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2017.07.10 12:30 mcmgmusic Music Promotion unlimted

A subreddit for music promoters, musicians, music lovers and fans to promote and showcase talented musicians and artists to the rest of the world. If you are looking for a subreddit to promote any genre of music without any restriction, this is the place for you. There's absolutely no rule here except for mutual respect of other promoters. Blog posts about music and musicians are also welcomed. Don't be biased, if it's good, give it an upvote and if it's wack give it a down vote.
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2024.05.19 01:43 atomikduke what is this futuristic movie

This is futuristic movie, similar to bladerunner that I saw one time some years ago but I cannot find online which one it is.
The protagonist is a detective that arrives to a enclosed city where human like cyborgs lived with humans. These semi robots were servants. One of these was a sexual worker ( not sex really but some people used her to scare her to death to fullfill their sexual appetite for domination) causing the robot to want to "kill herself" although it was impossible and forbidden in their programmation. In one ocassion she was stalked and the protagonist chase after the stalker but I think he manages to scape.
In one occasion, they find out that one robot killed a human (which was unthinkable atm) and in the end, the cyborg leaves the city with the protagonist. Thats all I remember... I hope someone of you know this movie.
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2024.05.19 01:37 cheinyeanlim Reddit reintroduces the awards system it shut down in 2023, ends the replacement Golden Upvotes system, and expands its Contributor Program to 35 countries

Reddit reintroduces the awards system it shut down in 2023, ends the replacement Golden Upvotes system, and expands its Contributor Program to 35 countries
Reddit relaunches its awards system, previously discontinued in 2023, retiring the Golden Upvotes replacement. Additionally, it expands its Contributor Program to 35 countries. RedditUpdates #CommunityEngagement
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Reddit reintroduces the awards system it shut down in 2023, ends the replacement Golden Upvotes system, and expands its Contributor Program to 35 countries
  • Reddit is reintroducing its awards system with some updates, including a new design for awards, a new award button under eligible posts, and a leaderboard for top awards.
  • The reintroduction comes after the awards and coins system was sunset last year, replaced temporarily by “Golden Upvotes” which didn't resonate as intended with the community.
  • Users will now need to buy “gold” to give awards to posts and comments, replacing the previous coins system. Prices for gold range from $1.99 for 100 gold to $49.99 for 2,750 gold.
  • Reddit is implementing safeguards for its awards system to prohibit awards in NSFW, trauma and addiction support, and mature content subreddits, alongside enabling users to report awards.
  • The social media platform has expanded its community rewards program to 35 countries, rewarding users for making useful contributions to the community.
Earlier this month, during its first earnings call as a public company, Reddit hinted at reviving its awards system, marking a significant shift back to enhancing user expression and community engagement.
“While the golden upvote was certainly simpler in theory, in practice, it missed the mark. It wasn’t as fun or expressive as legacy awards, and it was unclear how it benefited the recipient,” the social network said.
Despite the digital nature of awards, their impact on community engagement and expression highlights the importance of nuanced, user-centric approaches in online platforms' design and functionality. Reddit’s pivot back to a more expressive awards system underscores how vital it is for social networks to foster meaningful interactions and user satisfaction.
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2024.05.19 01:36 RidingPinePSN Missed the Cut - Frank "Lefty" O'Doul

Lefty O'Doul began his career as a pitcher, but after an injury derailed his MLB career at 26 he returned to the Pacific Coast League and developed himself as a hard hitting outfielder. In 1928 he returned to the Major Leagues at the age of 31 and proceeded to tear the cover off the ball. In 1929 he set the NL record for hits in a single season with 254 and batted .398 - the closest anyone has come to hitting .400 without reaching it. He also hit 32 home runs and only struck out 19 times in 638 at bats.
He only played 11 total seasons due to the 4 years it took to re-invent himself, but he retired with a .349 batting average which is the 6th highest of all time.
After his playing days he was a long time manager in the PCL and is in the PCL Hall of Fame. He also was a good will ambassador for baseball in Japan both before and after World War II and was instrumental in spreading baseball's popularity. He was credited with naming the Tokyo Giants, and was elected to the Japanese Baseball Hall of Fame.
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2024.05.19 01:31 2buckbill Dad had a good day and I really kind of needed it

My dad, after a consistent and very slow decline, finally had a pretty good memory day today. He has what I guess is a "run of the mill" vascular dementia. I'm far from an expert.
A bit more than 2 years ago his wife passed away in early 2022. I didn't know, at that time, that he had any unusual health problems. They didn't tell me about any mobility issues, they didn't tell me about some of the conditions he had developed, and they didn't tell me about the dementia diagnosis. When she passed my dad just stopped taking care of himself, and he spiraled pretty fast. He spent a couple of weeks in the hospital while we got him sorted out and I was finally clued in to how far he had declined in the previous couple of years. I was able to get POA for his health and finances to help make decisions. A couple of weeks later the doctors said that he was OK to go home on his own with help from some occupational therapy, and a nurse visiting a couple of times a week. This was in mid to late April of 2022. By early June he was getting some pretty serious notices from utilities, credit card companies, and others wanting to be paid. Dad thought everything was paid automatically (said his late wife had set that up), and had been ignoring every bill that came his way. This was when I really found out how bad things had become. There hadn't been a bill paid in months, his wife had been using HIS credit cards for HER purchases, and as I recall it there was about $11,500 in credit card debts that she had left for him. On HER OWN cards she had about $19,000 in credit card debt (I never paid that, my dad was not a guarantor on her accounts). My dad's credit score tanked, and was flirting with dipping into the 500s. So I stepped in and took over. I'd never had to take over someone else's finances before, and thus began a whole lot of change in both our lives. There were mysterious bills that were getting paid from his accounts, his cell phone bill was in the hundreds, there were debts she had created; some he knew about and some he didn't. I had to do some very basic financial forensics to figure out what was happening. The list of her dumb-fuckeries is sadly extensive, she was just a financial-fucking-idiot. He had a few thousand dollars remaining in his accounts, but he had a consistent pension and Social Security coming in. I started prioritizing the debt into utilities versus credit, and started getting him set right. It took about a year or year and a half, but my dad became debt free, and developed a substantial savings. His credit score is in the mid / high 700s again.
He is good enough to live mostly on his own still. I call most nights to check up on him, run through the list. "Did you eat enough? Did you take your medicine? Did you get any exercise? Did you visit with any friends? How you showered recently?" And on Saturdays I go over to his house to refill his medications, take him shopping, take a rudimentary inventory of his physical and mental condition, and I take him to lunch, usually with my wife and daughter. I take his blood pressure, and report it to his GP via an online portal. I do a bit of picking up in his house, maybe clean some things. Remind him about upcoming appointments. This takes up most of my Saturdays. I also get him to most of his medical and dental appointments, work with his doctors and nurses, and manage most of his life. But I also have a house, a demanding career (where I have a full team to manage and lead), a wife, a four year old, and pets. Everyone and everything deserves attention, of course, but these days I feel like I am constantly trying to pour from an empty container. I'm always exhausted, and I wake up nearly every night afraid that I missed something. Did dad take his pills? Did we miss any bills? Is my daughter OK? Did I hear her coughing? Did I miss something at work? Did I miss a page out? I have to get up and check my work phone. I'm just exhausted, and burnt out on all of it.
But today... He remembered my daughter's name, my brother's name, my wife's name, and even the names of cousins. He remembered his friends' names, he remembered his bills, and where he put them. He was even a bit spry when I took him shopping. He cracked jokes. He was in the best mood that I've seen him in in.... hell, maybe years? He understood everything that I was telling him, and HE TOLD ME about an upcoming appointment that he remembered. And man... I needed it. I needed an easier day. It is like a little bit of the weight lifted. I know that it is just one day, and he might be having these good days on the days when I am not over there to manage his home, but I usually see more difficult days. It isn't a whole lot, but tonight it feels like the vessel I am trying to pour from finally has a bit of something in it, it doesn't feel so empty.
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2024.05.19 01:29 ActuaryBright7398 19YR old M and I lost my V card while drunk to prostitution, I’ve been in an online relationship for 2 years and I need to get it out of my head.

The title makes me sound like a fucking loser and there will be many things that don’t make sense here due to me being horrible at explaining things but idc anymore i just need to get this out somewhere other than my notes page forever looking over it. I was heavily drinking in cambodia with friends very very late at night when no other drinkers were about (to watch a boxing match that was playing at 5am) and one of my friends i was with decided to ask the bar manager to call in some women. At this point i was sober enough to not care and kept playing pool. So after multiple women come and go eventually two women arrive at around 4am just as soon as i stopped playing pool and sat down. The woman who sat next to me was 23 years old and was very nervous at first until she eventually grabbed my hand and started rubbing my genitals. I in my now drunken state asked her to go to the toilet for what i drunkenly imagined casual oral sex but we were followed in by the bar staff as it was so late at night and obviously knew what we was up to. I became uninterested after i sat back down but my fucktard friend said to me “why don’t you go back to the hotel with your friend”. In which I ignorantly drunkenly said yes sure. So now im by myself with this woman i just met driving in the same tutut (motorcycle taxi cabin thingy) heading back to my hotel room. We get into my room she grabs me by the genitals and says 60 dollar which i give her as i was drunk and horny and had plenty of money on me. The experience was awful and i kept saying in my head whilst doing it what am i doing, but at that time i also felt i coudnt stop because one i had already paid and two and three i was drunk and horny. Anyway after a good 20ish minutes of doing it with her i eventually came and literally instant regret hit me even though i was still drunk asf. My friends don’t know abt my online relationship but i hold her very close to me and i am very very ashamed at what i did drunk or not i am planning on telling her in the future as our relationship is complicated. sorry for the shit spelling and punctuation i am just writing things that come out i of my head without giving much thoughtp
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2024.05.19 01:29 autumn_star225 Au Pair to Nanny tips?

Hey everyone! I’m (20F) currently an au pair in Germany, with a wonderful host family. I’ve been with them for 4 months now and I’m really enjoying the childcare aspect of it all.
I’ve always loved kids, but never considered heading into childcare as a career until this experience.
I’ve decided that when my contract ends in January I’d like to pursue a full time nanny role. However, I’m wondering if this is a realistic goal, with only having 1 year of full-time childcare under my belt.
Throughout high school I volunteered at children’s events doing face painting and other activities. I also ran a small business that went to birthday parties/preschools for special events. Any babysitting I’ve done has been for family and close friends, which most employers won’t take very seriously.
I have 8 month until my contract is up, and I’d really like to do more to build up my resume. Aside from CPFirst-Aid (which I already have) do you guys have any recommendations for some online courses that will help improve my childcare knowledge? It doesn’t need to be a certificate-granting course, but that would be a bonus.
Any advice on finding your first nanny job would be appreciated as well!!
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2024.05.19 01:24 EitherCoyote660 6 Months In

This medication has been a fantastic tool for me. I went on Wegovy in October of 2023. Started at 0.5 as prescribed and moved up to 1.0 where I stayed for a few months as it was working well at that dosage.
Last month I decided I'd move up to 1.7 because I felt like it wasn't *quite* working as well. I wasn't overeating but I was making not great choices and slacked on my protein intake a lot. I paid the price for it let me tell you. I had no side effects the entire time I've been on the medication but I in recent weeks had 2 instances of truly terrible bowel troubles and at first I thought maybe I'd had a stomach bug or ate bad food but looking back I am sure it was side effects from not eating as good as I should have since it happened both times the day after I did the injection. That taught me a big lesson at least and I immediately went back to eating as I should again.
Today is my first injection at 1.7 and hoping going up isn't going to kick my butt LOL.
Anyway, the only changes I've made to the way I eat is I eat, a LOT less. Every meal is half of what I would have eaten before. I already had been making dietary changes before the medication and do watch the macros but I allow myself to eat pretty much whatever I want just within reason. I do avoid very high fat/fried foods now. I find that my food tastes have changed a lot in the past months too - not sure if it's the medication or me but whatever the reason is I'm happy for it. I don't exercise other than going about my daily routine and some walking.
Something I Discovered: I HATE anything with fake sugars. I never ate a lot of sweet foods before so trying to force myself to drink protein shakes was just too much for me. I tried to get on board with protein drinks but honestly, a big YECH to all of them. Thankfully I LOVE plain milk so I switched over to Fairlife nonfat and make sure to incorporate at least a full glass of that into my daily foods. Good for protein and for calcium. I also love whipped cottage cheese so between those two things and whatever I eat the rest of the day I manage to get my protein needs met without resorting to plastic tasting shakes.
Last May I weighed 247+. Today, exactly 1 year from the same date in 2023 I weigh 202 so 45 lbs. are gone. Most of the weight was lost since starting Wegovy in October though and I've averaged about 5 lbs. per month since on it. Some more than others, some less. I've gone down 2 sizes which is fantastic. My last bloodwork was great. I still have a lot more to lose but I think by end September I'll be down one more size which will put me in the weight range I've been in most of my adult life.
The one looming thing I worry about is I am retiring in December (possibly January if they beg me nicely) and my medication will have to end then because Medicare does not pay for weight loss medications at all. The cost will not fit into my retirement budget from what I know (I currently pay $0 between my insurance coverage and manufacturer coupon).
Anyway I thought it would be helpful to give an update in case this is helpful for anyone in the community. Best to everyone on their WL journey.
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2024.05.19 01:23 Front_Ad_8752 Local grocery store rejected me and when I come in I see barley any employees in sight😐😑

I’ve applied to this local grocery store 5 times. I just applied last week making it my 6th. I honestly lost track tbh. I live 5 mins away driving distance wise, i have FULL availability which makes me pissed because the job doesn’t know about it as they didn’t make that a question in their stupid application. I will work ANY hours, I’ll be available IMMEDIATELY. It’s not even that hard but these managers are doing too fking much. So extra. Just hire me my god. I have experience tooo and I didn’t earn it for nothing😤😒i just shopped at the store yesterday and one of the employees I know personally saw me and asked if I spoke to the manager cuz they been wanting to get me in. She told me they need more people, it’s funny because I could see that. I saw barely any employees except for 3-5 people. She asked if I called the hiring the manger? I told her I did, I wanted to say I got rejected but I didn’t want as I was still pretty pissed about it. I told her I tried calling but she didn’t pick up and I was given a automated message. Since I got rejected so much I don’t think any efforts and would suffice. I even had people vouching for me to get in, and I was even referred by people there. But they keep rejecting me. My résumé looks absolutely fine because I had it checked by multiple people and just no issues with it.
When I spoke to the customer service about my application, they told me that they don’t check anyone’s application who applies online. They only bother to look at people who were recruited and vouched for. Which is funny because from what I believe, I’m having people inside the store voich for me and I’m still getting rejected. I can’t even talk to the manager because they don’t want to talk to any customers who are asking about working here and applying here. It’s just so peasantry and elitist! if I went up there in person and asked for a application they would tell me to apply online which is fucked up because they just told me the people who submit applications online through the website aren’t bothered to be looked at. 😑
When I called the customer service desk, I asked for the hiring manager, that’s when they told me that essentially my application won’t matter, but I still asked to speak to hiring manager anyways so they gave me their number. I expected to hear from the hiring manager directly and be able to schedule an interview, but I was met with a automated robotic message which pissed me off because why isn’t the hiring manager answering the phone, you know?? This automated message started saying “welcome to the (store name) center!”Before I could even say anything, the automated message answered all of my questions and essentially said if you’re wondering about your application progress, please check the portal and if I am accepted for an interview or rejected I will be told through email. They will not call me or text me so all I had to do is wait for a email. Annddd I I got Rejected.
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2024.05.19 01:22 Lost_Ad3856 Provisional appointment over 4 years and counting

I've been in a promotional provisional position, for over 4 and a half years at the end of this month. The test required to become permanent was last scheduled April 2020, I'm sure everyone here knows what happened with that....
There is no test date scheduled. There are a large number of people in my position who are provisional, we are grade 17s and hold fairly complicated/essential positions. We have contacted HR, the Union, civil service, State attorney, the governor..... You name it. We have done this individually and as a group. We either receive no response , or one branch places all responsibility on another. ( ie, The union will say it's managements fault, they say contact HR, HR blames civil service, who blames our regions representative.. ) It's essentially a long email chain of feigned empathy and reiterating they have zero parts/responsibility in the test being requested/-offered. On top of that frustration, The top administrator and HR reps openly express how much they like being able to pick the employees they want for these positions over being forced to choose from a list. This has been going on for approximately 5 years, so they've become quite comfortable With this arrangement. There are a large number of us now that are provisional due to turnover and retirement. Management/hr has Expressed great concern over the effects of a test being run They will definitely not be advocating for it . This is due to the disaster of having A substantial amount of people in high-ranking positions All changing at the same time.
To twist the knife even farther The position above me, my career goal, is a unique title that allows for a large number of employees from different job titles to transfer into it. Psychologists, dietitians program employees.... people that have absolutely no training/experience that's relevant to the job. That position has also become provisional. There is a small amount of people able to interview for it because of the massive amounts of people provisional. This has led to likely not the best candidates holding these crucial titles and causing a lot of issues in the agency
I love my job. I truly want continue my career here but the inability to advance or feel as though I have any rights at all is beyond frustrating. Desperation has led me to create an account just to post here In hopes someone has gone through this or has some advice direction that we have been unable to come up with.
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2024.05.19 01:17 Infamous_Pizza18 What should I do about my previous manager

Hello, so basically I need references for a job and they need 1 personal letter reference and 1 professional letter reference.
I have managed to get the personal one with no issues but for the professional one I've ran into an issue.
I've only worked at 2 places as I'm still young, I can't get a letter reference from where I currently work as I don't want them to know I am leaving in case it falls through.
As for the place I worked before I emailed the manager and he said it was ok to give his email details. I then sent him another email afterwards with a letter reference for him to review and see if he was ok with me using it but he hasn't responded yet. (He wasn't a very reliable manager)
I need the reference by friday or my chances are gone.
Whats the best course of action if he refuses or doesn't reply. Thanks.
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2024.05.19 01:16 MissKatherineC Eye Contact During Teletherapy

Mental Health Counselor MA student here, almost done with classroom work and heading into practicum and internship. Most of my practice with classmates is online, and my practicum sessions will be online, and I can't figure out where to look during session.
I need to be able to look at the client on my screen to pick up their nonverbals, but I need to look at the camera in order to communicate attentiveness and build rapport. When I watch tapes of myself, I look like I'm looking down, because I'm looking at the screen to see them.
How have y'all solved for this? Do you just position your monitor far away so it's harder to tell if you're looking at the camera or the screen?
As a related side topic, any other ND therapists here figured out how to manage the eye contact variance some of us have? I naturally look all over the place when I'm talking, though when someone else is talking, I do look at them. I can force myself to look at someone continuously if necessary, and have contexts where I've learned that behavior, so I *can* learn to do it in this one, but I'd really prefer to be congruent, and also not exhaust myself masking unnecessarily.
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2024.05.19 01:15 Infamous_Pizza18 Need a reference or I won't get job

Hello, so basically I need references for a job and they need 1 personal letter reference and 1 professional letter reference.
I have managed to get the personal one with no issues but for the professional one I've ran into an issue.
I've only worked at 2 places as I'm still young, I can't get a letter reference from where I currently work as I don't want them to know I am leaving in case it falls through.
As for the place I worked before I emailed the manager and he said it was ok to give his email details. I then sent him another email afterwards with a letter reference for him to review and see if he was ok with me using it but he hasn't responded yet. (He wasn't a very reliable manager)
I need the reference by friday or my chances are gone.
Whats the best course of action if he refuses or doesn't reply. Thanks.
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2024.05.19 01:15 beta-test Stopped to pick up my paycheck at my bosses house, then was asked to stay because he Elders over for dinner who also gave us a lesson

I’ve been at my current pest control job for 3 months now. During the training process, my manageboss randomly asked me if I’m religious, to which I said “Yes I’m Christian”. Then proceeded to ask if I “Believe in Jesus” to which I said “Yes” and he responded “That’s good”.
With him being the only manageboss at the company, I expected him to keep inviting me to his church, but he’s only invited me twice. The other 3 employees in the company are also Mormon.
Yesterday I stopped by his house to pick up my paycheck, and he let me know he had “New Elders over for dinner to celebrate with my family”, and asked if I would stay for dinner, but I felt like I had no other choice but to say yes. Now we’re sitting at the table talking and my boss tells the Elders “Would you guys mind giving us a lesson”, so they pulled out the Mormon bible and some pamphlets then asked me to choose one.
I picked a card and then scanned the QR code on it which pulled out up verse, and they asked me to read the entire page. I did so and then the whole thing turned into a bible study.
Fast forward 30 minutes and the Elders asked for my number so they can text me later to talk about the verse I read. So I give it to them. Today they texted me again asking if I had time to reflect on the verse but I didn’t respond back.
My biggest fear is since they’re close to my boss they might tell him I’m ignoring them or whatever else, and I’ll end up losing my job. I really need a job right now because it’s hard to go anywhere else.
Does anyone else have experience with this sort of situation and have any advice to give? I’m actively applying to other jobs and hoping I don’t lose my current job before that happens.
(Also I forgot to add the job bulletin my mangeboss had online lied about the salary when I spoke with him. It said $1900 and at the interview he told me $1650. Then when I signed the employee agreement it said I agree to a salary of $1650 per paycheck… but my actual paycheck is only $1350 so he lied three times.)
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2024.05.19 01:15 Ketrita Restarting UI after PFML - where to find medical certification form?

Hello!
I was on Unemployment for a month until I had surgery January 12th. I swapped over to PFML for 3 months, and have attempted to restart Unemployment as of April 15th. However, I keep getting disqualified.
I tried to send them the document that I'd used for my PFML application that started a date range of Jan 12 - April 12th, but after weeks of back and forth, they finally told me I need to submit their department's Medical Certification questionnaire after my doctor fills it out. But they didn't send me the form and I can't find it anywhere online. Does anyone have any ideas on what this form is? Or what I could have my doctor fill out instead? I don't want her to have to write a whole letter, but I guess I can ask her to if need be.
I'm also supposed to follow the normal Appeal process, but the only decision I can appeal is the one where they overpaid me for the week of my surgery. I suppose that's what I'll have to do.
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2024.05.19 01:13 kqsk3t AITAH for wanting to go no contact with my dad and by extension my mom because of their toxic relationship?

I (18F) have always known my dad (53M) wasn’t the most healthy person in the world. For some context on my family and to make sure it’s a whole picture i’m basically going to trauma dump, so TW for sexual assault i guess? When i was two he and my mom(48F) got a divorce because he was using drugs and alcohol to cope with some of his past traumas, while never putting in any work to get past them. After the divorce he ended up being put in prison after receiving multiple DUI’s (im not entirely sure how it happened exactly, i was two or three when he was locked up) and it got him locked up till I was six. My mom, despite having every reason to speak badly of my father, never said anything negative about him. She would take me to visit him, let me read the letters he sent me (when i actually could read, and she would write my replies down for me), and always let me talk to him when he called. We lived with my grandparents while he was locked up. After he got out he spent a long time working to get past his unhealthy coping mechanisms. He lives with his parents for two years and i would visit often. When i was eight he finally had a stable enough job to have both me and my mother move back in with him. I was young, and stupid, and when they asked me if i was okay with it I said yes. We moved into a single wide mobile home in my dad’s home town. My entire life was uprooted and replanted. I began classes in my new school and was bullied for most of my time there. I was told to “suck it up, bullies aren’t that bad.” even though in middle school i was pushed down a very steep flight of stairs and almost broke my arm. My grades began slipping and i went from a gifted child to a burn out really quick. My dad would yell at me and my mom for my grades, then get mad when i couldn’t understand how explained something to me. By thirteen i was suicidal and it was “an attempt to get attention” according to my dad. He had begun to pick fights with my mom over the littlest things. The house wasn’t clean enough, she didn’t make dinner fast enough, my room was a mess. (it was the size of a medium sized walk in closet.) And then my older (half) brother moved in with us. He (32M, let’s call him Michael) had never had a stable life and my dad coddled him because he felt like he had failed him. He had, but Michael was always a screwed up dude, so it only added into it. Anyways, over the course of the next three years my older brother would come to sexually assault me about five times over the next three years. We ended up moving into a larger house when i was about fifteen and i ended up going into counseling and learning that i had been groomed and conditioned to be basically unaware of the trauma inflicted on my by my brother since i was a kid. My dad, when i was seven and my brother a teenager, would turn a blind eye to Michael basically bashing my head into the island counter whenever he would steal something like food from me. My grandparents would always intervene and he would call me a whiner. At night he would tell me all sorts of things and make it seem like he was my only friend in the world. He kept doing it my entire life. My father, who had stopped drinking, had begun again because my grandfather was diagnosed with stage four lung cancer and has been fighting for him life since, it’s been about eight years i think since they had to pull him out of remission because the cancer came back. This is when he really became a nightmare. Depending on what type of alchohol he drinks his mood goes a few ways. Whiskey and he gets angry. Tequila and he gets all sappy and lovey dovey(this makes me very uncomfortable because he hasn’t ever been very openly affectionate), beer and he’s just a happy drunk, and wine and he gets sad. Sometimes it switches up but normally this is how it goes. After i finally told my parents about my brother and what he had done and him getting kicked out, he began to bury himself in alcohol. I had to get over it fast because he was blaming anyone within pissing distance. Eventually he would cry to me about how he had failed him son, to the daughter that his son had raped. it was really fucked up, and he only ever said that when he was drunk. (I want to say that my dad isn’t an inherently terrible person, he didn’t have a good life growing up and generational trauma hits hard.)He has been using drinking as a way to escape reality for a long time. It’s caused a great deal of arguments and both of my parents asking “what they do to deserve this” while my dad accuses me of treating him like garbage (he says the same thing to my mom). We’ve had to leave the house and spend a few days with other people before because i was scared he was going to hit us instead of the walls next time, multiple times. The most recent bought of fighting has been happening over the last three days. (for more context i moved out right after i turned eighteen, i became a manager at my workplace and was able to live with friends) I’ve been visiting my family and spending time with them since i haven’t really had time the past few months. I guess my mom found out that he had been receiving nudes from other women on messenger and wanted AT LEAST an apology. My dad blamed it on a married friend who was using his phone. it was a lie because he’s been receiving them almost every day. and commenting on them. it makes me sick to think about. he has begun blaming my mom for it. saying she ruined our old house, that she has to one up him, and saying “do you really wanna go there?” while he was the one who fucked up. After screaming at each other for nearly an hour he said he wanted to break up. My mom spiraled and wanted to kill herself. Her psychiatrist that she had a tele-health call with that day, asked me to basically watch my mom to make sure she doesn’t kill herself. I took her pills and asked my dad to lock up his guns. he took this as her “one -upping him”. Yesterday while i was back at my apartment i got a call from my mom explaining that he had gotten drunk and had told her to kill herself. She had left and was at a bridge to watch the water. I drove back in a panic since i live a town over. Today, my father was drunk again and asked me to go spend time alone so he could screw my mom. I didn’t want to be there so i showered and got ready to leave. Turns out their conversation had shifted and he was berating her for “not letting him discipline me”. I guess that after years of pent up anger never being touched on, i finally snapped and began yelling at him. I called him a hypocrite and he called me a bitch. And basically i left as he began to destroy things around the house. That was after i told him if he kept going this way i would cut contact. I’m currently sitting at our outdoor sports complex writing this because everyone i know is busy and i don’t want to bother them. I just needed to get it out. I don’t know if cutting contact is the right thing to do. Of if it makes me an asshole. I’m only eighteen. I don’t know what to do anymore.
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2024.05.19 01:12 ActivePromotion7196 Diane made Bo-Jack worse whenever he was getting better

Diane begins the show by writing a book about Bojack, they build a good relationship only for her to break that trust between them. Bojack makes the best of this due to the attention it gains him. Now taking into account the rehab letters as a show of his dependence on her, although I love the middle seasons they aren’t as impactful so I’ll jump to season 5. Bojack begins to improve on his depression after Philbert only for Diana to spin him off course at the premiere. She again extorts their friendship to force him to re-approach his guilt only making him return to drug abuse and then losing himself in an identity crisis. Then she leaves, leaving him with the broken relationship and guilt ridden. Bojack manages to begin to rehabilitate but he then spun out of control which we then find out could have been stopped if Diane was there, he still depended on her due to her exacting herself into his life however she breaks it off and in doing so routed up feelings of guilt and making him vonerable. Diane is the catalyst of the whole show and since the course of the show is an on the whole negative one we can see that she pushed him too far. I’m not excusing Bojacks bad behaviour or saying that he isn’t partly to blame but Bojack is (very unliked take I’m sure) a victim. People are results of their environment and their relationships, Bojack began his life with broken relationships and a horrible environment. Why should he be responsible for changing himself? He was set up in life and arguably his nature means for him to change would be too much to ask. Everyone has their own courses in life and his was his own, but Diane tried to exact herself in and threw him off course. She isnt consciously a bad person and isn’t often seeking to ruin his life, although sometimes she does like with the submarine episode and the premiere, but rather her intrusive nature makes her a negative force on the people around her. Guy, Bojack, Mr Peanutbutter all were affected negatively by her at some point. Gotta say I love posting my controversial points, will try to reply to as many as I can. BJ Horseman fanatics… discuss. And remember ICU
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2024.05.19 01:08 SungEgg Suggestions to help with Pay Negotiation for Promotion

Whats the best way to use any language to help with my pay raise, which is just a tier higher for my position and 2 pay grades higher. Im just gonna switch departments in my company. Found out theres a $9 difference in our pay, for the person Im replacing when they leave. Didn't realize how big of a difference my current manager lowballs us.
Can I use the managers words of how competitive and highly experinced to be to fill the position or mention their pay, when HR sends me the offer letter if they lowball me?
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2024.05.19 01:07 iamabotbeepbeep Need help with strategy

I have the following list of credit cards, and I want to reduce them to maybe 5-6 since it's a headache to manage all these. My yearly spends are around 4-5 lakhs across all these cards and it's mostly Food and travel. I barely shop online except when absolutely necessary. Any suggestions would help.
American Express SmartEarn*
American Express MRCC*
IDFC First Wealth
IndusInd Legend (only have this for B1G1 on movies)
Citi Indian Oil * (only for fuel)
Flipkart Axis
Axis MyZone
SBI SimplyClick
SBI Pulse
AmazonPay ICICI
HDFC Regalia First
Bank of Baroda Premier
RBL Shoprite Credit Card(Got Zomato card which got replaced)
OneCard
Scapia
I also have a add on diners black credit card from my dad which I use ONLY for lounge access in airports. Please help me drop and/or upgrade a card if you see something better can be done
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2024.05.19 01:04 Chopernio Ser Malwyn Blackwood - Lord Commander of the Kingsguard Edwyn Blackwood - Lord of Raventree Hall

PC

Reddit Account: choronga
Discord Tag: Choner
Name and House: Malwyn Blackwood
Age: 53
Cultural Group: Riverlander (claims First Men heritage)
Appearance: Average in height, perhaps slightly taller than the next man. His build is that of a man who has fought his entire life, toned yet lean. His face sports the marks of battle, a few scars cross it, and his many wrinkles are a clear show of his advanced age, even though he definitely does not look as old as he is. His auburn hair somehow as kept its color, yet his hairline has receded considerably. His eyes are those of a tired man, yet they hold a glint still.
Trait: Strong
Skill(s): THS(e), First Man Warrior (e), Reckless
Talent(s): Complaining, Drinking in moderation, Dice games
Negative Trait(s): N/A
Starting Title(s): Lord Commander of the Kingsguard, The Bloodwood, Ser
Starting Location: Opening Event
Biography:
Malwyn was born the second child to Lord Morgan Blackwood and Lady Jeyne Blackwood nee Frey in the year 29 before Aegon's conquest.
His early years were peaceful. He had proven to be able with the blade from a young age, and while his brother Desmond received the education worthy of an heir, Malwyn practice relentlessly, almost obsessively.
The two brothers got along fine, but their relationship strained as Desmond began to feel undermined by his brother, as he wished to excel in everything, and Malwyn's swordfighting was clearly superior to Desmond's. The heir had been pampered and now, he couldn't find himself happy with all the attention he had received, he wished for martial recognition as well.
It would never come.
Desmond was not a bad swordsman, just not a good one. He had a cunning mind for strategy, sharp at numbers, a good memory, as by only one-and-ten he could remember almost all of the Houses' banners, holdings and words from the Kingdom of the Isles and Rivers. However, his blade handling was never even close to his brothers' and the constant attempts were met with failure, which only further enraged the Lord.
A daughter was born to Lord and Lady Blackwood when Malwyn was seven years of age. Cynthea, they called her.
Desmond inherited early. Lord Morgan perished at the hands of Lord Lothar Bracken in the eleventh year before the conquest. The twenty year old Lord Desmond quickly married, having his first son, Brynden, just a year after.
After Brynden followed two more, daughter and son, Jeyne and Addam, then another one, Alys, in the year 1BC and two more after the Conquest, Edwyn and Theomar.
All these years, Malwyn had yet not married, two years younger than his brother. He had been betrothed, but a knight of House Hoare defiled Malwyn's soon to be wife, murdered the girl's brother and the woman took her own life before the bastard of the Hoare monster was born. This left in Malwyn a sense of pure hatred for his Ironborn overlords.
Then, the dragons came.
While many saw this as a threat, Malwyn saw any who could bring the Hoares to a kneel as friends, and when they eventually not only defeated them, but decimated their rotten House, Malwyn jumped to the chance to pledge his sword to Aegon the Conqueror.
He was made a member of the Kingsguard soon after he joined the side of their invaders, which was seen by his family as betrayal. Malwyn saw those who followed the Tullys' call for independence as nothing but fools. A man had come and released them from their Ironborn overlords, and the Riverlords paid that man with bloody rebellion.
Malwyn grew close to the new Targaryen King, due to him being his stationed kingsguard most of the time. The Knight managed to save Aegon from the goldcloaks once, but not twice, and after his death he became Lord Commander of the Kingsguard, as the attack on King Aegon had caused death of Corlys Velaryon.
It is Malwyn, with the help of Willem Ryger, that reveals the Tullys as culprits to Visenya Targaryen, leading to the destruction of the trouts. There were more conspirers, but the Bloodwood remained silent.
The following years were calm. The rest of the Blackwoods had made it clear that they wished for nothing more than the death of Malwyn, for he was a craven, a traitor and a kneeler. Malwyn didn't care, he still held love for his brother, even if it had never been mutual.
Around these years, a young boy of House Mallister became Malwyn's squire, getting knighted by the Lord Commander in the year 11AC.
In the year five-and-ten after the conquest, during a a hunt to celebrate the 18th nameday of Orys Baratheon's heir, bandits attack. It is a surprisingly well organized force and manages to take hostage many of important figures. Malwyn leads the defense, and is forced to take difficult choices. His hands are stained in blood in the end, innocents dead because the Lord Commander chose not to save them in order to save others. The King of the Woods died in the hands of Roland Arryn, and Malwyn fought alongside him.
A year after, Addam Blackwood died, killed in a border skirmish with House Bracken.
Two years later, a foolish Bracken decided that claiming that a Blackwood hill was theirs by right was a great idea. The boy, not older than eight-and-ten, brought a letter for the Hand of the King, and he was met with Malwyn, who laughed at the boy and insulted him plenty. The boy called for a duel, and Malwyn slaughtered him.
This incensed the two ancient enemies' feud. House Blackwood joined with the Mallisters of Seagard and the North. House Bracken had the Riverlords at their side. The two armies met at the Red Fork, and the two Lords dueled. Lord Bracken's leg was maimed by Lord Desmond Blackwood, but Lord Blackwood received a wound on his chest that never healed, and would eventually kill him in the year 24 AC.
Two years after the battle that never was, Cerion Blackwood, Desmond's heir, died from a hunting accident. Suspicious circumstances.
The war was halted by the Belaerys dragon of Aegon's Rest.
Malwyn wouldn't go home until a moon before Desmond's death, being called by Edwyn Blackwood, the Heir to Raventree Hall. There the two spoke, and Malwyn left without saying anything a night after he arrived.
Now, he's back at King's Landing, and someone has pissed on his tent.
Timeline:

AC

Reddit Account: choronga
Discord Tag: Choner
Name and House: Edwyn Blackwood
Age: 23
Cultural Group: Riverlander (claims First Men heritage) Appearance: Of average height, slender, with a face often described as "maidenly" by those who seek to mock the Lord of Raventree Hall. His voice is surprisingly deep, with a whispery cadence. His face is lacking a beard, not because he has not attempted to get it to grow. He has jet black hair, as befits a Blackwood.
Trait: Ruthless
Skill(s): Ranger, Schemer, Devious
Talent(s): Poetry, Archery, Gambling
Negative Trait(s): N/A
Starting Title(s): Lord of Raventree Hall, Wielder of the Weirwood Bow, The Raven
Starting Location: Opening Event

NPCs

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2024.05.19 01:01 OldCommunication1939 Total Wine in Fresno

Total Wine in Fresno
Currently available for grand reserve members, only one bottle
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2024.05.19 00:59 GoAheadMMDay UPDATE 3: Torment Techniques Used by Canadian and US Militaries

UPDATE 3: Torment Techniques Used by Canadian and US Militaries
Update #3 appears at the bottom.
Due to numerous disparaging comments by multiple individuals, I have reposted my article.
Heckling does not change what occurred. People need to know these truths, especially those who have experienced the same. They need to know they are sane, that such things are indeed being perpetrated, and the perpetrators use shame to silence them and protect their activities.
I write to encourage them not to listen to disparaging people who speak without knowledge.
February 10, 2024
I am Joseph Cafariello, a Canadian citizen and ex-member of the Canadian military. Of sound mind, not on medication, not a drug user, not a marijuana smoker, not an alcohol drinker, with no mental disorders.
I recently posted to this Liberty subreddit experiences of harassment by Vancouver's police and fire departments (Vancouver, BC, Canada). I’m the fellow who was repeatedly ordered by police to stay out of Vancouver’s Stanley Park, and was continually harassed whenever I visited the park (which I do every second day on my early morning walks).
Immediately following that post, they changed some of the techniques they use in my case. They were either informed of my post or found it themselves, seeing as my internet activity, and phone activity for that matter, are under continuous surveillance (plenty of proof which I will not include here to avoid running off-topic).
In this post, I would like to shed some light on other harassment which is still ongoing, since it occurs in private, away from potential observers. It involves the Canadian and US militaries.
Havana Syndrome
In 2016, numerous employees of the Canadian and US embassies in Havana, Cuba, started experiencing head injuries ranging from mild headaches to concussions. It happened in their sleep, and came to be called Havana Syndrome.
Wikipedia explains (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Havana\_syndrome):
“Havana syndrome is a cluster of idiopathic symptoms experienced mostly abroad by U.S. government officials and military personnel. The symptoms range in severity from pain and ringing in the ears to cognitive dysfunction and were first reported in 2016 by U.S. and Canadian embassy staff in Havana, Cuba. Beginning in 2017, more people, including U.S. intelligence and military personnel and their families, reported having these symptoms in other places, such as China, India, Europe, and Washington, D.C. The U.S. Department of State, Department of Defense, and other federal entities have called the events "Anomalous Health Incidents" (AHI). Of over a thousand purported cases, the majority of US investigative bodies found only a few dozen cases to be suspicious.”
Ladies and gentlemen, I can tell you exactly what happens, because I have been experiencing this since I first joined the Canadian military back in 2002, and am still experiencing these “torments” (as I call them) to this day, already 3 years after leaving the military.
I go to bed. In about 15 minutes, just as I am on the cusp of falling asleep, a hear and feel a heavy thud reverberate and ultimately strike my skull. My body releases a sharp burst of adrenalin, my heart starts racing, and my blood’s circulation speeds up significantly. Depending on the severity of the blow, it can take me anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour to fall asleep again. Though there have been times I could not return to sleep for more than 2 hours.
A strong headache is felt immediately, and lasts for hours. There have been times when my heart felt like it was going to burst, having been startled as such.
The pulse to the head sometimes reverberates through the wall and my bed’s headboard. I distinctly feel as though I have been hit on the top of my skull. At other times, it feels as though the pulse has come through the air, striking the side of my skull.
This is not a sleep disorder, for it does not occur regularly. At times, my sleep is disturbed in this manner 3 or 4 days in a row. At other times, there is no disturbance for up to a week. But they never let me go more than a week without such interruptions to my sleep.
Neither is it sleep apnea, as I do not awaken gasping for breath. The pounding headaches, sudden release of adrenaline, and heart palpitations I experience are caused by external impacts of sound waves or air bursts.
Sonic Weapons
How these pulses are produced is not easy to identify. As Wikipedia explains:
“Once the story became public, various U.S. government representatives attributed the incidents to attacks by unidentified foreign actors, and various U.S. officials blamed the reported symptoms on a variety of unidentified and unknown technologies, including ultrasound and microwave weapons.”
Sonic weapons have been in use for many years by militaries, and by police in crowd control. As Wikipedia explains (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sonic\_weapon):
“Some sonic weapons make a focused beam of sound or of ultrasound; others produce an area field of sound. As of 2023 military and police forces make some limited use of sonic weapons.”
(Do not believe the 2023 timeline. The Canadian military has been using these weapons since the early 2000’s at the latest.)
Wikipedia continues:
“Extremely high-power sound waves can disrupt or destroy the eardrums of a target and cause severe pain or disorientation. This is usually sufficient to incapacitate a person. Less powerful sound waves can cause humans to experience nausea or discomfort.”
The users of these technologies must also be using thermal detection equipment to monitor the target’s sleep. As I mentioned, I most often feel these blows the moment I am falling asleep. Body temperature drops when we sleep, and brain activity slows. Heat-detection equipment is likely being used to identify the point at which the target is falling asleep.
Why they prefer to strike at the start of someone’s sleep as opposed to the middle of their sleep, I do not know. Perhaps their intent is to deprive the body of early sleep, limiting the amount of deep sleep available to the person before their alarm rings in the morning.
Ordinary Hammers
Not all such “torments” (as I call them) are caused by high-tech equipment. I have heard and felt distinct hammer strikes running along the 2x4 beams inside my walls. These strikes can be a single hard strike, or several strikes in a row. It is definitely caused by a person with a hammer because the intervals between strikes are equidistant in time; that is, the time spacing between strikes is not random and does not change from strike to strike, but is constant between strikes, exactly as when someone is hammering. And no, it is not someone hanging pictures at 1:30 am, multiple times a week, for years.
On one occasion, when I was standing at my kitchen sink, I felt the floor-board directly under my feet pulse so sharply it felt like a brick had struck the soles of my feet. In this case, my military neighbour likely used a hammer to strike the floorboard on his side of the wall. It is the only plausible explanation.
Surveillance
This leads to surveillance of one’s activities at home. I have plenty of proofs of that. They seem insignificant on an individual basis. But when you put them all together, they present a clear picture of home surveillance.
My laptop computer’s lid cracked one night, at the bottom left corner of the screen. The next day at work, I heard my military supervisor relate to another co-worker that the night before, his laptop computer’s lid cracked at the bottom left corner. I swear to the Lord in Heaven, I am being truthful.
I tested my suspicion of being surveilled. At home one night, I blurted out-loud, “VW Passat. What an ugly sounding word, ‘Passat’”, I said. A few days later, my military colleagues at work started playing a card game at lunch, invented by one of them. The name he gave his game was “Passat”, and when he spoke it, he looked at me for a reaction. If you ever contact the Halifax military base, ask for the Claims Department and ask them if they are still playing Passat.
On another occasion, at a time when I frequented the gym every second day for a few years, I suspected my van had been fitted with a listening device. I suspected so because a number of things I had spoken with people about on my phone while in my van (nothing illegal) were repeated by people at the gym in conversations among themselves. Too many times, parts of other people's conversations matched parts of conversations I had had with others while I was in my van.
I already knew my phone was being tapped, but I also suspected my van was bugged. So one evening while driving in my van, I blurted out-loud a number of things I said I hated. "I hate (this or that)"; "I hate it when...". One of them was, "I hate when people chew gum with their mouths open." I then vocalized an exaggerated gnawing sound, "Gnaw. Gnaw. Gnaw."
The very next time I went to the gym, 2 days later, while I was at an exercise, a fellow sat at an exercise directly behind me. And sure enough, he started chewing with his mouth open, vocalizing that gnawing sound, "Gnaw. Gnaw. Gnaw." I didn't look behind at him, because I knew what was going on, and I wanted to avoid playing into his hand. So he repeated himself again and again until I was done and moved to a different station. Now, honestly, who chews gum at the gym? You can't. Or you run the risk of choking for the heavy breathing, not to mention when laying down on benches. And with precisely the same exaggerated vocalized gnawing sound I had made in my van just 2 days prior.
Their whole intent is to let you know you are being surveilled. They want you to know, as both a warning and a provocation. They want you to say something, to launch accusations, which they would readily deny, making you look paranoid. If you react too strongly, they could even have you diagnosed with some kind of disorder, and put you on medication, which further plays into their hand. (More regarding medications in the last section of this post.)
This is why, as I mentioned in my previous post, they would park their cars shining their high beams on me as I walked past them during my morning walk. And why on some occasions, a group of 3 or 4 would exit their cars and stand on my path just as I approached, forcing me to go around them. They would then remain standing on the path until my return trip through, and after I had passed by the second time, then would then return to their cars - making it absolutely clear I was their interest.
Their intent is not only to make me aware, but also to present themselves in close proximity to me, within easy reach, in the hope I would confront them, resulting in an altercation that could land me in a lot of hot water - 4 witnesses against me, all pleading innocence.
Again, it is all designed to make you look bad, and to warrant some kind of legal measure against you - preferably a medical diagnosis, discrediting you in everything you say about them. If they can't refute your claims, their only remaining option is to discredit you. That's what all of these tricks are designed to accomplish. Who would believe anything you say, once you have been diagnosed with a disorder?
There are plenty more examples. But who would really believe them? I’ll save them for the future.
Home Invasion
Both during and after my military service, I have had my apartments entered without any signs of break-ins. How? Lock-picking and duplicate keys. Indications? Missing objects; ie: money, phone adaptor, etc. Nothing major. Just something to make us understand we are being watched, and to make us understand what they can do.
But it is always something small, something for which you would be ridiculed for divulging.
Two more examples: I found my razor, which I always lay-down razor-end to the wall, turned around, razor-end toward me. Also, in one of my house slippers I found a small shoe sticker on the up-side of the heel. I had those slipper for years, and never had any shoe stickers on them. Yet there it was, clearly visible on the top surface of my slipper, not the bottom. Could I have stepped on a shoe sticker when barefoot in my apartment, only to have the sticker transfer itself to my slipper when I wore it? How many shoe stickers do you have laying around your apartment that you can accidentally step onto?
If I had stepped onto a sticker in my apartment and had it stick to my heel, that means the sticky side was up against my skin. This means the sticker would have had to flip upside down such that the sticky side would then be down, allowing the sticker to stick to the slipper. Do you really think that happened? That sticker was not there when I left my apartment, but it was there when I returned. And it was the wrong sticker, wrong brand, wrong size.
Again, what is their intent? To make someone look ridiculous so no one will believe them should they speak of other more sensitive things.
Staged Incidents
The above incidents clearly point to coordinated and staged events (at my work, my home, on my walks, etc). This is so frequently met with incredulity. "But that would require coordination on the part of so many people," the public dismisses. "They wouldn't do that."
Oh yes they would, and they have, as explained in https://fightgangstalking.com/. Note the documented cases involving the Canadian Security Intelligence Service (CSIS, Canada's equivalent to the US' CIA) and the Royal Canadian Mounted Police (RCMP, Canada's national police force) in the second quote, which were reported in national newspapers.
From https://fightgangstalking.com/:
“Disruption operations often involve tactics which are illegal, but difficult to prove. These tactics include – but are not limited to – overt surveillance (stalking), slander, blacklisting, “mobbing” (intense, organized harassment in the workplace), “black bag jobs” [home invasions], abusive phone calls, computer hacking, framing, threats, blackmail, vandalism, “street theater” (staged physical and verbal interactions with minions of the people who orchestrate the stalking), harassment by noises, and other forms of bullying. Many of these tactics were used by the FBI during its illegal COINTELPRO operations, as documented by stolen official documents and subsequent Congressional investigations.
"Although the general public is mostly unfamiliar with the practice, references to “disruption” operations – described as such – do occasionally appear in the news media, even though that fact would apparently be news to the editors of The New York Times. In May 2006, for example, an article in The Globe and Mail, a Canadian national newspaper, reported that the Canadian Security Intelligence Service (CSIS) and the Royal Canadian Mounted Police (RCMP) used “Diffuse and Disrupt” tactics against suspects for whom they lacked sufficient evidence to prosecute. A criminal defense attorney stated that many of her clients complained of harassment by authorities, although they were never arrested."
She can add me to that list too.
For the Benefit of Others
The experiences I have recounted here seem so trivial, so insignificant, they make you look ridiculous if you talk about them. But if we don’t talk about such things, no one will ever know about them. Other people have experienced the same, and are forced to endure such torments in silence. They need encouragement to talk about their own experiences, and so I write about mine in the hope they will talk about theirs, even if I do look ridiculous. The perpetrators are more ridiculous for doing them.
I remember a military colleague being hauled away by military police one morning, as she was struggling and having a violent fit. A fellow on her floor told me she was throwing chairs at her walls screaming, “Stop it! Stop it! Stop it!”. When he mentioned that, I knew exactly what they had done to her. She was considered unruly, and was being watched intently. They wanted her out, and that is how they accomplished it. Through wall tapping and sleep deprivation, they push you to the breaking point. And when you finally lose control and do something rash, they pounce on you, and you’re out. Now she has a criminal record, considered a criminal when in reality she was a victim. Welcome to the Canadian military, and other militaries besides, I am sure.
There are dozens upon dozens of experiences I could present. But who will really read them? Worse still, who will really believe them? I overheard my military supervisor in Halifax whisper to another, “Do you think he knows?”, after I had mentioned one of the many “coincidences” I experienced, but with a tone of my being aware it was not a mere coincidence. As I turned my face to my computer screen, I whispered under my breath, but still loud enough for him to hear, “Yes, (rank) (name), I know.” A few minutes later, as he walked past my desk, he leaned in by my ear and whispered, “We’re just trying to help you.” I should have pressed him for answers right then and there, but you just don’t know how much trouble you can get into when making such accusations in the military. So I let it go. But I will never forget.
Should anyone reading this ever decide to launch some kind of inquiry, I can mention names of over 100 people to contact, including military personnel, family members, neighbours, building managers, and others who have been contacted by military personnel with false narratives about me. They flash their ID’s and other credentials, and people believe anything they say. They turn family, friends, co-workers and neighbours against you, even recruiting their participation. Your acquaintances not only participate, but actually feel justified and emboldened playing tricks on you. It isn't their fault, though; they have been misled. I would reference them solely for corroboration.
As a final thought, here are explanations of two military programs in which certain persons (sometimes military, sometimes civilian) are kept under constant surveillance, and are in some cases subjected to conditioning in an attempt to turn them into what is called a “sleeper agent”. Almost all of the tactics presented below have been experience by me, including constant surveillance (ie: my previous post here regarding being harassed on my morning walks) and sleep deprivation (as per the top portion of this post, which other military members in Cuba and elsewhere around the world have also experienced).
Pentagon’s Signature Reduction Program
See Newsweek’s article: https://www.newsweek.com/exclusive-inside-militarys-secret-undercover-army-1591881
Some excerpts from that Newsweek article, plus more background information on the Pentagon’s Signature Reduction Program, can be found here: https://fightgangstalking.com/
“The largest undercover force the world has ever known is the one created by the Pentagon over the past decade. Some 60,000 people now belong to this secret army, many working under masked identities and in low profile, all part of a broad program called “signature reduction.” The force, more than ten times the size of the clandestine elements of the CIA, carries out domestic and foreign assignments, both in military uniforms and under civilian cover, in real life and online, sometimes hiding in private businesses and consultancies, some of them household name companies.
“…a little-known sector of the American military, but also a completely unregulated practice. No one knows the program’s total size, and the explosion of signature reduction has never been examined for its impact on military policies and culture. Congress has never held a hearing on the subject. And yet the military developing this gigantic clandestine force challenges U.S. laws, the Geneva Conventions, the code of military conduct and basic accountability.
“…The signature reduction effort engages some 130 private companies to administer the new clandestine world. Dozens of little known and secret government organizations support the program, doling out classified contracts and overseeing publicly unacknowledged operations.
"Federal spy agencies are using Americans to spy on their fellow citizens – the same approach to governance famously employed by communist East Germany."
How to Develop a Hypnotic Sleeper Agent
By Dantalion Jones / Masters of Mind Control
The following “was” on the web, but has been removed. Surprise, surprise. But I saved its web files to my computer years ago, knowing that sooner or later it would be removed. I made a jpeg image of the web page as it once appeared, attached here.
Note that I have experienced almost all of the tactics described below, including the stalking I mentioned in my previous post here (regular walks in the park), the sleep deprivation noted at the top of this post, and the surveillance and intrusions described here as well.
Quoting the now-removed webpage: “How to Develop a Hypnotic Sleeper Agent” (from here to end of post):
Amid all the conspiracy theories one of the most feared is that there exist "sleeper agents" in our society who are programmed to come into service when they are triggered by a phone call or key word.
These alleged sleeper agents don't even know they are programmed to become saboteurs, soldiers, suicide bomber, etc because of the thoroughness of their programming. They are the feared "Manchurian Candidate" that the movies portray.
The question is "Are they real?"
If they are true sleeper agents there is no way of telling until they are activated. One can however theorize exactly how they are made.
Indoctrination
Using indoctrination a person can be made to embrace a religious or philosophical belief that would make becoming a sleeper agent possible.
This would be a person so committed to an ideal they would be willing to wait patiently as a member of society until they are called into action. These people would know their mission and consciously hold it secret while interacting with the rest of society.
Conditioning
Conditioning is a repetitive process where the desired responses are enforced and rewarded and unwanted responses are punished. This can be done consciously as part of training drill and it can be done subconsciously using hypnosis or drugs to create amnesia.
Hypnosis
It has been demonstrated that hypnosis can create "amnesia walls" in which the subject has no conscious memory of what happened in the hypnosis session. It has further been demonstrated that hypnosis can give post hypnotic instruction to be carried out automatically in the waking state without the subject knowing it or questioning the behavior.
What follows is conjecture and theory based on testimonials of people who were alleged to be sleeper agents and soldiers.
Continuous Supervisions
Continuous supervision doesn't mean that the subject is cut off completely from society. It means that they are constantly overseen and every aspect of their lives are managed (without their knowledge or consent) to support their hypnotic programming.
This would include:
• Repeated reinforcement of all hypnotic conditioning.
• Handlers. Handlers are people who help maintain the subjects environment to maintain all the programming. They can play the role of family, friends, lovers, psychologists, coaches or any roll the subject perceives as supportive. The truth is the handlers are their to support the successful fulfillment of the programming and not the subject as a person.
• Minimal sleep so that the mind/brain does not process all the sleeper conditioning during sleep.
• Creating constant environmental challenges like unemployment or poverty. This gives the subject something other than their programming to focus on.
• Frequent hospitalization. This gives overt opportunity to sedate the subject for conditioning. If the subject has a history of hospitalizations for mental disturbances all the better. No one will take them seriously.
Joseph Cafariello
PS... Today is the second day after this post (February 12, 2024). A garbage truck just slammed into my parked car.
PPS... I finish writing this post because I am satisfied with its shape and content; not because of what happened to my car.
It is similar to when you are reaching for your coat, and someone tells you, "Take your coat." Since you have to take your coat, your brain tells you it's ok to obey them, and you comply. They just created an instance where they led you, and you followed them. And your brain accepted it.
It's a technique the military uses all the time. It trains you to accept instructions from that person or group. Done enough times, you become comfortable obeying them.
I just say, "I take my coat because I choose to, not because you tell me to." It's important to make that clear, to block the conditioning and affirm our self-governance; not just to them, but to ourselves as well. Now our brain realizes we took our coat by our own choice; we are still in command.
So too, I say regarding today's event. "Thanks for the warning, but I had already finished writing my post. I finished by my own choosing."
UPDATES 1 & 2: February 26 & March 07, 2024:
My apartment was once again entered while I was out. Either a key was used or the lock was picked. This may or may not have included assistance from building staff. Home invasions are included in the list of their techniques noted above, referred to as "black bag jobs".
All tenants on my floor received new fridges a couple of weeks ago. I removed the tape securing the bins inside my new fridge, and also removed all styrofoam pads from the corners of the glass shelves when I repositioned them.
The person(s) who have been invading my living space on a regular basis have struck again. As you can see in the photo below, the styrofoam pads on the corners of my fridge's shelves were restored when I was out of my apartment. I had removed all pads when I repositioned the shelves. Yet now they are back.
It is a tactic used to undermine our observational awareness in an attempt to make us second-guess and doubt ourselves. The aim is to cause people to feel less sure not only of the things we have done, but also feel less sure of the things others have done. They want us to question the accuracy of our observations and memory.
The idea is to train you to dismiss any anomalies you may observe as being your own misperception of things. Once they convince you not to trust your own judgement, they are free to do whatever they want to you, and you will simply accept it without questioning.
UPDATE 3: May 18, 2024:
Confrontations with individuals keep occurring, at times potentially violent. Following are just 3 such encounters as of late.
1 - Kick-boxer in the park:
As I parked my car in one of the parking lots in Vancouver's Stanley Park one night, another vehicle drove up behind me and parked several spots away. A tall man exited that vehicle, and walked hastily along the path I always walk, down some steps to the water's sea wall path. I took my time and followed my usual walk, also down the steps down to the sea wall. The man knew my routine, and was in a hurry to get ahead of me.
As I walked along the sea wall, I saw the same man sitting on a bench, playing a loud Persian-sounding religious sermon on some device I did not clearly see. As I walked past him, he called out to me to stop and chat. I ignored him and continued walking past him. He rose and started walking behind me.
I opened my umbrella, turned, and walked past him the other way, returning to the stairs back to the parking lot. He also turned and continued following me. I started running. He also started running. I ran up the steps, as did he.
Being taller than I am, his legs are longer than mine, and he quickly caught up to me on a grassy patch at the top of the steps. I turned to him and asked, "Why are you following me?" He did not reply, but stood profile to me, the same stance a kick-boxer uses when ready to kick someone. He was tall, thin, and in excellent physical shape as you would see in a kick-boxer.
He did not speak at all, but was just waiting for me to make a move. I turned, entered my vehicle and left. The encounter continued with a chase through the park in our cars. Yes, that is correct. He chased me out of the park in his car.
2 - Told to keep quiet:
The perpetrators need to operate with as little detection as possible, and they repeatedly warn their subjects to keep their mouths shut about their experiences.
On another of my recent nightly walks, a man stood on the sidewalk ahead of me about half a block away, looked at me, and shouted into the sky at nobody, giving the appearance of being a homeless person shouting for no reason. He then started walking in my direction. I continued walking straight. As he passed me, he leaned into my face and shouted into my ear, "Shut the f_ck up!" I continued walking in my direction, and he resumed walking in his.
The idea is to make it seem as though he is just a deranged man wandering the streets at night, shouting at nothing, so that when he shouts at me, any observer would simply dismiss his actions. But in reality, he was sent to send me a message to stop publishing posts like this, which I had done many times on many sites, and continue to. They don't like it when we reveal their methods. But the truth must be known.
3 - You'll be sorry:
On another occasion, while returning from grocery shopping one afternoon, I walked past a man sitting by a storefront. He was clean-cut, wearing clean clothes, without any carts or wagons or any belongings of any kind. As I passed him, he asked me for some spare change. I replied, "I'm sorry," and continued walking past. He replied, "You will be."
There are numerous other experiences, like two seemingly unassociated men standing on the sea wall about 100 meters away from each other, each of them spitting just as I walked past each one.
There are too many experiences to mention. Looking at each experience individually, one would easily dismiss them as being unrelated and simply coincidental. But put them all together and a picture starts to form, like putting together the pieces of a puzzle.
As I hand you each piece of the puzzle one by one, you dismiss each piece, saying, "This could be anything." And you discard it. You keep discarding each piece as I hand it to you. By the end of it, you look down at the table and say, "You have nothing." That's because you looked at each piece as a separate item and threw it away. But if you leave the pieces on the table as I hand them to you and do not hastily discard them, you will see they form a clear picture when put all together.
We must look at all these events as a whole. Individually, each one could be anything. But when all of these experiences are put together and considered as a whole, they form an undeniable picture. Do not be quick to dismiss each piece. Leave the pieces on the table and look at the whole. The picture I present is sound. Remember, I have all the pieces; you do not. I see the picture more clearly than you do.
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2024.05.19 00:59 neurotic95 Is contract work "job hopping"?

Hi all, it's me again. This subreddit has been so helpful so I thought I'd turn to you all for advice once more. My situation is complicated and a bit unfortunate so I'd appreciate any professional input I can get!
Some background on me: I have a degree in Journalism/Public Relations and used to work in social media marketing for some pretty big name tech brands, but this was never my passion and the pressure to come up with exciting campaigns and increase engagement/followership was just not great for my mental health as I don't want to be chronically online. While living in NYC, I was recruited by a staffing agency to do admin/office assistant work at the World Trade Center and for a hedge fund (which involved assisting the C-suite) for about 6 months. I learned a lot during that time and found I preferred this line of work to social media marketing.
Unfortunately, I had to move back to the Bay Area because my dad has a unique, rare health condition that involves round-the-clock care between my family and me. Through personal connections, I took on a part-time role as an office assistant/event coordinator at a large restaurant in Portola Valley that serves a lot of tech and VC CEO's. In fact, I interface with EA's all the time to set up corporate functions. Shortly thereafter, I was approached by another staffing agency to do a short term social media job at a big tech company. I accepted because I needed work. They liked me so much that I was able to extend the contract to 6+ months. But I knew I wanted to return to admin so that I could eventually work my way up to be an EA. I left because I found an opportunity to be a senior admin assistant (although the woman I replaced was an "EA" so not sure why that title didn't transfer to me) at a prestigious university. Unfortunately, this role was not a great fit and I think I jumped into something too advanced for my skillset as there was no training, very little support, and too many unprecedented events unique to the department that I just could not manage on my own. I quit after 4 months. The job description said 6 years of admin experience, which I don't have, so looking back I am surprised they hired me.
Thankfully, I kept my job as an office assistant/event coordinator for the last 1.5 years and I've been actively interviewing for admin roles the last couple months and overall my experience has been positive. I have connections at Career Group that have vouched for me and I have one really promising prospect (I would be an admin training under the EA to the CEO, and they only ask for 1 year of experience). However, this last week I met with two other recruiters from separate agencies that commented that it looks like I'm a job hopper based on the short stints I've done the last 2 years. The first admin contract would've been longer than 6 months but I had to relocate to take care of my dad. The second social media contract was short because I decided to go back to admin work. And then the third job was short because it just wasn't a good fit. I know how it looks but I've worked for some great companies and I don't think I should be discounted because of this. One recruiter told me I'm probably only getting interviews because recruiters are "interested to hear my story" but that doesn't mean "I'm strong enough to get hired," which really hurt to hear and scares me that I may never become an EA. Does anyone have any advice on this? I didn't think contract work would be so frowned upon. I genuinely enjoy admin work and just hope companies would be willing to invest in me so that I can move up. It's been difficult to go through this career change while also being a caregiver but I refuse to give up!
TLDR; Most of my jobs the last 2 years have been contracts that are ~6 months, but for reputable companies. Would this hurt my chances of finding a permanent full-time job? I don't want to keep doing contract work because I'm afraid I'll never get out of it. I do think I'm overqualified to do data entry and receptionist work given my background but then a lot of admin, EA jobs I see require more years of experience. Any suggestions?
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