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The last week or so I have had awful watery output from my ileostomy. It looks like urine and is CONSTANT. This morning I was changing my wafers. I have a urostomy, and an ileostomy. I noticed I have what looks like little water blisters on both stomas. I have had my ostomies since 2019, and 2021. These are new. I also noticed that both stomas feel slimy. They are always wet obviously but the consistency of the moisture on the stomas is different. It feels more like mucous. I am already struggling with very low blood pressure. I am having about 3x more output from my ileostomy than my urostomy at this point. I will say I was seen at Mayo Clinic early this month where it was discovered that I have bleeding ulceration in my stomach and small intestine. This is all new territory for me. Is it related? Has anyone ever experienced this? I do not have crohns, or colitis. I am an ostomate due to trauma from a car accident. Thank you in advance. I will post a photo but it is extremely hard to get the blisters to show up due to the shiny nature of the stomas.

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Throwaway account bc I don't want to dox myself but here is the situation. Male SNCO here and I'm TDY with 2 other females (who are from a different unit), one is a SNCO and one is a senior officer. About 1 week ago we arrived at the hotel that we are all staying at. Once I got in I was on the phone with my spouse and wanted to send some pics of the hotel room. While on the phone, I took some pictures of the hotel room and since I was changing out of my travel clothes, one of the pics you could see my reflection in the mirror and I didn't have any pants (or underwear)on. It was a silly looking picture and I wanted to make my spouse laugh bc she was alone and sad without me. I wasn't "posing" or doing anything other than standing there with no pants on and a stupid grin on my face. Since I was exhausted from being up for the better part of 24 hours and also unpacking my stuff, I accidentally attached and sent the room photos and the one with no pants to the group chat with me and the other Soldiers I'm TDY with. When I asked my spouse if they went through and was told no, I looked at my phone and realized they went to the wrong chat. Without thinking I deleted them from my chat (with the slightest hope that it would delete from everyone's chat like you can on whatsapp). A minute later I got a text from the officer saying "wrong text" and I immediately and profusely apologized and said that was meant for my spouse and that I accidentally sent it to the group chat, and that I was so sorry and embarrassed and that it was in no way meant for anyone but my spouse. A little later I saw them both in person and it was a bit awkward but we all just acted like nothing had happened. After that, I spoke to the officer one on one and she said that she understood that it was an honest mistake but still called her SHARP rep to see if anything had to be done (calling the SHARP rep seemed unnecessary but it was already done) . She confirmed that she told the SHARP rep that it was an accident and that the text was meant for my spouse and not then. She also told me that both she and the other NCO deleted the text and that neither one of them was going to file any sort of complaint since they both knew that it was an accident. The officer also said that if the SHARP rep said that any action needed to be taken, that she wanted to handle it at the lowest level with just a counseling and that she would not recommend anything further. So far its been almost 1 week and nothing has been said and we have all been working fine together. Logically I don't see how this could go that far since it was an accident (which is abundantly clear since I also sent photos of the hotel room), and since no one made an actual complaint (if there is no complaint then what is there to investigate). The emotional side of my brain however has been a complete wreck. I've never been in any sort of trouble and my mind is racing to me getting kicked out of the Army, losing benefits, etc. I wanted to see if anyone had any advice and/or similar experiences.
***I'll have a week old McDouble with a side of food poisoning please

This is the most frequently violated rule of the sub. I posted this information as a comment on another post and we (mods) decided to make a separate post about it so there’s completely clarity and something to refer back to when needed.
The rule is; “No excuses, minimizing, or victim blaming.”
One of the only reasons we are allowed this space is because we have very strict rules. You’ll notice there are no other active RSO groups here. The rules we have and the fact that we strictly enforce them is why we are allowed to have this space.
This group is public, and we (the group itself) are not exactly well liked by most people (usually because they don’t really understand what the group is, but there are other obvious reasons) so we do have to be extra careful.
We have to be careful not to minimize actions or make harmful statements here because:

1. We are not here to harm victims of SO’s and it’s important to be careful not to.
   
2. Our ultimate goal should be to prevent these crimes from ever occurring again while allowing people who committed crimes to seek the help they need and to be able to successfully reenter society and live normal, productive, crime free lives. Making excuses, blaming victims for anything and minimizing past actions are not conducive to that.
   
3. We are here as a resource to help you more forward in life.
   

People already assume that, if you’re on the registry, it’s because you’ve committed a violent sex crime.
When people here say things that even allude to making excuses, minimizing, or victim blaming, people are hurt by it. Others, who are looking for reasons to make it appear the absolute worst that it can often screenshot it. They post it in other groups, they make YouTube or tiktok videos or post them on other social media.
I don’t believe that most people here don’t mean to minimize or victim blame or make excuses when they type those statements. However, how they appear matters.
People see that and become enraged. They don’t come read more or try to understand anything, they just become enraged (their feelings may be misguided but are understandable - 1 in 4 people have been a victim and 86% of their abusers are never prosecuted, so there’s a lot of built up hurt and a lot of people who never got justice for what happened to them.)
People being enraged by those comments leads to the group being trolled (which means we have to spend every minute of several days removing some of the most vile and nasty things you’ve ever read), and to the group being reported over and over and over again.
It’s hard to cover every single thing that falls under those categories, but I’ll try to give you a rough idea.
Below are examples and the reasons those things are problematic.
Examples of excuses:
• ⁠“It’s not my fault because _____”
• ⁠“I don’t know how I could be expected for know she was only 14.”
• ⁠“She started it.”
• ⁠“I only did it because of depression.”
• ⁠“I only did it because I was young and dumb.”
• ⁠“My wife wasn’t paying attention to me.”
• ⁠“It was an accident.”
Sex crimes are not to be referred to as accidents here. Accidents are slipping on a patch of ice, hitting one of those yellow poles in a drive thru, spilling a drink, etc… Committing a sex crime may be a really poor decision, a terrible thing to do, a regrettable action, etc… referring to it as an accident makes people think you’re comparing it to failing a test.
• ⁠“It shouldn’t be a crime anyway.”
And maybe it shouldn’t. I will never think that a 16 and 18 year old engaging in sex that they both want to have should be criminalized - but it is. However, when people see someone say that something shouldn’t be a crime without enough context they 100% assume that you’re saying raping children shouldn’t be a crime. Doesn’t matter what you’re actually referring to, that’s what they read because they’re already expecting the worst.
Examples of victim blaming:
• ⁠“the victim lied…” - that may be true but you’re not saying it here because it’s not going to be perceived the way you mean it. Ever. Under no context is it okay to say here, that’s a conversation to have with your attorney.
• ⁠“Why would she have dressed like that if she didn’t want to ______?”
• ⁠“She didn’t tell me she was 14.”
• ⁠“She sent me the picture, I posted it on the dark web because she was a b*tch and deserved it.”
• ⁠“I know I was wrong, but did this…”
Anything that’s disparaging about a victim is going to be removed. Period. Doesn’t matter if it’s true or it isn’t, it’s not staying. There’s no reason to say it.
This includes stating things that a victim did that you feel has harmed you somehow.
Examples of minimizing:
• ⁠Probably the most common is referring to a sex crime as a mistake.
“It was a mistake” - any and every time you refer to a sex crime as a “mistake” the post or comment will be removed.
A “mistake” is defined as “an error” “a goof” or “a slip up” Messing up on a test is a mistake, eating so much cake that you feel sick is a mistake, forgetting your moms birthday is a mistake, hitting “reply all” on an email is a mistake…. Referring to committing a sex crime as a “mistake” absolutely enrages people.
Imagine telling a victim, “oops, sorry, didn’t mean to…” because that’s what they hear.
It’s a decision. It’s an action. It’s a crime. It’s whatever else you want to call it that accepts accountability. Any and every time it is referred to as a mistake it will be removed.
• ⁠“I didn’t have any victims,” is a common one.
There are exceptionally few sex crimes that do not have victims. Arguably, they all do.
So you cannot say that here, especially without any context. Period. Ever.
I don’t care if you’re the exceptional rarity where there may actually not technically be one, you don’t get to say “I didn’t have any victims” here. Not everyone knows your story and saying things like this absolutely enrages people.
• ⁠“There were no victims,” when referring to CSAM.
Yes, there were. We aren’t going to get on board with saying there weren’t. Every underage person in those photos were victims. Period. One of the biggest and most common things that gets us in trouble is when people say that.
** People have asked about stating that stings have no victims - According to the general public, who are unaware as to how these stings are often conducted, it’s the person you though it was and it saved a real child. Saying there’s no victim, causes rage, so don’t do it.
Arguably, you could say that there’s no victim if a 17 year old willingly, knowingly, without being asked, without coercion, sends a photo of themselves to someone 18+ and the person who is 18+ gets arrested for it. But people who don’t know your story, don’t know your story. They picture you having downloaded hundreds or thousands of videos of kids who are anywhere from babies to young teens being raped and m-bating to those. That’s what people think every single time. So you cannot state that you had no victims here ever.
Imagine you’re standing in a room filled with victims of CSAM. Would you stand there and say, “Watching CSAM is a victimless crime”? - I mean, I really hope you wouldn’t. If you did, I’m sure you’d face some pretty ugly repercussions.
So, before you post / say things - think about these things:
• ⁠If you were standing in a room filled with victims of SO’s, would you say it?
• ⁠Would you say it the way you just said it to someone you know was brutally raped?
• ⁠If you were speaking to a group of people who were horribly abused and violated as children, would you say that the way you just did?
Because you’re posting it in a public group. Those people ARE reading it so you ARE saying it to them.
• ⁠Are you giving enough context where a victim of a sex crime won’t feel like you’re saying it’s their fault?
• ⁠Are you being accountable for your actions?
• ⁠Did you accept responsibility?
• ⁠Does it sound like you are making excuses?
• ⁠Did you provide enough context where it doesn’t look like you’re saying something that’s harmful to others?
• ⁠Are people going to understand what you’re saying?
I, and other mods; are cussed at, called names, degraded, etc… a lot by people who are members here because we’ve removed their post for these things.
Usually because they’re not bothering to read the entire statement, not bothering to look at what they posted and how it will be perceived, and not bothering to understand why we have those rules, “I’M NOT VICTIM BLAMING YOU STUPID ___” “You’re just as bad as ___”, “You’re oppressive and horrible and not supportive,” “who the fck are you to judge me?”, “fck you and your gd judgement,” etc…
Users here are forever getting pissed at us because they don’t think we should care what “outsiders” think.
We disagree. We have to care what they think if we want to be allowed this space.
We are also the one and only place on the entire internet where people sit and watch people convicted of SO’s talk to each other. There’s nowhere else that exists.
Considering that most of them assume everyone on the registry is the worst of the worst and assume you’re there because you rped babies and filmed it, violently raped someone, molested young children, etc… this is the only place they see that’s *not what the registry is anymore.
Do you want those people to think you’re excusing ped*philia (which nobody here has ever done that I’ve seen in the years I’ve been here) or do you want them to realize what the reality of the registry is? Do you want them to fight against you or realize, “this registry shit is out of control”? Do you want people to continue thinking people on the registry are the worst of the worst of the worst?
This group changes a lot of peoples opinions about RSO’s. Do you want it to be changed for the better or for worse?
So, yeah, if it looks like you’re saying something super offensive or shitty that minimizes the pain of others, minimizes the impact the crime you committed, or you’re saying something we know will be perceived that way it will be removed. It’s not an accusation, it’s not us telling you that you’re bad, it’s us protecting this group and every person who uses it.
If you have a post removed for these reasons we do usually try to explain it but we can’t always, because modding this group is like having a second full time job. You can reword your post and repost it. You just can’t leave it as it was.
And if you’re genuinely doing those things - actually blaming victims, actually minimizing, actually making excuses on a regular basis after being warned or you decide to mock or criticize us for removing those comments in your next one you’ll also be banned.
Strict rules and being cautious not to harm others is how this group still exists when every single other group has been removed.

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(Descriptions of fictional crimes investigated by the story's main Character Max.)
Detective's Fate
It's august of 2008.....
Max is a detective living in Chicago He checks his pistol and puts on his police badge as he walks out his front door.
He has been searching for a serial killer known as the Caller for years and always been one step behind due to the red tape.....
More importantly the chief's lazy attitude towards getting search warrants and actions approved by the courts for raids. Twice Max had good intel on the suspect's locations and photo evidence showing him at the sites.
The department needs more vigilant, caring officers and leaders but no one steps up to do it, instead they just complain about the slow progress and officers. And hinder investigations.
Now Max has decided that it might be time to stop playing by the rules and catch this scumbag.... .... ....
Starting his car Max sets his GPS to the address that "The Caller" was last seen and pulls out of his driveway as the 50 miles of directions pop up.
The killer's nickname being for his signature of calling in as he is committing the crime.
As he drives he remembers his first case, five years ago now..... ..... .....
A woman, Joane Taylor, was found dead in an alleyway after going out for the night. She showed no signs of struggle leading the police to believe she had drank to much and expired from alcohol poisoning.... ...
The death was written off as a "party gone wrong".... That is until several more were found and the coroner decided on a whim to test for other substances.
Once it came out that the deaths were possible murders...
The calls started coming in, almost like the suspect wanted credit before revealing himself....
Then ways of the deaths began changing as the Serial Killer explored his twisted desires searching for his preferred method.
The last case being a young woman found stuffed in a dumpster after the killer apparently got scared off.... Max will never forget it.... .... ....
The GPS finishes and the car beeps its final direction, taking an exit off the highway. Ramps out here are always confusing... Which is funny since he has driven this one for five years now...
The chief says he should sit this one out but he can't... The latest victim 3 months ago.
Marie Spelner, a waitress out on her smoke break talking to her spouse on the phone.
Survived by her husband, no children or living relatives. ....
Max Spelner turns into the driveway of the house he was directed to... Stepping out of the car he walks up and knocks on the door. Looking at the house he knows the family must be doing well if they live here.... Raising his hand to knock again he hears a scream from inside....
A second later the door is answered by a middle aged butler holding a tray with wine glasses on it... "Hello Sir, I'm sorry but this house does not wish to partake in any offers at this time..."
Max calmly says. "I'm not selling anything."
The butler looks confused for a moment before his eyes dart over Max's shoulder seeing his unmarked cruiser and he nods.
Looking past the butler Max sees that a woman is cleaning up after their dog.
"Have you seen this man?" Says Max holds up a picture of the one suspected of being the killer.
The butler gives it a once over before replying. "I'm sorry sir, no I have not." His tone sounds like he is lying... ....
"Are you sure?" The detective asks.
"I would not lie about something like that, sir." He states, his eyes not meeting Max's.
The woman calls from inside "Fletcher, who are you talking too?"
"Some man asking about a killer" he calls back.
"The killer is an inside job!" The woman quickly states.
"What?!" Max says.
"The Killer, it's an inside job." She says again, louder this time. In the same Max also hears a child begin to cry in another room.
"We should start from the beginning, it will be easier to explain trust me." The woman says.
'She seems to know what is going on....
"How do I know your story holds water?" He asks out loud.
"Oh I wouldn't lie. I have been following the case myself and it seems like an inside job to me." She states, somehow sounding hurt.
"Is there anyone else in the house besides you two and the baby?" He asks noticing the baby isn't crying anymore.
"Just Fletcher and I live here, the baby is my cousins but he just stays the night sometimes." She replies.
Max draws his gun and enters the house upon reasonable suspicion of an emergency in progress or suspect on the premisses as the man seems to be deceiving.
While the woman still seems unconcerned that the child is now silent.
He pushes past the butler and rushes towards the area he heard the crying. passes the entryway, the dinning room, and a kitchen before finally finding a child in a playpen.
"There there..." He says in a sing song voice picking up the child. "I'm officer Max, do you know where your mommy is?"
The child just cries louder.
Then he sees the man from the photo walk out of the bathroom, upon seeing him he bolts for the door and Max sets the child down gently then gives chase.
He runs through the house, following the man as he can hear the woman screaming at him to stop but he doesn't."
"Stop or I'll shoot." The man doesn't even break stride.
Instead he runs out of the front door and jumps into his car.
Furious that the man might escape he fires at the car as it drives away.
The back window shatters and he hopes he got his tire, but he doesn't wait to find out as he runs to his car and initiates a pursuit....
He flips on his concealed lights in his cruiser as he reverses down the drive and into the street.
The suspects car is fast but he manages to keep up with it weaving in and out of traffic as people move over for the siren.
As they approach a red light there is heavy traffic in the intersection..... ....
The suspect slams on his brakes and Max's cruiser only just stops short of hitting it. Jumping out the Detective points his firearm at the vehicle running up beside seeing heavily tinted windows.
"Get out of the car and on the ground now!!" He shouts as he moves to the driver's side door.
After seeing no response....
Max throws open the door and the driver is gone with the passenger side open.
He quickly runs to the other side catching the man trying to sneak off tackling him to the ground and then takes his arms putting them behind his back.
Max grabs his radio and calls it in as the man cries.
As he is waiting he hears a noise that sounds like static.....
"Wrong guy moron.. Did you ever stop to think I wanted you close for this one. That I planned everything...Even framing the pothead..... I almost lost interest until you pulled in the driveway... The attic is kinda cramped tho... I think I'll go carve some meat. Maybe graduate to other things to. I'm not sure yet. Lets see if you can catch me before......" A familiar voice says over the radio then cuts off... ...
Max looks at the man on the ground. "Why did you run from me?" He asks.
"Cause I have like 19 grams of marijuana in my pocket." He replies...
"Do you know how stupid that is?! I don't care about that I'm looking for a killer."
Before he can answer Max hears the woman from the house screaming for her life and a child's cries on his radio.
Then from below Max. "He's in the house, he's in the house! My mom and the baby!" The man on the ground says crying.
Max uncuffs him and runs to his car heading back to the house as he lays down rubber on the road... ... ...
As he approaches and pulls into the driveway he notices the front door is open.
"Hold on I'm coming!" Max screams jumping out of his cruiser...
He runs into the house finding the woman's body arriving too late. Moving over to her he checks for a pulse but she is gone, a large gash in her neck.
As he stands up he slips in a fluid but gains his balance and tries not to think about what it is....
He rushes to the room the baby was in finding the play pen empty. He leaves the room searching the rest of the house and still doesn't find the child.
"Where are you!!!" He calls out....
"This is the Callers first kidnapping and the media would eat up the fact I failed to stop the man." He thinks as he blames himself.
Sirens begin to blare in the distance as backup is about to arrive... ... ...
"There's a woman dead and a baby missing! The woman is in the dinning room straight ahead of the front door, Hurry!" He yells into his radio...
Looking over at the mother seeing a piece of paper on the floor.
He walks over to it seeing writing.
"So close... Looks like I'm a kidnapper now.... Good luck finding me.... And... I so enjoyed killing that sweet wife of yours. Might do it that way again. Not to the kid tho....later Max. Ps. This game is so fun.." It says.
"He was here..." Is all he can muster as the team enters.
"He was right in this house and I missed it because her son freaked over weed and ran..." He says as another officer speaks to him gently.
"Don't beat yourself up Detective, it's not your fault. He must have hid before you got her and left after you arrived." The words do little to comfort him "First day back on the job and the killer escaped taking a child..." He says as he walks away.
The chief arrives in his new lexus with a screeching of rubber as he lurches to a halt.
He quickly exits and leaves his door hanging open as he rushes into Max's face....
"I told you to stay away from this case MAX!!!!....(takes a breath)...
"If I catch any flak from my superiors, I won't suspend you.... That'd be to easy. Desk duty and an entry level demotion. The new guy will have a higher rank than you if things go my way.... Now get outta my sight...". "(Sighs)...
"This job is gonna be the death of me..." He says walking away from Max and towards the Coroner's van..... ..... .....
On the way home the detective stops by the store close to his house which is unlike him because he usually follows the same routine.
He nears the front door and he hears a kitchen timer ding loudly from behind him as his car explodes throwing him through the storefront windows as they are blown out..... .....
Alarms around the lot and others nearby create a cacophony of noise. His head pounding as his body aches, Max pushes himself up and collapses as the store manager runs over to him telling him not to move as he dials 911.... .... ....
Waking in the hospital Max recalls the feeling of the Shockwave as he flinches in phantom pain.
"Who woulda thought its like holding a ringing metal bat that hurts your hands but all over and way more intense." He thinks.
He suddenly feels tired and falls asleep.... .... .... ....
The next time he wakes, he sees a breaking news story that Jane Saltani is reporting on....
"Young toddler Accidently Shoots Serial killekidnapper ending his life and Alerting residents in the Area." The news anchor says.
Sighing to himself Max thinks about how crazy that is and laughs.
Tho he really wanted to bring the guy in. He closes his eyes to get some much needed sleep as his door opens.
Max looks up to see a man with a silenced pistol pointed at him.
"Hm. Now they think I'm dead. Funny how they just assume they got the right guy. Just like.... You did Detect... ....." Max hears but then hears no more as his end comes at just over the speed of sound....
The Caller leaves the hair of another intelligent convicted murderer that he obtained in a spot that's believable and quickly leaves.....
He disables the surveillance system and sends a virus out to any device that has received video data from the hospital.
Erasing and corrupting the systems. Leaving a master hackers finger prints on a glass from his home....
"Sorry, no witnesses." He says to the security guard as he fires... ..... ..... .... ....

I was stopped at a red light, looked back at my baby because he was banging a toy against the window, and rolled into the car in front of me several months ago.
There was no visible damage to the other party's car and absolutely no damage to my own vehicle when I had it assessed.
I felt immensely guilty and I was too afraid to drive again because that was my first ever "incident" and I thought if I let my own baby distract me then what if it happens again but worse?
I feel a bit more calm driving. I try my best to focus and I had accident forgiveness so my insurance actually went DOWN in cost. I've also never had a speeding ticket.
Everytime I see the other party I become so anxious. She's suing me for property damage and injuries, and is now getting "treatments" for her injuries. I don't know how to not freeze up. I'm already so unlovable and now whenever I go to my child's school she's there, and I just feel like such a failure and wish I never had to see her ever again. While she won't get a cent from me since my policy has $1,000,000 in liability, I just feel so stupid I managed to mess up this bad that I gave some random woman a pass to use me as her punching bag and a get rich quick scheme. She posts on social media how she is running marathons, bending over, tilting her neck to smoke joints and pose for photos, and carrying her kids around. All things I can't imagine would feel easy to do or worth it if severely injured due to whiplash or whatever she's claiming, but I'm still the one at fault.
I live in a severely car dependent area so not driving isn't an option, and normally I'm a very safe, cautious driver who doesn't take anything that seems like an unnecessary risk.

I just have no idea what to do. I'm almost 30, no real interests, but eager for a purpose. I am scared shitless of driving because I've been hit by a car and been in several accidents. The positions I've held have been retail or food related because that was what was accessible walking. I was a social media manager for a while but for a largely nsfw clientele, and for my client's security I deleted all of my portfolio when I stopped servicing. I recently was the Visual Merchandising Manager at a seasonal halloween store and I enjoyed that but similar roles at other stores haven't replied to my applications. I am very organized, a fast learner, and pour my all into what I do, no matter what it is. Here are photos of my resume and some skills.
my daily life looks like: wake up at 5am, make breakfast and lunch for my boyfriend, then while he's at work I clean the house, do yoga, scroll on job board sites, tweak my resume and cover letter to fit a few job listings that are new that day, meditate, panic, make dinner, maybe video games or anime, sleep, repeat.
I will take any advice on my resumé, job fields, scholarships for learning skills that will help me be applicable for remote work, mentorship, job offers (hehe) anything. thank you in advance.

When we see a flashback of Susan and Mike arguing after the accident, Mike says that they crashed into them so fixing the brakes or even checking the brakes wouldn't have made any difference.
When Edie investigates Dave, she comes across an article with a photo of Mike and the title says man won't be charged in accident that killed two.
Why would there ever even be a question that he might be charged?? Why would there be any photo in the paper? It was a clear accident so why would they draw attention in that way. I know it's a show but it just seemed really unrealistic because it's not like it was a questionable situation. No one was drunk or being a responsible. It was merely an accident.
On that note, how many times has Mike been accused or possibly accused of murder?
The time he actually went to jail, Martha Huber, Monique, the accident, when Katherine was stabbed. I know he was innocent all those times, but at some point when a person is continuously looked at by the police for violent behavior, people might begin to question 🤷‍♀️

I ordered food a few days ago and the driver delivered to the wrong house by accident. It was a few houses over and I used the delivery photo to help me figure out which house it was. Luckily I caught it in time right after they confirmed delivery, it wasn’t the drivers fault and they were very friendly.
On my morning jog today I ran into a few neighbors who told me that the neighbor who’s house my food was wrongly delivered to, plans to sue me because I invaded their property and committed unlawful seizure. They even acknowledge in their comments they weren’t expecting any food delivery, just a small Amazon package maybe. But they are very upset with me.
I didn’t even realize they made a ring post exposing me. The video isn’t loading for me, I don’t know if they took it down, but it says package/mail theft which I didn’t even steal anything, just took back my food. Other neighbors say to ignore them as this is just an obnoxious neighbor. I don’t even know what they want.
Added link of the ring post they made saying I invaded their property and committed undue seizure.
https://imgur.com/a/HqHYInQ
Edit: We’re a pretty big neighborhood, last I heard theres about 1,400 homes and there’s 3 security guards at the front, back, and resident gate. I feel a little embarrassed because I don’t want people thinking I’m a thief or robber when that’s not what happened, and the video is still up.
They tagged the location at the front gate entrance and now I’m worried people will think I’m stealing things, and it’ll cause neighborhood scares as it’s false information.
Update: The ring camera post was removed, I reported it as inaccurate and I’m not sure if there was other reports, but it was taken down as I just went to check it. I heard from the security guard at the front gate on my way home today, that it’s actually a 30-40 year old woman who is trying to paint a bad picture of me to look bad, and said he would either talk to her to stop or told her off, but said I should stay away from her before she escalates it.

My wedding is in 8 days. My dad recently changed their pronouns to they them. My dad has been pretty absent in my life since I was 10 when my mom and dad got divorced. They were was abusive to my mom but luckily she divorced them almost immediately after they choked her and I saw them do it. They killed both of the family dogs with negligence (on accident). When I wanted to bury my dog they tried to trick me into giving them money to taxidermy the dog. They collect dead animals and display the bones. They didn’t feed me when I lived with them. They are impossible to deal with in almost any situation. Extremely Paranoid, stubborn, into conspiracy theories, occasionally believing they are god. It’s a bad time. I know getting my dad to wear an appropriate outfit was going to be a struggle I went dress shopping with them and it was just frustrating. It just felt like my dad was making the wedding all about them. I honestly wanted my dad to wear a pantsuit or a woman’s suit. I didn’t say that though. You can’t ever disagree with my dad. You can’t compromise with my dad. He is always always always the victim. When we go places they refuse to wear shoes. They refuse to shower saying it’s bad for you. The house they live in is my grandmas and the electricity isn’t on. They haven’t worked in over 6 years. The house is full of trash my dad hoards things. my dad rolls their cigarettes on restaurant tables. They bring full cups of coffee into my car just to spill them everywhere. My dad would probably dip his overgrown fingernails into my wedding cake just because. I planned on letting them come until my grandma and my dad and siblings went to Denny’s. My dad had said they didn’t want to wear a suit because it would look silly unless it’s tailored. My grandma said ok I’ll get your suit tailored. My grandpa (who was not at the restaurant) sent a photo of a woman’s suit to my dad and suggested they wore that. My dad stood up and ranted about how we were all transphobic. And stormed off making everyone in the restaurant look at them. My dad said they would start making a scene if anyone misgenders them. They later tried to convince me that that is not what happened and my dad only said they were going to correct people. My fiancé (23 M) basically said to me that I need to uninvited them. My grandma went shopping with my dad and got them a woman’s pants suit because I requested at this point that they not wear a dress. I don’t know what else to say my reasoning is that they they are a spectacle in a dress. My dad looks like and smells like they live in a dumpster. I just want my dad to show up as a supportive father figure instead of making it about them. My dad called to yell at me for being transphobic about the pants suit. And geez I can’t believe I’m saying this about anyone. But I’ve known my dad for 22 years. I don’t believe they are transgender. I just know my dad and they will do anything to be the victim. They (the white guy) somehow made blm all about them. Said that the government was after them. My fiancé would be miserable the entire wedding worrying about what my dad is saying and doing. Someone would need to babysit them. So I had to uninvited them. All oft aunts and uncles and grandma called to tell me they support me and one said they don’t think they are transgender. My dad called and promised they would behave yesterday and I felt like saying they could come. My fiancé still said no. So I had to tell my dad they can’t come. My mom told me even if they promise to behave they can’t. They aren’t capable of keeping promises. I know this sounds fake I don’t know how to convince anyone it’s real. and I swear I’m supportive of other trans issues. I just need to know if wanting my dad to wear a suit makes me an asshole. I know I’m right to uninvite them but I feel like a jerk for believing they are doing it for attention. Because I hate when people say gay/ trans issues are for attention. I dated a woman for 2 years I just don’t generally hold this opinion of others.
TLDR: Reddit am I an asshole for making my dad feel like I don’t support their gender (I don’t but I didn’t say that).

I am/was a para-rider getting back into jumping with Ehlers-Danlos syndrome. Last Saturday I fell from 18.2hh and had a burst fracture of my T12. Now I have a fusion of 5 veretebrae.
The recovery has been brutal. I thought I was going to die. I got off the IV today, and did 10 baby squats while crying. I still can’t go to the bathroom alone. Zero dignity. The pain is incredible. Everybody screams on this floor, I did too.
I don’t know if I’ll ride again. But still interested in training at hand, driving… if I can get out of this fucking hospital. I think I can.
Tell me about things you survived when you thought you couldn’t. Or tell me what non-riding activities you like with your horse, tell me about your horse, anything to help me pass the time. This shit is grim.
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Edit: it will take me some time to reply to everything but your responses are already helping

For the past few days ive been extremely paranoid about my ex having explicit pictures of me saved in his locked google photos folder, i have his account but im not sure theres a way to access it without it notifying him, hes not someone i want any sort of contact with, even in accident for my own safety. any advice?

I was in an accident back in August, and was stopped at a red light then rolled into the car in front of me because I looked back at my baby.
There was no visible damage to her car, and I had my car assessed and there was no damage to mine. I got it on dashcam and submitted it to my insurance.
Everytime the other party sees me now she becomes blatantly hostile and tries to talk to me and I have to remind her to continue speaking with insurance.
She is claiming damages to her car, and injuries and got a lawyer, to which she's now received several months of treatment for.
My questions are does hitting someone at like 5 km/h and no visible damage mean I actually severely injured her? She posts photos on social media of her going to the gym, bending over at the beach, looking up while she smokes joints, and going on electric scooter expeditions. She also would go on on social media about her back hurting because of her job. Will the adjustor determine that she must be as injured as she claims and just pay it out because she keeps wracking up all these treatments? What else can I do when she approaches me despite its all in insurances hands now? Do I deserve to be bullied and shamed for a genuine slow movement accident for the rest of my life?
What do I do if the insurance does pay her tens of thousands and she still tries to approach me? What do I do if she serves me with lawsuit papers?
I had accident forgiveness and there was no damage to my car so besides the severe anxiety and guilt from whenever she approaches me I'm fortunate that this hasn't impacted me much else. I also have a $1,000,000 liability policy so I'm not worried about her coming for my own assets.

Hello all!
2013 civic. Wife was in a very minor fender bender, the bumper doesn’t even have a dent, just a few scratches. We’re considering just letting it go and calling it a day.
However, and the reason for my post, we had a family member tell us there are special components behind the bumper and around the frame meant to protect the car during accidents that could have been damaged, something like one time squish foam / padding or metal that could be damaged that we can’t see and won’t be there to protect us during an accident in the future.
I think that even though that stuff may exist, you would probably have to be able to tell the bumper was significantly pushed in to be concerned it was compromised.
In the end I want to save my work hours instead of wasting them going to a body shop for an evaluation if I don’t need to.
Any thoughts? Photos of the civic bumper and the other car attached to give an idea of the “damage”.

TANBASASAYAMA, Hyogo Prefecture—A pair of dummies in law enforcement are tirelessly promoting traffic safety here.
The “police officers” serving and protecting beside the northbound lane of National Route 176 near Minami-Yashiro Station on the JR Fukuchiyama Line are actually dolls.
They were created by Mamoru Miyata, 50, the owner of M-Class Garden, a company that sells, rents and manufactures animal sculptures in Sanda in the prefecture.
He set up the police dummies on his own property along with a fake patrol car in early May in hopes of preventing traffic accidents along the long, straight road that runs through a school zone.
The male doll is seated in front of a speed radar, while his female partner stands near the car.
The dummies do not have to worry about getting arrested for impersonating real police officers.
Miyata consulted with the Hyogo prefectural police headquarters and received approval for the displays.
According to prefectural police, the fake black and white patrol car also poses no problem since it does not display any specific police department names or markings.
In fact, the word “PEACE” is written instead of “POLICE” on the vehicle’s side.
The officer dolls are so lifelike they can’t be distinguished as fake unless observed closely, although the female’s miniskirt uniform isn’t exactly standard issue.
The portable speed camera was made by stacking two tin cans together and painting them white.
Adding a touch of whimsy to the scene are giraffe and panda sculptures placed near the patrol car.
The installation has already gone viral on social media and is having the desired safety effect. Motorcyclists and other drivers slow down or even stop to take photos of the dolls.
Miyata said he hopes his creations will not only make the roads safer but also liven up the community.
Asahi Shimbun

Bunbunmaru news network is a fake youtube news channel that was made on June 18th 2021 and is currently still running. In the channels early days they uploaded bait and switch gore videos but now about half of the videos uploaded have been removed by YouTube.
Removed videos:
the first removed video I will talk about was one called “nyanners singing meme” which is of an anime character dancing then it cuts to a quick beheading in the top corner before cutting back to the anime character. I actually got to see the video before it was removed by youtube and in my opinion it really wasn’t that bad. Another video that got removed which I also got to have the opportunity of seeing before it’s removal was a video called ventas rumba and it shows a clip of the venta waterfall in Latvia before cutting to a beheading in a pink colored tint and cutting back to the waterfall. In my opinion that video was worse than the first beheading but still not the worst I’ve seen. Another removed video was called anime meme and it began with an anime character with a chainsaw before cutting to the infamous cartel murder video 2 guys 1 chainsaw (never heard of it but wanna learn more without watching it? Here is a short article I wrote about the video https://www.reddit.com/thingsnottogoogle/comments/199g3fj/2\_guys\_1\_chainsaw/). I didn’t get the chance to see the bait and switch video on youtube with 2 guys 1 chainsaw but I’ve seen the actual video of it and it is very disturbing and graphic. Another removed video that I didn’t get to see was a video called “old film from Iraq” and it is an isis beheading and other clips of isis killings which from seeing past videos I know are very graphic. Another one that I didn’t get to see and in all honesty didn’t want to because it’s gross was one called narco arc said something naughty and it was a video of a character (I think anime) saying the n word before cutting to a video called snake ass or 1 man 1 snake where a man sticks a snake up his…I’m sure you can figure it out. There’s supposedly another video on the channel called Pearl fish’s gross hiding spot that also cuts to 1 man 1 snake and oddly enough hasn’t been removed from the channel. Another removed video is a video called SpongeBob’s naughty tv show and it shows SpongeBob watching tv then cuts to a man masturbating with a mcchicken sandwich. Another removed video and probably the least disturbing removed video because it doesn’t have actual gore or gross content was called ducktales molestar psa and supposedly it was just the ducktales characters saying inappropriate racist things in a song but I never got to see it and can’t find any further details on it. The last of the removed videos and probably the most disturbing of the removed videos is one called tourist trolled in Mexico and it’s the infamous el patron or 1 man 5 bullets video and it shows the murder of a man named Leonardo Alexander Caripe Brito. I also wanted to say that the video wasn’t even from Mexico and the murder actually took place in Peru so the name of the video was wrong. In the video Brito is sitting on steps near a building and a man named Frank Anthony Lopez Quiroz approaches him yelling “tu dile el patron” which means “you told the boss” and before Brito says anything Quiroz pulls out a gun and begins shooting him in the face and in the video Brito’s eyeball pops out after being shot and his nose pours out blood as he collapses bleeding out and then the video ends. I saw the video before (not on bunbunmaru tho) and it was so bad that I would consider it to be about as bad as some cartel videos I’ve seen and maybe even worse than some of them. Unfortunately Brito was only 34 and he left behind a wife and 3 young kids. Quiroz was also arrested prior to killing Brito for murdering 2 people and was connected to 8 other murders and went by the nickname“mata por gusto” which translates to “kills for pleasure” so he is obviously a piece of work. Rest in peace Leonardo Brito
Videos that are still up: I am currently watching some of the videos that are still up to help write this post and I won’t lie I am watching them out of curiosity too. The first video that is still up and I believe I watched it when I first found out about the channel about 6 months ago but I don’t feel like watching it again because it was really gross. It’s called “wtf gumball watchin” and it supposedlyshows gumball from the amazing world of gumball walking in on banana Joe (another character from the show) watching a video on his computer and the video shows multiple other pictures and videos with 2 being of scat porn, one being a dead animal with “fuck (n words) on it”, 2 characters from a show called ongezellig, and the nazi swastika symbol. From what I remember luckily the videos and photos were super small and hard to tell what they are but again I don’t feel like seeing anything related to scat so I won’t be watching that again. The next video which I actually just watched now 5 seconds ago and it really isn’t that bad is called “hodomoe cat mp6” and it shows a cat dancing with multiple gore images that are so small that you can barely tell what they are and the one looked like a guy missing his face and according to screamer wiki the one picture is of a motorcycle accident but the pictures are so small that you can barely see them. The next video which I’ve also opted out of watching I already talked about and it is called “Pearl fish’s gross hiding spot”. The next video which I watched about an hour ago right before I began writing this post (yes these posts take me a while to write) is called “decipher this song” and it shows an all black screen with a song playing and at the very end it shows a very quick clip of a decomposing body. There are also 2 very mild videos on the channel called cat bbc and sound 100% koin which are just bait and switch videos that cut to Jeff the killer. The channel also uploaded a few other videos that screamer wiki hasn’t written about yet and I am taking breaks from writing to watch them and returning to writing right after I finish watching each. The one I just watched is called “I like touhou” and it’s another highly disturbing video that begins some anime character and then shows an isis beheading and a picture of a very decomposed body who’s face is completely blue. The next one I just watched is called fainal rickroll and it is just a video that cuts to Jeff the killer with a rickroll at the end nothing crazy. The last one is called oh pretttty Roman and it shows a series of gore images with one being the guy missing his face from hodomoe cat and a picture of the infamous shock image “tubgirl” where a girl is in a bathtub with her own diarrhea shooting on her face and a few memes and more gore pictures with one being a person missing a hand and another decomposing body then a picture of Jeff the killer. After the disturbing images the video cuts to a color changing screen that is probably a seizure warning for some people so don’t watch that if you have issues with flashing lights. If the channel posts more in the future then I might make another post talking about it as well but based on past similar youtube channels they probably won’t be up too long because people report that type of content. Thanks for reading and thanks for helping grow this subreddit you guys are cool people and I hope that didn’t ruin your day like seeing some of it ruined my night.
Anyway if reading about it wasn’t disturbing enough here is the link to this somewhat entertaining mess of a youtube channel https://youtube.com/@bunbunmarunewsnetwork?si=kEYDZD6id3hgdCQL