Boyfriend, Male from Australia, 23
Me, 23 Female from the Philippines
Little backstory too, i wasn't interested in him and doing another LDR because I was already traumatized but he would assure me and always updates me calls me and sometimes would buy me gifts and deliver food to my house. He made me trust him so i trusted him eventually.
Back to the story: 3 weeks before this incident happened it was our first month together officially, he works in AUS and i live in the PH. So far so good we are happy we celebrated our 1st monthsary on facetime, he is also a Filipino. He was waiting for his citizenship ceremony but he said it takes 4-6 months for the date of when you are to pledge (he wants to come home his hometown:Philippines and visit me).
3 days before he completely ignore me we were face timing, always updates each other and on monday i asked him about his dad bc he was going to apply for a return visa but his documents are with his dad and his dad didnt allow him to have it, but i told him to ask his brother to use his dad's laptop or whenever he comes home from work he should borrow his dad's laptop for him to get his needed documents
Then Tuesday comes around he usually calls me and updates me during his break time even for a bit but that time he didn't i told him that he should have messages me even though he was online on both instagram and facebook messenger.
Then wednesday and thursday comes around he keeps saying he is busy but he always says goodnight in advance and i love you but when i confronted him he told me that he was thinking while he is at work about the citizenship pledge but it would take another 4-6 months of waiting and he really really wants to go home and after he said that he ghosted me, I can't send messages on imessage, i got muted on instagram dms and facebook messenger (ik this bc whenever i try to call him he doesnt pick up). I cried so much because i don't know what he meant by that? He said in the beginning of the relationship he would wait and he can do LDR he would assure me so much because i was hesitant to try ldr again.
I tried emailing him but im not sure if he reads my email.
Help me idk what to do my heart feels heavy

Hello knife connoisseurs, thanks for looking at my sharp and pointy things. Finding new forever homes for those that never get carried or used.

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• Custom Bugout reblades. (TK, Gersh, Rek etc…) Will take a full build or blade only.
• Spyderco Exclusives & Sprints Regular Production (MagnaCut, Cru-Wear, M4, K390 etc.)
• Benchmade Bugout & Osborne (M4)
• Spyderco Sage 5 & Native 5 (M4)
• Quiet Carry Drift & Drift L/LC
• Knafs Landers 2
• Leatherman Charge+ G10 Earth

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For Your Consideration:

SOLD >>> Ontario Rat 1 & Extra Hardware

• Sale Value - $25
• Ownership - First
• Centering/Lockup - Blade favors show side with a solid lockup
• Condition - The Rat 1 blade is off center, but it doesn’t rub the liner. Only by a gnat’s hair though, a note card can be passed between the blade and liner. The action is good without any blade play and solid lockup. I changed the pivot on the Rat 1 thinking it may correct the centering, but I didn’t and I’m giving up on the project. The knife has original hardware and additional hardware of pivot’s, screws, standoffs, washers, clips are included. Also worthy of mention the Rat 1 has been used and shows signs of use like snail trails, scuffs, etc.
• Edge Condition - Looks like a factory edge, but lets say I have sharpened it in the past because I don’t remember if I had or haven’t.
• Blade Style/Edge - Drop Point / Plain edge
• Included - Knife and extra hardware, no box
• Modifications - Yes, New pivot, pivot screws, and washers were installed from the hardware kits.
• Disassembled - Yes to lube and exchange parts to fix the centering issue
• Action - Smooth action but I have the pivot tightened more to my liking instead of being drop shut smooth
• Finish/Blade Steel - Satin / AUS-8
• Handle Material - Green G10
• Blade Length - Blade length: 3.625” Overall length: 8.625”

Retired Leatherman's (Super Tool/PST/PST) Bundle

• Sale Value - $100
• I will not be breaking up this set of vintage Leatherman’s

Leatherman Super Tool

• Date Code - 0797
• Ownership - Multiple
• Condition - Good used condition with surface dirt and scuffs. The tools and all seem to be in good working order and open smoothly. I would suggest a good cleaning with warm soapy water, compressed air and lubed.

Leatherman PST

• Date Code - 0797 & 0897
• Ownership - Multiple
• Condition - Good used condition with surface dirt and scuffs. The tools and all seem to be in good working order and open smoothly. I would suggest a good cleaning with warm soapy water, compressed air and lubed.

Leatherman PST II

• Date Code - 1099 & 1199
• Ownership - Multiple
• Condition - Good used condition with surface dirt & rust, and scuffs. The tools and all seem to be in good working order and open smoothly. I would suggest a good cleaning with warm soapy water, compressed air and lubed.

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(FridayXIII 05.19.24)

Hi all, looking at vehicle that’s 2007 prod date and 2011 compliance in Aus. Is it possible to have almost a 4 year gap between the two?

Hallo, Mein Freund (bald 33) und ich (27) sind jetzt schon seit 6 Jahren ein Paar. Auch, wenn wir schon Beziehungen davor hatten, sind wir für uns gegenseitig die erste, richtige und große Liebe.
Ich liebe ihn aufrichtig und so wie ich für ihn empfinde, habe ich sonst für keinen anderen Mann empfunden bisher. Er hat den schönsten Charakter überhaupt und ich war mir immer sicher, dass er der Mann an meiner Seite ist und ich ihn irgendwann heiraten will. Allerdings bekomme ich nicht das erste Mal leider Zweifel.
Ich weiß nicht, ob es der Alltag ist, der sich in unsere Beziehung eingeschlichen hat oder was anderes, aber ich merke, wie mich unsere Beziehung nicht mehr wirklich. Ich merke, wie ich oft genervt bin von ihm. Und er merkt das auch, was mir dann voll leid tut. Wenn er nach Hause kommt, schmeißt er gleich den Fernseher an und schaut erstmal zig verschiedene YouTubevideos zu aktuellen politischen Ereignissen. Und wenn es nicht das ist, dann ist es Fußball. Wenn er morgens aufwacht, ist das erste, was er macht, gleich am Handy Nachrichten zu konsumieren und politische Themen über Instagram zu verfolgen. Auch so ist er viel am Handy, was mich manchmal echt stört. Nicht falsch verstehen, ich Interesse mich auch sehr für Politik und tausche mich gerne aus und lerne gerne von ihm. Aber mittlerweile besteht der Alltag aus nichts anderem mehr außer seinen medienkonsum und dass er abends dafür auf dem Sofa liegt während ich zum Sport gehe oder was anderes aktives mache. Also diese träge Art macht ihn für mich irgendwie unattraktiver, weil ich selber vom Typ her sehr aktiv und sportlich bin. Früher war er irgendwie nicht so. Er kann auch Tage damit verbringen, einfach auf dem Sofa zu liegen und nur zum Rauchen das Haus zu verlassen und ich merke, dass es mir einfach nicht genügt. Ich würde mir wünschen, dass er mehr aus seinem Kopf rauskommt und einfach tatkräftigesportlicheaktiver ist bzw. Hobbys hat, die ihn körperlich fordern. Ich bin jeden Tag im gym und merke leider, indem icj es bei anderen Männern sehe, wie sie fast jeden Tag an ihre körperlichen Grenzen gehen, wie sehr mir das irgendwie bei meinem Freund fehlt. Auch, wenn ich ihn wirklich für seine Intelligenz und Weltoffenheit liebe, aber mir fehlt irgendwo das körperliche als Ausgleich und das schon länger.
Ansonsten wohnen wir zwar zusammen, aber irgendwie leben wir nur nebeneinander her, wie sehr gute WG-Mitbewohner. Keine Leidenschaft, keine Aufregung, auch Zärtlichkeiten werden kaum ausgetauscht. Letztes Mal hatten wir seit langem mal wieder Sex gehabt und irgendwie hat es das erste mal in unserer Beziehung nicht richtig angefühlt. Ich habe keine Liebe dabei gespürt. Der Sex früher war zärtlicher, inniger, leidenschaftlicher usw, aber diesmal war es einfach nur „plastisch“, wenn das Sinn ergibt? Auch so küssen wir uns im Alltag kaum, aber weder er noch ich scheinen uns da Mühe geben zu wollen.
Auf Dates sind wir bereits gegangen in letzter Zeit. Aber irgendwie macht es am Ende nicht viel aus und am nächsten Tag geht’s wieder so weiter. Man hat sich irgendwie auch ich mehr viel zu erzählen.
Meine Frage ist, denkt ihr, dass ich übertreibe und dass sowas normal ist in einer Beziehung oder dass meine Gefühle legitim sind? Denkt ihr, es besteht noch Hoffnung und wenn ja, was können wir ändern, um wieder diese Liebe wie damals zu spüren?
Danke schon mal🩵

Hallo, ich habe übermorgen ein art von „date“ und weiß nicht wo ich mit ihr hin soll. es wird eher ein zusammenkuscheln & reden, aber ich weiß nicht wo ich mit ihr meine Ruhe haben kann. Ich werde sie morgen abholen, also wäre es fein wenn man bisschen von Wels aus fahren muss. Bitte bitte hat jemand coole spots wo man schön ungestört auf die Stadt sieht bzw. andere coolen Orte die nicht all zu voll sind ?? jeder tipp ist willkommen :0

A2/B1 Vokabeln:
auf den neuesten Stand = Up to date
ausführlich = detailed
ergattern = to gain
verlangen = to demand
offensichtlich = obviously
die Beziehung = relationship
Liebe Nena-Fans,
Ich denke, wir haben euch alle auf den neuesten Stand gebracht, was seit Sams Tod vor genau einem Jahr passiert ist. Wir hoffen, dass wir am Montag mit Nena weitermachen können.
Nachdem Leonardo zur Arbeit gegangen war, klopfte es noch ein paar Mal an der Tür. Wir haben jetzt einen großen Teil der Leute kennengelernt, die in diesem Hof leben.
Wie versprochen kam Leonardo mit den Zutaten für das Abendessen nach Hause und kochte Tagliatelle-Nudeln mit Krabben. Nachdem wir etwas Wein getrunken und gegessen hatten, fragte er, ob wir den Abend nutzen könnten, um uns ausführlich über ihn zu erklaren. Na klar!
Er holte seinen Laptop heraus und öffnete eine PowerPoint-Präsentation. "Hier ist ein Bild von meiner Schule. Ich unterrichte sowohl online als auch persönlich von meiner Wohnung aus. Wie du weißt, unterrichte ich auch Leute an Orten ihrer Wahl. Ich unterrichte Italienisch für Nicht-Muttersprachler und Englisch für Italiener. Der Löwenanteil meines Geschäfts ist jedoch der Deutschunterricht für italienische Jugendliche. Die gut bezahlten Jobs in Europa gibt es vor allem in Deutschland, aber um einen zu ergattern, musst du fließend Deutsch sprechen."
Als Nächstes holte er einen Ordner mit Dokumenten hervor. "Das sind meine Steuererklärungen vom letzten Jahr. Ich möchte, dass ihr sie alle durchseht und euch selbst davon überzeugt, dass es mir finanziell gut geht."
Mariko fragte: "Leonardo, warum zeigst du uns das alles? Wir haben nichts davon verlangt."
"Es ist sehr wichtig für mich, dass ihr euch die Akte anseht. Für mich ist es ganz offensichtlich, dass ihr reich seid. Aber ich will nicht, dass ihr auch nur auf den Gedanken kommt, dass ich ein selbstsüchtiger Gigolo bin."
"Es stimmt, dass wir drei eine Menge finanzieller Mittel haben", sagte ich. "Aber wir hatten nie den Verdacht, dass eure Beziehung zu uns auf Geld basiert."
"Das ist gut zu wissen. Das hätte ich nicht gedacht. Aber jetzt möchte ich euch von meiner Ehe und meiner Scheidung erzählen." Er fuhr fort, uns eine sehr traurige Geschichte zu erzählen, die viele Jahre dauerte und vor einem Jahr in einer verheerenden Scheidung gipfelte. Ich glaube, dass die Geschichten der Menschen ihnen gehören. Da ich nicht die Erlaubnis seiner ehemaligen Frau habe, die Geschichte zu erzählen, werde ich es nicht tun. Es reicht, wenn ich verrate, dass es eine Menge Elend und viele Schuldzuweisungen gab, die man sich teilen musste.
"Sowohl unser Werben als auch unsere Ehe waren gut geplant, aber es ging trotzdem schief. Mein Therapeut hat mich gewarnt, mich nicht auf neue Beziehungen einzulassen, bevor nicht ein Jahr vergangen ist. Das ist es auch ... und dann habe ich euch drei getroffen. Dieses Mal will ich nicht wie früher mit dem Kopf arbeiten, sondern mit dem Herzen. Wir kennen uns erst seit ein paar Wochen, aber es fühlt sich für mich einfach richtig an! Ich brauche keine Zeit, um 'das Wasser zu testen' oder 'getting to know you' machen."
"Glaube mir", sagte Mariko, "ich verstehe dieses Gefühl. So habe ich auch mein Leben geführt."
"Ich bin der Typ Mensch, der am besten mit Verpflichtungen zurechtkommt. Ich möchte eine Beziehung zwischen uns vier vorschlagen, die auf Gedeih und Verderb, in Krankheit und Gesundheit und auf jeden Fall jetzt beginnt - trotz der Unterschiede im Alter, in den Finanzen und dem, was andere Leute denken könnten. Damit wir einige Hürden überwinden und du nicht daran erstickst, schlage ich vor, dass wir uns ab heute für ein Jahr verpflichten. Ich bin sehr gerne bereit, jede Art von Ehevertrag zu unterschreiben."
Er präsentierte ein Muster, das von einer KI generiert wurde. Das war das Ende seines Elevator Pitch. Jack sagte sofort: "Ich bin dabei." Mariko und ich traten auf die Bremse. Wir denken, dass wir drei mehr reden müssen.
"Ich weiß, dass ihr drei Buddhisten seid. Ich möchte auch klarstellen, dass ich Atheist bin und kein Interesse an irgendeiner Religion habe." Gut, wenn wir weitermachen, stimmten wir alle zu.
Auf jeden Fall hielten wir es für angebracht, seine ursprüngliche Frage von heute Nachmittag über Poly-Intimität sowohl vor als auch nach Sams Tod zu beantworten. "Es gibt nicht den einen 'Poly-Ansatz' für Intimität. Wir kennen zum Beispiel eine andere vierköpfige Familie, die ausschließlich Intimität unter vier Augen praktiziert, aber mit wechselnden Partnern. Sowohl vor Sams Tod als auch danach haben wir uns immer in ein Bett gequetscht. Wir sind sehr aktiv und kreativ. Das ist unsere Erwartung, und sie ist nicht verhandelbar. Das ist manchmal sehr schwierig. Das ist ein Weg, wie wir lernen, unser Leben zu strecken."
Vielleicht haben wir vier im Laufe des Abends mehr getan, als nur zu reden. Das geht niemanden sonst etwas an.
Die Nachbarn haben uns für morgen früh zu einem "Welcome Home"-Frühstück im Hof eingeladen. Ich sagte, ich glaube, wir haben die italienische Barriere durchbrochen.
"Nein", sagte Leonardo, "ihr seid nur zu 70% da."
"Nur 70%?"
"Ja. Ihr erreicht 80%, wenn ihr den Skandal weiter füttert. Ihr erreicht 90%, wenn ihr euren ersten italienischen Dorfkampf überlebt habt. 100% erreicht ihr, wenn ihr einen Kampf auf Italienisch ausgetragen habt!"
Liebe Nena-Fans, ich denke, wir sind bereit, dieses persönliche Kapitel vorerst abzuschließen und am Montag mit Nena weiterzumachen. Keine Sorge, wir werden euch von Zeit zu Zeit mit einigen Highlights und Updates versorgen.

Moin aus Hamburg! Ich habe bald ein Date in der mit-schönsten Hanstestadt Lübeck und kenne mich leider gar nicht dort aus. Habt ihr Empfehlungen an Orten die man besuchen kann an einem schönen Sommertag? Bspw Spaziergang, dann Restaurant oder Bar. Gesucht sind eher mittelpreisige Lokalitäten (wir sind Mitte 20) 🤞🏻
Ich danke euch im Voraus!
M

I F(20) have slowly fallen for my M(20) best friend. Could it be a KFC love story?
Me and my best friend met at our first job when we were 16 at KFC (met in year 10 AUS now in first year university). Our store was new so we constantly worked together. Our first time meeting we awkwardly went to McDonalds for lunch and shared some laughs and since then there has been almost no awkwardness.
We could never stop laughing but it was always friends and only ever a side thought it could ever be more. Our friendship meant to much and soon those feelings went away.
He had set me up with one of his friends that was a very complicated situationship lasting roughly 10 months. That was 2 years ago and we have both since moved on seen different people, but that provides some hesitance for me.
Over that period we hung out a lot and our friendship grew so strong and afterwards in year 12 although we didn't see each other often we would call all the time and I would constantly receive the most lovely drunk dials where he would tell me how much he cared for me and what was happening in his life while I sat in my bedroom studying (he is more of party goer than me but I tag along whenever I'm free).
Last year in august was his birthday party. I went and at this point a part of me was slowly realising I was falling for him and thought I would make a move. He did not seem to be getting the point so I moved on to some meaningless hook up with some other random guy which me and my best friend laughed about soon after and make jokes of to this day.
I didn't think to much about my feelings afterwards. However lately a conversation we had keeps coming up in my mind. At a lunch 2 years ago we were discussing how apparently most boys think about liking a girl when they first meet. I asked whether he ever thought it about us? He said yeah he liked me for a bit but realised our friendship was worth too much (implying he didn't want to ruin it by asking me out).
I have realised I'm in love with him. The way he has been there me through some of my toughest moments where we cry to each other and he has entrusted me with his toughest moments. Yet it's not about the way he cares about me, it's the way he cares for everyone around him. He is the kindest truest person I know and whenever If I do something wrong he will tell me so in the most respectable kind way.
He called me at this exact point of writing this post, updating me on one of his outings and is laughing with me.
I trust him with my life and everything in between. The way he treats everyone around him with kindness and truthfulness, he has the purest heart and sees everyone in the best light. He brings out the best in me and I am so truthful around him and he has stuck with me and knows all the good the bad and the ugly and he still says he loves me (as a friend? I think).
At work they call us the mum and dad because we bicker and jokingly argue and tease each other but we know it's all with love. I told my girl best friend yesterday and almost teared up because I genuinely am so fond of him, and she said I never look happier than when I'm with him. When we met 3 years ago I don't think it would've worked if he told me he liked me. But we have grown so much and I have grown to love who he has become and I can imagine growing together in the future. I'm not going to rant anymore about all the ways I continue to fall for him because I think you get it and I don't want to bore you to death.
On the 12th of February these feelings came crushing down on me like a ton of bricks once and I wrote the last journal entry I have since then (it is now almost June). This man has called me under all circumstances, I'm the person he told about his family issues (hasn't told anyone else), I'm the person he has thrown up and crapped on call with while drunk, he's the person who held me and danced with me while I was too drunk to stand, he is my partner when I need to go on a double date to meet my friends boyfriend, he's my best friend and I love everything about him and his family and his values and everything. I could spend everyday with him and not get bored. A movie had a quote once that "when you love someone you don't love despite their flaws you love because", because they laugh funny, they can't dance, because they have a smile that reaches both ends of the room and gives you butterflies and makes your smile bigger.
He has dated people for short periods since we met but never anybody that seriously worked out and he's not seeking anything out at the moment. I never questioned it but I wonder whether it's because he could be saving his feelings (side note I know he is BI and is into girls).
Whenever I joke about him being in love with me he laughs and it seems fully like a joke, he thinks I've so far in the friend zone that I could never mean those jokes truthfully.
I want to tell him I love him and for him to say he loves me back and hold me. But I'm terrified, he knows about my previous guys and stuff like that and I'm afraid he wouldn't want to be with someone like me (a slight um serial dater, used to fill my feelings with hooking up meaninglessly with some random).
I love him, what do I do? how do I tell him? what do I say? do I swallow these bubbling feelings forever even though they have consumed me to the point of writing a reddit post?
I fear telling anyone out of complete fear of rejection by him and out of embarrassment of people knowing, it is not a meaningless crush its a friendship turned into love without me even realising.

I F(18) have slowly fallen for my M(18) best friend.
Me and my best friend met at our first job when we were 16 at KFC (met in year 10 AUS now in first year university). Our store was new so we constantly worked together. Our first time meeting we awkwardly went to McDonalds for lunch and shared some laughs and since then there has been almost no awkwardness.
We could never stop laughing but it was always friends and only ever a side thought it could ever be more. Our friendship meant to much and soon those feelings went away.
He had set me up with one of his friends that was a very complicated situationship lasting roughly 10 months. That was 2 years ago and we have both since moved on seen different people, but that provides some hesitance for me.
Over that period we hung out a lot and our friendship grew so strong and afterwards in year 12 although we didn't see each other often we would call all the time and I would constantly receive the most lovely drunk dials where he would tell me how much he cared for me and what was happening in his life while I sat in my bedroom studying (he is more of party goer than me but I tag along whenever I'm free).
Last year in august was his birthday party. I went and at this point a part of me was slowly realising I was falling for him and thought I would make a move. He did not seem to be getting the point so I moved on to some meaningless hook up with some other random guy which me and my best friend laughed about soon after and make jokes of to this day.
I didn't think to much about my feelings afterwards. However lately a conversation we had keeps coming up in my mind. At a lunch 2 years ago we were discussing how apparently most boys think about liking a girl when they first meet. I asked whether he ever thought it about us? He said yeah he liked me for a bit but realised our friendship was worth too much (implying he didn't want to ruin it by asking me out).
I have realised I'm in love with him. The way he has been there me through some of my toughest moments where we cry to each other and he has entrusted me with his toughest moments. Yet it's not about the way he cares about me, it's the way he cares for everyone around him. He is the kindest truest person I know and whenever If I do something wrong he will tell me so in the most respectable kind way.
He called me at this exact point of writing this post, updating me on one of his outings and is laughing with me.
I trust him with my life and everything in between. The way he treats everyone around him with kindness and truthfulness, he has the purest heart and sees everyone in the best light. He brings out the best in me and I am so truthful around him and he has stuck with me and knows all the good the bad and the ugly and he still says he loves me (as a friend? I think).
At work they call us the mum and dad because we bicker and jokingly argue and tease each other but we know it's all with love. I told my girl best friend yesterday and almost teared up because I genuinely am so fond of him, and she said I never look happier than when I'm with him. When we met 3 years ago I don't think it would've worked if he told me he liked me. But we have grown so much and I have grown to love who he has become and I can imagine growing together in the future. I'm not going to rant anymore about all the ways I continue to fall for him because I think you get it and I don't want to bore you to death.
On the 12th of February these feelings came crushing down on me like a ton of bricks once and I wrote the last journal entry I have since then (it is now almost June). This man has called me under all circumstances, I'm the person he told about his family issues (hasn't told anyone else), I'm the person he has thrown up and crapped on call with while drunk, he's the person who held me and danced with me while I was too drunk to stand, he is my partner when I need to go on a double date to meet my friends boyfriend, he's my best friend and I love everything about him and his family and his values and everything. I could spend everyday with him and not get bored. A movie had a quote once that "when you love someone you don't love despite their flaws you love because", because they laugh funny, they can't dance, because they have a smile that reaches both ends of the room and gives you butterflies and makes your smile bigger.
He has dated people for short periods since we met but never anybody that seriously worked out and he's not seeking anything out at the moment. I never questioned it but I wonder whether it's because he could be saving his feelings (side note I know he is BI and is into girls).
Whenever I joke about him being in love with me he laughs and it seems fully like a joke, he thinks I've so far in the friend zone that I could never mean those jokes truthfully.
I want to tell him I love him and for him to say he loves me back and hold me. But I'm terrified, he knows about my previous guys and stuff like that and I'm afraid he wouldn't want to be with someone like me (a slight um serial dater, used to fill my feelings with hooking up meaninglessly with some random).
I love him, what do I do? how do I tell him? what do I say? do I swallow these bubbling feelings forever even though they have consumed me to the point of writing a reddit post?
I fear telling anyone out of complete fear of rejection by him and out of embarrassment of people knowing, it is not a meaningless crush its a friendship turned into love without me even realising.

Premier League
Manchester City vs West Ham
Referee: J. Brooks
Kick Off: 16:00 2024-05-19
Kick Off Matrix:

Timezone	Time
UK	16:00
NY	11:00
LA	08:00
EU	17:00
Middle East	19:00
AUS	01:00 20 May

Venue Information:

Name	Etihad Stadium
Address	Rowsley Street
City	Manchester
Capacity	55097

Team Statistics:

Team	Played	Wins	Draws	Losses	Goals For	Goals Against
Manchester City	37	27	7	3	93	33
West Ham	37	14	10	13	59	71

Team	Failed to Score	Clean Sheets	Penalties (Missed)	Yellow Cards	Red Cards
Manchester City	3	13	9(0)	53	2
West Ham	8	5	4(0)	81	3

Competition Form

Team	Form
Manchester City	WWWWW
West Ham	LLDLW

Most Common Formations

Team	Formation	Times Played
Manchester City	4-2-3-1	20
	3-2-4-1	9
	4-1-4-1	6
	4-3-3	1
	3-4-2-1	1
West Ham	4-2-3-1	30
	4-4-1-1	2
	4-1-4-1	1
	4-4-2	1
	4-3-3	1
	4-3-2-1	1
	4-5-1	1

Goal Timings:

Team	0-15	16-30	31-45	46-60	61-75	76-90	91-105
Manchester City	10	13	9	19	20	15	6
	10.87%	14.13%	9.78%	20.65%	21.74%	16.30%	6.52%
West Ham	7	10	7	12	12	8	5
	11.48%	16.39%	11.48%	19.67%	19.67%	13.11%	8.20%

Manchester City Home Form/Goals:

Team	Wins	Draws	Losses	Goals For	Goals Against
Manchester City	13	5	0	48	15

West Ham Away Form/Goals:

Team	Wins	Draws	Losses	Goals For	Goals Against
West Ham	7	2	9	28	43

Head-to-Head (Last 5 Fixtures)

Date	Home Team			Away Team
16/09/2023	West Ham	1	3	Manchester City
03/05/2023	Manchester City	3	0	West Ham
07/08/2022	West Ham	0	2	Manchester City
15/05/2022	West Ham	2	2	Manchester City

Standings:

	Team	Pld	W	D	L	GF	GA	Pts
1	Manchester City	37	27	7	3	93	33	88
2	Arsenal	37	27	5	5	89	28	86
3	Liverpool	37	23	10	4	84	41	79
4	Aston Villa	37	20	8	9	76	56	68
5	Tottenham	37	19	6	12	71	61	63
6	Chelsea	37	17	9	11	75	62	60
7	Newcastle	37	17	6	14	81	60	57
8	Manchester United	37	17	6	14	55	58	57
9	West Ham	37	14	10	13	59	71	52
10	Brighton	37	12	12	13	55	60	48
11	Bournemouth	37	13	9	15	53	65	48
12	Crystal Palace	37	12	10	15	52	58	46
13	Wolves	37	13	7	17	50	63	46
14	Fulham	37	12	8	17	51	59	44
15	Everton	37	13	9	15	39	49	40
16	Brentford	37	10	9	18	54	61	39
17	Nottingham Forest	37	8	9	20	47	66	29
18	Luton	37	6	8	23	50	81	26
19	Burnley	37	5	9	23	40	76	24
20	Sheffield Utd	37	3	7	27	35	101	16

Unavailable players
Manchester City

Player	Reason
Ederson	Eye injury
K. De Bruyne	Ankle Injury

West Ham

Player	Reason
K. Phillips	Injury
N. Aguerd	Ankle Injury
K. Mavropanos	Knock

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Hallo, ich versuche mal grob mein "Problem" zu beschreiben.
Es geht nicht um Dating in dem Sinne, sondern um den Datingpool ansich bevor ich auch nur 1 Wort gesprochen habe oder 1 Wort geschrieben habe. Folgendes:
Es gibt eine Masse an durchaus attraktiven sagen wir mal 7/10 Frauen, aber irgendwas schreckt mich an denen ab, da schwingen so assoziale, psychische Störungen mit als würde ich das fühlen, aber Aussehen wäre ok und ich würde mich auch trauen
Dann gibt es auch noch relativ viele 8/10, da sind dann keine psychischen Störungen da, da hab ich aber nicht die Eier dafür, bzw halte mich nicht für dieses Niveau ready, aus meienr Sicht über meiner Liga.
Dann gibt es ganz nette 6-4er, da fehlt mir ein bisschen die sexuelle Anziehung, und natürlichgibt es auch 6-4er die zusätzlich noch "psychisch" gestört sind, sowas ist sowieso in jedem Fall zu meiden.
Was ich mich frage, wo sind die 7er OHNE psychische Belastungen? das wäre nämlich da wo ich mich sehe
Jetzt habe ich die Wahl zwischen "Eier haben und dafür belohnt werden", oder keiner Eier und ne "schöne Frau aber mit Problemen" oder eine nette Frau die aber nicht ganz so attraktiv ist.
Versteht mich nicht falsch, ich sehe 6-7 aus bin 180cm groß und habe maximal 2k netto im Monat, wieso soll ICH derjenige sein der die 180-185 großen Schönheiten ohne Psychoprobleme klären muss, wo sind die Männer die dafür geeignet wären, und die Frauen die zu mir passen, 7er ohne Psychoprobleme sind nicht mehr da. Ist das dummes Gelaber was ich hier von mir gebe, oder ist es Karma, das eben Eier belohnt werden und wer keine Eier hat muss zwischen Charakter und Aussehen wählen, aber gleichzeitig frage ich mich wieso ich überhaupt eine halbwegs ansehnliche Fraue OHNe psychoprobleme erst wieder im "Amateurmodel" Bereuch finden würde? es ist wirklich eigenartig.
Man könnte natürlich sagen, du bist ne Pussy wieso traust du dich nicht bei den "Models", aber ich sehe mich nunmal nur maximal als 7er Mann ich kann ja auch nicht zaubern, ich bin jetzt kein Zeuge jehovas oder so, aber ich will nicht nur 1 mal ficken, dafür bin ich zu alt.
Daher meine Frage, ist meine Analyse halbwegs stimmig oder bin ich paranoid?
Bin ich einfach nur eine Pussy?
Wo gäbe es denn halbwegs gutaussehende Frauen die nicht so stark psychische Probleme haben, kann gerne etwas ruhiger sein, sollte aber noch nen gewissen optischen Reiz haben.
Sprich, es gibt nur noch Porsche und Twingo, aber ich mlöchte eigentlich einen Golf, was kann ich machen?

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Last year I looked into whether Ray White's rollout of Ailo is in compliance with NSW rental laws after a relative's agency sought to force its tenants and landlords to switch to it. With the help of previous online discussions (particularly this post) and my own checking of the laws, I concluded that no, it probably isn't compliant, so I wrote my state MP. While that seemingly helped prompt action from Fair Trading toward the specific agency, the stories I'd seen online suggested it was a systemic issue across Ray White agencies.
Rather than letting it die on the vine, I thought it might be of some use to others if I outlined the issues I noted with Ailo when it comes to NSW residential tenancy law. Please note I am not a lawyer and these are just my personal opinions.

1. Under the Residential Tenancies Act 2010, the manner in which rent is paid can only be changed by agreement of both the tenant and landlord. It's unclear to me whether this persists beyond the fixed term of a tenancy, but it certainly forms part of the agreement within the fixed term. In my relative's case, they were still in the fixed term, but Ray White was telling them that they must switch, and their communications implied this change would be agency-wide on a given date. From anecdotes I've read online, other Ray White agencies were doing a similar thing (e.g. telling the tenant that the trust account will close after a certain date and payments to it will be rejected).
2. The Act requires there be at least one means of payment that "does not incur a cost". It seemed to me Ailo technically met this requirement, but thanks to someone who took the matter to NCAT, we can see that may not be the case. Their complaint succeeded on the basis that having to provide one's personal information to Ailo is a "cost" under that section of the Act. Unfortunately, the details of NCAT decisions are not public, which makes it hard to know how they've interpreted the law in relation to any other decisions involving Ailo.
3. The "no cost" means of payment must also be "reasonably available to the tenant". This is obviously open to interpretation, but I don't think it is reasonable to require all tenants use a smartphone or tablet. I do think this part of the Act is poorly worded and if agencies were seeking to be on the safe side in complying with it, they'd actually be offering multiple fee-free payment methods. Instead, I've noticed it's a bit of a theme across Australian states that agencies take advantage of ambiguity or loopholes in rules around payment methods and do whatever suits them.
4. The Residential Tenancies Regulation 2019 does not allow an agreement to include "a term having the effect that the tenant must use the services of a specified person or business to carry out any of the tenant’s obligations under the agreement". Ray White agencies are requiring their tenants use the services of Ailo (and in turn, the services of either Apple or Google) in order to pay their rent. I believe "specified" is a key word here and the reason this wouldn't prohibit, for example, being required to use banking services (a market that has many players you're free to choose from).

As noted, I am not an expert, but it's plain obvious there are widespread breaches in at least one of the above respects. Unfortunately, the response I ended up receiving from my MP and the relevant minister didn't directly address any of it except to say my "feedback will be considered", and instead sought to highlight upcoming reforms. There's little detail about those other than a summary report (which doesn't address apps at all), so while one can hope they'll help, we may actually need to keep our eyes peeled to ensure none of the above rights are stripped away in the changes.
So far, this appears to have been allowed to slide for around three years, making a mockery of our rental laws. There have been countless online discussions, a flood of negative reviews on the app stores, and a couple of media stories, but our attention needs to be directed at government to make these agencies comply with existing law, issue an apology and correction to every tenant who may have been misled into believing they were required to switch to the app, and face any applicable penalties as a signal that government is serious about enforcing both our current and future rental laws.
If you think your agency is breaching the rules, lodge a complaint with Fair Trading. If you're uncomfortable doing that or it doesn't apply to you, contact your state MP and bring this to their attention as a systemic issue.

I just noticed my 2023 ticket for one of the Sydney date has been refunded on my bank account. Does this mean it’s over for the aus leg ?
Edit : I didn’t ask for a refund at all I was still holding on to my ticket