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2014.09.14 12:21 daiyuesen Let's fight back against student loan debt servitude

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2016.06.17 15:35 UnicornToots Sleep-Training: a safe place to talk about any kind of sleep-training for babies and toddlers

This is a judgement-free zone to provide tips, ask questions, and share success stories about sleep-training your little ones. Whether you want to "cry it out" or you want to try a "no-cry sleep solution" (or anything in between), you're welcome here! [Note: We are not medical professionals. You should always consult your pediatrician before beginning a sleep-training program with your child.]
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2018.03.25 06:51 TokiwaKurumi Writing in Crescerys!

A community for learning the “Crescerys” Script by TokiwaKurumi. Feel free to message me for any questions, I’m just hanging out
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2024.05.28 00:41 charmed_morbid Am I crazy.. or is she just a..

Alright, so we will start from the top.
When first dating my husband there were comments from his family herd secondhand from others that knew his family.
Comments like, "You know she's dated A LOT of guys before you."- my father in law. And "You guys should just try long distance"- Sister in law. There was the incident where his Mom came to my husband crying and begging for his sister's to be in the wedding as my brides maids even though I didn't know them very well and his one sister thinking we were moving too fast.
There's the awkward me having to tell my father in law my weight in front of multiple family members on a family reunion trip. Making me feel really uncomfortable because I had gained weight and I knew it..
The overall feeling invisible and out of place in the room at most reunions. Not really having the same option or challenging beliefs of others. Most of the time I want to have deep conversations and not just surface level conversations. That and his family is really into sports, which good for them, but I am definitely more of a lets garden and read a good book kinda gal.
Basically, I am the married in black sheep and to be honest that's okay with me. What's not okay is this tale I am about to tell. Sit down and get comfortable.
At the recent family reunion it seemed to start off awful my kids get MAJOR carsick (I have 4) and my daughter throws up on the way to said event. Leaving us to realize we left our bathroom bag at home. Which no big deal, till I have no glasses with me and if your blind like me you know when contacts come out and no glasses are on might as well be completely blind.
We make it to said reunion and we are paired with another family with young kids my husband is 1 of 6. All the young children are supposed to share a room next to ours upstairs. I told my husband I was nervous about this and he tells me his usual, "It'll be fine"
Naturally it wasn't. We kept our youngest in with us who kept me up all night since I was brest feeding and my husband's nipples are useless. So when I say I was up all night, it was literally just me up all night. Not to mention my kids aren't the kind that sleep anywhere and they have internal alarm clocks of 630-7am there's no sleeping in for them unless they are ill. It was frustrating because I would go to put my kids to sleep and 30 minutes later their kids would come in and be super loud and wake my kids up. I'm sleep deprived they are sleep deprived and not to mention I probably live in burn out 90% of the time due to not having any community or family support.
On day 3 of trip I am then tasked with watching additional children without my consent. Like one parent was out exercising another left to go with pretty much everyone else to play basketball. My MIL was at breakfast with some of her friends. So, it's me and 6 kids at a random air bnb somewhere cold and I am exhausted. (Don't worry, I had that beef out with my husband later)
Did I mention that some of the family came with covid?
The next day the whole family was supposed to go on a hike but it would have been an hour and a half drive to the hike and an hour and a half back. We were to leave the day after and our drive to the reunion was the longest. So, we told them no not happening my MIL wasn't happy.
That night my youngest was having a hard time sleeping and started to develop a cough I thought greeeeeat is this covid? I LOUDLY announce my kids are going to sleep before heading over to our house that we are sharing. As my husband and I are trying to get our kids to sleep. My SIL decided it was the perfect time and place to bathe her kids loudly in the bathroom that is IN the kids room. Despite there being 2 additional bathrooms. My husband popped his head in and asked them to be quiet that their cousins were trying to go to bed. Ignored by the SIL.
When all kids were finally asleep I went down to grab some medicine. For my youngest and my MIL asks for probably the 3rd time if we could change our mind about going on the hike. I said no not happening. She asked if there was anything else wrong. To which I looked at my sister in law and said "Hey could you use a different bathroom next time? Or tell us when you're putting your kids to bed tomorrow night. It was kindof inconsiderate when I was putting my kids down to wake them up and be that loud.." her response, "I didn't know" I said "okay, tomorrow night can you use a different bathroom?" She said okay and halfway up the stairs I hear it..
"I have been so freaking nice to her can you believe that?!.. " and goes on to trash talk me more with her husband and my 2 in laws. I walked back down and said if you have something to say then say it to my face.
To which my MIL gets involved and said, "You should have said something in the moment." And told her that she was being too loud (not knowing at this point my husband DID). You should have told her to move. To which she chimes in and says, "It's their bathroom too!" To which I then say "There are 3 bathrooms in this house I am exhausted, my kids are exhausted, and now I am being told I am wrong for asking you to use a different bathroom?" My MIL dismissed me and told me to go to bed.
I was livid. I was dismissed and treated like a child. My in laws let her talk shit about me and didn't even defend me and apparently people are doing me a favor by being nice to me? I was DONE.
I told my husband what happened and that I wanted to leave that I was over this and treated with disrespect. He said that's fine I get it. I packed up and we were going to leave. My MIL saw this the next morning and cried told me I was being selfish gaslit me and told me I attacked my SIL that didn't I see her crying? I was like nope because when my contacts are out I can't see.
My husband let her and my father in law rip into me. (He said he didn't want to be involved big betrayal to me that we have had to work through) I tried to talk to my SIL and apologize if it came off as me :attacking her" as my MIL put it. And she walked away from me and wouldn't even let me talk to her. It was awful. If you, "Love" someone and want them to feel like family idk about you, but this ain't the family for me.
I have since distanced myself there was back in forward emails with my MIL about what I "should" have done. Lots of I'm sorry, but's.. and I wasn't about to deal. I told her we can disagree and give our relationship space. She tried sending a letter asking to start over, but never truly apologizing. My SIL too. Nothing.
I can take a lot of crap in my life truly. And I have. But this. This was just too much. I decided boundaries are the best way to go. I'd be cordial, but I am NEVER going to a family reunion again. And to be honest, I don't want to have a relationship with any of them because to me it's toxic and manipulative. I apologized for using a tone, but I never yelled as my MIL claimed. And as far as asking someone to be more mindful of my kids I am not going to say that I am sorry for it.
Months later after me no contact with my MIL she calls me to, "hash it out". She starts off with that "she's sorry, but that there seems to be something else going on with me.. I have been a part of the family for so long to act out with such "anger" (because she's still claiming that I was or am angry) I have to have something else wrong." I told her there have been instances over the years and interactions with family members that don't make me feel like I belong. I was candid and volunerable with her. Wrong. Move.
"Wow it sounds like you have a lot of insecurities that you may need to work through have you thought about seeing a therapist for your mental health?" -MIL
I am ALL about mental health, therapy is for EVERYONE. But WTF. I set a boundary she doesn't like it now I need therapy, because I don't want to play nice and be manipulated? Then halfway through the conversation of me defending myself and reliving the trauma I already experienced she says, "well, maybe I have nothing to be sorry for.." there it is folks. Can we say narcissist?
What are YOUR thoughts?
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2024.05.28 00:23 East_Presence_9834 Seeking a serious roleplayer for SoL plots on Discord.

Hi! I'm a 25-year-old female in the EST time zone, seeking a serious long-term roleplay partner. Don't skim through this post. If you're going to do that, don't bother reaching out. You will need to be 21+. I have 10+ years of experience and prefer slice-of-life plots with twists—romance, drama, tragedy, and angst.
Plots: I enjoy scenarios like a married couple balancing fame and busy schedules, and I’m open to similar themes. No sci-fi or fantasy ideas, please.
Writing Style: I expect to mirror each other's replies length as needed in the roleplay. I will not respond to 3-4 lines. Adaptability is key—short for dialogue, longer for other scenes. Be prepared to play multiple characters, with your main character always prominent.
Writing Expectations: I write in the third person but am flexible. I prefer partners who can reply more than twice a day and use proper grammar (this is seriously a must). I boast about not being a stickler but deep inside, I know I am. I'm bothered by the smallest of spelling errors and punctuation errors. Sorry, but that's just how my brain works!
Communication: Use Discord or Chatzy. I prefer a partner who can reply more than twice a day. Communication is crucial—let me know if you’ll be busy. Don't bother if you're going to ghost me. Seriously. Leave me the eff alone. I am tired of it. I've started some really good roleplays in the past and had to end them because I got ghosted. So I expect you to let me know when you're busy so I'm not just waiting around. Within a week of no response, I will check in twice. After a week of no response, I will automatically assume the roleplay is over and move on.
Involvement: Contribute equally to advancing the plot. I’m open-minded and can adapt to various storylines. I will NOT keep pushing it forward. Be bold, please.
OOC: I’d like a friendly partner to discuss likes and dislikes but of course not to the point that OOC is all we ever do. No pictures, videos, or audio, and please ensure your significant other is aware of your roleplaying if you’re in a relationship. I don't want angry girlfriends in my PMs. Seriously, I do not.
Plot Ideas: I have a few but I'm open to creating something new or modifying these. If none of these appeal to you, please include in your message what you want to roleplay.
  1. Girlfriend Inc.
  2. Famous couple.
  3. Illegal MMA fighting.
If interested, send a chat request with more than a hello. Share your favorite color so I know you read my essay, what you liked, and what you're looking for to help me respond better. I have been seeking a decent roleplay partner for a while now so I have a good sense of what I like and dislike. While I don't ask for a writing sample, I do expect that my partner shares a similar passion for writing and creating a roleplay. I'm exhausted of bad actors so I will probably come off very curt and defensive but I promise to warm up if things work out (deep down I'm a baby)! Hope to hear from you!
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2024.05.28 00:23 East_Presence_9834 [F4M] Looking for a full-lit serious partner.

Hi! I'm a 25-year-old female in the EST time zone, seeking a serious long-term roleplay partner. Don't skim through this post. If you're going to do that, don't bother reaching out. You will need to be 21+. I have 10+ years of experience and prefer slice-of-life plots with twists—romance, drama, tragedy, and angst.
Plots: I enjoy scenarios like a married couple balancing fame and busy schedules, and I’m open to similar themes. No sci-fi or fantasy ideas, please.
Writing Style: I expect to mirror each other's replies length as needed in the roleplay. I will not respond to 3-4 lines. Adaptability is key—short for dialogue, longer for other scenes. Be prepared to play multiple characters, with your main character always prominent.
Writing Expectations: I write in the third person but am flexible. I prefer partners who can reply more than twice a day and use proper grammar (this is seriously a must). I boast about not being a stickler but deep inside, I know I am. I'm bothered by the smallest of spelling errors and punctuation errors. Sorry, but that's just how my brain works!
Communication: Use Discord or Chatzy. I prefer a partner who can reply more than twice a day. Communication is crucial—let me know if you’ll be busy. Don't bother if you're going to ghost me. Seriously. Leave me the eff alone. I am tired of it. I've started some really good roleplays in the past and had to end them because I got ghosted. So I expect you to let me know when you're busy so I'm not just waiting around. Within a week of no response, I will check in twice. After a week of no response, I will automatically assume the roleplay is over and move on.
Involvement: Contribute equally to advancing the plot. I’m open-minded and can adapt to various storylines. I will NOT keep pushing it forward. Be bold, please.
OOC: I’d like a friendly partner to discuss likes and dislikes but of course not to the point that OOC is all we ever do. No pictures, videos, or audio, and please ensure your significant other is aware of your roleplaying if you’re in a relationship. I don't want angry girlfriends in my PMs. Seriously, I do not.
Plot Ideas: I have a few but I'm open to creating something new or modifying these. If none of these appeal to you, please include in your message what you want to roleplay.
  1. Girlfriend Inc.
  2. Famous couple.
  3. Illegal MMA fighting.
If interested, send a chat request with more than a hello. Share your favorite color so I know you read my essay, what you liked, and what you're looking for to help me respond better. I have been seeking a decent roleplay partner for a while now so I have a good sense of what I like and dislike. While I don't ask for a writing sample, I do expect that my partner shares a similar passion for writing and creating a roleplay. I'm exhausted of bad actors so I will probably come off very curt and defensive but I promise to warm up if things work out (deep down I'm a baby)! Hope to hear from you!
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2024.05.28 00:23 flibberti-jibbet Spiraling, broken-hearted and almost 30!

I got broken up almost 4 months ago. I'm still so, so sad. Here's my story, just looking for some reassurance, opinions, and tips on how to climb up from this hole I'm currently in!
My ex-boyfriend (M, 31) and I (F, 29) met last summer on Tinder. Everything was great—we had amazing chemistry and our life goals aligned perfectly. He was upfront about wanting a long-term relationship, which I appreciated. We had our disagreements, as all couples do, but we always resolved them quickly. He met my friends, we traveled together, and he shared deeply personal stories with me, including sensitive financial details, childhood memories, fears, and past mistakes.
Things were going well until I had to take a pre-planned trip back to my home country for a month and a half over Christmas and New Year’s. He knew about this trip when we first met, and although we weren’t thrilled about being apart for so long, we agreed it could be a good test for our relationship. However, on December 31st (a month in), he started pulling away, saying he realized "we weren’t compatible" and that he "could never satisfy me". Despite several conversations, we couldn’t resolve this, and the last two weeks of my trip were miserable.
When I finally returned, he seemed happy to see me. Visibly warmed up as he approached me. Although I offered to end the relationship, he always declined. Upon serious discussion, we decided to give it another try. Two weeks later, on my 29th birthday, he came to my party with my friends, gave me a beautiful watch with crystals and a handwritten letter, paid for my dinner, and was very affectionate. He walked me home and said we’d meet the next day.
The following day, he called to say he had "something to give me that he should have given me the day before". He suggested we meet at a park, and I agreed. Once there I realized he was acting strangely. He handed me a piece of paper with "Your freedom" written on it, which I didn't immediately understand was his way of breaking up with me. He believed I was having an affair with one of my birthday guests. Despite my attempts to explain and show evidence to the contrary, he wouldn’t listen and left me in shock. We were together for 7 months (or technically 5.5?) (The guest in question is a (male) friend whom I had never met in real life but who was up for a short trip to attend my birthday party, however, keep in mind that there was NEVER any ambiguity between us, we were and still are very good friends, he was in a loving relationship at the time and so as I, or so I thought).
The next day, my ex called to apologize, admitting he had jumped to conclusions and that his actions didn't make sense upon reflection. He said he wanted a loving relationship and acknowledged he needed help. I told him his behavior was cruel and unacceptable and agreed he needed help. He said, "If this is the reason I lose you, it will be entirely my fault, and I will see it as the biggest lesson of my life".
Our conversation ended neutrally. I didn’t explicitly say I didn’t want to hear from him again, but I made it clear his behavior hurt me. Two weeks passed with no contact, so I called him only to have him not pick up. The next day, I sent your usual long, heartfelt text, explaining my feelings and wishing him well. He responded over 24 hours later with a cold message, saying there were things that bothered him in our relationship, such as me sharing stuff about us with my friends, and that we were ultimately "incompatible". He said we needed to accept this. I didn’t respond.
About 2 months later, I texted him something casual. I asked him a question, I wanted to go somewhere but didn't know the name of it. He never responded, never even opened the message, and went on for a week without logging on. I know he's back on the dating apps because he unmatched me and a couple of girlfriends of mine have seen him.
A month later, I noticed he had blocked me everywhere, out of the blue and unprovoked. I'm feeling anxiety like never in my life. I think my grieving period got coupled with a pre-thirties crisis.
Any words of encouragement? Anyone's lived something similar and has come out the other side? I'm struggling to see the end of the tunnel.
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2024.05.28 00:21 Berz3lis How do i not give up ?

I’m 19, ftm and pre-everything. I’ve known i was trans since i was 14 and my will to live used to depend on the fact that i could start testosterone once i’m 18 and yet i’m turning 20 later this year and i still haven’t started anything. I’m originally from a country that isn’t very lgbt friendly so transitioning would’ve been impossible to do when i’m 18 either way. But last year i moved out to a different country all alone(it helped me mentally a lot because my parents are pretty shit and not supportive at all). But the country i’m currently in is very lgbt friendly with trans rights so i was hopeful that i could finally medically transition after 5years. I’ve contacted different trans friendly therapists but i either get a response that they can’t accept new clients at the moment or no response at all. I’m scared to contact simple therapist because i’m not sure if they would give me the indication letter. But that’s completely shattering my hope and i dont know how much longer i can live without starting t, also i keep thinking how late i am cause i see a lot of people start it very early on and it just makes me want to give up. Maybe someone is in a similar situation and have any advice ? Or just in general any ideas on what i could do ?:/
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2024.05.28 00:15 jaydd_mc [Alternative R&B/Hip-Hop] Jaydd MC & JustanotherGhost - when i die, would u cry?

[Alternative R&B/Hip-Hop] Jaydd MC & JustanotherGhost - when i die, would u cry?
Here’s a bit of context: both J Ghost and me had met in the emo rap subreddit back in March, we clearly didn’t had this song in mind when we first met. We started chatting more often bout other stuff while we were working on sum music. Came out that we both had Peep as our main fav artist. After talking more for a while we came up with the idea of making a song with a Peep sample not only to mark the beginning of our friendship but to show respect and love to the goat himself too.
Besides the 16 lines inspired guitar, the main sample is actually Peep’s voice pitched down and chopped in a peculiar yet unique way which helped craft the name of the actual song (when i die, would u cry?) and the main idea of it. This song came out as a celebration from the love we both had towards the emo rap scene back in the late 2010’s. It’s a thank you letter to Peep for have saving us back in the day too. For no reason this should be considered as “self-promo”, we just felt we wanted to share it here with y’all.
Big shoutout to the goat himself, he really changed music in his sadly short active years. You will be eternally missed Goth Angel Sinner 🐣🤍
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2024.05.28 00:13 Savings_Key3219 21 F/US Looking for a pen pal!

Hi everyone!
My name is Lu, and I’m from the US. I’ve always been fascinated by the idea of having a pen pal, and I think it would be super fun to exchange letters, snacks, little gifts, and more! There’s something so charming and exciting about receiving a handwritten letter in the mail, and I’m eager to dive into this experience.
Imagine opening your mailbox to find a beautifully decorated envelope waiting for you, filled with fun and thoughtful surprises. I love the idea of adding personal touches to each letter—stickers, drawings, and maybe even some pressed flowers. I also have a typewriter that would make the experience even more authentic and nostalgic, bringing a bit of old-world charm to our correspondence. The clack of the typewriter keys adds a special touch that you just can't get from a regular keyboard.
One of the most exciting aspects of having a pen pal is the opportunity to learn about different cultures. We could share stories about our daily lives, traditions, and celebrations. I could tell you about American holidays like Thanksgiving and the Fourth of July, and you could share about the festivals and customs in your country. It would be like taking a mini cultural exchange trip with each letter we send.
I’d love to send little snacks and treats from the US—things you might not find in your local stores. Maybe you could do the same, and we could have fun trying out each other’s favorite treats. Imagine the joy of unwrapping a package to find a selection of goodies that give you a taste of life in another part of the world. It’s a wonderful way to broaden our horizons and discover new flavors.
Gifts could be another delightful part of our exchanges. These don’t have to be anything big or expensive—just small tokens that show thoughtfulness and care. A postcard from a place I visited, a bookmark I made, or a cute keychain could all be fun things to send. These little surprises can bring so much joy and make our correspondence even more special.
For those who are interested, we could start by emailing. This way, we can get to know each other a bit before moving on to snail mail. It’s a good way to establish a connection and make sure we’re both committed to keeping up the correspondence. Once we’re comfortable, we can transition to sending letters and packages. There’s something magical about the anticipation of waiting for a letter and the thrill of seeing a new envelope with your name on it.
If anyone is interested in starting this pen pal journey, please let me know! You can DM me, and we can exchange email addresses to begin with. From there, we can start our wonderful exchange of letters, snacks, gifts, and cultural stories. I’m really looking forward to making new friends from around the world and sharing this unique and enjoyable experience with you.
Can’t wait to hear from you soon!
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2024.05.27 23:55 luigg_ Wrote the a letter to my ex

Wrote the a letter to my ex
I’m having doubts if sending this letter to my ex would he the right choice. After an argument the night before since she never texted me back or returned my call I admitted that I panicked. never in the past she did that too me. So i blew up her phone and i ended showing up to her house un invited to get an answer. I never acted aggressive or anything but because of her career of dealing with domestic violence and her past experiences. She said I crossed the line and that my reaction was not healthy because I couldn’t wait for a response. The relationship was over i did leave after apologizing and she almost cried as when i told her if she ever changed her mind to reach out and also said the feeling where mutual. But i also have to admit that i took her for granted during the relationship because of my fears and insecurities I kept holding back. Now is been 2 weeks i havent call or text or look for her but since i never chased in the past most likely she thinks i dont care either way. But now my fear of sending this letter comes from my reaction of the break up what should i do? I do wanna say never in the past i had bad reactions she actually use to tell me she love how calm and peaceful guy i was. I know i did wrong that day but never during the relationship did something to make her feel unsafe. She also work’s basically in my neighborhood and i have seen her 2 times and i also switched my part time schedule to avoid making her feel uncomfortable. And never since the breakup i have i try or would try to make contact. One mistake shouldn’t label me smh
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2024.05.27 23:48 manawydan-fab-llyr Traffic lawyers - what to expect?

Ok, dumb story short. I borrowed a car on Saturday from a friend, a late model. The dashboard is an LCD, and I managed to fuck it up by pressing a button on the wheel - on the way south on the Garden State. I lost the speedometer. Figured I was OK paralleling the guy next to me till I got it sorted, but nope, trooper got me. Apparently I was doing 93 in a 65 according to the trooper.
He gave me a 15-19 over and a Careless Driving. First fucking moving violation ever, I've been driving 27 years. Pissed me off for sure, especially as soon as I got back on the road seeing jackasses with their fakeass shields flying past troopers.
I own my error, of course. It sucks, but hey, at least I went almost 3 decades, not bad.
Next day I had tons of letters from the lawyers in my mailbox.
I looked around but a lot of what I found on here were for greater offenses (higher speeds, wreckless, etc).
A few questions:
One last thing, more out of curiosity. The careless driving - is that an automatic for the speed? I find it odd as I was in my lane the whole time, not really doing anything I thought careless.
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2024.05.27 23:41 Sweet-Count2557 Where To Travel With A 3 Month Old?

Where To Travel With A 3 Month Old?
Where To Travel With A 3 Month Old?
Traveling with a 3 month old can be a daunting task, but it doesn't have to be! By planning ahead, parents can make sure their baby is comfortable and safe while they explore the world.
Whether you're looking for an exciting city escape or an outdoor adventure, there are plenty of great destinations for families with young children.
In this article, we'll outline some of our top picks for where to travel with a 3 month old.
So if you're eager to take your little one on their first trip, keep reading!
Considerations For Traveling With A 3 Month Old
Traveling with a 3 month old can be an exciting and rewarding experience. From the moment of departure, you’re met with a sense of adventure as you embark on a new journey with your little one.
But before you even begin to pack, there are some important considerations to keep in mind when traveling with this age group.
The most important thing is safety. Pack light and make sure all items are appropriate for the infant's age and size. Make sure car seats, strollers and other equipment have been properly tested for safety.
On the plane, use approved restraints or carriers to ensure baby’s protection in case of turbulence or unexpected air pockets. And don't forget to bring along any necessary medications and first-aid supplies in case of emergencies.
No matter where you go or how long your trip lasts, make sure it is an enjoyable experience for both baby and parent alike by taking the time to plan ahead and research all available options. With a little extra preparation, your family can have a safe and memorable adventure together that will last for years to come.
Beach Destinations
Traveling with a 3 month old may seem daunting, but there are plenty of beach destinations that offer shorter trips and cost savings.
Take the Canary Islands for example; a short flight away from many European destinations, you can find yourself on one of the many beautiful beaches in no time. With its warm climate, diverse terrain, and year-round sunshine, it’s the perfect place to bring your baby.
If you want to save money while still having a great time, consider staying in one of the many budget-friendly accommodation options. From apartments to villas and even campsites, you'll be able to find something that suits your needs and budget perfectly.
By taking shorter trips and saving on costs you’ll be able to make the most out of your vacation with your little one. That way you can focus on bonding with them and giving them the best experiences in life!
Mountain Retreats
Mountain retreats are an ideal destination for travelers with a 3 month old. Not only are they filled with soothing vistas and scenic trails, but the change of elevation can also be beneficial to their health.
Take the Blue Ridge Mountains in North Carolina, for example. This area offers fresh air, cool temperatures, and plenty of outdoor activities that you can enjoy with your little one.
A hike up to the mountaintops will provide you both with stunning views of the surrounding countryside and lingering moments of tranquility.
For those seeking a more relaxed experience, there is plenty to do at lower elevations as well. Lay a blanket on the grassy hillsides and let your baby explore nature’s wonders up close.
Take a leisurely stroll around a lake or river and introduce your infant to some of the local wildlife (just keep an eye out for any potential hazards!). Or just sit back and enjoy the peaceful atmosphere while you bond with your child – it’s sure to be an unforgettable journey!
Explore miles of hiking trails
Enjoy breathtaking views from mountaintops
Bond with your child at lower elevations
Take pictures of the picturesque landscape
City Breaks
City breaks with a three-month-old baby can be daunting, but with some pre-planning and research it can be the perfect opportunity for a family to explore new destinations.
Before setting off, make sure to research nappy changing facilities and places serving suitable food for the baby. Pre-booking is essential as most cities are constantly evolving and there’s no shortage of things to do. Some cities also offer baby gear rental services which could be an ideal solution if you're travelling light.
With a little bit of thought and careful planning, city breaks with a three-month-old baby can be both enjoyable and memorable. Allowing yourself plenty of time to relax and explore will mean more precious memories are created along the way.
Throughout your stay maintain regular routines where possible to ensure your little one remains comfortable in their new environment. Don't forget to take lots of photos and videos to capture all those special moments together!
Cultural Experiences
Exploring local markets is a great way to immerse oneself in the culture of a place, with the hustle and bustle of the stalls and vendors often creating a vibrant atmosphere.
Trying out local cuisine is another great way to get a taste of the culture.
It's the perfect way to get a real feel for the local flavor!
Exploring Local Markets
Exploring local markets is a great way to experience the culture of a destination with a 3-month-old in tow.
From bustling bazaars to outdoor flea markets, these vibrant places are often full of sights, sounds, and smells that bring each destination to life.
Be sure you baby proof the area as much as possible before venturing out.
This could involve keeping your little one close in a carrier or even stroller, or making sure they don’t grab any food items off the shelves.
Meal planning can also be tricky while traveling with an infant, so make sure you have plenty of supplies on hand for when hunger strikes.
With some careful preparation and patience, exploring local markets can be an enjoyable experience for everyone involved!
Immersing In Local Cuisine
After exploring local markets, why not take the opportunity to immerse in some of the local cuisine? Try taking a tasting tour to sample all the delicious food on offer.
Food festivals are another great way to get a taste of regional flavors and explore what the locals eat.
Don't forget to ask questions too - chances are you'll be given some tips on how to make their favorite dish at home!
With a bit of research and planning, you can find yourself in the heart of a city's culinary scene without having to worry about your little one.
No matter what kind of traveler you are, there's something for everyone when it comes to experiencing culture through food.
Nature Getaways
For parents looking for a nature getaway with their 3 month old, the possibilities are endless.
From soothing sunsets over the sea to family-friendly mountain trails, there is something for everyone to enjoy.
Travelers can find an array of options when planning their trip, such as camping in the great outdoors or renting a cabin nearby.
Whether you’re looking for a quiet spot to relax and recharge or an adventure around every corner, these destinations offer it all.
For those who want to explore the area while taking in stunning views, they can go on hikes in nearby parks or take boat rides along rivers and lakes.
Alternatively, visitors can spend the day relaxing on beaches while watching beautiful sunsets and listening to gentle waves crashing onto shore.
With so much natural beauty surrounding them, travelers can be assured that they will have a truly magical experience with their 3 month old!
Adventure-Filled Escapes
If the idea of a nature getaway isn't quite what you had in mind, then an adventure-filled escape might just be for you. With a little bit of planning and the right baby gear, traveling with a three-month-old can be an exciting and memorable experience!
Here are some things to look out for when booking your trip:
Hotel amenities that make your stay comfortable - look for facilities such as cribs or family rooms that can accommodate all of your needs.
Baby-friendly activities - see if there are age-appropriate attractions nearby that will keep everyone entertained.
Local transportation options - having a reliable way to get around is essential when traveling with a young child.
Restaurants with kid-friendly menus - make sure to find places that offer food suited to their tastes and dietary restrictions.
Whether you opt for a beachside bungalow or mountain lodge, taking a family vacation with a three month old can be incredibly rewarding. From exploring local attractions to simply enjoying quality time together, there's plenty of opportunity to create memories that will last a lifetime!
Frequently Asked Questions
Is It Safe For A 3 Month Old To Travel By Air?
Traveling with an infant can be a daunting experience, especially when it comes to air travel.
It's important to ask yourself, is it safe for a 3 month old to fly?
The answer is yes – with the right preparation and packing essentials, you and your little one can have a successful flight.
Jet lag prevention is also key; make sure you create a sleep schedule before and during the flight so that your baby can rest peacefully in-flight.
Once you have all of these elements taken care of, you'll be ready to embark on your journey with your little one!
How Do I Keep A 3 Month Old Entertained While Traveling?
Traveling with an infant can be a daunting task, but it doesn't have to be! With the right packing essentials and staying organized, you can keep your 3 month old entertained while on the road.
From snuggly blankets and favorite toys to noise cancelling headphones and pacifiers, having the right items on hand will make all the difference. Make sure to pack plenty of snacks and drinks for your little one too!
When it comes to keeping a baby amused while traveling, planning ahead is key. Plan activities such as books or songs that you can do together in between destinations. With a little bit of creativity and thoughtfulness, you'll be able to make your journey a memorable one.
What Is The Best Way To Transport A 3 Month Old On A Long Trip?
Traveling with a 3 month old can be a daunting task, but it doesn't have to be.
The best way to transport your infant on a long trip is to be prepared and organized.
Make sure you have all the necessary baby gear on your packing list, including travel apps for entertainment, weather gear for any unexpected changes, and adequate travel insurance in case of emergencies.
When all these items are checked off your list, you'll be ready to take on the journey!
Are There Any Vaccinations Required For A 3 Month Old Traveling Abroad?
Traveling abroad with an infant can be intimidating, but with a bit of preparation it can be a rewarding experience.
Before going on any international trip, it is important to check if there are any vaccinations required for a 3 month old traveling abroad.
Infant vaccines should be up-to-date and travel insurance should be purchased in case of any medical emergencies.
Additionally, it is wise to look into the country's regulations and policies before booking a flight or making any other arrangements.
What Type Of Accommodations Are Best Suited For Traveling With A 3 Month Old?
When traveling with a 3 month old, it's important to select the right accommodations.
Look for childproofed spaces that are safe and comfortable for your baby.
Consider packing items like a playpen, blackout curtains and a sound machine to create a sleep-friendly environment.
It's also beneficial to look for amenities such as cribs and washing machines that will make life easier while you're away from home.
With some thoughtful planning and packing tips, you can ensure your little one has an enjoyable and safe trip.
Conclusion
Traveling with a 3 month old can be a daunting task. It's important to do your research and plan ahead to ensure the best trip possible.
Before embarking on any journey, always make sure that all necessary vaccinations are up-to-date.
Additionally, look for accommodations that have suitable amenities for a baby, such as cribs or extra space to accommodate a pack n' play.
Above all else, remember the adage: 'The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.' When it comes to traveling with an infant, each step should be taken with safety and preparation in mind.
With the right amount of planning and research, you and your 3 month old can have an amazing time exploring new places together!
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2024.05.27 23:39 AdFamiliar4008 Am I [21M] Wrong for Wanting My GF [21F] to Not Talk to My Ex's Friends?

At face value that question makes me sound immature, but allow me to explain.
I've been broken up with my ex for a while now, and been dating my current GF for over a year. My ex's friends were I guess friendly with my current gf, but not friends by any means, like they'd never hang out outside of high school. Now we're obviously in college or have graduated, and the only time I or her would ever see these people is when we go out on the weekends now that it's summer and everyone is home.
This dates back to last summer, where instances of them running into each other while out happen, and she always says hi, and maybe chats for a bit but that's it. We have discussed it, and we agreed how she handled it then was fine, I wasn't particularly happy with it but I didn't want to come off as controlling or making a request I didn't have the right to. However, I recently discovered some news about my ex while we were still dating - which would require an entirely separate post - and now my opinion toward it has changed. On top of that, as a side note, right after we broke up my ex, along with some of her friends - idk which ones exactly - wrote a letter for me basically calling me a terrible person which was fun. I was by no means a Saint in this relationship but neither was she (we were young and it was both our's first real relationship) - and after this alleged news it makes her WAY worse. Just super immature on her end. We broke up normally, there was no big fight or name calling or anything. But anyways, even having read this note from them, I was still okay with how she handled running into them last year.
But basically now I want to ask her to not even say hi to these people. Letting it marinate for a while I am content with asking her to do so. These people gathered around and discredited my entire character, bashing me in every facet, as sort of a "last laugh" to me. She doesn't really lose anything from not speaking to these people, other than them hopefully realizing I don't want her talking to them.
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2024.05.27 23:35 Minimum_Tower1217 I misclicked a few times my bad

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2024.05.27 23:30 TaranMatharu Theory: The Occult Book Behind the Elder Futhark Symbols on the Show.

Imagine for a moment that the origin story DOES begin with John Cabot's lost expedition to Newfoundland. And we now need to resolve what Kristi mentioning Iceland means within that context.
Now, you might think this is a clue for Leif Eikson, the first european to visit North America in the year 1000. We already know Leif's a clue, as Duluth, the place Fatima's cross-dressing friend came from, is famous for its replica of Leif Erikson's ship (and their famous park is named after him). We also know icelandic runes, elder futhark, are on the show, sometimes mirror flipped - (see the Ingwaz on the talisman, Tiwaz as Boyd's arrow on the tree and what might be a mirror flipped ansuz with an extra tine, that we see on the cave wall and the talisman).
But if this all begins with Cabot in 1498, then Leif and his icelandic settlers on Newfoundland would be long dead. Indeed, I think that Cabot's marooned colony shelter in their old settlement, and perhaps it's where the stone circle comes from - but nothing more.
Now, Richard Amerike is likely a part of Cabot's expedition. He was Sheriff of Bristol (which is why Boyd is a sheriff on the show, and why Morgan Earp will be in the 1883 timeline), as well as a merchant (khatri means merchant class) and he funded Cabot's first journey to Newfoundland. He also apparently had naming rights to any islands Cabot found. Some even think America was named after him, and a few have theorised that the stars and stripes of the USA were based on his coat of arms.
Ellis: "naming rights optional"
Mr Liu: "he want America name"
He was also the King's Customs Officer, known at that time as the 'Customer'. Sarah: “How’s my favorite customer?”
But then when I read about Amerike's life, and I learned he had an icelandic thrall slave - super rare bit of trivia about him - this was not a common thing. And then I realise that there's an icelandic celebration in the origin story - they do Kvoldvaka (too much to explain). So, there must be an icelandic person in the origin story too - perhaps this thrall is the source of the symbols.
Separately, history tells us that Cabot brought an unnamed "genoese barber" and an unnamed "burgundian" with him on his explorations. And I believe that on the show they're portrayed by Oliver le Daim and Phillipe de Commines, real historical figures. In fact I think we'll learn all about the origin story through Philipe de Commines diaries, which Tabitha will find in Vicor Hugo's book collection perhaps after dreaming some clues...but that's for another post.
So it gets me thinking, will they make the icelandic thrall a historical figure too?
But icelandic history is SPARSE for the 15th century. It's all very boring legal stuff really, it had a super low population and very little going on.
THEN, I find a reference to a book created by an Icelandic bishop of that era. The Book of Power, Rauðskinna (‘Red Skin’ in Icelandic) took its name from the red cover written in gold-lettered runes. Its main objective was to use magic to bind Satan to his will.
Another legend says that a young man ended up with it. That the true author of the book was Keli the Wizard, who passed the book down to his grandson Jon, from whome the book was stolen by said bishop.
I also see many references to writing on the walls in the show - Jade threatens to do it to Kenny, and of course the Matthews family write ont he wall and there's loads of writing all over the walls in chalkboard poems, kids alphabet letters and drawings etc.
So my theory is this. In the cannon of Fromland, Jon Thorkell steals back the book and somehow ends up becoming a thrall - perhaps he is framed for a crime, or falls into debt. He ends up with Richard Amerike on the lost voyage to Newfoundland, and gifts the book to the witch there.
The book ends up being used in the witch's duel with the bogeyman, with her writing the symbols on the walls, to bind the devil in her witch's bottle apotropaic trap.
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2024.05.27 23:26 GeneralCupcakes1981 R(ule)IP Marx he would’ve been funny as fuck on Twitter

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2024.05.27 23:26 egggtoast Help finalize my school list! :)

(EVERYTHING'S HAPPENING SO FAST)
Looking for some final feedback on my school list after more research on schools (aka feedback from my last thread and admit.org :D). Specifically looking to see if I should substitute any schools on my list to better my chances. Currently have about 34 schools which is a lot to me so I wouldn't mind cutting out 1-2 either so lmk if any OOS school's secondaries are hell lol. Thank you so much!
Stats:
Background:
Work & Activities: (** = most significant, emphasized in app)
Clinical experience: 480 hours total
Research: 1200 hours
Shadowing: 90 hours
Non-clinical paid work: 1900 hours
Non-clinical volunteering: 800 hours total
Other work/activities:
School List:
Did my best to research which schools are OOS-friendly, but **please correct me if any are not!**
In-state
OOS
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2024.05.27 23:25 h0lloh 1000th I miss you.

Dear M.
So Eds invited me to his 80th bday last weekend. I met their friends and they said your gran had told them about us. They gave their sympathy.
You're gran also mentioned that she worries they might remind me too much of you. Not really I'll say. Sometimes they put up a new family picture and I see your face. You've changed so much in those 18 or so months.
I had fun with them. They are good people and despite how I feel about myself. They still seem to think the world of me. Your gran still tries to get me to join their church.
As wonderful as they are and despite how much they hold me in high regard. I can't shake this feeling of my own inadequacy.
That you somehow became the one and only true merit for my worth. I hate it. I really dont like that despite my few successes the past 12 months.
I still feel so inadequate. Not good enough. Despite the frankly ridiculous physical progress of my fitness journey. Everything I've learned about back-end development despite no prior experience. The progress and growth of my art. Things I feel I should be proud of. The money. The knowledge, skills and potential. It all feels meaningless because I fell for this silly person. Who in the end didn't feel it was worth the effort to keep me in her life anymore.
Its not your fault I feel like this. Its very much my own brain but I wish I had you to talk about it. I wish you were here so I could show you all the things i was learning. Have you come with me to posh art fairs and things.
I miss your company. Not so often anymore but just tonight. I dont know why but I just miss you a lot tonight.
Maybe because my boss got engaged and they started around the same time we did. And i guess im just jealous. He got his person. And I wasnt enough for mine. It just sucks. I haven't been able to move on. I tried. It just doesn't feel right towards the other person when I still occasionally get so sad about you.
I just feel inadequate and pathetic. Tonight I wondered if you still spare a thought of me. Know how you used to be, it highly unlikely. And that just brings me to tears everytime. How you simply forgot about us. About me.
You probably wont recognize the person I've become. I know I don't recognize you easily anymore. You've lost that sincerity in your smile that you always seem to radiate. Maybe it was just my imagination.
But I digress. Despite how i feel. I still miss you M. I know you're happy. Excifed for TøP. And I'm not even a memory anymore. In that regard I am pathetic. Especially with my self pity.
Your W i guess. Anyway. Thats how I feel. My thoughts are with you over here in this sad state of affairs. The 1000th "I miss you" letter amongst a thousand others added to the assembly just to become binary.
At least some soul that longs for another might find some comfort or reprieve in my words from their own ache. At least I can make someone else feel something other than their own pain. So many tears. I can barely breath.
I wish I could call you. Just to hear your voice again. That giggle.
God I miss that sinister giggle.
Sincerely. R.
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2024.05.27 23:18 happysadkidzz 21 ~ f ~ looking for international penpal!! <3

hi there!! my name is Madalynn. I am from Michigan {USA} and i am looking for a fun {18+!!} friend, preferably in Australia or Japan, but i'm open to anywhere outside of North America, to send letters, postcards, pictures, and little gifts back and forth too! i love video games, anime, animals, dungeon & dragons, and books.
a few of my favorite games are stardew valley, overwatch, lethal company, and zoo tycoon 🤭
i would prefer someone from Japan because i am starting to learn Japanese and would love someone to learn from/practice with!
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2024.05.27 23:15 BootleggedBarney She says she doesn't know if she will ever love me

Basically been dating this girl for a month now, I told her she means a lot to me & I wrote a little letter about why she means a lot to me. I've met her family, friends, and even cousins. She's invited me to her family game nights, etc etc we've had lots of sex too and talk on a really deep emotional level, we're like 2 peas in a pod usually but then I told her how I felt and she said this in response
"I just woke up and wow that was alot I don't know how I even feel I don't mind pet names but idk if I'm ready for all of this. I do like you alot and your so sweet and super caring and I know you care about me, sometimes I feel like I'm not ready for it idk like meeting you mom was really getting me thinking and worried. I just don't know if I'll ever love you and I feel like that's a punishment to you because I'm damaged and sometimes I just feel so bad because I'm usually better and your not getting that person"
Her ex really fucked her up & cheated on her a lot but he was her first love. Idk what to make of things, my buddy said then why does she say & do the things she does for you if she doesn't love you? And now in here asking all of you folks for some advice. I talked with her a bunch about it and she's having me come over again to watch the hockey game but I think maybe she just needs more time to build a connection with me & attach herself to me?
Any advice is appreciated.
Forgot to add, she met my mother for the first time yesterday & she was horrified beyond stressed out & anxious and overthinking things afterwards. She is a hardcore overthinker.
I also can share what I responded with and what she responded with to give more context.
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2024.05.27 23:08 Coco_Luka Spiderman 50 Grade

Spiderman 50 Grade
just got her pressed and she presents beautifully, like a 4.5-5.0 but how does the interior affect grade? the tear is right on the centre fold pages but it is not detached in any way. side note, does anyone know what it could be from?
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2024.05.27 23:06 notoriouspacifist Does some skin retain tattoo ink better than other skin?

Back in December my bff and I went to get tattoos together. We got the same design in the same place: simple lettering of our favorite phrase, except I had him tattoo mine a little bigger than hers, thinking it would be better for longevity. We were given the same aftercare instructions which, it being my first tattoo, I followed RELIGIOUSLY. Washed 4-5x a day with anti bacterial soap and moisturized for 3 weeks with the sample goo from the shop (Recovery salve), then mad rabbit gel for the last 3 weeks and now whenever I remember to put it on. My tat looks great!
Hers however… blurry everywhere and looks grey. The letters are melding into each other. She has a few other tattoos in illustrative style and I was noticing how much they tend to fade on her skin; on one the features are completely gone after less than a year. She follows the aftercare given by the first artist who tatted her; to just wash and moisturize the tattoo after she showers (usually 2x a day). She moisturizes with unscented lotion after 3 days with second skin on.
Why do our tattoos look so vastly different? Does ink stay better in some peoples skin than others? Does it have anything to do with our aftercare practices?
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2024.05.27 23:04 ocdthrowaways I feel like it's better to kill myself because I feel responsible for my mom's financial issues, but I have hope.

This has EDs, Suicide Ideation and Depression. Please read with caution.
My mom loves me as much as I love her. She works every day to the point she's never home and when she is, she's either sleeping or taking a shower then goes off to work. I appreciate her help, but I feel inferior in me existing.
I feel like it's my fault why she is poor. I have a little sister, and I feel as though if I didn't exist and my mom didn't have two kids, she wouldn't be struggling financially AS MUCH as she is now. I guess I'm being negative, but I feel like me killing myself would be much better on her end, financially speaking. I know she may likely grieve and feel horrible. I feel selfish saying this because I know she'll be heartbroken seeing me dead one day, but I feel it's the only way my mom won't financially be struggling. I feel like I'm nothing but an inconvenience and burden; like I am a waste of life, and I'm not meant for life itself due to how guilty you can say I feel. This guilt isn't irrational because guilt comes from being wrong and me existing on its own isn't wrong.. but it feels that way to me.
A few months ago, I set up a goal to starve myself to death. That week was full of crying, self hatred and depression. I wanted to desperately die hoping it would make her happy. I didn't eat for two days and on the 3rd day, half because I wanted to take my sister and mom out to eat since we didn't have much food at the time. I felt happy seeing them both, especially my mother eat. I ate myself, but I felt extremely sick and hated the senses of just.. feeling the food finally go down my throat in a few days. I only drank water and slept the entire day and when I was awake, I would not think about food. And when I did, it was time to go to bed. I know 3 days isn't a lot, but my friend I told her about was devastated and I felt more hurt. I wanted to die even more.
I never spoke to my mom about this because it's not her fault and knowing her, she'll begin to blame herself but it's genuinely not her fault she is struggling. Yet I feel it is part of my fault. Yes, I'm getting a job but my mom still has to pay for me for some things. In general, it's not really financial issues anymore. It's the fact she simply had me and being a single mom in this economy is difficult when you're middle class. I just wish I could have the courage to cut and bleed to death or to continue starving myself once again since the urge comes out every now and then. I cry every time I hear a parent say they regret having kids. My mom never told me she regrets me, but I've heard too many stories of parents saying being a single parent is hard with one child or more kids and I just feel like it's best to say goodbye to my mom. I've thought writing a goodbye letter the same night and yeah. I guess you could assume the worst is right.
My mom loves me so if I did do that, she would blame herself. But I thought it'd be nice to tell her it wasn't genuinely her fault but my responsibility to kill myself. Writing this part makes it hard right now since I'm beginning to cry. Excuse me for that. I feel so stupid. I have summer school and I want to study very hard so she can be proud of me. I feel like I failed her as a daughter for just being here and I could never see me forgiving my existence. It's just too much for my mom I can tell and I know she would've been less stressed if she had only one kid. Every time my mom gets upset or yells at me for something stupid I did, I always imagine how maybe in the moment, she realizes her true feelings as a mom and regrets me. I know she doesn't, but it's some twisted sympathy ideology projection I have. I feel too disheartened to love myself when I see me being here has hurt someone else.
A lot of people told me it's not my fault for existing because it's her choice to have me which is right but, I guess I still feel bad. I don't know. Maybe I will not eat anymore today and starve myself as I do not deserve food. Nothing but a shame to my mom. And I know it's wrong to think this way but I can't stop.
How could I see this so optimistically when I feel like I only bring pain to my mom :(
EDIT: I help clean and applied for a job this year because I turned 16, etc but I simply feel bad for existing really.
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2024.05.27 23:03 Openyoure I gave up my boyfriend of 5 years for my best friend, only for her to choose him over me

Me (25F) had a boyfriend(25M) for five years. It all started as a silly joke but turned out as the worst idea of my life. So me and my bestfriend (24F) decided to pull a loyalty test on my boyfriend. For context it's important for you to know that me and my boyfriend do not live in the same town so my best friend doesn't know him personally, neither does my boyfriend know her. So she followed him and he followed her back in radius of like half an hour. I thought to my self that's weird but assumed its because I tqlked about her a lot and I was a mutual friend. So as he followed her back she got all excited and I tild her that I don't think it's a good idea for her to do that. She insisted on doing the test and I gave in. They texted back and fourth about me, I'm not gling to get into details what they were talking about as its not important to the story. So the next day she showed me that she told him everything that it was just a prank she was pulling on him and that I didn't know of. I assumed that would be the end of their texting, but boy was I wrong. A week later she came for a sleepover and started taking pictures of me and I asked for who it was and she said your bf; ofclurse I didn't mind as I assumed agin it was for fun, but next day I caught them texting and asked her why she's texting him and she said its nothing they're just talkimg about our upcoming test; I also texted him if he thought it is OK to text other chicks while he is in a relationship. He left me on opened for a solid hour until he answered with: " If it's casual stuff it's OK right?". I told him that in any case its wrong if I don't know of it and he got mad at me for it. That week we met at a bar and he apologised about the shit that happened and that he will stop texting her soon anyway as she's anoying to her. I just told him right but don't do it agin. A few weeks go by and they still hadn't stopped texting. I honestly forgot about it. Until he didn't text me that my bsf had left him on delivered and that now it'll probably really be over. I asked if he's seriously going to me to talk about it; I also asked if they've started snapping to which he answered with yes. As I know my bf, once you get on the snap list you are one of his hoes (red flag). I got mad at him and ignored him and also my bestfriend. I heard from multiple third parties, that while they were talking to her she was smiling during the conversation about my bf, but like the comfronting conversation and the sweet smile. Fast forward few weeks I'm watching insta and I check for any new messages and a note from special someone catches my eye. It was a note from my bestfriend with a line and some dots; I scrolled a little bit and saw that my bf has something similar. I imediatley knew that it was morse code and started googling the meaning and so as I thought they had matching notes with their initials on it (A,S. Now my name also starts with an S but my bf neveerrrr writes into ig notes so why all of a sudden like this). I got very mad and ignored them bkth the intire week. My bestfriend sent me a letter apologising, but so did my bf send me an apology text. She swore she didn't know anything of it and explained that the initial things were just a dare they gave eachother. I foolishly believed her and remained her friend. My bf also apologised but I told him that I'm too mad at myself to just forgive. The next day my bf started ignoring me completley and I asked him why and he said that I know what I did. I asked my bsf if she knows anything about it and she said that he has his reasons and that she personally agrees with him. I asked her ehat rrason, she answered with idk. Than I remembered, that I asked his bsf to ask him where he knows my bsf IF he sees him texting her when I wad mad at them. I apologised and took the blame but he just continiued to bad talk me about that. I told him that I am very sorry and that I care for him and stuff like that but he just threw that aside and continiued to talk how bad of a thing I did. My bsf kept on telling me that he was done with me for good and I asked him about it and he said that he just doesn't want to exchamge dirty looks. I told him,that his answer doesn't answer mine, so I asked more specifically if he still wants a realtionship and he answered that after what I did, not really. We got into an argument in which I was constantly telling him that I care for him and that I am sorry but at the end we just broke up. I thought to myself that now everything will be better eith me and my bestfriend but it wasn't. She got distant. She chose someone who she never met over me. I gave up my boyfriend for her and she couldn't give up someone she doesn't even know. This showed me a lot of how much they prioritise me as a friend/gf. Also sorry for my grammar I'm not a native english.
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