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2021.04.21 14:56 MopMoose Rardit

17 YRS?! Wow he almost 18 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣… Srry I’m bad at jokes. Me after saying that:🏃‍♂️💨
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2015.09.25 17:33 Dam, that's interesting!

Ce sous-reddit est un endroit pour publier des barrages : les barrages rares, irréels, surtout les barrages les plus intéressants de ce monde. Le contenu original est accueilli à bras ouverts ! Nous acceptons n'importe quelle soumission - article, photo, GIF, vidéo, message texte - tant qu'elle vous fait dire "Merde, c'est un barrage intéressant." Vive le Québec libre! Vive Montréal! Vive le Québec libre! Vive, vive, vive le Canada français! Et vive la France!
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2010.02.27 05:23 Meades_Loves_Memes r/teenagers

teenagers is the biggest community forum run by teenagers for teenagers. Our subreddit is primarily for discussions and memes that an average teenager would enjoy to discuss about. We do not have any age-restriction in place but do keep in mind this is targeted for users between the ages of 13 to 19. Parents, teachers, and the like are welcomed to participate and ask any questions!
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2024.05.17 09:28 Elite_Mogger How large is Mr.House's army at the start of Fallout New Vegas?

Like the title states: How large is Mr.House's army at the start of Fallout New Vegas?
The first bit of info we get is that Mr.House's securitrons that are active at the start of the game number about 100 or so give or take. This is a force adequate for policing and guarding the Vegas Strip, but not much else
But Mr.House doesn't just have Securitrons at his disposal, he also has the three Families. But the question is how large these Families really are, since Mr.House mentions that he needed an army as soon as he saw the first NCR scouts. An army not large enough to beat the NCR but large enough to be able to weaken them so much that they would face the consequence of being too weak to face the Legion.
But how big would such a force need to be? Judging by the fact that the NCR by most estimates had some 2000-3000 men in the Mojave by the time of Hoover dam we can estimate that the Families most likely numbered somewhere in the 100s, I'm gonna spitball and say ~300-400, since that would most likely be a force capable of inflicting considerable casualties on a force as large as the NCR's. Considering the BOS only had about 200 hundred men at most at Helios one.
So if my estimates are correct House's army at the start of the game would probably be about 400-500. Making it a force that is certainly able to be beaten by the NCR but large enough to be able to inflict significant casualties.
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2024.05.17 09:17 ShyrenDeer Sometimes mothering a toddler is hard

But tonight my son got all tangled in his sheets so I untucked him and tucked him back in. He grumbled and told him I was just tucking him in. Then a very sleep quite voice said "thank you mummy" dam near put me to tears 💕
What's your kiddo(s) done this week thaats made you smile? ❤️❤️❤️
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2024.05.17 08:48 Usual-Wealth-3943 eventful but usefull

after extensive r&d being 1 laggy match with a kid hardscoping me under my lookout point to kill me shortly after i found out the sz heatsource 800 still has unlimited spotting range for vehicles up to 640meters so from dam to fire station at airport or the dam to the military base and characters are still bugged showing black which is odd thats hard capped now but yeah new mechanic perhaps
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2024.05.17 08:38 raincognoscente Show implications for New Vegas canon

With the ending scene of season 1 of the show revealing New Vegas to be the setting of the next season, what do you think the canon ending of New Vegas will be? NCR victory at Hoover Dam has been the assumption but Hank must’ve gone there hoping to find allies and we now know Mr. House to have been an ally of Vault-Tec, lending support to the idea of either Mr. House or Yes Man being victorious if 31 and 33 had eyes on the Mojave.
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2024.05.17 07:46 Masqurade-King What Frozen 2 Possibly Could Have Been

What Frozen 2 Possibly Could Have Been
Hello,
I thought of this post after music4ever12 posted about how we were robbed when it came to frozen 2. Her post revealed that the people who created OFA wanted to use it as a set up for Frozen 2, so the actions they characters took in the short would show what we were going to expect to see in the sequel. This got be thinking about what those actions where.
Now, this is both me theorizing and also putting my own ideas in on what Frozen 2 could have been.
Now, OFA, came out in 2018, one year before Frozen 2 came out in 2019. So this really got me thinking on how much Frozen 2 might have changed between that time. They had been working on the script since 2015, and I remember in 2017 Jen Lee said the script was done. But then in early 2019, the teaser trailer was dropped and it was only filled with test animations. There was no story, so what happened? I used to be friends with someone who used to work at Disney and she still had friends in Disney when Frozen 2 was being made. She told me that Chris Buck did have a script, but then Jen Lee took it and butchered it. A lot of people think she did this to make Frozen 2 her own and show she was the right person to be the new head of Disney Animation after John Lasseter was kicked out.
This does beg the question on how much was changed from the original script. Was it a completely different story, or was just the messaging and end results changed? What about the idea of making Anna queen? Was that decided back in 2015, or suggested in 2019? The only things I remember being commented on about the film was that they went to Norway to see glaciers, and had asked the Sami for help on designing the Northuldra, although I don't remember when they did this.
Well, here is what I think was intended based off of OFA.
Kristoff not fitting in with royal life. Started off with him because his story is simple. OFA showed how uncomfortable he is with parties, and how he is not meant for royal life seeing how he likes the troll tradition. The deleted scenes of Frozen 2, showed this conflict, but I think there is a possibility that it could have centered around more of Anna trying to make her choice in where she wants to be in life, rather then Kristoff disliking royal life. See, when Kristoff shows his tradition in OFA, Anna is actually excited about it, and seems to enjoy it. She only rejects it when it becomes disgusting, but she is not as appalled as Elsa is. Kristoff does not belong in the palace, but so does Anna. She is a screw up princess, and that is why she loves Kristoff, because she can be herself around him. With her learning that Kristoff does not want a life in the palace, there could have been a big conflict for Anna. The number one thing she wants in life is to stay with Elsa, but she does not feel right in the palace, and now Kristoff is leaving. So Anna would feel pressured into deciding on weather she should go with Kristoff, or stay with Elsa. Staying with Elsa is obviously what she will do, but then it becomes the question on if and how Anna and Kristoff will manage to make their relationship work.
Anna and Elsa dealing with their childhood, and trying to find their place in Arendelle.
OFA, showed how much Anna and Elsa had lost their childhood. This is literally the first Christmas that Anna can remember, and we saw how Elsa's childhood was filled with gloves and her only friend being a stuffed penguin. FF showed Anna and Elsa finally celebrating a birthday together, and OFA is their first Christmas. So what can Frozen 2 talk about concerning their childhood?
Their parents. Frozen 2 was going to deal with how Anna and Elsa felt about their parents and the mistakes they made raising them. Now, Frozen 2 tried to paint the parents as perfect and loving, but I don't think this was what was originally going to be discussed. There is a deleted song called "I Seek the Truth", this is the only song that was not recorded by the voice actresses for Anna and Elsa, and so I always thought it was the earliest songs made.
In this song, Elsa is putting all her faith in her mother. She discovered her mother is Northuldra and might have the clue to why she was born with powers. Throughout the song Elsa is praising Iduna, how she was a great queen and mother, and how she always new what was right. However, Anna has a very different reaction. She is hateful towards her parents and comments on how many lies and secrets they kept.
One of the things I have noticed throughout the Frozen franchise, is how blinded Elsa's faith in her parents are. She followed Agnarr's advice of using gloves and saying "Conceal it, don't feel it, don't let it show", and in the Broadway musical in the song "Monster", Elsa says this "Father, you know what's best for me". There is also how she looks up at his picture during her coronation, viewing him as the perfect ruler she needs to imitate.
But we all know that Agnarr was wrong. Conceal don't feel, was bad for Elsa and her bottling everything up only made it all worse, and of course locking Anna out from her life as well. But, she still trusted him, and now Frozen 2 is about her trusting her mother.
I think Elsa was going to learn that, even though her parents loved her, they were not perfect as she perceives them as. I think this was going to be done through her learning Iduna's past. Elsa would realize that her mother was in fact just like her. A scared lonely girl who hid who she really was, and whose lie ended up bringing herself and her husband to ruin.
As for Anna. Her frustrations of being kept in the dark and having no one trust her would be brought to light. I think it would be also pointed at Elsa, especially if Elsa once again started to try and do everything by herself again. Anna would feel that after all this time, no one believed in her. This would have been a great character development for both sisters, especially for Elsa as she has to realize how much she is hurting Anna by pushing her away. It would probably end with Anna learning to forgive her parents, and realizing that they did love her.
As for Anna and Elsa trying to find their place in Arendelle.
OFA, showed how much Anna and Elsa wanted to connect with their people. Hosting a party for them at the beginning, and feeling sad when they all left, especially Elsa, as Anna took one look at Elsa's crest fallen face and immediately jumped into action and tried to get people to stay. And then at the end, how happy they were when all of Arendelle helped them to find Olaf and then they all had a party at night, with Elsa using her magic to create a Christmas tree and decorations, as well as tables for the food. Not only were Anna and Elsa closer with each other at the end of OFA, but they also were closer with their people as well, with Elsa saying that Arendelle now had a new tradition, with ringing of the bell being the first. OFA also really highlighted the people of Arendelle. Showing different kinds of families and people that lived in this kingdom, and how different their traditions are.
Frozen 2 was going to show more of this.
First Anna. All Anna wants in life is to be of service. She wants to find her place in how to help Arendelle. This of course is geared to her finding out how she can help Elsa. Elsa is the queen and Anna's sister. Of course Anna would want to help Elsa, and in doing so help Arendelle. But I doubt she would just want to be just someone Elsa gave random jobs to. Anna would want to have specific tasks that are all handed to her. Should she take full control of charity events? Or perhaps she wants to work with Kristoff in the trading business. But it has to be a job that keeps her from a desk, and one where she can go out and interact with people, helping them as they help her.
As for Elsa. Going back to the song "I seek the truth", Elsa says this "How do I be you, how do I be good, how do I be me in Arendelle". Elsa is aware that she is different and feels like she does not belong in Arendelle, but she still wants to be. The reason she is trying to find out who Iduna is, as well as learn why she was born with powers, is so that she can finally feel at peace in Arendelle.
I think Elsa was simply going to learn that she was blessed with magic because of how her parents saved each other when the forest was attacked. She was given ice powers simply so she could find the truth in Ahtohallan. however, I don't think she was going to be revealed as the Fifth Spirit. I think the whole Fifth Spirit idea was added in later, because think about it, it is so random and not thought out, and even the whole voice calling to Elsa was not part of the original plot and who the voice was was changed at the last second as well.
Elsa would have finally found solace in knowing she was not born a curse, and that the reason she had powers as well, was for Arendelle's betterment. To have them face their terrible past so that they could learn and grow. And that is how Elsa will find her place in Arendelle. Finally realizing her parents were not perfect, so she should not beat her self up for thinking she is not as good as a ruler as them. And having powers that help bring to light Arendelle's mistake, so that she can help them move forward.
Now, for the ending.
I think Elsa will freeze in Arendelle like in the movie, however I don't think this will be considered a noble sacrifice. Elsa was constantly warned about going to far, and trying to do it alone. There is even the line grand Pabbie says to Anna in the trailer "magic is alluring, without you, she may lose herself to it". Elsa will make the mistake. She will push Anna away again, and go to far. She messed up, but it finally gives Anna a chance to prove herself, and show Elsa that she is someone to be depended on.
One of the things that Frozen and OFA highlights greatly is how much Anna never gives up on Elsa, and I think Frozen 2 was also going to highlight this.
When Elsa freezes, and after Anna breaks the dam and destroys Arendelle, Elsa would not unfreeze. Anna would become queen, but she would not give up hope in believing that Elsa will return one day. She knows Elsa is not lost, because she believes in her sister. Anna would rebuild Arendelle, and would search for the scattered Northuldra (Originally only Mattias was alive in the forest), and she would help the two people mend their relationship. She does this because it is right, but also so that everything is in order for when Elsa returns.
Anna, even though is called queen, she would not feel like one. She would feel more like she is simply taking care of Arendelle in Elsa's absence. If Anna was queen, then she would feel like she is replacing Elsa, and as Elsa's spare, that would imply Elsa is gone, and that is something Anna would never except.
This is also where Kristoff finally proves himself. Even though he dislikes royal life, he loves Anna more, and he sticks with her even when she becomes queen. He helps her in finding the lost Northuldra and helps represent them as well.
Through Anna's hard work of rebuilding Arendelle and bringing both of her parents people together, but most importantly, her love and faith in Elsa. That is what finally freeze Elsa, both literally and figuratively. Elsa is no longer frozen in the past at the bottom of Ahtohallan, but she also can finally move on from her childhood as well and feeling like she does not belong anywhere.
I am imagining two ways this will be shown.
  1. Anna is on the balcony looking down at Arendelle as it is complete and her people are happy. She looks to the North and says "Come home soon Elsa". We then travel to the forest and we see Olaf wondering around confused, calling out for Anna, Elsa, Kristoff and Sven. The movie will end there. By showing Olaf is alive it means Elsa is back as well and that she will return to Arendelle.
  2. Anna is on the balcony and once again says "Come home soon Elsa". Suddenly a wind blows and Anna sees Elsa's signature snowflake. Anna then looks out over the fjord and sees Elsa riding Nokk toward Arendelle. Anna runs through the castle with everyone wondering why, and she bursts out the gates and runs to the water where Elsa and her hug and everyone celebrates.
And lastly, Elsa's dress.
Instead of her dress making her about how she is the Fifth Spirit and belongs with the Northuldra in the forest. I think the dress was originally supposed to represent the two people coming together. Elsa's final dress looked like a recolor of her ice dress, but made to try and fit in with the Northuldra, and I think that was the point. Arendelle was meant to be rebuilt representing both the Northuldra and Arendelle cultures, and that is what Elsa's dress is. The part that is similar to her iconic ice dress, was meant to represent Arendelle, while the changes were to represent Northuldra. Both cultures, now all together in Arendelle, where Elsa can finally be herself. The part of her that is Arendelle, a regel queen, and the part of her that is Northuldra, a person that is attached to nature and magic.
Anna's queen dress would have been a combination of her style and Iduna's queen dress, as well as Elsa. This will show that Anna has forgiven her parents, and is looking to her mother and Elsa for inspiration on being a queen.
And finally.
OFA, said that Anna and Elsa are both in blue to show that they have grown closer as sisters. I think this was going to continue in Frozen 2, with Anna and Elsa being in the same dress and color, but with different styles.
Like this concept art.
https://preview.redd.it/glrnoeelcx0d1.png?width=236&format=png&auto=webp&s=24f0cc1c67c9868af135c582d7b4628208ca817b
And maybe even like this one as well.
Concept art by Jean Gilmore
Well, those are all my ideas. What do you think? And what do you think Olaf should have been like in frozen 2 as well?
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2024.05.17 07:19 GrimBearer I got this Magikarp a while back and I want to get it graded. Would PSA or CGC be better for this type of misprint?

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2024.05.17 07:13 Moist_Being_1734 Best fish finder/gps for inland water?

I’ve got an old Humminbird that came with my boat but I’m looking to upgrade to something a bit newer and with side view/ side scan.
I only use gps to track my speed and possibly pin a few way points and just get a general idea of where I am on the dam/river. I’ve been doing my research and all the manufacturers website are a bit vague on the gps details for inland waters (they seem to be focusing on lakes in the US and ocean maps). I read an article saying that each manufacturer has different maps and to buy one that suits your location. I’m based in NSW but hoping to hit all the major dams in Queensland and Victoria (it’s a bucket list thing). Connectivity to a trolling motor would be a cool option in the future but not really necessary.
Only looking to spend around $1000-$1500
Thanks.
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2024.05.17 06:28 pugmom7971 Ronnie

Its such a sad thing to have to call your own sister out to leave her own grieving daughter alone its a dam shame. Lisa you pos you di all this all of it in front of the world you cause strife to your own kids your spose to be an adult parent and ronnie was spot on you scam people everyday cus your addicted to crack and you cant handle being an adult its everyone elses fault that noone wants to help i wish your sister would or dad would 👊🤜🤛right in your rotten vile kisser for what you did today to your daughter,as a mother you should be consiling her every need but crack consumes you ronnie is right noone would know but you opened your mouth thinking you could scam with this your a sick drug addict narsasist at this point theres only 2 places for but ill keep that to myself smh your poor daghter your kids period what a sick emmabarrsment i wouldnt blame your mom if she cant believe she birthed such gross trash for the shit you do and your dad is a bigger man then any man i know cus he puts up with way to fuckin much from you sorry guys rant over im really disgusted
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2024.05.17 06:13 Ghghsdfsdf Dumbstruck dumbf**k - neck deep. Not a great piano song but dam is it fun!

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2024.05.17 05:44 AbsurdistTimTam Tools for organising/tagging video assets on local network (not cloud) storage?

Hey gang, new to the sub (have lurked for a while) and hope this isn't afoul of the rules (or a FAQ I've missed)
I'm looking for a tool for organising and tagging a big stack of B-roll and file footage that we have on a local network drive so that we can find things later by searching the tags. All the DAM and MAM solutions I've looked at seem a bit too heavy - and most (if not all) seem to be cloud based. I'd love something that can run locally and doesn't rely on uploading and re-downloading files.
I've seen people talk about using Adobe Bridge for this, and I've fired it up to have a play but haven't really been able to see how that functionality works. Might be a RTFM moment...
Has anyone found a killer solution for this?
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2024.05.17 05:44 CleanSatisfaction855 Water Bodies Near Vadodara

Are there any good natural water bodies near Baroda that are clean for swimming and safe from the risk of drowning? I know about Sindhrot Dam, but is there anything within a 40-50 kilometer radius?
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2024.05.17 04:15 mamawheels36 Never seen a show in Vegas, best recommdations?

I'm in Canada, vut my husband and I have been to Vegas 4x and are headed again end of June.
We've never done shows but explored all over from the strip to hoover dam
We'd like to see something fun and worth the cost. I know the cirque stuff is good, but we'd love a good comedy club or show... not the normal comedy fluff like carrot top.
Give me your best recommendations! We are staying on strip but do not mind taking the bus or an Uber to another area
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2024.05.17 04:00 McGinnM My camp was nuked…..

Not the normal drop sites, up near Morgantown near the dam. I know it doesn’t take much to repair each piece, but god there’s a lot. Planning on using the opportunity to just move and rebuild. Does it automatically store things when you move camp sites? Even broken things? Or do I need to repair everything anyway?
Edit: not sure why I'm being downvoted for a question, but I appreciate the replies guys. See y'all out there.
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2024.05.17 03:29 Past-General3376 Tired of this power armor bug

On PC: I see this bug has been around for awhile, but mine seems to be different. It's inconsistent and doesn't seem to have anything to do with the fusion core insert. It's always when I find a free piece of power armor in the wild with scant amounts of armor pieces. I'm just a tiny bit of a hoarder. Anyways I'll find it jump out of my current armor and go to grab it. As soon as I jump into the bugged out armor it will keep me in third person and not plop me back into FP like I normally play. I'll let it sit for a bit and then it will finally let me move around but leaves me in third person and it looks like I'm not wearing the power armor when I am. I also can't interact with any objects or workstations. I eventually just have to alt+f4.
I've had it happen at 2 different places now.
The dam and Charlie site.
I would have never made a post, but again I can find anything on this.
*Note yes I've tried the pipboy trick and I can't press ESC or Tab. I just sit there frozen comtemplating my greed.
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2024.05.17 02:48 soyunmeme I have fallen into the world and wings of ACOMAF

Apologies for grammar and spelling -english isn’t my native language.
This book has changed me in countless ways. For context, I have just started reading fantasy books. Usually, I like sci-fi books like Dune, Ready Player One, and books like that. Someone (booktok) recommended this series, and oh my Mother: just FOUR days ago, I started with the first book, and I just finished the second in almost TWO days of sitting down. Fortunately, I am on vacation, so I took the opportunity to read books I had pending. Perfect timing imo because, again, what a spectacular book! Kudos to the author for describing a world so precisely, so heartfelt, and so incredibly. And wow, all the characters, old and new, changed my life. The way Feyre and Rhys’ story develops, especially their friendship. That should be the way an author shows what healthy and unhealthy relationships are! Which reminds me: Tam Tam you ain’t 💩. I deff felt bad for him bc he dealt with some serious trauma too, but that does not justify his actions. And to think I was obsessed with Tamlin and Feyre's relationship at the beginning of the first book, which obviously needed more character development, but the second book definitely changed my entire perspective. I don’t need a prince charming, I need a High Lord of the Night Court.
Now I can’t wait to start the third book! I mean, I’m going without any expectations, but I think the second book has easily, easily become my favorite book by far. Chapters 54 and 55 have a special place in my bookworm heart, especially 54. Yea yea 55 is cool, it's ✨ interesting✨, but chapter 54 is, I believe, something no one can take out of my head—the unconditional love, desire and respect for each other… GOH DAM. Somebody send an ambulance.
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2024.05.17 02:41 BigMeatSlapper I was just thinking - is there anyone who has more “signature” recognizable moves than RVD.

I was just thinking - is there anyone who has more “signature” recognizable moves than RVD.
I was playing WWE 2k24 as RVD and it reminded me just how many moves RVD got over as a signature part of his arsenal that would pop the crowd and are immediately recognized as “his.”
That’s not to say that other wrestlers didn’t do some of the same moves - but when RVD did them they felt like a “signature” part of his move set. Kind of like how Orton has turned a powerslam into something recognizable as uniquely his despite other people doing it.
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Off the top of my head he had:
The Five Star Frog Splash
Rolling Thunder
Van Terminator
Van Daminator
Split Leg Moonsault
Corkscrew Legdrop drop onto the barricade
Monkey Flip
Shoulder Thrust/Backflip into turnbuckle
Chair surf
Air Van Dam
A variety of standing kick variations (e.g., windmill, spinning heel kick)
Diving Kick off the top rope
Standing Moonsault
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I’m probably missing a bunch, but still crazy how much of his arsenal felt unique/signature as opposed to just doing regular versions of moves.
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2024.05.17 01:29 NondescriptUser415 How to end this vicious cycle

Yes, I’ve been to therapy. For many years, on and off but to no avail. Well, I can think back to times we’ve discussed personal problems and tendencies ad nauseam but I can’t seem to do the opposite. For example, I know I have an issues maintaining communication with new friends (lost all my old ones) but I have no idea what to say so I end up just racking up the count of lost/alienatedfriends. I also know I’m supposed to be consistent or show up for people but sometimes things just didn’t occur to me or I don’t feel like it. Looking back, that’s literally just life. Not everyone feels like doing things all the same but you do it because that’s what you’re supposed to do. I feel like common sense always escaped me my whole life. Now I’m scared to even make a move.
I’ve always had issues with friends/associating with people. The weird thing is, I look “normal” (please take this the way I mean it because it is what it is). I’m not ugly (although my insecurities tell me I am) but I’m not like some super attractive individual either. I’m normal. So people are not discriminatory to me in any particular way not are they giving me pretty privilege. I make friends easily because I can ask those basic questions and I smile and whatever but I have no idea how to maintain and nurture friendships. Sometimes my depression hits me and I retreat and isolate. New friends/people in general don’t want to listen to negative things like long term depression and I don’t want to talk about it either because they can’t help me anyway. But what are we talking about then? After I ask what’s going on in their lives, it’s like what next? You know that quote about small minds discussing people, average minds discussing events, and great minds discussing ideas? Well, it turns out I have lots of ideas but I don’t take action so all my talk just seems like, well, talk. So I stopped doing that. Aside from asking about people’s previous and upcoming weekend plans, what do you even talk about?
My family is quite recluse and socially inept so I think I get it from there. I also have a tendency to speak negatively and stray into asking/talking about other people. I think it’s cultural but since stopping that I feel like I literally have nothing to say. Unless I’m talking about myself, which I realized I used to do a lot of but I’m trying to be less self centered. Some people get away without talking about themselves at all! How do they do it? Yeah I know the trick to ask others about themselves but it’s not Hoover dam, so to speak, it’s not this endless river of conversational content. Also, some people just don’t want to talk too much about themselves. Then I go into more deep questions and people get annoyed or put off because it feels like I’m prying. I never know the right thing to do or say. Or people talk about plans they have with other people but I feel like all my friends have other closer friends haha so what the heck am I supposed to do.
I really want to get married but I also can’t imagine having to talk to the same people every day. Won’t you run out of things to talk about? Part of me feels I should just create a routine that doesn’t involve other people so I’ll stay busy and not notice how alone I am. It’s weird, in college I could never keep a consistent friend group and even as an adult in religious communities I can’t seem to either. At a certain point, you get too old to be friends less and it’s a major red flag. The sad thing is I long for friends so badly, I stalk other people’s bridesmaids photos and pics that include friendships of ver 15 years or from college and I’m just sad. I wish I had know the rule to just pick your people and stick to them. I would just run out of things to talk about and just switch to the get to know you phase I had mastered. I want to settle down — in friendships and with a partner. At the same time, I give up trying and would rather just scroll on fb or IG and watch other people live their lives. It’s cute! Cute baby, nice wedding, cool pic of sunset. 👍🏽 I personally have been on many hikes, traveled a few places, but how many times can you watch the sunrise? See a beach? Say, “wow, that’s beautiful!”
This post is a bit ranty sorry for not editing down but I’m sick of keeping this all bottled up I’m just sick of waking up and experiencing the same miserable day over and over. I know God is supposed to be my number one and I won’t find real joy until that happens but I’ve been Christian my whole life and that peace is not yet found. I just don’t get life. I’m kinda just over it but God hasn’t called me home yet so I feel like I’m just wandering.
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2024.05.17 01:19 NondescriptUser415 Unable to pinpoint issue

Yes, I’ve been to therapy. For many years, on and off but to no avail. Well, I can think back to times we’ve discussed personal problems and tendencies ad nauseam but I can’t seem to do the opposite. For example, I know I have an issues maintaining communication with new friends (lost all my old ones) but I have no idea what to say so I end up just racking up the count of lost/alienatedfriends. I also know I’m supposed to be consistent or show up for people but sometimes things just didn’t occur to me or I don’t feel like it. Looking back, that’s literally just life. Not everyone feels like doing things all the same but you do it because that’s what you’re supposed to do. I feel like common sense always escaped me my whole life. Now I’m scared to even make a move.
I’ve always had issues with friends/associating with people. The weird thing is, I look “normal” (please take this the way I mean it because it is what it is). I’m not ugly (although my insecurities tell me I am) but I’m not like some super attractive individual either. I’m normal. So people are not discriminatory to me in any particular way not are they giving me pretty privilege. I make friends easily because I can ask those basic questions and I smile and whatever but I have no idea how to maintain and nurture friendships. Sometimes my depression hits me and I retreat and isolate. New friends/people in general don’t want to listen to negative things like long term depression and I don’t want to talk about it either because they can’t help me anyway. But what are we talking about then? After I ask what’s going on in their lives, it’s like what next? You know that quote about small minds discussing people, average minds discussing events, and great minds discussing ideas? Well, it turns out I have lots of ideas but I don’t take action so all my talk just seems like, well, talk. So I stopped doing that. Aside from asking about people’s previous and upcoming weekend plans, what do you even talk about?
My family is quite recluse and socially inept so I think I get it from there. I also have a tendency to speak negatively and stray into asking/talking about other people. I think it’s cultural but since stopping that I feel like I literally have nothing to say. Unless I’m talking about myself, which I realized I used to do a lot of but I’m trying to be less self centered. Some people get away without talking about themselves at all! How do they do it? Yeah I know the trick to ask others about themselves but it’s not Hoover dam, so to speak, it’s not this endless river of conversational content. Also, some people just don’t want to talk too much about themselves. Then I go into more deep questions and people get annoyed or put off because it feels like I’m prying. I never know the right thing to do or say. Or people talk about plans they have with other people but I feel like all my friends have other closer friends haha so what the heck am I supposed to do.
I really want to get married but I also can’t imagine having to talk to the same people every day. Won’t you run out of things to talk about? Part of me feels I should just create a routine that doesn’t involve other people so I’ll stay busy and not notice how alone I am. It’s weird, in college I could never keep a consistent friend group and even as an adult in religious communities I can’t seem to either. At a certain point, you get too old to be friends less and it’s a major red flag. The sad thing is I long for friends so badly, I stalk other people’s bridesmaids photos and pics that include friendships of ver 15 years or from college and I’m just sad. I wish I had know the rule to just pick your people and stick to them. I would just run out of things to talk about and just switch to the get to know you phase I had mastered. I want to settle down — in friendships and with a partner. At the same time, I give up trying and would rather just scroll on fb or IG and watch other people live their lives. It’s cute! Cute baby, nice wedding, cool pic of sunset. 👍🏽 I personally have been on many hikes, traveled a few places, but how many times can you watch the sunrise? See a beach? Say, “wow, that’s beautiful!”
This post is a bit ranty sorry for not editing down but I’m sick of keeping this all bottled up I’m just sick of waking up and experiencing the same miserable day over and over. I know God is supposed to be my number one and I won’t find real joy until that happens but I’ve been Christian my whole life and that peace is not yet found. I just don’t get life. I’m kinda just over it but God hasn’t called me home yet so I feel like I’m just wandering.
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2024.05.17 00:40 Ordinary_Love3076 Ex’s that won’t stop

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2024.05.16 23:35 guccicleanmoney Fix this crap

Fix this crap
Asus please fix this machine this is the 3 time in one month going to Best Buy for a check up because the dam machine breaks easily. The software breaks easily. WARNING SAVE YOUR MONEY DONT BUT
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2024.05.16 22:19 JasonIsFishing of a majestic onion

of a majestic onion
In my 51 years on earth I have never seen an onion and said “Dam. I gotta have that onion” until this very day. For scale the other (inadequate) onions are large, but pale in comparison to my 8” onion.
I actually hate onions, just not THIS onion.
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2024.05.16 22:15 FuzzyStay1286 No clue where to ask these questions

When you’re about to ejaculate do you internally clench your pelvic floor as if doing kegel exercises? Like do you hold the dam as long as you can or just go when it’s ready? Does this improve the quality of the orgasm and is it safe to hold it? How would you rate the quality of your orgasms scale of 1-10? Do you think your status as circumcised or not circumcised impacts the experience? Do you think your emotions are a big factor, or the emotional connection between you and who you’re with? Is there anything a partner has shown you that consistently improved the quality of future orgasms?
I feel like there’s this stigma that all men ejaculate so easily and so pleasurably that there’s no point in discussing these things but I am damn curious. I rate my orgasms like 6/10 but I’ve had occasions that were 9 or 10 and some that were closer to 2. I want to know what I can be doing mechanically to improve results.
If there’s a better sub for this please let me know.
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