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2017.04.01 12:10 kevin32 Where Are All The Good Men?

In response to niceguys, this sub is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show what happens when women reject decent men for jerks and promiscuity, along with showing the unreasonable standards many women have while offering little to no value themselves.
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2019.06.04 05:46 DoYouLikeFish datingoverfifty

A forum for discussing the ins and outs of dating over 50, as well as nascent relationships, and single life.
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2014.12.19 18:02 zwschlei Hinge Dating App

A community for discussing the Hinge dating app. Request a profile review, ask for advice, get help, or share your experiences with Hinge. This subreddit is unofficial and we are not affiliated with or represent Hinge in any official capacity.
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2024.05.14 18:17 MO_drps_knwldg Style fundamentals: 6 Scents that women love

A few upfront disclaimers:
One final note—don’t bathe yourself in your fragrance. One or two sprays max behind the ears, or on the back of your neck. You don’t want to drown out your natural musk or skin scent. If a woman is attracted to you, she’ll find your natural scent appealing, as long as you don't have terrible body odor.
  1. Mont Blanc Legend
Mont Blanc might be the GOAT when it comes to affordable fragrances that appeal to women (and people in general). Some say that this scent is very similar to Abercrombie and Fitch Fierce. Don’t worry if you think this will make you smell like a mall in the early 2000’s. It won’t. Women generally seem to be drawn to the scent profile that Legend, A&F Fierce, and Parfum de Marly Percival share. They all smell very fresh, woody, and traditionally masculine. My first recommendation of those would be to go with Legend first.
Note: I would also highly recommend Mont Blanc Explorer, which smells like a fresher, lighter version of Creed’s Aventus.
  1. Versace Eros EDT
Eros is a mix of fresh and sweet, it smells very youthful. I don’t personally own it, but I’ve sampled it several times. I can see the appeal. Of all fragrances men have mentioned get the most compliments from women, Versace always come out on top. I believe that this is because it’s somewhat attention grabbing, and would work well standing out in a club or party setting.
  1. Prada Luna Rossa Carbon
This scent smells shares similarities to Dior’s Sauvage, which is currently the best selling men’s fragrance on the market. Women generally react positively to Sauvage. In my opinion, Carbon smells like a more refined, smoother version of Sauvage, but still has the same attention-grabbing factor. Personally, I’ve received comments and positive feedback on Prada. This is a good alternative to Sauvage if you want something that’s more toned down, but will get you the same effect.
  1. Bleu De Chanel EDP
Bleu De Chanel, like Sauvage, has become almost ubiquitous with men’s fragrances over the past several years. Some say it’s slightly generic, but I thoroughly disagree— especially in the case of the Eau de Parfum. It’s refined, masculine, clean, and has a very slight sweet edge to it. I’ve always gotten good feedback in person, especially in my relationship. If you search online, men list Bleu de Chanel as one of their most attention-grabbing and complimented fragrances. If you’re looking for a scent that makes you feel sophisticated, and is also versatile, look into BDC.
  1. Dolce and Gabbana The One
On a personal note, my girlfriend hates this fragrance on me, but I’m still adding it to the top 5, based on the feedback I got from women during my single days. It’s a sweet but masculine scent, and has been described as the quintessential date night fragrance. Probably not the best fragrance if you want to be bold and announce your presence in club-type setting, but if you want to project the image of someone who is seductive and has their shit together, The One is the perfect choice. Try layering this with BDC for added effect.
  1. Chanel Platinum Egoiste
If you’re looking for a classic “boss scent”— this is the ultimate choice. The scent is slightly retro, masculine, cold, and green. It might be harder to pull off if you’re on the younger side, but this is my go-to for a confidence boost, and my girl absolutely loves it. It’s a classic that you might not smell out and about as often anymore, so you will stand apart from the Sauvages of the world with this. Hall of Fame for sure.
Full article on topic: https://modating.substack.com/p/style-fundamentals-5-scents-that
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2024.05.14 18:17 gooossfraabaahh Memory Loss with Everything Except Music

What are your experiences with memory loss due to your epilepsy? I'm talking long or short-term.
Lots of us experience the loss after an episode.
How is that for you? Do you remember the whole day up to the episode? Do you black out? Do you have auras, and if so, do you remember the day that they showed up or the days before and after?
Please share your experience with memory loss. I have had a very hard time lately and need some support over this.
I have grand mals. I used to average 4 per day. They started at 17- can't find any reason, not eligible for any surgery due to the electrical activity not being isolated - aka they'd have to take my whole brain out, lol. Thanks to medicine, I am now down to just a few episodes a year! They range from 2-6 seizures within a 48-hour period, usually.
Without medication, my seizures are very long. The longest I've spent convulsing at one time was 17 minutes. I have almost died multiple times and experienced wild injuries from it.
Epilepsy lost me a full ride athletic scholarship to the best place in the world (unimportant, being relatively vague for internet reasons, haha). It has taken too much from me. But we just keep swimming. Ironically, another activity I'm not supposed to participate in.
Anyway, I'm just giving some background info. Feel free to share yours, too.
My brain damage is awful. I'm able to learn new skills/information, but if I don't repeat it every day, I lose it in about 4 days or so. I mis-remember many things and have lost a LOT of long-term memory. I don't remember childhood, and I can't remember what my family's voices sound like when I'm away from them for just a week or so. One of my favorite things to do is research, but it seems pointless in the long run. I still do it as a hobby, seeing as how it is fairly risk-free.
I was away from someone who was apparently one of my best friends for just a few years. When we reconnected, I didn't even know their name or face. I thought they were joking until they showed me pictures.
My short term is very bad as well. When I feel down about these things, I watch 50 First Dates to remind myself that people still care about me, good or bad brain, haha. It hurts because I am (not to brag) VERY smart. I have so much potential, but epilepsy kills it.
I could say a million more things, but I wanted to vent & ask about your experiences. You're never alone.
Cheers to good health, guys
edit lol, forgot the point of my title
I have all these issues, but I can learn songs within a day and always retain the lyrics and flow. Even just hearing a couple of seconds of a song clip, I usually can easily identify it. The brain is a wild instrument. I just wish I could tune mine.
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2024.05.14 18:16 gamingdiamond982 Update on Taubot V2

Firstly gonna start with the least technical stuff and get more in the weeds as I go on.

Bots Metadata

The current working name is "taubot-v2" it's boring and I'd like to see it change, but truthfully don't have any ideas, I'd like to hear any suggestions you may have if I don't hear any "taubot-v2" it is.
Ideally the name would be currency agnostic, I want the bot to be able to simulate other economies on other servers, to enable better diplomacy between other online democracies.

An Overview of what I want the bot too look like.

This is just my current working plan, I'd like to hear suggestions and I'll weigh up the technical feesability of the change and it's potential benefits.
I've planned firstly to as I previously mentioned, to be able to host different economies on the same bot.
These economies will be able to span multiple servers.
Note: I don't currently have any plans for interactions between economies, I want this to ideally be done by people - maybe it could be automated with the planned API - but more on that later
users will have to explicitly open accounts user's will be able to be banned from opening accounts explicitly due to how I've designed the permissions system - more on that later
accounts will be able to transfer funds from their account to other funds, this has the potential to be taxed I've per-implemented the possibility of wealth taxes, income taxes and VAT, this list could be extended with ease as long as the taxes can conform to a relatively simple data structure.
scheduled recurring transfers will be a thing - this will probably end up behaving like the post tho, I'll be able to confirm it happens within a few hours of the scheduled time.- this could probably be made very consistent with relatively little work, that's for after the initial release tho.
The Permissions system
Permissions in the bot will be modular, meaning individual permissions can be granted and removed.
each permission will have a scope meaning it can apply to the entire bot, just a specific economy or a specific account within an economy.
This is different from V1 and the concept of an "admin" account isn't around.
I plan on extending this so certain bot permissions can be associated with different roles but that will not be coming with the initial release.
In cases where permissions conflict, i.e. a user is banned from transferring funds from a specific account but has permission to transfer funds on all accounts in an economy, the permission with the broadest scope will take precedent.
Planned API
I plan to release an API in a future release, Nothing I say in this section is anywhere near concrete but it's my current working plan.
For those who don't know an API is a way other bots can be written that interact with the economy programatically.
My current working plan is to have users grant permissions to specific bots via a command in the discord server, this will allow programs to act on their behalf in a restricted manner using an API key.
Because of the trust this involves, I'd like to manually vet those who want an API key, so I do not plan on having a publicly facing registration service.

Senator Hazzy's questions from the senate floor

  1. How far off completion are you?
This will probably be a continuously evolving project, but I could probably get an initial release out by the week's end - with recurring transfers, taxes, permission management, and multi-server support.
  1. Would it be possible to transfer control of the bot over to someone other than yourself?
Yes - However, they would need to be sufficiently technically capable to deploy the bot, it's not too hard and I would have no issues ensuring the transition was smooth.
They would also need to rent a cheap VPS if the API is ever implemented and be technically capable of configuring firewalls correctly etc, again I have no problem helping to make this as smooth as possible, but they are skills a host would need were they to take over.
  1. Would it be possible to only grant certain users control over specific aspects of the bot such that on one person has total control over it?
Yes the new permissions system allows for allocating of specific permissions to specific users - however and there is no getting around this, the host will have the ability to modify data in the database directly, the role will always be one that requires trust.
  1. How effective will maintenance of the bot be? How likely is the bot to break? This is a difficult question to answer, I've designed the bot following clean code principals it has two dependencies the discord.py library and sqlalchemy potentially a third for the API when I get around to that.
discord.py has been around for years with more or less the same API, the only major changes were made after discord completely revamped their end and added slash commands etc.
it's unlikely any major changes will happen to discord.py that break the bot.
SQLalchemy is one of the most used SQL backends for python, its older than discord.py and still maintains their legacy versions.
again I'd make a similar case that any changes are unlikely to break the bot.
But like all code cobwebs form if you leave it long enough something will break.
I can tell you that in fifteen years it'll break due to some quirks with SQL datatypes and discord IDs - however that will only apply to newly created accounts and servers.
I've been methodically testing every aspect of the codebase, and am confident that once it's running it shouldn't break easily, issues may arise when libraries are updated etc, but we get warnings about those kinds of things well in advance.
  1. Are there any other flaws you've seen in the proposed bill? Truthfully no, I think it largely falls outside my area of expertise, i.e. the policies surrounding the new economy, but everything needed is technically feesable and will be in the initial release.

How will this attempt be different from a development standpoint.

The biggest change is that I know what we need and what broke with taubot, back when I was actively maintaining it I was the one resolving the issues with the initial implementation, as such I've learned alot about what's needed and what can go wrong.
There were many unused features of the old bot that I had to maintain in order to ensure backwards compatibility - the biggest of which was the fact that the old bot stored balances as fractions meaning you could have arbitrarily precise balances, this will not be a feature in the new bot, it caused countless headaches ensuring that at no point the data was ever converted to a less precise format a few times during testing I'd realised I'd accidentally created infinite money glitches - it was gaining about a millionth of a cent each time you made a transfer but still not ideal.
The old ledger based system couldn't scale, I had ten to twenty minute startup times as the number of transactions increased and while it did make auditing the bot easier, it was significantly slower and audits were never conducted.
I did retro fit a similar database to the current design onto the old bot because I felt the issues with the ledger were becoming insurmountable, however I had to build it in a manner that ensured it behaved as a direct piece swap for the ledger.
I've designed the current code in a manner that follows what I understand to be best practices for maintainability taking aspects I liked from the original bot and trying to keep things as modular as possible so that new features are easy enough to implement.
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2024.05.14 18:16 MO_drps_knwldg Style fundamentals: 6 Scents that women love

A few upfront disclaimers:
One final note—don’t bathe yourself in your fragrance. One or two sprays max behind the ears, or on the back of your neck. You don’t want to drown out your natural musk or skin scent. If a woman is attracted to you, she’ll find your natural scent appealing, as long as you don't have terrible body odor.
  1. Mont Blanc Legend
Mont Blanc might be the GOAT when it comes to affordable fragrances that appeal to women (and people in general). Some say that this scent is very similar to Abercrombie and Fitch Fierce. Don’t worry if you think this will make you smell like a mall in the early 2000’s. It won’t. Women generally seem to be drawn to the scent profile that Legend, A&F Fierce, and Parfum de Marly Percival share. They all smell very fresh, woody, and traditionally masculine. My first recommendation of those would be to go with Legend first.
Note: I would also highly recommend Mont Blanc Explorer, which smells like a fresher, lighter version of Creed’s Aventus.
  1. Versace Eros EDT
Eros is a mix of fresh and sweet, it smells very youthful. I don’t personally own it, but I’ve sampled it several times. I can see the appeal. Of all fragrances men have mentioned get the most compliments from women, Versace always come out on top. I believe that this is because it’s somewhat attention grabbing, and would work well standing out in a club or party setting.
  1. Prada Luna Rossa Carbon
This scent smells shares similarities to Dior’s Sauvage, which is currently the best selling men’s fragrance on the market. Women generally react positively to Sauvage. In my opinion, Carbon smells like a more refined, smoother version of Sauvage, but still has the same attention-grabbing factor. Personally, I’ve received comments and positive feedback on Prada. This is a good alternative to Sauvage if you want something that’s more toned down, but will get you the same effect.
  1. Bleu De Chanel EDP
Bleu De Chanel, like Sauvage, has become almost ubiquitous with men’s fragrances over the past several years. Some say it’s slightly generic, but I thoroughly disagree— especially in the case of the Eau de Parfum. It’s refined, masculine, clean, and has a very slight sweet edge to it. I’ve always gotten good feedback in person, especially in my relationship. If you search online, men list Bleu de Chanel as one of their most attention-grabbing and complimented fragrances. If you’re looking for a scent that makes you feel sophisticated, and is also versatile, look into BDC.
  1. Dolce and Gabbana The One
On a personal note, my girlfriend hates this fragrance on me, but I’m still adding it to the top 5, based on the feedback I got from women during my single days. It’s a sweet but masculine scent, and has been described as the quintessential date night fragrance. Probably not the best fragrance if you want to be bold and announce your presence in club-type setting, but if you want to project the image of someone who is seductive and has their shit together, The One is the perfect choice. Try layering this with BDC for added effect.
  1. Chanel Platinum Egoiste
If you’re looking for a classic “boss scent”— this is the ultimate choice. The scent is slightly retro, masculine, cold, and green. It might be harder to pull off if you’re on the younger side, but this is my go-to for a confidence boost, and my girl absolutely loves it. It’s a classic that you might not smell out and about as often anymore, so you will stand apart from the Sauvages of the world with this. Hall of Fame for sure.
Full article on topic: https://modating.substack.com/p/style-fundamentals-5-scents-that
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2024.05.14 18:14 Evangelion2004 Dogra Magra: Welcome Back, Me Update

Hello again...
It has been a while...
This month marks two years since I began this gargantuan task of translating Dogra Magra. I couldn't believe that I began this at my first year and now I'm about to end my third year. I'll admit that progress has been very slow. It has been eating at me how slow I've been working. I've at least 250 or so pages to go, and yet, it feels like I'm Sisyphus painfully rolling that stone up the hill, but in my case, I couldn't even get to the peak.
I apologize for the delay. I know I said that I'd give the update on the 23rd of April, but it's now May 15 (where I'm from). I'm sorry.
I picked this date to celebrate the birthday of Mikhail Bulgakov, whose work, The Master and Margarita, is, alongside The Brothers Karamazov, my favorite novel of all time. It was this magic I need after the various novels of realism I had been buying these days. I needed this profound book infused with biting satire and an absurd yet funny plot to bring variety to my readings. A definite reading, I say. I've read it three times the past two months since I bought it...
Third year is almost over, and yet I feel that it had been draining what remained of my enthusiasm for anything. From documentaries to researches to a live TV broadcast, I felt that I've been too tired to do anything these days. And yet, after this comes the mandatory OJT. I can only pray that my will to write continues to stay strong.
I will admit... I had somewhat lost my enthusiasm with translating. It was painful to even look at my text. I was already considering just vanishing altogether and moving on. I began to doubt myself as I always have, but even stronger than before. Thoughts of inadequacy, of mediocrity, of self-hatred just came to me.
But, I had an epiphany. A certain user told me how much he liked my translation, and he felt the hard work I put into doing it. I realized that my work was not in vain. In this one user, I found that I had successfully given Q-san's words light in the English language. I, an amateur, had managed to give Q-san's words the honor it deserves.
And now, looking back at my text, yet to be edited, filled with some errors, and 200 plus pages long, instead of dread and hatred, I felt pride and wonder at myself for the work I had done. And juggling this with college was even more impressive looking back.
So, I came back and tried to churn out a good number of pages in the week before today. I was rusty, I admit, but I made it up with my newfound enthusiasm. I am now confident that I can deliver Q-san's words to the English audience the best way and with quality that will be unlike any cheap translated text found online.
I have been rereading my two books by F. Scott Fitzgerald (The Great Gatsby, Tender is the Night), and I realize that I want my English to shine as much as Fitzgerald when I put this Japanese text to English. I want it to glimmer out the pages, to leave nothing wasted. He is my ideal of what beautiful modern English is (I put "modern" to distinguish from Shakespeare or Chaucer).
So, if it will be alright for you people, just keep watching, because I will continue to present Q-san's works to you, and I will ensure its completion no matter how long! So stay tuned, and keep reading!
The problem now is a date... It is rather difficult to decide due to OJT. For now, I can only give an approximation. Perhaps around the last week of June would be for the best. If not, the first week of July would suffice.
Again, I apologize, and still hope you will continue to grant me a chance to do this.
And again, if there are any trouble about the text, do not hesitate to comment so that I can improve on it.
Au revoir! Auf Wiedersehen! 行ってきます! До свидания! Arrivederci! Good bye!
See you then!
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2024.05.14 18:13 razenha Watchtower brazilian branch asked JWs to not provide aid to flood victims on their own

Watchtower brazilian branch asked JWs to not provide aid to flood victims on their own
Context: Since April 30th, the state of Rio Grande do Sul is suffering one of the worst floods in the history of Brazil, with 140+ deaths, 130+ missing and over half of million people displaced from their homes. The situation is ongoing and will probably get worse for the next days.
Exjws in brazilian groups are reporting that there was an announcement from the local branch asking JWs to not provide aid to the flood victims on their own to avoid "duplicated efforts, waste and confusion".
Here is a translation from a letter dated May 10th:
To all elders Humanitarian aid to our brothers from Rio Grande do Sul: Whenever a disaster happens, the provided aid must be well organized and coordinated in a efficient manner. That way we avoid duplicated efforts, confusion and waste of money and materiais, things that generally happens when brothers act on their own. (Se Life and Ministry Workbook from march 2003, page 3.) As of now, only the congregation from the state of Santa Catarina have been invited to participate in the sending of donations. Therefore, if your congregation has not been invited yet, instruct the publishers to not make personal arrangements to send donations. As the announcement to be read to the congregation, help brothers to avoid on-line crowdfunding efforts. Naturally, besides instructing the publishers, we trust you to continue to give a good example in following the guidance from Jehovah's organization - Heb. 13:7
There was also a video posting from an announcement from the local branch read to the congregation during the last meeting. Here is the translation of what was said in the video, which is somewhat similar to what was send to the elders:
To the congregations: Humanitarian aid to our brother from Rio Grande do Sul. We now you are following with great concern the situation of our brothers in Rio Grande do Sul. With the help of the Jehovah and the loving brothers that are working in humanitarian aid, the around 2000 brothers affected by this tragedy are receiving the necessary care. For now, only the congregation from the state of Santa Catarina have been invited to participate in the send of donations. Therefore, if your congregation has not been invited yet, we ask to not make personal arrangements to send donations. Besides that, we ask to not take the initiative to create or participate in online crowdfunding efforts to help the brothers in Rio Grande do Sul. One may gave good intentions, but one never knows who is behind it and if the donated money will actually be sent. Because of that, we strongly discourage this type of arrangement. On the other side, if someone wishes to make a donation to Bethel in order to help the brothers in the affected region, use the donate. jw. org website, or the pix key* number (redacted). If someone wishes to personally participate in the humanitarian aid, they can make themselves available by filling out the "To make more in Jehovah's service A2" petition. If you don't have a valid petition, the volunteers will be invited according to necessity by the Builder Assistance website. We thank you from the heart of the your voluntary donations, your willing spirits and your zealous prayers in favor of the affected brothers in Rio Grande do Sul. Certainly Jehovah is pleased with these sacrifices. Heb 13:6.
* PIX is a Brazilian money transfer method, like Venmo, but standardized by the Central Bank.
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2024.05.14 18:13 J-Red_dit The Good, The Bad, and The Curious

When you reach door 60 you can go through a crack wall and find yourself in a secret room that leads to The Rooms, a reference to a game of the same name that inspired Doors. When dying to an entity in this place, we are not greeted by Guiding Light (GL) but instead by the yellow Curious Light (CL). The behavior of CL is odd, it’s quite vague and generally less helpful than GL, but it does encourage the player to come back implying that it needs the players help for something. It is suspected that CL requires the player to be able to escape The Rooms because in the recent Backdoor update, upon leaving The Rooms or The Backdoor, the player exits through a doorframe covered in yellow cracks and stars.
Speaking of which, backtracking to Door 60 there is a painting that has no title of a large yellow star. It is suspected this star is a symbol that represents CL.
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This painting hides more secrets however. Also in this room are 3 chairs placed together. As far as I remember, these chairs have always been in this room, and I thought of them as significant but with nothing to connect it to. This is no longer the case as of the modifiers update because now, if you enter this room with at least 1 modifier turned on, the painting changes to this:
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Two more symbols appear on the painting, one of a blue crescent moon, and one of the red modifier icon. If CL is connected to the star icon, then who is connected to the other two? The crescent moon is obviously Guiding Light, sharing the same blue color and the crescent moon icon appearing when using the crucifix. The modifier icon however doesn’t belong to a light we’ve met yet, they have however made appearances. But first I need to talk about what the lights are, and what they want. When a player uses the crucifix, one of the symbols that appears is a closed string of wingdings, which when translated and put through a Caeser cipher translates to, “One Of The Three Architects Marked By Celestials Assists You”. Three architects, three icons, three chairs, three lights. So the lights are referred to as architects, but what does this mean? Game Theory believes the reason they are called Architects is the lights have the ability to change the layout of The Hotel, and GL uses this ability to turn The Hotel into a labyrinth keeping the hostile entities trapped inside.
In The Hotel the players goal is to make it to Door 100. The reason for this isn’t clear, but I speculate that in the upcoming Mines update there is some kind of escape from The Hotel for the player. Guiding Light seems to support the player in this endeavor, remembering the past deaths of players, which suggests that death itself is not an escape from The Hotel. El Goblino mentions other humans he has seen attempting to reach Door 100, so I believe that humans who become trapped in The Hotel need to reach The Mines in order to escape, and every time they die they reappear at the beginning of The Hotel and GL assists them each time. GL assists the player by glowing in certain areas to highlight them, items like the candle and the crucifix to defend against the enemies, and of course providing tips for dealing with the entities upon death. Finally I believe the rift in the Electrical Room that stores items to be used in another run is another power of GL (which is important later). Curious Light as already mentioned is less helpful than GL but nonetheless needs the player’s help in The Rooms. In the Backdoor update CL seems more acquainted with the player and more inclined to help, giving better tips, providing Starlight Vials with his star icon, and placing the levers in The Backdoor to keep Haste at bay further supporting the lights ability to change The Hotel as the Architects.
But what about the third architect, represented by the red modifier icon? With the evidence I have gathered, I believe this architect is a malevolent entity allied with the hostile entities. In a post by they suggest looking at the painting like a coordinate plane, with GL’s icon falling in the Positive, Positive section suggesting to symbolize GL as a force of good, CL falling dead center to symbolize neutrality, both of which makes a lot of sense given their personalities, and finally the modifier icon falling into the Negative, Negative section symbolizing our final architect as a force of evil. How do we prove this? First let’s look at the modifiers themselves, since this light is clearly connected to them. The modifiers are able to control the entities behavior, affect The Hotel, and even disable Guiding Light! This isn’t the only instance of modifiers affecting GL either, when modifiers are turned on GL is not present to give tips on the entities and the biggest piece of evidence suggesting rivalry between this architect and GL is that the more modifiers are turned on, the SMALLER GL’s icon gets in the painting.
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Next we have the red barrier that blocks access to The Rooms when modifiers are turned on. We know this is an ability of the Architects because CL does the same thing for The Backdoor until players reach The Rooms for the first time. Why would the Red Light do this? I speculate it is because it (and GL) don’t have much control over areas like The Rooms or The Backdoor since you can’t use modifiers in those areas.
Finally I want to look at the Tower Heroes collab event. While the event itself is not canon to the lore, I want to point out an interesting detail from this event. When playing a Doors-themed level you typically are assisted by GL giving tips in between each wave of enemies. CL also makes an appearance in this event in Adventure mode giving hints to the secret Void boss fight. However, one particular Weekly Challenge during that event called, “Hotel Visitors” had the player assume the role of Figure defending the Library. This time, instead of GL giving tips we are assisted by something speaking in RED text, which the community referred to as Mischievous Light. They could have just as easily made GL talk during this challenge but they specifically chose to replace GL with something else. Not only that, they gave this Mischievous Light some personality, referring to the enemies as “trespassers”. It just fits so perfectly that I can’t help but believe it to be intentional.
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Now that I’ve thoroughly explained the Red Light/Mischievous Light (ML), let’s circle back to Curious Light. Going back to the Door 60 painting, there is one more detail I’d like to discuss, and that is the fact that CL’s icon is much larger than GL’s or ML’s. I believe this is a representation of how powerful each Architect actually is. This is supported by GL’s icon shrinking when the player adds more modifiers, suggesting that they weaken GL. Furthermore GL and ML seem to possess a different set of powers, while CL seems to possess it’s own unique powers as well being able to replicate the other Architect’s. Like GL, Curious Light does glow on the entrance to and exits from The Rooms, and if we use the Bottle of Starlight bought at the end of The Backdoor on GL’s rift, it creates a second yellow rift. We don’t currently have any more similar powers between CL and ML besides the barriers they both create but I believe ML doesn’t consider CL an enemy like it does with GL (more on that in a second). Finally, only CL seems to be able to affect The Rooms and The Backdoor.
When dying to Blitz for the first time in The Backdoor we are greeted by Curious Light who drops a very strange detail:
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We haven’t met anyone in The Hotel that’s been confirmed to be female so who could Curious Light be referring to here? The identity of this character is not yet clear, but the first candidate that people have suspected is Guiding Light, and sure on the surface that makes sense; they’re both Architects and we’ve seen them both talk but not necessarily to each other. But upon further inspection it doesn’t make sense for GL to be this character for one specific reason: the fact that this character decided to give Blitz a name. According to dialogue from GL and a tweet from the devs, the names of the entities in The Hotel were given by the player, NOT GL. If other humans have been to The Hotel then GL has been there for some time and has never bothered to give the entities names, so why would it start now? You know who’s more likely to give these entities names? Mischievous Light, the architect supposedly allied with these entities. This belief is shared by Game Theory, which I was super excited to see in their most recent theory.
So what is ML up to talking with CL? I believe that ML wants CL and possibly the player to join them. If CL is the most powerful architect and has dominion over The Rooms and The Backdoor, they would be a great ally to have. But what about the player? As we’ve discussed, despite CL’s power, they need the player’s help to access other areas, and in The Mines possibly will exist an escape from The Hotel that ONLY the player has the ability to open. If we take the Tower Heroes collab into consideration, ML initially sees players as “trespassers” and wants the entities to kill them. However, what if the modifiers are a test by ML to evaluate the player’s usefulness? Furthermore, not all modifiers are bad and actually make the game easier, so while ML definitely sees GL as an enemy, it may not be the same case for CL and the player. I speculate that Mischievous Light’s ultimate goal is to use the player to help the entities escape The Hotel, bringing death and destruction to whatever unfortunate world awaits behind the exit door.
But that’s just a theory, a DOORS THEORY! Thanks for reading!
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2024.05.14 18:12 J-Red_dit The Good, The Bad, and The Curious

When you reach door 60 you can go through a crack wall and find yourself in a secret room that leads to The Rooms, a reference to a game of the same name that inspired Doors. When dying to an entity in this place, we are not greeted by Guiding Light (GL) but instead by the yellow Curious Light (CL). The behavior of CL is odd, it’s quite vague and generally less helpful than GL, but it does encourage the player to come back implying that it needs the players help for something. It is suspected that CL requires the player to be able to escape The Rooms because in the recent Backdoor update, upon leaving The Rooms or The Backdoor, the player exits through a doorframe covered in yellow cracks and stars.
Speaking of which, backtracking to Door 60 there is a painting that has no title of a large yellow star. It is suspected this star is a symbol that represents CL.
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This painting hides more secrets however. Also in this room are 3 chairs placed together. As far as I remember, these chairs have always been in this room, and I thought of them as significant but with nothing to connect it to. This is no longer the case as of the modifiers update because now, if you enter this room with at least 1 modifier turned on, the painting changes to this:
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Two more symbols appear on the painting, one of a blue crescent moon, and one of the red modifier icon. If CL is connected to the star icon, then who is connected to the other two? The crescent moon is obviously Guiding Light, sharing the same blue color and the crescent moon icon appearing when using the crucifix. The modifier icon however doesn’t belong to a light we’ve met yet, they have however made appearances. But first I need to talk about what the lights are, and what they want. When a player uses the crucifix, one of the symbols that appears is a closed string of wingdings, which when translated and put through a Caeser cipher translates to, “One Of The Three Architects Marked By Celestials Assists You”. Three architects, three icons, three chairs, three lights. So the lights are referred to as architects, but what does this mean? Game Theory believes the reason they are called Architects is the lights have the ability to change the layout of The Hotel, and GL uses this ability to turn The Hotel into a labyrinth keeping the hostile entities trapped inside.
In The Hotel the players goal is to make it to Door 100. The reason for this isn’t clear, but I speculate that in the upcoming Mines update there is some kind of escape from The Hotel for the player. Guiding Light seems to support the player in this endeavor, remembering the past deaths of players, which suggests that death itself is not an escape from The Hotel. El Goblino mentions other humans he has seen attempting to reach Door 100, so I believe that humans who become trapped in The Hotel need to reach The Mines in order to escape, and every time they die they reappear at the beginning of The Hotel and GL assists them each time. GL assists the player by glowing in certain areas to highlight them, items like the candle and the crucifix to defend against the enemies, and of course providing tips for dealing with the entities upon death. Finally I believe the rift in the Electrical Room that stores items to be used in another run is another power of GL (which is important later). Curious Light as already mentioned is less helpful than GL but nonetheless needs the player’s help in The Rooms. In the Backdoor update CL seems more acquainted with the player and more inclined to help, giving better tips, providing Starlight Vials with his star icon, and placing the levers in The Backdoor to keep Haste at bay further supporting the lights ability to change The Hotel as the Architects.
But what about the third architect, represented by the red modifier icon? With the evidence I have gathered, I believe this architect is a malevolent entity allied with the hostile entities. In a post by they suggest looking at the painting like a coordinate plane, with GL’s icon falling in the Positive, Positive section suggesting to symbolize GL as a force of good, CL falling dead center to symbolize neutrality, both of which makes a lot of sense given their personalities, and finally the modifier icon falling into the Negative, Negative section symbolizing our final architect as a force of evil. How do we prove this? First let’s look at the modifiers themselves, since this light is clearly connected to them. The modifiers are able to control the entities behavior, affect The Hotel, and even disable Guiding Light! This isn’t the only instance of modifiers affecting GL either, when modifiers are turned on GL is not present to give tips on the entities and the biggest piece of evidence suggesting rivalry between this architect and GL is that the more modifiers are turned on, the SMALLER GL’s icon gets in the painting.
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Next we have the red barrier that blocks access to The Rooms when modifiers are turned on. We know this is an ability of the Architects because CL does the same thing for The Backdoor until players reach The Rooms for the first time. Why would the Red Light do this? I speculate it is because it (and GL) don’t have much control over areas like The Rooms or The Backdoor since you can’t use modifiers in those areas.
Finally I want to look at the Tower Heroes collab event. While the event itself is not canon to the lore, I want to point out an interesting detail from this event. When playing a Doors-themed level you typically are assisted by GL giving tips in between each wave of enemies. CL also makes an appearance in this event in Adventure mode giving hints to the secret Void boss fight. However, one particular Weekly Challenge during that event called, “Hotel Visitors” had the player assume the role of Figure defending the Library. This time, instead of GL giving tips we are assisted by something speaking in RED text, which the community referred to as Mischievous Light. They could have just as easily made GL talk during this challenge but they specifically chose to replace GL with something else. Not only that, they gave this Mischievous Light some personality, referring to the enemies as “trespassers”. It just fits so perfectly that I can’t help but believe it to be intentional.
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Now that I’ve thoroughly explained the Red Light/Mischievous Light (ML), let’s circle back to Curious Light. Going back to the Door 60 painting, there is one more detail I’d like to discuss, and that is the fact that CL’s icon is much larger than GL’s or ML’s. I believe this is a representation of how powerful each Architect actually is. This is supported by GL’s icon shrinking when the player adds more modifiers, suggesting that they weaken GL. Furthermore GL and ML seem to possess a different set of powers, while CL seems to possess it’s own unique powers as well being able to replicate the other Architect’s. Like GL, Curious Light does glow on the entrance to and exits from The Rooms, and if we use the Bottle of Starlight bought at the end of The Backdoor on GL’s rift, it creates a second yellow rift. We don’t currently have any more similar powers between CL and ML besides the barriers they both create but I believe ML doesn’t consider CL an enemy like it does with GL (more on that in a second). Finally, only CL seems to be able to affect The Rooms and The Backdoor.
When dying to Blitz for the first time in The Backdoor we are greeted by Curious Light who drops a very strange detail:
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We haven’t met anyone in The Hotel that’s been confirmed to be female so who could Curious Light be referring to here? The identity of this character is not yet clear, but the first candidate that people have suspected is Guiding Light, and sure on the surface that makes sense; they’re both Architects and we’ve seen them both talk but not necessarily to each other. But upon further inspection it doesn’t make sense for GL to be this character for one specific reason: the fact that this character decided to give Blitz a name. According to dialogue from GL and a tweet from the devs, the names of the entities in The Hotel were given by the player, NOT GL. If other humans have been to The Hotel then GL has been there for some time and has never bothered to give the entities names, so why would it start now? You know who’s more likely to give these entities names? Mischievous Light, the architect supposedly allied with these entities. This belief is shared by Game Theory, which I was super excited to see in their most recent theory.
So what is ML up to talking with CL? I believe that ML wants CL and possibly the player to join them. If CL is the most powerful architect and has dominion over The Rooms and The Backdoor, they would be a great ally to have. But what about the player? As we’ve discussed, despite CL’s power, they need the player’s help to access other areas, and in The Mines possibly will exist an escape from The Hotel that ONLY the player has the ability to open. If we take the Tower Heroes collab into consideration, ML initially sees players as “trespassers” and wants the entities to kill them. However, what if the modifiers are a test by ML to evaluate the player’s usefulness? Furthermore, not all modifiers are bad and actually make the game easier, so while ML definitely sees GL as an enemy, it may not be the same case for CL and the player. I speculate that Mischievous Light’s ultimate goal is to use the player to help the entities escape The Hotel, bringing death and destruction to whatever unfortunate world awaits behind the exit door.
But that’s just a theory, a DOORS THEORY! Thanks for reading!
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2024.05.14 18:11 Iam_Your_Pudding Taskus is Hiring

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2024.05.14 18:10 BlinkSpectre My ex GF messed me up mentally and emotionally and I’m still trying to recover

This isn’t something I would normally post but I am hoping it’ll be cathartic for me. This might be a long one and a bit of a mess so feel free to skip if you’re not interested in the read.
I 28f up until last August I was in a relationship with who we’ll call ‘M’ 24f for almost 2 years. We met on hinge. In general I’m very shy and not very confident person, and definitely new to dating as I spent most of my teens and early 20’s in the closet due to internalized homophobia. So I don’t have much experience dating. That context is important for the story. By all accounts, M was probably out of my league, (that’s what I told myself, again I have zero self confidence ) she was attractive, smart, came from a good family and on the surface a nice girl. The beginning the relationship was fine, she was in uni for medicine and her school schedule was pretty demanding. We’d only see each other maybe one every month in the beginning of the relationship, I understood she was busy with school and honestly I was still feeling lucky that she chose me to date.
A few months go by and we still remain only seeing each other once a month because her school schedule was so demanding. This is when the red flags start to wave, her school schedule was so demanding yet she was in multiple choirs that she would sing in once a week. She made time for choir but when I asked to hang out I was made to feel like a bother. Plus she played DND with at least 2 different groups of people.
Early in the relationship we were in her car after she dropped me off I asked if we could see each other a little more and she had a strange reaction, I didn’t want to seem needy so I backed off and later apologized via text. She responded with; “sometimes I just like to be alone.” Which as an introvert; I get 100%, so I let it be. But like….we only saw each other once a month as it was…..how could you possibly be alone any more??? I was always the one to ask to hang out, always. And every time I did I would sheepishly ask if she had some free time that weekend to hang out, because I felt like such a bother to her. I’m not exaggerating when I say we would easily go 3-5 weeks without seeing each other in person. We would text every day. But seeing her in person was a luxury. But don’t worry she always had time for choir every single week. Twice a week. Or DND. But seeing her girlfriend was too much strain on her school schedule.
I was always the one to text first. Whether it was good morning, or saying good night. Later in the relationship I wouldn’t text her just to see how long it would take her to text me that day, most time it wasn’t until 3-4 pm that I heard from her.
We never had sex, we barely even kissed.(which isn’t really important to me but damn). It was so difficult to have alone time with her so there was quite literally never an opportunity for intimacy. Towards the end of our relationship we would watch the bachelorette with her mom at her place, so we never had alone time for the last 3 months of dating.
For both valentines days we were together I sent flowers and chocolate to her house. She didn’t get me anything. For my 27th birthday we went out with my friends, and a small part of me wondered if she would offer to pay for my meal. Nope. She also didn’t get me a birthday gift or even a card. Flash forward to Christmas I get her a 250$ makeup palette that she always talked about and a blanket from her favourite K-Pop band. I got an xbox gift card and a cookbook. I need to emphasize that I DO NOT CARE ABOUT presents, I just literally wanted any sort of acknowledgment that she cared about me at all. I also feel the need to point out she has money, both her parents are lawyers and they are very well off and she gets paid to go to school because her field is very specialized. I was raised by a single mother and while I have my own career now, I’m far from rich. But I always went above and beyond to make her feel special and she did the bare minimum. Sometimes not even the bare minimum. This next one really bothered me; its my 28th birthday and I hadn’t mentioned it was coming up. A sick part of me wanted to see if she would remember, I know it’s stupid to test people in a relationship but I was genuinely curious to see if she would remember. It comes the day of my birthday, and I don’t hear from her until 3:30 pm. “Happy Birthday!” That was it. I was floored. A couple days later she managed to squeeze me into her schedule and we go out for dinner. Again, didn’t pay for my meal. For her birthday we went to a nice restaurant and I paid for the entire fucking thing it was almost 150$. Don’t worry she got me an xbox gift card though……..
But the worst part, beyond not seeing each other was how she treated me and made me feel. In the beginning she was very nice and kind, but slowly I think her true colours came out. She’s very smart, but she needs to be right all the time. Like literally every single conversation she needs to come out as right. I was never allowed to have my own opinions, she would make me feel stupid and correct me every time. I’m a bit of a goof and like to be silly, but she would look at me like I was an idiot, if I did a pretend British accent she would criticize it and tell me to stop. In the end I felt like a shell of myself. I was terrified to say something stupid. She would call out every single thing I did, if I merged a lane early while driving, called out (that actually happened). If I wiped my mouth after every bite, called out. If I said something she would have to google it to prove she was right or at least prove that I was wrong.
I would participate in her family activities, like birthdays and holidays. Side note: her family is lovely. I got especially close with her mom. Her mother is a sweetheart, a lovely human being and she treated me better than her daughter ever did. Her mom and I even snap chatted every day. M wouldn’t open my snaps for days and I could see when she was online. As weird as it might seem, I would have rather hung out with her mom than her. There were a couple times when we were with her mom, that M would call me out on something trivial and even her own mother was picking up on the vibes.
I had convinced myself I really liked this person, once I told her I loved her. Why, I’ll never know. She responded with “thanks, I’m not there yet but thanks for telling me.” I was gutted. I didn’t love her. I never did. In the end I hated her.
I would lie to my friends about her and say I was happy, my mom liked her which was the worst part because it would break her heart if she knew how I was feeling and being treated. I would make it seem like I was happy and she was this lovely person, but deep down I was dying. Towards the end of our relationship I was hanging out with a good friend of mine and someone who helped me a lot through my journey of accepting my identity as a lesbian. She asked me about my relationship and how it was going, and I honestly couldn’t say anything positive. This was the first time I was honest with someone in my life about how unhappy I was and I wasn’t sure how to process it.
Eventually she broke up with me; she said she felt like she made me nervous and that I cared about her more than she cared about me. Initially it hurt, and I felt bad. But after an hour, I wanted to do a freaking backflip. I was elated to be free. For the past 2 years I had felt like less of myself than I had ever been. It was the worst 2 years mentally of my life. I had twisted myself up into this sheepish person who just felt lucky to be chosen by someone. My self worth was so low that I thought this was the relationship I deserved, that I would never find anyone else and I should just be grateful that she chose me.
As the title says I’m still trying to recover and heal. It’s been about 9 months since I last saw her and I’m working on myself. That relationship showed me how compromised my mental health was and that I need to take care of myself. I have been seeing a therapist. Now don’t get me wrong I have struggled with mental health my entire life, but those 2 years were the worst of it. I’m not dating right now because I want to focus on myself and my personal goals first.
I’m still embarrassed for how the relationship went and that I let her treat me. If anything I learned a lot from this relationship.
If you have made it this far props to you because this was kind of a hot mess and wayyy too long. But it’s been bothering me even more lately and I guess I just felt like this might help. Even if no one reads it.
She didn’t want a relationship, I don’t know what she wanted. She used school as a buffer to limit the amount she saw me. I feel bad for the next person she dates and I hope they come to their senses quicker than I did. I deleted her off everything and I hope to never see her again. In closing, I fucking hate her guts.
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2024.05.14 18:09 TapSufficient3583 How do I (m22) tell my mother figure (f43) that I'm not good enough for a girlfriend without starting an argument

I'm gonna try to make this sound as least self depreciating as possible.
For a little back story after my dad died I moved in with a friend from highschool and her mom Sally (names changed). It was supposed to be just for a few weeks until I figured something out but I kinda just never left (lol) Over the years we became closer and we see each other as family. The "problem" (for lack of a better word) with that is that they only see the good things in me. This is something I generally appreciate and was a great thing to have in my life. But they take all of my good qualities and believe that it should transfer well to me attracting and dating women. And on paper in a way it makes sense, I'm not going to list all of my good qualities cause it makes me feel wierd. But I'm told I'm a great guy.
However I'm bad with relationships. Growing up every relationship iv ever seen has been almost transactional at best, and borderline abusive at worse. My dad had a tendency to date women that would let us live with them. And my birth mother could be pretty manipulative and never got over my father. My siblings had similar problems in there lives, having children young and generally having really bad times in life. I've had several partners growing up in all of those relationships I find myself starting out with good intentions, like I really want to be a good boyfriend, but eventually I find myself hurting or manipulating my partners, Almost "getting bored" of them, then love bombing them to compensate for those feelings. And generally showing these flaws that I hate about my birth family. I'm almost sure that if it wasn't for my religious celibacy I would be a dad by now and I hate that.
Sorry I'm kinda rambling rn, the short of this is that when I'm in relationships I hurt my partner, I don't like hurting people but I can't stop, I show several narcissistic behaviors when dating and it's better if I'm just single, at least for now. Now I know it's just in a mom's nature to want there children to get a partner and eventually start a family. And since I left for college and gotten more stable in life she has been pushing harder for me to get out there and find someone. This makes me irritated as I have told pretty much everyone that I'm good and thriving being single. I also realize that her comments are based on love and I don't want to be mad about that. I also don't want to make it seem like I'm throwing that love back in her face, when all she wants is the best for me. I just want these comments to stop.
How an I tell her I'm not a good boyfriend without having another conversation about her trying to convince me that I am. That is not something I can except, at least right now and I don't want her to feel bad.
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2024.05.14 18:08 JessieWinter Is my [23F] boyfriend [23M] still in love with his ex? Am I the rebound?

My boyfriend and I met in December 2023, started dating February 2024, and have now been together for almost 3 months. We live three hours away but see each other 2-5 times a month and call every day.
In January 2023, both my boyfriend and I went through long term breakups with our first loves. I had been with my ex boyfriend for 3 years, and he had been with his ex girlfriend on & off for 4 years.
When they were broken up, he was still very much obsessed with her. He would date and sleep with other people, but never seriously. He would leave relationships for her and block people once she would tell him she wants him back.
Their relationship was a toxic, vicious cycle that neither could break. But she was always the one that had the most power over him and would initiate all the breakups, while he would come back to her any time she was done dating other people for a little while. The final time she came back, he even proposed to her and they were engaged for a few months.
My past relationship, on the other hand, was a consistent one, and I didn’t have much dating experience after we broke up. My current boyfriend is my second relationship ever, so I’m still learning how to love someone while we both have pasts.
He acts obsessed with me. Super in love, always taking pictures of me and posting me on his social medias, spending so much money to visit me, calling me every night, making a private couple Instagram devoted to our pictures, but still brings up his ex a lot. We both had that problem a bit, but I slowly stopped doing it as often when I realized it wasn’t healthy. However, he always compares me to her. “() would do this.” “() liked this kind of music.”
Well in March, after a year of no contact between them, she (like always based on what he said) finally texted him just to see where he lived now and tell him she’s back in their hometown, asking how he is. He told me they had a short texting convo. I was a little jealous, but since he told me about it and it seemed small and short, I didn’t think too deeply. But it sent him into days worth of a spiral thinking about it. I tried not to bring it up too much.
Then one time in April, he got super depressed and wouldn’t tell me anything. I figured it was about his ex, as he still seems sad about her sometimes and talks so often about her. He got so bad that he drove the 6 hours back to his hometown where his parents live, took days off of work, which is also where she’s from and they met, and stayed with his parents.
I was dumb and suggested that he calls her to finally get some closure. He didn’t tell me if he would or not, until a week later after he was a bit himself again, he confirmed they talked but said “it’s just between me and her.” I said okay and didn’t bring it up even though it bothered me to know what the talked about.
We’ve been doing good since then, but he gets REALLY jealous of me talking with any guys at all. Like REALLY jealous. He likes to look through my phone and read my messages sometimes, which I don’t mind bc I have nothing to hide. But he don’t let me see his. Then two weeks ago, I got curious to see if he did really meet with his ex, and I saw the dreaded messages when he was sleeping (I know, it’s not good but I had suspicions).
During that time he was depressed, they didn’t call but he asked if they could meet in person. It seemed like she was really distant and not interested before or after their meeting, but he texted her things after they met up like, “I would’ve really regret if I didn’t get to see you before going to work abroad for 3 months.” And, “Are you sure you don’t have any feelings for me?”and, “I could never hate you, why would you think that? Please talk to me, I want to hear how you’re feeling.”
I tried to silently leave his apartment while he was asleep, but he woke up and cried, begging me to stay and that he’s over her, he loves me, he just needed closure to confirm she doesn’t have feelings for him so he can move on.
But it hurt me that he needed to know she doesn’t have feelings before he could continue a relationship with me. It makes me feel like if she wasn’t so distant and did have feelings, he would’ve left me immediately. I feel like a placeholder.
He also never told her about me, and told me that the reason he’s taking a work trip abroad for 3 months is because she always comes back in the summer and is scared she’s gonna final his new city and address and he won’t be able to turn her away. That was his explanation while crying to me and begging me to stay. And I said, “So the reason I’m losing my boyfriend for 3 months is because you think your ex will come back again like usual, find your new address, and you won’t be able to say no?”
It caused a huge fight, him sending her a message saying he’s with someone new now and loves me, wants to be with me, and is saying goodbye to their relationship forever.
But then after saying he blocked her, I saw a few days ago he didn’t and only hid her chat. He also sent her contact to a no name social media account that I think is his second account so that he has another way to contact her when he’s away for three months, but he says it’s not.
He said it’s the account of a friend that liked her while he was dating her and wanted to get with her if they ever broke up, so he sent her contact to this friend (which is still weird). But there’s no call or chat history with this friend. Just her contact.
So I’m wondering, should I break up with him? Is he still attached to his ex and I’m the idiot rebound?
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2024.05.14 18:07 m4r00o Solchan’s One-Month Update

Solchan has officially been on the Solana network for a little over 1 month now. There have been some huge strides made by the team, let's check them out!
Finally after much anticipation you can now “tip” posts on Solchan. Tipping is Solchan’s version of a like or upvote, you see a cool post, tip it! Tipping allows you to send Solchan tokens to whoever the OP is if they have their wallet address connected.
Get out there and start making some absolutely beautiful threads and get paid for posting your mind online!
Additionally, Solchan has officially partnered with Bonfida, Solana Name Service. This allows you to display your .sol domain on your Solchan thread. So when posting you go from a jumble of characters to a humanized name.
Solchan is getting closer to the ideal crypto social media, the team has consistently delivered on their promises and will continue to do so.
Come be a part of a great community and something greater than yourself. Study Solchan.
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2024.05.14 18:06 m4r00o Solchan’s One-Month Update

Solchan has officially been on the Solana network for a little over 1 month now. There have been some huge strides made by the team, let's check them out!
Finally after much anticipation you can now “tip” posts on Solchan. Tipping is Solchan’s version of a like or upvote, you see a cool post, tip it! Tipping allows you to send Solchan tokens to whoever the OP is if they have their wallet address connected.
Get out there and start making some absolutely beautiful threads and get paid for posting your mind online!
Additionally, Solchan has officially partnered with Bonfida, Solana Name Service. This allows you to display your .sol domain on your Solchan thread. So when posting you go from a jumble of characters to a humanized name.
Solchan is getting closer to the ideal crypto social media, the team has consistently delivered on their promises and will continue to do so.
Come be a part of a great community and something greater than yourself. Study Solchan.
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2024.05.14 18:06 Bran37 European Union Elections 2024 Ask Me Anything Event - Schedule for Candidates

Hello cyprus,
On the 9th of June Cypriots will go to the ballots to vote the 6 representatives of Cyprus in the EU Parliament! We decided to host the first Bicommunal AMA Event for the MEP Candidates! We invited 2 candidates from each party. The event will take place between 15/05 - 31/05.
Each candidate will be assigned a day and during that day he or she will accept questions from you. We are still in the process of programming the AMAs so the following table will be updated frequently.
Here is the schedule of AMA:
Date Day Candidate Party European Party Link
15-05-2024 Wednesday Costas Mavrides DIKO S&D
16-05-2024 Thursday Maria Kola Greens European Greens
17-05-2024 Friday [To Be Announced]
18-05-2024 Saturday Hulusi Kilim VOLT VOLT Europa
19-05-2024 Sunday Oz Karahan Greens European Greens
20-05-2024 Monday Vivian Kanari EDEK S&D
21-05-2024 Tuesday Constantinos Petrides DISY EPP
22-05-2024 Wednesday Andromachi Sophocleous VOLT VOLT Europa
23-05-2024 Thursday [To Be Announced]
24-05-2024 Friday Christiana Xenofontos DISY EPP
25-05-2024 Saturday Themis Anthopoulou DEPA ALDE
26-05-2024 Sunday [To Be Announced]
27-05-2024 Monday [To Be Announced]
28-05-2024 Tuesday [To Be Announced]
29-05-2024 Wednesday [To Be Announced]
30-05-2024 Thursday [To Be Announced]
31-05-2024 Friday [To Be Announced]
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2024.05.14 18:05 m4r00o Solchan’s One-Month Update

Solchan has officially been on the Solana network for a little over 1 month now. There have been some huge strides made by the team, let's check them out!
Finally after much anticipation you can now “tip” posts on Solchan. Tipping is Solchan’s version of a like or upvote, you see a cool post, tip it! Tipping allows you to send Solchan tokens to whoever the OP is if they have their wallet address connected.
Get out there and start making some absolutely beautiful threads and get paid for posting your mind online!
Additionally, Solchan has officially partnered with Bonfida, Solana Name Service. This allows you to display your .sol domain on your Solchan thread. So when posting you go from a jumble of characters to a humanized name.
Solchan is getting closer to the ideal crypto social media, the team has consistently delivered on their promises and will continue to do so.
Come be a part of a great community and something greater than yourself. Study Solchan.
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2024.05.14 18:05 m4r00o Solchan’s One-Month Update

Solchan has officially been on the Solana network for a little over 1 month now. There have been some huge strides made by the team, let's check them out!
Finally after much anticipation you can now “tip” posts on Solchan. Tipping is Solchan’s version of a like or upvote, you see a cool post, tip it! Tipping allows you to send Solchan tokens to whoever the OP is if they have their wallet address connected.
Get out there and start making some absolutely beautiful threads and get paid for posting your mind online!
Additionally, Solchan has officially partnered with Bonfida, Solana Name Service. This allows you to display your .sol domain on your Solchan thread. So when posting you go from a jumble of characters to a humanized name.
Solchan is getting closer to the ideal crypto social media, the team has consistently delivered on their promises and will continue to do so.
Come be a part of a great community and something greater than yourself. Study Solchan.
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2024.05.14 18:05 Exciting_Cook1004 Big Short Burry Brought Big Lots

Lots of discussion about meme stocks 2.0 today but this a reminder that only is backed by Micheal Burry - obligatory mention that he's the guy in the Big Short movie.
BIG was one of Micheal Burry's largest small cap stock picks in his last filing. https://www.reddit.com/Burryology/comments/1aqt0by/scion\_asset\_management\_q4\_2023\_13f/. He is currently down about 40% on it since reporting date it even as it bounces back today.
To my knowledge Burry is the only hedge fund manager to have predicted and profited off the meme stock rally in 2021 by holding the stock that can't be named well before it went mainstream.
BIG has 27% short interest and is priced at a level where market is expecting it could well go bankrupt if results don't pick up however they have improving cash flow and profitability in the last quarter.
I guess Burry could expect a turnaround to profitability this year.
Whatever the reason Burry's next filing date for the first quarter is tomorrow and it will be interesting to see if he sold BIG after it reached new lows or held on in which case it's going to really pop after his 13F quarterly filing is released tomorrow. I think there is a good probability it will be in his latest filing based on the size of his position in last filing indicating high conviction about this and tendancy to double down on losses.
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2024.05.14 18:04 m4r00o Solchan’s One-Month Update

Solchan has officially been on the Solana network for a little over 1 month now. There have been some huge strides made by the team, let's check them out!
Finally after much anticipation you can now “tip” posts on Solchan. Tipping is Solchan’s version of a like or upvote, you see a cool post, tip it! Tipping allows you to send Solchan tokens to whoever the OP is if they have their wallet address connected.
Get out there and start making some absolutely beautiful threads and get paid for posting your mind online!
Additionally, Solchan has officially partnered with Bonfida, Solana Name Service. This allows you to display your .sol domain on your Solchan thread. So when posting you go from a jumble of characters to a humanized name.
Solchan is getting closer to the ideal crypto social media, the team has consistently delivered on their promises and will continue to do so.
Come be a part of a great community and something greater than yourself. Study Solchan.
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2024.05.14 18:03 Psychics4U_net The Fool Tarot Card Meaning: [The Complete Guide]

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What does the fool mean in the tarot cards? The fool is the most wild tarot card in the deck that you can ever get in a psychic reading. The meaning of the fool tarot card is all about new beginnings, a journey which is usually spiritual and fast change. It indicates that things are really going to go forward for you whether it’s love, relationship, money, work, career and health. But all of these good predictions will come true, only if you will believe in yourself and take calculated risks.
If you are interested in learning everything about the meaning of the fool’s journey tarot card, you came to the right place. Keep on reading till the end of this guide as you will find here lots of useful information regarding to:
  1. The fool’s journey tarot card description and symbolism.
  2. Personality traits.
  3. The meaning in love, relationship, money, work, career and health.
  4. Is the fool a good tarot card or is it bad?
  5. Does the fool tarot card mean yes or no?
  6. How to read the fool’s journey tarot card in upright and reversed position.
  7. The fool tarot card meaning in past, present and future.
  8. The meaning of the number 0 (zero) and 22.
  9. Interpretation of astrological zodiac sign.
  10. Meaning as feelings.
  11. The fool tarot card art and history.
The fool tarot card meaning: Description and symbolism
When we take a first look at the art of fool’s journey tarot card, we immediately notice the bright yellow sun light, the worm rays, the orange – yellow sky and the lite brown ground. The fool has loose and comfortable clothes with flowers patterns on them, mostly yellow which also matches the shoes` shade. Yellow symbolize enlightenment, happy feelings and positive energies.
The fool is ready to take the leap of faith – start a journey to the unknown territory. He doesn’t care if he will encounter obstacles down the road or dangerous situations in the way. He is ready to go no matter what will happen. In fact the fool doesn’t even think about the meaning these problems.
The fool doesn’t care too much about the material world. He collected just the necessary items and packed all his little possessions in a small bag, holding it with his right hand. On the left hand he is holding a beautiful white rose. It means the willingness to scarify and devotion to the spiritual path of life.
Look at his face directed forward and up to the sky, they are full of inspiration, vision and confidence in the current moment. He is free of fear but also innocence because he isn’t aware of the fact that bad things might happen during the unknown journey.
He is standing on the hill, one step before the deadly abyss, caught in the moment. He trusts the universe that everything will turn on the right and positive side. The white dog is barking and jumping, trying to warn him about the chasm. The snowy white mountains and hills from behind also represent a potential slippery outcomes.
The fool is in movement, he is not just standing there, he took the first step and willing to take many more steps in order to complete the journey. In the end he is seeking meaningful spirituality, to be developed to a higher self. However, right now he doesn’t know exactly how to achieve it. There is no plan, no logical calculations, not even knowledge nor experience. Just the element of fire – the burning desire to go forward.
When we look at the fool’s face we can’t really recognize if it’s a man or a woman. That interpretation means it has both the male and female energies, working together in symbiosis.
The fool tarot card meaning as Personality (Persona)
The fool is a free spirit that has no worries, doesn’t always aware of dangerous and the consequences of his action, too impulsive, acting before thinking. This is why the fool needs help when making big decisions.
He is just like a little kid who is very curious and loves to explore everything about the world. He knows he will make mistakes and it will hurt a lot. Yet it doesn’t stop him from taking an action. He likes the experiences of life whether they are good or even bad. He can learn from each situation and grow wiser and stronger. His main goal is to go after the possibility, even if it doesn’t look very clear or doable at the current phase.
The art of celebrating the joy of life. Admiring the beautifulness of the little things, very positive, optimistic and looking at the bright side.
Flexible, can adapt to most situation. He doesn’t have a solid philosophy or principle he must apply, other than been carefree. He still doesn’t have a strong personality and foundations. He is waiting to be shaped by the future experiences.
He is new to this world; he doesn’t always play by the social norms or cultural rules. Mainly because the fool doesn’t knows the meaning of most of them yet. But after the experience is gained the personality will be shaped on the positive way.
What does the fool card mean in love and relationship reading?
The fool card in love and relationships is meaning a huge surprise. You might encounter your lover in a sequence of events that you never would predict, out of the blue. For example, a new stranger that comes into town, new neighbour or new work colleague.
It can also indicate that there is a person that is close to you, but you haven’t really thought you two are compatible in terms of romance, or can go along together because you two have different personality traits. You will suddenly realise that it can happen.
When it comes to a new relationship there is a lot of excitement in the air, meaning fresh positive energy and optimism. While it might give you good feelings and joy, you also need to be caution a bit. You don’t see the whole picture and what you can’t see might hurt you.
There will be warning signs and it is advised to take in consideration every weird signal into consideration. Your friends and family might have an opinion about your new love relationship, please note that they are not jealous or want things to go wrong for you. They just care that everything will work on the good path.
Don’t be too much swept of your feet, in the end you will have to face reality. What you think about a certain man or woman and what is going on in real life are two different things. Once you encounter the polarity between the two, you might be very disappointed.
If what you are looking for is a long term relationship like marriage, than this is not a good tarot card. The fool’s journey tarot card is indicating the beginning but not the middle and the end. Things will change or develop. If you want this to success there is still a lot of work to be done. The person you are seeing right now is not looking for a commitment. Maybe in the future it will change.
If you are a woman the fool tarot card also stand for fertility. It might predict a pregnancy – start of a new life.
The fool tarot card meaning in work, career and money
New possibilities are coming in your way. This is the time to take action and do what you always wanted. Maybe you always wanted to change your career, maybe you want to work somewhere else or maybe to have your own business.
The main interpretation or meaning is that you need to go with what you believe in, even if there will be hard times during that period. Some people will not like what you are doing, they will try to stop you and change your mind. Situations like this need to be balance. On the one hand it’s good to listen to them, because they have other point of view and might teach you new perspective. On the other way don’t let it to discourage you from achieving the goal.
Understand that making a change related to work and money has its own risks. You can find yourself unemployed for a while or even loosing money. But when we are looking at the long term of the journey, in most cases there will be a success.
The fool tarot card meaning health
Regarding health, the fool tarot card meaning is good physical conditions.
If you were sick before, the interpretation is that the illness might begin to disappear and you suppose to feel much better.
Another possible meaning and interpretation is regarding to health is physical accident. As you may very well know by now, the fool is taking risks without thinking about them too much. The fool is on the verge of the cliff and if something will go wrong he will slip down.
Is the fool a good tarot card or is it bad?
Basically the fool’s journey is a good tarot card, as the main meaning is a new beginning. Usually when we have something new in our life, it is exciting, gives us good feeling and very interesting and intriguing. At this moment we pay attention only to the good and positive aspects of the event. We normally drawn to the situation, don’t think too much about it and we don’t want to ruin it, just flow with the current.
However, nothing is perfect and you also need to be aware of dangerous situations that are a head of you. There will be warning signs of bad energies. Therefore the best practice is no keep an eye on what is going on.
Does the fool tarot card mean yes or no?
The fool’s journey tarot card is usually neutral. The card is symbolizing something fresh and new possibilities. It can turn bad or good depending or the steps you take during your journey. More often than not it is interpreted as a yes card.
The fool’s journey tarot card upright meaning
Upright keywords: new beginnings, freedom, originality, foolishness, spontaneity, travel, adventure, leap of faith, careless, innocence.
The upright meaning of the fool tarot card is about taking risks in order to improve your situation and gain more of what you really want in life. Every one of us has certain desires and personal goals that we want to pursue. So if this card show up in a psychic reading than it is a good time to start a new adventure.
You have to be brave and face your inner demons and fears. Although the card is generally positive, the road to happiness is not easy and you will encounter some problems. From that reason it is very crucial that you will have faith and believe in yourself. Believe that you can do it, even if right now it is not very clear how, you will find the solution. Even if everyone around advice or telling you that you will fail, don’t listen to them too much and go only with your inner true.
Don’t look back on past experiences. Even if you had bad moments, don’t let them hold you from changing your situation. Remember the lessons you have learned and just keep on go forward all the way.
The fool’s journey tarot card reversed meaning
Reversed keywords: lack of direction, chaos, naive, reckless, lack of direction, poor judgement
When the tarot card is being spread upside down (reversed), it means that you jumped too far without thinking about the implications of your action, this might put you in trouble. As shown graphically in the fool tarot card, he is standing right before the cliff. Every big step or reckless movement can bring him to death.
Even if the fool tarot card is showing in reversed it still means a new beginning, but something is holding you back. For example it can be fear of the unknown future, failure and inability to make decisions.
The reversed meaning in love and relationship: if you are single than you are not ready for a long term relationships, you will not find term partner. If you are already seen someone that he or she doesn’t ready to make a commitment. They just want to have fun and fool around.
With money and career, when the tarot card is reversed, beware that no one is taking an advantage or you. For example someone can offer you a bad business idea or shady investment opportunity. And in the end you will lose lots of money.
The fool tarot card meaning in past, present and future
When we relate to the past, the meaning of the fool tarot card is that you have wasted lots of time and energies on people or work or relationships that you are no longer interested in. you had enough with all of this and you are looking for something different.
The present: right now you need a change, you don’t know if it will turn out to be good or bad. You are standing on a crossroad, you need to make a choice and just go for it. Things are looking too complicated right now, this is fine and you will have to address those issues but not right now. The most important thing is that you’ll move on to the desired direction.
The future: the fool tarot card is mainly concern about the present moment. But it can give us a little projection on the future as well. In the future you will have to invent yourself, adapt and be very flexible. When you will see a new opportunity, don’t hesitate and don’t go back to your old habits, which are holding you back.
The fool tarot card number meaning
The fool tarot card is a part of the whole 22 major arcana cards. It referred to key number 0 (zero), meaning the first in the deck. But it can also be placed at the end – key number 22. Because of that fact, the fool symbolizing the beginning and the end of a life cycle. Further more, the cycle is endless so in theory it goes in never-ending loop forever and ever, repeat itself to the eternity.
During our life, we will go through the 21 keys or elements of the fool’s journey. We will meet people who will teach us lessons about life. We will change our behaviour and feelings in order to continue with the journey. So in the end we will go back to the very first place that it was all begun, but now we are different in the way that we are wiser and stronger. It is more like spiritual voyage of self discovery.
The word fool in French language means a sack that is full of air, not with material objects. This is the reason why everything is possible even if it doesn’t seem so. It is also a symbol of triumph.
The number zero in numerology represents no limitation and lots of positive options to choose from. It is nothing and yet it is also everything together. The order of the numbers doesn’t apply to zero, as it all start afterwards. So there is no past for the fool, only future.
22 innumerology is great transformation energy. It is the ability to turn dreams and wishes to come true to the world of reality.
The fool tarot card astrological zodiac sign
The fool tarot card astrological zodiac signs are Aquarius and Pisces.
Aquarius is the 11th zodiac in astrology, mainly represents the element of water. Liquid flow that travel on earth. Strong current of water that can creates its own path by shaping rivers, lakes and the bottom of the ocean. Always on the move, looking for new adventure and can get bored really quick.
Pisces is a dreamer very much like the fool’s personality from the tarot card. They want to go somewhere, but they can’t decide what the right direction for them is. They have this conflict as depict in the zodiac sign – two fish, each one of them is swimming to another side. Pisces are also very emotional and control by their feelings.
In astrology the role of Uranus planet is to be like a clock, to awake us and get us doing things. This is very similar to the fool’s situation as described in the tarot card. There is some burning flame of fire inside of him that wouldn’t let him rest until he will find his answers. It is a call to take immediate action.
The fool tarot card meaning as feelings
As feelings, the fool’s journey tarot card gives us positive feelings. In most cases the answers to you questions are yes, there are good energies and positive vibes surrounding you. Even if the tarot card show in reversed it is still have bigger aspect of positivity with a minor challenge that stands in your way. In fact, it the ancient days of psychic reading the card was actually a joker – the most powerful item in the deck.
The fool tarot card art and history
Long time ago when tarot cards were used as a game and not for psychic reading, the fool’s card was the most powerful card in the deck. He was outside of the order and if you had it, you could protect and win the game.
Few hundreds year later the art of this tarot card was described more as someone who has unwanted personality in society, and therefore he lost all his magic and power. People didn’t want to associate themselves with this image. It was considered a negative energy and bad omen from the future. It symbolized unsuccessful life, misfortune and tormeneted feelings.
Later on, the fool’s image became a man of courage. Until that very day, the fool’s is still the hero card on the tarot deck. Although he is numbered 0 (zero) which mean nothing, he denotes new journey and possibilities, which is everything we need.
In many myths, legends and folklore story through history, the fool is actually the wisest person of all. He might look a little different or simple or even out of the common norms, but he knows better. Although at the beginning he didn’t had too much wisdom, his actions and failures through life, brought him new experiences and valuable lessons to learn from. All of this could happen just because of one thing: he wasn’t afraid to take the risk.
In fact, those who are dismissing him or don’t understand him, are the real fools because they don’t know how much wisdom he has to offer to the world.
Other names for the fool tarot card: joker, jester, clown, buffoon, folie, fov, il matto, le fou, and le mat.
Feel free to write your thoughts or questions in the comments below. I'd love to hear from you!
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2024.05.14 18:03 Fantastic-Tap66 Advice from decent sized construction business owners

I am 18yo male, just graduated high school. My dad owns a decent sized construction LLC as a general contractor. We both have intentions of me taking over the business later on. As of now I plan on doing an online CM degree through LSU maybe (I heard theirs is very good) and I plan on working during this (looking at sales as of now). My overall plan is to make the company much bigger and maybe even stopping the general contractor stuff. My dads business as of now consist of fairly old traditions and we have around 15 employees(contractors) who all can do basically different things, but I want it to grow, I feel we are limiting ourselves as of now. I would like to progress towards an area that is growing rapidly (north lake,Texas area) and get much more business. I would like them to post on job apps offering people positions so we can get a head start and not wait. So my question is, what can I do to prepare for my future role, and what should I do to learn most I can and be successful, I know I need to start making connections and a name for the company, I also feel like we need to start getting more modernized now. Any advice from business owners or people who know a lot about the industry, I know I’m in a good position and I have bigger goals then just making the company big, I want to do big big things like maybe multiple businesses. But this is where I need to start. Thank yall.
Ps: I have worked for my dads business every summer and breaks for like 4-5 years, the sales role I’m looking at is for a large commercial remodeling company
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2024.05.14 18:03 Fantastic-Tap66 Advice from decent size construction business owners or future owners

Advice from decent sized residential construction business owners
I am 18yo male, just graduated high school. My dad owns a decent sized construction LLC as a general contractor. We both have intentions of me taking over the business later on. As of now I plan on doing an online CM degree through LSU maybe (I heard theirs is very good) and I plan on working during this (looking at sales as of now). My overall plan is to make the company much bigger and maybe even stopping the general contractor stuff. My dads business as of now consist of fairly old traditions and we have around 15 employees(contractors) who all can do basically different things, but I want it to grow, I feel we are limiting ourselves as of now. I would like to progress towards an area that is growing rapidly (north lake,Texas area) and get much more business. I would like them to post on job apps offering people positions so we can get a head start and not wait. So my question is, what can I do to prepare for my future role, and what should I do to learn most I can and be successful, I know I need to start making connections and a name for the company, I also feel like we need to start getting more modernized now. Any advice from business owners or people who know a lot about the industry, I know I’m in a good position and I have bigger goals then just making the company big, I want to do big big things like maybe multiple businesses. But this is where I need to start. Thank yall.
Ps: I have worked for my dads business every summer and breaks for like 4-5 years, the sales role I’m looking at is for a large commercial remodeling company
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