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Vent as a Scared DCAT Passer

2024.05.17 09:59 Beginning-Jacket5638 Vent as a Scared DCAT Passer

Hi! Ever since I got the news that I passed the DCAT (AB-CAM requesting to shift to AB-OCM) parang naluluha nalang ako haha. I was originally supposed to take MMA in Benilde pero biglang nagbago yung isip ko once I found out I passed the DCAT. I wanted to study communications naman but for a while talaga, I wanted to take MMA. Super tagal pa, I took the Arts and Design track for SHS in Benilde because of it.
DLSU has its perks for me, hindi ako magiging kampante masyado with the MMA courses I'm already familiar with, mapipilitan akong lumabas sa pagiging introverted at mahiyainbko, I can learn communications, do research, and study ethics and still do MMA on the side. Natatakot lang ako kasi, this is such a spur of the moment decision change for me. Parang nasira yung career plan ko kasi biglang ginusto kong mag-aral ng AB-OCM and not MMA. Parang last minute ko lang naisip na maging practical ng slight instead na habulin ung passion ko. Of course may family pressure na nakahalo diyan. Puwede daw ako mag-law after AB-OCM. Mas bagay daw (Hahaha).
I've asked my arts and design teachers about this, and they told me to take DLSU. I've asked my parents and they told me to pick what I want (through gritted teeth lolz), but right now I'm not really sure. Wala lang, I just needed to get this off my chest. :P
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2024.05.17 09:56 Remarkable_Loan7726 I'm so happy for my former HS teachers who moved abroad

In the past few days, I saw some pictures of my former high school teachers living their lives overseas and I found myself tearing up because I'm genuinely happy for them.
Alam ko ang struggles ng pagiging public school teacher dito sa Pinas. Overworked, underpaid, and sometimes underappreciated. Naging close ako sa teachers ko noong high school kasi lagi akong kasama sa contests or academic events. Bihira sila magkwento, pero I know they're struggling behind the scenes so I always do my best sa mga nasasalihan ko as a way of making them feel na importante sila sa buhay ng students nila.
Nasa UK na yung former math teacher ko ngayon, and her smile is so different. Alam mong natural and hindi stressed. She's with her British husband and their 1-year old kid. Another is my former science teacher na nasa USA naman and he also looked vibrant sa pictures with her current gf. Complete sa equipment and facilities, and hindi na need maglabas ng pera sa sarili nilang bulsa. Madalas din siyang nagta-travel state by state, unlike dito sa Pinas na halos once a year lang siya makapag-vacation at napakarami pang loans.
They taught me invaluable lessons aside from the ones they teach inside the school premises, and I think I'm a very different person in a lost path without them. Sobrang saya ko kasi deserve nila yung tinatamasa nila ngayon. At the same time, nalulungkot din ako sa teachers here na stuck sa crappy system. Hindi naman mangingibang-bansa kung maayos ang kalakaran dito. Hindi deserve ng Pinoy teachers ang basurang treatment sa sarili nilang bansa.
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2024.05.17 09:18 royalreload Unbearable dean & toxic learning environment

Dean and Classmate are contributing to a toxic learning environment
Last week, our dean asked us to write 100 items worth of definitions surrounding our subjects with her, and since she handles 4 of our subjects then we had to write down 400 definitions to be passed this week, Wednesday. Most of us finished within 2-3 days and we were able to submit yesterday. Here lies the problem. She was out yesterday so all of our notebooks were returned back to us since if we left them in the classroom then it might get lost. Later on, we found out that the classmate that our dean favors actually passed the notebooks after every one of us had left the school. She did not even tell us that she was going to pass it so today our dean told us in class that she will not be accepting our outputs because she gave us ample time to pass and even said "wag kayong magmakaawa sa akin at hindi ko talaga tatanggapin yan." We were fuming because she or that classmate could have at least updated us about it. Why does the fault lie in us when the only way she was communicating with us was through that classmate? So we went to her office to try to let her know about what happened and she really doesn't want to accept it.
For further context: my school is in the countryside and she's pretty much the only full time professor for our program. We basically only have two other professors to handle all the other major subjects. She is genuinely incredibly unbearable. Instead of teaching us, she just makes us report all our topics and gets mad at us if we don't understand anything in that subject. In our exams we don't even know where she gets the test items and she doesn't even want to give us pointers to review leading us all to fail. And after knowing that most of us failed, she will then proceed to call us "bobo." Then we also have her favorite student who is competitive so she really tries to sabotage us.
Above was written yesterday so these are updates from today: Our dean today said that since our school gives quality education (we only have one lab, one classroom, and pretty much only one professor) so next year our tuition will be costing around 40k per sem para mapantayan yung other schools. Which was weird because a school which has the same curriculum as us offers 28k per sem and they have way better resources, teachers and facilities. Not only that but, our internship will apparently cost at around 120k? My friend from a more prestigious school in our place has a 100k+ internship for pharma only because it's at Thailand. Ours is only at the smaller cities in Luzon, not even Manila. Anyway, today we also found out from the transferees that they were to able to pass their notebooks even though they only passed today. Our classmate and dean really doesn't want to accept ours. I genuinely think she sabotaged us because she really hates our group of friends.
We wanted to report her to the higher ups or to CHED but if we do, then we would all have to either deal with her anger issues or move out because if she gets removed then the entire program will get removed as well.
Our course is already hard enough as it is and dumagdag pa sila. I am genuinely so sick of this.
Thanks for reading this rather lengthy rant :')
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2024.05.17 08:44 onlylakshh Pls tell what to do now

Bhai Mera 29 2nd shift tha and then 6 shift 1 tha dono baar high cutoff gaya in dono ka mera pura jee kharab ho gaya And being a dropper I got 1.3 lakh rank kya koi h jiska same aaya h pls tell koi college h jo mil sakta h Last year meri rank 30 k thi 97 percentile aai thi kuch iss baar kharab shift ke wajah se suffer karna pada Mere dost ki 95 thi last year uski bhi 27 1st and 6 1 ke wajah se sab kharab ho gaya uska 91 aai h Har baar meri galti nahi hoti kismat and bhout cheeze matter karti h Mene to saare questions kare h ra sir ke Ashish sir ke saare ktk saleem sir ke saare kpp DPP and then bhi nhi hua Aur Jo one shot dekhe unka ho gaya Bhai kuch samaz nahi aara kya me itna deserve nahi karta tha ki qualify ho jau kya one shot jisne dekha h uske pass mujhe jyada knowledge ho gai Abe ye aasan paper me yahi ek dikkat h ki upar upar se padke sabko benifit milta h me fir chut** hu Jo 1 month lagaya conic ko dia And bhai conic se 1st shift me to simple formula based aaya and then 2nd me 3 questions the jisme se 2 bonus kar diye and mene usme total me 20 25 min lagya tha wo bhi sab waste time Bhai kuch samaz nahi aara lag raha h sab khatam ho gya tbh Socha tha teacher interaction me aaunga sab khatam ho gaya Bhai hope se aage life me opportunity na jaye hath se lekin bhai dukh to hota h isse badiya pichle saal nit chala jata iss saal to kuch mil he nahi rhaa Let me tell you one more thing Vit me meri 15 k h 5 cat mil Rahi h Vellore me cse wo me nahi le sakta Comedk me mene hug dia tbh Bits me mere pichle saal 280 marks the lekin mere board me overall 83 h lekin pcm me 74.8 h iske wajah se addmission nahi hua bhai kuch nahi bacha mere pass mene aur koi bhara he nahi tha paper Edit -ek cheez aur Bhai meri 0.02 percentile se chuta h cut-off meri Jan me 93... Aai mujhe laga 92 tak jayegi and mene tabse adv ki tayari shuru kardi mene pw ka Varun batch shuru Kara aur bhi 2 batch kar rha tha mkc gaand fat gai 2 St 29Jan evening 100- me bhout nervous ho gaya tha 1nd 6 Jan morning 140- mene bhout saari galti kardi
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2024.05.17 08:17 FlashyMind6862 Mga student naimpluwensiyahan ng online sugal.

Public School teacher ako at nakikita ko na nahihikayat ng mga ptang inng ML streamer at influencers na magsugal ang mga student. Nakakaalarma ang ganitong pangyayari, pinagsasabihan ko na lang sila pero who knows if makikinig sila sa akin. Kaya sa mga streamer at influencers na nagpopromote ng sugal isang malaking PTANG INNG NIYO ISA KAYO SA CANCER NG LIPUNAN NA TINUTUKOY NI RIZAL!
P.S sorry sa badwords.
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2024.05.17 07:55 lotosaseu I flew on a plane piloted by a woman and this happened

So a couple of days this happened and I shared it on one of my private women’s groups. And the ladies asked to share it with more people. So here goes.
I was flying home from one event. I was given a seat in second row of the plane and as I sat in that place I got this weird feeling as if the universe put me in that particular place for some reason. At first I thought maybe I will get a reward of being alone in the row of seats so I can sleep more comfortably, but as the last people came in someone sat next to me and I realised I was wrong.
A man with his wife or girlfriend came up to the first row and asked the female flight attendant if they could use the WC before liftoff. The flight attendant said it would be fine, but they would have to wait until all other passangers have boarded. As they were waiting for the WC, they realized that the places in first row are free and so they asked, if they could use them (because, as I understood, they wanted to sit together, but they got separate places). The flight attendant responded that these seats are 20 euro more expensive and they decided to buy them. As I was listening in on the conversation, it was obvious from the way he spoke, that this man was an intelligent and respectful person.
When he sat in this place, he peaked into the pilot’s cabin and said loudly and with a surprise in his voice to the female flight attendant “will the pilot be a woman today?” (I expected him to praise her, but the next sentence rapidly changed my perception of this man…) “Is this even safe?” I was shocked. I saw the flight attendant made herself smaller and said “she is a very experienced pilot”. Then he asked “Very experienced? How old is she? She looks really young… Or maybe she’s like 40?” Now at this point I wanted to scream. But what actually came out of me was a snicker with a headshake. The man that sat next to me asked what this other guy said that made me react this way, I explained and saw a supporting look in his eyes.
After the conversation between the guy and flight attendant ended, I observed her as she had to do the security dance that they always do before the flight. As I have quite an extensive flying experience, I don’t usually take time to watch this safety instruction, but this time I was observing very attentively. Her body was doing the moves and on her face you could very clearly see pain: the type of pain that you have when you want to cry, but you can’t allow yourself to do it.
When the plane lifted, I fell asleep. I woke up an hour later and I received this clear message that I had to pass on to the pilot. At this moment I was extremely happy I bought a pen as I was thinking I would write some song lyrics, while waiting for the plane – I didn’t write much, but now I knew why I needed that pen. I found a small part of the paper that was not full of random lyrics of mine and prepared it for the message. I was very worried to make a mistake on the only small piece of paper I had, so I practiced what I wanted to write next to my lyrics before I actually wrote it out on the page, so this is why I still have the actual text I wrote.
“Hi,
I wanted to express, how sorry I am that you have to experience ignorant comments from m*sog*nist men for choosing to be a pilot.
I believe by following your passion you uplift & inspire women & especially girls that get to experience flying with you.
Some weak male egos get threatened by this, but this is a very needed process for the change that is occurring in the collective in finding more balance after a long history of patriarchy.
On behalf of all the little girls of this world
Thank you.”
As the crew started preparing for landing, I stopped the flight attendant that I saw was really affected by that situation, gave her the piece of paper and I said „This is not trash. This is a message for you and for the pilot. Read it first and if you feel like it, share it with her too.“ The flight attendant thanked me and then read the message. She looked at me with a very warm smile and said she will definitely give it to the pilot. She then pulled back the little curtain they have in their area and invited two other female flight attendants that were on the flight for a chat. I saw them reading the paper, then I saw her pointing to the guy (presumably explaining the context for my message). All three of them then looked at me and smiled warmly.
But then I started having thoughts that I should say something to this guy as well. And the first thoughts that I had weren‘t very nice. Then I heard my teacher‘s voice in my head saying „Now is your chance to turn your poisons into pearls“ and I realised that I do want to draw a boundary, but with love.
When the plane landed, I quickly grabbed my stuff and as I was waiting for the door to open, I was observing this guy collect his stuff. When he finished and stood up to wait, I gathered all my courage (I literally felt my feet physically tremble how afraid I actually was) and I told him:
„I would like to tell you something, because I feel you now have a chance to learn and to grow.
For this lady to pilot this plane, in her studies and work she had to show a degree of excellence that was way above most of her male peers. And this is because of such ignorant viewpoints like yours of some male teachers and colleagues that she must have had in her life. I truly hope that if you ever have a daughter you will not make her feel smaller the way you tried to make the pilot of our plane feel today.“
He said „you probably did not hear the end of our conversation. In the end I told the flight attendants that actually probably it is true that flying with women is safer. And that all of it was a joke“.
I answered „True, I didn‘t hear this part. But then your joke was not funny. Because I saw their reaction. And it was not funny for me.“
I noticed a small supporting smile from the man that sat next to me during the flight. The door oppened and the guy from the first row stepped to the side to let me leave the plane first.
Today absolutely by chance I saw these statistics (from the Female Quotient in fb):
„Women make up less than 20% of the workforce in most aviation occupations: Only 5% of pilots are women and women make up about 6% of airline CEOs. <..>“
I don‘t know what you can take from my story. But what I hope is that you allow yourselves to fly in a pursuit of your dreams whatever your dreams might be, regardless of some men that get scared so easily.
P.S. I got some criticism on the story sounding fake and also that I seem to think I am somehow above all the people I've encountered. This is definitely not the case. I just felt some stronger connection to my inner light on that day. On most days I would not have enough courage to even give a message to the flight attendant. I would not even think of addressing the guy. And I would not expect any person to always be able to stand up for what they feel is right. It took a lot of energy from me. I was literally crying while writing the little note. This was a story of me personally overcoming my fears that made me feel a bit more empowered.
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2024.05.17 07:20 LieIcy3471 Required ba na kailangan mapapirmahan lahat ng sub teacher ang clearance or required ba na kailangan mag pasa???

Hi guys i'm high school student, so un nga bali 8 ung sub namin sa lahat ng sub naka pag papirma nako may tatlo nalng na hindi and kanikanina lang nung pag kauwe ko hindi ko na mahanap ung clearance kooooooo hindi ko maalala kung saan ko nailagay, kasi eh talagang mabilis ako makalimot and kanina parin ako nag papanic kasi nawawala ko siya, ang naaalala kolang eh nag punta kami ng canteen ng mga kaibigan ko para sana mag papirma then ayon sabi ng tle teacher namin sa monday nalng daw tas ayon umalis na kami then hanggang sa nakauwe ako dun ko na nalaman na nawawala clearance ko pilit kong inaalala di ko talaga maalala kung san ko nailagay😭😭😭😭 iniisip ko na baka bumalik ako if hindi ako nakapag pasa ng clearance, as in guys hinalughog ko pati bag ko ala talaga diba usually bago pirmahan ng teacher ung clearance mo may ipapagawa muna and na aano ko kasi kung uulitin ko mag papirma sakanila baka ipaulit nanamn nila ung mga pinagawa nila😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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2024.05.17 06:05 literally_ganyu resonance kota 😂😂😂

resonance mat jana. worst mistake of my life. udhar teachers ko salary nahi mil rahi. ~90% of them have left. bhai 11th ke end wale chapters sab mitti me mil gaye. geometrical optics ud gaya 😂😂😂abhi organic ko chhod ke saare H.O.D padha rahe hai. any suggestion plspls kaise khatam karu ye chapters.
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2024.05.17 06:01 Fancy_Possible9554 Read all your comments also did a small comeback

Read all your comments also did a small comeback
Hello Everyone i read all your comments and messages !
Thank You soooo much for supporting me bhaut aacha laga sbake message padh kar felt really supported.... Now i am really doing great continuing with my jee preparation of drop year
Sorry if i couldn't reply on time was busy with CUET Exam Preparation
By the way during my class 11,12 mera maths school teacher bolta tha apne marks dekh aur ( some other guys) ke dekh kitne jyade hai uske daily sunta tha usse mai
Board's result ke baad unke maths, chemistry, physics me RT ( fail ) aagayi.....jiske bhi naam boolta tha sbake marks 60% me reh gaye 🤣👈
Uss master ko message kia " kya sir jiske naam lete the wo sab toh fail/60% aagaye " usne block kar dia
2 saal trauma dia tha usne
mere 89.01% bane
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2024.05.17 05:53 Fancy_Possible9554 Thank you sooo much for your wishes also did a small comeback

Thank you sooo much for your wishes also did a small comeback
Hello Everyone i read all your comments and messages !
Thank You soooo much for supporting me bhaut aacha laga sbake message padh kar felt really supported.... Now i am really doing great continuing with my jee preparation of drop year
Sorry if i couldn't reply on time was busy with CUET Exam Preparation
By the way during my class 11,12 mera maths school teacher bolta tha apne marks dekh aur ( some other guys) ke dekh kitne jyade hai uske daily sunta tha usse mai
Board's result ke baad unke maths, chemistry, physics me RT ( fail ) aagayi.....jiske bhi naam boolta tha sbake marks 60% me reh gaye 🤣👈
Uss master ko message kia " kya sir jiske naam lete the wo sab toh fail/60% aagaye " usne block kar dia
2 saal trauma dia tha usne
mere 89.01% bane
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2024.05.17 03:43 gothjoker6 Pikon na ko sa mga fat jokes ng Lola ko sakin

For context lang, she started living with us ilang months na. My tita who is a teacher can't take care of her anymore because of her demanding work as a teacher. Di na din sya nakaka kain at nakaka paligo ng ayos since si lola na lang talaga naiiwan mag isa sa house nila. Minsan nga di na nya alam if naiinom ba nya yung meds nya. My mom na panganay nyang anak took her in because of her condition. She's gotten better this time mula ng tumira sya sa amin, nakaka paligo na at nakaka kain na ng tama, naiinom na din nya ang gamot nya sa tamang oras. What really annoys me is wala na syang bukang bibig sa tuwing nakikita ako na,
"ang laki ng kaha naman nito ah"
"anong pakiramdam na mataba?"
"Di ba mataas bp mo? Ang laki mo na eh"
"tama na ang kain, lalaki na sobra tiyan mo, mukha ka na buntis nyan"
"Malaki ka pa sa Tatay mo ah"
"Bawas bawas ng kain, sobrang laki mo na"
Dude, that's like clockwork, tuwing uuwi ako galing work... Naka upo sya maghapon just watching Netflix at di talaga maiiwasan na madaanan ko sya kasi nasa salas sya.
May times na napipikon na lang talaga ako, at instead na may masabi ako eh, iniiwasan ko na lang talaga.
Triggered ako lalo na yung issue with Miles Ocampo's birthday greetings ni Joey De Leon last time sa Eat Bulaga.
I remember that time din in my life na regularly ako naka gym, sobrang payat ko na daw, payatot na daw ako, tama na daw ang sagwa daw mukha daw ako may sakit. Tang ina ?! Saan ba ko lulugar?! Hahahaha di ko to sinasabi kahit kanino pero yung mom ko napapansin yung pag iwas ko, sinasabi na lang nya na intindihin ko na lang daw kasi may sakit nga, which is yun naman ginagawa ko kahit madalas eh pikon na pikon na ko talaga at best thing na gawin ko na lang ay umiwas. Minsan eh nati tripan ko din naman kausapin sya at sinasakyan ko na din minsan na "marami na kasi ako pambili ng pagkain"... Pero not always I'm in the mood for this. Maiksi lang pasensya ko talaga.
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2024.05.17 03:11 kiaaaang ABYG kasi pinagpaglit ko yung bf ko sa seaman

Hi, I'm Bea (not real name ofc), turning 23, BSTM graduating student at Gordon College.
17 pa lang ako nung nakilala ko si Dan (not real name), he was 22 at that time. Oo, malaki age gap and some might even say na na-groom ako but no; no abuse, manipulation, no exploitation and we didn't even had a s*xual relationship until I was 21.
Tbh, nung nakilala ko siya ay broken ako sa ex ko na niloko ako and I was looking for comfort that I wasn't able to find from my friends and family but I found it on him. This was during my summer job at a resort near where I live and yung anak ng owner ng resort ay friend ni Dan kaya palagi siya nandoon. Lagi sila tumatambay sa resort kaya lagi ko din siya nakakahalubilo until napasama ako sa inuman nila kasi niyaya ako at sino ba naman ako para tumanggi, diba? Nakakahiya kais yung anak ng may ari ang nagaya sa amin na nga nagtatrabaho doon.
I got to know Dan and magiging honest ako, nilandi ko si Dan. Simula nung inuman na yon, lagi ko na siya binabati at nilalapitan, makalipas lang ang ilang araw ay nagpapahatid ako sa kaniya sa bahay namin lalo na pag dala niya yung kotse nila, kaya nung nalaman yon ng ex ko ay bigla niya gusto makipag balikan pero si Dan na ang gusto ko.
Mahirap lang ang pamilya ko, nakatira kami sa tabing dagat at dikit dikit ang mga bahay doon. Yung Mama at Papa ko, hiwalay na at parehas na silang may ibang kinakasama. Yung ate ko naman ay naglive selling pero may anak din siya na sinusuportahan. Nag-summer job ako para makaipon dahil incoming first year college ako, kailangan ko ng ipon para maka-survive ng ilang buwan sa allowance ko. Nagpasukan na ng college at medyo nakakaluwag luwag naman kasi binibigyan pa din ako ng baon ni Mama. May scholarship din na 5000 galing sa Mayor, 1k per week ang binabaon ko kasama na doon ang pamasahe na 120 pesos balikan.
Nagduduty pa din ako sa beach pag wala akong pasok, may mga online class pa din kasi nung time na 'to. Nagwork na din si Dan sa resort para maging driver nung may ari at minsan ay utility, IT graduate si Dan pero nahirapan siya bumalik sa trabaho niya kasi tinanggal siya nung nag pandemic kaya pumasok na lang siya sa resort. Gabi gabi niya ako hinahatid pauwi, araw araw kami magkausap hanggang sa sinabi niya na gusto niya ako kaya sinabi ko din na gusto ko siya.
Naging kami a week before I turned 18 (over a month na since inamin namin na gusto namin isa't-isa) and sinabi ko sa kaniya na hindi ako magcecelebrate ng 18th birtbday ko kasi wala naman kaming pera. Dan insisted na maghanda pa din kami pero ayaw ko gastusin yung sahod ko kasi allowance ko yon tuwing may face to face pero Dan insisted na bibigyan niya ako ng pera para lang makapag handa ako.
FAST FORWARD
2nd year college na ako and 19 years old na, umuwi si Mama sa bahay kasama yung kikakasama niya at sinabi na doon na daw ulit sila titira (where Ate, her family and I have been living for 4 years na kami lang). Naging crowded bigla yung bahay kasi maliit lang naman talaga at tuwing dumadalaw pa si Papa ay lagi sila nagaaway, buti na lang at minsan nandun si Dan para awatin sila, inaaway pa ni Dan ang mga kapitbahay namin na pinapagchismisa kami. Naapektuhan yung pagaaral ko kasi ang toxic na sitwasyon sa bahay, napressure din ako kasi hindi ako makapag-ambag sa bahay dahil hindi na ako nawowork sa resort, naging face to face na kasi lahat. Feeling ko naging pabigat ako sa bahay at kay Dan kasi binibigyan niya ako allowance tuwing may kulang, parang naging safety net ko si Dan. Siya na kasi magbabayad ng half ng tuition ko kasi half lang kaya ibigay ni Mama, binibigyan din ako allowance ni Dan then may extra para sa mga wants ko.
Natapos ang first sem na wala akong bagsak pero ang baba ng grade ko, nawala ako sa Dean's List pero okay lang naman kila Mama and Dad suggested to take me in. Malaki yung bahay nila Dan, nakakapunta ako doon tuwing may okasyon sa kanila, bihira lang din kasi sila tumanggap ng bisita dahil strikta yung Mama niya. Hiwalay din parents ni Dan, dating OFW yung tatay niya at nakapundar ng bahay at dalawang sasakyan. Yung tatay nila ang umalis kasi may iba nang kinakasama pero iniwan sa kanila ang lahat, Teacher naman ang Mama niya at mataas na din nag rank kaya malaki ang sahod, may kapatid siya na teacher din at yung isa naman ay architect, then yung bunso nila ay nagaaral din na kasing edad ko, IT din ang inaaral niya.
Doon na ako nag celebrate ng pasko at bagong taon, first time ko maka experience ng pasko at ny na ganun kadami ang handa sa hapag. Medyo kaclose ko din yung bunso niyang kapatid kasi babae naman at madalas ko yon nakakasabay sa byahe pag pumapasok, minsan ay nililibre niya pa ako ng pamasahe.
Mabait mga kapatid ni Dan pero may pagka masungit talaga yung Mama niya. Gusto niya na maaga gumigising at kung magising man ay gawaing bahay dapat agad ang inuuna pero never ko yon nakita kay Dan. Kung baga, parang black sheep si Dan sa pamilya nila, he's old enough para bumukod pero kahit may kalakihan ang sahod niya ay 1k lang binibigay niya doon para dagdag sa kuryente tapos bibili siya ng pagkain pero para sa aming dalawa lang then yung matitira sa pera niya ay pinapang inom niya o di kaya ay gumala kaming dalawa kasi niyaya ko siya, then binibigyan niya ako pang allowance, mga gusto ko bilhin, then yung para sa kalahati ng tuition ko, sa kaniya din ako humihingi pag may kailangan bayaran sa school.
FAST FORWARD
22 na ako and 1st semester na as 4th year college. Matatapos na ako, makakapag work na at makakapag-provide na ako para sa pamilya namin.
Tumakbo ako para SK. Si Dan at mga friends niya ang nag-sponsor para sa nga tarpaulin at flyers ko, syempre kailangan ng show money at pa-ipit at si Dan din ang gumastos doon. Friends ni Dan at si Dan mismo nag-kampanya sa akin at mga ka-partido ko. Hindi ako makikilala sa bayan kung hindi dahil kay dan at sa friends niya, madami kasi silang tropa while I was just a nobody na hinatak lang ng partido kasi kulang sila. Luckily, nanalo ako. May sahod pero yung sahod ko ay deretso kay Mama kasi kailangan nila yon para sa gastusin sa bahay.
Pag nakauwi na sa bahay nila Dan, minsan naririnig ko na nagagalit yung Mama niya. Hindi kasi nagaambag si Dan sa bahay nila, hindi tulad ko na deretso sa pamilya ko ang pera. Lumaki din yung kuryente nila kasi late na ako magising dahil ang daming ginagawa sa barangay, lagi na ako late umuwi na minsan ay dahilan din ng away namin ni Dan.
2nd semester na. Busy ako sa pagaaral at pagtrabaho as SK kaya nawalan ako ng time kay Dan, ang dami kasi ginagawa pag graduating at madami din trabaho sa barangay.
End of January, nagaway kami ni Dan kasi nakita niya akong nakaangkas sa motor ng ibang lalaki which is kasama ko lang naman sa barangay. Nagalit agad siya eh wala naman kaming ginagawang masama kaya ang ginawa ko, umuwi ako ng 2am sa bahay nila ay hinakot ang mga gamit ko. Wala akong pakialam kung natutulog sila, tutal ay wala naman si Dan doon dahil nagiinom pagtapos ng away namin. Kinuha ko na lahat ng gamit ko at umuwi na sa bahay namin.
Kinabukasan ay nagkaayos din naman kami ni Dan at gusto ko na din bumalik sa bahay nila. Mas maluwag kasi yung kwarto doon eh, mas tahimik din sa bahay nila.
Valentine's, may scheduled tour yung class namin sa Baguio and nalaman ko na may plano pala si Dan i-surprise ako pero sabi ko kay Dan, ibigay niya na lang sa akin yung pera na gagastusin niya sa surprise niya at gagamitin ko na lang sa tour namin. Ayaw niya ibigay kaya tinakot ko siya na makikipag hiwalay ako kaya binigay niya, ibibigay din pala pinahirapan pa ako.
March 20, birthday ng asawa ng ate ko and may pinakilalang friend si Ate sa akin, si Jom. Seaman siya and broken sa girlfriend kaya kinocomfort namin, sinabi ko din na alam ko yung pinagdadaanan niya kasi kinwento ko na kakabreak lang din namin ni Dan. Eh bakit ba? Mapera yung seaman eh, doon na ako kakapit. Dinala ko muna sa kwarto ko dahil lasing na lasing na din, medyo tama na din ang alak sa akin and may nangyari sa aming dalawa.
March 24, naging kami na ni Jom pero umuwi pa ako sa bahay nila Dan nung gabi, dun pa din ako natulog at may nangyari pa sa aming dalawa.
March 26, nahuli kami ni Dan at hinabol niya ng kutsilyo si Jom. Inaway ko si Dan at nakipag-hiwalay na ako sa kaniya hanggang sa pinabarangay pa siya ni Ate. Ang sinabi na lang namin ay ako amg hinabol ng kutsilyo ni Dan para hindi na madamay si Jom. Nung nasa barangay na, hiniling ni Dan na ibalik ko lahat ng binayad niya sa tuition ko as a kasunduan pero hinanapan siya ng resibo ni Ate which is wala naman kaya wala kaming dapat bayaran. Hiniling din ng Mama ni Dan na tanggalin ako bilang SK pero hindi sila napagbigyan kasi elected ako. Akala nila mananalo sila sa amin, no.
Hindi din sila gaanong nakakasagot nung nasa barangay kami dahil kay Ate, hindi nila matatalo si ate sa bungangaan lang. Pero nanliit ako kasi tatlo silang naka uniform ng teacher; Mama ni Dan, Ate ni Dan at yung asawa ng Kuya ni Dan. Ngayon ko lang napagtanto na mga professional talaga sila pero anong gagawin ng profession nila kung hindi naman nila matalo si Ate? Akala ata nila matatalo nila si Ate sa bungangaan eh bwahahahaha
March 27, dinala ako ni Jom sa bahay nila at tinatanong na bakit daw hinabol siya ng kutsilyo ni Dan kung months naman na kami hiwalay. Hindi ko naman masabi na pinagsabay ko sila, sinabi ko na lang na hindi pa nakakapag move on si Dan sa akin.
March 28, sumampa na ulit si Jom and sobrang nakakalungkot lang pero kaunting tiis lang naman, may sahod niya eh hehe
ABYG kung nagcheat ako? Don't I deserve better? Si Dan na walang ambag sa pamilya o si Jom na nakapagpatayo ng malaking bahay at may sariling motor? Boto din si Ate at Papa kay Jom, nahihiram pa nga ni Papa motor ni Jom eh, tapos yung sasakyan nila Dan hirap na hirap kami hiramin. Diba? Mas deserve ko naman ng Jom?
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2024.05.17 03:05 potchipotpot D.A. ako sa church kasi musician ako sa labas

I am a musician sa labas ng church namin. Medyo maganda rin yung bigayan tsaka yung schedule hawak ko talaga. Yun kasi yung gusto ko kasi nga may ministry ako sa loob ng church. Ayoko na nacocompromise yung ministry ko sa trabaho ko. Ang daming job offers na nagdedemand sakin ng days na kailangan nasa church ako. Tinanggihan ko 'yon lahat kasi nga importante sa akin si Lord at yung work ko for His kingdom.
I started na tumugtog sa labas ng church pero di ako nagpopost ng mga personal na tugtog ko sa facebook. Kahit pa halungkatin 'yon walang picture ko na natugtog ako sa labas. Puro share lang ako ng mga promo ng mga tropa ko.
Medyo matagal na akong musician sa loob ng church pero di nila alam mas matagal na yung sa labas kasi shs palang ako natugtog na ako for exposure ng craft ko. Nung nalaman ng pastor ko na natugtog ako sa labas, kinausap niya ako tapos sabi niya "Kung ginagawa mo yang trabaho mo para sa Lord hindi ka magpapabayad."
Ha eh trabaho ko ho 'to. Ang sakit din makita yung mga nakalagay sa papel ng D.A. ko. Dinidisplay, niyayabang, at pinopost ko raw yon sa social media eh sinasabihan na nga ako ng nagbibigay sakin ng gig na ba't di raw ako nagpopost ng tugtog namin???? Tapos nakalagay na verse you cannot serve two masters????
Edi sana D.A. rin yung mga teachers na LPT na nagtuturo rin sa children's ministry o kahit hindi. Bakit sa akin lang ganito ang sakit sa puso.
Little did I know meron akong churchmate na lagi nalitaw sa mga gig ko. Ayoko sa kanya at ayaw ko siyang kasama matagal na pero nakikisama ako kasi why not ayoko rin mapasama. Pero yung taong yon chinachat yung boss ko tapos tinatanong kung "nagiinsist" ako na humingi ng mga sarili kong gigs at maging sessionist sa mga gigs na need ng instrumentalist. There is a line to be drawn sa pagiging kaibigan at churchmate. Nakakahiya na chinachat yung boss ko.
Naiinis ako pero ayoko magsalita out of anger kasi baka hindi maging christian-like yung attitude ko sa frustration na meron ako ngayon.
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2024.05.17 01:49 MistressFluffaluff CPS advice

Hello! I thought maybe I might get a little bit of advice here! So I have a 12 year old who is enrolled in an online school in Indiana. We have had trouble all year with her getting online and doing her school work. I know that I'm at fault here too. We had a meeting with the Consolers and teachers and they assured me that if she improved and went to all her classes that they wouldn't contact CPS. Well they did and a couple weeks later I had a lady at my door. I've never had this happen to me. I'm not on drugs, I have a car, house and job. She talked to me and my daughter outside and I signed a few papers. I was scarred so I can't remember all of them but one was a medical release. She asked if we could set up a time for her to come into my home. I honestly don't want that. I feel like it's unnecessary for what we're in trouble for. I just don't trust them. My questions are so I have to let them in my home at all? Should I get a lawyer?
I forgot to mention her grades have not been good at all. It's been a rough year on her like I had told the CPS worker. Nothing against her she was polite. I was taken away from my mom when I was 7 and moved in with my grandma. It was tramatic. I also have a 4 year old and I dont have anything to hide and my house is in fair condition and clean. Im just worried that something silly will get used against me and I'll lose my children.
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2024.05.17 01:33 MistressFluffaluff I need some advice

Hello! I thought maybe I might get a little bit of advice here! So I have a 12 year old who is enrolled in an online school in Indiana. We have had trouble all year with her getting online and doing her school work. I know that I'm at fault here too. We had a meeting with the Consolers and teachers and they assured me that if she improved and went to all her classes that they wouldn't contact CPS. Well they did and a couple weeks later I had a lady at my door. I've never had this happen to me. I'm not on drugs, I have a car, house and job. She talked to me and my daughter outside and I signed a few papers. I was scarred so I can't remember all of them but one was a medical release. She asked if we could set up a time for her to come into my home. I honestly don't want that. I feel like it's unnecessary for what we're in trouble for. I just don't trust them. My questions are so I have to let them in my home at all? Should I get a lawyer?
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2024.05.17 00:41 Hour_Suggestion8773 Thank you Ares

tw// mention of SA, rape
So i’m currently reading Kite runner in my A-level english class, and if you have read ANY part of that book you know that it’s pretty dark, with chapter 7 being extremely bad. I am a survivor of childhood sexual abuse/rape and have very bad CPTSD, it’s always been a very haunting thing, unsurprisingly. At the same time in my other english class i’m reading Handmaids tale, and i have had many an instances where i needed to step out and take a breather because i was having a panic attack or on the brink of one.
Having spoken with some teacher about it previously, my english teacher came up to me last week the day before our lesson and warned me that we were gonna read a graphic and very bad description of rape in Kite Runner next lesson. I had been trying to prepare myself mentally for that for ages because i did a little search into the book before we started reading and found out about what happens in the story. It was a lovely sunny week and i was really bummed out about having it ruined by the book. So i prayed to Ares for his help and that i would be able to get through it without any major issues or freak outs.
The teacher seemed very fine when speaking to me the previous day so i was genuinely shocked when we found out she just wasn’t in for some reason and so we couldn’t read the chapter (she made it clear she didn’t want us reading that chapter on our own, even if the class is 17-18 year olds i’m guessing it’s safe guarding stuff), i was able to enjoy my sunny week and day just fine! which was lovely because i genuinely felt like i wasn’t prepared for it last week, I massively thanked Ares and really expressed my gratitude for what he did, i don’t exactly know what he did but what ever it was it really helped!
Then today was the faithful day that we were actually going to finally tackle chapter 7, I prayed to Ares the whole day practically and during my whole english lesson tried to think of him and ask for his calmness and courage to wash over me. I have a little garnet bracelet that i wear in his and lady Hestia honor, and i gripped that thing like it was a damn life line. Surprisingly i didn’t have any major panic attacks over the text! I did cry later when i was alone with a friend who knows about my issues and is very willing to hear me out and offer comfort, but once again i thought of lord Ares and felt a calm energy wash over me which really helped me calm down, i was a little bummed out and icky for the rest of the day, but there’s not much he could do about that, i was going to be feeling shitty either way, panic attack or no panic attack.
I’m just genuinely supprised because i had freaked about about much lesser things previously in Handmaids tale so i genuinely think it was Ares having an influence in me.
I am so very thankful for having him in my life.
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2024.05.17 00:37 itsme-PixieDust The other girl is teacher

Hindi ako magaling magkwento pagpasensyahan nyo na.
I (F28) recently broke up with my ex (M29) boyfriend when I found out he’s cheating with me, btw we have been together for 8 years.
It all happened last year bago sya sumampa sa barko, maayos naman kami nung hindi pa sya nakakaalis, hanggang sa naging cold na lang sya out of nowhere simula ng nasa barko na sya at yung madalas naming communication bigla na lang dumalang. Hindi ko din kasi lubos maisip na lolokohin nya ako dahil may plan na kami mag settle next year.
I found out na he’s cheating thru his concerned friend na nag-dm sakin sa fb, telling me na si ex bf ko daw ay may nililigawan sa barko and acting as single. First I didn’t believe him kasi baka sinisiraan nya lang ex bf ko not until nagsend sya ng screenshot, pagbukas ko ng message nya nanghina ako at nanlambot ang tuhod, totoo pala yung manginginig ka at hindi alam ang gagawin. Hindi ako confrontational na tao kaya hindi ko alam anong gagawin ko kung paano ko sya i-confront that time kasi nasa barko na sya at LDR na kami tapos cold na nga ang communication namin lately, yun pala may winowork out ng iba. Nag ipon muna ako ng lakas ng loob para harapin ang ex bf ko at inabot ito ng 2 buwan at dahil sa stress na dulot ng cheating na yan nagkasakit ako.
Kilala ko na yung babae nya dahil sa concerned friend nya na nagupdate lagi sakin dahil (nga naawa daw sya sakin). Araw araw ko iniistalk yung babae at araw araw din ako sinasaksak sa puso.
Kaka-stalk ko napatunayan ko na may relasyon sila nun nagpalit ng dalwang beses yung girl ng dp sa instagram kasama ex bf ko doon na nagsimula gumuho mundo ko. Lagi silang nagdate and check in, masakit man isipin if may nangyari na ba sa kanila? Parehas silang seaman at nasa barko. Nakausap ko si girl bago lang daw sya. Hindi daw sya aware ng may gf si ex bf which is ako kaya nya enentertain.. Pero nun nag msg request ako sa kanya pinorward nya un chat ko sa ex bf ko asking kung ako ba yung gf. Pero yung reply ng ex bf ko hindi daw ako yon at wag na ako pansinin.
Mataas tingin ko sa mga teacher noon pero ngayon hindi na. Sobrang bigat sa loob at until now hindi pa din ako gumagaling sa sakit ko.
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2024.05.17 00:34 OldDaikon6769 Is it that impossible to make a living wage as a therapist?

I’m starting grad school to become a LPC and the internet is terrifying me. I go on Reddit and ppl talk about making 50k even after being licensed for 5 years (that’s less than what a teacher makes where I live), I go on tiktok and some lady is talking about this feild being a “trap”, I go on different websites and they talk about therapists being crazy underpaid. Am I really digging myself a grave? Should I have just chose a career that’d make me miserable but bring in money?
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2024.05.17 00:21 Kind2tie_7185 Why is suicide not a option for me?

Don't get me wrong. I'm truly curious, and this question I've been carrying for over a year.
Im a 30 m
Objectively I have lived a terrible odds stacked against me from the start. I was born to a father that took my mother faraway to a farm and isolated us he was quite the abuser with my self going Tru all 5 different tipes my siblings 4 and the youngest only 2 I was the only one that was s## abused. From as Yong as I can remember I plead my mother to leve. Turned in to a super Cristian thus a wife's purpose is to be subject to her husband. Evan though she also went true all 5 she was even r## infront of me.
I mentioned we grew up on a farm in isolated he would work construction jobs all over Africa so most of the time we would be left alone. Work 4 months home 6 weeks the first day that he is back he cums with takeaways and cool drinks and it's a celebration it would normally only be calm for 2-3 days when he would get angry normally before we were to go buy groceries. Witch ment we will have to put that car together and fix it that's normally tha first day that I would blead if it's not from a tool it's because I woed gow far into the field to hide then it would be his lether belt my but would be blue And red brushe sometimes my skin woed split open and blend every time I moved.
The first time I saw a classroom or a teacher was at the age of 13 we got a tv for the first time at the age of 12 so obviously I had no sosial skills it was just a few days a group of bullies introduced me so that was not fun until a few months later when the hieschool librarian looked over our class.
My mom dit taught me to read and math and science (only biblical accurate) so I started reading at 4 at 5 I was at the level of gr3 had to develop my own horrible handwriting. I was good at math though my mom only knew +×÷- and fractions to the second point
The library was my heavin in 3 years personally I graduated done with every book in the library besides most of the story books The problem was I couldn't really speak English I only got exposed to it from the TV so I was on my way to fail Gr6 I didn't during the last term my dad left for work again but this time it was longer we ran out of food and my mom finally ran away with her 5 kids pregnant and starving all the food we had fit into a shoe box and ther was space for my brothers favorite little teddy 🧸 about the size of a tennis ball
We moved to the city we're I found out my mom has siblings thy help us with some basic it was crazy there I could not even cross the streets thy were 3 lanes mutch to wide for a teen cross with out getting run over starting high school I decided I would be the opposite of my history so on the first day I broke the head boy a rather big rugby player nose. That showd them I was never bullied and yet still not cool so I joined the skateboarders I was terrible but they had issues and I'm nothing but broken metal head started smoking never touched weed that's drugs glue as well it makes youcrazy. Though sometimes we would snort white power at the mall. Only after a few months in class I found out there are more tips of drugs. To late now I'm a cat addicted our group grew and we became the popular group we were 40 in the core group if we threw a party 200 people show up I mean some college students started hanging with them college girls hang with me at 17 so obviously the heiskool girls thru them at me nonstop sleeping with 2-3 a night never not wrapped always save. Until I slept with one I actually cared for but not as much as she for me so to get here to disappear I seduced her sister on her bed so she could walk in on that. 3 day later she was found dead in the bath with a letter to her parents on their bed and a long letter for me in her sister underwear full of her blood for me.
My next relationship was my fiance Finally quit drugs 3 years later Completely thought ow yeah remember that I was so smart well turns out I failed gr 9 almost twice shortly before the second time time my mother lost her job I was still partying her savings didn't last we got evicted ran out of food so I quit school and started buying thing from drug dealers and sell them it wasn't long before I afforded a bigger house some time later I moved out paying 2 rents going crazy the drugs were not fun any more my friends are dieing on after the other some go to prison I fought my best friend. I saw what was happening because of the drugs I walk 70 km that weekend faar into the field to escape only with my knife. Not the plan but I lived there for 3 weeks alone my phone is still there somware I came back sober no friends
I didn't fin school so it's only min wage for 3 years trying multiple business all fail until I lost my job again. One day I dit a car port for a lady little did I know that in justover 7 years 2 months before covid i will loos. A my greatest business in going to 8 figure this time 100% legal in one writing of a pen and waist all my saving on loyars to get it back lost my fiance and only child
Went into depression
tryed and failed 3 more business Good diagnose with add and adhd Over came depression Diagnosis with ptsd Found out my 5 year old son is not evan myn Depression again Gave up trying at all tried drugs again for 2 months give up on that two
Move back to the farm where it all started farm is falling It's sort off failng less
Depressioni quit low
And finally today im bulding my own shop with bricks i made my self everything wants to fail this sometimes its so close.
And yeah true all of that's I can honestly say I never had suicide Evan as a though to be a option
Seriously why would I not just end me but I just don't have that option ever
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2024.05.17 00:13 simpforcatu For 26tards :)

Welcome to the journey of two years :) y’all have your boards result, hope you guys were satisfied. This post is going to be pretty candid. Advice, and mistakes to avoid.
May to July Your classes have started, probably studying basic maths, stoichiometry and kinematics in physics. Confidence is at an all time high, you’re looking at your seniors and thinking “we will never end up like them”. Probably some of you won’t, I hope most of you don’t :)) but be mindful. During this time, you’ll be looking for various resources like HCV, Cengage , etc. that’s all good, however, here are my tips to avoid stumbling here, after a detailed thought process and my observation of myself and others during this period.
1) don’t look for many resources . Stick to DPPs, CPPs and your teacher’s notes. Trust them. Be patient. 2) expect, but expect TOO much from yourself. Learn that highs and lows are a part of any journey.
AUGUST TO DECEMBER your grades have probably started to drop and you’re moving towards more complex topics. Rotation, equilibrium and more. ‘IIT hookah bar edits’ aren’t keeping your morale high anymore and you seriously start questioning everything. Some of your peers will quit during this time. Trust me, it’s one of the most difficult time academically and emotionally. 12th certainly is better in terms of academics.
The mistake people make- make new time tables everyday, spend whole day in planning and zero execution. Their morale DROPS.
Advice- 1) execute. Solve questions. Just keep your head high and STUDY! Don’t run after PYQs. Make your concepts strong by basic problem solving and then move to complex topics. 2) DONT LOOK FOR TOO MANY RESOURCES. By now you know if your teacher is good. Please follow them if they are. (90% are. Trust them and don’t be too intolerant and judgemental) 3) take out time for your mental health and physical health. Go on smol walks, meet friends. (Roz roz nhi 😭, but once in a while doesn’t hurt) 4) try to study 6 hours everyday.
JANUARY TO MARCH if you’re in a normal school, you will have your final exams soon. DONT IGNORE THEM. It’s difficult to score well in 11th grade, but please try to score atleast ~75%. By now you’ve realised why your seniors ended up the way they did. Don’t lose hope, even if you feel your 11th is ‘wasted’ don’t worry it’s not.
Advice Focus on final exams, and DONT run after your backlog. Vo baadme dekhna. Abhi exams pe dhyaan do.
MARCH TO JULY
Most coachings give you some break. Try to complete your weak topics. Don’t panic, tumhari 11th can be saved.
There are three categories now.
A) 11th ended, haven’t studied ANYTHING. Sorry buddy, you’re in a bit trouble. Cause 11th and 12th are kinda connected. Physics. Complete gravitation on priority basis. Chemistry. COMPLETE GOC NICELY. (Should be a very strong topic for you, cause in 12th there are two books, one is entirely for chemistry.) Maths. Don’t ignore it, complete most of it and trigonometry on a priority basis. Atleast basic trigonometry.
B) studied a bit. Most students are in this category. Most probably, one subject is ignored. Work on that. Possibly the best advice I can give.Trust yourself and your teachers.
C) sab badiya chal raha hai Great! Proud of you for that :)
AUGUST TO DECEMBER. You’ve got some serious reality checks by now. It’s the time you get SERIOUS for mains. Please don’t take it lightly. I assume in 2026 it’ll be even more competitive. Also, the time you should start worrying about your boards. School exams ne reality check de dia hoga,
Problem- Hopelessness, seeking hopium
Advice 1) physics ke liye acchi si reference book lelo. I used xam idea. Do it 5-10 pages everyday. Chemistry = NCERT. Chaat jao NCERT ko specially organic. Maths ke liye dw, last me pyqs ki book karlena for boards, multiple times. Don’t ignore ncert. Do integration multiple times from ncert. 2) start doing PYQs for mains. Reality checks. Don’t ignore mocks! 3) follow eduniti for physics. ( REVISION ONLY)
DECEMBER TO JANUARY- Sadness is at an all time high. But so are studies :) keep up the good work champ. Target ATLEAST 160 to be on the safe side. (Cutoff) Mocks dete raho, padhte raho. Mains one the best opportunity to score. (Unless NTA pulls 27 January shit again 💀🤡)
FEBRUARY TO MARCH- 2-4 din chill karo, then get back on track for boards. Koi subject ignore mat karo, and yes school teachers se acche relations rakho, tumhare practicals unke haath me hai :) (not even kidding, sahi me)
MAINS 2 don’t worry,you can score better than mains 1 here if you work hard. It’s more competitive though. Work on your weaknesses and do your best.
SOME OF MY REGRETS,MISTAKES AND ADVICE 1) focusing only on 2 subjects. PLEASE MAT KARNA YE. If I could turn back time, this is what I would do. Focus on all three subjects equally. 2) DEVELOP A SENSE OF URGENCY. Starting me lagega bhot time hai, but time slips :) develop a sense of urgency towards studies. 3) make good friends. Not a regret,but one thing I did right was making good diligent and studious that had fun yet never backed off from helping me. Friendship goes a long way :) ( pure din aawaragardi mat karna 😭🎀)
These were my elder sister advice to y’all. Hope they helped you guys. Good luck! One thing to note is, while getting into IIT is VERY cool, it should not be the entire purpose of your life. Learn to give it your all yet know how to move on. Don’t attach your entire worth to an institution. You can be beyond successful even if you don’t land an IIT. learn to work hard, persevere, accept and move on.
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2024.05.16 23:18 capresesalad1985 How to encourage students interested in your subject without them being in your room 5 periods a day

Hi, high school fashion teacher here. I love what I teach (I sew regularly for myself) and with how bad the apathy is in most students these days it’s great to see students take an interest in fashion and sewing. I have a study hall in my room as my duty so I will use that period for students who also have a study hall that period to come make up work or work on a project for the competitive team I advise.
I had two or three students really into sewing, which turned into 5 which turned into 10 who would come work on projects outside of class assigned work. That has now spiraled into a few of those students trying to come to my room any time they have a sub or “aren’t doing anything” in class. As much as I want to encourage them doing something other than stare at the phone, it’s getting to be way too much and I’m mad at myself for not nipping it in the bud. I currently tell students who come in another period other than their own they are limited to one additional period per day.
I’ve got two students specifically who are nice young ladies, very active in my club so I have traveled with them but if they could stay in my room all day they would. And I’m glad they have a place they feel is safe for them. But they both had AP testing this week and dear god, I didn’t realize how much extra energy they took. I do keep my prep/lunch period off limits, but with basically teaching students through my duty too I’m teaching 7 out of 8 periods a day.
On top of this, I was in a car accident in November and I am still in a lot of pain. If I had an option to only be working 3 days a week that’s absolutely what I should be doing right now but o of course killed all my sick time being out for 3 months post accident. But having the extra kids is putting wear on my body that I can’t really handle right now.
I’m trying to figure out a way to tell the students that I can’t keep having extra students in my room without hurting feelings. I know the answer is just tell them they can’t come but I think it’s hard for a 16 y/o to grasp the concept that just answering an extra 50 questions a day, and adding more bending to demonstrate is hard for me right now. I’ll be packing away sewing equipment in 3 weeks so I feel like I can just run out the clock but what would you say for next year…should I just say no to students coming in other periods as an across the board rule?
If you have students like this how do you manage expectations? Give them a time limit per week? Or just say no from the get go? I appreciate any advice from those who have been in similar situations!
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2024.05.16 23:05 username_takenreditt You know the drill... (Something I just noticed) SPOILERS FOR ALL SEASONS

Heyy, its been a while. So I noticed some parallels with Carmen and her two dads... no wait sorry I mean Dexter Wolfe (biological father) and Shadowsan (adoptive dad).
So some parallels between all of them:
Here are parallels between Carmen and Dexter Wolfe:
Alright, NOW FOR CARMEN AND DADOWSAN PARALLELS:
That's all I got
Like fathers like daughter I guess...
LET ME KNOW IN THE COMMENTS IN CASE I FORGOT ANYTHING
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