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Buy 1, get the second 25% off
Buy 2, get the third 50% off
Buy 3, get the fourth 75% off
Condition: vinyl / sleeve, link to the pressing is below
Below is my collection; there are only a few not listed I may consider selling.
Collection: https://www.discogs.com/usedevito.mark/collection?sort=added&sort_order=desc
The Allman Brothers Band – Eat A Peach VG+/VG+ $32
https://www.discogs.com/release/1284784-The-Allman-Brothers-Band-Eat-A-Peach
America ‎– America NM/NM $20
https://www.discogs.com/release/18526771-America-America?ev=item-vc
The Association – Greatest Hits! VG+/VG+ $8
https://www.discogs.com/release/12053469-The-Association-Greatest-Hits
Aum – Resurrection VG/VG+ $15
https://www.discogs.com/release/616709-Aum-Resurrection
Badfinger - Magic Christian Music VG+/VG+ $14
https://www.discogs.com/release/10390165-Badfinger-Magic-Christian-Music
Badfinger - No Dice VG+/VG+ $20
https://www.discogs.com/release/9969975-Badfinger-No-Dice
Syd Barrett – The Solo Works Of Syd Barrett NM/NM (The 45 single has a seam split) $88
https://www.discogs.com/release/28522522-Syd-Barrett-The-Solo-Works-Of-Syd-Barrett-?ev=item-vc
The Beach Boys – Smiley Smile NM/NM $75
https://www.discogs.com/release/9073465-The-Beach-Boys-Smiley-Smile
Black Sabbath – Reunion NM/NM $45
https://www.discogs.com/release/28571212-Black-Sabbath-Reunion
Blind Melon - Blind Melon NM/NM $70
https://www.discogs.com/release/4493495-Blind-Melon-Blind-Melon
Blood, Sweat & Tears – Self titled VG/VG $3
https://www.discogs.com/release/3367691-Blood-Sweat-And-Tears-Blood-Sweat-And-Tears
Blur - The Ballad of Darren (Blue vinyl) NM/NM $18
https://www.discogs.com/release/27750243-Blur-The-Ballad-Of-Darren
Bread - Baby I'm-A Want You VG/VG $3
https://www.discogs.com/release/1578998-Bread-Baby-Im-A-Want-You
The Buckinghams – Greatest Hits VG+/VG+ $5
https://www.discogs.com/release/876803-The-Buckinghams-Greatest-Hits
Eric Burdon & War – The Complete Vinyl Collection NM/NM $70
https://www.discogs.com/release/25280323-Eric-Burdon-War-The-Complete-Vinyl-Collection
The Charlatans ‎– Different Days NM/NM $12
https://www.discogs.com/sell/item/2754539884
The Church – FurtheDeeper NM/EX $78
https://www.discogs.com/release/7238861-The-Church-FurtherDeeper
David Crosby – For Free NM/NM $10
https://www.discogs.com/release/22223533-David-Crosby-For-Free
Crosby, Stills & Nash – Crosby, Stills & Nash NM/EX $70
https://www.discogs.com/release/25455337-Crosby-Stills-Nash-Crosby-Stills-Nash
The Cure – Boys Don't Cry VG+/VG+ $90
https://www.discogs.com/release/2468885-The-Cure-Boys-Dont-Cry
Derek And The Dominos – Layla And Other Assorted VG+/VG+ $35
https://www.discogs.com/release/1306997-Derek-And-The-Dominos-Layla-And-Other-Assorted-Love-Songs
DMA's -For Now NM/NM $15
https://www.discogs.com/release/11924334-DMAs-For-Now
DMA's - I Love You Unconditionally NM/NM $25
https://www.discogs.com/release/20371672-DMAs-I-Love-You-Unconditionally-Sure-Am-Going-To-Miss-You
The Doobie Brothers – The Captain And Me. VG+/VG+. $15
https://www.discogs.com/release/18560596-The-Doobie-Brothers-The-Captain-And-Me
Doves - Universal Want NM/EX $55
https://www.discogs.com/release/15922232-Doves-The-Universal-Want
EL & P - Pictures At An Exhibition VG+/VG+ $5
https://www.discogs.com/release/4445497-Emerson-Lake-Palmer-Pictures-At-An-Exhibition
EL & P - Tarkus VG+/vG+ $6
https://www.discogs.com/release/7694228-Emerson-Lake-Palmer-Tarkus
Ben Folds – What Matters Most Singed MN/NM $35
https://www.discogs.com/release/26455823-Ben-Folds-What-Matters-Most?ev=item-vc
Forest ‎– Forest VG/VG $40
https://www.discogs.com/release/2430801-Forest-Forest?ev=item-vc
Graffiti – Graffiti NM/NM $18
https://www.discogs.com/release/24742814-Graffiti-Graffiti
Grateful Dead – American Beauty NM/NM (opened, cleaned and not played) $48
https://www.discogs.com/release/30128726-Grateful-Dead-American-Beauty
Gypsybyrd - Eye Of The Sun NM/NM $20
https://www.discogs.com/release/17592256-Gypsybyrd-Eye-Of-The-Sun
Gypsybyrd - Visions NM/NM $20
https://www.discogs.com/release/23992589-Gypsybyrd-Visions
Knifeplay – Pearlty NM/NM Opened and cleaned, never played $30
https://www.discogs.com/release/30180425-Knifeplay-Pearlty
The Kinks - Pop Stars In Disguise NM/NM $20
https://www.discogs.com/release/18319984-The-Kinks-Pop-Stars-In-Disguise
Lionel Limiñana & David Menke – The Ballad Of Linda L/The Devil Inside Me NM/VG+ $20
https://www.discogs.com/release/23488313-Lionel-Limi%C3%B1ana-David-Menke-The-Ballad-Of-Linda-L-The-Devil-Inside-Me
Paul McCartney & Wings ‎– Band On The Run EX/VG+ $30
https://www.discogs.com/release/4540878-Paul-McCartney-Wings-Band-On-The-Run
Moody Blues – Seventh Sojourn VG/VG $2
https://www.discogs.com/release/3345278-The-Moody-Blues-Seventh-Sojourn
Peter, Paul And Mary – Album 1700 NM/NM $60
https://www.discogs.com/release/24283970-Peter-Paul-And-Mary-Album-1700
Pink Floyd – Wish You Were Here (CD) VG++/VG+ $70
https://www.discogs.com/release/729977-Pink-Floyd-Wish-You-Were-Here
Planet – Information Overload NM/NM $25
https://www.discogs.com/release/22564604-Planet-Information-Overload
Porcupine Tree - The Sky Moves Sideways VG+/VG+ $60
https://www.discogs.com/release/10265119-Porcupine-Tree-The-Sky-Moves-Sideways
Porcupine Tree - Up The Downstair NM/NM $28
https://www.discogs.com/release/17822389-Porcupine-Tree-Up-the-Downstair
The Pretty Things - Box Set. NM/NM $290
https://www.discogs.com/release/26612645-The-Pretty-Things-The-Complete-Studio-Albums-1965-2020
Reverend & The Makers – Heatwave In The Cold North NM/NM $45
https://www.discogs.com/release/26918963-Reverend-And-The-Makers-Heatwave-In-The-Cold-North
Todd Rundgren - A Wizard, A True Star VG+/VG+ $10
https://www.discogs.com/release/380444-Todd-Rundgren-A-Wizard-A-True-Star
Todd Rundgren – Something / Anything? VG+/VG $28
https://www.discogs.com/release/19771591-Todd-Rundgren-Something-Anything
The Sherlocks – People Like Me & You (signed) NM/NM $55
https://www.discogs.com/release/27887013-The-Sherlocks-People-Like-Me-You
The Smile – A Light For Attracting Attention EX/NM $28 (Plays closer to NM, but grading EX)
https://www.discogs.com/release/23529293-The-Smile-A-Light-For-Attracting-Attention
Bruce Springsteen - Lucky Town NM/NM $18
https://www.discogs.com/release/12706383-Bruce-Springsteen-Lucky-Town
Bruce Springsteen - Tunnel Of Love NM/VG+ $20
https://www.discogs.com/release/12706339-Bruce-Springsteen-Tunnel-Of-Love
Steppenwolf - At Your Bday Party VG+/VG+ $6
https://www.discogs.com/release/2697826-Steppenwolf-At-Your-Birthday-Party
Steppenwolf - Early Steppen VG+/VG+ $6
https://www.discogs.com/release/4036665-Steppenwolf-Early-Steppenwolf
Steppenwolf - For Ladies VG+/VG+ $7
https://www.discogs.com/release/3090813-Steppenwolf-For-Ladies-Only
Steppenwolf - Hour Of The Wolf VG+/VG+ $8
https://www.discogs.com/release/2714940-Steppenwolf-Hour-Of-The-Wolf
Steppenwolf - Monster VG+/VG+ $7
https://www.discogs.com/release/10086841-Steppenwolf-Monster
Steppenwolf - Steppenwolf 7 VG+/VG+ $7
https://www.discogs.com/release/471410-Steppenwolf-Steppenwolf-7
Steve Miller - Number 5 VG+/VG $5
https://www.discogs.com/release/12304563-Steve-Miller-Band-Number-5
Steve Miller Band – Children Of The Future VG+/VG+ $10
https://www.discogs.com/release/20115676-Steve-Miller-Band-Children-Of-The-Future
Suede - Autofiction NM/NM $20
https://www.discogs.com/release/25197715-The-London-Suede-Autofiction
Tears For Fears – The Hurting VG+/VG+ $40
https://www.discogs.com/release/23301-Tears-For-Fears-The-Hurting
Traffic – Studio Albums 67-74 NM/VG+ $115 (The covers have the glue issue the set has, they just need to be re-gluded)
https://www.discogs.com/release/13636262-Traffic-The-Studio-Albums-1967-1974
U2 – Songs Of Innocence NM/NM $25
https://www.discogs.com/release/6173051-U2-Songs-Of-Innocence?ev=item-vc
U2 ‎– No Line On The Horizon VG+/VG+ $30
https://www.discogs.com/release/1680455-U2-No-Line-On-The-Horizon?ev=item-vc
U2 ‎– Songs Of Experience NM/NM $14
https://www.discogs.com/release/11212071-U2-Songs-Of-Experience?ev=item-vc
Paul Weller – 22 Dreams NM/NM $38
https://www.discogs.com/release/23970635-Paul-Weller-22-Dreams
Paul Weller - Wild Wood VG+/VG+ $90
https://www.discogs.com/release/1593971-Paul-Weller-Wild-Wood
Paul Weller - Will of The People NM/NM $55
https://www.discogs.com/release/24981313-Paul-Weller-Will-Of-The-People
Paul Weller – Illumination NM/NM $24
https://www.discogs.com/release/21028159-Paul-Weller-Illumination
Paul Weller – A Kind Revolution NM/NM $18
https://www.discogs.com/release/10277601-Paul-Weller-A-Kind-Revolution
Paul Weller – Fat Pop (Volume 1) NM/NM $18
https://www.discogs.com/release/18705007-Paul-Weller-Fat-Pop-Volume-1
Paul Weller – Saturns Pattern NM/NM $18
https://www.discogs.com/release/7027415-Paul-Weller-Saturns-Pattern
Paul Weller – Sonik Kicks NM/NM $65
https://www.discogs.com/release/3508451-Paul-Weller-Sonik-Kicks
Paul Weller – Stanley Road NM/NM $40
https://www.discogs.com/release/9748215-Paul-Weller-Stanley-Road
Paul Weller – True Meanings NM/NM $28
https://www.discogs.com/release/12509150-Paul-Weller-True-Meanings
Paul Weller – Wake Up The Nation VG+/VG+ $85
https://www.discogs.com/release/2257717-Paul-Weller-Wake-Up-The-Nation
The Wild Thymes – Reflections NM/NM $28
https://www.discogs.com/release/22681934-The-Wild-Thymes-Reflections
Steven Wilson – Hand. Cannot. Erase. EX/NM $47
https://www.discogs.com/release/6678914-Steven-Wilson-Hand-Cannot-Erase
Steven Wilson – To The Bone EX/NM $50
https://www.discogs.com/release/10715967-Steven-Wilson-To-The-Bone
Neil Young With The Santa Monica Flyers – Somewhere Under The Rainbow (Nov. 5. 1973) EX/NM $20
https://www.discogs.com/release/26762672-Neil-Young-With-The-Santa-Monica-Flyers-Somewhere-Under-The-Rainbow-Nov-5-1973
Neil Young + Crazy Horse – Fu##in' Up Sealed copy $30
https://www.discogs.com/release/30457400-Neil-Young-Crazy-Horse-Fuin-Up

My grief has been very painful, and my husband's family has been downright unbelievable, irrational and disgusting from the day he passed. They were no support, didn't help with the funeral and was counting assets while I was spinning out of control. He was not even buried yet.
They called his friends trying to find out our personal and financial business. I can't explain how much of an embarassment these people are. They even called me and told me how certain family members didn't even know we were married. Please keep in mind that the family members she named haven't seen each other in almost 20 years and they are brothers and sisters!
I was advised about a crush that a woman had on him. The same woman he spoke at his funeral as a friend. His cousin tells me that the woman didn't know about me (which is far from the truth). These are the cousins who my husband grew up with and didn't even come to his funeral. The woman is married and got married after meeting my husband, so the entire story makes no sense. There are more details but they are too miniscule to repeat and again doesn't make any sense.They conjugated with her and continued to harass me and question his friends. I recently moved into a second property my husband owned, within two weeks of being there I saw this "woman" and a troublemaking family member creeping by the house! Weird af.
To make matters worse, my husband's mother passed away and I was advised long after the funeral. I was lost because they had not been there for her in almost a decade. She was a little sick, but not near death sick but after his passing they immediately put her in hospice care and watched her die. They allowed her to deny any medical help. She had just got out of rehab and was doing great right before my husband passed. His mother passed months after he did, this was hard on me.
His kids were no better, they ravished through our items at the mom's home and gave me zero opportunity to retrieve any of his or my things (mom home was like a storage for us). They did not help with any funeral expenses but wanted an inheritance. He has adult kids.
The audacity of them to disrespect my husband to the extent they did after his passing. They showed him no love, but showed a lot of hate instead. I've lost contact with all of them and pray to not hate them, but these are some of the most vile, heartless, insane, evil people I could ever encounter. My husband would not believe how terrible and dirt low his family is. NONE of this behavior was exposed prior to his death.
They have tried to destroy me, but it only makes me stronger. I only wished y husband was here to see this inhumane, crazy behavior.
Just when you think the grief is enough!

Hi all, new here, just finished watching episode 170, and I have to say, I am in tears how much I loved what they did there, especially that Asta became Fwends with his devil adopted brother, it was the most wholesome episode in a while, right after insane fights and tragedy, I am in tears, I have not been this emotional about an anime in such a wholesome way, since like Naruto or Fairy tail :D (which I am yet to get up to date with).
EDIT: What was the moment that made you fall in love too? was it much earlier? My first ok I have to follow this trough 100% was probably the Elf conclusion.

Please don’t come for me!! I’m a big fan and collect all her books and will always read them. Please don’t tell me “just don’t read them” the books were very comforting to me at a time I needed them but that doesn’t mean I can’t be open to discussion about her recent work and how her new direction or perhaps rush to put out books might be affecting quality.
I’m part of her Facebook group as well; which is strictly a fan page.
Spoilers ahead !
Here goes:
I guess I expected Sloane to be a character who looked like Bridget but with the personality of Jules. Instead she behaved exactly like Allesandra, Isabel and Vivian. Speaking of Bridget, the Queen was more icy than Sloan (the series' designated Ice Queen) and she was supposed to be Rhy's sunny counterpart. We were constantly TOLD how icy and emotionless she was and never really shown it. Instead, we find out she's actually insecure and has a lot of issues, which yes is realistic to how Ice Queens typically form their avoidant personalities, but it would have been great to see a few chapters of her being icy before we peel the layers and find out why she puts up these icy walls.
If the book was supposed to be about how she’s NOT the ice queen people think she is…that wasn’t exactly shown either. She does admit it herself that she is icy, just hates that she is and hates being called that.
Xavier is the Jojo Siwa of bad boys. He was a bad boy, he did some bad things. The things that made him Colombia’s biggest bad boy with a bad boy reputation known all over the word: Parties with other rich kids, spends his wealthy father’s money, refuses to behave at publicity events like galas, refuses to inherit his family’s company, gets into shenanigans that land him in a night in jail with other rich kids, got a tattoo of his family rival’ crest….this one’s more stupid than “sticking it to his family”, slept around with whether model/It Girl was around. In the words of Phoebe Buffay “Okay, who hasn’t?!” Even Jules, Ava and Stella have landed themselves in jail after some shenanigan gone wrong. It’s clear that despite being a “spicy” book, AH created a Disney character version of a bad boy.
I feel like Ana forgot how to write from the male's POV after the Twisted series ended. The point of the dual POV is that you feel like you're reading two different people's POV, and honestly it all just blends together. I think Josh's book (Twisted Hate) was the best example of a male's perspective and thoughts/dialogue that a guy in that situation would be saying.
I noticed since King of Greed at least, these Alpha males have been carrying dialogue that mention the most ridiculous things that "Alpha billionaire" males wouldn't even notice. Example: In King of Greed, when Dominic makes a comment about the expression a Chinese food delivery person makes when he realizes he just dropped off a ton of food for two people.....I think that was an Ana Huang thought, not a Domenic thought. While we’re at it, Domenic was just as bad a Xavier…. Dante was the last good “Alpha” she wrote and Kai was such a different character (modeled clearly after the lead in Crazy Rich Asians) that he was hard to mess up ..
The Spanish in King of Sloth was important given the character's background, but felt like it was written with Google Translate. It felt very formal and boring, and doesn't feel like a Spanish-language consultant was brought in to make sure the random sentences and random Spanish words made sense. It was giving the same energy as the Netflix original shows that are set in Los Angeles neighborhoods and the writer's idea of Spanglish is sprinkling random Spanish words into English sentences. There was a little Spanish dialogue in Twisted Games that was way less cringier- maybe because the Spanish was in full sentences and then translated right after….. Latino English speaking people don’t add random “Tios” or “hermano” to their sentences. Look up @Leogonzall “how Latinos talk in movies” videos to see a visual representation of how the Spanish dialogue in these books feel.
Neither Xavier or Sloane had to work very hard to get together. We've seen small bits and pieces of how Sloan is essentially his babysittePR person and he's a chaotic playboy and I get the
Some random things that appear in every single book: - "A thought niggling......" - A table groaning under the weight of food - The first kiss consists of the male's mouth "crashing" into the female's - Every single female character has parental and sibling issues of some sort. - Every male character has parental/abusive parents of some sort. I'm beginning to feel like AH cannot write complex characters that don't rely solely on parental drama, as relatable as it can be...not counting her "If Love..." series, we've seen this 7 times in a row, for EACH main character. - Ana Huang writes parents and siblings the way Amy Sherman-Palladino writes children in Gilmore Girls, just very one-dimensional and for the plot. - Except for Isabel's good relationship with one of her brothers, Alessandra (and Ava and Josh) every female character has severe sibling drama, usually a case where their sibling is an over-achiever and conforms to their parent's expectations (and that's horrifying because it affects the main character and not because that sibling is also a victim that may have used conformity to survive their abusive parents actions)
Things I wanted to learn more about Sloan other than the same repetitive things over and over - How she started her PR agency and the staff she hires- what a girl boss! We only get a vague background about how she started her agency but nothing about how she built experience prior, and how she managed to build a reputation to become one of the best PR agencies in the world. We just have to take the author's word for it, and there's been so much build-up of Sloan in the three previous books.

• I always imagined Sloane having a luxury apartment in NYC, something completely immaculate and stone-cold like her personality. We hear nothing about her apartment despite so many scenes taking place there.
  
• We didn't get that many scenes of Sloane doing anything by herself…anything she eats or wears or anything. I feel we got more of these smaller details about the heroines in the earlier books.
  
• I think Sloane got the Stella treatment- Both heroines's have been teased since the first book in the series but were a bit lackluster once the book came out. The both have parental and sibling drama….but they do yoga
  

The things I enjoyed about KOS and Ana Huang books in general - The world building in NYC and DC and other countries. - I love the scenes that take place in both DC and NYC - they feel so cosmopolitan but I feel we no longer get smaller details about the weather, street details, etc - we got plenty more of this in Twisted Hate and Twisted Games...even details about it being a misty or cold day, make a huge difference in creating imagery in the reader's mind. - The Valhalla scenes are typically entertaining and beautifully written, it's clear how lovely and gorgeous this country club is. - Any cameos where Alex shows up, are well-written. I think Twisted Love was one of her strongest books, so it makes sense he's one of her strongest characters who is stable and can carry any appearance.

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This girl calls herself an "extreme" feminist and got mad when she saw the body of Lara Croft she believed that the developers gave her big boobs and a big butt to make male gamers more interested in the game, when her little brother said that Lara was "thicc" she got angry and said that his view on girls were wrong, and that he should be ashamed of himself i didnt find the `blog post later so it seems like she deleted it, i am also a feminist but i have to say that i disagree with you "sista" your brother is not a pervert he`s in puberty, and i think that the developers should be praised because Lara is also intelligent and she has great survival skills i love that game.

My brother a while ago introduced me to the 3rd game, and I fell in love. I’ve beaten story mode like 2 times and I love the multiplayer mode. This game has turned me into a “hack and slash” monsteapocalypse game fan (that with COD: Black Ops 2 Zombies and maybe a bit of Halo). And I have been considering getting them all and playing each one through, but the feedback I’ve gotten has been mixed. I’ve been told that the first 3/4 games are amazing but the last 2 aren’t good.

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This girl calls herself an "extreme" feminist and got mad when she saw the body of Lara Croft she believed that the developers gave her big boobs and a big butt to make male gamers more interested in the game, when her little brother said that Lara was "thicc" she got angry and said that his view on girls were wrong, and that he should be ashamed of himself i didnt find the `blog post later so it seems like she deleted it, i am also a feminist but i have to say that i disagree with you "sista" your brother is not a pervert he`s in puberty, and i think that the developers should be praised because Lara is also intelligent and she has great survival skills i love that game.

i’m so sad right now bawling my eyes out as i type
basically he (33m) told me (23f) he was going to his mothers tonight for dinner, and that his brother is picking him up and i already knew from the moment he said that that something was up cause they have a rocky relationship all three of them. btw he didn’t “tell me” he was going to his moms. he sent me a screenshot of what i now know is a BS fake made up text conversation between him and his mom with her inviting him over.
anyways he left at 8:30 pm and it’s now about to be 7:00am and he still is gone. haven’t heard from him since 1 am and i’ve called several. several times. so i went on his tablet and saw an email of hotel reservations for last night (since it’s now morning).
i just know he would’ve walked in and tried to play it off like nothing happened, would’ve probably lied and said he fell asleep on his moms couch, phone died, she had no charger, house burnt down. probably would have tried to have sex with me too. so i sent him a picture of the email i saw, told him not to talk to or touch me and left it at that. i’m just so done with this back and forth if you knew you were gonna rebel then you should have just broke up with me to begin with.
important backstory:
when we first got together it was after being fwb. so basically he asked if i had sex with anyone within the 6 month timeframe we had stopped talking and i said no but i lied, i did. lasted 6 minutes. i didn’t count that as cheating and still don’t because we weren’t even together..ever…just people that fucked. never was a label. but he considered it cheating. so upon getting officially together, he rebels and fucks someone while on a work trip. 3 times in one week. mine was 1 time for like 6 minutes. when confronted, he denied and lied about it for 2 months straight until finally giving in and admitting it. straight gaslit me.
8 ish months go by and after going thru hell we manage to try and work thru it (on my end) but i ended up sleeping with an older man for money. for the sole purpose of i was desperate for money. i hate that i did it and more so that id have to admit it but i planned on telling him but he found out about it by going on my phone. i guess i did it because idk i guess i never really got over the fact that he really had an 3-day span sex partner right in the beginning of our relationship. he even sent her money during that time.
upon finding out 2 weeks ago, we talked about it and i told him everything and he said he was gonna try and trust me and kept pouring the claims of how he “only wants me and sees me in his life” “we have to make this work” “i still wanna marry you” he seemed to be trying to heal from it (i was deeply honest and apologetic about it, unlike when he was caught and gaslit me). next day he tells me he wanted to shoot his brains out in front of me. he wanted to traumatize me in rebel. one minute he’ll say something like that that turn around and profess his true found love for me. i genuinely think he’s just pretending to love me and just trying to hurt me at this point.
the thing is he only found out about what i did 2 weeks ago. meaning if he cheated THIS fast he’s BEEN had someone lined up. he’s BEEN talking to other girls.
what should i do honestly? we live together i moved out here 7 months ago, 800 miles away from home just for him and my family is back home i don’t have a car right now but am in the process of getting one.
for the sake of finances, im thinking of just waiting until i have at least 2-3 more paychecks saved up and just distance myself in the meantime. because i don’t get the car for at least a week anyways. i have too much stuff to fly and 2 cats. i’m gonna slowly throw some of my stuff away so when i get my car it’s not too full.

It feels strange to post on here but I feel like I need a place to speak anonymously.
I just picked up a mini dachshund puppy two weeks ago. He turned 12 weeks yesterday. The first few weeks of raising him have brought on a strange mix of emotions.
Some days, are smooth and I feel like im forming a genuine connection. Other days, I wonder why I did this. I recognize that everything he is doing is expected (whining when I step out of the room, leave him in his pen while I take a work call, soft biting and nipping)
If I had to summarize my feelings, I think I feel a bit of resentment toward him. I feel like I’ve lost a lot of freedom and have this doomed feeling that I will be tied down forever. Even finding time to do things myself (like stepping out for a workout class or to grocery shop while he naps, or bringing him to an outdoor restaurant in his carrieon my lap), I have the impending dread to return home and take care of him. I feel like my life will never been the same. I worry that Ill never be able to go to a full day in the office. I worry that Ill never be able to go to the beach again without bending over backwards to make arrangements for him. I woory that I’m not feeling the same love for him that I’m seeing from my friends or people on the street. My mom asked me if I regret it and there are times that I do.
I’ve been feeling the most guilt today. I had a 5 day trip planned that I couldnt back out of. I’m leaving him with my brother and my parents (brother has 2 years experience working at a dog shelter). I feel like im passing on a burden to them that they didnt sign up for. At the same time, I’m dreading coming home and being alone with him in my apartment.
I’ve spend a lot of time reading peoples reddit posts, articles from experts, and talking to neighbors with young dogs (there are 3 other mini doxxys on my street all within the 5-7month range). I know that its supposed to get better over time but I’m having a hard time believing it. I’ve heard horror stories of dogs that never truly calm down or that still have adult seperation anxiety. Just the thought of going through this for months while he settles is freaking me out.
I don’t know what kind of responses I’m expecting but I just feel like I need to channel these thoughts somewhere besides my brain.

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I don't know how to even type all of this, because I don't want this to be "boo hoo pity me".
I honestly don't know why I'm posting this at all. Just something inside is telling me to. Maybe to help process my situation I don't know.
I'm 22, and, I live in outskirts of a small town with family (parents, brother, and grandmother at this moment, but I've had other family living with all of us at different points), no hobbies, lack of social life, and, I was mostly raised by my grandmother and my mom's brother and sister for most of my life.
I have no real way to process any of the emotions I feel besides to bottle them up.
I've accepted I'm going to do die someday, and sometimes even pray something takes me sooner rather than later.
I don't have a job right now, mainly because I believe it to be fruitless in the end.
The reason I see it like this is because of my mother.
Both my parents are workaholics and gamble, and they have started gambling even more in the past few years since they found out about online casinos. My mother is a Nurse, and my father is a self-employed Jack-of-a-trades (Residential Construction, Landscaper, and Mechanic to name a few). Both of my parents have their own personal demons.
When I had my last job, my mother would ask for money a lot for online gambling, to the point my ~300$/w paycheck turned into 100$, just enough for gas, pet supplies, and contribute what was left to groceries (at the time there was 8 people living in the house and 3 pets). She would guilt/manipulate me into giving her the money, she always would ask how much I loved my mother, then ask for x amount. So I started to believe I was just stuck here, unable to leave. Causing me to stress out even more and have a panic attacks for a week straight, making me unfit to work and have to quit my job.
When I don't have a job, I'm sorta forced to do what ever she asks me to do around the property. At the same time, she also tells me to look for job.
Right now, living at the property, It's my parents, my brother, my grandmother, and I. My grandmother will be moving soon because of my mother.
My mother is really gung-ho, she doesn't really think, she just does. She'll think of something, and get it. She's bought a tattoo gun, elliptical/stationary exercise bike, inflatable hot-tub, and so much more in the past, just to sell it or never use it.
Recently she bought ~20 fowl (6 baby ducks and ~16 chicks), just to force most the responsibility onto me, while I need to start taking over on what my grandmother would do (most household chores like cleaning, laundry, and cooking), doing any work on the property I'm needed for, and, look for a job on top of that. Any time I would complain of the extra responsibilities she forced upon me during the times where I didn't have a job while looking for one, she would tell me "You have nothing better to do."
She's recently taken a loans with my car as collateral (both her and my name are on the title), she drug me out of bed after I spent the entire night looking for a job and searching one of our dogs that ran off; to sign off on one of the loans. Then the more recent one, I couldn't say no, since I'm honestly afraid I would be kicked out and left on my own with honestly nothing.
She has also ruined my grandmothers financial situation, having her open credit cards, loans, etc.
My father is distant because he's afraid of being like his own father. He sorta let's my mother do what she wants, if she wants to buy something she buys it. Last conversation I was part of with him was with one of his friends (bless that man) and my mother. My father's friend (B) started asking me about what I'm interested in, and what I'm good at etc. I'd decent with computers and if given the chance and parts, could put one together. B started talking to my father about maybe giving me the money to build pcs and sell them. My dad's response is that he wanted me to get it started myself, and didn't want to give me handouts (which I understand).
I honestly have nothing in common with either of my parents.
The only person in my family I trust at all is my grandmother, I'm actually glad she is leaving, since my mother won't have direct access to any financials my grandmother gets, but, she'll probably still listen to my mother, since she still loves everyone to much.
I want to leave, but, I'm afraid, since I don't have any of the knowledge of setting off on my own. Not to mention my current lack of a job. Part of me believes that this was my mother's plan or something.
I didn't mention everything hear, because I don't want this to be a complete novel.
To sum it up, everything about I'm feeling/thinking right now. I'm afraid to save money, because if I do, my mother will guilt me into giving her money. I can't talk to either of my parents about the other, mainly because I don't trust my mother. I don't want to worry my grandmother anymore she already probably is. I don't want to worry my brother with my shit. I feel my parents are completely disappointed with me. I feel I don't have a real future. I feel completely useless.

I don't know where to start, but this will be a bit long, sorry in advance. Where to start, well I found out a while back that I don't have an emotional connection with my mom at all. I'm 26, the youngest of 3 brothers total, maybe that plays a role in my feeling alone, not emotionally connecting with anyone and "toxic masculinity". Being raised in a Hispanic household and with only older male siblings, we never really hugged or expressed that we loved each other, probably why I'm not used to physical contact and why I crave physical contact so much. Add to that that I've never felt like I could be emotional, open, and vulnerable with my mom, the person that's supposed to love you unconditionally, and yet she has no idea what I'm going through because back then, mental health wasn't a problem and well, you have a roof over your head and food, I don't have anything to complain about. I guess I've been neglected emotionally, and I don't feel like I can open up to anyone in my family, I've only opened up to a friend.
A lot of things have happened recently. I've been craving intimacy, attention, love, to be seen, cared for, and all those things in a partner, yet I know a relationship would do more damage than good. Which is why I turned to a FWB (with a random girl on a dating app) and well, it was a recipe for disaster, yeah I had sex at least, but there was no affection, intimacy, which is what I wanted to begin with, I pretty much got used and my feelings were thrown aside (It's my fault, I knew a FWB wasn't for me, so I learned my lesson.)
The last semester at school, I pretty much just reverted back to being quiet, and I can't help but just become cynical, bitter, and honestly, I'm just sad. I don't hold grudges when friendships disappear, but I get sad. I'm done depending on others to be happy. I know this is not a good way of thinking and it's going to sound sad, but why should I bother being there for others if no one's ever been there for me? I remember I sat in the parking lot of school and just cried for 30 minutes (I had bottled everything up, and it all just got out.) I cleaned myself up, and literally went to class a few minutes after bawling my eyes out. I remember sitting in class, hearing people greet and hug each other and I'm just there, and no one knew how sad and alone I felt in that moment.
That FWB situation really messed me up emotionally. I didn't know I could feel empty, sad, and lonely lying next to a girl I had just had sex with because she didn't like the idea of being close and cuddling with someone she just met, but having sex was no problem (I really don't understand hook-up culture.) I remember I was drinking with that girl, and when I get drunk, I get sad and I open up about things I keep bottled up, well, she didn't really make an effort to be there and when I texted her about it the day after she said "It's not my fault you got sad, cried, and got into your own feelings, it's not on me to comfort you." so yeah, after that I guess that's why I'm done opening up and everyone I talk to I just don't put effort in anymore, I just feel too broken at this point. This was a month ago so it's still a bit fresh.
Honestly, I know I have a lot to work on before I get in a relationship and I need to fix the relationship with myself first, I just really wish I had someone sweet, caring, and loving to hold me close, kiss me, and tell me I matter, that I'm enough, and worthy of being happy. I honestly just want to give up. I haven't been hugged in so long and I feel that if a girl held me close and told me all that, I'd break down and cry. I guess it all goes back to wanting that motherly figure that I feel I don't have, to be cared for, praised, all those things.
I'm sorry this was so long, I just really needed to put this somewhere. Thanks, if you made it all the way through. I'm off to bed because I stayed up and it's 7 am, I work tonight.

Hello! I do realise that this is a bit of a sad post. I live pretty close to oxford, just a bus away, and have been looking online for some kind of groups, clubs or the like but have found absolutely nothing, or nothing for around my age(19) range at least. I wasn’t able to stay at college for mental health reasons and even when I was there I had absolutely no luck in even talking to people, let alone making friends. They were all over a year younger than me and just out of secondary school, and the tutors all said it was an extremely quiet class, so no matter how much I tried it just got me nowhere. I feel really stuck, I’m quite an anxious and quiet person but I really do want to get out there and live my life, especially with summer coming up. I do love my video games but it really would be nice to get out!
But back to the original point, is there really nothing in Oxford? Am I looking in the wrong places? Even if I did find something, chances are I’d turn up and be the most awkward person in existence and leave. How do you actually make friends? Is it only a college/work thing, or an extrovert-confidence thing? My brother is a big fan of Meet-up and has used it a lot apparently, but I feel like that doesn’t apply to me because he has confidence, he’s not autistic or awkward, he’s much older than me!
I apologise if this turned into more of a rant lol I’m just so close to giving up on this. I went to a cinema alone to watch a Star Wars movie ffs XD I want to do things! Id just like people to go do them things with.
Anyway, thanks for reading :D if you have any suggestions or advice then it would be appreciated

Hi Gentlemen & Ladies,
I(28M) got married to my wife(33F) last year who is 5 years elder to me.I I am gradually loosing my self esteem and suffering from low confidence & inadequecy. I am somewhat introvert and secretly resent her for her actions. I am confused about her action if it is normal or abnormal. She says it is normal in every relationship.
Following actions (Is these normal in marraige?):-

• She complain about me to one of her close friend and speak loudly so that I can hear as well. E.g How I don't give her enough money to shop etc. When I ask her she says her friend also complain about her husband and is normal among girls to do.
• She complains to her mother and brothers during conference about me unnecessarily like how I don't give her this & that.
• She starts telling my insecurities during the fight which I have shared with her earlier. She only initiate fight and always have reason to fight and blames me that due to my some action/inactions she did that.
• She is not earning and I have been paying for house maid and washerwomen since last 2 years but when I ask if she will pay if I stop earning (hypothetical ), she says she will take care of her and her child(Don't have one yet) and not me.
• We stay in other town and when I ask her to visit to my parents my home only one time in a year, she strart highlighting how my parents are poor and not cultured and she can't tolerate them. Mind it she stayed for only 2 days at my ancestral home after marraige and then we left.
• She highlights that I am useless and not worthy, how I lack this & that during the fight even though I am paying for everything her clother, study, food, travel etc but in normal days she act normal.
• She used to compare me to her brother , how they treat their wife with gifts and jwellery while I don't? How her brother is so smart & capable.(Her brother is of my age).
• She complain about my mother & sister even though they have never said anything bad about her behind her back. She has not met my sister after marraige and does not talk to my sister but she keep telling me how they(mom&sis) must be plotting against her.
• I don't have any say over her and when I try to stop her from doing something which is making me uncomfortable, she starts spewing hate against me & my family.
• She become cold whenever someone visit from her extended family and priortise them. She try to avoid me. (e.g during dinner food serve she asked everyone(3-4 guest member) but not me about my requirment)
• I tries to tell about my discomfort but she laughs on it and says I am taking things seriously and suggest me to grow up.
• After the first night of marraige, she shared to me that she want to control me. (It's our love marraige)
• She discard my opinion and claims how she knows the better way.
• She even complain about me to my mother and when I ask why you are doing? She says to act cute before my mother. (I have already told my mother how she lies)

So couple who fights, please tell me is this normal in fight. How do you people fight, like conversation and contents in fight?
P.S - Asked by my married friend.
tl;dr - I(28M) male, my wife(34F) female , has been married since one year and was in live-in relationship since 1 year. She becomes personal during fight and mocks me, also highlights my flaws and insecurities. She disprepsect me and my family during fight. Is this normal among couples fight? When I tell to avoid saying these, she tell me its normal amoung couple and I am being emotional. Please suggest is this normal? How you people fight and do you all hurt and disrespect your spouse?. Thanks!!

I am 23 years old. My parents are divorced. My mother lives in another town in small apartment with 2 brothers and my father lives abroad and has another family. I am in very bad and toxic relationship for 4 years. I tried many times to break up but he is rejecting. We are living together in his town. Even if i manage to break up with him i must go back to my mother who is not going to be happy at all. And i will loose my job because its far away and i don't have a car. I have no friends and no one to talk to. I have no support from disfunctional family. I have very little money. In my town it is so hard to find another job. In his town i can't stay because my salary is so small and it is almost impossible. I am costantly thinking about suicide and tried it many times ago. My life is meaningless and nobody cares about me. I am all alone with no support and love. Nobody is there to understand me, accept me and help me. I am going to kill myself, i will stab myself many times and i hope i will bleed to death or get sepsis and die.

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I and my best friend are family friends. Our fathers are best friend and we ended up being best friends and have known each other for all our lives. I always told him he's like a brother to me to which he casually says a yes, but it doesn't seem that serious nor does it seem like a joke. Hence I used to believe he thinks of me as a sister. However ever since my break up he jokes about how I don't have to worry about marriage because if we don't find anyone we can get married. I remember even once during the abusive relationship I had ,he subtly joked that "break up and I will just propose arrange marriage for you".But I thought of it otherwise like he'll get me hitched with someone else. But now when he has joked about marrying me multiple times and even subtly said it many times that we may end up with each other if we fail to find someone. I no longer think of it otherwise because it seems irrational to do so. However, I can't confront him because he either jokes about it or is subtly casual and doesn't sound serious. I even asked him once and he said that it's not true and he thought I liked him which I denied. A year later when I joked about him thinking that I liked him, he had completely forgotten about it, so I feel it was his defense, he lied and hence he forgot. Now he has started to undermine me, bully me, say means things about me. I always felt pretty but he calls me ugly and says things like you just have a fair complexion. The IT sector is hit by recession, so I got a job but with not as high a pay as I expected but I was grateful because half of the people are unemployed this year . However he called me untalented, incapable and compared me with a friend who got a higher paying job. He used to call me for silly stuff, whether it was a girl he flirted with or some man man fight but now he conveniently ignores my texts. I have been in love with someone since I was 21 but sadly we had to part ways, I never talked about him until recently when I told my best friend that I wanted him back because I have longed for him for 3 long years even when I didn't have him. He started ignoring me more. This is more than 17+ years of friendship, is he sour that I didn't like him back in case he liked me, or did he used to joke about marriage because he pitied me being in an abusive relationship and wanted me out of it, or does he look down upon me Or some other alternative, just need some perspective on it.

I and my best friend are family friends. Our fathers are best friend and we ended up being best friends and have known each other for all our lives. I always told him he's like a brother to me to which he casually says a yes, but it doesn't seem that serious nor does it seem like a joke. Hence I used to believe he thinks of me as a sister. However ever since my break up he jokes about how I don't have to worry about marriage because if we don't find anyone we can get married. I remember even once during the abusive relationship I had ,he subtly joked that "break up and I will just propose arrange marriage for you".But I thought of it otherwise like he'll get me hitched with someone else. But now when he has joked about marrying me multiple times and even subtly said it many times that we may end up with each other if we fail to find someone. I no longer think of it otherwise because it seems irrational to do so. However, I can't confront him because he either jokes about it or is subtly casual and doesn't sound serious. I even asked him once and he said that it's not true and he thought I liked him which I denied. A year later when I joked about him thinking that I liked him, he had completely forgotten about it, so I feel it was his defense, he lied and hence he forgot. Now he has started to undermine me, bully me, say means things about me. I always felt pretty but he calls me ugly and says things like you just have a fair complexion. The IT sector is hit by recession, so I got a job but with not as high a pay as I expected but I was grateful because half of the people are unemployed this year . However he called me untalented, incapable and compared me with a friend who got a higher paying job. He used to call me for silly stuff, whether it was a girl he flirted with or some man man fight but now he conveniently ignores my texts. I have been in love with someone since I was 21 but sadly we had to part ways, I never talked about him until recently when I told my best friend that I wanted him back because I have longed for him for 3 long years even when I didn't have him. He started ignoring me more. This is more than 17+ years of friendship, is he sour that I didn't like him back in case he liked me, or did he used to joke about marriage because he pitied me being in an abusive relationship and wanted me out of it, or does he look down upon me Or some other alternative, just need some perspective on it.

I and my best friend are family friends. Our fathers are best friend and we ended up being best friends and have known each other for all our lives. I always told him he's like a brother to me to which he casually says a yes, but it doesn't seem that serious nor does it seem like a joke. Hence I used to believe he thinks of me as a sister. However ever since my break up he jokes about how I don't have to worry about marriage because if we don't find anyone we can get married. I remember even once during the abusive relationship I had ,he subtly joked that "break up and I will just propose arrange marriage for you".But I thought of it otherwise like he'll get me hitched with someone else. But now when he has joked about marrying me multiple times and even subtly said it many times that we may end up with each other if we fail to find someone. I no longer think of it otherwise because it seems irrational to do so. However, I can't confront him because he either jokes about it or is subtly casual and doesn't sound serious. I even asked him once and he said that it's not true and he thought I liked him which I denied. A year later when I joked about him thinking that I liked him, he had completely forgotten about it, so I feel it was his defense, he lied and hence he forgot. Now he has started to undermine me, bully me, say means things about me. I always felt pretty but he calls me ugly and says things like you just have a fair complexion. The IT sector is hit by recession, so I got a job but with not as high a pay as I expected but I was grateful because half of the people are unemployed this year . However he called me untalented, incapable and compared me with a friend who got a higher paying job. He used to call me for silly stuff, whether it was a girl he flirted with or some man man fight but now he conveniently ignores my texts. I have been in love with someone since I was 21 but sadly we had to part ways, I never talked about him until recently when I told my best friend that I wanted him back because I have longed for him for 3 long years even when I didn't have him. He started ignoring me more. This is more than 17+ years of friendship, is he sour that I didn't like him back in case he liked me, or did he used to joke about marriage because he pitied me being in an abusive relationship and wanted me out of it, or does he look down upon me Or some other alternative, just need some perspective on it.

Hi Gentlemen & Ladies,
I(28) got married to my wife(33) last year who is 5 years elder to me.I I am gradually loosing my self esteem and suffering from low confidence & inadequecy. I am somewhat introvert and secretly resent her for her actions. I am confused about her action if it is normal or abnormal. She says it is normal in every relationship.
Following actions (Is these normal in marraige?):-

• She complain about me to one of her close friend and speak loudly so that I can hear as well. E.g How I don't give her enough money to shop etc. When I ask her she says her friend also complain about her husband and is normal among girls to do.
• She complains to her mother and brothers during conference about me unnecessarily like how I don't give her this & that.
• She starts telling my insecurities during the fight which I have shared with her earlier. She only initiate fight and always have reason to fight and blames me that due to my some action/inactions she did that.
• She is not earning and I have been paying for house maid and washerwomen since last 2 years but when I ask if she will pay if I stop earning (hypothetical ), she says she will take care of her and her child(Don't have one yet) and not me.
• We stay in other town and when I ask her to visit to my parents my home only one time in a year, she strart highlighting how my parents are poor and not cultured and she can't tolerate them. Mind it she stayed for only 2 days at my ancestral home after marraige and then we left.
• She highlights that I am useless and not worthy, how I lack this & that during the fight even though I am paying for everything her clother, study, food, travel etc but in normal days she act normal.
• She used to compare me to her brother , how they treat their wife with gifts and jwellery while I don't? How her brother is so smart & capable.(Her brother is of my age).
• She complain about my mother & sister even though they have never said anything bad about her behind her back. She has not met my sister after marraige and does not talk to my sister but she keep telling me how they(mom&sis) must be plotting against her.
• I don't have any say over her and when I try to stop her from doing something which is making me uncomfortable, she starts spewing hate against me & my family.
• She become cold whenever someone visit from her extended family and priortise them. She try to avoid me. (e.g during dinner food serve she asked everyone(3-4 guest member) but not me about my requirment)
• I tries to tell about my discomfort but she laughs on it and says I am taking things seriously and suggest me to grow up.
• After the first night of marraige, she shared to me that she want to control me. (It's our love marraige)
• She discard my opinion and claims how she knows the better way.
• She even complain about me to my mother and when I ask why you are doing? She says to act cute before my mother. (I have already told my mother how she lies)

So couple who fights, please tell me, is this normal in fight? How do you people fight, like conversation and contents in fight? Am I an emotionl person if these tings make me uncomfortable
P.S - Asked by my one of married friend.
tl;dr - I(28) male, my wife(33) female , has been married since one year and was in live-in relationship since 1 year. She becomes personal during fight and mocks me, also highlights my flaws and insecurities. She disprepsect me and my family during fight. Is this normal among couples fight? When I tell to avoid saying these, she tell me its normal amoung couple and I am being emotional. Please suggest is this normal? How you people fight and do you all hurt and disrespect your spouse?. Thanks!!

Hi Gentlemen & Ladies,
I(28) got married to my wife(33) last year who is 5 years elder to me.I I am gradually loosing my self esteem and suffering from low confidence & inadequecy. I am somewhat introvert and secretly resent her for her actions. I am confused about her action if it is normal or abnormal. She says it is normal in every relationship.
Following actions (Is these normal in marraige?):-

• She complain about me to one of her close friend and speak loudly so that I can hear as well. E.g How I don't give her enough money to shop etc. When I ask her she says her friend also complain about her husband and is normal among girls to do.
• She complains to her mother and brothers during conference about me unnecessarily like how I don't give her this & that.
• She starts telling my insecurities during the fight which I have shared with her earlier. She only initiate fight and always have reason to fight and blames me that due to my some action/inactions she did that.
• She is not earning and I have been paying for house maid and washerwomen since last 2 years but when I ask if she will pay if I stop earning (hypothetical ), she says she will take care of her and her child(Don't have one yet) and not me.
• We stay in other town and when I ask her to visit to my parents my home only one time in a year, she strart highlighting how my parents are poor and not cultured and she can't tolerate them. Mind it she stayed for only 2 days at my ancestral home after marraige and then we left.
• She highlights that I am useless and not worthy, how I lack this & that during the fight even though I am paying for everything her clother, study, food, travel etc but in normal days she act normal.
• She used to compare me to her brother , how they treat their wife with gifts and jwellery while I don't? How her brother is so smart & capable.(Her brother is of my age).
• She complain about my mother & sister even though they have never said anything bad about her behind her back. She has not met my sister after marraige and does not talk to my sister but she keep telling me how they(mom&sis) must be plotting against her.
• I don't have any say over her and when I try to stop her from doing something which is making me uncomfortable, she starts spewing hate against me & my family.
• She become cold whenever someone visit from her extended family and priortise them. She try to avoid me. (e.g during dinner food serve she asked everyone(3-4 guest member) but not me about my requirment)
• I tries to tell about my discomfort but she laughs on it and says I am taking things seriously and suggest me to grow up.
• After the first night of marraige, she shared to me that she want to control me. (It's our love marraige)
• She discard my opinion and claims how she knows the better way.
• She even complain about me to my mother and when I ask why you are doing? She says to act cute before my mother. (I have already told my mother how she lies)

So couple who fights, please tell me is this normal in fight. How do you people fight, like conversation and contents in fight?
P.S - I am relatively weaker family than her in the terms of social status. I have worked hard for everything in my life to be where I am but she makes me feel like I am useless. Am I a emotional person?
tl;dr - I(28) male, my wife(34) female , has been married since one year and was in live-in relationship since 1 year. She becomes personal during fight and mocks me, also highlights my flaws and insecurities. She disprepsect me and my family during fight. Is this normal among couples fight? When I tell to avoid saying these, she tell me its normal amoung couple and I am being emotional. Please suggest is this normal? How you people fight and do you all hurt and disrespect your spouse?. Thanks!!