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2018.02.18 15:59 MrDubstepz Recovering as one after infidelity
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2024.05.06 02:15 babypengui AWTA for not wanting to tell my dad’s family where his ashes are?
Hi, I (20F) know how it sound but I’m gonna give you a little bit of context, I’m from Mexico city, I’ve been living in the center of the city since I was 1yo with my family (brother (22M) and parents), when I was born we used to live in the south zone of the city, my parents had lived there forever, that’s how they met. We moved because my great grandfather gave my mom an apartment in a nicer area near her mom (my grandma), since I can remember I didn’t like going where my dad’s family, he has nine brothers and sisters and each of them has their own children, so I have like 10 cousins, I didn’t get along with them like my brother, they (aunts/uncles/cousins) always told my dad that we felt “superior” for living in a nicer zone and leaving. I had the privilege to go to a private school, take english lessons, etc… which they didn’t, I can’t confirm if it was envy, but my mom and dad felt it was, my dad(57) was a hardworking man since always, and my mom(49) worked and still does, hard as well, so thanks to them and my grandparents (my moms parents) me and my brother had a privileged life. Fast forward to 2021 my parents split up but NEVER GOT DIVORCED, while he looked for an apartment to rent he went to live with his mom for a while, then it happened, in December 2021 I suddenly lost my dad, he was playing football and his heart stopped. I wish that was the worst part but his family, specially his mom, his younger sister Darla and one brother Robert (who i’ve never seen until the funeral ) made us go through hell and back. Starting with the fact that Darla, told everyone that the ashes should go with his mom, because “he knew mother first”, ignoring me and my brother, another one of my dad sisters, we’ll call her Betty told her that doing that was wrong as he already had a family on his own, they took advantage of our pain and manipulated us saying that it was just for a while, until their mom calmed down as she already lost another son years back. We understood that, as Betty and another one of his sisters, we’ll call this one Sally, PROMISED us that we were going to have mi dads ashes by his birthday (january 25), spoiler:that didn’t happen. Two days after my dads funeral me and my brother went to his moms house to get my dads car, there were two of his brothers, Robert and Gerard, their mom and the son of Gerard, she welcomed us bye saying that it was our choice to stay or not in touch, she wasn’t going to look for us or anything like that, Gerard told us that my dad was extremely sad because of my mom (which isn’t true, they had contact with each other and still went out on dates, I’m sure that if my dad hadn’t passed away, they would’ve been together again by now), any of that was tolerable until Robert got out of the kitchen and started yelling at us saying that our mom was a coward by calling another uncle to ask him if he could came with us for the car, to avoid conflict or anything, which happened. Btw the old lady hated my mom and every woman who dated or married her sons, back to the story, Robert kept yelling at us offending our mom, he tried to shut my brother up and ended up telling his name wrong, proving that he didn’t even know us, the old lady just stood there while his son attacked us, I left the place on tears, I just lost my dad i didn’t need that, we went to another’s uncles house and told him what just happened, he told us he was confused and mad, and apologised for his mother and brother. I forgot to add that even my dad didn’t like to be there, he just hadn’t found an accessible place to rent, he always fought with his mom and his adict brother who didn’t do poop, my mom was waiting until christmas to ask him to move back with us. Back to the ashes, as I said they didn’t give us the ashes back, and they never did, or that’s what they think… On April 2022 my mom got home and told us that sadly the crazy lady (my dads mom) had already put the ashes in a graveyard with her family and didn’t even informed us, not even her sons, just Darla and the addict, that’s how Betty found out, she didn’t see the ashes on the shelf and asked him (he can’t speak consequence of an overdose btw), making him explaining what happened. She then called my mom and my mom told us, we didn’t know what to do, or how could they do that without the papers we had to do that, but we forgot they with money the dog dances (mexican slang), my brother and I didn’t want to go there as we were so mad, Betty asked my mom to join her and his brother to visit my dad, my mom arrived to the graveyard first so she asked how and they basically responded what i just said “with money the dog dances” adding the question “do you want them back?” (obviously they wanted money) and in a fast move my mom agreed but told them to get them after my dads family left. They did the transaction haha, put everything back to place so it seemed like he was still there, told her to don’t say a thing, and left. We put my dad in a church near my house, nobody knows except from my mom, my brother, my grandparents and me, sometimes i feel bad for my dad’s siblings, i see how they post on fb the place where he supposedly is, i think that they and their fear for their mother caused all of these, they never apologised, even kept my dads clothes and belongings without saying a word to us, for me they aren’t my family, just people related to my dad, who we believe would understand our actions 100%, we also don’t want to say anything to anyone of his sibling trying to avoid the old lady to have a heart issue or something. So AWTA for not wanting to tell them where my dad’s ashes are?
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2024.05.06 02:14 krmaml Question for those who say men shouldn't worry about a woman's high body count when seriously dating/marrying
Common advice and encouragement Bluepill gives to inexperienced men seeking serious relationships and marriage is to not worry about a woman's high body count, as she will be great in bed, teach him new things, and their sex life would be great.
But does experience necessarily equal desire?
If you're an experienced woman marrying an inexperienced man who never got laid much, its likely because he's the stable, loyal, provider, family man type. Not because he's your physical type - the type you enjoyed hookups and casual sex with. You're most likely settling for him and compromising on sexual/physical attraction.
In this case, isn't it better and a safer option for the inexperienced man to avoid high body count women and stick to relatively inexperienced women?
At least with the inexperienced woman there is the possibility of exploring/discovering sex together, and avoid the unfavorable comparisons and disdain an experienced woman will hold against him.
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But does experience necessarily equal desire?
If you're an experienced woman marrying an inexperienced man who never got laid much, its likely because he's the stable, loyal, provider, family man type. Not because he's your physical type - the type you enjoyed hookups and casual sex with. You're most likely settling for him and compromising on sexual/physical attraction.
In this case, isn't it better and a safer option for the inexperienced man to avoid high body count women and stick to relatively inexperienced women?
At least with the inexperienced woman there is the possibility of exploring/discovering sex together, and avoid the unfavorable comparisons and disdain an experienced woman will hold against him.
2024.05.06 02:13 Ur_Anemone I signed up to a dating course that teaches women to financially manipulate men
 | …This movement is undeniably full of contradictions. “On the one hand, some of the ideas around being a ‘high-value’ woman seem to be quite positive: encouraging self-worth, competence and self-esteem,” says Harriet Fletcher, a lecturer in media and communication at Anglia Ruskin University. “But then it seems to unravel when you look in more detail.” submitted by Ur_Anemone to afterAWDTSG [link] [comments] Fletcher worries that the focus on economic language is objectifying. “It seems to just reinforce and reward traditional gender roles and tap into the narrative around a lot of men’s rights movements,” she says. “It is a very essentialist view of gender.” Still, we shouldn’t be surprised that the “high-value” woman has become an attractive proposition for young women. “We are living in a time of conservatism,” says Fletcher. “Economically and politically. There is such an emphasis on status and living a life that is ‘high value’. Naturally, this will impact gender roles. It will impact people’s perceptions of themselves and their self-esteem.” The “girl-boss” era could also be to blame. “Millennials and Gen Z are so economically disadvantaged. Rent is unaffordable and wages are not increasing. So perhaps this is a way for women to gain control of their lives. Instead of trying to be ‘girl-boss’ at work, dating is becoming more like a job,” she says. “Taking on the persona of someone who is ‘high value’, and kind of trying to push for that lifestyle, is a way to try to gain some control over an unstable economic situation.” For Julianna, the motivations are simple. “Women don’t want to date broke men anymore. On social media, especially TikTok, girls are seeing more and more women who are dating ‘high-value’ men.” She adds: “In the current climate, with inflation and the cost of living crisis, everyone just wants to have a happy life without having to worry about money. So when it comes to dating, a lot of women are starting to wonder: ‘If I could meet a rich man, maybe life might be amazing.’”… |
2024.05.06 02:12 Fghaaaaaaghgghhfdhhh My (M?25) partner (F23) of three years broke up with me to explore her sexuality with women.
At face value I can’t really fault her. She never had the chance to get to know that side of herself when she was younger. She would have resented me if I prevented her from discovering that part of herself. Idk.
When I was in high school, I fell in love with one of my friends at around the same time that I started questioning my gender. It was easier to be a guy in relation to a girl, so I didn’t really feel a meed to do anything until she got with one of our mutual female friends.
I was so jealous. It ate at me. All I wanted was to be a woman and share my love with a woman, and I felt so fraudulent and abandoned. It wasn’t their fault, but my feelings got so twisted up in things. I feel disgusting saying it, afraid I’m the monstrosity that everyone is saying trans women are nowadays - the predatory man - but it’s what I felt: envious and hollow. I felt split in half that I might never know that kind of love.
I ended up coming out, living for awhile as a woman, trying to be the person with the life I had wanted. Idk. It never really came together. I never felt accepted or seen. I struggled uselessly to unlearn the wars I had carried myself as a guy. I still felt fraudulent. I couldn’t take it. I detransitioned, reasoned that my gender performance was just that, a performance, and that I could figure out some version of myself who was happy with whatever performance I could muster.
Then I met her. She knew me before, when I was a woman, and I guess that piqued some interest. We connected so closely. I didn’t feel like I was a man to her: I felt like I was a person, and somehow that made me comfortable, really for the first time, playing a man.
I shouldn’t have done it, shouldn’t have needed to, but she became the central piece of my life. I was never a bum, but I had it in me to turn into one until she needed more from me. I went back to school, we did distance for a year while I got my degree. I was going to marry her. Fuck, she was going to marry me.
And now… gone. She said it was no fault of my own - I guess that might not be true, but I have no choice but to believe it. I wasn’t perfect by any means, but I figure there wasn’t anything I could do about this particular issue. Still . . . All my plans for the future, gone. I can’t stay in my home state - everything here reminds me of her - I can’t go to her state where I thought I was going either. I’m completely blind-sided. Everything’s rubble, and I’m just crushed.
I hope to Christ she doesn’t see this, because there’s no way she wouldn’t recognize it. I love her to death, she’s a good person. But I feel so unseen. I feel like I keep living the same ridiculous scenario to increasing degrees, and I don’t know who I am, and the person I thought really recognized me didn’t see me at all, just looked right through me for three years and came away unsatisfied with the shape of the man I never asked or wanted to be.
This is just a useless pity party, a cry into the void. I get that. But how the fuck does this happen? How did she manage to accidentally break up with me while I was coming down off LSD? How is it that this is the month my therapist is indefinitely incapacitated by a sinus infection? How is it fucking possible that this happens two months before everyone I know in this godforsaken little college town graduates, and how is it that I have to spend the next fucking year bouncing around between clinical placements that I’d already requested to be near her?
I can’t pretend to know exactly, but I feel like I’ve felt some part of how she feels. I know what it’s like to want to be with a woman in that way, to fear you’ll never get to. I feel left behind.
It’s hard to imagine anyone listening to this amount of baggage in real life. I meet so few people nowadays. It’s a harming, useless thing to think or to articulate, but I’m so afraid that I’m just all used up now.
I hope everything goes well for her, and I know it’ll work out for my part, eventually. I can’t see it. It just has to.
Please be kind: don’t be bi- or trans- or generally homo-phobic. Don’t say anything about her, and please don’t be cruel to me. I just need to be heard right now.
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When I was in high school, I fell in love with one of my friends at around the same time that I started questioning my gender. It was easier to be a guy in relation to a girl, so I didn’t really feel a meed to do anything until she got with one of our mutual female friends.
I was so jealous. It ate at me. All I wanted was to be a woman and share my love with a woman, and I felt so fraudulent and abandoned. It wasn’t their fault, but my feelings got so twisted up in things. I feel disgusting saying it, afraid I’m the monstrosity that everyone is saying trans women are nowadays - the predatory man - but it’s what I felt: envious and hollow. I felt split in half that I might never know that kind of love.
I ended up coming out, living for awhile as a woman, trying to be the person with the life I had wanted. Idk. It never really came together. I never felt accepted or seen. I struggled uselessly to unlearn the wars I had carried myself as a guy. I still felt fraudulent. I couldn’t take it. I detransitioned, reasoned that my gender performance was just that, a performance, and that I could figure out some version of myself who was happy with whatever performance I could muster.
Then I met her. She knew me before, when I was a woman, and I guess that piqued some interest. We connected so closely. I didn’t feel like I was a man to her: I felt like I was a person, and somehow that made me comfortable, really for the first time, playing a man.
I shouldn’t have done it, shouldn’t have needed to, but she became the central piece of my life. I was never a bum, but I had it in me to turn into one until she needed more from me. I went back to school, we did distance for a year while I got my degree. I was going to marry her. Fuck, she was going to marry me.
And now… gone. She said it was no fault of my own - I guess that might not be true, but I have no choice but to believe it. I wasn’t perfect by any means, but I figure there wasn’t anything I could do about this particular issue. Still . . . All my plans for the future, gone. I can’t stay in my home state - everything here reminds me of her - I can’t go to her state where I thought I was going either. I’m completely blind-sided. Everything’s rubble, and I’m just crushed.
I hope to Christ she doesn’t see this, because there’s no way she wouldn’t recognize it. I love her to death, she’s a good person. But I feel so unseen. I feel like I keep living the same ridiculous scenario to increasing degrees, and I don’t know who I am, and the person I thought really recognized me didn’t see me at all, just looked right through me for three years and came away unsatisfied with the shape of the man I never asked or wanted to be.
This is just a useless pity party, a cry into the void. I get that. But how the fuck does this happen? How did she manage to accidentally break up with me while I was coming down off LSD? How is it that this is the month my therapist is indefinitely incapacitated by a sinus infection? How is it fucking possible that this happens two months before everyone I know in this godforsaken little college town graduates, and how is it that I have to spend the next fucking year bouncing around between clinical placements that I’d already requested to be near her?
I can’t pretend to know exactly, but I feel like I’ve felt some part of how she feels. I know what it’s like to want to be with a woman in that way, to fear you’ll never get to. I feel left behind.
It’s hard to imagine anyone listening to this amount of baggage in real life. I meet so few people nowadays. It’s a harming, useless thing to think or to articulate, but I’m so afraid that I’m just all used up now.
I hope everything goes well for her, and I know it’ll work out for my part, eventually. I can’t see it. It just has to.
Please be kind: don’t be bi- or trans- or generally homo-phobic. Don’t say anything about her, and please don’t be cruel to me. I just need to be heard right now.
2024.05.06 02:11 EpicShadows8 I’ve really been struggling lately with “faith”
Hey all,
I’ll probably delete this but I really just have to get it off my chest and see what people say and if you can provide support or encouragement I’d love to hear it.
Lately I’ve been feeling like God had checked out of my life I feel like no one is home.
I was recently dumped because I asked the girl I was seeing to attend church with me. I really only asked her to attend church with me because I just had surgery and needed a ride.
I’ve been single for a long time probably about 5 years before I met this girl. She said she was a Christian but doesn’t like going to church just due to past experiences. I honestly can’t blame people who say this because I’ve been there too. Even the church I go to now I feel like it’s filled with a bunch of fake people and hypocrites.
For example I was struggling with the break up and just how it all ended I won’t go into too much detail. I submitted a prayer request basically all in my feelings. It took about a week and a half for someone to reach out. I was just asking for prayers for my surgery and just in general. The taking the week to reach out wasn’t even an issue. The pastor under the lead pastor offered to take me to lunch but honestly I felt like he was just doing that to check a box off his list dude couldn’t wait to leave.
What really got me is I went to church today in my splint from surgery and the lead pastor asked me “oh what happened”? Like he couldn’t even bother to read my prayer request. This wouldn’t be the first time this happened.
Then I just feel like I pray and pray and pray for God to bring other like minded people into my life and for him to bring someone into my life to build a life with. I know yall will say “God isn’t in the matchmaking business” or “that’s not why we pray”. I’ll be honest I struggle with this. I know all glory goes to God but man doesn’t it feel like it’s a one sided deal. Yes I know the price Jesus paid is more than anything I could ever offer.
As a millennial I know our generation is struggle with loneliness and I am definitely struggling with that. I started going to church again to surround myself with other Christian but I can say I feel more alone today than I did when I wasn’t going to church.
I don’t know what to do at this point. In my early 30s and I just wonder how I’m going to go another 40-50 years just hoping that one day I’ll be blessed. I get told “focus on Christ” okay but why isn’t Christ focused on bringing us together? The world seems to be departing from Christ everyday. Christians are mocked and ridiculed.
Then when someone like me is struggling to find meaning to what all this means, there is no one to ask or go to. When I pray I don’t hear God. Then you’ll be told read the word. Okay, even when I read the Bible I still struggle to understand the meaning or find the words that speak to me.
Idk where I’m going with this to be honest idk where I’m going with life. I feel like I’ve been abandoned. We’re told “call on the name of Jesus he will never leave you or forsake you” but I feel like I’ve been left behind. I feel like there is no one for me out there. We’re not meant to live this life alone but do I feel so alone.
Don’t get me wrong I’m definitely blessed in certain ways and I try to focus on those blessings but all my heart wants is to be with someone who is like minded and wants to build a relationship together. But I go on these dating apps and 80-90% of the woman on there are atheist or agnostic. I go to church and I just see couples, happy with their kids, this eats me alive. I feel stuck and like I’ll never have that.
What am I doing wrong. Am I not praying enough, am I not fasting enough, am I not reading my Bible enough? I’ve fasted to the point of pure exhaustion. I’ve stopped all things that would be “blocking my blessings” I don’t drink, I gave up smoking. I truly don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I cut off all the people in my life that were pulling me away from God. Leaving me with no friends.
It’s getting hard to force myself to pretend to be happy, to walk into church and put a fake smile on my face, to act like it’s all good when it’s not. I know y’all will probably bash this post but honestly this is the only place I feel like I can just let this out.
I don’t know each day that passes, each month, each year, I feel like it becomes harder and harder.
If you have any advice I’m all ears, if you want to bash the post I’m here for it too. Thanks for reading.
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I’ll probably delete this but I really just have to get it off my chest and see what people say and if you can provide support or encouragement I’d love to hear it.
Lately I’ve been feeling like God had checked out of my life I feel like no one is home.
I was recently dumped because I asked the girl I was seeing to attend church with me. I really only asked her to attend church with me because I just had surgery and needed a ride.
I’ve been single for a long time probably about 5 years before I met this girl. She said she was a Christian but doesn’t like going to church just due to past experiences. I honestly can’t blame people who say this because I’ve been there too. Even the church I go to now I feel like it’s filled with a bunch of fake people and hypocrites.
For example I was struggling with the break up and just how it all ended I won’t go into too much detail. I submitted a prayer request basically all in my feelings. It took about a week and a half for someone to reach out. I was just asking for prayers for my surgery and just in general. The taking the week to reach out wasn’t even an issue. The pastor under the lead pastor offered to take me to lunch but honestly I felt like he was just doing that to check a box off his list dude couldn’t wait to leave.
What really got me is I went to church today in my splint from surgery and the lead pastor asked me “oh what happened”? Like he couldn’t even bother to read my prayer request. This wouldn’t be the first time this happened.
Then I just feel like I pray and pray and pray for God to bring other like minded people into my life and for him to bring someone into my life to build a life with. I know yall will say “God isn’t in the matchmaking business” or “that’s not why we pray”. I’ll be honest I struggle with this. I know all glory goes to God but man doesn’t it feel like it’s a one sided deal. Yes I know the price Jesus paid is more than anything I could ever offer.
As a millennial I know our generation is struggle with loneliness and I am definitely struggling with that. I started going to church again to surround myself with other Christian but I can say I feel more alone today than I did when I wasn’t going to church.
I don’t know what to do at this point. In my early 30s and I just wonder how I’m going to go another 40-50 years just hoping that one day I’ll be blessed. I get told “focus on Christ” okay but why isn’t Christ focused on bringing us together? The world seems to be departing from Christ everyday. Christians are mocked and ridiculed.
Then when someone like me is struggling to find meaning to what all this means, there is no one to ask or go to. When I pray I don’t hear God. Then you’ll be told read the word. Okay, even when I read the Bible I still struggle to understand the meaning or find the words that speak to me.
Idk where I’m going with this to be honest idk where I’m going with life. I feel like I’ve been abandoned. We’re told “call on the name of Jesus he will never leave you or forsake you” but I feel like I’ve been left behind. I feel like there is no one for me out there. We’re not meant to live this life alone but do I feel so alone.
Don’t get me wrong I’m definitely blessed in certain ways and I try to focus on those blessings but all my heart wants is to be with someone who is like minded and wants to build a relationship together. But I go on these dating apps and 80-90% of the woman on there are atheist or agnostic. I go to church and I just see couples, happy with their kids, this eats me alive. I feel stuck and like I’ll never have that.
What am I doing wrong. Am I not praying enough, am I not fasting enough, am I not reading my Bible enough? I’ve fasted to the point of pure exhaustion. I’ve stopped all things that would be “blocking my blessings” I don’t drink, I gave up smoking. I truly don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I cut off all the people in my life that were pulling me away from God. Leaving me with no friends.
It’s getting hard to force myself to pretend to be happy, to walk into church and put a fake smile on my face, to act like it’s all good when it’s not. I know y’all will probably bash this post but honestly this is the only place I feel like I can just let this out.
I don’t know each day that passes, each month, each year, I feel like it becomes harder and harder.
If you have any advice I’m all ears, if you want to bash the post I’m here for it too. Thanks for reading.
2024.05.06 02:10 Tetratron2005 Art tease of Diana in Issue #9 by Daniel Sampere
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2024.05.06 02:09 Sensitive-Bid-1301 i hate to say it but i do see poor people as lesser then me, even cousins on my mom side
I'm a man born from a wealthy family with 320 million in assets, mostly from a great grandfather that got extremely lucky. i would never consider a poor person to be my partner, only as an backup option if i can't get a rich woman in this life.
being born wealthy we get the gold digger talk from young and to be wary of people who are looking for a comeup mostly friends. my family members mostly marry other rich people, the only outlier is my mom she got pregnant with my older brother in 1990.
my parents are still together today and my mom doesn't want me to be like my dad and marry a poor woman in this time period.
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being born wealthy we get the gold digger talk from young and to be wary of people who are looking for a comeup mostly friends. my family members mostly marry other rich people, the only outlier is my mom she got pregnant with my older brother in 1990.
my parents are still together today and my mom doesn't want me to be like my dad and marry a poor woman in this time period.
2024.05.06 02:08 thejmirage Hard to Move On..
Hey everyone,
I’ve lurked here for a while…but I’m having a really rough time right now and I could really use some advice and support, maybe even a reality check.
A few months ago, I met a man at a work conference. We immediately hit it off, and he asked me to dinner after one of our meetings. One thing turned into something else, and before I knew it, we were in the middle of our affair. I was completely new to it, and he claimed to have been as well. He disclosed that he was married after we slept together (I know right, red flag), and while I knew it was wrong, I didn’t want to give up the connection we shared.
We were long distance, but he would fly from his state to visit me at least twice a month, and we talked constantly every day. We texted from morning to night and he never skipped a day without calling except when he went to visit his in laws during Easter. He became a part of my daily routine and vice versa. When he was here, we would go on dates, go out to nice lounges, and explore what my city has to offer. Whatever I wanted really. Relationship things.
Wednesday morning, I got the urge to do some digging. I really don’t know why or what triggered it. I had looked into him before but never really came up with anything.
I found a baby registry. Now, I was under the impression that they shared one child—a 6 year old. But the date on the registry was a little over a week from the time I found it. His wife is due to give birth in a week. I thought it had to be the wrong person, but the note to family and friends section confirmed it. It was definitely him. I felt gutted.
I basically blocked him on everything except his main phone. By that evening, he was blowing me up when he left the house. I told him what I found and of course he apologized and pleaded for me to let him fix this. Blamed it on not knowing we would end up this serious, and not knowing how to tell me without losing me. He even offered to hop on a plane the next day to come discuss things in person. I declined and told him there is no fixing this. That was the last time we spoke. He’s called and texted a couple times since, but I don’t respond. Complete NC.
Since then, I've been struggling to fill the void he left behind. He was an escape for me too, in a way. I just got so used to having him in my day-to-day life that now everything feels dull and empty. I feel like what we had was so intense, so fast. I've never been the type to reach out to someone who wronged me, but for some reason, I have this urge to text him and I know I shouldn’t.
I consider myself to be a woman who knows my value, and I don’t want that to stop now. I think going back to him would just hurt more down the line. He has a family who needs him. I don’t fit into his current situation.
How do I forget about him and move forward? And more importantly, how can I use this experience to become a better woman and ensure something like this never happens to me again?
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I’ve lurked here for a while…but I’m having a really rough time right now and I could really use some advice and support, maybe even a reality check.
A few months ago, I met a man at a work conference. We immediately hit it off, and he asked me to dinner after one of our meetings. One thing turned into something else, and before I knew it, we were in the middle of our affair. I was completely new to it, and he claimed to have been as well. He disclosed that he was married after we slept together (I know right, red flag), and while I knew it was wrong, I didn’t want to give up the connection we shared.
We were long distance, but he would fly from his state to visit me at least twice a month, and we talked constantly every day. We texted from morning to night and he never skipped a day without calling except when he went to visit his in laws during Easter. He became a part of my daily routine and vice versa. When he was here, we would go on dates, go out to nice lounges, and explore what my city has to offer. Whatever I wanted really. Relationship things.
Wednesday morning, I got the urge to do some digging. I really don’t know why or what triggered it. I had looked into him before but never really came up with anything.
I found a baby registry. Now, I was under the impression that they shared one child—a 6 year old. But the date on the registry was a little over a week from the time I found it. His wife is due to give birth in a week. I thought it had to be the wrong person, but the note to family and friends section confirmed it. It was definitely him. I felt gutted.
I basically blocked him on everything except his main phone. By that evening, he was blowing me up when he left the house. I told him what I found and of course he apologized and pleaded for me to let him fix this. Blamed it on not knowing we would end up this serious, and not knowing how to tell me without losing me. He even offered to hop on a plane the next day to come discuss things in person. I declined and told him there is no fixing this. That was the last time we spoke. He’s called and texted a couple times since, but I don’t respond. Complete NC.
Since then, I've been struggling to fill the void he left behind. He was an escape for me too, in a way. I just got so used to having him in my day-to-day life that now everything feels dull and empty. I feel like what we had was so intense, so fast. I've never been the type to reach out to someone who wronged me, but for some reason, I have this urge to text him and I know I shouldn’t.
I consider myself to be a woman who knows my value, and I don’t want that to stop now. I think going back to him would just hurt more down the line. He has a family who needs him. I don’t fit into his current situation.
How do I forget about him and move forward? And more importantly, how can I use this experience to become a better woman and ensure something like this never happens to me again?
2024.05.06 02:06 Kagome-DO Jrjr
Men are going to get mad reading this but hear me about. Women are smarter (on average) and IQ results prove it. An average woman will score between 40-50% higher on average in relative intelligence. GUYS this is NOT bad!
This is super important for women to know! You guys need to give us this! We have been told we were not good enough compared to men for years. We were held back from school and anything that requires intelligence. Now we have an equal opportunity and we: score much higher in IQ, score higher in emotional intelligence, get significantly higher grades in both primary and secondary school, more women than men enter college and almost 80% of valedictorians are girls. The IQ test alone, which was designed by males, should prove to you women are smarter on average. We accept men are stronger so why can't you accept women are smarter?
This is important because we need the smartest people to lead. This benefits men a lot. Knowing women have much higher IQs and accepting this will allow men to be more open to women in leadership and high intellectual positions. Why in the world would you want to oppress women just because we are smarter? Why try to hold us back just because we do better when it comes to intellectual ability? We don't do it with men and physical strength, so why take this from women?
You should praise us and accept us as your equal. Yes we are smarter and every woman needs to know this as we can lead our men way better if we all realize this. We can function as a society better.
But men are preventing this from happening. Men would rather focus on their egos. Saying the test is bias when it is created by men isn't fair. That's not how an IQ test works. Curving the scores to make men more even just shows men can't accept the results and takes away from how smart women are. Intentionally lowering our scores shows you have to cheat just to be even with us. Isn't it better to just accept it? It doesn't make you "inferior". Does men being stronger make women inferior? No. It just means we are smarter and there is nothing wrong with that men.
You guys talk about how much you think with your penises and even we women see it. Why should we think you're as smart as we are when guys do this? Are you saying women are as smart as a penis? No woman should accept that. Part of being a man is thinking with it and that's part of your Intelligence. You can't take that away. If you're a woman and your husband is upset at results like this, ask him if guys really think with their penis and how often. Then ask who he prefers in charge of intellectual situations: someone who thinks with a penis or a woman?
I love men. I love boys. You guys are awesome and play an equal role in this world to us. But we've worked hard for this. Women need this. Men can still succeed but we need to realize it may be harder for them to because of this. We can help them succeed when they realize this. We are seeing women in highly educated fields for a reason. Women should celebrate this and men should praise us for it. I love you guys!
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This is super important for women to know! You guys need to give us this! We have been told we were not good enough compared to men for years. We were held back from school and anything that requires intelligence. Now we have an equal opportunity and we: score much higher in IQ, score higher in emotional intelligence, get significantly higher grades in both primary and secondary school, more women than men enter college and almost 80% of valedictorians are girls. The IQ test alone, which was designed by males, should prove to you women are smarter on average. We accept men are stronger so why can't you accept women are smarter?
This is important because we need the smartest people to lead. This benefits men a lot. Knowing women have much higher IQs and accepting this will allow men to be more open to women in leadership and high intellectual positions. Why in the world would you want to oppress women just because we are smarter? Why try to hold us back just because we do better when it comes to intellectual ability? We don't do it with men and physical strength, so why take this from women?
You should praise us and accept us as your equal. Yes we are smarter and every woman needs to know this as we can lead our men way better if we all realize this. We can function as a society better.
But men are preventing this from happening. Men would rather focus on their egos. Saying the test is bias when it is created by men isn't fair. That's not how an IQ test works. Curving the scores to make men more even just shows men can't accept the results and takes away from how smart women are. Intentionally lowering our scores shows you have to cheat just to be even with us. Isn't it better to just accept it? It doesn't make you "inferior". Does men being stronger make women inferior? No. It just means we are smarter and there is nothing wrong with that men.
You guys talk about how much you think with your penises and even we women see it. Why should we think you're as smart as we are when guys do this? Are you saying women are as smart as a penis? No woman should accept that. Part of being a man is thinking with it and that's part of your Intelligence. You can't take that away. If you're a woman and your husband is upset at results like this, ask him if guys really think with their penis and how often. Then ask who he prefers in charge of intellectual situations: someone who thinks with a penis or a woman?
I love men. I love boys. You guys are awesome and play an equal role in this world to us. But we've worked hard for this. Women need this. Men can still succeed but we need to realize it may be harder for them to because of this. We can help them succeed when they realize this. We are seeing women in highly educated fields for a reason. Women should celebrate this and men should praise us for it. I love you guys!
2024.05.06 02:06 AStarThatIsTooFar Kate Beckinsale and Bullying
 | I recently read on the news that Kate Beckinsale was being bullied on social media over accusations she resorts to cosmetic enhancements to keep looking so glam as her enters her Golden Years. submitted by AStarThatIsTooFar to CannotHaveFriends [link] [comments] https://preview.redd.it/2w9c0utp5pyc1.jpg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0ba62433e8f1ae9d59dfa292bbe69a911b7773c4 Am I supposed to feel sympathy, empathy even, for Kate Beckinsale's statement regarding concerns about her being bullied on social media? My conflict with this is, Kate, being one of the most beautiful women there ever was, I would have to accept the notion that she never said an unkind word to anyone, man or woman, about their ugliness, and therefore has a right to gain empathy, sympathy, from anyone, for her being bullied on social media. Prove me wrong Kate. But you can't and you won't. |
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2024.05.06 02:04 layluhuwu a proper suicide note ig (im going to od again with a stronger dose)
ok so hi. i've been posting here a lot recently. that is because i've been struggling with pretty heavy suicidality due to being a trans woman. idk where to begin but, when i started HRT at age 25, i had a really bad starting point
i was covered in hair, like a gorilla. from the age of 14 hair began sprouting everywhere on my face and my body; i could grow a full beard at that age pretty easily. my face and body masculinissed very heavily and i couldnt bring myself to look in a mirror. i hadnt connected the dots yet but i hated how all of my classmates looked babyfaced and cute while i turned into a literal ogre
then i began losing hair. i had no attachment to my hair because my parents would pressure me into buzzing it whenever it grew long and i'd given up on caring about my looks at all at that point. i didnt try to get on any hair loss treatment so i became effectively bald in my early 20s. any possible shred of feminitiy i had was stripped away from me
i realised i was trans at 23. i had no idea how i was going to go from looking like how i did to a woman so i just focused on weight loss/skincare/eating healthy and taking better care of myself. i went down from 120kg to 70kg over the course of 2 years then i started HRT at 25, idk hoping i'd somehow get somewhere
it has been nearly 2 years on HRT and i still look like a disgusting ogre. everyone - online, irl - is keen on reminding me of this. i tried to socially transition and while i do get gendered female most of the time, i've been assaulted for being trans. ive been laughed at. ive had a group of girls go "excuse me sir" while giggling hysterically. on reddit i get constantly told how terrible and manly i look even by other trans people. literally EVERYONE thinks i look terrible and anyone saying otherwise is only doing it to hugbox. i had one trans person describe my face as "rough", another accuse me of putting in zero effort into my transition and making other trans ppl look bad, and another tell me hrt has done nothing for my face and my dosage must be wrong. i look embarassing. i look like a horrible freak. i look like a transphobic caricature of what a trans woman is and im singlehandedly setting back trans rights by having the temerity to expose the public to my hideous face
i have to wear wigs due to my hair loss - i got a hair transplant but it'll take a long time for my hair to grow out and i dont even think it'll be worth it - and i feel so ashamed of having to rely on wigs. if you look at transphobic rhetoric everywhere, the stereotype is of "men in wigs" and i hate how i cant have good natural hair it makes me feel so awful
my jawline is extremely sharp, my chin is literally a jay leno chin, and my nose is gigantic. it will take surgeries idk how im ever going to be able to afford to ever remotely look female. i will never be a girl no matter how hard i try so i really should just kill myself. i had a failed OD attempt where i took a non lethal dose the other day. i still feel a bit nauseous from it. im going to finish what i started ig
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i was covered in hair, like a gorilla. from the age of 14 hair began sprouting everywhere on my face and my body; i could grow a full beard at that age pretty easily. my face and body masculinissed very heavily and i couldnt bring myself to look in a mirror. i hadnt connected the dots yet but i hated how all of my classmates looked babyfaced and cute while i turned into a literal ogre
then i began losing hair. i had no attachment to my hair because my parents would pressure me into buzzing it whenever it grew long and i'd given up on caring about my looks at all at that point. i didnt try to get on any hair loss treatment so i became effectively bald in my early 20s. any possible shred of feminitiy i had was stripped away from me
i realised i was trans at 23. i had no idea how i was going to go from looking like how i did to a woman so i just focused on weight loss/skincare/eating healthy and taking better care of myself. i went down from 120kg to 70kg over the course of 2 years then i started HRT at 25, idk hoping i'd somehow get somewhere
it has been nearly 2 years on HRT and i still look like a disgusting ogre. everyone - online, irl - is keen on reminding me of this. i tried to socially transition and while i do get gendered female most of the time, i've been assaulted for being trans. ive been laughed at. ive had a group of girls go "excuse me sir" while giggling hysterically. on reddit i get constantly told how terrible and manly i look even by other trans people. literally EVERYONE thinks i look terrible and anyone saying otherwise is only doing it to hugbox. i had one trans person describe my face as "rough", another accuse me of putting in zero effort into my transition and making other trans ppl look bad, and another tell me hrt has done nothing for my face and my dosage must be wrong. i look embarassing. i look like a horrible freak. i look like a transphobic caricature of what a trans woman is and im singlehandedly setting back trans rights by having the temerity to expose the public to my hideous face
i have to wear wigs due to my hair loss - i got a hair transplant but it'll take a long time for my hair to grow out and i dont even think it'll be worth it - and i feel so ashamed of having to rely on wigs. if you look at transphobic rhetoric everywhere, the stereotype is of "men in wigs" and i hate how i cant have good natural hair it makes me feel so awful
my jawline is extremely sharp, my chin is literally a jay leno chin, and my nose is gigantic. it will take surgeries idk how im ever going to be able to afford to ever remotely look female. i will never be a girl no matter how hard i try so i really should just kill myself. i had a failed OD attempt where i took a non lethal dose the other day. i still feel a bit nauseous from it. im going to finish what i started ig
2024.05.06 02:03 vb2509 Something Unexpected Happened
Adding a link to my older post for context.
https://www.reddit.com/IncelExit/s/iuL4fOWGZI
I want to clarify that the mentioned conversations are rough translations as most of the conversations did not take place in English here.
I met her again for the first time in weeks tongiht. We took a cab ride home as usual, I was feeling a little awkward since it had been a while.
Things went back to normal as we began to talk. We caught up over what we have been upto these days and all. She eventually reached out and put her arm around mine like she has before while talking. I did what I was suggested, being the same way I had been before since things have been positive so far between us. I chose to put my free hand on her hand and this time when she rested her head on my shoulder, I gave her head a gentle pat. Didn't think much at then time, I just did what I did since it felt right.
I was booking my ride home from her place as usual which is when she called me cute. I took advice from an advice giver about being straightforward and thanked her commenting that I don't get called cute that often. She went on to say that I'm a good person, I show no ulterior motives or intentions to manipulate and that it's difficult to find good people. I agreed about the good people part and ended up mentioning I got rejected last week since she is a close friend as well. She mentioned that I'm a man and she has not had anyone show interest in her as a woman (I don't get what she means by it).
I jokingly responding saying "I would like to remind you that I did ask you out a few weeks ago". I was not saying this with the intention of pestering her about it. I was just saying it as a "for the record" statement saying that's not true that nobody has been interest in her.
Now here is the unexpected part -
She told me to be done with the festival and my performance first (it is a little stressful since I have not done a dance performance in 10 years) and then we could go for coffee or drinks.
She also told me that she gets very emotionally attached and it hurt her for a very long time in the past, likely talking about her breakup. She avoids being emotional as a result. I told her the risk of getting hurt is something one has to take in this process. Also suppressing emotions is not a good idea as it's a mistake I also made in the past.
Before leaving, I asked her to watch my performance which she said she would definitely come for. She also promised to bring her pup downstairs next time (she knows I have two dogs, same breed as her pup). Apart from a hug as usual, she also gave me flying kiss this time. Not sure if that means anything though.
I'm nevertheless glad we are on good terms as usual.
Based on what I understood and from what others have said, it seems like the last breakup is likely the reason for her hesitation? It would also mean she has been considering dating right?
She did say yes the night I asked her. I find tonight unexpected as I thought she was not interested since she mentioned she is busy on my follow up and didn't bring it up until now.
Keeping expectations as grounded as possible on what can happen. I'm not sure how to follow up on this either.
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https://www.reddit.com/IncelExit/s/iuL4fOWGZI
I want to clarify that the mentioned conversations are rough translations as most of the conversations did not take place in English here.
I met her again for the first time in weeks tongiht. We took a cab ride home as usual, I was feeling a little awkward since it had been a while.
Things went back to normal as we began to talk. We caught up over what we have been upto these days and all. She eventually reached out and put her arm around mine like she has before while talking. I did what I was suggested, being the same way I had been before since things have been positive so far between us. I chose to put my free hand on her hand and this time when she rested her head on my shoulder, I gave her head a gentle pat. Didn't think much at then time, I just did what I did since it felt right.
I was booking my ride home from her place as usual which is when she called me cute. I took advice from an advice giver about being straightforward and thanked her commenting that I don't get called cute that often. She went on to say that I'm a good person, I show no ulterior motives or intentions to manipulate and that it's difficult to find good people. I agreed about the good people part and ended up mentioning I got rejected last week since she is a close friend as well. She mentioned that I'm a man and she has not had anyone show interest in her as a woman (I don't get what she means by it).
I jokingly responding saying "I would like to remind you that I did ask you out a few weeks ago". I was not saying this with the intention of pestering her about it. I was just saying it as a "for the record" statement saying that's not true that nobody has been interest in her.
Now here is the unexpected part -
She told me to be done with the festival and my performance first (it is a little stressful since I have not done a dance performance in 10 years) and then we could go for coffee or drinks.
She also told me that she gets very emotionally attached and it hurt her for a very long time in the past, likely talking about her breakup. She avoids being emotional as a result. I told her the risk of getting hurt is something one has to take in this process. Also suppressing emotions is not a good idea as it's a mistake I also made in the past.
Before leaving, I asked her to watch my performance which she said she would definitely come for. She also promised to bring her pup downstairs next time (she knows I have two dogs, same breed as her pup). Apart from a hug as usual, she also gave me flying kiss this time. Not sure if that means anything though.
I'm nevertheless glad we are on good terms as usual.
Based on what I understood and from what others have said, it seems like the last breakup is likely the reason for her hesitation? It would also mean she has been considering dating right?
She did say yes the night I asked her. I find tonight unexpected as I thought she was not interested since she mentioned she is busy on my follow up and didn't bring it up until now.
Keeping expectations as grounded as possible on what can happen. I'm not sure how to follow up on this either.
2024.05.06 02:01 ImaginaryMacaron1928 Why am I having this feeling? 😭
Bismillah
Please don’t judge me 😭
I’m 25(f) grew up and living in the eastern coast of the US. There aren’t a lot of Somalis in where I was raised and live at now. I grew up with Muslim non Somalis. It’s a long story but at least read the last part pls😭. In my group of friends, there is this non Somali Muslim guy that I went to the same college with and he confessed to me that he was interested in me and wanted to get to know me better for marriage relationship. I declined and let him know that in my culture, we don’t marry out. He’s half Omani half Yemeni and he told me how one of his aunts is married to a Somali man in Oman and he’s somewhat familiar with the Somali culture. After he showed me how his family is, I thought to myself that maybe I should give it a chance and see how things go. I mean there aren’t any potential Somali guys in my city and I sure as hell ain’t gonna go back to Africa for a man. He’s also a good Muslim who is educated and is my type and has a distant Somali relative so that is a plus.
After getting to know each other more, he asked me about my decision. I didn’t rejected but I also didn’t accepted it. I told him that I will think about it. I’m close to my mom so I talked to her and asked her opinion. Of course she’s a Somali mom and prefers a Somali guy so she flat out said NO. After I told her that his family seemed to be good and he’s a good guy, she told me to wait for her opinion and she will let me know (wanted to do her own research lol). So she told me that she spoke to so and so and she found out that yes, they are indeed a good respectable honest Muslim family and I think she even found out the qabiil of the guy that’s married to his aunt lmao it doesn’t matter but I’m just pointing out to the extent that she went to know who the guy is and who is his family 😂. Mom still preferred a Somali guy but told me that if I will be happy with him, then she won’t be against it. So he introduced me to his family and all went well. After awhile, he asked if I made a decision and I told him that sure, I’ll give it a chance and see if we’re destined to be with each other. By this time, my siblings and mom know about him and they know that we plan on getting married one day. After awhile, he wanted to talk to my aabo. So mom explained it to aabo. Dad met with him, all went well. We did the engagement last month. Not the mehr or nikkah/marriage contract but just the 2 family gathering and getting to know each other one. The plan is now to get married in September in sha Allah.
Here’s the thing: I don’t know why but all of the sudden I have this strange feeling that I want my husband to be a Somali. I don’t know what has gotten into me and why I’m feeling like this all of the sudden? I don’t know how to talk about this to anyone and I don’t want him to give me his 👁️ he’s a great Muslim person, handsome inside and out, educated is very generous with his money 💰
Did you ever plan on marrying a non Somali but then at the last minute decided you want to be with only a Somali or stay single? Why do you think that happened? Is this normal? I don’t know how to deal with this and I can’t talk to my family or friends about it because it’ll confuse the shit out of them 😭 Am I subconsciously racist or something ? What’s wrong with me?
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Please don’t judge me 😭
I’m 25(f) grew up and living in the eastern coast of the US. There aren’t a lot of Somalis in where I was raised and live at now. I grew up with Muslim non Somalis. It’s a long story but at least read the last part pls😭. In my group of friends, there is this non Somali Muslim guy that I went to the same college with and he confessed to me that he was interested in me and wanted to get to know me better for marriage relationship. I declined and let him know that in my culture, we don’t marry out. He’s half Omani half Yemeni and he told me how one of his aunts is married to a Somali man in Oman and he’s somewhat familiar with the Somali culture. After he showed me how his family is, I thought to myself that maybe I should give it a chance and see how things go. I mean there aren’t any potential Somali guys in my city and I sure as hell ain’t gonna go back to Africa for a man. He’s also a good Muslim who is educated and is my type and has a distant Somali relative so that is a plus.
After getting to know each other more, he asked me about my decision. I didn’t rejected but I also didn’t accepted it. I told him that I will think about it. I’m close to my mom so I talked to her and asked her opinion. Of course she’s a Somali mom and prefers a Somali guy so she flat out said NO. After I told her that his family seemed to be good and he’s a good guy, she told me to wait for her opinion and she will let me know (wanted to do her own research lol). So she told me that she spoke to so and so and she found out that yes, they are indeed a good respectable honest Muslim family and I think she even found out the qabiil of the guy that’s married to his aunt lmao it doesn’t matter but I’m just pointing out to the extent that she went to know who the guy is and who is his family 😂. Mom still preferred a Somali guy but told me that if I will be happy with him, then she won’t be against it. So he introduced me to his family and all went well. After awhile, he asked if I made a decision and I told him that sure, I’ll give it a chance and see if we’re destined to be with each other. By this time, my siblings and mom know about him and they know that we plan on getting married one day. After awhile, he wanted to talk to my aabo. So mom explained it to aabo. Dad met with him, all went well. We did the engagement last month. Not the mehr or nikkah/marriage contract but just the 2 family gathering and getting to know each other one. The plan is now to get married in September in sha Allah.
Here’s the thing: I don’t know why but all of the sudden I have this strange feeling that I want my husband to be a Somali. I don’t know what has gotten into me and why I’m feeling like this all of the sudden? I don’t know how to talk about this to anyone and I don’t want him to give me his 👁️ he’s a great Muslim person, handsome inside and out, educated is very generous with his money 💰
Did you ever plan on marrying a non Somali but then at the last minute decided you want to be with only a Somali or stay single? Why do you think that happened? Is this normal? I don’t know how to deal with this and I can’t talk to my family or friends about it because it’ll confuse the shit out of them 😭 Am I subconsciously racist or something ? What’s wrong with me?
2024.05.06 01:59 neonamir Scared going from he/him to he/they will be seen as a "step back" (transmasc)
I've been out as a trans man using he/him since 2018, and sometime later quietly came out to myself as a non-binary trans man.
I don't really have dysphoria about using he/him, it does represent me quite well, but sometimes and more often recently, it feels off.
I'm thinking maybe I'm still comfortable with it because it's the "opposite" of she/her. It's the most powerful tool I currently have to put distance from my AGAB and ease dysphoria. Especially speaking French, it's very hard for me to find a neutral pronoun that could realistically be used, and that doesn't sound tied to the binary. Still, I've been wanting to add "they/them" in English and maybe use more neutral language in French. Make my true self a little bit more visible despite being rather okay with the current situation.
But I'm scared it might reduce that distance to my AGAB, especially in other people's perception of me. I worry about them mentally putting me back to the woman side of a binary slider, almost as if I socially de-transitioned or something. So I haven't asked anyone to use it yet.
I'm also scared that my masculine identity might not be taken seriously anymore. Some people who already ignore it might feel even more comforted in their idea to do so. Similarly, I guess I'm scared it'll be too far away from the masculine and so I might get dysphoric. I don't know if it's worth it!
Do you have opinions, experiences or advice to share?
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I don't really have dysphoria about using he/him, it does represent me quite well, but sometimes and more often recently, it feels off.
I'm thinking maybe I'm still comfortable with it because it's the "opposite" of she/her. It's the most powerful tool I currently have to put distance from my AGAB and ease dysphoria. Especially speaking French, it's very hard for me to find a neutral pronoun that could realistically be used, and that doesn't sound tied to the binary. Still, I've been wanting to add "they/them" in English and maybe use more neutral language in French. Make my true self a little bit more visible despite being rather okay with the current situation.
But I'm scared it might reduce that distance to my AGAB, especially in other people's perception of me. I worry about them mentally putting me back to the woman side of a binary slider, almost as if I socially de-transitioned or something. So I haven't asked anyone to use it yet.
I'm also scared that my masculine identity might not be taken seriously anymore. Some people who already ignore it might feel even more comforted in their idea to do so. Similarly, I guess I'm scared it'll be too far away from the masculine and so I might get dysphoric. I don't know if it's worth it!
Do you have opinions, experiences or advice to share?
2024.05.06 01:57 South_Adagio3198 [M4F/ApF] Longterm roleplay here or discord
Hello all. I’m looking for a longterm rp based on one of the pairs below. For these RPs I prefer if they were a mix of romance and adventure in order to keep things interesting and I would prefer if you could write a minimum of a paragraph if possible.
Jock/Nerd Zombie apocalypse Jock/Goth Gods among us humans Celebrity/normal person Royalty/normal person Rich people/normal class person Alien/Human Superhero/Normal person Enemies to lovers Hero/Demon Queen Childhood friends Paired marriage from childhood Android/Human Older Woman/Younger Man BoxeReporter SingePerson Angel/human Demon/human Human/Alien MonsteHuman And many more
And for fandoms some of my favorites is dbz, tekken, street fighter, tmnt, mortal kombat, pokemon, dc, marvel, my hero academia, chainsaw man, jujitsu kaizen you can ask me for more in dms
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Jock/Nerd Zombie apocalypse Jock/Goth Gods among us humans Celebrity/normal person Royalty/normal person Rich people/normal class person Alien/Human Superhero/Normal person Enemies to lovers Hero/Demon Queen Childhood friends Paired marriage from childhood Android/Human Older Woman/Younger Man BoxeReporter SingePerson Angel/human Demon/human Human/Alien MonsteHuman And many more
And for fandoms some of my favorites is dbz, tekken, street fighter, tmnt, mortal kombat, pokemon, dc, marvel, my hero academia, chainsaw man, jujitsu kaizen you can ask me for more in dms
2024.05.06 01:57 Eagle_215 Help finding a movie I saw on tv when I was a kid.
This sub helped me before, so im trying again. Any leads are greatly appreciated.
What I remember is that the main characters were an old couple and a young lady. The older woman was in their house, though I don’t remember why. The older man was incapacitated to the point of non communication. The older lady was slowly performing some sort of ritual with the ultimate intent of stealing the young woman’s body. I think she succeeded but I don’t remember for sure.
Movie feels like it was maybe early 2000s i was pretty young when I saw it but i could have been from the 90s or before. It was for sure on tv, maybe the scifi channel. Not black and white.
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What I remember is that the main characters were an old couple and a young lady. The older woman was in their house, though I don’t remember why. The older man was incapacitated to the point of non communication. The older lady was slowly performing some sort of ritual with the ultimate intent of stealing the young woman’s body. I think she succeeded but I don’t remember for sure.
Movie feels like it was maybe early 2000s i was pretty young when I saw it but i could have been from the 90s or before. It was for sure on tv, maybe the scifi channel. Not black and white.
2024.05.06 01:56 Visible-Iron9401 And it came to pass after these things, that
And it came to pass after these things, that the son of the woman, the mistress of the house, fell sick; and his sickness was so sore, that there was no breath left in him.And she said unto Elijah, What have I to do with thee, O thou man of God? art thou come unto me to call my sin to remembrance, and to slay my son
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2024.05.06 01:56 Beneficial_Recipe_65 As a bi man: Tinder is great if youre a woman or a gay man. Average/slight above looking straight men have no chance. 300 likes from dudes, 10 women in 5 months..
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2024.05.06 01:55 Saintly009 26 [M4F] Christian man seeking Christian woman #Washington #Online
I'm told women want a man who knows what he wants, so here's the whole nine yards. If there is anything here that you are not willing to accept, then don't. You will not change me now or years down the line. Obviously I intend to grow and mature (as one ought to), but I have decided who I am and what I want out of a relationship.
I am looking for a woman that I can make a permanent covenant bond with; I have no interest in flings or "long-term relationships."
I don't intend to come across as bitter or angry with any of this, just clear and up-front. It makes things easier for both of us.
A bit about me:
My faith in Christ is paramount in my life. I would not be where I am without him. In taking interests in various things, I've learned a lot about God's character and design. Each new thing I learn fills me with more worship of him and wonder at his works. It is very important to me that you share this admiration of God.
I have a full-time job that I am very satisfied with, but what I feel truly passionate about is art and storytelling. To be honest, I've hit a bit of a block lately as far as my output. But I've been trying to find my feet so I can make something valuable to share with the world. I think that art and stories are a fundamental part of being human, not just a luxury. So pretty much any kind of art will spark passion in me, be it music, cinema, video games, literature, video essay, sculpture, etc. I could go back and forth for hours on a lot of things. My hope is that you and I will be able to enjoy art together and create some of our own.
I frequently spend time with another gentleman from my Church and we enjoy conversations about personal projects and contemporary issues, along with walks along beaches and park trails. He is a very important friend in my life, and I am lucky to know such a kind soul. Things aren't well with my family, so I really need that kind of presence.
While I rely on my bicycle for transport (no car), it's not a problem for me. I've been riding bikes since I was in elementary school (maybe even before). It would be really nice to ride down some trails with you.
What I expect from you:
-You need to be a follower of Jesus Christ. God needs to be an active part of your life because I intend to raise our children under Biblical values.
-You need hobbies and interests apart from me. I'm fine with helping you find things you like.
-You need to have no mileage.
-You must be humble and respectful. "Boss babe" attitudes are not attractive to me.
-You cannot have any tattoos or piercings.
-No cosmetic products. It's not good for your body and I am attracted women, not makeup. This includes fake nails and fake eyelashes. I don't need you to look "pretty." You character is more important to me.
-Related to the previous, no use of image filters in photos. I do not like the type of people who are vain and vapid enough to feel the need to use filters on their photos.
-Again related to the previous, you need to have a limited social media presence. If you have a business or post something of value (like art, for example), then I have no problem. What I'm talking about is having an Instagram or Facebook account where you make random posts to nobody in particular to "update" the internet on your life or post tons of pictures of yourself online. Basing your self-worth on the comments and likes from strangers on the internet is unhealthy, and I find people's obsessive need to take pictures of themselves very unattractive and vain.
-If we marry, I expect you to be fully submissive to me. There can't be two leaders in a household because one will have to submit to the other.
-I expect you to view marriage as something that you put work into. Marriages are a team effort, so I expect you to be a help meet.
-You need to treat me like a partner, not an adversary. Getting into arguments and nagging me helps neither of us. You must have conflict-resolution skills and a solution mindset.
-You need excellent communication skills. This means understanding yourself, putting your thoughts into words other people can understand, and verbalizing things rather than expecting me to read your thoughts.
-You cannot play games with me. Telling me about other guys to make me jealous or planning dates for specific days to pressure me into committing to you are wicked and manipulative.
-While we are dating, you cannot have a "backup plan." I expect you to not be splitting your attention between me and other men. This includes spending time outside of work with other men (family excluded).
-You must be in shape. Don't be dishonest with yourself about your weight; check your BMI. This includes being underweight, anorexic, and bulimic.
-You cannot have taken any COVID-19 vaccinations from any provider.
-No smoking, drugs, or drunkenness.
-I expect you to completely renounce fast food if we date or marry. We will never feed our children McDonald's.
What you can expect from me:
-While we are dating, I will not be speaking to other women.
-I cannot meet your height, money, or attractiveness expectations. I am simply an average dude. I am critical, abstract, and imaginative in my thinking though.
-I will not ask you to do something that is unreasonable or demeaning. I will only ask of you what I expect from myself. No relationship is going to be 50/50 100% of the time, but I will put forth the effort I am able to. I expect the same out of you.
-I will not raise my hand against you. My hands will be a safe place for you.
-I will be available to listen to your troubles and help you bear through them.
-I will not demean you or humiliate you, whether or not you are in the room.
-I will show leadership in our house and exercise restraint with a mild temper.
-I will cherish you and treat you as my own body.
-I will devote myself to displaying my love for you in a language you understand, even if I am feeling distant from you because of troubles we face. I expect the same from you.
-I will not turn to another woman and betray you.
-I intend to keep every promise that I make with you.
-I will treat our children with patience and kindness, but diligently discipline them and instruct them appropriately.
Please tell me a bit about yourself and what you expect out of a relationship, but be practical and clear. A list of platitudes like "loyal, honest, etc" does not help me understand what you're looking for. Think about what your expectations look like in a tangible, everyday way.
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I am looking for a woman that I can make a permanent covenant bond with; I have no interest in flings or "long-term relationships."
I don't intend to come across as bitter or angry with any of this, just clear and up-front. It makes things easier for both of us.
A bit about me:
My faith in Christ is paramount in my life. I would not be where I am without him. In taking interests in various things, I've learned a lot about God's character and design. Each new thing I learn fills me with more worship of him and wonder at his works. It is very important to me that you share this admiration of God.
I have a full-time job that I am very satisfied with, but what I feel truly passionate about is art and storytelling. To be honest, I've hit a bit of a block lately as far as my output. But I've been trying to find my feet so I can make something valuable to share with the world. I think that art and stories are a fundamental part of being human, not just a luxury. So pretty much any kind of art will spark passion in me, be it music, cinema, video games, literature, video essay, sculpture, etc. I could go back and forth for hours on a lot of things. My hope is that you and I will be able to enjoy art together and create some of our own.
I frequently spend time with another gentleman from my Church and we enjoy conversations about personal projects and contemporary issues, along with walks along beaches and park trails. He is a very important friend in my life, and I am lucky to know such a kind soul. Things aren't well with my family, so I really need that kind of presence.
While I rely on my bicycle for transport (no car), it's not a problem for me. I've been riding bikes since I was in elementary school (maybe even before). It would be really nice to ride down some trails with you.
What I expect from you:
-You need to be a follower of Jesus Christ. God needs to be an active part of your life because I intend to raise our children under Biblical values.
-You need hobbies and interests apart from me. I'm fine with helping you find things you like.
-You need to have no mileage.
-You must be humble and respectful. "Boss babe" attitudes are not attractive to me.
-You cannot have any tattoos or piercings.
-No cosmetic products. It's not good for your body and I am attracted women, not makeup. This includes fake nails and fake eyelashes. I don't need you to look "pretty." You character is more important to me.
-Related to the previous, no use of image filters in photos. I do not like the type of people who are vain and vapid enough to feel the need to use filters on their photos.
-Again related to the previous, you need to have a limited social media presence. If you have a business or post something of value (like art, for example), then I have no problem. What I'm talking about is having an Instagram or Facebook account where you make random posts to nobody in particular to "update" the internet on your life or post tons of pictures of yourself online. Basing your self-worth on the comments and likes from strangers on the internet is unhealthy, and I find people's obsessive need to take pictures of themselves very unattractive and vain.
-If we marry, I expect you to be fully submissive to me. There can't be two leaders in a household because one will have to submit to the other.
-I expect you to view marriage as something that you put work into. Marriages are a team effort, so I expect you to be a help meet.
-You need to treat me like a partner, not an adversary. Getting into arguments and nagging me helps neither of us. You must have conflict-resolution skills and a solution mindset.
-You need excellent communication skills. This means understanding yourself, putting your thoughts into words other people can understand, and verbalizing things rather than expecting me to read your thoughts.
-You cannot play games with me. Telling me about other guys to make me jealous or planning dates for specific days to pressure me into committing to you are wicked and manipulative.
-While we are dating, you cannot have a "backup plan." I expect you to not be splitting your attention between me and other men. This includes spending time outside of work with other men (family excluded).
-You must be in shape. Don't be dishonest with yourself about your weight; check your BMI. This includes being underweight, anorexic, and bulimic.
-You cannot have taken any COVID-19 vaccinations from any provider.
-No smoking, drugs, or drunkenness.
-I expect you to completely renounce fast food if we date or marry. We will never feed our children McDonald's.
What you can expect from me:
-While we are dating, I will not be speaking to other women.
-I cannot meet your height, money, or attractiveness expectations. I am simply an average dude. I am critical, abstract, and imaginative in my thinking though.
-I will not ask you to do something that is unreasonable or demeaning. I will only ask of you what I expect from myself. No relationship is going to be 50/50 100% of the time, but I will put forth the effort I am able to. I expect the same out of you.
-I will not raise my hand against you. My hands will be a safe place for you.
-I will be available to listen to your troubles and help you bear through them.
-I will not demean you or humiliate you, whether or not you are in the room.
-I will show leadership in our house and exercise restraint with a mild temper.
-I will cherish you and treat you as my own body.
-I will devote myself to displaying my love for you in a language you understand, even if I am feeling distant from you because of troubles we face. I expect the same from you.
-I will not turn to another woman and betray you.
-I intend to keep every promise that I make with you.
-I will treat our children with patience and kindness, but diligently discipline them and instruct them appropriately.
Please tell me a bit about yourself and what you expect out of a relationship, but be practical and clear. A list of platitudes like "loyal, honest, etc" does not help me understand what you're looking for. Think about what your expectations look like in a tangible, everyday way.
2024.05.06 01:53 Commercial_Corner_68 Finally out of the closet
I just came out as bi to my husband of 7 years who I had dated for 5 prior. I realized that I was 100% into girls in a sexual way when I was around 20 and it’s taken me 5 years to get to this place. I feel a little bit ashamed because I couldn’t even get words out and he ended up prompting our conversation and asking the right questions to connect the dots. I should never have been nervous to tell him because he was soooooo sweet and supportive and held me while I cried and confessed all of my pent up feelings. Even going so far as to tell me in no few amount of words that if I wanted to explore this part of myself that he was completely on board with it whether or not I wanted him to be involved in something like that. I’m so overwhelmed with emotion I don’t even know what to do! I knew he was a keeper but seriously how can this man be so amazing?
In other words, hey y’all I’m Cassie and I’m a married bisexual woman finally admitting and accepting who I am. Happy to finally be here!! 🩷💜🩵
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In other words, hey y’all I’m Cassie and I’m a married bisexual woman finally admitting and accepting who I am. Happy to finally be here!! 🩷💜🩵