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2024.05.20 01:41 Bobson-_Dugnutt2 Landlord trying to force us to sign a new lease

El Paso, Texas
We have been in this location for roughly 7 years. Just renewed last year for 3 more years.
Just a gross lease where we pay $XXXX/month flat - no CAM/NNN. In fact, all of those sections of the original lease have been crossed out, including all references to them. There is only one section left that alludes to extra rent, and it says that “CAM/proportional expenses are N/A”
New landlord bought the building a few months back. They started sending statements that include CAM charges. I called and spoke to the VP or whatever and he is alleging that the lease allows for them to set CAM to whatever they want, and they will reduce our base rent and add in CAM, so our monthly charge doesn’t change. But CAM is variable so I know they are going to end up charging us reconciliation, etc.
Our lease is pretty clear, from my standpoint. I think the landlord is trying to just bully us into this, but I am not budging.
Additionally, I think the LL is not being forthright and wants a new lease because the original lease is not in our company name, but rather the name of an employee and no guaranty. I think they realize how bad of a lease this is for them.
Is there any sort of “course of performance” law or precedent in Texas I could cite?
Am I way in the wrong?
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2024.05.20 01:40 Wundered I just wanted to take a picture

So I recently got a letter saying that my id was expiring soon and that I’d need to make an appointment to renew it, the letter also said I needed a new picture to put on it.
I wanted to get that picture taken care of, so I went to a local place that had a booth where I could take one. Since I usually stay up fairly late, I went to the booth after midnight, thinking nobody would be there. As I was walking there I noticed 2 young girls in the place, buying something out of a vending machine. Because I felt weird going in there while they were there, I quickly turned around and waited a bit until they left.
But they didn’t leave, they were just sitting in front of the building on some benches, enjoying what they just bought. I decided to just to in and as I was walking in, I noticed they had a traffic sign with them. I went in, got my picture taken and left as soon as possible.
So my plan to go in at a time when nobody was there failed miserably.
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2024.05.20 01:19 ProfessionalLime2237 Landlord Raised Rent 100%

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2024.05.20 00:27 myster_goat99 Need to move out within 1 week of moving in

The landlord sold my old rental so I decided to move out prematurely with 6 months left on my leave. I’ve now spent 3 nights in my new house and it’s absolutely horrible for me, I want out ASAP. I’ve already given my 2 weeks written notice that I’m leaving the old house but I haven’t handed in the keys or signed anything yet.
Can I move back in? I absolutely understand that there are penalties for breaking my new lease (4 weeks rent) but I’m willing to pay that if it means I can continue looking for a new place from the comfort of my old home. I’ll just about break even as the old rent was much cheaper anyway
Any advice ?
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2024.05.20 00:19 No_Aardvark_2898 My employer wants me to work indefinitely on an expired contract.

For some backstory: I’m in an acting regional management role for a non-profit agency. I took the position last March (2023) to cover a maternity leave. In September 2023, I anticipated the work load being a lot heavier than outlined in the contract, therefore I asked for a slight pay increase. I was denied and told that 360 performance reviews would begin in November 2023 and that we’d see a possible increase in January 2024. As I anticipated, the workload got insanely heavy, I was doing work not at all related to what my contract outlined, and January 2024 came and went without any performance reviews or pay increases. I understand working for a non-profit means working for a bit less but I am currently grossly underpaid.
Here we are in May, the woman I’m covering may leave for is not coming back, and my contract is about to expire at the end of this month. Before I had the opportunity to ask my boss for a sit down to discuss my future at this agency, my boss came to me on a Teams message and told me to “strategically pause” the work I’m doing and to help another manager open her new department. Only after this new department is up and running (which can take months at this point) will we discuss my “leadership role/contract renewal”.
I don’t feel that this is fair. I have been patient and now I am being told to work indefinitely in an expired contract. There are quite a few staff at this agency currently working on expired contracts and I don’t think this is appropriate.
I ended up messaging back that I looked forward to this discussion in the future and that I would be happy to continue working as she needs me; however, given the fact that I have fulfilled my end of the contract, I would appreciate it if she’d write me a reference letter in the event I did find a career opportunity in the meantime. She read the message days ago with no response. I think this is fair since my raise was denied AND now I’m expected to work on an expired contract.
Any advice on what my next steps should be? Or, has anyone else been in this situation before and if so, how did you go about dealing with it?
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2024.05.19 23:11 Chevy_97 Property manager changed my locks

Alright y’all, I need a little advice!
I am renting an apartment near fern creek currently and signed a year lease with them last summer. I ended up finding a job with my union which required me to move 3 hours away back in March. I notified the property manager about a month ago about me taking said job and moving out of my apartment (basically gave a notice of non-renewal). I was told I could not get out of my lease early (figured as much) and that I still have to pay for it until my lease ends in August.
I just tried to return to my apartment today to check on things and return some stuff to the apartment that I accidentally packed up (dishwasher pieces) and when I tried to enter my apartment I noticed that my locks have been changed! I feel like since I’m still paying the rent and LG&E there for the next few months and I’m on the lease, it seems like that’s illegal for them to have done that without at least notifying me first. I feel like they shouldn’t change them at all while it’s still in my name…
Am I wrong for thinking that since I won’t be renewing the lease? Are they even allowed to do this just because I told them I moved all my stuff out of the apartment?
Any advice is appreciated.
P.S. I noticed that they’ve left the porch light on and opened all the blinds just like how it was when I moved in... I’m hoping they aren’t trying to move someone in while I’m still paying on this place.
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2024.05.19 22:50 Dense-Aerie4504 DC tenants rights question

I was wondering if anyone more familiar with DC tenant rights could help me with a landlord issue.
My landlord emailed my roommates and I this morning asking if he could give a tour this afternoon or tomorrow. He also texted me asking if this afternoon was okay. We responded via email saying that today was too short notice, and we’d prefer tomorrow, since we likely wouldn’t be home.
He still showed up this afternoon and asked my one roommate who was home if giving the tour was okay. She said she was uncomfortable with that since our rooms weren’t organized and no one would be home, but he said that was fine and that he would follow the group to make sure no one would steal our things.
This experience gave us a bad feeling. We checked our lease and it’s very vague (perhaps on purpose) when it comes to how much notice he needs to give us before appearing. I’ll put the paragraphs in the comments.
We only have a month left on our lease, but we don’t want to make it a habit that he can show up to give tours whenever he wants. He’s always been pretty bad at giving us 24 hours notice before he arrives. Normally he messages in the morning and we need to scramble to figure out who will stay home while he’s there.
Does anyone have any advice on how we should bring this up to him? We don’t want to piss him off because of fear for our deposits and we’ll need him as a reference in the future, but he can’t keep showing up unprompted.
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2024.05.19 22:36 No-Ad8402 [Landlord - US - CA]

TLDR; tenant has vacated the premises early and wants security deposit ASAP but they still owe rent for 2 weeks in June.
I’m a landlord renting out my townhome in San Francisco. Tenants have been fine until they recently gave notice. Our month-to-month addendum to the full year lease stated that both parties must give 60 days notice. In mid-April they gave notice and stated they wanted to vacate by end of May. I kindly referred them to the addendum reminding them that our contract will end in mid-June. As an offer of good faith, I said if I can rent the unit out before June 15th, I will only charge you the prorated amount (e.g. new tenants move in June 6th, old tenants would be charged for only 5 days). They agreed and offered to help share our listing. They stated that they are planning on leaving the premises in May, and we just completed a virtual and in-person walk-through (May 15). Fortunately only minor issues and we agreed to take those charges off their security deposit. The challenge now is that they’re asking for the security deposit back now that we’ve done the walk-through and they handed over the keys last week. They are quoting CA civil code that “the deposit must be paid back no later than 21 calendar days after tenant has vacated the premises.” They are claiming they vacated on May 8th but they still had the keys until May 15th when we completed the walk-through in person. They want their deposit (minus deductions we agreed to) on May 29th. The problem is, they still owe rent for half of June still.
My thoughts are: 1) doesn’t the fact that the tenants had sole access to the premises until May 15 mean that that’s the “vacated date”? Meaning the 21 days starts then, and the deposit would be due no later than June 5th. 2) if they need the money immediately, should I offer the option for them to take the entire security deposit (minus the deductions, and the June rent that is owed)? I don’t want to charge the rent owed out of their deposit, but I think due to their poor scheduling, they may need the cash sooner rather than later. This would mean they forfeit the option of getting any prorated rent for June back.
I feel like we were both very professional and accommodating throughout the last 2 years and I want to give them the benefit of the doubt, but also protect myself from having to chase down the June rent that they owe.
This is my first experience as a landlord and first move-out process, so I appreciate any advice you can share.
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2024.05.19 22:32 Such-Zookeepergame26 Concerns about some lease clauses

I'm concerned about some lease clauses as I'm signing a lease but won't be moving into the property for a few months. I live in a different state, and although this isn't ideal, it seems like the best option for us.
While reviewing what appears to be a boilerplate lease on TurboTenant, I noticed a few issues. First, the lease allows for showing the home eight months into a 12-month lease with only 24 hours' notice. My partner and I are very clean, but I don't want to spend a quarter of my time at the residence dealing with potential showings. There's no limit on the number of showings, so it could happen several times a week, significantly impacting our enjoyment of the property.
Second, there's a Mold and Mildew disclosure. I haven't seen the state of the property aside from a brief digital tour. I didn't check behind the washing machine, under sinks, or other areas where mold and mildew might be present. I don't want to sign the lease without additional protections since I won't see the house until move-in day.
What should I say to the landlord about this? Are there any other concerns others have encountered with TurboTenant leases, and how should I approach this with the landlord? I really want to rent this home, but I don't want to end up in a situation where I'm miserable and can't legally get out of it.
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2024.05.19 22:05 AdamLuyan 2.3 Peach Flower Catastrophe 2

2.3 Peach Flower Catastrophe 2
The world had changed, and Publican Liu’s family moved back to his home village, Peach Flower Village, a long time ago. After a lot of trouble, Constant Fair was sent to the cemetery of Peach Flower Village by a carter who took pity on him.
At the cemetery, Constant Fair read the inscriptions on every grave, but he did not find Publican Liu's name. He was so tired that he sat down to rest in front of a wordless tombstone. At that moment, a woman wearing mourning clothes came to him. He hurriedly stood up and asked, "Dare I ask this big sister, whose grave is this?"
Woman replied, “This is my father's tomb.”
Constant Fair hurriedly asked, “Can I ask what your father's name is?”
Woman said, “My father said I was not his daughter, caused him to die with eyes open, would not allow me to say his name at his grave.”
The two then talked at the grave. Constant Fair first told his story; then the woman told hers.
Woman said, “When I was born, have a peach flower birthmark on my leg, so people called me Peach Flower Girl. When I grew up, I was picky in choosing husband, couldn't find one. My father appointed one for me, a longtime laborer in our medicine farm. His name was Constant Fair, was a fool. I did not agree. Later, my father had a small courtyard built up, and he planned to confine him and me there, not letting us out until we married. In the middle of a night, I created an opportunity for one of Constant Fair's friends to slip out, so Constant Fair ran away. My father sent people to look for him everywhere. A few years later, my dad became seriously ill, so we moved back to our home village. Not long after, my dad passed away.”
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Peach Flower Girl said: “Before my father died, he said to me, ‘You are not a real woman, you are not destined to have a husband, and you can't enjoy the happiness of being a woman; therefore, I have detained a husband for you. You can only be happy if you marry him. One day, after I die, a man will come to my grave to commonwealth and bow to me. At that time, you will take these two letters: one is my will; another is eight hieroglyphics that I summarized what I have learned and done in my whole life. You ask him to guess the eight hieroglyphics. If he does, he is your husband. You kneel and ask to marry him.' My father handed this dagger (see illustration 2.3-1-1) to me and said, ‘If he doesn't agree, you kill yourself with it.'"
Peach Flower Girl continued, “Years passed, and no one came to visit his grave. I had not the heart to marry anyone either. A few days ago, I heard that a man was going around looking for a grave. I asked my butler to see what was going on. He followed you and saw your fainting, so he carried you here. I will send someone to bring you some food later.” Peach Flower Girl finished her talk, turned around heading back to the village.
(2)Mental Illness Treatment
Constant Fair felt more comfortable, but chest is still congested, in front of the grave to cry loudly, while crying while thinking: what is Publican Liu’s life doing? He thought about it for two days and two nights but could not figure it out.
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At dawn on the third day, Constant Fair heard someone call his name, like his father. At that moment, the man said again, “Constant Fair! Do you not even recognize me!?” As the man set down the meal, he said, “Look at what I brought, all your favorite foods when you were a child.” Only then did Constant Fair notice that this meal delivery man was Uncle Grain, who had taken care of him as a child and treated him the best.
Uncle Grain said, “When the old master was alive, he would always ask me to bring you some of the delicious food made in the backyard kitchen. Every time, he told me, ‘Just say whoever sent it, do not say I sent it.’ These are all your favorites, eat them while they're hot to warm your body.”
Uncle Grain continued, “The day before yesterday, Lady said that you were not sick. I came to bring you food, saw that you were sick all over. Last night, I went to my Ninth Uncle's house, who is a famous medical doctor in this area. I told him about your condition and begged him bitterly. My uncle was cornered, so he told me, ‘This is a matter of life and death, you must not tell outsiders. Yesterday, a few of us old doctors discussed Constant Fair’s case. Your old Master Liu is a famous benefactor, who all know for hundreds of kilometers around. But he was so unfair to Mr. Fair that he put his life in danger. Publican Liu was a rare man of the world, and if he were to cast the curse of ‘Death with Eyes Open’, it would certainly be done seamlessly.’”
Uncle Grain said: "I then flattered my uncle: Uncle you very knowledgeable! But in the end, I don’t understand what the cause of Constant Fair's illness is. Our old master asked Constant Fair to guess the eight words that summarized his life's learning and doing, but how could Constant Fair guess out with his little literal inks? Can you make it simple for me? I need to understand, otherwise I came begging you for nothing!”
“My uncle said, Constant Fair is also a scholar! He grew up with Publican Liu, how could he be less educated?”
“I said, I watched Constant Fair grow up, he was stupid since he was a child! He was afraid of being beaten by the teacher at school, often skipped school. Old Master Liu trusted me and asked me to take care of him. I was lazy and concealed on either end. Every time our old Master Liu asked me, I told him that Constant Fair was smart and diligent, but he was always stupid and didn't learn well. Later, Master Liu asked me to lend Constant Fair his favorite books. Whether Constant Fair read it or not, I told old Master Liu that, ‘Constant Fair liked it so much that he read it two or three times, could almost recite it'.”
“My uncle scolded me, ‘Why do you work like this! Publican Liu's godly business is ruined by you!’.”
“I say, Uncle Ninth! It's useless for you to scold me, even to beat me. If Constant Fair sickly died, haven’t I been a man in vain! Then I won't live long. Constant Fair has been kind and filial since he was a child, how could he get this strange disease! Isn't this someone setting him up!”
“My Ninth Uncle immediately said, ‘That's right! Publica Liu died with eyes open; and he and Constant Fair had a factual father-son relationship. Constant Fair, he is a great rebel, self-inflicted sin, could not live! But he was framed also. That's what's illness with him. If word of this gets out, your Publican Liu will be disgraced! Don't you understand? Then what's the Liu family spying on everyone in our village now!”
Note: Uncle Dragon said that in the original story of Peach Flower Catastrophe, the original author used Taoism, Buddhism, Confucianism, God Theory, Ghost Theory, and other twenty more ancient Chinese philosophies to discuss the cause and treatment of Constant Fair's illness. In this book, see 10.6 Principles of Curing Mental Illness.
Uncle Grain said to Constant Fair, “I then knelt down to my Ninth Uncle and begged him to come up with a solution.”
“Ninth Uncle said, ‘I didn't realize that this matter had brought you into the circle. Yes, this happened in our Peach Flower Village, several of us old doctors feel frustrated and irritated. This medicine is the result of our discussion yesterday. But if the mental illness is not removed, Constant Fair's physical illness will not be cured.'”
Uncle Grain continued to say, “I said to my Ninth Uncle, ‘Our old Master is a learned man, and he asked Constant Fair to guess eight hieroglyphics, but with Constant Fair's little learning, he couldn't guess them! What, according to you, Uncle, are those words?”
“My uncle immediately became angry! He shouted, ‘Good Son’s Uncle (that is real name for Uncle Grain)! In terms of seniority, I'm your uncle; in terms of age, you're still two years older than me.' How can you say that?”
“Later, my uncle explained: ‘Publican Liu learned Taoism from Extremely-Vague Real-Human (Annotation, also being called Non-Position Real-Human that is True Suchness, is nature law) in his early years and was the closing door (i.e., the last) disciple, who had received real teachings. In terms of seniority, he is my teacher uncle. My teacher uncle set up a trap and I'm here to break it, that is I am cheating on teacher, terminating ancestors! But in terms of Publican Liu's personality, he's not a man who bites off more than he can chew and shows off his metaphysics; for a scholar, those should be a few common hieroglyphics.’”
“I asked my Ninth Uncle what I can do for Constant Fair then?”
“He said, ‘Tell Constant Fair truthfully all that Publican Liu had asked you to do to him behind his back!Let him comply with Publican Liu's wish, that's the only way out, otherwise, he surely dies.'"
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Uncle Grain looked around again, handed Constant Fair the medicines for internal and external use, such as Shenling Baizhu San (see figure 2.3-3, Note, this is an ancient remedy for gastrointestinal ulcers), and whispered, “I have to go, if not they may never let me bring you food again.”
(3)Fate Through
Constant Fair sent Uncle Grain away, while eating while tears dripping. He was sometimes happy, sometimes sad, sometimes crying, sometimes angry, sometimes leisurely, and thinking, thinking, thinking, he remembered what happened to him when he was a child (note, what is called Fate Through).
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Constant Fair lost his mother when he was young and lived with his sick father. One day, he saw children eating candied haws on the street, and he cried and asked his father for them. His father carried him outside the courtyard of Publican Liu, pointed to the big house of the Liu family and said: "You are engaged to the eldest lady of this family, but our family is poor! We don't expect this marriage. Dad is sick. When Dad is gone, you come to his house. When you grow up and make money by yourself, then you can buy whatever you like!"
At this time, Constant Fair came up with the first four hieroglyphics of eight, “former generation’s marriage reasoning factor”.
↪️Return to Catalog of Chapter 2 Revelation
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2024.05.19 21:46 WrennyByrd Is this legal?

USA-CA
I do a live work exchange. I was acting as a companion for the homeowners wife with ALZ for several hours a day in exchange for free rent and utilities. I live on site in a 2 bdrm granny unit on the property. I signed the lease in November. From November to March, I was the only caregiver and put in hours on a daily basis 7 days a week.
There was a roommate who did not help out with the wife when I moved in but she is gone now. A NEW roommate was hired by the landlord 2 months ago, as a second worker, which led to me giving my notice. 2 weeks after I gave my notice he gave me a 30 day notice.
This new hire is toxic, hostile and causing all kinds of problems. She insisted I get rid of my ESA (cat) and the landlord agreed. I reminded him she is an ESA and he said "well, if you need an ESA then you shouldn't be doing this job".
Then she told me I cannot have my 14 year old son here on occasional weekends because she is anti-kid, even though he is on the lease. Her mouth and attitude have led me to rent hotel rooms on weekends when I have my kid because I am not bringing him around this vile person and telling him he cannot take a shower here or be in the common areas.
The landlord claimed my lease was a joke and would not hold up in court. This new person refuses to allow me to use the ONLY shower in the house because I have a toilet and sink next attached to my room & she claims the bathroom downstairs is HER BATHROOM. She has cussed at me, called me names, like F B and the C word, slams doors, accused me of stealing her towels, peanut butter, forks and using one of her glasses. I accidentally did use one because I have the same kind of glasses-but I did apologize ;-L
Last weekend I was gone, and upon my return she has gone so far as packed and moved a bunch of my stuff to the living room. The landlord is saying I MUST GO BY THE 1st but did not mail me a 30 day notice and says my move out notice is irrelevant compared to his.... It is my understanding that this is illegal.
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2024.05.19 21:42 Yoseianeki My mother abandoned us as children, and now she's gone again after I gave her a second chance.

Just a warning, this is going to be very long! I (21F) and my brother (15M) were abandoned by our mother when I was 11 or 12.
For context, she was a teen mother, with a lot of mental health issues (bipolar, BPD, depression, i can only assume some form of sociopathic behavior), and she addicted to hard drugs. My father was a little rough around the edges, but overall a hardworking guy who went into the relationship with a "I can fix her" mentality. For the first few years of my life, I was oblivious to all of the issues going on in my family, I just enjoyed the first 5 years of my life as a happy child. My mother hid her drug addiction well enough for a 5 year old not to ask any questions, and I thought weekly screaming matches were normal and "mommies and daddies fight sometimes". Unbeknownst to me, my mother was cheating with dozens of people, and emotionally/financially/physically abusing my father, he put on a happy face to try and give me a good childhood. He worked 5am- 5pm at a bagel store (no car, only a bike) and never came home empty handed; always a toy, or a piece of candy for me as "sorry" for always being gone and working all day. I thought my mother would always bring her "friends" (men and women) in the house while dad was at work, and they would spend hours "playing" in her room with the door locked. I pretty much had to raise and take care of myself from the time I woke up to around 6pm, so I ended up becoming pretty smart by entertaining myself with my mom's fantasy novels (Harry potter, princess of mars, lord of the rings, etc.) On days she had college classes, our landlords (amazing people) would babysit me. My mother did give me affection, and I loved her very much, but she was very hands-off.
Granted, I wasn't the easiest child to deal with, I had ADHD, undiagnosed autism, among some other things.
When she got pregnant with my brother, (also adhd+autism) I noticed things started to change. My parents would fight more often, the house smelled like smoke, and the electricity to the apartment would be out for weeks because we couldn't pay the bills. Shortly after my brother was born, my parents had the hugest fight I've ever seen, I don't even remember what it was about (probably cheating), but it was the first time it hit me that everything in my life wasn't as happy as I thoughts. I sat clutching my baby brother as she beat my dad with a chair and started screaming. He grabbed a knife and ran outside and tried to end his life by stabbing his wrist. I was screaming and crying my landlords name, hoping my baby sitter would come and save me, he bolted downstairs, pried the door open, and grabbed the two of us and took us into his top floor of the apartment. He gave me some chocolate milk while him and his wife called the police. That was the day my parents split up, and my mom was able to spin the whole thing on my dad, taking custody and he was granted only visitation rights. My mother was kicked out of the apartment, and my aunt (dads sister, but my mother had taken a liking to her and allowed us to see her often) had a feeling something fishy was going on when no one would tell her anything about the details of that night. She went to my old house and asked my landlords what happened, they told her, so she let us sleep over with her whenever we wanted as a safe haven from our mom. She didn't go to court with any of the information she got, out of fear that my mother wouldn't let her see us again, because she was now our only place of complete safety.
My life became a living hell from that point onward. A week a later, my mom told us that her "new boyfriend"(probably a guy she cheated on dad with but I was like 7 and didn't know better) was letting us move in with him. He was the most horrible piece of shit. He got my mother addicted to even more drugs, and they both constantly talked badly about my dad, and when I cried, covered my ears, and said I didn't want to hear it, he would hit me and tell me that I needed to know. He was basically unemployed, and would sometimes sell drugs, or take antiques out of abandoned houses to sell. I hated him. My mother made an entire personality shift, and would defend him even if he said horrible things to me or hit me. She saw no fault in him. She stopped reading me bedtime stories, and stopped telling me she loved me. The only time she was nice to me was when we were in front of other people like school functions... she would kiss up to all my teachers.
I was left to take care of my baby brother on my own, and my father was in and out of mental hospitals from the trauma, so everything he said about how horrible my mother was fell of deaf ears because he was labeled "crazy".
We had no money, it was all spent on drugs, I went out by myself several times to dig through dumpsters just to get food, and I stole baby formula from supermarkets. This one nice homeless lady knew my situation, and would walk me into the stores "as my grandma" so I wouldnt get stopped to ask why a child was all alone. She would poke around the store and buy a $1 candy bar, while I stole formula, and some cold cuts for her. She showed me all the best dumpsters, where delis would throw put perfectly good food at the end of the day. We had an alliance of sorts. I was less than 9 years old.
Her boyfriend became sexually abusive to me around that time. I'll spare the details.
My mother was starting to go off the rails completely. Doing anything for drug money. I clearly remember the time that she told me to get naked and she took pictures of me, up close in all my private areas "to send to the doctor" or else "I would have to go in person and they might give me a shot" (she knew I hated needles.). She never mentioned that event again, but I just know she sent them to some pedophile for money. It makes me sick to my stomach when I think about it. Her bf would try and hurt my brother, I would always step in and get beat instead. We saw our father and aunt maybe once a month, and I was threatened not to say anything to the school or my dad/aunt or else he would kill my mom. I said nothing. I told my aunt all the bruises were from bullies at school, my teachers were taking care of it... or that I was climbing trees, some excuse. I think she knew the truth, but was too scared of losing us to say anything. Everytime they went to drop us back off at our mom's, my brother would have a tantrum. He cried so much the blood vessels in his face would pop. He now at 15 has permanant, freckle like, spots of red on his face from crying so much so often.
She got pregnant again with his twin girls. She gave birth prematurely, and they came out very very sick. She gave birth at home... I was giving most of their care. After the "ohhhh new baby" feeling wore off for her, of course I was basically a mother of 3 at 10 years old. They didn't last long, less than a year. I was in complete despair and that was the first time i tried to end my life. I filled the bathtub and tried to drown myself by repeatedly hitting my head underwater in attempts to pass out under the water. It didn't work, and I was left with neck pain and a migraine that lasted 4 days. I attempted about 5 times, different methods, by this point I haven't been to school in a week. When I came back to school, the teachers noticed something was wrong. I kept looking off into space, detached. I would lash out and act aggressively when anyone would try and talk to me. I would have 2 hour "bathroom breaks" where I just stared at the wall inside the stall and acted rudely when anyone came to get me. What did they do? Not call CPS, of course, they sent me to a special school because of my "sudden behavior issues". I was in a class now with students I could not connect with in any way. I had no friends. All the other kids in my new class had severe learning disabilities and talking to my brother who was 6 years younger than me was more of a conversation. They couldn't read, most of them were almost non-verbal.
My mom broke up with her bf because he cheated, and we were going to lose the house. He still lived with us for a few days but stayed silent. My mother blamed me, saying that I ruined everything by being a bad child and now we were going to be homless. He tried to touch me one last time and I snapped and stabbed him deeply with a BBQ screwer, he just walked away. later that night he killed himself, I saw it. I'll never get that image out of my head.
I lost it, I had an outburst at school, crying and screaming that I wanted to kill myself and for God to just let me die. They sent me to a hospital, and the school called my mom to say I was having an outburst of psychosis. I spilled everything to the hospital about what her bf was doing to me (I couldnt bring myself to talk about my mothers abuses for some reason), and after a while, it was my dad who came to get me... apparently my mother had taken off, leaving my brother alone in the house after the school had called her. I had so many questions. But I was so happy to finally be able to live with my dad and his side of the family.
I was so traumatized, as well as neurodivergent, I acted strangely and dealt with some bullies at school but that was it, it was like heaven on earth. My father didn't even know the full scope of what went on, but the more I told him the more guilty he felt. He started spoiling us a bit out of guilt, so we were happy to be with a parent who loved us.
We never knew where she went. Until I was 18, and she reached out to me on social media. Initially I didn't want to answer. I left my DM sitting there for a few days but... I felt this unexplainable pull. I hated her all these years, but for some reason when the option to take her back into my life came up... something in me missed her. I kept thinking back to the few happy times, and the curiosity was killing me. I finally messaged back, my father told me not to, but he said he couldn't stop me, I at least deserved some answers, and to get all my pent up hatred out at her for some closure. We awkwardly chatted for a few minutes, she told me that her father in West Virginia picked her up, she started a new life, joined narcotics anonymous, but stayed low and didn't let herself be known. She met a genuinely good man at NA, who had convinced her to right her wrongs, quit drugs, and fix her family. They had 2 kids together (one with down syndrome), and she was a present, active mother. I felt a vicious jealousy. Why would she go and have 2 more kids when she had 2 that she abandoned? Why were they treated with love and a loving home when we went through hell...? Why didn't she make it up to us before she went and had more kids..?
My mind did weird things then. It made me need her approval. I kissed up to her, saying I forgave her. That I always knew everything was always her ex bfs fault and not hers.That we were sad when she left. I planned a trip to see her a month later and her new family, my friends all begged me it was a bad idea, to please please not go, and at least to not tell my brother about it. I listened to them, and didnt tell my brother any of this, I told him I was visiting a long distance friend.
I went, we had a pretty good time. Her kids were cute, and I absolutely adored her new lover. He was a good southern man, my gut told me that. He took me fishing, and let me talk through all my feelings. I finally had the relationship with her that I always craved. It felt sickening good, I was estatic. I didn't care about all of the weird signs, like the weird friends she had (looked like crack addicts), and how she managed to get a kind rich southern guy to take her in. I didn't even care. I was just happy to finally feel like I had her approval. I have a habit of bedwetting time to time from anxiety, I ended up having an accident and I was mortified. I cleaned it all up, but told her and, she said it was no big deal. She used to scream at me or hit me as a child for wetting the bed, and now she was reacting normally. It was like a new woman.
My trip was cut short by a week, she had to be rushed into hospital because her appedix was about to explode, she needed to recover and wouldnt be able to do anything fun with me for the remainder of the trip. I watchd her get taken by the ambulance, and was freaking out crying, I was so relieved when the surgery was a success. Her new man apologized profusely for all he stress and bought me a plane ticket back home to NY. He hugged me saying he would be so happy to see me again over the summer, and he had so much fun fishing with me. That he wanted to be a good step dad. He was a nice dude, just like my dad (a good guy she manipulated) I felt it in my gut. They both were at the airport, my mother in a wheelchair, and hugged me off. She said she loved me and to text her when I landed
I did, and got no response. Another day passed, nothing. I started to freak out and called her, only for it to go to voicemail. I messaged one of her friends sons who she Introduced me to. Asking if she was okay. He said he would get back to me once she responded to him, but them he too ghosted me. It was like she was never there. I called her partners work, and they said they would tell him to give me a call. Nothing. I was in despair. I assumed the worst, that she had died or something because of a surgery complication. I was so confused. I pushed it all out of my mind, wrote it off as a mystery even though it ate up at me. I always just justified it as a death, even though it made no sense. She was still following me on Facebook, but there wasn't activity for months when she was once super active. I deleted facebook a few months later because it just hurt.
It's been about 3 years since then. I needed to re-download facebook because my aunt wanted me to check something on matketplace... and I looked up her name just out of curiosity... shes been posting for over a year now. She's okay. She posts her kids, her fiance... she never once responded ro any of my messages yet. Not on text, not on Facebook messenger, no where.... I scrolled and scrolled, crying. I saw she got a new tattoo... a rose for each of her kids.... one for each of her two new kids, one for a miscarriage she had...two for our sisters who passed away... NONE for me or my brother. Like we don't even exist to her.
I don't know what to do. I want to know WHY. We finally had a good relationship, I finally forgave her. We finally could have been okay, saw each other a few times a year... she said she was happy to have me back in her life.... WHY? I'm so heartbroken and confused. I miss her. Was it because I wet the bed? I don't know. I know shes horrible, but I can't help but miss her so much it hurts. Should I continue trying to reach out, or just let her go..? How do I process thos? Any advice, or maybe a theory/explanation/comfort. Anything would help. I just need help. I don't know what to do...
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2024.05.19 21:32 Difficult-Policy-505 Sublease City Center

Hi there! Partner and I are moving to London and looking to sublease our 2 bed / 2 bath. The landlord approved us finding new tenants. You will still have to be approved by Savills.
The dates: August 1 - Dec 1, and you’ll be given an option to renew the lease. *IF you need to move in July 1st, we can find temporary accommodation to make the move in easier for you.
Description pulled from Savills: 5 South William Street is a development of three exceptional apartments situated off Grafton Street, in the heart of Dublin City Centre. Occupying a prime position at the junction of South William Street, Exchequer Street and Wicklow Street, the location of this attractive period building is second to none. There are countless amenities on its doorstep including popular cafes, trendy bars and exceptional restaurants. The apartments are spacious, light-filled and fully furnished, with two bedrooms and two bathrooms. There are high ceilings throughout and the kitchen living room provides ample space for dual day and nighttime use. Accommodation: Entrance hall, kitchen / living / dining, two bedrooms, and bathrooms.
Price: €3057
I have pics I can send via WhatsApp. But serious inquiries only.
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2024.05.19 21:08 SuperDude986 [Landlord - US - MI] what evidence can I collect for proof of tenants not leaving

Hello everyone
I have a court date soon, I am a landlord and they aren’t paying rent so we are going to court, from what I found online I need 3 things,
  1. to prove that I have given him notice
  2. proof of nonpayment of rent
  3. Proof they haven’t left the house
What proof can I get that they haven’t left the house? We have a lease and they have been paying using PayPal, can that be evidence of nonpayment of rent?
Thank you for all advise and help
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2024.05.19 21:05 formerlyyknown Lease assignment notice via email?

I’m currently in the process of transferring my lease. I’m aware that once you send the landlord the notice of lease assignment and you have proof they received it, they have 15 days to approve or deny the assignment. My question is if this has to be done by mail, or if email also counts? Say, I send an email with a pdf scan of the notice of assignment attached, and the landlord responds to the email (and therefore “confirms” that they’ve received/seen it). Is this confirmation also binding? Thanks in advance :)
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2024.05.19 20:37 _Ankur_ My landlord is very fishy...need advice

I'm living in Beckenham (London) in a 2 BHK flat in which the other room is shared by the landlord. I moved here in October 2023 and while moving here I signed a rolling contract (lodger agreement from Spareroom website) of 1 month as I wasn't sure if I wanted to live here. But I liked the place and am currently staying here. The landlord is very fishy because
  1. When moving in he told me that "if the neighbours ask about you, tell them that you're a relative, don't tell them you're paying rent".
  2. I visited India once during my stay here, when I was coming back, he called me few days before my arrival and said that "if the immigration officer ask about your stay, don't give them my address".
  3. Then some months ago he asked me to pay the rent in cash as he doesn't want the home office to know that he is renting his place, or else he'll have to pay additional tax.
  4. Meanwhile I remembered that we didn't renew the agreement after the first one (expired in December 2023), and when I asked him about this, he was being very defensive and wasn't really open to sign anything, but said that he would create a fixed term agreement if I promise to stay for another 6 months (which I don't want to).
  5. Also when I told him that I might leave for another place, he said that he would need 2 months notice (we agreed to 1 month notice when moving in!)
  6. I paid him a security deposit of 5 weeks when moving in, which he said that he deposited in the deposit scheme, but I checked all the 3 deposit scheme websites and couldn't find anything.
After all this I want to leave this property and am planning to give him a notice to end the tenancy.
How can I make sure that he returns my deposit money when I leave? I am on a skilled worker visa here, so any other words of advice for me?
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2024.05.19 20:27 Far_Detective_6783 God's Gospel Of Love To His Human Creation

God created you because He wants a human family to love !!! He wanted us to bear His image/be His representatives, to be in His family forever, living in love and harmony with God who loves us deeply, and enjoying His perfect creation.
In order to allow us the free will for that choice to love Him back and be part of His family, sin entered and put all the plans on hold.
The world may be a mess, but God never gave up on His human family, and is planning on restoring His original plan for His created children to be in His family forever, living in love and harmony, and enjoying His perfect creation, in the new heavens/earth.
Sin separated humanity from God, we were doomed to its penalty, which is death and separation from God.
In a mission of unsearchable love and amazing grace, Jesus Christ, who was God, became man, lived a sinless life, was killed and buried, and was physically resurrected by the power of God.
This is God's gracious provision of love to redeem humanity into His family forever in heaven, a perfect world as this one was originally intended.
Due to human rebellion in the earlier times of creation, God decided to work through one man Abraham and his seed. Israel would have been a kingdom of priests by through which all other nations (“all other nations” are called gentiles) could be blessed and reconciled to God. Israel rejected Jesus (this is recorded in Matthew Mark Luke and John up until the final rejection in Acts 7). God knew this would happen and had a plan to save gentiles (non-Jewish people) and the world in spite of Israel’s rejection of Jesus. He converted the Apostle Paul as the Apostle to the gentiles in Acts 9 and revealed to him that now anyone could be saved (Jew or gentile) directly by trusting in the death burial and resurrection of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of sins and eternal life. No longer would gentiles have to go through Israel and follow the law to be blessed/saved by God.
God is currently not judging the sin and evil in the world, instead He is pouring out His grace through the finished work of Jesus Christ, wanting all to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth. That is why there is evil in the world now. After the rapture, or removing of the church/the body of Christ from the earth, which can happen at any time without notice, God will THEN judge sin and evil in the world during the 7 year tribulation of judgment on the earth. At this time God will turn His attention back to Israel to save them through a remnant that believes. Gentiles in the tribulation, will need to once again be saved by going through Israel’s program which includes faith and works, endure to the end even if it means death for your faith, and not take the mark of the beast. It is much EASIER to be saved now up until the rapture, which can happen anytime without notice.
Jesus paid the difficult price so you may have forgiveness of sins and eternal life with God. It is easy to be reconciled back to God for all eternity.
This offer is to all that recognize their sin has separated them from God, and trust in God’s solution to reconcile you back to God forever. Jesus paid the price of your sins to reconcile you back to God.
To be saved what you need to do is simply believe and trust ONLY in the death burial and resurrection of the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, to receive Jesus’ righteousness imputed to your account, and eternal life with God.
It is important to not add any works from Israel's program in the Old Testament, Matthew Mark Luke John, or Acts 1-7 to the gospel of salvation. The Apostle Paul called adding works to the gospel an accursed gospel that does NOT save. Galatians 1:8-9 KJV (King James Version)
Salvation comes from believing and trusting in the death, burial , and resurrection of Jesus Christ. This is God's provision for you.
No amount of good works (you think you are saved because you are good enough on your own), no water baptism, no cleaning up your sins (wrong definition of repent), special prayers or things to accept are necessary to be saved by Jesus Christ.
Once you are saved you are sealed by the Holy Spirit, and have full assurance of salvation and sin can no longer separate you from God. You cannot lose by moral imperfection what you did not attain by moral perfection.
Once you are saved by believing and trusting the gospel that saves 1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJV the next steps to learn and grow in God’s grace and learn your new identity and blessings as a member of Jesus’s church (not a denomination of building) , the body of Christ, renew your mind daily by reading and applying the doctrine Jesus gave to the body of Christ through the Apostle Paul in Romans-Philemon KJV. We earn rewards in heaven now by applying and building sound doctrine to the inner man.
We all can definitely sense the increase in evil and the decrease of love in the world. This world is temporal and the new heavens/earth will be beautiful and perfect version of this life for all eternity.
God wants you there in His family for all eternity to show you the riches of His grace and love for you !!!
Acknowledge the your sin has separated you from God and trust and believe the simple gospel that saves today !!!
1 Corinthians 15:1-4. KJV
Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures;
And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:
For more info my blog is
GraceNotWorks dot com
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2024.05.19 20:25 Far_Detective_6783 God's Gospel Of Love To His Human Creation

God created you because He wants a human family to love !!! He wanted us to bear His image/be His representatives, to be in His family forever, living in love and harmony with God who loves us deeply, and enjoying His perfect creation.
In order to allow us the free will for that choice to love Him back and be part of His family, sin entered and put all the plans on hold.
The world may be a mess, but God never gave up on His human family, and is planning on restoring His original plan for His created children to be in His family forever, living in love and harmony, and enjoying His perfect creation, in the new heavens/earth.
Sin separated humanity from God, we were doomed to its penalty, which is death and separation from God.
In a mission of unsearchable love and amazing grace, Jesus Christ, who was God, became man, lived a sinless life, was killed and buried, and was physically resurrected by the power of God.
This is God's gracious provision of love to redeem humanity into His family forever in heaven, a perfect world as this one was originally intended.
Due to human rebellion in the earlier times of creation, God decided to work through one man Abraham and his seed. Israel would have been a kingdom of priests by through which all other nations (“all other nations” are called gentiles) could be blessed and reconciled to God. Israel rejected Jesus (this is recorded in Matthew Mark Luke and John up until the final rejection in Acts 7). God knew this would happen and had a plan to save gentiles (non-Jewish people) and the world in spite of Israel’s rejection of Jesus. He converted the Apostle Paul as the Apostle to the gentiles in Acts 9 and revealed to him that now anyone could be saved (Jew or gentile) directly by trusting in the death burial and resurrection of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of sins and eternal life. No longer would gentiles have to go through Israel and follow the law to be blessed/saved by God.
God is currently not judging the sin and evil in the world, instead He is pouring out His grace through the finished work of Jesus Christ, wanting all to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth. That is why there is evil in the world now. After the rapture, or removing of the church/the body of Christ from the earth, which can happen at any time without notice, God will THEN judge sin and evil in the world during the 7 year tribulation of judgment on the earth. At this time God will turn His attention back to Israel to save them through a remnant that believes. Gentiles in the tribulation, will need to once again be saved by going through Israel’s program which includes faith and works, endure to the end even if it means death for your faith, and not take the mark of the beast. It is much EASIER to be saved now up until the rapture, which can happen anytime without notice.
Jesus paid the difficult price so you may have forgiveness of sins and eternal life with God. It is easy to be reconciled back to God for all eternity.
This offer is to all that recognize their sin has separated them from God, and trust in God’s solution to reconcile you back to God forever. Jesus paid the price of your sins to reconcile you back to God.
To be saved what you need to do is simply believe and trust ONLY in the death burial and resurrection of the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, to receive Jesus’ righteousness imputed to your account, and eternal life with God.
It is important to not add any works from Israel's program in the Old Testament, Matthew Mark Luke John, or Acts 1-7 to the gospel of salvation. The Apostle Paul called adding works to the gospel an accursed gospel that does NOT save. Galatians 1:8-9 KJV (King James Version)
Salvation comes from believing and trusting in the death, burial , and resurrection of Jesus Christ. This is God's provision for you.
No amount of good works (you think you are saved because you are good enough on your own), no water baptism, no cleaning up your sins (wrong definition of repent), special prayers or things to accept are necessary to be saved by Jesus Christ.
Once you are saved you are sealed by the Holy Spirit, and have full assurance of salvation and sin can no longer separate you from God. You cannot lose by moral imperfection what you did not attain by moral perfection.
Once you are saved by believing and trusting the gospel that saves 1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJV the next steps to learn and grow in God’s grace and learn your new identity and blessings as a member of Jesus’s church (not a denomination of building) , the body of Christ, renew your mind daily by reading and applying the doctrine Jesus gave to the body of Christ through the Apostle Paul in Romans-Philemon KJV. We earn rewards in heaven now by applying and building sound doctrine to the inner man.
We all can definitely sense the increase in evil and the decrease of love in the world. This world is temporal and the new heavens/earth will be beautiful and perfect version of this life for all eternity.
God wants you there in His family for all eternity to show you the riches of His grace and love for you !!!
Acknowledge the your sin has separated you from God and trust and believe the simple gospel that saves today !!!
1 Corinthians 15:1-4. KJV
Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures;
And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:
For more info my blog is
GraceNotWorks dot com
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2024.05.19 20:22 ImaginedOrder Advice on coliving rental lease / master lease signature

Hi NYCApartment community.,
Hoping to get some advice on my situation:
I am currently renting a room through one of the coliving rental services. After several months of renting I have given my 60-day notice to move out by 30 June, and will be looking to find my own apartment that is not with a coliving service and no roommates.
However, the coliving company, that manages the building and apartment rental, seems to be renewing the apartment’s master lease and requires that all three roommates sign the apartment’s master lease. This lease is valid for the next 12 months. Querying the manager at the rental company, they said I’m expected to sign.
From what I have gathered, there is no limit as to how many apartment leases my name can appear on. But I don’t feel comfortable that my name is associated with an apartment I do not live in after 30 June.
Question: Has anyone been in this situation before? How did it go for you? Should I sign this master lease even though I’m a sub-letter and have signed off on that agreement to move out by a certain date? If I don’t sign the master lease will forfeit my deposit?
I will be asking more questions of the rental service this week, as well as seek some legal advice.
Thanks in advance!
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2024.05.19 20:01 DirtWesternSpaghetti Any updates on the state of the company? Saw this posted in the BK store. VM skipped out on their lease.

Any updates on the state of the company? Saw this posted in the BK store. VM skipped out on their lease.
Van Moof BK skipped out on their lease apparently. Someone on here said they were opening in Manhattan but I haven’t seen anything.
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2024.05.19 19:52 Zealousideal_Cup_51 [Landlord US-CA] what should I do?

I have a tenant that rents out a unit for $1200, he still owes me $1400 from being behind, on lease he wrote down his kid wife and him but it’s been a year already since he’s biological family moved in with him. At first I wasn’t tripping since he was paying but know I peeped, that he hasn’t been home for a month & his mom and dad have been there, it’s only bad cause they look like they tweak it, they drive a old beater that the alarms always going off and on, they’re are always fighting, looks like they’re home all day so they don’t have a employer ( I live in one of my units) I have cameras and seen her purposely open and close her car door for her alarm can go off, maybe being petty to her husband but let’s be considerate of other tenants living here. I don’t want to rent to them, what do I do? Give them eviction form? Or 5 day notice? When do I do it? Im new to being a landlord, been doing it for a year now
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2024.05.19 19:38 twoshakesnotthree Failure to remedy (OH)

I’m sick of this property manager, their lack of communication, lack of professionalism and the fact that they gave me an apartment that was filthy and half working outlets including a few code violating non GFCI protected outlets. As well as cat piss soaked carpet that took them over a month to replace after several weekends of no response or no shows by the installer. I didn’t get a discount for that at all and in fact was hit with a late fee a daily fee and an eviction threat because I didn’t pay until the carpet was done. I was planning on putting it in escrow as I have the right after 30 days without the issue being fixed but they got to it a week later and I didn’t have the time to set all that up by the time I decided to do it. I paid all that though I did let them know I thought that was shitty of them under the circumstances and the fact that I had the right to terminate the lease all together but gave them a chance.
Now the ac isnt working and it’s been since 4/29 that I put the request in… the property manager allowed maintenance to enter my apartment without 24hrs notice and without my permission, I asked to get a time of his arrival and was ignored. I confronted her and she pretty much started lying and gaslighting and talking to me like I was stupid. I’m a maintenance tech myself and know how ac units work so I called her out on it and she accused me of threatening her because I said “better read up before you talk to someone like you know”… I was pissed at this point because they also had me troubleshooting for them because it’s too inconvenient for them to come all the way out here and not be prepared (he still wasn’t prepared) since there aren’t any hardware stores nearby which is false again and she knows it because she even mentioned Lowe’s being nearby and they “stock our carpet”.
So obviously it’s not been thirty days but it’s been pretty warm especially on our second floor, and I’ve got no response since our last back and forth 10 days ago and they suddenly said then that they want to replace the whole furnace along with the compressor. I see lead times on some of this equipment being weeks out and they’ve given no estimate of when they’ll get it fixed. Considering the temps we’re experiencing this week in southern Ohio (I also have two kids under 4yrs) and the time since I notified them do I have grounds to get out of this lease and be rid of this shit company and apartment? Thanks.
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