I am looking for stories where MC travel from one world to another after completion of missions. I have already read:

1. Cheating men must die
2. The antagonist's goddess attacks
3. Be Jealous
4. Call me the goddess of vengeance
5. Omnipotent AI's strategy to punish scums
6. I make scum men cry

LONG READING JUST TRYING TO EXPLAIN EVERYTHING
I started dating this girl last year in March 9 and everything was going smooth until I got cheated on a week before my birthday. she ended up getting pregnant but she got an abortion. Until now I never found if that child was mine or not.
we stopped talking in July and we started talking/seeing each other again in September but we weren’t dating but I had a lot of things inside me about what she did. during her birthday in September 16 a lot of stuff went down between her and I
I was depressed about the abortion so I ended up leaving the country and went to Mexico for 3 months during them months she kept watching my story without me not knowing until December 18 i caught her red handed and sent her the screenshot. We started talking again for 3-4 days and she cut me off saying that she kept thinking about the past and everything that happened in between us. so I let it be
I Came back to United States in January (2024) and she kept watching my story. she noticed that I was back around. She messaged me and we started talking again. everything was going good until I got arrested in January 29 and she stuck around until March 25 she decided to break up with me because she kept thinking about the past and everything that happened in between us.
I ended up getting released in abril 26 so I was the one that messaged her trying to see her again. she was already doing her things but I didn’t had a problem as long as I was seeing her.could care less about who she was seeing. Just last week may 8 she met this dude for the first time and slept with him the same night all because her emotions got to her thinking I was with a girl drinking bubble tea. On May 14 she texted me saying that “I can’t stop thinking about everything that had happened in the past” and blocked me from everything
We always run back to each other. I just don’t understand why?
my question are
Why does she let guys have sex with her the same night? this isn’t the first time that happens
How does she really feel about me?
Can we work things out in the future?
When will I hear from her again?

Today we talk about one of the most famous Sim in the Sims Series! I will give you all the facts while I tell all the story about Don and then I will collect the most interesting one and tell them again in the end as a small collection for the people who are already know the basic things of Don.
The Bio of the Household says:
"Who is Don Lothario? Is his engagement to Cassandra Goth genuine? And what about the rumor that her mother, Bella, was last seen scaling the deck of his condo?"
Don seems to be on first glance a mysterious Sim. He is engaged to Cassandra and it's already questioning the stability of this Relationship. Also the mother of Cassandra Bella is dissapeared on his condo. This brings up questions!
The Household only contains Don and his Bio says:
"So many ladies, so little time. When Don isn't thinking about dating, he's sleeping."
That shows that he is only interested into dating and women. He seems to be an attractive guy and do not have much other plans in his life.
If you load in the household for the first time, you'll be greated with a MESSY home, dirty appliances and trash on the floor. Don will roll Wants to Woo-Hoo with Dina Caliente and her Sister Nina Caliente, inviting Dina over and Woo-Hoo with 3 Different Sims. You'll get a pop-up message sayins: "Don's romantic life is really humming along! Maybe now's the time to put the moves on Nina Caliente. Pick up the phone to invite her over." If you follow that, you'll satisfy his first want to invite her over. If you done it, you'll get a new pop-up message saying: "Don wants to win Nina over, and it looks like she's slowly succumbing to his wily charms. Maybe now's the time to suggest a romantic soak in the hot tub!". If you send Don in the hot tub, Nina will automatically follow Don and both of them can Woo-Hoo. Don's Aspiration Bar will be filled and will be really satisfied for the day. After waiting for a while after the Woo-Hoo another Pop-Up appears saying: "This place is a mess! Use the phone to hire a maid." Kaylynn will be hired and work for Don. This is quite dangerous considering that he is in Love with Kaylynn. In Vanilla Sims 2, Sims will get jealous on you if you romance with someone else. So Kaylynn could get her heart broken.
Fun Fact: If you use the telescope on the roof of his condo at day to spy on his neighbors. Dina will always be the Sim that he spys on and she will come over to slap you. This is might be interesting for story because you could lit the flame before it even starts to ignite.
Don is in Love with Nina Caliente and Kaylynn Langerak at the beginning of the game. He is also engaged to Cassandra and got a Crush on Dina. He is Aquintence with Darren Dreamer. Interestingly, he seems to be more interested into Kaylynn, Nina and Dina then into Cassandra.
Don got 1 Point in Sloppy, 7 in Outgoing and 8 in Active. He is also fit. He seems to be an athletic guy but is also pretty messy with his sloppiness. Interestingly he works in the Medicine Career as an Intern (LvL4) and got 3 Points in Mechanic, 2 Points in Logic and 4 Points in Cleaning. It's weird he knows a bit about cleaning but do not clean. Maybe the devs wants to give us the hint to hire Kaylynn the Maid?
Don got high interests in Sports, Fashion, Animals and Weather. He dislikes Culture, School, Paranormal and Sci-Fi. His interests seem to be normal and hinting that he might be more the outdoor guy and less a couch potato.
His Family Tree is pretty simple and nothing special. His Grandparents from the father side (Carmelo and Mama Lothario) are both Romance Sims like him. Otherwise everything seems to be normal.
His memories shows his first Kiss was the Nina Caliente in his Teen age. After he aged up his parents died quiet immadietly. Then he had his first kiss with Dina and fell in love with Nina. Now it gets interesting. Bella rejected him for a make out and this was the same night where she disappeared! Now it gets more interesting. Afterwards he kissed Bella's Daughter Cassandra and the Maid Kaylynn Langerak. He fell quickly in Love with Kaylynn and had a Woo-Hoo with her that is marked as Woo-Hoo with Service Sim. Time past and he tried to do a public woo-hoo but Kaylynn rejected him and a few days later she accepted. After the public Woo-Hoo he fell in love with Cassandra and got engaged. But quickly cheated on Cassandra with Kaylynn and Nina. Something that is weird is the fact that he doesn't have a maid. He got a pretty dirty house, so the game gives ya the hint to hire a maid because he is a Slob. Maybe he used to hire her but in his memory were never Money problems or Repoman.
Now let's get some juicy facts! Shall we?

1. In the beta version of The Sims 2, Don had an unused hairstyle. It was a wavy, medium-length pompadour with an unusual texture. This hairstyle was removed from the game and cannot be accessed without the use of custom content. In one screenshot, Don was also seen wearing a blue sweater and tan pants, none of which can be found in his closet.
2. In "The Sims 2 Bon Voyage", there's an object called: ""Big Ol Glory" Tree Ring". Everytime you interact with it, you'll get a pop-up Message that says: "DL+CG", "DL+DC", "DL+NC" or "DL+KL" that are all shortcuts for Don Lothario and one of his Four Woman he dates.
3. If you use the telescope on the roof of his condo at day to spy on his neighbors. Dina will always be the Sim that he spys on and she will come over to slap you

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I have been with my girlfriend for just under 3 years. She has had 2 previous relationships that both ended when they cheated on her. Her first boyfriend she has not spoken to in 6 years and the other one she hasn't spoken to in 4 years.
Her first boyfriend recently messaged asking how she has bene and just wanting to catch up. She told me about it and told me she was planning on replying. I told her I didn't see why she'd want to bother talking to him when he's not in her life anymore but just said I can't stop her talking to him.
She told me a couple more times when he messaged but I believe they have been messaging slightly more than that. She mentioned today that he suggested them going for a drink with a few other friends and catching up. I told her I wasn't comfortable with her going and she asked why. I just told her it's disrespectful to be out drinking with your ex. She said she just wants to catch up with him and the other friends but I just repeated that I wasn't comfortable with her going.
I said if she chooses to go then that will be it with us since I'm no going to just sit back while she's out drinking with her ex boyfriend. She said I was being controlling but I just pointed out I was only tell her what I am comfortable with and what I'm not comfortable with.
She said I shouldn't be telling her not to go and should be fine with her going.
AIW for telling my girlfriend I don't want her going for drinks with her ex boyfriend?

It’s been less than 24 hours since my boyfriend of almost 6 months ended our relationship and I am completely lost. I love him so much and always will. I tried so hard to do what he wanted me to do despite me being completely overwhelmed. He drilled it into me that he would never leave me and I felt genuine love and reassurance from him all the time. He was perfect for me. I guess I couldn’t get my life together fast enough for me and he thought I wasn’t fully committed to him but I really was. I have an anxiety disorder and BPD so everyday things are extremely hard for me but despite all that I felt like he really loved me and wanted a life together but I guess he got sick of waiting for me to better myself. I did start making changes recently to better myself and our relationship but it wasn’t enough. I just wanted to be loved and understood despite how mentally ill I am and he made me feel like I was until he didn’t. I’m really struggling with the fact he was able to discard me so easily considering how much he expressed his love for me. Knowing I wasn’t enough for him is so painful. He left me on read for 4 hours and then I got the breakup text and was blocked everywhere within seconds. In the text he said he loved me more than anything so why give up on me so easily? I was just starting to better myself. I wasn’t abusive and I never cheated so I’m struggling to understand the need to completely remove me from his life. My heart hurts so much

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Am I the ahole? It’s a bit long and I will try to be directly to the point.
FYI. I’m 43f and all of these guys are in their 50s. Jim is early 30s. Not children.
My “boss” said (let’s call him Mike) I say that reluctantly because he considers me his best friend and I don’t. It’s a construction company paper management so we don’t do the actual labor it’s all subbed out.
We have 1 big client basically. And on my end the accounting side there system is so screwed up. It’s always a big thing to work out. My contact there, let’s call him Jim. I don’t know personally, we just email. All professional. I’m bubbly on emails “hope you stay dry! Enjoy your weekend”. His boss our liaison( Dick) if you want to call that. Well he’s a drunk, like has come into our office on a Tuesday drunk as a skunk, I know he cheats on his wife, takes bribes. Probably about 10k a year just from us alone. I’m sure from all of his vendors also.
Well anyway, I have spoken to Tom 3 times in the last two years. I looked up my phone records. Always short and cordial, the only reason I call him is when there is a big f up on his end, and I don’t want a paper trail so he doesn’t get in trouble. In the last 4 years they have told Mike that I am a bitch and rude to them. That I know of. The other day Mike told me they said that, oh and I’m not allowed to talk to Jim again.
Back story: Mike left his old company that I worked at in 2020. He started his own business, and I went with him. Now when I say this guy can be drama. He is. I’ve always had his back. Acted for years as his therapist. In the last year. Found out he’s a raging alcoholic he just hid it well. Like taking out a separate cc to hide his booze on spent 3k in Feb on it. November he decided he was gonna go to rehab. Who had to help organize that? Me And keep the business running while he was gone. Me. Leaves two weeks later. Goes back to drinking. He cheats on his wife, she finds out. 3 months of hell with him being a drunk his kids hating him his wife leaving him. Bought a Tesla crashed it within a week. DUIs. All sorts of crap. At this point I stay to make sure the wife has money so she can feed his kids. Like I even helped his son write college essays. That’s how well I know these people.
My point is, I have always had his back and gone above and beyond to help him. I asked him, well did you stand up for me? What did you say when they told you that? He said nothing, 1 because he didn’t want to. 2 they are his clients. 3 this is construction. I ripped him a new one. I Basically said if I don’t have an apology from Eric by 5pm on Monday I quit.
He keeps crying that I can’t leave him and he will lose the business if he does. And I said well maybe you should have thought of that before you let people talk bs about me.
Some points, I’m semi retired. I work because I like working. I don’t need the money. I value self respect. And I made sure he knew that.
Am I blowing this out of proportion?
AITAH?

English is not my first language so I use google translation. Please bear with me! 🙏🏼
I am a woman, 29, and have been in a lesbian relationship for three years. I am happy and secure with my girlfriend and our relationship, and we are soon getting married. I have never questioned my sexual orientation before or after meeting my girlfriend. Before her, I only dated guys, but when I met her, I just knew, She is my person.
We were friends for about 1.2 years and spent a lot of time together before I took the initiative to become more than friends. It wasn't easy at first, but because we had a strong friendship and knew each other well, we were able to build a stable relationship. Compared to my previous relationships where basic friendship and understanding or the desire to understand each other were lacking.
I have always had issues with guys, both in dating and friendship. Interests in my previous straight relationships started solely based on looks, and it really wasn't possible to just learn about them or hang out as friends, which never led anywhere. Stress and uncertainty in these relationships often made me feel like they were looking for something better. In some guy friend relationships, everything was cool until they got a girlfriend, and then it just went POOF in the air. 💔
Now I've started a new job where there's a guy who I initially found neutral, both in appearance and personality. I'm social and talk to EVERYONE at work, but I've noticed strange looks from colleagues when we interact. I didn't think much about it UNTIL during a shift when my colleagues moved him to my department three days in a row and seemed to expect a reaction from me when handing over information.

1. That made me start thinking more about him. There were no thoughts or feelings before this, so I'm not sure if I'm influenced by others. During the latest shift, I really felt a curious vibe and avoidant behavior between us. We avoided drawing attention, but I noticed that we often sought eye contact with each other.

We haven't really talked much, 2. which might be why I can't shake off the attraction and curiosity? Our conversations are always interesting and fun, even if they're about random things or work-related. I notice that we get looks when we're in the same room, so I try to keep it short and even avoid looking at him. We're both younger and good-looking compared to other colleagues, and we both seem aware of this and try to avoid drawing too much attention, even though we'd like to talk more (which we do as soon as there's no one nearby).
We work at a preschool, so I see how he interacts with the children and find him incredibly humble, which may contribute to the attraction. My confusion lies in not knowing if my attraction is 3. admiration for how good he is at his job, 4. if it's in a sexual way, or 5. if I find him interesting because of his calming energy, similar to that of my girlfriend. That's what got me interested in her.
I have ADHD and have struggled to understand and regulate my feelings on and off, and I'm not sure if this is something I need to confront or if I'm just influenced by my surroundings. I feel guilty and wonder if this is cheating on my girlfriend. Should I feel this way or not? Sooner or later, I will tell her everything because we have never kept anything secret from each other. I have been thinking, analyzing, and speculating about this for several days now. As I said before, I have never questioned my sexual orientation and have always found masculine women (like my girlfriend, who is androgynous) and humble men attractive when it comes to sexual attraction.
HOWEVER, one thing I have been thinking about for a long time since my twenties, when it comes to making friends of the opposite sex, it seems like we've been indoctrinated by norms and movies to believe that if two attractive individuals talk or hang out with each other or have chemistry, there "must be something romantic or sexual there". This frustrates me when I don't have that intuition?? And maybe that's one of the reasons why I don't have many guy friends. BUT I also get confused and conflicted when I find a guy interesting and maybe just want to be friends with him, as in this situation. That these norms haunt me. AND When it comes to making female friends, you don't get treated the same way by your surroundings.
I have never been attracted to a person solely because of their appearance, but it's the person's personality and our chemistry that determine whether relationships stick or not.
I would appreciate hearing what you think and feel about my situation. Has anyone experienced this before? If so, what did you do and how did it turn out?

English is not my first language so I use google translation. Please bear with me! 🙏🏼
I am a woman, 29, and have been in a lesbian relationship for three years. I am happy and secure with my girlfriend and our relationship, and we are soon getting married. I have never questioned my sexual orientation before or after meeting my girlfriend. Before her, I only dated guys, but when I met her, I just knew, She is my person.
We were friends for about 1.2 years and spent a lot of time together before I took the initiative to become more than friends. It wasn't easy at first, but because we had a strong friendship and knew each other well, we were able to build a stable relationship. Compared to my previous relationships where basic friendship and understanding or the desire to understand each other were lacking.
I have always had issues with guys, both in dating and friendship. Interests in my previous straight relationships started solely based on looks, and it really wasn't possible to just learn about them or hang out as friends, which never led anywhere. Stress and uncertainty in these relationships often made me feel like they were looking for something better. In some guy friend relationships, everything was cool until they got a girlfriend, and then it just went POOF in the air. 💔
Now I've started a new job where there's a guy who I initially found neutral, both in appearance and personality. I'm social and talk to EVERYONE at work, but I've noticed strange looks from colleagues when we interact. I didn't think much about it UNTIL during a shift when my colleagues moved him to my department three days in a row and seemed to expect a reaction from me when handing over information.

1. That made me start thinking more about him. There were no thoughts or feelings before this, so I'm not sure if I'm influenced by others. During the latest shift, I really felt a curious vibe and avoidant behavior between us. We avoided drawing attention, but I noticed that we often sought eye contact with each other.

We haven't really talked much, 2. which might be why I can't shake off the attraction and curiosity? Our conversations are always interesting and fun, even if they're about random things or work-related. I notice that we get looks when we're in the same room, so I try to keep it short and even avoid looking at him. We're both younger and good-looking compared to other colleagues, and we both seem aware of this and try to avoid drawing too much attention, even though we'd like to talk more (which we do as soon as there's no one nearby).
We work at a preschool, so I see how he interacts with the children and find him incredibly humble, which may contribute to the attraction. My confusion lies in not knowing if my attraction is 3. admiration for how good he is at his job, 4. if it's in a sexual way, or 5. if I find him interesting because of his calming energy, similar to that of my girlfriend. That's what got me interested in her.
I have ADHD and have struggled to understand and regulate my feelings on and off, and I'm not sure if this is something I need to confront or if I'm just influenced by my surroundings. I feel guilty and wonder if this is cheating on my girlfriend. Should I feel this way or not? Sooner or later, I will tell her everything because we have never kept anything secret from each other. I have been thinking, analyzing, and speculating about this for several days now. As I said before, I have never questioned my sexual orientation and have always found masculine women (like my girlfriend, who is androgynous) and humble men attractive when it comes to sexual attraction.
HOWEVER, one thing I have been thinking about for a long time since my twenties, when it comes to making friends of the opposite sex, it seems like we've been indoctrinated by norms and movies to believe that if two attractive individuals talk or hang out with each other or have chemistry, there "must be something romantic or sexual there". This frustrates me when I don't have that intuition?? And maybe that's one of the reasons why I don't have many guy friends. BUT I also get confused and conflicted when I find a guy interesting and maybe just want to be friends with him, as in this situation. That these norms haunt me. AND When it comes to making female friends, you don't get treated the same way by your surroundings.
I have never been attracted to a person solely because of their appearance, but it's the person's personality and our chemistry that determine whether relationships stick or not.
I would appreciate hearing what you think and feel about my situation. Has anyone experienced this before? If so, what did you do and how did it turn out?

English is not my first language so I use google translation. Please bear with me! 🙏🏼
I am a woman, 29, and have been in a lesbian relationship for three years. I am happy and secure with my girlfriend and our relationship, and we are soon getting married. I have never questioned my sexual orientation before or after meeting my girlfriend. Before her, I only dated guys, but when I met her, I just knew, She is my person.
We were friends for about 1.2 years and spent a lot of time together before I took the initiative to become more than friends. It wasn't easy at first, but because we had a strong friendship and knew each other well, we were able to build a stable relationship. Compared to my previous relationships where basic friendship and understanding or the desire to understand each other were lacking.
I have always had issues with guys, both in dating and friendship. Interests in my previous straight relationships started solely based on looks, and it really wasn't possible to just learn about them or hang out as friends, which never led anywhere. Stress and uncertainty in these relationships often made me feel like they were looking for something better. In some guy friend relationships, everything was cool until they got a girlfriend, and then it just went POOF in the air. 💔
Now I've started a new job where there's a guy who I initially found neutral, both in appearance and personality. I'm social and talk to EVERYONE at work, but I've noticed strange looks from colleagues when we interact. I didn't think much about it UNTIL during a shift when my colleagues moved him to my department three days in a row and seemed to expect a reaction from me when handing over information.

1. That made me start thinking more about him. There were no thoughts or feelings before this, so I'm not sure if I'm influenced by others. During the latest shift, I really felt a curious vibe and avoidant behavior between us. We avoided drawing attention, but I noticed that we often sought eye contact with each other.

We haven't really talked much, 2. which might be why I can't shake off the attraction and curiosity? Our conversations are always interesting and fun, even if they're about random things or work-related. I notice that we get looks when we're in the same room, so I try to keep it short and even avoid looking at him. We're both younger and good-looking compared to other colleagues, and we both seem aware of this and try to avoid drawing too much attention, even though we'd like to talk more (which we do as soon as there's no one nearby).
We work at a preschool, so I see how he interacts with the children and find him incredibly humble, which may contribute to the attraction. My confusion lies in not knowing if my attraction is 3. admiration for how good he is at his job, 4. if it's in a sexual way, or 5. if I find him interesting because of his calming energy, similar to that of my girlfriend. That's what got me interested in her.
I have ADHD and have struggled to understand and regulate my feelings on and off, and I'm not sure if this is something I need to confront or if I'm just influenced by my surroundings. I feel guilty and wonder if this is cheating on my girlfriend. Should I feel this way or not? Sooner or later, I will tell her everything because we have never kept anything secret from each other. I have been thinking, analyzing, and speculating about this for several days now. As I said before, I have never questioned my sexual orientation and have always found masculine women (like my girlfriend, who is androgynous) and humble men attractive when it comes to sexual attraction.
HOWEVER, one thing I have been thinking about for a long time since my twenties, when it comes to making friends of the opposite sex, it seems like we've been indoctrinated by norms and movies to believe that if two attractive individuals talk or hang out with each other or have chemistry, there "must be something romantic or sexual there". This frustrates me when I don't have that intuition?? And maybe that's one of the reasons why I don't have many guy friends. BUT I also get confused and conflicted when I find a guy interesting and maybe just want to be friends with him, as in this situation. That these norms haunt me. AND When it comes to making female friends, you don't get treated the same way by your surroundings.
I have never been attracted to a person solely because of their appearance, but it's the person's personality and our chemistry that determine whether relationships stick or not.
I would appreciate hearing what you think and feel about my situation. Has anyone experienced this before? If so, what did you do and how did it turn out?

Stats: 27M, 5’4 SW: 170 lbs, CW: 148.6 lbs.
This isn’t my first weight loss journey. I actually made it down to 132 lbs last year in October before i gained back upto 170 lbs during the winter.
So i am down 22 lbs again from 170 lbs to 148 lbs. The reason i am posting this is because i had been in a plateau for the past 2 weeks. I was counting my calories down to the oil i cook my food in and i was stuck at 152 lbs for the past 2 weeks. It would be like i am 152 one day and then 151 and back to 152.5 lol. I was like i am literally in a caloric deficit, how did i gain a pound? i knew this was just weight fluctuations but i still felt frustrated and on tuesday i had to pull back really hard from having a cheat day because i was sick of eating less and not losing weight for 2 weeks . Well on Thursday i weighed myself first thing in the morning and i weighed in at 149.6 lbs! This morning i weighed in at 148.4. So thats 4 pounds down in 2 weeks which equals my goal of losing 2 pounds a week. I havent changed the calories or anything. I am definitely expecting another plateau for 3-4 days atleast because there’s no way i am gonna drop a pound everyday but this is for someone who is sure that they are in a caloric deficit and not losing weight. Keep going and you will break the plateaus.

English is not my first language so I use google translation. Please bear with me! 🙏🏼
I am a woman, 29, and have been in a lesbian relationship for three years. I am happy and secure with my girlfriend and our relationship, and we are soon getting married. I have never questioned my sexual orientation before or after meeting my girlfriend. Before her, I only dated guys, but when I met her, I just knew, She is my person.
We were friends for about 1.2 years and spent a lot of time together before I took the initiative to become more than friends. It wasn't easy at first, but because we had a strong friendship and knew each other well, we were able to build a stable relationship. Compared to my previous relationships where basic friendship and understanding or the desire to understand each other were lacking.
I have always had issues with guys, both in dating and friendship. Interests in my previous straight relationships started solely based on looks, and it really wasn't possible to just learn about them or hang out as friends, which never led anywhere. Stress and uncertainty in these relationships often made me feel like they were looking for something better. In some guy friend relationships, everything was cool until they got a girlfriend, and then it just went POOF in the air. 💔
Now I've started a new job where there's a guy who I initially found neutral, both in appearance and personality. I'm social and talk to EVERYONE at work, but I've noticed strange looks from colleagues when we interact. I didn't think much about it UNTIL during a shift when my colleagues moved him to my department three days in a row and seemed to expect a reaction from me when handing over information.

1. That made me start thinking more about him. There were no thoughts or feelings before this, so I'm not sure if I'm influenced by others. During the latest shift, I really felt a curious vibe and avoidant behavior between us. We avoided drawing attention, but I noticed that we often sought eye contact with each other.

We haven't really talked much, 2. which might be why I can't shake off the attraction and curiosity? Our conversations are always interesting and fun, even if they're about random things or work-related. I notice that we get looks when we're in the same room, so I try to keep it short and even avoid looking at him. We're both younger and good-looking compared to other colleagues, and we both seem aware of this and try to avoid drawing too much attention, even though we'd like to talk more (which we do as soon as there's no one nearby).
We work at a preschool, so I see how he interacts with the children and find him incredibly humble, which may contribute to the attraction. My confusion lies in not knowing if my attraction is 3. admiration for how good he is at his job, 4. if it's in a sexual way, or 5. if I find him interesting because of his calming energy, similar to that of my girlfriend. That's what got me interested in her.
I have ADHD and have struggled to understand and regulate my feelings on and off, and I'm not sure if this is something I need to confront or if I'm just influenced by my surroundings. I feel guilty and wonder if this is cheating on my girlfriend. Should I feel this way or not? Sooner or later, I will tell her everything because we have never kept anything secret from each other. I have been thinking, analyzing, and speculating about this for several days now. As I said before, I have never questioned my sexual orientation and have always found masculine women (like my girlfriend, who is androgynous) and humble men attractive when it comes to sexual attraction.
HOWEVER, one thing I have been thinking about for a long time since my twenties, when it comes to making friends of the opposite sex, it seems like we've been indoctrinated by norms and movies to believe that if two attractive individuals talk or hang out with each other or have chemistry, there "must be something romantic or sexual there". This frustrates me when I don't have that intuition?? And maybe that's one of the reasons why I don't have many guy friends. BUT I also get confused and conflicted when I find a guy interesting and maybe just want to be friends with him, as in this situation. That these norms haunt me. AND When it comes to making female friends, you don't get treated the same way by your surroundings.
I have never been attracted to a person solely because of their appearance, but it's the person's personality and our chemistry that determine whether relationships stick or not.
I would appreciate hearing what you think and feel about my situation. Has anyone experienced this before? If so, what did you do and how did it turn out?

OK so after over 100 hours in this game here is my (third) heavily edited review. I actually love this game, the graphics are great, and the game mechanics are actually overall pretty good. I am highly tempted to give this game a favourable review because I really, really do love it, but it's let down by a few big points that in the end just cripple the game a bit too much and I feel it's only fair to let people know the truth. But, actually don't let that stop you from enjoying the game. I would STRONGLY encourage you to buy this game and enjoy it anyway. First of all, the PROS:
(1) This games is gorgeous and looks great, and runs great/ fairly fast on my system.
(2) The artwork is stunning, and the world building is top notch. You will fall in love with this world.
(3) The story line is well developed and you can see that a lot of love and time and heart has been poured into this. So kudos to the development team.
(4) Abrill is a lovable character and her look and feel is just top notch. Her outfits and gorgeous and she feels and plays well and will appeal to all gamers. You will not resent the fact that you are limited to only one character choice (You cannot customise your character, but later on you will be able to customise her clothing).
(5) The depth and layers of the game are intricate and well woven, and you can see that the team have done a lot of research and background legwork to bring a depth to this game that is actually not seen in a lot of games.
(6) I also have to single out the map for special mention as it is really fun to explore the map and this must have taken hours to develop. The map is it's own character in this game. Really, well done on the depth of detail here.
But now here are the CONS that are unfortunately letting the game down.
(1) Firstly, when it comes to farming, a major complaint is the mouse sensitivity in the farming mechanic (I'm not actually sure how much you can adjust that through the interface). When you're trying to lay down your farming rows, and then plant your seed, your cursor jumps all over the place making it infuriatingly difficult to actually do your farming preparation. The farming mechanic is very clunky and unfriendly compared to say a game like Coral Island (which makes farming a breeze).
(2) Secondly, the cat (your familiar) is part of the story line of the game, and is supposed to appear at pivotal parts of the game to continue the discussion and advance the story line for you. But he just never appears when and where he is supposed to, and you are constantly running all over the place looking for him and trying to trigger his appearance so that you can advance the story line to the next level. Maybe the devs can look into this but there should be a way to trigger his appearance so that you can move the story along. This is why I cannot at this stage recommend the game until this is fixed. NEVERTHELESS, I was able to continue playing the game, despite this.
(3) Thirdly, in addition to the above comments players should be aware that the game is pleasant but a frustrating continuous grind to actually get anywhere. It is one long slog to get the resources you need to achieve anything in this game. And that is a tediously slow process. You may enjoy that and call it a lazy or relaxing game, but most games would find that frustrating and boring. There should be enough reward along the way for you to achieve significant progress during the day or at least have some good in game guidance as to what you are supposed to be doing and where you are supposed to be going. Now that's all well and good if that was coming from the Cat familiar who is supposed to be guiding you, but as mentioned above he is nowhere to be found. There is also no in game prompt to look up the compendium or to go and research spells or how to use recipes, etc. I found myself having to use youtube videos or websites to get guidance how to play the game, and of that there is very little good guidance. It should not be necessary to go to outside sources to play the game. I ended up using the WeMod cheat for help with this game, but to be honest it doesn't actually help that much with this game. It doesn't get you much further.
(4) Fourthly, some of the characters do look a bit strange or weird, I'm not sure if they were going for non-white character appearance to make the game more inclusive, but it just comes across as very strange in appearance, almost freakish as if they are glitching. Weird colour scheme.
(5) Fifth, there is no voice acting in this game, and I feel that is unfortunately a major let down for a game this gorgeous. I understand that it keeps the costs down, and this game is already really cheap, but in the end it just lets the game down. This just comes down to personal preference. I guess I was spoiled by games like My Time at Sandrock.
(6) Sixth, is kind of an extension of the grind complaint but when it comes to finding certain resources you will just search and search and never find the resources that you are looking for (some of which are only available in certain seasons), some of which don't appear to be available AT ALL in the game yet. Also it appears that if you mine certain resources too often, the game actually starts rewarding you less. I noticed this with the Astra realm, and with the Mineral resources. If you go back to them too often, you do not get the good stuff any more.
(7) The game still crashes fairly often and that is quite irritating. The game only saves when you go to sleep at the end of each day and that might be a bit off-putting to some people. Unfortunately, when that happens you lose all your progress for the day. And that can sometimes be quite a significant amount. I don't understand why these farming/cozy games have this weird save mechanic that only saves every so often instead of just allowing you to save whenever you want, in my opinion, it's really stupid and nonsensical. I checked my graphics drivers and system updates, but no luck. I actually had to stop playing the game on one particular PC because it just crashed every single day on that particular PC.
So if you are willing to put up with all of the above frustrations, then by all means you will definitely enjoy this game. it's cheap enough, so yes go ahead and buy it! If you stick with it, it is a fun game and you will derive enjoyment from it. My final advice is this. Do NOT avoid this game despite all of the above. Definitely check it out, because the price alone on steam makes it worth it. For all you Cozy Gamers in this thread, I feel like you will be missing out if you avoid this game.

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It is my first year teaching and I was hired mid year to fill a vacancy at this school. This is a rough school. I came out of college equipped with an equity based mindset and ideas that of course you should be lenient with students, but the difference between what things were like at my student teaching placement and what things are like here is like night and day. There are multiple fights daily. There has been a shooting threat. A few months ago there was a stabbing. Students rarely if ever get any meaningful discipline beyond a talking to. Phone policies are non existent on a school wide level and are up to individual teachers to enforce.
As a young teacher who wasn’t able to establish routines on day 1, I was doomed from the start on phones, and I’m lucky if I have 3 kids looking and listening to me at a time. I started telling them that they wouldn’t get credit for work if they were on their phones while we work together and I guide them through answers to ensure I don’t need to repeat myself 25 separate times per kid, but someone complained and admin told me I cannot enforce this, so it’s back to being just as bad.
I teach seniors, so luckily the most violent kids in my class dropped out early, but those who stay get no discipline. For example, at the beginning of me working here there was a girl who did it all. Cut class, cursed me out, took phone calls in class, they didn’t do anything about her for 15 referrals until she threatened to attack me after school, and for that she got just one day ISS. They finally only took her out of my class when she told the whole room loudly that she doesn’t need to come to class to do work and from now on she’ll be picking up her work from me/checking schoology and doing it in another teachers room. Set a bad example of what the school represents, they said. Never mind that plenty of kids do this, she just said it aloud, so they addressed it.
We are two weeks from the end of school for seniors, one of those weeks being finals. I have extended deadlines 3 times to try and get them to succeed, but I still have around 1/4 of my kids failing. That’s like 40 kids who either don’t show up, don’t do their work, or both. For the ones who show up, I tell them in class to do their work to pass, but they do not listen. I call home to try and explain, but it either does nothing to change their work ethic, or the parents won’t pick up/have a full inbox for messages/blocked the schools numbehang up on me when I say I’m from the school.
I’ve been told that starting next week I’m going to need to answer to meetings, calls, and questions about why these kids are failing my class. This means around 40 angry parents asking why I am the reason they need summer school. All but the laziest skirt by their required math course with cheating/photo math, but they fail English because it requires a bit more work. All of my failing students are failing from a lack of work and attendance. Both are things I cannot fix for them or help them to improve without “pixie dust” (a term used by staff here to describe pretending to “find” non existent work to pass kids along.)
I’ve been told by the other seasoned senior teachers that it will be seen as my fault for not getting through to them. I’m already jumping ship and moving districts, but when I panicked about this and said that I’m scared of being screamed at and terrified of if this high failure rate will effect how I’m seen as a professional/ my ability to secure work elsewhere, I was told I’m heartless and not cut out for being an educator because I should care more about their futures than how I’m viewed, but I am genuinely scared for my livelihood. This is my first year as a teacher, and my coworkers are convincing me that because I haven’t bent over backwards to pixie dust work or call every week to non responsive families, that it is a me issue. These coworkers only have 1-2 on level courses and mostly deal with AP, honors, and ELA electives, but I have all on level regular classes full of unmotivated kids, some of which I have not seen in months.
I’m burnt out. Last night I had a panic attack where I couldn’t breathe and could not stop throwing up and crying. I don’t know what else I can even do. There are no consequences for them, but there will be for me. I don’t know if this is normal. I don’t know if teaching is for me if this is how it’s supposed to be. I’m so scared.

As a former goalie myself, I feel bad for Andersen, but I am the first one to say: "You need a goalie to stop the shots you should save, plus a few more". Unfortunately, Andersen didn't do what was needed. The defense could have done better as well, but NYRs 1st and especially the 2nd goal deflated the team, and it was clear the team didn't feel confident around Andersen.
But onto my attempt to be rational:
I agree about Andersen letting in softies at the worst possible times, but it is always easy to be clever in hindsight. I'm not sure I would have started the young kid without playoff experience, instead of Andersen when it matters the most. Andersen had better saved goals above expected per 60 than Kochetkov throughout the season, and was really hot when he came back from the injury. I can see why RBA would go with the less controversial pick, and I am also saying the decision is not an easy one to make. When you are in those shoes, you weigh pro's and con's, and try to determine or predict what would give the team the best chance to win.
No matter who was starting, RBA would have looked like an idiot if the team lost. "How the F*** could he start Kochetkov, when Andersen has been great since he came back?!" would have been the titles of everyones posts.
Was it the wrong call? Maybe, I don't know... But if Kochetkov would have crumbled and let in a softie, the reaction from everyone would be the exact same. You never know for sure before it happens. If he would save everything that was expected, but let in 3 or 4 goals anyway, we would come up with a reason for it: "The team doesn't seem comfortable around PK, we should have started Andersen!". It's like Catch 22.
However; Andersen may or may not be a cup winning goalie, but neither was Adin Hill before he suddenly became one out of nowhere. We just never know who's going to show up and be the difference maker. It could have been Andersen. Or Kochetkov, but it could have also gone down the shitter. People are speaking about PK like he is some proven cheat code, and I'm not sure he is.
I also hope Andersen doesn't bring himself down too much, be careful what you wish for. It's a person and a teammate we are talking about, and if he is selected to be on the roster next season, he needs our support.
We will move on, and come out of this stronger!

Hi guys, this sub has been really helpful throughout my CAT journey right from the exam to the interview prep and I am thankful for you all❤️ Today I feel stuck at a major crossroad in life and would appreciate any inputs from your side that would help my decision.
A bit of backstory:
Well, life has been a rollercoaster in the past few months. To begin with, I learnt about CAT around June last year as a final year BBA student in a tier 4 institute in my hometown. Being an average joe my whole life, I felt CAT could be my last shot at redemption and landing at a tier 1 institute, which had always been my dream. I decided to prep right away, joined a coaching, and started studying rigorously for it to the point where I was studying the whole day for it on my off days. I felt like all my hard work and sacrifice had paid off when I secured a 99.09 percentile in the exam. As naive as I was, I thought my job was done, as an OBC category student, I would easily get one of the BLACKI colleges. Soon the calls started rolling out and I got calls from ACLKIM, FMS, IIFT, MDI, NMIMS. I was on cloud 9 and thought the hard part is done. Out of so many colleges, at least one would give me a seat.
Fast forward to the results, I got admission from NMIMS soon after the interview but I couldn’t afford the hefty fees and living expenses and felt that I would get a better college, so, I let it go. Then the IIM results started coming and I was totally shattered when all the colleges rejected me one after the other. I felt cheated of the whole process and lost all hope for getting admission this year.
A good news and a bad news:
Only 3 days ago, after being rejected from all colleges, I got a convertible waitlist at IIM Mumbai (rn I am waitlist number 4), I was overjoyed and really excited to begin this new journey. However, life threw another challenge in my face. My mother was diagnosed with a stage 3, breast cancer the same day and would have to undergo 6-8 chemotherapy sessions for the next 5-6 months before a surgery. I went completely numb and couldn’t process my emotions for 2 days. For those of you who don’t know, chemotherapy is a poison for the body with the objective that it kills the cancer cells before it kills you. So, it has a long list of side effects that makes a patient utterly miserable. All of it with no surety of remission or survival.
The dilemma:
So, my mom is going to be utterly sick for the next 3-4 months with only my dad at home(he doesn’t work so he will be home full time) I am confused whether I should join IIM M which begins in the next 20 days and leave home or take a drop and stay at home to help my mom and dad. This question has been eating me from the inside. On one hand I really want to join the college because I won’t be getting a job with my current qualifications and on the other hand, I feel that one gap won’t have much of an impact kyuki exams and college toh bahot hote hai, Maa ek hi hoti hai :’)
Thank you for reading my post, it means a lot to me❤️

My GF (34) and I (33) have been together for 4 years. We have a son together. I have to highlight how loyal she has always been. She is a big introvert and I have NEVER been having any doubts about, nor have I ever been jealous... until now!About 2 years ago my GF got a new job in a company that has a lot of branches around in other countries. Due to this, she is travelling from time to time (lets say 3 times a year), and I have never had any reasons to be paranoid of insecure about it because of the way she is, she is not keen on the travelling because of the type of a person she is, she is not good at smalltalks or bonding with colleagues or people in general.
About 5 months ago she came to me telling me that her boss wanted her to go to (lets say) Paris for 3 days for a project that she had been working on since starting that new job. I knew she was working with a male co-worker on the project because that has never been a secret, she has always told me he was a very nice guy, very helpful and good at the job, but always assured that he was married with kids, and very not charming or her type at all. However, about 2 weeks before the trip I started noticing that her private phone became a lot more secret, but I wasnt sure if this was just myself telline me this, or if it was actually true because I would never expect something like this from her at all. She has very little friends, and she is barely ever on the phone (unless its family) and certainly not hiding it from me. I let it go until about 3-4 days before the trip. I was lying in bed reading when she got back home late (fitness class), she took her phone and sat on the couch in the living room and suddenly I could hear that she was texting with someone, like a lot (I know because she is one of those people who has the sound on when typing) for a long time (about an hour - 1,5) before I couldnt bare it anymore so I went out and confronted her asking who it was.
She almost jumped out of the couch almost as if I had just busted her in the middle of a murder, confessing that it was him, but that he was just a friend, saying he was not her type, he was married etc etc etc. basically defending herself. I was in shock and kinda blacked out so I dont remember much of that talk / discussion, but shortly after she "had" to urgently go for a shower, funny as she had been home texting with him for more than an hour, but suddenly shower couldnt wait. I was paranoid, insecure and afraid of what was actually going on. I couldnt believe it. next morning during work she wrote to me not to be worried and that it was just nice to have a "friend". I asked her if he was flirting with her, and she told me she did not feel like he was. I did not talk to her for 2 days after that before she came to me one evening saying that she missed me and that she was ready to have a second child with me (Something I have wanted for a very long time so that was a big thing for me) and suddenly everything had changed.
Monday morning she left for Paris and I didnt hear from her ALL day despite the fact that she knew exactly how worried I was. That evening around 8h00!!! pm ish she sent me a text saying she would call in 20 min. More of an "in 20 min, I have a bit of time so be ready!" in a very stressful way. We had a video call for about 20 min and I could sense immediately that she was tipsy if not drunk! and she told me they had just gotten back from work, and that they (according to her, another female colleague, the guy and herself). however, we spoke for about 20 min, she told me she missed me and loved me and it made me feel very good. I slept okay that night.
Next day (last full day in Paris) I didnt hear from her at all again. In fact I texted her during the afternoon that I felt a bit ignored, but again she told me they were busy and that I had nothing to worry about. That evening it was same story. around 8 pm she calls me, I didnt pick up because I was driving, and she asked me when I would be available for a call, again in a very stressful way, so I texted her asking why it was so urgent to which she answered and I quote "We worked so much all day, and I just want to see you because Im so tired I might fall asleep any minute".. AT 8 PM!!! on a business trip... I knew that was bullshit, but I chose to believe it. We had the call as I got home, and after 20 min she says the same, that she had to go to bed because she was so tired, lying on the bed in clothes.!
Next day she had to travel all day back home, this was on valentines day (very ironically), and again I barely heard from her all day. We had agreed long in advance that she would pick up our son and take him home before going to a fitness class (very expensive one that she had paid for in advance). Before arriving home I went for roses since it was valentines day. I got home just in time to see her before her class. She told me she had missed me and that she would never go back to that place, and that she would most probably dump that entire project. She went to her class, but left both her private and her work phone at home. I have never done anything like this before in my life because I had never had reason to do so. But my gut and my intuition told me that something was wrong. I opened the screen on her private phone and could see that she ofcourse had messages from him. I didnt manage to guess her pin code and instead I took her work phone, guessed the code first time and saw the very first message in their chat on Zoom. It was from the night she had told me about the second baby (only 2 nights before the trip) and I quote "Peace has been reinstated at home by a miracle, I will see you Monday"......... My heart pumped harder than ever before and ofcourse it caught my curiosity and I HAD to see more. For weeks, maybe months they had texted nonstop, all day during work via Zoom and evenings and weekends via whatsapp. Now, again my GF is not flirtatious at all so to her defence I would say most of her messages was simple answers which can be interpreted in both ways whereas he was very offensive, at one point very shortly before the trip she even asks him if he is flirting with her to what he is answering "I will let you decide that" and to which she replied "it doesnt bother me at all". I also found out that the night we had a video call when she told me she was too tired, while I was on her screen she had sent him a text sayin "ready to go"
She came home, I confronted her, she begged me to give her another chance assuring me nothing happened physically at all, and that they just had drinks. Next morning we both took off from work. I was exhausted and still in shock. That morning she called in sick, told him that she needed to talk to him in person and they had a call. She told him to stop texting her, and that what they have been doing was wrong and crazy and he agreed, but it didnt stick for long. Only a few days later he sent her messages saying that he missed talking to her and that it was all a misunderstanding, that nothing happened that can be considered cheating etc etc. I know that because she showed it all to me. She didnt reply to his messages.
Its been 4 months now, and I have had some really difficult days with bad thoughts and worries because they still work together which is really hard on me. We still talk about it from time to time when I need to share my worries. She keeps assuring me that they are strictly professional, and that they do not talk about anything but work. They have stopped communicated on whatsapp during evenings or weekends, that I know for sure, but about 1 months ago I felt so insecure that it got me to take her work phone again, and as I wanted to snoop I found that she had changed her pincode again which ofcourse sends me a signal that something is going on (at least in my head). What I CAN see are only the zoom messages on the start screen that he is sending to her (the notifications she is not removing from the start screen), but I cant read the messages she is sending back to him. I check the phone almost every evening since then, and funny enough she ALWAYS without exception has messages from him and it is very rarely something about work, it is not flirtatious either, but it is personal stuff that is not related to work which she promised me they wouldnt. For example her work requires her to work one weekend every 3 months and even saturday 10 pm he asks her if she needs any help and I know that he only does so to start a conversation with her, I mean 10 pm at night on a saturday you sit with your work phone in hand asking your colleagues if they need help?
I almost feel stupid for asking because, especially now that I have been writing it all down and read it through, it seems very obvious to me that I cant trust her, but I would like to hear your take on this. Should I be worried still? Can I trust her, should I leave her?
Should I confront her about the snooping ?

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