Didn't think I would be on reddit but looking for i guess public random help? If I ATA then I will accept it.
I am having issues with my girlfriend and was hoping within the next 10 days to pop the question, and as shitty as it is, she is bringing up and point of view in our relationship I do not agree with in any capacity.
We have known eachother 9 years, Started dating almost 3 years ago. I had strong reservations about this relationship even beginning because I had gotten out of something bad a year prior and she had gotten out fo a 5 year relationship before getting with me.
This is a rare and only time where the girl was asking me out and I was saying no. I had started to learn about boundaries and mental health and it felt like at that moment I could not handle any form of a relationship. She forgets to tell anyone in this story how the longest she has been in single is 6 months and basically hopped from relationship to relationship.
I had told her she needs to spend a year or more figuring out what she wants in life for herself and who she is outside of a relationship because it sounded like a person with no path or direction.
I will admit I was weak and definitely like her, come to find out we liked eachother when we first met it was just bad timing. The only reason I asked her out is because all my friends said we looked and seemed perfect together and they hadn't seen me that happy in a long time.
So far we have had it good, and of coure some fights, but if I am being fair her last few relationships have been very abusive and non loving and the abuse goes all the way back to her family as well. So after my many failings I learned how to, not lash out or scream or make instant judgements or start a argument with texts, I have learned a lot from my own short comings and it feels she is where I was years ago. When we fight 80% of her arguments come from a topic that isn't even the issue and that fights feel like , I made her hurt or upset so she is gonna hurt me the same if not worse...
An issue I was warned about when I started dating, was after I inherited some money. I had been told by most of my family that dating financially below me could be tough because they might always see the comparison. And in a couple relationships it has been thrown in my face. Its not great, but it was given to me and I know that isn't fair. I would say I spend most of my money on my friends or significant other well being, not to buy them, but gift giving is a strong love language and I guess I always felt guilty I did nothing to have this money.
The recent conversation has been about her making more money versus me. I stopped working about 6 years ago to try and get into home investments and real estate stuff, I got tired of not being promoted when I showed up early, stayed late kind of crap then being asked to do 100 tasks not in my job description, but the actual on paper description of the person who got promoted over me and was not doing. I don't mind working hard or even for free, but if on paper I meet qualifications and the person promoted doesn't, then I have a problem.
This is her first consistent job that pays okay and has benefits. She job hops year after year and when looking for jobs they want some form of loyalty more than 1 year and she keeps wanting to go back to a bar job downtown that when she first had it was making bank, like 1800.00 every weekend only two days of work, but then when every bar opened up downtown post covid her weekend pay was now like 1200, then 1000, then 900. Not to mention tons of shootings and scary phone calls I would get at 3 AM. So we made a deal if for the next three months the paycheck wouldn't increase beyond 1000 she would quit and not go back... So I have supported her through multiple jobs and quittings and her trying to start her own baking business that she tanked because anytime I set a price for her baked goods, she would give a massive discount and not breakeven... I have even done 24hr straight baking sessions to get massive orders to clients in which killed our oven that I had to fix. I just wish she'd stay somehwere for a while and build a resume that works. I know our whole country is fucked financially and the average survival salary of our state is 100k,.. I already cover everything and pay for everything else...
I have been doing the real estate investing on mostly my own, and obviously it is not going well, trying to be ethical and moral and in the housing market seems like an oxymoron. I still have more money than she brings in and I am working on my real estate license, but I bought the house, take care of her, our dogs, mow the lawn, help out with her family of 9, fix our appliances, take care of her indoor plants, gave her a garden for outside that I also maintain, cook dinner or buy dates most of the time, pay for trips, her dogs surgeries etc, She is saying I need to make even more money so she can take it easy and stop working as much... But she has complained multiple times about wanting to help out around the house mroe and with payments... Idk how she can help if she is gonna take an inconsistent paycheck, and have no benefits of any kind and drive farther...
Am I slacking as her man and better half or is she not stepping up to the plate and doing her share?

Hi Ann Arbor! I just moved into Ann Arbor and am trying to get myself situated. I absolutely adore the city so far and thought this would be the best place to go to ask for advice!

1. I'm looking for a new healthcare provider, hopefully a trans-specific one that can help me with getting my HRT. Anyone have any recommendations close to Ann Arbor downtown? I don't really have any form of transportation besides walking and the bus lol
   
2. I'm subleasing, and the lease goes up August 1st. Any good recommendations for cheap-ish housing within a bus ride or walk of downtown? I'm hopefully looking for a 2brm to share with my gf. Conversely, is there any apartment complexes or areas I should steer clear of?
   

Any advice or comments help- thank you so much!! :)

Hello everyone! I wanted to write and share something constructive for this space, that hopefully goes beyond snarking specific names and personalities and helps those who have been harmed in one way or another find a bit of understanding around what happened to them and why.
I've shared pieces of my story here before but the gist is: I am not from the coaching world. I'm from the general spirituality world - from a spiritual modality that has an aspect of divine feminine and divine masculine that has always interested me, but few others in the community. I learned about this whole specific mess listening to love & light confessionals, and went deep into the rabbit hole. The perversion of understanding of masculine/feminine energy dynamics was horrifying but also enlightening. I'm big on learning how NOT to be from people who give me the major ick. This is why I've done a lot of deep diving in general on cults, gurus, and manipulative spirituality in general - and there's a lot to take away if you can go in with this mindset. I'm also hella autistic and love infiltrating niche internet subgroups whose experiences are much different than mine so I can - again - learn from the experieneces of others, and gain more empathy and understanding of the vast human experience.
I was a very forward facing person for the nonprofit I volunteered for for over 4 years. There was no "guru" that I supplicated, however there was a person formally in charge who abused their power and the willingness of others to help the organization, and was known to be cruel in private, when it suited them. I didn't see this person as above me - in fact in a lot of ways they were quite pitiful and needed a lot of help/support in their role - which is what I did, willingly and for practically free. At one point, the entire org sat down and did a call in of this person, however, they were able to push everyone that they couldn't control out of the way and rewrote the story with themselves as the victim (we all know this one). The final falling out happened at the end of 2019, so luckily for them Covid gave them some time to figure out how to run their events without me (they hired a paid staff).
Anyway, I gave many many hundreds of hours to this cause, and then the person in charge was able to take advantage of me and then push me out of the community I had served very seriously for 6 years with rumors that I had been trying to steal money. This is so far beyond the truth, and everyone involved directly knows this, but no one came to dispell the rumor. So, I've been heartbroken by supposedly "spiritual" leaders of a community, that's for sure. In fact listening to Katya was part of the cult deprogramming that me and a group who had left together went through (this group also used, abused, and betrayed me but that's another story!)
So, this isn't going to be about me, I just wanted to share my background. This is about what the divine feminine and the divine masculine "REALLY" are. This may get a bit woo in here but I can't imagine anyone here is afraid of woo. In fact it's the mystery of the spiritual experience that allows these people to cause so much harm. So let me try to remove some of that mystery.
The creation is polarized, in many ways. One of those ways is masculine/feminine. The masculine force is the will, the conscious mind, and that which puts the infinity of possible experience into order. It in and of itself is quite fallible. The feminine force is the subconscious mind - all that is - and the untapped potential of this reservoir. The masculine reaches for the feminine, and if the will (masculine) is properly configured, the unmanifest creation (feminine) will give him something in return. The masculine NEEDS the feminine but the feminine doesn't really NEED the masculine, however it does desire the masculine's attention being focused it its direction (instead of random mundane wordly experiences). And the feminine wants the masculine's attention consistently, lest the feminine will not be consistent at all in its response. This attention can be forceful or gentle, but it must be consistent.
Every human has a balance of masculine/feminine energy in them, and while women are socially conditioned to tend towards feminine expression and men towards masculine, biological sex really has very very little to do with it. There are of course, positive feminine expressions and negative, and positive male expressions and negative. What these polarity goons do is mostly focus on a mix of positive/negative masculine expression for the man, 0 female expression, and then only positive feminine expression for the woman with maybe, possibly, a bit of positive masculine expression (only during working hours when you're in seperate offices, and only if you're paying the bills, ofc)
Typically, we are attracted to partners who "balance" out our spiritual energy - so the "polarization" in a relationship can be anywhere from hyper masc/hyper femme to barely masc/barely femme - and again, this is NOT a hard and fast rule and has almost NOTHING to do with sex other than a general (mostly cultural) bias. The hyper femme/hyper masc scenario can definitely be more, well, exciting and dramatic than a relationship between two people who have very little polarized charge in that way between them. But that's likely why few of these polarity gurus have any experience in longevity of relationships - they are fueling their "twin flame" relationship with manufactured drama and trauma bonding. In reality, in a relationship, you are supposed to grow together and be more willing to meet each other where you are at in the moment, instead of demanding they be a near perfect idealized form before you offer them any attention/respect.
The reason these male teachers push polarity doctrine is literally because of their own wounding of the expression of the masculine/feminine. Men (especially USian men) have been taught that expressing any aspect of their feminine selves is repulsive and weak and probably gay. So, their solution to their own inability to be vulnerable is to attack women - for being "too masculine" - aka some balanced expression of both, normal! They want their women to be 100% pure unformed childlike energy with no will of their own, just a will that can be given to the man. They want them to embody this feminine space as close to 100% of the time so that they are forced into their masculine 100% of the time. Girlies, if you are in your masculine, this makes them feel more in their feminine and - gosh that's just icky and disgusting. You don't want your man to get a boner for you when you're in the masculine - that might make him GAY! In the very least it's totally beta to be attracted to a masculine woman and basically gay anyway. No thanks!
I'm sorry to be facetious, but this is in general a lot of the subconscious and even sometimes conscious thought processes behind these hyper polarity relationships. These are not evolved, embodied people. These are people who are still very invested in the old fashioned human status quo that has served them for a long time. We had the thread a few weeks back with the Desire on Fire lady (ugh her name escapes me) talking about how her husband had to "put her in her place" for being "too masculine" and how he really just "didnt want her" when she was in her masculine, when she was literally just running her business. Masculine wounding almost ALWAYS shows up as men being jealous of women being better at them in their own field - or really successful publicly at all - and this is why women STILL have a hard time breaking into male dominated spaces. We are systemically kept out because men die inside when they feel inferior to women. They were told this wasn't supposed to happen!!!! In fact, the person who spiritually abused me was a man - I see now how he "kept" me as a pet because of my high standing in the community. But this meant I was still firmly below him in certain ways - a much more comfortable place for me to be, someone who challenged him on his "expertise".
This polarity movement is taking a true spiritual concept and distorting it just to set women back. They don't want you to have an opinion or agency - other than "me want money" and "me want sex". They want you to play on Instagram all day and recruit ladies for them to sexually assault at your joint "retreats". They want you to only feel valued if you're made up and dressed up and "desired" by men. None of this internalized self worth stuff, only external male validation is allowed. Ladies, if any of you reading this are with some sort of this type of man, please, I beg you, choose the bear. This is the type of man who leaves you as soon as your body culminates too many signs of being aged. They are entitlted to a specific cartoon image of what they think a "woman" is, and sadly this culture has made young women INCREDIBLY easy to manipulate, so finding another partner is often quite easy for older men. It's all by design.
Here's another spiritual truth that is often obscured: One of the polarities of divinity is the left hand path and the right hand path. The left hand path is the path of control, wealth, using others, egocentrism, etc. The right hand path is about acceptance, generosity, helping others, and sacrifice. The middle path is a path with little to no power - it's the path of comfort, the path most people are on.
When one walks the middle path - i.e. has not really begun to truly develop their spiritual side - they do not yet have spiritual discernment. What happens when they come across someone who has been using spiritual principles to "build their wealth/power" is that they see someone with a spiritual light - and this isn't super common on social media. When we're hungry for it, we're like a moth to the flame. That's why they always know they'll be another mark. The problem then is when we don't have discernment, we cannot tell which "hand" the light is coming from, and often it's very easy to confuse the left hand for the right and vice versa. For instance, I am giving up a large part of my day to write this purely to help others in this community - Carly or MAL or someone might stumble upon this and see it as "evil". But that's because they see the light, but to them it's against their light, so I'm the evil one. But all I'm trying to offer is freedom of mind, and they're mad because they want your bag, and this is dependent on you being confused and them keeping a crumb of clarity behind a paywall. 💰
Now, some of these girlies are walking the "left hand path" a lot better than the others. I dont know many coaches beyond those talked about here, but I would say someone like MAL has a pretty firm grasp on who she is - a scam artist, a liar, and a user. She's always making up stories and whatnot - she's a pathological liar. She will do anything to get her way. This is pretty serious when you've been behaving this way for years and years. Her image is very rigid and polished, and despite showing up unprepared and offering word salad to her paying persons, her "outer circle" (social media feed etc) is much more curated than most of the other coaches I've seen. She's at the top of the pyramid so she has a huge amount of control and influence. If she cracks someday, we'll see it, and usually people struggle to return to the top once they falter. I'm sure she's already showing some signs of paranoia, which is the first sign a high control person is starting to become unhinged.
Then there are the messier girlies, like Carly, and Karen who has recently been more thoroughly exposed here. These ladies show up very vulnerable to social media, and often are struggling with illness - as someone has said here before, Carly's early coaching gigs were about health and dealing with chronic illness, until she realized that space wasn't sexy or profitable. I'm not saying this is the root of all illness, but transient illness can be a sign of a spiritual mismatch in intentions/action - especially with these people who claim to be "healers" or adjacent to that space. You have to walk your talk, or your body begins to show your hypocrisy. There is a part of these ladies who feel they are truly "helping the planet" and get confused internally when the reaction of their "offers" isn't for people to fall down at their feet worshipping them. This is why they say stuff like "wealth is a mindset!" and other magical thinking - most of them have lived privileged lives and have never been "out" of abundance. They think their "luck" is a carefully curated vibration that they can rub off on others. And like, while I believe that being in the vibrations of someone who is more spiritually mature can help "elevate" someone - these people are playing with spiritual practices and, while seeing some results, truly have no clue what they are talking about and dealing with. People who truly understand manifestation, whether left or right hand, are not busting their ass all day on Instagram trying to recruit lukewarm clients for peanuts. Carly tries SO HARD to sell that all of her work is "easy" and she can "take a walk in the middle of the day!" and not work while she's bleeding and whatnot. But girl, you're hustling and thirsty all over Insta all day every day - this is not abundance, this is not wealth and gratitude, it's giving "big empty black hole in my soul that will never be filled except with more money" energy, babe.
Then there are the girlies like xogingy and The Content Queen whose whole brand seems to be just being a mess all over the place. This sells because it makes people think "well I'm messy maybe I can be messy and rich/successful" but the mess for these girls is much more embraced and embodied than with the prim types like Carly and Karen, who want to be pure luxe and sexy and divine feminine perfection. But the luxe and sexy types are really doing the recruiting for their sexual in-person retreats (or clothing optional zooms) because they're just mega horny all the time (which - btw - is another sign of spiritual imbalance)
And that's the thing - being horny all of the time means your energy body is JACKED. It's not a sign of a free flow of creative energy to crave sex all of the time. Of course a major aspect of this is the sexual magic - yes, there is magic in sex, and I think it's where these folks get most of their magic, because they follow left hand sexual magic practice exclusively (control BDSM). They do play rapes (and borderline real rapes and, in some cases, actual real rapes on their clients/partners), orgasm denial, humiliation, pain rituals - all stuff that truly, objectively, isn't good for the soul. And notice how it's almost always one sided - the male being in total control of the female - though, Carly's substack did have a story about how they did a "role reversal" where she raped/humiliated him and that was um, something I read. 😳 But generally it's the women's job to always be turned on and "dripping wet" and whatnot, so that when her masculine partner gets a boner she's ready for him to slide it in. And then that's always the best sex, the sex that you "surrender" to.... On the contrary, sex between "right hand" practitioners tends to leave both partners feeling quite satisfied and sated - heck, even if only one happens to orgasm! Whereas control oriented sex often has orgasm denial which intentionally leaves the person craving more.
All this is to say, no one should feel guilty for being duped, or conned, or confused, even still. Almost all of these people have weaponized spiritual concepts in some ways and are wielding them with the intention to separate you from your money. They actually do have something that works. But they will NEVER sell you the whole story. And the fact is, this experience likely did happen to you because your soul was aching for some sort of uplevel - or initiation. It's just that initiation rarely looks like getting what we want. MAL et al makes it look like initiation is giving a rich lady 5 figures, popping a bottle of champagne, and roleplaying as that rich lady to which you just gave all that money (or at least, roleplaying as her social media feed). But if you're truly in it for the soul, your experience is going to help you uncover your soul. And part of uncovering our souls at this point in time seems to be having some serious spiritual trauma. And I know some people here probably only did this as "playing around" and not serious and unfortunately, playing with spirituality can be can be dangerous in and of itself. These is not to victim blame at all. It just is the nature of the spiritual path that it may growl and bite at you to test your growth. It's not just a sexy pleasure party 24/7, unless you want to step on a LOT of people to get there.
Anyway, this is very long and I'm not sure it's going to even fit into a reddit post at this point. But I just wanted to share some of the spiritual insights I've had over the years (been on my spiritual journey for over a decade at this point). I don't know it all, but I do know that I live with a general peace of mind that I wish I could sell in a coaching package or voxer group. But I can't/won't do that. So I'll keep to my lifelong duty of making longwinded, mega autistic posts on internet forums that might help a few people orient to a less painful or confused frame of mind, free of charge.
But on that note, before I finish, I'll offer my general spiritual advice: Firstly, take a short time every day to do some sort of sitting/meditation. Learning how to quiet the mind is a skill, and it's the first skill required to learn discernment. Once we can quiet the mind, we can start to learn which thoughts are our own and which thoughts we have absorbed from others - and if you haven't begun this process yet, you may be surprised to find out that the vast majority of your thoughts are actually just society, family, teachers, social media, advertising, etc etc, repeating in your mind and taking up valuable real estate. This is the real hurdle to "manifestation" - clearing away all the false desires that get in the way of our true desires. Subsequently, learning about chakras and tuning into my energy body has also given me a good base for insight and clarity that comes from within my own body.
Secondly, just try to think of others before yourself more often than not. Don't justify manipulating people for your own benefit. Oneness means you treat others how you want to be treated - in a gentle, and nurturing way. When we harm others, especially from a spiritual place, we perpetuate harm, and therefore accept that potential harmful treatment of ourselves. Treating others sincerely with reverence and respect, and setting boundaries so that we don't allow people to treat us with disrespect, is how we generate a reality that treats us with reverence and respect by default. A lot easier said than done, but it is possible.
Love and light to you all.

I have a bard who lives rent-free above the bar they perform in. (kinda like the mom from Zack and Cody) The owner is secretly a genie whose trying to trick them into signing a 'lease agreement' that's really a warlock contract. I need help with how to word said contract without making it too obvious.

Any Offer Tradelist [80k Cap Free Space]
COMMANDO WEAPONS:
-> RAILWAYS

• AA/E/A Railway
  
• B/FFA Railway
  
• B/E/50DR Railway
  
• TS/E/A Railway
  
• V/FFP Railway
  
• V/E Railway 2*
  

-> FIXERS

• AA/FFGhost Fixer
  
• AA/E/250DR Fixer
  
• ARI/E/250DR Fixer
  
• B/E/Ghost Fixer
  
• EXE/E/P Fixer
  
• JUN/E/250DR Fixer
  
• TS/E/P Fixer
  
• V/FF250DR Fixer
  
• V/FFA Fixer
  

-> HANDMADES

• B/FFGhost Handmade
  
• B/FFA Handmade
  
• B/E/A Handmade
  
• TS/50C/250DR Handmade
  

-> ELDERS MARK

• AA/VHC/15V Elders Mark

-> RADIUMS

• B/FF50DR Radium Rifle
  
• B/FFA Radium Rifle
  
• Q/FFP Radium Rifle
  
• Q/FFA Radium Rifle
  
• Q/FFR Radium Rifle 2*
  
• V/FF250DR Radium Rifle
  

-> SUBMACHINE GUNS

• V/FF50C/250DR SMG

HEAVY WEAPONS:
-> 50 CALS

• EXE/FF250DR 50 Cal
  
• TS/FFR 50 Cal 2*
  

-> LIGHT MACHINE GUNS

• AA/FFP LMG

-> GAT LASERS

• B/FFA Ult Gat Laser
  
• V/FFP Ult Gat Laser
  
• B/FF250DR Nu Gat Laser
  
• V/FF250DR Nu Gat Laser
  

-> GAT PLASMAS

• EXE/FFP Gat Plasma
  
• TS/FFA Gat Plasma
  

-> CRYOS

• B/FFA Cryo
  
• Q/50C/50DR Cryo
  

-> AUTO GRENADE LAUNCHERS

• TS/VHC/1P AGL
  
• V/AP/FR AGL
  

-> PEPPER SHAKERS

• AA/FF250DR Pepper Shaker
  
• V/FFGhost Pepper Shaker
  

BOWS
-> REG BOWS

• AA/VHC/A Bow

PISTOLS
-> ALIEN BLASTERS

• AA/FFP AB
  
• AA/VHC/250DR AB
  
• B/50C/50DR AB
  
• B/50C/GHOST AB
  
• EXE/50C/50DR AB
  
• EXE/50C/MS AB
  
• EXE/FFP AB
  
• EXE/FFGHOST AB
  
• I/50C/A AB
  
• Q/50C/MS AB
  
• Q/FFMS AB
  
• V/50C/250DR AB
  
• V/50C/MS AB
  

-> 10MM PISTOLS

• Q/FFP 10MM Pistol

RIFLEMANS
-> TESLAS

• TS/FFP Tesla

ENCLAVE + PLASMA WEAPONS:
-> PLASMAS

• AA/FF250DR Plasma Pistol/Rifle
  
• AA/FFP Plasma Pistol/Rifle
  
• B/FFA Plasma Pistol/Rifle
  
• Q/FFA Plasma Pistol/Rifle
  

-> ENCLAVES

• V/50C/P EPR (True Flamer)
  
• Enclave Plasma Aligned Short Barrel
  
• Enclave Plasma Aligned Sniper Barrel x8
  
• Enclave Plasma Aligned Splitter Barrel x4
  
• Enclave Plasma Automatic Barrel
  
• Enclave Plasma Comfort Stock
  
• Enclave Plasma Flamer Barrel
  
• Enclave Plasma Gamma Wave Emitter x2
  
• Enclave Plasma Long Night Scope x12
  
• Enclave Plasma Long Scope x4
  
• Enclave Plasma Medium Night Scope x10
  
• Enclave Plasma Precise Stock x2
  
• Enclave Plasma Refined Beta Wave Tuner x5
  
• Enclave Plasma Short Night Scope x18
  
• Enclave Plasma Short Recon Scope x3
  
• Enclave Plasma Sniper Barrel x2
  
• Enclave Plasma Splitter x2
  
• Enclave Plasma Stabilized Automatic x2
  
• Enclave Plasma Stabilized Flamer Barrel x2
  
• Enclave Plasma Stabilized Short Barrel
  
• Enclave Plasma Stabilized Sniper Barrel x2
  
• Enclave Plasma Stabilized Splitter x4
  
• Enclave Plasma Stabilized Stock
  
• Enclave Plasma True Auto Barrel
  
• Enclave Plasma True Capacitor x3
  
• Enclave Plasma True Flamer Barrel
  
• Enclave Plasma True Sniper Barrel x3
  
• Enclave Plasma True Splitter
  
• Enclave Plasma Vicious Capacitor x4
  
• Unrolled EPRs -> (TA, SS, Reflex), (AS, SS, Reflex), (SS, SS, Reflex), (SF, SS, Reflex)
  
• Unrolled EPPs -> (AA, SG, Reflex), (SA, SG, Reflex)
  

MELEES
-> CHAINSAWS

• B/40SS/Break Chainsaw

-> CULTIST BLADES

• B/SS Cultist Blade (Lvl 30)

-> CULTIST DAGGERS

• B/SS/PA Cultist Dagger

-> ASSAULTRON BLADES

• B/SS/Block Assaultron Blade

-> DEATHCLAW GAUNTLETS

• AA/SS DCG 2*

-> POWER FISTS

• B/SS/PA Power Fist
  
• B/SS Power Fist 2*
  
• I/Steady/90 Power Fist
  

-> MOLE MINER GAUNTLETS

• AA/Steady/90 MMG
  
• B/SS MMG 2*
  
• V/SS MMG 2*
  

-> BEAR ARMS

• JUG/SS/DUR Bear Arm

-> SHOVELS

• B/Steady/S Shovel

-> BASEBALL GLOVES

• JUN/PA/25 Boxing Glove

-> TENDERIZERS

• EXE/SS/PA Tenderizer

-> BONE CLUB

• ARI/Steady/90 Bone Club

We all know big Ben is the one NPC we wish we could send to the dark abyss more than any other, but death would be too easy for him. He needs to suffer and watch his empire crumble.
For months I've had a ranch in the Beta Ternion system farming hallucinogens & stimulants while buying up every drop of Chasmbass Oil I could get my dirty little hands on to manufacture Aurora off-Neon.
Now that ships are customizable, I've built a mobile drug lab with the entire lower deck functioning as a party floor and all around mobile crack house for guests.
All that's left is to start dropping off free care packages in the form of little piles of fresh Aurora scattered in every city, farm, and civilian outpost I can find.
Your move, Bayu.

I'm trytto figure out my hair type, and I've narrowed it down to these two. The other possibility is 3a I guess, but basically my issue is that whatever shape my hair dries in, that's the shape it will be. So I can't figure out what to do with it and it keeps getting frizzy/forming a triangle on my head, despite a pretty big undercut.
My dad has large, C-shaped waves/curls and can grow a 'fro if he grows it out (he's half Puerto Rican, idk if anyone else knows what I mean??). My mom has your typical wavy white lady hair. My hair changed suddenly when I tried a sulphate -free shampoo and now idk what to do with it.
Any help is appreciated.

What is vaild date range? Does that mean I had it before?? What does 1 occurrence mean?? Rpr qualitiactive where it says discontinued why was it?? Why wasn’t it released?

Feeling a little lonely lately and wishing for some meaningful connections! 💖 Are there any kindred spirits out there who enjoy gaming and long chats about art, books, and music? I'd love to find someone to share laughter and deep conversations with. If you're interested in forming a special bond, feel free to reach out! Let's create something beautiful together. 🌸

I’m supposed to close on a coop purchase this Monday. We didn’t get a final closing date until til this past Thursday, where my lawyer showed me all the fees and other costs that I would need to pay at closing. One of the costs was “June Abatement Assessment” for $450. This totally caught me by surprise because the only assessment I knew of was a $45 fuel assessment.
Nobody involved in this transaction had any idea what it was, so I had to do my own research. Based on what I’ve found, it looks like coop owners qualify for a tax abatement, which the coop collects for themselves, in the form of an assessment. So they effectively cancel out at as a debit/credit. And from what I’m seeing is that to qualify for this year’s abatement, I need to have owned the property before Jan 5, and the tax year ends June 30. And the current owner didn’t qualify because it wasn’t their primary residence (a qualifying factor). So I would have to pay to cover this year’s abatement, but next year I shouldn’t have to pay for it?
Do I have this right? I just want to make sure that this is not something that will Be charged monthly. Nobody seems to have the terms of this assessment, and we’re supposed to close on Monday. I do not want to delay the closing because I would have to pay a fee for rescheduling, and on top of that my lease is up at the end of this month.
Does anybody have any experience with this? And can you explain to me more what to expect in the future regarding this? And should I be the one to have to pay this, because the seller didn’t qualify?

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