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2024.05.28 03:27 Flashy_Boat_3817 AITA for cutting off a close friend because he bought a mouse?
I (27m) had a close friend (27m) from a few years back. We're essentially clones. We both do crossfit, we both love video games, we both went to a Catholic school (of which both of us abandoned the teachings shortly after leaving). We both love racing (legally), we both have a job in tech and here's the kicker... We both have the same birthday.
Here's a second kicker, our partners are also clones. They're both taller than us, did Mathematics in uni, and both enjoy dissecting movies and literature and discuss them at length.
I cannot stress this enough, me and him are so similar, and the partners too, that I started to believe that the Sims is real life and this is a case of copy pasting a couple sim. He even said at one point that i meant a lot to him, like a twin brother he never had. I felt the same way, but, I'm just saying, the Sims theory is big if true.
The only difference is, I was in a better socioeconomic status than him when we first met him (at a crossfit gym). When we hung out for the first time, he was complaining about how low he was paid and that he deserved more. He was making ~$40k.
Now, I believe in wage transparency and it sucks that he was making that much. At this point, I knew that he was a driven person and more driven if he had a clear goal to work towards, much like me.
So I told him my life story - I was making $30k when I first started working. After 2 years of job hopping, continuously learning, I ended up at a job as an engineer making $100k. He said "I want that too". I told him that he could do it and shared with him what he needed to do (Upskilling and pivoting).
He took my advice and within a month, he managed to pivot and was then making $60k. He was very happy and I was proud of him. What I found odd, however, was that I didn't feel appreciated because he didn't say thanks.
This thing where I help him out with something but he didn't express his gratitude repeated more. For example, a friend of mine and I sponsored his application to an elite crossfit gym. It's a hard gym to get into and to even start your application, you need to have two sponsors who are also members of the gym. When you apply to this gym, you also need to do a series of tests to prove that you are capable.
I motivated him and helped him get over his mental barrier, because he used to think he's not good enough. He passed the tests and got his membership. He paraded his card around his partner and friends, and I remember following him around both being happy for him and also waiting for that moment where he said thanks. He never did.
We planned a trip together, it was sort of a double date but a few days. We paid for a 2-room Airbnb at a nice location in advance and it was pretty expensive. My partner and I got COVID, and we had to forfeit the trip, but encouraged him and his partner to go. We didn't ask for our share of the booking fee back, we only asked them to enjoy the trip and send us pictures. They only sent two.
We didn't mind all of this because at that point, we still saw them as great friends. But the next series of events was when we started questioning. I'll just list them out because this post is getting pretty long
If you know my partner, you know that when she expresses something, she expresses with her whole heart. This is a moment of vulnerability and trust for her. This had been established to them in a previous conversation. We were all in on the theme park but he said he was broke. So we planned for next month and we were all excited.
Next month came and we asked them again, but they asked to do it the month after because they were broke. We were fine with it, until my partner saw on his Twitter that he bought a Logitech MX Master 3. Now, where we are, an MX Master 3 is more expensive than the price of tickets for TWO at the theme park. We were like wtf we thought he was broke? I was determined to find out more.
After our gym session, I pulled him aside and asked him about his mouse, to see if he had any awareness of the theme park thing. I admit, this was me testing him, it's not great and I need to work on it. Self-reflection aside, he said the mouse is awesome and kept on talking about it without ever mentioning the theme park.
From our perspective, we're cool with him buying the mouse(we both have one and we think it's awesome for productivity) and needing to push the theme park thing back. What was not cool was he didn't give us the heads up nor did it seem like he remembered about the theme park. It sucked more that we found out via Twitter.
He eventually reached out to ask what happened to us after I went low contact. I told him our perspective and that it wasn't cool because we felt blindsided. He apologised but it wasn't good enough to me. This is because he explained that the broke thing is true, and he borrowed money from a friend to buy the mouse. Which is not what this is about. It would've been nice if he said "yeah dude I could've let you know that I bought this mouse so we need to delay the trip or tell you first that I bought this mouse with a friend's money"
I talked to my partner about this at length. We realised a few things:
So Reddit, AITA for cutting a friend off because he bought a mouse?
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Here's a second kicker, our partners are also clones. They're both taller than us, did Mathematics in uni, and both enjoy dissecting movies and literature and discuss them at length.
I cannot stress this enough, me and him are so similar, and the partners too, that I started to believe that the Sims is real life and this is a case of copy pasting a couple sim. He even said at one point that i meant a lot to him, like a twin brother he never had. I felt the same way, but, I'm just saying, the Sims theory is big if true.
The only difference is, I was in a better socioeconomic status than him when we first met him (at a crossfit gym). When we hung out for the first time, he was complaining about how low he was paid and that he deserved more. He was making ~$40k.
Now, I believe in wage transparency and it sucks that he was making that much. At this point, I knew that he was a driven person and more driven if he had a clear goal to work towards, much like me.
So I told him my life story - I was making $30k when I first started working. After 2 years of job hopping, continuously learning, I ended up at a job as an engineer making $100k. He said "I want that too". I told him that he could do it and shared with him what he needed to do (Upskilling and pivoting).
He took my advice and within a month, he managed to pivot and was then making $60k. He was very happy and I was proud of him. What I found odd, however, was that I didn't feel appreciated because he didn't say thanks.
This thing where I help him out with something but he didn't express his gratitude repeated more. For example, a friend of mine and I sponsored his application to an elite crossfit gym. It's a hard gym to get into and to even start your application, you need to have two sponsors who are also members of the gym. When you apply to this gym, you also need to do a series of tests to prove that you are capable.
I motivated him and helped him get over his mental barrier, because he used to think he's not good enough. He passed the tests and got his membership. He paraded his card around his partner and friends, and I remember following him around both being happy for him and also waiting for that moment where he said thanks. He never did.
We planned a trip together, it was sort of a double date but a few days. We paid for a 2-room Airbnb at a nice location in advance and it was pretty expensive. My partner and I got COVID, and we had to forfeit the trip, but encouraged him and his partner to go. We didn't ask for our share of the booking fee back, we only asked them to enjoy the trip and send us pictures. They only sent two.
We didn't mind all of this because at that point, we still saw them as great friends. But the next series of events was when we started questioning. I'll just list them out because this post is getting pretty long
- My partner was at the gym with his partner, and she was wearing lululemons. According to my partner, his partner really loved lululemons and wanted to own one, but said they were not ethical, in a way that made my partner feel bad
- In a car ride, when my partner said she wanted to buy a house, he made it about him and said "I don't think I want to buy one"
- When we tried lobsters, I sponsored the lobsters and they were bad. I spent a lot of money on this and was very disappointed, and his partner said in a joking, snarky way "you got scammed!"
If you know my partner, you know that when she expresses something, she expresses with her whole heart. This is a moment of vulnerability and trust for her. This had been established to them in a previous conversation. We were all in on the theme park but he said he was broke. So we planned for next month and we were all excited.
Next month came and we asked them again, but they asked to do it the month after because they were broke. We were fine with it, until my partner saw on his Twitter that he bought a Logitech MX Master 3. Now, where we are, an MX Master 3 is more expensive than the price of tickets for TWO at the theme park. We were like wtf we thought he was broke? I was determined to find out more.
After our gym session, I pulled him aside and asked him about his mouse, to see if he had any awareness of the theme park thing. I admit, this was me testing him, it's not great and I need to work on it. Self-reflection aside, he said the mouse is awesome and kept on talking about it without ever mentioning the theme park.
From our perspective, we're cool with him buying the mouse(we both have one and we think it's awesome for productivity) and needing to push the theme park thing back. What was not cool was he didn't give us the heads up nor did it seem like he remembered about the theme park. It sucked more that we found out via Twitter.
He eventually reached out to ask what happened to us after I went low contact. I told him our perspective and that it wasn't cool because we felt blindsided. He apologised but it wasn't good enough to me. This is because he explained that the broke thing is true, and he borrowed money from a friend to buy the mouse. Which is not what this is about. It would've been nice if he said "yeah dude I could've let you know that I bought this mouse so we need to delay the trip or tell you first that I bought this mouse with a friend's money"
I talked to my partner about this at length. We realised a few things:
- Whenever we share something good that happened to us, they would say something along the lines of "I want that too" without saying "I'm happy for you!"
- He keeps on saying stuff like I'm his best friend. When the confrontation happened, he said he'll do anything to fix things. To me it felt like he was love bombing
- He liked to flex his wealth. When he got a Steam Deck, I commented on how this must've been a big investment. He smirked and said "yea man, it's expensive" like he was flexing
- When we shared our perspective and worldview that doesn't align with theirs, it felt like they didn't try to relate. Instead they'd say "nah not for me"
So Reddit, AITA for cutting a friend off because he bought a mouse?
2024.05.28 03:27 ThrowRAshattered- Advice on surviving losing the love of your life? (30F, 31M)
We've known each other more than half of our lives. No one cheated or anything like that, I (30F) was completely blindsided. I am a skeptic but really considered this person my soulmate and forever person. The connection is like nothing else l've experienced, the kind of deep, long love that seems to only exist in stories.
We casually dated long distance for a year in the past and that ended when he (31M) was travelling overseas - for over 3 years we were apart and that entire time was so painful for me, I thought about him every day, I wrote poems, journaled and still regularly cried myself to sleep for those three years to manage the grief, I tried to move on but nothing can compare to the connection we share. The thing that kept me going was the thought that in another time and place we would reconnect. That was how it felt when it ended after being casual - this time, we have dated while living in the same city for 3 years.
At the outset we set a lot of clear boundaries around protecting each other in the relationship so that if things started to go badly we could maintain our friendship and still be in each others' lives. We both agreed we couldn’t really take losing one another in the same way again. We've been trying to move into our own place for the past 6 months. We just got back from an overseas trip that my mother got us for my 30th. I am struggling to accept that this is real and I have no idea how to move forward with this loss. He said he sees no future with me, and due to the way he handled it, this isn't something I think we can maintain a friendship after or come back from even if he now regrets saying this. I can't hold out a hope that it was wrong place wrong time, or that he will ever want this again, because it's clear he doesn't.
After leaving my house he has said he didn't mean to break up and just intended to talk about his feelings because he's had doubts about us long term due to a need to 'go do stuff' which is making him feel that way. He’s going on a solo hiking trip that I got him for his birthday and a solo university trip to Malaysia in the next six months so I don’t really understand what part of being in our relationship is preventing him from living his life, or what ‘stuff’ he feels he needs to do. We are both mature age students and there is a cost of living crisis in my country, I have three jobs and have been struggling so hard to make ends meet the past few years but we both finish our studies in six months and we have spoken a lot about how much better life will be when that happens and how things at the moment are tough but temporary.
What he said to me in person was that he didn't see a future with me and when I said ... what do you mean? He said he sees himself doing all of the 'things' in his future alone. Every time I try to speak to him about his goals and the future, the most he can give me is that he wants to live overseas at some point. I also do and we talk about this a lot. Afterwards in a text he still said I am his future and he has always seen us together. I really don't understand but some of it must be untrue because none of it makes sense to me.
For the past few weeks he's refused to kiss me longer than a peck, he would turn his back to me in bed and go to sleep early and wake up late so he could avoid any opportunity for sex. Before this, he was usually pretty all over me and we have always been this way. Up until this point we weren’t absolutely perfect, but it was as close as I think it can get, it has always been so clear to me and everyone else around us that we were both deeply in love. Our friends often comment that they wished their dynamic was like ours or that it’s rare/beautiful to see.
I am ending my lease and selling most of my stuff, my mother is coming to help me move back in with her in the small rural town she lives in because I can't stay in this city. I am leaving my job at the university I study at and varying my enrolment to online studies so at least I don't totally destroy everything in my life. Leaving is a permanent decision because the rental crisis in my city (a 2 day drive from the town I am going back to) it is so bad it would be impossible to get a rental again, so it is a huge life altering decision. I will say l'm scared to make the first move on that because then it is real. I have to give notice today. I don't want to go, I just can't stay here. My friends are so shocked and can't understand it either and therefore can't really provide me with any useful advice.
I just don't really want any of the things l've been working towards in my life if he isn't part of it in some way, I have no drive to continue. Right now I feel like I'll just stay alone in this small town for the rest of my life. It's too hard fighting for more when you don't have a light at the end of the tunnel.
He's quite inept at communicating around emotional topics or discussing his feelings so I really don't imagine l'll ever get more of an explanation or closure from him.
I know this might sound stupid, for a break up to be so world altering, and l've lived through genuine trauma that should have felt so much harder and more painful than this, but those things gave me drive me to live happily in spite of them. This has taken away my will to find or build happiness.
This truly feels like the worst thing that's ever happened to me. Every single thing in my life is connected to him and I feel like I can’t ever go anywhere it won’t be.
How do I move forward? How do I survive this? What do I do now?
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We casually dated long distance for a year in the past and that ended when he (31M) was travelling overseas - for over 3 years we were apart and that entire time was so painful for me, I thought about him every day, I wrote poems, journaled and still regularly cried myself to sleep for those three years to manage the grief, I tried to move on but nothing can compare to the connection we share. The thing that kept me going was the thought that in another time and place we would reconnect. That was how it felt when it ended after being casual - this time, we have dated while living in the same city for 3 years.
At the outset we set a lot of clear boundaries around protecting each other in the relationship so that if things started to go badly we could maintain our friendship and still be in each others' lives. We both agreed we couldn’t really take losing one another in the same way again. We've been trying to move into our own place for the past 6 months. We just got back from an overseas trip that my mother got us for my 30th. I am struggling to accept that this is real and I have no idea how to move forward with this loss. He said he sees no future with me, and due to the way he handled it, this isn't something I think we can maintain a friendship after or come back from even if he now regrets saying this. I can't hold out a hope that it was wrong place wrong time, or that he will ever want this again, because it's clear he doesn't.
After leaving my house he has said he didn't mean to break up and just intended to talk about his feelings because he's had doubts about us long term due to a need to 'go do stuff' which is making him feel that way. He’s going on a solo hiking trip that I got him for his birthday and a solo university trip to Malaysia in the next six months so I don’t really understand what part of being in our relationship is preventing him from living his life, or what ‘stuff’ he feels he needs to do. We are both mature age students and there is a cost of living crisis in my country, I have three jobs and have been struggling so hard to make ends meet the past few years but we both finish our studies in six months and we have spoken a lot about how much better life will be when that happens and how things at the moment are tough but temporary.
What he said to me in person was that he didn't see a future with me and when I said ... what do you mean? He said he sees himself doing all of the 'things' in his future alone. Every time I try to speak to him about his goals and the future, the most he can give me is that he wants to live overseas at some point. I also do and we talk about this a lot. Afterwards in a text he still said I am his future and he has always seen us together. I really don't understand but some of it must be untrue because none of it makes sense to me.
For the past few weeks he's refused to kiss me longer than a peck, he would turn his back to me in bed and go to sleep early and wake up late so he could avoid any opportunity for sex. Before this, he was usually pretty all over me and we have always been this way. Up until this point we weren’t absolutely perfect, but it was as close as I think it can get, it has always been so clear to me and everyone else around us that we were both deeply in love. Our friends often comment that they wished their dynamic was like ours or that it’s rare/beautiful to see.
I am ending my lease and selling most of my stuff, my mother is coming to help me move back in with her in the small rural town she lives in because I can't stay in this city. I am leaving my job at the university I study at and varying my enrolment to online studies so at least I don't totally destroy everything in my life. Leaving is a permanent decision because the rental crisis in my city (a 2 day drive from the town I am going back to) it is so bad it would be impossible to get a rental again, so it is a huge life altering decision. I will say l'm scared to make the first move on that because then it is real. I have to give notice today. I don't want to go, I just can't stay here. My friends are so shocked and can't understand it either and therefore can't really provide me with any useful advice.
I just don't really want any of the things l've been working towards in my life if he isn't part of it in some way, I have no drive to continue. Right now I feel like I'll just stay alone in this small town for the rest of my life. It's too hard fighting for more when you don't have a light at the end of the tunnel.
He's quite inept at communicating around emotional topics or discussing his feelings so I really don't imagine l'll ever get more of an explanation or closure from him.
I know this might sound stupid, for a break up to be so world altering, and l've lived through genuine trauma that should have felt so much harder and more painful than this, but those things gave me drive me to live happily in spite of them. This has taken away my will to find or build happiness.
This truly feels like the worst thing that's ever happened to me. Every single thing in my life is connected to him and I feel like I can’t ever go anywhere it won’t be.
How do I move forward? How do I survive this? What do I do now?
2024.05.28 03:26 SovietGhostTank8 [21M] Attempting again to find people with somewhat similar thoughts to maybe befriend
Greetings Redditors! It's been 10 Months since my last post on Reddit and only now saw a few people actually contacting me on Reddit chat so sorry that I forgot about my post 10 months ago. So again I know that someone wouldn't like what I say, like, don't like, what my views are on specific topics, but I couldn't care less, because there are actual people who think similar. This is maybe as well going to be my update + new stuff included, but I'm gonna treat this more or less as a first Post.
(Warning: Grammar errors included)
I'm not a talkative Person (but Extrovert), but If something interesting is happening or I'm happy I can be a completely different person, but most of the time If I'm around people I keep to myself and listen more. I was born in Germany 2002 and since then still live in a russian household with my parents. I love gaming to this day but still have periods of losing touch with it, because of not finding people to play with or just to talk to. I'm a very curious person and look into new hobbies all the time, but haven't found much holding me to it. Still love Graphics design. Don't have a Girlfriend, never was in a relationship and have little to no experience of talking to women, so yeah much didn't change. Something that did change is that I have embraced the Christian Faith due to many signs I have now recognised and experienced stuff (I try my very best to be a good Christian).
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(Warning: Grammar errors included)
I'm not a talkative Person (but Extrovert), but If something interesting is happening or I'm happy I can be a completely different person, but most of the time If I'm around people I keep to myself and listen more. I was born in Germany 2002 and since then still live in a russian household with my parents. I love gaming to this day but still have periods of losing touch with it, because of not finding people to play with or just to talk to. I'm a very curious person and look into new hobbies all the time, but haven't found much holding me to it. Still love Graphics design. Don't have a Girlfriend, never was in a relationship and have little to no experience of talking to women, so yeah much didn't change. Something that did change is that I have embraced the Christian Faith due to many signs I have now recognised and experienced stuff (I try my very best to be a good Christian).
- I've always tried finding other methods to make money online but almost always got turned down by people I care about or turned myself down. So I hope I find someone who can push me up in life and I can do to you as well.
- My political views didn't change much and pretty much a Centrist, close towards Right-Liberalism (political compass). I like taking Ideas from other Political directions and figuring out how it's best implemented for everyone.
- I love history, conspiracy theories, military and politics
- I am a man who sticks to his words and doesn't let himself get down that easily
2024.05.28 03:26 melloyellochielo How do I help my antisocial parents?
So my mom is not close to anyone in her family. Ever since we moved to this city 10 years ago she has no friends here as well. She says everyone in her family is jealous of her that’s why she doesn’t talk to them often. None of them live in our city. I think there’s a deep trauma there that she’s not telling me so I didn’t really push.
She also doesn’t want to befriend any of the Somali people in this city because she says Somali people don’t know what friendship is, they only treat their cousins well. Well my mom has a couple first cousins in my city that she doesn’t speak to either. She doesn’t want to get to know them, she says their mom (grandma’s sister) is not a good person so they probably are the same. So needless to say, we never have visitors over.
If she was happy the way she is then I wouldn’t mind but I can tell she’s miserable. She never leaves the house. Every time I go out to see a friend she gets angry that I have a friend that I’m seeing. I think she wants friends deep down as well.
My father is also equally antisocial and doesn’t talk to anyone. He works a lot so he doesn’t really have time for friendship anyway.
I really feel like our family is super isolated though and it bugs me a bit. How do I get my parents (especially my mother) to get out there a bit more?
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She also doesn’t want to befriend any of the Somali people in this city because she says Somali people don’t know what friendship is, they only treat their cousins well. Well my mom has a couple first cousins in my city that she doesn’t speak to either. She doesn’t want to get to know them, she says their mom (grandma’s sister) is not a good person so they probably are the same. So needless to say, we never have visitors over.
If she was happy the way she is then I wouldn’t mind but I can tell she’s miserable. She never leaves the house. Every time I go out to see a friend she gets angry that I have a friend that I’m seeing. I think she wants friends deep down as well.
My father is also equally antisocial and doesn’t talk to anyone. He works a lot so he doesn’t really have time for friendship anyway.
I really feel like our family is super isolated though and it bugs me a bit. How do I get my parents (especially my mother) to get out there a bit more?
2024.05.28 03:26 SovietGhostTank8 [21M] Attempting again to find people with somewhat similar thoughts to maybe befriend
Greetings Redditors! It's been 10 Months since my last post on Reddit and only now saw a few people actually contacting me on Reddit chat so sorry that I forgot about my post 10 months ago. So again I know that someone wouldn't like what I say, like, don't like, what my views are on specific topics, but I couldn't care less, because there are actual people who think similar. This is maybe as well going to be my update + new stuff included, but I'm gonna treat this more or less as a first Post.
(Warning: Grammar errors included)
I'm not a talkative Person (but Extrovert), but If something interesting is happening or I'm happy I can be a completely different person, but most of the time If I'm around people I keep to myself and listen more. I was born in Germany 2002 and since then still live in a russian household with my parents. I love gaming to this day but still have periods of losing touch with it, because of not finding people to play with or just to talk to. I'm a very curious person and look into new hobbies all the time, but haven't found much holding me to it. Still love Graphics design. Don't have a Girlfriend, never was in a relationship and have little to no experience of talking to women, so yeah much didn't change. Something that did change is that I have embraced the Christian Faith due to many signs I have now recognised and experienced stuff (I try my very best to be a good Christian).
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(Warning: Grammar errors included)
I'm not a talkative Person (but Extrovert), but If something interesting is happening or I'm happy I can be a completely different person, but most of the time If I'm around people I keep to myself and listen more. I was born in Germany 2002 and since then still live in a russian household with my parents. I love gaming to this day but still have periods of losing touch with it, because of not finding people to play with or just to talk to. I'm a very curious person and look into new hobbies all the time, but haven't found much holding me to it. Still love Graphics design. Don't have a Girlfriend, never was in a relationship and have little to no experience of talking to women, so yeah much didn't change. Something that did change is that I have embraced the Christian Faith due to many signs I have now recognised and experienced stuff (I try my very best to be a good Christian).
- I've always tried finding other methods to make money online but almost always got turned down by people I care about or turned myself down. So I hope I find someone who can push me up in life and I can do to you as well.
- My political views didn't change much and pretty much a Centrist, close towards Right-Liberalism (political compass). I like taking Ideas from other Political directions and figuring out how it's best implemented for everyone.
- I love history, conspiracy theories, military and politics
- I am a man who sticks to his words and doesn't let himself get down that easily
2024.05.28 03:25 WriterSweet1801 I need help with a character's ending
I need some help with a story I'm making. So it's going to kinda be a love story between two of my heros and the main character is the female of the relationship. She's a boxer and she's secretly apart of a team of heroes and one of these Heroes likes her, and although he's tried to keep it a secret it is pretty obvious. At the start of the story the main character ( DustoLori ) is in the boxing ring with another boxer. The other boxer's name is “The Dominator” and her real name is Mako. In the fight Lori loses and Mako makes fun of Lori offstage, and when she's doing that she sees the guy who really likes Lori ( JolteWinston ) and when she does she hits on him and it makes Lori jealous. Fast forward through the story and Lori is boxing some other boxer, And Winston is sitting in the crowd. Unknown to either Winston or Lori, Mako is in the crowd and when she sees Winston her eyes light up. ( And sometime earlier Mako found out that Lori and Winston are starting to get closer ) so taking the opportunity Mako starts hitting on Winston, like, on the verge Of sexual assault hitting on him. And Lori can see this in the ring and it distracts her from the fight. Soon Mako pressures Winston to come with her to her house, and when Lori sees them leaving she quits the fight half way through and chases them. When Winston and Mako get to Mako's house ( they drove so it will take some time for Lori to catch up ) Mako starts to intensify her seductive tactics and starts to force herself onto him. And right when Makos about to make the final move Lori busts through the door and beats her up then happy ever after. But my problem is sometime later Mako is going to end up have a secret conversation with Winston and she'll say one of two things that will choose what her future in my stories Will be. Either she'll trick him into another forced date where she'll successfully get what she wants or she'll tell him to confess his love to Lori and how much of a idiot he is for not confessing sooner, and she'll go on a whole speech about how Lori secretly loves him too and Mako will vent how she loves Winston but she knows what she did was wrong and she'll accept that Winston will choose Lori over her. ( I know I babbled but I hope it made sense ) I just need help choosing between these two character endings. ( Also yes both Lori and Mako are dominant females and Winston is a submissive guy, don't Judge )
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2024.05.28 03:24 luv4atravelinsoldier I went on a date with your friend
I saw how happy you were with your girlfriend , she is so pretty . I feel like this is just a limerence that I like writing about . So I definitely am gonna put you into one of my characters . Hope you don’t mind — you’ll probably never know until I get famous. Jk Brandon is cool. It was a good date . So why am I sitting here writing about his friend who drunk flirted with me in a bar one time and I see sometimes . I guess I’ll continue to see him . I don’t want anything serious after my last ex. He is sweet and I really do like him. I like him a lot .. except for when I’m in the room with you . Then , I’m waiting for a reaction from you . Does that even mean anything . I don’t even know you like that . What the hell… I could say how badly I wanna get to know you but that would probably come off too forward. You’re nice to look at though . I’ve never had a crush like this . Normally people have crushes on me.. not being vain, it’s just usually the way it is . But I feel like I’m in middle school when I’m around you . Twirling my hair and acting stupid . Why do you have this affect on me ? No one else ever has … what is it about you ?
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2024.05.28 03:24 Acrobatic_Common3128 Idk
25(M) This condition has taken a toll on the way I live, breathe and feel. I was 8 when I moved to nyc from Africa all I ever wanted was to be someone who can make a difference for my family, my loved ones and myself. I was working towards that before all of this happed and now I can’t even afford to get a haircut. The ocd was so intense that I even threw out my whole living room set( sounds stupid) I get so jittery and antsy and inpatient and it bothers me so much. I went from being the person you can turn to, to the useless person. My delusions and paranoia are there most of the time. I feel like my family and loved ones did something to me…and I have acted out of it. I have insulted my mother and my father … I have hurt my sister , I have disappointed my best friend and mostly my self . I was never like that. I am a lover. This hurts all I feel is severe anxiety, paranoia, fear, depression, pressure, my ringing ears,Ear fullness. As my birthday approaches I wish it was just over. Everybody I know is doing something, living , thriving and me I’m stuck , never been in a relationship, never won anything, never been truly happy and now this . It’s been 3 years and I can’t picture my future self. As my birthday approaches I can’t help but feel like I don’t want to be here anymore.
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2024.05.28 03:22 Status-Pizza-46 Weird feeling
I should start this off by saying I'm young in my teenage years. For a few months, I've had this feeling in my chest, I'm guessing sadness. The thing is I don't feel sad at all, it's as if my negative emotions have left my mind and have moved to my body. In my head it's usually a sense of.. idk, happiness? But at the same time it doesn't feel right.. I've been changing though, I can feel it and my family and friends can see it. I've become more prone to snapping, I've had a harder time coming up with things to say to my friends when they need advice or help. My body feels so tense. I do boxing, and punching the bag usually helps relieve this feeling but it doesn't work anymore. I really don't know what to do. The only negative emotion I feel in my head anymore is what I believe to be hatred, but it's very faint. It's like it's more so in the walls of my skull rather than my brain. It's there but it's not. I'm not supposed to feel this way, I'm not supposed to feel sad or angry anymore, it's been gone so long, but it hasn't been, it's just been piling up inside my body and I hate it. I hate it. Please if anyone knows what to do help me.
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2024.05.28 03:21 Outrageous_Fennel37 I think I want to leave but my husband has a medical condition
I think I want to divorce my husband but theres so many factors that make me think I should just stay and be unhappy.
This is a long story but all the details are needed to understand where I'm coming from. Husband (32) and I (32) have been married for 7 years, together for 9. Things were great at first. He was a good listener, caring, romantic, just what I wanted in a partner. Things did move fast but for years that was never an issue. A little whole after we got married he started to change but I chalked it up to just time passing and everyone changes. About 4ish years into our relationship he was diagnosed with anxiety, depression, and PTSD related to his time in the military. That was a rough time for us both but I was there supporting him every step of the way and it explained why he was so different. About a year into therapy and medication Things got worse between us. He was no longer romantic, lazy, stopped taking care of himself, was angry, and didn't help me around the house at all (such as with housework, cooking, cleaning, budgeting, finances, nothing). It got so bad I mentioned a separation but we talked and he promised to change and I promised to be patient. Well this same conversation has happened way more times than it should have. At least 15 times. During the last 3 years Things will change for a few weeks then right back to how they were before. 2 years ago, things were good for awhile and I finally got pregnant after years of us trying. He promised he would be even more helpful now that we were having a baby. That never happened. When I was 5 months pregnant he started having seizures amd was diagnosed with epilepsy. It was scary for us all and I've suffered from ptsd regarding it ever since. He wasn't able to work for 6 months so we were home together the remainder of my pregnancy (we agreed for me to quit work when I got pregnant and to become a sahm). During that time he suffered 2 seizures but a week or 2 after each one he was back to normal just still couldn't work. Anyway he didn't lift a finger around the house or do anything for me in my last few months of my pregnancy. He always made excuses and said he would do it later but later never came. He never helped me nest or clean or anything. When I finally had the baby my labor was rough and I was exhausted and our daughter was pretty sick the first month of her life. While in labor he complained about how tired he was and how uncomfortable the pull out couch was. The first night she never stopped crying and I woke him up to help me bc I was exhausted. He said he was tired and had a headache and went back to sleep. So I had to stay awake with her. When she was 3 weeks old she was hospitalized for bronchiolitis. Even the nurse made a comment that the bed would only fit 1 and I should get it bc I was newly postpartum. He took it and slept while I was up all night making sure she was ok... fast forward and she's now healthy and 13 months old. He still does nothing. He got a job making way less bc its safer and closer to home so money is tight. He can't be alone with her or drive with her incase he has a seizure. Needless to say I'm doing everything. I'm ok with some of it bc I stay home with her and he works the nightshift. But he could still help he just doesn't. He keeps promising he will change but it doesn't last longer than a week. I drive everywhere, do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, finances, planning, literally everything that comes with being an adult and a parent (except for getting a paycheck). I've considered divorce a few times now but I have nothing of my own. Everything is in his name and I'm not working. Also I feel like the bad guy for wanting to leave knowing he has health issues. He can't really be alone, especially with our daughter, until she's older and more self sufficient. So if I do leave I'm risking everyone's safety. Also with his epilepsy ive given up a lot thats important to me bc he cant do it anymore (like concerts) but he doesnt take that into consideration. I thought I could just deal with all this but the kicker was this mother's day. I said I wanted a clean house, a long shower, pad thai for dinner, and to sleep in. He even said he'd set an alarm to take over with our daughter (I cosleep with her in a separate room bc of our different schedules). Well surprise none of that happened. He never set an alarm so he slept in. He didn't offer for me to go take a shower (which is an issue bc I've begged for a year now to have time to shower everyday but that mever happens). He didn't order me dinner. He didn't do anything for me. An hour before he went to work that night he asked me for paper and just wrote me a note saying he loves and appreciates me. And tbh it meant nothing to me after all the letdown and broken promises. Not to mention he's still not pulling his weight. What do I do? I want to be happy and I'm not getting any younger and I have to way to support me or my daughter right now. And if I do leave and he has her for the weekend and something happened to them I wouldn't be able to live with myself... idk I'm so hurt and confused.
There's more reasons I'm not happy bit this is already long enough. Thanks for listening.
TL:DR: husband doesn't pull his weight with responsibilities but idk if I should leave bc of his epilepsy
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This is a long story but all the details are needed to understand where I'm coming from. Husband (32) and I (32) have been married for 7 years, together for 9. Things were great at first. He was a good listener, caring, romantic, just what I wanted in a partner. Things did move fast but for years that was never an issue. A little whole after we got married he started to change but I chalked it up to just time passing and everyone changes. About 4ish years into our relationship he was diagnosed with anxiety, depression, and PTSD related to his time in the military. That was a rough time for us both but I was there supporting him every step of the way and it explained why he was so different. About a year into therapy and medication Things got worse between us. He was no longer romantic, lazy, stopped taking care of himself, was angry, and didn't help me around the house at all (such as with housework, cooking, cleaning, budgeting, finances, nothing). It got so bad I mentioned a separation but we talked and he promised to change and I promised to be patient. Well this same conversation has happened way more times than it should have. At least 15 times. During the last 3 years Things will change for a few weeks then right back to how they were before. 2 years ago, things were good for awhile and I finally got pregnant after years of us trying. He promised he would be even more helpful now that we were having a baby. That never happened. When I was 5 months pregnant he started having seizures amd was diagnosed with epilepsy. It was scary for us all and I've suffered from ptsd regarding it ever since. He wasn't able to work for 6 months so we were home together the remainder of my pregnancy (we agreed for me to quit work when I got pregnant and to become a sahm). During that time he suffered 2 seizures but a week or 2 after each one he was back to normal just still couldn't work. Anyway he didn't lift a finger around the house or do anything for me in my last few months of my pregnancy. He always made excuses and said he would do it later but later never came. He never helped me nest or clean or anything. When I finally had the baby my labor was rough and I was exhausted and our daughter was pretty sick the first month of her life. While in labor he complained about how tired he was and how uncomfortable the pull out couch was. The first night she never stopped crying and I woke him up to help me bc I was exhausted. He said he was tired and had a headache and went back to sleep. So I had to stay awake with her. When she was 3 weeks old she was hospitalized for bronchiolitis. Even the nurse made a comment that the bed would only fit 1 and I should get it bc I was newly postpartum. He took it and slept while I was up all night making sure she was ok... fast forward and she's now healthy and 13 months old. He still does nothing. He got a job making way less bc its safer and closer to home so money is tight. He can't be alone with her or drive with her incase he has a seizure. Needless to say I'm doing everything. I'm ok with some of it bc I stay home with her and he works the nightshift. But he could still help he just doesn't. He keeps promising he will change but it doesn't last longer than a week. I drive everywhere, do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, finances, planning, literally everything that comes with being an adult and a parent (except for getting a paycheck). I've considered divorce a few times now but I have nothing of my own. Everything is in his name and I'm not working. Also I feel like the bad guy for wanting to leave knowing he has health issues. He can't really be alone, especially with our daughter, until she's older and more self sufficient. So if I do leave I'm risking everyone's safety. Also with his epilepsy ive given up a lot thats important to me bc he cant do it anymore (like concerts) but he doesnt take that into consideration. I thought I could just deal with all this but the kicker was this mother's day. I said I wanted a clean house, a long shower, pad thai for dinner, and to sleep in. He even said he'd set an alarm to take over with our daughter (I cosleep with her in a separate room bc of our different schedules). Well surprise none of that happened. He never set an alarm so he slept in. He didn't offer for me to go take a shower (which is an issue bc I've begged for a year now to have time to shower everyday but that mever happens). He didn't order me dinner. He didn't do anything for me. An hour before he went to work that night he asked me for paper and just wrote me a note saying he loves and appreciates me. And tbh it meant nothing to me after all the letdown and broken promises. Not to mention he's still not pulling his weight. What do I do? I want to be happy and I'm not getting any younger and I have to way to support me or my daughter right now. And if I do leave and he has her for the weekend and something happened to them I wouldn't be able to live with myself... idk I'm so hurt and confused.
There's more reasons I'm not happy bit this is already long enough. Thanks for listening.
TL:DR: husband doesn't pull his weight with responsibilities but idk if I should leave bc of his epilepsy
2024.05.28 03:19 girdievs My brother is a hater.
I 19F am moving out in a couple of months because of a job opportunity I got in the city. And my brother who is turning 21 soon wanted to put me down. I find it hilarious that this hating ass creature that resides in our parent's basement wants to talk shit about everyone else but can’t ever look in the mirror. He never leaves the house to hang out with friends or go anywhere he just stays in the basement. Ever since he graduated, he just plays video games and works jobs on and off. In every job he had he’d always shit-talk his coworkers. He would say they were losers for being okay with working there & they were okay with being mediocre. He thinks he is superior because he wants better for himself. He quits jobs fast as fuck too. Once he and I worked at this job, I kid you not he made fun of one of the workers for being happy they provided a 401k calling him old, etc. He was making fun of another worker for pursuing music and saying his song was ass. He also criticizes our parents for their job/life choices. He criticizes people that go to college saying it’s useless and a scam. He never talks about what he’s going to do with his life, but always asks me what I’m going to do. He belittles me all the time, calls me dumb & makes fun of my intelligence. He makes fun of me because I got a GED instead of a high school diploma. Even though he had to go to school for an extra semester. I may not be school-smart, but at least I’m self-aware and have empathy. Btw He’ll call some of the most beautiful women ugly or mid. He says he needs to see them without makeup or they have too much plastic surgery. He called Marilyn Monroe hideous.
I said I wanted to save up 2.5k before I moved out (not including what I already have in my bank account) & he was saying that’s not enough. Saying I don’t understand the cost of living and I have to have an emergency fund and all this other shit. And I have to take into account what if I get fired…. saying “good luck” being sarcastic. And he and my little brother just laughed. I asked him when he’s planning on moving out and he said by the end of the year. Mind you, he said he was going to move out by the end of last summer. I asked what was he gonna do for work and he said he was gonna do this thing and he’s getting the license. And it takes 3 to 4 months. I very much doubt he’s getting the license right now. He just said that because I pressed him on it. He then asked me how my acting going because I’ve been taking acting classes. I said it’s going well and I’m going to take some more once I move to the city. Then he tried to ask me have I acted with Dwayne Johnson yet. Like trying to insinuate I’m a failure because I haven’t been in a movie with him..? I asked does he even act in movies anymore because I hadn’t seen him in a minute. Then he goes on this whole tangent and insinuates that I’m dumb because I didn’t know he was still acting.
Off topic but on the way to our old job, I would listen to music on my AirPods while he would play his music on the car speakers. He asked me to show him what I was listening to since I thought it was “better”. Then he said, I was saying that his playlist sucks because I was listening to music on my AirPods?? He was salty because of that. One day he asked me to play my playlist which was a playlist full of the Weeknd songs. Then he made fun of me because I was listening to that instead of his songs. Saying that the Weeknd is overplayed & too popular. Pressing me to play an underground song by him. He made fun of me because I don’t listen to any underground artists just popular artists. Saying my taste in music “sucks”. Okay…. He thought he was the shit because he has a bunch of underground nobody’s in his playlist that nobody fucking listens to. And he never plays their songs fully through just 30 seconds then skips to the next song & it’s so annoying.
Anyways quick rant. That’s annoying. I don’t know why every time I try to do something good my family tries to say something or put me down. Or treat me like I’m dumb or some shit. Like they really don’t want me to do good that’s crazy.
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I said I wanted to save up 2.5k before I moved out (not including what I already have in my bank account) & he was saying that’s not enough. Saying I don’t understand the cost of living and I have to have an emergency fund and all this other shit. And I have to take into account what if I get fired…. saying “good luck” being sarcastic. And he and my little brother just laughed. I asked him when he’s planning on moving out and he said by the end of the year. Mind you, he said he was going to move out by the end of last summer. I asked what was he gonna do for work and he said he was gonna do this thing and he’s getting the license. And it takes 3 to 4 months. I very much doubt he’s getting the license right now. He just said that because I pressed him on it. He then asked me how my acting going because I’ve been taking acting classes. I said it’s going well and I’m going to take some more once I move to the city. Then he tried to ask me have I acted with Dwayne Johnson yet. Like trying to insinuate I’m a failure because I haven’t been in a movie with him..? I asked does he even act in movies anymore because I hadn’t seen him in a minute. Then he goes on this whole tangent and insinuates that I’m dumb because I didn’t know he was still acting.
Off topic but on the way to our old job, I would listen to music on my AirPods while he would play his music on the car speakers. He asked me to show him what I was listening to since I thought it was “better”. Then he said, I was saying that his playlist sucks because I was listening to music on my AirPods?? He was salty because of that. One day he asked me to play my playlist which was a playlist full of the Weeknd songs. Then he made fun of me because I was listening to that instead of his songs. Saying that the Weeknd is overplayed & too popular. Pressing me to play an underground song by him. He made fun of me because I don’t listen to any underground artists just popular artists. Saying my taste in music “sucks”. Okay…. He thought he was the shit because he has a bunch of underground nobody’s in his playlist that nobody fucking listens to. And he never plays their songs fully through just 30 seconds then skips to the next song & it’s so annoying.
Anyways quick rant. That’s annoying. I don’t know why every time I try to do something good my family tries to say something or put me down. Or treat me like I’m dumb or some shit. Like they really don’t want me to do good that’s crazy.
2024.05.28 03:18 Due_Sky1393 My (ex) friend breakup
So it was my birthday and we were playing golf with other friends when he said that I will block you because I piss him off. Thing is all I said was so close when he missed the hole by an inch. He always says stop pissing me off even though I don't do anything. I texted him a few days later about my concerns and he says that I deserve and it and I always piss him off because I ask him to hang out even though he says yes and he says he's been lying to me for 3 years.and will never be my friend and that his other friends are better than me. That led to me being angry because I put a lot of effort in the friendship to throw it back in my face. Then he said something that I will never forgive. I said your parents never raised you this way then he says At least my mother isn't dead. My mum passed away 6 years ago and he was saying at least my mum ist dead and to cry about it and sucks to be nice and he said I don't even have to do anything to piss him off so I will never forgive him for that
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2024.05.28 03:18 No_Parfait7443 ABYG for not letting my son see his grandmother?
SUPER LONG POST AHEAD. Thanks in advance sa mga magtiya tiyaga to read.
32F - mom of a 6 year old handsome boi.
Anyway, never ako naging okay sa mom ng husband ko dahil ayaw niya na sakin 14 years ago pa lang. Yung mga naging ex kasi ni H ay kung hindi doctor ay lawyer na ngayon. Meanwhile, when we first met before, I was 1st year college in BA Communications and he just finished college. Hindi ako nakapagtapos nang pag aaral dahil nag handle ako ng family business namin, which is during that time, pawnshop. Pag pumupunta ako sa kanila noon, hindi ako pinapansin ng mom ni H or pinagmamano man lang. Kinakausap ako ng ate ni H na hayaan ko na lang raw at ganon daw talaga ang ugali ng mom nila. I refused and continue pleasing her with every chance I got. Kailangan ng gamit sa bahay na wala sila, meron kami, generator, kakilalang electrician, bibilhan ng murang ganito, murang ganyan, pagawa ng cake or ng ganito, lahat inoffer ko. Dating municipal councilor ang dad ko kaya marami rin kaming connections kahit papano.
Then some time at 7 years na pagsasama namin, naghiwalay kami ni H dahil sa maraming bagay, during that time, pinipilit niya kong mag aral, hindi niya na ko mapagtanggol sa mom niya for i don’t know reasons kahit palala na nang palala yung mga sinasabi about me kahit wala naman akong ginagawa. Gusto ko rin naman mag aral nung time na yon but I cannot afford to dahil pa take off yung business namin and we were earning 6 digits that time in 2 weeks alone so it was really hard for me to let go dahil yung mga kapatid ko ay may mga pamilya na. Akala ko, for good na ang break up namin dahil napagod na rin ako kakapaintindi sa kanya ng mga bagay bagay, isa na ron ang time na hindi niya mabigay, gets ko yung busy sa work pero yung 4 na sunod sunod na okasyon (anniversary, birthday, christmas, at new year) na walang kahit isang tangkay ng rose or kahit samahan man lang ako magblow ng candle cake sa birthday ko, pulled the trigger on me. Money was not an issue because he was earning so good na nung mga panahon na yon. Isa pa yung continuous na pagsasabi sakin ng mom niya ng kung ano ano na kesyo baka raw inuubos ko yung savings niya at siya raw ang gumagastos saming dalawa, which was never true, he continuously asked me to let him handle it and hanggat kaya ko raw, wag ko na munang kausapin yung mom niya para daw mas lalong di mag init. As much as I wanted to, mas pinili kong irespeto yung desisyon niya as a partner at yung mom niya as a mother. Kahit alam ko yung capability ko into handling things and speaking in a well mannered way. So, we broke up dahil nagheld lang nang matagal yung mga bagay bagay.
The business was doing so well, nag expand na rin kami, may namet akong guy somewhere and we went on a couple of dates dahil gusto ko na makamove on agad, then one day, nagkita kami ni H sa isang kainan and kasama ko yung guy so nagalit siya kaagad because, tbh, wala pang 2 months yung breakup. Sinabi niya yon sa lahat ng family members nila and the next thing I know, galit na silang lahat sakin pati ate niya. After few months ulit, nagkausap kami ni H and wala na rin kaming strings pa nung guy because bumalik na siya sa ex niya. We fixed our relationship and realized that we really want to be together. It took a lot of efforts sa pagwowork out ng mga bagay bagay at pagtatago sa mga tao because ayaw niya pa na malaman ng family niya na nagkabalikan na kami because galit na galit sila sakin. 1 year after, binati ko yung ate niya thru sms ng “happy mother’s day ate, pati kay tita”, because I thought it’s about time. Sinabi ko naman yun kay H and akala niya it wouldn’t matter pero nag fire yun ng malaking issue sa family niya because nalaman na nagkabalikan kami. Maraming sinabing masasakit na salita yung ate at mom niya sakin, like hindi raw ako nakapagtapos nang pag aaral at iyon raw ba ang ituturo ko sa magiging anak ko, turns out nalaman pa pala nila yung about sa SA case ko before at kasalanan ko raw yun dahil kung kani kanino raw ako sumasama, padalos dalos daw ako sa mga desisyon ko at hindi raw nila gusto kung paano ako mag isip, just because I went out on a date with a guy after we broke up. All I said was hindi naman nila alam kung anong mga pinagdaanan namin sa relasyon kaya wala silang karapatang husgahan ang buong pagkatao ko.
They asked me to stay away from Husband and their family. Madugong usap ang nangyari samin ni H, I asked him to make up his mind dahil naiintindihan ko na pamilya pa rin sila at ayokong gumawa siya ng desisyon na pagsisisihan niya rin sa huli. After all, sinabihan siya ng kapatid niya na sarili lang ang iniisip when all he did was return the favors to his parents and support them financially. He was indeed a good son. But, nagmatigas na siya that time and he chose me. We went on our lives, nagbibigay siya sa parents niya ng monthly financial support and made sure na di naman sila deprived of anything dahil pareho naman silang well off na ng ate niya. We got married and tried to invite them pero dad niya lang ang umattend who never got involved sa mga past issues, mabait naman dad niya pero sadyang tahimik lang talaga at hindi na piniling makisali pa noon, hindi ko na masyadong ginawang big deal dahil nakita ko kung paano siya makipag usap sa mom ni H noon na parang sumuko na lang siya sa ugali at hinayaan na lang na siya ang mag desisyon ng lahat. Anyway, wala na silang narinig sakin after nila ko sabihan nang mas marami pang masasakit na salita mismong araw ng kasal namin, lahat yon thru facebook messenger or sms, at wala silang ni ho or ni ha natanggap mula sakin dahil hindi ako pinalaki ng magulang ko na pinipilit ang mga taong may ayaw sakin sa mga dahilan na sila lang ang may gawa. Okay na okay si Hubby ko sa parents ko, lalo sa dad ko.
Fast forward, nagkaroon na kami ng pamilya. Si Hubby, tuloy pa rin ang pag iinvite sa pamilya niya na dumalo sa mga okasyon ng pamilya namin. Nakabili na kami ng lupa, sariling bahay, masasabi naming comfortable kami sa buhay na meron kami, at lahat yon pareho naming pinaghirapan habang tumutulong kami pareho sa mga kanya kanya naming pamilya. Never ko siyang pinigilan na mangumbida sa pamilya niya sa mga celebrations namin, pero never naman silang umattend, except sa father in law ko. Hanggang sa last year, Christmas, kinumbinsi ako ng asawa ko na mag celebrate ng christmas eve sa family house nila, tumanggi ako, niluhuran niya pa ko at araw araw akong kinukumbinsi, binibigyan ng kung ano ano bago mag christmas eve mismo. Hindi pa nakikita ng anak ko ang mother and sister in law ko, nang personal, kaya kahit masama sa loob ko, pumayag na ko pero hindi ako nangako na lahat ng mangyayari sa gabi na yon ay aayon sa kagustuhan niya. We went there and nameet ng anak ko yung mga pinsan niya from sis in law, pinakilala rin niya siya sa mga pinsan ni H, ate at mom niya, hindi ko maalis yung mata ko sa anak ko kung paano nila iwewelcome. Binigyan ng sobre ng mom in law ko yung anak ko, ampao, at pinagmano, samantalang yung sis in law ko naman ay walang kibo. Pinalipas ko yung gabi na yon at kating kati umalis, father in law ko lang at ilang mga pinsan niya ang nakakausap ko non. Hanggang sa, tahimik na naglalaro ang anak ko sa iPad niya, sinita ni mother in law ng “masama yan sa mata mo, hinahayaan ka lang ba ni mommy mo dyan?” Tiningnan ko yung Husband ko nang masama, sumagot naman siya agad ng “kahahawak lang ng iPad, may screen time yan na 30 minutes per umaga, tanghali, at gabi lang”. Binigay sakin ng anak ko yung iPad niya at tumabi sakin, sumagot yung mom niya ng “kahit na, hinahayaan niyo yung bata, lalabo mata nyan. kaya yata mahina e. para kayong mga..” hindi niya na tinuloy, wala nang sinabi yung asawa ko. Lumabas na ako, sinama ko yung anak ko at nagdrive ako pauwi. Iniwan ko yung asawa ko don sa sobrang inis ko kahit alam kong mali. Sinabihan raw akong bastos ng mama at ate niya, at mayabang na raw ako porke raw nakaangat ako ng konti sa buhay. Hindi man lang daw ako humingi ng sorry sa kanila kahit kailan at hindi man lang daw ako nag effort man lang na subukang makipag usap. Wala na lang talaga akong nasabi sa kakapalan ng mga mukha nila. After ng completion ceremony ng anak ko sa preparatory level, ipinost ko lahat ng achievements niya sa facebook, in public, from best in English and Math, to best in Art, Most Honest, Most Friendly, Most Inquisitive, Most Helpful, at yung award niya for being 2nd Honor in class wherein 16 sila.
Ngayon, nalaman namin na may sakit daw si mother in law at gustong makita ulit ang apo, ang tanging message niya lang kay H ay “gusto kong makita si son’s name”, walang sorry at walang anything, wala nang ibang sinabi. Now, ABYG for saying I won’t let my son see his grandmother sa father side, kahit mamatay pa siya?
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32F - mom of a 6 year old handsome boi.
Anyway, never ako naging okay sa mom ng husband ko dahil ayaw niya na sakin 14 years ago pa lang. Yung mga naging ex kasi ni H ay kung hindi doctor ay lawyer na ngayon. Meanwhile, when we first met before, I was 1st year college in BA Communications and he just finished college. Hindi ako nakapagtapos nang pag aaral dahil nag handle ako ng family business namin, which is during that time, pawnshop. Pag pumupunta ako sa kanila noon, hindi ako pinapansin ng mom ni H or pinagmamano man lang. Kinakausap ako ng ate ni H na hayaan ko na lang raw at ganon daw talaga ang ugali ng mom nila. I refused and continue pleasing her with every chance I got. Kailangan ng gamit sa bahay na wala sila, meron kami, generator, kakilalang electrician, bibilhan ng murang ganito, murang ganyan, pagawa ng cake or ng ganito, lahat inoffer ko. Dating municipal councilor ang dad ko kaya marami rin kaming connections kahit papano.
Then some time at 7 years na pagsasama namin, naghiwalay kami ni H dahil sa maraming bagay, during that time, pinipilit niya kong mag aral, hindi niya na ko mapagtanggol sa mom niya for i don’t know reasons kahit palala na nang palala yung mga sinasabi about me kahit wala naman akong ginagawa. Gusto ko rin naman mag aral nung time na yon but I cannot afford to dahil pa take off yung business namin and we were earning 6 digits that time in 2 weeks alone so it was really hard for me to let go dahil yung mga kapatid ko ay may mga pamilya na. Akala ko, for good na ang break up namin dahil napagod na rin ako kakapaintindi sa kanya ng mga bagay bagay, isa na ron ang time na hindi niya mabigay, gets ko yung busy sa work pero yung 4 na sunod sunod na okasyon (anniversary, birthday, christmas, at new year) na walang kahit isang tangkay ng rose or kahit samahan man lang ako magblow ng candle cake sa birthday ko, pulled the trigger on me. Money was not an issue because he was earning so good na nung mga panahon na yon. Isa pa yung continuous na pagsasabi sakin ng mom niya ng kung ano ano na kesyo baka raw inuubos ko yung savings niya at siya raw ang gumagastos saming dalawa, which was never true, he continuously asked me to let him handle it and hanggat kaya ko raw, wag ko na munang kausapin yung mom niya para daw mas lalong di mag init. As much as I wanted to, mas pinili kong irespeto yung desisyon niya as a partner at yung mom niya as a mother. Kahit alam ko yung capability ko into handling things and speaking in a well mannered way. So, we broke up dahil nagheld lang nang matagal yung mga bagay bagay.
The business was doing so well, nag expand na rin kami, may namet akong guy somewhere and we went on a couple of dates dahil gusto ko na makamove on agad, then one day, nagkita kami ni H sa isang kainan and kasama ko yung guy so nagalit siya kaagad because, tbh, wala pang 2 months yung breakup. Sinabi niya yon sa lahat ng family members nila and the next thing I know, galit na silang lahat sakin pati ate niya. After few months ulit, nagkausap kami ni H and wala na rin kaming strings pa nung guy because bumalik na siya sa ex niya. We fixed our relationship and realized that we really want to be together. It took a lot of efforts sa pagwowork out ng mga bagay bagay at pagtatago sa mga tao because ayaw niya pa na malaman ng family niya na nagkabalikan na kami because galit na galit sila sakin. 1 year after, binati ko yung ate niya thru sms ng “happy mother’s day ate, pati kay tita”, because I thought it’s about time. Sinabi ko naman yun kay H and akala niya it wouldn’t matter pero nag fire yun ng malaking issue sa family niya because nalaman na nagkabalikan kami. Maraming sinabing masasakit na salita yung ate at mom niya sakin, like hindi raw ako nakapagtapos nang pag aaral at iyon raw ba ang ituturo ko sa magiging anak ko, turns out nalaman pa pala nila yung about sa SA case ko before at kasalanan ko raw yun dahil kung kani kanino raw ako sumasama, padalos dalos daw ako sa mga desisyon ko at hindi raw nila gusto kung paano ako mag isip, just because I went out on a date with a guy after we broke up. All I said was hindi naman nila alam kung anong mga pinagdaanan namin sa relasyon kaya wala silang karapatang husgahan ang buong pagkatao ko.
They asked me to stay away from Husband and their family. Madugong usap ang nangyari samin ni H, I asked him to make up his mind dahil naiintindihan ko na pamilya pa rin sila at ayokong gumawa siya ng desisyon na pagsisisihan niya rin sa huli. After all, sinabihan siya ng kapatid niya na sarili lang ang iniisip when all he did was return the favors to his parents and support them financially. He was indeed a good son. But, nagmatigas na siya that time and he chose me. We went on our lives, nagbibigay siya sa parents niya ng monthly financial support and made sure na di naman sila deprived of anything dahil pareho naman silang well off na ng ate niya. We got married and tried to invite them pero dad niya lang ang umattend who never got involved sa mga past issues, mabait naman dad niya pero sadyang tahimik lang talaga at hindi na piniling makisali pa noon, hindi ko na masyadong ginawang big deal dahil nakita ko kung paano siya makipag usap sa mom ni H noon na parang sumuko na lang siya sa ugali at hinayaan na lang na siya ang mag desisyon ng lahat. Anyway, wala na silang narinig sakin after nila ko sabihan nang mas marami pang masasakit na salita mismong araw ng kasal namin, lahat yon thru facebook messenger or sms, at wala silang ni ho or ni ha natanggap mula sakin dahil hindi ako pinalaki ng magulang ko na pinipilit ang mga taong may ayaw sakin sa mga dahilan na sila lang ang may gawa. Okay na okay si Hubby ko sa parents ko, lalo sa dad ko.
Fast forward, nagkaroon na kami ng pamilya. Si Hubby, tuloy pa rin ang pag iinvite sa pamilya niya na dumalo sa mga okasyon ng pamilya namin. Nakabili na kami ng lupa, sariling bahay, masasabi naming comfortable kami sa buhay na meron kami, at lahat yon pareho naming pinaghirapan habang tumutulong kami pareho sa mga kanya kanya naming pamilya. Never ko siyang pinigilan na mangumbida sa pamilya niya sa mga celebrations namin, pero never naman silang umattend, except sa father in law ko. Hanggang sa last year, Christmas, kinumbinsi ako ng asawa ko na mag celebrate ng christmas eve sa family house nila, tumanggi ako, niluhuran niya pa ko at araw araw akong kinukumbinsi, binibigyan ng kung ano ano bago mag christmas eve mismo. Hindi pa nakikita ng anak ko ang mother and sister in law ko, nang personal, kaya kahit masama sa loob ko, pumayag na ko pero hindi ako nangako na lahat ng mangyayari sa gabi na yon ay aayon sa kagustuhan niya. We went there and nameet ng anak ko yung mga pinsan niya from sis in law, pinakilala rin niya siya sa mga pinsan ni H, ate at mom niya, hindi ko maalis yung mata ko sa anak ko kung paano nila iwewelcome. Binigyan ng sobre ng mom in law ko yung anak ko, ampao, at pinagmano, samantalang yung sis in law ko naman ay walang kibo. Pinalipas ko yung gabi na yon at kating kati umalis, father in law ko lang at ilang mga pinsan niya ang nakakausap ko non. Hanggang sa, tahimik na naglalaro ang anak ko sa iPad niya, sinita ni mother in law ng “masama yan sa mata mo, hinahayaan ka lang ba ni mommy mo dyan?” Tiningnan ko yung Husband ko nang masama, sumagot naman siya agad ng “kahahawak lang ng iPad, may screen time yan na 30 minutes per umaga, tanghali, at gabi lang”. Binigay sakin ng anak ko yung iPad niya at tumabi sakin, sumagot yung mom niya ng “kahit na, hinahayaan niyo yung bata, lalabo mata nyan. kaya yata mahina e. para kayong mga..” hindi niya na tinuloy, wala nang sinabi yung asawa ko. Lumabas na ako, sinama ko yung anak ko at nagdrive ako pauwi. Iniwan ko yung asawa ko don sa sobrang inis ko kahit alam kong mali. Sinabihan raw akong bastos ng mama at ate niya, at mayabang na raw ako porke raw nakaangat ako ng konti sa buhay. Hindi man lang daw ako humingi ng sorry sa kanila kahit kailan at hindi man lang daw ako nag effort man lang na subukang makipag usap. Wala na lang talaga akong nasabi sa kakapalan ng mga mukha nila. After ng completion ceremony ng anak ko sa preparatory level, ipinost ko lahat ng achievements niya sa facebook, in public, from best in English and Math, to best in Art, Most Honest, Most Friendly, Most Inquisitive, Most Helpful, at yung award niya for being 2nd Honor in class wherein 16 sila.
Ngayon, nalaman namin na may sakit daw si mother in law at gustong makita ulit ang apo, ang tanging message niya lang kay H ay “gusto kong makita si son’s name”, walang sorry at walang anything, wala nang ibang sinabi. Now, ABYG for saying I won’t let my son see his grandmother sa father side, kahit mamatay pa siya?
2024.05.28 03:13 Adventurous_Law_9229 Tinnitus C&P exam and an effective date question.
So I had my C&P exam last week for tinnitus, and I want to say it went well. Lady was nice, asked lots of questions, didn't seem dismissive, or condescending like I have heard about some other contractors. We talked about my military service, my deployments, work conditions, what I hear, is it in both ears, if it's constant, how it affects me, and all that stuff. She used and followed the C&P tinnitus intake form checklist making sure we hit all the questions and areas. I also took a hearing test and a speech recognition test and some kind of other ear pressure test. In all it took about 45 minutes. She then said she will things done on her end by the end of day and the rest would be up to the VA. So I am hoping that I will get a positive finding.
So now, as for the effective date, my original claim for tinnitus was denied with my original packet that was submitted at my retirement physical in 2014 which was submitted by the VA. As I said the tinnitus was denied but I was granted other things and I ended up with 40%, which at the time being green and unknowing, I was happy with. It was originally denied but cause they said there was no military causation, I never claimed to have it or complained about tinnitus, and there was never a diagnosis. Bummed about the tinnitus because I do have it and it's just gotten worse since then but I was like no worries, I will submit my appeal as instructed in my packet within the year.
Moving forward months, I submitted my appeal, and it was being reviewed. Forward a few more months I was sent a notification that the VA was moving to a new and faster appeals process called RAMP, which was supposed to be faster or you could stay in the old legacy system. So I elected to get moved into the RAMP system for which I later got a notification that my appeal was now in the new system. Forward a few more month, my claim status changed from being reviewed to being "closed." The message said something to the effect of, "you have elected to move to the RAMP program yada, yada, yada, and this appeal is now closed." there was additional fine print wording stating, "while this appeal is now closed it does not mean that it has been decided and it may still be under review, or open, if you have any questions call the 1-800 number. Again being young and new to all of this I just assumed it was closed and denied so I went on with my life.
Forward to the present, knowing what I know now I was thinking how I never received an actual denial letter, which they always send you if it's denied. Well I never got one, so I went back, checked the status and it still said the same thing, so I said fuck it and I called the number. I talked to the representative and told him that I was curious about my appeal that I filed back in like 2015 for tinnitus. I told him that I was curious about my appeal cause I never received any official documents say that my appeal was either denied or approved. He put me on hold and came back and said, yes sir that claim is still active and still being reviewed. I said are you serious, I said that was back in 2015, were in 2024 now. he said yes sir it shows you were moved to RAMP and its still open its still in the review process and hasn't been decided yet. So I asked him, ok well I have the supporting evidence for my claim to counter the reason for the original denial, how can I submit the evidence. So he told me to file a supplemental claim and how to do it and attache it to my appeal. Within a week I had a C&P scheduled.
Personally, and the way he was talking and making it sound, my appeal got lost in the system which makes sense cause I do not see how it should have take this long.
So my question is, if my tinnitus gets approved, my original claim was in 2014, appeal was done in 2015, claim stayed dormant from 2015-2024, I then filed a supplemental claim,(new but existing evidence from my STR's that they missed or ignored in the original claim which now trigged a C&P, was never given a C&P for tinnitus, just a hearing test upon retirement) So with all that said, would my tinnitus claim if won, have an effective date of 2014? Do you think they may approve the % increase but find a way to get out of paying back pay and say there was an error therefore my effective date is 2024?
If the additional 10% is granted with a 2014 effective date the pay out would be over 100k.
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So now, as for the effective date, my original claim for tinnitus was denied with my original packet that was submitted at my retirement physical in 2014 which was submitted by the VA. As I said the tinnitus was denied but I was granted other things and I ended up with 40%, which at the time being green and unknowing, I was happy with. It was originally denied but cause they said there was no military causation, I never claimed to have it or complained about tinnitus, and there was never a diagnosis. Bummed about the tinnitus because I do have it and it's just gotten worse since then but I was like no worries, I will submit my appeal as instructed in my packet within the year.
Moving forward months, I submitted my appeal, and it was being reviewed. Forward a few more months I was sent a notification that the VA was moving to a new and faster appeals process called RAMP, which was supposed to be faster or you could stay in the old legacy system. So I elected to get moved into the RAMP system for which I later got a notification that my appeal was now in the new system. Forward a few more month, my claim status changed from being reviewed to being "closed." The message said something to the effect of, "you have elected to move to the RAMP program yada, yada, yada, and this appeal is now closed." there was additional fine print wording stating, "while this appeal is now closed it does not mean that it has been decided and it may still be under review, or open, if you have any questions call the 1-800 number. Again being young and new to all of this I just assumed it was closed and denied so I went on with my life.
Forward to the present, knowing what I know now I was thinking how I never received an actual denial letter, which they always send you if it's denied. Well I never got one, so I went back, checked the status and it still said the same thing, so I said fuck it and I called the number. I talked to the representative and told him that I was curious about my appeal that I filed back in like 2015 for tinnitus. I told him that I was curious about my appeal cause I never received any official documents say that my appeal was either denied or approved. He put me on hold and came back and said, yes sir that claim is still active and still being reviewed. I said are you serious, I said that was back in 2015, were in 2024 now. he said yes sir it shows you were moved to RAMP and its still open its still in the review process and hasn't been decided yet. So I asked him, ok well I have the supporting evidence for my claim to counter the reason for the original denial, how can I submit the evidence. So he told me to file a supplemental claim and how to do it and attache it to my appeal. Within a week I had a C&P scheduled.
Personally, and the way he was talking and making it sound, my appeal got lost in the system which makes sense cause I do not see how it should have take this long.
So my question is, if my tinnitus gets approved, my original claim was in 2014, appeal was done in 2015, claim stayed dormant from 2015-2024, I then filed a supplemental claim,(new but existing evidence from my STR's that they missed or ignored in the original claim which now trigged a C&P, was never given a C&P for tinnitus, just a hearing test upon retirement) So with all that said, would my tinnitus claim if won, have an effective date of 2014? Do you think they may approve the % increase but find a way to get out of paying back pay and say there was an error therefore my effective date is 2024?
If the additional 10% is granted with a 2014 effective date the pay out would be over 100k.
2024.05.28 03:12 No_Box_2313 As a Master student in Control Theory - I'm lost
Hello everyone, why I say that I'm lost? Yeah it's true. I am currently a Research assistant in Korea, my expertise is advance control theory. Since my previous plan is continue my PhD in control or related fields like Robotics, autonomous driving, etc, I choose to join the control theory first to strengthen my basic knowledge on applied mathematics as well as control problems. However, most of the time and my public papers were on theory, and one day, I got the bad new that my father got cancer.
More than anything, I want to take care of and treat my father and let him have a comfortable and happy life these days. I decided to stop studying for a PhD and instead find a suitable industry job to take care of my family, because from now on I will be the one to shoulder that responsibility for my father. Because plans suddenly changed right around the time I applied for a PhD scholarship, I chose to stay as an RA for my old professor, and spend the extra time after my RA job to improve my knowledge in the industry such as programming skills. I thought it would be easy to find a job in Korea or Vietnam in the Robotics or Automotive field because I have a master's degree. But no, the harsh truth is that a Master's degree in control theory has no meaning at all compared to a Master's degree in Robotics or in automotive. My CV got desk rejected and didn't have a chance for a proper interview even though my results at the Master's were very good. I was very sad about that. I didn't expect to fall into such a difficult situation when 2 years of studying and 1 year of research again like a fresher applying for a job but not even being called for an interview.
Haha, that's all for complaining, but I will still try to take care of my father. I just hope that when you choose and consider opportunities in the future, try to find your own way out. Thank you
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More than anything, I want to take care of and treat my father and let him have a comfortable and happy life these days. I decided to stop studying for a PhD and instead find a suitable industry job to take care of my family, because from now on I will be the one to shoulder that responsibility for my father. Because plans suddenly changed right around the time I applied for a PhD scholarship, I chose to stay as an RA for my old professor, and spend the extra time after my RA job to improve my knowledge in the industry such as programming skills. I thought it would be easy to find a job in Korea or Vietnam in the Robotics or Automotive field because I have a master's degree. But no, the harsh truth is that a Master's degree in control theory has no meaning at all compared to a Master's degree in Robotics or in automotive. My CV got desk rejected and didn't have a chance for a proper interview even though my results at the Master's were very good. I was very sad about that. I didn't expect to fall into such a difficult situation when 2 years of studying and 1 year of research again like a fresher applying for a job but not even being called for an interview.
Haha, that's all for complaining, but I will still try to take care of my father. I just hope that when you choose and consider opportunities in the future, try to find your own way out. Thank you
2024.05.28 03:12 ricotito23 [USA-PR] [H] Switch,PS2,PS4,PS5,Vita,3DS Games [W] PayPal
Selling my personal collection. Over 800 Games.
Sorry my bad english. Paypal ff.
Free Shipping over $100. More photos at request. Offers are welcome. Most of these Prices are based on Pricharting (and pricecharting price are inaccurate so sorry im lazy to put my prices for these 800 games) Offers are welcome Worst can say is no.There's a problem with letter T jumps to C in switch and vita to A. working on it. Also i have blaster master and shantae slipcovers. Want to sell them together with Slipcovers.
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Nintendo Switch
13 Sentinels: Aegis Rim CIB+ 32.92
1971 Project Helios New 15.41
Boy and His Blob New 50.49
Little Golf Journey New 29.62
Robot Named Fight [Premium Edition] New 50.5
Adventure Time: Pirates of the Enchiridion New 25.68
AeternoBlade II New 35.5
Afterparty New 38
Aggelos New 38.22
AI: The Somnium Files CIB+ 60.5
Alex Kidd in Miracle World DX New 18.98
Alwa's Collection New 25.62
American Hero New 40.49
Ancestors Legacy New 24.07
Annapurna Interactive [Deluxe Limited Edition Collection] New 230.00
Ape Out [Special Reserve] New 40.00
Ara Fell & Rise of the Third Power New 57.24
Arcade Spirits New 20
Archvale New 51.25
ARMS CIB+ 30.5
Ary and the Secret of Seasons New 12.52
Arzette: The Jewel of Faramore New 55.00
Assassin's Creed: The Rebel Collection CIB+ 17.48
Astalon: Tears of the Earth New 50.63
Astral Chain New 48.99
Astronite New 19.48
Atelier Ryza 2: Lost Legends & the Secret Fairy New 55.00
Atelier Ryza: Ever Darkness and the Secret Hideout CIB+ 49.5
Atelier Ryza: Ever Darkness and the Secret Hideout New 60.1
Attack on Titan 2: Final Battle New 65.00
Azure Striker Gunvolt 3 New 48.5
Azure Striker Gunvolt: Striker Pack CIB+ 25.79
Balan Wonderworld New 11.77
Baldur's Gate and Baldur's Gate II: Enhanced Editions New 120.00
Battle Chef Brigade Deluxe CIB+ 32.61
Battle Princess Madelyn: Royal Edition New 52.88
Black Bird New 55.5
Blade Runner: Enhanced Edition New 48.72
Blasphemous CIB+ 108.49
Blaster Master Zero New 44.14
Blaster Master Zero II New 40.49
Blaster Master Zero III New 34.5
Blazing Beaks New 30.02
Blazing Chrome CIB+ 65.92
Bloodrayne 1 & 2: Revamped Dual Pack w/ Slipcover New 100.47
BloodRayne Betrayal: Fresh Bites New 40.49
Bloodstained: Curse Of The Moon 2 New 28.49
Bloodstained: Ritual of the Night New 21.23
Blossom Tales II: The Minotaur Prince New 46.48
Blossom Tales: The Sleeping King CIB+ 150.47
Blue Fire CIB+ 28.49
Blue Reflection: Second Light New 59.83
Bomb Chicken CIB+ 38.14
BROFORCE [SWITCH RESERVE] New 40.00
Bug Fables: The Everlasting Sapling New 55.93
Bugsnax CIB+ 30.77
Burnout Paradise Remastered CIB+ 14.98
BUTCHER New 36.9
Cannon Dancer: Osman New 54
Captain Toad: Treasure Tracker CIB+ 30.49
Captain Tsubasa: Rise of New Champions New 26.09
Card Shark Collector's Edition New 40.00
Carrion: Special Reserve Edition New 40.00
Castlevania Anniversary Collection New 40.00
Cat Girl Without Salad: Amuse-Bouche New 40.97
Cat Quest + Cat Quest II: Pawsome Pack New 49.5
Cathedral New 66.91
Celeste New 62.39
Chicken Police - Paint it RED! CIB+ 13.25
Children of Morta CIB+ 22.09
Children of Zodiarcs New 44.77
Citizens Unite! Earth X Space New 29.49
Coffee Talk New 42.15
COGEN: Sword of Rewind & Gunvolt Chronicles: Luminous Avenger iX 2 Double Pack New 80.48
Collar X Malice New 30.49
Contra Anniversary Collection New 41.45
Contra Anniversary Collection New 41.45
Cooking Mama: Cookstar New 36.11
Corpse Killer: 25th Anniversary Edition New 42.7
Cosmo Dreamer & Like Dreamer: Double-D Collection New 25.00
Cris Tales New 13.99
Crisis Core: Final Fantasy VII Reunion CIB+ 25
Crossing Souls - Special Reserve New 40.00
Crystal Crisis New 31.52
Cthulhu Saves Christmas New 45.17
Cult of the Lamb [Special Reserve] New 72.48
Dandara: Trials of Fear Edition CIB+ 41.29
Dark Devotion New 45.49
Darksiders Genesis CIB+ 18
Darkwood CIB+ 108.46
DARQ: Complete Edition New 38.97
Dawn of the Monsters New 50.36
Dead Cells: Return to Castlevania Edition New 32.01
Dead or School New 52.03
Deadly Premonition 2: A Blessing in Disguise CIB+ 16.77
Deadly Premonition Origins New 38.03
Death end re;Quest New 41.97
Death Road to Canada New 40
Death's Door [Special Reserve] New 33.03
Death's Gambit: Afterlife New 38.72
Demon Throttle [Reserve Edition] New 25.25
Demon Throttle [Reserve Edition] New 25.25
Demon Turf New 40.82
Demon's Tilt New 44.5
Deponia Collection New 83.14
Dex New 48.38
Digimon Survive New 20.95
Dimension Drive [Limited Edition] New 65.48
Disaster Report 4: Summer Memories CIB+ 25.5
DISC ROOM [SWITCH RESERVE] New 30.00
Disgaea 5 Complete New 39.5
Disney Classic Games: Aladdin and the Lion King New 18.29
Disney Tsum Tsum Festival New 26.55
DISTRAINT Collection New 33.76
Divinity: Original Sin II - Definitive Edition New 180.49
Dodgeball Academia New 19.5
DoDonPachi Resurrection New 55.38
Doki Doki Literature Club Plus! New 20.00
DOOM CIB+ 28.9
Doom 64 New 45.45
DOOM Eternal New 89
DOOM: The Classics Collection New 50.5
Double Dragon & Kunio-Kun Retro Brawler Bundle New 52.83
Double Dragon IV New 33.97
Double Dragon: Neon New 50.49
Downwell [Special Reserve Edition] New 60.00
Double Switch: 25th Anniversary Edition New 55.89
Dragon Ball Z: Kakarot + A New Power Awakens Set Used 25.00
Dragon Quest Treasures New 29.53
Dragon Quest XI S: Echoes of an Elusive Age - Definitive Edition New 40.00
Dragon Star Varnir New 45.49
Dragon's Dogma: Dark Arisen CIB+ 24.74
Dragon's Lair Trilogy New 144.25
DRAINUS New 63.39
Dreamscaper New 44.72
Dusk New 44.49
Eastward CIB+ 20.3
Eldest Souls New 45.5
Elliot Quest New 28.48
Enclave HD New 52.67
Ender Lilies: Quietus of the Knights New 55.00
Endling - Extinction is Forever New 25.76
Epic Chef New 15.57
Espgaluda II New 60.27
Fairy Fencer F: Advent Dark Force New 48.41
FAR: Lone Sails New 49.69
Fast RMX New 71.73
Fatal Twelve New 44.49
Fault Milestone One New 28.49
Fight'N Rage New 45.49
FINAL FANTASY VII & VIII REMASTERED TWIN PACK CIB+ 37.63
Final Fantasy XII: The Zodiac Age New 31.61
Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes New 20.17
Flinthook New 45.49
Flipping Death CIB+ 28.39
Foretales New 19.29
Forgotton Anne CIB+ 35.49
Fran Bow New 111.48
Freedom Finger CIB+ 77.4
Freedom Planet New 57.39
Furi CIB+ 48.64
Gal Metal: World Tour Edition CIB+ 17.69
Gato Roboto [Special Reserve Edition] New 40.00
Ghost 1.0 + Unepic Collection: Standard Edition New 30.00
Ghost of a Tale New 66.61
Going Under New 37.47
Golf Story New 82.75
Gotta Protectors: Cart of Darkness New 45.35
Grandia HD Collection New 82.51
GrimGrimoire OnceMore [Deluxe Edition] New 42.33
GRIS [Limited Special Reserve] CIB+ 60.00
Gunbrick: Reloaded New 24.68
Gunlord X New 90.00
Guns, Gore & Cannoli 1 & 2 New 140.00
Gunvolt Chronicles: Luminous Avenger iX New 84.5
Gyakuten Saiban 123: Naruhodo Selection New 41.49
Hades New 39.19
Haven New 45.49
Heaven's Vault New 32.15
Hero Must Die. Again New 56.5
Heroland Knowble Edition New 18.63
Hollow Knight CIB+ 31.5
Horgihugh and Friends New 28.18
Hot Wheels Unleashed New 22.03
Hotline Miami Collection [Special Reserve] New 40.00
Ib New 55.46
Ikenfell New 42.56
Immortals Fenyx Rising New 15.22
In Sound Mind: Deluxe Edition New 21.81
Indivisible New 19.41
Infernax New 50.5
Inscryption [Special Reserve] New 200.00
Ion Fury New 35.35
ITTA CIB+ 35.00
ITTA [Steelbook Edition] New 50.00
Ittle Dew 2+ New 43.45
Jamestown+ New 50.98
Joe Dever's Lone Wolf New 65.54
Katamari Damacy REROLL New 23.45
Katanakami New 42.3
Kaze and the Wild Masks New 32.44
KeyWe New 25.49
Killer Queen Black New 16.13
King's Bounty II New 17.85
Kingdom Hearts: Melody of Memory New 20.59
Kingdoms of Amalur: Re-Reckoning CIB+ 19.98
Knights and Bikes New 45.49
Kotodama: The 7 Mysteries of Fujisawa New 19.45
KUNAI New 30.00
L.A. Noire CIB+ 29.99
Lair of the Clockwork God New 39.13
Layers of Fear: Legacy New 147.86
LEGO Star Wars: The Skywalker Saga New 20.48
Little Nightmares II CIB+ 20.75
Lonely Mountains: Downhill SRG#46 New 86.79
Loop Hero CIB+ 25.00
Loop Hero [Collectors Edition] New 40.00
Love Esquire [Limited Edition] New 90.5
LoveKami Trilogy New 35.00
Lumines Remastered New 32.5
LUNARK New 49.52
Mario + Rabbids Sparks of Hope CIB+ 15.42
Mario + Rabbids: Kingdom Battle CIB+ 12.5
Mario Party: Superstars CIB+ 39.5
Marvel Ultimate Alliance 3: The Black Order CIB 30.00
Mary Skelter 2 New 40.00
Mary Skelter: Finale New 49.39
Mato Anomalies New 19.73
Mega Man 11 New 20.48
Mega Man Zero/ZX Legacy Collection CIB+ 24.5
Megadimension Neptunia VII New 45.5
Mighty Gunvolt Burst New 44.45
Mighty Switch Force! Collection CIB+ 45.49
Ministry of Broadcast New 26.72
Minoria New 50.47
Miracle Snack Shop [Limited Edition] New 35.00
Moero Chronicle Hyper New 90.35
Moero Crystal H New 50.77
Momodora: Reverie Under the Moonlight New 71.68
MONARK Deluxe Edition New 37
Monster Hunter Generations Ultimate New 42.69
Monster Hunter Stories 2: Wings of Ruin New 31.49
Monster Sanctuary New 58.46
Monstrum New 38.5
Mother Russia Bleeds [Special Reserve] New 45.00
Mother Russia Bleeds [Special Reserve] New 45.00
Ms. Splosion Man CIB+ 31.98
Mulaka New 60.00
Murder By Numbers Collectors Edition New 80.36
Mushihimesama New 60.7
My Friend Pedro [Special Reserve Edition] New 45.00
Narita Boy New 45.55
NEO: The World Ends With You CIB+ 20.5
NeoGeo Pocket Color Selection Vol. 1 New 43.06
Neon Abyss New 42.38
Neversong & Pinstripe CIB+ 37.5
New Super Lucky's Tale New 33.59
New Super Mario Bros. U Deluxe New 39.5
Ni no Kuni: Wrath of the White Witch New 26.5
NieR: Automata - The End of YoRHa Edition New 39.5
Night in the Woods New 59.92
Night Trap: 25th Anniversary Edition New 56.06
Ninja Gaiden: Master Collection New 50.42
No Man's Sky CIB+ 26.25
No More Heroes CIB+ 40.5
No More Heroes 2: Desperate Struggle CIB+ 35.92
No More Heroes III CIB+ 15.5
Ocean's Heart New 53.33
Octahedron New 45.43
Octopath Traveler New 52.43
Octopath Traveler II New 39.99
Oddworld - Collection New 36.25
à Âkami HD New 32.99
One Step From Eden New 34.15
Oniken + Odallus Collection New 36.51
Opus Collection CIB+ 22.49
Ori: The Collection New 28.97
Othercide New 32.45
Outlast: Bundle of Terror / Outlast 2 CIB+ 250.00
Overlord: Escape from Nazarick New 35.97
Owlboy CIB+ 16.48
Oxenfree New 99.53
Panzer Dragoon New 40.5
Panzer Paladin New 48.13
Pathway New 27.6
Phoenotopia: Awakening [Premium Edition] New 114.25
Pikmin 3 Deluxe CIB+ 35.00
Pikmin 4 New 42.79
Piofiore: Fated Memories New 27.95
PixelJunk Eden 2 New 25.49
Pocky & Rocky Reshrined New 25.49
Pokémon Legends: Arceus New 41.19
Pokémon Mystery Dungeon: Rescue Team DX CIB+ 40.5
Pokémon Sword CIB+ 30.26
Pokémon Violet New 44.5
Postal Redux New 25.5
PowerSlave: Exhumed New 55.00
Prinny Presents NIS Classics Volume 2 [Deluxe Edition] New 43.99
Prodeus New 40.67
Project Warlock New 67.14
Puyo Puyo Tetris New 17.5
Q.U.B.E. 2 New 51.32
Quake New 38.49
Radiant Silvergun New 58.09
Rainbow Billy: The Curse of the Leviathan New 23.82
Razion EX New 90.00
realMyst: Masterpiece Edition New 78.08
République: Anniversary Edition New 35.49
Return of the Obra Dinn New 58.18
Return to Monkey Island CIB+ 43.09
Return to Shironagasu Island CIB+ 28.5
Risk of Rain 2 New 14.7
River City Girls CIB+ 80.23
River City Girls 2 New 50.5
River City Girls [PAX Variant] New 142.6
River City Girls Zero New 44.49
River City: Rival Showdown New 30.49
Rogue Heroes: Ruins of Tasos CIB+ 30.00
Roki CIB+ 30.00
Rolling Sky Collection CIB+ 20.00
Root Film New 34.09
RUINER [SWITCH RESERVE] New 45.00
Rune Factory 3 Special New 23.41
Rune Factory 3 Special New 23.41
Rune Factory 4 Special [Archival Edition] New 90.00
Sakuna: Of Rice and Ruin New 27.5
Sally Face [Deluxe Edition] New 224.81
Sam & Max Save the World New 43.5
Sam & Max: Beyond Time and Space Remastered New 44
Samurai Jack: Battle Through Time New 70.48
Save me Mr Tako: Definitive Edition New 33.5
Scott Pilgrim vs. The World: The Game - Complete Edition New 32.49
Sea Horizon [Limited Edition] New 42.49
Sea of Solitude: The Director's Cut New 20.00
Seabed New 40.42
SeaBed [Limited Edition] New 135.38
Senran Kagura Reflexions New 129.74
Senren * Banka New 70.00
SENSEs: Midnight [Limited Edition] New 47.43
Serious Sam Collection [Switch Reserve] New 50.00
Seven Pirates H New 30.00
Seven Pirates H New 30.00
Seven Pirates H New 30.00
Shadow Man Remastered New 48.39
Shadowgate New 62.5
Shadowrun Trilogy New 45.00
Shadows of Adam New 34.49
Shadowverse: Champion's Battle New 21.95
Shantae New 39.34
Shantae and the Pirate's Curse New 381.21
Shantae and the Pirate's Curse Box 49.62
Shantae and the Seven Sirens New 50.2
Shantae: Half-Genie Hero [Ultimate Edition] New 38.2
Shantae: Risky's Revenge New 38.51
Shaq Fu: A Legend Reborn New 19.57
Shikhondo: Soul Eater New 34.44
Shin Megami Tensei III: Nocturne HD Remaster New 25.5
Shin Megami Tensei V New 22.38
Shin Megami Tensei V New 22.38
Shining Resonance Refrain [Draconic Launch Edition] New 48.6
Sine Mora EX New 23.02
Skelattack New 45.00
Slime-san New 43.74
Smile For Me New 30.00
SNK Heroines Tag Team Frenzy New 29.15
Sol Cresta: Dramatic Edition New 45.48
Sonic Colors Ultimate CIB+ 15.48
Sonic Frontiers CIB+ 21.62
Sonic Mania New 16.51
Spiritfarer New 28.95
Splatoon 2 CIB+ 19.67
Splatoon 3 New 43.99
Star Wars Pinball New 19.72
Star Wars: Knights of the Old Republic New 60.49
Star Wars: Knights of the Old Republic II - The Sith Lords New 59.79
Star Wars: Knights of the Old Republic II - The Sith Lords New 59.79
Star Wars: Republic Commando New 26.45
Steel Assault New 48
Streets of Rage 4 New 33.45
Strife: Veteran Edition New 30.00
Subnautica + Subnautica: Below Zero New 32.49
Super Blood Hockey New 60.96
Super Bomberman R New 20.42
Super Mario 3D All-Stars CIB+ 70.00
Super Mario Maker 2 CIB+ 30.48
Super Meat Boy New 38.5
Super Meat Boy Forever New 25.98
Super Monkey Ball Banana Mania New 13.48
Supraland New 33.75
Sushi Striker: The Way of Sushido New 12.17
Taiko no Tatsujin Rhythm Festival New 15.5
Tails of Iron [Crimson Knight Edition] New 42.89
Tales of Vesperia: Definitive Edition New 30.41
Tandem: A Tale of Shadows New 20.48
Terraria New 24.66
DioField Chronicle CIB+ 25.46
Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim CIB+ 35.31
Falconeer: Warrior Edition New 18.88
Friends Of Ringo Ishikawa New 26.73
Great Ace Attorney Chronicles CIB+ 30.98
Knight Witch Deluxe Edition New 32.07
Legend of Heroes: Trails of Cold Steel III - Extracurricular Edition CIB+ 31.77
Legend of Tianding New 45.00
Legend of Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom New 47.46
Letter: A Horror Visual Novel [Limited Edition] New 73.75
The Messenger [Special Reserve Games Edition] New 280.00
Missing CIB+ 35.5
Mummy Demastered New 57.71
Red Lantern New 58.5
RED STRINGS CLUB [SWITCH RESERVE] New 38.5
Silver Case 2425 Deluxe Edition CIB 25.00
TakeOver New 47.41
Talos Principle New 40.00
Touryst New 60.00
Wonderful 101: Remastered New 23.5
World Ends with You: Final Remix New 53.95
There Is No Game: Wrong Dimension New 53.51
Thumper New 45.45
Time on Frog Island CIB+ 17.43
Timespinner [Limited Run] CIB+ 77.28
Tiny Barbarian DX New 33.97
To The Moon New 67.98
ToeJam & Earl: Back in the Groove! CIB+ 49.86
Tokyo Mirage Sessions #FE Encore New 66.72
Tokyo Mirage Sessions #FE Encore New 66.72
TowerFall New 45.5
Travis Strikes Again: No More Heroes CIB+ 24.99
Treasures Of The Aegean New 17.98
Trigger Witch New 34.59
Trigger Witch - Limited Edition New 57.66
Trover Saves the Universe New 37.76
Turok / Turok 2: Seeds of Evil New 167.4
Twin Blades of the Three Kingdoms New 30.00
Two Point Hospital New 26.5
UnderMine New 51.08
Unravel Two CIB+ 18.35
Unreal Life New 39.15
Unsighted New 47.2
Untitled Goose Game New 22.45
Valfaris New 39.64
Valis: The Fantasm Soldier Collection New 70.61
Valis: The Fantasm Soldier Collection II New 50.5
Valkyria Chronicles 4 New 66.81
Very Very Valet New 17.77
Wandersong CIB+ 33.99
Warborn New 16.6
Warhammer 40,000: Mechanicus CIB+ 21
WarioWare: Get it Together! CIB+ 24.55
West of Dead New 39.1
Wizard of Legend New 55.00
Wonder Boy: The Dragon's Trap New 39.14
World Of Simulators New 45
Wreckfest New 25.5
Wulverblade New 68.83
Xenoblade Chronicles 2 Loose 42.6
Xenoblade Chronicles 2: Torna the Golden Country loose 45
Xtreme Sports New 50.5
Yoku's Island Express CIB+ 35.5
Yooka-Laylee and the Impossible Lair New 35.5
Young Souls New 34.49
Yu-Gi-Oh! Legacy of the Duelist: Link Evolution CIB+ 17.69
Yuppie Psycho: Executive Edition (Elite Edition) New 45.49
Yurukill: The Calumniation Games (Deluxe Edition) New 20.73
Zombies Ate My Neighbors and Ghoul Patrol New 40.09
PS2
Armored Core Nexus CIB105.33
PS4
88 Antarctica New 45.00
Antartica 88 [Variant Cover] New 185.5
Deadpool CIB+ 76.33
Death Park New 45
Death Park New 45
Death Park New 45
Death Park New 45
Digimon Survive New 16.55
Divinity: Original Sin II - Definitive Edition New 71
Doki Doki Literature Club Plus! New 21.17
Helldivers [Super-Earth Ultimate Edition] CIB+ 45.00
Minecraft: Story Mode - A Telltale Games Series - The Complete Adventure CIB+ 58.41
Outriders: Worldslayer New 18.48
Revenge of The Bird King New 31.99
Saints Row: The Third Remastered New 15.1
Senran Kagura Burst Re:Newal [At the Seams Edition] New 60.49
Senran Kagura Burst Re:Newal [Tailor Made Edition] New 47.99
Senran Kagura: Peach Beach Splash (No Shirt, No Shoes, All Service Edition) New 71.5
Shadow Warrior 2 [Special Reserve Edition] New 235.52
Super Perils of Baking Special Edition [SEGA Outerbox] New 120.00
Swords of Ditto: Mormo's Curse [Special Reserve Edition] New 40.00
Tamashii New 450.00
Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles: Mutants in Manhattan CIB+ 40.00
Valkyria Chronicles Remastered Steelbook Edition New 30.45
VITA
2064: Read Only Memories New 67.97
88 Heroes New 40.6
99Vidas New 125.97
Hole New World New 48.82
Rose in the Twilight New 192
Winter's Daydream [Limited Edition] New 64.1
Aegis of Earth: Protonovus Assault New 26.49
Akiba's Beat New 30.25
Akiba's Trip: Undead & Undressed CIB+ 25.49
Alone With You New 38.5
Angry Birds Star Wars New 20.48
Another World: 20th Anniversary Edition New 40.49
Antiquia Lost New 34.75
Aqua Kitty: Milk Mine Defender DX New 51.5
Army Corps of Hell New 23.99
Asdivine Hearts New 35.46
Astro Aqua Kitty [Limited Edition] New 64.7
Atari Flashback Classics New 60.61
Atelier Escha & Logy Plus: Alchemists of the Dusk Sky (Limited Edition) New 168.49
Awesome Pea Collection [Limited Edition] CIB+ 40.1
Axiom Verge Multiverse Edition New 56.56
Back in 1995 [Limited Edition] New 191.4
Bard's Gold New 33
Bastion New 64.16
Batman: Arkham Origins Blackgate CIB+ 23.67
Bit.Trip Presents...Runner2: Future Legend of Rhythm Alien New 33.49
Bit.Trip Presents...Runner2: Future Legend of Rhythm Alien New 33.49
Bloodstained: Curse of the Moon New 118.23
Borderlands 2 CIB+ 23.49
Breach & Clear New 308.01
Broken Age New 33.77
Bunny Must Die: Chelsea and the 7 Devils New 95
Call of Duty: Black Ops Declassified CIB+ 22.29
Call of Duty: Black Ops Declassified Loose 18.98
Chaos;Child New 45.61
Chasm CIB+ 60.49
Child of Light CIB+ 24.56
Claire: Extended Cut CIB+ 35.17
Code:Realize - Future Blessings Loose 14.9
Code:Realize - Guardian of Rebirth New 25.5
Code:Realize - Guardian of Rebirth Loose 14.2
Conga Master Go! [Limited Edition] New 51.83
Corpse Party: Blood Drive New 58.77
Cosmic Star Heroine CIB+ 43.25
Criminal Girls 2: Party Favors CIB+ 74.09
Criminal Girls: Invite Only CIB+ 54.49
Croixleur Sigma New 40.49
Cursed Castilla EX [Limited Edition] New 60.5
Curses 'N Chaos New 38.72
Damascus Gear: Operation Osaka New 40.51
Damascus Gear: Operation Tokyo New 41
Danganronpa 2: Goodbye Despair Loose 19.41
Danganronpa 2: Goodbye Despair Loose 19.41
Danganronpa Another Episode: Ultra Despair Girls New 31.5
Danganronpa V3: Killing Harmony CIB+ 58.89
Danganronpa: Trigger Happy Havoc CIB+ 25.97
Dariusburst: Chronicle Saviours New 47.38
Deadbolt New 42.44
Death Mark CIB+ 23.22
Death Tales [Limited Edition] New 40.4
Deemo: The Last Recital New 34.22
Defender's Quest: Valley of the Forgotten New 37.86
Demon Gaze Loose 22.22
Demon Gaze CIB+ 25.81
Demon Gaze II New 74.66
Demon's Tier+ [Limited Edition] CIB+ 55.49
Dengeki Bunko: Fighting Climax CIB+ 25.5
Devious Dungeon - Limited Edition CIB+ 67.38
Devious Dungeon 2 [Limited Edition] New 84.5
Digimon Story: Cyber Sleuth CIB+ 65.9
Disgaea 4: A Promise Revisited CIB+ 25.49
Dokuro New 52.94
Dragon Fantasy: The Black Tome of Ice New 34.5
Dragon Fantasy: The Volumes of Westeria New 40.49
Dragon Sinker: Descendants of Legend New 35.5
Dungeon Travelers 2: The Royal Library & The Monster Seal CIB+ 53
Dynasty Warriors: Next Loose 16.66
Earth Defense Force 2: Invaders from Planet Space New 28.19
EMMA: Lost in Memories [Limited Edition] New 52.49
Exile's End New 39.65
Exist Archive: The Other Side of The Sky Loose 18.48
Fate/Extella: The Umbral Star Noble Phantasm Edition New 46.26
Fernz Gate New 30.69
Final Fantasy X / X-2 HD Remaster Loose 25.49
Final Fantasy X-2 HD Remaster New 61.19
Forma.8 New 32.5
Freedom Wars CIB+ 13.48
Furwind [Limited Edition] CIB+ 40.5
Futuridium EP Deluxe New 45.97
Gal*Gun: Double Peace CIB+ 32.34
Ghoulboy [Limited Edition] New 160.5
God of War Collection New 74.75
Grand Kingdom New 47.6
Gravity Rush CIB+ 44.5
Guard Duty [Limited Edition] CIB+ 47.38
Gundemoniums New 84.18
Gunhouse New 30.38
Habroxia New 129.94
Habroxia 2 [Limited Edition] New 65.5
Halloween Forever [Limited Edition] New 74.5
Home: A Unique Horror Adventure New 35.92
Horizon Chase Turbo [Limited Edition] New 76.81
Hot Shots Golf: World Invitational New 26.19
HtoL#NiQ The Firefly Diary: Limited Edition New 59.25
Hue New 40.5
Hyperdevotion Noire: Goddess Black Heart CIB+ 35.5
Hyperdimension Neptunia PP: Producing Perfection CIB+ 35.97
Hyperdimension Neptunia Re;Birth1 CIB+ 47.01
Hyperdimension Neptunia Re;Birth1 CIB+ 47.01
Hyperdimension Neptunia Re;Birth2: Sisters Generation CIB+ 60.49
Hyperdimension Neptunia Re;Birth2: Sisters Generation CIB+ 60.49
Hyperdimension Neptunia Re;Birth3: V Generation CIB+ 55.95
Hyperdimension Neptunia Re;Birth3: V Generation CIB+ 55.95
Hyperdimension Neptunia U: Action Unleashed CIB+ 43.81
Iconoclasts New 96.5
Indigo 7 : Quest for Love New ?
Jak and Daxter Collection CIB+ 50.49
Jet Set Knights [Limited Edition] New 100.5
Jet Set Knights [Limited Edition] New 100.5
Just Ignore them + My Big Sister Collection New 60.49
Kawaii Deathu Desu New 45.5
Killzone: Mercenary Loose 24.49
Killzone: Mercenary CIB+ 32.68
Knightin' + [Limited Edition] New 60.45
Knytt Underground New 128.14
La-Mulana Ex New 38.03
LEGO Batman 2: DC Super Heroes Loose 11.33
LEGO Jurassic World CIB+ 13.44
LEGO Ninjago: Shadow of Ronin Loose 17.12
LEGO Star Wars: The Force Awakens New 28.75
LEGO Star Wars: The Force Awakens Loose 12.21
LEGO The Lord of the Rings Loose 10.49
Lone Survivor: The Director's Cut New 42.49
Luckslinger [Limited Edition] New 60.41
Lumines: Electronic Symphony New 18.61
Mary Skelter: Nightmares CIB+ 92.87
MegaTagmension Blanc + Neptune VS Zombies New 37.58
MeiQ: Labyrinth of Death CIB+ 25.39
Mercenary Kings: Reloaded Edition [Limited Edition] New 106.71
Metagal [Limited Edition] CIB+ 100.35
Metal Gear Solid HD Collection CIB+ 46.49
Metal Slug 3 New 115.48
Mind Zero CIB+ 20.48
Mooseman [Limited Edition] New 119.05
Mortal Kombat CIB+ 26.99
MotoGP 13 CIB+ 23.83
MUSYNX New 50.49
Muv-Luv New 53.36
Muv-Luv Alternative New 66.95
Muv-Luv Complete Set New 90.5
My Aunt is a Witch [Limited Edition] New 55.5
Mystery Chronicle: One Way Heroics New 27.94
Need for Speed: Most Wanted - A Criterion Game CIB+ 20.32
Neurovoider New 35.5
Nicole [Limited Edition] New 48.22
Night Trap: 25th Anniversary Edition New 58.99
Nova-111 New 28.67
Nurse Love Addiction New 59.18
Nurse Love Syndrome New 50.49
Nurse Love Syndrome Loose 15.49
Oceanhorn: Monster of Uncharted Seas New 52
Octodad: Dadliest Catch New 46.36
Oddworld: Abe's Oddysee - New 'n' Tasty New 149.5
Oddworld: Munch's Oddysee HD New 52.5
Oddworld: Stranger's Wrath HD New 69.73
Odin Sphere Leifthrasir CIB+ 72.45
Odin Sphere Leifthrasir Loose 70.5
One More Dungeon CIB+ 60
Operation Abyss: New Tokyo Legacy CIB+ 31.5
Oreshika: Tainted Bloodlines New 93
Papers, Please New 115.47
Pato Box [Limited Edition] New 73.23
Penny-Punching Princess New 45.41
Period: Cube - Shackles of Amadeus New 54.65
Persona 4 Golden Loose 25.37
Persona 4 Golden New 61.12
Persona 4: Dancing All Night - Disco Fever Edition New 145.5
Phantom Breaker: Battle Grounds New 53.5
Pix the Cat New 28.84
Plague Road New 43.4
PlayStation All-Stars Battle Royale New 31.74
Proteus New 36.49
Psychedelica of the Ashen Hawk New 51.5
Psychedelica of the Ashen Hawk New 51.5
Psychedelica of the Black Butterfly CIB+ 33.57
Pushy and Pully in Block Land New 70.45
Rabi-Ribi New 93.59
Rainbow Moon New 44.89
Ray Gigant New 102.84
Rayman Legends Loose 17.37
Rayman Origins CIB+ 16.71
Retro City Rampage DX [Re-Release] New 35.00
Revenant Dogma New 35.36
Revenant Saga New 29.44
Reverie [Limited Edition] CIB+ 43.49
Riddled Corpses EX New 40.49
Risk of Rain New 38
Rock Boshers DX New 29.34
Rocketbirds 2: Evolution New 55.5
Rocketbirds: Hardboiled Chicken New 43.2
Root Double [Xtend Edition] New 53.5
Root Letter New 46.11
Salt and Sanctuary New 100.49
Salt and Sanctuary New 100.49
Saturday Morning RPG New 50.49
Sayonara Umihara Kawase++ New 67.33
ScourgeBringer [Limited Edition] New 59.97
ScourgeBringer [Limited Edition] New 59.97
Senran Kagura Shinovi Versus: Let's Get Physical Edition New 115.5
Senran Kagura: Bon Appétit! New 150.44
Senran Kagura: Bon Appétit! Full Course - Collector's Edition New 185.13
Senran Kagura: Estival Versus Endless Summer Edition New 115.48
Sense: A Cyberpunk Ghost Story New 155.5
Severed [Limited Edition] New 100.81
Shakedown: Hawaii CIB+ 36.85
Shantae: Half-Genie Hero CIB+ 37.5
Shinobido 2: Revenge of Zen CIB+ 38.67
Shovel Knight New 96.49
Sid Meier's Civilization Revolution 2+ CIB+ 76.26
Silent Hill: Book of Memories CIB+ 76.38
Sir Eatsalot [Limited Edition] CIB+ 53.08
Siralim New 50.5
Siralim 2 New 30.49
Skullgirls: 2nd Encore New 52.81
Sky Force Anniversary New 75.48
Slain: Back From Hell [Signature Edition] New 150.65
Sly Cooper Collection CIB+ 52.27
Smart as... CIB+ 9.67
Soldner-X 2: Final Prototype New 44.12
Sonic & All-Stars Racing Transformed CIB+ 23.56
Sorcery Saga: Curse of the Great Curry God [Limited edition] New 80.5
Soul Sacrifice CIB+ 17.36
Soul Sacrifice Delta New 105.5
Spelunky New 70.5
Spy Hunter CIB+ 24.31
Stay [Limited Edition] New 130.5
Stealth Inc: A Clone in the Dark (Ultimate Edition) New 29.13
SteamWorld Dig New 55.72
SteamWorld Heist New 52.97
Steins;Gate CIB+ 30.58
Steins;Gate 0 CIB+ 29.49
Stranger of sword city limited edition New 63.57
Super Hydorah New 47.9
Super Meat Boy New 60.5
Super Mutant Alien Assault New 34.9
Super Skull Smash GO! 2 Turbo New 42.35
SUPERBEAT: XONiC New 28.49
Superdimension Neptune VS Sega Hard Girls New 58.5
Sword Art Online: Hollow Fragment New 65.48
Synergia [Limited Edition] New 110.49
Tachyon Project Limited Edition New 55.35
Takotan [Limited Edition] New 51.59
Tales from Space: Mutant Blobs Attack New 50.24
Tales of Hearts R CIB+ 69.48
Tales of Hearts R Loose 50.5
Task Force Kampas New 36.5
Tetris Ultimate New 70.47
Tetris Ultimate New 70.47
Amazing Spider-Man CIB+ 64.75
Amazing Spider-Man CIB+ 64.75
Bard's Tale: Remastered and Resnarkled New 50.49
Bit.Trip Limited Edition New 33.5
Count Lucanor [Signature Edition] New 144.47
House in Fata Morgana: Dreams of the Revenants Edition CIB+ 99.5
House in Fata Morgana: Dreams of the Revenants Edition M+B 40.1
King of Fighters '97: Global Match New 64.81
Legend of Heroes: Trails of Cold Steel CIB+ 36.49
Legend of Heroes: Trails of Cold Steel (Lionheart Limited Edition) New 72.39
Legend of Heroes: Trails of Cold Steel II CIB+ 57.82
Longest Five Minutes New 32.5
Lost Child New 56.03
Lost Cube [Limited Edition] New 50.49
Ratchet and Clank Trilogy CIB+ 72.77
Swapper New 51.48
Swindle New 27.51
Walking Dead: Season Two - A Telltale Games Series New 22.61
Thomas Was Alone New 33.5
Tokyo Xanadu New 49.32
Touch My Katamari CIB+ 33.72
Twin Breaker: A Sacred Symbols Adventure [Limited Edition] CIB+ 47.09
Ultimate Marvel Vs. Capcom 3 CIB+ 31.21
Uncharted: Golden Abyss CIB+ 27.23
Uncharted: Golden Abyss CIB+ 27.23
Undertale New 66.38
Unepic [Limited Edition] New 274.98
UnMetal New 163.32
Utawarerumono: Mask of Deception New 72.27
Utawarerumono: Mask of Truth - Launch Edition New 36.5
Utawarerumono: Mask of Truth - Launch Edition New 36.5
VA-11 Hall-A New 79.91
Valkyrie Drive: Bhikkhuni CIB+ 66.81
Vasara Collection New 98.5
Velocity 2X: Critical Mass Edition New 63.05
Volume New 32.25
Windjammers New 35.83
Wipeout 2048 New 31.24
World of Final Fantasy New 33.99
Xeno Crisis [Limited Edition] New 100.5
Xeno Crisis [Limited Edition] New 100.5
Xeno Crisis [Limited Edition] New 100.5
Xenon Valkyrie+ New 68.11
Xeodrifter New 44.2
Yomawari: Midnight Shadows CIB+ 33.71
Yomawari: Night Alone / htol#NiQ: The Firefly Diary CIB+ 40.5
Ys Origin New 56.4
Ys VIII: Lacrimosa of DANA New 72.34
Ys: Memories of Celceta CIB+ 25.99
Yumeutsutsu Re:After [Limited Edition] New 82.97
Yumeutsutsu Re:Master [Limited Edition] New 75.48
Zero Escape: Virtue's Last Reward CIB+ 15.5
Zero Escape: Zero Time Dilemma New 33.17
Zero Escape: Zero Time Dilemma Loose 24.51
3DS
Aliens: Infestation Loose 45.00
Minecraft: New Nintendo 3DS Edition New 34.72
New Nintendo 2DS XL White & Orange Loose $160.00
Senran Kagura 2: Deep Crimson (Double D Edition) New 70.5
Senran Kagura 2: Deep Crimson (Double D Edition) New 70.5
Shantae and the Pirate's Curse [Collector's Edition] New 89.39
Shantae and the Pirate's Curse [Collector's Edition] New 89.39
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Free Shipping over $100. More photos at request. Offers are welcome. Most of these Prices are based on Pricharting (and pricecharting price are inaccurate so sorry im lazy to put my prices for these 800 games) Offers are welcome Worst can say is no.There's a problem with letter T jumps to C in switch and vita to A. working on it. Also i have blaster master and shantae slipcovers. Want to sell them together with Slipcovers.
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Nintendo Switch
13 Sentinels: Aegis Rim CIB+ 32.92
1971 Project Helios New 15.41
Boy and His Blob New 50.49
Little Golf Journey New 29.62
Robot Named Fight [Premium Edition] New 50.5
Adventure Time: Pirates of the Enchiridion New 25.68
AeternoBlade II New 35.5
Afterparty New 38
Aggelos New 38.22
AI: The Somnium Files CIB+ 60.5
Alex Kidd in Miracle World DX New 18.98
Alwa's Collection New 25.62
American Hero New 40.49
Ancestors Legacy New 24.07
Annapurna Interactive [Deluxe Limited Edition Collection] New 230.00
Ape Out [Special Reserve] New 40.00
Ara Fell & Rise of the Third Power New 57.24
Arcade Spirits New 20
Archvale New 51.25
ARMS CIB+ 30.5
Ary and the Secret of Seasons New 12.52
Arzette: The Jewel of Faramore New 55.00
Assassin's Creed: The Rebel Collection CIB+ 17.48
Astalon: Tears of the Earth New 50.63
Astral Chain New 48.99
Astronite New 19.48
Atelier Ryza 2: Lost Legends & the Secret Fairy New 55.00
Atelier Ryza: Ever Darkness and the Secret Hideout CIB+ 49.5
Atelier Ryza: Ever Darkness and the Secret Hideout New 60.1
Attack on Titan 2: Final Battle New 65.00
Azure Striker Gunvolt 3 New 48.5
Azure Striker Gunvolt: Striker Pack CIB+ 25.79
Balan Wonderworld New 11.77
Baldur's Gate and Baldur's Gate II: Enhanced Editions New 120.00
Battle Chef Brigade Deluxe CIB+ 32.61
Battle Princess Madelyn: Royal Edition New 52.88
Black Bird New 55.5
Blade Runner: Enhanced Edition New 48.72
Blasphemous CIB+ 108.49
Blaster Master Zero New 44.14
Blaster Master Zero II New 40.49
Blaster Master Zero III New 34.5
Blazing Beaks New 30.02
Blazing Chrome CIB+ 65.92
Bloodrayne 1 & 2: Revamped Dual Pack w/ Slipcover New 100.47
BloodRayne Betrayal: Fresh Bites New 40.49
Bloodstained: Curse Of The Moon 2 New 28.49
Bloodstained: Ritual of the Night New 21.23
Blossom Tales II: The Minotaur Prince New 46.48
Blossom Tales: The Sleeping King CIB+ 150.47
Blue Fire CIB+ 28.49
Blue Reflection: Second Light New 59.83
Bomb Chicken CIB+ 38.14
BROFORCE [SWITCH RESERVE] New 40.00
Bug Fables: The Everlasting Sapling New 55.93
Bugsnax CIB+ 30.77
Burnout Paradise Remastered CIB+ 14.98
BUTCHER New 36.9
Cannon Dancer: Osman New 54
Captain Toad: Treasure Tracker CIB+ 30.49
Captain Tsubasa: Rise of New Champions New 26.09
Card Shark Collector's Edition New 40.00
Carrion: Special Reserve Edition New 40.00
Castlevania Anniversary Collection New 40.00
Cat Girl Without Salad: Amuse-Bouche New 40.97
Cat Quest + Cat Quest II: Pawsome Pack New 49.5
Cathedral New 66.91
Celeste New 62.39
Chicken Police - Paint it RED! CIB+ 13.25
Children of Morta CIB+ 22.09
Children of Zodiarcs New 44.77
Citizens Unite! Earth X Space New 29.49
Coffee Talk New 42.15
COGEN: Sword of Rewind & Gunvolt Chronicles: Luminous Avenger iX 2 Double Pack New 80.48
Collar X Malice New 30.49
Contra Anniversary Collection New 41.45
Contra Anniversary Collection New 41.45
Cooking Mama: Cookstar New 36.11
Corpse Killer: 25th Anniversary Edition New 42.7
Cosmo Dreamer & Like Dreamer: Double-D Collection New 25.00
Cris Tales New 13.99
Crisis Core: Final Fantasy VII Reunion CIB+ 25
Crossing Souls - Special Reserve New 40.00
Crystal Crisis New 31.52
Cthulhu Saves Christmas New 45.17
Cult of the Lamb [Special Reserve] New 72.48
Dandara: Trials of Fear Edition CIB+ 41.29
Dark Devotion New 45.49
Darksiders Genesis CIB+ 18
Darkwood CIB+ 108.46
DARQ: Complete Edition New 38.97
Dawn of the Monsters New 50.36
Dead Cells: Return to Castlevania Edition New 32.01
Dead or School New 52.03
Deadly Premonition 2: A Blessing in Disguise CIB+ 16.77
Deadly Premonition Origins New 38.03
Death end re;Quest New 41.97
Death Road to Canada New 40
Death's Door [Special Reserve] New 33.03
Death's Gambit: Afterlife New 38.72
Demon Throttle [Reserve Edition] New 25.25
Demon Throttle [Reserve Edition] New 25.25
Demon Turf New 40.82
Demon's Tilt New 44.5
Deponia Collection New 83.14
Dex New 48.38
Digimon Survive New 20.95
Dimension Drive [Limited Edition] New 65.48
Disaster Report 4: Summer Memories CIB+ 25.5
DISC ROOM [SWITCH RESERVE] New 30.00
Disgaea 5 Complete New 39.5
Disney Classic Games: Aladdin and the Lion King New 18.29
Disney Tsum Tsum Festival New 26.55
DISTRAINT Collection New 33.76
Divinity: Original Sin II - Definitive Edition New 180.49
Dodgeball Academia New 19.5
DoDonPachi Resurrection New 55.38
Doki Doki Literature Club Plus! New 20.00
DOOM CIB+ 28.9
Doom 64 New 45.45
DOOM Eternal New 89
DOOM: The Classics Collection New 50.5
Double Dragon & Kunio-Kun Retro Brawler Bundle New 52.83
Double Dragon IV New 33.97
Double Dragon: Neon New 50.49
Downwell [Special Reserve Edition] New 60.00
Double Switch: 25th Anniversary Edition New 55.89
Dragon Ball Z: Kakarot + A New Power Awakens Set Used 25.00
Dragon Quest Treasures New 29.53
Dragon Quest XI S: Echoes of an Elusive Age - Definitive Edition New 40.00
Dragon Star Varnir New 45.49
Dragon's Dogma: Dark Arisen CIB+ 24.74
Dragon's Lair Trilogy New 144.25
DRAINUS New 63.39
Dreamscaper New 44.72
Dusk New 44.49
Eastward CIB+ 20.3
Eldest Souls New 45.5
Elliot Quest New 28.48
Enclave HD New 52.67
Ender Lilies: Quietus of the Knights New 55.00
Endling - Extinction is Forever New 25.76
Epic Chef New 15.57
Espgaluda II New 60.27
Fairy Fencer F: Advent Dark Force New 48.41
FAR: Lone Sails New 49.69
Fast RMX New 71.73
Fatal Twelve New 44.49
Fault Milestone One New 28.49
Fight'N Rage New 45.49
FINAL FANTASY VII & VIII REMASTERED TWIN PACK CIB+ 37.63
Final Fantasy XII: The Zodiac Age New 31.61
Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes New 20.17
Flinthook New 45.49
Flipping Death CIB+ 28.39
Foretales New 19.29
Forgotton Anne CIB+ 35.49
Fran Bow New 111.48
Freedom Finger CIB+ 77.4
Freedom Planet New 57.39
Furi CIB+ 48.64
Gal Metal: World Tour Edition CIB+ 17.69
Gato Roboto [Special Reserve Edition] New 40.00
Ghost 1.0 + Unepic Collection: Standard Edition New 30.00
Ghost of a Tale New 66.61
Going Under New 37.47
Golf Story New 82.75
Gotta Protectors: Cart of Darkness New 45.35
Grandia HD Collection New 82.51
GrimGrimoire OnceMore [Deluxe Edition] New 42.33
GRIS [Limited Special Reserve] CIB+ 60.00
Gunbrick: Reloaded New 24.68
Gunlord X New 90.00
Guns, Gore & Cannoli 1 & 2 New 140.00
Gunvolt Chronicles: Luminous Avenger iX New 84.5
Gyakuten Saiban 123: Naruhodo Selection New 41.49
Hades New 39.19
Haven New 45.49
Heaven's Vault New 32.15
Hero Must Die. Again New 56.5
Heroland Knowble Edition New 18.63
Hollow Knight CIB+ 31.5
Horgihugh and Friends New 28.18
Hot Wheels Unleashed New 22.03
Hotline Miami Collection [Special Reserve] New 40.00
Ib New 55.46
Ikenfell New 42.56
Immortals Fenyx Rising New 15.22
In Sound Mind: Deluxe Edition New 21.81
Indivisible New 19.41
Infernax New 50.5
Inscryption [Special Reserve] New 200.00
Ion Fury New 35.35
ITTA CIB+ 35.00
ITTA [Steelbook Edition] New 50.00
Ittle Dew 2+ New 43.45
Jamestown+ New 50.98
Joe Dever's Lone Wolf New 65.54
Katamari Damacy REROLL New 23.45
Katanakami New 42.3
Kaze and the Wild Masks New 32.44
KeyWe New 25.49
Killer Queen Black New 16.13
King's Bounty II New 17.85
Kingdom Hearts: Melody of Memory New 20.59
Kingdoms of Amalur: Re-Reckoning CIB+ 19.98
Knights and Bikes New 45.49
Kotodama: The 7 Mysteries of Fujisawa New 19.45
KUNAI New 30.00
L.A. Noire CIB+ 29.99
Lair of the Clockwork God New 39.13
Layers of Fear: Legacy New 147.86
LEGO Star Wars: The Skywalker Saga New 20.48
Little Nightmares II CIB+ 20.75
Lonely Mountains: Downhill SRG#46 New 86.79
Loop Hero CIB+ 25.00
Loop Hero [Collectors Edition] New 40.00
Love Esquire [Limited Edition] New 90.5
LoveKami Trilogy New 35.00
Lumines Remastered New 32.5
LUNARK New 49.52
Mario + Rabbids Sparks of Hope CIB+ 15.42
Mario + Rabbids: Kingdom Battle CIB+ 12.5
Mario Party: Superstars CIB+ 39.5
Marvel Ultimate Alliance 3: The Black Order CIB 30.00
Mary Skelter 2 New 40.00
Mary Skelter: Finale New 49.39
Mato Anomalies New 19.73
Mega Man 11 New 20.48
Mega Man Zero/ZX Legacy Collection CIB+ 24.5
Megadimension Neptunia VII New 45.5
Mighty Gunvolt Burst New 44.45
Mighty Switch Force! Collection CIB+ 45.49
Ministry of Broadcast New 26.72
Minoria New 50.47
Miracle Snack Shop [Limited Edition] New 35.00
Moero Chronicle Hyper New 90.35
Moero Crystal H New 50.77
Momodora: Reverie Under the Moonlight New 71.68
MONARK Deluxe Edition New 37
Monster Hunter Generations Ultimate New 42.69
Monster Hunter Stories 2: Wings of Ruin New 31.49
Monster Sanctuary New 58.46
Monstrum New 38.5
Mother Russia Bleeds [Special Reserve] New 45.00
Mother Russia Bleeds [Special Reserve] New 45.00
Ms. Splosion Man CIB+ 31.98
Mulaka New 60.00
Murder By Numbers Collectors Edition New 80.36
Mushihimesama New 60.7
My Friend Pedro [Special Reserve Edition] New 45.00
Narita Boy New 45.55
NEO: The World Ends With You CIB+ 20.5
NeoGeo Pocket Color Selection Vol. 1 New 43.06
Neon Abyss New 42.38
Neversong & Pinstripe CIB+ 37.5
New Super Lucky's Tale New 33.59
New Super Mario Bros. U Deluxe New 39.5
Ni no Kuni: Wrath of the White Witch New 26.5
NieR: Automata - The End of YoRHa Edition New 39.5
Night in the Woods New 59.92
Night Trap: 25th Anniversary Edition New 56.06
Ninja Gaiden: Master Collection New 50.42
No Man's Sky CIB+ 26.25
No More Heroes CIB+ 40.5
No More Heroes 2: Desperate Struggle CIB+ 35.92
No More Heroes III CIB+ 15.5
Ocean's Heart New 53.33
Octahedron New 45.43
Octopath Traveler New 52.43
Octopath Traveler II New 39.99
Oddworld - Collection New 36.25
à Âkami HD New 32.99
One Step From Eden New 34.15
Oniken + Odallus Collection New 36.51
Opus Collection CIB+ 22.49
Ori: The Collection New 28.97
Othercide New 32.45
Outlast: Bundle of Terror / Outlast 2 CIB+ 250.00
Overlord: Escape from Nazarick New 35.97
Owlboy CIB+ 16.48
Oxenfree New 99.53
Panzer Dragoon New 40.5
Panzer Paladin New 48.13
Pathway New 27.6
Phoenotopia: Awakening [Premium Edition] New 114.25
Pikmin 3 Deluxe CIB+ 35.00
Pikmin 4 New 42.79
Piofiore: Fated Memories New 27.95
PixelJunk Eden 2 New 25.49
Pocky & Rocky Reshrined New 25.49
Pokémon Legends: Arceus New 41.19
Pokémon Mystery Dungeon: Rescue Team DX CIB+ 40.5
Pokémon Sword CIB+ 30.26
Pokémon Violet New 44.5
Postal Redux New 25.5
PowerSlave: Exhumed New 55.00
Prinny Presents NIS Classics Volume 2 [Deluxe Edition] New 43.99
Prodeus New 40.67
Project Warlock New 67.14
Puyo Puyo Tetris New 17.5
Q.U.B.E. 2 New 51.32
Quake New 38.49
Radiant Silvergun New 58.09
Rainbow Billy: The Curse of the Leviathan New 23.82
Razion EX New 90.00
realMyst: Masterpiece Edition New 78.08
République: Anniversary Edition New 35.49
Return of the Obra Dinn New 58.18
Return to Monkey Island CIB+ 43.09
Return to Shironagasu Island CIB+ 28.5
Risk of Rain 2 New 14.7
River City Girls CIB+ 80.23
River City Girls 2 New 50.5
River City Girls [PAX Variant] New 142.6
River City Girls Zero New 44.49
River City: Rival Showdown New 30.49
Rogue Heroes: Ruins of Tasos CIB+ 30.00
Roki CIB+ 30.00
Rolling Sky Collection CIB+ 20.00
Root Film New 34.09
RUINER [SWITCH RESERVE] New 45.00
Rune Factory 3 Special New 23.41
Rune Factory 3 Special New 23.41
Rune Factory 4 Special [Archival Edition] New 90.00
Sakuna: Of Rice and Ruin New 27.5
Sally Face [Deluxe Edition] New 224.81
Sam & Max Save the World New 43.5
Sam & Max: Beyond Time and Space Remastered New 44
Samurai Jack: Battle Through Time New 70.48
Save me Mr Tako: Definitive Edition New 33.5
Scott Pilgrim vs. The World: The Game - Complete Edition New 32.49
Sea Horizon [Limited Edition] New 42.49
Sea of Solitude: The Director's Cut New 20.00
Seabed New 40.42
SeaBed [Limited Edition] New 135.38
Senran Kagura Reflexions New 129.74
Senren * Banka New 70.00
SENSEs: Midnight [Limited Edition] New 47.43
Serious Sam Collection [Switch Reserve] New 50.00
Seven Pirates H New 30.00
Seven Pirates H New 30.00
Seven Pirates H New 30.00
Shadow Man Remastered New 48.39
Shadowgate New 62.5
Shadowrun Trilogy New 45.00
Shadows of Adam New 34.49
Shadowverse: Champion's Battle New 21.95
Shantae New 39.34
Shantae and the Pirate's Curse New 381.21
Shantae and the Pirate's Curse Box 49.62
Shantae and the Seven Sirens New 50.2
Shantae: Half-Genie Hero [Ultimate Edition] New 38.2
Shantae: Risky's Revenge New 38.51
Shaq Fu: A Legend Reborn New 19.57
Shikhondo: Soul Eater New 34.44
Shin Megami Tensei III: Nocturne HD Remaster New 25.5
Shin Megami Tensei V New 22.38
Shin Megami Tensei V New 22.38
Shining Resonance Refrain [Draconic Launch Edition] New 48.6
Sine Mora EX New 23.02
Skelattack New 45.00
Slime-san New 43.74
Smile For Me New 30.00
SNK Heroines Tag Team Frenzy New 29.15
Sol Cresta: Dramatic Edition New 45.48
Sonic Colors Ultimate CIB+ 15.48
Sonic Frontiers CIB+ 21.62
Sonic Mania New 16.51
Spiritfarer New 28.95
Splatoon 2 CIB+ 19.67
Splatoon 3 New 43.99
Star Wars Pinball New 19.72
Star Wars: Knights of the Old Republic New 60.49
Star Wars: Knights of the Old Republic II - The Sith Lords New 59.79
Star Wars: Knights of the Old Republic II - The Sith Lords New 59.79
Star Wars: Republic Commando New 26.45
Steel Assault New 48
Streets of Rage 4 New 33.45
Strife: Veteran Edition New 30.00
Subnautica + Subnautica: Below Zero New 32.49
Super Blood Hockey New 60.96
Super Bomberman R New 20.42
Super Mario 3D All-Stars CIB+ 70.00
Super Mario Maker 2 CIB+ 30.48
Super Meat Boy New 38.5
Super Meat Boy Forever New 25.98
Super Monkey Ball Banana Mania New 13.48
Supraland New 33.75
Sushi Striker: The Way of Sushido New 12.17
Taiko no Tatsujin Rhythm Festival New 15.5
Tails of Iron [Crimson Knight Edition] New 42.89
Tales of Vesperia: Definitive Edition New 30.41
Tandem: A Tale of Shadows New 20.48
Terraria New 24.66
DioField Chronicle CIB+ 25.46
Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim CIB+ 35.31
Falconeer: Warrior Edition New 18.88
Friends Of Ringo Ishikawa New 26.73
Great Ace Attorney Chronicles CIB+ 30.98
Knight Witch Deluxe Edition New 32.07
Legend of Heroes: Trails of Cold Steel III - Extracurricular Edition CIB+ 31.77
Legend of Tianding New 45.00
Legend of Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom New 47.46
Letter: A Horror Visual Novel [Limited Edition] New 73.75
The Messenger [Special Reserve Games Edition] New 280.00
Missing CIB+ 35.5
Mummy Demastered New 57.71
Red Lantern New 58.5
RED STRINGS CLUB [SWITCH RESERVE] New 38.5
Silver Case 2425 Deluxe Edition CIB 25.00
TakeOver New 47.41
Talos Principle New 40.00
Touryst New 60.00
Wonderful 101: Remastered New 23.5
World Ends with You: Final Remix New 53.95
There Is No Game: Wrong Dimension New 53.51
Thumper New 45.45
Time on Frog Island CIB+ 17.43
Timespinner [Limited Run] CIB+ 77.28
Tiny Barbarian DX New 33.97
To The Moon New 67.98
ToeJam & Earl: Back in the Groove! CIB+ 49.86
Tokyo Mirage Sessions #FE Encore New 66.72
Tokyo Mirage Sessions #FE Encore New 66.72
TowerFall New 45.5
Travis Strikes Again: No More Heroes CIB+ 24.99
Treasures Of The Aegean New 17.98
Trigger Witch New 34.59
Trigger Witch - Limited Edition New 57.66
Trover Saves the Universe New 37.76
Turok / Turok 2: Seeds of Evil New 167.4
Twin Blades of the Three Kingdoms New 30.00
Two Point Hospital New 26.5
UnderMine New 51.08
Unravel Two CIB+ 18.35
Unreal Life New 39.15
Unsighted New 47.2
Untitled Goose Game New 22.45
Valfaris New 39.64
Valis: The Fantasm Soldier Collection New 70.61
Valis: The Fantasm Soldier Collection II New 50.5
Valkyria Chronicles 4 New 66.81
Very Very Valet New 17.77
Wandersong CIB+ 33.99
Warborn New 16.6
Warhammer 40,000: Mechanicus CIB+ 21
WarioWare: Get it Together! CIB+ 24.55
West of Dead New 39.1
Wizard of Legend New 55.00
Wonder Boy: The Dragon's Trap New 39.14
World Of Simulators New 45
Wreckfest New 25.5
Wulverblade New 68.83
Xenoblade Chronicles 2 Loose 42.6
Xenoblade Chronicles 2: Torna the Golden Country loose 45
Xtreme Sports New 50.5
Yoku's Island Express CIB+ 35.5
Yooka-Laylee and the Impossible Lair New 35.5
Young Souls New 34.49
Yu-Gi-Oh! Legacy of the Duelist: Link Evolution CIB+ 17.69
Yuppie Psycho: Executive Edition (Elite Edition) New 45.49
Yurukill: The Calumniation Games (Deluxe Edition) New 20.73
Zombies Ate My Neighbors and Ghoul Patrol New 40.09
PS2
Armored Core Nexus CIB105.33
PS4
88 Antarctica New 45.00
Antartica 88 [Variant Cover] New 185.5
Deadpool CIB+ 76.33
Death Park New 45
Death Park New 45
Death Park New 45
Death Park New 45
Digimon Survive New 16.55
Divinity: Original Sin II - Definitive Edition New 71
Doki Doki Literature Club Plus! New 21.17
Helldivers [Super-Earth Ultimate Edition] CIB+ 45.00
Minecraft: Story Mode - A Telltale Games Series - The Complete Adventure CIB+ 58.41
Outriders: Worldslayer New 18.48
Revenge of The Bird King New 31.99
Saints Row: The Third Remastered New 15.1
Senran Kagura Burst Re:Newal [At the Seams Edition] New 60.49
Senran Kagura Burst Re:Newal [Tailor Made Edition] New 47.99
Senran Kagura: Peach Beach Splash (No Shirt, No Shoes, All Service Edition) New 71.5
Shadow Warrior 2 [Special Reserve Edition] New 235.52
Super Perils of Baking Special Edition [SEGA Outerbox] New 120.00
Swords of Ditto: Mormo's Curse [Special Reserve Edition] New 40.00
Tamashii New 450.00
Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles: Mutants in Manhattan CIB+ 40.00
Valkyria Chronicles Remastered Steelbook Edition New 30.45
VITA
2064: Read Only Memories New 67.97
88 Heroes New 40.6
99Vidas New 125.97
Hole New World New 48.82
Rose in the Twilight New 192
Winter's Daydream [Limited Edition] New 64.1
Aegis of Earth: Protonovus Assault New 26.49
Akiba's Beat New 30.25
Akiba's Trip: Undead & Undressed CIB+ 25.49
Alone With You New 38.5
Angry Birds Star Wars New 20.48
Another World: 20th Anniversary Edition New 40.49
Antiquia Lost New 34.75
Aqua Kitty: Milk Mine Defender DX New 51.5
Army Corps of Hell New 23.99
Asdivine Hearts New 35.46
Astro Aqua Kitty [Limited Edition] New 64.7
Atari Flashback Classics New 60.61
Atelier Escha & Logy Plus: Alchemists of the Dusk Sky (Limited Edition) New 168.49
Awesome Pea Collection [Limited Edition] CIB+ 40.1
Axiom Verge Multiverse Edition New 56.56
Back in 1995 [Limited Edition] New 191.4
Bard's Gold New 33
Bastion New 64.16
Batman: Arkham Origins Blackgate CIB+ 23.67
Bit.Trip Presents...Runner2: Future Legend of Rhythm Alien New 33.49
Bit.Trip Presents...Runner2: Future Legend of Rhythm Alien New 33.49
Bloodstained: Curse of the Moon New 118.23
Borderlands 2 CIB+ 23.49
Breach & Clear New 308.01
Broken Age New 33.77
Bunny Must Die: Chelsea and the 7 Devils New 95
Call of Duty: Black Ops Declassified CIB+ 22.29
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Chaos;Child New 45.61
Chasm CIB+ 60.49
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Claire: Extended Cut CIB+ 35.17
Code:Realize - Future Blessings Loose 14.9
Code:Realize - Guardian of Rebirth New 25.5
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Conga Master Go! [Limited Edition] New 51.83
Corpse Party: Blood Drive New 58.77
Cosmic Star Heroine CIB+ 43.25
Criminal Girls 2: Party Favors CIB+ 74.09
Criminal Girls: Invite Only CIB+ 54.49
Croixleur Sigma New 40.49
Cursed Castilla EX [Limited Edition] New 60.5
Curses 'N Chaos New 38.72
Damascus Gear: Operation Osaka New 40.51
Damascus Gear: Operation Tokyo New 41
Danganronpa 2: Goodbye Despair Loose 19.41
Danganronpa 2: Goodbye Despair Loose 19.41
Danganronpa Another Episode: Ultra Despair Girls New 31.5
Danganronpa V3: Killing Harmony CIB+ 58.89
Danganronpa: Trigger Happy Havoc CIB+ 25.97
Dariusburst: Chronicle Saviours New 47.38
Deadbolt New 42.44
Death Mark CIB+ 23.22
Death Tales [Limited Edition] New 40.4
Deemo: The Last Recital New 34.22
Defender's Quest: Valley of the Forgotten New 37.86
Demon Gaze Loose 22.22
Demon Gaze CIB+ 25.81
Demon Gaze II New 74.66
Demon's Tier+ [Limited Edition] CIB+ 55.49
Dengeki Bunko: Fighting Climax CIB+ 25.5
Devious Dungeon - Limited Edition CIB+ 67.38
Devious Dungeon 2 [Limited Edition] New 84.5
Digimon Story: Cyber Sleuth CIB+ 65.9
Disgaea 4: A Promise Revisited CIB+ 25.49
Dokuro New 52.94
Dragon Fantasy: The Black Tome of Ice New 34.5
Dragon Fantasy: The Volumes of Westeria New 40.49
Dragon Sinker: Descendants of Legend New 35.5
Dungeon Travelers 2: The Royal Library & The Monster Seal CIB+ 53
Dynasty Warriors: Next Loose 16.66
Earth Defense Force 2: Invaders from Planet Space New 28.19
EMMA: Lost in Memories [Limited Edition] New 52.49
Exile's End New 39.65
Exist Archive: The Other Side of The Sky Loose 18.48
Fate/Extella: The Umbral Star Noble Phantasm Edition New 46.26
Fernz Gate New 30.69
Final Fantasy X / X-2 HD Remaster Loose 25.49
Final Fantasy X-2 HD Remaster New 61.19
Forma.8 New 32.5
Freedom Wars CIB+ 13.48
Furwind [Limited Edition] CIB+ 40.5
Futuridium EP Deluxe New 45.97
Gal*Gun: Double Peace CIB+ 32.34
Ghoulboy [Limited Edition] New 160.5
God of War Collection New 74.75
Grand Kingdom New 47.6
Gravity Rush CIB+ 44.5
Guard Duty [Limited Edition] CIB+ 47.38
Gundemoniums New 84.18
Gunhouse New 30.38
Habroxia New 129.94
Habroxia 2 [Limited Edition] New 65.5
Halloween Forever [Limited Edition] New 74.5
Home: A Unique Horror Adventure New 35.92
Horizon Chase Turbo [Limited Edition] New 76.81
Hot Shots Golf: World Invitational New 26.19
HtoL#NiQ The Firefly Diary: Limited Edition New 59.25
Hue New 40.5
Hyperdevotion Noire: Goddess Black Heart CIB+ 35.5
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Hyperdimension Neptunia Re;Birth3: V Generation CIB+ 55.95
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Hyperdimension Neptunia U: Action Unleashed CIB+ 43.81
Iconoclasts New 96.5
Indigo 7 : Quest for Love New ?
Jak and Daxter Collection CIB+ 50.49
Jet Set Knights [Limited Edition] New 100.5
Jet Set Knights [Limited Edition] New 100.5
Just Ignore them + My Big Sister Collection New 60.49
Kawaii Deathu Desu New 45.5
Killzone: Mercenary Loose 24.49
Killzone: Mercenary CIB+ 32.68
Knightin' + [Limited Edition] New 60.45
Knytt Underground New 128.14
La-Mulana Ex New 38.03
LEGO Batman 2: DC Super Heroes Loose 11.33
LEGO Jurassic World CIB+ 13.44
LEGO Ninjago: Shadow of Ronin Loose 17.12
LEGO Star Wars: The Force Awakens New 28.75
LEGO Star Wars: The Force Awakens Loose 12.21
LEGO The Lord of the Rings Loose 10.49
Lone Survivor: The Director's Cut New 42.49
Luckslinger [Limited Edition] New 60.41
Lumines: Electronic Symphony New 18.61
Mary Skelter: Nightmares CIB+ 92.87
MegaTagmension Blanc + Neptune VS Zombies New 37.58
MeiQ: Labyrinth of Death CIB+ 25.39
Mercenary Kings: Reloaded Edition [Limited Edition] New 106.71
Metagal [Limited Edition] CIB+ 100.35
Metal Gear Solid HD Collection CIB+ 46.49
Metal Slug 3 New 115.48
Mind Zero CIB+ 20.48
Mooseman [Limited Edition] New 119.05
Mortal Kombat CIB+ 26.99
MotoGP 13 CIB+ 23.83
MUSYNX New 50.49
Muv-Luv New 53.36
Muv-Luv Alternative New 66.95
Muv-Luv Complete Set New 90.5
My Aunt is a Witch [Limited Edition] New 55.5
Mystery Chronicle: One Way Heroics New 27.94
Need for Speed: Most Wanted - A Criterion Game CIB+ 20.32
Neurovoider New 35.5
Nicole [Limited Edition] New 48.22
Night Trap: 25th Anniversary Edition New 58.99
Nova-111 New 28.67
Nurse Love Addiction New 59.18
Nurse Love Syndrome New 50.49
Nurse Love Syndrome Loose 15.49
Oceanhorn: Monster of Uncharted Seas New 52
Octodad: Dadliest Catch New 46.36
Oddworld: Abe's Oddysee - New 'n' Tasty New 149.5
Oddworld: Munch's Oddysee HD New 52.5
Oddworld: Stranger's Wrath HD New 69.73
Odin Sphere Leifthrasir CIB+ 72.45
Odin Sphere Leifthrasir Loose 70.5
One More Dungeon CIB+ 60
Operation Abyss: New Tokyo Legacy CIB+ 31.5
Oreshika: Tainted Bloodlines New 93
Papers, Please New 115.47
Pato Box [Limited Edition] New 73.23
Penny-Punching Princess New 45.41
Period: Cube - Shackles of Amadeus New 54.65
Persona 4 Golden Loose 25.37
Persona 4 Golden New 61.12
Persona 4: Dancing All Night - Disco Fever Edition New 145.5
Phantom Breaker: Battle Grounds New 53.5
Pix the Cat New 28.84
Plague Road New 43.4
PlayStation All-Stars Battle Royale New 31.74
Proteus New 36.49
Psychedelica of the Ashen Hawk New 51.5
Psychedelica of the Ashen Hawk New 51.5
Psychedelica of the Black Butterfly CIB+ 33.57
Pushy and Pully in Block Land New 70.45
Rabi-Ribi New 93.59
Rainbow Moon New 44.89
Ray Gigant New 102.84
Rayman Legends Loose 17.37
Rayman Origins CIB+ 16.71
Retro City Rampage DX [Re-Release] New 35.00
Revenant Dogma New 35.36
Revenant Saga New 29.44
Reverie [Limited Edition] CIB+ 43.49
Riddled Corpses EX New 40.49
Risk of Rain New 38
Rock Boshers DX New 29.34
Rocketbirds 2: Evolution New 55.5
Rocketbirds: Hardboiled Chicken New 43.2
Root Double [Xtend Edition] New 53.5
Root Letter New 46.11
Salt and Sanctuary New 100.49
Salt and Sanctuary New 100.49
Saturday Morning RPG New 50.49
Sayonara Umihara Kawase++ New 67.33
ScourgeBringer [Limited Edition] New 59.97
ScourgeBringer [Limited Edition] New 59.97
Senran Kagura Shinovi Versus: Let's Get Physical Edition New 115.5
Senran Kagura: Bon Appétit! New 150.44
Senran Kagura: Bon Appétit! Full Course - Collector's Edition New 185.13
Senran Kagura: Estival Versus Endless Summer Edition New 115.48
Sense: A Cyberpunk Ghost Story New 155.5
Severed [Limited Edition] New 100.81
Shakedown: Hawaii CIB+ 36.85
Shantae: Half-Genie Hero CIB+ 37.5
Shinobido 2: Revenge of Zen CIB+ 38.67
Shovel Knight New 96.49
Sid Meier's Civilization Revolution 2+ CIB+ 76.26
Silent Hill: Book of Memories CIB+ 76.38
Sir Eatsalot [Limited Edition] CIB+ 53.08
Siralim New 50.5
Siralim 2 New 30.49
Skullgirls: 2nd Encore New 52.81
Sky Force Anniversary New 75.48
Slain: Back From Hell [Signature Edition] New 150.65
Sly Cooper Collection CIB+ 52.27
Smart as... CIB+ 9.67
Soldner-X 2: Final Prototype New 44.12
Sonic & All-Stars Racing Transformed CIB+ 23.56
Sorcery Saga: Curse of the Great Curry God [Limited edition] New 80.5
Soul Sacrifice CIB+ 17.36
Soul Sacrifice Delta New 105.5
Spelunky New 70.5
Spy Hunter CIB+ 24.31
Stay [Limited Edition] New 130.5
Stealth Inc: A Clone in the Dark (Ultimate Edition) New 29.13
SteamWorld Dig New 55.72
SteamWorld Heist New 52.97
Steins;Gate CIB+ 30.58
Steins;Gate 0 CIB+ 29.49
Stranger of sword city limited edition New 63.57
Super Hydorah New 47.9
Super Meat Boy New 60.5
Super Mutant Alien Assault New 34.9
Super Skull Smash GO! 2 Turbo New 42.35
SUPERBEAT: XONiC New 28.49
Superdimension Neptune VS Sega Hard Girls New 58.5
Sword Art Online: Hollow Fragment New 65.48
Synergia [Limited Edition] New 110.49
Tachyon Project Limited Edition New 55.35
Takotan [Limited Edition] New 51.59
Tales from Space: Mutant Blobs Attack New 50.24
Tales of Hearts R CIB+ 69.48
Tales of Hearts R Loose 50.5
Task Force Kampas New 36.5
Tetris Ultimate New 70.47
Tetris Ultimate New 70.47
Amazing Spider-Man CIB+ 64.75
Amazing Spider-Man CIB+ 64.75
Bard's Tale: Remastered and Resnarkled New 50.49
Bit.Trip Limited Edition New 33.5
Count Lucanor [Signature Edition] New 144.47
House in Fata Morgana: Dreams of the Revenants Edition CIB+ 99.5
House in Fata Morgana: Dreams of the Revenants Edition M+B 40.1
King of Fighters '97: Global Match New 64.81
Legend of Heroes: Trails of Cold Steel CIB+ 36.49
Legend of Heroes: Trails of Cold Steel (Lionheart Limited Edition) New 72.39
Legend of Heroes: Trails of Cold Steel II CIB+ 57.82
Longest Five Minutes New 32.5
Lost Child New 56.03
Lost Cube [Limited Edition] New 50.49
Ratchet and Clank Trilogy CIB+ 72.77
Swapper New 51.48
Swindle New 27.51
Walking Dead: Season Two - A Telltale Games Series New 22.61
Thomas Was Alone New 33.5
Tokyo Xanadu New 49.32
Touch My Katamari CIB+ 33.72
Twin Breaker: A Sacred Symbols Adventure [Limited Edition] CIB+ 47.09
Ultimate Marvel Vs. Capcom 3 CIB+ 31.21
Uncharted: Golden Abyss CIB+ 27.23
Uncharted: Golden Abyss CIB+ 27.23
Undertale New 66.38
Unepic [Limited Edition] New 274.98
UnMetal New 163.32
Utawarerumono: Mask of Deception New 72.27
Utawarerumono: Mask of Truth - Launch Edition New 36.5
Utawarerumono: Mask of Truth - Launch Edition New 36.5
VA-11 Hall-A New 79.91
Valkyrie Drive: Bhikkhuni CIB+ 66.81
Vasara Collection New 98.5
Velocity 2X: Critical Mass Edition New 63.05
Volume New 32.25
Windjammers New 35.83
Wipeout 2048 New 31.24
World of Final Fantasy New 33.99
Xeno Crisis [Limited Edition] New 100.5
Xeno Crisis [Limited Edition] New 100.5
Xeno Crisis [Limited Edition] New 100.5
Xenon Valkyrie+ New 68.11
Xeodrifter New 44.2
Yomawari: Midnight Shadows CIB+ 33.71
Yomawari: Night Alone / htol#NiQ: The Firefly Diary CIB+ 40.5
Ys Origin New 56.4
Ys VIII: Lacrimosa of DANA New 72.34
Ys: Memories of Celceta CIB+ 25.99
Yumeutsutsu Re:After [Limited Edition] New 82.97
Yumeutsutsu Re:Master [Limited Edition] New 75.48
Zero Escape: Virtue's Last Reward CIB+ 15.5
Zero Escape: Zero Time Dilemma New 33.17
Zero Escape: Zero Time Dilemma Loose 24.51
3DS
Aliens: Infestation Loose 45.00
Minecraft: New Nintendo 3DS Edition New 34.72
New Nintendo 2DS XL White & Orange Loose $160.00
Senran Kagura 2: Deep Crimson (Double D Edition) New 70.5
Senran Kagura 2: Deep Crimson (Double D Edition) New 70.5
Shantae and the Pirate's Curse [Collector's Edition] New 89.39
Shantae and the Pirate's Curse [Collector's Edition] New 89.39
2024.05.28 03:12 Radioplacebo69 I plan to die after my pet passes away (21m)
I've been getting so many intrusive thoughts about death, in the back of my head I get this euphoria and adrenaline rush at the idea of dying. Just thinking about all the ways. Should I hang myself, dive bomb off a bridge? Should I die for a political statement so my death is worth something?? I've cut myself, hit myself with a bat, I waxed my face to understand why people hated it and it hurts nowhere near as the thoughts in my head. They say suicide is selfish, but bringing children in this world is neglectful and selfish, and I honestly believe if I stopped existing, people would only see me for the funeral, have snacks and catch up with other family members and forget about me. I don't have friends or family I believe I can rely on for my emotional struggles. I don't care about anything, I just want someone to listen to me and I can hug for as long as I want. The only reason I wanna still be here is for my cat, I hate the idea of leaving her in this cruel world. Such an innocent lady who deserves a happy and peaceful release from this world. I started having to fight to get out of bed, I'm so tired after sleeping all day. I work in the hospital. I see how horrible everyone's family is. This elderly patient. Imagine being a full code, on a ventilator, tube feed, restrained and medicated because you try to pull it all out and also very bad dementia. The only reason you're forced to live is because a family member in charge of you didn't come and see you until you were dying. That patient died right after becoming a DNR. I get so many older SI (Suicidal Ideation) patients that are there because they have all this money but there's no point. Some of these people worked all their lives to retire and die a week later. All their friends working themselves to death for the American Dream. My American dream is to be sedated and feel my life slowly drain. People too busy for my birthday. People only care if you threaten your own life and I hate/refuse begging for attention and love in that way. Some people aren't made for this world. It's unnatural.
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2024.05.28 03:12 Smooth-Put-9228 New Cosmo JrTrackr3 User: Initial Reaction, Questions & Feature Requests
I’m on week 1 of our watch for our AU kiddo, and I LOVE a lot about this watch. But there’s a good bit I hope to see improved in the near future. I opted for the most expensive monthly plan (min 3 mos) before we go all in.
So far, I really like that the watch is EXCLUSIVLEY a GPS watch with calling and texting. No internet, no social media, no radio… and no games. There are timers, a calculator, voice memos, and kid-quality photos and videos (which suits our needs). It’s interesting enough to keep our kid’s interest, but doesn’t have risks or distractions most others do. 🙌
The watch band was a breeze to change (didn’t require a pin tool), and the straps actually are tight enough to fit my petite kid’s wrist. There’s still some kinks to work out, and tomorrow we really put it to the test.
Overall, I’m very happy with it. I have quite a few questions still, and a “wish list” of recommendations for the company to consider. I’m waiting on a reply for an update to fix the problematic GPS, which still worries me. I’ll try to update once we use it more. If you use the watch, please share your tips for a newbie like me. Hope my thoughts and questions below are helpful to some, and I’d love Cosmo to take some of these suggestions to heart if possible. Overall, a GREAT product for our needs! —— ❓QUESTIONS❓
WATER RESISTANCE 🏊: - why must you advise against swimming if it’s IP68? To be IP68 it needs to be at least one meter deep for at least 30 mins (COULD be between 30 mins and 4 hours.) Why shouldn’t a kid in floaties wear it if only swimming for about a half an hour? - my issue is, I don’t EVER want my kid to take their watch off without me there, ever. If they swim for 30 mins at camp, she’s losing it, or forgetting it in her bag or elsewhere…
ADDITIONAL WARRANTY: - I was excited to be offered this when activating our watch. For something like 2.99/mo we have extra insurance against water damage, damage, theft/loss! - how does this work? Is there a deductible or any “watch outs”? Is it via Cosmo or a 3rd party? (Does anyone have any experiences to share?)
GPS - it’s pretty glitchy, and “lost” my kid for something like 2 hours and TOTALLY missed her two hours at school… — it saw her leave home, then nothing while on her way to school (at all), and NEVER saw her at school (at all), only to “find” her hours later at the afterschool program. 😳 — what’s worse, I COULD see MYSELF in the cosmo app when I was at school with her! So, my VZN phone (even in semi dead zone) saw me in the guardian app, but never my child. - THIS IS VERY CONCERNING, but I hear Cosmo is aware of it and planning an update to the Guardian App (?) to fix this… 🤔 (isn’t the issue that the GPS on the watch wasn’t working, not the app, since it’s also not in her history?)
SYNCING/Real Time Changes not Updating: -when I turn off, or adjust the time for a “school mode”, it does not update on her watch. How can I push an update to it flashes to match the admin settings? —this has been a big issue. I suddenly NEED to message my kid, and I’d left it on school mode. I turn it off, but the watch never recognizes the change.
SOS MODE: - it CANNOT be turned off? (Only auto after 15 min timeout?) - how can we allow the child to text at least in SOS mode? (This was a big complaint on many forums from people encouraging others to stay away from Cosmo, because they felt SOS handicapped access and in the event GPS isn’t tracking right, there’s no way to help or communicate with the child.) - Will SOS mode work while in school mode?
GROUP TEXTING: -We have 3 guardians. I sent a group text from my iPhone, and it looked like it worked. But on her watch, it ONLY showed as from me(mom). How do I get group texts to actually work as group texts on her phone?
BATTERY LIFE: - does WiFi hurt or help battery life? - is there a power reserve mode if needed?
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🙏🏻 REQUESTS 🙏🏻
PLEASE IMPROVE THE ACCURACY AND REFRESH RATE OF THE GPS (super important, see issue above)
ALLOW “RECENT” EMOJIS & PRESETS: can you program a future update to “remember” the most recently used presets and emojis, like a phone does? So they don’t have to scroll down a million times accidentally clicking the wrong items along the way? (My kid says it’s too hard to type a text, so only uses the voice memo to reply. She’s right, it’s clunky…) —ideally, she could talk-text but that’s probably too sophisticated and requires a “Siri” like tool.
WE NEED MORE MODES: We need more modes on the watch. —We need a “bedtime” mode - where nothing works except maybe texts/calls to guardians (it’s clunky to set TWO extra school modes for AM and PM, but that blocks ALL contacts and features.) - please KEEP school mode, I think this is a great feature! - we need a DND or Study Mode, that the adult OR child can turn on (but PARENTS MUST BE ABLE TO OVERRIDE IF NEEDED), so they’re not disturbed while attending something like: church, sports practice, studying
ADD GUARDIAN ACCESS TO CONTENT: - give guardians access content on the watch, like all the silly voice memos, selfies, etc. remotely? - allow guardians the option to see what is being said between “contacts”? - how will guardians know when their kid has filled up their watch storage with too many blurry selfies and silly voice clips? - PLEASE enable guardian control over settings like volume, vibration, etc… —- and add these controls as options within each “MODE” (we need more modes, see below)
LISTEN IN: (controversial, I know… hear me out) - we need a way to listen in, outside of the SOS (BUT AGAIN, I feel you really NEED to ALSO enable communication DURING and SOS, it’s a huge hindrance and reason for avoidance from many parents on AU forums… 😉) —the LISTEN IN feature should NOT be built into the school mode. (This is because it’s a privacy violation for some… hear me out…) —- INSTEAD: you need to enable a guardian to listen in (discretely, without the watch face making it obvious, and without the guardian’s voice being heard), SO a parent can listen in if their child is as a PUBLIC place (park, field, public transportation) - where there are NO PRIVACY RIGHTS/expectations/risks/etc., but so we can know our special needs child is safe, around safe people and making safe choices in PUBLIC places. —- NOTE: obviously, there ARE other watches that offer the listen in: namely AngelCare, TickTalk, Spysite, etc… Just make sure you maintain encrypted channels for “listen in” or “live listening”, AND, make your PRIVACY policy crystal clear. (There are trusted companies and magazines who now encourage people to buy alternatives to Angel merely because Angel Watch doesn’t have a “posted privacy” policy… I guess people assume that means they’re listening in, storing, etc… which is unlikely and gross.) ——-BUT, we do NEED a listen in option or “auto answer” guardian controlled setting for when they’re in a public place and we aren’t entirely sure they’re being adequately supervised or safe.
LOCKING BAND: - we need a locking band option for special needs kiddos who may take the watches off, or be bullied and have them taken off of them. - these exist and are available for other watches (including Angel Watch), and the hardware looks cheap if you buy it by the 100 qty on Alibaba. Sadly, I just need one. - similar watches with this security feature (which is standard if you opt into your local police’s program, but they use a non-removable bracelet or anklet… so those with autism, Dimentia, etc. cannot take them off.) - GPS watches offering these include Angel Watch, Tranquil, Theora, EO5 in Asia, etc.) Theirs seem made for the standard 20mm silicone strap, so I’d love to see this as an add-on. 👉It could be a real differentiator and alllw Cosmo to market themselves to those on ASD who elope, or those with Alzheimer’s or dimentia…😉 Will add photos if I can in comments…
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So far, I really like that the watch is EXCLUSIVLEY a GPS watch with calling and texting. No internet, no social media, no radio… and no games. There are timers, a calculator, voice memos, and kid-quality photos and videos (which suits our needs). It’s interesting enough to keep our kid’s interest, but doesn’t have risks or distractions most others do. 🙌
The watch band was a breeze to change (didn’t require a pin tool), and the straps actually are tight enough to fit my petite kid’s wrist. There’s still some kinks to work out, and tomorrow we really put it to the test.
Overall, I’m very happy with it. I have quite a few questions still, and a “wish list” of recommendations for the company to consider. I’m waiting on a reply for an update to fix the problematic GPS, which still worries me. I’ll try to update once we use it more. If you use the watch, please share your tips for a newbie like me. Hope my thoughts and questions below are helpful to some, and I’d love Cosmo to take some of these suggestions to heart if possible. Overall, a GREAT product for our needs! —— ❓QUESTIONS❓
WATER RESISTANCE 🏊: - why must you advise against swimming if it’s IP68? To be IP68 it needs to be at least one meter deep for at least 30 mins (COULD be between 30 mins and 4 hours.) Why shouldn’t a kid in floaties wear it if only swimming for about a half an hour? - my issue is, I don’t EVER want my kid to take their watch off without me there, ever. If they swim for 30 mins at camp, she’s losing it, or forgetting it in her bag or elsewhere…
ADDITIONAL WARRANTY: - I was excited to be offered this when activating our watch. For something like 2.99/mo we have extra insurance against water damage, damage, theft/loss! - how does this work? Is there a deductible or any “watch outs”? Is it via Cosmo or a 3rd party? (Does anyone have any experiences to share?)
GPS - it’s pretty glitchy, and “lost” my kid for something like 2 hours and TOTALLY missed her two hours at school… — it saw her leave home, then nothing while on her way to school (at all), and NEVER saw her at school (at all), only to “find” her hours later at the afterschool program. 😳 — what’s worse, I COULD see MYSELF in the cosmo app when I was at school with her! So, my VZN phone (even in semi dead zone) saw me in the guardian app, but never my child. - THIS IS VERY CONCERNING, but I hear Cosmo is aware of it and planning an update to the Guardian App (?) to fix this… 🤔 (isn’t the issue that the GPS on the watch wasn’t working, not the app, since it’s also not in her history?)
SYNCING/Real Time Changes not Updating: -when I turn off, or adjust the time for a “school mode”, it does not update on her watch. How can I push an update to it flashes to match the admin settings? —this has been a big issue. I suddenly NEED to message my kid, and I’d left it on school mode. I turn it off, but the watch never recognizes the change.
SOS MODE: - it CANNOT be turned off? (Only auto after 15 min timeout?) - how can we allow the child to text at least in SOS mode? (This was a big complaint on many forums from people encouraging others to stay away from Cosmo, because they felt SOS handicapped access and in the event GPS isn’t tracking right, there’s no way to help or communicate with the child.) - Will SOS mode work while in school mode?
GROUP TEXTING: -We have 3 guardians. I sent a group text from my iPhone, and it looked like it worked. But on her watch, it ONLY showed as from me(mom). How do I get group texts to actually work as group texts on her phone?
BATTERY LIFE: - does WiFi hurt or help battery life? - is there a power reserve mode if needed?
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🙏🏻 REQUESTS 🙏🏻
PLEASE IMPROVE THE ACCURACY AND REFRESH RATE OF THE GPS (super important, see issue above)
ALLOW “RECENT” EMOJIS & PRESETS: can you program a future update to “remember” the most recently used presets and emojis, like a phone does? So they don’t have to scroll down a million times accidentally clicking the wrong items along the way? (My kid says it’s too hard to type a text, so only uses the voice memo to reply. She’s right, it’s clunky…) —ideally, she could talk-text but that’s probably too sophisticated and requires a “Siri” like tool.
WE NEED MORE MODES: We need more modes on the watch. —We need a “bedtime” mode - where nothing works except maybe texts/calls to guardians (it’s clunky to set TWO extra school modes for AM and PM, but that blocks ALL contacts and features.) - please KEEP school mode, I think this is a great feature! - we need a DND or Study Mode, that the adult OR child can turn on (but PARENTS MUST BE ABLE TO OVERRIDE IF NEEDED), so they’re not disturbed while attending something like: church, sports practice, studying
ADD GUARDIAN ACCESS TO CONTENT: - give guardians access content on the watch, like all the silly voice memos, selfies, etc. remotely? - allow guardians the option to see what is being said between “contacts”? - how will guardians know when their kid has filled up their watch storage with too many blurry selfies and silly voice clips? - PLEASE enable guardian control over settings like volume, vibration, etc… —- and add these controls as options within each “MODE” (we need more modes, see below)
LISTEN IN: (controversial, I know… hear me out) - we need a way to listen in, outside of the SOS (BUT AGAIN, I feel you really NEED to ALSO enable communication DURING and SOS, it’s a huge hindrance and reason for avoidance from many parents on AU forums… 😉) —the LISTEN IN feature should NOT be built into the school mode. (This is because it’s a privacy violation for some… hear me out…) —- INSTEAD: you need to enable a guardian to listen in (discretely, without the watch face making it obvious, and without the guardian’s voice being heard), SO a parent can listen in if their child is as a PUBLIC place (park, field, public transportation) - where there are NO PRIVACY RIGHTS/expectations/risks/etc., but so we can know our special needs child is safe, around safe people and making safe choices in PUBLIC places. —- NOTE: obviously, there ARE other watches that offer the listen in: namely AngelCare, TickTalk, Spysite, etc… Just make sure you maintain encrypted channels for “listen in” or “live listening”, AND, make your PRIVACY policy crystal clear. (There are trusted companies and magazines who now encourage people to buy alternatives to Angel merely because Angel Watch doesn’t have a “posted privacy” policy… I guess people assume that means they’re listening in, storing, etc… which is unlikely and gross.) ——-BUT, we do NEED a listen in option or “auto answer” guardian controlled setting for when they’re in a public place and we aren’t entirely sure they’re being adequately supervised or safe.
LOCKING BAND: - we need a locking band option for special needs kiddos who may take the watches off, or be bullied and have them taken off of them. - these exist and are available for other watches (including Angel Watch), and the hardware looks cheap if you buy it by the 100 qty on Alibaba. Sadly, I just need one. - similar watches with this security feature (which is standard if you opt into your local police’s program, but they use a non-removable bracelet or anklet… so those with autism, Dimentia, etc. cannot take them off.) - GPS watches offering these include Angel Watch, Tranquil, Theora, EO5 in Asia, etc.) Theirs seem made for the standard 20mm silicone strap, so I’d love to see this as an add-on. 👉It could be a real differentiator and alllw Cosmo to market themselves to those on ASD who elope, or those with Alzheimer’s or dimentia…😉 Will add photos if I can in comments…
2024.05.28 03:09 adssfsjs_walnut83 I don't know if my parents are abusive or not
I'm not totally sure if my parents are abusive or not, so I wanna see other peoples opinions
So my dad cheated on my mom when I was about 3-4 and he moved out shortly after. Before then, both my parents were absent in my life. Because my dad worked during the day, the only times I would see him would be early in the morning or late at night, and my mom worked night-shift so she would often sleep during the day. I wasn't mistreated, I got fed and watered, but I feel like I never had much interaction with them.
After my dad moved out, me and mom left left to live with another man she found. He was an amazing guy until he began using drugs and asulted my mom one night. I did not witness it but I remember the day it happened. A little after that my dad met my stepmom. They started dating and she would often say things like "I don't want a kid" or "I don't like kids" in front of 5 year old me. Eventually she stopped after my mom confronted her about it, but the fact she even said anything like that really bothers me.
I started public school for the first time right after my 6th birthday since I used to be homeschooled, I loved school and it was like a place for me to actually have fun. In second grade my best friend and her mom and sister moved in with me and my mom. I was so excited but me and my friend hated each other for the next two years. Her mom would always treat us unfairly, babying my friend and yelling at me. I understand I wasn't her child but still. My mom would often take me and my friend to the store or her work to avoid my friends mom, and I am pretty sure she played a major role in me being suicidal in 3rd grade (don't worry I got better)
Now, at my mom's house, several years later, there is stuff everywhere, the house is a huge fire hazard. It isn't as bad as those houses on that horders show though. And I think the place just stresses me out so much that I don't want to help clean up, instead I do things to keep my mind off of everything. My mom also talks about her problems with me, even after she has said it is a form of abuse.
My dad isn't a big issue, but he is a very passive parent. He doesn't take me to doctors appointments or make sure I'm not getting into trouble.
But I think my stepmom is the worst. Probably the best way to describe her is that it's like I'm walking of glass around her, one wrong move and it breaks. And lieing to her is like there is a crack in the glass and I try taping it, sometimes it still breaks and sometimes it doesn't. I don't get yelled at or hit, but I can't do anything I really enjoy without getting either scolded or in trouble. I am a therian and I do a sport called quadrobics which is where one runs and jumps on all fours. When I do quadrobics, my stepmom would say something like "If you act like and animal we will treat you like and animal." Even though I am just being myself. She is over-protective as well, I can't climb trees or talk to strangers online whatsoever. She has rules for me that she doesn't follow herself like how I am not allowed to interrupt people because it's rude though for some reason she is allowed to interrupt me.
Anyway I could keep going and going about these people but I'm not going to. I don't want to write a whole novel lol. If anyone knows if this is abuse or not and if anyone has any ideas on how to cope with it I am all ears. I have tried therapy and journaling but neither are for me. Thanks!
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So my dad cheated on my mom when I was about 3-4 and he moved out shortly after. Before then, both my parents were absent in my life. Because my dad worked during the day, the only times I would see him would be early in the morning or late at night, and my mom worked night-shift so she would often sleep during the day. I wasn't mistreated, I got fed and watered, but I feel like I never had much interaction with them.
After my dad moved out, me and mom left left to live with another man she found. He was an amazing guy until he began using drugs and asulted my mom one night. I did not witness it but I remember the day it happened. A little after that my dad met my stepmom. They started dating and she would often say things like "I don't want a kid" or "I don't like kids" in front of 5 year old me. Eventually she stopped after my mom confronted her about it, but the fact she even said anything like that really bothers me.
I started public school for the first time right after my 6th birthday since I used to be homeschooled, I loved school and it was like a place for me to actually have fun. In second grade my best friend and her mom and sister moved in with me and my mom. I was so excited but me and my friend hated each other for the next two years. Her mom would always treat us unfairly, babying my friend and yelling at me. I understand I wasn't her child but still. My mom would often take me and my friend to the store or her work to avoid my friends mom, and I am pretty sure she played a major role in me being suicidal in 3rd grade (don't worry I got better)
Now, at my mom's house, several years later, there is stuff everywhere, the house is a huge fire hazard. It isn't as bad as those houses on that horders show though. And I think the place just stresses me out so much that I don't want to help clean up, instead I do things to keep my mind off of everything. My mom also talks about her problems with me, even after she has said it is a form of abuse.
My dad isn't a big issue, but he is a very passive parent. He doesn't take me to doctors appointments or make sure I'm not getting into trouble.
But I think my stepmom is the worst. Probably the best way to describe her is that it's like I'm walking of glass around her, one wrong move and it breaks. And lieing to her is like there is a crack in the glass and I try taping it, sometimes it still breaks and sometimes it doesn't. I don't get yelled at or hit, but I can't do anything I really enjoy without getting either scolded or in trouble. I am a therian and I do a sport called quadrobics which is where one runs and jumps on all fours. When I do quadrobics, my stepmom would say something like "If you act like and animal we will treat you like and animal." Even though I am just being myself. She is over-protective as well, I can't climb trees or talk to strangers online whatsoever. She has rules for me that she doesn't follow herself like how I am not allowed to interrupt people because it's rude though for some reason she is allowed to interrupt me.
Anyway I could keep going and going about these people but I'm not going to. I don't want to write a whole novel lol. If anyone knows if this is abuse or not and if anyone has any ideas on how to cope with it I am all ears. I have tried therapy and journaling but neither are for me. Thanks!
2024.05.28 03:08 esfiffer Trying to stay emotionally “soft”
I (27F) have always had a more masculine energy— grew up with brothers, never learned make-up, general fix it/ driver friend, friends car oil changer, not really overtly emotional, heart not in my ya-know, pretty direct, pretty laid back and funny. Not a fan of generalizations but trying to hopefully make a point. I’ve always casually dated, more often then not I couldn’t commit because one/more red flags (ex: guy saying he wasn’t ready for a relationship after our first date but really wanted to be friends. We stayed friends and ended up casually dating /hooking up for a year. He fell in love and I never allowed myself to catch feelings after his first comment bc real talk, he probably wasn’t that into me at first but then was after spending a lot of time together. So it ended after he couldn’t get over me saying no to being his girlfriend. Still a good guy, just not a fit.) in the beginning would linger in the back of my mind and I’d close myself off to developing feelings.
Recently, I’ve been trying to work on getting mentally and physically healthier, especially after a serious car accident (I’m doing great!) and took dating more seriously. Met a genuinely great guy, we understood each other and connected emotionally in a way I’ve never allowed myself to before. First time my friends ever saw me be “soft” and giddy with a guy, honestly the first guy they ever really met intentionally. I wanted to take things slow, for me and him who was also healing in a very real way. We had a long conversation about meeting the other where we were and honestly, I was deliriously happy until unfortunately, he couldn’t overcome his issues and ghosted me. I knew he wasn’t in a good place so even though I was massively hurt (ghosted me on my birthday unexpectedly), I decided to be a good friend (cause at least in that I’m confident in. I may lack in many areas but I’m a steadfast and loyal friend, really believe in cultivating safe and uplifting friendship) and just let him know I was in his corner.
I opened up so genuinely with him and he definitely allowed me to safely be put my feminine in a way I’ve never known so I’ll always be grateful for that (even though he really hurt me, I don’t have it in me to hate or wish him unwell, but he seemingly set a boundary with the no-contact so I’ve respected that even if I don’t understand it). My issue is now I don’t want to be jaded, and I believe in looking at people with an abundance of empathy and that ego/pride has no place in any type of love BUT I’m terrified and fighting to not harden again. How do I remain soft and sincerely open?
Also sorry if I wrote this wrong, very first time posting ever.
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Recently, I’ve been trying to work on getting mentally and physically healthier, especially after a serious car accident (I’m doing great!) and took dating more seriously. Met a genuinely great guy, we understood each other and connected emotionally in a way I’ve never allowed myself to before. First time my friends ever saw me be “soft” and giddy with a guy, honestly the first guy they ever really met intentionally. I wanted to take things slow, for me and him who was also healing in a very real way. We had a long conversation about meeting the other where we were and honestly, I was deliriously happy until unfortunately, he couldn’t overcome his issues and ghosted me. I knew he wasn’t in a good place so even though I was massively hurt (ghosted me on my birthday unexpectedly), I decided to be a good friend (cause at least in that I’m confident in. I may lack in many areas but I’m a steadfast and loyal friend, really believe in cultivating safe and uplifting friendship) and just let him know I was in his corner.
I opened up so genuinely with him and he definitely allowed me to safely be put my feminine in a way I’ve never known so I’ll always be grateful for that (even though he really hurt me, I don’t have it in me to hate or wish him unwell, but he seemingly set a boundary with the no-contact so I’ve respected that even if I don’t understand it). My issue is now I don’t want to be jaded, and I believe in looking at people with an abundance of empathy and that ego/pride has no place in any type of love BUT I’m terrified and fighting to not harden again. How do I remain soft and sincerely open?
Also sorry if I wrote this wrong, very first time posting ever.
2024.05.28 03:08 mikeramp72 Endgame #15
15th: Randy Bailey 1.0 (Gabon - 8th)
my pookie randy baileyu/SMC0629:
I LOVE Randy 1.0. Gabon is a great season, and there's so many characters that you could argue for the top spot. For me though, it'd be Randy. The dude's hilarious, and he's a villain that you love to hate. However, similar to Scot, there's moments that really make you sympathize with him and make you even want to root for him. He's super compelling, but even more entertaining, love Randy, so happy he made endgame.
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u/DryBonesKing:
Randy is a bitter, bitter old man, and that’s also why he’s one of the best casting choices Survivor has ever managed to find. It almost feels like a waste that Survivor had been sitting on this guy for years each time he applied, but it was definitely for the best that they ended up bringing him onto Gabon. Randy slots in so well to pretty much any narrative role he needs to be in. Whether it’s the borderline “only sane man” role he fills in pre-swap Fang, to being another cog in the Onion Alliance of Kota (and a much needed personality increase that alliance needed), to just a pedantic asshole in the second swap Fang, to just being a bitter fuckhead in his boot episode. He’s just a very versatile character able to fit whatever role he is needed for, but in a way that still feels consistent to who he is – a fucking asshole who hates everyone.
He's crucial to liking Gabon, as he just embodies the spirit of the season in my opinion as this negative force that just has plenty of hate for everyone. Even his own friends aren’t safe from his wrath, like Matty when the two get into the pettiest argument of all time in the episode nine reward challenge. He has one of the most satisfying boot episodes of all time, as well as just one of the funniest. I’m also a huge fan of his jury voting confessional, where he just helps Gabon come together with seven simple words: “All three of you, kiss my ass!” He's hilarious and I do love his relationship with the majority of the cast, with his dynamic with Sugar, Susie, and Crystal deserving the most praise in my eyes, especially with how they outlast him.
But I do think even beyond just the humor and negativity, he’s just a miserable human being in a way that feels very painful. He’s just a very lonely person and it does manifest in how he interacts with others, and I think it gives a certain sadness to the way he treats others and also the way he is treated. It really helps give him a unique tone that I think Survivor really hasn’t been able to accomplish with villains; a simultaneous feeling where you root for his downfall but also root for him. Root for him to find happiness, even though if Randy read that sentence, he’d probably tell me “He doesn’t want my pity” before telling me to go kill myself. And like… I don’t know, I really fuck with that energy. Randy’s a 10/10 for me and it’s a testament to the rest of the people who made Endgame I don’t have him higher than this. I really hope Survivor is one day able to find someone with even half of Randy’s energy.
Overall Rank – 58/821
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u/Zanthosus:
I’m not as big on Randy as others if I’m being completely honest. One of my biggest issues with Gabon as a season is that so much of the cast is just so overly-negative constantly to the point that it puts me in a bad mood watching it and becomes a slog to get through. Randy, to his credit, at least has a lot of fun in his negativity that others like Corinne, Kenny, Charlie, Paloma, and various others don’t. I still do appreciate his role on the season, and even enjoy his presence to an extent, but I’ve never been able to fully get on board with him being endgame, and especially not better than Sugar.
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u/Tommyroxs45:
Randy is probably my spirit animal of Survivor. Just a grumpy old man who hates everything and everyone, but there is such an amazing story there and such an amazing character that makes him a top 10 character for me. Also the fact that he literally has one of the best episodes of all time, his boot episode which is just *mwah* chefs kiss.
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u/Regnisyak1:
One of my best-kept secrets this rankdown was I don’t like Randy very much. Objectively, Randy has a great story, but something about him never landed for me while watching Gabon. I think he helps make that season more negative than it should be, and I feel like even though Randy was a monstrous dick, no one deserves the downfall he got, and I think it was just unnecessarily cruel. That being said, Randy is a quote machine, and watching the cranky old man on the season did contribute, and he had great relationships throughout, especially with Sugar, Crystal, Bob, Marcus, and others. Plus his leaving Fang and getting his mohawk were all funny.
Personal Rank: 100/821. 8/10.
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u/ninjedi1:
Randy Bailey 1.0 (8th Place, Gabon)
Randy, in my humble opinion, might be the best Survivor villain of all time in terms of entertainment. He has a great story of slowly becoming a massive dick throughout the season before getting an ultimate downfall. Right at the start of the season he says his job is a videographer, and then cuts to a confessional of him saying how he edits wedding videos for a living, but isn’t a positive person, hates marriage, and will never get married. Randy ends up on Fang but isn’t entirely his full blown asshole self yet, at least with his tribe. In his confessionals he lets his tribemates have it, like saying how Gillian is annoying and hasn’t accomplished anything, or saying how the GC’s best decision as leader was resigning from the leadership position. However, when he interacts with his tribemates, he’s more reserved and friendly, like joking about being full when offered a grasshopper to eat, or him not really giving his opinion on the first vote when asked by Matty.
However, the reservness slowly goes away as time passes, as he gets more and more annoyed with the Fang tribe. When they start running low on rice and start to pitch that they need to eat less, which annoys GC and they get into an argument about it. This leads t oRandy to decide that his plan is to just sit and watch the team fall apart. That’s not even the end of the rice saga as Randy brings it up again that they’re low on rice and need to ration it better, but knows that Crystal, GC, and Kenny aren’t listening to him at all. The more dickish Randy slowly starts to make his appearance, and he ends up forming an alliance with Dan, Matty, and Susie, allowing him to be in control of Fang, but that quickly changes due to the swap.
The first tribe swap of the season happens where they have to vote on who the most important members of the tribe were and rank accordingly (and you can actually see Randy’s board where he ranks Susie above GC and Ken, based) and Randy actually scores pretty high, placing 3rd on Fang. He gets taken into Kota along with Dan and Susie, and knows that he needs to fit in or else he might get voted out. Luckily for Randy, most of the original Kota hates Fang, and since Randy is able to perform well in the challenges, he fits right in. He mocks Kelly and Ken when they ask for a bite of reward, straight up telling them no, and then mocking Crystal when she starts to cry since they’ve lost so much, going “wah wah wah”. Even after a different reward challenge, he mocks the entire Fang tribe by mentioning how they’re probably out of rice now while they were feasting. This even leads Randy to get pulled into the Onion alliance, replacing Bob. However, his first thing that the alliance does with him in it now is vote off his friend, Dan.
So while Randy’s main edit is watching this go become a villainous asshole, one of the smaller and more missable plots Randy has is his bond with Dan. When Dan returns from Exile, everyone thinks he has the idol except for Randy, who is the only one to defend Dan, saying that he’s just paranoid and tired, and they even end up in a short lived alliance together on Fang. During the tribe swap, both Randy and Dan tell Corinne not to pick GC, as they are both in sync and know what’s good for the tribe. A main moment that really shows how well they work together is in the big hill ball rolling challenge, where their teamwork is able to help clench the victory for Kota over the more dysfunctional Ace and Sugar on Fang. However, Dan has been annoying the rest of the tribe, and Randy tries to distance himself from him. But when Kota wants to vote out Dan over Susie due to fear of an idol, Randy tries to sway the vote to Susie instead, but Dan ends up going home instead. What really makes this impactful is after that tribal, when Randy was asked about it, Randy said that the other tribals were easy, and then got annoyed when everyone laughed as he told them he wasn’t trying to be funny. This is the one rare moment where Randy gets specifically mad at his alliance since he had to watch his friend get voted out.
But now it's F10 and it looks like the merge is finally here! And it's looking like the merge and Randy is on cloud 9. He enjoys the feast, and when the clue for the idol gets revealed, he finds it almost instantly and then he and Marcus convince everyone to throw it into the ocean, with an accompanying confessional where he calls himself the king of Gabon. This all comes crashing down as it's not a merge, it's a second tribe swap! While the Kota six are split evenly between both teams, giving them numerical advantage, Randy worries about Susie flipping and discusses throwing the challenge to vote out Matty. However, Matty ends up single handedly winning immunity for them, and in the next episode, Randy’s fears were confirmed and Susie flipped, voting out Marcus. Of course, it's not all bad news, as Fang ends up winning reward! Except for the fact they won after a five minute argument about the best way to make the easiest shot in the world. It's honestly hilarious to see after the old Kota members on Fang react to seeing Marcus go.
After that it's the merge for real this time! This is where a lot of Karma catches up to Randy. You see, with Susie clearly sided with the Fang members, Sugar is now seen as the swing vote. However, all of Randy’s actions on picking on Fang during the reward challenges and his bad attitude at the recent golf challenge makes her really dislike him and want him out first. However, the Kotas don’t want to do that since Randy is in their alliance, so Sugar ends up siding with the original Fang members who also don’t like Randy and votes off Charlie, meaning Randy inadvertently screwed everything up.
Randy’s boot episode is where Randy is at his worst, which also means he’s at his best since he’s about to go. Randy decides that he’s just going to keep being an asshole, and he lives up to that as the auction is the next reward challenge. He annoys everyone as he gets his hands on beer and nuts as well as a plate of spaghetti. He also buys cookies for the whole tribe and gives one to everyone except Sugar who doesn’t want one, and when he offers his cookie to her, she takes it and gives it to Matty, which annoys him. He then comes up with a genius strategy, basically making everyone miserable so that everyone will vote for him, and then he’ll use the idol that Bob found to make himself safe and take out Susie for personal reasons. It's foolproof! Except there’s one problem. Bob never found the idol because Sugar found it. That alone would be funny if that was that and Randy just got voted off, but there’s more. Bob made a fake and told Sugar about it, and she tells him to give it to Randy if he wants to make it farther. Bob complies, and Randy is none the wiser, super smug with the fact his plan is going to work. This tribal is great cause it gives us two iconic voting confessionals, with Sugar old bigot vote and Crystal’s shouting vote, and the cherry on top is Randy standing up and playing the idol all smug, only for it to be revealed to be fake while Sugar and Crystal laugh, and Randy is out of the game.
Of course, that’s not entirely the end, and Randy would get one last fuck you to the final three. He grills Sugar for laughing at him out the door, asking her if she didn’t realize he would be on the jury, yells at Bob for making a joke at his expense about the fake idol and screwing him over, and gets annoyed with Susie about her saying she feels sorry for him. He then delivers the iconic voting confessional “All three of you can kiss my ass!”. Randy’s villain journey from annoyed old man who’s keeping it to himself to overconfident dick rubbing in the other team's faces to massive downfall caused by his own auctions is a lot of fun, especially with how genuine he feels at all times. Without Randy, Gabon wouldn’t be nearly as great as it is.
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SMC0629: 11
DryBonesKing: 16
Zanthosus: 19
Tommyroxs45: 8
Regnisyak1: 23
DavidW1208: 6
ninjedi1: 12
Average Placement: 13.571
Total Points: 95
Standard Deviation: 6.079 (12th Lowest)
2024.05.28 03:07 WEWEREONABREAK200RA Update 2: my husband’s father moved in with us
Link to most recent update: update 1
TLDR: Just wanted to give the update that no one asked for or wanted, but my marriage is over, I think for good. Y’all were right. How do I pick up the pieces?
We lived separately from June to March, with us officially moving out in September (took us a while). His dad started throwing my things into trash bags during the actual move because I was taking too long to pack. Then when I started crying because our home was being dismantled, he tried to comfort me as his dad huffed and puffed at my emotions.
I did a vacation with my parents, and took a month to go away by myself, he joined me for a week. We still met up almost every weekend to spend time together and bond. We still talked everyday but then my gal friend and I took a 2 week long vacation that I extended a whole month. I invited him to join for some and he declined. On our last night together before I left, we got into a fight about how I seemed distracted. This resulted in me sobbing alone, in his mother’s basement for an hour. We made up, but it still stuck with me.
I learned a lot about myself in this trip. I traveled, met new people, tried new foods, and did things that I used to only dream about. Alone. I did it by myself and it felt so good to reclaim my identity. My friends said I was glowing like they hadn’t seen in years. While I was away on my trip, he checked in, but things felt different, at least for me. Didn’t call me or offer to call, not even on my birthday. But that’s on me too, the telephone works 2 ways.
I came home. We saw each other that weekend and were discussing plans for the future. I mentioned that I want to go back for a few months later this year- and he fell silent. I admit, I shouldn’t have brought this up at all. But I felt disingenuous not mentioning it because this is what I wanted to do with my future. He stayed silent on the way home and got out of my car and told me not to come in. I got emotional, babbled about losing myself in the relationship and I realized I needed a step back, and I asked him for a break. He said “okay” and slammed the door.
I took the time away to think. He called me saying he spoke to a therapist, didn’t want to lose me, and that he was so sorry and he would do better. This weekend, he came over to my parents house with flowers. I cooked us a meal, we ate together and talked, then I told him I couldn’t do it anymore. He asked when I stopped loving him and I told him the truth. That I loved him and I’m still in love with him, and that’s what made this so difficult. That I’d been fighting for months. That I missed myself and she was finally back. We’d both been growing, but separately. He said that his parents’ relationship shouldn’t have an effect on us. I told him that they didn’t, but the choices made after did. He told me he’d be willing to break up and wait for a few months, but I also can’t promise him something I can’t guarantee myself in the future. I gave him back the rings. We spent the night together crying, reminiscing and laughing.
I love him. I will always love him. I want to be with him, but I can’t right now. Actions have repercussions that we don’t always see until we hit the breaking point. I’m so heartbroken.
Could have done more, be more, do, something? How do I convince myself I did the right thing? Did I do the right thing?
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TLDR: Just wanted to give the update that no one asked for or wanted, but my marriage is over, I think for good. Y’all were right. How do I pick up the pieces?
We lived separately from June to March, with us officially moving out in September (took us a while). His dad started throwing my things into trash bags during the actual move because I was taking too long to pack. Then when I started crying because our home was being dismantled, he tried to comfort me as his dad huffed and puffed at my emotions.
I did a vacation with my parents, and took a month to go away by myself, he joined me for a week. We still met up almost every weekend to spend time together and bond. We still talked everyday but then my gal friend and I took a 2 week long vacation that I extended a whole month. I invited him to join for some and he declined. On our last night together before I left, we got into a fight about how I seemed distracted. This resulted in me sobbing alone, in his mother’s basement for an hour. We made up, but it still stuck with me.
I learned a lot about myself in this trip. I traveled, met new people, tried new foods, and did things that I used to only dream about. Alone. I did it by myself and it felt so good to reclaim my identity. My friends said I was glowing like they hadn’t seen in years. While I was away on my trip, he checked in, but things felt different, at least for me. Didn’t call me or offer to call, not even on my birthday. But that’s on me too, the telephone works 2 ways.
I came home. We saw each other that weekend and were discussing plans for the future. I mentioned that I want to go back for a few months later this year- and he fell silent. I admit, I shouldn’t have brought this up at all. But I felt disingenuous not mentioning it because this is what I wanted to do with my future. He stayed silent on the way home and got out of my car and told me not to come in. I got emotional, babbled about losing myself in the relationship and I realized I needed a step back, and I asked him for a break. He said “okay” and slammed the door.
I took the time away to think. He called me saying he spoke to a therapist, didn’t want to lose me, and that he was so sorry and he would do better. This weekend, he came over to my parents house with flowers. I cooked us a meal, we ate together and talked, then I told him I couldn’t do it anymore. He asked when I stopped loving him and I told him the truth. That I loved him and I’m still in love with him, and that’s what made this so difficult. That I’d been fighting for months. That I missed myself and she was finally back. We’d both been growing, but separately. He said that his parents’ relationship shouldn’t have an effect on us. I told him that they didn’t, but the choices made after did. He told me he’d be willing to break up and wait for a few months, but I also can’t promise him something I can’t guarantee myself in the future. I gave him back the rings. We spent the night together crying, reminiscing and laughing.
I love him. I will always love him. I want to be with him, but I can’t right now. Actions have repercussions that we don’t always see until we hit the breaking point. I’m so heartbroken.
Could have done more, be more, do, something? How do I convince myself I did the right thing? Did I do the right thing?