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2015.01.21 05:04 Jay_V comunidad latina worldwide
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2014.12.03 16:23 News and Advocacy for a North American Union
This a place to share news, and ideas about a more integrated North America. What challenges does North America face, and what opportunities does the next century hold for North America. What global responsibilities would a United North America have? How can North America deepen its economic and security ties?
2024.05.18 22:13 SorrySweet1838 Why are people gatekeeping the afro Latino label?
I consider myself an afro Latino man I was born in America Miami specifically my birth parents were African American and Salvadoran I am an black Hispanic person living in America and I am mixed race as well. Yet there's people Tik Tok saying you have to be fully black to be considered afro Latino or have majority black ancestry when that far from the case in Latin America especially Dominican Republic or even Cuba. Alot of Afro Latinos have mixed heritage I think you need to be half black to considered an Afro latino.
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2024.05.16 23:17 cryptid FRIDAY NIGHT at 9PM ET / 6PM PT - EL CHUPACABRAS - ALIEN or SOMETHING ELSE? Join Us For LIVE CHAT Questions & Answers #Chupacabras
FRIDAY NIGHT at 9PM ET / 6PM PT - EL CHUPACABRAS - ALIEN or SOMETHING ELSE? Join Us For LIVE CHAT Questions & Answers #Chupacabras
Featured in this edition:
The legend of El Chupacabras (translated as 'the goat-suckers) began in about 1992, when Puerto Rican newspapers El Vocero and El Nuevo Dia began reporting the killings of many different types of animals, such as birds, horses, and as its name implies, goats. At the time it was known as El Vampiro de Moca since some of the first killings occurred in the small town of Moca. While at first it was suspected that the killings were done randomly by some members of a satanic cult, eventually these killings spread around the island, and many farms reported loss of animal life. The killings had one pattern in common: each of the animals found dead had two punctured holes around their necks.
Soon after the animal deaths in Puerto Rico, other animal deaths were reported in other countries, such as the Dominican Republic, Argentina, Bolivia, Chile, Colombia, El Salvador, Panama, Peru, Brazil, the United States, and, most notably, Mexico.
Both in Puerto Rico and Mexico, El Chupacabra gained urban legend status. Chupacabra stories began to be released several times in American and Hispanic newscasts across the United States.
The chupacabra is generally treated as a product of mass hysteria, though the animal mutilations are real. Like many cases of such mutilations, however, it's been argued that they are often not as mysterious as they might first appear.
Descriptions of the physical appearance of each specimen can resemble descriptions of other specimens or differ from other descriptions. Although they have different appearances, El Chupacabras are typically 3 feet or taller, they are roughly humanoid in shape as they are bipedal with 2 arms and are described as otherworldly creatures.
So, are El Chupacabras an alien entity, or are they something else? Listen to the accounts and form your opinions.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YmLN62vGpnY
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Featured in this edition:
The legend of El Chupacabras (translated as 'the goat-suckers) began in about 1992, when Puerto Rican newspapers El Vocero and El Nuevo Dia began reporting the killings of many different types of animals, such as birds, horses, and as its name implies, goats. At the time it was known as El Vampiro de Moca since some of the first killings occurred in the small town of Moca. While at first it was suspected that the killings were done randomly by some members of a satanic cult, eventually these killings spread around the island, and many farms reported loss of animal life. The killings had one pattern in common: each of the animals found dead had two punctured holes around their necks.
Soon after the animal deaths in Puerto Rico, other animal deaths were reported in other countries, such as the Dominican Republic, Argentina, Bolivia, Chile, Colombia, El Salvador, Panama, Peru, Brazil, the United States, and, most notably, Mexico.
Both in Puerto Rico and Mexico, El Chupacabra gained urban legend status. Chupacabra stories began to be released several times in American and Hispanic newscasts across the United States.
The chupacabra is generally treated as a product of mass hysteria, though the animal mutilations are real. Like many cases of such mutilations, however, it's been argued that they are often not as mysterious as they might first appear.
Descriptions of the physical appearance of each specimen can resemble descriptions of other specimens or differ from other descriptions. Although they have different appearances, El Chupacabras are typically 3 feet or taller, they are roughly humanoid in shape as they are bipedal with 2 arms and are described as otherworldly creatures.
So, are El Chupacabras an alien entity, or are they something else? Listen to the accounts and form your opinions.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YmLN62vGpnY
2024.05.14 06:05 CaptainLR So here's the play. It's my first time with this series and I'm going backwards starting with Man Who Erased His Name (currently just starting Song of Life)
It's been a fun trip playing it this way. I'm going about it like this for a few different reasons.
One, I don't really like playing older 3d games anymore, so this way the story drives me to actually get through it. Two, it's a fun narrative device for me, and scenes are progressively call backs that I get to play through later on (reverse fan service or something). Thirdly, I didn't expect to enjoy the gameplay of Like a Dragon as much as I did, and I saw enough spoilers for Infinite Wealth that I know what's happening with Kiryu. So as a result I plan on playing through that one as I go through the rest of the series using it as like long form flashback arcs.
Yeah it's weird, but I'm having fun. I'll probably post here and there as I have fun moments working my way through as a sort of stream of consciousness thing.
Anyways here's some of my thoughts from the first two games I've made it through.
Everyone just looks Hispanic to me. Like Masumi Arakawa could pass for Cuban. Ichiban reminds me of many Dominican dudes I grew up with.
Kiryu's scene at the end of man who erased his man with the tablet made me sob like a fucking baby. I was twenty hours into knowing this man's life and I was crying harder than I have in years.
The real brand name food and drinks in this were fun surprise. My weeb ass gf loves some cc lemon (I enjoy a few sips myself) and when I saw it in the game I was like YOOOOOO
Kume is a little bitch
Namba is my fucking homie and I'd die for that ragtag little cholo
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One, I don't really like playing older 3d games anymore, so this way the story drives me to actually get through it. Two, it's a fun narrative device for me, and scenes are progressively call backs that I get to play through later on (reverse fan service or something). Thirdly, I didn't expect to enjoy the gameplay of Like a Dragon as much as I did, and I saw enough spoilers for Infinite Wealth that I know what's happening with Kiryu. So as a result I plan on playing through that one as I go through the rest of the series using it as like long form flashback arcs.
Yeah it's weird, but I'm having fun. I'll probably post here and there as I have fun moments working my way through as a sort of stream of consciousness thing.
Anyways here's some of my thoughts from the first two games I've made it through.
Everyone just looks Hispanic to me. Like Masumi Arakawa could pass for Cuban. Ichiban reminds me of many Dominican dudes I grew up with.
Kiryu's scene at the end of man who erased his man with the tablet made me sob like a fucking baby. I was twenty hours into knowing this man's life and I was crying harder than I have in years.
The real brand name food and drinks in this were fun surprise. My weeb ass gf loves some cc lemon (I enjoy a few sips myself) and when I saw it in the game I was like YOOOOOO
Kume is a little bitch
Namba is my fucking homie and I'd die for that ragtag little cholo
2024.05.13 07:20 Top_Jump2084 Low income kid ends up at dream school after all
I applied through Common App and Questbridge. I will separate as much as possible Demographics: - Gender: Male - Ethnicity: Mexican/Guatemalan - Residence: Illinois - Income bracket: low income - Type of school: Catholic/private - Hooks: First generation and low income
Academics: Intended major: Psychology Sat/ACT: Test-optional GPA: 3.71UW,4.1 W (school has weird gpa scale) Rank: No class rank AP’s/Honors: 7 and 4-5 Honors? ( 4 in AP Spanish)
Honors: - Questbridge Finalist - HSF finalist - National honor society - Spanish national honor society - Student of the month 😭
ExtracurriculaActivities (Questbridge) - 4 jobs (Landscaping, Retail store worker, Usher at Chicago stadiums/events, Busserunner at a restaurant) - 2 Mission trips ( 5 day to a reservation in minessota , 3-day in Chicago) - Varsity soccer - Varsity track- Captain - Religious retreat- Leader - Student council- Officer Extracurricular Activities ( Common App) - 1st Job (2022-2023) Retail store worker - 2nd job (2023- present) Usher - 3rd job (2023-present) BusseRunner - 2 Mission trips ( 5 day to a reservation in minessota , 3-day in Chicago) - Varsity soccer (4 years) - Varsity track (Captain, 4 years) - Religious retreat leader (Leader, 2 years) - 190+ service/community hours playing sports with kids with disabilities , church volunteering, etc. (Volunteer 3 years) - Student council ( 4 years, officer)
QUESTBRIDGE ESSAYS: Short answers Part 1 - Proudest achievement was my witness talk at a religious retreat and my leadership role 8/10 - I wrote about Carlo Acutis as the historical figure that I would meet 5/10 Short answers part 2 - 8.5/10 Essay 1 (Main Essay) - I wrote about experiencing my parents strong work ethic, sacrifices, and embracing my Hispanic coatings and American culture 11/10 Essay 2 - I talked about experiencing the switch of public to Catholic school and how it opened doors for me that I never knew I would 7/10
COMMON APP ESSAY (Prompt 1) - My essay was about growing up in a Hispanic and Catholic household as a twin and how the culture affected our brotherhood and views in the world (11/10, this essay cooked)
SCHOOL SUPPLEMENTS: - I wanna keep this short so I’d say my best essays were UIUC, COLGATE, UCHICAGO, and Wisconsin Madison - I should’ve done better for my Questbridge schools LOR’S - I’m thankful for all my LOR’s and I think they were all (8.5-10/10). I was close with all the teachers and coach’s/leaders that wrote them
Interviews: - WashU 10/10: I think this interview was really good and my interviewer said good things about me and how I’d be a good fit ( at least that’s what he told me who knows what he wrote down)
Decisions QUESTBRIDGE MATCH: 1. Notre dame, 2.Uchicago 3. Northwestern 4.WashU ( Did not match, this was the start of my villain Arc Dec 1😈)
EA: UIUC ( Deffered) Notre Dame (Deffered ) Uchicago (Deffered)
QUESTBRIDGE RD: Grinnell- Waitlisted Denison- Waitlisted UVA- Rejected Uchicago- Rejected College of the holy cross- Waitlisted Boston College- Rejected Williams college- Waitlisted (I was shocked at this one I thought I’d get rejected, only waitlist I’m joining) Colgate- Waitlisted Vanderbilt- Rejected Notre dame-rejected Northwestern- Rejected WashU- Rejected 🥲 (My interviewer lied for sure)
COMMON APP RD (ALL W’s IN THE CHAT) UIUC- ACCEPTED ( Commiting) Wisconsin Madison- ACCEPTED CAE SCHOLAR (full ride) UMICH- ACCEPTED Loyola Chicago, Miami- Ohio ( I applied to the wrong Miami lmao), Dayton, NIU, Marquette, Iowa, Dominican - ACCEPTED (Honors, Presidental scholarships, etc)
Additional info: - I added a lot of personal circumstances I sadly went through high school, and balancing my time with school, work, and extracurriculars ( I got a C in my mid year report). I feel like this is really important and to take advantage of this section.
Thoughts/ REFLECTION: - I am so happy with my results, UIUC was always my dream school, and I let the idea of other schools get in the way and honestly I went through so much with Questbridge but I will never regret it, I’m glad with the results I got. I met amazing people through the process, but common app is definitely the way to go if you want more space for EC’s , QB for your story. It hit me at first, but RD is finally over and I think I had a pretty successful journey. Advice - Search for opportunities to explore your college options, I wish I knew about Questbridge and fly-in programs, etc. that would strengthen my application. Continue to work hard, dedicated, and push, it’s gonna be a long ride but once you reach the end it’ll be all worth it. God bless everyone 🙏🏾.
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Academics: Intended major: Psychology Sat/ACT: Test-optional GPA: 3.71UW,4.1 W (school has weird gpa scale) Rank: No class rank AP’s/Honors: 7 and 4-5 Honors? ( 4 in AP Spanish)
Honors: - Questbridge Finalist - HSF finalist - National honor society - Spanish national honor society - Student of the month 😭
ExtracurriculaActivities (Questbridge) - 4 jobs (Landscaping, Retail store worker, Usher at Chicago stadiums/events, Busserunner at a restaurant) - 2 Mission trips ( 5 day to a reservation in minessota , 3-day in Chicago) - Varsity soccer - Varsity track- Captain - Religious retreat- Leader - Student council- Officer Extracurricular Activities ( Common App) - 1st Job (2022-2023) Retail store worker - 2nd job (2023- present) Usher - 3rd job (2023-present) BusseRunner - 2 Mission trips ( 5 day to a reservation in minessota , 3-day in Chicago) - Varsity soccer (4 years) - Varsity track (Captain, 4 years) - Religious retreat leader (Leader, 2 years) - 190+ service/community hours playing sports with kids with disabilities , church volunteering, etc. (Volunteer 3 years) - Student council ( 4 years, officer)
QUESTBRIDGE ESSAYS: Short answers Part 1 - Proudest achievement was my witness talk at a religious retreat and my leadership role 8/10 - I wrote about Carlo Acutis as the historical figure that I would meet 5/10 Short answers part 2 - 8.5/10 Essay 1 (Main Essay) - I wrote about experiencing my parents strong work ethic, sacrifices, and embracing my Hispanic coatings and American culture 11/10 Essay 2 - I talked about experiencing the switch of public to Catholic school and how it opened doors for me that I never knew I would 7/10
COMMON APP ESSAY (Prompt 1) - My essay was about growing up in a Hispanic and Catholic household as a twin and how the culture affected our brotherhood and views in the world (11/10, this essay cooked)
SCHOOL SUPPLEMENTS: - I wanna keep this short so I’d say my best essays were UIUC, COLGATE, UCHICAGO, and Wisconsin Madison - I should’ve done better for my Questbridge schools LOR’S - I’m thankful for all my LOR’s and I think they were all (8.5-10/10). I was close with all the teachers and coach’s/leaders that wrote them
Interviews: - WashU 10/10: I think this interview was really good and my interviewer said good things about me and how I’d be a good fit ( at least that’s what he told me who knows what he wrote down)
Decisions QUESTBRIDGE MATCH: 1. Notre dame, 2.Uchicago 3. Northwestern 4.WashU ( Did not match, this was the start of my villain Arc Dec 1😈)
EA: UIUC ( Deffered) Notre Dame (Deffered ) Uchicago (Deffered)
QUESTBRIDGE RD: Grinnell- Waitlisted Denison- Waitlisted UVA- Rejected Uchicago- Rejected College of the holy cross- Waitlisted Boston College- Rejected Williams college- Waitlisted (I was shocked at this one I thought I’d get rejected, only waitlist I’m joining) Colgate- Waitlisted Vanderbilt- Rejected Notre dame-rejected Northwestern- Rejected WashU- Rejected 🥲 (My interviewer lied for sure)
COMMON APP RD (ALL W’s IN THE CHAT) UIUC- ACCEPTED ( Commiting) Wisconsin Madison- ACCEPTED CAE SCHOLAR (full ride) UMICH- ACCEPTED Loyola Chicago, Miami- Ohio ( I applied to the wrong Miami lmao), Dayton, NIU, Marquette, Iowa, Dominican - ACCEPTED (Honors, Presidental scholarships, etc)
Additional info: - I added a lot of personal circumstances I sadly went through high school, and balancing my time with school, work, and extracurriculars ( I got a C in my mid year report). I feel like this is really important and to take advantage of this section.
Thoughts/ REFLECTION: - I am so happy with my results, UIUC was always my dream school, and I let the idea of other schools get in the way and honestly I went through so much with Questbridge but I will never regret it, I’m glad with the results I got. I met amazing people through the process, but common app is definitely the way to go if you want more space for EC’s , QB for your story. It hit me at first, but RD is finally over and I think I had a pretty successful journey. Advice - Search for opportunities to explore your college options, I wish I knew about Questbridge and fly-in programs, etc. that would strengthen my application. Continue to work hard, dedicated, and push, it’s gonna be a long ride but once you reach the end it’ll be all worth it. God bless everyone 🙏🏾.
2024.05.13 05:44 Party-Radio-272 Immigrants that don’t know English as a first language where/how did you make friends when move here ?
Asking this because I don’t really feel comfortable going to bars, clases or clubs where most of the people are native English speakers. I know English but it’s just not preference when i trying to communicate something deep, important or complicated for me. So if you know any places communities or activities more Hispanic friendly I would really appreciate it ;) I’m Dominican btw
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2024.05.13 05:21 eleazarius Does the Upper West Side still have Hispanics (Dominicans)?
Walking up to see Tom's Diner at Broadway and 112th about 15 years ago from the south (I'm not sure what street), several blocks away at least it felt like so it must have been the Upper West Side, possibly Manhattan Valley, though I understand that's not a widely used name (I had walked from Midtown, so between Midtown and the Upper West Side, a wide area I know!), I was shocked at just how Hispanic (mostly Dominican I thought but I could be wrong) it got. I felt like I was in a House on Mango Street!
At the time I thought Manhattan outside of Harlem and other usual suspects (certainly the Upper West Side at least!) had just become purely a playground of the rich so I was delighted to see these lovely, friendly little people outside with shaved ice carts and speaking their beautiful language.
Is there anywhere anywhere on the Upper West Side still like this or have they all been priced out? Looking on google maps street view nothing seems similar but I'd love to go back and relive those memories!
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At the time I thought Manhattan outside of Harlem and other usual suspects (certainly the Upper West Side at least!) had just become purely a playground of the rich so I was delighted to see these lovely, friendly little people outside with shaved ice carts and speaking their beautiful language.
Is there anywhere anywhere on the Upper West Side still like this or have they all been priced out? Looking on google maps street view nothing seems similar but I'd love to go back and relive those memories!
2024.05.13 02:46 throwaweee22 24F4A looking for meaningful friendships /LDR - Dominican Republic - Europe / Online /Anywhere
Hello!
Identity: 24F, asexual, sex repulsed, demiromantic biromantic.
Location: Dominican Republic, I will be pursuing a master's degree in Europe starting this year.
Interests:
Getting lost in music is my favorite way of spending my free time. I like cooking/baking special things when I feel inspired to. Sometimes I get caught up on random rabbit holes of information, I bing read web comics knowing they're incomplete. I like taking pictures, watching the sky and stars; sometimes just standing there, breathing the fresh air at the countryside makes me feel fulfilled. Oh and I write poetry. I also like outdoonature activities such as swimming, running, hiking. It's been years since I had a bike but I want to get back to it.
I don't really play video games anymore. Maybe in the future I'll get back to it. Same with tv shows, I have a long list of things I watched/played in the past, so maybe we could talk about both of these things. And I'd be open to recommendations.
Shows/cartoons I've liked:
Live action: Orphan Black, Teen Wolf, the OA, Sense8, New Girl, Skins, Fleabag, Warrior Nun, Anne with an E, Super Girl;
Animated: Kipo, She-Ra, Inside Job, Arcane, Dragon Prince, Hilda, Violet Evergarden, Edén, The Owl House, Teen Titans, Young Justice, Disenchantment, Harley Quinn, ATLA, LOK, Bocchi the Rock!, Ergo Proxy, Cowboy Bebop, etc.
Games: Life is Strange, The Walking Dead Series, Kirby and Super Mario games, Minecraft, Stardew Valley, GTA, The Sims, Unpacking and Need for speed.
About me:
I'm an ambivert, a private person but I can open up easily, sometimes it happens fast, sometimes it takes time, it depends on the person. I've dealt with anxiety and depression in the past, but nowadays, it's mostly social anxiety that lingers. Still I can function in society and be a good add-on in others lives.
I'm open to talk about things like that and I can be pretty understanding of other's struggles. I don't like being bombed with heavy information without warnings first though.
I don't have my life 100% together, so I don't expect you to be at your "prime" either, but someone with a drive to get and be better would be nice, so we could support and motivate each other to keep thriving. So I can understand if you're struggling or have had in the past. I'm striving for my independence, personal and career growth, and living a peaceful life.
Right now I'm unemployed, I get by trying to be as useful as possible (I live with my family); getting gigs here and there while I find a steady job; I also have various business ideas that I honestly don't know what I'm waiting for to try bring them to life lol; apart from that, I spend time doing things that I like, and every once in a while I enroll in virtual classes, short courses of different things. I live in a sub urban area, and honestly, there's not much to do here besides clubbing (not my thing), eating out, going to the beach or parks. Or maybe there is more and I'm not aware yet lol.
I express my feelings through acts of service, quality time, words of affirmation, compliments and flirts, cuddling and open/honest/healthy communication. I like to communicate and I hate when people leave me hanging on/waiting for answers that never arrive, I like being honest and talking things out, even if it won't work out.
Physically: I'm hispanic, 1.73m tall, average weight. My hair is short but my sense of fashion isn't really masc, nor too femme either lol. I just prefer to dress comfortably, but if things have to get fancy I can get fancy, you'll never see me wearing dresses though. Comfort > looks.
Happy to send pictures and expecting to get them in return, like to put a face to whom I'm talking with, so I would like to exchange pics early on, so if you're too big on anonymity, I don't think we'd be a match. For friends this isn't necessary though but if you want to, I'm fine with it.
Looking for:
you + me 😏🤭 /JK... perhaps?👉🏼👈🏼
I've never been in a relationship but I feel ready to explore that part of myself that I've been neglecting haha. I kind of crave emotional connection and I enjoy cuddling. I put that pink flair but friends are welcomed too.
Friends: anyone between 22-28, sharing things in common or anything at all, I can talk about anything honestly lol.
More than friends: 22-28, who's also looking for something similar; we don't need to have a lot in common, but if we share some interests it would be great; someone who can hold a conversation and communicate openly and with honesty; can get serious or be a silly goose when necessary :v, likes to constantly text/voice chat/video calls. I haven't had any luck finding aces here so I'm open to a LDR, even online for a while, though I would like to close the gap some day, I wouldn't be comfortable with an online relationship forever. Also I will come back to my country for a bit to do some things but I'm open to moving elsewhere depending on a lot of factors, feel free to ask me about this..
I like to communicate and I dislike when people leave me hanging on or waiting for answers that never arrive, specially in the online world. I like being honest and talking things out, even if they don't work out. But I don't chase people who gets hard to reach out to.
Deal-breakers include:
Happy to provide more (more !!!? XD) details privately.
If I caught your attention don't hesitate to dm, comment, pm, send me a pigeon or a smoke signal.
See ya!
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Identity: 24F, asexual, sex repulsed, demiromantic biromantic.
Location: Dominican Republic, I will be pursuing a master's degree in Europe starting this year.
Interests:
Getting lost in music is my favorite way of spending my free time. I like cooking/baking special things when I feel inspired to. Sometimes I get caught up on random rabbit holes of information, I bing read web comics knowing they're incomplete. I like taking pictures, watching the sky and stars; sometimes just standing there, breathing the fresh air at the countryside makes me feel fulfilled. Oh and I write poetry. I also like outdoonature activities such as swimming, running, hiking. It's been years since I had a bike but I want to get back to it.
I don't really play video games anymore. Maybe in the future I'll get back to it. Same with tv shows, I have a long list of things I watched/played in the past, so maybe we could talk about both of these things. And I'd be open to recommendations.
Shows/cartoons I've liked:
Live action: Orphan Black, Teen Wolf, the OA, Sense8, New Girl, Skins, Fleabag, Warrior Nun, Anne with an E, Super Girl;
Animated: Kipo, She-Ra, Inside Job, Arcane, Dragon Prince, Hilda, Violet Evergarden, Edén, The Owl House, Teen Titans, Young Justice, Disenchantment, Harley Quinn, ATLA, LOK, Bocchi the Rock!, Ergo Proxy, Cowboy Bebop, etc.
Games: Life is Strange, The Walking Dead Series, Kirby and Super Mario games, Minecraft, Stardew Valley, GTA, The Sims, Unpacking and Need for speed.
About me:
I'm an ambivert, a private person but I can open up easily, sometimes it happens fast, sometimes it takes time, it depends on the person. I've dealt with anxiety and depression in the past, but nowadays, it's mostly social anxiety that lingers. Still I can function in society and be a good add-on in others lives.
I'm open to talk about things like that and I can be pretty understanding of other's struggles. I don't like being bombed with heavy information without warnings first though.
I don't have my life 100% together, so I don't expect you to be at your "prime" either, but someone with a drive to get and be better would be nice, so we could support and motivate each other to keep thriving. So I can understand if you're struggling or have had in the past. I'm striving for my independence, personal and career growth, and living a peaceful life.
Right now I'm unemployed, I get by trying to be as useful as possible (I live with my family); getting gigs here and there while I find a steady job; I also have various business ideas that I honestly don't know what I'm waiting for to try bring them to life lol; apart from that, I spend time doing things that I like, and every once in a while I enroll in virtual classes, short courses of different things. I live in a sub urban area, and honestly, there's not much to do here besides clubbing (not my thing), eating out, going to the beach or parks. Or maybe there is more and I'm not aware yet lol.
I express my feelings through acts of service, quality time, words of affirmation, compliments and flirts, cuddling and open/honest/healthy communication. I like to communicate and I hate when people leave me hanging on/waiting for answers that never arrive, I like being honest and talking things out, even if it won't work out.
Physically: I'm hispanic, 1.73m tall, average weight. My hair is short but my sense of fashion isn't really masc, nor too femme either lol. I just prefer to dress comfortably, but if things have to get fancy I can get fancy, you'll never see me wearing dresses though. Comfort > looks.
Happy to send pictures and expecting to get them in return, like to put a face to whom I'm talking with, so I would like to exchange pics early on, so if you're too big on anonymity, I don't think we'd be a match. For friends this isn't necessary though but if you want to, I'm fine with it.
Looking for:
you + me 😏🤭 /JK... perhaps?👉🏼👈🏼
I've never been in a relationship but I feel ready to explore that part of myself that I've been neglecting haha. I kind of crave emotional connection and I enjoy cuddling. I put that pink flair but friends are welcomed too.
Friends: anyone between 22-28, sharing things in common or anything at all, I can talk about anything honestly lol.
More than friends: 22-28, who's also looking for something similar; we don't need to have a lot in common, but if we share some interests it would be great; someone who can hold a conversation and communicate openly and with honesty; can get serious or be a silly goose when necessary :v, likes to constantly text/voice chat/video calls. I haven't had any luck finding aces here so I'm open to a LDR, even online for a while, though I would like to close the gap some day, I wouldn't be comfortable with an online relationship forever. Also I will come back to my country for a bit to do some things but I'm open to moving elsewhere depending on a lot of factors, feel free to ask me about this..
I like to communicate and I dislike when people leave me hanging on or waiting for answers that never arrive, specially in the online world. I like being honest and talking things out, even if they don't work out. But I don't chase people who gets hard to reach out to.
Deal-breakers include:
- age range
- toxic positivity
- toxic masculinity
- hate towards lgbt+
- passive aggressiveness
- unhealthy levels of clingyness
- hard drugs , heavily drinking, somking
- Ignoring the age range I have stated above
Happy to provide more (more !!!? XD) details privately.
If I caught your attention don't hesitate to dm, comment, pm, send me a pigeon or a smoke signal.
See ya!
2024.05.13 01:01 Correct_Error_8648 Does the Upper West Side still have Hispanics (Dominicans)?
Walking up to see Tom's Diner at Broadway and 112th about 15 years ago from the south (I'm not sure what street), several blocks away at least it felt like so it must have been the Upper West Side, possibly Manhattan Valley, though I understand that's not a widely used name (I had walked from Midtown, so between Midtown and the Upper West Side, a wide area I know!), I was shocked at just how Hispanic (mostly Dominican I thought but I could be wrong) it got. I felt like I was in a House on Mango Street!
At the time I thought Manhattan outside of Harlem and other usual suspects (certainly the Upper West Side at least!) had just become purely a playground of the rich so I was delighted to see these lovely, friendly little people outside with shaved ice carts and speaking their beautiful language.
Is there anywhere anywhere on the Upper West Side still like this or have they all been priced out? Looking on google maps street view nothing seems similar but I'd love to go back and relive those memories!
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At the time I thought Manhattan outside of Harlem and other usual suspects (certainly the Upper West Side at least!) had just become purely a playground of the rich so I was delighted to see these lovely, friendly little people outside with shaved ice carts and speaking their beautiful language.
Is there anywhere anywhere on the Upper West Side still like this or have they all been priced out? Looking on google maps street view nothing seems similar but I'd love to go back and relive those memories!
2024.05.06 16:21 ninebinary I sometimes feel guilty for going no-con with my mom with no warning.
Context:
I grew up with a single mom, 2 older siblings. She was highly religious + the hispanic cultural aspect, so we were very involved in the church growing up (Christian church, non-Catholic).
My dad was in prison when I was growing up, so I knew nothing about him.
In the summer of 6-7th grade my mom had a major stroke, leaving her permanently disabled physically and mentally. She was no longer fit to have 3 kids as dependents as she was in the hospital 24/7 for a few months. My bio dad came to our old apartment and “took care” of us.
By this, I mean he was gone almost all the time for “work” (I don’t know what he actually ever did), would come home to our apartment and just pass out (sleep) for hours. When we needed food, he’d bring groceries. I can’t remember him ever cooking a meal for us, but our mom taught us how to cook when we were younger + my brother was studying culinary in high school (it was a class but he liked cooking).
Custody was weird at this time. My older sister was off to college and my brother and I were almost done with our school (for me, 8th grade and for him 12th) so we could transfer to the next “phase” of living. My brother and I stayed with a close coworker of my mother (older woman and her husband, also religious) until we both graduated (again, him 12th and me 8th).
I had a very weird mental concept of my parents at that time. I was 13-14, growing up without the only parent I did know, and my bio dad was never a real parent to me. I felt like a burden and like I could lose my home (affection, food, clothes, shelter) at any moment. I was also very emotionally shut down at this time.
When I graduated 8th grade I was made to decide whether I’d live with my bio mom (her older brothemy tio/uncle is her power of attorney at this point) aka my uncle and basically help take care of her medically (smth they already had me doing under the guise of “dog sitting” for them, which i also did) or live with my bio dad who was staying w his brother (my chachoo/uncle; dad is pakistani) and his wife.
I was 14-15, deciding what was best for me, a child. As I had already done summers taking care of my mom, I at the time thought it would be best for me developmentally to not have to be the dependent who takes care of their mother, so I chose my “dad’s house” (my uncle/aunt’s house).
I will always blame myself for this “choice.” My dad’s brother emotionally abused me for 5 years. I lived in his house and my dad was consistently missing for days. These periods of time would range from a few days to weeks. My aunt would drive me to school and I’d take a bus home during 9th. After that I transferred schools and just took a bus both ways. So I didn’t have to rely on them for much other than a house to live in, someone to occasionally pick me up/drop me off for school events, and food. But my dad got food stamps for having me so the food was paid for by my dad’s(/and technically mine) money.
I can’t remember most of it due to trauma, but the things my uncle would say to me still haunt me. He told me if I was his “daughter” (I came out as trans masc before this btw) he would have skinned me alive for doing [this](having a private nsfw twitter at 17, 3 months from 18), verbally berated me for at least 15 minutes bc i told my aunt “i got it” in response to her instructing me on putting dishes away, yelled and blamed me for being the reason he couldn’t hold his sick baby (bc i took “too long” in the bathroom), often would make fun of my chosen name and said he wouldn’t ever accept me as a real man until i had a pakistani name they chose, intimidated me, mocked my music and interests (anime/kpop), etc.
He was very high-strung and would constantly argue with my aunt, and my dad (aunt and dad did NOT get along so they would argue any time dad was home). He was racist (constantly talking shit about his latinx employees and our black neighbors; mind you im colombian/dominican on my mom’s side) and often threatened to “kill” our neighbor’s dog. one night my aunt’s dog went missing and uncle did that again but said he’d kill their dog (in case it attacked their dog) and he apparently got a gun out from their room! that he was hiding in that house this whole time! :))) so that’s fun to think about. :))))
he also once punched a hole in a door during an argument w my aunt.
eventually i turned 18 and i moved the fuck out. i went completely no contact with my uncle and aunt, and simultaneously, my dad (who never was consistently in my life anyways).
I haven’t talked to them willingly since 2017. Unfortunately ran into my uncle sometime between 2017-19 which sent me spiraling into anxiety about leaving the house, but I’m very lucky to have not seen him since.
I do not feel guilty going no-contact w him, but he is very involved w my dad’s family so I had to stop visiting my cousins bc of him, which i do feel sad about. they know the situation tho and have visited me since then.
I also don’t talk to my mother after 5-6 years of my tio (her older brothePOA) taking advantage of me being low-cost in-home healthcare for my mom. she gets disability from the government, which should’ve covered an aid, and therapy, and yet none of those things have happened.
im low/no-contact w my mom’s family. pre-stroke we were very involved in the family as kids. but the whole losing my mom/having to now be responsible for myself as well as heemotional abuse from my uncle made me not want to be involved with them anymore.
everyone always asked about her, as if i’m not the youngest child and was not literally 12. they’d never ask my 18 y/o sister or my 16 y/o brother, bc i was the only one around taking care of our mom. after 2017, i stopped doing this and i don’t answer calls/texts from her or her family. i felt very taken advantage of only after discussing the facts with my boyfriend. he was the one who informed me that her disability should cover a home health aide, and that $500 for 3-4 months was way lower than the compensation should’ve been.
i mentioned religion a lot in the beginning , because my mom is a devout christian. prior to the stroke i wasn’t allowed to ready books pertaining to magic of any kind (harry potter, twilight, anything w magic) and she was extremely weird about certain anime and policed what i watched/read strictly. my cousins gave me manga as a kid and bc the characters kissed (male and female, not smut, not even adult in any way) she made me return them.
post-stroke she loosened up some, but when i’d be staying w her over the summer to take care of her, she’d constantly tell me any anime i was watching was demonic, japanese and korean music i listened to was the devil’s music, and even my school idol love live rhythm game was the same. i was extremely into kpop and anime for most of high school so she was essentially telling me everything i liked was demonic and i couldn’t like/watch/listen to it around her. considering that was everything i liked, it never felt like i could be myself around her.
i also came out as trans to her and she’d consistently deadname me until i had enough and had an argument w her in which she finally changed. but now im nonbinary, and no longer trans masc and she and my uncle still call me the masc name i went by instead of the one i told them to use (shortened and gender neutral, not a new name at all) and don’t understand my pronouns, which makes it hard to want to be in touch w her and her antiquated beliefs.
but i still feel guilty, because she’s my mother and i still love her.
fun facts not included in the story:
this kind of turned into a vent post lol but if anyone else has absolutely batshit insane family, i’d love to commiserate w you 😎
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I grew up with a single mom, 2 older siblings. She was highly religious + the hispanic cultural aspect, so we were very involved in the church growing up (Christian church, non-Catholic).
My dad was in prison when I was growing up, so I knew nothing about him.
In the summer of 6-7th grade my mom had a major stroke, leaving her permanently disabled physically and mentally. She was no longer fit to have 3 kids as dependents as she was in the hospital 24/7 for a few months. My bio dad came to our old apartment and “took care” of us.
By this, I mean he was gone almost all the time for “work” (I don’t know what he actually ever did), would come home to our apartment and just pass out (sleep) for hours. When we needed food, he’d bring groceries. I can’t remember him ever cooking a meal for us, but our mom taught us how to cook when we were younger + my brother was studying culinary in high school (it was a class but he liked cooking).
Custody was weird at this time. My older sister was off to college and my brother and I were almost done with our school (for me, 8th grade and for him 12th) so we could transfer to the next “phase” of living. My brother and I stayed with a close coworker of my mother (older woman and her husband, also religious) until we both graduated (again, him 12th and me 8th).
I had a very weird mental concept of my parents at that time. I was 13-14, growing up without the only parent I did know, and my bio dad was never a real parent to me. I felt like a burden and like I could lose my home (affection, food, clothes, shelter) at any moment. I was also very emotionally shut down at this time.
When I graduated 8th grade I was made to decide whether I’d live with my bio mom (her older brothemy tio/uncle is her power of attorney at this point) aka my uncle and basically help take care of her medically (smth they already had me doing under the guise of “dog sitting” for them, which i also did) or live with my bio dad who was staying w his brother (my chachoo/uncle; dad is pakistani) and his wife.
I was 14-15, deciding what was best for me, a child. As I had already done summers taking care of my mom, I at the time thought it would be best for me developmentally to not have to be the dependent who takes care of their mother, so I chose my “dad’s house” (my uncle/aunt’s house).
I will always blame myself for this “choice.” My dad’s brother emotionally abused me for 5 years. I lived in his house and my dad was consistently missing for days. These periods of time would range from a few days to weeks. My aunt would drive me to school and I’d take a bus home during 9th. After that I transferred schools and just took a bus both ways. So I didn’t have to rely on them for much other than a house to live in, someone to occasionally pick me up/drop me off for school events, and food. But my dad got food stamps for having me so the food was paid for by my dad’s(/and technically mine) money.
I can’t remember most of it due to trauma, but the things my uncle would say to me still haunt me. He told me if I was his “daughter” (I came out as trans masc before this btw) he would have skinned me alive for doing [this](having a private nsfw twitter at 17, 3 months from 18), verbally berated me for at least 15 minutes bc i told my aunt “i got it” in response to her instructing me on putting dishes away, yelled and blamed me for being the reason he couldn’t hold his sick baby (bc i took “too long” in the bathroom), often would make fun of my chosen name and said he wouldn’t ever accept me as a real man until i had a pakistani name they chose, intimidated me, mocked my music and interests (anime/kpop), etc.
He was very high-strung and would constantly argue with my aunt, and my dad (aunt and dad did NOT get along so they would argue any time dad was home). He was racist (constantly talking shit about his latinx employees and our black neighbors; mind you im colombian/dominican on my mom’s side) and often threatened to “kill” our neighbor’s dog. one night my aunt’s dog went missing and uncle did that again but said he’d kill their dog (in case it attacked their dog) and he apparently got a gun out from their room! that he was hiding in that house this whole time! :))) so that’s fun to think about. :))))
he also once punched a hole in a door during an argument w my aunt.
eventually i turned 18 and i moved the fuck out. i went completely no contact with my uncle and aunt, and simultaneously, my dad (who never was consistently in my life anyways).
I haven’t talked to them willingly since 2017. Unfortunately ran into my uncle sometime between 2017-19 which sent me spiraling into anxiety about leaving the house, but I’m very lucky to have not seen him since.
I do not feel guilty going no-contact w him, but he is very involved w my dad’s family so I had to stop visiting my cousins bc of him, which i do feel sad about. they know the situation tho and have visited me since then.
I also don’t talk to my mother after 5-6 years of my tio (her older brothePOA) taking advantage of me being low-cost in-home healthcare for my mom. she gets disability from the government, which should’ve covered an aid, and therapy, and yet none of those things have happened.
im low/no-contact w my mom’s family. pre-stroke we were very involved in the family as kids. but the whole losing my mom/having to now be responsible for myself as well as heemotional abuse from my uncle made me not want to be involved with them anymore.
everyone always asked about her, as if i’m not the youngest child and was not literally 12. they’d never ask my 18 y/o sister or my 16 y/o brother, bc i was the only one around taking care of our mom. after 2017, i stopped doing this and i don’t answer calls/texts from her or her family. i felt very taken advantage of only after discussing the facts with my boyfriend. he was the one who informed me that her disability should cover a home health aide, and that $500 for 3-4 months was way lower than the compensation should’ve been.
i mentioned religion a lot in the beginning , because my mom is a devout christian. prior to the stroke i wasn’t allowed to ready books pertaining to magic of any kind (harry potter, twilight, anything w magic) and she was extremely weird about certain anime and policed what i watched/read strictly. my cousins gave me manga as a kid and bc the characters kissed (male and female, not smut, not even adult in any way) she made me return them.
post-stroke she loosened up some, but when i’d be staying w her over the summer to take care of her, she’d constantly tell me any anime i was watching was demonic, japanese and korean music i listened to was the devil’s music, and even my school idol love live rhythm game was the same. i was extremely into kpop and anime for most of high school so she was essentially telling me everything i liked was demonic and i couldn’t like/watch/listen to it around her. considering that was everything i liked, it never felt like i could be myself around her.
i also came out as trans to her and she’d consistently deadname me until i had enough and had an argument w her in which she finally changed. but now im nonbinary, and no longer trans masc and she and my uncle still call me the masc name i went by instead of the one i told them to use (shortened and gender neutral, not a new name at all) and don’t understand my pronouns, which makes it hard to want to be in touch w her and her antiquated beliefs.
but i still feel guilty, because she’s my mother and i still love her.
fun facts not included in the story:
- my aunt and uncle had a baby girl 1 year from me leaving, who i practically raised (they guilt tripped my sister into taking me in after hs graduation but then bc i was their live-in nanny, they all of a sudden wanted to take me to college if i stayed! fuck no)
- my father never took me to medical appointments so from ~2011-2017 i had no medical care (got an infection that got so out of hand my eye has permanent scarring now! thanks dad 🩷) and had no insurance from 2017-2023 due to no parental support so my health is permanently fucked due to my father’s negligence.
- found out my dad was kicked out and subsequently divorced from my mom because he was doing crack cocaine or meth in the house, while i was still a baby! gold star parenting!!
- was often put in the middle of arguments (aunt-dad, dad-uncle) and once was kicked out of the house w my dad because of one between him and his brother, leaving me w my dad for 5-6 hours where he took my sim card and i had no way to contact anyone and was stuck driving who knows where w him and going to his probably drug addict friend’s house. (i was definitely under 18 during all of this) this was after i had been staying at my cousin’s, where i could’ve been left safely, but my uncle forced me to pack my stuff and go w my father after he took his house key :)
this kind of turned into a vent post lol but if anyone else has absolutely batshit insane family, i’d love to commiserate w you 😎
2024.05.05 17:28 Scorpios94 Batman POC
I'd like to say that Batman has always been inclusive, especially as of late. Particularly, with Batman Inc., or having once been referred at the Batman of All Nations. But that simply states that there is a Batman-like figure in each particular country, such as David Zavimbe in Africa bearing the original title of Batwing.
While it's never overtly mentioned, Dick is of Romani descent. Duke Thomas and Luke Fox are African-Americans affiliated with Batman, Prior to them, his ally Gavin King/Orpheus made a point of there needing to be more Black heroes for children to look up to and have as a role model of sorts. Kate Kane/Batwoman, Bruce's own cousin, is a lesbian. His own son Damian with Talia al Ghul, is of Middle Eastern and Chinese heritage on his mother's side. Cassandra Cain is half-Chinese from her mother Lady Shiva, and recent ally Bao Pham/Clownhunter is Vietnamese.
Renee Montoya is an ally, who is a Hispanic (Dominican) lesbian, but not overtly affiliated. Even more so after accepting the position of GCPD Commissioner after the Joker War. His other major Hispanic ally is the "Batman" of Argentina; Santiago Vargas a.k.a. Gaucho. Major villain Bane hails from the small nation of Santa Prisca. And the majority of his villains have many different ethnicities.
So, it more or less begs the question; does Batman need a Hispanic ally of sorts? I had an idea for a concept, but it's not completely finished and I don't feel confident to talk about it. There is Daryl Gutiérrez, the original Mister Bloom, but I'm not sure about that. He doesn't really seem like an ally, despite creating Jim Gordon's giant Batman Robot and suit.
It would probably be tricky to do so. Having a Hispanic ally of the Batman family defending a part of Gotham like Bluebird does for the Narrows and representing the Hispanic community within their own culture, depending on what the ethnicity of the character would be. And what terrible part of Gotham they've grown up in such as Park Row/Crime Alley like Jason Todd had or perhaps Burnside. (I don't remember the completely bad parts other than those two).
So, what do you think? Should Batman have a new prominent Hispanic ally? Or does this just sound crazy? Comment your opinion, respectfully.
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While it's never overtly mentioned, Dick is of Romani descent. Duke Thomas and Luke Fox are African-Americans affiliated with Batman, Prior to them, his ally Gavin King/Orpheus made a point of there needing to be more Black heroes for children to look up to and have as a role model of sorts. Kate Kane/Batwoman, Bruce's own cousin, is a lesbian. His own son Damian with Talia al Ghul, is of Middle Eastern and Chinese heritage on his mother's side. Cassandra Cain is half-Chinese from her mother Lady Shiva, and recent ally Bao Pham/Clownhunter is Vietnamese.
Renee Montoya is an ally, who is a Hispanic (Dominican) lesbian, but not overtly affiliated. Even more so after accepting the position of GCPD Commissioner after the Joker War. His other major Hispanic ally is the "Batman" of Argentina; Santiago Vargas a.k.a. Gaucho. Major villain Bane hails from the small nation of Santa Prisca. And the majority of his villains have many different ethnicities.
So, it more or less begs the question; does Batman need a Hispanic ally of sorts? I had an idea for a concept, but it's not completely finished and I don't feel confident to talk about it. There is Daryl Gutiérrez, the original Mister Bloom, but I'm not sure about that. He doesn't really seem like an ally, despite creating Jim Gordon's giant Batman Robot and suit.
It would probably be tricky to do so. Having a Hispanic ally of the Batman family defending a part of Gotham like Bluebird does for the Narrows and representing the Hispanic community within their own culture, depending on what the ethnicity of the character would be. And what terrible part of Gotham they've grown up in such as Park Row/Crime Alley like Jason Todd had or perhaps Burnside. (I don't remember the completely bad parts other than those two).
So, what do you think? Should Batman have a new prominent Hispanic ally? Or does this just sound crazy? Comment your opinion, respectfully.
2024.05.02 21:59 ivnfv23 AITA for suggesting my brother move in with me?
I (22M) am graduating from college this month, and after college, I plan on moving back in to my house. I live with my dad and stepmom. I have 3 siblings (16M, 14F and 12M) and 4 step siblings (20F, 15M, 13M and 12F).
Maddox is my stepbrother who is 13. He is much closer to me than any of my blood or other half siblings. Maddox loves sports like me, and neither his parents or his stepparents or siblings like sports and the same was true for me. Maddox already had interest in baseball when I first met him (he was 4, I was 13, his age now), I know most teens don’t like siblings who copy everything they do, but I was just happy I had a sibling who understood me. Maddox would always try to dress and act like me, eventually he developed his own personality (especially after I moved for college) but we are very close and talk everyday.
Right now, the 3 girls and 4 boys share a room, 20F has been at college but will be back soon to. My dad and stepmom told me I could have the basement as I plan on moving in with my current roommate (22M), we met freshman year and have similar interests, I’m a sports management major and he’s phys ed. He’s no contact with his family and they said he could move in with us. He’s a great guy and he’s also close to Maddox as I would often have Maddox over overnight as a guest (we agreed to this in our roommate forms every year).
My 15 year old stepbrother, Miles, is not close to me and doesn’t get along with Maddox. Miles is a quiet kid, mostly watches anime, plays with robotics, video games, etc. I’ve never really been able to get much out of him.
Around a month ago, Maddox had some of his friends on his baseball team over. One of his friends parents immigrated from the Dominican Republic and he’s a darker skinned Hispanic kid. Maddox and the rest of the boys are white (as am I) but I know Maddox and his friends try to learn about his culture, especially because his parents cook for them.
I don’t know much about what led up to the incident, but the boys were having a snack in the kitchen and Miles started instigating and arguing with them and apparently in this argument, told the boy to “go back where he came from”, this obviously did not go well and they all started to yell and curse at Miles.
Maddox responded by buying Dominican Republic flags and themed items and putting it in their room. The boys feud is only getting worse from what Maddox told me.
I was telling my roommate about this and he asked if Maddox could live with us in the basement. I called my dad to ask about this and he said he’d discuss it with my stepmom, and they called back saying that I was insane for trying to “reward” Maddox for his “tantrum”, they said Maddox needs to “learn to get along with people he disagree with”. They’re also mad at me for “putting this idea in Maddox’s head”. I’ve heard from my sister that they’re starting to crack though and may allow it, though they’re still mad at me. AITA?
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Maddox is my stepbrother who is 13. He is much closer to me than any of my blood or other half siblings. Maddox loves sports like me, and neither his parents or his stepparents or siblings like sports and the same was true for me. Maddox already had interest in baseball when I first met him (he was 4, I was 13, his age now), I know most teens don’t like siblings who copy everything they do, but I was just happy I had a sibling who understood me. Maddox would always try to dress and act like me, eventually he developed his own personality (especially after I moved for college) but we are very close and talk everyday.
Right now, the 3 girls and 4 boys share a room, 20F has been at college but will be back soon to. My dad and stepmom told me I could have the basement as I plan on moving in with my current roommate (22M), we met freshman year and have similar interests, I’m a sports management major and he’s phys ed. He’s no contact with his family and they said he could move in with us. He’s a great guy and he’s also close to Maddox as I would often have Maddox over overnight as a guest (we agreed to this in our roommate forms every year).
My 15 year old stepbrother, Miles, is not close to me and doesn’t get along with Maddox. Miles is a quiet kid, mostly watches anime, plays with robotics, video games, etc. I’ve never really been able to get much out of him.
Around a month ago, Maddox had some of his friends on his baseball team over. One of his friends parents immigrated from the Dominican Republic and he’s a darker skinned Hispanic kid. Maddox and the rest of the boys are white (as am I) but I know Maddox and his friends try to learn about his culture, especially because his parents cook for them.
I don’t know much about what led up to the incident, but the boys were having a snack in the kitchen and Miles started instigating and arguing with them and apparently in this argument, told the boy to “go back where he came from”, this obviously did not go well and they all started to yell and curse at Miles.
Maddox responded by buying Dominican Republic flags and themed items and putting it in their room. The boys feud is only getting worse from what Maddox told me.
I was telling my roommate about this and he asked if Maddox could live with us in the basement. I called my dad to ask about this and he said he’d discuss it with my stepmom, and they called back saying that I was insane for trying to “reward” Maddox for his “tantrum”, they said Maddox needs to “learn to get along with people he disagree with”. They’re also mad at me for “putting this idea in Maddox’s head”. I’ve heard from my sister that they’re starting to crack though and may allow it, though they’re still mad at me. AITA?
2024.05.02 21:55 ivnfv23 AITA for suggesting my brother move in with me?
I (22M) am graduating from college this month, and after college, I plan on moving back in to my house. I live with my dad and stepmom. I have 3 siblings (16M, 14F and 12M) and 4 step siblings (20F, 15M, 13M and 12F).
Maddox is my stepbrother who is 13. He is much closer to me than any of my blood or other half siblings. Maddox loves sports like me, and neither his parents or his stepparents or siblings like sports and the same was true for me. Maddox already had interest in baseball when I first met him (he was 4, I was 13, his age now), I know most teens don’t like siblings who copy everything they do, but I was just happy I had a sibling who understood me. Maddox would always try to dress and act like me, eventually he developed his own personality (especially after I moved for college) but we are very close and talk everyday.
Right now, the 3 girls and 4 boys share a room, 20F has been at college but will be back soon to. My dad and stepmom told me I could have the basement as I plan on moving in with my current roommate (22M), we met freshman year and have similar interests, I’m a sports management major and he’s phys ed. He’s no contact with his family and they said he could move in with us. He’s a great guy and he’s also close to Maddox as I would often have Maddox over overnight as a guest (we agreed to this in our roommate forms every year).
My 15 year old stepbrother, Miles, is not close to me and doesn’t get along with Maddox. Miles is a quiet kid, mostly watches anime, plays with robotics, video games, etc. I’ve never really been able to get much out of him.
Around a month ago, Maddox had some of his friends on his baseball team over. One of his friends parents immigrated from the Dominican Republic and he’s a darker skinned Hispanic kid. Maddox and the rest of the boys are white (as am I) but I know Maddox and his friends try to learn about his culture, especially because his parents cook for them.
I don’t know much about what led up to the incident, but the boys were having a snack in the kitchen and Miles started instigating and arguing with them and apparently in this argument, told the boy to “go back where he came from”, this obviously did not go well and they all started to yell and curse at Miles.
Maddox responded by buying Dominican Republic flags and themed items and putting it in their room. The boys feud is only getting worse from what Maddox told me.
I was telling my roommate about this and he asked if Maddox could live with us in the basement. I called my dad to ask about this and he said he’d discuss it with my stepmom, and they called back saying that I was insane for trying to “reward” Maddox for his “tantrum”, they said Maddox needs to “learn to get along with people he disagree with”. They’re also mad at me for “putting this idea in Maddox’s head”. I’ve heard from my sister that they’re starting to crack though and may allow it, though they’re still mad at me. AITA?
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Maddox is my stepbrother who is 13. He is much closer to me than any of my blood or other half siblings. Maddox loves sports like me, and neither his parents or his stepparents or siblings like sports and the same was true for me. Maddox already had interest in baseball when I first met him (he was 4, I was 13, his age now), I know most teens don’t like siblings who copy everything they do, but I was just happy I had a sibling who understood me. Maddox would always try to dress and act like me, eventually he developed his own personality (especially after I moved for college) but we are very close and talk everyday.
Right now, the 3 girls and 4 boys share a room, 20F has been at college but will be back soon to. My dad and stepmom told me I could have the basement as I plan on moving in with my current roommate (22M), we met freshman year and have similar interests, I’m a sports management major and he’s phys ed. He’s no contact with his family and they said he could move in with us. He’s a great guy and he’s also close to Maddox as I would often have Maddox over overnight as a guest (we agreed to this in our roommate forms every year).
My 15 year old stepbrother, Miles, is not close to me and doesn’t get along with Maddox. Miles is a quiet kid, mostly watches anime, plays with robotics, video games, etc. I’ve never really been able to get much out of him.
Around a month ago, Maddox had some of his friends on his baseball team over. One of his friends parents immigrated from the Dominican Republic and he’s a darker skinned Hispanic kid. Maddox and the rest of the boys are white (as am I) but I know Maddox and his friends try to learn about his culture, especially because his parents cook for them.
I don’t know much about what led up to the incident, but the boys were having a snack in the kitchen and Miles started instigating and arguing with them and apparently in this argument, told the boy to “go back where he came from”, this obviously did not go well and they all started to yell and curse at Miles.
Maddox responded by buying Dominican Republic flags and themed items and putting it in their room. The boys feud is only getting worse from what Maddox told me.
I was telling my roommate about this and he asked if Maddox could live with us in the basement. I called my dad to ask about this and he said he’d discuss it with my stepmom, and they called back saying that I was insane for trying to “reward” Maddox for his “tantrum”, they said Maddox needs to “learn to get along with people he disagree with”. They’re also mad at me for “putting this idea in Maddox’s head”. I’ve heard from my sister that they’re starting to crack though and may allow it, though they’re still mad at me. AITA?
2024.04.25 06:41 casl0s_ AITA for playing music in Spanish when all but 1 coworker dislikes it?
It's been a challenging time at work lately. I'm a Hispanic guy working in a sterile compounding pharmacy, where we often listen to music to pass the time. My coworker, who's also Hispanic, and I enjoy genres like reggaeton and Dembow when we're alone, but things got tense when our female coworker expressed dislike for Dominican Dembow, saying it made her uneasy. I respected her wishes and stopped playing it, but then she started complaining about other Hispanic genres too, like salsa and banda, saying they were too loud.
What really got to me was when she singled me out for playing Spanish music, claiming it was inconsiderate because she didn't understand it. I pointed out we have other Hispanic colleagues who don’t have a problem with it and actually encourage it. I played music in Japanese in response, a language we both don’t understand, which she was fine with. It felt like she had a problem specifically with Hispanic/Latino music.
The situation escalated when she tried to backtrack, claiming her issue wasn't with the language but with the "melodies" in the music. I couldn't help feeling frustrated and offended by her comments, especially since I've never criticized her for speaking exclusively in Polish with another coworker.
I can't help but wonder if I'm blowing this out of proportion, but it's hard not to feel unfairly targeted, and I’m left wondering whether this is worth bringing up to HR.
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What really got to me was when she singled me out for playing Spanish music, claiming it was inconsiderate because she didn't understand it. I pointed out we have other Hispanic colleagues who don’t have a problem with it and actually encourage it. I played music in Japanese in response, a language we both don’t understand, which she was fine with. It felt like she had a problem specifically with Hispanic/Latino music.
The situation escalated when she tried to backtrack, claiming her issue wasn't with the language but with the "melodies" in the music. I couldn't help feeling frustrated and offended by her comments, especially since I've never criticized her for speaking exclusively in Polish with another coworker.
I can't help but wonder if I'm blowing this out of proportion, but it's hard not to feel unfairly targeted, and I’m left wondering whether this is worth bringing up to HR.
2024.04.25 04:41 throwaway-dumpedmygf Where are my Dominicans at?!
 | Ive never met another dominican trans guy before. Its killing me! Was born in DR and raised in Miami most of my life. Ive since moved to the northeast US and miss having fellow spanish speakers around me lol. Being trans AND hispanic in a place where both are rare can be lonely man 😂 submitted by throwaway-dumpedmygf to TMPOC [link] [comments] |
2024.04.24 02:51 Xenelda Chance Me for Dream Schools (Princeton, MIT, Stanford, Harvard)
(Note: I will be applying through the Questbridge program initially, so if anyone has relative knowledge of the strength of my profile in the QB applicant pool that would be awesome)
CURRENTLY A JUNIOR
Princeton (#1, by quite a bit. I've been looking into the school and I love the campus culture and rigor. I really want to know what my chances are here most of all),
MIT (better for engineering in many ways, and closest 2nd to Princeton) ,
Stanford & Harvard (both are excellent academic institutions, and I will also be applying to them).
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CURRENTLY A JUNIOR
- Intended Major: Aerospace Engineering
- First Gen
- Race/Ethinicity: Hispanic/Afro-Latino
- Low income bracket (Family of 5; used to be about 33k, now doing better at ~60k in 2023 for a family of 5)
- GPA: 4.0 UW, 5.033W
- SAT Score: 1500 (retaking)
- ACT Score: 34 Composite, 35 STEM (might retake)
- Coursework: AP World (5), AP Calc AB (5), AP Spanish Lang (5); taking AP Calc BC, AP Lang, APUSH, and AP Physics 1.
- Awards: AP Scholar, Several FBLA awards (3rd at State for Public Speaking), QB College Prep Scholar
- ECs:
- Math Club (President) - I tutor most high school math levels, from Algebra to Calc BC; I restarted the club as it had "died" since all its members graduated and it's one of the clubs I'm the most passionate about.
- Engineering/Robotics/Additive Manufacturing Club - I am Vice President of the Additive Manufacturing division of the club; competed at Skills USA State but didn't place.
- Esports Team Captain - We are fairly successful; Top 20 in our state, all three years so far
- Future Business Leader of America (FBLA) - VP next year, competing nationally this summer.
- Orchestra/Band/Solo Practice - third-chair 2nd violin in Orchestra (Ensemble rated Superior with Distinction); introductory band this year, first-chair Alto Saxophone; solo practice for past 6 years with Violin
- Work (for pay) - Upwards of 20 hours a week; most of the money goes to my parents
- Childcare (of my little brother) - Most days, straight after school; my little brother is special needs and I have had to care for him even before high school because my parents could not afford a caretaker; taking care of him has prevented me from getting involved too heavily on-campus.
- Essays/Story/"Hook": Dominican immigrant (who came to the U.S. at age 7) and had trouble adapting to life in the Southwest is the initial gist. My College Prep Scholars essays focused a lot on family, the work-school balance, and the struggles of finding time to involve myself in school activities while also helping my parents and taking care of my brother while they worked non-stop to provide. I focused on my love of math and the pursuit of knowledge -- specifically citing an anecdote of my pursuit of an accelerated course of study in mathematics at my middle school, which had no programs for the purpose and was quite underfunded) -- and how it motivated me to seek a post-secondary education at a world-class institution. I also talked about how I grew to appreciate my parents' sacrifice to leave most of their family behind in the DR to provide me and my siblings a better life in the U.S. as well as how my upbringing and struggles with poverty have deeply ingrained the value of hard work into me.
Princeton (#1, by quite a bit. I've been looking into the school and I love the campus culture and rigor. I really want to know what my chances are here most of all),
MIT (better for engineering in many ways, and closest 2nd to Princeton) ,
Stanford & Harvard (both are excellent academic institutions, and I will also be applying to them).
2024.04.12 01:46 Remarkable_Mind_6435 How is Ohio for POC
My boyfriend and I are considering moving to Ohio (among other states) when our lease is up. He is white but I am Hispanic (dominican specifically) so I’m wondering what Ohio is like for a POC. We currently live in PA (originally from NYC) and want to venture out and live in a few places before we settle down, but I don’t want to constantly feel on edge wherever we go.
Can anyone let us know if there’s areas we should avoid, lean towards, or if we’d be completely fine anywhere? Thanks In advance!
Edit: we’d love to be in a suburb or even rural area, main reason we’re looking for somewhere else is because we want more room and land!
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Can anyone let us know if there’s areas we should avoid, lean towards, or if we’d be completely fine anywhere? Thanks In advance!
Edit: we’d love to be in a suburb or even rural area, main reason we’re looking for somewhere else is because we want more room and land!
2024.04.10 21:24 ralphy1417 As rare as a full solar eclipse
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2024.04.10 14:11 Dreskii2m we love to see it. us amp fans had smile on our faces throughout this whole night 🥲 gotta do more night like this
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2024.04.09 01:16 Historical-Photo9646 Race/ethnicity options at the doctor’s office (US)
 | I went to the doctor’s office a month or so back, and I thought all the options here were quite interesting and kinda odd. Like, they have Asian as an option for race, but also Vietnamese, Filipino, and Korean which fall under Asian more broadly. submitted by Historical-Photo9646 to mixedrace [link] [comments] I live in a very Latino area, so that’s probably why they listed so many options under Hispanic and Latino. They were a couple ones I’d never heard of before (la raza?). I also have some criticisms of how the form describes sex and gender, but that’s a bit off topic so I won’t go into here. Anyone have any thoughts on this form? |
2024.04.06 20:41 YoungVeg Not the haircut I wanted
So how does one handle the situation at the end of the cut when the barber shows you the cut and it's not the cut you described (or even showed the picture of in this case) but he's already cut the hair off and you have no choice but to nod your head bc it's a decent cut, just not the cut you wanted.
And it's not like I'm looking to get money off bc i feel they need to be paid but like, what's done is done but not what you wanted done.
And how do u communicate to the barber without getting them upset that, this wasn't what you described, or showed. I'm not tryna burn bridges with them or in the shop, but it sure feel like I am if I say something.
In this case, he was Dominican and I don't speak Spanish much, but even in non-hispanic shops how does one go about that?
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And it's not like I'm looking to get money off bc i feel they need to be paid but like, what's done is done but not what you wanted done.
And how do u communicate to the barber without getting them upset that, this wasn't what you described, or showed. I'm not tryna burn bridges with them or in the shop, but it sure feel like I am if I say something.
In this case, he was Dominican and I don't speak Spanish much, but even in non-hispanic shops how does one go about that?
2024.04.05 20:33 monkeyboi42 This flag at my school annoys me
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2024.04.04 17:14 TWK_Events_DJs NJ wedding music and the Hispanic, Latin, Spanish speaking communities. TWK Events DJs - Latin Wedding Music and Spanish speaking DJs,
 | Over the years, Latin music has become an integral part of NJ wedding celebrations, especially within the Hispanic, Latin, and Spanish-speaking communities. The vibrant rhythms and melodies of salsa, merengue, bachata, and cumbia add an unforgettable touch to any special day. Understanding the significance of this music and its cultural importance is imperative for wedding planners aiming to create an authentic experience for couples and their guests. To probe into this rich musical tradition, consider exploring events like Community Day: Fiesta Latina at Newark Museum. submitted by TWK_Events_DJs to WeddingsInNJ [link] [comments] https://youtube.com/shorts/ENaWj1SHfTs?si=vSRkeuFW0xhecFhp DJ hybrid DJ & Live Entertainers Key Takeaways:
Historical Context of Hispanic Music in NJ WeddingsMigration Patterns and Cultural IntegrationPatterns of migration have played a significant role in shaping the Hispanic music scene at New Jersey weddings. The influx of immigrants from countries like Mexico, Colombia, Ecuador, Peru, and the Dominican Republic plus the Hispanic US Island natives and US citizens of Puerto Rico has brought their rich musical traditions to the state of NJ. Over the years, these diverse cultures have integrated their unique sounds and rhythms, creating a vibrant and dynamic wedding music scene.Evolution of Wedding Music TraditionsWedding music in the Hispanic community in NJ has evolved over time, blending traditional styles with modern influences. From the iconic salsa and merengue to the more contemporary reggaeton and bachata, couples now have a wide range of musical choices to celebrate their special day. This fusion of old and new reflects the changing tastes and preferences of the younger generation while still honoring the cultural roots of their heritage.Key Elements of Hispanic Wedding Music in NJPopular Music Styles and GenresEven in the diverse landscape of New Jersey, Hispanic wedding music brings a vibrant and energetic atmosphere to the celebration. From traditional styles like salsa and merengue to more modern reggaeton and bachata, the music reflects the rich cultural heritage of the Hispanic community. Elements of passion, rhythm, and joy are at the core of these popular music styles, ensuring that every guest is up on their feet dancing the night away.Notable Musicians and BandsEven in a state bustling with musical talent, there are standout Hispanic musicians and bands that bring a unique flair to weddings in NJ. These artists infuse their performances with authenticity and passion, creating an unforgettable experience for the newlyweds and their guests. The sounds of performers like Marc Anthony, Celia Cruz, and Aventura reverberate through the halls, setting the perfect tone for a joyous celebration.Wedding music plays a crucial role in setting the mood and ambiance of the event, and Hispanic musicians and bands understand this deeply. They are adept at reading the crowd and adjusting their playlist to keep the party alive and guests engaged. Whether it's a classic salsa tune or a contemporary reggaeton hit, these artists know how to keep everyone on their feet and having a great time. Another key aspect of Hispanic wedding music in NJ is the incorporation of live instrumentation. From the fiery melodies of the trumpet to the rhythmic beats of the congas, live musicians add an extra layer of excitement and authenticity to the music. The energy that emanates from a live band is infectious, elevating the overall experience and creating lasting memories for the newlyweds and their guests. Cultural Significance and Celebratory CustomsTraditional Hispanic Wedding CeremoniesNot only are Hispanic wedding ceremonies a beautiful display of cultural traditions, but they also hold deep significance within the community. From the symbolic exchanges of coins and rings to the traditional Catholic rituals like the arras and lazo ceremonies, every aspect of a Hispanic wedding is steeped in history and meaning.Music's Role in Hispanic and Latin Wedding RitualsAn integral part of Hispanic and Latin wedding rituals is the music that accompanies them. Music sets the tone for the celebration and helps create an atmosphere of joy and festivity. From lively salsa and merengue to romantic boleros and mariachi ballads, music plays a crucial role in expressing emotions and moving the celebration forward.For instance, the lively rhythms of salsa and merengue are often played during the reception to get guests up and dancing. The romantic melodies of boleros may be sung during the ceremony to express love and devotion. And the powerful sounds of a mariachi band can bring a sense of tradition and heritage to the festivities. Music not only entertains but also connects people to their cultural roots and creates memorable moments that last a lifetime. Planning and Incorporating Hispanic Music into NJ WeddingsAll Vital Voices & Vision: ¿Latin@s? ¡Presente! underscores the importance of recognizing and celebrating the rich cultural diversity within the Hispanic, Latin, Spanish-speaking communities. When planning NJ weddings that cater to these communities, incorporating Hispanic music is a key element in creating an authentic and memorable experience.Selecting Appropriate DJs, Musicians and BandsMusic sets the tone for any wedding celebration, and when it comes to incorporating Hispanic music, it's necessary to select appropriate Bilingual DJs, musicians and bands that specialize in the genre. Whether it's a salsa band, a mariachi group, Merengue / bachata band, or a flamenco guitarist, choosing skilled professionals who understand the nuances of Hispanic music will ensure an authentic and enjoyable experience for all guests.Bilingual Considerations for Inclusive CelebrationsTo create an inclusive wedding celebration for Hispanic, Latin, and Spanish-speaking guests, bilingual considerations are paramount. Incorporating both English and Spanish language music and announcements can ensure that all guests feel welcome and included in the festivities. Providing bilingual programs, signage, and online resources can also enhance the overall experience for everyone in attendance.Hispanic weddings in NJ are unique opportunities to celebrate the diverse cultural heritage of the Hispanic, Latin, and Spanish-speaking communities. By carefully selecting appropriate musicians and incorporating bilingual considerations, couples can create a wedding experience that honors traditions, fosters inclusivity, and creates lasting memories for all guests. Summing upUpon reflecting on NJ wedding music and the Hispanic, Latin, Spanish-speaking communities, it is clear that music plays a significant role in the celebration of love and unity. The diversity of musical styles and traditions within these communities adds a unique and vibrant element to weddings, creating a rich tapestry of cultural expressions. Understanding and incorporating these musical elements can enhance the overall wedding experience and create a memorable event for all involved. By recognizing the importance of music in cultural celebrations, we can better appreciate the beauty of diversity and the power of music to unite people from different backgrounds.FAQQ: What role does music play in NJ weddings within the Hispanic, Latin, Spanish speaking communities?A: Music holds significant importance in NJ weddings within the Hispanic, Latin, Spanish speaking communities as it reflects the rich cultural heritage and traditions of these communities. It sets the tone for the celebration and creates a festive and lively atmosphere.Q: What are some popular music genres played at NJ weddings for the Hispanic, Latin, Spanish speaking communities?A: Some popular music genres include salsa, merengue, bachata, reggaeton, cumbia, and mariachi. These genres bring energy and passion to the celebrations and are loved by the guests.Q: How can couples in NJ incorporate traditional Hispanic, Latin, Spanish music into their wedding?A: Couples can incorporate traditional music by hiring live bands or DJs who specialize in Hispanic, Latin, Spanish music. They can also include traditional dances like the salsa or merengue in their reception program.Q: Are there any specific rituals or ceremonies related to music in NJ weddings for the Hispanic, Latin, Spanish speaking communities?A: In some Hispanic, Latin, Spanish speaking communities, there are rituals like the "serenata" where the groom serenades the bride with live music. Another tradition is the "hora loca" which is a lively hour where guests dance to upbeat music and wear colorful costumes.Q: How important is it to hire experienced musicians or DJs for NJ weddings within the Hispanic, Latin, Spanish speaking communities?A: It is crucial to hire experienced musicians or DJs who understand the cultural nuances and music preferences of the Hispanic, Latin, Spanish speaking communities. They can ensure a seamless flow of music that keeps the guests engaged and the celebration vibrant.Searching for the Best Wedding DJs in NJ? TWK Events Will Elevate Your Party. Hire DJs & Bilingual MCs Near You. Welcome to TWK Events, your gateway to unforgettable parties! 🎉 Elevate your special occasions with the best DJs in NJ, dedicated to creating magical moments for Weddings, Quinceañeras, and Sweet 16s. Visit http://www.twkevents.comfor a complementary consultation. Our bilingual expertise ensures a celebration that resonates with everyone. 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