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2011.06.21 12:42 noriyasuu Birds with Arms

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2019.09.10 13:14 nixioduda GRAMBADDIES

For Baddies from IG. Post should include the IG username between ( & ). Like: "Her Name (@username)" in the title.
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2024.05.19 05:20 ominous_oxide I’m gonna go on my first date ever.

I’m a little bit activated right now, so bear with me here.
for context, im about half way through high school. so I met this guy a little while ago. i think there was chemistry from the start, but we’re both a little awkward and everyone was shy about it. we’ve been hanging out all the time, i love being with him and i’ve been told vice versa. He’s told me a lot, and i’ve told him a lot. what im saying is that we definitely know each other pretty well.
We hung out today, and tonight, just now, he sent me a text message about how he had feelings and he was confused and wanted to know what we are. I obviously reciprocated positively, and the conversation went really well. then it was like, what now? I’m super super nervous. Do we just hang out like usual or whatever? I really want him, but don’t think either of us have even had our first kisses. so I’m a bit anxious about how to proceed. What do I do? usually our meet ups are just walking around the city all day. I was thinking a movie or something, since we’re both really into that, but I also want to be able to hang out in private. that would be really good.
so any tips, tricks or guidance would be great since im really stuck and nervous and a bit unsure.
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2024.05.19 05:20 lawlieted I’m in need for $500

Apart from my normal use on Reddit, my personal life it’s been tripped over my mom’s health problems. She’s been diagnosed for breast cancer couple of months ago and I’m the only legal guardian of her. I’m working 60h per week and saving the most I can, but dealing with transportation to the hospital, food expenses, medical expenses it’s not been easy and actually becoming very demanding. I’m basing $500 on the most urgent expenses from April that are still on debt.
Due to that, I’ve made the decision of asking for help on Reddit: you can donate $5, $10, anything will be of greater help, I’m sure of it.
My PayPal account for donation: jjadellima@outlook.com
If you want more information or even confirmations of the situation, just text me and I can explain furthermore. Thank you for your time.
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2024.05.19 05:20 simpnati0n Getting over a Jerk

About a month ago, my 18(M) boyfriend broke up with me and it was very amicable. We didn't fight or argue over the break up as I had felt the same way. Throughout the three weeks after our break up, he would continue to text me that he misses me and would ask if I missed him, of course I did. We ended up deciding that we should stay friends with benefits and I felt fine with that. He would text me every week asking if we could see each other, asking when the next time I'll be free was. I finally set a date and it was supposed to be this Thursday. I forgot all about it as I had an exam on Thursday and afterschool he got upset that I didn't follow through with my plan. I told him that we can see on Friday but I'll need to confirm it first with my friends as I also had plans with them. I took a nap before I could confirm it with my friends and when I woke up 6 hours later, I texted him saying the plans were a go.
He texted me back and said, "I messed up." Turns out, he slept with his co-worker because over the 6 hours I was not texting him about the plans, he thought I had lost interest and he said it, "happened out of nowhere." Of course, I called him out on his BS saying how it can't possibly "happen out of nowhere," but now, I feel so hurt. We weren't even dating but it felt like I was cheated on. He apologized numerous times over and my people-pleasing heart kept reassuring him that it was okay and I understood that he was sorry. I slept on it and I realized in the morning how disrespected I feel.
The fact that HE was the one to break up with me, HE was the one who CONTINUOUSLY reached out to me asking to see me and saying how he missed me--mind you, I only texted him first once throughout our three weeks of being apart, he was the one always initiating conversation and I'd have to remind him that HE set a no-contact boundary. Note, the no-contact boundary was that we'd only dm each other if we had something dire to tell the other person or we were looking for a hookup. He consistently said how he feels like he would never get over me and it'll take him some time to move on. Yet, he threw all that away in 6 hours when I was asleep and didn't reassure him that I wanted him.
My friends and family all disliked this guy, they said how he wasn't good to me and I continuously defended him. I always said how he's not the "jerk" that everyone thinks he is but I'm starting to realize that maybe I was blind to it all. He treated me so amazingly when we were together but now that we're apart, I've felt like nothing but a piece of flesh for him. I've texted him earlier and I think I'm going to end everything with him, unfollow him on everything, no-contact fully for real this time. I miss him, I really do and I'm doing all this so I can move on, I can't stop thinking about him having this affair with his co-worker. I keep asking, "was she prettier than me? What does she have that I didn't, what drew him in to her." I just feel so betrayed and disrespected. I feel like I should've stuck to no-contact in the beginning.
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2024.05.19 05:19 JohnDShunt Facebook is recommending me random women...

Okay so Im a 28m that has had Facebook for like 11 years. Never really used it, other than to add people for messenger.
Recently (last week or so). Facebook has begun recommending me random women, like actual phone notifications that are popping up.
The first was someone i have no mutuals, and just lives nearby. Was the first notification i had gotten for this. Found it odd and ignored it.
The SECOND is a big deal to me, cause its a woman I had a crush on, last i spoke with this woman was over a year ago, she was in a relat at the time, and i havent seen her since.
I just have no clue why it would recommend her to me, we have a few mutuals, but i have never searched her profile, mentioned her on my phone in text messages, nothing.
I am the type in life to overthink EVERYTHING, so my only assumption here is that this woman has checked my FB profile recently, and FB is being weird and sending me a notification telling me to add her? (Facebook you wing man you).
But i have no clue if it works like this. Why i got the first suggestion, and if I'm just nuts and FB is just being random.
So, the few questions i guess are...
  1. Why is facebook suddenly popping up with phone notifications to random people
  2. Is it truly "random" or does it have something to do with searching peoples profiles?
  3. Am i just overthinking something stupid and ignore it
  4. Do i just add? 🤔 this woman has never shown any interest in me, was last in a relat, have 0 way of finding out if thats changed, and dont want to seem like a creep by all of a sudden adding her...
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2024.05.19 05:18 Active_Parsley558 Was I just never attached to her?

I (24M) broke up with my girlfriend (22F) yesterday. It was a good 6-7 months but I was constantly doubting my every step, my every emotion, my love for her, my love for her beauty. We'd be having sex and after it I'd just be happy that it happened, not even that it happened with her. Time spent with her were focused on what we were doing than on her itself. Every now and then I'd look at her face and be like, I don't know if I love her. And I fought with myself on these thoughts daily.
Even after breaking up, all I think about are my anxious moments, my bad days while I was with her. When I think about the happy times, I can't. I think of the day we had, cycling, watching movies, but I don't remember her. I do but I don't want to.
I let my anxiety and thoughts cloud my feelings for her. I was never confident in how I felt and kept doubting myself over and over. When I think of her, all I see are my thoughts about her. How I felt slightly bored hanging out with her, how I usually never thought she was pretty, how I hated texting her on some days. Was I ever attached to her properly?
This didn't feel like love. I don't know what love feels like. But it probably doesn't feel this bad. Where every moment is being doubted, and every action does feel right.
I definitely need to work on myself. But I don't know if I'll ever be able to truly be attached to someone. Even after all the therapy and support, Idk if I'll be able to fully know what I want and accept what I get. I'm already getting therapy but there's a lot of negativity and self hatred to overcome. I'm scared of all this coming back with another person...
How do i stay motivated to get over her and not spiral into my Nihilistic tendencies and lose all meaning to life? I want to be better. I don't know how.
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2024.05.19 05:17 Ok_Coffee2404 I (21m) feel like my girlfriend (23f) is avoiding me on purpose?

Hi everyone! So I (21m) am in a ldr with my girlfriend (23f) for just over 2 years now. We are both med students and she is in her intern year and I'm in my 3rd year. Our communication has always been great and we have regular date nights, sending presents and letter to each other and have agreed to meet at minimum 3 times a year for no less than 2 weeks.
But recently she has been coming back from work, face timing me and then ending the call early saying that she's overstimulated from work and she needs some alone time. I understand exactly how she feels and realise how draining the hospital can be, especially after an ER shift.
Where my worry lies is that she has begun to go out partying more often and seems to be fine, despite coming back from an overnight shift or long hours. Neither of us enjoy clubbing so we always prefer to do house parties when we get the chance. My issue is that on the days that she feels fine after work, she prefers to go out to her best friends house and the days she feels bad she calls me for 5 minutes and then goes to sleep. Our calling has dropped from around 5-6 hours a week to maybe 20 minutes most. She is coming to visit me in July and she says she's ecstatic on staying at my house and just enjoying us time, but her actions dont reflect that at all. I feel she has begun to care less about us just talking and on some days I won't get a text from her at all despite it being her day off and me still being able to find time on shift to text.
This is my first relationship and I'm scared that these are signs it's coming to an end, could I have people's opinions on this please? Thank you all!
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2024.05.19 05:16 World_X 20M Anyone wanna add me to a vanilla world?

Hello, college student here. I'm about to (hopefully) finish my second semester, and I'm gonna have a lot more free time during vacation! In the meantime, I'll only be able to play during the weekends for the next 2 or 3 weeks.
I'm from Mexico, and I speak Spanish and English! So don't worry about the language barrier. I'm also willing to use text-only, vc-only, none, or a combination of those communication options.
I'd like to play in a non-modded or very softly modded server! As close to vanilla as possible. I wanna build a house, some bridges, a small town, anything to relax and pass the time. I'm not a great builder, but I try to have fun.
I also wanna join in a server with multiple people already, but a 2-player only world would be okay too.
Java would be preferred, but Bedrock is acceptable too, I think.
You can ask for my Discord too so we can communicate over there! That'd be all, have a nice day!
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2024.05.19 05:16 H2O_pete [Request] how long was the foot in 1683 England and what is a half quarter in respect to length

This comes from a 340-year-old book that I’ve been reading. It may seem simple because the text says half-quarter which just sounds like an eighth, yeah I’d be inclined to assume that as well. Unfortunately I have gotten about 100 pages into it and it uses the word eighth for a measurement… much to my dismay. "150 Nonpareil (6pt) to make 1 foot gives 12.5 Nonpareil for an inch, and consequently 25 scabbords for an inch; so by proportion, 15 scabbords and 1/3 part of a scabbords, gives 5/8 part of an inch." so it might not and don’t even get me started on trying to figure out the foot Which I also kind of need to figure that out to figure this out so is greatly appreciated. The text comes from “Moxon’s Mechanick Exercises” which has a table for how many pieces of the of a certain point size fit in a “foot” problem is that the foot is 12.5 modern inches plus or minus 5/16” please I’m at wits end with this godforsaken measurement. it’s the same issue as trying to make something from an old recipe. We don’t know the size of the cups and you don’t know what kind of eggs they were using so when you try to re-create Napoleon’s cake, it doesn’t work. Got a love that standardization, THANK YOU NIST.
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2024.05.19 05:15 No_Albatross_4310 I am sober (curious) and my partner is not.

I started my sober curious journey over a year and a half ago, mostly for mental health reasons. I didn’t drink every day, but I binge drank on the weekends and did a fair amount of party drugs. I am not in AA/NA or anything, though therapy, some reading, and my sobriety app have all really helped. This process began about 2 years into my current relationship. I didn’t ask my partner to get sober with me, because I don’t think that’s a fair ask. I’m doing it for me. We have discussed at length, however, how he can support me by not binge drinking himself (we are in our 30s) or doing hard drugs. Having drinks with dinner or out with friends is of course fine. Even getting tipsy or drunk at a wedding, for example, would be reasonable. But he sometimes can take it to another level. And on a few occasions (maybe 10 in the 1.5 years) after these expectations were agreed upon and reiterated he’s done coke or Molly or gotten fully wasted, both in my presence and absence. I have tried setting boundaries - choosing to stay home or drive separately so I can leave when I want to - but this often means that he goes overboard. I’m not there, so no, I don’t actually know. But if what I see in person - and know him to be as a person - is any indication, I can only imagine what goes on. And many times he’s not come home because he says he fell asleep at a friends house. Which, okay, yes, please don’t drive. But why are you passing out or even not calling me to say you’re spending the night? I know where he is and that he’s safe, but communication would be appreciated. And if you’re not even considering the courtesy of a text, then you’re too far gone to be thinking straight. Maybe that’s just an assumption on my part…
My question is, are my expectations unfair? He says he’s done with the party scene and wants to live a healthier life, and again, it doesn’t happen all the time. But it is essentially a recurring pattern of disappointment, minimizing, arguing, and generally feeling unsupported. And I just have a hard time trusting him because unfortunately there have been times when he lied. Is this going to work long term? I suppose it’s for me to decide if I can live with it. But it’d be helpful to hear from people in similar partnerships. What language or boundaries did you practice to make it fair, not controlling. I don’t want to control him, I just want to grow and improve our lives together.
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2024.05.19 05:15 janKalaki [TOMT][MOBILE GAME][Early 2010s] An air traffic control game on earlier iOS versions that was not Flight Control

Back in the early 2010s, I remember playing a game on iOS that allowed you to play as an air traffic controller. It was not Flight Control, Planes Control, or any other clone. I remember that it had more realistic graphics and text-to-speech voices, and it was played in portrait mode. There were distinct levels... unlike Flight Control, I'm pretty sure the airport itself stayed the same throughout the levels. Instead, features would progressively unlock. For example, there was a level that had the system error out occasionally and prevent planes from being managed, as an extra challenge. I think it was pretty obscure as I can't find any results online.
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2024.05.19 05:15 Desperate-Vanilla577 RayGUI not loading correct styles

RayGUI not loading correct styles
Hello everyone,
I am trying to use the "cyber" style using the rgs file using
GuiLoadStyle("../assets/style_cyber.rgs"); 
Here is how Buttons look
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And here is how it is in the screenshots on github
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There is no border, no box, The text looks very close to each other. How can I load it correctly?
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2024.05.19 05:15 tiffanyblewws AITA for sending my coworker pictures of our empty plates after my friends and i left her at work?

i (24 f) and my two friends, brenna 25f and gage 26 m, work at a sales firm alongside our coworker (25 f) who we'll call rachel. rachel, for as long as i remember, has always been one of the most miserable and insufferable people i have ever had the displeasure of meeting. a few weeks ago, gage, brenna and i were gossiping in the break room when he sat us down and revealed he was gay and had been sleeping with another one of our coworkers for a few months now. cut to last night, our boss threw the office a work party. while we were, all three of us made plans to get food at a local restaurant afterwards. i guess rachel overheard our conversation and asked if she could join. without wanting to start anything, we agreed. not 15 minutes later, the coworker gage was sleeping with pulled him aside to talk. gage returned in tears, asking if we could leave for dinner early, and without rachel. apparently, rachel had been eavesdropping on our conversation in the break room and brought it up to not only the coworker, but multiple other people in the office, including our boss. as soon as gage explained this, we immediately left, making sure she didnt see us. after a good while at the restaurant, i received a text from rachel, asking about where we were. now, ill admit, we had been drinking a bit since we were eating at a sports bar type place, so i just straight up told her we wer v already at the restaurant. she then asked if there was still time for her to meet us, to which i sent a picture of our empty plates and said, "you tell me." we got no response. i went home that night and went to sleep not thinking too much about it, but i woke up this morning to a surplus of texts from our other coworkers telling me that rachel told them everything and we "seriously took things too far." and that we should have handled things professionally but i thought that one text was seriously nothing compared to what she did to gage. am i justified in sending one petty text message?
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2024.05.19 05:14 thedudear Just Completed a 3x 3090 Build

Just Completed a 3x 3090 Build
The Build:
  • Intel i9 9820x w/ Corsair H150 3x120 AIO
  • 128 GB DDR4 3600 MHz
  • Asus X299 Deluxe II
  • Various SSD's and NVME drives (I always load models from an NVME when possible!)
  • 3x RTX 3090 - 2 Dell OEM, 1 ASUS AORUS - All on air cooling (Going to water imminently)
  • Corsair HX1500 PSU
I've had this third RTX 3090 sitting around a little bit, problem is its a gargantuan card, essentially 4 slot cooler, and won't fit alongside 2x Dell 3090s which work so well together. So today I ran to the shop and grabbed a Define 7 XL case (Formerly had a Define 6), a Corsair HX 1500W psu (clearance for 220 CAD) and a PCIE riser kit. I knew I wasn't fitting 10 slots worth of GPU's into this case, but I had a pretty good idea how I would jank this thing in.
The PCIE riser (AVA Bracket/Riser kit) came with a handy bracket to vertically mount the GPU. Thankfully, the hole spacing is 140mm, and the R7 XL case has a 140mm fan mount at the back. Initially I intended on mounting the card to a fan which would be sandwiched between the GPU bracket and the case using some machine screws to hopefully transfer some stress to the case, instead of through the plastic fan. However, this shifted the placement of the card a little to close to the motherboard, and the PCIE riser wouldn't reach the 2nd slot on the motherboard, so I had to mount the GPU bracket directly to the case (which can be about an inch further from the motherboard). Unfortunately, this means most of the GPU heat is exhausting through the CPU AIO radiator, absent a 140mm fan exhausting perpendicular to the AIO. I might think about this some more and possibly use the AIO as intake supplemented with a few 140mm fans taking fresh cool air in with 3x 140mm fans exhausting. Or just go all water with 2x 420 mm radiators and 1x 280mm. Surprisingly, the pci-e riser going over the top dell card doesn't hurt cooling too much. It's sitting at 92C @ 100% TDP, vs 87C for the bottom card. I expected worse.
First benchmark wasn't even in fact an LLM, but a hash cat benchmark. MD5 performance is 210 GH/s. Phew. On a sustained load, the two Dell GPU's reach about 89C and 92C (hot spot) while the Asus card reaches 105C and thermally throttles to about 85% TDP. I suspect this is because I didn't replace the thermal pads when I swapped the water block back to the air cooler (it came with the stock air cooler, but a water block was installed). Something to look at doing when I go water cooling.
My current project is a custom-rag utility that can take a number of user-uploaded documents they can assign to an "expert". The utility will create a dataset and FAISS index for the assigned files and various "experts" can be turned on and off by the user to ensure relevant retrieval and generation, yet with broad knowledge should the user desire. Perhaps the framework can even handle which datasets to search in the future. I'm presently using DPR for passage retrieval but may look at other options. I've read things mentioning Langchain but haven't yet investigated. Llama 3 8B instruct is the current generator (I didn't mess around too much with quants of other 34b models or larger just yet) because it just seems to work and is great for testing; it loads quickly enough and generates a decent response. I'm fairly new to the world of LLM's and AI/ML as a whole, but I'm absolutely blown away with the progress made in the past 12 months. It's become my new hobby.
Why did I opt for a 3rd 3090? Hopefully to generate with command-r+ in 8bit, of course!
Any thoughts for models you would try first? Custom-rag app advice? Benchmark suggestions? Critique on the build or suggestions for improving airflow? Lets hear it.
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2024.05.19 05:14 ratchetmulan Received a traffic penalty text message from this number

Received a traffic penalty text message from this number
I've been receiving these kinds of scam texts for a while now. The funny part is, wala naman akong kotse to start with! НАНАНАНА
Be vigilant lang po guys sa mga may cars, don't click sketchy links!
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2024.05.19 05:13 rosie_avy CAN Y’ALL HELP ME !

iphone users: so i was ghosted about a week ago and blocked on imessages. but while i was blocked i texted him a couple times. i sent him one text the day i was ghosted and then another text a few days later, just as a coping mechanism i guess because it was my understanding that he would never be able to see those texts. i check today and it said “read yesterday” under only the first text i sent him, not the one i texted a few days after. it didn’t say that before it just said delivered. does this mean he unblocked me? why does it say he only read one message and not the most recent one? everything on google says if you text someone while you’re blocked then they won’t see the message!
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2024.05.19 05:13 abuchewbacca1995 Girl texts me as soon as she made it to her car she had a great night and thank you for a great time. Good sign or am I reading too deep into it?

Basically what the title says. I dropped her off at her car (city) and she almost instantly texted me this. Good sign or am I over reading ?
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2024.05.19 05:13 just_me_i_dont_know_ I can't tell what is going on.

I think I just need to rant so bear with me for a second. I have a best friend, let's call her Tay. I've been friends with Tay for the past 3 years, but we have recently gotten really close. When I say really close, I mean really close. Me and Tay have gone through so much together, but we always seem to be able to push through. We are a part of a bigger friend group, but they all know that me and her are tight. I mean at every sleepover we have with the whole friend group me, and Tay end up cuddling and going to bed early and then waking up when everyone is sleeping to just talk.
In our entire 3 years of being friends we've have had three fights (yes this is important to the main point of the story), the first one being about a guy, which was quickly resolved, the second one being something so stupidly stupid I can't even express how dumb it was because that would take up more of this post, but the third is unknown. I say unknown because I am going through it now.
I must add some background to our second fight though because this had just happened two or three weeks ago. This fight we had resolved and kind of gotten over it, but the timing was all messed up because two weeks of AP testing gotten into our way. We haven't been able to talk as much or hangout because we are too busy studying or reading.
On the rare occasion we were able to talk, it has been rather weird. For example, I try to meet with my friends after school for at least 30 min. It is always rare when she comes because she always goes to some other classroom but when she does, we (as a group) always talk. This week has been different. She has been talking less but still engaging and a few other things that I can't really describe over text. Anyways I have noticed that it has been hard trying to make a conversation with her that she wants to hold, with me. But at another time, I met her at the end of a hard test, and she gave me the biggest hug and was like I am happy you are here. I am getting sent very mixed emotions right now.
Two days ago, I had gotten a text from her wanting to call me because she wanted to talk, and I said yes but she never called me. More context to this text chain. She asked me if she could call me in a few minutes. I said yes, and she responded in heart emojis and saying how much she wanted to hug me. Granted she did text me the next day saying that she accidently fell asleep, but she promised to call me that night also and never did. This time she didn't give me an excuse. Anyways that following day after she had apologized for not calling me, we walked to a class together. We always walk to that specific class together. I wanted to know what was up so I said. "So, what did you want to call me about." She asked if I was skipping a class later. And I said yes, and she said she would talk with me then. But she never texted me to meet her anywhere.
I don't think I can express how much I miss her. She is truly my other half. I also can't say I'm feeling better about it because it is the weekend because the friend group, are at a school trip together and I am unable to be there. She is there too, and she looks like she is happy. The thing is I don't know if she would be just as happy if I was there with her and with the whole group. I don't need advice because I know I need to talk to her, but I just don't know what is up with her.
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2024.05.19 05:13 Infinite_Thanks1914 AITAH for making my younger sister a google account?

I’m the oldest child with 3 younger siblings. My 11 year old sister uses a lot of my accounts because she doesn’t have her own and I don’t mind. She uses my google/gmail account for lots of things including to video chat with her friends who don’t have iphones on google meet. She got a new phone recently so she had to redownload the app. She asked me for the gmail and password so she could log back in. For whatever reason it wasn’t working so I decided to make her own under her name and phone number.
A few days later my mom had her phone and saw she had her own account, was video calling and texting friends,etc and was furious about it. She confronted my sister and my sister told her I made it for her. I woke up to my mom blowing up my phone and a plethora of texts. She said very unnecessary and hurtful things. She said if my sister ever gets kidnapped it would be my fault. That i’m trying to make her “sneaky” and don’t care about her. Brought up past things i’ve done in my childhood. There was lots of cussing and name calling. The worst thing she said was that i’ll be a terrible mother and shouldn’t have kids because I clearly don’t know how to raise them. That would’ve been hurtful at any point but it stung a lot worse because i’m currently 5 months pregnant with my first child. I literally broke down I was honestly extremely shocked she said all of that simply because I made her a gmail account.
I also still had access to the account and password and could see everything my sister was doing on it. I trust my sister and I knew she wasn’t doing anything bad we’re very close she tells me everything. I told my mom she could have the email and password so she could see everything she’s doing from her own phone and this was in no way a secret. I never told her because I didn’t think it was a big deal. I even offered to permanently delete the google account.
Other family members say i’m the AH for crossing a boundary even though I didn’t know it was in place and her reaction was warranted. They think I should apologize. I understand the concern and I take accountability for not asking her if it was okay beforehand. But, instead of calmly explaining like an adult that she doesn’t want her to have her own accounts to certain things she threw hurtful words and insults at me and I think i’m also owed an apology. She feels she did no wrong at all for how she reacted.
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