My wife and dog together

Didn't think I would be on reddit but looking for i guess public random help? If I ATA then I will accept it.
I am having issues with my girlfriend and was hoping within the next 10 days to pop the question, and as shitty as it is, she is bringing up and point of view in our relationship I do not agree with in any capacity.
We have known eachother 9 years, Started dating almost 3 years ago. I had strong reservations about this relationship even beginning because I had gotten out of something bad a year prior and she had gotten out fo a 5 year relationship before getting with me.
This is a rare and only time where the girl was asking me out and I was saying no. I had started to learn about boundaries and mental health and it felt like at that moment I could not handle any form of a relationship. She forgets to tell anyone in this story how the longest she has been in single is 6 months and basically hopped from relationship to relationship.
I had told her she needs to spend a year or more figuring out what she wants in life for herself and who she is outside of a relationship because it sounded like a person with no path or direction.
I will admit I was weak and definitely like her, come to find out we liked eachother when we first met it was just bad timing. The only reason I asked her out is because all my friends said we looked and seemed perfect together and they hadn't seen me that happy in a long time.
So far we have had it good, and of coure some fights, but if I am being fair her last few relationships have been very abusive and non loving and the abuse goes all the way back to her family as well. So after my many failings I learned how to, not lash out or scream or make instant judgements or start a argument with texts, I have learned a lot from my own short comings and it feels she is where I was years ago. When we fight 80% of her arguments come from a topic that isn't even the issue and that fights feel like , I made her hurt or upset so she is gonna hurt me the same if not worse...
An issue I was warned about when I started dating, was after I inherited some money. I had been told by most of my family that dating financially below me could be tough because they might always see the comparison. And in a couple relationships it has been thrown in my face. Its not great, but it was given to me and I know that isn't fair. I would say I spend most of my money on my friends or significant other well being, not to buy them, but gift giving is a strong love language and I guess I always felt guilty I did nothing to have this money.
The recent conversation has been about her making more money versus me. I stopped working about 6 years ago to try and get into home investments and real estate stuff, I got tired of not being promoted when I showed up early, stayed late kind of crap then being asked to do 100 tasks not in my job description, but the actual on paper description of the person who got promoted over me and was not doing. I don't mind working hard or even for free, but if on paper I meet qualifications and the person promoted doesn't, then I have a problem.
This is her first consistent job that pays okay and has benefits. She job hops year after year and when looking for jobs they want some form of loyalty more than 1 year and she keeps wanting to go back to a bar job downtown that when she first had it was making bank, like 1800.00 every weekend only two days of work, but then when every bar opened up downtown post covid her weekend pay was now like 1200, then 1000, then 900. Not to mention tons of shootings and scary phone calls I would get at 3 AM. So we made a deal if for the next three months the paycheck wouldn't increase beyond 1000 she would quit and not go back... So I have supported her through multiple jobs and quittings and her trying to start her own baking business that she tanked because anytime I set a price for her baked goods, she would give a massive discount and not breakeven... I have even done 24hr straight baking sessions to get massive orders to clients in which killed our oven that I had to fix. I just wish she'd stay somehwere for a while and build a resume that works. I know our whole country is fucked financially and the average survival salary of our state is 100k,.. I already cover everything and pay for everything else...
I have been doing the real estate investing on mostly my own, and obviously it is not going well, trying to be ethical and moral and in the housing market seems like an oxymoron. I still have more money than she brings in and I am working on my real estate license, but I bought the house, take care of her, our dogs, mow the lawn, help out with her family of 9, fix our appliances, take care of her indoor plants, gave her a garden for outside that I also maintain, cook dinner or buy dates most of the time, pay for trips, her dogs surgeries etc, She is saying I need to make even more money so she can take it easy and stop working as much... But she has complained multiple times about wanting to help out around the house mroe and with payments... Idk how she can help if she is gonna take an inconsistent paycheck, and have no benefits of any kind and drive farther...
Am I slacking as her man and better half or is she not stepping up to the plate and doing her share?

Now it’s just me, my brother, my dog, her cat, and her chickens, in this paid for house with their paid for vehicles and mine and my brothers vehicles.
It’s makes me most angry, how my mom just didn’t get a fair shake. She loved dad, don’t get me wrong, but he was thrifty to the point of being a killjoy and the only joy he had in life was paying bills and counting the money that was left. When he died, the household bills were slashed by over half, and her monthly income almost tripled, as she was going to get his benefits and pension.
Her sister screwed her out of inheritance 3 years ago, and we’ve been flighting for her end in probate that long. When dad died, it made that issue seem a little less stress worthy, and we started focusing on what all she could do with her new monthly income.
She wanted to go to Florida, and take my dog to see the ocean. She wanted to go to pigeon forge and gatlinburg while her sister who stole all the money is traveling around with her rich pro baseball pitcher-turned-coach-wife cousin, who’s also my moms cousin but wouldn’t have shit to do with her.
Instead, 24 days after my dad died, her leg stint that was installed last October failed, and she went to the emergency room on the advice of the Dr who did the surgery, and they admitted her, and they operated the next day.
Couldnt fix the stint or get the clot out with the robot, so they did it manually, but still couldn’t fix the stint. So they did a bypass from left right leg to left leg. Then they said that wasn’t doing what they’d hoped, so they were considering amputating her leg.
Then she started swelling and bleeding. They put tubes everywhere to pull fluid off of her stomach. She howled about her stomach hurting. They thought she was constipated. I informed them that happened last year when she had the stint and was hospitalized for it. Then she had a bowl movement that had blood in it. Then they went to operate to see what was making her stomach hurt and gave a bloody stool. Well her colon basically fell apart, they said, so now they were gonna remove it and leave her with a stoma. Then she laid there a few days, and her vitals went weak, and they took her back again to cut her open to see what’s going on, and he small intestine died as well.
The doctors and nurses all along told me she was better than she looked and all her numbers were going the right way. But her little body just couldn’t take all that punishment.
I watched my mom walk out to her car and get in, relatively healthy, but going to the er to get checked out, and was admitted and stayed exactly 21 days, no food, no water, and taking life saving drugs that apparently kill your guts by cutting off blood to them. Those 3 weeks had to be hell and I feel guilty. I feel guilty I didn’t take her earlier to see her dr.
And I’m mad. I’m mad that she didn’t get to have some bit of enjoyment in life after dad died, with some new disposable income. She got one SSI payment of his, and one pension payment while she was in the hospital, and my brother and I are living off that at the moment.
Life just ain’t fucking fair or just at all.

Hello, I am writing this post as I desperately seek to better my life and avoid losing out on some help that I desperately need. I have a wife and 5 children in NW MN an hour away. I used to have a bad problem with alcohol and was arrested for a felony DUI on 10/20/2021 I was sentenced to two years in prison. Shortly after I was arrested my two year old daughter was diagnosed with retinoblastoma a very aggressive cancer. At that point I vowed to change my life for good and do everything I can to be with my family. My daughter lost her right eye, but has been cancer free for almost 3 years now. We are still together as a family, although I cannot live with them at their current house because I have a felony record and she lives in public housing. I need to stay in Grand Forks for a year and work, at that point, I will rent a house large enough for all of us to reside in. I am sober, have went through treatment, counselling, parenting skills classes, graduated as a certified paralegal and work full time in manufacturing. I have never violated my probation, and I just work, sleep, and go visit my family. I have a housing choice voucher through gfha, and it expires on the 30th of this month. If I am unable to utilize it by then I will lose it and be ineligible to reapply. I am in dire need of a place to rent prefer a 1 bedroom but a 2br may work as well maximum rent would be $800. If someone is able to help me find a place that can rent to me and will accept a housing voucher I will pay you. I'll take anything at this point, even a slumlord I have tried numerous places just to have apts rented out from underneath me or be rejected. I'm beginning to really lose hope and am sending this out there with the hopes that some of the efforts I have made towards bettering myself will pay off in someone seeing this and giving me a shot. Not looking for a hand out, just a hand up.
Thanks!

I once too was in your shoes. Broken and lost from a love I thought was forever.
I was with my ex for 7 years. And through those 7 years there were many many good times, and there were many many bad times. They say that’s what relationships are about.
Though there is some truth to that, the real truth is often a bit darker.
My ex dealt with some really horrible things from his childhood. Loss of his parents and family lead to abuse of substance and although he was smart, charming and a good person, these traumas followed him through much of his life and ultimately.. our relationship.
I always thought that I would be the one to fix him. Heal him with how much I cared and loved him. That if I just guided him and provided him with a safe, happy, soft place to land that eventually things would turn around.
The truth is nobody can fix anyone who does not wish to put the effort in to fix themselves.
And through the ups and downs I eventually realized how much of myself I had truly lost. How putting him before myself was my own down fall. I missed out on so many things for myself because I was always too worried about him and what I could do to support him or be around for him just in case he needed me.
From the outside looking into our relationship, someone would probably see two young adults, with good jobs, a beautiful home and a bright future. One with marriage and children so shortly on the horizon.
I often found myself wishing for that, until I didn’t. Until he started talking about it often and I realized it was something that scared me more than it excited me. I realized that if I stayed, if I continued to put this person over myself, that I would never be truly happy and I would always regret what could have been.
Looking back the bad was really bad. The fighting, the yelling the crying and sometimes even the violence that would follow. We never communicated effectively even though I really do think we tried. He was volatile and I was timid. He would scream and I would shut down. We were in a cycle of hurt together that we just didn’t know how to even escape after the life we had built, a life that was so heavily intertwined.
Looking back I was very young and immature when we got together. I think that he saw me as a life vest and took the opportunity when I showed how caring I was of my friends and family. He wanted to be apart of that. And knowing his background I can’t blame him.
But I do blame him for the blame he laid on me at the end. I do resent him for it. After all I did to try to help…To prove how much I loved him over and over he still threw it in my face that it wasn’t enough. That I was giving up. On him. On us. That by me leaving I was damning him to a life of substance abuse and misery forever. Like because of me he would never again have the opportunity to get it together. When in my mind the reason I was leaving was for the Hope that maybe if the life vest was gone he would drown, hit rock bottom, and be forced to work to the surface of recovery on his own.
I’m not sure where he’s at with his recovery today. I hope, truly, that he’s better. I know how badly he needed that for himself.
Even after we broke up I hoped we would find each other again. My friends said if it was meant to be and he got it together that we would definitely work it out.
Instead we usually fought when we spoke. Feelings of anger and sadness would be dredged up for me every time. I’d go days without eating or showering after we’d communicate. So we went NC.
I found someone about 6 months after we broke up. Someone kind. Loving. Giving. Someone who takes care of my heart. I fought being with him because I was so determined that my ex was my person. That certainly was not the case the more and more I spent time with this new person. I felt like I had finally come home. I realized how much trauma I was holding onto, and he helped me let it go slowly. He helped heal me without even trying. Just by being him.
We’re now engaged and recently found out we’re expecting.
I’m not fully healed to this day from my previous relationship, but I think that maybe that’s okay. Maybe that’s what makes the one that’s meant for me that much greater of a love.
I poured all of myself into someone who couldn’t even meet me a quarter of the way let alone meet me half way.
I think because of that, I have a respect and gratitude for my future husband that I maybe wouldn’t have if I hadn’t loved and lost before him.
My ex is now dating someone I was once best friends with. I’m not upset with him about it… I’m more disappointed and wishing better for him honestly. She was someone who hurt me and always envied me openly even while we were friends. I don’t see her being a healthy person for him the way that my person is for me. I want him to find his reason to get sober and I think she may be the opposite of that, and it makes me sad. But it’s not longer my burden or responsibility to hold.
I was in such a dark place for such a long time. I thought pieces and parts of me that died would never come back. But they are.
I can’t wait to be a mom and a wife. I feel content and happy knowing it’s with my true person. I feel loved and valued, everyday. I don’t walk on egg shells or feel down anymore.
When me and my ex broke up I thought truly I’d just lost the love of my life.
If you feel that way rn pls know that you’re not alone, but find some comfort in the fact that your person would never leave you feeling how you do right now. I promise.
I know it’s hard to see the end of it when you’re in it. There is good coming. There is what’s best for you still out there. 🤍

Girlfriend and I have been together for 8 months now I adore and love her to death and would be willing to do just about anything for her and her family + friends. Sadly the last five months of my life I’ve encountered hardships completely out of my control and have gotten knocked down over and over again. From losing two jobs cause of two car engines blowing up on me, parents divorcing and even to my cousin taking his own life. Recently I’ve been stuck with my gf for the last month or so tryna find a job close to my house I can walk to till I can pull out a loan for a vehicle. Now I’m in a place where even I find it hard to connect with my gf. I try so hard even through these financial struggles to put her first or still take her out for dinner and clean around her apartment and mine as well even tho the mess is normally coming from her and leave her notes and have tried showing valiant effort in even helping her friends and family when they are around with things. My girlfriend has always been a person to where she can never really find interest in things she’s never had a hobby or anything interest her now that I think about even the thought of me trying to show her something new makes her upset and leads to a fit, most recently Parts unknown by Anthony Bourdain which I thought she’d enjoy for her love of food and travel and sadly now even conversation with me seems like a task that she can not do without looking down at her phone and going on tik tok or instantly mentally checking out on the nearest speckle on dust on the wall. It’s made me want a lot of space and alone time recently which I’m all honesty I feel bad for feeling this way especially when she asks me “do you like me still?” After I got somewhat annoyed at her refusal to put our phones down and finish our conversation we were having. Granted I understand the importance of alone time and for her as well I know she can feel the same so I’ve offered many times to give her space for the day and she refuses to let me to and almost gets upset. I feel severely neglected and I barely feel like I’m dating my girlfriend anymore and it’s starting to exhaust me. I’ve brought up similar talking points as this before which have led to her looking at me like I’m stupid for feeling any bit of neglect and also brought up how she is overly rude over little things such as throwing a fit over her sister wanting to eat at a restaurant my gf has never been to before for her graduation dinner and when I call her out since the beginning of the relationship she has always gotten angry and upset and tells me how I’m wrong and I’m starting to feel like it’s all my fault when at times I know it objectively isn’t and I’ve worked hard on the old cliche of happy wife happy life which is starting to exhaust me and I truly feel confused and wrong for wanting space and wanting change from her for so long now with her not making any sort of effort. I understand neither of us are emotionally mature as we will be one day but with her I feel exhausted begging for some form of intimacy from conversation or even cooking and dancing to some music. I was brought to tears over thinking about how happy she once was even just walking around Costco with me as corny as that sounds and now I’m somewhat lost because I feel like I can’t have a mature and healthy conversation about our feelings together without her shutting down emotionally.

Hello, I am writing this post as I desperately seek to better my life and avoid losing out on some help that I desperately need. I have a wife and 5 children in NW MN an hour away. I used to have a bad problem with alcohol and was arrested for a felony DUI on 10/20/2021 I was sentenced to two years in prison. Shortly after I was arrested my two year old daughter was diagnosed with retinoblastoma a very aggressive cancer. At that point I vowed to change my life for good and do everything I can to be with my family. My daughter lost her right eye, but has been cancer free for almost 3 years now. We are still together as a family, although I cannot live with them at their current house because I have a felony record and she lives in public housing. I need to stay in Grand Forks for a year and work, at that point, I will rent a house large enough for all of us to reside in. I am sober, have went through treatment, counselling, parenting skills classes, graduated as a certified paralegal and work full time in manufacturing. I have never violated my probation, and I just work, sleep, and go visit my family. I have a housing choice voucher through gfha, and it expires on the 30th of this month. If I am unable to utilize it by then I will lose it and be ineligible to reapply. I am in dire need of a place to rent prefer a 1 bedroom but a 2br may work as well maximum rent would be $800. If someone is able to help me find a place that can rent to me and will accept a housing voucher I will pay you. I'll take anything at this point, even a slumlord I have tried numerous places just to have apts rented out from underneath me or be rejected. I'm beginning to really lose hope and am sending this out there with the hopes that some of the efforts I have made towards bettering myself will pay off in someone seeing this and giving me a shot. Not looking for a hand out, just a hand up.
Thanks!

Hi, (Female, 17) here. My sister (21, Female).
When I was younger, around 12 - 13, I had a pretty good relationship with my older sister, we'll call her Sam.
Sam and I were very close, we shared hobbies and got along perfectly fine. But around the time I turned 14-15, Sam changed drastically.
I started noticing it with her body language. She started looking at me with disgust. She no longer enjoyed hanging out with me and would always make up an excuse to ditch me. I could tell our relationship changed but I wasn't sure why.
It got worse over time. Sam would picked fights and called me horrible names. The ones used most often are "Conceited, selfish, b*tch." I hadn't changed, I still acted the same, I still loved the same things as I did when I was 12. She got very personal and hurtful with the insults. She made fun of my hair, my voice, the way I walked. She made it clear that she didn't like anything about me anymore. It hurt a lot and I felt alone for a while. When I entered high-school, I made more friends and really enjoyed their company. I feel like they helped turned me into a more confident and happier version of myself.
Sam didn't really talk to me around this time but one day, I woke up to her screaming about me to my mother early in the morning. This came as a shock because we hadn't spoken or even fought prior to this. It was totally random. She told my mother that she didn't want to be near me, how she hated me and I was a stupid c*nt. It sounded like she was in tears when she was screaming this. That's how I knew this hatred she had for me was real. She told my mother she was going to physically attack me and beat me up. Of course, everyone thought she was bluffing but it turns out she wasn't. She attacked me about 3 times. Luckily, someone was always there to pull her off of me. Sam was bigger than me. She was taller and weighed more so of course she overpowered me. It was absolutely terrifying to have someone who you always loved and trusted, completely turn on you and try to hurt you.
Eventually things calmed down. Sam got a job and was finally socializing outside of our family. She didn't go to school so she had all the time in the day to do anything but unfortunately spent it making my life a living hell. She made me extremely insecure about myself but around 15 - 16, I gained my confidence back and tried to ignore everything she said to me.
My other older sister, we'll call Veronica, was talking to this guy, who she really liked, and I noticed Sam would flirt with him a lot. As time went on, Sam managed to steal this guy from Veronica and they started dating. This absolutely BROKE Veronica. She had to watch her sister and her ex bf dating, kissing, and flirting in front of her. Every time Veronica was near them, Sam would have this smug smile on her face and rub it in Veronica's face. I was so pissed for Veronica. Sam ended up getting her karma and the guy broke her heart. Now every time Veronica is talking to or seeing a guy, Sam always asks if she can meet him or go out with them together and Veronica won't let her. I can't blame her. Sam is sneaky and if she's not flirting with Veronica's boyfriend, she's trying to embarrass her.
I notice Sam tries to embarrass me a lot. When we're out in public setting, she'll always say something obnoxiously rude. She tells everyone I'm shy when I'm really not. I'm actually the most bubbly in the family. I just don't say anything around her cause I'm uncomfortable and I don't want her to embarrass me. She tells everyone I'm a conceited diva and she makes herself seem humble and down to earth. The other day we were out with some family members that we hadn't seen in years and Sam was taking pictures of the view and I was watching her take the photos and she looked at me and yelled "ARE YOU LOOKING AT YOURSELF IN THE REFLECTION OF MY CAMERA" and I explained to her that I couldn't see myself because the camera was flipped and I was just watching the photos be taken. Usually I don't defend myself or explain, I'd just laugh things off but this time, I was sick of her making me look like a concieted b*tch to people so I made it clear she was misunderstanding and I could tell she didn't like this. She snarled and stormed off. It got pretty awkward after that and everyone was confused about why she was saying that to me.
Sam ended up getting a boyfriend. I didn't like him so I stayed away but she would always bring him over even though he treated my family like crap. He called my dog ugly, he never thanked my grandma for cooking them dinners, and he ignored my other family members. He would come over and flop on the couch like a beached whale. I couldn't tell him to leave so I hid in my bedroom. I found out from him that Sam was sharing a lot of me and my family's personal business. Things like, money, drama, lawsuits, and issues we were having within the family that were NOT supposed to be discussed for fun. She shared EXTREMELY private things and this broke my family's trust with her. Everyone tried to keep things secret from her out of fear that she'd tell people she knew. Sam shared me and another family member's sexuality with her friends and boyfriend. I told Sam that I was not ready to tell my parents yet because they weren't big supporters of that kind of stuff. She now holds this over my head and hints about it to my parents. She doesn't do this to my other family member even though they aren't out either, she only uses this again me.
One time my Sam got drunk and told me that her and her boyfriend had sex where I sleep. She thought this was absolutely hilarious and I was so pissed. I had never felt such anger and betrayal. She also made a few sexual jokes about me to her boyfriend which left me feeling disgusted so I'd rather not discuss those.
Sam is almost 22 now and she's still living with us. She doesn't have a job and she doesn't help much with chores. She plays on her phone all day or watches TV. I'm working 3 days a week and finishing school but Sam tells me that I do nothing all day and I need to do more with my time. She also told me I shouldn't be allowed to finish high-school because she never did, even though she didn't want to finish and dropped out by choice. I tried to explain to her that I really want to finish high-school and save up money for college but she thinks I don't deserve to.
She stills says horrible things to me like "you have no future, you'll still be sitting on your ass in your parents house when you're 30." She also told me that she hopes I can't have kids because I'd be a terrible selfish mother. She steals my food and shames my interests.
I miss the sister who loved me back. I don't know who she is now and I don't know why she thinks we're in competition.
Please share your thoughts on my story and let me know if you've dealt with similar issues! 💛

This post is a bit long, but I would appreciate your opinion because this situation is making me lose my mind.
Last year, I (27M) reconnected with my ex-girlfriend (26F). We had broken up the previous year because I caught her walking with a guy who had feelings for her, as she had told me. I ended the relationship because I thought it was unethical and especially because she wasn't responding to my calls while she was with him, claiming she didn’t hear her phone.
After breaking up with her, I moved abroad for a career opportunity. The first few months were incredibly difficult because I felt so alone and isolated, and I missed intimacy and sex, to be honest. I checked her LinkedIn for updates because I missed her so much. She sent me an Instagram invitation and uploaded a story of her new cat, who was named after me (weird, but I liked it). We started talking again, and eventually met last month and had a great time together.
Since she was confused about where this was going, and because I am madly in love with her, we discussed the possibility of getting married and her moving here with me. I didn't want her to feel that we were just "wasting time."
However, she has been acting weird lately. She disappears every day for a whole week from 9 p.m. until morning, saying she was sleeping and very tired. Sometimes she disappears for four hours without me knowing where she is. As I write this post, she told me today that she was going out to eat with a friend, and she came back at 11 p.m. after disappearing for two hours. She told me she was home and asked if I felt like she had disappeared, to which I said no. She then proceeded to disappear for the whole night, sending me an awkward "babe?" message in the middle of her disappearance. I tried to call her via WhatsApp to make sure she was okay, but the phone was ringing and she didn’t pick up.
This situation is driving me crazy. She often jokes about wanting to be a MILF, not wanting to have kids, and that she would like me to cheat on my future wife with her, but she always makes these comments as a joke.
I don’t know if I should trust my gut. I am a very anxious person, so most of the things I fear (in this case, that she is doing something suspicious) don’t usually happen. So I don’t know if I am misjudging the situation.
What do you think, guys?

My wife and I are wrapping up our first trip to Savannah, and we wanted to thank the folks who put together the wiki for visitors. We had a good idea of what we wanted to see and do in the area, but the wiki really helped us figure out where to eat. We had some great food and a lot of fun. Thanks!

Hey hey people, my summer break before senior year just started and I want to talk with some new people who aren't too busy and that hopefully stick around longer than just a day or two. Feel free to msg me if you want a friend to text/call regularly, preferably around my age and in US Eastern time or something close. I like all kinds of music and food, I have 3 dogs, I play piano, and I love games (If you want to play bedrock MC together I'd totally be down, too) so let's chat about anything! Also I am hoping to go into a science or tech major so if you share a passion in that stuff then let’s definitely talk.
I can get along with about anyone as long as you can kinda match my energy, so feel free to just be yourself! Anyways, I'm rambling, so shoot me an interesting message! (just please don't start with a "hi" and nothing else, something about yourself like age, gender, and a fun conversation starter are great haha) I promise I don't bite :)
I definitely prefer discord or snap if you have it, but if not then it's all good lol

Hey hey people, my summer break before senior year just started and I want to talk with some new people who aren't too busy and that hopefully stick around longer than just a day or two. Feel free to msg me if you want a friend to text/call regularly, preferably around my age and in US Eastern time or something close. I like all kinds of music and food, I have 3 dogs, I play piano, and I love games (If you want to play bedrock MC together I'd totally be down, too) so let's chat about anything! Also I am hoping to go into a science or tech major so if you share a passion in that stuff then let’s definitely talk.
I can get along with about anyone as long as you can kinda match my energy, so feel free to just be yourself! Anyways, I'm rambling, so shoot me an interesting message! (just please don't start with a "hi" and nothing else, something about yourself like age, gender, and a fun conversation starter are great haha) I promise I don't bite :)
I definitely prefer discord or snap if you have it, but if not then it's all good lol

Hey hey people, my summer break before senior year just started and I want to talk with some new people who aren't too busy and that hopefully stick around longer than just a day or two. Feel free to msg me if you want a friend to text/call regularly, preferably around my age and in US Eastern time or something close. I like all kinds of music and food, I have 3 dogs, I play piano, and I love games (If you want to play bedrock MC together I'd totally be down, too) so let's chat about anything! Also I am hoping to go into a science or tech major so if you share a passion in that stuff then let’s definitely talk.
I can get along with about anyone as long as you can kinda match my energy, so feel free to just be yourself! Anyways, I'm rambling, so shoot me an interesting message! (just please don't start with a "hi" and nothing else, something about yourself like age, gender, and a fun conversation starter are great haha) I promise I don't bite :)

Hey hey people, my summer break before senior year just started and I want to talk with some new people who aren't too busy and that hopefully stick around longer than just a day or two. Feel free to msg me if you want a friend to text/call regularly, preferably around my age and in US Eastern time or something close. I like all kinds of music and food, I have 3 dogs, I play piano, and I love games (If you want to play bedrock MC together I'd totally be down, too) so let's chat about anything! Also I am hoping to go into a science or tech major so if you share a passion in that stuff then let’s definitely talk.
I can get along with about anyone as long as you can kinda match my energy, so feel free to just be yourself! Anyways, I'm rambling, so shoot me an interesting message! (just please don't start with a "hi" and nothing else, something about yourself like age, gender, and a fun conversation starter are great haha) I promise I don't bite :)
I definitely prefer discord or snap if you have it, but if not then it's all good lol