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2024.05.18 23:39 ratsratswearerats bungie rewards issues

Posted this on bungie forums might as well post here too.
I’ve gotten this error about a dozen times trying to order the riven plush off the bungie store. My account is linked so that’s not the issue. I try to purchase it and every time it seems like it’s gonna go through and then BOOM it says recapcha failed for absolutely no reason, also nothing popped up for me to click.
Idk what the issue is or how to fix it, I’ve sent in a ticket to customer support but I’m not going to get a reply until Monday most likely. I’m on google chrome, maybe I’ll try normal internet explorer
Edit @ 8:19am 5/18/2024: tried on Microsoft edge and it says something about my postal code being different, checked postal code on card and postal code of billing address and they’re both the same. I just want my wacky lizard plush, is that so hard to ask?
Edit @ 8:28qm 5/18/2024: found my old bungie store account I used to get a thorn replica, unlinked my random linked account from my bungie account and tried to link it from the old one and it said there was a problem logging me in. This is frustrating.
Edit @ 8:48am 5/18/2024: it’s now reverted saying stuff about my postal code unable to be verified, I’ve now TRIPLE checked to make sure the postal code on the card is the same as the billing address and it’s still not working. I’m gonna wait until customer support replies because this is frustrating. EBay is out of the equation due to being 4x the price.
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2024.05.18 23:38 Grand_Poetry_2748 Risk homelessness. Please read

Hey, I am trying to raise money to try and get back into my feet after a hard year. So this starts in June 2023. I was working full time with an agency job on the side. I was on the waiting list for an operation and they had called me last minute with an appointment. I was promised from work full pay while I was off but this what not the case once I was actually off sick. I got the government sick pay allowance. Within a few days after surgery my grandad passed away and I had to fly out to Jamaica for the funeral. Which took a lot out of me and the family because it was last minute. I wasn’t even supposed to fly long haul so quick after surgery. So this is when I started to fall behind on bills.
I did was not redeems safe to work until in September when I went back to work. In my full time job I’m a support worker, and work closely with self harm. And then this came to much for me so I had to change my contract to relief staff which is zero hour contract (November 2023). At this point I still have the agency work and go when there is shift. But this has not been enough to cover bills and everything else. All these situations have caused me to fall behind on priority bills and run up credit cards and loans. I am in arrears of £1100+ on my rent and over £1400 for council tax. I am not asking for all of this just enough so I don’t get kicked out my home. I need to pay more money onto my rent so they can set up a payment plan for the next few months. I NEED TO PAY £500 TOMORROW OR THEY ARE TAKING ME TO COURT FOR PERSESSION OF THE PROPERTY
I am still working at my agency job as a care assistant and go whenever they have shifts sometimes driving over a hour to get there.
I hope you can help me get back on my feet. I hate asking for help financially but my friend has told me it would be a good idea.
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2024.05.18 23:38 guy6288 (Offer) Hook 4k, Rio 2, Super 8, Gran Turismo 4k, Thanksgiving 4k, May Universal Rewards Codes, Many Disney Movies, Plus Lots More (Request) Ocean’s Twelve 4k, Ocean’s Thirteen 4k, Your Lists and Offers

Offers:

All codes below are split where possible unless noted; please only redeem at the place agreed upon; please let me know if you don’t plan on redeeming the code right away.
Thanks for looking!
Have multiples of some codes.

4k Titles

  • Avengers: Endgame, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k)
  • Big Hero 6, 4k MA (ports to MA in 4k)
  • Captain America: Civil War, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k)
  • Finding Dory, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k)
  • The Good Dinosaur, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k)
  • Gran Turismo, 4k MA (ports to MA in 4k) (Comes with Sony Rewards Points)
  • Hook, 4k MA (ports to MA in 4k) (Comes with Sony Rewards Points)
  • The Last Witch Hunter, 4k iTunes or 4k vudu
  • Maleficent, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k)
  • Maleficent: Mistress of Evil, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k)
  • Pitch Perfect, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k) (Comes with 500 Universal Rewards Points)
  • Ralph Breaks the Internet, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k)
  • Snitch, 4k iTunes
  • Thanksgiving (2023), 4k MA (ports to MA in 4k) (Comes with Sony Rewards Points)
  • Toy Story 4, 4k iTunes (ports to MA in 4k)
  • Wonder (2017), 4k iTunes

8 Film High On Your Watch List Collection (1 Code for all 8 Movies, Redeemable via Movies Anywhere)

  • Due Date, HD
  • Friday, HD
  • ⁠Harold & Kumar Go to White Castle, HD
  • House Party, HD
  • ⁠Inherent Vice, HD
  • ⁠Project X, HD
  • ⁠Tenacious D in The Pick of Destiny, HD
  • ⁠We're the Millers, HD

Sony Buff Pass

Good for one of the following movies, redeemable via Movies Anywhere.
  • Hancock, 4k
  • My Girl, 4k
  • Stripes, 4k
  • The Blob, HD
  • Blue Thunder, HD
  • Born Yesterday, HD
  • Bye Bye Birdie, HD
  • Guess Who, HD
  • Stir Crazy, HD
  • Untraceable, HD

May Universal Rewards Code

Good for one of the following movies, redeemable via Movies Anywhere.
  • Backdraft 2, 4k
  • Black Christmas, 4k
  • A Dog's Purpose, 4k
  • The Sparks Brothers, 4k
  • Agnes Browne, HD
  • Antz, HD
  • Being Frank, HD
  • Don't Let Go, HD
  • Final Account, HD
  • Kicks, HD
  • Loving, HD
  • Raw, HD

HD MA or iTunes Disney Movie Codes

  • Atlantis: Milo's Return, HD MA (ports to MA)
  • Brother Bear, HD MA (ports to MA)
  • Brother Bear 2, HD MA (ports to MA)
  • The Fox and the Hound 2, HD MA (ports to MA)
  • The Little Mermaid (1989), HD MA (ports to MA)
  • The Lone Ranger, HD iTunes (ports to MA)
  • Mary Poppins (1964), HD iTunes (ports to MA)
  • Mulan (1998), HD MA (ports to MA)
  • Oz the Great and Powerful, HD MA (ports to MA)
  • Queen of Katwe, HD MA (ports to MA)
  • Turning Red, HD MA (ports to MA)

HD MA, vudu, or iTunes Movie Codes

  • Assassination Nation, HD MA (ports to MA)
  • Boyhood, HD vudu
  • Boyhood, HD iTunes
  • Chicago (Diamond Edition), HD iTunes or HD vudu
  • Danny Collins, HD iTunes (ports to MA) (Comes with 500 Universal Rewards Points)
  • The Expendables 2, HD vudu
  • Florence Foster Jenkins, HD iTunes
  • The Gunman, HD iTunes (ports to MA) (Comes with 500 Universal Rewards Points)
  • Home Again, HD MA (ports to MA)
  • The Hunger Games, HD vudu
  • I Feel Pretty, HD iTunes
  • Ice Age: A Mammoth Christmas, HD MA (ports to MA)
  • Indivisible, HD MA (Canada only)
  • Megan Leavey, HD iTunes (ports to MA) (Comes with 500 Universal Rewards Points)
  • The Nut Job 2: Nutty by Nature, HD iTunes (ports to MA) (Comes with 500 Universal Rewards Points)
  • Paranormal Activity 3, HD vudu
  • Paranormal Activity 3, HD iTunes
  • The Purge, HD MA (ports to MA)
  • Rio 2, HD MA (ports to MA)
  • Same Kind of Different As Me, HD iTunes
  • Selma, HD vudu
  • Selma, HD iTunes
  • Sinister, HD iTunes
  • Snitch, HD vudu
  • Super 8, HD vudu
  • Tremors 5: Bloodlines, HD MA (ports to MA)
  • The Twilight Saga: Breaking Dawn Part 2, HD vudu
  • Tyler Perry's Madea's Witness Protection, HD vudu
  • Walking With Dinosaurs: The Movie, HD MA (ports to MA)

HD Disney/Marvel/Star Wars Google Play Movie Codes (All Port to Movies Anywhere)

  • Aladdin (2019), HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Avengers: Endgame, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Beauty and the Beast (2017), HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Big Hero 6, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Black Panther, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • The Call of the Wild, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Captain America: The Winter Soldier, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Captain America: Civil War, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Cinderella (2015), HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Coco, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Doctor Strange, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Finding Dory, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Frozen, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Frozen (Sing-Along Edition), HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Good Dinosaur, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Guardians of the Galaxy, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Incredibles 2, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Inside Out, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • The Lion King (2019), HD gp (ports to MA)
  • The Little Mermaid (Animated), HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Maleficent, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Mary Poppins (1964), HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Moana, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Monsters University, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • The Nightmare Before Christmas, HD gp (ports to MA), HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Star Wars: The Force Awakens, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Star Wars: The Last Jedi, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Star Wars: The Rise of Skywalker, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Thor: The Dark World, HD gp (ports to MA), HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Thor: Ragnarok, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Toy Story 4, HD gp (ports to MA)
  • Zootopia, HD gp (ports to MA)

SD Movie Codes

  • Hugo, SD vudu
  • Rio, SD iTunes (ports to MA)
  • The Vow, SD MA (ports to MA)

Requests:

Your lists and offers!
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2024.05.18 23:34 Thevitaminji Want to get a degree to continue to grow- does the degree matter for PMs?

Curious on people's opinion- I'm currently an Associate Tech PM at a non-sw company (but still tech moreso hardware, almost everyone knows this company), but I don't have a degree right now and I want to make sure that I continue to grow in my career.
I want to continue to grow as a PM and I'm thinking that if I'm looking for promo/job hopping, I should get a degree. Do you guys think it would be best if i did a CS degree, or should I just try to get something to try to check a box? I almost finished my chemistry degree from a few years ago, but I left school because I decided to leave the pre-med track and I had no intention on using Chemistry in my future job. In hindsight I should have just finished the Chem degree back then but it's water under the bridge at this point.
I saw that WGU has a program for IT Management in their business school, and after reading through the content of the degree and taking a few practice exams, I'm pretty confident that I could finish this degree relatively quickly if I'm just looking to get a degree.
I do have coding job exp, but I don't want to be a SWE, I like it as a PM much better :)
I'm probably going to either look to do a Master's in CS or an MBA later in life, but one step at at time right? I do want to make the right decision right now though so that I don't close any doors for myself later.
Thank you!!!
Edit: I do want to stay in Tech in some capacity.
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2024.05.18 23:34 Memespoonerer Covering the (composite) scarlet king.

the scarlet king is an elder god who predates most beings in the omniverse he is said to be greater than his brothers and sisters
As an elder god he has no origin and came out of non-existent itself along with creating the concept of division giving him non-existent existence, conceptual manipulation, and beyond causality.
The scarlet king is also a concept entity.
In the tale the thing at the bottom of my dreams
The scarlet king and the cosmic starfish fought leading to the noosphere to turn inside out
Giving conceptual manipulation and conceptual existence.
The scarlet king is the aspect of the crimson demon who embodies all negative plot points in stories. The scarlet king is also an aspect of 2747 and embodies all villain tropes
The scarlet king also acted as a counter to two narrative forces
H.I pickmins proposal is narrative causality
the patasphere narrative causality as it defines how stories go and is also called the universal narrative
The universal narrative is the infinitely complicated story that reality imitates
this exists in all timelines
Patasphere is the set of all possible narratives in a timeline
Another example of this is the phantom bubble model
the scarlet demon reduced multiple phantom bubbles to ash by just moving
fought unity which embodies all laws in a narrative
These hypercanon structures contain every canon in scp, contains all storylines and cosmological models, and does it to an infinite recursive degree
As an aspect of 2747 it would also have the immunity of one being a hard coded aspect of reality
This gives him plot manipulation, plot immunity, omniscient and omnipresent across all impossible outcomes.
As a god he is above the whole of the multiverses
there are infinite universes With infinite layers of existence and transfinite expansion and transfinite dimensions With reality having infinite universes inside universes with whole universes inside of atoms
The multiverses are then put into clusters that grow in size
There are infinite metaverses which contain infinite multiverses
beyond this resides non reality that is bigger then all of that
Then all of this resides in an infinite chain of multiverses which transcend the last in all ways and has new theories and ideas.
This endless multiverses runs on all theories and philosophy and is stacked in all ways with one final reality at the end of it all that arranges every already said in all ways](https://imgur.com/a/SyIRsq9)
All of this is within the noosphere
which is just yesod
The giants that forged yesod [are nothing to the elder gods which the scarlet king is the strongest of them](thttps://imgur.com/a/AZhEJxQ)
This gives him massive Hyperdimensional size.
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2024.05.18 23:33 Inevitable_Till_6507 Conflicted between full code vs no code

Hello Folks,
I'm finally taking the plunge to bring my idea to life. I'm torn between using no-code platform or going the traditional coding route. We are two of us (one technical) but we might end up hiring a front end Dev if we go with full code route.
I'm building a niche job board platform with two distinct user types:
Professionals: They'll sign up, showcase their entire career journey, and gain access to a curated job board filled with exceptional opportunities. Initially, I'll personally verify each candidate to establish credibility. Eventually, I plan to offer a paid verification service if the platform takes off. It is a very curated pool of candidate in a very niche industry that I am closely connected to.
Hiring Companies: These corporations will sign up to access the pool of verified candidates, browse their comprehensive profiles, and even post job listings tailored to their specific needs.
The platform needs to accommodate around 200 to 10,000 professionals and roughly 1,000 hiring companies.
Should I go with tools like Webflow or Bubble,or noodle or is traditional coding the way to go? I'm concerned about the potential costs associated with no-code platforms.
I'd love to hear your insights, recommendations, and experiences. What should I expect in terms of cost and timeline to build if I hire overseas Dev ( we will closely monitor code quality)?
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2024.05.18 23:33 Here4DaPorno Exporting Load Order

Good Loredas!
I would like to have the experts here review my load order. I’m sure there are many things that could be altered for the better and I’d like to have the benefit of your expertise.
Is there a way to export your load order from Bethesda net to a CSV or other file for posting as a list? I can write down the individual mods one by one, but I feel like there should be a simpler method for it.
I did a search in the subreddit but didn’t find that particular answer anywhere. If someone could point me in the right direction, I’d appreciate it.
Thank you. May the gods watch over your battles, friend!
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2024.05.18 23:31 notyourstargirl TA gives us rubric, and knocks points off for things not listed in the rubric

has anyone had a similar experience before? currently in a class where a TA gives a super vague instruction sheet for our assignments, and a small word count (like 700 words including titles we can’t change etc.) for the past two assignments i’ve followed the rubric pretty close to the T, and each time, the TA is knocking me off points for things that she never listed in it.
example: instructions ask us to define what the policy is for a country. (these are the only instructions) - so i list what the policy is for the country, but then the ta takes points off because i didn’t talk about the budget of the policy.
our final is during week 10; wanted to know if anyone has had similar experiences and how they approached it. is it worth going to the prof and complaining but risk retaliation? has anyone had any success stories, or do TAs have the right to grade so subjectively like this?
any advice is appreciated!
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2024.05.18 23:31 Endauphin FreshTomato 2024.2 Released

2024.2 2024.05.19
SDK: nand: Adjust/fix Winbond manufacturer ID SDK: small update for Broadcom 53xx RoboSwitch device driver SDK: bcmrobo.c: simplify Switch Register Access Bridge Registers SRAB_ENAB() SDK6: update PCI-Express driver kernel: mtd: nand: add Macronix manufacturer kernel: mtd: nand: Add Winbond manufacturer toolchain: refresh toolchain on Debian 12 with newer version of gmp, m4 and mpfr zlib: update to 1.3.1 libcurl: update to 8.7.1 libpng: update to 1.6.43 libxml2: update to 2.12.6 tinc: update to d9e42fa (2024-04-07) snapshot dnsmasq: update to b8ff4bb (2024-02-22) snapshot expat: update to 2.6.2 busybox: updates from the upstream spawn-fcgi: update to 1.6.5 php: update to 8.3.6 nginx: update to 1.26.0 meson: update to 1.4.0 libffi: update to 3.4.6 openvpn: update to 2.6.10 tor: update to 0.4.7.16 - the last one that actually compiles on our ancient toolset sqlite: update to 3.45.3 irqbalance: update to 1.9.4 gettext-tiny: update to 86d9b99 (2024-01-21) snapshot miniupnpd: update to 2.3.6 dropbear: update to 2024.85 libcap-ng: update to 0.8.5 libsodium: update to latest 1.0.19-stable util-linux: update to 2.39.4 build: add Netgear EX7000 support [WIP] build: Makefile: use libzip for php compilation build: Makefile: tune libcurl recipe (remove not used stuff - smaller size) build: Makefile: tune apcupsd recipe (smaller size) build: Makefile: mysql: at last build it with system zlib; do not waste time for mysql-test, support-files, sql-bench and man subdirs build: Makefile: minidlna: disable NLS support build: Makefile: clean more targets before every compilation build: Makefile: util-linux: disable nls build: switch to php-8.3.1 build: add pcre2-10.37 to the tree build: update glib to 2.74.7 with openwrt patches; add/change recipes; integrate updated/added glib and pcre2 build: add haveged-1.9.18 to the tree build: implement haveged build: add TOR again to the o (Custom) target build: Update Dockerfile to Debian 12 GUI: Administration: Admin Access: exclude ports 80 and 443 for remote GUI access for security reasons GUI: Administration: Admin Access: fix preparing url of redirect page in case of remote connection GUI: admin-access.asp - Add option to enable/disable httpd listening on IPv6 and VLAN interfaces GUI: basic-network.asp - fix saving in case wl radio order is not ascending (ex. normal order wl0, wl1, wl2, ... ) GUI: tools-survey.asp - fix Wireless Site Survey if SSID contains a single quote (fix #323) GUI: VPN: OpenVPN Client: add note about strict Kill Switch GUI: Status: Overview: fix Watchdog status display GUI: USB and NAS: Media Server: fix behaviour of the LAN boxes busybox: always add flock applet DHCPC: optionally prevent classless routes. Since this is used for iptv it cannot be disabled by default; recommended to turn it off when not using iptv, see CVE-2024-3661 getdns: fix for broken trust anchor files are silently ignored openssl-1.1: add patches for CVE-2023-5678 and CVE-2024-0727 php8: use php-fpm instead of spawn-fcgi udpxy: Fixed uninitialized source address DDNS: multiWAN aware (fix #65) ddns: increase the number of errors allowed before entering standby from 3 to 10 discobery.sh: supports for any CIDR (no dependency to /24 any more) - network and broadcast IPs are now always excluded from the polling - works when brX IP address is not the first in the subnet httpd: config.c: do not close temp file created by mkstemp before using it httpd: upgrade.c: use mkstemp instead of dangerous mktemp; check for available memory first; correct argument in waitpid(); fix a few other issues httpd: etherstates - detect port info in one sscanf httpd: httpd.c - fix/add IPv6 listeners for MultiLAN setups (do not try to add IPv4 listeners twice) httpd: devlist.c: Loop through dhcp enabled interfaces using BRIDGE_COUNT httpd: wl.c - Add central channel for future updates to the GUI Wireless Survey httpd: wl.c - Add 802.11N+AC BSS capabilities for future updates to the GUI Wireless Survey mdu: in case of curl, also use a while loop to use more than one IP checker during a failed host check mdu: use getaddrinfo instead of the deprecated gethostbyname when building without libcurl mdu: also test for IP change if "Force next update" is checked mdu: support special case, when ifname is set to 'none' or proto is 'disabled' - use default WAN mdu: remove ieserver.net from the list of available services (down) mdu: remove DyNS from the list of available services (down) nvram: fix behavior of 'convert' option ntpd: try to monitor and restart it when it dies or doesn't start at all others: sysinfo: fix WL adapter name for 3rd wireless others: improve cru locking to prevent concurrent updates others: switch4: fix PIN status recognition on some modems others: switch4g: correct checking of CPIN status others: switch3g: fix PIN checker patches: nginx: fix little endian recognition, solve other issues rc: always enable 3G modem support and remove that option from the GUI rc: arpbind.c: stop_arpbind(): Skip header of /proc/net/arp rc: buttons.c: Limit WLAN button maximum duration to 120 seconds rc: bwlimit.c: refactor code to loop using BRIDGE_COUNT rc: firewall.c: fix remote administration (www/ssh) when DMZ is enabled rc: firewall.c: Use BRIDGE_COUNT to iterate throuh interfaces rc: ftpd.c: close fp before bailing when f fails to open rc: init.c: do not run remove_usb_module() [remove_usb_all_modules() now] on halt/reboot; some changes in order of removed services rc: nfs.c: Also free(buf) when returning on failed fopen rc: nginx.c: always try to kill php-cgi at nginx stop rc: openvpn.c: start_ovpn_client(): Initialize route_mode variable rc: services.c: start_ipv6_tunnel(): Fix undefined behavior in snprintf rc: services.s: use get_wanface() to properly check WAN ifaces in generate_mdns_config() rc: services.c: block Apple private relay rc: tor.c: refactor code to loop using BRIDGE_COUNT rc: usb.c: do not run remove_usb_modem_modules() by default - it may cause kernel panic (at least on MIPS RT-AC), enable it by setting 'remove_modem_modules' nvram variable rc: wan.c: restart DDNS not only on primary WAN rom: update CA bundle to 2024-03-11 www: advanced-vlan.asp: wipe out relevant fields for inactive or just disabled WAN - needed in various places for the proper operation of FW www: advanced-vlan.asp: after editing, just reset mwan_num to 1 to avoid problems www: adminer.php: fix error message "Trying to access array offset on null" on php 8 www: basic-time.asp: Show ntp info www: qos-{ctrate,qos-detailed}: Additional filter options www: tools-survey.asp - v1.01 - 11/05/24 - rs232 Asus RT-AC5300: allow to disable/shut down broken wireless radios 
Full changelog: https://bitbucket.org/pedro311/freshtomato-arm/src/arm-masteCHANGELOG
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2024.05.18 23:31 Puzzled_Spot_2057 Supplemental Claims

For those that are doing supplemental claims.
I got out in 2022. Couldn’t make my appointment which I told the VA. They obviously went ahead and said I was a no show and failed to report to appointments that I canceled & made a decision 2 months later.
Since 2022, I have not been seen by any doctors due to personal factors and money at the time. Fast forward to now, I recently reopened some of the claims that were denied May of this year. May 6 I think to be exact.
I submitted separate statements in support of those claims and got called by the VA to schedule my c&p exams today May 18.
Just cause you haven’t been seen with a valid reason, doesn’t mean you can’t reopen claims and get seen for them. If you have claims that are older than a year and you have no new evidence from doctors or no evidence at all, you can still refile that claim.
My statement of support consisted of the 4138 form and Microsoft word statements.
For the Microsoft word statements, i started off with what I was reopening, and stated the reasons why I couldn’t make my appointments at the time they were scheduled and stated that because I didn’t make the appointment and have not been seen by any medical professionals that it doesn’t mean that I don’t have current symptoms of X, Y & Z.
I then when into my periods of service, detailing all of the duties that I’ve performed that played a part into the claim that I reopened.
I listed my current symptoms, how frequent and flare ups as well as gave some examples of how it affects my work life, personal and social life.
I added a section of what helps temporarily alleviate the pain, or symptoms that is causing the issue at hand.
Added the I certify verbiage, printed it off and signed it. Then I scanned it to myself and uploaded the statement in the supplemental claim section on va.gov and also added some other statements via quick submit.
Timeline so far May 6- submitted multiple statements only May 18 - QTC called to schedule appointments
I also have an ITF from December.
Hopes this helps someone to get up and refile for whatever claims they deserve or would like to be reevaluated for a fair chance to explain and get seen for no cost.
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2024.05.18 23:30 Skelptr Is my realtor malicious and/or incompetent??

An alternative title for this is: Should I ever offer more without any knowledge of competing bids? OR Can someone explain to me about this automated offering system my realtor seems to be working with?
Anyway, here is my story:
Working with some realtor Zillow gave me. I know not the best, but he seemed okay during the tour. I wanted to make a fast offer on this foreclosed property (being sold by a bank) with asking price of $210k, and working with him just seemed the best way to do it.
I told him I'd like to offer $200k and see where things would go. So we make the offer. I expect the sellers to come back with a counter offer. This is on day 6 of the listing.
The next day we don't hear back from sellers. However, the realtor he mentions off-hand how the sellers are taking offers for the first week, then picking from the best or something? With this knowledge, I mention being concerned about my offer being weak, and maybe I should increase it. I REALLY like this place, and 210k seems well below what it's worth. I don't want to lose it.
My realtor states: "Nah, your offer is good. There's going to be people offering $100k. You have nothing to worry about."
Since this was day 7, the final day, I convince him to increase my offer to $206k. He says "Okay, but your pre-qualification is for 200k, can you afford that?"
I tell him I've been pre-qualified for $220k+, I just ask my lender for pre-qualifications that match the offer I'm making so my hand isn't tipped with the seller.
After I say this, my realtor says "Well... if you're going $206k, might as well make them happy and match their 210k asking price."
This seemed weird... especially since earlier he seemed to treat $200k as totally acceptable.
I sign the $206k offer and we send it off. Then about 30 minutes he comes back to me and says, "The website counter-offered for asking price ($210k), so it's just a matter of who has been countered this asking price, and how many people offered above this price."
At this point I'm confused. I asked a bit more and apparently the bank thats selling the property is using an automated system to accept offers. I'm not really sure what to make of this. The realtor is telling me I should offer above asking price... but I haven't even been given confirmation of another offer by someone else existing? How do I even know if I'm being out-bid?
I ask my realtor if we would be given an opportunity to outbid another offer if there's one better than ours, and all he says is "If they see an offer they like, there's a chance they'll go with it."
So I'm sitting here wondering if I should offer more. I say 212k, and my realtor says I should do more. I say 215k, and he's like: "for every 1k, it's only a couple dollars a month. You should go higher. I'd say what would be the best offer you would be able to offer them and to offer that" (Those statements are copied from our texts exactly)
Finally I say, "I don't understand, they gave us a counter offer at asking price. Can't we just accept the counter offer and then everything's set?"
He says (forbeitum): "We won't know until the offer is either accepted or rejected. The next offer is probably going to be the last offer we submit because it says "Highest and Best" above our offer"
I ask him what he means and he says: "It won't let me change the offer type from highest and best when I was clicking on it. That made me realize this is probably the last offer we are going to submit before they decide"
So I sign on an offer for $215k.
Once again, it feels weird since he seemed fine with $200k earlier, but now keeps pushing me to offer as much as I can now that he knows I can offer more.
Anyway, the day ends.
And there's nothing.
The next day, day 8 since the listing goes by.... no response.
It's now nearly the end of day 9. The property is still listed for sale everywhere with no changes.
My offer has technically expired, and I'm wondering what to do. According to the realtor, there has been no response from the sellers.
"Good morning. No there are no updates at this time. I keep checking in to see if anything has changed"
I ask: "Are things usually this non-communicative when it comes to buying from banks? Seems weird to have no response at all."
He says: "It's not a normal offer"
Wtf does that mean?? I asked him to clarify and he never responded.
I want my realtor to be communicating with a real person, but it seems like all they can do is interact with a machine? Is this normal? What's the strategy here?
I haven't signed anything exclusive with this realtor, besides the expired offers. Should I quickly find someone else to make an offer with? Should I tell them my situation and ask them to force communication with a human?
Is my realtor genuine? I still don't understand the counter offer thing with the automated offer system and why I should be offering more than that. Any guidance would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!!
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2024.05.18 23:27 SaladAss315 [PS4 Price Check] is this any good?

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2024.05.18 23:27 LongjumpingSock4375 $2500 CAD pc for gaming

Hi everyone! My current pc is about a decade old now and struggling hard with newer AAA games, so I figured it's about time to retire it and make a new build.
Is this a brand new build, or an upgrade to an existing build?
Please list any existing parts or monitor(s) you have that you would like to re-use with this build. For upgrades, a PCPartPicker list of your full build is extremely helpful. Be as specific as you can be here, including links or exact model numbers of each component whenever possible.
What will this PC be used for? Examples include things like gaming, general/multimedia use, photo/video editing, coding, AI/ML, etc. Include specific games and applications you intend to run, and any particular performance goals you have, as each may have different specific hardware needs.
What country will you be purchasing in? If you are in the US, do you live near a Micro Center? For other countries, please check if your country is supported by PCPartPicker by using the country selector dropdown on the top right - if not, please provide some links to reliable local vendors you are comfortable ordering from.
Do you need one or more monitors included in the budget? Please list how many and any size/resolution/refresh rate preferences if needed.
What is your preferred and maximum budget range for this build, in local currency? Parts lists may sometimes have additional shipping costs. Please note whether prices in your country include sales tax or not, and adjust your budget accordingly. Typically VAT countries will have it included in the part list prices, whereas regular sales tax countries like the US and Canada will not.
Do you need WiFi, or do you have a wired ethernet connection available?
Do you have any specific size or noise requirements for the build?
Do you have any aesthetic preferences for color or lighting? Describe what you're looking for, or feel free to provide some links to examples that may help. Some people prefer an inobtrusive stealth build, while others may prefer a case full of rainbow RGB.
Any other specific requests or requirements? Examples might include a specific minimum amount of storage, or a particular CPU socket for a future upgrade path, etc.
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2024.05.18 23:27 jxr232 CRHers Map (May 18, 2024)

CRHers Map (May 18, 2024)
It's been 2.5 months since I last posted it, and someone asked about the CRHers Map, so I figured I'd post it again with a few more data points of coin roll hunters added.
If you're interested in being part of the next update, please DM me your ZIP CODE and I'll try to get a fresh update out by the end of the month with any new folks that want added.
If you like what I do, please give this post an upvote, and feel free to give me a follow at u/jxr232. My page is dedicated to the Half Dollars hunt.
Happy Hunting, and Silver to you!
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2024.05.18 23:25 incyweb Ten tips from futurist Kevin Kelly

Kevin Kelly is a forward thinker, speaker and author. He founded Wired magazine and writes with great insight. Six years ago he turned 68. For each year of his life, he gifted a piece of advice to his children; things he wished he had known at their age. Each year since, on his birthday, he has added to that initial list. Below are ten pieces of advice from Kevin’s 74th birthday update, relating to happiness, habits and progress.

Happiness

1.Where you live (what city, what country) has more impact on your well-being than any other factor. Where you live is one of the few things in your life you can choose and change. In my biased option, Bath is a beautiful city. It’s been my home for the last 30 years and brings me great joy.
  1. The highest form of wealth is deciding you have enough. My instinct is to believe that if I had more money, I’d be happier. However, those richer and wiser than me have persuaded me otherwise.
  2. You’ll never meet a very successful pessimistic person. If you want to be remarkable, get better at being optimistic. I can choose how I interpret the world. I chose to be optimistic with a dose of realism.
  3. Asking “what-if?” about your past is a waste of time; asking “what-if?” about your future is tremendously productive. I can’t change the past, but I can influence the future.

Habits

  1. What is important is seldom urgent and what is urgent is seldom important. To get the important stuff done, avoid the demands of the urgent. I try to ensure that activities with longer term benefits are addressed.
  2. If you are out of ideas, go for a walk. A good walk empties the mind and then refills it with new stuff. My daily walk gives me space to think and reflect. A life changer for me.
  3. You have 5 minutes to act on a new idea before it disappears from your mind. If I have an idea, I note it down in my mobile notes app.

Progress

  1. The best way to criticise something is to make something better. I love building things and seeing others use them.
  2. The more persistent you are, the more chances you get to be lucky. I find the concept of increasing one’s luck surface area to be an enpowering idea. I try to position myself to take advantage of lucky breaks.
  3. Decisions like to present themselves as irreversible, like a one-way door. But most deciding points are two-way. Don’t get bogged down by decisions. You can usually back up if needed. Few things in life are permanent. While hard to comprehend, this reality is liberating.

Other resources

Kevin Kelly Advice for Geeks (and others) post by Phil Martin
How 3 Books Rewired my Brain post by Phil Martin
I agree with Kevin Kelly when he suggests, Your behaviour, not your opinions, will change the world.
Have fun.
Phil…
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2024.05.18 23:25 Aiming4Gaming0 30 GREATEST Changes In V Rising 1.0 Release You Might Have Missed

30 GREATEST Changes In V Rising 1.0 Release You Might Have Missed
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V Rising 1.0 release has brought a lot of new awesome stuff. That’s why I’ve prepared 30 most important changes that might interest you, short and simple.
This is Aiming4Gaming, and today we're aiming for a feature checking!

TL;DR

I know that some people prefer watching videos over reading text guides. If you're one of them, here's a video version of this guide where I describe each new feature in action.
If you prefer text guides, it's right below!

The guide

  1. First and foremost, if you ever thought the difficulty was too easy, try out the new Brutal mode. Bosses here have bigger health pools, higher levels, and deal more damage, which I personally dislike. However, every boss now has a new move and an adjusted AI. I swear you'll never forget the Vincent fight!
  2. If you were struggling with initial resource farming, it has been tweaked. You will get much more wood and stone from a single node, allowing you to get to battles faster, especially if you drink worker blood!
  3. Horses also got a small yet important change: they now consume easily obtainable fiber instead of waterskins, making it easier to manage mounts early on.
  4. Speaking of consumables, they now last 60 minutes. Less crafting is always better, right?
  5. Another important Quality of Life addition is that after you consume a potion, you will not consume the bottle itself. Even less crafting, yay!
  6. Now you can build advanced stations. These process items faster than normal ones, have more inventory space, and more recipes. You can unlock them by defeating specific V Blood enemies.
  7. A new era of storage has arrived with both small and large storage for literally everything, from scrolls to fish. Place these next to your stations or build a storage room for all resources at once.
  8. This feature shines even more with the addition of hotkeys that allow you to sort your inventory or quickly transfer everything by simply pressing the "E" key.
  9. Another huge addition is inventory highlighting. It's so much easier now to see what can be transferred to a specific storage or what you can add to an existing stack!
  10. A new source of valuables now travels around the map in the form of traveling carts. These are guarded by several soldiers but are totally worth it. Carts come in different variants and follow the same routes, so you can farm them from time to time.
  11. The new zone awaits for an infinite challenge. It does not have any base plots but offers world events instead. These events require you to beat two spots with enemies and one boss fight, which come in two difficulties and reward you with powerful weapons, jewels, and shards.
  12. Speaking of shards, this is a new currency which you can spend on weapons, summon enemies in the new summoning circle, or unlock passive buffs.
  13. There are 18 passive buffs, all unlockable once you defeat General Elena the Hollow and build an Altar of Stygian Awakening. Each buff is permanent, but the cost is a lot of shards from the new zone. I recommend the passive that boosts damage against V Blood enemies by 10%!
  14. New forged items progression makes your weapons much more viable. You can enhance your favorite ancestral weapon with various regular weapons and increase its level by 3 up to 26.
  15. For those seeking rare gear and weapons, V Rising offers 12 new legendary weapons with unique effects and solid stats. These can be dropped by high-level bosses or occasionally appear instead of purple weapons when you buy them for 1500 greater shards. These look really cool!
  16. If you want a new battle experience, try out two new weapons: a longbow and a whip. I'm currently running with a longbow on Brutal and it's amazing!
  17. The old magic progression was kind of awkward and limited, so now you can choose your own path by getting spell points and spending them as you wish. You can always reset your choice for free at the Altar of Recollection.
  18. To make your build even more flexible, check out the new sets of armor. They cover different passives and will supplement your playstyle.
  19. If you like a specific piece of gear, you can keep it in your fashion slot regardless of what you wear. And definitely try recoloring your gear!
  20. Spells heavily rely on jewels, which grant some awesome effects. The new tier 4 with 4 effects means even more power for your favorite setup.
  21. To spice it up even more, the game offers a new blood type: Draculin. This is particularly great in the new zone where you might want to bite more enemies.
  22. If you're a fan of shapeshifting, the new spider form will please you. Try hiding underground for a surprise attack without fear of the sun! Nice!
  23. If you remember bags from Gloomrot, forget about them. Now you can craft and equip only one bag at a time. The better the bag, the more it offers! More storage slots, more silver to carry, and even more resource yield! Awesome!
  24. Soul Shards were also reworked in the latest update. You cannot keep them indefinitely anymore, as they decay over time. To restore them, you must farm the new area.
  25. V Bloods have undergone a rework in terms of rewards to reflect new stations, spell points, and craftables.
  26. To make your battles more controllable, the devs have added new aim assist.
  27. New bosses were added as well, including the mighty Dracula himself. I won't spoil the fight, but be prepared for the toughest battle you’ve ever seen in V Rising!
  28. All veils now have a leech effect to balance them out. The difference will be in additional effects and jewel features.
  29. Dying now reduces your blood pool by 10 percent instead of losing your precious blood completely. This is a huge change and a must for Brutal mode, where you will die a lot!
  30. And finally, a couple of achievements! I love them! They give you a decent goal to achieve, nice!

Conclusion

I hope with this guide you have achieved what you were aiming for today!
Also, here's the list with all my guides for reference:
  1. 30 GREATEST Changes In V Rising 1.0 Release You Might Have Missed
  2. 27 BEST Base Locations in V Rising 1.0 Release
  3. 5 Tips To Get the BEST Start in V Rising 1.0 In 60 Seconds
  4. 5 Reasons To LOVE Bear Form In V Rising
  5. Top 10 V Rising Tips in 1 Minute
  6. 40 ADVANCED Tips in V Rising (2023)
  7. 15 BEST Base Locations in V Rising (2023)
  8. How To Farm ALL Resources in V Rising (2023)
Anyway, thank you for reading up to this point, and see you later! 🌟
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2024.05.18 23:22 incyweb Ten tips from futurist Kevin Kelly

Kevin Kelly is a forward thinker, speaker and author. He founded Wired magazine and writes with great insight. Six years ago he turned 68. For each year of his life, he gifted a piece of advice to his children; things he wished he had known at their age. Each year since, on his birthday, he has added to that initial list. Below are ten pieces of advice from Kevin’s 74th birthday update, relating to happiness, habits and progress.

Happiness

1.Where you live (what city, what country) has more impact on your well-being than any other factor. Where you live is one of the few things in your life you can choose and change. In my biased option, Bath is a beautiful city. It’s been my home for the last 30 years and brings me great joy.
  1. The highest form of wealth is deciding you have enough. My instinct is to believe that if I had more money, I’d be happier. However, those richer and wiser than me have persuaded me otherwise.
  2. You’ll never meet a very successful pessimistic person. If you want to be remarkable, get better at being optimistic. I can choose how I interpret the world. I chose to be optimistic with a dose of realism.
  3. Asking “what-if?” about your past is a waste of time; asking “what-if?” about your future is tremendously productive. I can’t change the past, but I can influence the future.

Habits

  1. What is important is seldom urgent and what is urgent is seldom important. To get the important stuff done, avoid the demands of the urgent. I try to ensure that activities with longer term benefits are addressed.
  2. If you are out of ideas, go for a walk. A good walk empties the mind and then refills it with new stuff. My daily walk gives me space to think and reflect. A life changer for me.
  3. You have 5 minutes to act on a new idea before it disappears from your mind. If I have an idea, I note it down in my mobile notes app.

Progress

  1. The best way to criticise something is to make something better. I love building things and seeing others use them.
  2. The more persistent you are, the more chances you get to be lucky. I find the concept of increasing one’s luck surface area to be an enpowering idea. I try to position myself to take advantage of lucky breaks.
  3. Decisions like to present themselves as irreversible, like a one-way door. But most deciding points are two-way. Don’t get bogged down by decisions. You can usually back up if needed. Few things in life are permanent. While hard to comprehend, this reality is liberating.

Other resources

Kevin Kelly Advice for Geeks (and others) post by Phil Martin
How 3 Books Rewired my Brain post by Phil Martin
I agree with Kevin Kelly when he suggests, Your behaviour, not your opinions, will change the world.
Have fun.
Phil…
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2024.05.18 23:21 Cold-Cut-9760 Anyone learning SQL with ChatGPT ? If so, maybe you could help me !

Hi everyone, recently, I have been using GPT-4 a lot to improve my level in SQL, more precisely in terms of querying an existent database, not in creating database from scratch or architecturing it.
Indeed, this gem is very good for generating exercises to push my limits and improve my querying level.
However, recently I haven't been able to find the perfect prompt to encourage GPT to provide me with exercises related to what I'm asking for.
It's mind blowing how he struggles to deliver exactly what I want and he seems to be missing the point.
What I want ChatGPT to do is give me an exercise every time I ask for it. This exercise should push me to use the different functions, clauses, joins, mathematical operations, that is to say everything that is possible to query using SQL. To put it simply, I must be able to provide a complete report, around a single theme, where each step or instruction leads naturally to a next one and this for each exercise with a completely different situation from the previous one.
Obviously, I don't want it to force me to use all the principles at the same time in a single query to answer the exercise. I prefer that he pushes me to use a few at the same time.
Here is examples of typical exercise that I would like to solve and which I thought about 30 minutes ago :
Example 1 :
1.Calculate the turnover of companies for each region. 2.Identify regions that generated over 2 million in revenue. 3.List the top-revenue-generating company within each region that generated over 2 million in revenue. 4.Highlight the highest revenue-generating sale for each of the top company by region that generated over 2 million in revenue. 
Example 2 :
1.Gather all book sales that occurred in the last 3 months. 2.Calculate the number of sales for each book within this 3-month period and sort the results by the highest sales count. 3.Determine the total revenue generated by each book from the sales made in the last 3 months. 4.Filter out books that contributed less than 20% of the total revenue. 5.Identify the book with the highest sales count in the last 3 months. Identify the book that generated the most revenue in the last 3 months. Identify the book with the least sale count in the last three months. 
Example 3 :
1.Return the unique IDs and addresses for all stores controlled by our video game company. 2. Return the quantity of each video game in stock for each store. 3. Calculate the actual stock for each video game based on the sales that occurred in each store. 4.Identify videogames with stocks below the safety stock (threshold). 5.Identify stores that have more than three items below the safety stock. 6.Identify stores that have between 3 and 5 items below the threshold as "Not a priority", between 6 and 9 items as "Priority", between 10 and 13 as "Critic", and more than 14 as "Maximum priority"
As you can see, these types of exercises would push me to use as many SQL functions and clauses as possible while at the same time practicing with joins and CTE. When I ask ChatGPT to do these kind of exercices, it goes insane and send me the same exercice with one or two minor differences and keep giving the same type of exercices with a slightly different situation.
I don't wanna give up but it's almost as if I won't find the good prompt that would allow ChatGPT to give me these kind of exercices around a unique theme, a unique situation that would push me to generate a large report based on logical and linked instructions. Because when I ask GPT to give me exercises to train, here is how it looks :
Example of SQL exercise gave by ChatGPT
What it does is separate the instructions, and there is little link between them. It feels strange, and I can't see how it will help me train CTE and have a better grasp of JOINS. This is not the type of exercise and directions I am looking for. I'm not sure how to explain it, but I'm hoping someone would understand. I am confident that if I could create an appropriate prompt, it would provide me with the activities I am looking for.
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2024.05.18 23:21 incyweb Ten tips from futurist Kevin Kelly

Kevin Kelly is a forward thinker, speaker and author. He founded Wired magazine and writes with great insight. Six years ago he turned 68. For each year of his life, he gifted a piece of advice to his children; things he wished he had known at their age. Each year since, on his birthday, he has added to that initial list. Below are ten pieces of advice from Kevin’s 74th birthday update, relating to happiness, habits and progress.

Happiness

1.Where you live (what city, what country) has more impact on your well-being than any other factor. Where you live is one of the few things in your life you can choose and change. In my biased option, Bath is a beautiful city. It’s been my home for the last 30 years and brings me great joy.
2.The highest form of wealth is deciding you have enough. My instinct is to believe that if I had more money, I’d be happier. However, those richer and wiser than me have persuaded me otherwise.
  1. You’ll never meet a very successful pessimistic person. If you want to be remarkable, get better at being optimistic. I can choose how I interpret the world. I chose to be optimistic with a dose of realism.
4.Asking “what-if?” about your past is a waste of time; asking “what-if?” about your future is tremendously productive. I can’t change the past, but I can influence the future.

Habits

  1. What is important is seldom urgent and what is urgent is seldom important. To get the important stuff done, avoid the demands of the urgent. I try to ensure that activities with longer term benefits are addressed.
  2. If you are out of ideas, go for a walk. A good walk empties the mind and then refills it with new stuff. My daily walk gives me space to think and reflect. A life changer for me.
  3. You have 5 minutes to act on a new idea before it disappears from your mind. If I have an idea, I note it down in my mobile notes app.

Progress

  1. The best way to criticise something is to make something better. I love building things and seeing others use them.
  2. The more persistent you are, the more chances you get to be lucky. I find the concept of increasing one’s luck surface area to be an empowering idea. I try to position myself to take advantage of lucky breaks.
  3. Decisions like to present themselves as irreversible, like a one-way door. But most deciding points are two-way. Don’t get bogged down by decisions. You can usually back up if needed. Few things in life are permanent. While hard to comprehend, this reality is liberating.

Other resources

Kevin Kelly Advice for Geeks (and others) post by Phil Martin
How 3 Books Rewired my Brain post by Phil Martin
I agree with Kevin Kelly when he suggests, Your behaviour, not your opinions, will change the world.
Have fun.
Phil…
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2024.05.18 23:21 ashbowie_ How do you think about the marauders trend?

Hi
Everyone who uses TikTok will probably know about it:
„All the young dudes“ is a Marauders fanfiction, a prequel of Harry potter which is about Harry‘s Father, Sirius Black (hps godfather), Remus Lupin (his teacher) and Peter Pettigrew (a villain) and how they grew up together. It’s a lot of gayromance and they are queen and David Bowie fans, so there is a lot of references.
Since this is trending, in the comments of every David Bowie or Queen edit are tons of people saying „this is so atyd coded“, „remus would love it“, etc. and at thus point IT‘S SO ANNOYING YING TO ME. Why can’t I enjoy music and talk with other fans without seeing all those comments about how xy coded this is?
Anyone who relates?
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2024.05.18 23:20 No_Resolve6877 Pregnant GF [20/F] won’t contribute and [20/M] having to take everything on. What should I do?

Sorry if this is long but plz read the full story⭐️
⭐️Pregnancy⭐️
I’ve been seeing this girl for 9 months, and she’s 4 months pregnant (but we knew eachother for 4 years but didn’t know her all to well before) I have my own place, go to school full time, in a coding boot camp, and taking certificates to get better experience for ML(Machine learning) while also providing all the income for us.
⭐️Before pregnancy⭐️
Flashback to 12 months ago I was in the marine corp for 2 years and had to cut my time short due to adhd/ptsd after losing my dream job that I graudated highscool early for I went through a month of extreme depression. After 3 counselors I got better . I was still actively working right after the military for planning ahead and then lost my tech after 4 months job due to the whole company going under. The next day I found out she was pregnant. I believe she should have the choice since it’s her body /and she choose to keep the baby.
⭐️The problem⭐️
The 1st problem was she didn’t want to work and doesn’t have her license that I pushed her to do but can’t do it herself. I have been nice about it I’ve made whole google docs and videos of motivation, applied for jobs for her, let her use my car to learn to drive, been with her to do it, but still doesn’t want to do anything so I gave up after months and months on trying. A counselor would help but her mom doesn’t believe in that so brings in her mind there no point of getting better. She very shy and has anxiety about it and I do feel very bad but I do to still have anxiety to we’re my legs tremble and hands and feet sweat 24/7 near anyone. She adores her mom more than anyone in the world but her mom is a pill popper who hasn’t worked for over 20 years and even refused to work when they were all on the streets. I took her brother and my girlfriend to Disneyland and mind you spent over of all of the money I earned from the military from the gifts, vacations places, and food because she has never seen any of this before. I knew they would never have the opportunity see it and deserved to because her dad was not on the picture so they were just living off the government. So what I did was work to make enough money and do my college and extra certificates and experience on top networking to land a good job)
⭐️Uncle⭐️
after one month of this her uncle turned homeless and started living with them REMIND YOU her uncle . ( he attempted to s/a her as a kid) but didn’t succeed. He’s says he all Jesus and all that but u can see right through him that’s just words no action. I believe to respect ur adults and the elderly my manners are how I was raised by……………. But this flipped a switch that never was there. Her mom not doing anything and me knowing things she could do to get rid of him ( I even paid her 2,000 dollars) to get rid of him and nobody did anything and that was when she was pregnant) my girlfriend said she was fine about it and she not much afraid of him and started resenting me because how I felt about her mom and I kept dropping it but I couldn’t stand knowing he was there alone with her some days) So I went to online college and then saved up money to get an apartment to be away from him and did it mind you during this whole thing my main focus was that and getting all my certificates and more experience to be a software engineer but she was still getting mad at me because how I felt about her mother.That I was getting in college that I was also actively going to everyday but started to doing online classes because I didn’t feel safe with her being alone her uncle being there. A month goes by and the uncle TALKS ABOUT HER BOOBS INFRONT OF HER MOM. And I just… idk… the forgiving person that I was trying to see is gone forever after that for her mom….. and yes he is still living there and yes we got the aprartment right after that. But after that she still rensentined me because of how I felt about her mom and now I’m losing feelings for her because of the asking for things knowing I have to take out time for studying to make the money we don’t have but I think I do well doing it tho i like getting her things. I am trying just the money a little tight because I know how much cloud computing can make and all the 3 certificates, and all projects and college im doing but having to pay for the certs. But the way I feel about her mom now ( and I really did try to be so nice I promise and even talked to my counclears about it but that’s just not gonna happen anymore). I loved her so much but the more I think about it , if anything goes bad with money WHICH IS GOING TO HAPPEN she would not even be able to be there for me. (Also I want to say it has never slipped my mind that I would not provide for this child that’s the whole point of doing the college and all that I would rather not but I know what I need to do).
⭐️My day⭐️
I workout two hours a day 6 days a week, study mostly all day and then work when I need to for all the bills and whatever she wants or needs is starting to get to me also I I’m doing some meditation so I can sleep. I’ve tried to spend as much time with her but usually I’m done late and I’m jsut so worn out and then she gets sad becasue I’m tired but I try to take her places every week for the most part and get her food she likes. I feel alone most days and now i would rather watch YouTube or video by myself than with her. And the one time we did take a break which was 2 days she cried all day and her mom said she never left her room, and that’s not right for the baby so I went back to get her. I don’t think she would commit sucicde if we broke up but she says it as a joke but most of the time I can’t take it as a joke( my dad attempted and succeeded when I was 10). But if she did I don’t know how I would live with myself or if her feelings hurt the baby).I’ve read so many books on love and just helpful books but nothing helps much.
(Question⭐️
My question is what should I do?
(Also yes I’m talking to a councilor about this but today was just a little hard.)
(Thank you for all responses have a great rest of your day)❤️.
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2024.05.18 23:19 satelliteenter how much is okay to offer under? and other questions

Hello everyone, FTB here with a few silly questions.
I viewed a property yesterday evening for the 1st time and thinking about putting an offer in. I am very new to this so have a few questions I would like to ask. The estate agent has said that one offer is already in. The house has been up for several months and has already had one sale fall through. I'm thinking about making an offer on the back of just one viewing, but seeking some opinions.
I know the area well, as I used to work close by so not worried about that. Asking price is £265,000 it says on the website it was reduced previously but I'm not sure from what.
1) Is it reasonable to offer under £265k?
The reason for this is I'm happy with the state of the property (as far as I can tell, not any expertise in this area) however I am chain free and have a large deposit (25-30%), I've heard this can give an advantage, especially as they have already had a sale fall through. Several family members have said not to offer the list price and that it is the "done thing" to offer a little bit under (not sure about this). I'm considering to offer 5%-10% under so around £235-250k. I am a serious buyer and don't want to come off like I'm playing games to try and save a bit of money, but on the other hand, I'm feel I'm an attractive buyer and with one sale already falling through moving quicker for a bit less might be in their interest. Is it reasonable to stick in an offer of 235 and expect to negotiate up to 245 (for example).
2) I would like to go with my parents/sister to visit the property. Should I book a second viewing before or after making an offer? How likely will it be that the owner accepts another offer, in the meantime if I request a second viewing immediately, rather than going straight into the offer, and does my chain free status give me any lee-way here?
I'm thinking maybe to just go right in and offer on Monday, but equally I would like to go with my family to get their opinions. I'd also like to have a look at the loft space, which I couldn't do first time around. I wouldn't class this as essential, but something I would like to do, and I think having someone else look is reasonable. The balance I'm trying to strike here is a bit tricky perhaps.
I don't want the seller, or estate agent to doubt my legitimacy by putting in an offer and then asking for a second viewing, would it make the seller worried, like I'm trying to find some faults with the property or something? Equally I don't want to request a second viewing, and then in the meantime the house is taken off the market by the first offer (which the EA has told me is in). I have no idea about this other offer, it could be that the first offer is by someone in a chain, or a worse financial position than myself. This could worry the buyer as the first sale fell through because the buyer could not secure the correct funding.
3) Should I amend my AIP to be closer in value to the property?
Based on my salary, I could probably mortgage around 280k and I have a deposit of up to around 120k. So in theory I could be looking at properties around 350-400k. I'm not because I'd prefer to not go for the max amount and I am happy with this house after my first visit. If the EA sees I can (in theory) afford another 150k on the house price, they might be more likely to want to me to pay more. On the other hand, it can indicate I am more likely to get accepted for a mortgage (which was the sticking point of the sale that fell through).
4) How honest should I be with the EA? And should I wait for him to call me or shall I call him on Monday?
I'm thinking I could just ring him up and ask directly, "look I like the property, I'm chain free with a large deposit, so you can tell the owner I can move quickly, and more likely to be fine getting a mortgage, this should be more comforting to the owner who had a sale fall through before, I would like to do a second viewing and then immediately put an offer in, I'm very interested, but because of those reasons I'd like to offer 240k".
Or is it better to "play the game"?
5) Did I miss anything, general advice anyone can give.
Ultimately I'm very serious and very interested, just trying to get the best price and hopefully my chain free status and decent deposit should make me more attractive.
Thank you so much for reading, and thanks for anyone considering to comment, looking to get some opinions from all the experts here! :)
Good evening all.
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