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2024.05.19 06:49 Demagogue999 34 M Looking for a female friend to talk about things that i can't discuss with my wife.

Hi, I am 34, married and have a 2 yr old kid. I ha e always been a shy kind of person and had a very small and close group of friends before i got married. There were a few girls in the group who i was very close with but then marriage happened and slowly and steadily we drifted apart mostly cus my wife felt very insecure about my female friends.
Now i am left with only male friends in my group and i really miss a female presence in my life other than my wife. My wife has a lot of friends and more importantly she shares everything about our marriage and our family life with her friends giving her the much needed release. I on the other hand, have got no one with whom i can share my deepest thoughts or feelings. Ofc i share somethings with my wife but then i always have to be careful cus at times her reaction scares me and we end up fighting a lot.
I just need a friend who could listen to me without being judgemental and forming opinions about me. I promise to do the same for you, i am a great listener and very patient. It'll be a big plus if u are married cus maybe we'll be able to relate with each other. I am only looking for someone to talk to online and not anuthing irl.
Please reach out if u are in a similar situation as me or need someone who can hear u out and comfort you. Cheers
PS - I have good sense of humour , so don't worry, you'll not be becoming part of a real life drama.
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2024.05.19 06:47 Outrageous_Lynx3736 Travel from Munich to Zugspitze using roundtrip ticket?

Hi I apoligize in advance if this question was already answered, but when I was going through reddit I couldn't find a clear answer. So I'm traveling to Munich for a few days in June and wanted to visit Zugspitze. I know that I have to catch the train from Munich to Garmisch-Partenkirchen (which is about 26 eur each way). On the zugspitze website they advertise a round trip ticket that will take me from Garmisch-Partenkirchen to- Zugspitze plateau- to zugspitze summit- to lake eibsee- and back to Garmisch-Partenkirchen which I can then purchase a separate ticket back to Munich. Am I understanding it correctly that the round trip ticket includes the cogwheel train, Gletscherbahn cable car, and the modern cable car? Is there a specific time that I need to book each mountain railway or can I just board at anytime with the ticket? Sorry if this seems like a dumb question but based on what I was reading online it seemed more complicated to travel from Munich to Zugspitze and I just wanted to make sure I was understanding everything. Here's the info for the Zugspitze round trip ticket https://zugspitze.de/en/Our-mountain-worlds/Highlights/Zugspitze-Round-Trip
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2024.05.19 06:45 eyueli 22F Russian/Cambodian seeking online friendships

Looking for new friends. I either game, work, sleep or rot in my room. Introverted but willing to make new friends and be more social online. If you’re looking for a loser friend that’s me. I’m pretty clingy if we hit it off well. We can send selfies if you are curious on looks (SFW). I like playing Roblox a lot if you wanna join me. I listen to Flyleaf, Deftones, whatsaheart, pierce the veil, Paramore, Slipknot, Manrryx, and etc! I’m from Canada and speak English, Russian/Lithuanian/khme. I am Russian/Asian (Cambodian), Twin, 13 tattoos, 5 piercings, Car enthusiast, Language learner, 4’11 if that matters
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2024.05.19 06:45 burners2020933 Paid ads business models / products that are lowkey fire - from a $10M marketer

Paid ads business models / products that are lowkey fire - from a $10M marketer
Hey guys, I used to work at a private equity marketing agency that bought, scaled, and sold DTC e-commerce, SAAS, info & digital product online brands and I was a media buyer. I have over $10M worth of spend under my belt for clients, and have worked with multiple 7-8 figure online companies.
No I’m not looking to sell you anything so don’t assume that I’m making this post for that reason.
I am trying to build a network of like minded people and am focused on building an engaged community with the same goals to help each other and stuff.
I’ve had the luxury of being able to see many different business models by working for a P.E agency. I will share some businesses I saw and you can do what you want with that info

1 - $100M a year self cooling bedsheet brand

When I tell you self cooling bedsheets had the highest revenue I’ve seen of any ecom store I am not exaggerating. It was f*cking baffling how much money these mfs were making by selling self cooling bedsheets.
The craziest part is that they did it all thru paid ads. I was stunned looking at the backend of the Shopify account and seeing these numbers. The reason a product like self cool bedsheets works so well is because of a few things:
A) Broad TAM (total addressable market) This means they can sell to a broader range of people. The more people you can sell to for e com the better.
Their AOV (average order value) was $110 as well. So not only are they targeting a broad audience, but they have really good margins
I think another reason why this product / brand is doing so well is because of timing as well. They exited in 2018, but really blew up during 2020 when everyone was home.
F it I’ll name drop. They’re called Miracle brand. Go study their LP and ads. Their LP is really high converting like 5-7%. Their offer is amazing (3 free towels with your bedsheets) and the CRO is fully optimized.

2 - subscription based Digital Assets

This one is really good, but super niche. The company basically sells digital editing assets that go with editing software like Davinci, IMovie, and whatever other editing softwares there are
They have 100% profit margins on the product and they offer a subscription. Their AOV is $60 per month and people actually subscribe because they know that these digital assets are really really good and it will save them time when editing. They were doing $2-$3M per year in revenue on a 100% margin product which is now offered as a subscription. I believe the overall margins on the business was like 70-80% they had low overhead.
These mfs are absolutely PRINTING. It’s not easy to make really good digital editing assets either so it’s hard to replicate. The #1 thing when buying or selling a business is margins. Their business if an easily be sold for 7-9x because of big margins, big AOV, and the MRR (monthly recurring revenue). On average businesses sell for 3-6x in the DTC (direct to consumer) e commerce space, but when you add a subscription model and it’s a digital product, you double the valuation of your company
Like I said, I am just sharing business models I’ve seen that were absolutely amazing!

3 - Sticker company

This one I think surprised me the most. These guys were selling a subscription for you to get a pack of custom anime stickers every single month.
Yup, you get high quality anime stickers every single month. This business wasn’t doing $1M but they did take in 6-figs. The reason this model is smart is because the margins are really good. It only costs like $0.50 USD to make a full pack of these custom stickers and you add $3-$4 for shipping. Their AOV was like $25-$30.
I think this business worked well because it caters to a strong fan base of people who love anime. Personally I like avatar and one piece but there’s a lot of anime super fans who would love to subscribe to a sticker club that sends you a custom pack of cool stickers of your favorite anime. Not sure how the legal side of it worked.
Comment what you think, and let me know if you have any questions. Half of these business models were very surprising and to this day it’s hard to believe that they work so well.
Feel free to also share good business models you’ve seen. There’s a lot more I can share but these stand out the most
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2024.05.19 06:45 Demagogue999 34 M Looking for a female friend to talk about things that i can't discuss with my wife.

Hi, I am 34, married and have a 2 yr old kid. I ha e always been a shy kind of person and had a very small and close group of friends before i got married. There were a few girls in the group who i was very close with but then marriage happened and slowly and steadily we drifted apart mostly cus my wife felt very insecure about my female friends.
Now i am left with only male friends in my group and i really miss a female presence in my life other than my wife. My wife has a lot of friends and more importantly she shares everything about our marriage and our family life with her friends giving her the much needed release. I on the other hand, have got no one with whom i can share my deepest thoughts or feelings. Ofc i share somethings with my wife but then i always have to be careful cus at times her reaction scares me and we end up fighting a lot.
I just need a friend who could listen to me without being judgemental and forming opinions about me. I promise to do the same for you, i am a great listener and very patient. It'll be a big plus if u are married cus maybe we'll be able to relate with each other. I am only looking for someone to talk to online and not anuthing irl.
Please reach out if u are in a similar situation as me or need someone who can hear u out and comfort you. Cheers
PS - I have good sense of humour , so don't worry, you'll not be becoming part of a real life drama.
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2024.05.19 06:43 NotYourAverageBot2 Candles

As the morning sun finally breaks through the night I am already getting dressed for my first day of second grade. As I’m struggling to button up my white collar shirt my dad walks into the room.
“You getting ready for school champ?” He asks me, clearly proud of how grown I looked.
“You betcha Dad!” I exclaimed as a wide smile beamed across my face,
Dad bent down and helped me finish buttoning my shirt.
“So…” he started asking, “what’s the plan for today? You know,” he paused trying to find the right words, “so you don’t have another one of those outbursts?”
These “outbursts” as Dad called them weren’t really outbursts. I’d had outbursts before but these were different. I’ve only had a handful of these breakdowns but they were the worst thing I’d ever experienced. It felt almost like someone was clawing into my skull. The pain was almost unbearable. Then there were the voices… ugh, I shuddered thinking about the voices.
It was because of these outbursts that we had to move cities. They were so bad I was kicked out of every school in Saint Louis.
Now that we moved to my crazy old grandmother’s house in Maryland, my parents were hoping I’d grow out of the breakdowns. They had tried everything they could to “fix” me but to no prevail. No matter how many doctors or therapists I went to none of them could ever find out what was wrong with me. It made me feel hopeless like I was doomed to be the weird kid for the rest of my life.
I still remember my 6th birthday all too well. I had invited every kid in my class to my party and was so excited to have people over.
You see, I had never had a real friend before and I was hoping by having people over at my house I could finally make one. That’s how dumb of a thought process I had in kindergarten. Now that I was in second grade I realized that wasn’t how the world worked. When it came time to have my party no one except my older brother Nathan and my older sister Jess showed up.
“I’m sorry Weston.” I remember Nathan saying, “Maybe next year you’ll have friends.”
Nathan didn’t mean that in a mean way but it sure felt like that. That year when I blew out my candles all I wished for was a single friend, a friend whom I could talk to, a friend whom I could play with and laugh with, a friend who cared about me.
But like most wishes, it never came true. And now here I am ready to reinvent myself and ready to try again. Hopefully, things were different in Baltimore, hopefully the kids were nicer.
“I’ll try not to freak out again Dad.” I finally replied to him as he finished tying my navy blue tie around my neck. “I promise.”
“I know you will Westy. I know. Just please try to take deep breaths like the kind therapist told you to.”
“Dad,” I said longingly, “I told you those silly techniques don’t work.”
“They worked for me.” My older sister Jess said as she walked into the room and sat on my bed, “I used to have the same outbursts happen to me.” She paused, “Matter of fact, the feelings never go away, you just learn to mask them.” She looked at Dad, “That’s just what the Man does to you.
“Jessica!” My dad scolded, “Stop scaring your brother. It’s his first day after all.”
“Weston.” He said turning to me, “Don’t listen to her. Do you understand me?”
I nodded submissively,
Dad turned and walked out of the room leaving me and Jess to finish getting ready.
“He doesn’t get it Westy.” She said to me once she knew he was out of earshot, “But just so you know it gets worse when he visits you again.”
“Again?” I replied in horror, “Jess you’ve got to be kidding me.”
“I’m not I swear Weston. Now normally I wouldn’t be telling you this at your age but you seem pretty mature so I think you can handle it.”
She was wrong, I couldn’t handle it.
"Weston, Jess!” My dad yelled from the kitchen, “Time for school!”
I arrived at school in my dad’s big, grey, Chevy Silverado and hopped down on the curb. I waved goodbye to my dad while Jess grabbed my hand and walked me to my classroom.
Ever since mom died, Jess has stepped up to be the motherly figure in my life though never fully replacing my mom. My mom was a beautiful woman with brown chestnut-colored locks of curly hair and beautiful blue eyes as pale but vibrant as the ocean on a cloudy day. I loved my mom but ever since the Man first showed up at our doorstep she was never quite the same. After the incident with the Man, she turned into a hollow shell of a person. Until, until she’d had enough.
It was right after my 6th birthday when the Man came. Maybe he was the answer to my birthday wish. In some ways, I guess he was. It was raining that day. I can still hear the pitter patter of the raindrops hitting the pavement outside my house when all of a sudden there was a knock on my door. I ran to open it, having not been able to sense danger at such a naive age, and was surprised when a tall man wearing an all-black attire stood there staring at me. When my mom saw who it was from the kitchen she immediately dropped the knife in her hand and started running toward me but not before the Man grabbed me by the shoulder and yanked me out the door. I remember being frozen in fear, not sure whether to cry or scream. I ended up doing nothing. The man shoved me into the back seat of his car and drove off as my mom came running down the driveway. I couldn’t tell if she was crying or if it was just the rain rolling down her face but I remember wondering whether or not I’d ever see her again.
I think about this now as I walked up the steps into the elementary school with my sister’s hand in mine. Once we reach the outside of my classroom, I turn and stare at my sister.
“I don’t wanna go in there,” I said, my anxiety acting up again,
“Come on Weston,” She replied, “I’m sure it will be fine.”
I usually trusted my sister when it came to stuff like this but this time it felt different, something felt wrong. Either way, I decided to suppress my fear and turn to the classroom door. Too short to look into the window of the door, I reach up and turn the handle instead, without looking inside to evaluate the classroom. I crack open the door and peer inside, what I see when I open the door makes me scream at the top of my lungs with fear. I’m struck with fear and can feel the voices coming back.
The Man was sitting at the teacher’s desk, coffee in hand, feet resting on the desk itself.
“It’s nice to see you again William.” He said as a maniacal grin crossed his face,
“Remember me?”
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2024.05.19 06:42 agemininquiry I’ve never had my heart broken and it’s devastating

I don’t know what it feels like to have my heart (romantically) broken and it’s devastating
Like the title says- I’ve (34F) never been in a secure romantic partnership/ one in which I was loved correctly. My one and only serious relationship was incredibly abusive and we never had real emotional intimacy- the space wasn’t safe enough for it. I consider myself lucky that I have experienced wonderful familial and plutonic love. But today I was listening to a number of songs about heartbreak (Zach Bryan- something in the orange and Lewis Capaldi- Bruises) and I had an ugly cry in the car. Theyre hauntingly beautiful songs but my inability to relate to them hit me smack in the chest. I so badly want to know what it feels like for someone to want me by their side forever. I so badly want to know what it feels like to hear another human being tell me that since knowing me, they don’t feel like there’s enough time for the rest of life.
I just feel like I’m one of very few people who’s been left out of a secret that everyone knows. This feels like a cruel and crushing joke.
I’ve heard friends and family say that you have to get to a place where “you’re okay without it”. I know they mean well but I think it’s a crock of tomfoolery. Love is just as rudimentary a need as food and water. To try and kill the part of you that wants your person seems like a dishonest and unwise betrayal of a pretty universal human need.
Maybe this sounds dramatic but I can’t be the only one who feels this way. Can someone who can relate please offer some advice for how to cope with this?
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2024.05.19 06:42 U3222 17M INTP 4w3 [M4F] (Preference for ENFJ)

I have a rare combination of INTP and 4w3, which makes me quite different from the typical INTP. I'm more emotional overall, and I was mistyped as an INFP before. I'm also more romantic than the average INTP (which is why i'm making this post at all). One curse of this is that it makes me feel like I can't really connect to anyone.
I can be friends with anyone, I don't mind. But romance-wise, I kind of tend to like ENFJs (But tbh i dont mind other MBTI either, what matters the most to me is how I click with them personally)
But to me, ENFJs just have a unique charm, romance-wise.
I'm a 3D artist. I also like vehicles like cars (I like to make custom designs). I like being authentic to myself. I like a bunch of random video games, everytime someone asks me what games I play, I literally can't think of anything initially because of how random they are. I also made stuff like pixel art and regular 2D art.
I love geography, and I also like to make imaginary geography. I also love making my own towns, cities, countries, building designs etc. etc.
I mean I like making imaginary stuff in general.
I'm not necessarily looking for romance, but I'd at least want a less dull life. I want new social experiences, I want to develop as a person.
Thanks for reading.
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2024.05.19 06:41 1zuu [D] Looking Back at My ML Journey: 135 Coursera Courses, 35 Udemy Courses, and 32 Udacity Courses

[D] Looking Back at My ML Journey: 135 Coursera Courses, 35 Udemy Courses, and 32 Udacity Courses
Every time I look back at my ML journey, I only realize the power of E-learning platforms. I will start by giving shoutout to Coursera, Udemy, Udacity platforms and I wanted to take a moment to reflect on my Machine Learning (ML) journey over the past 6 years. It’s been a whirlwind of learning, challenges, and accomplishments, and I thought sharing my experience might inspire or help others who are on a similar path.
The Start of My Journey
I learned Electronics and Telecommunications in my BSc. I’m a Mathematics nerd and that’s the main reason I choose machine learning after taking the course of Sir Andrew NG. Like many of you, I did not started with a curiosity about how machines could learn from data 😂. I started because of mathematics inside of ML. I had some basic programming knowledge, but the world of ML was completely new to me. I decided to dive in headfirst, and Coursera was my first stop.
Coursera: 135 Courses
I began with the well-known "Machine Learning" course by Andrew Ng as I told earlier. It laid a solid foundation for me, and from there, I explored a myriad of other courses. Here are a few that stood out:
Deep Learning Specialization by Andrew Ng: This series of courses helped me grasp the intricacies of neural networks and deep learning.
Applied Data Science with Python Specialization: Provided a hands-on approach to applying ML techniques to real-world problems.
Mathematics for Machine Learning: Strengthened my understanding of the mathematical underpinnings of ML algorithms. The structured learning paths and the high-quality content on Coursera kept me engaged and constantly challenged.
And more Specializations like “AI for Medicine”, “Reinforcement Learning Specialization” and more. I alone completed 50+ courses in DL.AI
Udemy: 35 Courses
Shoutout to Lazy Programmer. The best ML tutor on planet 🌏. No doubt on that.
Udacity: 32 Courses
Finally, I turned to Udacity for its Nanodegree programs, which are more immersive and project-based. The structured curriculum and industry-focused projects helped me apply what I learned in a practical context. Notable Nanodegrees I completed include:
Machine Learning Engineer Nanodegree Intel IOT and Edge AI Nanodegree AWS Machine Learning Nanodegree Looking back, this journey was intense but incredibly rewarding. Here are a few key takeaways:
Consistency is Key: Regular, dedicated study time is crucial. Small, consistent efforts add up over time.
Practical Experience: Working on projects and real-world problems is invaluable. It’s where theoretical knowledge meets practical application.
Community and Networking: Engaging with online communities, attending webinars, and participating in forums helped me stay motivated and connected.
Once again Mad Props for my tutors and all these platforms. Now I’m working as a Senior Data Scientist. Also do Lecturing at few Institutes in my country. Also the one and only Artificial Intelligence Tutor in Sri Lanka 🇱🇰.
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2024.05.19 06:41 albert1165 Only 5% of Vietnamese people know the truth about Vinfast ...

due to Vuong Pham's complete control of the Vietnamese media. He censored all the bad news so what appear to the clueless general Vietnamese public is a shinny VF3 and other Vinfast cars as if they are normal cars from a normal car company. Not.
Here are the list of things Vuong Pham censored in Vietnam i.e. no official media is reporting these newsworthy facts and truth:
1/ Vinfast is not a normal car company: it is a company teetering on the verge of bankruptcy with an astronomical debt, $9.3B total and $5.8 short term, huge yearly loss of $2.4B, and only miminal real sale (about $450M in 2023) where 80% of total sale are stuffing to GSM.
2/ Vinfast cars are not normal. They are very buggy with 15 cases of VF8 with broken front wheels. With the low number of cars on the road, the rate is very high, highest among all car brands.
3/ Numerous battery dead problems.
4/ The news of the Pleasanton crash killing 4 people in a burning VF8.
5/ The real world's range of VF3 is only about 120-140km, where the fake range 210 is the unrealistic NEDC standard.
6/ The news of Vinfast did not pay rent to Stanford Mall for a year.
7/ The news of the two ongoing lawsuits: class action lawsuit and the steel lawsuit.
8/ Vuong Pham sold cars in Vietnam at a much higher price than in oversea market, despite only 3% special tax and no import tax for full cars (only minor tax for parts), effectively milking Vietnamese to subsidize oversea customers.
Vuong Pham is all out attack with a media blizt on the VF3 right now and is pumping stock VFS / VIC / VHM full force, hoping that the Vietnamese public is still under his spell due to complete media control that no bad truth can reach the public. North Korean style. The tiny VF3 brouhaha is his last attempt, the swan song of Vuong Pham. News about new plant in Indonesia, expansion to Malaysia, the Phillipines etc... will continue to churn out to keep the media from being dried, but of course, with no substance because Vuong Pham does not have the money and the cars are not competitive anywhere else.
Well, many of these Vietnamese people are just clueless, not their fault but due to Vuong Pham's censorship, and the number of people who buy a Vinfast car will be much less if they know the truth, that Vinfast is a technically bankrupt company selling a buggy car.
Poor Vietnamese living in a communist country with propaganda and censorship.
Well, in this sub, we know the truth, a tiny population of only about 3900 people vs 100M Vietnamese + 400M American out there.
Good to know the truth.
Mean while, time will do their force when it is due: Vinfast will crumble under the weight of ever increasing debts and loss.
Just a matter of time.
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2024.05.19 06:40 Ok-Economy-1267 Can I Sue my Ex of 5 Years for Moving Costs, Emotional Damage, Anything?

My ex and I have been living together and dating for roughly 5 years of time. We met at a university we both attended where we were getting the same degree, and I thought we were deeply in love. We never argued, had the same views and goals for the future, and the 2-3 problems we did develop were communicated and improved in healthy ways. It was a loving relationship that our friends could only hope to have. He had even custom made me a promise ring that I wore every day and never took off. I was a part of his family gatherings in Maine (where he was from), and he was involved with my family back in Michigan as well. We lived together for years, and I had hoped that we would get married after we graduated, like we had talked about. We were living like we were, anyway, so I was under the impression it would be a welcome next step.
A year after we both graduated, he ended up getting a job across the country (Michigan New Mexico). He would have a pretty large salary increase, would be doing things he enjoyed in the workplace, and be closer to his hobbies and a few friends that he had at our university that were older. I would have to move to a state I've never been, away from all of my friends and family, with no personal plan in place (I did not have a job lined up there like he did). However, he told me I could focus on healing from past trauma I couldn't process while I was focused on school, and work on getting my streaming and music career off of the ground, which is something I would've rather done with my life. I had plenty of contacts to realistically attempt something like that. And if it wasn't working, I could always try to get a job where he did. He would cover the rent of the condo we lived at, but I'd still pay all of my own personal bills (food, insurance, phone, etc.). Weighing the pros and cons, and how I believed our relationship to be/where it was headed, I agreed. We went 50/50 on furniture we would need while we were still in Michigan, because the company paid to move our stuff. The moving company damaged some things of mine that were irreplaceable, and I wanted him to deal with the moving company about it, but he never did. When we got there, I unpacked pretty much everything that was moved for the both of us, set up and organized the house, and did all of the cooking, paperwork, and chores I could so my ex could focus on getting settled in his new job. I put together lists of what we still needed, and continued to buy things for the condo 50/50, even when I was running off of low hustle income and savings. I even sold things that meant a lot to me so I'd be able to deal with all of the moving logistics and support myself when my work was "unpacking and settling".
Right before I finished my stream setup, and I was ready to start grinding on my own career, I had stumbled upon evidence of him cheating when I needed to use his computer. I have documented evidence that he has been paying sex workers for various things for the past 2 years, well before this job and move was in the picture. I didn't have access to his socials or accounts to know the full extent of what he had done, but what I had found was more than enough. When I confronted him, he didn't deny it either. I was distraught and depressed. I cut again for the first time in years. I felt lied to, betrayed, suicidal, and alone. I felt unsafe being alone in the condo, so I went to his friend's house after finding out. I told them what was wrong and they were in total disbelief until I showed them the evidence, it was extremely out of character for him. I lost 10 pounds in 2 days. The day of finding out what he did, I had already bought plane tickets back to Michigan for studio work, and couldn't change it. We agreed to take some space to figure out next steps, so I took that flight back to Michigan with two suitcases of my things, not knowing what was happening. I spent another few months unable to work, because my mental state was horrendous, and I didn't want to cash in any favors to get an engineering position when I didn't know where I was even going to be in a month's time. It seemed like we were going to try couple's therapy, because I really wanted to understand why he needed the external validation. I wanted to help him and figure out exactly what went wrong, because I didn't see any signs of this behavior. But we cut it off for good in December, when he had told me he's been seeing his ex. The breakup was slow and painful, and I was constantly living in a state of not knowing what was going on, and suffering mentally and financially for it. All of my plants that were there are now dead because he couldn't care for them, he still has my two cats, and I may have to sell my dream car in order to really afford starting over again. I can't even sell it as is since he didn't turn it on the entire time, so the battery and alternator are now dead too. It feels like my life was ripped out from under me in a blink of an eye, and I was the one being punished for it when I was the one who didn't do anything wrong.
My mom flew me out to Guam in December, knowing how much I was hurting and she wanted to get me away from it all. I was supposed to leave 2 months later in February, but here I am, still here 5 months later. Still essentially living off of two suitcases of my belongings. I am ready to move on with my life. I want my cats and my things back, and I want a fresh start. I have a few jobs lined up for me here to get back on my feet. I had to purchase a new wardrobe for the office, and a new car to get around.
All I asked for him to do was send my stuff back to Michigan, where it came from, so it could be stored at my dad's house until I could get it moved here to Guam. I felt like it was fair to ask, considering he lied to me and cheated on me for two years, when he easily could've just broken up with me before moving for his job. He made the conscious decision to drag me along and shift my whole life for him, when he had no plans to actually be with me. He bragged about the salary increase and I know what it is, I know he can afford to pay for my stuff to be moved out. I have been asking for updates constantly over the past few months, and he gives me spaced and vague answers. He is now saying he wants me to pay for half of it to be moved, which I think is unfair. This situation is entirely his fault, I'm already spending a lot of money starting my life over, and I was the only one unpacking things when we got there. He can pack up my things, and send it back to where it came from. He's also keeping everything we went 50/50 on as well, so I'm still losing even when he pays for the move. Our friends are on my side here, but he isn't cooperating or budging. I wanted to be civil, but he's being difficult to communicate with, and I am on the other side of the world now. Can I/Should I take him to court to pay for my move? Can I/Should I pursue suing him for the other aspects now that he is no longer being civil about this? Will being on Guam while he is in New Mexico complicate a lawsuit? I'm losing my mind at how I have had everything to lose, and he still doesn't have the decency to do what people around me seem to think is the right thing to do. Any advice and further questions to clarify the situation is appreciated.
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2024.05.19 06:40 Tiny-Fruit-1679 AITA for accidentally getting custom content from my friend’s girlfriend on OnlyFans?

Hey Reddit,
I’m in a bit of a predicament and need some outside perspective.
I (28M) recently subscribed to an OnlyFans account that I found on social media. The content creator seemed cool, and I was interested in supporting her work. After a couple of weeks, I decided to request some custom content. I sent in my request and the payment, and she sent back a video.
When I opened it, I was shocked to realize that the creator was my friend’s (29M) girlfriend (27F). She and my friend have been dating for about a year, and while I knew she did some online content creation, I had no idea she had an OnlyFans. My friend never mentioned it, and she used a different name for her account, so I didn’t recognize her at first.
I immediately felt awkward and guilty. I didn’t want to make things weird, so I didn’t tell my friend. However, a few days later, my friend found out about her OnlyFans through someone else and was upset that I hadn’t mentioned it to him when I found out. He thinks I should have told him right away, especially since I had bought custom content from her.
I tried to explain that it was an honest mistake and that I didn’t want to overstep any boundaries or invade their privacy. He’s still mad and thinks I’m an asshole for keeping it a secret and for engaging with her content in the first place.
AITA for not telling my friend about his girlfriend’s OnlyFans account as soon as I found out, and for requesting custom content without knowing it was her?
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2024.05.19 06:37 mark54398 May 14 - May 17 trip report

Wow, such great fun!
As others had advised, traffic and parking was generally manageable as these dates were Tues - Fri. Driving from place to place was generally possible with a couple caveats.
Things were certainly getting busy when I left late morning on Friday but that's Friday.
Tues - Thurs, the main issues I had with parking were in Curry Village and the Welcome Center complex (also has a restaurant and general store). These two place are a hot mess, at least in the afternoons (I never went there in the morning other than 7am for the mist trail and that was fine). I did manage to find parking there a couple times but had to circle around a bit and If this is what it looks like in mid-May, it must be an absolute nightmare during the the truly busy season.
If you're trying to grab a relatively quick meal, I don't recommend the pizza deck or the burrito place in Curry Village. They don't seem to be in a much of a hurry over there, even when there aren't many customers there. I eventually found a cafeteria (7 tents pavilion) style joint and it was quick to get food and plenty of seating (on a Thursday around 5pm).
Lower Yosemite falls and Bridalveil falls are kind of a paradox. Both involve getting wet. Refreshing in the afternoon, not so much in the morning, though mornings will be warming up. But, parking is harder in the afternoon, especially for Lower Yosemite.
The main parking lot for Bridalveil Falls may be impractical to get to at any time other than early morning / late afternoon because there is a road crew flagger operation running (one lane road) at the junction of Southside Drive and Highway 41 from sometime in the morning to like 3pm, which basically means sitting through that flagger wait to make the turn into the lot.
I ended up parking at at the El Capitan viewpoint a bit further down Southside Drive, which has a large amount of parking on both sides of the road (late morning on Friday, I still found a spot). There is a sign on the south side of the road for the Bridalveil Falls trail. It's a longer walk than the main lot for the falls but still less than a mile round trip.
I was so happy Glacier Point road was open. It is totally worth the drive up there, seeing the valley and beyond from high up above. One tip I got from a woman at the visitors center is that Washburn point is better sunrise viewing and Glacier Point is better for sunset viewing. I made two trips up there - once for sunset and once for sunrise and on the sunset trip, with it being light enough to see everything when I arrived it was obvious as to why. But when I drove up to Washburn Point the next morning for sunrise, I was the only car there and there were lots of cars driving right past heading to Glacier Point (5 minutes away at the end of the road). That's exactly why I'd have done had I not gotten the tip and my first trip up was for sunrise.
Last thought - Vernal falls is sooooooo worth it, I saw a double rainbow created by the waterfall. It was the highlight of the trip for me.
Shuttle buses aren't currently running to the Mist / John Muir trailhead, so that adds an extra 2 miles roundtrip (flat ground) to the hike.
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2024.05.19 06:35 No-Preference6624 Unsolicited Adopts and Roleplays

I thought some customers might have used the years they have been stuck inside (2020 - now) to work on their social skills and online etiquette. Is it that hard? The customer wanks me around for weeks trying to give me two adoptables (they sent me low res JPEGs that were sitting on their computer and acted surprised when I told them that I do not accept adoptables. Those are stories for another time. I suggested various payment methods (both on the site and using popular, reputable third party apps). When that did not work they offered a roleplay, condescendingly contacting me about paying later due to focusing on a social media milestone, they’ll draw my character in their (lack of a) style (turning the paid commission into a free trade) and they are at a busy convention (that does not happen until the weekend). There is no milestone to celebrate for their profile (I checked).
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2024.05.19 06:31 TheCartisien 7 Proven Tactics to Attract New Customers Online In an increasingly digital world, attracting new customers online has become paramount for businesses looking to grow and thrive. The vast digital landscape offers numerous opportunities to connect with potential customers, but it also presents a ...

7 Proven Tactics to Attract New Customers Online In an increasingly digital world, attracting new customers online has become paramount for businesses looking to grow and thrive. The vast digital landscape offers numerous opportunities to connect with potential customers, but it also presents a ... submitted by TheCartisien to cartisien [link] [comments]


2024.05.19 06:29 CheesecakeComplete42 [WTS] [WTT] [ON] [Kingston] Mass Post / AEGs, Pistols, Gear, Parts, Accessories & More. Collectors' items and used items available. Details in post. Additional pics on request. Shipping or Pick Up available.

Willing to consider specific trade items for partial payment of listings you are interested in :
G&P random upper receivers
Gate Titan advanced mosfet V2 rear wired
Retro Arms V2 gearbox (8mm or 9mm)
WarHead Industries Ronin Brushless Long Shaft Motor
VFC MCX tan
G&P Magpul, Vltor, Noveske AEG Carbine, Gate Titan - $850
https://imgur.com/AP1KYGA
https://imgur.com/T4XAkWt
Externals :
• Mint condition rare G&P VLTOR lower receiver
• Rare G&P VLTOR upper receiver
• Ambi magazine release
• Magpul K2 style motor grip
• Gen 1 Magpul UBR stock with CTR enhanced but pad ( modified to fit 3000 mah titan power battery, not included )
• Ambi G&P charging handle
• Rare discontinued PTS Magpul MBUS sights black
• Replica Trijicon MRO red dot
• Replica Daniel Defence MFR 13.5' M-lok handguard (full trades)
• Madbull Noveske 14.5' bull barrel and gas block matt silver (full trades)
• Replica DBAL with QD mount (visible laser, IR laser and light)
• Surefire Socom 14mm CCW muzzle break (suppressor compatible)
• Magpul M-lok AFG grip with Silicone Carbide grip
• orange SpeedQB edition PTS EPM mag
Internals :
• custom 16:1 gears and bearings
• Gate Titan advanced trigger mosfet
• SHS 14 tooth piston, with upgraded POM piston head
• aluminum nozzle
• upgraded cylinder head with AOE correction applied
• G&P M120 high speed motor
• Adjustable precision trigger
E&C XM177 AEG with Advanced Gate Titan - $700
https://imgur.com/wpTJP1w
https://imgur.com/IfzEQNz
Externals :
• 5 G&G 79 mid cap mags with ranger plates
• Real steel barrel mount picatinny rail
• Replica Surefire M600 with BB shield
• Three prong muzzle break, tri lug for suppressors (suppressor not included)
• Real Ranger Bands
• Real Steel handguard with heat shield modified to fit gun
• Carry handle picatinny adapter
• Trijicon comp m3 replica with kill flash and scope covers
• Enhanced polymer trigger guard
• Silver adjustable trigger
• Real Steel extended charging handle latch
• ASAP sling plate
• Stock modified with epoxy extension and butt-pad for 11.1 Li Ion 3000mah split battery from Titan Power (battery not included)
Internals :
• Gate Titan advanced mosfet
• high torque motor
• Rotary hopup
• Enhanced E&C gearbox with quick change spring feature
G&P Magpul MOE AEG, Gate Titan - $750
https://imgur.com/m5EpN6o
https://imgur.com/OqbWukN
Externals :
• billet ambi MOTS lower
• PTS MOE stock, grip and handguard
• real steel mag release
• Carry handle with Picatinny Adaptor and Replica Steiner red dot on the low mount
• Troy end plate with Ambi QD sockets
• real steel tri rail
• Surefire M600 replica with arisaka mount
• two point padded multicam black sling
Internals :
• custom 16:1 gears and bearings
• Gate Titan advanced trigger mosfet
• SHS 14 tooth piston, with upgraded POM piston head
• aluminum nozzle
• upgraded cylinder head with AOE correction applied
• G&P M120 high speed motor
EMG Falkor AEG, Two Uppers, Gate Titan - $1000 (Sold)
https://imgur.com/TQYLTBR
G&P Demolition VLTOR Custom AEG - $850 (Sold)
https://imgur.com/Pk5g7PL
https://imgur.com/v8xTNR0
KWA TK45 inspired by Titanfall AEG - $800 (Sold)
https://imgur.com/RmjucBP
E&C Rare Vltor MK18 AEG - $700 (SOLD)
https://imgur.com/LdXtxPJ
Russian Zenitco DTK Putnik AK Mock Suppressor - $100
https://imgur.com/ZV3WE3a
https://imgur.com/uMnSuM3
• Dedicated 14mm CCW threads
• three piece design can be foam filled or add tracer (not included)
All Black Oil Filter Mock Suppressor - $75
https://imgur.com/5tOHw14
https://imgur.com/B3sXPNJ
• 14mm CCW thread adapter
Orange and Black COD Oil Filter Mock Suppressor - $75
https://imgur.com/YWb288g
https://imgur.com/s8rM5x8
• 14mm CCW thread adapter
Custom TM Glock 34 GBB - $700
https://imgur.com/gj5bb1b
https://imgur.com/dOte5lc
• Armorer Works polymer 80 lower frame
• Upgraded trigger bearing hammer
• 120 % trigger bar spring
• Custom silicon carbide grip job for frame
• Real steel magwell custom fit to frame
• Guarder enhanced slide release
• 1 KJW CO2 mag with real steel extended base pad
• AA Glock 34 slide ( basically a Zev Glock 34 dragonfly slide, without trades )
• Armorer Works suppressor height sights with fiber optic inserts
• Guarder lightweight Blowback housing and nozzle
• Maple Leaf I Key
• Maple Leaf crazy jet 117mm inner barrel
• Agency Arms 417 compensator full trades
• two stage 150% recoil spring and rod with rubber shim
TM Custom Glock 17 CO2 GBB - $700
https://imgur.com/nWNnOn5
• Rare burnt Bronze Salient Glock 17 slide, full trades
• Taran iron sights
• Gen 3 Glock 17 frame, full Glock trades and custom stippled, accelerator cuts and double undercuts
• Taran competition magwell, full trades
• Extended Guarder slide release
• Agency Arms adjustable trigger
• TLR-1 HL light
• Guarder lightweight blowback housing and nozzle
• Two stage 150% recoil spring and rod with rubber shim
• Trigger spring 120%
Custom AW Glock 34 CO2 GBB - $650
https://imgur.com/h17COVi
https://imgur.com/pZTWGHG
• Armorer Works polymer 80 lower frame
• 120 % trigger bar spring
• Custom silicon carbide grip job for frame
• Real steel magwell custom fit to frame
• Guarder enhanced slide release
• 1 KJW CO2 mag with real steel extended base pad
• AA Glock 34 slide ( basically a Zev Glock 34 dragonfly slide, without trades )
• Armorer Works suppressor height sights with fiber optic inserts
• Guarder lightweight Blowback housing and nozzle
• Maple Leaf crazy jet 117mm length inner barrel
• AW hopup rubber
• two stage 150% recoil spring and rod with rubber shim
• replica inforce APL light
Custom KJW KP-01 CO2 SIG P226 - $550 (Interested Party)
https://imgur.com/gSJHxLO
• Real SIG P226 wood grips, custom cut and re-stained to fit KJW
• 5 CO2 mags with Guarder enhanced feed lips, Guarder gas routers and Guarder magazine springs
• Replica Surefire X300 Ultra with full trades 800 lumens
• Custom mounted lexan bb shield on light
• Belt mounted Multicam Black P226 with X300 Kydex holster
ASG P09 GBB two slide kit - $500 (Pending)
https://imgur.com/rLI9IsF
https://imgur.com/LrQVK27
• Nuprol foam pistol case
• three co2 mags with real steel extended base plates (one mag needs the valve o ring replaced)
• P09 belt holster (can only be used if comp or suppressor is removed
• Frame has a custom silicone carbide job
• Standard slide hand polished to silver / 14mm threaded barrel / M9 hitman compensator modified to threaded barrel
• Spare slide / black / suppressor height sights / extended two piece inner barrel / threaded outer barrel / osprey 9mm suppressor
SRC Beretta M9 A3 CO2 GBB - $400 (Interested Party)
https://imgur.com/6OatFuz
https://imgur.com/JmRxnI8
• foam filled pistol case
• threaded barrel for suppressor
• 6 CO2 magazines
• 1 green gas magazine
KJW P226 E2 CO2 GBB - $350
https://imgur.com/pO01lrz
• 1 CO2 mag
• Guarder enhanced spring kit
• Guarder enhanced recoil/ hammer spring kit
• Guarder steel recoil spring guide
• Guarder steel mag release
• spare mag feed lips and gas routers
• AIP reinforced nozzle
• original KJW pistol box
• foam filled pistol case
• two pistol holsters / one with belt mount / one with molle mount
• spare inner barrel
• spare E1 grip set
ASG P09 GBB - $270
https://imgur.com/tc7A8FD
• one green gas mag
• one CO2 mag
• replica surefire X300 full trades
• belt mounted Kydex holster, fits P09 or glock with an X300
Custom Resident Evil Taurus M9 GBB - $200
https://imgur.com/op9CzcP
• foam filled pistol case
• custom frame mounted hitman compensator
• green gas mag
• racoon police grip panels, fake wood with custom silicon carbide job (spare black original grips)
WE XDM GBB - $120
https://imgur.com/VUgU0JS
• Brand new only fired to confirm it is in working order
• one silver green gas magazine
• inner barrel extension and outer barrel internal threads (compatible with thread adapters for suppressor use)
• Original box and manual
TM Custom TTI Glock 17 CO2 GBB - $750 (SOLD)
https://imgur.com/36CFZR9
Holy Warrior RMR Black - $40
https://imgur.com/5SZeL1s
https://imgur.com/nnaErqi
Assorted OD gear prices below
https://imgur.com/F28J3kt
• two MK3 style front panels $50 each
{one has 4 kydex smg mag inserts, 2 elastic pistol inserts and the half flap with an elastic shotgun bandolier insert}
{second one has 3 kydex m4 mag inserts, 2 elastic pistol inserts and the half flap with an elastic shotgun bandolier insert}
• 2 triple m4 mag elastic pouch inserts, 1 quad 9mm mag elastic inserts, replica Trex arms velcro front pouch $30 total
• 3 molle double m4 mag pouches, and 2 single 45mm SMG mag pouches $40
• 2 replica RONIN tactical belts (one pictured) with cobra buckels, one is small, the second a medium $50 each
• Double kydex glock mag pouch with belt mount, and roll up dump pouch $50
Gear assortment - $350
https://imgur.com/fMZoHQA
https://imgur.com/r6fslYE
https://imgur.com/YQQpCml
https://imgur.com/b5pIW8l
https://imgur.com/6HHRnmZ
DYE I4 mask, tinted lenses for outdoor use can be replaced with a number of purchasable color options (one of the most durable masks and custom painted shark mouth.
• Multicam baseball cap
• Canadian military backpack with built in water bladder and hose (forest digital camo)
• 2 hard shell legs rigs for pistol setups and 1 Glock holster
• tan molle thigh rig for any pouch configuration
• 2 medium size general purpose pouches
• mixed magazine pouches including High Speed Gear rifle and pistol Taco Mag Pouches, blue force gear rifle pouches and more.
• Condor chest rig, has been set up for general rifle and pistol use but with all the additional pouches can be easily re-configured and backpack can be used in tandem with chest rig for additional gear, HPA builds and water.
Tactical Inner / Outer shooting belt rig - $150
https://imgur.com/ElXIJLN
• Multicam reinforced molle shooters belt with black inner belt (small to medium)
• 3 single pistol taco pouches
• 1 single rifle taco pouch
• general purpose pouch
• replica polymer 141 tactical knife with hard sheath
Real steel glock parts - $130
https://imgur.com/2zyy20T
• 6 real steel plus 5 glock mag extensions (compatible with VFC g17 green gas mags)
• real steel universal optics plate, replaces rear iron sight (compatible with VFC glocks)
Real Steel firearm parts
https://imgur.com/I9tCGer
• G36c top rail with iron sights
• 2 Hatsan shotgun carry handles with built in iron sights
• real ar15 clamp shell handguard with heat shield (modified for tight fit with E&C
• real XM177 recoil stock pad
Assorted Handguards - make offer
https://imgur.com/3ZtFVzv
• top right / 1887 mlok handguard
• 13.5 inch Mlok handguard APS
• real G3 military surplus handguard
• 9 inch keymod krytac handguard with QD mount
• 9 inch polymer SLR ION handguard / metal barrel nut / metal QD mounts
• Top left G&P 7 inch Daniel Defense handguard
• Madbull 7 inch Daniel Defense handguard
• 7 inch fortis Mlok handguard
• 9 inch real steel Mlok handguard
Gbb buffer tubes - $30 each
https://imgur.com/rCK5TdX
• Old PTS PRS stock buffer tube
• 2 old PTS UBR buffer tubes
General M4 AEG parts and accessories - Ask more info make offers
https://imgur.com/F6SpwyT
General TM glock parts - Ask more info make offers
https://imgur.com/PPMQeP0
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2024.05.19 06:28 Dave_the_babe Why does wingstop take so long?

I have been waiting for my food for over half an hour. I am typing this as I wait. I understand that they are generally busy with online orders and a lot of customers, but all they are making is chicken and fries! They just drizzle sauce over some chicken wings and sprinkle seasoning on the fries. I am not one to complain, but I truly do not understand why they take so long. If any of you have worked at a wingstop I would appreciate some insight, thanks!
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2024.05.19 06:27 AfterOil7630 Fiancée’s car stolen from Coronado Mall on Saturday 5/18.

Fiancée’s car stolen from Coronado Mall on Saturday 5/18.
Bronze 2016 Hyundai Elantra (Chile plate APFL15) stolen from Coronado Mall parking lot around 5PM. Has two pink stickers on the trunk lid by the rear lights. Missing the hub cap on the passenger front wheel. There is a small gash in the passenger rear door with a bit of rust coming through. Saw them while we were heading home and chased them (I know, not a good idea, but I wanted the cops to have real-time info and was hoping they’d catch up before I lost them. No need to chastise me; I know.) for about 10 minutes before losing them around the Carlisle Walmart. Was being driven by two Edgars. APD showed up less than three minutes after I lost them, I was so pissed. We have claims filed with mall security, APD, and insurance; just hoping the car shows up again. If you happen to spot the car, please do give me a DM and report it to APD. Thanks, guys.
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2024.05.19 06:24 kolargach TENT ECOSYSTEM.

TENT ecosystem includes platform for online trading and transactions in real time, possibility to store assets on separate wallets, direct integration of Mastercard technology and payment cards and the utility token INTENT. All wrapped in a neat app.
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2024.05.19 06:23 FBIDirector1-S-1 Hiring all Deps and looking for Civs

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We Are a new server but we have a lot to offer and honestly trying to reach anyone that we can, we are looking for fun and chill people that can respect each other and the staff. Come Check Sinful City Today
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2024.05.19 06:21 SugarApprehensive633 I’m the unluckiest lucky man alive

Listen at this point I think I’m cursed because I swear I keep having one of 2 things happen to me in my life. Either I do something incredibly stupid or something incredibly unlucky happens to me and yet somehow I come out unscathed, example being on more then one occasion me dropping glass items due to a completely unlucky set of circumstances yet somehow catching it perfectly or even better having it LITERALLY BOUNCE ON HARD FLOOR and me stopping it before breaking. Or I have the luckiest things happen to me and it looks like I’m guaranteed to succeed in something and then at the absolute last minute despite all odds I fuck it up somehow. Just today I had both of these happen simultaneously. I really liked this girl and I asked her to prom and she said yes. Mind you I literally got full confirmation from her friend that it was a good idea before doing it so it wasn’t a big surprise. Now in the time between asking and prom we progressed so quickly that we agreed to actually start dating after prom. Which honestly I never expected to happen and I was so happy. Prom comes along and I actually nail it. We hugged we held hands we felt like an actual couple and it was great. We even kissed at the end. But of course my curse couldn’t just let me be happy. I said “i love you” and we’d really only been dating for like a week so it’s way too early to say that and I really meant that I just really liked her but my brain just kinda shortened it to one word. Now she didn’t seem mad at first or weirded out so I thought it was fine but it definitely wasn’t. I dropped her off at a party after prom cause I couldn’t stay any later and when I got home I messaged her that shit again CAUSE IM A FUCKIN DUMBASS WHO THOUGHT IT WAS FINE. Come the next day she wasn’t really talking to me and I wasn’t sure why at first but i had this lingering thought that she might be trying to ghost me despite what seemed like a lot of evidence against that. So I asked if she was ok to which she responded with no and explained how she WAS in fact weirded out by it and needed some space. So here we are I’m about to just accept the fact that this shit happened again like it always fucking does and I was about to just be depressed but instead I actually tried to work out. And I explained to her what happened and she understood but said she still needed more time. So I’m thinking welp I tried and I had to get to work anyway so I tried to push it out my mind. But then she messaged me and apologized for being slow to respond to my messages originally because she was “a little hungover.” Now call me a bitch but I don’t drink and don’t plan on it for the foreseeable future so this caught me so off guard cause she also has stated she doesn’t plan to drink. So suddenly I’m thinking shit because I said ONE FUCKING WORD WRONG I stressed her out causing her to drink. Now imagine going to work and trying to serve customers while trying to deal with the fact that you might’ve been the sole cause for an incredibly stupid fucking decision that someone you care about a lot made. Safe to say I was internally having a meltdown while trying my best to seem fine on the outside. My manager could tell something was up and let me take a 15 minute break (which definitely ended up being longer then 15 minutes) where I just fucking broke down in my car cause I was so fucking done with myself. Literally one word was the difference here. One word was the difference between me having a girlfriend and me maybe not having a girlfriend and also causing her to make a horrible decision. But I pulled myself together enough to talk to her about it. She confirmed to me that I was definitely not the reason she was drinking, although I still don’t believe her, and that she would’ve done it no matter what. And on top of that, we talked about the other thing more and how I was seriously still sorry about that and I felt awful. Now I’m still under the assumption that I’ve completely fucked this but then she comes out of nowhere and we actually talked it out like a lot and she was worried about me despite what I had said. And told me she actually understood why I had said that and wasn’t mad at me. She just said she was very taken aback. She then proceeded to grill me to make sure I was ok (in a very similar fashion to how I’d grill her when she wasn’t ok) and also wanted to make sure that WE were ok. At this point I told her exactly why I was so scared and why I was definitely not ok earlier and she told me that I didn’t fuck it up and that this stupid shit I said wasn’t going to change how she felt about me and she still really cared about me and liked me a lot. This all happened in the span of like 2 days btw so I was on the biggest emotional roller coaster. Swear to god I dealt with every single emotion in those two days. Now the crazy part is I realized just now that my curse infact struck twice today. This whole time I’m thinking this shit is screwing me over as always but I forgot about the first part of my curse. The part where I somehow come out unscathed after the stupidest most unlucky shit happens. Now this happened in two ways during this incident. One is the fact that we worked it out despite the chaos. Two which still dumbfounds me is the fact that she didn’t ghost me. She told me that literally EVERY SINGLE ONE OF HER FRIENDS WERE TELLING HER TO JUST GHOST ME! THAT ORIGINAL FEAR I THOUGHT WAS UNWARRANTED WAS ACTUALLY ALMOST TRUE! BUT SHE DECIDED AFTER I ASKED IF SHE WAS OK TO ACTUALLY TALK TO ME CAUSE SHE STILL FELT I HAD THE RIGHT TO KNOW. That god damn curse is also a blessing cause once again the stupidest most unlucky shit happens but somehow by pure fucking luck it ends up avoiding becoming worst case scenario and actually works itself out. When she told me literally all her friends were telling her to ghost me I was actually floored. I swear I thanked her like 5 different times for not ghosting me and actually talking it out. In summary I am the luckiest unlucky man alive and it’s a blessing and a fucking curse.
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