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2024.05.19 00:12 DragonFeyAni [Exodus][FC][LFM] Small, socially active guild. We're an online friend group made of randos from all over; super easy to integrate yourself into and we're always happy to welcome new friends.
Finding a quality guild you click with can be hard and so even though we never want to be a massive 300+ member guild, we’re almost always openly recruiting because you never know when you’ll meet that next awesome friend!
Nocturnal Dragons of Exodus server is a small, fun, active group of players who enjoy running content together, hanging out, and chatting. Even when ff14 is slow (end of an expansion or patch), we still get together regularly and do other things like party games or co-op games. Our little family came together over time and from all around the world so don’t worry about not fitting in because we’d love to welcome you into our home!
What you’re looking for:
Usual Playtimes: 5pm-2am EST Current Members: 18 active peeps Looking for: players from all backgrounds, we're very accepting Recruiting: roughly 20 more members, we don't want to be big
My discord: DragonFeyAni feel free to ask me any questions, I’m always happy to answer.
Disclaimer: I might miss your msg if you reach out to me on reddit. I'm easier reached on discord or in game.
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Nocturnal Dragons of Exodus server is a small, fun, active group of players who enjoy running content together, hanging out, and chatting. Even when ff14 is slow (end of an expansion or patch), we still get together regularly and do other things like party games or co-op games. Our little family came together over time and from all around the world so don’t worry about not fitting in because we’d love to welcome you into our home!
What you’re looking for:
- Small guild, friendly people
- Active members, both socially and game-wise
- Regular events to participate in
- Help to grow as a player - our members are happy to help you, you just have to ask
- Use of Discord - We use Discord for events, chat, sharing stuff, and to do callouts for content
- Slow growth - Lead up to a new expansion is always slow in game, so recruiting is also slow
- Game guides put together and easily accessible to help you with just about anything
- A simple Rank system that uses your story progress instead of arbitrary points for promotions
- Chill atmosphere; talk is easy in the guild and we don’t have any hard play requirements
- Helpful members; our vets are happy to help you learn content or even an unfamiliar class
- All inclusive; we don’t tolerate bigotry, racism, sexism, or anything else negative like that
Usual Playtimes: 5pm-2am EST Current Members: 18 active peeps Looking for: players from all backgrounds, we're very accepting Recruiting: roughly 20 more members, we don't want to be big
My discord: DragonFeyAni feel free to ask me any questions, I’m always happy to answer.
Disclaimer: I might miss your msg if you reach out to me on reddit. I'm easier reached on discord or in game.
2024.05.19 00:11 TPSD2024 Need advice on cat problem
Me (23M) and my ex gf (22F) shared a cat together and we recently broke up and I had the cat. We were gonna bring the cat back as I didn’t want the drama but when we were taking her to the vehicle she got scared(she’s always been an anxious cat. She’ll even just poop if you carry her outside) but anyways she scratched me with sharp ass claws and got free and ran. We tried chasing her but she booked it into the alley way and under a neighbors fence. And was gone, but the issue is that she is saying the cat is hers and she wants her back. What can I do to make sure I don’t get in trouble, I was just trying to return her and she ran away. She was also free from the shelter if that helps.
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2024.05.19 00:11 angim350 You friendly barmaid comforts you following the loss of a pet [ASMR Roleplay] [F4A] [grief] [comfort] [sweet] [kindness of strangers]
Hey all!
My second (much shorter) script!
This is based on real events. My childhood dog was put to sleep when I was sat in a bar one time, and the barmaid who served me was so lovely to me about it. She had some mutual friends that I knew and posted about me on Facebook afterwards. I never forgot how nice she was, and was really sad to learn she died a few years back in a car accident :(
In honour of her, and the kindness of strangers, I put together this little script below.
I doubt anyone will want to, but open for YouTube/Patreon etc and monetization. Just credit and link to me :)
Sound of clinking glasses. Maybe some background noise but the bar isn’t too busy.
Barmaid
Hey, what can I get you? Pint of lager? Sure thing, coming up.
Sound of pint being poured.
Barmaid
There you go. [specifies the price – the currency of your country] Thankyou.
Sound of drink being drunk quickly.
Barmaid
Are you okay? Sorry, don’t mean to pry, but you look a little down.
Sound of a phone ringing. More clinking glasses for a second.
Barmaid
A shock of straight whisky? Urm, okay. Here you go. Look, are you sure you’re okay? It’s just, you’re on your own, it’s midday, and you’re downing whisky. Plus, don’t often see people your age in here.
(softly)
You may have noticed, our cliental is a bit older than you.
(louder)
No offence, Brian. You still look no older than 50!
(softly)
I swear that guy was coming in here before they invented the TV.
Sound of a drink being drunk quick. A bit of a gasp.
Barmaid
Yeah, that stuff is pretty grim on it’s own. Would you like some water? What was that? Oh no, really? I’m so sorry hon.
(voice softens)
When did it happen? Just now? That was your Dad on the phone? Oh, honey, that’s really sad. I don’t think a lot of people fully appreciate how much pets are a big part of our life. Here, let me get you some water.
Sound of water being poured.
Barmaid
There you go. Drink that. Trust me. You’re too young to be downing whisky like this. It’s okay, you can have a little cry if you want. Nobody’s going to mind here. We’re really not that busy. I just need to dry these glasses.
(beat)
Nope, I don’t have a pet. My arsehole landlord won’t allow them! My mum has a cat though. To be honest, he’s a right vicious sod. Scratched my arm last week. But she loves him to bits. He gets better food than I do! Was yours a cat, or… a dog? Aww, I love dogs! They’re tying, but they bring so much love to a house. What breed was yours?
(beat)
A boxer girl? Aww, they’re awesome dogs! So funny. Great with kids. I’m guessing you were young when you got her?
(beat)
10? Aww man, I’m jealous. I always wanted a dog but mum always said no. Said they were too messy, but I could have a goldfish. Won one at a fair once. Ended up down the toilet two days later. Sorry, I know I’m rambling on. Do you want to be alone?
(beat)
Well, I’m just here then. You can tell me about your girl if you like. What was her name?
(beat)
Sorry, I misheard… Crotchet? That’s an, urm, unusual name. If you don’t mind me asking… oh, you mean like the music note? Ahh I see! You play piano? Your sister’s idea, eh? No, it isn’t silly! Come on, my mum’s cat is called Miss Kitty Fantastico. Yeah, really. No, I don’t know either.
(beat)
You got her when she was eight weeks old? Aww I bet she was so cute! Yeah, I’d love to see a photo! Aww, look at her! I bet she followed you guys around everywhere! I can see her in the sea there with you two! Dogs love swimming, don’t they? Oh, boxers not really a big fan of it? Looks like she didn’t want to leave you guys alone in the scary water then! Bet you’ve got lots of stories about her. What, a ‘famous poop’?
(beat)
Oh my god, no way! So your mum picked her up mid-poop to try and stop her? Bet it went all over her carpet! Haha, I’m not surprised she was fuming! Sure she was a good girl when she got older, though?
(beat)
Haha really? She just sat down mid-walk and refused to move? You know, my uncle had an old lab once that used to do that. They’d get half way up a hill near his house and his dog would just sit and stare at him. He wouldn’t budge until my uncle turned round, then he’d jump up like a snake had bit him. He was called Bullet.
(beat)
Yeah, Bullet slowed down a lot as he got older too. Couldn’t be bothered to get out of his chair. Crotchet was the same? Bet she thought she was royalty. Awww, look at her on the sofa. Yeah honey, she does look a bit ill there. That’s her last photo? Aww, bless her.
Well, from those pics it really looks like she had a great life. She was clearly adored by you all. It does suck that we have to lose them so soon, but if she was in pain then at least she is at peace now. Aww, it’s okay, please don’t worry. You have a little cry. There, there. It’s okay.
(beat)
It’s hard today, but eventually you’ll focus on the good times. The times in the park, that day on the beach, her ‘famous poop’. You were blessed to have her there with you to grow up with. Bet she didn’t like it when you cried, did she? She wouldn’t want you to be sad. And I’m a firm believer that the ones we love never truly leave us. You feel sad now, but just picture here there, watching over you and wagging her tail.
It’s probably the last thing you want to think about now, but one day you may get another pet. They’ll be different, but they’ll also do little things that remind you of Crotchet, and you’ll smile to yourself. My uncle got a little Dalmatian called Freddie and they’re inseparable. It’s kinda funny.
(beat)
Okay honey. You go. Take care of yourself, and I’m sorry for your loss.
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My second (much shorter) script!
This is based on real events. My childhood dog was put to sleep when I was sat in a bar one time, and the barmaid who served me was so lovely to me about it. She had some mutual friends that I knew and posted about me on Facebook afterwards. I never forgot how nice she was, and was really sad to learn she died a few years back in a car accident :(
In honour of her, and the kindness of strangers, I put together this little script below.
I doubt anyone will want to, but open for YouTube/Patreon etc and monetization. Just credit and link to me :)
Sound of clinking glasses. Maybe some background noise but the bar isn’t too busy.
Barmaid
Hey, what can I get you? Pint of lager? Sure thing, coming up.
Sound of pint being poured.
Barmaid
There you go. [specifies the price – the currency of your country] Thankyou.
Sound of drink being drunk quickly.
Barmaid
Are you okay? Sorry, don’t mean to pry, but you look a little down.
Sound of a phone ringing. More clinking glasses for a second.
Barmaid
A shock of straight whisky? Urm, okay. Here you go. Look, are you sure you’re okay? It’s just, you’re on your own, it’s midday, and you’re downing whisky. Plus, don’t often see people your age in here.
(softly)
You may have noticed, our cliental is a bit older than you.
(louder)
No offence, Brian. You still look no older than 50!
(softly)
I swear that guy was coming in here before they invented the TV.
Sound of a drink being drunk quick. A bit of a gasp.
Barmaid
Yeah, that stuff is pretty grim on it’s own. Would you like some water? What was that? Oh no, really? I’m so sorry hon.
(voice softens)
When did it happen? Just now? That was your Dad on the phone? Oh, honey, that’s really sad. I don’t think a lot of people fully appreciate how much pets are a big part of our life. Here, let me get you some water.
Sound of water being poured.
Barmaid
There you go. Drink that. Trust me. You’re too young to be downing whisky like this. It’s okay, you can have a little cry if you want. Nobody’s going to mind here. We’re really not that busy. I just need to dry these glasses.
(beat)
Nope, I don’t have a pet. My arsehole landlord won’t allow them! My mum has a cat though. To be honest, he’s a right vicious sod. Scratched my arm last week. But she loves him to bits. He gets better food than I do! Was yours a cat, or… a dog? Aww, I love dogs! They’re tying, but they bring so much love to a house. What breed was yours?
(beat)
A boxer girl? Aww, they’re awesome dogs! So funny. Great with kids. I’m guessing you were young when you got her?
(beat)
10? Aww man, I’m jealous. I always wanted a dog but mum always said no. Said they were too messy, but I could have a goldfish. Won one at a fair once. Ended up down the toilet two days later. Sorry, I know I’m rambling on. Do you want to be alone?
(beat)
Well, I’m just here then. You can tell me about your girl if you like. What was her name?
(beat)
Sorry, I misheard… Crotchet? That’s an, urm, unusual name. If you don’t mind me asking… oh, you mean like the music note? Ahh I see! You play piano? Your sister’s idea, eh? No, it isn’t silly! Come on, my mum’s cat is called Miss Kitty Fantastico. Yeah, really. No, I don’t know either.
(beat)
You got her when she was eight weeks old? Aww I bet she was so cute! Yeah, I’d love to see a photo! Aww, look at her! I bet she followed you guys around everywhere! I can see her in the sea there with you two! Dogs love swimming, don’t they? Oh, boxers not really a big fan of it? Looks like she didn’t want to leave you guys alone in the scary water then! Bet you’ve got lots of stories about her. What, a ‘famous poop’?
(beat)
Oh my god, no way! So your mum picked her up mid-poop to try and stop her? Bet it went all over her carpet! Haha, I’m not surprised she was fuming! Sure she was a good girl when she got older, though?
(beat)
Haha really? She just sat down mid-walk and refused to move? You know, my uncle had an old lab once that used to do that. They’d get half way up a hill near his house and his dog would just sit and stare at him. He wouldn’t budge until my uncle turned round, then he’d jump up like a snake had bit him. He was called Bullet.
(beat)
Yeah, Bullet slowed down a lot as he got older too. Couldn’t be bothered to get out of his chair. Crotchet was the same? Bet she thought she was royalty. Awww, look at her on the sofa. Yeah honey, she does look a bit ill there. That’s her last photo? Aww, bless her.
Well, from those pics it really looks like she had a great life. She was clearly adored by you all. It does suck that we have to lose them so soon, but if she was in pain then at least she is at peace now. Aww, it’s okay, please don’t worry. You have a little cry. There, there. It’s okay.
(beat)
It’s hard today, but eventually you’ll focus on the good times. The times in the park, that day on the beach, her ‘famous poop’. You were blessed to have her there with you to grow up with. Bet she didn’t like it when you cried, did she? She wouldn’t want you to be sad. And I’m a firm believer that the ones we love never truly leave us. You feel sad now, but just picture here there, watching over you and wagging her tail.
It’s probably the last thing you want to think about now, but one day you may get another pet. They’ll be different, but they’ll also do little things that remind you of Crotchet, and you’ll smile to yourself. My uncle got a little Dalmatian called Freddie and they’re inseparable. It’s kinda funny.
(beat)
Okay honey. You go. Take care of yourself, and I’m sorry for your loss.
2024.05.19 00:11 Dear-Cockroach-6979 Wouldn’t mind some advice…
(Sorry, it’s kinda long)
Hey everyone,
A bit about me: I grew up in a toxic household with an alcoholic abusive single mother. She had anywhere from 15-20 stray cats in our home that she spoiled and loved more than me. She sure made that clear! My father left me and my mother when I was two years old and he never came back. I was put into the California foster care system at age 13 due to my mother being reported multiple times by my junior high school counselor. From there I went to several mental hospitals, lockdown facilities and group homes up to my 18th birthday. I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder and major depressive disorder back in my adolescent years. I haven’t been evaluated as an adult but I’m sure I would be diagnosed with MDD if I were.
I have spent almost my entire adult life doing nothing with myself. I spent a lot of time early on sleeping in my car and showering at my friends houses. My grandma in Arizona helped me out a great deal and let me stay with her and find work, and I was proud of myself although I was working a menial janitorial job at a casino. I’m pretty tech savvy and skilled with automotive repair but I never pursued further education. When my grandma passed away in 2007 I got severely depressed but I managed to get a place to live with roommates and held down a full time job, again at a casino doing janitorial work. Developed a gambling addiction and an alcohol addiction. Got a DUI in 2008 and that started my legal troubles. Lost my place and lost my job.
I slept in my car and worked at casinos doing menial work again. Met a woman at one of the jobs and got married April 2010. She had a few kids with a bunch of baby daddy drama, and I couldn’t deal with it so I just walked away and the divorce was finalized by the end of the year. I stopped drinking after that. From there I kept working until 2011, when I decided to quit my job, take my old Subaru XT and hit the road. Went all over the southwest US sleeping in the car and exploring, got a few tickets for no insurance, got my license suspended for said tickets and also for not paying my payments on the DUI. I got to Albuquerque NM and my car finally croaked on me. Transmission failure. Slept in it for a week or so in a mini-mall parking lot until the cops were called on me and unsurprisingly took my car. I was officially a street person at age 26.
I spent several years hitchhiking, panhandling, dumpster diving, hopping freight trains and finding spots to sleep or camp wherever I could. I was so depressed that I didn’t take very good care of myself and had no desire whatsoever to try to better myself and dig out of the hole I got myself into. I used to call myself an urban survivalist. I remained in this state of mind until late 2022 when dental problems nearly killed me. I finally found a place to stay in Nevada with a lady I called a foster mother but I had a very hard time getting used to being housed. I got all my teeth yanked and a set of dentures thanks to Nevada Medicaid. I got a job at a car wash for six months but gave up the job due to stress at home and workplace nepotism. I even got a few credit cards and got my score up to 719! Anyhow, foster mother was an alcoholic, she started to remind me of my biological mother and I couldn’t stand it anymore. I had a few thousand dollars saved up and moved back to Arizona a couple of months ago.
I am currently at a weekly motel and have been attempting to find any work I can. Managed to get interviews for dishwasher jobs, housekeeping jobs, janitorial jobs and night crew at a grocery store. Haven’t heard back from any of them though. I have half of my savings left and it seems inevitable that I’ll run out of money pretty soon.
I have a good feeling that the ridiculously long gap of employment looks terrible on my resume and that may be a reason I’m not getting anything. I mean, what do I tell the interviewer, that I was a damn bum?
I like to think I’m pretty smart. I was disassembling and reassembling IBM PC’s before I hit puberty. I was the computer technician for my high school back in the Windows XP era. Once I started driving I began teaching myself automotive repair with Chilton and Haynes manuals along with plenty of trial and error. It blew people’s minds when I, a dirty bum, helped get their car back on the road if I noticed they needed assistance. I helped a man I met at a park and did an engine swap on his Nissan Xterra over a couple weekends in exchange for new camping gear.
I can’t get work as a mechanic or do any driving related jobs unless I get my license back and it would take a LOT of money to get it back. On top of that I have to have an ignition interlock in any vehicle I drive. I wouldn’t mind getting into computer repair but I don’t have the certification to do so, and I’ve been out of the loop for a long time. I have a MacBook Air M1 and wish I could learn a way to make money with it like some sort of remote job but that seems impossible to me at this point.
For the record, I still don’t drink and I’ve never done a hard drug in my life. I haven’t smoked weed in months so I am able to pass a drug test if I were hired somewhere. Also, I have no felonies whatsoever on my record. Some people like to be stereotypical so I figured I’d throw that out there.
I guess what I’m asking is what should I do at this point? What path would you take if you were in my shoes? I won’t lie, suicide has been on my mind a lot lately. I don’t have many friends and I don’t have any family to talk to. I don’t like being a burden on anyone. Should I just accept that I’m gonna probably be homeless again, possibly for the rest of my life? Is there anywhere in the US that I could possibly get back on my feet with some sort of labor work and a place to sleep? I’d move anywhere if I knew I had a shot. Am I a lost cause at age 38? I’d love to hear some ideas!
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Hey everyone,
A bit about me: I grew up in a toxic household with an alcoholic abusive single mother. She had anywhere from 15-20 stray cats in our home that she spoiled and loved more than me. She sure made that clear! My father left me and my mother when I was two years old and he never came back. I was put into the California foster care system at age 13 due to my mother being reported multiple times by my junior high school counselor. From there I went to several mental hospitals, lockdown facilities and group homes up to my 18th birthday. I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder and major depressive disorder back in my adolescent years. I haven’t been evaluated as an adult but I’m sure I would be diagnosed with MDD if I were.
I have spent almost my entire adult life doing nothing with myself. I spent a lot of time early on sleeping in my car and showering at my friends houses. My grandma in Arizona helped me out a great deal and let me stay with her and find work, and I was proud of myself although I was working a menial janitorial job at a casino. I’m pretty tech savvy and skilled with automotive repair but I never pursued further education. When my grandma passed away in 2007 I got severely depressed but I managed to get a place to live with roommates and held down a full time job, again at a casino doing janitorial work. Developed a gambling addiction and an alcohol addiction. Got a DUI in 2008 and that started my legal troubles. Lost my place and lost my job.
I slept in my car and worked at casinos doing menial work again. Met a woman at one of the jobs and got married April 2010. She had a few kids with a bunch of baby daddy drama, and I couldn’t deal with it so I just walked away and the divorce was finalized by the end of the year. I stopped drinking after that. From there I kept working until 2011, when I decided to quit my job, take my old Subaru XT and hit the road. Went all over the southwest US sleeping in the car and exploring, got a few tickets for no insurance, got my license suspended for said tickets and also for not paying my payments on the DUI. I got to Albuquerque NM and my car finally croaked on me. Transmission failure. Slept in it for a week or so in a mini-mall parking lot until the cops were called on me and unsurprisingly took my car. I was officially a street person at age 26.
I spent several years hitchhiking, panhandling, dumpster diving, hopping freight trains and finding spots to sleep or camp wherever I could. I was so depressed that I didn’t take very good care of myself and had no desire whatsoever to try to better myself and dig out of the hole I got myself into. I used to call myself an urban survivalist. I remained in this state of mind until late 2022 when dental problems nearly killed me. I finally found a place to stay in Nevada with a lady I called a foster mother but I had a very hard time getting used to being housed. I got all my teeth yanked and a set of dentures thanks to Nevada Medicaid. I got a job at a car wash for six months but gave up the job due to stress at home and workplace nepotism. I even got a few credit cards and got my score up to 719! Anyhow, foster mother was an alcoholic, she started to remind me of my biological mother and I couldn’t stand it anymore. I had a few thousand dollars saved up and moved back to Arizona a couple of months ago.
I am currently at a weekly motel and have been attempting to find any work I can. Managed to get interviews for dishwasher jobs, housekeeping jobs, janitorial jobs and night crew at a grocery store. Haven’t heard back from any of them though. I have half of my savings left and it seems inevitable that I’ll run out of money pretty soon.
I have a good feeling that the ridiculously long gap of employment looks terrible on my resume and that may be a reason I’m not getting anything. I mean, what do I tell the interviewer, that I was a damn bum?
I like to think I’m pretty smart. I was disassembling and reassembling IBM PC’s before I hit puberty. I was the computer technician for my high school back in the Windows XP era. Once I started driving I began teaching myself automotive repair with Chilton and Haynes manuals along with plenty of trial and error. It blew people’s minds when I, a dirty bum, helped get their car back on the road if I noticed they needed assistance. I helped a man I met at a park and did an engine swap on his Nissan Xterra over a couple weekends in exchange for new camping gear.
I can’t get work as a mechanic or do any driving related jobs unless I get my license back and it would take a LOT of money to get it back. On top of that I have to have an ignition interlock in any vehicle I drive. I wouldn’t mind getting into computer repair but I don’t have the certification to do so, and I’ve been out of the loop for a long time. I have a MacBook Air M1 and wish I could learn a way to make money with it like some sort of remote job but that seems impossible to me at this point.
For the record, I still don’t drink and I’ve never done a hard drug in my life. I haven’t smoked weed in months so I am able to pass a drug test if I were hired somewhere. Also, I have no felonies whatsoever on my record. Some people like to be stereotypical so I figured I’d throw that out there.
I guess what I’m asking is what should I do at this point? What path would you take if you were in my shoes? I won’t lie, suicide has been on my mind a lot lately. I don’t have many friends and I don’t have any family to talk to. I don’t like being a burden on anyone. Should I just accept that I’m gonna probably be homeless again, possibly for the rest of my life? Is there anywhere in the US that I could possibly get back on my feet with some sort of labor work and a place to sleep? I’d move anywhere if I knew I had a shot. Am I a lost cause at age 38? I’d love to hear some ideas!
2024.05.19 00:10 TPSD2024 Repost. Need advice on cat issue
Me (23M) and my ex gf (22F) shared a cat together and we recently broke up and I had the cat. We were gonna bring the cat back as I didn’t want the drama but when we were taking her to the vehicle she got scared(she’s always been an anxious cat. She’ll even just poop if you carry her outside) but anyways she scratched me with sharp ass claws and got free and ran. We tried chasing her but she booked it into the alley way and under a neighbors fence. And was gone, but the issue is that she is saying the cat is hers and she wants her back. What can I do to make sure I don’t get in trouble, I was just trying to return her and she ran away. She was also free from the shelter if that helps.
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2024.05.19 00:10 Boobowbuttercup [Miscellaneous] Is it safe to use my red light therapy mask right after botox?
I'm so sorry guys, I'm not really sure where to post this, but I guess it's kind of skincare related? Basically I use my red light therapy mask (from current body) every day for it's many potential benefits. Anti aging, reduces redness and can improve mental health. I got botox yesterday and thought I should probably take a day or two off while it settles but I read online that I needed to wait two weeks before using the mask again. THEN I read that I can use it straight away and it even helps the boyox last longer. I'm just so confused. I don't want to suspend my routine for two weeks but I also don't want to cause any damage.
If anyone could please help me, I'd be so grateful! 🙏🏻
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If anyone could please help me, I'd be so grateful! 🙏🏻
2024.05.19 00:10 Cold_Environment_235 max credit hours you’ll work and why
So, doing my first month in June where I have 120+ credit hrs/flight hrs scheduled for 18 days of flying. Right now looking at it doesn’t seem so bad, but before was on reserve and wasn’t getting called in, so now I can make more money which I’m extremely thankful for.
But I’m curious, what’s the max amount of credit hours you’ll work, and why?
At what point (credit hrs wise) does you, or your body simply say… “oh hell no. Can’t take this anymore”
It’s my first month actually flying high time so I’m curious! And at which point do you really start feeling it. I hear some do 150-170 a month on the regular. Maybe 120 isn’t even considered high time but no one else at my base likes to fly that much.
What do you do to keep yourself energized or on point flying this much? You’re non negotiables.
Anything I should be prepared for? Thanks!!
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But I’m curious, what’s the max amount of credit hours you’ll work, and why?
At what point (credit hrs wise) does you, or your body simply say… “oh hell no. Can’t take this anymore”
It’s my first month actually flying high time so I’m curious! And at which point do you really start feeling it. I hear some do 150-170 a month on the regular. Maybe 120 isn’t even considered high time but no one else at my base likes to fly that much.
What do you do to keep yourself energized or on point flying this much? You’re non negotiables.
Anything I should be prepared for? Thanks!!
2024.05.19 00:10 TheIndulgery Using ChatGPT as a novel writing aid
 | I'm currently writing a fantasy / litPRG novel and have been using ChatGPT in creative ways to help with it. I had some requests on how so instead of replying to everyone individually I figured I'd make a post! I will include screenshots so expect this post to be long! Also, it's from my actual book so please don't steal my shit. lol submitted by TheIndulgery to ChatGPT [link] [comments] I'll break it up into 5 sections:
Editing and grammar: This is pretty straightforward. I'll copy and paste sections and ask it to fix the grammar, bolding any changes it makes and striking out any words it removes so I can review the changes. The only issue I've had with this is that if I try to post an entire chapter it'll sometimes pause in its review and ask if I want to continue. Sometimes when it does that it loses sentences or even a paragraph where it broke. Now I just do smaller chunks. It'll explain why it made the changes too, so it's improving my grammar as I go. Character and creature help: This is also pretty straightforward. I already have my main characters written up and I know which ones are coming later, but sometimes I want mooks or neighbors, and other times I need creatures. I'll ask it for more than I need and pick the best ones. Some of the prompts: "Create 5 creatures that you'd find in Wisconsin. There should be a day version and a night version, the night version being tougher and having more attacks. For each come up with 3 offensive and 3 defensive powers. Also describe them in the format of a character description in a D&D style monster manual." https://preview.redd.it/n2e5pfx9691d1.png?width=825&format=png&auto=webp&s=41abb9ae9a8c984ea1837b0a3b292885822b1e5e "Based off the fight scene I just described and the attached screenshot of the person's character sheet, come up with 5 attacks, skills, or magical abilities that person could develop. They should reflect that person's personality, character sheet, and fighting style." https://preview.redd.it/05t0977p691d1.png?width=572&format=png&auto=webp&s=35a55418b0ce7230225ac79e632632f4aac43f6a https://preview.redd.it/kio2yals691d1.png?width=592&format=png&auto=webp&s=443d537f20d4c8956441214ea38ecd1e2af651bb Mooks: https://preview.redd.it/9dxzjn85791d1.png?width=606&format=png&auto=webp&s=11ca003c702f77d5ea27e55abbb6a20f7573d409 https://preview.redd.it/kvudyz97791d1.png?width=603&format=png&auto=webp&s=7fd6ee23d5719a0f73abf6b65b694c5523f6223f The cool stuff: This is where it really shines and has helped me avoid a lot of pitfalls that I notice when I'm reading other authors' books: "Review the story and look for any words that I reuse a lot. Ignore standard ones like 'and, they, him, etc'" All authors have their favorite words that get repeated way too often. I'll find them and suggest alternate descriptions. It goes beyond just providing new words. "I want to avoid repetitive descriptions. Please review the story and identify any times I've repeated descriptions, turns of phrase, etc. Categorize them into "fight scenes", "Emotional scenes", and "area/scene descriptions" This has been a power prompt for me. We tend to describe things a certain way and it identifies areas where changes can be made to make it more dynamic and varied. https://preview.redd.it/n0s3w4l2891d1.png?width=787&format=png&auto=webp&s=6f8bbb75a01216bbef6b4792740154a1ea4f40ef https://preview.redd.it/zy9jj32a891d1.png?width=755&format=png&auto=webp&s=b6a3ee793ee610a96416268ae407aab70c6d3785 "Please review the story for any inconsistencies. I'm specifically looking for ways I've described the system or world as working that I later contradict." https://preview.redd.it/wz4gn43v891d1.png?width=662&format=png&auto=webp&s=b278e32bd76464dfa09395115d8bb401a759d789 I also use it to bounce ideas off of. Sometimes the ideas are generic but often it comes up with ideas that I hadn't thought of. I don't like it decide the plot or directions, but it's like chatting with an editor or reviewer and the two of you bouncing ideas off each other. I'll reply to its posts with things like "I like number 3 but it's coming too early. What if we had them go to place X instead of that, saving that for later?" Character [xx] is going to have these skills and plot points in the future. Knowing that, please tailor all skill and plot suggestions with the idea of driving towards that narrative in a balanced, natural manner. None of the ideas should feel forced and they should all happen naturally as the story progresses. As I paste new chapters please incorporate the changes into that long term progression and adapt as required. "I think I want character B to starting feeling like they're not contributing but I'm having trouble thinking of ways to express that naturally. I don't want it to feel forced. What are some situations they could end up in that'd highlight that? Who could they fight with?" "I feel like character A is getting too complacent and it outpacing the other people, but they've become the lynchpin of the fights. I plan on introducing XX situation and it'll make them weak in XX area. I'm going to post a few paragraphs with that, tell me if it rings true with the character growth I've been using for the rest of the story." "I'm going to paste the first half of a fight that the characters are in but I'm realizing I don't have any ideas for how they'll win. What are some ideas based off the creature's character sheet you posted earlier?" And I asked ChatGPT to make a summarized list of the types of requests I've asked of it. Here's what it came up with: Sure! Here's a summary list of the different types of requests you've made for help with plot, development, and ideas:And finally, I asked ChatGPT what kinds of prompts to use to make the most of its ability to help writers: To make the most of my abilities as an AI assistant, authors should use prompts that focus on detailed feedback, specific suggestions for improvements, and brainstorming new ideas. Here are some examples of effective prompts that can help authors maximize the benefits of using my assistance:Hope this helps! |
2024.05.19 00:09 Legato895 Goodman e-series mini split?
Budget/needs:
- shooting for a 1 ton minisplit for a sunroom with some bad windows in nebraska.
- going to self install as much as i can including electrical and call somebody to pull vacuum, etc.
- budget is around 1k for a unit that requires professional help, but i could also spend a few hundred more on a mrcool since the cost would equal out a bit.
- the room has radiant heat from a boiler which could be used to take over for the few weeks that things get truly cold.
Situation:
I'm at that point where i've done an unhealthy amount of research for this project, but even now i keep finding new brands, new conversations and new theory crafting by civilians like myself who think that if we just do more research we will somehow get something that lasts 10 years at half the price.My house has a goodman furnace and AC in it, installed by a really trustworthy, old time, hvac teacher type, but I've read many posts that talk about the brand's problems and misgivings so I'm not some sort of consumer fanboy for them.
That said, I've also read that since being bought by Daikin, their minisplits are likely using a lot of the same DNA and might be worth looking into.
It seems like a lot of wholesalers have their gear up at essentially 'half off' right now, minus the line set and i was wondering if there is anything I'm missing or should consider before seriously considering them.
Here's the unit i'm looking at as a reference.
Thanks for your help and advice!
2024.05.19 00:09 Beneficial-Bet8531 First Child/Miscarriage
Hi Everyone,
On Mothers Day morning, which was also my birthday, I started spotting, which was my very first bleeding down there during my entire pregnancy. I was supposed to be coming up on 17 weeks the following Monday. Long story short, I went to the ER Monday night and they discovered no fetal heartbeat and he was only measuring 13 weeks. They are unsure why it happened (but we later on sent in fetal tissue (the umbilical cord) so they can do further testing.)
I ended up waiting a few days before going through with misoprostol to quicken the process of going into labor. I took the medicine Thursday morning and had a day of what felt like a hell with the awful contractions I was having. At 8pm he was born - everything came out in my hand at once, his body, umbilical chord and placenta. He’s about 4 inches tall and has all fingers and all toes. He is currently in our fridge right now and will be with us one more night before we let the funeral service take him to be stored and then cremated next week.
This is by far the most traumatic experience of my life. I’ve donated my eggs in the passed (4 times) and have 5 living biological children from those donations in different parts of the world. I am 28 years old and my partner (28M) are both healthy. With this being our first try for our own child and having a late missed miscarriage I just feel so discouraged. I feel like I’ve failed and we will never get our first child back again.
Has anyone gone through anything similar? I am having the worst bleeding and cramping of my life, and it’s only been a day and a half. I am having very mixed emotions but just really badly want to be pregnant again. Seeing a tiny baby human come out of me, lifeless, there are just no words for the grief and loss I am feeling. Thank you for reading.
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On Mothers Day morning, which was also my birthday, I started spotting, which was my very first bleeding down there during my entire pregnancy. I was supposed to be coming up on 17 weeks the following Monday. Long story short, I went to the ER Monday night and they discovered no fetal heartbeat and he was only measuring 13 weeks. They are unsure why it happened (but we later on sent in fetal tissue (the umbilical cord) so they can do further testing.)
I ended up waiting a few days before going through with misoprostol to quicken the process of going into labor. I took the medicine Thursday morning and had a day of what felt like a hell with the awful contractions I was having. At 8pm he was born - everything came out in my hand at once, his body, umbilical chord and placenta. He’s about 4 inches tall and has all fingers and all toes. He is currently in our fridge right now and will be with us one more night before we let the funeral service take him to be stored and then cremated next week.
This is by far the most traumatic experience of my life. I’ve donated my eggs in the passed (4 times) and have 5 living biological children from those donations in different parts of the world. I am 28 years old and my partner (28M) are both healthy. With this being our first try for our own child and having a late missed miscarriage I just feel so discouraged. I feel like I’ve failed and we will never get our first child back again.
Has anyone gone through anything similar? I am having the worst bleeding and cramping of my life, and it’s only been a day and a half. I am having very mixed emotions but just really badly want to be pregnant again. Seeing a tiny baby human come out of me, lifeless, there are just no words for the grief and loss I am feeling. Thank you for reading.
2024.05.19 00:09 biglipsmagoo How do we feel about accent walls?
 | Lady with the built in cabinets that someone covered with a drop ceiling, here! submitted by biglipsmagoo to HomeDecorating [link] [comments] I’m back with another painting question. How do we feel about accent walls? Some of y’all might remember the early ‘00’s when accent walls were all the rage. Looking back now it looked incredibly stupid. But we’re picking out colors for the living room. We’ve gotten 5,723 samples. We’ve mixed some ourselves. And we (husband and 4 of the kids) can’t agree. And they all want an accent wall and I’m just not sold. It’s trauma from looking at them everywhere for half a decade. We agreed to try a very pale, pale lilac next bc we all feel like purple isn’t appreciated like it should be. So, if I do an accent wall, I can do a darker purple- if we go with purple. Or should I do some kind of cool purple wallpaper? AND- what if the accent wall was the arch way and then the wall at the back going up the stairs? We’ll be painting both rooms the same color. *You can see the old owners went with opposing accent walls in a chic ‘00 mauve. Carpet on stairs is coming out. Floor will be redone. Stairs will be redone. Eventually arch MIGHT have to go when we open the walls on the right to break through to other unit. Not sure what to do with the banister. It looks like original wood in its original color. I hate it. OUTLAW ORANGE AND YELLOW WOOD STAIN!! I just want to get this area painted bc it’s our main entry and I need to get some things looking put together while we work on the priority repairs. Breaking through the walls will come later. Area under construction. Don’t judge me. |
2024.05.19 00:09 cflor10 Newbie in IOM
hi all, I was hoping to get some advice. I’m barely one month in to the job, I have a great preceptor that I love learning from and I’m doing a didactic training program through my company. I’m grasping things as fast I can handle. I’m still super nervous talking to the surgeons and pretending like I know what I’m talking about when they request things. My anxiety totally takes over my thoughts when I have to go under the drapes to fix my leads or reposition the patient. I’m comfortable interviewing the patient and I’m still slow at placing my leads, connecting the inputs and running baselines before draping is done (I’m usually still plugging things in when they start draping). Does anyone have tips or advice for getting faster, grasping material better and just being more comfortable/less anxious in the room? This account is kind of expecting me to finish my training in 6 months (even though the company gives me one year) and I’m worried I won’t have it down by then. I’m feeling the pressure ahhhh!
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2024.05.19 00:09 SuccessfulPanda211 I wish I could micromanage my marketplaces.
Ideally I’d like to have a Marketplace in each district. I don’t see why every single family with a backyard needs a marketplace.
I’ve noticed families that are assigned to high priority jobs will ignore their profession to sell the carrots from their backyards which is inefficient and makes the marketstalls a bit redundant. I wish they would just take their produce to the granary and let the granary workers sell them.
Alternatively, working as a seller could be profession in and of itself outside of the granaries and storehouses. Sellers wouldn’t need to specialize in any specific good. Everyone in the region consolidates their goods and produce to one marketplace storehouse and from there the families assigned to it can sell everything.
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I’ve noticed families that are assigned to high priority jobs will ignore their profession to sell the carrots from their backyards which is inefficient and makes the marketstalls a bit redundant. I wish they would just take their produce to the granary and let the granary workers sell them.
Alternatively, working as a seller could be profession in and of itself outside of the granaries and storehouses. Sellers wouldn’t need to specialize in any specific good. Everyone in the region consolidates their goods and produce to one marketplace storehouse and from there the families assigned to it can sell everything.
2024.05.19 00:09 Rich_Category_309 Employee walk out?
So today, employee tells me that they are going in early and because of that they aren’t closing for the scheduled closing shift tonight. I tell them no, they aren’t just switching up my schedule like that. About an hour before for their scheduled shift they try to tell me they are sick and can’t come in. I ask them if they found coverage for the shift. They tell me no, and then initially show up.
Come to find out, after about an hour or so Into their shift, they clocked out and went home. I find out a bit later they aren’t even here and at that point am let in on the fact that she just clocked out and went home.
What do I do?
Do they get to just come back for their next shift?
Did they essentially just walk out of their job?
They said they are calling HR when I called and asked them if they are sure they don’t want to come back, because I take it as them essentially walking out and leaving their job.
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Come to find out, after about an hour or so Into their shift, they clocked out and went home. I find out a bit later they aren’t even here and at that point am let in on the fact that she just clocked out and went home.
What do I do?
Do they get to just come back for their next shift?
Did they essentially just walk out of their job?
They said they are calling HR when I called and asked them if they are sure they don’t want to come back, because I take it as them essentially walking out and leaving their job.
2024.05.19 00:09 kissendenpissenden I don’t know what to do with my life
I’m nearly 30. I’m in a relationship full of arguments and bitterness and resentment but I still love him dearly and wish we could go back to how we were at the start.
We own a business together so if I leave him, I lose my business.
I am torn. I have opportunities. One involves opening a new business with a woman I barely know in a town where I know no one. One involves working for someone else and moving back to my hometown.
I’m not happy. I need to vent. I need someone to tell me what to do. I’m treading water and I feel like nothing will make me happy because I will still be me at the end of the day.
I’m scared of being alone. I’m divorced so this isn’t my first rodeo. I wanted children but the older I get, the less likely that will be to happen.
I have little money. I don’t think I could afford to live on my own and I feel too old and too scared to live with a bunch of strangers in a house share.
I feel like I’ve wasted my life. I have nothing to show for my years on this planet. Life feels totally meaningless. I’ve tried therapy. I’ve tried medication. I’ve tried everything but I’m just numb to it all.
I know I’m the only one that can help myself but I feel like every option I have right now will lead to more sadness and heartache. Everytime I feel like I’ve found some happiness in life, it all gets taken away by more stress. There’s no point. There’s no meaning to anything.
I just feel hopeless and overwhelmed
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We own a business together so if I leave him, I lose my business.
I am torn. I have opportunities. One involves opening a new business with a woman I barely know in a town where I know no one. One involves working for someone else and moving back to my hometown.
I’m not happy. I need to vent. I need someone to tell me what to do. I’m treading water and I feel like nothing will make me happy because I will still be me at the end of the day.
I’m scared of being alone. I’m divorced so this isn’t my first rodeo. I wanted children but the older I get, the less likely that will be to happen.
I have little money. I don’t think I could afford to live on my own and I feel too old and too scared to live with a bunch of strangers in a house share.
I feel like I’ve wasted my life. I have nothing to show for my years on this planet. Life feels totally meaningless. I’ve tried therapy. I’ve tried medication. I’ve tried everything but I’m just numb to it all.
I know I’m the only one that can help myself but I feel like every option I have right now will lead to more sadness and heartache. Everytime I feel like I’ve found some happiness in life, it all gets taken away by more stress. There’s no point. There’s no meaning to anything.
I just feel hopeless and overwhelmed
2024.05.19 00:09 Busy_Comfort3504 Transfering Credits Over
If I haven't have a pre-req to take a course at the current moment at rutgers can i take it at a community college then transfer the credits after I take the pre req for it? For example taking calc at community college before taking pre calc since community college has no pre reqs for it then after I take precalc at rutgers just submit a request to transfer the credits over for calc since ive already taken it and dont need to take it at rutgers now?
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2024.05.19 00:08 Lotusjuh How can I EVER feel pretty again?
I did the maths. He lusted after around 1.885 women during our relationship using porn. Lusted on their bodies. Liked the way they moved, the way they moaned, the way their body looks. Came to them. Even came “together” as they “came” because that was more exciting for him. Watched intimate BJs. Yet always denying it was not about the women and he was never imagining himself with them. How can I believe that when the things he watched were so incredibly intimate?
How can I ever feel pretty again? How can I ever see his d getting hard from me as a compliment again? After all, he thought they were pretty like that too. Pretty enough to come onto at least. I could never find almost 2.000 men attractive besides him, let alone pleasure myself to them.
How can I live with this? He was my everything and I feel like I never meant as much as he made me believe I did. I never meant as much to him as he meant to me. That’s how I feel.
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How can I ever feel pretty again? How can I ever see his d getting hard from me as a compliment again? After all, he thought they were pretty like that too. Pretty enough to come onto at least. I could never find almost 2.000 men attractive besides him, let alone pleasure myself to them.
How can I live with this? He was my everything and I feel like I never meant as much as he made me believe I did. I never meant as much to him as he meant to me. That’s how I feel.
2024.05.19 00:08 commandsudo Discontent with who I am.
19M. I realize I have fallen into the rut of never feeling like I am adequate no matter what I do. I have always been reasonably successful, in school, in my career, in my relationships and in my health. Still, even with my successes I feel like I'm never satisfied with who I am. I always feel the need to continually self improve, whether it be physically, mentally, socially or spiritually. I take every mistake that I make in my life and constantly tear it down and analyze it to find ways I can change to be better, and it's exhausting. It's not even that I hate who I am, or can't accept that there are good things about me as I am currently. I just wonder how I can get over taking every little thing that I mess up on in any aspect of life and using it as fuel to the mindset of continually needing to change myself. I constantly feel discontent with who I am, and I've always believed that if I changed the things about myself that I was unsatisfied with I would be happier. That has not been the case. Instead I always feel stressed and feel like I will never attain who I wish to be. Sometimes this becomes so bad I don't even know who I want to be. I wonder if any others feel this way, or if anyone else has any wisdom to provide for my situation.
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2024.05.19 00:08 KingNinjaThe2nd [Recruiting] Mini Mercia #2L8LLJUUJ TH13+ Clan lvl 16 Semi-Competitive Mighty Mercians
Mini Mercia - #2L8JUUJ
Are you looking for a community-based clan? A place you can call home? With an average stay of over a year. I promise, once you get settled, you'll never want to leave!
Clash of Clans is a widely diverse game, and we seek members of all approaches. We see value beyond your war attack. So whether you're passionate about clan wars, clan capital, or clan games, we see worth in your special skills.
Mini Mercia is a lvl 16 Masters 2 Clan Capital Lvl 10 clan. We are a strong group of friends, who love to clash together. We provide a friendly and safe learning environment, with focuses on clan wars and CWL.
Who we're looking for
- We are looking for motivated and active players, who are keen to participate in various clan events.
- Friendly and approachable people who mesh well with our members and strengthen our community.
- Reachable on Discord, where most of our communications take place.
- Th 13 and above
- Like most clans, we boast a strong war log, max clan games, round the clock donations, and an active leader.
- We pride ourselves on our player-orientated approach. A member of leadership is always available, who are excited to work with you, come rain or shine.
- As part of a larger alliance we host tournaments, run monthly competitions (with prizes) provide a community to help you get better and get the most out of your clash experience.
Alternatively you can reach me personally on discord - King Ninja or find us on the Arcane Server
2024.05.19 00:08 loopuleasa Imagine a dynamic event like this: The King's Chariot
How it would work:
I think there is potential for a lot of events in place of the normal incursion events
I really miss pvp in silverlight...
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- Instead of a normal incursion event, you would get another event as replacement
- This event will be called "The King's Chariot" and will take place in silverlight
- The event will be announced on map, and the Chariot and escort will be visible
- The King along its elite guards will have a given route across the land
- The route comes from the city, goes outside, then back to the city
- The carriage will summon increasingly difficult mobs to fight, in waves
- At the end, the chariot can be broken, and the king can be killed
- Reward for the chariot, is a lot of legendary jewels, and a chance at epic or legendary weapons!
- The jewels and weapons will be dropped in phases like a pinata wave after wave (so that you dont have to butt in at the end to loot everything, and early participants can get loot too even if they disengage)
I think there is potential for a lot of events in place of the normal incursion events
I really miss pvp in silverlight...
2024.05.19 00:07 Happyxcat22 Just now realizing ..
So I’m at a weird spot where I’m now realizing that i definitely blew things out of proportion.. umm it’s weird cause even after all that’s happened and the pain and rumination I feel as if nothings happened?? Like I’m oddly okay atm but also still missing him and wish we were friends and that maybe we weren’t as compatible or I was more stuck in the idea of them… I don’t think I needed to take all the blame in the way I did .. I jsut thought I was easier at the time..
Idk just ranting out my thoughts and wondered if anything else can relate I really do miss the bond and friendship I had with him if anything but god idk if I’ve just burned everything to the ground ..
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Idk just ranting out my thoughts and wondered if anything else can relate I really do miss the bond and friendship I had with him if anything but god idk if I’ve just burned everything to the ground ..
2024.05.19 00:07 NewDad51 AITA I hate my girlfriends ex husband.
Am I the asshole? 31M, ex 35F mother of 3 children to 3 different dads, the last one is mine 15-month-old G,the others 13B, 5B. Ex is a very generous, happy, loving person. But I know, out of fear of lossing her middle child to Ex Husband, she let's him do more than I am comfortable with, and this put such a strain on our relationship of 3 years that it's ended currently. I don't believe she would cheat, as he was an awful person, and still is. But I was never comfortable with how much they talked, just about work, their families, and what was going on. Our 1st fight was Easter, and our daughter was only 3 months old. I told her I didn't want him in our house (which his name is still on), and she said she wouldn't keep her son from his father if he wanted to spend time. I said, pick him up then and take him home, or to his grandparents. Not that I wanted rid of the kid, but I loath this guy with all of my being. ( Ex aborted our 1st pregnancy in fear of him hurting their son or her, or even himself.) So I didn't agree with it, but I supported her in what she thought was best. So I have reason to hate this guy, plus all the awful things he has done to her over several years, and made the divorce absolutely awful for her and the kids, then the threats. Yet, she let's hang out in or around the house during pickup. I want him to get the kid and leave. But she tells me to get over it. But I can't. But back to Easter, I packed up my baby and took her to my mom's. Ex asked when I'd be back, I said, "When you text me that he leaves." 7 hours later out of diapers, baby food, and no conformation that he had left, I had to go back, and there he is. As soon as I walked in the door, he kind of panicked and said by to the boys and left. I spoke with my ex almost in tears and a little bit of yelling and told her, "Pick, him or me!" And she laughed, said I was being dramatic, and mind you I didn't accuse her of cheating, I don't feel it's in her nature, but the guy makes me so uncomfortable I'd use my get out of jail free card on him. But this continued for over a year until her and I had a huge fight, and I had had enough, so I packed up my baby and left.
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