Gauges snake around ear

「Glass Animals」

2024.05.20 02:06 bestassinthewest 「Glass Animals」

Namesake: The indie-rock band Glass Animals Stand User: Agnes-Lucky Blue
Appearance: Glass Animals has a body made up of loosely fitting multicolor 3D shapes. The shapes altogether form the shape of a humanoid, but headless upper body. The shoulders of the stand are framed with a two-headed, purple-red crystalline snake that hangs off of them. One head is black, and the other is white. Despite the stand appearing like it's made of multiple parts, it cannot disassemble itself.
Ability: Glass Animals has the ability to generate a material with properties like non-newtonian fluids from the snake on its body.. How the material reacts to stress changes based on which snake head creates it. The black head makes material that becomes 'harder' and more viscous the more force is applied. The white head makes material that becomes 'thicker' and more difficult to pass through the more force is applied.
Glass Animals can freely manipulate the shape of the materials it creates so long as it is holding them. Once released, they will persist in that shape regardless of if Glass Animals holds them again. This allows it to create crude objects or weapons out of the material. The material Glass Animals creates will dissipate if they leave the its range.
Stats: Power: C Speed: D Range: C (11 meters) Durability: D Precision: C Potential: A
Weaknesses: Lack of force. The black-head and white-head material become softer and thinner respectively when less force is applied to them. A particularly precise or well-controlled stand could circumvent their property's threat.
Glass Animals is incredibly easier to overpower, even if it is wielding a weapon. Closing the distance allows for an easy victory against it.
Knowing which head was used to create what material makes getting around its ability even easier.
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2024.05.20 02:00 Yazarus 24M What can I write here that has thirty... Wait

I am going to keep some of the information sparse to invoke some sense of mystery, and not because I'm not good at selling myself *wink*
24M from CST timezone (USA). I have a new job, but the problem? There is no one around my age. There goes that tried and true method of friendship! The other problem? I've worked third shift for the last 4 years... so my social life is pretty nonexistent. You can see why I am on this subreddit tonight LOL.
I am down to make some friends or even new best ones, but all I ask is that you are not a dry texter and 20+.
I like to read fantasy/ science fiction books and sometimes watch anime (could use some recs!) I have a bad habit of wanting to be a cheapstakes so you can often find me fixing my car because I was too stubborn to take it to a mech. I like to walk down trails and drive back roads with the windows down. No one can hear me blast Taylor Swift that way! I like to find new places to explore and be able to drive out to them. I also want to start switching up my clothes and style and could use suggestions!
I have been growing my hair out for the last two years, but I am inching closer and closer to getting the chop since it is starting to become annoying. I have my nose + ears pierced and want some tattoos in the future when I have the extra money to afford a decent artist. I like to listen to a whole bunch of different music genres, but I feel that a lot of my knowledge is shallow because of this. I would love to get some decent recs to add to my playlist. I have been in a country mood lately with the great weather. Some genres I like: r&b, pop punk, metalcore, rock, hiphop, OSTs, etc.
I am not much of a gamer, but I am willing to try some out with you if we happen to click. The main issue that I have is that I cannot remain interested all that long, and become bored too fast. I am not really into competitive games though, since it sounds like a bother to maintain. My dream job would be to become an author with enough success to have a sustainable and secure future, but I find myself never writing when I am off work lol. I am hard of hearing; throwing that out there because it could be cool to meet others as well.
Phew. I meant for this to be a lot shorter. So much for mystery, huh?
If you've read this far, hmu!
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2024.05.20 01:59 peanutbcat First dye job!!

First dye job!!
This is my baby's first time getting dyed. She did so good and even fell asleep for half of it!!! I wanted to do purple but I only had blue on hand but I still love this look on her! It's also my first time doing anything more than my beagles tail so the amount of hair was a bit of an adjustment. I only used temporary color because a. I was not confident it would look good and b. I have commitment issues. I know her left ear didn't take as well, but she was already off the table and running around before I noticed and I couldn't calm her down enough to convince her to get back on the table.
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2024.05.20 01:57 MattySunshine (Please read) Gonna give this another shot

Hey, I'm Matty. I've been struggling with loneliness and have been starved from affection for a few years now but recently it's gotten to a point I find kind of scary. I'm 25m with no friends other than a few online ones I can count on one hand. I'm trying to be more sociable but it's rather difficult for me as I'm in a poor mental state, if you've seen me around and I haven't gotten back to you please feel free to message again. It's hard for me to keep tabs on that kind of thing. Knowing this I still would love to try and talk to some more people. I work strange hours and from home so I am always around and willing to chat, maybe even call if my work phones are dead enough.
Potentially it would be nice to find someone I share a connection with and can be a lot closer too but I know that's not the point of this subreddit so I'm not holding my breath on that lol.
I'm into a lot of nerdy things and consider myself to be an honest and loving person. I talk a lot when I'm feeling okay and I tend to get attached to people rather quickly.
Some big interests of mine are Godzilla style monster movies (Kaiju), anime, gaming, and music. I could talk your ear off about megaman or the souls series of games. I also love dinosaurs and anything having to do with animals and nature.
If you're interested DM me on here or add my discord mattysunshine and we can try to connect, please be over 18 years of age. I hope to hear from you so much. 🧡
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2024.05.20 01:54 MattySunshine (Please Read) Gonna give this another try

Hey, I'm Matty. I've been struggling with loneliness and have been starved from affection for a few years now but recently it's gotten to a point I find kind of scary. I'm 25m with no friends other than a few online ones I can count on one hand. I'm trying to be more sociable but it's rather difficult for me as I'm in a poor mental state, if you've seen me around and I haven't gotten back to you please feel free to message again. It's hard for me to keep tabs on that kind of thing. Knowing this I still would love to try and talk to some more people. I work strange hours and from home so I am always around and willing to chat, maybe even call if my work phones are dead enough.
Potentially it would be nice to find someone I share a connection with and can be a lot closer too but I know that's not the point of this subreddit so I'm not holding my breath on that lol.
I'm into a lot of nerdy things and consider myself to be an honest and loving person. I talk a lot when I'm feeling okay and I tend to get attached to people rather quickly.
Some big interests of mine are Godzilla style monster movies (Kaiju), anime, gaming, and music. I could talk your ear off about megaman or the souls series of games. I also love dinosaurs and anything having to do with animals and nature.
If you're interested DM me on here or add my discord mattysunshine and we can try to connect, please be over 21. I hope to hear from you so much. 🧡
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2024.05.20 01:49 Wtfisgoinonhere What does your 7 day YNP/GTNP itinerary look like?

Just looking for feedback/thoughts on a trip im putting together; on mobile so formatting will probably not be great. Travel is the week before labor day, so I’m expecting crowds. Day 1: travel day. Land at SLC and drive to airbnb in Victor. Get dinner in town somewhere, rest up. Day 2: no real plans, but see how the drive is through the pass/construction, etc. heading into GT. Drive the 42 mile scenic road, stop/get out wherever looks interesting. Explore Jackson/get dinner. Day 3: early morning spent at Mormon row/Schwabacher landing. Hike Taggart lake after, hang in park for a bit. Dinner either in Victor or Jackson. Day 4: early morning snake river float then ferry over Jenny Lake to hike inspiration point. Hang in park after, repeat dinner again. Day 5: leave Victor for eventual accommodations at Old Faithful Inn. Enter through west yellowstone, spend the day hitting a number geyers/basins with a hike to the lookout of Grand Pris. Explore OF and other geyers later in the day when the crowds leave. Day 6: leave lodging, maybe stop by West Thumb. Head north to GC of Yellowstone, end at Roosevelt Cabins where I’ll stay for the next 3 nights. Maybe a small hike around the cabin area after I check in. Day 7: wake up early, hang in Lamar Valley and continue onto Beartooth Pass. Lunch at Red Lodge, then head back to the cabin, backtracking BT Pass. Day 8: more early hangs in Lamar, hike Yellowstone River outlook trail, considering doing horseback riding or a cowboy cookout. If enough time, Lamar Valley at dusk. Day 9: fly out of Bozeman, 1:40pm flight.
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2024.05.20 01:49 NegotiationCapital87 nicotine for productivity

Hi im considering experimenting with nic patches or snuffs during/before my exams .I have tried vaping before (twice ,10mg/ml) i took around 30+ puffs of it but i felt nothing both times .For some reference i used to take caffeine to give me a energy boost and it did nothing to me, i used to put spoons and spoons to get some effect but all it did was make my nose and eyelids twitch.
The reason i want to take it for this specific exam is because ,although i know all the content and the questions arent hard for me .Its just that there are A LOT of questions and the workings out for questions take pages so even though i know how to do it .Its very mentally draining and tiring that i lose focus and make loads of silly errors and this exponentiates as i go through the paper. My head becomes boiling and my ears red hot .
I want to take either pouches or snuff for some effect but i dont want to get buzzed of my ass in the exam hall. So if anyone could recommend what i should take ,how much of it and when i should take it (my exams is ~2 hours long).Im also experimenting on more natural stuff as well like lionsmane ,theanine ,sea moss gell etc.
I know people are going to comment this ,but yes i do get a good night sleep ,eat well and i take breaks in the exams to freshen up my face etc ,but doesnt really do much to stop the above from happening.
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2024.05.20 01:44 reyavt looking for comfy, solid all arounders 200$

(apologies in adv, I have no idea how to format and am on mobile)
hello! I always like to be listening to something so I am looking for some headphones that are pretty solid all around general use. I am currently using 3 different headphones for different use cases and would like to just get 1 nice one to downsize the amount of clutter I have (they are also all starting to crap out). They would be used for gaming, music prod, enjoying music, watching media. my priorities are gaming and music prod though. I also would like to prioritize comfort, and wireless would be super super nice too (understandable if not tho)
Budget - 200$ usd but can go a bit more if the increase is pretty justifiable
Source/Amp - just into my pcs motherboard or the direct monitor thing on the focusrite solo and bonus points If I can use it with my phone (usb-c and will need to get an adapter thingy if wired). my pc has Bluetooth but unsure about latency and the codec thing.
How the gear will be used - playing games (fps/story), music production (amateucasual), enjoying music during long commutes I practically have headphones or earbuds on ALL the time so I tend to run through gear pretty quickly, I also wear glasses if that's important! I don't care about active noise cancelling but if it has it I will use it.
Preferred tonal balance - I don't have a preference, what ever is objectively good for gaming and music prod (even though it's hard to do both, I understand) I am unsure if I prefer closed or open back, I think I've only tried semi-open and closed?
Preferred music genre(s) - I listen to a lot of stuff that is not really mixed properly I'm not even gonna lie so this part might not matter as much but, I'm into bedroom bop indie stuff, hyperpop and breakcore and mathrock and EDM. I enjoy picking through drums, guitar, sub-bass and synths. I also enjoy clear cutting vocals.
Past gear experience - (kind of long, maybe annoying so feel free to skip) massdrop akg white m220 - I don't super like the stock muffs, they get pretty hot for me after long use and are in general are a bit too big for my head since the I can't adjust the band any shorter, sound pretty flat and want something a bit more fun but these are the main headphones I use when I do any music prod. I don't like the wire, it's kinda rubbery and gets tangled easily. also the muffs r like super tough and stuff which doesn't feel that good.
hyperx cloud flight - I reallyyy liked the comfort on these headphones as they didn't really have much clamping force but the audio itself had a lot left to be desired in terms of bass punch and didn't really sound good for music listening. these were my favorite though simply coz I could use them forever w out fatigue. liked that it was wireless but was USB dongled so couldn't use wireless with my phone. the battery only lasts for 30 mins after charging and almost has no padding anymore so they don't get much use anymore.
razer black shark (V2?) - comfy but gets hotter than the hyperx ones, I think the bass is better than it too but still wasn't my favorite for listening. also only lasts for 30 mins after charging. also wireless which was nice but still USB dongle.
astro a40 - these sound the nicest to me for gaming but Jesus I get so much fatigue from wearing them and hate the wire sm. it's also kinda rubbery like the m220 and gets really tangled against other cables. currently using these but really not happy w them.
30$ IEM that has an anime girl on the box I forget but a lot of rhythem game players recommend. this is the worse offender of cable tangle and I just rather not deal with them most of the time. prefer headphones to in ears too because they can get hot/sweaty over long periods. they sound very nice tho but they r the only IEMs ive tried so far.
pixel bud-A - I like these a lot but also not ideal for long period of times. I enjoy how seemless they connect to my phone/pc but these r abyssmal for gaming and I use them solely for music during commute. I like the audio but am missing a lot of the mids.
Sony wxm4 - these are soo nice but I am only borrowing them and have to return them soon but I really enjoy the comfort and lightness. However I think the noise cancelling is too aggressive and only really use for listening to music during commute. also I don't really think they sound that great when I also consider the 350$ price tag.
TLDR: using akg m220 for music prod, astro a40s for gaming, pixel bud-A/Sony wxm4 for music listening during commute but kinda hate all of them and just want 1 pair of all arounders.
RN, considering the ath-m50xBTv2 but hear it's not that comfy (which is a high priority for me) also mixed opinions on sound quality and the massdrop senhesier hd58x but unsure if they would be usable during commute and not wireless (which is less of a priority but still) would love to hear input still as I am really inexperienced with this kind of stuff. Thank you for reading and input, first big purchase for me!
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2024.05.20 01:42 FPGN Today Marks 3 years on HRT!!!

3 years ago in 2021 , I picked up and took my first ever pills of estradiol. There was a lot of emotions going on In me at that time, a lot of happiness and a lot of fear, A lot of worries and a lot of doubts, A lot of impatience and a lot of learning. All from that single Blue pill.
Words cannot even describe how excited I was on that day. In 2021 when I first got my first bottle, I was over the moon and I was telling everyone about it. I told my girlfriend at the time, I told some close friends, I even told my dog after I took the pills, whispering it in his ears. All around that day was one of if not the best days of my life. I remember playing all of my favorite songs all day long and finally saying " This is it, this is The moment in my life where I change everything".
And it did but not in the way that I planned. Don't worry, not a horrible bunch happened but some things did happen. Of course, one of the many things I had to get used to was the new emotions as being a male, I was able to pretty much shut down my emotions for a large amount of time and basically stuff them in a random area. But when I tell you after that I would cry at the smallest things, and then the part I didn't expect for that happened. Instead of my mom comforting me and understanding, scrutinized me and told me that I couldn't be a real woman because I was crying too much, She got angry at me because I wanted to go home after it was too much from an argument I had with my grandfather at the time and emotions were running everywhere and I just couldn't take it. For the first time in my life I broke down uncontrollably in front of a boss, something I would never do, I would have waited until I gotten home but then I realized that since I was on the hormones and the fight was pretty intense/ words were said that were not so nice. It struck a cord. I mean don't get me wrong on one hand. I am extremely glad that my emotions can finally be free but at the same time being met with that level of anger and bitterness from my mom was completely unexpected.
The second thing is the acne. Of course with any puberty you're going to have acne, but I just didn't expect it to be under my armpits, popping everywhere constantly, and for some reason to be in Aries that don't make any sense. Why did I have elbow cap Acne??? Anywho, it wasn't too bad because in the end you know everything kind of worked out.
Speaking of puberty, the hair. Oh my God the hair. It's slowed down, which was great, I got a chance to shave it and I didn't have to worry about shaving it every week and I could just shave it once and keep it a little bit cleaned up and then when it grew back in like 3 weeks I'd shave it again. And for a while I was using Nair for other bits and it was just genuinely nice.
Now this one is the one I've been really wanting to talk about because I haven't heard anyone else experience this. I don't know what I did to trigger it, but I guess by conclusions it was because I felt truly at peace and I did not care about what anybody felt in that moment or those moments in the month/months and I just presented how I always wanted to. Because I did this, I triggered this weird euphoric, warm, Blissful feeling that I've grown to call " The euphoric Bliss feeling" or " Trans euphoric Bliss/Trans euphoric Buzz". Like I said, it was a warm fuzzy feeling and it felt like I was back in 2008(It only makes sense to me but that's the best way I can explain it). It was like I felt HOME/WHOLE And I didn't care what people said, The biggest part of it is that I didn't have any anxiety and that's what truly made me feel free. Before I had to use recreational stuff in order to access this feeling, but in that moment it's like I awakened it naturally. And I was beyond happy when that finally happened.
If there's only one regret I have during this entire transition is that I didn't take enough pictures. Because I was rushing too much. Yeah unfortunately I got caught up and what most of trans girlies that start out get caught up in " The Hallmark experiences" And I did not take any pictures which is the only real regret I have. I know I'm grown and changed a lot but how far and how much is unknown. I do have pictures before I started but they're not really pictures where you can see the good amount of places that changed.
But I do have good news, and err.. Kind of bad news I guess.
I'm starting over, now. You may be wondering: What this post was about congratulating 3 years of HRT, What do you mean you're starting over?
Simple as that. I'm starting over, this time. I'm going to take pictures and be a lot more careful and patient with myself. 8 months ago I had a very bad experience with some recreational stuff and it basically scrambled my brain so badly that I didn't have emotions for a few months and I lost "The Blissful Euphoric Buzz"
My main goal is to try to reawaken that Buzz feeling. If I can and if I can't I'll just accept it. But my miniature goals are to be safe and this time to take it slow and be patient.
All right this is getting too long, but I just wanted to share my excitement for my 3 years of HRT! (I do apologize if everything in this post is confusing, if you have any questions I'd be more than welcome to ask!)
Vyeeeee!! :°3
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2024.05.20 01:39 Berserk2024 My reworked character with tweaks

(the wolf mutation has nothing to do with the quirks actuall power. Like Koda and Tokoyami's heads or minas antenna.)
Name Matthew Hammond age 15
Quirk: Power control
Has the ability to control a type of energy only he has.
Ways to use this energy is standard strength and speed by but the power into your muscle fibers and organs to enhance their performance. Matthew can also materialize this power in different ways. He finds out how he can do this by watching others, for example shock waves or energy tenticals.
The main weakness is energy drain. I know what y'all probably thinking, "this is like every quirks weakness cause I swing your quirk can tire you out", but his quirks energy drain.
When he use his quirk, the energy runs down and if uses a all out attack he loses the energy and cant use his quirk.
But on the good side , this energy grows back over time , and since it's his quirk energy if he goes to where he let out a huge attack, he can absorbed it back. It takes like an hour to get his power back to 100% naturally if he just goes on with his day.
Mutation: * Wolf Ears and Tail: Matthew has permanent wolf-like ears and a tail as a result of his mutation.* Laser Eyes: Matthew can emit powerful laser beams from his eyes. This mutation was a rare coincident.
Also he can share his energy with others to enhance their quirks cause energy works like that I think.
Elemental Forms and Powers:
  1. Lightning Form (Name: Volt)
Weakness: If used too much then it will damage his nervous system temporarily.
  1. Fire Form (Name: Blaze):
Weakness: if you use too much then we'll gain first degree burns.
  1. Water Form (Name: Aquos):
Weakness: No clear weakness.
  1. Ice Form (Name: Frost):
Weakness: if in a heated area, then he will get weak and slower.
  1. Light Form (Name: Radiance):
Weakness: overused will make him temporarily blind
  1. Darkness Form (Name: Shadow):
Weakness: Obviously light. Even a flashlight.
  1. Plant Form (Name: Flora):
  1. Metal Form (Name: Alloy):
Weakness: Overtime he'll get weaker cause of rust. Water
  1. Earth Form (Name: Terra):
No clear weakness.
How this works is his power works like a computer l well more like just a normal computer, then a virus AKA and elements infects this power and then it slowly corrupts his powers AKA but there until his body is able to use a different elements,the form is only as strong as his original form because the element can only corrupt what is there,not make more power. A little bit of this energy is still there so that it can take back control. Each form has a mind of its own like some dark shadow type thing. The reason why his forms have minds of their own is cause if I gave him full control his forms he would swap to frequently and that would be two strong.
The reason why he can do this is when he was 3 is quirk was developing and he was exposed to radiation messing with his quirk genes and when his quirk developed it added this.
Hero Costume:
He also has tubes that are like water bottle size on this belt that he charges with his energy every night before he goes to bed in case he runs out of energy himself.
Maximum Output Move: Master Elemental
Carrys amounted cannons inspired by Titan speaker man. They harness his power into either energy balls or just flat out lasers.
To make my self clear his max form when he uses all his elements he can only use 1/10 of his forms power including him as the main guy of this whole body.
PERSONALITY
He's smart nice in a way sometimes a prankster if you try to roast him you will go complete PackGod on you, if he's in a bad mood don't try to comfort him you'll just make things worse and not for him for you, he's really cocky, but not bakugo cocky hes just a bit over confident. He is very creative. He loves tech to the point if you break a 30 buck phone around him, let's just say you gonna want to do a crime in front of batman before Matthew finds you.
Background:
Favorite food: Red Beans and rice
6ft 2
His mom, him , brothers, and his sister some how got the same disease that Michael Jackson had so they all went from black to white. But since you're still African they do still have passes
Hates obsesseve people.
(I'm bout to do some bull shit y'all probably won't like.)
His older brother has a pheonix quirk and he's a hero.
His younger brother has the fusion quirk that I made in a past post)
His sister has digital master quirk but I also need in a previous post.
Any way I hope y'all like my reworked oc
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2024.05.20 01:33 potato_enjoyer_ I hate myself and I don’t know what to do.

I don’t know what to do with my life.
For the past 5 years(I think, I haven’t kept count) my life has been going downhill. Ever since my brother got his ADHD diagnosis I’ve felt like an outcast from my family. He goes around doing whatever he wants. Something happens, not his fault, always blamed on someone else.
Rather recently (a couple months back) he was annoying everybody at a family gathering, my uncle, very clearly joking, told him to stand in the road. And my brother the fucking idiot he is, sat in the middle of the road. And of course when we found him, my mum was crying about it. Blaming everyone other than him, because, oh no her precious baby boy (he’s 10) was told to stand in the road and he did. But it’s not his fault, he has ADHD. And in her eyes that means he is disconnected from any blame he should be given.
Another thing he does is he pushes my buttons, purposely, talking in my ear, even when I tell him to stop. He tells me to learn my place. And of course eventually I go off on him, sometimes I give him one round the jaw. And of course, my mum comes and consoles him, because it isn’t his fault, he has ADHD, which in her eyes means he can be a prick all he wants. I can hear her talking about me, ”oh he’s a bully.” Or, “he’s a terrible person.” There are many other instances of shit like this happening, but I can’t get into them.
So about my brother: he is now 10 years old, he can barely do anything, bad at reading, writing, spelling. And it’s all because he has ADHD, and the school aren’t doing enough to support him. (They are bending over backwards for him, we all are) He got suspended from school last week, all he got was a 2 day ban on the Xbox. When I was his age and I didn’t do my homework, I got a two month ban from the TV.
Now I know this seems like a rant about my brother, but I can’t halo but think. Am I really the one in the wrong? Am I really the evil person I’ve been made out to be? But this is just a little drop an ocean of problems for me. I’m gonna talk about all of them today because, why not?
My family has a history of alcoholism, My grandad died because of it. And a while back my dad was addicted to whisky, he said he’s stopped, but you can never be too sure. Apparently he was drinking one bottle a day. I looked in the bin one week, 10 bottles, and these were full sized bottles. I am scared to touch alcohol now, I know I’ll get addicted.
Another thing, I’m ugly. That’s it I’m just ugly, I try to make myself look presentable, but every time I look in the mirror I see one of the ugliest people I’ve ever seen.
I have a feeling, my friends hate me. I barely talk to them, and when I do, I’m usually the one starting the conversation, other than that, nothing. I barely have anything in common with any of them. It’s not like this with anyone else though, they all talk with each other just fine. When we don’t like someone in the group, nobody says anything to them, we just talk behind their back. ( I only do this to fit in and I think it’s really scummy) I have a feeling my friends talk behind my back as well.
Im not smart, or very athletic. To be fair, I’m more athletic then most, but not enough for it to make up for my lack of smarts, I always feel stupid.
I had a great time over on KimetsuNoYaiba but I fucked it right up. It was a great community over there, until I went over the edge, I started posting inappropriate stuff over there, I don’t want to go into it, but if you want to learn more, ask about the u/The_poggers_potato incident. After that happened they all hated me, and I wanted to redeem myself. I decided to wage war against the pedophiles of the community. Through the criticism of the pedos. I got myself a permanent ip ban on Reddit. I was using a different account every half an hour to get my messages across. But it wasn’t working. I made a new account, using a vpn, different email, different browser. And it worked for three days my Reddit account was safe. Until I posted on KimetsuNoYaiba, I was banned a day after, I realised someone recognised me and reported me. That’s when I remembered how shit of a site Reddit is, they would only ban me if the person who reported me was a mod on the community. I tried to redeem myself, but a mod and Reddits corrupt system has stopped me.
That community meant so much to me, and it’s not like it’s over, I’m still at war with the pedos, I haven’t given up. But at some point I’m gonna have to throw in the towel. And it’s truly a shame, being part of that community has made me the happiest I have been in years. But I’ve messed it all up.
To all the great people in that community I thank you. People like u/ApplePitou, u/OkBeautiful1480, u/Johxnny_ , u/Shadow_Huntress12, u/Scout_Trooper_77, u/The_Enmu_Man, u/99980, u/AntacidSpore44. All names off the top of my head, but there are many others too. They have made my day with the things the comment/say.
But I did ruin it for myself, screwed myself over again and again and again. And I hate myself, I don’t know what else to say. I don’t know where to go with my life, I don’t know if I want to go. But I guess I’ll have to see.
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2024.05.20 01:28 skyebunni Help! Bleeding bald spots and a sudden hunch back

Help! Bleeding bald spots and a sudden hunch back
Help!! My pet mouse is only about 7months old and recently she developed bald spots that seem to bleed and ooze around the inside/below her ears. It then seemed to spread on one side all the way under her eye, which she now squints. I've been washing it regularly and cleaning it with antibacterial wound spray which seemed like it was allowing it to heal. Last night however she got very cold and now has a big spine hunch right past her neck. She is very lethargic and not walking right now too. The hunch developed literally over night and I can't find any info on why. When her bloody spots appeared I took her to the vet and they told me she was lacking fatty aminos and they said to give her flax oil every day. It didn't help. Any ideas?? I'm worried she is going to die. The photos are from right before her vet visit. It has since spread to all the way below one eye, as I said. She was also treated with an oral medication for mites but that didn't help either. Her tank mate is completely healthy.
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2024.05.20 01:28 Luxray2014 So small update about the snake in the ceiling situation.

So small update about the snake in the ceiling situation.
I had to use mothballs a couple days ago to bring it out, which worked but now it's in our yard, my mother is not fond of danger noodles so I had to give her this advice so as to not provoke the snake. Is this good advice?
This is the guy that posted a picture of a black mamba to show what the snake looked like btw.
Like the messages say I'm going to lay down snake away around my house when I get home.
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2024.05.20 01:23 Citizenicu A little effort Bangor City Council?! Just a little would be nice!

A little effort Bangor City Council?! Just a little would be nice!
This makes me so F’ing Sad. I took this pic last night after a tasting at Damon’s.
The other side is even worse!!
Can ANYONE explain to me why this sign has looked like this for almost 10 years at least?!? The grounds around the bottom of the sign are ugly as well!!! Nobody on the Bangor City Council has a lawnmower?!
I understand the Mall is awful, I won’t even go in anymore…..but come on!! This is how Bangor is representing themselves to Tourists?!?!
This sign is a disgrace and a GIANT slap in the face to those of us that grew up in Bangor and spent their youths, and a lot of hard earned “baby-sitting” and “lawn mowing” money there buying cassettes and CD’s. Pretzels and pitas at the “Pita Pit.” All that stuff!! I got my ear pierced there in 8th Grade for crying out loud.
I’ve heard or read that it’s privately owned and blah blah blah. I’m disgusted.
Go Celtics!!! 🤣🤣
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2024.05.20 01:22 PolarisFallen2 New(ish) lobe piercing & 1st jewelry change questions

Hi everyone! I got my first piercing (earlobe, both ears) 3 months ago. My piercer said I could change earrings after 3 months, just to beware about any heavier jewelry or going without any for the whole first year.
Theoretically I should be able to change them now, but… 1. How do I know they’re healed enough? I still get goop coming out of them sometimes. 2. How do I get current earrings out? I believe they are the push in ones. Ball in front, flat on back. 3. How urgent is it for me to get new ones in quick? Like will they close in 1 min if I’m not quick enough? 4. How easily would I be able to put my original earrings (push in, like I said) back in? Since I’m understanding that I shouldn’t go with nothing in them, I’m a side sleeper and a bit worried about the backs of “normal” earrings poking me 5. In your experience, how long until you’d risk leaving them out overnight?
I know tons of people have this piercing and don’t seem to stress too much about it, but just really like to get my mind around things. Glad to be pointed to an article or other resource instead but haven’t found anything with much detail. Thanks in advance!
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2024.05.20 01:18 Personal-Revenue-340 AITAH for refusing to be around my girlfriends best friend?

My girlfriend has a toxic friend that she has been friends with since she moved into town. They are reasonably close as she was my gf’s first friend in a new town. Although they go way back, she has become a leach on my girlfriend, always needing a place to go/stay, always avoiding and running from her problems in her home life, and has drug my girlfriend through it all with her. Many times has she put my gf in bad positions with ex’s, she always in my gf’s ear pointing out all of my wrongs. I refuse to be around her simply because I do not like the kind of person she is. I have no problem with my gf hanging out with her, because I understand their relationship. I just simply will not be in the same room her, and it has began to really upset my gf. AITAH?
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2024.05.20 01:10 Soninetz Spocket vs AliExpress: The Ultimate Dropshipping Comparison

Spocket vs AliExpress: The Ultimate Dropshipping Comparison
Unsure whether to choose Spocket or AliExpress for your dropshipping needs? Let's break it down. Spocket offers fast shipping and quality products from US and EU suppliers, perfect for quick deliveries and customer satisfaction for ecommerce platforms. On the other hand, AliExpress, an online store, provides a vast range of products from multiple suppliers at lower prices, but with longer shipping times and potential quality concerns. By weighing the convenience of Spocket against the affordability of AliExpress, you can make an informed decision that suits your business best. Dive into this comparison to find out which platform aligns with your dropshipping goals.
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Key Takeaways

  • When choosing between Spocket and AliExpress for dropshipping, consider the unique features, offerings, quality products, and reviews of each supplier to align with your business needs.
  • Analyze the cost structure of both platforms, including product prices, shipping fees, and any additional charges, to determine the most cost-effective option for your business.
  • Evaluate the delivery times provided by Spocket and AliExpress to ensure timely fulfillment of orders and customer satisfaction.
  • Take into account user feedback and reviews to gauge the overall experience with each platform, including customer service, product quality, and reliability.
  • Balance the pros and cons of using Spocket versus AliExpress to make an informed decision that maximizes efficiency and profitability for your dropshipping business.
  • Remember to continuously monitor performance metrics and adapt your supplier choice based on changing market conditions and customer preferences.

Dropshipping Supplier Overview

Supplier Base

Spocket offers a curated list of reliable suppliers, mainly from the US and Europe, ensuring faster shipping times. On the other hand, AliExpress boasts a vast network of multiple suppliers from around the world, providing a wide range of products.

Product Range Diversity

Spocket focuses on high-quality, unique products, ideal for niche markets, while AliExpress offers a plethora of products across various categories, including electronics, fashion, and more.
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Integration with eCommerce Stores

Both Spocket and AliExpress provide seamless integration with popular platforms like Shopify, enabling users to easily set up their online stores for business. This integration allows for automatic order processing and tracking, simplifying the dropshipping process.

Cost Comparison

Subscription Plans

Spocket offers three subscription plans: Starter, Pro, and Empire. The Starter plan costs $24 per month, Pro is $49 per month, and Empire is $99 per month. On the other hand, AliExpress does not require any subscription fees to access its platform.

Associated Costs

When it comes to additional costs, Spocket charges transaction fees ranging from 2% to 3% on each order. In contrast, AliExpress generally does not have transaction fees, making it more cost-effective for dropshippers.

Implications for Dropshippers

Spocket: While Spocket's subscription plans may seem pricier than AliExpress upfront, the platform offers faster shipping times and higher-quality products. This can lead to increased customer satisfaction and potentially higher profits for dropshippers.
AliExpress: Despite being free to use, dropshippers need to consider longer shipping times and varying product quality when sourcing from AliExpress. This could impact customer retention rates and overall business success in the long run.

Delivery Time Evaluation

Shipping Times

Spocket typically offers faster delivery times compared to AliExpress. With Spocket's focus on quality suppliers and efficient order fulfillment processes, customers can expect quicker shipping durations for their products.

Customer Satisfaction Impact

Faster shipping times play a crucial role in enhancing customer satisfaction. When orders are delivered promptly, it leads to increased trust and loyalty from buyers. This positive experience encourages repeat purchases and boosts overall customer happiness.
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Reliability Assessment

Both platforms have their strengths when it comes to shipping durations. While AliExpress may sometimes have longer shipping times due to the nature of its suppliers, Spocket stands out for its emphasis on quick and reliable shipping options such as epacket shipping. This ensures that customers receive their orders in a timely manner without compromising on product quality.

User Experience Analysis

User Interface

Spocket offers a clean and intuitive user interface, making it easy for customers to navigate the platform effortlessly. On the other hand, AliExpress has a more cluttered interface, which can sometimes overwhelm users.

Automation Level in Order Fulfillment

Spocket excels in automation for order fulfillment and tracking, streamlining the process for customers. In contrast, AliExpress may have some manual steps involved, leading to potential delays.

User Feedback and Satisfaction

  • Spocket: Users appreciate the seamless experience and top-notch customer service provided by Spocket.
  • AliExpress: While offering a wide range of products at competitive prices, AliExpress has received mixed reviews regarding customer service responsiveness.

Pros and Cons

Spocket

Spocket offers fast shipping from US and EU suppliers, ensuring quick delivery times for customers. The platform provides high-quality products with detailed product descriptions, enhancing the overall shopping experience. Spocket's excellent customer service is praised in user reviews.
On the downside, Spocket's pricing plans might be a bit steep for beginners, impacting profit margins. Some users have faced complications with certain suppliers, leading to delays in order fulfillment. Despite these challenges, Spocket remains a popular choice for many dropshippers due to its premium product options.

AliExpress

AliExpress stands out for its vast product variety and low prices, making it an attractive option for dropshippers looking to offer a wide range of items. The platform also allows users to purchase products in small quantities, ideal for those starting with limited capital.
However, the main drawback of AliExpress is the long shipping times, which can result in customer dissatisfaction. Quality control can be an issue as well, with some products not meeting expectations. Despite these drawbacks, AliExpress remains a go-to platform for dropshippers due to its extensive product selection.

Closing Thoughts

After comparing Spocket and AliExpress in terms of dropshipping suppliers, costs, delivery times, user experiences, and pros and cons, you now have a clearer picture of what each platform offers. Consider your business needs, budget constraints, and customer expectations when selecting the right supplier. While AliExpress may provide lower costs, Spocket offers faster delivery times and a more curated selection of products. Ultimately, the choice between the two platforms depends on what matters most to you.
Before making a decision, weigh the factors that are crucial for your business success. Take into account not only the financial aspects but also the overall customer experience you aim to deliver. By choosing the supplier that aligns best with your requirements, you can enhance your dropshipping business and provide better service to your customers.
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Frequently Asked Questions

What is the main difference between Spocket and AliExpress for dropshipping?

Spocket offers curated products from EU and US suppliers, ensuring faster shipping times and higher product quality. AliExpress has a vast range of products from Chinese suppliers at lower prices but with longer shipping times and potential quality issues.

Which platform, Spocket or AliExpress, provides better user experience for dropshippers?

Spocket's user-friendly interface, efficient order processing, and reliable customer support make it a preferred choice for dropshippers seeking convenience. In contrast, AliExpress may have more product variety but can be challenging to navigate due to multiple sellers and varying shipping times.

How do the costs compare between using Spocket and AliExpress for dropshipping?

While products on Spocket may have slightly higher prices compared to AliExpress due to better quality and faster shipping, the overall cost-effectiveness is often better with Spocket considering reduced customer service needs and potential for higher customer satisfaction.

Which supplier, Spocket or AliExpress, offers quicker delivery times for dropshippers?

Spocket typically provides faster delivery times compared to AliExpress due to its network of EU and US suppliers. This can lead to improved customer satisfaction, repeat business, and potentially lower shipping-related issues when using Spocket as a dropshipping supplier.

What are the pros and cons of choosing between Spocket and AliExpress for dropshipping?

Spocket's pros include quality products, faster shipping times, user-friendly interface. However, it might have slightly higher product costs. On the other hand, AliExpress offers lower-priced items but with longer shipping times and potential quality concerns due to multiple sellers.
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  1. Spocket LifeTime Deal
  2. Spocket Free Trial
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2024.05.20 01:07 KingdumbHearts Is my little girl autistic?

she's a little over four years old. I'm starting to suspect that she may be autistic? probably high-functioning, though, because she isn't developmentally delayed or anything. she began walking at 13mo which isn't late and said her first word early, at 9mo.
some things that I think are unusual:
• limited facial expression
• not particularly poor eye contact, but much less than other kids, especially when she is paying attention to something else. she will not look at me when I say her name, but she answers by talking.
• she lines things up like bears, she will also only paint dots in straight lines
• only plays games in one way
she plays this game where she is 'walking to school' and finds a cat, she will do this several times over around the room. she lines up bricks and lays on them every single time, not really playing with them. She is also preoccupied with the sound of these bricks hitting each other. At home, she will always tell me about that sound.
• she obsesses over little things that characters on TV do.
on a show, she once saw a boy pack his bag to go hang out with his friends. afterwards she completely forgot what the boy actually did, she just cared about the toy robot he brought with him. for days after, she would build the same robot out of Duplos and pretend to pack her bag as well. she also kept replaying that part of the episode without watching the rest.
• she repeatedly watches a select few Lego videos on YouTube because she likes the sound. she also loves the sound of shoes on wood, and will happily run around the house making that sound.
• she has a meltdown whenever we go to parties or turn on the vacuum. She starts screaming and crying and won't stop till I take her somewhere quiet. This has been happening since she was a few months old. It's strange because other than that, she is a very timid and quiet child.
• every night, I see her moving her fingers strangely over her eyes like puppets. her teachers see the same behavior during naps.
• whenever she sees her younger brother sitting down, she pushes him over on his face. she laughs whenever she does this. but she's generally not mean or anything?
• she seems overwhelmed in bright areas. constantly squinting, talking less. she also falls asleep very quickly after i take her somewhere less bright, like she's tired from all the stimulation or something?
• she has trouble following instructions or picking up a new skill without repeatedly seeing someone else do it. once someone shows her what to do, she understands very quickly, however.
• she is obsessed with this one book about rain. she has read it hundreds of times, but refuses to throw it away or anything. It's in pretty bad shape, but she refuses to leave it alone.
• she is strangely attached to her stuffed dog, creatively named "puppy". she takes it to school every day and sleeps with it every night. if she loses it, she refuses to sleep without it. once, her older sister cut a hole into it. the stuffing was coming out, but she still continued to bring it around everywhere.
• she is obsessed with metal locks. she draws them, she carries them around. she also really likes over-ear headphones. these are in almost all of the cards she makes for me.
• she doesn't react much to pain. she runs, she falls, she scrapes her knee or something, then she gets back up like nothing happened. she skinned her hand once pretty badly and barely cried. she
• her teachers have told me that she is very quiet at school. she doesn't play with other kids unless prompted to.
• she is very controlling of her younger brother, like she's trying to be a second mother.
• she is strangely fascinated with checklists and schedules. I can't even tell you how many times I stumble upon a paper that says "daily routine" or "scedhul" (she can't spell that word yet.) with a checklist underneath. this is really strange for a 4 year old, but it would make a little sense if she was autistic? I know many kids with autism care a lot about routines.
that's pretty much everything. does my little one seem autistic? my other kiddos don't act like this at all.
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2024.05.20 01:05 Hazzaw20 The nightmare night, true story

It was a cold, windy night in November. The kind of night where the wind howls through the trees, making them creak and groan like they’re alive. I was alone in the house. My parents had gone out for the evening, and my older brother was at a friend’s house. They wouldn’t be back until late, so it was just me, the silence, and the unsettling noises the old house made in the dark.
I was in the living room, curled up on the couch with a blanket and a bowl of popcorn, watching a movie to pass the time. I’d turned off all the lights except for the flickering glow of the TV, which cast eerie shadows on the walls. I tried not to think about how quiet it was, how empty the house felt, but the creaking and groaning of the house made it hard to ignore.
Then I heard it. A faint sound, just outside the window. I froze, the remote slipping from my hand and clattering to the floor. The noise was gone as quickly as it had come, replaced by the steady thrumming of my heartbeat in my ears. I told myself it was nothing, just the wind or maybe a stray cat, but I couldn’t shake the feeling of unease.
I forced myself to keep watching the movie, trying to lose myself in the familiar story. But then I heard it again—a soft, scraping sound, like metal against wood. This time, it was coming from the back door. I muted the TV and strained to listen, every muscle in my body tense.
The scraping turned into a quiet, persistent rattle, as if someone was trying to pick the lock. I felt a chill run down my spine. My mind raced. Should I call my parents? The police? My phone was in the kitchen, and I’d have to cross the dark hallway to get to it.
I crept off the couch, moving as silently as I could, my heart pounding in my chest. As I reached the hallway, the rattling stopped. The sudden silence was almost worse than the noise. I held my breath, listening for any sign of movement. Then, a soft thud echoed through the house. Someone was inside.
Panicking, I darted into the kitchen and grabbed my phone. I dialed 999, my hands shaking so badly I almost dropped it. As I pressed the phone to my ear, I heard heavy footsteps coming down the hallway.
“999, what’s your emergency?” the operator’s voice was calm and steady, a lifeline in the darkness.
“There’s someone in my house,” I whispered, my voice trembling. “Please, send help.”
I could hear the intruder moving closer, the floorboards creaking under their weight. The operator assured me that help was on the way, but I didn’t know how long it would take. I needed to hide.
I slipped into the pantry, pulling the door closed just as the footsteps entered the kitchen. Through the slats, I could see a dark figure moving around, searching for something. I clamped a hand over my mouth, trying to stifle my breathing.
The intruder moved methodically, opening cupboards and drawers, the clinking of silverware and the thud of doors slamming shut filling the silence. I prayed they wouldn’t check the pantry, that they’d take whatever they wanted and leave.
But then the door creaked open, and I found myself staring into the eyes of a masked figure. I screamed, dropping my phone. The operator’s voice echoed from the floor, but I couldn’t make out the words. The intruder lunged at me, and I scrambled backwards, my hand closing around a can of soup. Without thinking, I hurled it at their head.
The can connected with a sickening thud, and the intruder staggered, giving me a moment to escape. I bolted from the pantry, tearing through the house and out the front door. I didn’t stop running until I reached the neighbor’s house, where I banged on the door, sobbing and gasping for breath.
The police arrived minutes later, lights flashing and sirens wailing. They found the intruder unconscious in the kitchen, the mask still on their face. I later learned they’d been a wanted criminal, breaking into homes in the area.
That night changed me. The house never felt the same—its comforting creaks and groans now sounded like threats. And I never forgot the terror of seeing those eyes in the dark, the feeling of being hunted in my own home.
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2024.05.20 00:59 Meghanlomaniac Timeline of Narcissist MIL, do I confront her with my boundary or just disappear?

(First time poster )
So, I don't know where to start on this one, but I'm having a hard time processing this situation and need help. I did start seeing a therapist but it's been a while so I guess I should go back, but here goes.
I met my husband roughly ten years ago and his Mom seemed ok for a while. When we were dating, she even invited me to do paint nights with her which I thought was nice. She did like to gossip a lot to me which in retrospect I see now was a 🚩#1.
Things seemed ok until my BIL got into a new relationship, and his girlfriend came clean with me: She asked me how my relationship is with MIL is and I said it was ok, why? And she proceeded to tell me that MIL gossips and talks badly about me non stop. Especially after coming back from visiting my house. BILs girlfriend was uncomfortable with this and told MIL that this was mean and uncalled for and even before she met me she felt bad for me and thought we'd get along, because she too had been victim to bullying and this is what this felt like. MIL responded with "you don't know her".
Anyways she told me the kind of things MIL was saying about me and it was not nice. Basically she would observe any kind of issue or conflict in my life but emphasize it to be super critical with absolutely no empathy and often full on lies to make me look bad and I now understand, to turn my husband's siblings against me. Which she has from the beginning of my and hubby's time together (2014).
For example, in 2021 we moved to a new city so we could buy a house and uprooted my 3 yr old daughters entire life. She had a hard adjustment and picked her face for a while (it was also summer so mosquito bites are what started it) she also regressed and wet the bed for a bit. She then adjusted and was just fine.
MIL turns this into "OP is anxious and is making her daughter anxious" Her daughter is anxious and it's OP's fault". I haven't suffered with anxiety for a while. It was only the year we got married, and I was better with medication. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Nor did I share any of my mental health struggles with MIL so she's making an assumption at best.
She complains that I'm lazy and do not do housework or cooking to her satisfaction (she was a SAHM and I am not). I should mention hubby and I have a 50/50 type deal with household and child minding. We both work. 🤷🏼‍♀️
I asked my hubby respectfully to never fight with me in front of MIL but he has, And like a snake in the grass she then tells everyone all about it, but turns it into something it wasn't. Not lying per se but emphasizing the dysfunction without any empathy or recognizing her own sons role in all of this.
My husband for his part has been very hesitant to set boundaries with her, but also emotionally keeps a distance from her. Then a few years ago, he told me MIL was responsible in the past for breaking up his relationships with other girlfirneds by making his partners feel uncomfortable 🚩#2.
It appears that recently the lies and gossip has been escalated. She makes me feel uncomfortable in my own house. I catch her darting dirty looks at me and then when I notice this, she switches it to giving me a fake smile.
She has no poker face and I sense the hostility whenever she's around.
The only time I let her clean my house without me getting up was when I was very pregnant with my son and exhausted. Yet she still tells anyone who will listen how lazy I am.
Last time she was over, I asserted myself more and would be firm with my boundaries. I also made it clear when her opinions were wrong / uncalled for.
It was this past winter and she took it upon herself to clean my back porch (we don't have a garage and it was messy). I told her to please stop cleaning my back porch. She explained she was here to help so she might as well help. I said I would rather she didn't. She asked why. I said because it feels like judgment. After a pause she said well you're family so you don't need to feel that way. When I told my hubby he was shocked and complained that she was supposed to be visiting her grandchildren (who were sitting in the other room, alone). She seems more interested in passive aggressively making me feel like I can't keep house. Again, I WORK FULL TIME. I have two small children and I do what I can. My house is far from a disaster, but I'm sure the crumbs you can see on my floors are enough to warrant her disapproval.
Overly judgemental and appears not to "approve" of me for her son 🚩3 and 4.
The worst recent situation was thrifting with MIL, which used to be the only thing we could bond over. I took my daughter and while shopping, she carelessly grabbed at a teacup I was buying and it smashed on the floor. As a Millenial who is trying very hard to gentle parent (despite the fact I was never taught self regulation by my boomer parents) I got on her level and told her that it wasn't ok to do that in the store and to observe the consequence. My daughter usually doesn't do stuff like that, and she felt bad so she burst into tears. I then spend time holding her in a hug and comforting her until she felt better. Employee came by and told me not to worry about paying for it as it was an accident. MIL immediately went home and told BIL and BIL gf that I yelled at my daughter in a store and made her cry. That was NOT what happened. In fact I'm positive if I had been permissive and not disciplined her in the store, she would have bad mouthed my parenting as well. This time I let BIL know that his mother lied about this situation and I'm incredibly frustrated and angry with MIL.
BIL is strongly enmeshed with MIL and his willingness to believe MIL opinions as fact is one of the reasons his relationship with the present girlfriend fell apart. He's also an alcoholic and refused to stop or get help.
I suspect the reason MIL tries so hard to destroy my character and BIL GFs character is because she does not want any attention on her and her horrible actions.
She secretly started seeing the man she had an affair with in the 90s again, causing her relationship with FIL to dissolve and they divorced (dead marriage for years). To pay for said divorce, she remortgaged the house and convinced BIL to co-sign. As soon as he did, she moved in with her 90s affair boyfriend and told BIL she could not help with the bills anymore since she had committed to her 90s affair boyfriends mortgage (my husband and I suspect this was her plan all along). The stress of the financial situation definitely pushed BILs addiction further, but he also has anger issues and mental health issues.
My husband for his part is furious and refused to accept this 90s affair boyfriend of hers who caused him all kinds of childhood trauma (which she won't admit to). He's happy for her but wants no relationship with this man. I also think that she's trying to create infighting between the siblings and our marriages so no one confronts her for her actions. Husband also has a sister who (surprise surprise) hates my guts and treats me like shit.
She tried to push my husband's boundary about 90s affair boyfriend and he doubled down, causing more distance.
After BILs relationship broke down, I was so stressed out from emotionally being involved that I'm now not talking to MIL or BIL but she keeps dropping messages to wish me happy Easter or happy mothers day.
I told hubby she is no longer welcome in my home so the last few times he saw her they met with our children out of town and I stayed home.
Question is: do I just cut her off entirely with no explanation or do I give her a reason and outline why I am going no contact? Since she won't change (narcissist) husband is not willing to go to therapy with her. I feel like the only way I can get over this hurt and pain I'm still processing is either confronting her or going no contact and blocking her on Facebook.
Any advice????
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2024.05.20 00:59 Born-Project-310 Is my alternator bad?

I have a 2011 Lexus es350 with around 65,000mi and I was driving it normally with no warnings or anything. All of a sudden everything started to turn off and on (the gauge cluster, climate controls, screen) and the battery light, check engine light and vsc light came on. I was able to pull into a parking lot and as I was pulling in, the power steering went out, after that I turned the car off and it would not restart. I have a radar detector that has a voltmeter built into it(not sure if it is accurate or not) but when I read the voltage with the ignition on it read 6 volts. I took the battery out and got it tested at an auto zone and the battery was so dead it wouldn’t even test. I am getting rid of the car soon so I bought a cheap battery from auto zone and put it in the car. It started and ran fine but the radar detector was only reading around 11.5-12 volts with the engine on which isn’t in the 13.7-14.7. Does this mean my alternator is bad and I should replace that too?
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2024.05.20 00:58 ApparatusOfFiction It came from the swamp, with a smile (Chapter 63)

First Previous
**Memory transcription subject: Xithan, … hungry Arxur**
*Date [standardized human time]: October 13, 2136*
Holding my gift, I let my eyes slide shut, the idle chatter between Cotton and Upsilta threatening to lull me back to sleep. I had pulled myself up onto my bunk, letting my back rest against the wall, with my tail wrapped around me. This was… pleasant. Calm. I could exist, without the sensation of suspicious eyes constantly on me.
I’m free.
A loud Cotton noise caught my attention– it had to be them, of course, as venlil did not make that same kind of boisterous… laughter, was it? My eyes lazily opened, and I looked to see the two of them sitting next to each other on Cotton’s bunk. The human was laying back on their bed, their legs nearly bouncing with the occasional wheeze between laughs. Upsilta’s face had bloomed orange, most noticeable around their eyes and ears. I wasn’t sure what I had missed, but… it was still odd, to see predator and prey so friendly with one another. Even with all I had seen recently, the Dominion’s teachings still came to mind, trying to tell me what I was seeing was a lie.
Of course, it wasn’t. My eyes couldn’t lie to me, and the Dominion had no power over me. Not here, anyway.
Heavy footsteps were heard at the doorway to the bunks, and Cotton’s laughter was stifled as the human shuffled to sit up. A stressed, exhausted face peered out, glancing across the room. The angry gojid tried not to flinch when she met my eyes, but she didn’t hide it well. Realizing I would have to take more care with my behavior again, I turned my head away, trying to avoid setting off her prey instincts.
Why… am I irritated by this? I’m used to adjusting my behavior around other for all my years–
You didn’t have to do it, a few moments ago.
“Krosa!! Ya changed your mind on the bath–?”
“NO.”
Cotton seemed to deflate at this, sighing before flopping back onto their bunk, letting out an annoyed noise. The venlil gave her a few ear flicks, and a content wag of his tail; probably trying to soothe her. Krosa let out an irritated exhale, before moving towards the human and venlil pair. Surprisingly, she had turned her back to me.
There they were, chatting again. The gojid’s voice was low, Cotton’s energetic as usual, and Upsilta’s, well, soft. Not as soft as his blessed fur, but still.
They paid me no mind as they chatted, and I enjoyed the feeling of sinking into the background. Not having attention on me was… pleasant. I rubbed my snout against my soft, red gift, content at how I was–
Growl.
I blinked, the silence of the room feeling entirely too loud following the rumbling of my stomach.
Hunger.
Looking up, I saw the gojid facing me, her spines up. The venlil seemed anxious as well, moving closer to their human. I couldn’t blame them. But it still–
“See?! How the hell are we supposed to– he eats FLESH, and there’s nothing for him on this shuttle–”
“Krosa.”
“I warned you this was what would happen if we took in a blasted arxur–”
“Krosa.”
“What, Cotton–?”
The tense back and forth made the air in the room feel thick, with the human seeming to get more… frustrated as the gojid’s ranting continued. Cotton looked at me for a moment, before looking back at the angry, prickly creature in front of them.
They’re going to tell.
“I have meat for him.” The fluffy-haired human firmly answered, a gritted stare watching as the gojid processed–
“You. You WHAT?!”
The incredulous rage nearly exploded out of the gojid, as she let out a frustrated snarl; to which Cotton stayed still, refusing to flinch.
“After– AFTER EVERYTHING! You, you brought meat?! And you think you can get upset when– when our kind calls you a predator, for this kind of shit–”
The tenseness of the human felt… odd, with how they normally were. Upsilta already knew of their secret, and didn’t seem angry; but still had an air of uncertain disappointment.
“There’s no changin’ what he can eat, Krosa. An’ I got something we can use to keep him fed without killin’ anything. Just need a sample–”
“NO. God– no, what the FUCK– I should have stayed in my room, you, you’re just–”
Cutting off Cotton, Krosa stepped away from the human and venlil pair, turning to give me a glare, before retreating from the bunk room. Upsilta hopped up from Cotton’s bunk, scurrying to the door and calling out to her. Cotton sat where they were, looking… tired.
“... You have, more meat?” I quietly asked, and the golden-haired human looked up at me, before nodding.
“Yeah. I brought, ah, two bags. I’ll give ya the other one… was hoping the first one would last ya longer, but…” They sighed, pulling their backpack towards them, and starting to dig. They pulled out another bag of dried meat, setting it next to themselves. I could feel my mouth water, and my heart skip a beat at the sight.
Food.
“Cotton?” A soft voice called, as the venlil returned– but stayed in the doorway, not committed to re-entering.
“Yea?” The human replied, still digging through their items; they’d laid out a few that didn’t seem to be what they were looking for.
“What… what did you mean, you have something that can keep… Xithan fed?”
Wait. What exactly did the human mean with this? Although I was fixated on the bag of meat rations, I pulled my eyes away to watch the human, catching the sight of them pulling out a cylindrical, metal object.
“Welllll… ah never told ya why I got, uh, kicked outta the program, did I?”
The venlil’s head tilted, their ears giving a confused twitch. Program - that must have been that human-venlil exchange program. Cotton could see my hunger, and made a motion to mimic… throwing the bag at me? I sat up straighter, and watched as the human effortlessly tossed the bag my way, right into my greedy claws. Unceremoniously, I tore into the plastic, digging out pieces of the dried meat and stuffing them into my gullet.
“So, ah… s’cause of this thing.” Cotton continued, gently tapping the metal cylinder. I glanced up, seeing Upsilta watching me, his fur puffed up, before forcing his gaze to his human.
“Speh, what… well, what is it? It.. it’s not a weapon, right?” The venlil chirped back, their tail swishing back and forth anxiously. The human let out a small laugh, their golden curls bouncing as they shook their head. “Nahhh, well. It ain’t a weapon to me, but… maybe to some of y’all, uh. ‘Prey’, species?”
I hadn’t realized how hungry I was. It… it was a little peculiar, having meat that was dried, but it still tasted good. It still satisfied my hunger. And I didn’t have to tear into a freshly killed gojid, either or eat those processed rations.
“Ah, well, the airport security sure as hell thought it was a weapon. Fuckin’ tool– wonder how long it took for his face to get fixed back up…” Those last words were nearly hissed, an odd glint in the human’s eye. A moment where they eerily reminded me of the humans on the Cradle– how on Wriss could they go from seemingly harmless, to something I’d hate to be on the bad side of–
You bit off two of their fingers. Was that not enough to be on their bad side?
I swallowed a large piece of dried meat. Apparently, that wasn’t the sort of thing that made Cotton upset. Whatever this ‘airport security’ did, evidently had made the human angry.
“–anyway, yea, this ain’t a weapon. S’a way for us to grow food.” The fluffy haired human beamed, looking towards their venlil for approval.
“S-so, no more rations?” Upsilta treaded, and the human let out an anxious laugh.
“U-uh, that’s the thing. It’s food… for me an’ Xithan.”
“... Wait, you mean–?”
“Meat.”
I had paused from my ravenous snacking, answer the venlil’s question for the human. Cotton looked at me, a gentle expression on their face. “Yea, s’right Xithan. Can make meat with this thing. Or, at least, duplicate a sample–”
“Sample?!” Upsilta squeaked out, and Cotton nodded. “Yeah, but hell, I’m fine with doin’ it–”
“NO.” I growled, my tail giving an irritated whip. The human looked at me, seemingly… hurt?
“.. Aww, c’mon, I’m fine with cutting out a piece, it wouldn’t even hurt–”
“Human, did you not hear me before? I would rather starve than ever taste human flesh again.”
The human sighed, rubbing their hair with their good hand. “Listen, I know it wouldn’t taste… the best, but, hell, I’d be willin’ to do it. The thing needs a fresh sample, it doesn’t really like dried or older ones for some reason–”
“I do not care. I refuse to eat your flesh– it was foul, rancid, and made me contemplate just giving up meat and dying.” The growl of my voice grew louder, and Cotton seemed unwilling to back down despite it.
“Fine, maybe… ah, fuck, I can hunt somethin’ down there–”
“Do you really think the gojid will entertain that?” I hissed, my heavy tail smacking against my bunk. “What about the venlil–?”
“Xithan, his NAME is Upsilta. And– shit, I don’t know, I’d just figure it out. There’s enough space on this damn ship to hide a carcass somewhere–” They were frustrated, but it didn’t matter– I would rather starve than taste that disgusting flesh ever again. What, by the prophet were humans made of, that tasted so wretched?
Letting out an exasperated sigh, Cotton set down their ‘meat generator’ on their bunk, before standing. The height difference wasn’t that much, but it seemed to make the human feel better. “Ya only need a lil sample– it can only make a little bit at a time, and it always needs fresh samples, but dammit, it works–”
We were at a standstill; my stubborn refusal, and their inability to back down. I opened my maw once more to remind the human–
“... I’ll do it.” Came the soft, reserved voice of the human’s venlil. Cotton’s face went a shade paler, and they whipped around to look at their exchange partner. “... Upsilta?”
The divinely fluffy venlil gave a gentle sway of their tail, meeting the human’s gaze for a moment, before looking away. Cotton was crouched in front of them, their hands grasping the prey’s shoulders. “... You don’t, you don’t have to do this, s’okay, I’ll figure it out–”
The venlil raised a paw to touch the human’s injured hand. “... You gave enough, already. Plus… he already said he wouldn’t eat your… flesh.” A gentle whistle of a laugh followed that, and then the human was gently holding the venlil’s face, their voice… strained.
“Are… are you sure? I don’t… I don’t wanna ask this of ya.” I couldn’t see their expression, as their back was turned to me, but I could safely assume it wasn’t a happy one.
“It’s… not like you will be able to catch anything in space. And.. Xithan is right; Krosa would probably have your head if she saw you with something you… hunted.” Another paw came up, giving the human’s hand a reassuring pat, before laying their paw overtop it.
I could easily eat venlil meat. Although, it would… clearly be a bit of a sacrifice, having to give up small amounts of their own flesh.
What prey does that?
One that isn’t afraid, clearly.
And one that doesn’t think you’re a monster.
“... I can, ah. Take the sample. I’ll do everythin’ I can to make it as… quick as possible.” Cotton breathed, their shoulders seeming to slump. They evidently really hadn’t wanted their venlil to have to do this. They… cared about him.
A cream-colored fluffy tail gave the human’s side a reassuring tap, before the venlil lifted his head to meet the eyes of the worried predator in front of him.
“I trust you.”
~note: crazy right? and some of you though we wouldn't come back (we still don't have backlog please be patient)
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