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2024.05.17 11:38 zeejay00 NAPALM TREBUCHET

Weapon Type: Rocket Launcher
Frame Type: Adaptive Frame
Flavor Text: "Fire is the one thing that stays consistent through out time."
-Vonn
Weapon Slot: Heavy
Damage Type: Solar
Stats: Blast Radius: 100 Velocity: 70 Stability: 68 Handling: 82 Reload Speed: 53 Aim Assistance: 65 Airborne Effectiveness: 10 Zoom: 18 Recoil Direction: 34
Rate Of Fire: 20
Magazine Capacity: 1 Reserves Size: 8
Exotic Perk: "Surefire Method"
If the rocket does not kill any targets, the weapon will automatically load another round from reserves.
Weapon Trait: "Napalm"
Final blows cause ignition. On impact, cluster bombs scorch targets doing Solar burn damage for a short period of time. (5 Seconds)
Description: A gunmetal gray rocket launcher with dark green accent colors. The weapon is very long with a tracking module on one side.
Lore Tab: Vonn squinted at the sky. "Hot," he said, to no one in particular. The heat was oppressive and the sound of insects incessant droning filling the air seemed to add a familiar quality to the situation.
Still, Vonn couldn't quite place the sense of déjà vu. Maybe it was the heat, or the sounds, or maybe it was surrounding terrain, but for some reason everything felt familiar.
Sweat dripped off the end of his nose as he adjusted the strap of his auto rifle. Scanning left and then right in the dense foliage, Vonn couldn't spot anything out of the ordinary.
Pausing to check his map, a ghost apparated floating just above his left shoulder. "Hot isn't it," Huey monotoned. "You got that right," he replied, not really paying attention.
"I think you should take a rest, Huey said. "No can do," Vonn replied, with a glace back the way they had come. "I gotta keep pushing forward."
"Gotta keep pushing forward," he said again, almost to himself. "Just over the next rise, or through the next valley."
"You okay?" Huey asked, looking as concerned as a ghost could. "Yeah," Vonn said, "I just feel like I was meant to be on this mission, like I was born for it."
It was strange, yet reassuring. Like he had done at all once before. Maybe even in another life.
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2024.05.17 11:38 MistVampire (F4M) Enemies to lovers (Disc)

Hey!
Im looking for a roleplay that’s long term. 26 yr female here. I want it to have plot twist, story based, and dark romance, and manipulative, betrayal. Too make it more interesting. I can write 2-4 sentences to a paragraphs to two paragraphs. I expect my partner to write the same amount. It can be detailed but not too detailed. This will be in first person for both parties. Strictly roleplay. No one liners. No incest or anything taboo. So don't even ask.
What I’m looking for in a partner, that is aggressive, assertive and dominant male between the ages of 26-29 only. Seeing if we can try to make a fun and interesting roleplay. I have a few plots in mind or I'm interested to see what thoughts you have. I'm been roleplaying for ten years.
I'll only respond to dms and to have an interested opening. With age and ideas if you have any.
Idea
A job was opening up at your company. It was a rare opportunity to work for you, but you needed a new assistant. It was hard enough to find a good job, now. I checked out who owned and it was a surprised it was you. We never got along, having arguments. Now years later, I apply for the job and ended up getting it after agreeing to the terms. What ever worst are the business trips
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2024.05.17 11:36 sara8611 Compatibility or no marriage

Salam all, I’m 23, I would say my life is comfortable for me (mentally specifically) so my only reason to marry is for a strong partner, affection, romance, to rely on him (for him to thrive in his masculinity and me femininity) which means I have no interest in marriage if it’s a downgrade from the comfort my family provides الحمد لله, which was the case when my hand is asked. Basically I wanted to give a quick introduction about myself which will outline my interests and disinterests in a future husband, (the post might be long as I have to write examples because everyone has different views and I’d like to avoid misunderstandings), my number one priority - STABILITY. I’m talking about all aspects of stability 1.Religious stability- I’m not even going into basics because that’s a given, supporting each other into understanding the Quran and listening to lectures and so on 2. Financial - it’s up and down with money BUT he takes care of the finances no matter what with no lazy attitude 3.emotional stability - emotional intelligence and patience and strong personality to set boundaries when families especially cross them (we have to respect our family members but he wants to enforce boundaries and has his own opinion not spineless agreeing only for the reason his parents suggested something for example), I have ADD which requires a MAN not a boy to put in the effort to understand and learn about it.
My personal reference: His personality revolves around acting for the sake of allah (actions speak louder than words) and what pleases allah swt not the people and has strong loyalty to his religion and culture (ofc traditions that align with what allah dictated otherwise it’s a red flag) I’m Palestinian so you’ll get why I’m set on culture! Fluent in Arabic and appreciates the language as it is لغة القرآن, works out regularly (above 175cm) and seeks health as a lifestyle as again laziness decreases his masculinity which is unattractive and is committed to the health of a relationship wether it’s deep discussions or dates or weekend holidays. Would prefer to spend the first few years in a foreign country basically for more experiences wether it’s work or travel which will increase the privacy and intimacy of a relationship which is also a plus I would prefer to have one child (negotiable but I like to be clear) and small celebrations to cut on costs (invest them in the relationship not the people) I love to cook and bake! But he’ll clean up after because I’ll be dead tired, I think a man would do it anyways without asking him
Everyone has preferences no shame in that, it just shouldn’t transform into skyrocket standards which won’t benefit you بالدنيا و الآخرة. I don’t mind having conversations to discuss this further (respectfully with limits) with someone who’s serious about marriage.
May allah make it easy for all of us and grant us goodness here and the hereafter, thank you.
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2024.05.17 11:34 kingangels8888 How to Make Money Online: Beginner's Guide to Earning Fast

One chilly morning in late December 2023, I found myself sitting by the window, a warm cup of coffee in hand, reflecting on the journey that had brought me to the world of online entrepreneurship. The past few years had been a whirlwind, filled with both challenges and triumphs as I navigated the complex landscape of making money online. It's a journey that many embark on with high hopes and dreams, but often find daunting and overwhelming. Yet, as I look back, I realize that the key to success lies in understanding the evolving dynamics of the digital world, especially as we move into 2024.
When I first started exploring how to make money online, I was overwhelmed by the plethora of options available. There were countless guides and videos promising quick riches and easy wins. However, the reality was much different. The initial steps were tough, and it required a significant amount of dedication and learning. My first venture was a blog, where I shared my experiences and insights on various topics. This slowly started generating a steady stream of income, not instantly, but surely.
The year 2024 promises even more opportunities for those willing to put in the effort. With the rise of new technologies and platforms, there are now numerous ways to make money online, whether you are a seasoned professional or a complete beginner. For instance, the gig economy has exploded, offering freelance work in almost every field imaginable. Websites like Upwork and Fiverr have become gold mines for those looking to make money online by offering their skills and services.
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For those just starting out, it’s crucial to focus on a niche that you are passionate about. When I began my blog, I chose topics that I was genuinely interested in, which made the process enjoyable rather than a chore. Passion drives consistency, and consistency is key to success in the online world. Additionally, engaging with your audience through authentic content builds trust and loyalty, which are invaluable assets.
It’s also important to stay updated with the latest trends and tools. In the digital realm, things change rapidly. What worked yesterday might not work tomorrow. For instance, understanding SEO (Search Engine Optimization) can dramatically improve your visibility online. By optimizing your content with relevant keywords, such as make money online 2024 and make money online beginners, you can attract more traffic to your site and increase your chances of making sales or earning commissions.
As I sit here, reflecting on my journey, I realize that making money online is not just about finding the right opportunity but also about perseverance and continuous learning. It’s about adapting to changes and leveraging the tools at your disposal. The opportunities are vast, but they require a strategic approach and a willingness to learn and grow.
In conclusion, as we step into 2024, the digital landscape offers an array of opportunities for anyone looking to make money online. Whether through freelance work, e-commerce, affiliate marketing, or digital products, there is something for everyone. The key is to start, stay consistent, and keep evolving. My journey has been a testament to the fact that with the right mindset and approach, making a living online is not just a possibility but a reality.
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2024.05.17 11:34 Fun-Cry6075 Info

Hey
Does anyone know a place where I can ask for financial aid? Or knows how does the urad praces aid work?
I'm in desperate need of some assistance and don't know where to turn.
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2024.05.17 11:33 Imaginary_Heat4862 Friend persisting for small loans

firstly, he is my close friend of mine from childhood and i absolutely dont have anything against him. few years back he started to apply in those malicious small loan apps and got scammed and harassed by them since he didnt pay it back and allowed access to his contacts. He maxxed out on slicepay. Now it all started with him asking me small amounts as i had a slicepay account for a rainy day. at first he asked little money like 2k-3k and he paid it back. With time he started to ask more and due to friendship i was in a position to say yes . Now he purchased a car and pretty much does decent for himself . However he again came back to me with a slicepay request for buying a gift to his friends. I do not want to entertain this more as i truly care for him and i dont want him to get into the habit of getting debts and rotating the money. if i say yes now, he will come back again soon with a request. i want him to have a proper financial habits and dont want him to go to all the other friends. if it is an health emergency for him or his family i would not hesitate to give . but buying a gift by getting debt is not cool. How do i tackle this without awkwardness. sorry i had to vent it out here )
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2024.05.17 11:33 alexea56 Scottish power gas bill dispute

So 1 year ago my partner and I moved into a flat that had been vacant for some time. After purchasing we noticed a load of letters from Scottish power to previous tenants and owneoccupier about outstanding bills. We called them and resolved this and told them we were now with octopus energy and all seemed fine.
However, over the past year we've received letters about outstanding charges until recently they said it'd been passed to debt collectors. After this we called them again and asked why this would be happening since there's literally no gas to the property anymore, so how can we be charged for it?
They're now saying that since the gas meter is still there, we will be charged for the 'ownership' of that metre and will be paying standing charges for something we don't even use and didn't even know was still there.
My question is, are they allowed to do this? Do we have to pay them for something we don't use and weren't aware existed? From the letters it always seemed like these were for previous tenants as they hadn't been paying their bill so are we now responsible since we took over?
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2024.05.17 11:33 Fun-Cry6075 Info

Hey
Does anyone know a place where I can ask for financial aid? Or knows how does the urad praces aid work?
I'm in desperate need of some assistance and don't know where to turn.
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2024.05.17 11:33 ingannare_finnito wondering if I'm more religious than I thought

This line of thought actually stemmed from a science fiction novel. I can't even remember what it was called now. I didn't like it and I don't think it was ever very popular. The premise was that a meteor storm was going to hit earth and there were various projects to preserve humanity. The project at the focus of the book 'saved' people by re-creating their consciousness inside a computer. I hated it. The process involved 'uploading' consciousness into the computer then the people that were uploaded took poison to kill themselves. They didn't save anyone. At best, they created copies. The people still died. I had a very negative reaction to the idea. I don't remember the title of the book but I do remember the feeling of disgust when I understood their idea of 'saving' people. I'd have been more open to the idea if the uploaded consciousness left the body as an empty vessel, but that wasn't how it worked in that book.
I was reminded of this yesterday. A friend asked me if I'd ever have an animal cloned. My family and I have a lot of animals. They're all rescues. Not just dogs and cats, we take in any animal we're capable of caring for. I adore them. We have a lot of chickens now because of one single chicken that just showed up one day. We looked outside and saw a white chicken eating underneath one of our bird feeders. We absolutely love her. She has a morning routine that starts by making a lot of noise at the door then running into the house. The chicken 'coop' is a room built onto our house. One door opens to the outside, the other door leads inside the house. Oscar hangs our for about 2 hours then my mom yells 'I hear a bird' from upstairs and Oscar flies up the stairs squawking. She loves my mom. Yes, Oscar is a she. We thought she was a boy until the first egg. After discovering how loveable chickens are, we adopted more from a charity that saves chickens at the end of their 'laying' lives from battery farms.
I get very upset when I lose an animal, but cloning wouldn't fix that. Just as an example, I could adopt a cat identical to a cat that passed away, but I would love the new cat as an individual, not a recreation. I don't know how a clone is different than identical twins. Not that I ever intend to try cloning if it somehow became a service for pet owners. There are lots of animals in need in the world. No need to create more intentionally. I wouldn't feel less grief if I had a clone of a cat that passed away. A clone isn't a replacement. A clone of a human certainly isn't a replacement either. I feel like the entire idea is offensive.
I brought up that awful book when we were talking about cloning, and my friend laughed at me. He said I"m more religious than I think because the sense of individuality I was referring to is actually a soul. I"m not against the idea of a soul. A factor in my antagonism towards organized religion is the attitude towards non-human life that's very common among religious people in my local area. They use the idea of man's superiority as an excuse to do whatever they want with no regard for other forms of life. Some of them even sneer at the idea of animal cruelty by dismissing it as a concern at all. Our local tri-county newspaper prints the same letter to the editor once a year. The letter is a lecture combined with advice to stop children from 'humanizing' animals, such as 'have fish sticks for supper after watching Finding Nemo and other animated sea life. "Only watch Bambi during hunting season.' "Have pork chops, bacon and other pork products at meals while children read 'Charlotte's Web' at school.' I realize that isn't universal, but I thinks it's fairly common. I"ve seen a lot of arguments against environmentalism and conservation because 'nature and animals are here for humans to use.' I'd be more open to the idea of religion in general if that wasn't such a pervasive idea.
My question is, does believing that every person, and every living creature, is an individual that can't be recreated mean that I'm actually more accepting of religious beliefs than I previously realized.
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2024.05.17 11:32 Fun-Cry6075 Information

Hey
Does anyone know a place where I can ask for financial aid? Or knows how does the urad praces aid work?
I'm in desperate need of some assistance and don't know where to turn.
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2024.05.17 11:31 jessica_Ellen How to Choose Life Insurance: A Personal Guide to Safeguarding Your Future?

How to Choose Life Insurance: A Personal Guide to Safeguarding Your Future?
Selecting the right life insurance policy isn't just a financial decision; it's a choice that affects the future well-being of your loved ones.
With a range of options like term life insurance, whole life insurance, universal life insurance, and other forms of permanent life insurance, navigating through your choices can feel overwhelming.
This guide will help you understand the key types of life insurance and give you the insights you need to make an informed, personalized decision.

Understand Your Needs and Goals

Before diving into the various types of life insurance, it’s important to reflect on why you’re considering a policy in the first place. Ask yourself-
  • What are my financial goals? Are you looking to provide for your family in the event of your unexpected death, save for retirement, or perhaps leave a legacy?
  • Who depends on me financially? Consider your family members, dependents, or even business partners who would be impacted by your sudden absence.
  • How long will I need coverage? Your time horizon is crucial in determining whether term life insurance or some form of permanent life insurance is the best fit for you.

Exploring the Types of Life Insurance?

  1. Term Life Insurance
Term life insurance is like renting an apartment. It’s there for you for a specific period (the term), providing straightforward, no-frills coverage. Here’s what you need to know-
  • Duration- Term life policies are typically available in terms from 10 to 30 years.
  • Cost- This is usually the most affordable type of life insurance, with premiums that remain the same throughout the term.
  • Best For- Those who need coverage to protect things like a mortgage or educational expenses for children, or who are looking for a cost-effective way to ensure financial stability for their dependents during crucial years.
  1. Whole Life Insurance
Whole life insurance is part of the permanent life insurance family, but with a twist — it includes a savings component. Here’s the scoop-
  • Duration- It covers you for your entire life, as long as premiums are paid.
  • Cash Value- Part of your premium goes into a cash value account, which grows over time and can be borrowed against.
  • Cost- More expensive than term life because of the lifelong coverage and cash value component.
  • Best For- Those looking for coverage that lasts a lifetime and grows cash value, which can be a part of your long-term financial strategy.
  1. Universal Life Insurance
Universal life insurance is another type of permanent life insurance with added flexibility. Here’s what makes it different-
  • Flexible Premiums and Coverage- You can adjust your premiums and death benefits within certain limits based on your changing needs.
  • Cash Value- Like whole life, universal life has a cash value component that grows based on the interest rate set by the insurer.
  • Cost- This can vary widely based on how the policy is structured but typically more affordable than a whole life with similar benefits.
  • Best For- Those who value flexibility and want the ability to adjust their policy as their financial circumstances change.

Comparing Your Options

FeatureTerm Life InsuranceWhole Life InsuranceUniversal Life Insurance Coverage DurationFixed Term (e.g., 20 years)LifetimeLifetime Cash ValueNoneYesYes Premium FlexibilityNoNoYes CostLowestHigherMedium to High Ideal ForShort-term, specific coverage needsLong-term financial planning, legacy goalsLong-term with flexibility needs

How to Choose the Right Policy?

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1. Assess Your Financial Situation- Understand your current and future financial obligations. How much debt do you have? What future expenses need to be covered?
2. Determine the Coverage Amount- A general rule of thumb is 10-15 times your annual income, but consider your specific circumstances.
3. Consider the Long-Term- How might your needs change over the years? Does the flexibility of a universal life insurance policy make sense, or is the certainty of whole life insurance more appealing?
4. Get Quotes and Compare- Look at different insurers. What are the premiums, benefits, and features of their policies? How do they match your needs?
5. Consult with a Financial Advisor- A professional can offer personalized advice based on your financial goals and help you navigate the complexities of life insurance.
6. Review Regularly- Your life insurance needs will change over time. Regular reviews will help ensure your policy still fits your needs.
Conclusion
Choosing the right life insurance policy — whether it’s term, whole, or universal life insurance— means balancing your immediate needs with your long-term goals.
By understanding the different types of life insurance available and how they align with your financial strategy, you can make an informed decision that will provide peace of mind and financial security for your loved ones.
Picture your life 10, 20, or even 30 years from now. What does it look like? Who are you with? What are you most proud of having achieved? Your life insurance choice is a key part of making that vision a reality.
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2024.05.17 11:31 orwass Question about fraud at dealership

Hello, I recently had a very native experience at Honda with a service department about repairing my wire harness I have a print out quote that Honda gave me for repairs to replace my harness and did not tell me that it was terrible at all only the fact that need to be replace that I need to pay the full amount or get assistance with the financial department making monthly payments. I got my car insurance involved and was able to fix the wire harness with the print out price with This. i truly believe that this is fraud on the part of Honda because you can’t claim that the wire harness was unsafe to fix if you did the work after my insurance got involved wondering if it would be worth it to talk to a lawyer about this or not. Talk to some mechanics at my work they suggest that I get in touch with the lawyer because this is fraud on the part of Honda
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2024.05.17 11:30 bettercallme_ Assistant Manager does a little too much

So I work part time at a major retail store, and the assistant manager is super cool, but always does a little too much work. At times it feels like they go over board with how much they do. This includes cashiering, cleaning the floor, taking phone calls, and markdowns. My only complaint is that they expect me to do the same. I have worked at retail for years, and I know if I go the extra mile I will get little to no recognition and will only be told to do more work. It’s a minimum wage job and I don’t get a lot of hours, so why should I be the person to do more than what is asked of me? Maybe I should, but I’m struggling to find any reason to do so.
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2024.05.17 11:26 SentuBill The amount of ChatGPT knockoffs on play store is crazy

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2024.05.17 11:26 the1eatingpaper should i continue to give it a chance or cut it off because of a bad second date?

I (19F) have been seeing a guy (21M) for about two weeks now and we've been on two dates. We live about forty minutes apart so the first date was near where I live, and it went very well I think. I found nice restaurant for us to eat at, and a movie, and we were getting along very well. A week after that he asks me out on a second date, and asks if I can travel out to where he is. He has his license and I do not, so I had to take an hour's worth of public transport to get there for what normally is a 30 minute drive.
When I get on the bus, I tell him that it will take me thirty minutes, which would lead me to arriving at our agreed upon time of 12pm. When I get there I text him to ask him where he is and he says he hasn't left the house yet and that I should have told him when I was getting there, but I had informed him when the bus would arrive so this just confused me. So I had to wait in this unfamiliar suburb where honestly I didn't feel very safe alone, for another thirty minutes until he arrived. When he arrived, I wasn't sure what the plan for the date was, and turns out he didn't have one either. We ended up going to some cafe and then he told me he had to drop his mum off somewhere cause he agreed yesterday and that he wouldn't be back for another thirty minutes.
We went to the university campus he attends nearby, and hung out there for a while doing honestly nothing, and the conversation was very centered around him and he wasn't asking any questions about me. His mum calls him and tells him she needs to be picked up at 2:00 now instead, so we have a bit over an hour, and he decides for us to just stay in the campus library. we just watched a movie for that time on his laptop, before he left to drop his mum off while I stayed on campus. he came back in ten minutes and told me his mum delayed again and was now saying 3:00pm. i was starting to get frustrated at this back and forth at this point but I went with it. i would have appreciated if before the date he had just told me he was going to be busy today so we could have rescheduled.
he told me he would drop me off to the station so I would go home and then he would go to pick up his mum. by 'station' I assumed the station he picked me up from. turns out he meant the station closest to his place which was even further away and meant it took me almost two hours to get home via public transport now, and I was unfamiliar in this area so I even got lost a couple of times. i was extremely drained when I got home and he ended up texting me an apology for not having time to drop me off which I appreciated. he said he would 'make it up to me' and I told him I'd been wanting to go on a date in the city for a while now. he texted back, 'idk why you think I'm just made of money like the prince of Arabia I'm going broke this week already'
I think this was the final straw for me now. because I didn't refer to anything demanding of money from him at all. yes, he had completely paid for our dates so far which I appreciated. he works six days a week alongside full time university, lives in a rich surburb with a nice car, and he's very busy, so I can't assume his financial position, but I don't think he's genuinely poor I think this is just stinginess. and the dates so far we have been on have costed around $100 total including his own bill, so I don't think I've made him splurge crazy or anything. i found this disrespectful because whenever he says 'ill make it up to you' he suggests sexual things and I've told him I take that stuff slow. and I suggested a third date and he's complaining about money when that wasn't even the point. I'm just pretty annoyed with him now but we do get along, but i don't know if it's really worth it, or how to end it now. what do i do?
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2024.05.17 11:22 enduring_lonely_soul 29M left toxic family where brother beat my father and my parents later defended him

Hi, I know this is mostly for couple relationships. But I don't know where else to post this. I can't post in aith as mostly foreigners are there
I'm 29M. I have some trouble in my family would be a major understatement. The situation is so worse that I can't explain to anyone in my real life. Situation became so dire, I left my house and staying away and my parents calling me failure and abandoner. Its a toxic household. My brother hits my parents and I end up leaving the house while my parents defend him.
3 weeks back my brother hit my father, my father started crying profusely and started to scream and saying he'll call police. I asked my brother to leave. He does but comes back and starts acting lunatically, saying he's ready to go to Jail and loose his job but he'll expose my father for what he is. They had an argument coz he's not marrying and he has a girlfriend from work living not less 200 m away in a separate society. Which has come to our house and met my parents as well. My father had a agreement with him to get married by March this year. But such a manipulator and liar he is that was another one of his delaying tactics. Or maybe he said one two many lies and this caught up to him. When my father out of anger said to him to leave the house, he shamelessly said he won't he also contributed to it. The reason behind his fearlessness was my mother as she supported it. She actually supported him hitting him and later tried to justified by saying it was a minor hit and it didn't break his bone or something.
My brother has a history, he broke my mother's hand when I was in school and he was in college first year. He wanted to stay in hostel and my parents didn't let him. I come back from tuition and witness that. Looking back at it, this fueled his shamelessness and fearlessness as all the relatives knew this and it didn't bother him later on.
My family quite disfunctional since very beginning. We have lived in major cities for most part, my father was working in government service and got transferred a lot. My elder brother (4 years elder) and I work both in metro city and lived with my family here. Father retired last year. Mother a housewife.
Now here's the issue part. My father has been a wifebeater and sole earner. Him and my mother had issues since beginning. And they generally didn't have any understanding is what I saw. Trust was less as well. Mother used to bitch about him which my elder brother took quite well and to certain extent me too, but I started to see through it few times and ramblings of a frustrated woman as my father used to like being reveled by relatives so she feared him being more involved there.
One other side of this also the relationship of my mother and elder brother, they both grew some sort of symbiotic relationship where they each were masking each other's shortcomings by excuses and became each other's support system.
So that was in past then as we grew up our father also matured a bit in past few years but not a lot.
Now, so far it seems like every other family's trouble. Here's the main issue, I started observing certain things since past few years which made me really irked and start to distrust my family.
I don't trust my elder brother since few years 6-7 to be precise. And he has a history of beating me as well. Something in him makes me tick. Like he's trying to treat us like he treats outsiders, for profit of his own. I don't consider him my elder brother either. While my parents always try to shame me by saying I hit him as he is my elder brother, while they themselves flaunt society's rules as they like.
Last few years, I saw some issues with myself and loneliness, one time parents asked me and my brother to come to my father's posted place as he was getting retired and help shift. When I reached I'm told they have planned(my brother and them) a trip and invited me. I hadn't taken any leaves and this was extreme short notice so I couldn't get leaves. They just thought it would be very easy for me to get it. Like I was really pissed. I stayed there alone for 1 week while taking care of their stuff.
When they came back I broke down, and cried and told about my struggles with depression, my mother at that time cried. I suggested them to start searching for a bride for me. Before all this, some stuff was already happening with regards to my brother's marriage since that past year and I wasn't on speaking terms with my brother. But I saw them berating him by saying if he doesn't get married, it will be issue for me. So I tried to calm them separately by telling them to start searching for me if he's not cooperating. Mind you I was settled financially and of age, only thing stopping them was my brother was unmarried then. I thought I had managed to make a breakthrough, and could get some support with my issues but no.
My brother had a girlfriend whom I had met and had visited my house met my parents. She ditched him for reasons only he knows and from then onwards I only saw his hippocrit facade like the way he manipulated lied to my parents about meeting with prospects and finding excuses to not get married. He wasn't interested, just kept delaying and this kept frustrating my parents. He also blamed his failed relationship on my father as he said something angrily along the lines of him hitting his girlfriend when he was angry as he witnessed his father do that all his life.
This caused fights too, sometime I got involved as well. Like he threw food plate at my mother and I intervened. I had to say some harsh stuff and fight ensued. Physical too. This has been an recurring phenomenon.
My parents are no saint either. My father last year beat my mother at age of 60 no less. Like I said very disfunctional family.
After my heart to heart with my parents, they completely forgot about it. They say they didn't but they did. They never mentioned one girl, didn't even make JS/Shaadi profile for me. Look the issue is not that marriage was biggest priority for me. But that it wasn't even a priority for them when I specifically said about it.
Now another tragedy happened. I got laid off. I didn't utter a word. Then in between 6 months later from that talk they stuck me with the most shameless question ever asked by them. They tell me they had it enough with my brother's bullshit and wanted to search for me. I was almost about to lose it. But at that point I was at very low coz of my job situation and was seriously doubting my luck. Still am. Been doubting since Covid. I made up some excuse to make them lose interest in it.
Then some months later in another fight I brought it up and gave them an earful.
During all this I tried leaving my house twice for good. One time I actually rented a place. One time I gave an ultimatum that he leaves or I leave but my parents somehow convinced me to stay. Toxicity was through the roof. Parents fighting often, quite on the edge of physicality, my mother doesn't hold bapck a bit if we are around. My father is I feel is semi bipolar always on ego trip. And my brother a lying manipulator angling for his gains.
This time I couldn't hold back and decided to leavd I won't come back at all. I offered to take my father too. I declared my mother's case hopeless as the way she behaved after my brother hit my father and proudly berated him shamelessly like she felt someone took revenge of all those years of beatings and shame she got. While I held my head in shame by looking at what was unfolding. I couldn't hold back and abused them for their behavior. These shameless people started coming at me.
I was irked at the fact that my brother had his girlfriend living in the neighborhood and she used to come and visit and my folks weren't least bit bothered as they thought these guys were getting married. When in fact my folks had not even talked with her parents. Only with her elder sister who was doing a love marriage inter caste after threatening to take poison. So my mother was like believe in love an all that crap and talk about social and family values too. I am not conservative I met his first girlfriend before anyone else in family. But this was too much, if you are such big into love and family values and keeping appearance in society then marry and end it. Apparently the girl wanted to marry only after elder sister marries, so society rules exist for her but not for my family.
All this combined I stated my discomfort shared an ultimatum that he should leave and stay separately till his matter is resolved. My mother and brother came at me. They called me failure and said I was jealous of him cause of my failures to secure a person in my life. So I realised my mother was with him
I know this is too much but coz of this I left and this time I thought I was leaving with my father's blessings, but I was wrong that was just momentary coz of his anger after getting beaten by my brother.
I have been living away now for few weeks just few km away. So that I can go back if required but now the tune of my parents have changed completely. They are calling me deserter coz I left house. How can I live in that toxic family household ? And a lot of other things, as I can't help but scream at their shamelessness.
I wish old age days come back coz then you could call few relatives to sort things out. Or atleast discuss who's wrong, here they justify their doings as everyone is doing it in society, everyone fights, everyone's a little shameless so its fine. While I can't just become ostrich and deal with things when it strictly affects me. My brother's actions deeply affected me. I was depressed and had to deal with it alone, coz my parents were too busy with his bullshit and then I saw their real self. Lots of stuff I haven't mentioned here. Like how my own father defended him getting beaten as his own fruits of his deeds to defend my brother. That broke the straw for me and made me realise he was the favorite son for both of them. No amount of his shameful deeds can change it. And they will bend backwards to justify it.
Worst part is which I can't shake off, I called them selfish, shameless, mental and stupid fools who got cheated by their own son. They are equating it with my brother's beatings. Saying I'm equally as deplorable as him, as its equal as beating. In which world ?
Am I the asshole ? Should I continue on my path. Discussions and talks with my parents result in screamings as I need a neutral party as they changed the rules of civil society to fit their narrative as society has changed so its fine as everyone does it. I told them if they can find even one person their age group who thinks I'm wrong I'll come back and apologise. They told me they have no interest in getting laughed at and this happens everywhere. And I am equally guilty for abusing them. I can't take it any more. Is staying in family means becoming like then ? Is that the rule ?
My family is saying to come back and stay there and my brother will leave after getting married, saying I'm equally guilty in this as I also said harsh stuff. How is happening in this shitty world ? I send money every month and will continue to do so. Just can't live at that sham place. I have lost complete trust in society if these are my parents.
TLDR: Left toxic family where brother hits father. Has history of hitting me and mother too. Parents fight too physically and defend him and his actions. And asking me to stay in that environment.
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2024.05.17 11:20 Low-Competition-9557 Need help on my employer regarding my HMO and salary

I am employed by an insurance agent manager last January 2022 as an Admin Assistant, Based sa Employee Handbook that we signed, I am subjected to a performance review upon regularization (6mos) and annual performance evaluation and application for HMO. I got both within the given time frame (6mos) . Fast forward to my 1st year being employed, I did not get the annual performance evaluation and he said that "Sa June pa ulit since ang last increase mo is June" I don't know if i that is how "annual evaluation" works . I waited June 2023 for my increase AKA "performance evaluation" but laging napupush ng months. Yun pala kaya napupush was my employer decided to switch companies. Details were confidential he instructed me to signed an NDA. Worried about losing my job and being unemployed, I signed it. Told me "WE" were going to another company , all benefits intact and the promised "Salary Increase". I got sick last November 2023 and tried to use my HMO, coordinator said to talk to my employer because i was tagged as "not currently working" for the previous company , I have to pay full price for the consult and some tests. January 2024, i was scheduled by my employer for a meeting to discuss the "Performance evaluation". To my dismay, I only got 1k increase monthly to my salary which I waited 1 year and 6 mos .When asked about the HMO, he said "Naghahanap pa for all agents and staff" What should I do about this ? How do I bring this up to him ? Okay lang ba na tinanggap ko ung increase which is a year and a half late ?
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2024.05.17 11:19 EliJoy1214 HDC CYPRUS my great experience

HDC CYPRUS my great experience
about time to post my review of the HDC clinic in Nicosia Cyprus, where I had my transplant done at the end of October. About 3200 grafts.
All the pictures are at the end of this post.
First, it is important to clarify that I did research for almost six months!!! I checked countless clinics (I think over 50). I spoke and contacted over 700 people from Facebook hairtransplat groups. I contacted with anyone who tweeted something about a clinic and wanted to know everything. I asked people what they thought, were they satisfied ans etc. Many were nice and agreed to share from their experience. I talked to so many people because I didn't want to take any chances. From the one hand I didnt want to to pay chep prices and go to a hair milles like they gave on Turkey, and from the other hand not paying 4-5. euros per graft.
Finnaly I choose Hdc clinic in cyprus. small introduction about the clinic and the reason I choose it. Dr. John C*** worked in this clinic - an American doctor, the first to perform fue in Europe and who is considered one of the best known hairtranplent doctors in the world. The doctor who replaced Jhon C*** as the head doctor at HDC was his apprentice at the clinic and who would also become one of the best known doctors in the world - Dr. Bizenga from Belgium. After the departure of Dr. Bizenga, Dr. Maras (who was also an apprentice of Dr. C***), took the reins of the head doctor and he was the one who performed my hairtransplant. We will expand on him later.
From here begins nothing less than amazing experience I had with HDC. I discovered that it is no less than one big family. At midnight at the airport, Yogin was waiting for me, a kind driver who later turned out to be married to Janet, one of the nurses who help with the transplant and sort the grafts (I told you - family 😊) As mentioned, I arrived at midnight and from there we drove about 45 minutes to Nicosia to one of the HDC apartments. The clinic has many apartments for patients in the building that is opposite the clinic - just cross the road. The apartment is equipped with everything, huge kitchen (the size of an apartment in itself) with everything you need, living room, TV, etc.
I got up the next morning and showed up at 8:00 AM, full of excitement. First I will note that the clinic itself looks very modest - A 3 story building. They don't try to market themselves through a fancy clinic and they don't need to either. Anyone that goes there knows, that they doesn't need to be impressed by the design. I came to receive a premium hairtranplant at medium cost, so what interest me, is the doctor and the staff - where the clinic spares me with nothing.
Let's move on to the main part - first I had some photos taken by Janet (whom I told you about before) who is considered the "mother" of the clinic. She is also the one who takes care of everything you need at the apartment. After the pictures, she will move on to assist Dr. Maras with the transplant. I guess there were all kinds of other procedural things that happened and I just forgot because of the excitement. After that is the meeting with Dr. Maras for discussing the hairline. Again, I have to mention that he is an outstanding doctor with great hands, but more important also a lovely person. He project you with his calmness. Even when you drive him crazy with questions, he is always calm and patient. we started talking and thinking about what can and should be done according to my age (43). After a conversation and several drawings and suggestions, we started the process.
The thing that everyone was scared me about was the injections. I don't know if I'm already used to pain due to surgeries I've had, but I must say that the injections didn't hurt at all. Just felt like a slight pinch. All the credit goes to whoever is responsible for the anesthetic injections in the head and somehow the only person whose name is lost from my memory. He kept asking me if everything was fine and if it was possible to continue the injections and every time I gave him the same answer "everything is fine, I can hardly feel it". After the anesthetic injections, Dr. Maras begins the procedure of removing the grafts from the back of the head with the hair punching Machine. The grafts are transferred to for sorting/separating into singles by the nurses, Janet whom I told you about earlier, and the equally lovely Crystala. After a short break when to order lunch, Dr. Maras begins to perform the procedure of opening the channels, and then the final step of inserting the grafts after they have been sorted and some of them have been separated into singles.
The only thing I had a problem with, was lying in all kinds of positions for many hours (since I have a lot of orthopedic problems this was the only part that was difficult for me) and at the same time the staff was very attentive when I asked to take breaks. The whole procedure takes about 8-9 hours on the first day. On the second day, the same procedure is repeated again. As I mentioned before, I had about 3200 grafts tranplented, most of them singled, which means only about 1600 grafts were tranplented on average per day - which is about half of the amount implanted in other clinics, which shows the clinic's meticulousness and its perfectionism.
At the end of the second day, you do not fly home. They don't put you a bandage and send you home. You stay another 5 nights for supervision and for daily washing. After 7 nights, on the day of the flight back to Israel, Janet removes the scabs, equips you with a return home kit and explains to you how you should behave in the coming month.
This is the end of the first part of my jorney. The pictures I attached is:
The first 5 pictures - after 6 months.
The next 4 pictures - before the hair tranplent.
The next 4 pictures - 4 days after.
The next 5 pictures - after 10 days.
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