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In 2016, God Played His Trump Card

2017.02.14 09:09 nunsinnikes In 2016, God Played His Trump Card

This sub-reddit is dedicated to discussing and exploring the evidence of President Donald J. Trump being anointed by God to overthrow a Biblical Evil that has consumed the United States. Skepticism is welcome, but cynicism is not.
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2016.02.16 12:12 Dryfasting

Live off of your fat. Dry fasting is a type of fasting where individuals abstain from both food and water for a certain period. Unlike traditional fasting, which restricts food and caloric intake, dry fasting requires the body to rely on its internal water reserves and metabolic reactions for energy. Learn why religions speak highly of dry fasting, and why people swear by its healing effects on the body. This subreddit does not provide medical advice.
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2024.05.19 10:09 MixEnvironmental3139 Help, Need to start making Money ASAP

I know easy money is non existent, I have my own circumstances, I want to start making money no matter how small of an amount it is
This is a new account since I do not want to be identified.
Situation context: Father a couple of years ago, Mother is homemaker, Paternal Grandfather pays for living (me, mother, younger brother) but not sure for how long, he is doing it as an obligation for taking care of him. All my cousins are treated differently and live a life of luxury without ever the worry about the future (I don't give a shit).
Education: Although I have been told countless times that I'm worthless, despite all the discouragement, I'm an NTSE scholar and an undergraduate at IIT (currently finished 2nd Year). My education was seen as burden whereas all my cousins are paid lakhs of rupees in college fee. Yes my cousins fees and many of my uncles and aunts (paternal) finances are assured by my grandfather, because they feel it is unfair that I am living off of his money.
People I'm sorry if this sub is not meant for this type of shit.
Please, I don't want any handouts or financial help. (Beats the point of everything this post was meant for)
I would love to make any sort of money. I could use some of my scholarship money, but I would most prefer to start from scratch as if I have nothing on my hands.
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2024.05.19 10:06 plsdontkidnapme I am chloe’s #1 cringe watcher

I love to cringe watch her videos it’s so… entertaining? for lack of a better word, her videos never fail to give me goosebumps from the second hand embarrassment I get. OMG AND DON’T EVEN GET ME STARTED WITH HER SINGING 😓 cringe overload!!!
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2024.05.19 10:06 Financial_Drawer_227 Was told I might be on the spectrum but didn’t think they were serious. Until now.

Anyone who reads it all and can give any input I really do appreciate. I honestly don’t always trust doctors and big pharma so looking for advice from real people.
-I’m 30 years old and have legit been battling with my brain/body for as long as I can remember. I own a construction company. Moved into a house that is gutted and needs to be fully renovated (with basically me doing all the work. Like literally everything from plans, budget, and the actual work.). So I say this because a lot of people claim they are busy or have a lot to do. Trying not to sound arrogant but I actually have almost an impossible amount of work I do. Business, newborn, house remodel, and the list goes on. I am obsessed with building, designing, engineering, creating things, and being a craftsman.
-Since I was young I battled with not being able to sleep properly (diagnosed with sleep apnea). And my brain is like this machine that moves at a million miles a minute and I honestly can’t control it all the time. I have huge goals and work from the time I open my eyes till whatever hour I crash. If I am completely sober with no caffeine, nicotine, etc. I cannot process my thoughts. It’s a non stop wave of business ideas, work to be done, work coming up, customer relations, networking, materials and job planning, with always a clear view of my vision for the long term. When this happens I become immobile. I will sit on my phone to space out to quiet the thoughts. Procrastinate and refuse to start the work I know needs to be done now. I oversleep and feel beat and tired all day regardless of how much or how little I sleep. I simply can’t do anything.
-I am cursed with intelligence. I’m not saying this as a positive thing necessarily. Someone close to me is a psychologist who diagnoses autism and they believe after some testing I might be on the spectrum. Take it for what it is but scored 130 on two different types of IQ tests. I don’t tolerate things like small talk, I am fairly quiet (when sober), I do not want to make friends or talk to people who have nothing to offer me (business owners/entrepreneurs, people who are masters of their craft, even people who are considered dreamers and have ideas and goals) are all people I will attach myself too because I find they are the only ones I can have a real conversation with. Relationships are very difficult because they tend to think I’m emotionless. I just have a very direct grasp on my feelings and I can handle them. - I cannot sit on a computer and be productive without an amphetamine. I cannot read a book and retain a single word of it. I’m reading but my thoughts are elsewhere.
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2024.05.19 10:06 Machomandavidsavage Grail

Grail
Acquired another grail for the collection 😩🥲
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2024.05.19 10:05 Broad-Difficulty-203 Getting blood work done to figure out my problem.

I'm finally getting my blood work done very soon, after years of trying to shed body fat and never really been able to shed a lot of it off, other then IF although with my current job doing IF isn't advisable (light Infantrymen) l've tracked calories with a scale a high protein diet, hit the gym and sauna, consistently have improve lifts, Run 5 times a week and swim as well. Usually I do 2 or 3 a days with the swims involved. Lost very minimal weight although I have definitely gotten stronger and a few changes have happened, Can't seem to drop some weight or body fat no matter what I try even stopped drinking for months, other then IF And I'm talking about 3 plus years of doing the same thing and hopefully time will kick in but it hasn't, before I get told just give it more time, so I got told to get my blood work checked, when it comes back what should I look for? what should I do or is the doctor just gonna tell me what I should do? And What do you recommend?
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2024.05.19 10:05 ggwplucky [Abandoned Pools] Sony Connect Track by Track Interview

[Abandoned Pools] Sony Connect Track by Track Interview
A while back I was messing around with the Wayback Machine & came across this diamond in the rough on AP's MySpace page. Also found some photos, but most importantly, a track-by-track [Armed To The Teeth] interview from Sony Connect that they did back in '05 (presumably around the same time they did the Sony Connect set with the acoustic songs).
In the interview, Tommy tells the story behind each track on Armed To The Teeth (except Lucky). You'll also find tidbits about the process, lyrically & sonically of these songs, and much more!
If you want to read it/see it from the "raw" source and discover more, here's a link with the Wayback's capture I found on the interview blog: https://web.archive.org/web/20071005015435/http://www.myspace.com/abandonedpools
Now without further ado, the Sonic Connect Interview:
A track by track discussion of Armed to the Teeth from the Sony Connect Store interview:
LETHAL KILLERS TW: As far as how that [demo of the] song was constructed ... I did this trick where I would take a half-time drum loop and sort of nudge it one way and then put in another track and nudge it the other, and we got this sort of double time, rolling drum feel. So that - plus the sort of round-robin type of guitar parts that we have going - was sort of a very easy construction for a song. And then you start moving the bass part around, and, boom, you've got a song.
But I think that lyrically - I want to make it clear that that song isn't necessarily [about] "church is bad, government's bad." I think it's a little bit more complicated than that, though sometimes if you mix the two of religious power and government power, that can be bad for both of them. And I kinda like the idea of not living a life saying, "Well, you better live life in a certain way because then, you know, everything's gonna be great later in heaven." You know, the idea of, like, if this is all we have now, if that idea was just a little bit more embraced, our world could be a little bit better. I just find that a little bit more satisfying, too, if you think like, this is all you have and then you're gonna die. [Laughs] It seems a little bit more like, "Oh, okay, well!" instead of, like, thinking that there's some other life at some other time and you can put things off.
RABBLE TW: Well, a lot of the songs on this record - about two-thirds of it - have to do with a relationship I had that went south, and you know when you go through relationships you always have such a good 20/20 hindsight about things. And I think "Rabble" is just trying to basically say to somebody, "I just wanted to know you better" . . . It's just one of those things where, with this relationship in particular, I wish it would have turned out better. And there's a lot of things that happened that shouldn't have happened, and it's just sort of one of those "oh, what could have been?" scenarios.
THE CATALYST TW: "The Catalyst" is definitely along the same lines. I think the main line in that one is "I wish I could say something beautiful to make you fall in love again." There's a Coachella reference in there, too: "Love has slowly faded away like spotlights shining into space." Have you ever been to Coachella? Of course you have. You know, there's all those spotlights that shoot up in the air. I just thought that was kinda cool, like, how far do those lights really go? "The Catalyst" was also the last song written for the record. It was demoed while we were in the studio. And it's one of those songs that I said two-thirds of the record was written for somebody. That's one of them.
TIGHTER NOOSE TW: "Tighter Noose" is the oldest song on the record by far. It was probably written back in '99, 2000, or somewhere in there. I was thinking about it for the first record [2001's Humanistic], but it didn't really fit in with those kind of songs, so I kept it around and we'd even play it live occasionally. I think it fits in with these songs way better. [As for what "Tighter Noose" is about,] that song is one of those breaking-off-on-your-own- what-have-you-got-to-lose kind of things, because that was written sort of in the wake of when I was in The Eels. It wasn't a terribly happy situation, so I was like, well screw it, I'm just gonna go off and do my own thing. And then it's sort of like, well, you know: "I'm gonna go start my own thing. Uh, I have to learn to sing and write songs now." [Laughs] It's kinda funny: "Screw you guys! I'm gonna go get a deal!" And then like, "Uh oh." But really, I'm a firm believer in that [idea that] you just gotta go for it. And so it was like, well, this is gonna be difficult, but it's gonna be better than what I had before. And actually, with some distance on that situation, I realized I made the right decision and made a lot more money and was a lot more happy as a result. So that was sort of a leap of faith, you know. I didn't want to be someone's stupid bass player. Now I'm my own stupid bass player.
WAITING TO PANIC TW: There was a lull between record companies. The first record [Humanistic] was on Extasy - I don't know if you know about that company, but we were basically the poster-child for the implosion of an indie label. I came off the road in 2002, the label's folding, and I'm like, well, I'm just gonna go back and give this my best shot and we'll get another deal. It seemed highly unlikely, but we ended up doing it. And there was just a lull in there where nobody was interested. I had attorneys not returning my phone calls - that kinda stuff. It felt like, I'm just waiting around and I'm really anxious. So that was a song of frustration that was written and demoed all in one day - it was a song that just came out of me in like eight hours. We also put an EP out [The Reverb EP] and on the EP is the version of that demo that I did in one day. It doesn't happen [like that] very often. Usually I build bed tracks and come back to it a few weeks later and add something, and then come back a couple of days later. This one was all in one shot.
HUNTING TW: My friend Ross Golan, who has his own band Ross Golan and Molehead, had been following the wake of the relationship. He's like, "You just gotta write her a song and use her name." And I'm like, nah, nah, it's not covered enough. And he's like, "No, just do it. Go for it." So I did. I wrote this song and I wrote it for her for her birthday and I used her name, which is in the first lyric of the song, which is "Ginny." So I just went for it and wrote it. It was basically a birthday gift, and it was basically saying, like, you know, "Oops!" [Laughs] It didn't get me very far, but I like the song. We're friends, she's a good girl, absolutely, but back at that time, it was kinda like, "Erraaghhh! Here's a song!" But I like the song and I just think it was one of those times where I was really putting myself out there, and I know she liked it, too. But then, I think that's a myth where you just write a song and all of a sudden the girl just says, "Oh! Okay!" But, you know, hey. There it is. It's on the record.
That's the romantic notion of how they'll react to the song, at least.
TW: Exactly. And I'm really glad we're past that whole ironic phase, which I was part of with The Eels, where everything was super ironic and we'd play "The Macarena" on stage - [sarcastically] and that was funny! I'm glad we're through all that stuff, even though I was still a Beck fan when he was doing all that stuff, too. But I like being sincere and sappy and romantic. I kinda think that's a great thing.
ARMED TO THE TEETH TW: This is one of the first songs written when we came off the road and I had a lot of momentum. If you look at the state of the industry you can see a lot of corporations that seem to have to buy everything in sight. They just have to own everything, and to what purpose? Does it really make the industry much better? No. There's fewer outlets, there's a lot more gatekeepers. They want to buy stuff and it just kinda makes things bad for everybody. All the radio stations play the same shit - except for Indie 103.1 and KCRW in L.A. In spite of it all, I'm just gonna try to do my best and have a career anyway. When we came off the road I felt like I had a lot of momentum. Performing live is inspiring to writing, so it was just the whole idea of, "Alright, now that I have one record under my belt, I'm gonna really go for it in spite of all the forces that be." Even though they're pretty much indifferent to us, [laughs] their actions do affect us. It's sort of a song of bravado.
Why did you also choose "Armed To The Teeth" as the name of the album, too, which, in turn, implies it as the overall theme?
TW: Yeah, which is funny, since I kinda decided on that theme early on, thinking I was gonna go in a certain way, but then, like I said, two-thirds of the record is love songs. So "Armed To The Teeth" doesn't really fit in a certain way, but I also liked it just because [of] that idea of, like, now I'm really ready to make a record, and also I think it reflects the state of the country a little bit. Everything's a little bit aggressive, we're at war, and I thought it was sort of timely in that way
SOONER OR LATER TW: "Sooner Or Later" is another one of those tracks that was written after we got signed, so it's a newer song. I mentioned that sort of double time drum loop thing with "Lethal Killers" - this is the same thing. It's a half time drum loop that I nudged in one direction and then put in another track and nudge it in the other, then "boom," it's double time. And I like that, it's a good effect. It really sets up this kind of overlapping, rolling sound that a real drummer can't do. And things flam a little bit, and I really like that feel, so this song was constructed in the same manner where you have a rolling drum loop and then you put over a couple of guitar parts here and there and all of a sudden you got a song - I think this song is over six minutes. This is, um, I guess it's a couple things. Lyrically, it's sort of saying, like, whatever you do or whatever you say, there's no point in hiding anything because it all comes out in the end - which is the tagline in the chorus. There's no hiding. And in the verse it says, "Sooner or later / It's all coming down." In some way or another, whether you acknowledge it or if it just eats at your self, you can't really get away with anything. It's sort of fatalistic that way, but also in terms of, like, seeing how I also look at as a bigger picture of, like, politically, and since we're at war right now, it seems like things are getting a little scary. And that's kind of like one of those doomsday scenarios. If you look around a little you can really freak yourself out if you're reading about, like, bio-warfare and things like that. So a lot of this talk about "smoking gun in the shape of a mushroom cloud" and all that, it sort of brought up for me a lot of doomsday scenarios. So it's two-fold: it's that doomsday scenario, in terms of as far as the world is concerned, and then, personally, if you do stupid shit then you're eventually gonna pay for it somehow.
SAILING SEAS TW: Like "Hunting," this is probably the most direct, out-there storytelling song. Instead of using her [real] name, it's switched to "Holly," which is in the chorus. So it's another one of those songs talking straight to somebody. And there's a lot of details in there that I wouldn't talk about in normal conversation. That's the funny thing about songwriting where I wouldn't talk about this, but then I can put it in this song and you can still hear it and you still understand, but it's sort of masked a little bit. It's presented in a certain way where it's somehow okay to say that when you're in a major key or something. Because like, the second verse is about pretending you're outside a room listening to somebody [you love] have sex [with someone else], and that's a situation to put yourself into to really torture yourself. I created this scenario in my head and I put it in a song, and it's kinda brutal, but the [beat of the] song is upbeat and happy.
RENEGADE TW: This is a sample-based type song [with] drum loops. The cello was originally a Bjork sample and we replaced it. This one is sort of hard to explain. To me it’s just sort of like just a creation, because some of the record is social commentary, and I think there's a lot of that in this song, and it's like little snippets and ideas, and not necessarily one unifying idea. I think it's just kind of a song based on looking around and taking stock of things. This song in particular isn't really even about anything. It's just, like, observations, pretty much. And, oh, by the way, Billy Howerdel, the guitarist from A Perfect Circle, is playing guitar on that song. He jumped on that track and he's the one that makes it sound scary.
MAYBE THEN SOMEDAY TW: That was one of the first songs written in the wake of the breakup. It was one of those kind of "well-it-just-didn't-work-out-but-maybe-one-day-we'll-see-what-happens" kind of things. Because the circumstances are such that it wasn't gonna happen immediately so I was kinda like, well, we'll see. I don't have much to say about that; it's just grouped in with "songs about her."
GOODBYE SONG TW: That was also written when there was not a lot going on for me and we hadn't really nailed down the record deal. She [Tommy's ex-girlfriend] always thought she was bad luck - she'd show up and bad things would start happening - so she thought it was her fault that I hadn't got a deal. She actually moved away and soon as she did, we got a deal. [Laughs] I think it's funny to sort of say, like the first line of the song is "I'm not washed up / And you're not bad luck for anyone," so, you know, get off the ledge, really. And it's just one of those things; it's one of those yearning songs. I think with a lot of those songs there's a certain amount of effort spent on presenting evidence, like, "Look, I know this is how you feel, but look at all the other stuff." It's almost like making a case for your self [in a song]. And like I said, it didn't get me far, but it's still a good venting process. And I sort of realize when I say things like, "I wrote this for her" or whatever, it's not really for her. It's more self-indulgent to get this stuff out. And in a way you're saying, "Yeah, I wrote this song for you," but no, you wrote it for yourself so you could say things that you felt like saying. So I realize that and I think I realized that while I was writing them, but my job is to write songs so you take from what's around you to make it happen.
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2024.05.19 10:04 willv0dka I M/24 have been together with my gf F/23 for 5 years. Now she wants a break. Should I just break up or continue to hurt myself?

(Sorry for English, it's not my first language.) When we met it was love on first site and from the 5 years together we've lived together for 1,5. I always felt like it was meant to be and had never any doubts about her, no fights and nothing to hide from each other.
During our relationship it became clear that she was not the person to take initiative. A lot of plans and ideas to do something together came from me. From baking together to going on vacation. If I didn't come up with an idea to do something together, it was never going to happen. I didn't really mind since I just accepted her for not being initiative. In my eyes she is perfect the way she is. But the past year I got more and more busy. Leading to us not doing a lot of exciting activities together
The past year I have been very busy with school since it's my graduation year, and can understand that I haven't given her the same amount of attention as i've given the years before. She was busy with school as well, until she quit in January because it was too hard. Since then it has gone downwards between us. She had a lot of time on her hand and time to think, while I was completely stressed out for delivering my thesis for the deadline.
Well about two weeks ago she says she doesn't know if she wants to continue the relationship. She says she loves me and misses me and thinks we're perfect together, but has a feeling in her stomach that she doesn't know for sure. She was staying with a friend at that moment and texted me. She didn't want to see me at the time because I was very sick and infectious. So after about a week, she came back home and we talked. She said she didn't know what to do and it was best to just take a break for about two months.
Now I wouldn't mind giving her the space and time she needs for her feelings. Feelings can be a tricky thing, and not something you can control. But I have to deliver my thesis in a week to graduate uni. And I can't stop feeling overwhelmed and betrayed that she does this two weeks before I finally finish my education. I don't know if I can trust her anymore. Is it even okay to think about going back together or should I protect myself and break up myself. I just don't know what to do.
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2024.05.19 10:04 d0tski My First 10/10

My First 10/10
I'm at week 20 of my 52 week challenge to try a new (to me) instant noodle every week. There have been some notable noods: Wu Mu Hand Pulled in Spicy Sichuan Sauce, A-Kuan Chili Oil Broad Noodles- Hot and Sour, Prima Taste Laksa Lamian and Nissin Men Shokunin Shoyu Ramen. But tonight, I had my first 10/10.
Nissin Raoh Noukou Tantan
Deeply, deeply savoury broth, with flavours of Sichuan pepper, pork fat and miso. Spicier than I might have expected from a Japanese ramen, but mild in the scheme of things. Thick, fatty red sheen on the surface of the broth that was almost gelatinous in its thickness. Tender beef pieces that rehydrate perfectly. Long, thin noodles that are tender without being mushy.
I only added green onions and a soft boiled egg, and it was near a restaurant experience.
If you can get you hands on this (I got it as part of a subscription in Australia), I highly recommend giving it a go.
https://preview.redd.it/y7rq1h9qbc1d1.jpg?width=2252&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ab16d7ba20731f1c08115a70a6997122cd6939da
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2024.05.19 10:04 Bixie Seeking help while undergoing surgery/treatment for Graves’ disease

Hi my name is Gina and I’m fundraising to help my family while I’m obtaining treatment for Graves’ Disease.
Earlier this year, I was diagnosed with Graves’ Disease, an autoimmune disorder that results in hyperthyroidism. My employer terminated me due to my illness and while I’m pursuing legal action/a settlement via a law firm working on contingency time is not on my side financially. Thankfully while Graves’ Disease is not fatal, it is a life long, chronic condition, that can have a wide range of effects on the body. In my case, breathing has become increasingly difficult, especially when trying to sleep, along with difficulty swallowing any food or liquids, thanks to inflammation in the neck and throat. Between barely being able to eat and barely being able to sleep, my life has ground to a halt, the prospect of job hunting, or maintaining myself financially through freelance and independent art work made impossible, due as well to other symptoms of the disease, such as muscle cramping and tremors. This, combined with anxiety and panic attacks further fuelled by increased thyroid hormone production, along with a host of other minor afflictions Graves’s Disease carries with it, has made life a living hell.
Thankfully, there is a simple treatment, medication and a full thyroidectomy, that can reverse these symptoms and let me lead the productive and creative life I once had. And even better, the surgery is covered by the Canadian healthcare system, but that surgery isnt until June 6, until then, and for the recovery time after, I am unable to support myself financially, or to afford the accompanying medications I will need to take for the rest of my life.
I need your help to get through this dark time and reach the other side.
Currently, my cashflow runs at a deficit of $1,200 - $1,600 a month, expected to continue another 4-8 months as I recover from surgery. To get through this time, to survive so I can later thrive, I need between $4,800-$6,400 (based on 4 months recovery) to $9,600-$12,800 (based on 8 months recovery).
Any help will be greatly appreciated. Please, give generously, so I can get my life back. if consumerism is more your taste than donations, you can peruse and arrange to purchase my art through either my Instagram @paint_splattered_cats or if you prefer art on products you can find my merchandise on Redbubble PSCats.
https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-gina-in-her-fight-to-get-her-graves-disease-controlled
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2024.05.19 10:03 namsu12 Received a call about harrasmanet from the police

Call from the police about harrasmanet.
Got a call from the police on Friday, saying that I was reported for alleged harassment, I denied it but wasn't really allowed to give my side of the story. The officer told me that they will be closing the case and taking no further action in this instance but not to contact the person who reported me or I'll be arrested ( haven't had any contact with this person in 2-3 months). I'm feeling anxious as I wasn't able to tell my side of the story, would like to know any consequences of this aside from showing up on an enchanced DBS and if this is end of it.
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2024.05.19 10:03 GoodBrahminboy How to avoid getting ghosted? Ask her out within the first few texts, I always do it.

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2024.05.19 10:02 Mattish22 After interview question?

Hey all I’ve been for the interview for a band 2 role and received the golden phone call of a YES! I am waiting for paperwork and references to be checked.
My question is if I have a verbal yes and my references are bad will I still get the job? As one of my references hates me and would give a bad reference.
I’m excited and worried
Thank you
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2024.05.19 10:02 Boredofyou9 Why is this tolerated?

I just started working in a new company and boy was the manager there seriously unprofessional .
Here are a few examples:
He sure is having fun making use of his job position, but everyone around him looks miserable af
Like I don't get why some people even bother to tolerate such nonsense, I know they are doing it for their job but when someone is being such a nuisance and being so unproffesional, you can tell that he doesnt care about anyone else but himself.......
These kinds of behaviour should not be tolerated or be considered ok at all, idk how he even got promoted to this position. The company should really be chosing people more wisely cause this kind of leadership won't do the department any good and does the company even want this kind of people to represent them?
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2024.05.19 10:02 Any-Message9470 Advice on interacting/confessing to a crush with a boyfriend

Hello, I recently moved to a whole new place where I don't know anybody but have managed to make a few friends that I connect well with and attend the same community club together.
This place is the straight up countryside so there aren't that many people in general in the same age range as me (26 M), but I happened to meet a girl that I felt like I connected particularly well with. we haven't gone on any dates or anything but the few times we have been alone together I have a lot of fun and can be open with her. Her friend told me that she has a long distance boyfriend, but the friend and the girl herself has told me that he's not that great a guy and that she is having issues with him such as him badmouthing things she likes, the girl herself, and is overall just an immature guy when it comes to relationships (they've been dating for around 1-2 months now at this point.
The girl has told me that when he came to visit and stay at her place, she told the guy she wanted to break up with him, that he started to cry and beg for her not to leave and that he'll change and what not, and because shes just a nice person overall and felt bad, they decided to keep the relationship going but has told me herself that if feelings don't come back to her that she's going to break up with him.
When we are together, its very fun and it feels like she often flirts with me and laughs at my jokes even when they aren't funny. She comes close to me to look at my phone (like faces inches apart), puts her hand on my thigh when we talk, and very casual flirty skinship like that. But my problem is that she's still with her boyfriend and cheating is out of the question for me and something I promised I'd never do or make anyone do after my last relationship where my ex cheated on me. I'm planning to tell her how I feel, but in a way that doesn't put pressure on her and force her into a kind of decision where she has to choose between me and the other guy. I'm going to make it clear that if she wants me to give up any romantic feelings that I will and we can continue to just be friends that hang out together in groups, but if she wants me to wait for her to break things off with her bf, i will wait.
I want to think that I've already decided to do this, but I also wanted to anonymously post about my situation and hear what others have to say about this particular situation or any others that have been in similar situations.
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2024.05.19 10:02 Forsaken_Ad_6461 I feel Burnout by work I can't even do anything

Am a famele 25y old I been working in this company for a year and they didn't let me take a anuule leave, at start I thought I can houndl that until they desided to give me a promotion to a marketing manger without raise in my salary so suddenly I stratred feeling depressed especially that I get paid less than average and I couldn't take a vacation now I can't do anything basic and I got Poor job performance evaluation
Is that normal? And what should I do
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2024.05.19 10:01 Nabila_Biscuit Can I call myself Multipotentialite?

For a long time, I thought of myself as a right-hand woman, or a manager, or admin assistant, and the list goes on. But, I recently came across this term, Multipotentialite. You can tell I've been struggling to give my career a title. As the term suggests, I don't specialize in one aspect; I like to do a little bit of everything, and I'm surprisingly good at it. Is it okay to write that on my resume? If you're a business owner or a hiring manager, would that interest you, or is it going to put you off? And how would you suggest I describe my skills in the heading?
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2024.05.19 10:01 JustaCatChick My roommate is my aunt and she’s becoming difficult and starting to slowly charge me more.

My aunt F(40) and I F(25) agreed to both get an apartment with both of our names on the lease. She was in a rush to get an apartment as she had just had a divorce, and I wanted my own place after moving out of my boyfriend’s parent’s house.
She was in a rush to sign the papers and move in because she had nowhere else to go. Her sister (my other aunt) allowed her to live in her house rent free for a couple months before she needed to look for a place. So once she found out, I was breaking up she took it as an opportunity to get a roommate.
I feel like me being naïve and new to the lease signing process was seen as an opportunity to take advantage. The day of signing the lease they told us that we couldn’t view the unit because it wasn’t ready and I told her that I didn’t sign it because I don’t know what the condition is but she insisted that we do and that we can fix it later, so I did trusting her.
Once we move in, it’s a very old department and we are paying roughly 1,500 in rent. It’s a two bed two bath. It comes with the garage for a single car, which she has claimed since she pays more. She has the master bedroom with a standup shower and a bathtub as well as “his and her sink”. I have the guest restroom, which is just a simple small bathroom with a tub shower, toilet and sink.
Initially, the agreement was the I pay a portion of the rent, electricity and Internet. Her mother, which is my grandmother was trying to help us get us into our own place so sent her $5000 which was supposed to be divided by two which would give $2500 to her and $2500 to me. I didn’t know about this until recently as she hid it and was acting like it was given to her for months, and even made it seem like she was being nice by helping me out since I couldn’t afford some stuff during she furniture shopping. So when we went shopping for the apartment, I tried to help pay for half of groceries and little furnishings that I could afford out of my pocket. When it came to picking out couches, she made it seem like a very carefree experience (not paying attending to price) and was looking for a very big couch that was lavish and when I told her I couldn’t afford it, she said don’t worry Grandmother is helping us out. (but we’re just spending my portion of the money on the couch she wanted) If I had known that MY money was going towards that couch, I would’ve definitely chose a cheaper one and put more thought into selecting it.
I had a gut feeling about the spending and asked my grandmother about the “help she gave us”, she told me the truth: that $2500 should have gone to me, and she’s sorry that she didn’t clarify it soon as she sent it. She thought my aunt would’ve done the right thing and give it to me to help me purchase my furniture for my room. Later she went shopping for a brand new mattress and began shopping for more furniture and decor. Meanwhile, my room is full of free furniture that is used and that I’ve gotten from family members storage and IKEA furniture that I bought out of my own pocket.
I am a full-time student, receiving assistance from the gov receiving 1400/month as a Veterans dependent. And I also do commissions on the side to make extra money. So I live very frugally naturally and am a minimalist tbh and yes I CAN afford bills and own groceries. I’ll also watch all her animals while she’s out of town for free (2 cats and 1 dog). I only have one cat and often clean the whole apartment, including helping her with her laundry that sits in the washedryer. Since i see it as a contribution and helping her out.
The agreement has changed in the past four months that I’ve lived with her. We are 4 months into a 14 month lease. She pays $1200 a month for rent, I am responsible for everything else. That being: whatever is left of rent, water, electricity, Internet, and I have to pay for my own parking every month at the apartment we stay (she gets garage so she doesn’t have to pay parking)
Lately she’s been asking me if I’m going to get a job and to start contributing more towards the rent, which caught me off guard as I thought we had already come to an agreement on the rent/bills situation before signing the lease and revisiting about a month ago. Right now I’m roughly paying $600-$700 in utilities and rent combined. If it gets more expensive and bills go up I am responsible for the overages and she seems to like to leave the AC low and lights on. She’ll leave her clothes in the washer and forget to throw them in the dryer and end up washing them again. The same thing with the dryer. Even if it’s dry she’ll, have to redry it to “freshen it up”.
I’m also probably undiagnosed OCD, my only complaint to her is to be clean and at least keep common areas tidy. She likes to leave things in the sink overnight, dump her weeks worth of coffee cups that she brings from work in the sink and leave them for hours. Her dog will pee around the apartment and I find it after it dries up and becomes sticky after I step in it. I’ve mentioned these issues before, but she seems to shrug them off and give me excuses.
I’ll leave for days at a time and give her a notice on when I leave and come back because I know I am leaving my cat with her, but I make sure he always has food and I come by and check on him, clean litter box and tidy up around the place if I’m staying at my boyfriends, which is only 20 minutes away. She complain the fact that I’m gone too long. And when I’m at the apartment, it seems to bother her that I do school from home and can work from home doing commissions. I’m an introvert.
She is a shopping addict and is in debt and also runs a business that is in the red, she has no children and she seems to be living above what she can afford. Her ex husband is needing help financially and I think it’s affecting her financially. In the end she’s asking for me to help her as she is struggling with her lifestyle, relationship, and business.
Some people might say that my situation isn’t that bad or that I’m overthinking, but since this is a family member, it’s hard to set boundaries as well as stand up for myself when I respect her as an aunt.
She’s came to me offering to help me in the beginning when I was looking for a place and now it seems like a trap. My parents asked me to move back in so that I could save money and avoid rent but she said if I move out I’m fully responsible for breaking the lease or paying for her to downsize into a single bed room unit, which would be $1300 in fees or more. I want to stand my ground since my name is on that lease and we made an agreement. I’m frustrated and really need advice. Am I wrong, should I help more or is she just taking advantage.
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2024.05.19 10:01 Foggyest-Idea DM and I disagree on character creation. What Should I Do?

Hello everyone! I hope you all are doing well while reading this post.
I am currently trying to join a game I had been invited to that has been running for around 2 years irl. The PCs are level 11 and are soon to hit twelve. There is a lot of lore for this game, but their current predicament is that they're trying to have an audience with Lord Neverwinter and to do so, they gotta kill some giants. Unfortunately for the party of 4 (Phantom Rogue, Life Cleric, Lore Bard, Divination Wizard), they are in DIRE need of a tank. So I started making one. Had some issues with communication with the DM but, with the help of some other friends of mine, I finally decided on making a Reborn Cavalier Fighter. However, when I finally have the chance to communicate with the DM about my ideas for a character, a lot of complications arise.
A bit more than a couple of hours ago, I write to the DM on Discord to check if they had time to talk about the character since our game was the very next day and I had next to nothing to work with. DM is a very busy person, but says we can talk around the end of the day. I affirm that notion and let them know what my plan for my character was. At this point, it was my understanding that the party still had some problems with the Red Wizards of Thay and were investigating some magical shenanigans. The wizard and rogue specifically had backstory ties that only served to further their hatred for the group. Thus, I decided to make a Cavalier Fighter who had a wizard lover while he was alive and died protecting his lover. He waited for his lover to join him in the afterlife for a while, but when Mystra showed up instead of the and explained the situation, he wanted to go back to find out what happened to his husband. Thus, he became a Reborn with the goal of finding his husband's grave, learning that the Red Wizards purged it and stole his soul, and joining the party in their hatred towards them.
The issue with this backstory, from my understanding of the DMs perspective, was that it took too much away from the actual story at hand. This is when I found out that the party wouldn't interact with the Red Wizards any more and were headed in a direction that I wouldn't be able to really know about. Instead, the DM proposed that I be a reborn giant soul that was brought back from a time travel accident gone wrong and I would now act as an information giver for the party. I did not want to lose out on the story I crafted since I felt very attached to the concept of love thriving even after death, but when I tried to ask how the DM would have rathered I build my character's story, the offers that were given had very little substance for me to build an actual character off of.
To me, it felt like I was being asked to build an NPC that would give the party information and fight with the party but not have any emotional ties of their own to the story. The end of our discussion came from them saying "maybe take a step back, think about it one more time from a clean slate. It doesn't need to be a whole detailed thing. Just a template you can work from with some basic motivations, ideals, and flaws." I feel like I just wasted a bunch of time and effort trying to make an emotionally driven and persuasive character fir the party to feel attached to, just to be told to make a template character with some pre-generated personality traits. I believe it is in my best interest to leave the game but maybe I am being too harsh on the DM and misconstruing their words. Maybe I'm too attached to the character concept I made and should learn how to compromise more, even if it feels like the reasons the character would work well are being gutted. What do you all think? I don't think I can make a proper decision without being influenced by my emotions.

TLDR

I made a backstory that the DM doesn't believe would work for his world. DM then strongly suggests that I either make changes that I feel would gut my character and turn them into a glorified NPC or make a new NPC from scratch. I think I should leave, but I don't think I can trust my gut right now. What do you think?
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2024.05.19 10:01 drewssstuff can anyone explain what virbaclap is?

idk what and how it works and the translations i read made zero sense to me. all i got was it claps 50/s. how is that equal to his hand? all i can see is a musket being replaced by a machine gun. what did he give to achieve that? his hand was already gone it cant be that right?
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2024.05.19 10:00 namsu12 Call from the police about harrasmanet.

Got a call from the police on Friday, saying that I was reported for alleged harassment, I denied it but wasn't really allowed to give my side of the story. The officer told me that they will be closing the case and taking no further action in this instance but not to contact the person who reported me or I'll be arrested ( haven't had any contact with this person in 2-3 months). I'm feeling anxious as I wasn't able to tell my side of the story, would like to know any consequences of this aside from showing up on an enchanced DBS and if this is end of it.
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