river. The vengeful spirit's eyes held an insatiable hunger, and she reached out to Rei, her fingers icy and skeletal.
Rei's nights became torment as she encountered more yurei within the inn, each with their own tragic stories of betrayal, injustice, and unfulfilled desires. The spirits sought vengeance, and Rei's presence within the inn had awakened their malevolence.
Desperate to uncover the inn's secrets and free herself from the spirits' relentless pursuit, Rei sought the guidance of Eiko. The elderly proprietress revealed the tragic history of the inn—an establishment built on the suffering of countless souls who had met their demise within its walls.
Eiko's own family had been entangled in the inn's dark legacy, and she bore the weight of their deeds. Together, Rei and Eiko embarked on a journey to confront the yurei and offer them redemption, hoping to break the cycle of suffering that had plagued the inn for centuries.
In a harrowing confrontation with the vengeful spirits, Rei and Eiko unveiled the truth behind the inn's cursed history and acknowledged the pain of the souls that had been wronged. With heartfelt apologies and rituals of atonement, they sought to release the spirits from their torment.
As the first rays of dawn bathed Okuyama in a golden light, the yurei's spectral forms dissolved into the ether, their eyes filled with a mix of sorrow and gratitude. The Yurei Inn, once a place of darkness, now held the promise of redemption.
Rei departed from Okuyama, forever marked by her encounter with the supernatural. The Yurei Inn, now cleansed of its malevolent spirits, stood as a testament to the power of reconciliation and the hope of breaking the chains of the past.
"The Haunting of the Yurei Inn" became a cautionary tale among villagers, a reminder that the sins of the past could be confronted and forgiven, even in the face of vengeful spirits.
End of Chapter 7: "The Haunting of the Yurei Inn"
Chapter 8: "The Curse of the Haunted Kimono"
In the heart of Kyoto, where tradition and modernity intertwined, a family heirloom, an ancient kimono, carried a chilling curse that had plagued generations. A woman must delve into her family's history to uncover the origins of the curse and find a way to break it before it consumes her and her loved ones.
Chapter 8: "The Curse of the Haunted Kimono"
Kyoto, the city of a thousand temples, was a place where time seemed to stand still. Among the historic districts, the Nakamura family had passed down a treasured heirloom for generations—an exquisite silk kimono adorned with intricate embroidery, a relic of a bygone era.
The kimono had always been a source of fascination and reverence within the Nakamura family. It was said to be imbued with mystical powers, protecting its wearer from harm and misfortune. But beneath its ornate beauty lay a dark secret—a curse that had haunted the family for centuries.
Emi, the youngest of the Nakamura family, had grown up hearing stories of the kimono's mystical properties and the curse that clung to it. When her grandmother passed away, leaving the kimono in her care, Emi became the latest custodian of this fabled garment.
As the years passed, strange occurrences began to plague Emi and her family. The kimono seemed to have a malevolent presence, causing nightmares, unexplained accidents, and a growing sense of dread. Emi's husband, Toshiro, and their young daughter, Yuki, bore the brunt of the curse's effects.
Desperate to protect her loved ones, Emi embarked on a quest to uncover the origins of the curse and find a way to break it. She delved into her family's history, poring over ancient scrolls and consulting with local priests and scholars.
Through her research, Emi learned of a tragic love story that had been concealed for generations—a forbidden romance between a Nakamura ancestor and a woman from a rival clan. The lovers had been torn apart by a vengeful spirit, and their love had been sealed within the cursed kimono.
With newfound determination, Emi sought out the help of a renowned exorcist, who revealed that the curse could only be broken by reconciling the spirits of the star-crossed lovers and offering them a chance at eternal peace.
Emi, Toshiro, and Yuki embarked on a journey to the ancestral shrine of the Nakamura family, where they conducted a solemn ritual to appease the vengeful spirits. As they offered their prayers and made heartfelt apologies on behalf of their ancestors, a profound sense of forgiveness washed over them.
In a climactic moment, the cursed kimono transformed, its once malevolent aura dissipating into the ether. The spirits of the star-crossed lovers, now free from their torment, appeared before Emi and her family, their eyes filled with gratitude.
As the cherry blossoms rained down upon Kyoto, Emi, Toshiro, and Yuki returned home with a newfound sense of peace and closure. The kimono, no longer cursed, became a symbol of their family's resilience and the enduring power of love and forgiveness.
"The Curse of the Haunted Kimono" served as a reminder that the sins of the past could be atoned for and that the bonds of love and family could transcend even the darkest of curses.
End of Chapter 8: "The Curse of the Haunted Kimono"
Chapter 9: "The Mirror's Malevolence"
In a quiet suburban neighborhood, an antique mirror with a sinister past found its way into the home of a young couple. As they unwittingly unleashed the malevolent spirit trapped within, they must confront the mirror's dark history to save themselves and their family.
Chapter 9: "The Mirror's Malevolence"
In a serene suburban neighborhood, where cherry blossoms bloomed with each passing spring, lived a young couple, Hiroshi and Aiko, who were enamored with the charm of their new home. They had recently moved into a quaint, old-fashioned house that came with a peculiar antique mirror.
The mirror was ornate and beautiful, its frame adorned with delicate carvings of cherry blossoms. It had been left behind by the previous owner, a recluse who had passed away under mysterious circumstances. Little did Hiroshi and Aiko know that this mirror carried a malevolent secret.
As they settled into their new home, strange occurrences began to unfold. Reflections in the mirror seemed to distort, showing glimpses of eerie, shadowy figures lurking in the background. At night, whispers filled the room as if unseen voices murmured from within the glass.
Aiko, with her fascination for the occult, was the first to sense the mirror's sinister aura. She delved into research, uncovering tales of a cursed mirror that had plagued the previous owner's family for generations.
The mirror had once belonged to a vengeful spirit, a yūrei who had perished in despair. Its malevolence was bound to the glass, and those who possessed it were tormented by the spirit's relentless anger and sorrow.
Desperate to free themselves from the mirror's curse, Hiroshi and Aiko sought the guidance of a spiritual medium. Through a series of rituals and séances, they made contact with the vengeful spirit trapped within the mirror.
The spirit's story unfolded like a tragic drama—the yūrei had been a young woman in love with a man from a rival clan. Their love was forbidden, and when their secret was discovered, they had both met a grisly end. Her spirit had been bound to the mirror as punishment for her defiance of societal norms.
With the medium's help, Hiroshi and Aiko offered prayers and apologies on behalf of the mirror's original owner, seeking forgiveness for the wrongs committed against the vengeful spirit. They vowed to help the spirit find peace and redemption.
In a chilling climax, they conducted a final ritual, allowing the yūrei to pass on and find the solace she had been denied for centuries. As they gazed into the mirror one last time, they saw the spirit's reflection fade into the distance, her eyes filled with a mix of gratitude and farewell.
The mirror, now cleansed of its malevolence, became a symbol of hope and renewal for Hiroshi and Aiko. Their family flourished, and the cherry blossoms in their garden bloomed with newfound vibrancy, a testament to the enduring power of love and forgiveness.
"The Mirror's Malevolence" served as a chilling reminder that even the most innocuous objects could carry dark secrets, and that confronting the past and seeking redemption could break the bonds of even the most malevolent curses.
End of Chapter 9: "The Mirror's Malevolence"
Chapter 10: "The Bridge to the Beyond"
In a remote mountain village, isolated from the modern world, a historic bridge served as a link between the living and the dead. When a group of travelers crossed its ancient planks, they would discover the chilling truth behind the bridge's supernatural origins.
Chapter 10: "The Bridge to the Beyond"
Deep within the heart of the Japanese mountains, nestled among ancient forests and shrouded in mist, lay the village of Yamanokawa. It was a place where tradition and superstition still held sway, and the bridge that spanned the river was both a lifeline and a gateway to the unknown.
A group of adventurous travelers, drawn by the allure of Yamanokawa's untouched beauty, embarked on a journey to explore the village's remote reaches. Among them were Kaito, a historian with an insatiable curiosity, and Mia, a photographer who sought to capture the essence of this secluded world.
The village's centerpiece was the Akane Bridge, a weathered structure made of ancient wood and adorned with centuries-old lanterns. Its planks creaked with the weight of history, and the river below whispered tales of lives long gone.
As the travelers ventured deeper into Yamanokawa, they discovered that the villagers held a profound reverence for the bridge. It was said to be a link between the living and the dead, a place where offerings were made to appease the spirits that dwelled in the surrounding forest.
As night descended, the travelers set up camp near the Akane Bridge, its lanterns casting an eerie, flickering glow on the river's surface. It was then that they heard the sound—a mournful melody that seemed to emanate from the bridge itself.
Mia, driven by curiosity, followed the haunting tune to the bridge's edge. There, bathed in an otherworldly light, she saw a figure—a woman in a white kimono, her long hair flowing like an ebony waterfall.
The woman, whose name was Hikari, revealed herself to be a yūrei, a spirit bound to the Akane Bridge for centuries. She had once been a young bride whose love had been torn apart by a tragic accident on her wedding day. Her spirit was eternally linked to the bridge, where she waited for her beloved to return.
Kaito, the historian, delved into the village's archives and uncovered the tragic story of Hikari's past. It was a tale of love and loss, of a bride whose life had been cut short, and a groom whose heart had been forever scarred by grief.
With newfound determination, the travelers sought to reunite the spirits of Hikari and her beloved. They embarked on a journey deep into the forest, following a path laden with offerings and prayers.
At the heart of the forest, they discovered an ancient shrine dedicated to love and reconciliation. There, in a poignant ceremony, they offered heartfelt prayers and apologies on behalf of the villagers and the groom who had never returned.
As the first light of dawn broke over Yamanokawa, a sense of serenity washed over the Akane Bridge. Hikari's spectral form dissolved into the river's mist, her eyes filled with a mix of longing and gratitude.
The travelers departed from Yamanokawa, forever changed by their encounter with the supernatural. The Akane Bridge, now freed from its haunting past, stood as a testament to the enduring power of love and the hope of reuniting even in the afterlife.
"The Bridge to the Beyond" became a legend whispered among villagers, a reminder that some bonds could transcend time and that the spirit of love endured even in the face of eternity.
End of Chapter 10: "The Bridge to the Beyond"
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Tales of Japanese Horror [ 日本のホラーの物語 ]
By: Seph Cruz [ 投稿者: セフ・クルーズ ]
CONTENTS [ コンテンツ ]
Preface [ はじめに ]
Chapter 1: The Cursed Scroll [ 第 1 章: 呪われた巻物 ]
Chapter 2: The Shrine in the Shadows [ 第 2 章: 影の神殿 ]
Chapter 3: The Haunting of the Geisha [ 第 3 章: 芸者の幽霊 ]
Chapter 4: The Onryo's Revenge [ 第 4 章: 怨霊の復讐 ]
Chapter 5: The Dollmaker's Curse [ 第 5 章: 人形師の呪い ]
Chapter 6: The Shadow in the Forest [ 第 6 章: 森の影 ] Chapter 7: The Haunting of the Yūrei Inn [ 第 7 章: 幽霊旅館の幽霊 ]
Chapter 8: The Curse of the Haunted Kimono [ 第 8 章: 幽霊着物の呪い ]
Chapter 9: The Mirror's Malevolence [ 第 9 章: 鏡の悪意 ]
Chapter 10: The Bridge to the Beyond [ 第 10 章: 彼方への架け橋 ]
"Yūrei Chronicles: Tales of Japanese Horror"Chapter 1: "The Cursed Scroll"
In the heart of Kyoto, where history whispered through the ancient streets, there existed an antique bookstore known only to those who sought the rarest of tomes. Nestled among centuries-old texts and dusty manuscripts, a forbidden scroll lay hidden, waiting for an unwitting soul to stumble upon its chilling secrets.
Chapter 1: "The Cursed Scroll"
Haruki, a young scholar with a fascination for the occult, visited the bookstore one rainy afternoon. His curiosity led him to inquire about the enigmatic scroll. The elderly shopkeeper, Mr. Tanaka, peered at him with a knowing look, cautioning him about the scroll's malevolent reputation.
"Many have sought to uncover its secrets," Mr. Tanaka said, his voice trembling with age, "but few have lived to tell the tale."
Haruki, undeterred by the ominous warning, insisted on examining the scroll. Mr. Tanaka, sensing the scholar's determination, reluctantly unlocked the glass case. As Haruki unrolled the ancient parchment, he saw that it was filled with intricate symbols and incantations, written in a language he could barely comprehend.
For days, Haruki delved into the scroll's mysteries. His sleepless nights were filled with whispers from unseen forces, and chilling drafts seemed to haunt his small apartment. Yet, he pressed on, believing that the scroll held untold knowledge and power.
One fateful night, as a full moon cast eerie shadows across his cluttered study, Haruki recited an incantation from the scroll. The room grew icy cold, and an otherworldly presence enveloped him. A mournful wail echoed through the room, and Haruki's heart raced as he beheld the apparition before him.
A yūrei, its long, disheveled hair obscuring its gaunt face, hovered in the air, its eyes filled with anguish and rage. It reached out bony, pale fingers toward Haruki, its spectral form translucent yet undeniably real.
In that moment, Haruki realized the scroll's true nature – a curse that summoned vengeful spirits to torment the living. He had unwittingly invited the yūrei into his world, and now, it sought retribution for its suffering.
The scholar's life turned into a nightmare as the vengeful spirit haunted his every waking moment. His research became an obsession to find a way to pacify the yūrei and lift the curse. With each passing day, Haruki's health deteriorated, his body and mind succumbing to the relentless torment.
Desperate, he sought the guidance of a renowned exorcist, who revealed a grim truth. The only way to break the curse was to discover the scroll's origins and offer the yūrei the peace it so desperately sought.
As Haruki ventured deeper into the scroll's history, he uncovered a tale of betrayal and tragedy that spanned centuries. With newfound knowledge and a heavy heart, he prepared to confront the vengeful yūrei and set things right.
In a chilling confrontation between the living and the dead, Haruki faced the spirit, offering it the closure it craved. As the yūrei dissipated into the ether, its mournful wail echoed one last time, fading into the night.
Haruki emerged from the ordeal forever changed, carrying the weight of the scroll's curse as a cautionary tale. The forbidden knowledge he had sought had come at a great cost, a reminder that some mysteries should remain hidden, and some curses should never be invoked.
As the sun rose over Kyoto, the antique bookstore remained shrouded in an eerie silence, and the cursed scroll returned to its cryptic slumber, waiting for the next unwitting soul to unlock its dreadful secrets.
Chapter 2: "The Shrine in the Shadows"
In the heart of a tranquil Japanese village, nestled among ancient forests, stood a centuries-old Shinto shrine, known to few but revered by all. This sacred place held an eerie secret, hidden in the shadows of its past.
Chapter 2: "The Shrine in the Shadows"
On a bright spring morning, the Hayashi family moved into a charming house near the shrine. Yuko, a spirited young girl with inquisitive eyes, was enchanted by the quaint beauty of Mizuki and the mystique of the Shōrin Shrine. Her parents, Masato and Yuki, hoped the peaceful village would offer respite from the bustling city.
Their first evening in Mizuki was serene, and the family felt blessed to live in such an idyllic place. As night descended, they heard a faint melody echoing through the forest—a haunting tune played on a traditional shamisen. Yuko, drawn by curiosity, followed the eerie melody to the shrine.
At the shrine's entrance, she saw a flicker of movement among the trees and bushes. As her eyes adjusted to the dim moonlight, she gasped in awe and terror. There, bathed in an ethereal glow, stood a beautiful woman dressed in a white kimono, her long hair cascading like an ebony waterfall.
The woman's face bore an expression of immense sorrow, and her eyes seemed to pierce Yuko's very soul. In her delicate, spectral hands, she held a shamisen, its strings plucked by fingers that had long since turned to mist.
"Who are you?" Yuko asked, her voice quivering.
The apparition gazed at Yuko with an inscrutable sadness and whispered, "My name is Hana. I have been bound to this shrine for centuries, waiting for someone to hear my song."
Hana's story unraveled like a tragic tapestry before Yuko. She had once been a young woman in love with a humble fisherman from Mizuki. Their love was forbidden, and when their secret was discovered, they met a tragic end at the hands of the villagers.
As she spoke, the melody of her shamisen became more mournful, and the trees seemed to weep in sympathy. Hana's spirit, bound to the shrine, could only find solace by sharing her story with the living.
Yuko, moved by Hana's tale, felt a deep connection to the ghostly figure. She promised to help Hana find peace and bring her story to light. Together, they would uncover the truth behind the tragic love story that had ensnared the shrine for centuries.
As Yuko delved into the village's history, she uncovered hidden documents and ancient scrolls that confirmed Hana's story. The injustice done to Hana and her beloved was a blot on the village's past, a truth that had been concealed for generations.
With newfound determination, Yuko rallied the villagers to acknowledge the village's dark history and to seek forgiveness for the sins of the past. In a moving ceremony at the Shōrin Shrine, the villagers offered their prayers, and Hana's spirit was finally set free.
As the first rays of dawn bathed Mizuki in golden light, Hana's ethereal form dissolved into a wisp of gratitude and serenity. The shrine, once shadowed by sorrow, now radiated with newfound peace.
"The Shrine in the Shadows" became a tale passed down through generations, a reminder that love and forgiveness could transcend even the darkest of curses. Mizuki continued to flourish, its shrine standing as a testament to the enduring power of redemption.
Chapter 3: "The Haunting of the Geisha"
In the vibrant streets of 19th-century Tokyo, beneath the shimmering lanterns and behind the delicate allure of geisha, a haunting presence lurked—a presence that would forever change the life of a celebrated geisha named Kaede.
Chapter 3: "The Haunting of the Geisha"
One cool autumn evening, as the lanterns cast their warm glow on the district, a newcomer arrived at the teahouse where Kaede performed. His name was Kaito, a handsome and enigmatic man with piercing eyes that seemed to see beyond the facade of the geisha. Kaede's heart quickened as their eyes met, and she felt a connection she had never experienced before.
As weeks turned into months, Kaede and Kaito's bond deepened, their love blossoming like the cherry blossoms in spring. But their love was a forbidden one, as Kaito was a samurai, and their worlds were as different as night and day.
One fateful night, Kaito revealed a dangerous secret to Kaede—he was involved in a plot against a powerful daimyo who ruled with cruelty and oppression. Kaito believed that by exposing the daimyo's corruption, he could bring justice to the people. He asked for Kaede's assistance in gathering information from the teahouse's influential patrons.
Reluctantly, Kaede agreed, and together, they embarked on a treacherous path filled with deceit and danger. As the days passed, they uncovered dark secrets that could expose the daimyo's crimes. However, their actions did not go unnoticed.
One evening, as Kaede performed for a gathering of influential men, a sinister figure appeared in the shadows. It was the vengeful spirit of a geisha named Akiko, who had perished in Yoshiwara under tragic circumstances. Her ghostly form was veiled in a blood-red kimono, and her eyes burned with malevolence.
Akiko's haunting began subtly—a chill in the air, whispers of despair, and a feeling of dread that hung over the teahouse like a shroud. Kaede, sensing the supernatural presence, knew that they had awakened a vengeful spirit.
Desperate to protect Kaede, Kaito sought the guidance of a local exorcist, who revealed the tragic story of Akiko. She had been a geisha in love with a samurai, but their forbidden love had led to betrayal and death. Her restless spirit sought vengeance on those who dared to love across societal boundaries.
With the exorcist's help, Kaito and Kaede embarked on a perilous journey to confront Akiko's spirit and offer her the peace she so desperately sought. In a climactic showdown, they faced the vengeful geisha, revealing the truth behind her betrayal and death.
As the first light of dawn bathed the Yoshiwara district, Akiko's spirit dissipated, her eyes filled with sorrow and resignation. The curse she had cast upon the teahouse lifted, and peace returned to the district.
Kaede and Kaito's love story continued, forever marked by the supernatural forces they had encountered. The teahouse thrived once more, its lanterns casting their warm glow over the enchanting district, where love knew no boundaries and forgiveness transcended even death.
"The Haunting of the Geisha" became a legend whispered among geisha in Yoshiwara, a testament to the enduring power of love and the consequences of forbidden desires in the mysterious world of Edo-era Tokyo.
Chapter 4: "The Onryo's Revenge"
In the heart of a decaying city, where abandoned buildings stood as silent witnesses to forgotten tragedies, a group of urban explorers would stumble upon a place where the restless dead held their sinister dominion.
Chapter 4: "The Onryo's Revenge"
Rumors spoke of a curse that had befallen the hospital after a gruesome series of medical experiments in the early 20th century. Patients had been subjected to horrific procedures, and their agonized cries still seemed to reverberate through the corridors.
A group of urban explorers, lured by the thrill of the forbidden and the allure of the macabre, set their sights on Kurayami Hospital. Among them was Hiroshi, the group's leader, and Yumi, a budding photographer with an affinity for capturing the eerie beauty of abandoned places.
As the explorers entered the hospital's crumbling entrance, they were greeted by the musty scent of decay and the eerie silence of long-abandoned hallways. Shadows danced in the dim light as they ventured deeper into the forsaken building, their footsteps echoing like distant whispers.
The group's excitement turned to unease as they encountered signs of the hospital's dark past—rusty surgical instruments, bloodstained gurneys, and cryptic medical notes. Yumi's camera captured it all, each photograph revealing more about the hospital's gruesome history.
As night fell, the explorers gathered in the hospital's decrepit lobby, their flashlights casting trembling beams into the darkness. It was then that they heard it—a faint, mournful wail, like the keening of a soul in torment.
Hiroshi, the group's fearless leader, brushed off their concerns, attributing the sound to the wind or their imagination. But the cries grew louder and more anguished, echoing through the halls.
The group became separated as they navigated the labyrinthine corridors. Yumi, camera in hand, wandered into the hospital's disused psychiatric ward. There, in a shadowed corner, she saw her camera's flash reveal a horrifying apparition—an onryo, a vengeful spirit with long, disheveled hair and eyes filled with hatred.
The onryo's spectral form contorted with rage as it approached Yumi. Its icy fingers reached out, and she felt an otherworldly coldness pierce her very soul. She knew that this was the spirit of a patient who had suffered unimaginable horrors in the hospital.
As Yumi's companions searched for her, they stumbled upon the onryo's lair and witnessed the terrifying encounter. In a desperate bid to save Yumi, they searched for a way to pacify the vengeful spirit.
Through a combination of research and communication with a local historian, they learned the full extent of the hospital's atrocities. Armed with this knowledge, they returned to the onryo's domain to confront the spirit and offer it the peace it had been denied for so long.
In a climactic showdown, the group faced the onryo, revealing the hospital's dark secrets and acknowledging the suffering of the tormented souls within. With profound remorse, they begged for forgiveness on behalf of those who had perpetrated the atrocities.
As the first rays of dawn broke over Kurayami, the onryo's anguished wails transformed into a mournful sigh. The spirit, its wrath finally quelled, dissipated into the ether, leaving behind a sense of profound sadness and closure.
The group of urban explorers emerged from Kurayami Hospital, forever changed by their encounter with the supernatural. They had confronted the past and offered redemption to the restless dead, leaving the decaying city with a newfound sense of hope.
"The Onryo's Revenge" became a cautionary tale among urban explorers, a reminder that some places are best left undisturbed, and that the past, no matter how dark, can be confronted and reconciled.
Chapter 5: "The Dollmaker's Curse"
In a remote mountain village, nestled among mist-shrouded peaks, a master dollmaker crafted exquisite creations that captured the hearts of collectors worldwide. Yet, within her secluded workshop, a malevolent force lurked—one that would ensnare a curious journalist in a nightmarish world of living dolls and dark secrets.
Chapter 5: "The Dollmaker's Curse"
One brisk autumn morning, a journalist named Keiko received a cryptic letter from a source in Ichiban, hinting at a sinister mystery surrounding Ai's dolls. Intrigued by the enigmatic message, Keiko embarked on a journey to the remote village, determined to uncover the truth.
Ichiban was a place untouched by time, its cobblestone streets winding through dense forests and past centuries-old homes. The village exuded an eerie tranquility, and the locals spoke in hushed tones about Ai's dolls, rumored to be infused with a piece of the human soul.
Upon reaching Ai's workshop, Keiko was greeted by the dollmaker herself, a woman of grace and poise. The workshop was a treasure trove of exquisite dolls, their eyes seeming to follow Keiko's every move. Among them, a particular doll known as Hikari stood out—a hauntingly beautiful creation with ebony hair and obsidian eyes.
As Keiko delved deeper into the village's mysteries, she discovered that Hikari was believed to house the soul of a deceased child, a belief held by both Ai and the villagers. The doll's unsettling presence and the uncanny resemblance it bore to a girl named Mei, who had died tragically years ago, sent shivers down Keiko's spine.
Keiko's nights in Ichiban were filled with restless dreams of porcelain dolls that came to life. In these dreams, Hikari beckoned her to uncover the truth behind the dollmaker's creations. Guided by an inexplicable compulsion, Keiko embarked on a quest to unearth the dark secrets hidden within Ai's workshop.
As Keiko investigated further, she uncovered Ai's own tragic past—a story of unrequited love, loss, and a desperate desire to capture the essence of the human soul in her dolls. With each revelation, the line between the living and the lifeless blurred, and Keiko felt herself becoming entangled in a nightmarish world.
The dolls that had once been works of art now seemed to harbor malevolence. They moved of their own accord, their eyes filled with an eerie, lifelike intensity. Keiko realized that Ai's obsession had bound her to a sinister force, and her creations hungered for more than just existence.
In a chilling climax, Keiko confronted Ai and the curse that had gripped her creations. Together, they sought to break the curse's hold and release the trapped souls within the dolls.
As the moon hung low in the night sky, Ai performed a solemn ritual, guided by the spirit of Mei, whose essence had been captured in Hikari. The dolls, imbued with a restless energy, gathered around, their haunting eyes watching as the curse was lifted.
With a mournful sigh, the dolls' porcelain features softened, and their malevolence dissipated. The spirit of Mei was set free, and the dolls became lifeless once more, their beauty preserved in eternal stillness.
Ichiban returned to its peaceful slumber, and Keiko departed with a newfound appreciation for the power of art and the depths of human longing. The village's haunting tale of the dollmaker's curse served as a reminder that some obsessions could lead to the creation of something far more sinister than art itself.
Chapter 6: "The Shadow in the Forest"
In a land steeped in history and tradition, the Aokigahara Forest, known as the "Suicide Forest," concealed a dark secret. Within its dense, ancient foliage, a group of hikers would embark on a journey that would lead them into the heart of a malevolent force.
Chapter 6: "The Shadow in the Forest"
A group of adventurous hikers, seeking to conquer the wilderness and challenge the forest's ominous legends, gathered on a chilly autumn morning. Among them was Akira, an experienced guide with a deep respect for the forest's history, and Yumi, a young woman in search of adventure and solace from her own troubled past.
The hikers ventured deep into the forest, their footsteps muffled by the thick blanket of moss and fallen leaves. The dense canopy above cast eerie shadows, and the trees seemed to whisper secrets of sorrow and despair.
As they trekked further into the woods, they began to notice strange occurrences—a disconcerting sense of being watched, distant whispers on the wind, and ghostly apparitions that flickered at the edge of their vision. Akira, the guide, attributed these phenomena to the forest's ominous reputation and urged the group to press on.
Yet, the forest's grip on their minds and senses tightened. Yumi, in particular, felt a strange connection to the haunting forces that seemed to lurk behind every tree. Inexplicable visions of tragedy and despair flashed before her eyes, and a sense of overwhelming dread enveloped her.
Night descended on the forest, and the hikers set up camp, their flickering campfire offering the only semblance of comfort in the oppressive darkness. It was then that Yumi encountered a spectral figure—a yūrei, her kimono tattered and her eyes empty voids.
The yūrei beckoned to Yumi, her voice a mournful echo. Unable to resist, Yumi followed the apparition into the depths of the forest, her companions unaware of her disappearance. The yūrei led her to a clearing where an ancient tree stood, its gnarled roots forming a grotesque face.
As Yumi approached the tree, she felt a malevolent presence—an ancient spirit of the forest itself. It spoke to her, revealing the tragic history of Aokigahara—the place where those who had lost hope sought refuge in death.
Yumi learned of the forest's vengeful guardian, a yūrei born of countless lost souls, whose suffering fueled its malevolence. It was the embodiment of the forest's sorrow, forever bound to torment those who ventured within.
Realizing that Yumi was now connected to the yūrei, her companions embarked on a desperate search to rescue her from the forest's clutches. With the guidance of Akira's knowledge and determination, they confronted the vengeful spirit, revealing the pain of their own pasts and the impact of their actions on the world around them.
As the first rays of dawn bathed Aokigahara in a pale light, the yūrei's malevolence waned, and its grip on Yumi loosened. With a final sigh, it dissipated into the morning mist, its haunting presence released from the forest.
Yumi was reunited with her companions, forever changed by her encounter with the malevolent spirit of Aokigahara. The forest's ominous reputation remained, a reminder of the darkness that could consume those who dared to venture too close to its heart.
"The Shadow in the Forest" served as a chilling testament to the mysteries of Aokigahara, where the past and the present intertwined, and the boundaries between life and death blurred beneath the ancient canopy.
Chapter 7: "The Haunting of the Yurei Inn"
In a remote village nestled among mist-covered mountains, a centuries-old inn held a sinister secret. When a weary traveler seeks refuge within its ancient walls, she becomes entangled in a web of supernatural mysteries that threaten to consume her soul.
Chapter 7: "The Haunting of the Yurei Inn"
Amidst a dense fog, a lone traveler named Rei arrived in Okuyama, weary and seeking shelter from the elements. The Yurei Inn, with its rustic charm and flickering lanterns, seemed like the perfect refuge. Little did Rei know that her stay at the inn would unravel the mysteries hidden within its ancient walls.
Upon her arrival, Rei was greeted by the inn's elderly proprietress, Eiko, a woman whose weathered features and deep knowledge of the village's history hinted at a deeper connection to the inn's haunting past.
As Rei settled into her room, the oppressive atmosphere within the inn became palpable. Shadows seemed to dance in the corners of her vision, and strange, ghostly whispers echoed in the corridors. Unbeknownst to her, Rei had become a pawn in a centuries-old battle between the inn and the vengeful spirits that resided within.
In the dead of night, Rei awoke to a chilling presence at her bedside—an ethereal yurei, her white burial kimono flowing like a spectral river. The vengeful spirit's eyes held an insatiable hunger, and she reached out to Rei, her fingers icy and skeletal.
Rei's nights became torment as she encountered more yurei within the inn, each with their own tragic stories of betrayal, injustice, and unfulfilled desires. The spirits sought vengeance, and Rei's presence within the inn had awakened their malevolence.
Desperate to uncover the inn's secrets and free herself from the spirits' relentless pursuit, Rei sought the guidance of Eiko. The elderly proprietress revealed the tragic history of the inn—an establishment built on the suffering of countless souls who had met their demise within its walls.
Eiko's own family had been entangled in the inn's dark legacy, and she bore the weight of their deeds. Together, Rei and Eiko embarked on a journey to confront the yurei and offer them redemption, hoping to break the cycle of suffering that had plagued the inn for centuries.
In a harrowing confrontation with the vengeful spirits, Rei and Eiko unveiled the truth behind the inn's cursed history and acknowledged the pain of the souls that had been wronged. With heartfelt apologies and rituals of atonement, they sought to release the spirits from their torment.
As the first rays of dawn bathed Okuyama in a golden light, the yurei's spectral forms dissolved into the ether, their eyes filled with a mix of sorrow and gratitude. The Yurei Inn, once a place of darkness, now held the promise of redemption.
Rei departed from Okuyama, forever marked by her encounter with the supernatural. The Yurei Inn, now cleansed of its malevolent spirits, stood as a testament to the power of reconciliation and the hope of breaking the chains of the past.
"The Haunting of the Yurei Inn" became a cautionary tale among villagers, a reminder that the sins of the past could be confronted and forgiven, even in the face of vengeful spirits.
Chapter 8: "The Curse of the Haunted Kimono"
In the heart of Kyoto, where tradition and modernity intertwined, a family heirloom, an ancient kimono, carried a chilling curse that had plagued generations. A woman must delve into her family's history to uncover the origins of the curse and find a way to break it before it consumes her and her loved ones.
Chapter 8: "The Curse of the Haunted Kimono"
The kimono had always been a source of fascination and reverence within the Nakamura family. It was said to be imbued with mystical powers, protecting its wearer from harm and misfortune. But beneath its ornate beauty lay a dark secret—a curse that had haunted the family for centuries.
Emi, the youngest of the Nakamura family, had grown up hearing stories of the kimono's mystical properties and the curse that clung to it. When her grandmother passed away, leaving the kimono in her care, Emi became the latest custodian of this fabled garment.
As the years passed, strange occurrences began to plague Emi and her family. The kimono seemed to have a malevolent presence, causing nightmares, unexplained accidents, and a growing sense of dread. Emi's husband, Toshiro, and their young daughter, Yuki, bore the brunt of the curse's effects.
Desperate to protect her loved ones, Emi embarked on a quest to uncover the origins of the curse and find a way to break it. She delved into her family's history, poring over ancient scrolls and consulting with local priests and scholars.
Through her research, Emi learned of a tragic love story that had been concealed for generations—a forbidden romance between a Nakamura ancestor and a woman from a rival clan. The lovers had been torn apart by a vengeful spirit, and their love had been sealed within the cursed kimono.
With newfound determination, Emi sought out the help of a renowned exorcist, who revealed that the curse could only be broken by reconciling the spirits of the star-crossed lovers and offering them a chance at eternal peace.
Emi, Toshiro, and Yuki embarked on a journey to the ancestral shrine of the Nakamura family, where they conducted a solemn ritual to appease the vengeful spirits. As they offered their prayers and made heartfelt apologies on behalf of their ancestors, a profound sense of forgiveness washed over them.
In a climactic moment, the cursed kimono transformed, its once malevolent aura dissipating into the ether. The spirits of the star-crossed lovers, now free from their torment, appeared before Emi and her family, their eyes filled with gratitude.
As the cherry blossoms rained down upon Kyoto, Emi, Toshiro, and Yuki returned home with a newfound sense of peace and closure. The kimono, no longer cursed, became a symbol of their family's resilience and the enduring power of love and forgiveness.
"The Curse of the Haunted Kimono" served as a reminder that the sins of the past could be atoned for and that the bonds of love and family could transcend even the darkest of curses.
Chapter 9: "The Mirror's Malevolence"
In a quiet suburban neighborhood, an antique mirror with a sinister past found its way into the home of a young couple. As they unwittingly unleashed the malevolent spirit trapped within, they must confront the mirror's dark history to save themselves and their family.
Chapter 9: "The Mirror's Malevolence"
The mirror was ornate and beautiful, its frame adorned with delicate carvings of cherry blossoms. It had been left behind by the previous owner, a recluse who had passed away under mysterious circumstances. Little did Hiroshi and Aiko know that this mirror carried a malevolent secret.
As they settled into their new home, strange occurrences began to unfold. Reflections in the mirror seemed to distort, showing glimpses of eerie, shadowy figures lurking in the background. At night, whispers filled the room as if unseen voices murmured from within the glass.
Aiko, with her fascination for the occult, was the first to sense the mirror's sinister aura. She delved into research, uncovering tales of a cursed mirror that had plagued the previous owner's family for generations.
The mirror had once belonged to a vengeful spirit, a yūrei who had perished in despair. Its malevolence was bound to the glass, and those who possessed it were tormented by the spirit's relentless anger and sorrow.
Desperate to free themselves from the mirror's curse, Hiroshi and Aiko sought the guidance of a spiritual medium. Through a series of rituals and séances, they made contact with the vengeful spirit trapped within the mirror.
The spirit's story unfolded like a tragic drama—the yūrei had been a young woman in love with a man from a rival clan. Their love was forbidden, and when their secret was discovered, they had both met a grisly end. Her spirit had been bound to the mirror as punishment for her defiance of societal norms.
With the medium's help, Hiroshi and Aiko offered prayers and apologies on behalf of the mirror's original owner, seeking forgiveness for the wrongs committed against the vengeful spirit. They vowed to help the spirit find peace and redemption.
In a chilling climax, they conducted a final ritual, allowing the yūrei to pass on and find the solace she had been denied for centuries. As they gazed into the mirror one last time, they saw the spirit's reflection fade into the distance, her eyes filled with a mix of gratitude and farewell.
The mirror, now cleansed of its malevolence, became a symbol of hope and renewal for Hiroshi and Aiko. Their family flourished, and the cherry blossoms in their garden bloomed with newfound vibrancy, a testament to the enduring power of love and forgiveness.
"The Mirror's Malevolence" served as a chilling reminder that even the most innocuous objects could carry dark secrets, and that confronting the past and seeking redemption could break the bonds of even the most malevolent curses.
Chapter 10: "The Bridge to the Beyond"
In a remote mountain village, isolated from the modern world, a historic bridge served as a link between the living and the dead. When a group of travelers crossed its ancient planks, they would discover the chilling truth behind the bridge's supernatural origins.
Chapter 10: "The Bridge to the Beyond"
A group of adventurous travelers, drawn by the allure of Yamanokawa's untouched beauty, embarked on a journey to explore the village's remote reaches. Among them were Kaito, a historian with an insatiable curiosity, and Mia, a photographer who sought to capture the essence of this secluded world.
The village's centerpiece was the Akane Bridge, a weathered structure made of ancient wood and adorned with centuries-old lanterns. Its planks creaked with the weight of history, and the river below whispered tales of lives long gone.
As the travelers ventured deeper into Yamanokawa, they discovered that the villagers held a profound reverence for the bridge. It was said to be a link between the living and the dead, a place where offerings were made to appease the spirits that dwelled in the surrounding forest.
As night descended, the travelers set up camp near the Akane Bridge, its lanterns casting an eerie, flickering glow on the river's surface. It was then that they heard the sound—a mournful melody that seemed to emanate from the bridge itself.
Mia, driven by curiosity, followed the haunting tune to the bridge's edge. There, bathed in an otherworldly light, she saw a figure—a woman in a white kimono, her long hair flowing like an ebony waterfall.
The woman, whose name was Hikari, revealed herself to be a yūrei, a spirit bound to the Akane Bridge for centuries. She had once been a young bride whose love had been torn apart by a tragic accident on her wedding day. Her spirit was eternally linked to the bridge, where she waited for her beloved to return.
Kaito, the historian, delved into the village's archives and uncovered the tragic story of Hikari's past. It was a tale of love and loss, of a bride whose life had been cut short, and a groom whose heart had been forever scarred by grief.
With newfound determination, the travelers sought to reunite the spirits of Hikari and her beloved. They embarked on a journey deep into the forest, following a path laden with offerings and prayers.
At the heart of the forest, they discovered an ancient shrine dedicated to love and reconciliation. There, in a poignant ceremony, they offered heartfelt prayers and apologies on behalf of the villagers and the groom who had never returned.
As the first light of dawn broke over Yamanokawa, a sense of serenity washed over the Akane Bridge. Hikari's spectral form dissolved into the river's mist, her eyes filled with a mix of longing and gratitude.
The travelers departed from Yamanokawa, forever changed by their encounter with the supernatural. The Akane Bridge, now freed from its haunting past, stood as a testament to the enduring power of love and the hope of reuniting even in the afterlife.
"The Bridge to the Beyond" became a legend whispered among villagers, a reminder that some bonds could transcend time and that the spirit of love endured even in the face of eternity.
2024.05.17 07:40 PotentialExpert2424 Travelling with a Cat
So I adopted a 3.5 year old orange tabby back in February, and he has been the absolute best cat ever. He was a rescue, so he is a little anxious in new spaces and I think he is beginning to start feeling a bit of separation anxiety from me when I'm not home (he barely eats, he meows at the front door, and as soon as I am home he refuses to leave my side). While this is something that we are working on, I was recently offered a job in another city. This new position is a 4 hour flight from where I live, and I will have to be commuting back and forth for 9 months (probably travelling 2-3 times per month), since I also have work that I've already committed to in my current city. This was a super last minute offer, so if I had known that this was going to be the situation I absolutely would not have adopted so that I could reduce the amount of stress this might cause for him. I have a few options, but I really don't know what would be best for him, so I am looking for a bit of advice from some more experienced cat owners! My boyfriend has offered to watch over him for this 9 month period, but he has a new puppy (my cat was raised around other dogs and cats, so he is pretty friendly), his mom is worried about getting attached (they just lost their 2 year old cat in a tragic accident), and my boyfriend has been considering getting another cat and is worried about them getting bonded (this isn't a huge issue, because we are talking about moving in together anyways). My cat already really likes my boyfriend, but he still gets anxious about me when he's watching him. I could also ask my current roommate to feed him when I am gone, but this doesn't feel fair to my roommate, since it would be like dropping a cat on her. And the whole separation anxiety thing as well. I could take him to the new city, but I don't know anyone who could take care of him while I am gone, and I wouldn't want to leave him alone in a small unfamiliar space while I am home. To me, the best option would be to take him back and forth with me but I am worried that this will cause undue stress on the guy, since I can't imagine that being on 4-6 flights in a month would be easy for him. I was thinking about slowly introducing him to new places and taking him out on walks to get him used to being out and about beforehand (I will be moving in September, so I have some time), but I don't know if this is even possible. Thank you so much in advance for the help! This has been stressing me out like crazy.
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2024.05.17 07:36 theGama404 Dating a Single Mom (Chinese), But Having Doubts
Dear Reddit,
So, I (27M) met this beautiful Chinese lady (36F) who has a four year old daughter. It was just mere coincidence that she lives 300 meters from my home (literally) throughout all of Tokyo. On our first date she decided to bring her daughter over and I just fell in love at the first sight of them both. We walked around the park together after coffee and the daughter and I bonded so well! The chemistry I felt with the mother was honestly nothing I've ever felt before with any girl I've dated. It was truly phenomenal! We just clicked and got along so well! Now, I'd say I wouldn't date a single mother as my reasons stem from what I've read and seen on the internet (never first priority, baby daddy issues, etc.)
But, we've made some important discussions already that put me at ease a little, but I'm still skeptical and concerned about the whole situation:
- She's looking to get married within a year if our relationship flows smoothly. - She agreed to have another kid if I decided to want kids of my own. - Her ex does have some contact with her but it seems like he's living in China and is not truly involved with the child's life, but the details of this are not fully known yet. - She agreed that I would not have to pay expenses for heher child at this time (but I understand that the circumstances will change if we do get married, which is not an issue) - I will mention about budgeting together if we do start to get that serious. - She has told me about family drama after a small trip home, but she hasn't asked me to be involved with any of it (would this be a red flag?) - I understand that spontaneity is non-existent, but from my experience with dating Japanese girls, I'm used to waiting a month for dates anyway. So this doesn't bother me. - But, she has been more available as wants to be with me while I'm working (I work remote; she also works in IT)
We've only dated for two weeks and I really like her, but I want to go into this carefully as this is my first time going into a situation like this. Should I continue taking things slowly, or just break things off now before we go any further? I know there are men out there that will say it's better to find a girl without kids/baggage and that there's some unknown variables now, but I feel that I might miss out on what could potentially be a beautiful, loving relationship if I step out now. What are your suggestions?
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So, I (27M) met this beautiful Chinese lady (36F) who has a four year old daughter. It was just mere coincidence that she lives 300 meters from my home (literally) throughout all of Tokyo. On our first date she decided to bring her daughter over and I just fell in love at the first sight of them both. We walked around the park together after coffee and the daughter and I bonded so well! The chemistry I felt with the mother was honestly nothing I've ever felt before with any girl I've dated. It was truly phenomenal! We just clicked and got along so well! Now, I'd say I wouldn't date a single mother as my reasons stem from what I've read and seen on the internet (never first priority, baby daddy issues, etc.)
But, we've made some important discussions already that put me at ease a little, but I'm still skeptical and concerned about the whole situation:
- She's looking to get married within a year if our relationship flows smoothly. - She agreed to have another kid if I decided to want kids of my own. - Her ex does have some contact with her but it seems like he's living in China and is not truly involved with the child's life, but the details of this are not fully known yet. - She agreed that I would not have to pay expenses for heher child at this time (but I understand that the circumstances will change if we do get married, which is not an issue) - I will mention about budgeting together if we do start to get that serious. - She has told me about family drama after a small trip home, but she hasn't asked me to be involved with any of it (would this be a red flag?) - I understand that spontaneity is non-existent, but from my experience with dating Japanese girls, I'm used to waiting a month for dates anyway. So this doesn't bother me. - But, she has been more available as wants to be with me while I'm working (I work remote; she also works in IT)
We've only dated for two weeks and I really like her, but I want to go into this carefully as this is my first time going into a situation like this. Should I continue taking things slowly, or just break things off now before we go any further? I know there are men out there that will say it's better to find a girl without kids/baggage and that there's some unknown variables now, but I feel that I might miss out on what could potentially be a beautiful, loving relationship if I step out now. What are your suggestions?
2024.05.17 07:34 mertzie_plays I am questioning everything - marriage issue - getting divorced - REALLY LONG
I hate to make really long posts, but i think without context, the weight of my questions will not make sense. If you don't want to read the whole thing, I understand, but PLEASE don't comment if you are only going to read the last 4 sentences...
Pre 2008, She was kind of a gothic girl, attempting to recover from some questionable teenage choices. Was forced to go to Catholic school and mass until she was in HS, at which point she went to a public school and got pretty crazy. She had vaguely religious beliefs and morels (for the most part) but was 100% non practicing.
I was NOT religious growing up "at all". My dad was a brutal SOB, that was verbally and occasionally physically abusive to everything in his path. I did spend 6 months living with my sister and we went to "super church bible study service" on Saturdays. As I got older I started to have a non denominational blind faith.
We meet in 2005. By 2008 marriage was on the table and even though we had been 100% non practicing, she insisted that we get married in the catholic church. I had no issues with it. We did the classes, attended mass, and got married. Almost immediately after the honeymoon... she decided that she didn't really like going to a catholic church and after a little church shopping, we stopped going to any church.
Early 15 - 6 years married, IMO, everything in our lives up to this point has been going well. Of course we had some bumps in the road, but nothing major and no lasting issues. Now, she is pregnant and about to pop with out first child.
After my son is born she got very weird. For one... she stopped wanting to have sex, and previously that was a very common way for us to bond. I thought she may be having some PPDepression and thought nothing much of it. She took to parenting a baby really well, no issues there. Around the one year mark she started going out with "work friends", not coming home till midnight or 2am. She had NEVER done anything like this before, and I my mind started to wonder and wander....
2016, She came home drunk after a night of hanging out with "work friends". Now, keep in mind, usually she would come home half intoxicated and either jump into the shower or go straight to bed... but this night she came home and wanted to have sex (with protection).
And she is pregnant again.
Sex again goes full stop and she did not manage this pregnancy as good as the first. With our son or the unborn, but our relationship was a dumpster fire.... I change jobs so to could work normal hours and be more available for my son and her. Baby girl is born.
Despite a near immaculate conception, I was hoping a second child would make her happier... It didn't. It made it worse. Everything in our relationship is still BAD. She was so distant that I questioned if the girl was even mine. All the circumstances combined... secretly did a paternity test and the girl was/is mine. That put my mind somewhat at ease, but things were still rough... but about to get worse.
2017, Even though our marriage didn't feel like a marriage anymore, we were not outright fighting a lot. She was just very distant and had this "ora" of hate towards me. This was beginning of the inevitable end. She tells me that she can't stand sleeping in the same bed as me anymore.... considering she was only like 4 months post birth, and still nursing, it was stupid for here to go downstairs and sleep on the couch. So being the nice guy... I did.
Days turned into weeks, and I was really starting to struggle with the situation as a whole. But I kept giving her space... talking with her when she felt up to it. Weeks turned into months. The couch turned into a bed... in the basement. Months turned into years... but i don't want to get ahead of myself.
Over 17/18 she started getting very dark. Like I could see that she was having a psychotic break. I talked with her parents and they said she was diagnosed bipolar as a tween. I tried to be supportive. I tried getting her to go to counseling, with me, without me, anywhere, anyhow... she refused. We were still having regular conversations after the kids went to bed... where she mostly went over everything I had ever done wrong... beating me into the ground... I would apologize over and over. Sometimes it was "leaving the seat up that morning"... sometimes it was for some stupid thing I did 5 years prior.
Note, during our marriage, I never drank, did drugs, gambled, cheated, etc. I wasn't abusive in any way; quite the opposite actually, I was and in some ways still am very passive and let people walk all over me because I am so viscerally opposed to turning into my dad, that I tend to tolerate being mis treated rather than reacting to it.
SO over time, these discussions became less frequent but more toxic. They were more of an opportunity for her to verbally attack me for all kinds of things.. even things that were not real... or did not happen the way she remembers. She told me she didn't ever really love me, and that she lied, and she should have never married me, etc... Like really hateful stuff. I was seeing a counselor at this point because this was destroying me. I started thinking about divorce, but I kept hoping she would pull through. The conversations eventually stopped and we were just two disconnected people living in the same house.
As the kids started to grow into toddlers, she started to show anger towards them. Not like in daily life, but anytime they did something wrong. Now, admittedly, I am HYPER sensitive to this because of my childhood. She was becoming verbally abusive to them. Maybe not with the words chosen, but she would outright SCREAM at them... like "loose her shit, scream at them" for 5 minutes. It got to the point I was recording it.
After about 5 HUGE screaming fights with me about it... (I was threatening to call CPS on her and divorce her), she broke down and accepted that she was doing wrong.
Over the next few months, she started wanting to got to church. She was screaming at the kids less. While me and her were still just room mates, she seemed to be healing. As months turned into years, she continued to treat the kids better, and at this point we were going to church fairly regularly as a family. You would think this is where things get better... and you'd be wrong.
By 2021, she had dove 1000% into religion. And only practices the most extreme parts of almost every Christian based religion. No Pork, kosher only, All holidays are pagan. Mothers day, fathers day, birthdays, pagan. Christmas and easter are not guaranteed correct dates, pagan. Speaking in tongues... like anything that you can think of that a non Christian would call crazy... she does that.
Meanwhile she has become more and more toxic towards me. From not letting me spend time with the kids alone; to yelling at me, calling me a liar, evil, toxic, etc... even in front of our kids.
About 6 months ago her delusions skyrocketed. Behind closed doors, she believes that she is a prophetess. And she is blaming me for things that never happened. One example, she came running into the room, yelling at me "because I just called him stupid".... me and my son looked at each other, like what the heck is she talking about? I never called him stupid. We were talking about something silly he saw in a video. I told him "that's kinda stupid, don't ever do anything like that". A specific example... tonight I am tucking my daughter in... after out hugs and kisses, I am walking out and stumbling over things on the floor... I say to her "honey, you should focus on cleaning in here this weekend, the mess is getting a bit ridiculous". She smiles, throws me the "i love you sign" and says, "I know dad, I will".... and before my daughter could even finish her words, my wife is yelling from another room "how dare you call her ridiculous?". She comes trudging into the room, and shake my head and retreat back to my basement... she follows me the entire way, yelling at me for being rede and disrespectful to her daughter. Telling me that she will stand up for her daughter.... the entire way back to the basement.. , for something that didn't even happen.
But I digress, this kind of stuff has been happening more regularly. About 3 months ago, I put cameras up in the common areas of our house, because I am honestly scared that she is going to accuse me of doing or saying something that never happened. Something that she could scream from the roof tops. Something she could say in front to a police officer or a judge to get a divorce and full custody. I have used these cameras and recordings to prove to her, on several occasions, that she is wrong about a specific situation or downright delusional with others. And while she initially seemed receptive to "being called out", anymore she finds any proven inaccuracies to simply be an attack on her.
I am getting verbally assaulted over something that didn't happen... Shortly later, I pull the video and PROVE that she is wrong about it, and she STILL denies it or downplays it... I get angry... then that turns into her claiming that I am being verbally abusive TO HER!
This week, I told her that I am actively filing for divorce - not as a threat, but because I am actively working with an attorney, gathering the paperwork, and I am divorcing her.
Expecting her to attempt to reconcile, she leaves me a one page letter that has me question her sanity. I write her a 5 page letter in response, I clipped the last page, it is all text but NSFW.
I am using an imgur link of the letter and response, as posting pics is questionable in the rules. https://imgur.com/a/n6pJOBv
I guess my main question is: WHAT THE HECK am I doing, is she doing, are we doing... ? Am I okay or justified in getting a divorce? Should I feel bad about wanting to get full custody? Could her issues be a mental disorder or should I just "chalk it up" to religious freedom? I am questioning MY faith completely because of her actions justified by her faith. - How am I supposed to get past this?
Honestly, I am not even sure what to ask... I think I am just looking for approval or understanding... I would appreciate any constructive input.
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Pre 2008, She was kind of a gothic girl, attempting to recover from some questionable teenage choices. Was forced to go to Catholic school and mass until she was in HS, at which point she went to a public school and got pretty crazy. She had vaguely religious beliefs and morels (for the most part) but was 100% non practicing.
I was NOT religious growing up "at all". My dad was a brutal SOB, that was verbally and occasionally physically abusive to everything in his path. I did spend 6 months living with my sister and we went to "super church bible study service" on Saturdays. As I got older I started to have a non denominational blind faith.
We meet in 2005. By 2008 marriage was on the table and even though we had been 100% non practicing, she insisted that we get married in the catholic church. I had no issues with it. We did the classes, attended mass, and got married. Almost immediately after the honeymoon... she decided that she didn't really like going to a catholic church and after a little church shopping, we stopped going to any church.
Early 15 - 6 years married, IMO, everything in our lives up to this point has been going well. Of course we had some bumps in the road, but nothing major and no lasting issues. Now, she is pregnant and about to pop with out first child.
After my son is born she got very weird. For one... she stopped wanting to have sex, and previously that was a very common way for us to bond. I thought she may be having some PPDepression and thought nothing much of it. She took to parenting a baby really well, no issues there. Around the one year mark she started going out with "work friends", not coming home till midnight or 2am. She had NEVER done anything like this before, and I my mind started to wonder and wander....
2016, She came home drunk after a night of hanging out with "work friends". Now, keep in mind, usually she would come home half intoxicated and either jump into the shower or go straight to bed... but this night she came home and wanted to have sex (with protection).
And she is pregnant again.
Sex again goes full stop and she did not manage this pregnancy as good as the first. With our son or the unborn, but our relationship was a dumpster fire.... I change jobs so to could work normal hours and be more available for my son and her. Baby girl is born.
Despite a near immaculate conception, I was hoping a second child would make her happier... It didn't. It made it worse. Everything in our relationship is still BAD. She was so distant that I questioned if the girl was even mine. All the circumstances combined... secretly did a paternity test and the girl was/is mine. That put my mind somewhat at ease, but things were still rough... but about to get worse.
2017, Even though our marriage didn't feel like a marriage anymore, we were not outright fighting a lot. She was just very distant and had this "ora" of hate towards me. This was beginning of the inevitable end. She tells me that she can't stand sleeping in the same bed as me anymore.... considering she was only like 4 months post birth, and still nursing, it was stupid for here to go downstairs and sleep on the couch. So being the nice guy... I did.
Days turned into weeks, and I was really starting to struggle with the situation as a whole. But I kept giving her space... talking with her when she felt up to it. Weeks turned into months. The couch turned into a bed... in the basement. Months turned into years... but i don't want to get ahead of myself.
Over 17/18 she started getting very dark. Like I could see that she was having a psychotic break. I talked with her parents and they said she was diagnosed bipolar as a tween. I tried to be supportive. I tried getting her to go to counseling, with me, without me, anywhere, anyhow... she refused. We were still having regular conversations after the kids went to bed... where she mostly went over everything I had ever done wrong... beating me into the ground... I would apologize over and over. Sometimes it was "leaving the seat up that morning"... sometimes it was for some stupid thing I did 5 years prior.
Note, during our marriage, I never drank, did drugs, gambled, cheated, etc. I wasn't abusive in any way; quite the opposite actually, I was and in some ways still am very passive and let people walk all over me because I am so viscerally opposed to turning into my dad, that I tend to tolerate being mis treated rather than reacting to it.
SO over time, these discussions became less frequent but more toxic. They were more of an opportunity for her to verbally attack me for all kinds of things.. even things that were not real... or did not happen the way she remembers. She told me she didn't ever really love me, and that she lied, and she should have never married me, etc... Like really hateful stuff. I was seeing a counselor at this point because this was destroying me. I started thinking about divorce, but I kept hoping she would pull through. The conversations eventually stopped and we were just two disconnected people living in the same house.
As the kids started to grow into toddlers, she started to show anger towards them. Not like in daily life, but anytime they did something wrong. Now, admittedly, I am HYPER sensitive to this because of my childhood. She was becoming verbally abusive to them. Maybe not with the words chosen, but she would outright SCREAM at them... like "loose her shit, scream at them" for 5 minutes. It got to the point I was recording it.
After about 5 HUGE screaming fights with me about it... (I was threatening to call CPS on her and divorce her), she broke down and accepted that she was doing wrong.
Over the next few months, she started wanting to got to church. She was screaming at the kids less. While me and her were still just room mates, she seemed to be healing. As months turned into years, she continued to treat the kids better, and at this point we were going to church fairly regularly as a family. You would think this is where things get better... and you'd be wrong.
By 2021, she had dove 1000% into religion. And only practices the most extreme parts of almost every Christian based religion. No Pork, kosher only, All holidays are pagan. Mothers day, fathers day, birthdays, pagan. Christmas and easter are not guaranteed correct dates, pagan. Speaking in tongues... like anything that you can think of that a non Christian would call crazy... she does that.
Meanwhile she has become more and more toxic towards me. From not letting me spend time with the kids alone; to yelling at me, calling me a liar, evil, toxic, etc... even in front of our kids.
About 6 months ago her delusions skyrocketed. Behind closed doors, she believes that she is a prophetess. And she is blaming me for things that never happened. One example, she came running into the room, yelling at me "because I just called him stupid".... me and my son looked at each other, like what the heck is she talking about? I never called him stupid. We were talking about something silly he saw in a video. I told him "that's kinda stupid, don't ever do anything like that". A specific example... tonight I am tucking my daughter in... after out hugs and kisses, I am walking out and stumbling over things on the floor... I say to her "honey, you should focus on cleaning in here this weekend, the mess is getting a bit ridiculous". She smiles, throws me the "i love you sign" and says, "I know dad, I will".... and before my daughter could even finish her words, my wife is yelling from another room "how dare you call her ridiculous?". She comes trudging into the room, and shake my head and retreat back to my basement... she follows me the entire way, yelling at me for being rede and disrespectful to her daughter. Telling me that she will stand up for her daughter.... the entire way back to the basement.. , for something that didn't even happen.
But I digress, this kind of stuff has been happening more regularly. About 3 months ago, I put cameras up in the common areas of our house, because I am honestly scared that she is going to accuse me of doing or saying something that never happened. Something that she could scream from the roof tops. Something she could say in front to a police officer or a judge to get a divorce and full custody. I have used these cameras and recordings to prove to her, on several occasions, that she is wrong about a specific situation or downright delusional with others. And while she initially seemed receptive to "being called out", anymore she finds any proven inaccuracies to simply be an attack on her.
I am getting verbally assaulted over something that didn't happen... Shortly later, I pull the video and PROVE that she is wrong about it, and she STILL denies it or downplays it... I get angry... then that turns into her claiming that I am being verbally abusive TO HER!
This week, I told her that I am actively filing for divorce - not as a threat, but because I am actively working with an attorney, gathering the paperwork, and I am divorcing her.
Expecting her to attempt to reconcile, she leaves me a one page letter that has me question her sanity. I write her a 5 page letter in response, I clipped the last page, it is all text but NSFW.
I am using an imgur link of the letter and response, as posting pics is questionable in the rules. https://imgur.com/a/n6pJOBv
I guess my main question is: WHAT THE HECK am I doing, is she doing, are we doing... ? Am I okay or justified in getting a divorce? Should I feel bad about wanting to get full custody? Could her issues be a mental disorder or should I just "chalk it up" to religious freedom? I am questioning MY faith completely because of her actions justified by her faith. - How am I supposed to get past this?
Honestly, I am not even sure what to ask... I think I am just looking for approval or understanding... I would appreciate any constructive input.
2024.05.17 07:11 thesedays1234 How would you access this financial position? What can I afford to spend?
So, I'm in an unusual financial position. I am a 24 year old male. My only debt is $17,634 in student loans that currently aren't accruing interest.
For assets, I own a home I purchased at $85,000 in 2021 (currently Zillow and Realtor claim it's worth $139k+ but I don't believe that is anywhere close to reality). It's a 3 bed 1 bath in obviously a fairly affordable area. Realistically, it's in dire need of a bathroom remodel including a near gutting of the plumbing (original 1950s bathroom and plumbing). It's probably a $10,000+ repair job, and I'm going to say that is probably a necessary expense within the next 6-12 months.
I have $55,000 in a mix between cash, savings, and checking. I have $15,000 in a Roth IRA, $1,800 in an old 401k, and $1,500 in bonds. Then, I paid $85,000 for the house, even if it may be worth more today I'd still conservatively value it that. I own a 2014 Ford Expedition that's fully paid off I'd guess is worth $5,000. I'd conservatively estimate my net worth at roughly $140,000, though if you're Zillow/Realtor optimistic its 190k lol.
Now the thing is, I don't currently have a job. I got a degree, got a job out of college, it didn't work out.
Right now, I'm debating making a few purchases/expenses. The bathroom remodel is just about necessary at this point. It's gotten to the point there are leaks and the situation continues to get worse. It's probably going to be $10,000, and I think it's now just an expense I need to undertake before a pipe bursts and causes even more damage. Then, I really want Lasik Eye Surgery for $4,000-5,000 to hopefully not need glasses. I know it's not a necessary expense, but I view it as a quality of life expense I can probably get away with?
Don't really know, I guess unemployed at 24 with $50,000+ saved up, house paid off, and car paid off is not a common financial position.
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For assets, I own a home I purchased at $85,000 in 2021 (currently Zillow and Realtor claim it's worth $139k+ but I don't believe that is anywhere close to reality). It's a 3 bed 1 bath in obviously a fairly affordable area. Realistically, it's in dire need of a bathroom remodel including a near gutting of the plumbing (original 1950s bathroom and plumbing). It's probably a $10,000+ repair job, and I'm going to say that is probably a necessary expense within the next 6-12 months.
I have $55,000 in a mix between cash, savings, and checking. I have $15,000 in a Roth IRA, $1,800 in an old 401k, and $1,500 in bonds. Then, I paid $85,000 for the house, even if it may be worth more today I'd still conservatively value it that. I own a 2014 Ford Expedition that's fully paid off I'd guess is worth $5,000. I'd conservatively estimate my net worth at roughly $140,000, though if you're Zillow/Realtor optimistic its 190k lol.
Now the thing is, I don't currently have a job. I got a degree, got a job out of college, it didn't work out.
Right now, I'm debating making a few purchases/expenses. The bathroom remodel is just about necessary at this point. It's gotten to the point there are leaks and the situation continues to get worse. It's probably going to be $10,000, and I think it's now just an expense I need to undertake before a pipe bursts and causes even more damage. Then, I really want Lasik Eye Surgery for $4,000-5,000 to hopefully not need glasses. I know it's not a necessary expense, but I view it as a quality of life expense I can probably get away with?
Don't really know, I guess unemployed at 24 with $50,000+ saved up, house paid off, and car paid off is not a common financial position.