Remote jobs
Hey everyone, I'm a 19 yr old looking for a remote jobs. Can you guys recommend any site for applying?
I actually have a decent resumé/experience.
I have a background in STEM, sales, marketing, social media management, and content creating. I also took part in writing/creating a personality test but not yet published it. I have completed my certifications in English, Tech writing, Psychology 101, and Grant writing.
I am currently working on my bachelor's degree in psychology, im in my 3rd yr, and I'm looking for a side job to save up for my further studies.
I also don't know which field I should go for when looking for a remote job, do u guys things that i qualify in the field of med VA?
Thanks in advance!

I've been in love with this woman(X) since I was 14 or 15. I'm 26 now. Nearly 10 or 11 years later. We've been close friends on and off througout these years. On and off because I keep trying to cut ties(which I fail to keep cut because I just end up talking to her again). I did it once in high school when she got a boyfriend and then started talking to her again when they broke up, but I never had the balls to ask her out the rest of high school, and finally when it ended I tried cutting ties again before I left for uni(thought it'd be for good this time because we were going to different states, more than 10 hours away from each other). Things were going okay in uni, in my first year, and I found someone else(Y) that I liked, she had a boyfriend(long distance) so I wasn't hitting on her but l'm pretty sure she knew I liked her. We got really close in the first few months of uni, one day she asks me if i like her and I said yes, after which we stopped talking which really fucking hurt because I thought we were close friends. Right after that happened I started texting X again and it was like we never stopped talking. I got caught for weed at my dorm one night and while I was flipping out about being kicked out of the dorm and my parents finding out, she calls me up and one of the worst nights of my life turned out to be the best, and I guess that's when I realized I'm might still be in love with her. And I confirmed I was in love with her when one of our mutual friends told me that she told him that she liked me at some point in high school. But I didn't wanna admit it or tell her because I saw no point since we were 10 hours apart which just made me feel like absolute shit. Prior to college, till shit went south with Y, I'd never smoked(cigs or weed) or drank and was completely against it. One night I decided to get wasted(it was my first time getting drunk, and the last tbh for another 2 years) and since I didnt know any better I had 8 or 9 shots of whiskey back to back after which I got pretty fucked up and out of control and I ended up texting her admitting how I felt in I think a fucking 3 page essay to which I got no response which made me feel like absolute dogshit and I ended up crying the entire night at my friend's place. Next day I was still feeling like shit and I was at another friend's place smoking up and still crying about it to him and he just picks up my phone and calls her up and asks her to talk to me and she tells me she doesn't feel the same which broke me. After that conversation I just decided to just say fuck it, and fuck up my life, and I was just getting high on weed, alcohol or some other substance every day for the next 4 years. I barely attended uni, managed to get a year back. Pretty much wasted 5 years of my life just getting high or drunk. Anyways after that conversation with X, I stopped talking to her till I think my third year of uni. I met her once in twice in between, once when we were both back at our hometown, and once when she came to score some weed with her boyfriend (yeah I was also a dealer in uni). When I got into my 3rd year of uni, one day she hits me up outta nowhere and she said she's coming over to stay with me, and she stayed for like 2 days. I didnt make a move because I am a fucking dumbass, and I thought she just came there because we were friends. I call myself a dumbass because I do not understand signals from women. I'm also calling myself a dumbass because me and X ended up making out last year and she told me that she's wanted to do this for a while and when I asked her when she told me it whenever she came over to stay with me(which happened like 2 times). And the thing is, we made out after not talking to each other for nearly 3 years. After my uni I decided to completely cut ties with her because I knew that I was fucking up my life and one of the main reasons, there were plenty tbh, that were much worse than a girl not liking me but none of that mattered really because I honestly haven't cared about anything or anyone as much as I cared about her and I didnt know how to get her to like me. At the time I even thought it was all her fault(because it's definitely easier to blame someone else for the shit that goes wrong in your life than to admit that you're the fucking problem) and so one night I just sent her this huge message telling her to get the fuck out if my life and how she has ruined it and blocked her. After this I decided to quit smoking weed every day and isolated myself for a good 6 months(well not really by choice, I decided to move to my uncle's house during covid, and he wouldn't let me out because he was scared of getting infected). After the 6 months I went back to my hometown and I meet her the day after I landed(cuz we have mutual friends) and she asked me if i blocked her and I said yeah. We ended up meeting again a couple of times because we pretty much have the same friends, which didn't help me get over her so I just decided to cut out all my friends for like 2 years. And honestly speaking I got my shit together in those 2 years. Now I've never been someone with a lot of confidence my whole life. I've been an addict with no self control. Addicted to different substances, food, porn, cigarettes, just being an absolute waste man. Throughout high-school I was a fatass ugly fucker. I got attractive in uni cuz I smoked weed and lost a fuck ton of weight, I was attractive on the outside but a piece of shit on the inside(I knew it, but no one else really did)so getting attractive really didn't help my confidence a bit. In the last 2 years I finally got my shit together, got over almost all my addictions(smoking was my main, now it's porn, trying to get over it now) started going to the gym regularly and felt happy about myself, and I decided to start talking to my old friends and unblocked X because I finally realized it's not her fault that shit went wrong in my life, but my own which i didn't really admit to her cuz I had too much ego. I didn't even start talking to her, I just unblocked her and started following her socials. We ended up meeting because of our mutual friends, and the second time we met, we got super drunk, and we both started apologizing to each other. Later that night she made a move on me and we made out for a bit. Now I've hooked up with other people, but I've always felt like shit about it because it just never felt good. But I can't forget this fucking night, like it's etched in my fucking memory unlike most things because I have a shit memory. Honestly I forget most things that happen in my life except for moments i spend with her. Thing is I didn't wanna pursue it any further because I was leaving the country to pursue my passion (which didn't work out and I returned back home) and now I feel like it's too late to pursue it, because I don't think she's interested. I don't wanna tell her how I feel either because I've done this before and it's never worked out. I used to keep making excuses about being single to everyone by telling people that i don't have the opportunity to meet a lot of women after college(partially true), but now at my new job I meet plenty of women but I'm not interested in any of them because I know deep down I'm still in love with X. I don't think I can fall in love with anyone else and honestly I don't know what the fuck to do at this point. Worst part is life is going great at this point after being down in the dumps for so long. Got a decent job that I actually like going to, got great friends, have a lot of control over myself, but I still don't feel any happier because I'm not with her. Can't even tell this to anyone cuz our mutual friends think I'm over her, and don't know anything that happened between us. And my other friends just don't support me liking her so I just tell them I don't like her anymore.

I've been in love with this girl(X) since I was 14 or 15. I'm 26 now. Nearly 10 or 11 years later. We've been close friends on and off througout these years. On and off because I keep trying to cut ties(which I fail to keep cut because I just end up talking to her again). I did it once in high school when she got a boyfriend and then started talking to her again when they broke up, but I never had the balls to ask her out the rest of high school, and finally when it ended I tried cutting ties again before I left for uni(thought it'd be for good this time because we were going to different states, more than 10 hours away from each other). Things were going okay in uni, in my first year, and I found someone else(Y) that I liked, she had a boyfriend(long distance) so I wasn't hitting on her but l'm pretty sure she knew I liked her. We got really close in the first few months of uni, one day she asks me if i like her and I said yes, after which we stopped talking which really fucking hurt because I thought we were close friends. Right after that happened I started texting X again and it was like we never stopped talking. I got caught for weed at my dorm one night and while I was flipping out about being kicked out of the dorm and my parents finding out, she calls me up and one of the worst nights of my life turned out to be the best, and I guess that's when I realized I'm might still be in love with her. And I confirmed I was in love with her when one of our mutual friends told me that she told him that she liked me at some point in high school. But I didn't wanna admit it or tell her because I saw no point since we were 10 hours apart which just made me feel like absolute shit. Prior to college, till shit went south with Y, I'd never smoked(cigs or weed) or drank and was completely against it. One night I decided to get wasted(it was my first time getting drunk, and the last tbh for another 2 years) and since I didnt know any better I had 8 or 9 shots of whiskey back to back after which I got pretty fucked up and out of control and I ended up texting her admitting how I felt in I think a fucking 3 page essay to which I got no response which made me feel like absolute dogshit and I ended up crying the entire night at my friend's place. Next day I was still feeling like shit and I was at another friend's place smoking up and still crying about it to him and he just picks up my phone and calls her up and asks her to talk to me and she tells me she doesn't feel the same which broke me. After that conversation I just decided to just say fuck it, and fuck up my life, and I was just getting high on weed, alcohol or some other substance every day for the next 4 years. I barely attended uni, managed to get a year back. Pretty much wasted 5 years of my life just getting high or drunk. Anyways after that conversation with X, I stopped talking to her till I think my third year of uni. I met her once in twice in between, once when we were both back at our hometown, and once when she came to score some weed with her boyfriend (yeah I was also a dealer in uni). When I got into my 3rd year of uni, one day she hits me up outta nowhere and she said she's coming over to stay with me, and she stayed for like 2 days. I didnt make a move because I am a fucking dumbass, and I thought she just came there because we were friends. I call myself a dumbass because I do not understand signals from women. I'm also calling myself a dumbass because me and X ended up making out last year and she told me that she's wanted to do this for a while and when I asked her when she told me it whenever she came over to stay with me(which happened like 2 times). And the thing is, we made out after not talking to each other for nearly 3 years. After my uni I decided to completely cut ties with her because I knew that I was fucking up my life and one of the main reasons, there were plenty tbh, that were much worse than a girl not liking me but none of that mattered really because I honestly haven't cared about anything or anyone as much as I cared about her and I didnt know how to get her to like me. At the time I even thought it was all her fault(because it's definitely easier to blame someone else for the shit that goes wrong in your life than to admit that you're the fucking problem) and so one night I just sent her this huge message telling her to get the fuck out if my life and how she has ruined it and blocked her. After this I decided to quit smoking weed every day and isolated myself for a good 6 months(well not really by choice, I decided to move to my uncle's house during covid, and he wouldn't let me out because he was scared of getting infected). After the 6 months I went back to my hometown and I meet her the day after I landed(cuz we have mutual friends) and she asked me if i blocked her and I said yeah. We ended up meeting again a couple of times because we pretty much have the same friends, which didn't help me get over her so I just decided to cut out all my friends for like 2 years. And honestly speaking I got my shit together in those 2 years. Now I've never been someone with a lot of confidence my whole life. I've been an addict with no self control. Addicted to different substances, food, porn, cigarettes, just being an absolute waste man. Throughout high-school I was a fatass ugly fucker. I got attractive in uni cuz I smoked weed and lost a fuck ton of weight, I was attractive on the outside but a piece of shit on the inside(I knew it, but no one else really did)so getting attractive really didn't help my confidence a bit. In the last 2 years I finally got my shit together, got over almost all my addictions(smoking was my main, now it's porn, trying to get over it now) started going to the gym regularly and felt happy about myself, and I decided to start talking to my old friends and unblocked X because I finally realized it's not her fault that shit went wrong in my life, but my own which i didn't really admit to her cuz I had too much ego. I didn't even start talking to her, I just unblocked her and started following her socials. We ended up meeting because of our mutual friends, and the second time we met, we got super drunk, and we both started apologizing to each other. Later that night she made a move on me and we made out for a bit. Now I've hooked up with other people, but I've always felt like shit about it because it just never felt good. But I can't forget this fucking night, like it's etched in my fucking memory unlike most things because I have a shit memory. Honestly I forget most things that happen in my life except for moments i spend with her. Thing is I didn't wanna pursue it any further because I was leaving the country to pursue my passion (which didn't work out and I returned back home) and now I feel like it's too late to pursue it, because I don't think she's interested. I don't wanna tell her how I feel either because I've done this before and it's never worked out. I used to keep making excuses about being single to everyone by telling people that i don't have the opportunity to meet a lot of women after college(partially true), but now at my new job I meet plenty of women but I'm not interested in any of them because I know deep down I'm still in love with X. I don't think I can fall in love with anyone else and honestly I don't know what the fuck to do at this point. Worst part is life is going great at this point after being down in the dumps for so long. Got a decent job that I actually like going to, got great friends, have a lot of control over myself, but I still don't feel any happier because I'm not with her.

So I have worked very hard double majoring and getting a Bs in Biology and a Bs in forensic science because I have always wanted to be a CSI. Well I graduated in 2022 and I can’t get a CSI job without experience. Well I have been waiting and applying since graduation (almost finished out my 3rd Bs in Psychology in the mean time) and I got offered a job as a DNA analyst. Not my goal but a foot in the door and I just thought crap I’m Greg Sanders!

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Currently giving 3rd year end term exams of BTech Computer Science Engineering.
After, what I call, a series of bad financial decisions, my family has landed in a situation where we have to pay more than 60K per month in the form of loan repayments. My brother earns 25K per month all of which goes to debt repayment. My father is a cab driver and has a very irregular income. We used up all our savings to pay off this month. There is no way we can survive without me getting a job. I have decent knowledge of Web development technologies (JS, CSS, Next.js etc.), I have interests in Data Analytics, being a computer science student computer operations is my strongest point but considering the current situation, I am ready to take up just about any job. I have a 4 wheeler driver's licence and 2+ years of driving experience. I am open for driver roles (which do not require me to wear a uniform as my father never wants me to be a driver, he can not know I have taken up a driver's job). Any help is really appreciated.

I have lost my mother and grandmother at an age of 19 due to covid in 2020 because of that I had a conflict with my father and living in distance to him. From 2020 I'm staying with my mother's father (grandfather). Apart from food and accommodation remaining every expenditure is on my own. My grandfather is well settled and his son is software engineer. During COVID I helped him in moonlighting as he told he will give me 40K for working. I parallel worked in my current company and his job to get extra money. Atlast he didn't gave money and I accept it. In Indian culture after grandmother expired gold will be given to her daughter which is my mother. As my mother is not there they have to give it to me but they didn't have anything. Also my grandfather gave a word to my mom in past that he will give a flat to her but that also he skipped. I'm still staying with my grandfather, I earned good amount to stay alone but to save more money I'm staying in their house. Recently my uncle (grandfather son lost his job due to moonlighting) I'm supporting there family from past 6 months by giving 40,000₹ per month they told they will return back after getting money. Recently I met with an accident and my gt650 was heavily damaged it needs a repair cost of 40K still I gave that money to my grandfather as my uncle is not having job. Yesterday for going to gym I used their bike and they scold me for that. Usually they will scold me daily for small small things and I don't care about it. After giving 40K and paying 6K for medical expenses he is asking to pay current bill and book 3rd AC train tickets. I felt very bad that they not treating me well during my low times. What you will suggest guys I need to go out from here ? I accept they have taken care of me at my age of 19 but not financially.

Currently giving 3rd year end term exams of BTech Computer Science Engineering.
After, what I call, a series of bad financial decisions, my family has landed in a situation where we have to pay more than 60K per month in the form of loan repayments. My brother earns 25K per month all of which goes to debt repayment. My father is a cab driver and has a very irregular income. We used up all our savings to pay off this month. There is no way we can survive without me getting a job. I have decent knowledge of Web development technologies (JS, CSS, Next.js etc.), I have interests in Data Analytics, being a computer science student computer operations is my strongest point but considering the current situation, I am ready to take up just about any job. I have a 4 wheeler driver's licence and 2+ years of driving experience. I am open for driver roles (which do not require me to wear a uniform as my father never wants me to be a driver, he can not know I have taken up a driver's job). Any help is really appreciated.

I 27f recently resigned from one of my jobs, cutting my weekly income from $650 a week to only $300. I have another job that pays monthly at a varying rate, depends how many hours i work but I generally get a pretty good income from it. The problem currently is that I'm 3 weeks away from that wage coming in and have had a lot of unforeseen expenses due to health this year so my savings are pretty much dried up. I wasn't expecting having a dramatic income cut and I'm a bit lost at sea for the moment.
My bills and rent are all accounted for its just day to day living that is a challenge at present, what with cost of living and fuel prices skyrocketing where I am. I'm studying for a degree so if I could avoid adding a 3rd job back in I'd really prefer that. Does anyone have any ideas how I could get the $300 to stretch and maybe save a bit of it each week? Like ratio for how much to spend on each thing etc
the expenses most important to me are for my cats necessities, groceries and fuel, anything else I can do without. this all happened in the last few days so any ideas would be really appreciated!

Short story long my MIL lost her 3rd job since Covid, her BF that was paying her bills for a combined 18ish months between the last two job losses left her and now she’s about to lose her house. My wife wants to help her out and I get that, problem is we can’t afford her mortgage and our rent. My wife wants to move in with MIL to pay her bills. I’m conflicted here… on one hand I would do the same for my mom and would expect my wife to do it with me, I want that house one day in the future when she passes that’s a cool couple hundred grand in our pockets for retirement or we can eventually just buy it off of her before then. On the other hand she’s over 50 with no higher education and won’t take a job that doesn’t pay less than 60k, so she’s got a limited job pool and she’s already been fired from 3 of those companies. She’s not easy to get along with and that’s why she got fired from the company I work for after I got her a job and also why I leave Christmas dinner as soon as possible.
How do I go about this discussion with her and my wife, how do I get through this without ruining my mental health or even my marriage? I need a plan of attack and maybe even a contract. I want to write up some type of contract that states that every dollar I put into the mortgage is either paid back to me when she sells the house to someone else or gets deducted from the price that she sells the house to us for. Thank you all for reading and I’ll give any more info if y’all need it.
TL:DR mother in law needs help with mortgage so I might have to live with a lady who can’t pay her bills or keep a job

Short story long my MIL lost her 3rd job since Covid, her BF that was paying her bills for a combined 18ish months between the last two job losses left her and now she’s about to lose her house. My wife wants to help her out and I get that, problem is we can’t afford her mortgage and our rent. My wife wants to move in with MIL to pay her bills. I’m conflicted here… on one hand I would do the same for my mom and would expect my wife to do it with me, I want that house one day in the future when she passes that’s a cool couple hundred grand in our pockets for retirement or we can eventually just buy it off of her before then. On the other hand she’s over 50 with no higher education and won’t take a job that doesn’t pay less than 60k, so she’s got a limited job pool and she’s already been fired from 3 of those companies. She’s not easy to get along with and that’s why she got fired from the company I work for after I got her a job and also why I leave Christmas dinner as soon as possible.
How do I go about this discussion with her and my wife, how do I get through this without ruining my mental health or even my marriage? I need a plan of attack and maybe even a contract. I want to write up some type of contract that states that every dollar I put into the mortgage is either paid back to me when she sells the house to someone else or gets deducted from the price that she sells the house to us for. Thank you all for reading and I’ll give any more info if y’all need it.
TL:DR mother in law needs help with mortgage so I might have to live with a lady who can’t pay her bills or keep a job

Hi guys. I'm struggling with confessional OCD... 2 years ago when I was undiagnosed and still in university, there were small cases of academic dishonesty involved. Like doing online quizzes with friends etc. It was an open secret that everyone was doing it but I went and confessed to like 6 professors that I cheated in their tests...
Fast forward now I find myself in a similar situation. The other day I was taking an online quiz for a work related certification and although the quiz said closed book, I actually had my notes opened to refer...
I don't understand why this incident in particular has such a big impact suddenly, especially when I have been "forced" to cheat by my boss at a previous job.
Now I'm once again thinking that confessing is the only way to relieve my anxiety. Unlike last time, I now know that is disastrous for my career but can't shake this anxiety off.
Can anyone please help me?

I work 3rd shift at store 1276. I've been doing okay for 2 months give or take, then dynamics at work changed a bit, for example; timing how long we run freight. Supposedly the set pace is a minute per box and an hour per pallet, so I ve been timing myself and doing pretty well until the burn out caught up to me. I have PTSD and HPPD, people who have this know how important self care really is for these disorders. Well 3rd shift is killing my appetite and due to circumstances outside of my control at home I'm not sleeping like I should. As a result my HPPD is in full swing, im unsure as to how to disclose this to my coach as the stigmas associated with HPPD can be rather negative. I need advice since doctors notes aren't accepted. Should I switch to first shift? Should I start looking for another job? I'm already at 3 or 4 points due to this exact problem and I'm still in my 90 days.

Besides the questions in the title I tired to elaborate a little and also each question(s) has two, a. and b. sections. Section a. is meant for sort of a broad understanding. Section b. is my personal, specific case example (active claim, CA ~10 months).
I'm sure who you'll see will depend on state law, your injury, among other things. Regardless of who you see, more importantly: How do we (the injured worker) know if who we've been assigned to is doing their job correctly or just having an off day, since we know it's not required to have good bedside manner, what are they required by definition AND law? That said:

1a. Despite case by case variations; who are personnel that everyone will see no matter what? What should you expect from them, and is there more they can do...but only if you know how to ask? I'm imagining a knowledgeable answer would be a long list of all the possible outcomes within the maximum allowed in WC, but probably more helpful is to address the most common. A small list may only include a companies HR, Claims adjustor, and an Occupational Health doctor for example. Then continuing the list after those essential people is there typically a usual process where if once your case goes for a certain amount of time or ______ happens, you could expect to meet these ______ job title? I'm hoping to help other people at least have an idea of what to expect out of said people.

1b. TLDR: Here's one of the biggest examples of not knowing who to talk to and whether that information is correct. I have not been given crucial test results from 3 months ago. Original test (Neuropathy) doc said to get my results from my doctor, who sends me to therapist, who sends me back to doctor, my adjustor says doctor, doctor sends me to "Specialist", turns out not specialist, who sends me back to my doctor...ummmm....WTF do I do at my next doctors visits in a few days??

1b (cont.) It has come to my attention that I'm completely unaware of exactly what a large majority of the people I've been assigned to see do. In fact, in what capacity do I "have to see them"? Can I request a swap, or how do I make a complaint? I have been MORE than patient, and I've given the benefit of the doubt for so long that I can no longer accept being passed along. I'm already back where I started, for the 3rd time. Uh...so, besides just wanting information for myself, I'd think the test results should help me heal. I've been denied more treatments (Appeal's denied too) where I'd think that those test results could play a crucial role. Where once I thought there has there been a miscommunication, now feels like I'm in an echo chamber, or worse. This is quite alarming as it also shines light into the fact that I am also unaware of how "my doctor" can best help me, if at all. "My doctor", the one I'm required to see at Occupational Health, (I'm told I not allowed to see my family doctor) doesn't seem to do anything other than fill out the "Return to work form". Is that correct? How would I know?? They seem to just write whatever I tell them. Similarly the same goes for what treatments I've gotten. Best I can tell, there is no indication they have reviewed any of the information from other doctors and therapists. It's now going on 3 months where I haven't been given test results.

Unfortunately it's not just my doctor who I'm not getting information from. "Generic Adjustor" Enters the chat. or maybe not, because to top off the confusion, I can't get ahold of my adjustor who so far been the one steering me into the .... direction. Unfortunately I believe I'm waking up too late. I've called multiple times a day for a week straight while leaving messages and follow up emails noting that I've called. They do respond to email, which usually consists of one line stating something like "call anytime, I'll be in the office all week".. Funny thing is I'm not sure what exactly they are even supposed to do or bare minimum required to do. Even when I get ahold of them, I'm questioning if I can even trust them. I'm not saying "it's conspiracy". However due to the most recent info I've gotten, I do think the run around could be very deliberate play. How do I know if they're simply bad at their job or leaving me in the dark. It sure feels like it's purposeful. This all came to a head when after reviewing our last few emails, I see a pattern where they only respond to some of the questions, and even have given verifiably incorrect, contradictory information. How do I check these facts? Should I talk to a supervisor? Is there a system to check and balance these things? Who do I talk to? It all came to a head when I opened mail to find: Request of QME with the reason being "Objection to Primary Treating Physician's determination regarding temporary disability, permanent disability, or the need for future medical care." Aggravating but I'm sure they followed the (rules I was unaware of) book. It's questions like this that have me really, really upset: What is even meant by "Objection to Primary Treating Physician's determination"? 1. Quick sidebar - is that decision made by the "my doctor" that I described earlier - or the "Provider"? > Meaning, those two terms have been used interchangeably, and I fear that, and why I used quotes for "my doctor" earlier, I'm wondering if this other name (who happens to be another doctor at the Occupational Health office) a person I have never met let alone seen is the one calling the shots. Either way I'm pretty worried. 2. Here is another example which shows only a part of the circle of "who do I talk to". Here is a quote from my adjustor 10 days after the letter had been officiated, but before I got it states "you have not seen a specialist, attended a QME, or have a clear treatment plan defined by your primary treating physician.". Am I wrong to have read that to believe I'd still be seeing a specialist? Doesn't it read that the information the specialist decides would be what determines the next step? Isn't it safe to say that by month 10 I'd have a treatment plan --of course unless your not privy to your own test results?
Ending note: There is so many more examples I could give which to me paint a picture of neglect. From what I can tell, I either already signed my rights away or it's just not worth the fight. I don't even want to fight, or believed there would be a reason for a disagreement due to my injury but since that bubble of disillusionment has popped, how can I reproach getting the best medical treatment. I was lead to believe that after seeing a specialist I would have the option to get a second opinion before the QME. I haven't even seen the first specialist (I was sent to an office with a specialist in it, but the person I saw was just a family practitioner).and since both my doctor and my adjutor are not helping ---Who the fuck do I talk to?

"THIS IS THE HORZION MANIFESTO, IF ANYONE FROM HORIZON COMES IN AND SEES THIS, I'M GLAD THAT THE MORONIC OF FUCKING HORIZION CAN GO AND FUCK ITSELF.
FUCK HORIZON, FUCK THIS JOB, AT SITE 14,
I HAVE TO CLEAN EVERYTHING IN THIS FUCKING SHITFUCK SITE. FUCK THIS SHIT. 2ND, WHAT THE FUCK IS WITH MC ANTON SHATTY LAZAR. HE'S A FUCKING RANCID RETARD WHO HAS THE BRAIN OF THE INTERNATIONAL CORPORATE POWERS!
3RD, FUCKING MALLCUCKS AND THOSE FUCKHEADS IN THIS JOB IS FILLED WITH SHIT, IT'S FILLED WITH FUCKING SHIT! WHO THE FUCK EVEN MADE ME CLEAN THIS MADNESS IN GUNNERSON COMPLEX. THE SWEDISH GOVERNMENT SHOULD DO SOMETHING! ALSO WHAT'S THAT, JOEL BJORKLUND, THE PRESIDENT OF SWEDEN AND THE LEADING PARTY OF STOCKHOLM FÖRENADE FOLKPARTIET (STOCKHOLM UNITED PEOPLE'S PARTY), NOW SUPPORT THESE RETARDED COMPLEXES. ONE MOURING THAT RETARDED BRITISH FUCKHEAD, THE OTHER BEING THE CRYBABY CIA SHITTARD? WHAT THE FUCK? ALSO WHY THE FUCK IS PANDORA CONSIDERED "The Best End High Life" PLACE EVER?!
IT RESEMBLES THE LUXURIOUS FUCKS AND SECURITY IS SHIT, FUCK EVERYONE INVOLVED IN THIS SHIT,
FUCK HORIZON!

THEY THE DEATH, THEY ARE THE NEW NAZIS, THE NEW COMMIES, THEY ARE CONQUERING YOUR LIVES. FIGHT FOR YOUR OWN LIVES. JOIN THE UNITED NATIONAL RESISTANCE. FIGHT BACK AGAINST THE LIES AMONG THE POLITICAL FAKE GODS.

God Bless you and hope you are blessed by the real gods, not the fake political gods."

Sounds silly, I know. But let me set the scene: I got a job at a jail right out of my ASN, which required basically 0 nursing skill. I was a glorified pill pusher. I got my BSN the following year in May. In August of that year I got into an FNP program assuming that I would get a thorough education and wouldn’t have to self-teach. Boy was I absolutely wrong. I left the jail and got a job at a psych hospital on an adolescent unit where I’m using even less nursing knowledge and skill. I’m going into my 3rd and final year of the MSN program and feel like I have 0 nursing skill, 0 knowledge, and am doomed. Because of this, I’m strongly considering leaving my job and going somewhere in a real hospital that I’ll learn something. Is it possible to be hired as a grad nurse or as a newbie 2+ years after graduation?
TL;DR: I have no useful knowledge or experience and feel trapped asf.

AITAH for breaking ties with my cousin sister
I moved to different country 9 yrs ago when i was 20 yrs old...My cousin sister and me had a very beautiful bond since i was a kid and basically she did my upbringing as a kid like part of it and then got married and went abroad 20 yrs ago when i was 9/10 yrs old...After moving to abroad,I lived at my cousin sister house with her husband,children and father-in-law for 2 and half months.My BIL helped me in getting my 1st job here.My cousin sis(then 38yrs) and BIL(maybe 39) are quite older than me
So the story goes that i was about to be 20 yrs old and was in a different country so learning everything took me a while.I use to work 12 hour shift and BIL use to come to pick me up from work.My BIL and me never got along.At nights,whenever me and my cousin sis and BIL,her in laws use to discuss about certain topic like life,what to do next etc so generally my views use to be different than my BIL and we never got along...We use to fight on small things like why i went to my room after 12 hour shift and didn't sit with them at 1 am,didn't wakeup at 7 am to make tea for everyone,got tattoo made on my arm and was judged for it, etc
I come from abusive family(my mom and dad got seperate before i was born).I never got emotional support from my family,felt absense of my dad alot and didnt knew what family look alike or felt like...I was my mom's emotional support since i was kid and had to deal with her mental breakdowns .So coming back to story my BIL was finding rooms for me so i got a room near their house accidently...At times,i use to visit them and again due to having different views about certain things,I was told to leave their house..One time my BIL cussed at me on phone for some reason and i couldn't stop crying and told my family about it.I was still told that I am wrong at this by my family.I might have also not been a good guest which i don't deny.
I moved to different city and visited my sis after 3 yrs...on 3rd day,got in fight with cousin sister cause i came from work from night shift at 3 am and slept at 4 am but i didnt wakeup in the morning at 7 am or 8 am or 9 am to help my sister so BIL was pissed at this and i was told to leave the house by my cousin sister.I was going through difficult phase at that time because of my relationship with my then bf(now ex) and had nowhere to live.I lived at hotel for 2 days and found place to rent on 3rd day.
Moving forward 4 yrs later my sis was terribly ill and had operation and i didn't go because of my work and i didn't get leave even...I was not on good terms with BIL so didn't call him and i had this weird feel like i was scared to call my BIL...and i talked to my sister later after few days but whenever i talked about coming over to her house after the operation,she would disconnect the phone.I prayed to god everyday for my sister's good health literally but i couldn't get past the things how their behaviour was when i was going through the worst period of my life and had no one to rely on.I don't have any siblings.
Now my uncle is coming here from back home and today on call with me, i was made to feel like i am the black sheep of my family...I was told to either marry within 1 yr or afterthat nobody in the family is going to ask about it,cut ties with me and i can do whatever i want.I was told that i was wrong to not visit my sister when she had operation.
I just don't know with whom to talk to about my feelings.I had toxic childhood and my bringing up was litterly like having mental breakdown.I Don't have any family support in any way but i made some good friends along the way...It took me quite some time to get hold of myself mentally...
So am i wrong here for breaking ties with my cousin sister and BIL or AITAH??? Thanks for reading

Okay so I am here today (23F) because I believe that my situation ship of one month (30M) is lying to me. When we first met he told me about this “family friend” who is older (he said around her 60s) whom he hangs out with often. He runs errand with her, works out with her, eats dinner with her, etc.
I thought nothing of it. On our 3rd date he told me he wanted to be honest with me and said that he has a guest house in his back yard and she rents it from him. I understood because this is pretty normal. However he complained about how she was asking him for money and he doesn’t understand why because she gets social security and has a job, but that she always has the new things. Like an iPad, iPhone and Apple Watch. However he did say he was going to let her borrow the money which was shocking to me as he didn’t even pay for my cover charge when we went out yesterday. So it seems like he is stingy with money. He also recently told me that since they work out together, he purchased “himself” (but really it’s for her because she uses it) an electric bike so she can ride it while he runs. He told me this past week they had dinner together at cicis and that they went grocery shopping for their own things afterwards.
Today, we spoke on the phone and he told me he went swimming. I asked if he went with anyone and he said “ugh- I don’t know??” But then said it was his family friend and that they swam in an inflatable pool???? But a kiddie pool. Like ?!?!?!?! That’s not normal in my opinion. With all these details I am starting to believe that she is more than just a family friend. I don’t know her name, never met her and sure she “knows about me” because apparently he has mentioned her to me. He only sees me on Fridays because he is “too busy” on the other days but he’s with her? And I always spend the night but he always has me leaving before 11 AM. Sometimes before 10. He always says “I have to run a few errands” and that’s my queue to leave.
Anyways- on the phone I ask him “hey- you don’t do anything with her right?”
Immediately he is upset and annoyed and states “omg. Seriously? Why would you- that’s not even appropriate to ask! Quit ruining to conversation”
It made me take the biggest step back. Even though I dropped the conversation, he still had an awful attitude so I told Him to talk to me when he loses his attitude and he just said “alright- ttyl”
Please someone answer me on whether I am right or not or give some sort of explanation.
TL;DR I think my situationship is sleeping with his family friend.

Hey,
So I just want some unbiased feedback from people regarding if my cousins were abused growing up. They both would insist they weren't, but the older one (27F same age as me) is currently in rehab for alcohol abuse after her 3rd DUI after moving across the country to California by herself. She's made a LOT of bad decisions over the years but she used to be my best friend when we were younger... I know she's suffered from ana/bul for a long time and had a miscarriage when we were 13. She has openly had issues with her dad (my uncle) since we were teens, but has verbalized for the last few years on and off that "nobody cares about her" and "her family treats her like shit"...
My younger cousin (24M) I currently live with and love to absolute pieces but he's also been through a lot. His parents kicked him out during covid at the age of 20 with no job because they were moving almost 2 hours away and wanted to live child free. I've expressed many a time how shocking this was to my cousin when he told me about it and it severely changed my overall outlook on my aunt and uncle. He couch surfed for years off and on until I was able to get him a job working with me and he was able to move in with me and my best friend. We've lived together for over a year now and things were overall happy but recently he's been dealing with a lot again. My best friend and my cousin are both queer and a messed up situation occurred on the Grindr app between the two of them, but long story short my best friend ended up coordinating a voyeur event involving my cousin.
This has caused shock waves throughout the house obviously and my cousin has every right to be extremely upset. After a lot of confusion, some things were cleared up from the extra person that was involved with this and it was proven that my best friend did not touch my cousin. This does NOT change the fact that the entire situation was effed up and orchestrated, but I do believe with intense therapy for both of them that something can be worked out...
However, I also do not believe that with all of the stuff going on with my cousin that he had any right to lash out at me in the car for explaining how I feel like our coworkers are harassing me at work. For context, my cousin is into edgelord dumb alt right style comedy and likes to make transphobic, homophobic, racist, etc jokes at work sometimes. The trade field I am in is almost all men, and I am one of two women in our whole shop. There were more before, but after the last one quit for a different job, all these jokes have just gotten SO much worse. I constantly feel like I am getting egged on for my reaction, one example was last week i was told I should "get stung by a bee for the experience" after talking about how my grandma was deathly allergic. This kind of things been happening almost weekly since January and I vented to my cousin in the car ride home (I give him car rides almost every work day) and he just absolutely blew up on me.
He screamed about how I need to "Get the eff over it", how he has to tell me like it is because when I get upset it ruins the whole vibe for him and he just wants to have fun at work. I told him that edgy jokes are fun when theyre NOT pointed directly at someone and he just wouldnt put himself into my shoes and continually told me to get thicker skin. There was a lot more that was said but long story short, he basically cannot accept that he could be wrong in this situation and even if it was all jokes, if it hurts someone its not worth making them.
I know that's how he was raised, his dad specifically gives no effs about equality, "woke culture", etc and they've always been VERY well off their whole lives so my cousins feel that anybody who has trauma or gets upset about "little things" need to suck it up because that's what their parents told them. My uncle still calls depression "the dark place" I do know that he's currently in therapy but I fear that the damage to his kids is too far gone. My dad (my uncle's brother) died in 2010, and my mom is a single mom whos been working at a grocery store for 41 years but can still find time to love and empathize with her child. She was also very upset to hear that my cousin was kicked out during covid and she bought him a queen size mattress to sleep on while he stayed at her house with my sister for a few months before moving in with me.
I just want to know the best way to move forward with my cousins. The older one in California I fear is a lost cause, she's been told to move back home so many times and she just wont... The cousin that I live with didn't come home last night after our blow up because I texted him setting my boundaries going forward (not allowed to use my coffee and no more rides to work) and texted back shooting off things to hit below the belt (like my weight, how I am "rotting" because I dont go out and see friends every night like he does, etc.) I want to be there for him because of all the things he is going through but I also need to protect my peace.
Thoughts?