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2014.05.24 05:26 Motha_Effin_Kitty_Yo Reflexes only fathers have.

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2017.01.01 23:08 Bestiality Videos

"There will be a time in your life when you come face to face with a fever dream heart startler. It's presence shakes you until you never go remotely back to who you used to be because you just looked through the alien side. We're living in biblical foretold alien side times for damned sure."
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2019.04.14 04:37 n0do Cez's Reviews For Stuff

It is with a heavy heart that I tell you guys that because cez has stopped actively posting, this sub has died. So sad drop an EPIC updoot while you are here insta bad hahaha reddit.
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2024.05.07 06:14 ThrowRA_lostinsauce1 Back and forth on my options

Hi,
I hope I put the right flair on, but I am honestly feeling so lost and confused as to what to do.
I am about 5 weeks pregnant right now and I have been considering my options. I am 26 and my boyfriend is 29. Our relationship is okay, very new, only 8 months along.
I have stable financials because I am on VA disability. My boyfriend does not, he has a job that doesnt pay well, however he is getting his VA claim worked through and will eventually have the same stability I do.
I didn't want a child yet, but I fell pregnant and have been back and forth in my decision between options.
I asked my boyfriend "If I stay pregnant and we broke up, would you be prepared to be a single dad?" He looked at me kind of shocked, but let out "yes?" I reminded him of all of the responsibilities and he changed his answer to no.
My boyfriend already has a child (M5) by another woman. He sees his son and talks to him sometimes, but doesn't have sole custody.
I told him I was never interested in being a single mom. Not because I hate single moms or anything, but quite the opposite. Single moms are the strongest warriors and they are full of so much strength. I am not that strong, my day gets ruined if my doordash order gets sent to the wrong address. I know I would struggle immensely being a single mom, because I struggle with my mental without any children. It's not really fair that men can walk away from their children and get off free. Meanwhile, single moms are looked down on by society and scrutinized.
My boyfriend is excited and gets disappointed when I tell him I'm still deciding my options. I don't have much time because of the changing laws. He does say he will support any decision I make.
Has anyone else ever felt this lost?
I go back and forth between wanting to have my baby because I'm at nesting age and I think it would be lovely with my current support system, and thinking that me and my boyfriend have relationships things to work out and financial issues to solve before bringing a child into this world. I was so excited to schedule my first ultrasound yesterday, but today I felt like I was losing myself and giving up everything. I feel like I should do the logical thing and make the much needed choice, but my heart already likes the tube I have growing in me. Help!
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2024.05.07 05:19 ashkabunny Dysphagia and PEG tube.

I’m so overwhelmed and feeling torn in all directions. My dad (80m) has struggled with dysphagia for 6-8 months. He was doing okay on puréed foods and thickened liquids, but since last week, he’s been unable to swallow.
He’s currently in the hospital with pneumonia and suspected sepsis. The doctor suggested a PEG tube. My dad has already been through the wringer with procedures over the past year, and I don’t want him to suffer through another that may not improve his quality of life or extend his time here. I talked to my mom who has some cognitive issues since her strokes, but she agreed with my decision that it was time to speak with hospice and decline the surgery.
My dad has been sleeping nearly all the time, and when he’s awake, he seems to be only barely present… except for tonight. He said he doesn’t want to die. He wants more time on this earth, and he wants to do whatever it takes, even if it’s the PEG tube.
I asked the nurse to let the doctor know that we’d like to speak with him and hospice tomorrow about the best path forward.
I’m just so heartbroken and scared of making the wrong choice and increasing his discomfort. If he’s still coherent tomorrow and hospice doesn’t greatly discourage it, I guess we’ll go for it. Prior to this illness, he was pretty “with it” mentally. I’ve read others’ stories about feeding tubes on here, but I wanted to share mine & see if anyone has specific feedback for me. I’d really appreciate it.
(Additional diagnoses for my dad: diabetes, kidney issues, congestive heart failure, vision-impaired not correctable with glasses, AFIB, slight dementia/cognitive-impairment, wheelchair-bound; incontinent, urine & feces… that’s all I can think of right now. He had strokes previously but his carotid endarterectomy helped immensely.)
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2024.05.07 05:14 Excellen_Designer381 Am I just being spoiled?

Ok so this might sound weird, and probably isn't EN, but I just need someone else's view on it.
For some back story, I go to a pretty rich school, and mainly get what I need. Like i have an iPhone 15 and a macbook pro. So monetarily I'm loved. Its emotionally that's the problem. I feel like my parents buy me things just to take then away.
Now to the story. I was sitting in my room, just watching some YouTube on my phone as 15 year olds do,when my mom came bursting through my door. I hadn't done anything wrong. My brother and I had a small argument when we were clearing the table after dinner, but we sorted it out. She yells at me that I have not done any physical activity today and i need to go do some. Mind you, days earlier she made me sign a contract that's said I got 30 minutes of screen time and then I had to do physical activity and then I get an hour more of screen time. Makes me feel like a baby but still, what you gonna do?
So she comes bursting through my door telling me to get some physical activity (I had used up 5 of my 30 minutes) and when I tell her that, she blows up. Basically telking me my phone is a right not aprivilage. I told her we have a contract and I will follow the contract all the time, so she has to as well. She cant void the contract when she feels like it. So she takes away my phone and computer. Now I'm sitting in my room typing this on my burner phone. Oh yeah I am paying for my phone as well, not her.
So I need to know if I am just being spoiled or if she is partially at fault here. I would talk to her about this but she has a way of making everything my fault
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2024.05.07 04:20 Shin_Akuma1996 FAttY SPiNS Song Ratings

Everyday for a week I will be ranking all of Ray’s music projects. Day 1 fatty spins, Day 2 YFM(Ladybug Era), Day 3(cosmic toast era), Day 4 YFM covers, Day 5 Fat Damon, Day 6 The upside downs, And day 7 YFM gen 2 Up until Real girl. Here’s a playlist with all of his songs from Fatty Spins to YFM gen 2
:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5t53TcKIlMc&list=PLMNOGmGJ5dPhO9OvUt1nDKSbzceN2dtuz
Doin Your Mom:
Chorus: 1/10 - Goes on too long and is annoying
Instrumental: 2/10 - A whole lot of nothing and is really basic
Verse 1(MicFri’s part): 1/10 - Unfunny lyrics and no flow
Verse 1(Ray’s part): 1/10 - Unfunny lyrics and no flow
Verse 2(Ray’s part: 1/10 - Unfunny lyrics and no flow
Verse 2(MicFri’s part): 1/10 - Unfunny lyrics and no flow
Verse 3(Ray’s part): 3/10 - The effect they use makes it sound a little better
Song Rating - 1.4/10

Fresh Prince Of Bel-Air Cover:
Chorus: N/A
Instrumental: 4/10 - sounds pretty cool
MicFri’s part: 1/10 - Nothing special
Ray’s part: 1/10 - When his voice changes it doesn't sound great
Song Rating - 2/10

YouTube Party:
Chorus 1/10 - Holy Hell it’s annoying
Instrumental: 0/10 - Just Beats...
Verses: 1/10 - Really corny and kind of bad vocals
Song Rating - 0.8/10

Muppet Sex:
Chorus: 4/10 - Pretty Funny and catchy tbh
Instrumental 2/10 - Pretty Boring
Verses: 1/10 - All of these have no flow, terrible vocals and is really corny
Song Rating - 1.8/10

Apple Store Love Song:
Chorus: 6/10 - Really catchy lyrics
Instrumental: 1/10 - It’s just apple sounds(I THINK)
Verse 1: 5/10 The references are actually used good and the vocals are decent
Verse 2: 3/10 - The vocals and lyrics are starting to suck
Verse 3: 4/10 - Sound decent ig
Song Rating - 3.8/10

School’d:
Chorus: 7/10 - The Instrumental carries this
Instrumental: - 3/10 It’s just the Abc’s with beats
Verse 1: 5/10 - Corny lyrics
Verse 2: 4/10 - Corny Lyrics
Verse 3: 3/10 - Starting to fall of with the lyrics
Song Rating - 4.4/10

Hardcore gangsta thug:
Chorus: 1/10 - Annoying
Instrumental: 1/10 - Very nothing
Verses: 1/10 - This has the same problems as doin your mom, terrible vocals and lyrics
Song Rating - 1/10
Overall FAttY SPiNS Rating - 2.3/10
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2024.05.07 03:16 Slow_Whole6018 Needing to vent

Needing to vent
I haven't visited my sickenly mother in several weeks. My mother suffered a severe stroke and has been bedridden for the past few years and will continue to be for the rest of her life. She needs 24/7 care and receives it from my siblings. It's believed she's lost part of her vision, speech, hearing, memory, and pretty much everything that comes with having a severe stroke and being bedridden.
I don't help my siblings take care of my mother. My father passed away last year. I am aware that it's selfish of me to not visit my own mother. I am aware of the excuses I make to not simply visit her even if it's for a minute. Every time I see my mother on her bed, I see her as if she is suffering. She doesn't deserve to be living a life where her children have to feed her through a feeding tube or change her when she can't use a toilet to relieve herself. My mother doesn't talk unless you talk loudly to her and she may respond. Her ability to be able to slightly understand and communicate is fascinating seeing what she had to go through when she had her stroke. I can't see or talk to my mother without wanting to cry. I can't bare to think my mother is suffering because she is bedridden for the rest of her life.
I wish I was stronger and selfless enough to want to take care of her and visit her everyday, but I am weak and selfish. I'm sorry, mom. I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me.
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2024.05.07 03:10 vayuvyastra What do I even do in this situation?

So recently my laptop broke down and my mom lent me hers for me to use in my classes. My sister (9) is usually the one using it to watch YouTube and such. Yesterday, I was trying to get on the laptop to do my work. I opened it and after closing a few windows, it landed on fucking furry prn on WATTPAD. I’m shocked and don’t even know what to think or do. I literally just learned my little sister is a FREAK and uses my mom’s laptop to read Pokemon and furry prn on Wattpad. I spoke about it with my mom today but I still don’t know if my sister is going to get punished.
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2024.05.07 02:59 DragonStryk72 Incremental Improvement (Part 53)

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Well, she didn't kill me, not even when I snatched John's sidearm out of the holster and laid it in front of her grip-first, "I won't fight you, I won't even move from this spot. Right here, right now, here's your best shot to stop me."
John and Amathie both froze, and I held out a hand to stop John from acting. Just saying 'You better kill me' is something far different than saying it and then handing them the loaded murder weapon. Anansi picked up the gun, and clicked off the safety, and her eyes became unfocused for a moment, after which she set the gun back down, "You are not bluffing."
John retrieved his firearm and gave me a look, while Anansi said something to Amathie, and they both got up, Amathie thanking me, and sent me a link so we could trade recipes later. They retrieved their coats, and departed. I looked at John, "'Nother coffee?"
He watched as I calmly got up and made another coffee for myself, "No... thanks.... You really would've let her kill you."
I paused, and sighed, "The night of the raids, I got 1% better at accepting the idea of my death for a higher cause. It's not a threat to me anymore, it's just how my life ends. It's like in Hamilton: 'I imagine death so much it feels more like a memory'. One way or another, from everything I know and understand, I won't live long enough to make it to being old, John."
He sat there for a time, almost saying something, trying to counter the point, then failing to have any sound actually come out, "Goodnight, John. I got work to do."
John finally stood up, and took his own leave. I sat at the counter for a bit, then did the dishes, and went to sleep, but dawn saw me awake again. I got up, made breakfast, and sat down to work out my new advancement plan.
Okay, let's break it down: Psychic, Magic, and Chi Manipulation. Magic was broken up into a number of different disciplines and sources. Pretty easy to get, you have various schools of magic, specialization, traditions, and then there's the difference between inherent casters and learned casters. Inherent casters were like Sabrina, they simply had access once the power was awakened, but on the other side of it, you had those who educated themselves, and got access to power from another source. Knowing wasn't enough, you had to have a source of magic to pull from, just like any powered device, no power, and it doesn't work. This bore larger considerations, because it would mean tying myself with someone else. It could be earth-shatteringly powerful, but took work and in my case, essentially allowing someone else to have power over me... unless...
By its nature, Virtus was magical, specifically falling under Artificing. Artificing wasn't much used, even once you considered how rare caster-types were in the first place. It was far easier to just cast the magic yourself without having to learn serious crafting skills. So cut down that number of casters by how many of them very seriously want to be the world's greatest crafter, rather than just learn the spells themselves. Crafting yourself was an absolute necessity, since you had to imbue the object with magical energy as it was being created. Thing is, though, I'm not bound by that stricture. I can be the world's greatest crafter, 1% at a time.
Okay, so artificing... and I already have one magical artifact, so I would just need the ability to imbue magic. I didn't need spells, I just needed the capacity to channel magical energies, and any inherent caster could teach me that. I'm certain there's more to it than that, but that level worked for my purposes in the here and now. I sent off a message to Sabrina to let her know I needed to talk when she had a minute.
Next, we have Psychic. Psychic abilities required an expansion of the human mind to be able to use them. This generally meant years of intensive study from people who already had strong wills, and disciplined minds. I had a shortcut here with regards to having Technopathy and the Liminal Space ability. I was already moving forward here, and there were other abilities I would want as I came along. I revisited my Sync ability, and how it had increased all the various powers around it. It was a 'sympathetic' power, so my general thinking is that I should be looking at sympathetic abilities to work on. First, however, some basics.... I still don't like the idea of telepathy. Yeah, it can get broken, but sooner or later I'm hearing all the collective thoughts of humanity, and I'm really not certain I want that.... maybe focused on tactile telepathy? There were certainly powers like that, such as Tim's Psychometry, the ability to touch objects and read the psychic impressions of them. I already knew Kinetics was going to be a big one, so I'd need some time with Push.
Okay, and that leaves Chi Manipulation. The reality is, it's like Psychic, but for the body. If Magic was channeling the exterior energy, and Psychic was the channeled power of the mind, Chi Manipulation was the channeled power of the body and soul, but it took rigorous training, like think Navy SEALs training, and then start stepping it up. That's the 'I might have a shot at this' level. Masters could do some wild stuff with it, like Sprit Fox, who could manifest an actual fox focused from his harnessed energies that you needed mecha to get into the same weight class of. Again, S-Tiers are nations unto themselves.
Psychic and Magic were my main concerns in the moment. I was pretty-well settled on using artifice, since it had the extra point of my being able to dole out artifacts as opposed to being locked to just myself. No matter how powerful I got, I was just me, and I had to start changing the game, moving from myself as the chief instigator of everything. It's what my dad had said about planned obsolence, that the whole game had to be to get to a point where I was completely unnecessary to moving forward with things. And now, we get to start working on the Psychic stuff.
I had a particular plan as far as Psychic, and Prodigy had arrived in Portland while I was at the court yesterday, so now, I could begin working on some stuff. Speaking of working on stuff for myself, I found a whole chain of online CLEP courses so I could start knocking out college credits. I figured I might as well at this point, and with a host of online universities, and access to PSU, I had my pick of the litter. I put in the call to Prodigy, who was ready to go as soon as I was, and gave him the address. I had a limited window with everything going on, and I couldn't stay on leave of absence for that long. I had to get this together.
Before Prodigy got here, I needed to get a few things together, plus snacks and drinks, so I took care of that stuff until I got the buzz from down below. Prodigy had arrived, and I buzzed him in, meeting him at the door. He was... not what I expected. In imagining a 'super-teacher', certain imagery presented itself. Austerity, wearing a shirt and tie, maybe with one of those cardigan/vest combos, and one of those highly groomed beards. What I got was anything but that: He was heavyset, but wore a sleeveless "For Those About to Rock" T-shirt, jeans that looked liked lost several fights, and a trucker hat, and beard that screamed 'ask my about my favorite metal covers', "Y'all must be Marcus. Call me Donny. Let's get 'er goin'."
I let him in, and when I asked what he wanted to drink, he went straight for Dr. Pepper. I was going to need to be revising my estimation of this whole thing, "Alright, now if'n I'm hearin' right, yer power's the 1% thing. Let's start it up by you layin' it all out for me."
He broke out a tube of candy coated sunflower seeds as I spoke, "Okay, so the essentials of it are this: I incrementally improve at kind of everything, all the time. I don't know what I don't know, but everything keeps advancing, so it's more like if you had a penny, and it got 1% interest in value every second. That was the example my buddy Darryl came up with when I first got the power, and it still translates well enough for our purposes, but now imagine I keep getting more pennies, and those pennies starting get the same incremental improvement."
Donny (Thinking of him as Prodigy was now ridiculous. His H.A.A. photo had him in his supersuit.) nodded, "'K, I know what our first step in trainin' ya is. Y'need Darryl here."
I blinked. I mean, I hadn't really gotten proper time with Darryl since this whole authority thing kicked off, and I desperately wanted hang time, "Uh, he's in school right now."
He shrugged, "Well get 'im the heck out. Hell, I'm an accredited teacher with the academy, so we can just call it a special program or some such, and that'll get 'im the credit he needs. Pretty sure I can keep 'im ahead o' his classes."
I called Darryl, who excused himself from class to take the call, "What's up? Tell me it's a supervillain fight! I can be there... well, I mean, I'd be hopping Tri-Met, but-"
Let's make it quick, "Nope. It's more of a montage thing, and according to my new mentor, I need you here."
I could hear him powerfisting on the other end, "Yeah, sure, just let me call my mom. Can you pick me up?"
"Sure. We can be there in about fifteen minutes. Let your dad know you'll we be working on a special academy program."
Okay, that down, I regarded Donny, "Okay, so I guess we start with what I want to learn: I want to learn your power. I need to learn to teach with your power."
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2024.05.07 02:10 enkaydee Newbie here. Not sure where the connector in the laptop screen is

I'm opening a device for the first time. My mom's old Toshiba Satelite Laptop (model 500-017) allegedly stopped working some months ago with a black screen, but I dug out and realized it was a backlight issue.
I assumed it was something that required completing replacing a part, but I saw the screen at 100% colour for a few seconds.
I searched the issue and saw this YouTube video:
https://youtu.be/SN0S5PZdkjY?si=yIJE5KxxtWSkFiMv
It seemed easy enough and at the very least I could double check if it was the connector
...But I don't know where it is in our laptop?
https://i.ibb.co/RjMqY520240506-195859.jpg
Based on some others videos I saw, I'm not sure where the equivalent is on ours. I highly suspect it's actually under the clear label that says do not touch, lol
But is that correct?
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2024.05.07 01:40 LoloScout_ Is there a “perfect” registry list?

Moms to be or moms of multiples: has anyone found a “perfect” registry list with ideas for must have items and must have sizes to acquire before baby arrives… or does that even exist? My mom & MIL are both requesting I get my registry list out asap which is fine but I’ve been going on a deep dive of YouTube videos that has now led me in this perfectly f*cked up loop of overlapping lists of what people say are must haves and what others say are massive regrets.
Obviously I get that based on everyone’s lifestyle and everyone’s baby, there will be different preferences but I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed (I did a micro wedding and no registry and grew up with it parents who don’t do Christmas lists) so I’m not practiced in the whole consolidating and compiling your wants and needs thing.
For anyone who thinks they nailed it with their own baby shower registry or anyone who has found a great one online, could you help a girl out?
This is my first child so I’m starting with nothing and we are a bit minimalistic (not extreme) but we like quality over quantity where possible.
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2024.05.07 00:51 WorldHobbyShop What is your "Beyblade Story"

In other words. How, and when did you get into Beyblading? How did you get your first Beyblade and why are you still into blading?
All the way back in 2003/4. My mom asked me if I want to buy this new type of toy which she read about in a Marathi newspaper. As you can expect from a 4 year old kid. I obviously jumped and said yes. A trip to nearest giftshop later, I got my first beyblade which was a fake Torch Pegasus complete with a built in gyro launcher. I remember playing with it on floor, and later in a kadhai after I saw some friends battling in it. While I was definitely a fan. As you can imagine I was too young to actually appreciate this game
A fast forward to a few years. I was really excited to know my favourite show is coming back after watching an ad of the Metal Fusion on Cartoon Network. To my disappointment. Many of my favourite charecters including tyson and others were no long part of the show. This didn't stop me from watching. And yet again, I loved it. This was especially a great time since a lot of my friends were also into blading. I have many fond memories from this time. I guess I would go as far as to say it was one of best time of my life
Beyblade became one of first things watched on episodes of on youtube after watching some yet to be released episodes (in India) of the Beyblade Metal Fusion at my friend's house.
Following that day, I begun searching about Beyblade on Google as well as watching YouTube videos almost regularly. This was the time I actually got serious about blading. I watched raw, japanese episode of beyblade metal master as soon as they were uploaded on YouTube and followed every release. Watching unboxing, battles as well reading all about every bey I could find. This continued up until last episode of MFB 4D, the ray of hope. Zero-G didn't interest me as much. So my interest kept declining until I stopped watching all together. However, I did return to Beyblade in 2015 after having a dream about Beyblade.
Coincidentally, the very same day I was recommended a video from Kevo about the the project "B" of takara tomy. And how it maybe the next generation of Beyblade. Teaser did look very much like a spinning top
I went back and watched every episode of bakuten shoot as well as metal fight Beyblade in English and followed up where I left off. It was the Beyblade Burst. This was also time I found WBO, and became and active member
Fast forward to 2024. Almost 2 decades. I'm still a blader, infact, perhaps still as interested in this game as I used to. Now I have my own website where I sell used beys and I hope to turn into a proper hobby shop one day. I don't plan on stopping anytime soon, looking forward to Beyblade X release in India :)
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2024.05.06 23:27 SilentExpressions92 31 [F4M] West Michigan - Wanted: husband/partner/best friend

I never thought I'd be doing this again, but here I am. I am recently widowed and looking for that special someone again.
I have no kids, but very much want one of my own. Preferably in the next year or two.
I can be kind of quiet/shy at first, but once I get comfortable with you I am not lol.
I feel like I am a good mix of homebody and adventurous. I love to travel and cruise, I haven't done it a lot, but would love to see the world. I also don't mind just sitting at home and relaxing after a long day. I like craft shows, gardening, monster trucks, tubing, movies, etc.
I'm not a big drinker or 420er, but may participate occasionally. I prefer someone who is also not too big on those.
I am plus size. I am not looking for a hook up or fling. I want someone that would be happy to be a husband and a father. I am not interested in being a stay at home mom. Feel free to stalk my profile, it's all real. I want someone to love, grow with, and build a life with. Someone that has my back as much as I have theirs.
I am in West Michigan and really like where I'm at, so I need someone local or someone willing to move.
If this appeals to you, let's chat!
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2024.05.06 23:18 crazed57 Scared to tell my family I'm now sterile 😬

So on Friday I got my tubes removed (YAY) The only person I have told is my mom. She is very open-minded and doesn't seem to mind not having grandchildren. And even said "my body my choice".
However I have not told anyone else because my family is very religious (both Christian and Catholic) I know my dad will eventually find out, since I used his insurance but I'm worried about how he will react.. I am 26 and perfectly capable and healthy to carry a child, I just don't want to be a mother and was tired of being on birth control.
If you were a parent, would you want to find out through the insurance bill or having your daughter tell you? I'm afraid he will be mad I used our insurance/all of our deductible. I feel like he'll be mad I didn't ask him for permission. Has anyone else gone through this?? Any advice is helpful 🙏
(I do have an older sister who's 29, who may eventually have kids. So it's not like they will never have any grandchildren)
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2024.05.06 23:16 Defiant-Community618 AITJ for not giving my abusive stepfather money to pay off his house.

Sub to AmITheJerk on YouTube he's awesome.
so, this is what happened.
I am a 24-year-old male and I have a very successful life but a little backstory first.
When I was young my dad died, and my mom got remarried. My stepfather had a really spoiled son and my stepbrother always demanded me to do thing for him such as his chores, his laundry, and even demanded my money I got from my chores. But I always had to do what he said, or I would be punished by my stepfather.
My entire life all of my birthdays didn't feel like mine, instead it felt more of a second birthday for my stepbrother. It even got so bad that when it was my birthday, he would blow out the candles, be served cake first, and even get all my birthday presents. I was so happy when I finally was able to move out and after I moved out my stepdad stopped paying for the house and he eventually lost his job. instead, my poor mom was left to pay the bills all by herself. I got a job and eventually I was promoted and was making good money.
every now and then i sent money to my mom to help pay the bills. eventually my mom divorced him and moved out, i let her stay at my house because i had a 2-bedroom house to myself. one day i get a call from my stepdad and I answer. he immediately said after i picked up said, send my 5000$ right now for the house. and he was saying how he treated me so good and always respected me and other lies on top of that. when I politely said no, he snapped, I took care of you I put a roof over your head, and I put food on your plate how dare you not listen to me! I replied with, first of all you beat me if I didn't do when your son wanted, second of all you treated me terribly and pretty much gave my birthdays to your son so no you will not be getting 5000 from me and I hung up.
So, tell me am I the jerk?
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2024.05.06 23:14 crazed57 Scared to tell my family I'm now sterile 😬

So on Friday I got my tubes removed (YAY) The only person I have told is my mom. She is very open-minded and doesn't seem to mind not having grandchildren. And even said "my body my choice".
However I have not told anyone else because my family is very religious (both Christian and Catholic) I know my dad will eventually find out, since I used his insurance but I'm worried about how he will react.. I am 26 and perfectly capable and healthy to carry a child, I just don't want to be a mother and was tired of being on birth control.
If you were a parent, would you want to find out through the insurance bill or having your daughter tell you? I'm afraid he will be mad I used our insurance/all of our deductible. I feel like he'll be mad I didn't ask him for permission. Has anyone else gone through this?? Any advice is helpful 🙏
(I do have an older sister who's 29, who may eventually have kids. So it's not like they will never have any grandchildren)
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2024.05.06 22:50 mydaughtersbigfan Am I forgetting anything?

I am going to make this as short as I can because I know no one wants to read a long drawn out post. Hi I am Eden. I am a single mother to five beautiful children and one of them is a special needs daughter who has to severe epilepsy, asthma, and due to severe gastrointestinal issues from being born super early as a micropreemie & weighing 1 lb and 2 oz she developed some issues with her gastrointestinal tract. That led her to have to receive a g-tube due to about 4 years ago she was losing weight and not thriving and the doctor decided to try a g-tube to help administer a hypoallergenic amino acid base formula because she cannot have dairy or story or anything like that and it completely changed our lives it made her gain weight and now she's thriving and even gaining weight and you could tell a big difference in her just by knowing she's getting the nutrients that she needs she can only have the formula put into her YouTube along with any medications and she has certain vitamins minerals and adaptogens that we have her own that her gastroenterologist recommended it would also help her be able to absorb the formula and continue to thrive and Gain weight. So I am a single mom due to criminal domestic violence I almost died due to my ex-husband where he gave me a severe brain injury and I stayed in the trauma intensive Care unit for 18 weeks and then they said I wasn't going to wake up from the coma even had my children come and tell me bye. However God seem differently and I wake up one day without any kind of warning and once I got stable and healthy enough I was moved to a rehabilitation hospital in the next town and I stayed there for 16 weeks why I had to learn basically to do everything again and live again. Things that we take for granted I had to learn to do it again and I'm so grateful for the things that I can do now and I have a whole new outlook on life however I am having to support my five kids on my own with no help from their father because he is in jail waiting trial for me and abusing me for attempted murder and criminal domestic violence of a higher and aggravated nature. Well I don't have family or friends because pretty much I packed up and moved from Florida with my ex-husband when I thought that he was the one and before he started to show any kind of violent behaviors and the last bit of family I have are back in Florida and I'm now in North Carolina and I live in the deep rural part of North Carolina like my neighbor is a cow pasture and the other side is woods. The closest Walmart is almost 2 hours away so literally I live in a town that has one stoplight but I do love where I'm good because it's peaceful and the children have plenty of room to play however resources are super super limited and I literally called everyone I know went to every place I know every food bank anything and no one carries my special needs television that can only be purchased at medical supply places specialty ordered. Well I legit don't know what to do because all the money I didn't make due to being disabled now after the injury went to Bill's and I barely had enough for that so I don't know what to do I did apply for food stamps, wic, and Medicaid for my children and I'm hoping that I will hear something soon because they expedited my case and all because of the issues that we are experiencing so they said I should hear something by Friday at the latest and I'm praying to God so hard that we get approved because I wouldn't have to worry about the formula or nothing then. I literally need advice suggestions maybe I'm forgetting somewhere or something to do to come up with the $68 to get my daughter's formula at least enough to last for 2 weeks that is a small package it comes in two sizes a small packages $68 and last about 2 weeks and then they large package is $115 and it will last about a month and maybe a little more but at this point I'm just trying to make it until I can get approved for Medicaid and stuff like that then I can get the formula free but right now my doctor will not release me to go back to work until I'm finished with OT and PT so I am depending on my disabled check one time a month and that is not enough to support me plus five children and their basic needs and all the bills and since I have a special needs daughter I have extra expenses that has to be paid because she has to have the things that she needs I never knew how hard it was to be a single parent and I respect them so much now because I never knew it was just hard but it is I just need some kind of advice to distance and I'm not asking for a handout or anyone to send me anything I just feel so alone and hopeless and have no friends or family. Maybe I'm forgetting something but my daughter is completely out of her formula now and it's missed three feedings and I tried the emergency room but they do not carry her formula because it's such a rare and special kind that basically they told me that there's nothing they could do that I needed to come up with the money or they even said they would call DSS on me and I'm trying everything I can do trust me I will not rest and I will do what I have to do to make sure my daughter is taken care of and fed. that's what mothers do. If there are any typos or misspellings in this I'm sorry because I'm upset and scared and anxious don't know what to do right now and feel like I'm worthless because I can't get what my daughter needs and I used to talk to text to make sure I covered everything in here sorry for any errors but I'm just a mother trying to get advice and maybe someone else out there has went through this too and maybe they know something I don't thank you so much God bless.
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2024.05.06 22:46 santansyrup [TOMT][YOUTUBE FILM] Girl is bullied on her birthday and mom takes revenge on bullies

Hi! Am looking for a horror-drama short film on YouTube in the 2010s featuring the following plot points:
I also remember the film's color grading being brown-leaning.
Hoping to rewatch this short film because of the impact it had on me when I watched it all those years ago. Thank you :)
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2024.05.06 22:46 as_a_speckled_bird I have two questions regarding disability tax eligibility if anyone has any experience claiming them. (Canada)

Before I ask my questions here is a snapshot of my situation. My mom had a stroke in late Feb. she is still in the hospital and will be for quite some time. She will be paralyzed on her left side. She needs to be moved with a lift, still in a feeding tube, ect. Most hospital staff say that she will require a nursing home. However I am determined to take care of her in my home. I left my job shortly after she had her stroke as I have been at the hospital every day since it happened. This brings me to my first question: if I take care of my mom in the next foreseeable future I will have no income. (My mom is 67 and I am only now learning that she gets nothing for having a severe disability- just the same OAP that all seniors get. But this is not pertinent to my post) my husband will be supporting me and my mom in addition to her OAP and a little bit of CPP. If I have no income, how will the disability tax credit help me? Or can my husband claim my mom’s disability tax credit? Also I will be a caregiver so I’m not sure if there are any tax benefits my husband can benefit from that way..
My next question is: I was sourcing out walk in tubs and one place I went to said I could get $7000 back as a tax rebate. After researching I see in section 5700 of the income tax regulations that medical expenses can be claimed. (I’m in Alberta) if this can only be applied to my mom’s taxes does it just offset her meager income? In which case, unlike the way this tax credit was explained to me, would only relieve several hundred dollars towards to tub? I hope this makes sense I just really need someone who has been in a similar situation explain to me how this works!
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2024.05.06 22:33 brobin714 Managing life with a parent with dementia

I am a 32M and the only child to my 66F mom. For some backstory, I was in the military from 2012-2022. My mother was hit by a car while walking across the street in October 2015. She received a traumatic brain injury, had to be fed from a tube, and had to learn to walk again. She was never the same again, and I learned about her dementia in 2017 from a doctor's note.
I was on leave for almost 2 months, visiting her every day and setting up guardianship. In February 2016, I changed station from Texas to Georgia to be closer to her. Unfortunately, I was stationed 2 hours away from her so it was still problematic. I was a severely depressed 23-year-old because I lost both my parents. My dad died in 2006. After the accident, my entire family placed everything on me. That weight and guilt haven't left.
In January 2016, the hospital moved her to a skilled nursing facility. When I got to my new base, I had to adjust to it and deal with my mom and the guardianship. I eventually found a girlfriend who was initially supportive. I gained guardianship in December 2016 and a rep payee in 2017. I bought a home near my base in 2017. Also, in 2017, I had two major surgeries and one suicide attempt. That attempt was related to LASIK surgery. We got married In 2018.
Everything was going well, even with deployments, because I could depend on my wife. In November 2019, that stopped when I found out my wife was using SSDI funds for my mom and cheating on me. I couldn't live in my home and didn't visit my mom as much because I couldn't afford it. I couldn't live there because, in the military, you are required to take care of dependents; however, I had a mediation agreement, and I kept the house. Sadly, she still was staying, so I had to pay the mortgage and live with my then-girlfriend. My wife at the time was still with the affair partner.
I couldn't do both. In January 2021, the divorce was finalized. In February 2021, I lost guardianship and rep payee because of her actions and the fact I was fighting a divorce. In July 2022, I separated from the military and stayed in the same home because I didn't want to move to my mom's area in Atlanta with no job. I began receiving disability. Due to my former field of work in intelligence, I could have received a vastly better income in the DC area. I decided to compromise, stay in my home, find a job here, and drive to Atlanta when I could.
My family visits occasionally, and my normal life is much harder to manage than my military life. I lost my job a few months ago, and I became permanently disabled in February. Visiting my mom has gotten worse for me, and I feel guilty.
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2024.05.06 22:17 as_a_speckled_bird I have two questions regarding disability tax eligibility if anyone has any experience claiming them. (Canada)

Before I ask my first question here is a snapshot of my situation. My mom had a stroke in late Feb. she is still in the hospital and will be for quite some time. She will be paralyzed on her left side. She needs to be moved with a lift, still in a feeding tube, ect. Most hospital staff say that she will require a nursing home. However I am determined to take care of her in my home. I left my job shortly after she had her stroke as I have been at the hospital every day since it happened. This brings me to my first question: if I take care of my mom in the next foreseeable future I will have no income. (My mom is 67 and I am only now learning that she gets nothing for having a severe disability- just the same OAP that all seniors get. But this is not pertinent to my post) my husband will be supporting me and my mom in addition to her OAP and a little bit of CPP. If I have no income, how will the disability tax credit help me? Or can my husband claim my mom’s disability tax credit? Also I will be a caregiver so I’m not sure if there are any tax benefits my husband can benefit from that way..
My next question is: I was sourcing out walk in tubs and one place I went to said I could get $7000 back as a tax rebate. After researching I see in section 5700 of the income tax regulations that medical expenses can be claimed. (I’m in Alberta) if this can only be applied to my mom’s taxes does it just offset her meager income? In which case, unlike the way this tax credit was explained to me, would only relieve several hundred dollars towards to tub? I hope this makes sense I just really need someone who has been in a similar situation explain to me how this works!
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2024.05.06 22:15 as_a_speckled_bird I have two questions regarding disability tax eligibility if anyone has any experience claiming them. (Canada)

Before I ask my first question here is a snapshot of my situation. My mom had a stroke in late Feb. she is still in the hospital and will be for quite some time. She will be paralyzed on her left side. She needs to be moved with a lift, still in a feeding tube, ect. Most hospital staff say that she will require a nursing home. However I am determined to take care of her in my home. I left my job shortly after she had her stroke as I have been at the hospital every day since it happened. This brings me to my first question: if I take care of my mom in the next foreseeable future I will have no income. (My mom is 67 and I am only now learning that she gets nothing for having a severe disability- just the same OAP that all seniors get. But this is not pertinent to my post) my husband will be supporting me and my mom in addition to her OAP and a little bit of CPP. If I have no income, how will the disability tax credit help me? Or can my husband claim my mom’s disability tax credit? Also I will be a caregiver so I’m not sure if there are any tax benefits my husband can benefit from that way..
My next question is: I was sourcing out walk in tubs and one place I went to said I could get $7000 back as a tax rebate. After researching I see in section 5700 of the income tax regulations that medical expenses can be claimed. (I’m in Alberta) if this can only be applied to my mom’s taxes does it just offset her meager income? In which case, unlike the way this tax credit was explained to me, would only relieve several hundred dollars towards to tub? I hope this makes sense I just really need someone who has been in a similar situation explain to me how this works!
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2024.05.06 22:10 as_a_speckled_bird I have two questions regarding disability tax eligibility if anyone has any experience claiming them.

Before I present my first question here is a snapshot of my situation. My mom had a stroke in late Feb. she is still in the hospital and will be for quite some time. She will be paralyzed on her left side. She needs to be moved with a lift, still in a feeding tube, ect. Most hospital staff say that she will require a nursing home. However I am determined to take care of her in my home. I left my job shortly after she had her stroke as I have been at the hospital every day since it happened. This brings me to my first question: if I take care of my mom in the next foreseeable future I will have no income. (My mom is 67 and I am only now learning that she gets nothing for having a severe disability- just the same OAP that all seniors get. But this is not pertinent to my post) my husband will be supporting me and my mom in addition to her OAP and a little bit of CPP. If I have no income, how will the disability tax credit help me? Or can my husband my mom’s disability tax credit? Also I will be a caregiver so I’m not sure if there are any tax benefits my husband can benefit from that way.. My next question is: I was sourcing out walk in tubs and one place I went to said I could get $7000 back as a tax rebate. After researching I see in section 5700 of the income tax regulations that medical expenses can be claimed. (I’m in Alberta) if this can only be applied to my mom’s taxes does it just offset her meager income? In which case, unlike the way this tax credit was explained to me, would only relieve several hundred dollars towards to tub? I hope this makes sense I just really need someone who has been in a similar situation explain to me how this works!
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2024.05.06 21:47 PianoOfTime08 Every night…every.night.

Every night…every.night.
Me and my mom made this meme outselves. I found this picture on a thumbnail on a YouTube video and I laughed so hard. And my mom said that’s our Australian Shepherds every night at 12pm. 😂 so we created this
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