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My (30f) husband (46m) has been acting very strange for about a week now. He is usually happy and bubbly but when he gets stressed or if I say something he disagrees with, he will get very short and quiet but never talk about the problem. I will usually need to guess for days until I finally get it right, then he will tell me. The past week he has not been communicating, very short, and cold. When I have asked him if we are okay he responds with "I think so". Yesterday out of the blue he told me that we needed to change the ownership of one of our vehicles solely into his name for insurance purposes. This is a red flag to me because of how short he has been. I have no issue doing this, rightfully one vehicle is his and one is mine. So I woke up early on my day off to go to the ministry with him and he told me he changed his mind and we can do it another day. I had plans to meet with my friend (60M) today. We meet every couple of months for coffee and to catch up. My friend was my old youth counsellor in highschool, which we have stayed in touch over the years. When I was at Starbucks he was messaging asking for photos of myself there and something wasn't adding up. I didn't check my phone because I was enjoying my time with my friend who I only see every now and then. Now my husband is refusing to talk to me and says there is something suspicious. I have never, and will never cheat on him. I have never lied about my whereabouts. In fact, we have always had location sharing on and he turned it off last week when we got quiet. I feel like I'm going insane and he's making me feel bad for not sending him pictures when I was visiting my friend.
How do I go about this situation? I'm so heartbroken because I do everything I can to make this relationship happy. Are these texts a red flag to you guys?
This is a copy and paste of the texts he sent me.
Hi bubby, hope you're enjoying your coffee date... " Do me a favor and send me a pic of you and your drink🥤
Hi honey, not to bother you. I know you're having coffee but I have a quick break and I was just thinking about you and I'd really like that pic if you could send it anytime just because a couple of things don't quite seem to be adding up and I just want to know that you're cool
Hi sweetie, one more time just checking in. Is it hard to get that pic for some reason? 😀

Sneak pics by in laws
Hello I am a wife here
I recently married to my husband's and he lives with his joint family and apparently male to female ratio is bad in the house so i do most of my time at house only doing household works.
My in laws have been friendly with me even before the marriage actually and now they got so much friendly lately that it's tough to say when they are flirting or just being friendly
It includes all of my in laws wether it's fil, bil, cousins or newphews
When i am home alone with the in laws they come in kitchen to help me out and at times get touchy and i used to ignore it but it did feel weird at times
Then when I would be working i would catch them staring at me so I would raise my eyebrows asking what's the matter so they would just knod away and go to there work
Recently i had gone to market so my bil's phone was in repair shop due to some battery issues so I thought I shall collect it as i was near by the shop only, when i went to the shop to collect phone I saw the repair person going thru his phone and when I asked what was he doing he just got scared and locked the phone immediately and said nothing was just checking the phone and i then asked for the phone as it seemed done repairing and to verify its working or not I just opened it and tried to see it
When i unlocked the ohone I saw his gallery was open with my pics in it, the pics he took of mine without my consent and there were around 20-30 such pics and i got shocked and when I looked up I saw the shop owner scanning my body head to toe, I got weird out and I just left from the store
After stepping out from the store I saw the pics and it was the pics of me while I was working in kitchen, doing household, me while I was sleeping in my bed and it shocked me alot and idk what shld i do exactly abt it
I even saw his WhatsApp group named as lovers with my pic as it's group profile photo and now I don't know what to do and what not to any one wanna give some suggestions on this situation of mine

I am 10+2 with baby number 4. I've been bloated a bit for a couple weeks but easily passed off as having just eaten a large meal.
The past few days, this has changed and now looks like a proper mini bump. Ran into a friend today, while running errands, who looked at my tummy and started congratulating me.
My partner also has 3 children with his ex-wife, mine are with my ex husband. Between us both this will be number 7 and we don't plan on telling anyone until after 12 week scan, including the kids.
Autistic and prefer the sensory input of tight and stretchy clothes. Guess I need to switch to baggy Ts for a couple weeks lol.
When did you start to show on fourth pregnancy? Low key panicking it's twins atm.
Pic here. It is small but noticeable. Obv after 3 kids I don't have a perfectly flat tummy usually but, in clothes, I don't typically have a noticeable tummy. https://imgur.com/a/6hGwYFq
Thanks

Although in 30 years my husband had never abused me, I felt afraid for my life right after DDay. I asked if he considered offing me to be with AP and he said never. He did consider offing himself though. I was really afraid that either him or the AP could have resorted to that.she had posted pics of her shooting guns after DDay and I took it as a veiled threat. I’m just curious how many people were suddenly unsure of their lives like this. Also from WS did you ever consider or think that your AP could off your wife? Thank you

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Previous Post: https://www.reddit.com/AmItheAsshole/comments/e1oy5c/aita_if_i_cancel_christmas_because_i_cant_afford/
So, it's been 2 weeks and somehow the messages are still coming in. Thankfully the offers of charity have stopped (here's hoping they were redirected to their communities) but a good deal of them asking whether or not I stopped being a grinch and started being a good husband and father again. So, to get those people placated first, here you go: I DECORATED. Pics without our faces only, sorry.
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I also spoke with a financial advisor, who is helping me set up a budget for 2020, and a counselor who helped me realize that I was worth more than the goods I could offer someone. She recommended 2 separate therapists to me, and neither are taking new patients before the new year, so for now, my wife and I are working on our budget and cleaning out various corners of the house for things to sell. So far, we've gotten rid of some unused basement furniture, a mini fridge that has been empty for 2 years, a bunch of wine racks and paraphernalia (we don't drink at home since the baby was born 2 years ago, so no need to keep it around) as well as some other things and made about $750, more than enough to pay all the overdue bills, put some money in savings, and groceries in the cupboard. It's going to be a long road to pay off this cc debt, but we're finally addressing the issue head on and moving in the right direction.
Since my last paycheck (that covered mortgage and utilities, no worries there, for those who asked if I was behind, thank you) I have also been offered (and taken) 3 DJ gigs for Holiday parties. 2 for personal friends/acquaintances businesses, 1 for a charity. I refused payment for the children's charity gig, instead offering to give the money right back to the kids instead, which was gratefully accepted by the organizer. The extra cash from the 2 paying gigs paid down some more debt, and was enough leftover to allow me to have bought some nice new books and a Moana doll for my little girl to open on Xmas morning, (to say nothing of the bags of presents from both sets of grandparents full of clothes and toys, so she'll be fine from a presents standpoint).
Inspired by everyone's offers of charity, I volunteered again at Paul's Place in Baltimore, where this time I donned the hairnet and apron and served hot meals. Cell phones are prohibited inside, plus taking photos of yourself doing charity work defeats the purpose of said work. I also organized a food drive at my office to provide meal kits for Christmas for needy families, and we were able to donate 574 lbs of food to the MD Food Bank!
Thank you to all who reached out and made me realize that I really was an asshole. I let my personal shortcomings almost ruin a holiday for my wife and child. It won't be as fancy as our last Christmases, but I have a feeling that this year will be very special to me, no matter how little is under my tree. I realized that I have all the gifts I need, and I cannot thank the beautiful people who offered up so much charity to a grumpy stranger. I didn't need to accept your gifts to accept your love, and the offers alone changed my life.
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Happy Holiday's y'all.

To all guys out there, who keep saying “oh i dont take pictures bcs im enjoying the moment” please….. pleaseee…. Start taking pic and videos of your partner. Especially for those with family.
I am 27F married with two kids for 6 years, I couldn’t find any videos of me with my kids in my husband’s phone. He just started recording recently because I asked him to. But it’s still sooo hard and i had to remind him again and again.
It’s so sad that I don’t even have videos of me with my kids from his POV, it’s always a selfie or a self recorded video. Any cute things that he does with the kids, i am always ready to record because my kids love watching it. But when i do something cute with the kids, if i remember i’ll try my best to record it myself, but sometimes activities can be so random that you don’t even think of recording it.
So please, i hope this post give guys out there a lesson to start relieving the moments as well by recording the moments.

TW: possibly intentional/accidental suicide
He was the little brother to a set of twin boys who are classmates of (and previously, bullies of) my daughter in junior high school. One of his brothers found him in the morning. He was hung up and unresponsive.
We watched in horror from the windows of our home as the huge number of rescue vehicles and first responders arrived and entered the home to begin their rescue efforts. We saw the various members of the family come out of the home with police officers to meet up with our other neighbors, who are friends with this family. That was how we realized it was the youngest boy who was receiving the medical attention. We witnessed him being brought out on the stretcher and the team of EMTs frantically performing CPR on the boy as he was being loaded into the ambulance. We were later informed by the other set of neighbors who befriended this family that the boy had passed away.
Everyone in our family saw this. All of our children are dealing with a combination of grief and horror and, also, regret, because we had been unable to befriend this set of neighbors because the twin boys had started obsessing over my daughter and trying to get her separated from her older brother (who wouldn’t leave her side around these boys) and had been surreptitiously taking pics of her and posting it to social media. They had also been putting hands on my son in order to provoke him into a fight and had been posting pics of him taken by constant shoving of a phone in front of his face. The twins had a No Contact order placed against them by the school, with the threat of it becoming a police matter.
So now this family has lost their son, and we are seeing the community efforts to support them, and my children are struggling to process it. Their instincts to comfort and console a neighbor in tragedy have to be stifled because we shouldn’t initiate contact if we hope they will continue to respect the No Contact order placed against their oldest sons. I have already had plenty of life experience with having to block toxic people (mentally ill, criminal behavior) while still loving them and caring about them from afar. It hurts, but I’m used to it. My husband and children are not accustomed to this internal tension. And we are all feeling collateral trauma by witnessing this family lose their child right in front of our house.
This is mostly a sorrowful shout into the void, but if anyone has anything helpful to share, or any advice, I welcome it. Thanks for reading.

Ok so this is very random but back when Lauren was on bachelor I started following this girl she was friends with and in her wedding. (Kelly Christine Muller??) and her BFF Kylie Isaacson (formerly McCluskey) anyway, it seems Kelly and Kylie are no longer friends and I am so curious about what happened! They were together all the time and hung out so much with their husbands and kids. Kylie changed her last name on IG and deleted a lot of pics with Kelly but recently has deleted her whole account. Kelly hasn't changed anything but doesn't post hardly anything at all anymore. My nosiness is strong with this one 😅 anyone know anything??

Darn I can’t post pics, it’s the Dedcool Xtra Milk. I love how it’s unisex first off. I can’t tell if I’m turned on by myself wearing it or if I want my husband to wear it ! The first instant scent i had to really think about it, I didn’t hate it, bit I wasn’t positive. Then minutes later I kept getting a whiff of it and became more and more in love. It’s so hard for me to describe smells but it’s like the perfect clean skin scent that has more of a sweetness to it but not too sweet. I definitely recommend this to any gourmand lovers out there.

https://www.reddit.com/AMA/comments/1cifiae/i_just_spoke_the_wife_of_the_man_ive_been_seeing/
https://www.reddit.com/confessions/comments/1ci9amt/i_just_spoke_the_wife_of_the_man_ive_been_seeing/
The above links have a lot of information and a lot of questions I answered.
In summary, I was all relaxed and happy and living my life when I received a message from the wife I knew nothing about, of the man I've been seeing for years. She and I began to talk and I chose to be transparent and answer all her questions.
So this is how it all ended.
The wife and I chatted several times. Her phone had 'mysteriously' been factory reset, which is why the last update I felt she had stopped contacting me. Turns out it was her phone and we chatted for 5 or so hours after she got access again.
The snaps he and I had sent disappeared from both our phones. He had gone into her phone where she had uploaded his snap and blocked and deleted me, then deleted his account, essentially losing all that history. I'm sure he made the factory reset happen but she says he denies that. But we retrieved some snaps, because I saved all those, and she has his emails and got the snap account back up, so when she unblocked and added me again it was all still there on my side. We couldn't retrieve a huge amount stuff but that was enough, and with some things I had saved in my camera roll, his minimizing narrative and outright lies didn't hold water. He tried to pretend he had never said anything emotional to me, for instance. But there is was. Him saying emotional stuff. To me.
She and I talked about the whole thing. I was able to set straight his lies (that were constant and ongoing, he really tried to shrink me to almost nothing), but I helped her set the whole thing straight with my saved things, like a pic of himself he sent telling me he loved me, dates, times, etc. We talked for many hours. She was confused about what was so special about me that would make him do this. How I predated her. I was blown away that he met her, got married, had a kid, while he was having this thing with me. I feel us talking made us both clear that it's all on him. There are things about both us he wanted, and he did what it took to have it all.
Her plan was to leave him. I know how persistent and overwhelming he is when he wants something. How he can make you feel things, because I fell under it the times I tried to break it off.
I'm just the mistress. She has to deal with all that multiplied, and a marriage, kids, etc. So I suspected she was likely to go back to him. And so I always said things like: if you decide to work on your marriage you never have to worry about me seeing or talking to your husband ever again, etc. She's got to make her choices, there's a baby involved, and I felt it was not my place to try to influence just because it would serve him right to end up losing everything. It would serve him right.
She messaged me yesterday they plan to work on her marriage. That is understandable.
She has been incredibly gracious this entire time, and has expressed her sorrow, several times at how he didn't even apologize to me or give me any explanation, after he put me through all this. I appreciate that SO much. She had invited me to confront him in person, but I don't want to see him or listen to his lies. And since it's obvious he didn't care for me at all, that indifference up close would bite hard. I don't need to see that. It hurts plenty just to know.
She has every reason to hate me, and it was remarkable she thought about my feelings at all. I didn't say much about how I felt, I thought it inappropriate to make this about me when he has a baby and this is her husband. So that level of classiness and sympathy was amazing in the midst of all this heartbreak and pain.
I told her some couples can overcome this kind of thing, and I hoped that happens for her. She hoped I heal from this. I told her it would happen in time. The feelings I have for him will probably turn to disgust. Since all the things I admired were fake, and who he actually is isn't anyone I would have ever gotten involved with had I known the truth, nothing I cared about was real. That should ease my journey. Maybe.
I don't judge her for her choice to take him back. I don't think he will stop being deceptive. He is too good at it. But I understand where her head is at, with a newborn and a young marriage. I hope for her and the kids sake it works out for the best.
I have an appointment for a referral for some counseling. So the many folks who advised that...I listened. For now I am still pretty shook up. Got real scatterbrained and am dealing with a lot of grief and confusion still. I hold back tears many times. It is on my mind all the time.
But I think it could have been a lot harder. Because the communications I had with the wife made things a lot more clear for both of us. At least I am not trying to answer questions in my head I'd never know the answers to otherwise. I don't have that craziness to deal with, creating narratives from thin air with missing pieces. I understand things a lot more clearly than most discarded mistresses ever get to.
I also get to know how this chapter ends. With them about to try to salvage the marriage. That is very remarkable. She gave me that info too, and I won't be wracking my brain wondering what happened.
I appear to be easily charmed, super naïve, quite gullible, and too trusting when I take people on their word. So I have some soul searching to do. I thought I was way more cool than all that. Turns out I had my self image all wrong. That is another hard part of this. The person I thought was so cool is a total dupe.

My husband and I have openly been OAD since we had our daughter. She is 10 months old and the absolute love of our lives but both she and I almost didn’t make it when she was born.
To keep it short - I had an awful HG pregnancy and was throwing up all the way til literally pushing her out and then she was born not breathing and i haemorrhaged. We knew we were one and done right away and tbh I love her but… she wasn’t exactly (and still isn’t haha) an easy baby. She is a tiny handful of chaos. I cannot even begin to imagine looking after a newborn with the toddler version of my daughter running around.
We know that it might seem rash to make this call so early on all that “wait a year” bs and whatnot. But we’re adults. We know what we want. We are complete with our daughter. We do not want to chance my health or life again. We have been open to our families (maybe a mistake to tell them lol) and my mother has firmly been against our decision (so has my MIL but she picks and chooses her battles thankfully).
Anyway cut to the reason for my vent - I posted a cute pic of me and said daughter on Facebook earlier to which a family friend comments “so cute. She needs a sibling” first of all, in what world is that appropriate to comment on someone’s picture second of all a big FUCK OFF I just felt like responding with “yeah husbands name has his vasectomy scheduled for next month sorry”

Does anyone else just absolutely hate that they have no idea who they truly are?
I genuinely feel such shame and anger when I realize I’m a grown adult with no clear depiction of who I am, or what I love, or my core values. I am constantly in a battle in my head of who I am or who I’m meant to be.
I see people on social media, which yes I’m aware is a mistake in itself, but they just look content in who they are. They share their interests, they show off their faces and accomplishments, and I’m just existing. I probably look like a mystery to others because I never post about school, work, friends, family, etc anymore.. but really it’s cause I’m ashamed of how little I have going for me, and I feel like a fraud. I’m not that girl with the filter or angles or good lighting. I’m not happy or doing cool things all the time.
I’m having this huge identity crisis because I always adapted to the people around me, and I have a fear of perception so I just took on others ideas of me or interests. I can’t tell if I actually WANT a degree and house with kids and husband, or if I just think I do because I was raised to think that way. I can’t tell if I’d be bisexual or lesbian or straight. If I hate men or am just tired of being hurt. If I love a band because I genuinely think they’re good or if it’s because my ex loved it and I pretended to like it.
Sometimes I don’t recognize myself in the mirror or in pics. I don’t feel real, I don’t look like a normal person. But then I think I’m so egotistical and selfish to even think of myself as different than others and about myself. I hate that I know people who just KNOW who they are and don’t try to pretend. They just know they like to smoke weed and play video games all they. They are content with working a barely livable income and chilling at home all day. They just know they’re meant to be a nurse and have kids. They just know they’re a transgender. I have NO freaking clue who I am. Who I’m into. What I truly love doing without change. Who I’ll be in the future, and who i was in the past.
I miss the person I was when I look back at my past, but then I see videos where I was just as miserable and chaotic, I just fooled myself looking at it now thinking things were better.
At this point I don’t know where I’m going with this, I guess I just needed to vent because I really wish I had a clear understanding on who I was and had a set identity. Or maybe deep down I know who I am, and I just hate her. I hate the indecisiveness and incapability of being more. Idkkk. Does anyone relate? Goodnight.

Does anyone else just absolutely hate that they have no idea who they truly are?
I genuinely feel such shame and anger when I realize I’m a grown adult with no clear depiction of who I am, or what I love, or my core values. I am constantly in a battle in my head of who I am or who I’m meant to be.
I see people on social media, which yes I’m aware is a mistake in itself, but they just look content in who they are. They share their interests, they show off their faces and accomplishments, and I’m just existing. I probably look like a mystery to others because I never post about school, work, friends, family, etc anymore.. but really it’s cause I’m ashamed of how little I have going for me, and I feel like a fraud. I’m not that girl with the filter or angles or good lighting. I’m not happy or doing cool things all the time.
I’m having this huge identity crisis because I always adapted to the people around me, and I have a fear of perception so I just took on others ideas of me or interests. I can’t tell if I actually WANT a degree and house with kids and husband, or if I just think I do because I was raised to think that way. I can’t tell if I’d be bisexual or lesbian or straight. If I hate men or am just tired of being hurt. If I love a band because I genuinely think they’re good or if it’s because my ex loved it and I pretended to like it.
Sometimes I don’t recognize myself in the mirror or in pics. I don’t feel real, I don’t look like a normal person. But then I think I’m so egotistical and selfish to even think of myself as different than others and about myself. I hate that I know people who just KNOW who they are and don’t try to pretend. They just know they like to smoke weed and play video games all they. They are content with working a barely livable income and chilling at home all day. They just know they’re meant to be a nurse and have kids. They just know they’re a transgender. I have NO freaking clue who I am. Who I’m into. What I truly love doing without change. Who I’ll be in the future, and who i was in the past.
I miss the person I was when I look back at my past, but then I see videos where I was just as miserable and chaotic, I just fooled myself looking at it now thinking things were better.
At this point I don’t know where I’m going with this, I guess I just needed to vent because I really wish I had a clear understanding on who I was and had a set identity. Or maybe deep down I know who I am, and I just hate her. I hate the indecisiveness and incapability of being worth more. I hate that I don’t have great qualities like truthworthiness, loyalty to everyone, or commitment to jobs or health or anything. Idkkk. Does anyone relate? Goodnight.

I just wanted my wallet so I could go to work to provide for my family.
Class A misdemeanor for domestic assault. WTF do I do and how effed am I?
What should I expect, and what's best approach.
Long story short...*edit....apparently long story long* My wife and I have been married 16 years and things have been rocky for atleast a couple years. Last Jan/Feb she said things were over (for the 2,937th time) and used an online service to draw up some sort of paperwork that wasn't ever going to be valid, we both signed and she submitted (not sure when), but it was rejected (again not sure when) because custody was notin place and probably becausethe document wasnt valid. Also, we were living in Pennsylvania until Oct of 2023. At the end of March of 2023, I was on a work trip and she went out and hooked up with someone she was talking to...not sure when they started talking. We weren't really speaking for a couple/few weeks when I went on the trip. She told me shortly after I got back and notified me she was going to live her life and date. It was a brutal 2 months, but I had been a pretty bad husband with the exception of providing.
Early June we decided to build a new relationship and ended up relocating to TN at the end of Oct. Things were stressful with moving and then added stress with it just being the 4 of us (son 10 and daughter 5). We had a few disagreements before Xmas and than a pretty big argument at Xmas. After Xmas things were never the same, alot of resentment crept in on my end and she never really recommitted so it was a disaster.
End of Feb I got a new boss and expectations went up and with me being the sole provider I started putting in more hours. She accused me of cheating, to which I've never even had anything that could be construed as flirting in the 17 years we've been together. At the end of February I put in a 16 hour day and lost track of time and failed to call and let her know I was running really late. She blew up and once again went right for the jugular and ended things. She had done this 5+ times since xmas, and this time I decided I wasn't going to love like this anymore...walking on egg shells if I disagreed with her about anything. This triggered her even more and she continued to text me all the time over the next 2 months and reiterated everything I've done wrong. On a number of occasions I said "you said it was over", I said "ok, let's just be amicable and make a difficult situation a little easier." She continued to escalate pretty much any conversation.
Over the last 4 months I've tried to leave but she weaponizes the kids and said I'm abandoning them and insulting me that I'm a deadbeat, etc. We've been sleeping separately for about 8 weeks with the exception of 3 weeks when she got really sick and had an tooth abscess that swelled her eye shut. Left work took her to hospital and the for emergency surgery next morning. Over that 5 day stretch she asked me to rub her shoulders, so I did and fell asleep.
This paints a picture of where we were at last Thurs. I got home from work and she planned on taking the kids to wal mart. I asked her to drive her car. She said she'd drive whatever car she wanted. Now mind you, she hates my car and complains every time she has to drive it...except the last couple weeks. So while she was getting ready, I parked it in with my company car...yes I know...petty. She goes outside and starts trying to get it out, so I jumped in and said, ok I'm coming. Then she nearly hits the garage so I shut the car off. She restarted and we went back and forth 4 or 5 times. She raised her hand and I said go ahead, I'll call the police this time. She called the bluff and smacked me across the face. I immediately got out of the car and went back inside. I took a Pic of my red face. She came in and we had a verbal exchange and we're very close to each other and she smacked me 3 more times, grabbed my face with her nails and cut my lip. I was going to call at that point, but immediately knew someone would go to jail. I decided to go to bed and locked the door to my room and fell asleep. She broke in, took my work laptop, took my wallet and car keys and tried to take my phone. I just went back to bed and figured she's raging and I'll get my shit in the morning. Woke up, showered, woke my son up, got him in the shower, got ready. She woke up and gave everything back except my wallet. I asked nicely about 50 times....she refused because she was going to go withdraw $ from my account....separate bank accounts since the affair. I continued to ask nicely and then not so nice. I then began to call her some nasty stuff. All I wanted was my wallet so I could got put in a 12 hour day to provide for my wife and kids. I went outside to smoke a cigarette and when I came back in I asked again and called her a few more names. At that point I realized she didn't have her cell phone....super odd, and she wasn't retaliating....again super odd. Then it hit me, she's recording me going off to use against me. So I called her phone and it rang in the laundry room. I was much closer and we both went towards it. I got there first and started looking for it, but she kinda pushed me with her momentum, but I managed to get the door partially closed. She pushed her way in and I don't remember if she grabbed the phone first or it was at the same time. We both kept pulling at the phone and she was screaming and my son was yelling, she asked him for help and he called 911 and said my dad is hurting my mom. I pulled the phone away and immediately walked away. Cops came, I left in handcuffs, sat for 13 hours and bailed out. No contact order with her with exception of welfare of the kids, court on 6/6. She's working on getting permission from the court for pickup and drop off of the kids and said she will make a statement that I didn't hurt her, never had anything like this happened and will have my back.
I'm absolutely broken.