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I (28f) am seeing a longtime friend (28m) of an ex (27m). I'm unsure if we're doing anything wrong or if it's all just too complicated.
I (28f) started talking to an old mutual friend (28m), let's call him Scott, of an ex (27m), let's call him Logan, from high school/early undergraduate. I broke up with Logan after about 2 and a half years of dating. The breakup was not mutual and he had asked me to marry him a few weeks prior. I ended up calling things off because he was becoming physically abusive and controlling and we were moving too fast for our ages. The relationship was toxic and I know I didn't help to alleviate any issues we had. We would get into spats often and I had horrible anger management back then. He isolated me from my friend groups and even his own at a point. His parents bought us a house in a larger city. I say "us" but it was always meant for him. It was one of those "we were already looking for a house for him but since you're dating, you can both live there and start a family," type of things. Long story short, it was a lot of developing and conflicting things happening in the span of our relationship. This was about 9 years ago. I started dating someone else about a year later but that didn't last for similar reasons, and he was a lot older. Logan had found out about that and harassed me for the entirety of that relationship, not knowing it was just as bad as my relationship with him. Cops wouldn't listen when I wanted to file a report and didn't even want to look at the evidence I had, text, phone record and emails. It was just all around bad.
Now, I'm finishing up my post baccalaureate and I started chatting and going on dates with Scott for about a month. Scott was friends with another guy I dated for an incredibly short time in high school before Logan and was part of Logan's friend circle. Scott and Logan have been passive friends for years and are still in some amount of contact. Scott had no idea about Logan's treatment of me as he went to college in another city before coming back to town and nobody told him. I doubt many of his friend group were even aware, which I don't blame them. So, its just that extra layer of removal from the situation. We talked about their closeness on our first date and he assured me that they were never that close. He even informed me of him hearing about something similar happening with someone Logan dated recently. So, he wasn't all that surprised, but he doesn't know the full extent either, just bits.
Where I'm concerned if there's a line being crossed is that Scott is pretty close to Logan's best friend (m28), let's call him Bobby. Bobby and Scott still talk and even hangout when they can, but Bobby is still very close to Logan and always had been, even when Logan is in a totally different city. Scott and I have been taking things slow, but we are both realizing this may end up as a long-term relationship but we're still feeling things out. Scott knows he's going to have to sit Bobby and other friends, from the old group that he still talks to, down and tell them that we're dating, when things become official. It's still too soon to do that, but we felt it best to discuss the possibility of him having to do that. I've told Scott that I don't want to come between him and his friends. He's made it clear that he doesn't care but I don't want him to be isolated from his friends like I had been.
I really like Scott. He seems to really like me too. Things are still new and fresh so they could sour but we both hope that doesn't happen. We are doing our best to communicate with each other and share our needs. We plan on continuing to see each other and even more during the summer, we're both educators, and know if that goes well, then the talk will have to happen. But, are we crossing a line that shouldn't be crossed?
I didn't get many answers when i posted on rrelationshipadvice. However, Scott is starting to have doubts about the relationship. We've been spending more time together and even started little traditions. Nothing big but just starting series together and trying new restaurants together. He told me that during the quiet and slow times when he can start acknowledging or seeing us as a couple that he can't help but think about his relationships with Bobby and his other friends. He mentioned that he has gone on vacations and trips with Bobby and Bobby's friends and often those vacations include Logan because they're so close. They're planning to take a trip next month and Logan will more than likely be joining them. I told him that I wouldn't go with him because of Logan and I wouldn't stop him from going. I also told him that he can't unknow what he's knows about Logan. He agreed that he doesn't know how he'll feel when he sees Logan again but he knows if Logan finds out that we're dating he will cut off all ties with him and Bobby will follow him, Logan. He said it may cause a kind of divide between the friend group over his relationship with me. I reiterated that I don't want to come between him and his friends. He asked if I would be hurt if he ended up ending our relationship and I was honest with him. I told him that I would be hurt but that shouldn't make him want to stay with me. He needs to decide that for himself. I told him he needs to think it over and really decide for himself where he wants to take this. It's only been 2 months so it wouldn't be a huge deal, in a time sense. I just really like him but now I'm starting to have doubts with how much of his life is reliant on these guys. It could just be because it's me but I don't know that for sure.
We met up this past week and had a talk. He was ready to end things but he seemed to not want to say it. When I asked why, he said it was indeed because of his relationship with Logan. He made it seem like it wasn't a super close relationship at first but now it's sounding like it was close enough for him to feel some amount of guilt. I told him I was more hurt that he was choosing to continue a friendship with someone who actively hurts women, as I'm not the only one Logan has hurt, but the other woman didn't seem as hurt, if that makes sense. I also told him I didn't blame him because they were friends longer than we were seeing each other and that I know everything is complicated. We kept talking and he started voicing more that he wants me in the picture and hopes I can win his friends over. He asked if I could ever make amends with Logan and I said "no." I explained why, which was a lot of what the reasons why we broke up in the first place, but I wasn't explicit with what exactly happened. I didn't want to share because a part of me felt like it was still not the place to do so. He asked me if I could wait until he gets back from his trip and sees if 1) Logan shows any remorse, 2) See Logan period, and 3) See if Bobby would be adult enough to see why he wants to date me. He wants me to be his girlfriend but has said he needs a break until he can do all of those things.
Any advice?

So, My dad is a businessman who runs hotels, service apartments, and restaurants primarily for Japanese clients in India. His friends are also business people. Despite his success, he's always been straightforward and never uses underhanded tactics. Until April 2022, everything was going well.
In April 2022, a friend proposed that my dad invest in a high-energy bar, promising it would be highly profitable. My dad, not knowing much about the Indian hospitality business, was taken to several successful high-energy bars by his friend. These bars had the latest interiors, great sound systems, and excellent staff, which convinced my dad of the business potential.
The deal was that my dad would invest 60% of the money, and his friend would put in 40%, handling the construction and management. My dad trusted his friend completely. However, the friend used outdated interiors and overbilled my dad, making the total cost seem much higher than it was. This allowed the friend to recover his investment and gain 40% ownership for free. For the management, he hired mediocre staff and installed a subpar sound system.
Initially, the bar showed losses. For example, if the real loss was ₹50, he would report it as ₹120, pocketing the difference. He then sold 15% of his shares to one person and 5% to another, making money from these sales. By the time I returned to India, the bar was in a bad state.
I discovered the mismanagement and exposed it to my dad. At first, he denied it, but after I showed him proof, he believed me. I suggested he take a step back and let me handle the bar. He agreed, but insisted on investing more money and running the place himself initially. After two months of declining sales, he gave up.
I then proposed converting the bar into a techno club, as there was a high demand for techno clubs in our city. I reached out to Mr. Xyz , a veteran in the industry with 20-25 years of experience, and hired him as a consultant. We started hosting techno nights and saw an initial increase in sales. We believed we would start seeing profits by June.
Despite early successes, two major events resulted in significant losses. We had planned these events carefully, conducting polls to choose popular artists and putting together the best line-up in town. We had a guest list of around 150 people and sold some tickets, but unexpectedly, only 35-40 people showed up for these high-budget shows, each costing us ₹2.5 lakhs in artist fees.
Following these failures, my dad decided to shut down the club, accusing me of scamming him. This accusation was devastating. I had been working tirelessly without any personal gain, balancing college, his other businesses, and the club. My aim was to hear him say he was proud of me, not to profit from him.
Now, I face the collapse of my efforts and my reputation. I have to cancel commitments with artists and event companies, which will damage my market value. My dad's accusation has left me feeling hopeless. I never intended to scam him; I was only trying to help. I need guidance on how to move forward and prove my genuine intentions.

Guys, before you downvote this to oblivion I need you to be big boys/girls and at least try to be objective; Understand that the nature of DFV should have nothing to do with the main thesis of this sub. Now, with that said, I have to share with you what I think the sad truth of last week is: He knew his initial tweet would pump the stock; He bought before the tweet and sold at some point after.
If you look at the memes he spells it out: “Roaring kitty is the villian”. He ran (Forrest Gump). “You’re still here? It’s over.” (Ferris Bueler) “He can’t run with us.” (Bourne Identity) He literally drives into a tunnel labeled “exit strategy” and emerges from the car without Lola (us). He is Alladin (only out for himself). He is the Big Lebowski (again only out for himself). ET (he left us behind to go to the green planet). He is Tyler Durden (a piece of shit who takes advantage of vulnerable people that worship him). He kills a Day Trader (no country for old men). What’s in the box? — Brad Pitts (us) wife’s head. He posted multiple double cross memes. He’s Parzival, we go forward while he goes back. The “zen master” meme is him saying “let this be a lesson”. In the “Few Good Men” meme he’s justifying the pump and dump in saying this was always his show to begin with and we aren’t entitled to anything.
The Kansas City Shuffle is the share hypothecation (the fake swindle), the real swindle is the pump and dump. He was born in “the other sub”, and frankly this is the most “other sub” thing he could do.
I hate to love to say that it’s hilarious and beautiful in a dark way; “It’s art and he’s not about to dumb it down for a mass audience”.
Edit: To all those hating me and licking his balls right now. He predicted this with the talk show meme where the lady chooses to “stick by him” despite him being a POS. (The meme where kitty is slumped in the chair and points at the camera)

Hello everyone. I enjoy the INTJ community very much and need some help in deciding if I am INTJ or not. I am a 35 yo male, married, one toddler with another on the way. Like most of you, I have read countless articles, columns, descriptions, a couple of books on MBTI and the cognitive functions. Taking many MBTI tests and my first test I scored as an ISTP, but I am not good with my hands, not athletic, don't like fighting, working with cars, etc. I So I kept testing and got INTP.
But if I am being honest, I don't like reading all that much. Im not that nerdy and I have pretty good fashion sense. I like nice things. I skim over reading until I find what I deem is what I am looking for and use it. When building furniture, I like to follow instructions until I have done something several times. Then I will use build by memory and/or my gut. I research topics all the time such as the best restaurants in a city I am visiting. I am into checking out historical places to visit or places of prestige, importance over just going to were people are amassed and partying/socializing.
I don't really have any friends at them moment. I feel like people have let me down in the past. In the past, the only way I feel I could get friends was to fake being more extroverted, easy going, funny and a lover of drinking. But this has attracted a bunch of sensors which I spent most of my energy on rather quickly and need to retreat. When I retreat, I usually watch tv shows/movies, play my videos games or go for a drive and listen to podcasts like Joe rogan. Other leisure time is spent on reddit/internet.
I am always looking on improving my lifestyle, my status quo. I am not satisfied for too long. For instance, when I purchase a car, I am immediately within months thinking of what is the next best car I can get. It has to be a little sportier, a little more prestiges, and definitely has to be faster than the last.
I don't like small talk, and drama and gossip is infuriating and annoying to me. I constantly get upset when my loved ones don't heed my advice or what it is I am saying. I tell my wife, sister and Mom all the time that they should be careful and prepare for their futures by investing money more and spending less. My senior mother is a recent victim of catfishing and I felt immediately I had to step in and help clean up the mess and build her back up. My father passed away and my sister isn't of much help with this so I help my Mom. I have gone on quite a bit and understand that I need more detail but thanks for reading some of this. Appreciate the help. What made you decide you were INTJ?
TL/DR
I am questioning myMBTI type, initially testing as ISTP and INTP, but not fully identifying with either. I prefer practical research over extensive reading, enjoy solitary activities, and value self-improvement and status. I dislike small talk and drama, and often advise loved ones on financial matters. What made you decide you were INTJ?

So, My dad is a businessman who runs hotels, service apartments, and restaurants primarily for Japanese clients in India. His friends are also business people. Despite his success, he's always been straightforward and never uses underhanded tactics. Until April 2022, everything was going well.
In April 2022, a friend proposed that my dad invest in a high-energy bar, promising it would be highly profitable. My dad, not knowing much about the Indian hospitality business, was taken to several successful high-energy bars by his friend. These bars had the latest interiors, great sound systems, and excellent staff, which convinced my dad of the business potential.
The deal was that my dad would invest 60% of the money, and his friend would put in 40%, handling the construction and management. My dad trusted his friend completely. However, the friend used outdated interiors and overbilled my dad, making the total cost seem much higher than it was. This allowed the friend to recover his investment and gain 40% ownership for free. For the management, he hired mediocre staff and installed a subpar sound system.
Initially, the bar showed losses. For example, if the real loss was ₹50, he would report it as ₹120, pocketing the difference. He then sold 15% of his shares to one person and 5% to another, making money from these sales. By the time I returned to India, the bar was in a bad state.
I discovered the mismanagement and exposed it to my dad. At first, he denied it, but after I showed him proof, he believed me. I suggested he take a step back and let me handle the bar. He agreed, but insisted on investing more money and running the place himself initially. After two months of declining sales, he gave up.
I then proposed converting the bar into a techno club, as there was a high demand for techno clubs in our city. I reached out to Mr. Xyz , a veteran in the industry with 20-25 years of experience, and hired him as a consultant. We started hosting techno nights and saw an initial increase in sales. We believed we would start seeing profits by June.
Despite early successes, two major events resulted in significant losses. We had planned these events carefully, conducting polls to choose popular artists and putting together the best line-up in town. We had a guest list of around 150 people and sold some tickets, but unexpectedly, only 35-40 people showed up for these high-budget shows, each costing us ₹2.5 lakhs in artist fees.
Following these failures, my dad decided to shut down the club, accusing me of scamming him. This accusation was devastating. I had been working tirelessly without any personal gain, balancing college, his other businesses, and the club. My aim was to hear him say he was proud of me, not to profit from him.
Now, I face the collapse of my efforts and my reputation. I have to cancel commitments with artists and event companies, which will damage my market value. My dad's accusation has left me feeling hopeless. I never intended to scam him; I was only trying to help. I need guidance on how to move forward and prove my genuine intentions.

So, My dad is a businessman who runs hotels, service apartments, and restaurants primarily for Japanese clients in India. His friends are also business people. Despite his success, he's always been straightforward and never uses underhanded tactics. Until April 2022, everything was going well.
In April 2022, a friend proposed that my dad invest in a high-energy bar, promising it would be highly profitable. My dad, not knowing much about the Indian hospitality business, was taken to several successful high-energy bars by his friend. These bars had the latest interiors, great sound systems, and excellent staff, which convinced my dad of the business potential.
The deal was that my dad would invest 60% of the money, and his friend would put in 40%, handling the construction and management. My dad trusted his friend completely. However, the friend used outdated interiors and overbilled my dad, making the total cost seem much higher than it was. This allowed the friend to recover his investment and gain 40% ownership for free. For the management, he hired mediocre staff and installed a subpar sound system.
Initially, the bar showed losses. For example, if the real loss was ₹50, he would report it as ₹120, pocketing the difference. He then sold 15% of his shares to one person and 5% to another, making money from these sales. By the time I returned to India, the bar was in a bad state.
I discovered the mismanagement and exposed it to my dad. At first, he denied it, but after I showed him proof, he believed me. I suggested he take a step back and let me handle the bar. He agreed, but insisted on investing more money and running the place himself initially. After two months of declining sales, he gave up.
I then proposed converting the bar into a techno club, as there was a high demand for techno clubs in our city. I reached out to Mr. Xyz , a veteran in the industry with 20-25 years of experience, and hired him as a consultant. We started hosting techno nights and saw an initial increase in sales. We believed we would start seeing profits by June.
Despite early successes, two major events resulted in significant losses. We had planned these events carefully, conducting polls to choose popular artists and putting together the best line-up in town. We had a guest list of around 150 people and sold some tickets, but unexpectedly, only 35-40 people showed up for these high-budget shows, each costing us ₹2.5 lakhs in artist fees.
Following these failures, my dad decided to shut down the club, accusing me of scamming him. This accusation was devastating. I had been working tirelessly without any personal gain, balancing college, his other businesses, and the club. My aim was to hear him say he was proud of me, not to profit from him.
Now, I face the collapse of my efforts and my reputation. I have to cancel commitments with artists and event companies, which will damage my market value. My dad's accusation has left me feeling hopeless. I never intended to scam him; I was only trying to help. I need guidance on how to move forward and prove my genuine intentions.

Sorry for any redundancy
My partner got into Tulane med school and we will be moving to New Orleans at the end July!
We’re super excited but know very little about the area. Would love recommendations on where we should look for our first apartment. Mainly looking for an area that’s a good New Orleans newbie area to get the lay of the land but also take advantage of all of the great food bars and restaurants that the city has to offer! So far have been recommended Lower garden, marigny, and bywater but looking to crowdsource further.
Added background: We’re both 29 and moving from Brooklyn

hi everyone- always get great tips here. We are doing a 9 day Italy trip - 3 cities - Rome, Sorrento area, and Florence. Pretty excited and have most everything planned (wow a decent amount of work, but fun!). The only thing I haven't done yet is reserve restaurants -- this trips starts June 24th. I certainly dont want to book every restaurant early (do I?) but I thought at least 1-3 awesome restaurants I dont want to miss (assuming Im not too late) -- so any recommendations? - we are traveling with 4 people which include 2 teenagers -- we like nice dining at dinner to top off the day!

Videos like this really help with my flight anxiety. I tell myself if Noel Phillips can fly from Dallas to Little Rock to Las Vegas to Long Beach to Kansas City to Houston for a video then I can make one flight from point A to point B and land safely.

Hi there! Partner and I are moving to London and looking to sublease our 2 bed / 2 bath. The landlord approved us finding new tenants. You will still have to be approved by Savills.
The dates: August 1 - Dec 1, and you’ll be given an option to renew the lease. *IF you need to move in July 1st, we can find temporary accommodation to make the move in easier for you.
Description pulled from Savills: 5 South William Street is a development of three exceptional apartments situated off Grafton Street, in the heart of Dublin City Centre. Occupying a prime position at the junction of South William Street, Exchequer Street and Wicklow Street, the location of this attractive period building is second to none. There are countless amenities on its doorstep including popular cafes, trendy bars and exceptional restaurants. The apartments are spacious, light-filled and fully furnished, with two bedrooms and two bathrooms. There are high ceilings throughout and the kitchen living room provides ample space for dual day and nighttime use. Accommodation: Entrance hall, kitchen / living / dining, two bedrooms, and bathrooms.
Price: €3057
I have pics I can send via WhatsApp. But serious inquiries only.

Happy Sunday, everyone. I've been thinking about the Karma Police meme. If you've never seen the music video for Karma Police, give it a watch. And if you have seen it, give it a watch again. It's a very simple video but incredibly poignant. Notice the color scheme, note what he puts behind his back. It's a pack of matches. When he is completely exhausted, in tatters, and falling down after being chased incessantly, he gets an opportunity to save himself. Note that DFV cuts off the video before he lights the match. You barely get a glimpse of what’s in his hand. What's the match? By the way, he's sharing this song from OK Computer.
It also has Kansas City Shuffle vibes. At first, you think the Karma Police are chasing the man running, but ultimately, Karma isn’t a person, it’s a force. And it catches up with whoever is driving the car. The ragged man, who you never expect to be the victor, wins.
I also remembered a quote from Thom Yorke about Karma Police: "Karma is important. The idea that something like karma exists makes me happy. It makes me smile. "Karma Police" is dedicated to everyone who works for a big firm. It's a song against the bosses."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1uYWYWPc9HU

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