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I'm not the type to obsess over charts, but tripleS has entered Melon TOP100 with Girls Never Die (it's currently at #72) and it made my day.
They've been doing so well this comeback/debut, surpassing 170k sales, charting in the top 100 on all the other major charts (#10 on bugs, #46 genie, #70 flo, #50 vibe) and getting their 1st win. Admittedly, I was a bit anxious about the album’s performance due to the underwhelming teasers, but the release turned out to be fantastic, with an amazing title track, a great album and a stunning mv and I'm happy it's getting the recognition it deserves. Although it’s not a hit, these achievements are impressive for a girl group from a lesser-known company with an unconventional concept.
Not only that, but the girls have improved a lot as well. During Rising era they have been criticized (and even hated on by some) for their stages and you can see how much better their dancing and synchronization have gotten in just over a year. The members have clearly been working hard, and I’m confident they’ll continue to grow.
I also feel somehow vindicated because many people were convinced from the start that tripleS would stay in nugudom forever or never surpass Generation. But look at them now! I really hope the group has a bright future ahead

Foreword: First of all thanks for having a positive community here. I am from the far east so apologies for my poor use of English in advance. I hold about 14.8k shares myself and believe this is gonna be a long war. So I guess it’s wise for us to understand a bit on what (or who) we are actually investing in. Treat it as a casual read if you wish. This post might be an unpopular opinion. Also most of contents below are researched on Chinese websites. I am merely a translator and this is not an investment advice at all. Also please point it out if any of the contents are inaccurate.
TLDR: YT Jia doesn’t have a good reputation here with his previous business (LeTV) in China. FFIE’s main selling point now is that they are the only Chinese EV manufacturer based in the US. Few days ago Biden imposed a 100% tariff (up from 25%) on EVs from China, and it might be possible that Chinese EV manufacturers will seek collaboration with FFIE to bypass the tariff.
Yueting Jia (YT Jia) is a businessman from China. He was the founder of LeTV in China in the 2000s.
LeTV first started as an online video sharing platform in 2005 and later on streams movies, TV programs and even livestreams sports events (Just imagine it was the Youtube and Netflix of China, but not as successful). LeTV was listed in China in 2010 and declared that they already achieved breakeven back in 2008.
In mid 2010s LeTV stated their intentions of building EVs in China and the US. Faraday Future was founded in 2014 by YT Jia and he left LeTV (but still the business owner I believe) and physically left China (and never returned) in July 2017 to focus on the EV business (he claimed). LeTV was in deep financial troubles and media start reporting in Oct 2017 that the IPO in 2010 was a financial fraud (No way that the company was breaking even back then).
He was on the national debtor blacklist in Dec 2017 as he ‘escaped’ China and left all his debts behind. All assets were froze by the CCP government. He received a CNY 241M fine in 2021 for financial fraud from 2007-2016 at LeTV.
Meanwhile in the US, FFIE and Jia himself weren’t doing any better. FFIE was originally backed by Chinese real estate conglomerate Evergrande in 2018 (for around USD $700M). The first payment of USD $500M was spent (or disappeared) without any explanation or justification to Evergrande, and they brought Jia to court for the lack of financial transparency in FFIE. After the court case, the court froze Jia’s assets and stakes in FFIE and he personally filed bankruptcy in 2019.
Fast forward to 2024, Jia filed a court case against his former employee Lei Ding. Ding joined the EV segment of LeTV back in 2014 and followed Jia to FFIE in 2015. He left in 2017 and set up his own EV company (HiPhi) in China. HiPhi targets the high end Chinese EV market with car models selling at CNY 600k-800k price points. They were actually sensational in China and sold around 10,000 cars in a few years time, but eventually stopped production in 2024 due to lack of funding.
Jia sues Ding in 2024 for stealing FFIE’s intellectual property and business confidential information to use on HiPhi EV products. What I wanted to point out here, is that if FFIE really takes off with our support and Jia isn’t a scam at all, their products may actually look like HiPhi. Search The Faraday Future FF91 on Youtube channel ’Vehicle Virgins’ and Hiphi X on ‘carwow’.
Recently Jia starts livestreaming on his social media platforms, mainly on commenting his competitors (e.g. the highly successful Xiaomi SU7 EV as well as the HiPhi cases). Rumours believed that he wants to leverage on his personal reputation to generate extra income from livestreaming, as well as media exposure for FFIE to collaborate with Chinese EV manufacturers in future.
Biden imposed a 100% tariff (up from 25%) on Chinese EVs to protect US jobs on 14 May. It coincided with the uprise of FFIE stocks. The Chinese commentators are linking FFIE with the tariff lately, claiming that with FFIE’s infrastructure and establishment in the US, and Jia’s connection and experiences with the Chinese market, the Chinese EV companies may use FFIE as a platform to launch and even manufacture EVs in the US.
With Jia’s track records, he’s not a popular figure in the Chinese world. Most of the Chinese-language forums are bearish on FFIE’s future, and personally I am still not fully convinced on FFIE’s long term future.
What I have faith on is Jia’s business insights - be it LeTV back in the 2000s when video streaming is still not a thing at all in China, or introducing EVs in 2014 when Tesla and the concept of EVs are still relatively new to China. With the huge support here, media coverage and all that financial indications (looking at the short interest and everything), I believe we can achieve something out there and hence encouraging everyone to study about what we are actually investing in.
If you read til here, thank you very much for your support. I type everything myself (with no bots, no Google translation, no Chatgpt nothing) and I am not a bot. Just here to share my insights and wish everyone of us are well informed on our investment decisions. It’s our hard earn cash that we are investing in and we shouldn’t treat it like gambling. Again this is not investment advices and I can’t say I really like FFIE, but I like this community and all the positives you all contributing, so thanks all for reading this, supporting each other and wish us all a successful fight on Monday and onwards. HODL 💎🙌🏻

hi, I would be coming to LA late August this year and would like to ask for some recommendations
my iternary is day 1: SF day 2: yosemite day trip day 3: SF, night flight to LA day 4: LA day 5: LA (night flight to Las vegas) day 6: LV day 7: Grand canyon day 8: grand canyon day 9: Las Vegas ( night flight to canada)
I would staying in LA for effectively 2 days and 1 night
currently, I planned to visit, Beverly Hills, Hollywood/walk, santa Monica pier, Griffith Observatory
not really a fan of drinking/bars, I would prefer interesting places to visit/sightsee
do also let me know what's the estimated time I should spend in the places I stated. I won't be renting a car.
Also right now, I am contemplating between taking a bus or flight to Las vegas. I have one checked in luggage. do let me know if you have any recommendations hi, I would be coming to sf late August this year and would like to ask for some recommendations
any other recommendations/things to take note of?

Movie pros:

1. Excellent freaking soundtrack by Dario Marianelli
   
2. Portrays Lizzie Bennet as louder, messier, & more confident which is a more modern and unique take on the character.
   
3. Pretty damn impressive visuals and cinematography (particularly the Lizzie on top of the cliff scene…breathtaking shot)
   
4. Darcy and Bennet have soooo much tension and chemistry. Especially in the ballroom scenes or the proposal. Just way more believable as a relationship. Especially since compared to book Darcy, Macfadyen’s is pretty tame & more likable.
   
5. Relationship with Lizzie and her father is so lovely and portrayed really nicely in this movie.
   

Movie cons:

1. Rushes thru the entire story of Wickham & makes him a bland and nothing character by just talking about what he did “wrong” & not showing how he basically tried to groom Georgiana & other girls. (Yeah I guess they showed him & Lydia coming back to visit but…it just felt so cheap & rushed considering they barely show why Darcy hates Wickham so much).
   
2. Doesn’t do the greatest job of showing why Darcy has to change by making him so fumbly and awkward the entire movie. He’s just kind of standoffish…& antisocial? Really doesn’t come off as super pompous or full of himself like he was in the book or Colin Firth tbh. And yeah in the proposal scene he starts insulting Jane’s fam & whatever but it’s all talk. For most of the movie he has not shown that attitude towards them AT ALL. He doesn’t come off as rude or snobby more just shy. They just kinda tell us he broke up Jane & Bingley but fail to show the impact of it as well as the series did.
   
3. Doesn’t fully address many flaws if at all of Lizzie Bennet & makes her a perfect superhuman who is wronged by everyone else. Like the whole point of the book is that she and Darcy are both wrong and misguided just to different degrees. She also acts really unrealistically extroverted and unrestrained for a woman of her time even tho she’s a progressive, feminist character anyways. I love Keira Knightley but her as Lizzie was a bit too modernized imho.
   
4. Makes the Bennet family dynamic kind of watered down bc in the book the whole conflict about their family is that they’re seen as silly and embarrassing (especially Lizzie’s younger sisters). There’s barely any scenes about this & Darcy just kind of mentions it without us seeing more about Lizzie’s conflicted feelings with her fam. Really doesn’t do much justice to the whole social commentary of Austen’s book by barely showing how people perceive Lizzie’s family. Also Jane & Lizzie have little to no chemistry as sisters and have like 2 good scenes together.
   
5. Jane and Bingley’s relationship really isn’t done much justice. There’s maybe two big scenes with them and that’s it. Super boring in the movie when it’s meant to be such a huge plot point.
   Series pros:
   
6. Really good casting for Lizzie and Jane Bennet, their bond as sisters is really believable and book-accurate. I especially love the scene where Lizzie and Jane are in the garden together and each is equally trying to console the other.
   
7. The whole Bennet family dynamic is given enough attention and flaws to show why Lizzie has such conflicting feelings about them and how it affects other people’s perceptions of her. (Especially in terms of the mother & younger sisters 😂)
   
8. The Bennet Father has way more of a personality besides stoic & lightly supportive as he was in the film. He legit takes responsibility for his lack of caution and care with Lydia after she runs away and admits to Lizzie and the others that he was wrong.
   
9. The Bingley sisters are straight out of mean girls and are way bitchier to Lizzie and her family which WORKS so much better as social commentary and in turn, motivation for Darcy to improve.
   
10. Charlotte Lucas has way more of a personality that makes sense with Lizzie Bennet as her friend. They’re both very calm, cool, and intelligent which is more fitting. It also gives time for her to explain why she married Mr. Collins and that she’s satisfied with not marrying for love. In the movie she’s just kinda nice, disappears for most of the time, & then shows up again like “yea I just need his money you don’t GET it Lizzie!!”
    
11. The whole conflict with Wickham is really expertly carried out as he seems charming at first but is developed into a careless two-timer. I wanted to punch him which meant the actor did a great job.
    
12. Music is great and plays a noticeable role in the story several times.
    
13. Bingley and Jane’s relationship is given a lot of attention and clearly shows rather than TELLS the emotional damage this has on Jane.
    
14. Scenery switches up a lot and is very accurate to each location the characters go to in the book.
    

Series cons:

1. Lizzie and Darcy have zero chemistry and their relationship feels very wooden and minimal. I’m sorry I love those two in King’s Speech but Firth looked wayyy too stiff and unfeeling as Darcy. And I know that’s the point, but I just couldn’t buy those two were in love.
   
2. The episodes are really slow-paced and long which means more story is represented but also fairly hard to sit through even for former readers. A lot of the pacing is pretty dull at first especially.
   
3. Bingley and Darcy had no chemistry as friends and I couldn’t buy they were close at all. Way better bond in the movie.
   

Series pros-cons ratio: 9:3
Movie pros-cons ratio: 5:5

Hey all,
Me and my wife are planning honeymoon in Mid August for 12-14 days.
We have zerod down on Croatia and Austria and planning to spend 6-7 days in each country.
Need suggestions on what we can do, things we want to do or see is Beaches, nature (little hiking works too), beautiful villages, food, love national parks and would love to explore more of local beauty/markets and less of very touristy places unless there is something that definitely shouldn't be missed.
Constraints - Want to avoid renting car and driving on my own, so would prefer public transport as much as possible.
Croatia. - Durovnik - Zadar - Zagreb - One of the lake national park -
Austria - Vienna - Hallstatt -
Thanks in advance and would really appreciate any inputs.

Fred death passage

Hello, Minister!” bellowed Percy, sending a neat jinx straight at Thicknesse, who dropped his wand and clawed at the front of his robes, apparently in awful discomfort. “Did I mention I’m resigning?”
“You’re joking, Perce!” shouted Fred as the Death Eater he was battling collapsed under the weight of three separate Stunning Spells. Thicknesse had fallen to the ground with tiny spikes erupting all over him; he seemed to be turning into some form of sea urchin. Fred looked at Percy with glee.
“You actually are joking, Perce… . I don’t think I’ve heard you joke since you were –“
The air exploded. They had been grouped together, Harry, Ron, Hermione, Fred, and Percy, the two Death Eaters at their feet, one Stunned, the other Transfigured; and in that fragment of a moment, when danger seemed temporarily at bay, the world was rent apart, Harry felt himself flying through the air, and all he could do was hold as tightly as possible to that thin stick of wood that was his one and only weapon, and shield his head in his arms: He heard the screams and yells of his companions without a hope of knowing what had happened to them –
And then the world resolved itself into pain and semidarkness: He was half buried in the wreckage of a corridor that had been subjected to a terrible attack. Cold air told him that the side of the castle had been blown away, and hot stickiness on his cheek told him that he was bleeding copiously. Then he heard a terrible cry that pulled at his insides, that expressed agony of a kind neither flame nor curse could cause, and he stood up, swaying, more frightened than he had been that day, more frightened, perhaps, than he had been in his life… .
And Hermione was struggling to her feet in the wreckage, and three redheaded men were grouped on the ground where the wall had blasted apart. Harry grabbed Hermione’s hand as they staggered and stumbled over stone and wood.
“No – no – no!” someone was shouting. “No! Fred! No!”
And Percy was shaking his brother, and Ron was kneeling beside them, and Fred’s eyes stared without seeing, the ghost of his last laugh still etched upon his face.

Sirius Black Death Passage

Only one couple were still battling, apparently unaware of the new arrival. Harry saw Sirius duck Bellatrix's jet of red light: He was laughing at her. "Come on, you can do better than that!" he yelled, his voice echoing around the cavernous room.

The second jet of light hit him squarely on the chest.
The laughter had not quite died from his face, but his eyes widened in shock.
Harry released Neville, though he was unaware of doing so. He was jumping down the steps again, pulling out his wand, as Dumbledore turned to the dais too.
It seemed to take Sirius an age to fall. His body curved in a graceful arc as he sank backward through the ragged veil hanging from the arch...
And Harry saw the look of mingled fear and surprise on his godfather's wasted, once-handsome face as he fell through the ancient doorway and disappeared behind the veil, which fluttered for a moment as though in a high wind and then fell back into place.
Harry heard Bellatrix Lestrange's triumphant scream, but knew it meant nothing -- Sirius had only just fallen through the archway, he would reappear from the other side any second.
But Sirius did not reappear.
"SIRIUS!" Harry yelled, "SIRIUS!"
He had reached the floor, his breath coming in searing gasps. Sirius must be just behind the curtain, he, Harry, would pull him back out again...
But as he reached the ground and sprinted toward the dais, Lupin grabbed Harry around the chest, holding him back.
"There's nothing you can do, Harry -- "
"Get him, save him, he's only just gone through!"
"It's too late, Harry -- "
"We can still reach him -- "
Harry struggled hard and viciously, but Lupin would not let go...
"There's nothing you can do, Harry... nothing... He's gone."

• Shopping hours are limited, with most shops and pharmacies closing by 5 or 6 pm. 24/7 pharmacies are rare.
• Public schools mandate LGBTQ+ education, leading some Dutch parents to opt for homeschooling or religious schools instead.
• LGBTQ+ rights are legally protected and supported by taxpayer funds.
• Prostitution is legal, with taxpayer funds supporting related services. Adult stores and explicit product shops are commonly found in public areas.
• Marijuana is legal and taxpayer funds support this as well.
• Public urination is common, causing many streets, parking lots, elevators, corners, and stations to smell.
• Public toilets are paid, often dirty and smelly, and lack water jet sprays (Muslim showers).
• Pet dogs frequently defecate on streets, sidewalks, and grass, and sometimes sit on public benches and transport seats.
• Finding accommodation and general practitioners is challenging.
• Medical care is criticized for not being taken seriously unless in severe cases, with reports of negligence. It is not free despite high taxes.
• Public stations are often not clean, with some being particularly smelly, especially elevators, corners, and staircases.
• Taxpayer money funds the salaries and expenses of the Dutch royal family, with their budget exceeding €600,000.
• Not all public streets, sidewalks, stations, or parking areas are as clean as expected.
• The weather is often unfavorable, with frequent changes between cloudy, rainy, windy, and sunny conditions within the same day.
• The crime rate is higher than expected, including incidents of murder, rape, sexual harassment, robbery, bombing of shops, and fraud. For evidence, read news in English on nltimes.nl or other legitimate sources.
• The judicial system is slow and legal fees are high, with lenient punishments.
• Taxpayer money supports Israel.
• There is limited freedom of speech or peaceful protesting regarding Palestine. Dutch police have been reported to use violence against protesters, including women.
• For annual gross salaries above €75,518, the income tax rate is 49.50%.
• The 30% ruling for newcomers has changed to a plan where taxes increase gradually over five years.
• Mortgages and pensions involve interest.
• Dual citizenship is not allowed.
• The language exam requirement is increasing from A2 to B1.
• The standard term for naturalization is being extended from 5 to 10 years.
• The cost of living is very high, including garments, cars, parking, groceries, utilities, rent, public transport, and dining out.
• Bicycle and electric scooter theft is common.
• Theft of valuables from parked cars is increasing.
• Sales tax will increase from 9% to 21% on some items.
• The Russia-Ukraine war has significantly impacted the Netherlands, leading to a higher cost of living.
• There is a noticeable smell of marijuana and beer in public streets.
• Vandalism and public nuisance increase during football matches, affecting public transport, stations, and some streets.
• Many neighborhoods become very noisy on Friday and Saturday nights.
• Traffic jams are becoming more frequent.
• Taxes are often perceived as wasted on unnecessary projects and international funding.
• The Dutch military supports countries like the USA and Israel, which are accused of causing civilian casualties in Africa, the Middle East, and Asia, funded by taxpayers.
• While many people speak English, not everyone does, and official correspondence is not always in English. Customer support via phone is often only available in Dutch.
• Owning a car is very expensive.
• The Netherlands has no mountains, only flat land.
• There are very few public holidays.
• Dutch cuisine is considered bland, and dining out is generally expensive and not highly regarded in terms of taste.
• There is a constant financial stress with lower purchasing power, forcing most families to live minimally unless both spouses have high incomes or benefit from the 30% ruling.
• Dutch bureaucracy is often criticized for being inefficient and sometimes unfair.
• Permanent residence for parents is not allowed, and they can only visit for up to 3 months in a 6-month period.
• Xenophobia and rude directness are sometimes issues.
• Not everything is digitized; many processes are still done traditionally.

My Dad and Step Mom are project managers who make at least $500k per year. They don't understand how hard it is for younger people to get a job. I am Gen Z and no one wants to hire Gen Z due to stereotypes.
I have been trying to get a job for months and my parents are still breathing down my neck. I kept saying the job market for younger people is bad right now, and my parents can't wrap their head around that fact. The make half a million per year, while I make $25 a week from cleaning cars and doing other small things around the neighborhood

Hi everyone,
I'm currently in the market for a used luxury SUV and could really use some advice. My price range is ideally $30k, but I might stretch to $35k or $40k if the deal is right. I'm looking for a vehicle that has less than 30k miles, though I can settle for something with less than 40k miles if necessary.
Some of the features I'm most interested in include:

• High-performance engine
• Sleek look
• Sunroof
• Premium audio system
• Backup camera
• Apple CarPlay

So far, my search has led me to the Volvo XC60 T6 R Design. However, these seem hard to come by as the T5 is more common. I've also looked into the Audi Q7 and found some 2019 models that seem to be priced decently.
Here are my main questions:

1. What are some other good options in this market?
2. How is the reliability of vehicles in this segment around 2018 - 2022?
3. Are there any specific models or years I should avoid due to common issues?

I'm at a point in my life where I want to purchase something I actually enjoy driving, rather than just another vehicle to get from point A to point B. However, I also don't want to end up with a money pit that requires constant repairs.
Thanks in advance for your help!

Regardless of your personal opinion on Tuchel, Thomas Tuchel is respected amongst his peers. The managers are always monitoring the situations of other managers and seeing how they play out. Any manager who would be on Bayern's radar is also going to be on the radar of other large clubs in Europe, and those clubs are going to be willing to give more control over decision making around the club to the manager, which is not something they are going to get from Bayern.
What made the situation even worse for Bayern is the story that 80% of the dressing room came out in the support of keeping Tuchel, and Freund and Eberl were not able to make something happen. Yes it was very late in the season to finally have player get behind him, but nevertheless that moment that we had been waiting for had finally come. It really puts in to question what power do Freund and Eberl even have.
Managers and players alike have now seen that the upper management will not keep a manager around long enough to build something with the club, the manager will have little control over players that are brought in along with having management have an impact on the starting eleven and which position they play. Lastly in a bad season, Tuchel was able to walk away with the support and the trust of the dressing room lead by the Captain and the longest tenured player who has the respect of everyone in football. The external optics of Bayern are not good, and right now the manager job is not attractive to anyone.
The concerning part is the current players who were in favour of Tuchel staying with the main focus being Musiala. Many clubs in Europe are mostly likely preparing to poach Musiala from Bayern, and the players camp was in favour of Tuchel staying which would have been helpful to Bayern when it comes to locking up an extension. They have now opened the door to which ever team Tuchel signs with, along with other teams that can ensure consistency from a top tier manager. There are players who drawn in by managers, the same way Tuchel drew Paulinha, Kim, Kane, and Guierrero to Bayern. It becomes hard to attract players when they don't know who the manager is, or the confidence of knowing they will be working consistently with a manager to develop a strong system.
If the belief is that they are going to sign someone to a one year contract, just to go after Alonso, that will back fire as well. The instability in the club will not encourage Alonso to leave, why wouldn't he continue to win the Bundesliga while Bayern are still figuring things out, Leverkusen are going to be able to attract players, and funding that will allow them to sign bigger names, and retain their talent with better contracts.
Can bringing Flick back help, maybe but they would be putting the future on nostalgia and hoping that Flick would be able to regain his coaching form after a terrible run with the national team. Its a big risk to take and we arent even certain the Flick is interested in coming back given he knows he has no control and will receive the same treatment he had the last time he managed Bayern, there has been nothing that indicates anything will be different.
Firing Tuchel has set club back years.

So, here is part 2 of my entitled employee story. We left off with discovering Sally’s retaliation of giving me trash as a Christmas gift after her latest write-up.
So, the next several weeks, I am noticing more problems, but here’s some of the highlights.

1. Ever since we had issues of the office’s checks going randomly missing, Sally had apparently decided to just stop throwing any envelope away when opening the mail. She would supposedly search the envelopes/paperwork & then keep the envelopes with the paperwork. So, instead of doing her job better, she would decide to just stop doing the job at all. After all, you can’t get in trouble for screwing it up if you aren’t doing it, right? However, this resulted in items getting left with the paperwork (which sometimes wouldn’t get touched for several weeks due to being busy) that had needed to be collected or addressed right away.
   
2. Sally’s careless mistakes continued at about the same rate (average of 2 to 3 a week). She would put deposit slips/emails with the wrong office’s report, put one office’s mail in another office’s bin, put one office’s funding papers in another office’s bin, put one office’s bills in the folder for their correspondence & vice versa, put one office’s bills in the folder for another office’s bills, put the new month’s bills in the folder without taking out the old month’s bills so they would get mixed up. I could go on & on.
   
3. Sally would still ask for help on things she shouldn’t need help on anymore, ‘cause I had helped her many times on items exactly like it in the 2 years she’s worked here. I mean, the whole point of asking for help when learning new things on a job is so you can take the input you’re given & use it to get better at the job so you don’t have to ask for help anymore. I mean, what kind of office works by their employees constantly needing to be walked through everything every day? Sally would even ask for help on things no one would need to ask for help on. For example, she asked me, “An office took a deposit to the bank without showing it on their report. How do I write that up in the letter to fax to them?” Um, exactly what you just said to me. Or another time, she asks how long she should wait before calling an office back. Well, how long do you think you should give them? Just use your good judgment. You don’t need help with that! Again, you’ve been here 2 years!
   

On Jan 26, I take the Dec bills, correspondence faxes, & timesheets out of their folders to scan them into the computer. Now, one thing the bills should always have on them are the check number used to pay for this purchase & the date it was paid. The offices themselves are supposed to write this on there, but they don’t always, which is why it is our job to write it on there if it’s missing. I had noticed when I scanned Nov’s bills around Nov 30 that a lot of Sally’s offices don’t have that info written on them. So, I explained to her what needed to be written on every bill/receipt. I now flip through the Dec & Jan bills of her offices really quick to check them. There are quite a few of them with no info written down on them. There’s strike one for noncompliance.
Another task we would do several days a week (that’s Sally’s responsibility) is to check the bank accounts online. She is to look at the bank balances & report any low balances to Greg (or me if Greg isn’t there). She is then to look at the transactions in order to see if anything looks fraudulent. Since we are a loan company, check fraud is very common for us. So, we look at the checks for anything funny-looking, & we look to see if there are any auto debits (like when you use your bank account online to pay for a bill) that would tell us if someone got hold of our bank account info.
On Jan 30, at 1:15 p.m., I asked if any of the bank balances were low (Greg was out of town for a few days). Sally said she had forgotten to check the bank accounts that morning. Weird, ‘cause you had to check the Dallas office to make sure the money we sent them had shown up. How did you get the login sheet out to look in their bank account but then forget about checking all the bank accounts? This just further cemented in my mind that she was NOT checking these bank accounts the way she should. I was 100% positive that all she does when logging into these bank accounts is checking the balances to give to Greg but then never checks the transactions. I know this ‘cause, 1) I’ve observed Sally only logging in to write down the balances & then logging back out (she had some flimsy excuse ready when I asked her about it), 2) there have been auto debits that appeared in bank accounts that we didn’t find for weeks until I happened to see it for some reason & guess what? She never pointed those out to us, & 3) Sally hadn’t bothered to check the bank account balances since Greg was out of town, so clearly she only felt the need to check the balances. There’s strike two for noncompliance.
& even more bad mistakes or decisions:

1. At the end of Jan, we discovered that Sally had mailed the employees’ W2s to the managers’ home addresses instead of to the offices to distribute to their employees!
   
2. We had an office that moved locations to right across the street, so the only thing that changed in their address was their street number (12 Main Street instead of 11 Main Street). I explained this to Sally & gave her an updated list of the office’s addresses. 3 weeks later, we get a call from that office saying that mail we send to them keeps going to their landlord’s house. I check the address labels Sally had created for herself. Sure enough, it had the wrong address on them. I go to grab the lease, & at the top is where the tenant’s new address is listed. & all the way at the bottom of the page in the paragraph titled “RENT” where it lists where to send the rent is the landlord’s home address. & that’s the address Sally had chosen to be the new office’s address on her address labels.
   
3. Sally hadn’t been faxing the offices to ask for bills/receipts that never made it to us.
   
4. I used the last towel on a roll of paper towels, so I went to the cabinets to grab another. We were out. Sally is in charge of keeping track of supplies that need ordering, so I go to Sally & say we’re completely out of paper towels, we need to order some. Sally response: “No one ever tells me when they grab the last roll so I know when to order them.” Um, excuse me, since when is it our job to tell you to do your job? It’s your responsibility to keep track of supplies. You should be checking the level of paper towels, toilet paper, Kleenex, etc., to see when you need to order them.
   

So, I knew she needed a second warning write up for carelessness cause of the numerous mistakes since the first warning write up in the middle of Dec, & I would be giving Sally a first warning write up for negligence cause of her not asking the offices for missing bills & not writing the info on the bills I had told her to do at the end of Nov. However, it was only a few days from Feb, which was the time for performance reviews. So, rather than doing a write up now & then in a week or so doing a performance review that was one of the worst performance reviews I’ve ever heard of, I decided to just do it in one fell swoop. You know, just get it all out of the way with one bad conversation, one bad day, & then both of us can hopefully put it behind us & move on.
I decided to do the performance review & write ups on Feb 5 (Monday). It went much smoother ‘cause Greg was there, so Sally couldn’t really give me lip or lash out by showing attitude & anger like she had previously.
On Feb 7 (Wednesday), I log in to get the transactions for an office who is switching banks. I wanted to get an updated list of outstanding checks so they know how many checks are left before they can close the old bank account. & what do I see? Someone had used the bank account to pay $100 on their AT&T bill. I call the office & find out it was actually them, so no fraud there. But I then ask Sally if she had seen that when checking the bank accounts. She said she didn’t remember. Obviously, I have found my proof that she is either not checking them or isn’t paying attention when she does. I have a discussion with Greg about it, & we decide I need to have a sit down with her about her not doing her job. She is sick on Thursday, so I plan to talk with her the next day she comes in.
On Feb 9 (Friday), I begin the conversation about checking the bank accounts & how important it is. I am planning to say things like, we expect you to do this job, you’ve been told multiple times to do this task, if you’re not going to do the job, then you’re welcome to go find another one, etc. But she cuts me off at the beginning with an excuse of, “Well, I didn’t know what I should be looking for, now I know.” & it broke me. She does this exact thing every time I have to have a conversation with her. She has an excuse ready to go on the tip of her tongue, always spins it around so it’s not actually her fault. It’s always, “Well, I didn’t know that, but now, I do.” & I was just done. I didn’t continue the conversation, even though I needed to, ‘cause I just broke down in tears from the stress of having to discipline her & knowing that nothing will ever come of it, but having our hands legally tied to be able to fire her right now. I cried nonstop for over 4 hours.
On Feb 12 (Monday), I sat down to continue the conversation, this time with a written statement for her to sign.
Me: You respond a lot of the time that you don’t know how to do things, which is very frustrating, ‘cause you’ve been shown multiple times how to do these tasks. It’s very inefficient & wasteful that I have to constantly check all of your work & retrain you on the same thing over & over again. This needs to change. This job is about accuracy & accountability.
Sally: You’re not giving me a chance to improve. I never hear “Good job,” from you. All I ever hear is, “You’re doing a bad job, sign this paper.” I get in trouble every time I ask for help, so I guess I’ll just follow the instructions & hope I’m doing it right.
The problems with that response:

1. You’ve worked here for 2 years, Sally. You’ve had plenty of time to improve.
   
2. The reason you never hear “Good job” is ‘cause you’re not doing a good job. How am I supposed to tell you “Good job,” but also need to give you a write up for doing a bad job? If you’re getting multiple write ups for doing a bad job, don’t you think that’s a sign that something is wrong? I mean, she thinks that managers should be telling their employees good job on everything they do right. No, you’re expected to do these tasks. We’re not going to congratulate you every time you do your basic job requirements like some toddler that needs constant positive reinforcement so they know that doing something right is a good thing! You will hear “Good job” when you are doing a really good job on something, when you go above & beyond!! I mean, do you think Greg tells me “Good job” when I’m just doing my job as expected?!! NO!!! I’ve never had a manager constantly tell me “Good job” all the time!!!! (Whew. Sorry about that. Kinda went on a crazy rant there. I’m good now.)
   
3. Here’s another example of her mentality of “if I don’t do the job, I can’t get in trouble for doing it wrong.” She’s going to stop asking for help instead of using the help I’ve given her to do better. I mean, if you’re making these mistakes when you ARE asking for help, how many more are you going to make when you stop asking for help? How does this make any logical sense?!
   

Well, here’s another chance for some malicious compliance. She claimed she didn’t know how to check the bank accounts, right? Well, my job as the manager is to make sure my employees know how to do their job. So, I need to sit down with her & train her how to check the bank accounts. Again. Even though I know she already knows how to do it. So, every time you tell me that the reason why you didn’t do a job is ‘cause you didn’t know how to do it right, well, we’re going to sit down & waste both our times & annoy you having to be retrained on something you do, in fact, know how to do.
Sally continues making careless mistakes & not doing stuff she doesn’t think she should have to do. Like answering the phones. It’s her job to answer the phones; that’s something I as the manager should be delegating to her. However, she never answers the phone unless I literally can’t. So, I had asked her to start answering the phone more. She will wait until the last possible second before answering the phone. By that time, it’s already rung twice, so I have to answer it before it goes on any longer or they hang up. One time, we were both away from our desks when the phone rang. We both went to answer it, but she was closer & got to her desk before me, put her hand on the phone, & watched me until I got to my desk before she picked it up. With a comment of, “Oh, (laughs) I didn’t want to make you walk all the way to your desk.” Well, you did, anyway, you little jerk.
On Feb 27, Sally asks for help on a report. She says that my note stating the office is over-deposited $28 on report 1 but fixed on report 2 by being $28 under-deposited didn’t work out. She says that they were never over by $28 in the first place. I take the report to look it over. Her calculator tape adding up the deposits shows the bank is in balance, but I don’t see deposit slips.
Me: Where are the deposit slips?
Sally: I haven’t gotten them yet.
Me: (trying to comprehend her logic) Then how do you have the deposit amounts added on this tape?
Sally: I got the amounts from the report.
Me: You…(my brain trying not to implode at this point) you can’t add up amounts to see if the bank has too much or too little money in it without knowing what was actually taken to the bank. The amounts on the report don’t always equal what was taken to the bank.
I log into the bank account & discover just that: the report says they took $500 to the bank, but their deposit says $528. They were indeed $28 over-deposited. I then lecture her (for the second time in a few months) on the correct way to account for the deposits at the bank, that we are only to use the dollar amounts on the bank’s deposit receipt. (The first time was her getting the deposit amount from what was written on the deposit slip instead of what the bank gave us credit for on their printed receipt. The bank had shorted us $500, & we never knew until her deposits didn’t work out when reconciling the bank statement at the end of the month. We were missing $500 for 4 weeks! It’s a miracle we didn’t overdraw the account.)
Another task that we do several days a week is checking the CFPB website. This is a government website that uses federal regulations to monitor financial institutions. It’s like the Better Business Bureau, but more official. Customers can make complaints through them, prompting an investigation to make sure we’re following the federal guidelines. We have 2 weeks to respond to a complaint before it is past due.
On Feb 29, Greg just happens to be looking at an email inbox that he never checks, ‘cause after all, we’re checking the CFPB website, so he doesn’t have to look there, right? There is a complaint in 2 of the portals that have been in there since Jan 22. He immediately marches out & tells Sally about them.
Greg: Aren’t you checking the CFPB sites?
Sally: Yeah, I am.
Really? Then how come you didn’t print this complaint off to give to Greg in the last 6 weeks? She came back from lunch to a second warning write up given by me for negligence.
On Mar 5 (Tuesday), we are working on reconciling the bank statements so we can close the month of Feb. Sally brings me a Jan bank statement for an office.
Sally: This never cleared in Feb.
I look at the bank statement. It’s an electronic deposit of $254 on Jan 31. I remember this. She had asked me at the beginning of Feb why this deposit wasn’t recorded on the office’s report. I explained that since it didn’t show up in the bank account until the last day of Jan, they might not have known about it before the end of the month & so recorded it on the first of Feb. We will wait until the first report of Feb. If it’s still not recorded, then we’ll bring that to the office’s attention. & here she is, clearly telling me she hadn’t brought it to anyone’s attention all month long.
Me: (staring at the bank statement as I try to prevent my autistic brain from exploding at her while also trying to prevent a spontaneous stroke) You didn’t keep track of this all month?
Sally: Well, I didn’t know if it was treated differently ‘cause it was OTBP (One Time Bill Pay, which is the electronic deposit). (Oh, what a shocker, she once again didn’t know how to do something.)
Me: But we talked about this. If it wasn’t on the first of the month, we needed to address it.
Sally: Okay, well, now I know that we treat this the same as other deposits. (goes nonchalantly back to her desk like it was no big deal, like she hadn’t just revealed she had once again disobeyed my detailed instructions)
Me: (seeing her flagrant disregard for the seriousness of the situation & wondering just how on earth she could once again think that not doing her job would have no consequences) This is exactly what Greg talks about over & over, about how we can’t leave errors like this to sit for weeks & weeks, that these need to be dealt with as they happen.
Sally: (still as easy-going as if she had simply used the wrong color highlighter) Okay, I’ll make note of that.
Now, I am getting really pissed off. She keeps saying, “Oh, now I know that OTBP is treated the same as everything else.” That doesn’t matter! It doesn’t matter that you didn’t know it’s treated the same! I specifically told you to take care of it if it didn’t appear on the first of Feb! It didn’t matter what kind of deposit it was! I said to tell me if it wasn’t on the first of Feb!
Now, this was right before she leaves at 3:30, so by the time I’m finished with my text conversation with Greg (‘cause he isn’t there that afternoon), she has already left. But I’m telling Greg that I have once again caught her being negligent, & she’s already had 2 written warnings about this, which means our next step is letting her go. Not to mention, her carelessness is still continuing. He said that he supports my decision to let her go. By the way, the final decision happened an hour after she left. If I had known before she left that we were indeed going to fire her, I would have done it before she left so she didn’t have to come all the way to work in the morning just to leave again.
So, on Mar 6 (Wednesday), I arrive early to work so I can be prepared. I am standing at my desk, watching her come in. This is unusual, so she frowns as she approaches me.
Me: Sally, we need to talk.
Sally: (still frowns at me)
Me: (handing her the typed up notice) We are going to read this together. “When reconciling the month of Jan, around Feb 5, it was brought to my attention that we had a deposit that hadn’t been reconciled. I gave you instructions to wait a report to see if it works out. If not, you would need to bring it to mine & the office’s attention for further instructions. This wasn’t done. It wasn’t until Mar 5 that you brought this to my attention again. You have been told many times the importance of reconciling the financials of the office. You have been warned several times of negligence. This is another example of negligence with respect to your job. All you had to do was follow my instructions. It is for this reason that it is now time to terminate your employment.”
Sally: When did you tell me to do this?
Me: (thinking, “Um, I kinda just told you when I told you do that, but, okay.”) When you showed me the Jan bank statement—
Sally: Yesterday?!
Me: You showed me the Jan bank statement a month ago when you were reconciling Jan. I told you to wait for the first of Feb & then—
Sally: You did no such thing!
Me: Yes, I did, Sally.
Sally: When does Greg get here?
Me: Around 9, like usual.
Sally: I’m calling him, ‘cause this is ridiculous. You’ve had it out for me from the very beginning.
Me: No, I haven’t.
Sally: Yeah, you have. Just like the other 2. (sets her bags at the front door, goes outside, & calls Greg)

1. How could I have had it out for you from the very beginning when we didn’t have problems for the first year & a half you worked here? If I’d had it out for you from the beginning, you wouldn’t have had a job the past 6 months. Need I remind you what Greg told you about the timesheet thing being something we fire someone for on the spot, but that Molly had gone to bat for you & gave you a second chance? Why would I have done that if I had wanted you gone from the start?
   
2. “Just like the other 2.” She’s talking about Irene (who had left in Feb 2023) & another employee (who we’ll call Phil). Phil had been fired (by Greg, by the way) for continuing to watch movies on his phone at his desk despite being told multiple times by Greg to not do that. & Irene? She wasn’t fired. She gave her 2 weeks’ notice. & we then discovered when going through the work she’s been doing as we started taking over her tasks that she didn’t just not do jobs. She would actually forge the work so she wouldn’t have to work. “A bank imbalance of $2.65? Well, I’ll just add it to the imbalance that’s been building up for who knows how many months & just label it as an over-deposit from the end of the month. That way, I don’t have to look into why the bank isn’t balancing.” But no, I had it out for them, apparently.
   
3. Does she really think that calling Greg was gonna reverse my firing her? Does she really think I would do something as drastic as writing her up or firing her without discussing it with my supervisor first? Did she really think I would do this behind his back?
   

Apparently, she did, ‘cause Greg confirmed that Sally tried telling him about all the stuff I’ve been doing to her as if he didn’t know. She hung up on him when he explained that he’s been told everything as it happens & he supports this decision.
Sally: (storming back into the office & towards her desk) I’m not signing anything.
Me: Ok.
Sally begins packing up her desk. I had known she kept a lot of personal items at the office, so I had gotten a big box or 2 out & placed them nearby for her to use to pack up her desk.
Me: We can give you a box if you need it.
Sally: I don’t need sh** from you guys.
Me: The only thing we’ll need is your office key.
Sally: You’ll get it when you get it. I’m packing my desk.
Me: Ok.
I go back to work, keeping an eye on her as she packs to make sure she doesn’t take anything she’s not supposed to or damage any company property. Sally at some point decides to use the boxes she didn’t want from us to pack up her many items. She takes both boxes to the front door where her bags are & sets them down to put the last of her things in. She picks up one box to take outside.
Sally: You are the worst manager ever. (goes out the door)
Me: (shrug)
Sally: (comes back in for the final box) Seriously, you’re the most evil person I’ve ever met. (leaves)
Really? I rank worse than the guy that beat you up? I’m worse than him?
I continued watching her to see if she’s going to come back to give up her office key. As she packed up her car, another employee had arrived (we’ll call him Randy). He had run into her on the way in & asks me if Sally quit. I explained, no, she was let go. I then see that Sally has gotten behind the wheel of her car without coming back to give us the office key.
Me: Well, I guess we’ll just change the locks.
Randy then takes it upon himself to go out to her car. He phrased it very gently by saying he wanted to spare her having to come back in to turn the key in.
Sally: I guess Molly didn’t have the balls to do it herself. (hands the key over)
& then…she was gone. Despite having to do the entire corporate office’s work all by myself & falling steadily behind little by little, I have never been more happy. I had forgotten how much I loved my job & how much I couldn’t wait to get to work. I haven’t been this stress-free in 6 months, & it feels fantastic! & the great part is, I’m not really falling as far behind as I expected to without her. Having to do 2 people’s jobs by myself is only affecting me a little. Really goes to show you how bad she was for the company & for my job when she disrupted everything that much. For example, me & her would get through maybe 5 to 6 offices’ reports between us in a single day when playing catch up after closing the previous month. One day? I caught up on 10 offices’ reports in a single day. By myself.
Oh, did I mention she smoked marijuana most days on her way to work or while on her lunch break? We could never actually prove it. But, come on, you don’t smell that strongly of marijuana on only select days if you aren’t smoking it recently. If it was leftover from the smell of your house or car, you would smell like that every day. But it was only some days she would come into work or back from lunch smelling like that. Obviously, smoking on the job. So very glad to be rid of her & her awful skunk smell. Although, I do wish her well on a new job search. I don’t wish ill on anyone, ever. But I am just glad she’s no longer my problem to deal with.
(Added 2 months after she was fired): By the way, I am actually gaining on my work. I’m not only not behind on my work, I’m actually getting it done soon enough to work on extra stuff. Also, out of the blue, we’ve started getting about 3 to 4 sales & scam calls every day since Sally left (for things like better Medicare benefits, better retirement benefits, & even one time recently where “Walgreens” was calling to ask if I still had diabetes). I’m convinced Sally signed us up for calls as retaliation. I hope they die down soon, especially as they are starting to get rude. (Our response to every one of these is “Sorry, this is a business.” This one guy responded to me with, “This is my job.” I said, “I understand this is your job, but this is a business. I am not allowed to take personal calls.” He said, “Why?” I said very slowly & firmly, “Because I’m working!” He started to say, “Can you explain to me why—” I hung up. Jerk.)

Had my previous car (Fiesta) stolen and decided I wanted to replace it with something I've always wanted: in this case a 2010 Giulietta 1.4 TB Multiair 170hp on 63k miles...
Fell in love with it and can really see what people mean about Alfa's, I've done 2k miles since mid April when I bought it and it hasn't skipped a beat. So, had it just over a month and then last night this happened:
Smelled quite hot for a few mins on the motorway before I noticed the temp gauge nearly at the top, then just as I pulled over the high coolant temp warning light came on...
Turned the engine off immediately, open the bonnet and LOADS of brown sludgy coolant has spilled out from the expansion tank cap itself and gone EVERYWHERE. 😭
Got recovered home and checked it out this morning, no coolant in the tank and the liquid itself smells like exhaust fumes. There doesn't appear to be a loss of oil or coolant in the oil but am I right in assuming the worst and it's a head gasket? 😔
Honestly gutted if so but luckily the garage I bought it from 10 mins down the road sold it with warranty and I'm taking it in first thing tomorrow 🤞 Any thoughts? Is the head likely to be warped? Should I trade it for another Fiesta? 🤣

Hey l'm trying not to give up on life even though my eyes get teary writing this . Any meal would be a dream come true to me, been eating canned meat and crackers(and I’m grateful for it ) for past few weeks since I became homeless, but I ran out of my last money to afford 1dollar canned meat.. being hungry I keep weighing in options on putting something to my pocket in grocery store but I can't do that and I will rather try looking for food in dumpsters tonight if I don't receive any help . P.S I recently I got scammed by a person who was close to me out my savings after losing my source of income, had to move out to the streets because couldn't afford rent or car anymore. l've been all my life alone and with a few friends, sadly prior to losing everything I borrowed money to a friend who is unable to pay me back anytime soon and it's not his fault, only mine Happy to talk over the phone/ Facelime to show myself, the situation I'm in, and my bench behind a library where I get a scratch of wifi .

I made to episode 16.. you can skip 90% of the episode and not miss a damned thing. So much of each episode is going over the same thing.. hardly any progression in the plot.
On top of the snail pace. The ML is a damn idiot and needs help to do everything.. which doesn't make sense.. everything we receive about his characters backstory tell us this dude should cold and calculated, but no, he a soft easy to manipulate dumb ass. It's ridiculous, this guy is such a helpless dumby...
And this drama relies HEAVILY on the power writer convenience, especially with the two FL's.
It's super annoying.. especially now that I realize the brothers aren't evil but just chaotic good.. and kinda really fucking agree Ziyu doesn't deserve his position.
And FL, she wears one expression the whole dang drama, can't tell if she actually falling for ml or still acting, she saved him at the inn so I would say she is... But then again, if he had gotten killed there, her ass would be dead too. See what I mean? Hard to tell, she gives ML fake back ground stories and shit... Like bruh what is real and not real att his point. Can't tell with them..
Imma try and finish this but idk, wish ml was written better

First of all congrats to all 2024 graduates.
This is a long one so yea. My dad has always been a pretty much absent father. Especially financially, with my mom buying us everything we’ve needed , we being my sister and I. I have vivid memories of my dad calling and saying he’s come pick us up for us to spend time with him, only for him to arrive at 10 PM to give us a $10 bill and kiss good bye. we saw him occasionally. We’ve maybe been with a total of 10-20 times throughout the entirety our lives. But as we got older we realized that we weren’t a priority of his.
Right around when COVID hit though my dad began to come around a lot more. But not in the way u may be thinking. See my dad got into hard drugs, with his then gf. Lost my baby brother to CPS, and was basically homeless. So he invited himself to our home, sleeping in my moms car at night and sometimes my mom being the god send that she is was nice enough to let him come in and eat when it got colder out. This was the worst time of my life concerning my father . I saw him in a completely different light and thought very little of him. It just completely stunned me that the only way my dad would come to see his kids is if he had nowhere else to go. He , as most drug addicts was in and out of jail, until one time when he had to stay for a few months longer , and then spent a few months in a halfway house. All throughout this and before my mom never really spoke ill of my father , unless she was arguing with him about some bull shit he was doing while being a druggy and hanging around our house, like doing drugs in our basement. But she always encouraged or even forced us to communicate with him, and try to forgive/ build a relationship with him. Aswell as countless times of my mom helping this man. Giving him money, rides, clothes, and wtv else he asked for.
Well after my dad went to jail that last time and was in the halfway house, he came out a new man. He kicked his drug habit, got his CDL license and was doing great. My sister and I were very proud of him and wanted to give him another chance. We spent 4th of July with him, and hung out with him a couple more times just driving around in his car. And just in general we’re a little closer and more communicative.
Fast forward to the 2 main incidents that led to him not being invited to my graduation . So as I was heading over to a friends house one day my car cut out. My mom was at work with a client (she’s a hairdresser) so I naively thought I could call my dad. He showed up took a look under my hood and realized that id need to get it towed. So I took the initiative to start calling tow companies and try to find the cheapest one. I luckily manage to find a guy that would do it for only $65 . Which if you’re an adult you know how much of an insanely good deal that is. Whilst I’m calling tow companies my dad has spent this time complaining about my moms choice in cars , and basically blaming her for my car cutting out. And also trying to call his sister so he could borrow a tool she had to just hitch my car to her truck and tow it himself. He can’t get ahold of her so I bring up the $65 tow guy. This man starts complaining saying he can do it for free and just wait for his sister to pick it up. Anothe 30 minutes go by and nothing. So i call my mom, and ask her can she cashapp me. Of course she says yes. So I call the tow man myself to get my car towed. The entire time this man is complaining about paying $65 fucking dollars, complaining about my mom buying the car , and complaining saying I hope she doesn’t expect me to pay for this. Mind you he has a CDL license, so he’s making good money and can more then afford to pay it . He paid $30,000 for his car cash and was able to save this money up for it in only a few months, so u do that math for how much he makes. At first I was ignoring him letting him talk shit. But he just kept going on and on and on, and I finally snapped and told him to stop talking about my mom and began defending her. We got into a heated argument that ended with him saying don’t ask him for anything, and me assuring him that I won’t. I had started crying because of how frustrated I was at the situation . I was asking something so little of him and this is how he acted? And he made fun of that saying “I’m not going to cry about it either” this was the last straw and I vowed to never reach out to him again.
I kept that vow despite my moms continuous efforts to get me to talk to him/ unblock him/ forgive him , but I was done. My 18th birthday roles around a few months later. And I decided to be nice and invite him, my thought process was I’m going to college soon , and won’t see him for probably the 4 yrs that id be gone away to school. So why not just try. I didn’t ask this man for anything and just told him where the place of my party was. The time comes and my mom and I are a little late to my party about 10-15 minutes late to getting to the place. He begins texting me asking where we are , and I say we’re a few minutes late, but otw and just resend the address . He starts making excuses saying oh he has work he has to go and wtv else. I say ok that’s fine . He says oh I have a gift I wanted to give you. I say oh you could bring it later when ur off or we could meet somewhere for me to get it tmrw. The next day roles around and I ask him if he worked today and when I could meet him to get the gift. Then he starts talking bs saying, oh I already gave it to ur mom, with the child support card. I’m thinkin oh maybe he can put more money on it and did that for me , for my bday. But no he was referring to the money he is mandated to pay by the state , which he just began paying for the last year or he so he’d been driving trucks. So once I realized this I decided to tell him how bad of a father he was, and yes I did disrespect him and curse him out and I didn’t care. This was really the final straw and I wanted to give him a piece of my mind. And that I did. This is where he really fucked up though. He texted my mom saying to give me the childsupprt card for my bday. My mom uses the $400/ month he pays for our utilities and has them on autopay. And idrc what anyone thinks about that I think it’s a very appropriate use of it. Especially since she pays for wtv else we need and want with no complaints . So she tells him it’s sad that has nothing to give his daughter on her 18th birthday and not to text her phone with the bs telling her what to do with the money. Ig this upsets him because he brings up something’s of my moms past , during a time that was really hard for her. And that was it for my mom. She cut him off too, and though she has not hate for him, she says she’s done allowing people in her life that do nothing but take advantage of and disrespect her. I was relieved to finally have my mother stop pressuring me to spend time with my father, and happy to be done with the stress and pain that he usually causes when he’s around.
Fast forward to now , my Graduation was last week. I only had 8 tickets . And I had already decided to give tickets to my grandma , her 5 kids (my mom , aunts , and uncles) my sister and my favorite cousin. A few days before the graduation whilst at school, a teacher pulls me aside and asks me did Ik my dad tried to come up to my school to get a graduation ticket . I laughed this off. The day of my graduation comes and I find out he was at the place of the graduation trying to find me. I was relieved that we didn’t bump into one another because I truthfully don’t want to see him. But later I felt a little bad when thinking about how he tried to come to the school then still came to the graduation despite not being let in obviously for the lack of a ticket. I don’t know why but my mom is in the same boat feeling guilty that he wasn’t let in on such a big moment. And has began some of her old antics of saying oh can he come to ur graduation party (not the ceremony but a family celebration) my guilt however doesn’t extend this far, and I just can’t give this man yet another opportunity to disappoint me. So what do you think Reddit , am I the asshole?

All the most useful threads seem to be on forums 10-15 years ago with expired photos/links. Others detail buying/using a donor car.
I was not smart enough in retrospect to buy a donor. I am now kicking myself for not doing that since piecing together has been far more expensive.
Drivetrain is in, and I am at the crossroads between modifying the stock 01 harnesses to make this work, or switching to 03/04 harnesses.
If anyone has done this retaining the 01 cobra harnesses etc, please let me know what modifications need to be made.
If not, can anyone list what I will need. I have already bought a cluster, key, and ECU from an 03 cobra, my understanding is I still need the following harnesses: Top Engine Harness Bottom Engine Harness (starter harness) ECU harness Dash harness Power distribution harness T56 harness (Is there a separate front body harness different than the power distribution/fuse box harness?) And do I need the CCRM and all the 03/04 modules as well (not worried about cruise control)
Lengthy post but I’m getting to the point where I want to have this done within the past couple weeks. Just need some direction here.

Sometimes it’s hard to tell if Taylor wants Matty back or is trying to get back at him. I think she is doing both.
She’s trying to get him back:
She’s flipped the narrative about him. He/their love has a better reputation now because of ttpd.
She’s trying to get back at him:
Putting smallest man who ever lived in the eras set list. That’s the only true fuck you song on the album and she uses it in her act. That’s brutal.
She’s trying to get him back:
The secret songs in all 3 nights of Paris. They scream notice me Matty.
She’s trying to get back at him:
Parading Travis around. Having pap shots of them in love. (I think she was sooooo angry having to see him and Gabby looking lovey.) she’s trying to make him feel what she felt.
She’s trying to get him back:
All her songs for Travis are not love songs. Even her surprise songs aren’t “I’m over the top in love with this man.” Her pics from Italy were almost toooo obviously public and PR. She is trying to get him to feel jealousy but also note that they really aren’t THAT serious.
She’s trying to get back at him:
Surprise songs: Peter and the say don’t go - NY - Clean mashup.
Those all read you hurt me so bad, I was a wreck when you left, it took me so long to finally feel better. I can’t risk a relationship with you again.
I want to get back with you:
Surprise song- Guilt as sin- but I am still thinking about you.
She’s pretending to herself she’s over it because she can’t risk falling back into broken pieces again. She’s wary.
But her heart is not letting her.
I honestly think if she was over Matty she wouldn’t be with Travis, her security blanket. She would be single trying to meet an actual true partner.
She is with Travis because if she was single. She’s afraid she’d go back to Matty, because she is not over him. Even if she’d liked to be. She’s not.

I’m 22 and currently working at Aldi. I make $17 an hour. I’m full time & I’ve been working there for about 7 months now and it’s gotten to the point where it’s draining. I used to not mind going to work but now the thought of going into work sucks, it’s so repetitive and boring. I have no aspirations to move up in the company, yes they pay their managers fairly well but the hours are even more atrocious for managers than they are now. I have an open schedule because that’s the only way they’ll hire you, so my schedule is super random, some days i’ll be closing the store (1pm-9pm), other days i’ll open the store ( 6am - 1pm/2pm) and sometimes it’ll be a mid shift. It’s just so draining, it’s super hard to make plans with friends since i don’t have a set schedule. It’s just draining. There’s been several occasions where i’ll close the store at 9pm and i’ll have to be back at work at 6am or 9am. All my coworkers are cool people but the job itself is draining, i have little work life balance and i miss most of the things i get excited about due to having to work them days . I don’t get paid enough to be able to live on my own so I still live with my parents although I do pay rent just to help them out. I’m considering going back to college ( i had gotten a free year at my local community college when covid was at its height but i chose a major I didn’t like ) so i took the following year off to figure out a major I would like. I’m leaning towards a career in I.T as i’m good with computers and I enjoy working with computers. Would it be a bad idea to quit Aldi and go to college full time ? or should I just go part time ?

Edit: I'm aware my punctuation and grammar are awful. I'm crazy and uneducated and I have never wrote anything to myself so it's probably 🗑
I don't really know where I should start this one. I figured out a lot of the mental health shit and our life hasn't really improved. It's less chaotic right now but we don't really have money or any of the stuff I use to numb my brain and drown myself out. We'll make it like we always do. I know everyone said we wouldn't make it this far (including us) but I'm here and weirdly enough I'm happy about it. I'm about to leave state and start completely fresh again and I swear I won't waste it this time. We're getting back into martial arts right now which is crazy cause we haven't actually trained a martial art since middle school cause we got obsessed with unorthodox stances but I'm gonna try to do unorthodox kickboxing. Our wrist is broken rn but it's not too bad and we're getting a hard cast soon. I know you're probably thinking about it, like me but we can't tap out until our revolution is won. We don't have a girlfriend but we have a roster. That one is still no contact I guess. So the current plan is to make it big in mma and use the money to fund a revolution. Anyway they still say we're crazy and they still keep switching the diagnosis. We try to be as neutral as possible but if our therapist tells me weed is the problem again I might beat him to death with my cast. We still bounce around the same people like a mangy stray but we managed to make ourselves useful so at least that's something. We've always excelled at violence and logical thinking on top of physics being the only kind of math I could do without having an aneurysm (it was because I could understand the physical application of the math and catapults are cool) so we had to become a jack of all trades but we do have some deep interests at the moment that I'd consider real skills (so yeah fuck that school counselor) on top of that we've been making enough to get by so we're not struggling for meals anymore tho we still don't eat as much as we should.
I hope we smile when we read this
"I don't LIKE violence, I'm just good at it. I don't find trouble, trouble goes looking for me with helicopters and binoculars"- the stray dog inside of you that helped you survive

I prefer simplicity, and typically only carry 2-3 cards with me every day. I’m happy with my current setup which is centered on BofA since I’m platinum honors. However I set this up a few years ago, and I am no longer sure if this is still optimal for max cashback.
I have a lot of upcoming international travel, so I’m wondering if there’s a better option for an everyday zero foreign transaction fee card than my BofA Preferred and C1 Venture X combo. Does it make sense to upgrade the BofA preferred rewards to the elite version of that card and get rid of C1 Venture X?
No annual fee cards:

1. Multiple BofA CCR cards to earn 5.25% across dining, online shopping, domestic travel + 3.5% on groceries (I don’t spend enough on groceries / streaming / Equinox to justify the AF on Amex BCP)
2. Bilt for rent (I redeem points primarily for domestic travel, but nice to have the airline partners as well)
3. C1 SavorOne - for UberOne fee credits (don't use it for anything else)
4. Chase freedom + Discover IT for rotating 5% cashback (but I rarely use these thanks to the CCR setup)

Annual fee cards:

1. BofA Preferred Rewards – 2.62% cashback on everything + 3.5% on international flight bookings + Ubers / other travel + dining makes this my general card for everyday spend.
2. C1 Venture X – Primarily for PP lounge access + primary rental car coverage, but also use it for the travel portal for flights (when price is the same as booking direct or other OTAs). I usually find hotels and rental cars for cheaper elsewhere (even after 10x rewards).

Other factors:

• FICO Score: 800+
• Chase 5/24 status: 3/24
• Income: $250k+
• Average monthly spend categories (highest to lowest): rent, dining , travel (including Uber), groceries, other (online shopping, etc.)

I prefer simplicity, and typically only carry 2-3 cards with me every day. I’m happy with my current setup which is centered on BofA since I’m platinum honors. However I set this up a few years ago, and I am no longer sure if this is still optimal for max cashback.
I have a lot of upcoming international travel, so I’m wondering if there’s a better option for an everyday zero foreign transaction fee card than my BofA Preferred and C1 Venture X combo. Does it make sense to upgrade the BofA preferred rewards to the elite version of that card and get rid of C1 Venture X?
No annual fee cards:

1. Multiple BofA CCR cards to earn 5.25% across dining, online shopping, domestic travel + 3.5% on groceries (I don’t spend enough on groceries / streaming / Equinox to justify the AF on Amex BCP)
2. Bilt for rent (I redeem points primarily for domestic travel, but nice to have the airline partners as well)
3. C1 Savor - for UberOne fee credits (don't use it for anything else)
4. Chase freedom + Discover IT for rotating 5% cashback (but I rarely use these thanks to the CCR setup)

Annual fee cards:

1. BofA Preferred Rewards – 2.62% cashback on everything + 3.5% on international flight bookings + Ubers / other travel + dining makes this my general card for everyday spend.
2. C1 Venture X – Primarily for PP lounge access + primary rental car coverage, but also use it for the travel portal for flights (when price is the same as booking direct or other OTAs). I usually find hotels and rental cars for cheaper elsewhere (even after 10x rewards).

Other factors:

• FICO Score: 800+
• Chase 5/24 status: 3/24
• Income: $250k+
• Average monthly spend categories (highest to lowest): rent, dining , travel (including Uber), groceries, other (online shopping, etc.)