9 months ago I made a post about how I forgot how to draw despite going to art school. I received soo many helpful comments and I'm happy to say that about a month ago, I finally recovered from my art block and I've finally produced works that I'm proud of!
What I did was I enrolled in an in person flexible intensive drawing course. Granted, couldn't commit to a weekly session (been going once a month) so my progress has been super slow, but I've been drawing on my own everyday and I'm blown away by how much I've improved from forgetting how to draw anatomy to fully rendering an art piece. A really huge thank you to everyone who commented! You guys helped me find passion in art again.
Now my next step is to add color and lighting. I've been eyeing Kat Tsai' Color & Light class but it's all sold out for the year. Do you guys have any recommendations for intensive classes focusing on color and lighting?

Hi, I have built a relatively straightforward website. I want to put the website behind a paywall but i want the website to still live at my url, not some other company’s. I tried to get it working with AWS cognito but have failed. I’m not a programmer but I can get by the chatgpt help.
I also tried memberstack and another member(something) website/Saas. Neither seem suitable and not quite what I expected.
What I wanted was some fairly straight forward means of paywalling my site. It seems more problematic than I expected. Can I have some suggestions as to how to do this please. Currently my website runs on a light sail instance running node.js. I was literally hoping to dump some standard login script at the front to control access. Then setup payment access. Maybe AWS cognito is the way to go but I can’t get it running (with gpt and opus help). Am struggling for next steps.

Timestamp: https://imgur.com/a/sJnhug3
Went through a massive restock of supplies over the past couple of weeks so it's back to work!
What you see listed below is what is available today. If you have any questions please ask! Additional pictures are below for each item. If I don't respond right away I'm probably working on homework but I will respond! Buy any 1 MYOG thing and get $2 off each additional item!
READ THE RULES!!! NO NOTES!!! Zelle (preferred), CashApp, PPFF, or PPGS for +30 Flair ONLY with NO NOTES. I will ask you to send a PM when you call dibs so you know it's me you're PMing. Please let me know if you wish to use PPGS; I will use a Paypal fee calculator and send you a total prior to payment. If you use PPGS and we did not discuss I will refund you what you sent less the fee Paypal charges me. If you are forced to use notes by Paypal just put in ":)". Everything will be shipped USPS priority or First Class and I ship everything insured. Anything dibsed and paid for by 2100 nightly normally ships next business day.
PLEASE USE PM ONLY NOT CHAT. I have disabled chat. DO NOT CHAT ME.
BASICBITCHSLINGS. Made from Mil-W-17337 or A-A-55301 1” webbing and ITW/Duraflex hardware. $2 off each additional sling after the first one! Glamour shots of the slings!

• 6x M81 God's Plaid (tan hardware) $24 shipped each
  
• 6x M81 God's Plaid (black hardware) $24 $22 shipped each
  
• 13x Woodland MARPAT $24 shipped each
  
• 12x Multicam $22 shipped each
  
• 14x MC Black $22 shipped each
  
• 8x MC Alpine $22 20 $18 shipped each
  
• 6x MC Tropic $22 shipped each
  
• 6x MC Arid $22 shipped each
  
• 5x ATACS-AU $22 shipped each
  
• 5x ATACS-FG $22 shipped each
  
• 4x Kryptek Nomad $22 shipped each
  
• 5x Ranger Green (black hardware) $18 $16 shipped each
  
• 10x Coyote $15 shipped each
  
• 10x Wolf Grey $15 shipped each
  
• 12x Foliage Green $15 shipped each
  
• 5x Tan499 $15 shipped each
  
• 6x Just Black $15 shipped each
  

sweatshopslings https://imgur.com/a/75ggP66 I took a chance on some "Vietnam Tiger Stripe" webbing and it is definitely imported and not true VTS pattern. That being said, the material is still good so I whipped up some slings and will keep them on until they are gone.

• 5x "Vietnam Tiger Stripe" $15 shipped each

MEMERS https://imgur.com/a/HRhHipR Mostly Elastic, Maybe Ergonomic Rigs. Something for a credit union thief. Holds 4x AR mags (or whatever) and has the shock cord for 2x more whatevers. Comes with skinny straps and backstrap.

• 1x Wolf Grey MEMER $45 shipped each
  
• 1x Coyote MEMER $45 shipped each
  
• 1x MC Black MEMER $55 shipped each
  

TQ Hammocks https://imgur.com/a/xnre0T0 Hold onto your TQ boys and let them chill!

• 2x Multicam TQ Hammock $16 shipped each
  
• 2x Ranger Green TQ Hammock $15 shipped each
  
• 1x Coyote TQ Hammock $15 shipped each
  
• 1x Just Black TQ Hammock $14 shipped each
  
• 2x Wolf Grey TQ Hammock (Wolf Grey hook and loop was upcycled) $13 shipped each
  

sWINGers https://imgur.com/a/2azTs0w Allows you to mount AR mags or similar sized items in all the ways, left, right, front, or back, just like the way you spend your weekends. Functionality here. All are $20 each shipped or 2 for $35.

• 1x MC Black
  
• 2x Wolf Grey/Mas Grey hook and loop
  

2YOG Pouches https://imgur.com/a/kWyxtfr This is a spinoff of the YOG pouch I made previously to have 2 separate compartments, sized to slightly larger than 3x AR PMAGs. These were each mounted once then I pulled them off because I want to get a little crazy with the design. There is still the rear insert area that is sized for 2x AR mags. I don't have inserts made but if you need one I can make and add it on for an additional $10.

• Nemesis Woodland Wolf prototype 2YOG (I made the middle seam too big so the pouches look lopsided when filled. $35 shipped
  
• DNC 2YOG $40 shipped
  

DNC prototype blow out pouch https://imgur.com/a/TGMrZX6 Same size as the LBT, but I wanted a pouch I could mount vertically on my cummerbund, hence the 90-degree rotated MOLLE on the rear. It is still able to be slid horizontally onto a belt and there is ~3" of clearance in that space. The pull tab is from a different pouch (LBT maybe idk) and is not made by me. $25 shipped.
RG Eagle Operator's Belt https://imgur.com/a/YxjAKD9 Size Small. This was on my kit for a few years but left the basement maybe a handful of times and it's in good shape. Does not come with the inner belt. Comes with my Prototype Dirt Chomper TQ holder. $80 shipped.
First Spear AOR2 SCAR-H Chest Rig https://imgur.com/a/sfSVGNG Catch and release from GAFS, bought it with an idea in mind and it did not work. I added the bungee and pull tabs (made from ATACS FG-X webbing which is close to the AOR2), not tied down so you can adjust it. Asking $65 shipped. If you need skinny/back straps and the male buckles I can whip those up with Ranger Green webbing and add them in for an extra $10.
Holsters and misc https://imgur.com/a/G47ElYE

• Aliengear XD holster. GAFS catch and release. Bought it, tried it on once, went into a box. I think it’s made for the XD9 compact but it fit an XD9 just fine. Asking $40 $35 $30 shipped.
  
• P226 Holster (brown one). I believe this is a JBP leather dual use concealment holster. Comes with one extra snap button. $20 $18 $16 shipped.
  
• Streamlight clicky caps $3 each ADD ON ONLY
  
• MYOG MC Black 1x AR mag pouch. Fits USGI mags only because I suck at measuring. I will throw some shock cord in if bought. $8 shipped or $5 add on
  
• MYOG Wolf Grey/Ranger Green 2x AR mag pouch. Thought I needed this and naturally I do not. $10 shipped or $6 add on
  

Anyways if you made it this far thanks for looking and my FAQs are next!
FAQ
Where are all your things made? By me, on my 1940s sewing machine, in my craft room.
What materials do you use? For the most part, everything is made in the USA and Berry compliant. Generally speaking, I use the following: AA55301 or MIL-17337 webbing; Berry compliant 500D Cordura; MIL-W-5664 elastic; Berry compliant 550 paracord; Berry compliant shock cord; either Velcro and/or generic hook and loop; and ITW or Duraflex hardware. There may be some outliers. All my thread is a TEX 75 heavy duty thread from a US company.
What will the slings fit through? Anything that has a 1" slot, whether it's a QD, HK clip, plastic clip, rifle sling mount, paracord, zip ties, etc.
How do I install this through something or to my weapon? Step by step procedure here of what I do.
Do I have any clips or QD mounts? Not at this time, no.
Do you do custom work? Sometimes, depending on my schedule, but any transactions would not be through GAFS.
Do I have XXX color or product? If it's not listed I don't have it at this moment. Also, I have only been using Berry compliant webbing and no I have not found waifu webbing that is Berry compliant. Yet.
Why did you start this? In 2022 or so I was in the market for an inexpensive sling in a color other than black and also made in the USA. After I made a few for myself I started to produce these as a low-cost, high quality sling for anyone who was in the same boat I was in.
Why do you keep doing this? It's fun! Sewing has let me be creative and make myself kit that I like! Also allows me to prototype things and pass on my "old stuff" to you!

In the ever-evolving world of search engine optimization (SEO), understanding and implementing the latest strategies is crucial for staying ahead of the competition. One such strategy is semantic SEO. This approach focuses on the meaning behind the words and phrases users type into search engines, rather than just the keywords themselves. But what exactly is semantic SEO, and why is it important? Let’s dive in.

The Basics of Semantic SEO

At its core, SEO is about optimizing content for the intent behind a user’s search query. Instead of focusing solely on specific keywords, semantic SEO considers the context and relationships between words to provide more relevant and comprehensive search results. This approach aligns with how search engines like Google are becoming increasingly sophisticated in understanding and processing language.

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How Semantic SEO Works

Semantic SEO leverages advanced algorithms that understand natural language and context. These algorithms can interpret synonyms, related concepts, and even the sentiment behind queries. By optimizing your content with a semantic approach, you help search engines better understand the context of your content, which can lead to higher rankings and more relevant traffic.

Why Are Semantic Keywords Important in SEO?

Semantic keywords are crucial because they reflect the way people naturally speak and search. Here are a few reasons why they matter:

1. Enhanced User Experience: Content that addresses the user’s intent provides a better experience, which can lead to longer site visits and lower bounce rates.
2. Improved Search Engine Understanding: By using semantic keywords, you help search engines grasp the broader context of your content, making it easier for them to match it with relevant queries.
3. Higher Rankings: Content optimized for semantic search is more likely to rank higher because it aligns with the sophisticated algorithms of modern search engines.
4. Increased Visibility: Semantic keywords can help your content appear in a wider range of search results, capturing traffic from various related queries.

The Role of Structured Data in Semantic SEO

Structured data plays a significant role in semantic SEO. It helps search engines understand the context of your content by providing explicit clues about the meaning behind it. Implementing structured data, such as schema markup, can enhance your site’s search engine visibility by enabling rich snippets and other enhanced search results features.

Semantic SEO Tools

Several tools can help you implement a semantic SEO strategy effectively. Here are some of the most popular ones:

1. Google’s Natural Language API: This tool analyzes text to understand the structure and meaning behind it.
2. SEMrush: Offers features to identify semantic keywords and analyze content for semantic SEO.
3. Ahrefs: Provides insights into related keywords and their context, helping you optimize your content.
4. MarketMuse: Uses AI to suggest content improvements and identify semantic gaps in your writing.
5. Surfer SEO: Analyzes top-ranking pages to help you optimize your content semantically.

Implementing Semantic Keywords in Your SEO Strategy

Incorporating semantic keywords into your SEO strategy involves several steps:

1. Keyword Research: Start by identifying primary keywords related to your topic. Then, use tools like SEMrush or Ahrefs to find related terms and phrases.
2. Content Creation: Write content that naturally incorporates these keywords. Focus on creating comprehensive, in-depth articles that cover the topic from multiple angles.
3. Use Synonyms and Related Terms: Don’t just repeat the same keywords. Use synonyms and related terms to create a more natural and varied text.
4. Optimize for User Intent: Consider what users are looking for when they type a query. Aim to answer their questions and solve their problems.
5. Structured Data: Implement schema markup to help search engines understand the context of your content.

Case Study: Successful Semantic SEO

Let’s look at a hypothetical case study to understand the impact of semantic SEO. Imagine a travel blog looking to increase its organic traffic. By adopting a semantic SEO strategy, they might do the following:

1. Identify User Intent: Understand that users searching for “best travel destinations” might also be interested in “affordable travel destinations” or “family-friendly travel spots.”
2. Create Comprehensive Guides: Develop detailed guides covering various aspects of travel destinations, including costs, activities, and family-friendly options.
3. Use Structured Data: Implement schema markup to highlight key information, such as location, price range, and user reviews.
4. Monitor and Adjust: Continuously use tools like Google Analytics and SEMrush to monitor performance and adjust the content strategy as needed.

By focusing on the semantic relationships between keywords and understanding user intent, the travel blog can attract a broader audience and rank higher in search results.

Common Misconceptions About Semantic SEO

There are several misconceptions about semantic SEO that can hinder its effective implementation:

1. It’s Just About Using Synonyms: While synonyms are part of it, semantic SEO is more about understanding and addressing user intent.
2. It Replaces Traditional SEO: Semantic SEO complements rather than replaces traditional SEO practices. Both are essential for a successful strategy.
3. Only Big Sites Can Benefit: Any site, regardless of size, can implement semantic SEO to improve its rankings and visibility.

Future of Semantic SEO

The future of semantic SEO looks promising as search engines continue to evolve. Here are some trends to watch:

1. Voice Search: With the rise of voice assistants like Siri and Alexa, optimizing for natural language queries will become even more crucial.
2. AI and Machine Learning: These technologies will further enhance search engines’ ability to understand context and intent.
3. Visual and Video Search: As visual and video content becomes more prevalent, understanding the semantics of these formats will be key.

Conclusion

Semantic SEO is a powerful strategy that goes beyond traditional keyword optimization. By focusing on the meaning and context behind search queries, you can create more relevant and comprehensive content that meets user intent. Implementing semantic keywords, using structured data, and leveraging advanced SEO tools can significantly enhance your site’s search engine visibility and rankings. As search engines continue to evolve, staying ahead with semantic SEO will be essential for maintaining a competitive edge in the digital landscape.

FAQs on Semantic SEO

1. What is the difference between traditional SEO and semantic SEO?

Answer: Traditional SEO focuses on optimizing content around specific keywords to improve search engine rankings. It involves practices like keyword stuffing, backlink building, and meta tag optimization. In contrast, semantic SEO emphasizes the meaning and context behind keywords, understanding user intent, and creating content that addresses those intents comprehensively. It uses related terms, synonyms, and structured data to help search engines understand the broader context of the content.

1. How can semantic SEO improve my website’s search rankings?

Answer: Semantic SEO can enhance your website’s search rankings by aligning your content with how search engines understand and process language. By optimizing for user intent and context, you create more relevant and comprehensive content. This improves the user experience, leading to longer visits and lower bounce rates, which are positive signals to search engines. Additionally, using structured data helps search engines better understand and display your content in rich snippets, further boosting visibility.

1. What tools are best for implementing semantic SEO?

Answer: Several tools can assist with semantic SEO implementation. Some of the most popular include:

• Google’s Natural Language API: Analyzes text to understand structure and meaning.
• SEMrush: Identifies semantic keywords and analyzes content for optimization.
• Ahrefs: Provides insights into related keywords and their contexts.
• MarketMuse: Uses AI to suggest content improvements and identify semantic gaps.
• Surfer SEO: Analyzes top-ranking pages to help optimize content semantically.

1. How do I find semantic keywords for my content?

Answer: To find semantic keywords, start with thorough keyword research using tools like SEMrush, Ahrefs, or Google Keyword Planner. Identify your primary keywords and then look for related terms, synonyms, and variations. Analyze search queries and user intent to understand what users are looking for. Tools like Answer the Public can also provide insights into common questions and topics related to your primary keywords, helping you identify semantic keywords that align with user intent.

1. Why is structured data important in semantic SEO?

Answer: Structured data is crucial in semantic SEO because it provides search engines with explicit information about the content on your website. By using schema markup, you can help search engines understand the context and relationships within your content. This can enhance your search engine visibility by enabling rich snippets, knowledge graphs, and other enhanced search results features. Structured data helps ensure that your content is accurately represented in search results, making it easier for users to find and engage with your content.
In the ever-evolving world of search engine optimization (SEO), understanding and implementing the latest strategies is crucial for staying ahead of the competition. One such strategy is semantic SEO. This approach focuses on the meaning behind the words and phrases users type into search engines, rather than just the keywords themselves. But what exactly is semantic SEO, and why is it important? Let’s dive in.

CBSE schools in Paschim Vihar is a well-built residential area located in Delhi. It is known for its lush green environment, new age amenities and comfortable living. There are high-rise apartment buildings as well as gated societies, which make it a great place for families. Therefore, the environment for children is good for studies. Paschim vihar in many CBSE schools which are very good for the future of children. It is necessary for studiesThere is a good network of paschim vihar roads and paschim vihar Delhi Metro to connect with the rest of Delhi. Due to this, main commercial and business centers can be easily reached from here paschim vihar .Paschim Vihar also has many parks, shopping centres, hospitals and recreational facilities. People living in paschim vihar enjoy a peaceful and safe environment and there is a sense of togetherness among the people in the neighbourhood. Furthermore, Paschim Vihar has many reputed schools, making it a great location for families who value their children's education.

Importance of Choosing the Right CBSE School in Paschim Vihar

Choosing a CBSE school for children is an important decision for parents in paschim vihar . These schools lay the foundation for children's education and development of their entire personality in paschim vihar . So that children have a good future, make a good career, get knowledge of every field and every subject, CBSE schools are very good in paschim vihar.

• Paschim vihar CBSE schools have a very good curriculum which not only provides good education but also prepares the children for further studies and competitive examinations. Good performance in board exams is important for both jobs and college admissions.
• Paschim Vihar CBSE schools have educated and experienced teachers who can teach children well and develop their thinking power. The number of children in the class and the method of teaching also affect the learning experience.
• Paschim Vihar Schools structure and facilities In schools which have buildings with new technology, good libraries, labs with latest equipment, play areas and smart classrooms, children get a good environment for studies. These facilities help in all-round development of children and motivate them to learn different things.
• Paschim vihar Top schools do not just teach books but also include things like sports, art and culture in the curriculum. This develops creativity, teamwork and leadership qualities in children.

Paschim Vihar best CBSE schools inculcate good values and discipline in children, making them responsible and good human beings.Only those schools are good which work closely with the parents and keep them involved in the education of their children. This relationship between parents and teachers is very important for the progress of children.

Criteria for Selecting the Best CBSE Schools

Choosing the right CBSE school for your child is an important decision that impacts their studies and their overall development. Let us see what to keep in mind while choosing the best CBSE school:1. Academic performanceGood education is the most important thing for any renowned schools. To ensure that the school will strengthen children's basic education, you should consider the following:

• Board Exam Results: Check out how the school has performed in the CBSE board exams over the years. If a good percentage of children pass every year and the number of students scoring good marks is also high, then it is an indication that the school pays a lot of attention to studies.
• School Rankings: View national and regional schools rankings published by renowned organizations. These rankings are often given keeping in mind things like the education of schools, qualifications of teachers, structure of the school etc.

2.Teachers and teaching methodsThe knowledge and commitment of educators have a major impact on the standard of education. When choosing a school, it is crucial to assess the instructors and their methods of instruction.

• Teacher Qualification: Verify whether the institution employs qualified educators with degrees and certifications in the teaching profession.Teachers who undergo continuous professional development stay abreast of the latest teaching methods. Such teachers bring valuable knowledge to the classroom and use effective teaching strategies.
• Student-Teacher Ratio: A lower student-teacher ratio means each student will get more individual attention. This ratio is important to meet individual learning needs and create a supportive learning environment. An ideal CBSE school has a low student-teacher ratio, which provides teachers an opportunity to connect more with the students and resolve their doubts.

3.Infrastructure and facilitiesThe well-equipped school provides an environment suitable for learning and all-round development. It is important to evaluate the infrastructure and facilities while choosing a school.

• Classrooms and Laboratories: Modern, spacious classrooms and well-equipped laboratories are important for effective teaching and practical learning.Science and computer laboratories should have the latest equipment and resources. Well-lit and ventilated classrooms create a good environment for learning.
• Sports and extra-curricular facilities: Apart from physical development and education, adequate sports facilities, playgrounds and areas for extra-curricular activities are essential to nurture talents. Check availability of courts, fields and equipment for different sports. A good school provides a balance of indoor and outdoor sports facilities.

Best CBSE Schools in Paschim Vihar: Doon Public School

Doon Public School is one of the top CBSE schools located in Paschim Vihar, Delhi. The school is known for its commitment to providing quality education and promoting all-round development. This school has established itself as a major center not only for being top in studies but also for building good character of children. Sports and dance take children to excel in everything, which helps children a lot in their future career. and takes the first step into the world of success

• Experienced teacher :

The school has a team of highly qualified and experienced teachers who are dedicated to nurturing the intellectual and personal development of each student. With a low student-teacher ratio, Doon Public School provides individual attention, giving teachers the opportunity to meet individual learning needs and foster a supportive and encouraging environment.

• Academic Excellence :
  In Doon Public School, children's education is given utmost importance. Every year the children of the school perform very well in the CBSE board examinations. This is proof that the standard of education in the school is very high and the methods of teaching are also very effective. The school's curriculum is broad and challenging, preparing children for the rigorous examinations and higher education ahead.
  
• State-of-the-Art Infrastructure
  

Doon Public School is equipped with modern facilities that make the learning experience even better:

1. Classrooms: Spacious, well-lit and air-conditioned classrooms with smart boards and audio-visual aids to promote interactive learning. These classes create a good environment for learning and help children concentrate.
2. Laboratories: Advanced science and computer laboratories provide students with hands-on learning experiences, fostering scientific curiosity and technical proficiency. Laboratories equipped with the latest equipment give students the opportunity to put theoretical knowledge into practice.
3. Library: A well-equipped library with a wide range of books, magazines and digital resources encourages a love of reading and research. This serene environment motivates students to study and gain knowledge.

• Holistic Development

Understanding the importance of holistic development, Doon Public School offers a wide range of extra-curricular activities:

1. Sports: The school has extensive sports facilities, including cricket, football fields, basketball courts and indoor games, which promote physical fitness and teamwork. Participation in sports competitions inculcates a sense of healthy competition among the students.
2. Arts and Culture: Regular art classes, music education, dance and drama programs provide opportunities to students to explore their creative talents. Cultural festivals and events celebrate diversity and promote cultural appreciation. These activities make students feel confident and comfortable on stage.
3. Clubs and Societies: Various clubs like Debate, Robotics and Environment Club help students pursue their interests and develop leadership and organizational skills. Participating in club activities builds cooperation, coordination and team spirit among students.

Conclusion

Choosing the right CBSE school in Paschim Vihar is important to ensure the academic success and all-round development of your child. Doon Public School stands as a premier institution providing high quality education, state-of-the-art infrastructure and a nurturing environment. With its experienced teachers, emphasis on academic excellence and a wide range of extra-curricular activities, Doon Public School prepares students for future challenges and opportunities. Investing in a school like Doon Public School is a step towards securing a bright and promising future for your child.

This question might be asked many times and there are multiple resources online for this. But I've tried every single one but most of them are incomplete or outdated. Can someone explain step by step on how to do this? Here's what have I tried so far:

Deploying to jitpack

I've reason numerous threads and tweets that one should prefer MavenCentral over jitpack for large scale projects (i intend to make a large scale project).

Using GitHub packages

With GitHub Actions, I tried deploying to GitHub Packages with the repository url https://maven.pkg.github.com// with the credentials to be GITHUB_ACTOR and GITHUB_TOKEN.
Although this worked, when I tried using my library in another project, I see that none of the code is actually downloaded. I thought this is because i didn't add "artifact" to my publishing. So I added:
``` plugins { java }
java { withSourcesJar() withJavadocJar() } ```
And re-tried but the same result. Idk what else I need to do to make gradle actually download the code.

Trying OSSRH

I learnt that people use Sonatype to publish their packages. However, I see it is a paid feature with a 14-days free trial? I don't see why I need to pay for an open source project I want to develop and hoist. Am I missing something here?
I'd love some guidance over this. I used to work with Typescript and npm registry was fairly easy to manage. Coming from that background, publishing to mavenCentral is proving to be confusing for me despite numerous resources I've tried online. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
EDIT: https://central.sonatype.org/faq/what-happened-to-issues-sonatype-org/ this website from Sonatype JIRA says it is decommissioning. Every tutorial has pointed me to this website and i don't know where to go from here.

Hello all.
I originally posted this on another sub yesterday and was told I would maybe get a better selection of helpful answers on this sub
I recently found out my wife was cheating on me since February of this year.
Long story short a cardiac episode by me a few years ago and subsequent blood thinners and BP meds sapped my sex drive. I tried talking to her about it a few times over the years but she kept assuring me things were good. Then over the past couple years her parents both passed. This year the anniversary of those events triggered what she called a breakdown and midlife crisis. She convinced herself the lack of sex was not medical and was me seeing someone else so she started going to male review shows and then started seeing someone else.
I had suspicions but she assured me things were good and she would never cheat. Then I found out she did. We argued, then talked. She said she did love me and didn’t want the marriage to end. I told her she had to message this guy and end it. Tell him that it’s over, what they did was wrong and she loves her husband and doesn’t want to hurt him. Then she needs to block the number and delete the contact. She did all this in front of me. I also told her we need to do couples therapy. Which she agreed to
We’ve been more physically intimate and have been reconnecting. We talk more openly like we used to. We talked and she unloaded on me all stuff she had never shared about how she had been treated in past relationships and there’s a lot of unresolved trauma she never dealt with.
We had our first therapy session and we are going to have weekly appointments.
She is trying. And I appreciate that.
But my questions are for those who have been cheated on and stayed together….
How did you rebuild the trust? Every time she is texting someone or working late or weekends (which her job does require from time to time) how do you get past that feeling of doubt. That nagging voice going “is she really working? She told you she was working before when she was really having sex with another guy”
How do you get over the fear that, as she works through her trauma that she will come to realize her shutting everyone out caused her to fall out of love with you. And that feeling isn’t just waiting to be uncovered, but she killed it and buried it and it won’t come back.
Do those feelings ever go away? How did you work through them. I am sure therapy will help but right now all I feel is anger and fear.
Anger, not at the act of cheating ironically, but that had she just been open and honest rather than cloak herself in grief and anger, this could have all been avoided.
And the fear as I described. That when it’s all said and done she killed her feelings for me because that was easier for her than dealing with her pain and trauma. And fear of not getting the ability to trust back, that it will happen again. She rationalized it once and lied about it already
I know I’m in the first steps of this. But any advice would be helpful.

I’ve made a post before. There I also spoke about how I never felt anything for anyone, how all the relationships I’ve ever seen were toxic to varying degrees, and other things I can’t recall right now.
However, as the title states… there was more hate as I grew up. My mother still feels guilty that she didn’t leave and somewhat encouraged my father’s behavior towards me. Through that, I really only learned that I should use one emotion.
Rage.
That rage only pushed people (who I was already isolated by) away. I hardly had any friends and was ostracized by practically everyone as I grew up. It’s kind of hard to imagine love then. I did many physical outbursts on myself, passing out once from a blind rage. The scars are shameful, but very small in number compared to my others.
Now, I just wonder what it feels like. I’ve heard it is peace, fulfilling, wonderful, etc. Is that what it really is? I know love isn’t easy, but neither is the toll of hate and anger on the body. Even though I like being by myself a lot, just being capable of feeling something would be enough. I’ve heard the “hate takes more energy than love”, but then you would have to call me the mitochondria.
I’ve been in therapy. Coming up on 6 years. Different therapists, different methods, but I just see it as worthless. Paying the price of a motorcycle in total over the years for what feels like a simple conversation. It feels pathetic, as if I need to pay to talk to someone. I actually have an appointment today in the next hour.
I’ve even been hit on multiple times recently, but I didn’t find it flattering. I found it annoying, irritating, and (sounds horrible) disgusting. I want to learn how it can be genuine and flattering.
I never had feelings and don’t think I can, so I don’t even know if that’s a possibility. Might be better off though. If I’m being honest, there are aspects of romantic/sexual love that I find somewhat repulsive.
What should I push myself towards. The majority of myself that is just saying “do you really think love is a key component to life? You can live without it.” While the minority part of my mindset is “Even if it’s just once, open your heart to love. Yes, you don’t NEED it to live, but it can certainly be a step for you to take.”
It’s confusing and I don’t know what to do.

Ah, the curious case of the Ex making an unexpected appearance, like a breeze from a chapter long closed. A friend of mine, let's call her Sarah, found herself in this very scenario not too long ago. Her ex, whom she hadn't heard from in ages, suddenly popped up with a casual, "Hey, how are you?"
Now, Sarah, she's a wise soul, seasoned by life's various ups and downs. She took a moment before replying. There's a fine line to tread in these situations, isn't there? You want to be polite but also guard your peace.
So, she replied, "I'm doing well, thank you. Life's been keeping me busy. How about you?" Polite, yet not overly warm. She chose not to dive into any specifics. It was like offering a courteous nod to a past acquaintance – acknowledging their presence without inviting them back into the inner circle of her life.
Responding to an ex, especially when you've moved on, is a bit like handling a delicate old photograph. You handle it with care, but you don't necessarily want to pull it out of the box and put it back on the mantlepiece. It's a dance of diplomacy, where you step gracefully, yet ensure you don't re-open doors best left closed.

The bits:
-Not only does the flesh of Chaos marines fuse with their armor, but their minds also fuse with the machine spirits of their wargear. A Chaos Marine's armor will mutate and be reshaped by the Warp taint to reflect his obsessions and their affinity/allegiance to the gods of Chaos.
-Following the Scouring and the exile to the Eye of Terror, none of the Traitor Primarchs were interested in unifying the Traitor Legions. Mortarion and Lorgar mostly shunned Real Space. Mortarion busied himself in reshaping his Daemon world into an image of his destroyed homeworld Barbarus. Lorgar self-exiled himself to the Daemon world of Sicarus. Magnus focused his attention on curing his legion from their curse of mutation. Fulgrim lost himself in a spiral of excess and pleasure. Perturabo fixated on pursuing his vendetta with the Imperial Fists rather than the pursuit of grand conquest. And so with no unifying leader, the traitor legions were fragmented by infighting and the cruel whims of the Chaos Gods.
-When Abaddon rose as Warmaster, he resolved to learn from the mistakes of his genesire. He swore to never bend the knee to the gods of Chaos, and to never sell his soul to them no matter how tempting their offers of powers. Abaddon refused to surrender his morality for immortal power and guarded it well.
-The 13th Black Crusade hasn't ended. It's reaching its peak in the Indomintus Era. Though Cadia had fallen, the war for the Cadian Gate continues. Furthermore, Abaddon is expanding his warfront elsewhere such as the Nachmund Gauntlet. These are but a few of the schemes Abaddon seeks to enact to topple the Imperium. Should Abaddon succeed in them then the power of Chaos will be unleashed from the Warp toward Terra itself.
-With each conquest, Abaddon paved a path toward Terra. However, what was unknown for the rest of the galaxy was his plan to unpick the veil between the Materium and the Warp. For thousands of years under the cover of false objectives and even entire Black Crusades Abaddon sought out and destroyed the Pylons wherever he found them. Sometimes he did so personally, other times via his agents, or by using the Planet Killer and the Blackstone Fortresses.
-The Fall of Cadia was the culmination of Abaddon's millennia-spanning grand plan, a plan that tied together the events of Pandorax, the Siege of Fenris, and others. The Great Rift was born, flooding the galaxy with the stuff of the Warp. Acting as his vanguard the traitor legions and renegade warbands smashed their way through the Cadian Gate and emerged on the other side. The traitor forces brought destruction and bloodshed to world after world empowering the Warp and causing the daemonic legions to follow in their wake. Invasion after invasion, the Crimson Path expands toward Terra.
-The Chaos Gods and their legions believe that the fall of Terra and the destruction of the Emperor would be the ultimate prize, the conclusion of the war between the Materium and the Immaterium. Yet, Terra's fall is one part of Abaddon's plan for vengeance, not the end. Abaddon is aware that the ultimate victory of the Chaos Gods would be bad for his mortal self so he has no intention of depending on the Chaos Gods in achieving the victory he seeks. For now, Abaddon is all too content to have the forces of Chaos carve a path toward Terra.
-In the Age of the Great Rift, the forces of Chaos are prowling the stars in numbers not seen since the HH. Not even the Imperium Sanctus is safe from their wrath. However, it's in the Imperium Nihilus where they are at their strongest. Isolated from each other and shorn from the guiding light of Terra, the isolated bastions of the Imperium are being beset by the forces of Chaos from within and without. The overstretched defenders of the Imperium still valiantly attempt to stem the overwhelming tides of Chaos, chief among them are Dante and the returned Primarch the Lion who rage against the encircling darkness. Yet their efforts are nothing but futile gestures. Candles of hope set before a raging inferno of hate.
-Roboute launched the Indomintus Crusade to save the Imperium from collapse yet even this colossal assemblage of Imperial might cannot hope to repel every Chaos incursion. Conflicts are flaring up in every Segmentum of the Imperium and in each the influence of the Despoiler can be felt.
-Though Chaos is ascendant gutted on conquest and slaughter, Abaddon knows that he must maintain the momentum of his Black Crusade by feeding it constant conquests and victories or else risk his forces fragmenting before he could topple the Imperium.
-Abaddon and the Black Legion value value renegades from the Space Marine chapters who join their ranks. These turncoats bring them an abundance of information about the Imperium and its defenders allowing Abaddon's formidable intellect to fashion accurate and complex plans that inflict the maximum damage to the Imperium. In the past it allowed the Black Legion to deceive sector fleets, steal geneseed from loyalist chapter strongholds, and strike at key industrial zones.
-Lord Iordax Quan is one of the most singularly dedicated Black Legion commanders to the cause of destroying the Imperium. His focus on the Long War resulted in him rejecting the blessings of the Dark Gods and surrounding himself with fellow true veterans of the Long War whose thirst for vengeance remains undimmed. His focus, his dedication, has led to Abaddon deploying him to crucial warzones. He is currently serving in the Cadian system purging the last Imperial holdouts.
-Solomon Akurra the character from Mike Brooks' novel "Harrowmaster" is mentioned in the codex. Akurra had seized control of the Serpent Teeth's warband and now commands the mobile Star Fort the Unseen. He gathered around him a loose alliance of Alpha Legion warbands that he dubbed the Ghost Legion. In his burning desire to take the fight to the Imperium, he is exploiting the sorry state of the Imperium to add to its misery. Using his strategic mind and the sinister skills of the Alpha Legion, Akurra had deceived entire systems to swear allegiance to the Ghost Legion further destabilizing the Imperium. The majority of the Psyphos subsector is now under his rule. Yet this is merely the start of the seeds of anarchy he will plant in Segmentum Pacificus.
-When the Great Rift opened, the three stars of a system close to the galactic core and bordering the territories of the Greater Thurian League were swallowed up by the expanding Warpstorm known to the Kin as Orgvayr. The surging Warp energy resulted in the trio of stars going supernova at the same time creating a nebula of tainted clouds of astral debris riddled with Warp rifts which acted as refuge for many Chaos warbands including the Iron Warrior warband known as Abrial's Claw. The determined Iron Warriors took to besieging the mighty strongholds of the Kin and several fell before them.
-The short story "The Traitor's Tarot" from the 9th ED CSM codex is again here in the 10th Ed codex. They added four images to accompany the paragraphs that described the heretical artwork. I appreciate rereading the short, it's a good story but I would have very much liked a new story to come with the new codex. You get me?
-Traitor fleets have no fear of the raging tides of the Warp. They sail through and from even the hearts of Warpstorms. The remarkable ease with which the heretics are navigating the turbulent Warp makes it seem that the hands of the Chaos Gods protect them as they emerge over their prey worlds. Within the darkness of the Imperium Nihilus, the traitors have enacted butchery and atrocity of epic proportions on the isolated worlds of the Imperium. The luckiest of their victims are those who meet quick ends. Those who survive face a fate worse than death at the hands of the heretics.
-Worse still for humanity, within Nihilus many of the traitors' unnatural abilities and blessings are being empowered. Their wargear swell and blaze with the power of the Chaos Gods and their sorcery are reaching new levels of dark majesty and potency.
-The isolation of Imperial territories in the Imperium Nihilus made many Imperial worlds and systems believe that they are the last of humanity. Some broke off from Imperial rule and transformed into their own kingdoms and nations. The decline of Imperial faith soon saw these independent realms and worlds rot from the inside out as the insidious whispers of daemons spread to the populace and Chaos cults flourished.
-Traitor empires are rising in the Imperium Nihilus. Worlds that had once served the Imperium now fuel the warbands and legions of Chaos with their resources and industry. Abaddon has a hand in the creation and location of some of these heretical empires. It's unknown whether these empires are part of some scheme of his or are merely a vision of a galaxy under his rule.
-Vashhtorr's origins are unknown, forgotten by history. It's possible he was created by the technological and scientific advancements of the DAoT, spawned by the galaxy-shaping technology of the Old Ones, or came to being when primitives first mastered fire and created sharp tools.
-Vashtorr and Perturabo enjoy a beneficial but less than friendly relationship with each other. They cooperated in many nightmarish projects. The Daemon Primarch has regularly allied his Iron Warrior warbands with the Arkifane.
-Wyrmwood is a perversion of the tunneling devices used by the Old Ones to create the Webway. It's the Key for the Lock of a vault that contains a godly weapon capable of altering the fate of the galaxy. In search for the lock, Wyrmwood carves its way through the Webway and Real Space in an insane pattern known only to Vashtorr. Wyrmwood is unrestrained by the laws of time and space. The Imperial agents are struggling to catch up to Wyrmwood as it emerges into sectors across the breadth of the galaxy. The daemon world is crossing vast tracks of space in mere hours, that would have taken Imperial fleets months to sail through. By the time Imperial fleet heeded distress calls and arrived at Wyrmwood's reported location, the daemonic world engine would have long departed having left behind nothing but ruined worlds and tears in reality.
-Even the Asuryani, who are enraged at the corruption of the Webway technology and fearful of the damage Wyrmwood will inflict on the Webway tunnels, are struggling to track down Wyrmwood. Their seers are unable to crack the code of Vashtorr's insane search pattern. Only Craftworld Altansar, due to their bitter experience with the Warp and its mutilation of reality, are making progress in tracking Wyrmwood. However, thus far, the Asuryani's efforts to draw Vashtorr into battle were met with dismal failure.
-Reports hint that Wyrmwood is about to appear in the Pariah Nexus. Other reports hint that it will appear in the Ghoul Stars. What is certain is that nowhere is safe from Vashtorr's wrath.
-Vashtorr is a timeless being. Linear time is of no consequence to him. While the efforts of his foes might delay his search, he will have his prize sooner or later.
-Vashtorr has near limitless control over technology. The nature and origin of the technology do not matter to Vashtorr, his understanding is without limit. Vashtorr can unmake or take control of any device created by mortal hands with a mere gesture.
-Within the superstructures of the Soul Forges nests the daemon engines known as the Venomcrawlers. They hunt and down devour daemonic entities that get discarded by Warpsmith and Masters of Possessions. The raging essences of these consumed entities power the daemon engines' weapons. When daemonic prey becomes lacking Venomcrawlers start hunting the Soul Forges' heretic marine masters to keep themselves fed.
-The Dark Mech provides the hosts of Chaos with armor, weapons, daemon engines, and even battle fleets. Without the Dark Mech the armies of Chaos might grind to a halt.
-While the physical shells of captured Imperial war machines are desecrated and reshaped into horrific forms, their machine spirits are sent to the Soul Forges within the Warp to be driven to madness.
-Some Soul Forges are rumored to predate mankind, that they are eternal and ruled over by unknowable entities.
-The captive daemons are dragged screaming by ropes fashioned from the hair of murderers and chains of bones into the Soul Forges where Warpsmiths bind them into daemon engines and then bludgeon them to submission with runic wards and rituals.
-Abaddon is not only feared by the High Lords of Terra. Within the halls of the greatest Xenos Empires, the Warmaster's name invokes fear.
-So mighty has Abaddon become after 10K years that only the Daemon Primarchs could challenge his position. Yet these figures are too focused on their pursuits to risk war with the Despoiler and his vast legion.
-Only Abaddon can unite the forces of Chaos. To do so is a continuous fight for the Warmaster especially when marshaling allied forces whose allegiance belongs to their gods alone. Getting these opposing servants of the Chaos Gods to set aside their rivalries not only for a short period of time but for years is proof of his supreme willpower and the high regard and fear felt toward him by the traitors even by those who hate him and wish him to fail.
-Haarken was once a Night Lord. His ruthlessness saw him rise to the command of the Night Lord warband known as the Gloomtalons. Haarken would lead his warband into raids on the worlds of the Imperium. He would always proclaim his coming victory and a world's doom on the vox broadcasts before leading his formation of raptors through the night sky to butcher any who foolishly resists and make examples of them. Haarken would kidnap the leaders of Imperial worlds and give them the choice of swearing fealty to him or suffering a prolonged agonizing death. Through a network of spies, Haarken ensured the Imperial leaders who bowed before him were kept in line. Thus Haarken grew rich in wealth and plunder. However, despite his successes as a pirate and raider, he found no satisfaction. He felt empty. His black heart yearned to strike a lasting blow against the Imperium.
-Haarken prayers were answered when Abaddon's attention fell on him. During the muster for the fifth Black Crusade, Abaddon offered the Haarken the honor of fighting alongside his Black Legion. Abaddon was straightforward with Haarken. He did not promise Haarken riches and plunder but the chance to strike a telling blow against the hated Imperium. And if he served well Abaddon would grant him further chances to bleed the Imperium. It was as if Abaddon peered through Haarken's soul and fulfilled his deepest desires. Haarken then and there knew he was standing before greatness, a warlord with the strength, charisma, and vision to bring the Imperium crashing down.
-During the battle for the city of Kasyr Lutein, Haarken and his Gloomtalons flew ahead of Abaddon and his Black Legion. Haarken unleashed unspeakable acts of violence and terror on the defenders of the city. The demoralized Imperials were annihilated by the combined might of the Black Legion and the Night Lords.
-Ultimately, the Fifth Black Crusade came to an end and the traitors were forced back to the Eye of Terror. However, the Imperials paid a terrible price to do so and the Elysian sector was ravaged. Having witnessed firsthand the supreme might and leadership of Abaddon, Haarken bent the knee to the Despoiler and donned the black and gold of the Black Legion. Since then Haarken carved a place for himself among the vanguard of the Black Legion eventually earning himself the title of the Worldclaimer for the countless worlds he conquered in the name of Abaddon.
-Abaddon acknowledged the loyalty and good service of Haarken by bestowing upon him the title of the "Herald of the Apocalypse" and the Helspear, a weapon that befits his new position as Abaddon's mouthpiece.
-Haarken is wholly devoted to Abaddon and his cause. From the Nachmund Gauntlet, he is committed to tearing a path toward the Sol system. He yearns for the day when he would drive his spear into Terra's surface and proclaim the end of the rule of the False Emperor.
-The Iron Warriors honor the Chaos Gods as a pantheon, though few among their number are truly devoted. Their true loyalty belongs to their Daemon Primarch whom they believe saved them from being sacrificed by the Emperor.
-Many Chaos warlords look down on the methods of Alpha Legion, but Abaddon does not. Abaddon appreciates their skills and makes good use of them. More than once the Warmaster employed the Alpha Legion to sow discord and anarchy before his invading fleets. However, Abaddon knows that the Alpha Legion are dangerous allies for their goals and true motivations are closely guarded secrets.
-Despite the revulsion and mistrust Abaddon feels toward the Word Bearers for reminding him of the shameful depths Horus fell into in his worship of the Chaos Gods. he had made common cause with them on many occasions. The effectiveness of the Word Bearers as warriors, both possessed or not, is something the Warmaster cannot deny. It's a source of strength he cannot afford to discard. Lorgar for his part sees Abaddon as a tool to spread the Word of the Ruinous Powers to the very heart of the Imperium.
-Most Night Lords do not seem to worship the Chaos Gods in the same degree as the other traitor Legions. They fight only for material gain and personal pleasure. They look down on fanatical marines, be they worshipers of Dark Gods or the False Emperor. They place their respect not in faith but in strength, strength and terror.
-The Night Lords will fight for any cause as long as the plunder is good and they have ample opportunity to inflict as much bloodshed and anguish as they can. This made some Night Lords warbands pledge their service to alien warlords.
-After the birth of the Great Rift, the Red Corsairs have become experts in navigating the border regions between Warpstorms and Real Space. They established secret bases in the liminal zones. One of them is a significantly large base called the Tyrant's Gate in the Imperium Nihilus. Every sin and vice is indulged on that world. The world is orbited by weapon shops, docks, and defense platforms. Within the Warp, a sorcerous anchorage allows the battleships of Chaos to translate directly from and to the planet's orbit swiftly.
-Imperial reports that Huron Blackheart was spotted in two Segmentums at once seem to all but confirm that he struck some sort of bargain with the Chaos Gods.
-In exchange for his skill, Fabius had struck bargains with Chaos warlords, including the Daemon Primarch. He favours no client over the other, not even his gene-father.
-In recent years, Fabius has acquired samples from the Primaris marines and the Custodes. What he intends to do with them is unknown.
-The daemon Q'o'ak the Boundless is said to have drawn the ire of his master Tzeentch by meddling in his plans. To rid himself of Q'o'ak's ceaseless meddling, Tzeentch bound him to a weapon. Each time the weapon clashes with an enemy blade, the enemy falls victim to Q'o'ak temporal tampering. How Q'o'ak traverses time while imprisoned within the weapon remains unknown but with each soul he pulls from the web of fate a fresh plume manifests from the weapon's hilt.
Emeys Varran, the Apostle of Discordance, is unusually zealous in his devotion to Dark Gods for a trusted lieutenant of Abaddon. Despite his zealous faith in the Chaos Gods, Varran's true loyalty lies with Abaddon and the Black Legion. He is one of the Warhamer's few trusted confidants. Varran holds an intense and violent hatred toward the Sisters of Battle after losing his left eye to a neural wipe during the siege of the Chaos Knight World of Dharrovar. Abaddon dispatched Varran to aid Haarkin in seizing control of the Nachmund Gauntlet.
The Vashtorr and Black Legion vs T'au short story:
The world that Vashtorr manifested upon had a half-destroyed ancient city. Within the city was a temple whose structure was etched with daemonic scripture. This was Vashtorr's target. The T'au presence on the world was an unexpected complication. The T'au were giving the traitor and heretic forces stiff resistance and barring their way to the temple. The T'au in their determination to cling to the world had littered the battlefield with the Black Legion dead. Yet Vashtorr knew that the mortals' resistance was futile. Wyrmwood was entering into alignment over the world and it would seal their doom.
As Wyrmwood completed its alignment, the planet's surface quaked and monolithic structures erupted from the earth. This disordered the T'au lines and forced them into a fighting retreat. The Black Legion and Vashtorr's tech cultists pressed the attack.
Vashtorr could sense the call of the Warp-tainted relic, how it begged for release. He made his way to the temple but found T'au stubbornly standing between him and it. The Black Legionaries, daemonic engines empowered by Vashtorrr and his servants, and a horde of cultists fell on the T'au. Vashtorr himself joined the fray. With a gesture, he turned the energy of a force field that protected a squad of fire warriors against them. The fire warriors screamed as their armor melted and their skin was seared. The Black Legion marines finished off the reeling survivors with their chainaxes and bolter stocks.
T'au reinforcements sent from their orbiting fleet joined the battle. Battlesuits, tanks, hovering barricades, and aircraft plunged from the skies. The firepower of the T'au scythed through cultists and marines alike.
Vashtorr waded into the T'au lines with his hammer, pulping and smashing the Xenos aside. With a gesture, he unmade a T'au skimmer from within causing it to crash into a trio of battlesuits and explode. Through the flames, he strode toward the temple's entrance only to find his way barred again.
A T'au suit descended down in front of Vashtorr. Its pilot uttered a warcry before shooting Vashtorr. The shots impacted Vashtorr causing him to stagger back slightly. Vashtorr examined his form where the shots were hitting him. His daemon flesh was being burned away revealing the cogs beneath and his form was flickering.
Vashtorr extended his wings and was carried toward his Xenos foe by unholy energies. As he fell upon the battlesuit he projected his voice into its communication system telling the pilot that he was being so proud of the ingenuity of his technology, he was so reliant on the mechanical.
Vashttorr smashed down the battlesuit with his hammer and hit it again and again until he cracked its armor. Then pinned it down with his hoof. From his form tentacles emerged and wormed their way into the suit. Vashtorr poured a fragment of his power into the battlesuit and willed it to be unmade. Even though the pilot's soul was weak and small, he could still feel their fear.
Vashtorr stepped away from the battlesuit's wreckage and strode again toward the temple. As ever mortal resistance was nothing more than obstacles to be overcome by a being of infinite patience such as he. He will find the Lock and then reality itself will tremble before him.

Banned bird......This is a report (Elphaba)
To whom this concerns,
On the evening's 30/4/24- 1/5/24, I was absolutely horrified and left in disgust at the behaviour of one of your creators on tiktok live. Elphaba Orion Doherty, who also uses other accounts to side step account bans, displayed extremely horrifying behaviour that should never be witnessed on the app.
Thousands of people, potentially even many more thousands after the initial incident, were subjected to dangerous suicide baiting behaviour and violent content by Elphaba Orion Doherty. She held a knife to her throat and threatened to kill herself to thousands upon thousands of viewers, whilst appearing to be very unstable after an incident the previous evening of claiming she had self harmed. On the day of the 1/5/24, she was even showing her viewers, who again were in the thousands her self harm "injuries" on her wrist and arm, saying that she would "show them" to her viewers so she could manipulate her audience for more gifts.
Elphaba Orion Doherty was allowed, despite thousands and thousands and thousands of reports for online safety due to the content of brandishing a knife to her own throat, threatening harm to herself and saying she "wants to die" These reports were all received with no violations and the live was allowed to continue for over twenty minutes.
Children under the age of sixteen years of age have self harmed as a result of this. Adults who experience mental health battles have harmed themselves as a result of this. Families and friends of those who have committed suicide have been affected by this.
This creator has a track record of inflammatory behaviour on the app, which again has been reported on numerous occasions because of the very real risk to children who do have access to the app. Not only just children and impressionable young people, but also the vupnerable adults and everhone else who is subjected to this behaviour. The content of this creator suicide baiting, threatening to kill themselves, actively abusing alcohol and narcotics whilst on live is completely unacceptable. If she isn't displaying the above-mentioned behaviour, then she is demanding gifts and money from her viewers, literally demanding.
Due to Elphaba being a trans creator and also young (20 years of age) She is very attractive to the younger generations, the target audience being children as a large percentage of her gifters and viewers are children. She already has an extremely negative influence on these children, with her regular intoxicated ramblings, narcotic induced tantrums, and now suicide baiting and self harming while on live, is a psychological and emotional minefield for children. Elphaba needs IP bans and enforced bans from making other accounts for the safety and well-being of so many people who use the app and platform for welcomed, creative purposes.
On a daily basis, Elphaba breaks the platforms own policies. Please see below. And I am using general terms in referring to youths 13+ who are legally allowed to have accounts and access to the platform.
TIKTOK POLICY BREACHES
•"Youth safety is our priority. We do not allow content that may put young people at risk of exploitation, or psychological, physical, or developmental harm. This includes child sexual abuse material (CSAM), youth abuse, bullying, dangerous activities and challenges, exposure to overtly mature themes, and consumption of alcohol, tobacco, drugs, or regulated substances. If we become aware of youth exploitation on our platform, we will ban the account, as well as any other accounts belonging to the person."
As we are aware that Elphaba Orion Doherty has regularly exploited 13+ youths to emotional and psychological harm by displaying the above mentioned behaviour of suicide baiting, self harm, narcotic and alcohol abuse on a regular basis. Elphaba regularly discusses sexual exhibitionism and sexual assault incidents that have allegedly happened to her, and she routinely sexualises comments and innuendos that are inappropriate entirely. Not to mention how Elphaba regularly manipulates her young viewers for gifts.
•"We are committed to bringing people together in a way that does not lead to physical conflict. We recognize that online content related to violence can cause real-world harm. We do not allow any violent threats, incitement to violence, or promotion of criminal activities that may harm people, animals, or property. If there is a specific, credible, and imminent threat to human life or serious physical injury, we report it to relevant law enforcement authorities."
The platform does have many qualities and content that is perfect for what is described, however Elphaba has threatened to physically harm other creators on a regular basis, has been active in criminal activities such as using narcotics, encouraging underage drinking of alcohol and encouraging dangerous behaviour.
• "TikTok is enriched by the various backgrounds of our community members. Our differences should be respected, rather than a cause for division. We do not allow any hateful behavior, hate speech, or promotion of hateful ideologies. This includes content that attacks a person or group because of protected attributes, including: Caste, Ethnicity, National Origin, Race, Religion, Tribe, immigration status, Gender, Gender Identity, sex, sexual orientation, disability, serious diseases."
Elphaba has repeatedly broken these guidelines which have been reported, again thousands of thousands of times in her lives. She has been transphobic, racist remarks, direct racism to other content creators, discriminatory towards other genders. She has also made sexualised remarks regarding other's sexual identity and violent sexual exhibitionism regarding others of the opposite sex.
• "TikTok is a place where people can come to discuss or learn about sexuality, sex or reproductive health. We are mindful that certain content may not be appropriate for young people, may be considered offensive by some, or may create the potential for exploitation. We do not allow sexual activity or services. This includes sex, sexual arousal, fetish and kink behavior, and seeking or offering sexual services. However, it does not include reproductive health and sex education content."
Elphaba does not host informative content such as sex education or reproductive health discussions. She regularly broadcasts that she wants to find a "man" and how he needs to have particular attributes. She often discusses what she would do to these men, quite graphically which again, is not appropriately for her target audience.
• "We celebrate all shapes and sizes and want people to feel comfortable in how they present themselves and their bodies. We understand societies approach body exposure and clothing differently, so we seek to reflect prevailing cultural norms about nudity. We do not allow nudity, including uncovered genitals and buttocks, as well as nipples and areolas of women and girls. Sheer and partially see-through clothing is not considered covered. We allow regional exceptions for showing nipples and areolas in limited situations, such as medical treatment, educational purposes, or as a part of culturally accepted practices. Not all young people have the developmental maturity to respond to unwanted physical attention and uninvited sexualization, which may lead to psychological or physical harm. We do not allow significant body exposure of young people. Content is age-restricted if it shows significant body exposure of an adult. Content is ineligible for the FYF if it shows moderate body exposure of a young person, or significant body exposure of an adult. We allow regional exceptions for body exposure in limited situations, such as common cultural practices."
Elphaba on more than one occasion has exposed their genitals, full genitals while dancing provocatively in a dress at a club and this video has circulated. She has also exposed herself on her own lives while wearing a different dress on a separate occasion. She has also exposed her chest and cleavage in provocative dresses, including adding make up to accentuate herself to be more visually appealing.
•" TikTok is a place where people can come to discuss or learn about sexuality, sex or reproductive health. We are mindful that certain content may not be appropriate for young people, may be considered offensive by some, or may create the potential for exploitation. We do not allow sexual activity or services. This includes sex, sexual arousal, fetish and kink behavior, and seeking or offering sexual services. However, it does not include reproductive health and sex education content."
Elphaba regularly discusses her sexual preferences and discusses her kinks and broadcasts her sexual desires whilst on live stream. She routinely discusses her slime fetish, venom fetish, vore, human bodily fluids and often discusses masturbation.
• "In a global community, it is natural for people to have different opinions, but we seek to operate on a shared set of facts and reality. We do not allow inaccurate, misleading, or false content that may cause significant harm to individuals or society, regardless of intent. Significant harm includes physical, psychological, or societal harm, and property damage. It does not extend to commercial and reputational harm, nor does it cover simply inaccurate information and myths. We rely on independent fact-checking partners and our database of previously fact-checked claims to help assess the accuracy of content. Content is ineligible for the FYF if it contains general conspiracy theories or unverified information related to emergencies. To be cautious, content that warrants fact-checking is also temporarily ineligible for the FYF while it is undergoing review. To help you manage your TikTok experience, we add warning labels to content related to unfolding or emergency events which have been assessed by our fact-checkers but cannot be verified as accurate, and we prompt people to reconsider sharing such content."
Elphaba regularly discusses dark conspiracies such as governmental conspiracy, wars and conflicts and repeatedly spreads misinformation medically, politically and in general day to day life and has consistently preached anti governmental propaganda.
• "Content shared online may be seen by anyone, and has a wide reach. We are committed to making sure that any personal information shared intentionally or accidentally on TikTok does not lead to harm. We do not allow content that includes personal information that may create a risk of stalking, violence, phishing, fraud, identity theft, or financial exploitation. This includes content that someone has posted themselves or that they consented to being shared by others."
Personal information has been broadcasted by Elphaba where she has, on numerous occasions attempted to "expose" other tiktok creator's who have spoken out against her behaviour. She has actively put out personal information in terms of photos, names, addresses and incited hatred from her own viewers and supporters on these people she believes is against her when these people simply want to make the app safer for everyone involved. Essentially, Elphaba has "doxxed" also known as, leaking private information in the belief to cause malicious harm. She has also financially exploited vulnerable viewers who have sent ridiculously large amounts of gifts in (monetary value) under the agreement or promise of personal interaction on a one to one basis, or to join the live, or her usual speech is "Send a big gift for a follow"
UK LAW BREACHES
• Threatening behaviour with an offensive weapon - This can be prosecuted under The Offensive Weapons Act 2019, Threatening with an offensive weapon etc in a private place – Section 52.
•Threatening behaviour to other creators - This can be prosecuted under the Malicious Communication Act 1988 and the Communications Act 2003. Online threats could take many forms including threats to kill, harm or to commit an offence against a person, group of people or organisation
• Talking sexually to Minors - This can be prosecuted under Section 67 of the Serious Crime Act 2015, Section 15A. Furthermore, it can be prosecuted under Protection of Children Act 1978 if "sexting" occurs towards a minor. To also add that if the offender is under the age of 16, the following legislation can be pursued Protection of Children Act 1978.
• Obtaining money through tiktok gifts and Go fund me under the representation it for transitioning surgery - This can be prosecuted under The Fraud Act 2006, a,b and C, being false representation and misinformation. Other charges under the same bracket can be made due to the nature of the offences.
• Refund fraud, ie ordering food and returning it for monetary gain and at the loss of another - The above act also covers this.
• Fraud committed through the use of computer or mobile, technology devices including using the above mentioned methods to further commit crimes - This is prosecuted under Computer Misuse Act 1990.
• Blackmailing or threatening particular actions or behaviour that is to force someone to do a specific thing - This is prosecuted under The criminal offence of blackmail under the section 21 of the Theft Act 1968.
There are so many more things that could be added to this report.
Also, please see the attached online safety bill, which Elphaba is in direct breach of in regards to her content and live streaming behaviour ;
https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2023/50/enacted
I look forward to your reply.

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With this in mind, I’ve come up with 2 life hacks that’ll hopefully help you solve everyday challenges in new and creative ways. They can be fun, and satisfying, and they will hopefully make things a little bit easier!

1. Use a trouser hanger to hold your recipe book

This is by far one of my favorite hacks! So many times a recipe book has shut on me while I’ve got my hands covered in flour, so I can’t open it back up to see the next step.
This useful tip will stop you from losing your page (and your flow) when you’re getting creative in the kitchen.
Simply hang your hanger from one of your kitchen cupboard handles and clip your book to it for a low-stress, hands-free cooking experience.

2. Use toilet paper tubes to make seed starter pots

If you’ve got seeds that you’ve been meaning to plant but nothing to plant them in, consider using toilet paper tubes to make seed starter pots.
They’re biodegradable, take just a few minutes to make, and will be sturdy enough to allow seeds to start putting down roots before you later upgrade them to a larger pot.
This hack is a great way to recycle your toilet roll tubes because the microbes in the soil will break the cardboard down into carbon – which your seedlings will use as plant food!

Please read this all with a grain of salt. I have an extremely smooth brain, you may call me a mirror brain. Please do not take this as any financial advice. I am a pre 2021 ape that forgot how to sell so I am still hodling.
One of the tweets that really sparked my intrigue yesterday was this one about the story of the boy: https://x.com/TheRoaringKitty/status/1791555537131159892
The story is about a boy (RK). When he bought a horse (GME) and everyone was happy for him. He held the stocks and fell off the horse and broke a leg (lost millions) or so the hedge funds want us to think. Later a war broke out but because the boy had broken legs he couldn't fight but the rest of the people did (us).
He then posts the ET going home:
https://x.com/TheRoaringKitty/status/1791559313883844621
but he warned us of him going with the One Dance tweet (one more time before he goes):
https://x.com/TheRoaringKitty/status/1791510238685700347
Last one, is the Aladdin tweet:
https://x.com/TheRoaringKitty/status/1791506465876033821
In this he talks about his only friend 'Abu', a chimp wearing purple. This video, it's all about being one jump ahead, one step ahead. What if RK (his nom de plume) decided to make some more calls? He was ahead again, he knew the jump would happen before the slow pokes. The evil guys say 'rip him open take it back', but he's already a step ahead and then makes the jump with his chimp friend 'Abu'.
All of the tweets mention 'one'. So maybe there is still one more spike to have. But if RK has gone home, my opinion on the situation is this:
This battle is over and we don't moon in the next few weeks, we have won this battle but still haven't won the war. This is a much longer game than we ever thought. The revelation of the LEAPs has proven this. What if RK's gone for now but will return for the next battle? Is there a way we can prepare for the next one? What information do we have that can give us clues to the next fight so we can win the war? They know they can't close unless we all sell but what if there's a way to exploit them? Could they have bought some more LEAPs and use that information so that we could start preparing now for the next fight? This maybe what was meant by look back at the old data and see what we were thinking about. Using that information we need to look at recent data.
Remember GME is HODL play. When you Hodl something you keep it and don't want to let it go or if you're like me you forget where the sell button is. If that little jump to 80 is the end of this battle, don't lose hope and hang on. We need to be prepared for the next round.

At this year's Ill-defined Language-learning Concepts (IDLLC2024) conference, we have an exciting new event, where we will present the first ever ill-defined language-learning concept of the year medal to honor the pioneers whose diligent research has led language-learning students globally to be more confused and uncertain about their study methods.

IDLLC: How should I learn Spanish? Yes.

Please nominate your ill-defined language-learning concepts by the end of May 2024 to be eligible for the prestigious IDLLC medal.
I seek a panel of volunteer judges to judge the nominated concepts. We recommend the judges base their judgement on the following "ill-defined concept index":

• Is the concept vague? [+5 points] Does it involve three of: reading, writing, listening, speaking? [+10 points (+20 points for all four)] Is it so vague that it means whatever you want it to mean? [+20 points]
  
• If you ask two students to write down the definition of the concept, would they give totally different answers? [+10 points] Might a student do the direct opposite of what its inventor said, and still think they are using the concept? [+25 points]
  
• Does a YouTuber claim the concept is amazing? [+1 point per YouTuber] Does a YouTuber make money directly from the concept? [+3 points per YouTuber] Has some YouTuber founded a company named after the concept? [+15 points] Does a YouTuber use it to tell people how to learn a language they have near-zero experience with? [+7 points per YouTuber per language (capped at 50 points)]
  
• Do people tend to argue with and/or act smug towards students if they don't immediately understand the concept? [+5 points] During such interactions, do people highlight how they're studying or have studied applied linguistics? [+10 points] Do people take steps to explain the concept clearly? [-7 points]
  
• Is the concept basically a fancy way of saying "you should study"? [+5 points] Is it a goal held by every single language student (e.g. comprehending input), perhaps slightly rephrased? [+10 points] Does its name use terms from other disciplines to make it sound legit? [+15 points]
  
• Does the inventor insinuate or directly claim there's a conspiracy because language teachers are not using the concept? [+10 points] Does the inventor's research students now insinuate the same conspiracy theory? [+5 points per research student] Does this conspiracy include languages the inventor has near-zero experience with, while the teachers they're insulting have a lifetime of experience? [+50 points]
  
• Are people conducting genuine research related to the concept? [-15 points per peer-reviewed publication]
  

Quotes from previous conference attendees:

"Back in the '70s, I'd hang out at libraries waiting for librarians to give basic advice to kids like 'maybe you shouldn't read that book, it's too hard'; a gem like that could establish you as a top researcher. But nowadays there's so many ill-defined concepts, so taking credit for things students would ordinarily do is becoming a kind of art. Cheers to the IDLLC organizers for recognizing and promoting this artform."
"When I started my PhD, I used to respect hard-working language teachers, but at my first IDLLC (maybe in 2019 or 2020), the plenary speaker explained how every single language teacher (including volunteers) is in a global conspiracy to keep the best methods from students in order to make more money. Gee, how naive I was back then."
"My student had been making steady progress for months, but after my intervention, she now spends at least half her time deciding which method to use. It's things like this, y'know... you just can't put a price on an experience like that."
"After moving into applied linguistics, I only have to test new ideas on a class of kids learning French; this is the standard for many researchers to instruct every language learner in the world, regardless of their goals, personal situation, or target language, on how they should learn their target languages. I used to be in medical research, and I told my former colleagues about this streamlined research method, but they said that a treating a 7-year old boy's broken arm is a different procedure to a 50-year old woman's cancer screening. Sounds like they're in cahoots with language teachers."
"One of my students came up to me the other day, asking 'I keep failing my exams, what should I do?', and since I've been keeping abreast with research trends, I carefully explained 'you should pass them'."
"I remember when I was young, and my brothers wanted to be astronauts. But not me, I wanted to be an applied linguist."

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So i'm new to pirating games from websites. So i don't know how to download & setup the games from fitgirl or any websites. And youtube doesn't have any good tutorials as far as i've seen. So it would be really helpful if someone gave me a step by step guide on what to do