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Transfer and shift with failing grades

2024.05.19 01:27 UsurpIV Transfer and shift with failing grades

For context po, nakapagaral po ako ng malayo samin kasi yun lang yung choice ko para maavail yung scholarship with the intentiom of transferring and shifting the following year. Sadly di ko po natiis and nung second sem bumaba yung grades ko. Pero nakapasa na po ako sa university and sa course program na gusto ko and have informed dost about my intention to transfer. Should I send po ba a letter of appeal along with my requirements for transfer? Or uunahin ko po pagsubmit ng appeal? Thank you po sa sasagot!
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2024.05.18 19:38 Few-Bat4209 I tried to emulate my toxic father until I realized I don't need to. Since I changed, I felt distant to him.

Medyo mahaba ito so if you can spare 30 min, go ahead. This is also a throwaway account to keep anonymity.
Hi, I'm a M, in my late 20s.
My dad is an OFW, so our mom served as our father figure when he is away 9 months a year.
I have a tita who acted as my mother figure, and a sister.
Yung tatay ko naman ay responsable at malambing sa nanay namin.
Let's just say I always admired him, and always wanted to be like him, and fulfill his wishes.
Lagi niya kasi ako binubulungan na kapag lumaki na daw ako, bibilhan ko siya ng sasakyan. Utang na loob ba.
Well, I tried to be like him, think like him, act like him. Tingin ko kasi yun ang paraan para maging mabait siya sakin. Papaano kasi takot ang tinanim niya sa isip naming magkakapatid.
Until I realized my values don't align with his.
Balik tayo sa childhood. I always find him confusing since my childhood days.
Sa tuwing uuwi siya, pagbubuhatin lang niya ako ng bagahe niya habang malambing niyang binabati yung sister at mom ko.
Isa lang yan sa mga confusing na behaviors niya, kumbaga sa relasyon eh mixed signals lagi.
Pero inisip ko nalang eh kasi lalaki akong anak kaya siguro ganun, dapat tigasin ang trato.
Pero bakit nga ba confusing? Kasi kapag nandyan nanay namin ang bait bait ng tatay namin eh. Pero kapag pumapasok na si nanay sa trabaho, nag-iiba yung ugali ni tatay, nagiging hostile siya up to the point na unreasonable na. Tawag nga sa kanya ng kapatid ko, bully kasi ugaling bully talaga minus pagbubuhat ng kamay.
Paano nga ba siya naging hostile?
Una, hindi mo malapitan kasi nakasinghal palagi at nakasimangot. Tapos palagi may session yan na tuturuan niya kami magluto o papanoorin kami gumawa ng gawaing bahay, para lang punahin bawat galaw namin sabay mura, ad hominem at kumpara sa ibang mga bata. Tapos siya na tatapos ng gawain after niya kami pahiyain. The rest of the day, walang nagsasalita siya lang. He will always rant about anything, basta palagi siya "galit" mode.
Tapos uuwi na si nanay. Sa dinner table, kapag kinakamusta kami ni nanay, inuunahan kami sumagot ni tatay. Kahit kitang kita naman sa mukha namin na hindi kami okay kasama itong tatay namin, hindi namin masabi kay nanay. Nakakatakot magsumbong eh. Tapos ano pa yan, babalik siya sa pagiging mabait at malambing na tatay. Ganyan siya kapag kasama namin si nanay.
Maybe I always knew something is off, that's why it felt weird when he tried to gaslight us. He always says "alam ng magulang ang nakabubuti sa anak" pero hindi naman marunong magturo.
At kapag hindi niya nakukuha gusto niya sa amin (after all his antics and hostility), magiging passive aggressive siya. Kapag gusto niya kami gumising ng maaga, magpapatugtog yan ng stereo ng malakas. Gusto niya kasi probinsya style, eh that time todo puyat na ko sa school sa dami ng pinapasang requirements.
O kaya kapag nagkukulong ako sa kwarto studying, sisinghal uli yan ng "ano ba yan palagi nalang kayo nasa kwarto" na may kasamang mura syempre.
Nanay namin never nagmura sa harap namin.
Heck, there is even one time na nagising ako 11am because I slept at 4am doing schoolwork. Pucha pagising ko singhal agad itong tatay namin na palaging galit at sabi ba naman sa akin, "huwag ka na kumain" (mag alamusal). Edi pumunta nalang ako sa study table para ituloy yung assignment ko. Pero gigil na gigil ako sa galit nun at mangiyak-iyak ako. Sa isip ko, grabe naman 'to, first time ko lang magpuyat ng sagad galit na agad inabot ko. At first time na may nagalit sa akin dahil sa nag-aral ako? LMAO.
Then our aunt (na maglalayas later on kasi lagi siya sinisigawan ng tatay namin) said, "bakit naman ganun" as she tried to reason out how unreasonable our dad is.
Well, it took me years to realize na yung ginagawa niya sa amin, hybrid ng bully parenting at gaslighting.
Pero bakit nga ba siya hindi marunong magturo?
Ganito yon, I still remember when he tried to teach us how to cook but he didn't tell us the basics. Grade 1 ako na hindi marunog magbukas ng kalan. Edi hindi umapoy. Singhal agad si g*go. Sabay mura, panglalait, at ikukumpara ka na sa mga batang salat sa buhay, na hindi daw kasi kami lumaki ng probinsya.. yun pala may hinanakit siya kasi our mom insisted na bumukod sa fam ni tatay sa province, kasi ayaw ni mom na may in-laws na nangingialam. Eh itong tatay namin, obssessed sa pagiging probinsyano niya.
But, kasalanan ba ng mga bata yun? Kami pa talaga pinagbuntungan. Lol.
Lol kahit nga paraan ng pag-kain dapat daw "European"
yung naka fork at knife kahit sinigang ang ulam kasi pagtatawanan daw kami. Ewan, idol na idol niya siguro mga "puti" (yan tawag niya sa Europeans) kaka-cruise ship niya.
Oo, seaman siya.
At first I thought ganun lang siya samin kasi nga "alam ng magulang ang nakabubuti sa anak" until I found a pattern on how he treats people.
Sadly, I found out about it late and I just ignored all his antics all throughout my childhood.
So ganito. By default, palagi siya nakasinghal at hindi nakikinig sa opinyon ng ibang tao na tingin niya ay mas mababa sa kanya.
Oo, sobrang bait niyan kapag alam niyang mayaman yung tao o kaya may "narating sa buhay"
Else, mapanglait na at walang respeto.
Worst thing is, mahilig siya manlait towards lgbt, sa body shaming mahilig rin, dog lover daw pero nagbabanta na pumatay ng aso, maka Leni lang kasi si Mar Roxas talaga idol niya kasi ka-probinsya niya, etc.
Heck, there was even one time na may trabahador sa bahay namin na halos natutuliro na sa takot kasi lagi niya sinisigawan at palagi pinupuna pati personal life. Self-righteous catholic pero mapanglait sa kapwa.
There is also another time na lumayas yung auntie ko sa bahay namin kasi lagi rin niya sinisinghalan at pinupuna (sister in law niya si auntie, pero si auntie kasi helper ang trabaho so alam mo na bakit siya ganun kay auntie).
And many more..
Until one day, I realized na lumalapit na ako sa breaking point.
Papaano, tanda-tanda ko na (early 20s) pero minumura pa rin niya ako at pinupuna. Pangit daw pagkakalatag ng kable sa pc setup ko (paki mo ba lol), payat ko daw kaya dapat mag-gym ako kasi maganda daw bato-bato ang katawan sa lalaki (oo mahilig mangbody shame yan ng boksingero na payat na parang wala siyang alam sa weight class sa boxing lol)
at ang tanda-tanda ko na daw di pa daw ako marunong magdrive (who cares about age lol).
Eh siya? Tanda-tanda na niya hindi parin siya marunong magturo ng maayos.
Idol ko pa siya nito kaya nagpapaturo pa ko magdrive sa kanya. Kaso wala, puro mura lang inabot ko, pangkukumpara sa mga babae na mas mabilis daw magpatakbo (lmao sexist na insecure ata) at kung anu-ano pa.
Muntikan na nga sila mag-away ng nanay ko kasi sagot ng nanay ko "ano ba problema mo sa mga babae" kasi puro "babae kasi" ang sinasabi ng tatay namin kapag may mabagal na sasakyan, etc.
Mind you, I never gained confidence until I am forced to drive on my own kuha ng pandemic at dahil yun sa wala siya sa tabi ko na sinisinghalan ako kada sa galaw ko, witch matching na "p*** ka".
Worse thing is, "wala, wala talaga." tapos hindi ka naman icocorrect. Manghuhula pa ako san ako nagkamali lol. How can you build confidence on that?
Then the breaking point happened.
Komprontahan na.
Nung umuwi siya that year, nag breakdown na ako sa harap ng pamilya. Ayaw pa niya aminin yung mga ginagawa niya lol. He even tried to dismiss and invalidate me, the usual stuff you know. Buti nalang nandyan nanay namin to mediate.
Since then I realized that I will never please him, at nasa 20s na ako pero ganun pa rin siya sa akin. Actually, simula childhood ko hostile na siya sakin.
Heck, I should just walk my own path and stop emulating him. So I stopped imitating him. I dropped his toxic values that felt weird to me, and I followed my own. I felt happy, and at peace.
Then I started meeting people and connecting with them, the right people. Those people who corrected my bad values, and from there I slowly started to change.
I stopped connecting with my old friends of my old self, because not only I was imitating someone who I'm not, but I am chasing an identity that does not align with them.
I finally followed my passion (gusto ng tatay ko kasi mag seaman ako lol), embraced the affectionate side of myself (dati kasi bawal maging malambing hindi daw kasi trait ng lalaki yun), and became more open to people (kahit lgbt pa) and I never discriminated again.
I stopped caring on what others will view me (laging rason ng tatay ko sa mga turo is para hindi daw kami pagtawanan ng iba). Yung takot ko dati na mapagtawanan tinapon ko na. You do you.
I still remember my college days na mapanglait ako sa mga classmates namin na hindi marunong sa mga main subjects. Eh dahil ba sa magaling ako dapat ko na gawin yun? Namana ko pala yung ugaling yun sa tatay ko.
I stopped catcalling, I stopped thinking women as inferior gender, I stopped being a hypocrite Catholic (yes he is a solid Catholic na lumuhod kay virgin mary kada umaga pero ang baba ng tingin sa mga babae), I stopped all the toxic things na nakuha ko sa tatay ko.
I am still in the process of finding who I am and evolving my values, but I never felt this free kaya I am happy to break out of his shadow. Tuloy lang ang buhay at pag-eexplore.
Sarap pala sa feeling na magkaroon ng mga kaibigan. People who are really your tribe. Yung mga dati ko kasing kaibigan, kuhang-kuha rin yung values at ugali na nakuha ko sa tatay ko. I felt like I belonged there but there is always something off.
But not everything is good kasi ang naging kapalit ng breaking free from my father's shadow is, naging distant ako sa tatay ko.
Trauma na din siguro. First, ayoko lang na nasa paligid siya. Mixed emotions eh. Kung hindi anxiety, inis lang nararamdaman ko. Saka para bang nagiging defensive ako, I feel like he will say something bad everytime he comes near me to start a conversation.
Kapag naririnig ko siya na sumisinghal o kahit malakas lang boses eh naalala ko ang lahat. Kapag may minumura siyang mga holdaper sa balita o nagdadabog habang nanonood ng basketball, naalala ko lahat.
Second, I don't know how to express my real self to him. I just know he will never understand kasi salungat na mga values ko sa kanya.
Wala na kami ibang pinaguusapan kundi basketball and that's it.
Third, I consider myself geek and well-read. He is the opposite, and he is street smart (laking probinsya, worked blue collar jobs in Manila in his 20s), but at the same time I can feel his hostility towards smart people. Kasi palagi yan nagsasabi, "pag pinadala yan sa probinsya wala yan"
I get him, but I feel like I am walking on eggshells kasi baka matrigger siya at yung maging response niya mag-trigger din sa mga unresolved trauma ko from him. Mahirap imagine kapag nangyari yun, kasi baka magkagulo nalang talaga.
Fourth, it took 3 years before he become fully nice to me. In denial pa kasi siya sa "awkwardness" namin. Todo iwas kasi ako.
The first year nangpupuna pa rin siya, the second year he is still trying to insist his values. Those two years were hell though, kasi kapag ginagawa niya yan, silent treatment ginagawa ko. Hindi naman kasi siya marunong makinig sa palinawag ng isang taong mas "bata" sa kanya.
Also, he never changed his attitude towards others. Mabait lang sa akin kasi confronted ko na siya. Mapanlait pa rin siya sa iba, yung kapatid ko nga sinasabihan pa rin niyang mataba hanggang ngayon. Pero malapit na rin yun sa breaking point niya.
Until today, never kami nag-outing ng pamilya ko na buo since the confrontation happened.
I just can't stand hearing his voice. Naalala ko lahat eh.
Also, I need to match his energy at kapag hindi ko kaya, I just avoid him. Minsan walang kibo nalang talaga.
Look, days are good if I can match his energy. Para kasing machine gun yun dumaldal. Singhal agad tapos mabilis, tapos walang paki sa social cues dadaldalin ka agad. So matching his energy is exhausting.
Hindi kasi ako yung taong nangpaplastik. Magkaiba kami ng values eh, minsan may mga nasasabi pa yan na bigla nalang ako nattrigger.
So that's the aftermath.
One thing I realized is hindi ko naman pala siya dapat i-please para hindi siya maging hostile sakin.
But it feels staged at parang naging standoff lang.
Maybe I am still expecting some level of affection kasi wala eh, tatay ko pa rin siya. Baka naman kasi kaya ko pa rin maging affectionate sa kanya just like how I am with my tita (mother figure), mom (father figure), and sister.
How did I know that I can? Madali lang sa akin makipagkaibigan sa mga lalaking mas matanda sa akin, sa mga kuya, manong, at lolo. Kahit na same pa sila ng values sa tatay ko, kaya ko. Kaya ko makisama sa ibang tao, pero bakit sa kanya hirap ako?
Hindi ko alam, hindi kasi ako makaramdam ng peace to be affectionate sa tatay ko. Lalim kasi ng hugot at sugat eh. Ganun siguro.
Hindi madali but I am doing it for my mom. Kitang-kita ko kasi yung saya ng nanay ko kapag nag-uusap kami ng tatay ko. Kahit sandali lang, happy na siya na makitang may moments na "okay" kami ng tatay ko.
Well, I'll just give her that.
I still think of my mom as the father figure, siya kasi yung balance ng disciplinarian at affectionate traits. I respect her.
Yung tatay ko naman, I simlply can't think of him as a father figure anymore. I dropped it already. His hostility to me for 20+ years is not easy to forget. I stopped chasing his approval, at hindi ko siya dapat ginaya. I realized that I don't respect him the same as my mom, takot lang talaga ako sa kanya nung bata ako, at ngayon I still have unresolved issues with him.
I guess hindi na talaga maaayos ng tuluyan yung relationship namin. In the words of nanay "may lamat na ba talaga anak?"
Oo nalang talaga ang sagot ko, because my way to keep my sanity is by setting boundaries and part of it is by being distant to him when I need to.
Thank you for reading.
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2024.05.18 19:14 deleter_007 30 days unemployed

I just want this to be off my chest. I've been working to this company for the past 10 years started sa entry level role eventually tumaas sa corporate ladder. In 10 years na yun ni minsan wala akong absent and I rarely use my PTOs pa. Sobrang daming reports and system ang na update ko which increase the productivity ng lahat. Then halos lahat ng ka work ko sakin mag tatanung yun tipong out of scope na tapos tumutulong pa din ako.
2 months ago, nag ka call ako with HR and Isa ako sa mga aalisin nla due to redundancy daw. Iniyakan ko tlga ito to the point na 2 weeks ago walang tulog na maayus kasi daming questions na WHY ME? Eh madami akong ka work na puro kalokohan pero hindi naman sla yun inaalis at ni minsan hindi ako nag ka sanction sa work. Yung pala ayaw sakin ng Manager ko due to personal reason nya kaya siguro sinama nya ako sa mga maalis.
It's been a month na pero wala pa din akong work. Kahit papanu in demand naman yun field ko pero hirap na din pala mag hanap ng work Ngayon. Kahit nga 20% less sa current salary pinapatos ko na applyan wala pa din and mostly di man lang ako umaabot sa initial interview. Tried to optimize my resume and cover letter wala pa din. I even created a portfolio pero wala pa din swerte as of now.
The cherry on top? Yun mga former workmates ko hindi alam gawin ang work ko kahit maayus ang transition and properly documented yun reports / tasks ko dati. At least 2x a week ata tatawag sa messenger ko para mag tanung madalas sobrang simple na lang Hindi pa din nla alm kahit Ilan beses ko na tinuro and one time pa itong former workmate ko sinabihan pa akong "SANA WALA KANG MAHANAP NA WORK MUNA PARA MAY MATANUNGAN KAME." Like may sahod ba ako dyan? Feel ko tuloy sila tlga nag Evil Eye sakin para hindi ako makahanap ng work.
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2024.05.18 18:43 Then-Ad6607 How to permanently disconnect a Converge if the account name is not yours?

As the title states, paano po i permanently disconnect ang isang converge line na hindi nakapangalan sayo? Nagemail kasi ako sa converge about permanently disconnecting the account pero nangangailangan sila ng letter of intent sa nakapangalan sa account. And i don't have the contact to that person. Is it okay kung hayaan nalang namin yung account mag auto disconnect since tapos naman na yung lock-in period niya?
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2024.05.18 18:28 Profed_AntiKNP Diwata Overload

Marami na nagbigay kay Diwata yun MCGI baka pwede nyu sya bigyan ng sariling coffee shop sakyan nyu na rin kasikatan nya diba ganyan kayu manggamit ng Tao pati Dios ginagamit nyu mga animal kayo....
Sa KNP Mukhang Pera OVERLOAD
(etong post ay sa nakakaintindi lang at the back of the letters di ko pinopromote paresan nya kundi ang pagsakay sa kasikatan ng MCGAI)
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2024.05.18 17:40 UpstairsAncient7446 My mom fucked up big time and i don't think i'll ever find peace in this life

Ever since I was child, seaman na yung dad ko while my mom was a housewife. 3 kaming siblings and they were able to provide our needs, sometimes pati yung wants (we are far from spoiled). Core memory ko as a child na mamimili kami ng bagong gamit every June for school and December for Christmas Party. In my head I know that we weren't rich pero nakakaluwag-luwag compared to our relatives.
Now, maaga ako namulat sa financial problem ng pamilya namin. Eldest daughter kaya siguro maaga na-develop yung brain lol.
Sa hometown namin, 1) May bumbay na laging naghahanap sa nanay ko at lagi namang tinataguan ng nanay ko. 2) Me and my kuya studied in a private school and there were times na di bayad tuition namin na we had to give promissory notes sa teacher. 3) Palaging naga-away parents ko tuwing umuuwi yung tatay ko kasi no work = no money. So sa halip na bakasyon is pahinga for him, palaging stressful ang ganap sa bahay at nagmamadali na sumampa ulit ng barko yung dad ko.
It was messy. I think people knew my mother was in a lot of debt. So to start anew, we moved to another city. Kumuha ng hulugang townhouse yung dad ko, also a car. We only lasted there for 5 years. My dad had to forfeit the house kasi it turned out na di nababayaran ng mom ko yung house for months. We ended up going back to our hometown at our grandparents' house.
My mom became a DH in a foreign country so she can repay her debts once and for all. Dad ko seaman pa din and siya sa bills namin. It has been 9 years, dalawang beses pa lang siya nakauwi for vacation. During those 2 vacations, I saw how she spent money to treat us and our relatives. I thought everything was okay and she got her money problems under control.
Until hindi na siya masyadong nakakapagpadala and we received a letter during the pandemic, it's from a bank stating that our mom has a debt worth 180k+. Gumuho mundo namin nun, lalo na unemployed din dad ko kasi nga pandemic, hirap makasampa. Sumuko na dad ko and broke up with her. Di na namin siya madalas makausap simula nito.
I then found out na umalis siya sa employer niya and wala na siya sa agency, nagpa-part time nanny na lang siya ngayon (illegaly bc no papers) at puro online casino nakikita ko sa fb niya so I'm guessing agent siya. I asked her bat di na lang siya umuwi, ayaw daw niya kasi gusto niya makapagumpisa ulit kami. Nakikita ko rin sa fb posts na may nakakaaway siyang kapwa DH dahil pa rin sa utang. Hays.
Ngayon, may work na ako. Last year nangungutang siya 1k to 3k tapos binabalik rin. This March to April naka-total of 5k na siya sakin, lagi niyang sinasabi na ibabalik pero tbh I'm not expecting anymore. Iniisip ko na lang na tulong ko sa kanya kasi mom ko siya.
Napa-post ako kasi every time na nanghihingi siya I breakdown. Kasi bakit niya yun ginawa sa sarili niya? Minsan naiiyak na lang ako kasi di ko alam kalagayan ng health niya, kung nakakain ba siya ng 3x a day? I also don't think I can save her kasi malamang lumobo na interest ng utang niya. May future din akong pinaghahandaan.
Also, saan ba niya pinaglalagay yung perang pinapadala ng dad ko back then? Kasi kinakapos kami nun, pero consistent naman magpadala dad ko. I can't help but antagonize her in my head sometimes.
Ayun, I don't think I'll ever find peace in this life knowing my mom is suffering somewhere and I can't do anything about it.
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2024.05.18 17:23 Efficient-Change3621 Nabaon sa utang dahil sa pagpoprovide sa family as a breadwinner

Good Evening
Hi mga ka OP, I'm currently 30 years old at biglang nabaon sa utang. Credit Card Outstanding Balance: 30k GGives, Gcredit: 14k Smart Postpaid SIM Plan: 10k Billease: 20k Sloan and Lazada Fast Cash: 8k total pag pinagsama
Nagamit ko lahat yan para mabigay mga needs ng family ko at may pinapaaral pko na Civil Engineering at gagraduate na sya this August then board exam na. Nagamit ko din ito sa mga emergency like pacheck up ni mother, bili ng medicines.
Now, yung sinasahod ko, ang natitira na lang ay 4k. Bale hybrid sched ako sa work once a week nasa office. Ayoko naman sabihin sa kanila na nabaon ako sa utang dahil magagalit sila sakin at wala din sila mapapahiram sakin para bayaran lahat yan. Ayoko ipaalam sa mother ko dahil may heart health problems sya.
Then naisip ko 2 weeks ago na mag apply ng loan sa banks. Na approved ngayon yung niloan ko na worth 200k pero di pa ako pumupunta sa head office to claim it.
Napapaisip ako na if kukunin ko pa yung pera para tapos agad lahat ng utang ko pero 3 years ko huhulugan yung inutang ko sa bank which is 8.9k a month.
Dapat ko pa ba kunin yung pera sa bank mga ka-OP? Dahil tulong ko din yun para sa board exam ng kapatid ko and other expenses namin. Or idecline ko na lang yung offer na bank na 200k at magtiis sa makukulit at mga letters na sinesend sakin ng mga collections team ng mga inutangan ko hanggang sa mabayaran ko lahat utang ko.
Maraming salamat sa makakasagot, team Panganay!
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2024.05.18 17:04 Sucre26 Things to do 1 week before CPALE and during the 3days straight CPALE

To all May 2024 CPALE takers, 1 week from now you will be taking the CPA Licensure Exam. I know that you worked hard to get into this moment. Trust yourself, your RC and your gained knowledge as you take the board exam.
Last May 2023, ito yung mga ginawa ko 1 week before yung cpale.
1) Monday to Wednesday, pinasadahan ko yung preweek ng RC ko. Basa basa and tinignan pano nasolve. This time di na ako nagcocompute like binabasa ko na lang yung tanong then just checking if after ko basahin yung tanong napoprocess ba ng isip ko kung pano siya ma compute.
2) If may notes ka, this is the perfect time na gamitin mo yan. Just scan it and all para ma refresh ka lang.
3) Yung last 3 days before the exam itself, di na ako nag aral. Literal na relax na lang and ikalma ang sarili at isip. Do whatever you want na magpapa relax sayo (pero please avoid muna mag basketball or other sports dahil baka ma injury pa days before CPALE). Kumbaga cheat days mo yan.
4) 2 days before yung CPALE, prepare mo na yung lahat ng kailangan mo dalhin sa testing center. Do a checklist ng lahat ng need mo dalhin para walang makalimutan. Baka sa sobrang excited mo NOA pa makalimutan mo patay tayo dyan hahaha. Please prepare this in advance para iwas hassle and stress if ipeprepare mo pa ito ng madaling araw during the first day mismo.
5) The day before the exam, I went to St. Claire (sa may Katipunan) to attend the morning mass and magpadal sa madre. No need naman sa St. Claire ka pumunta, pero I suggest na 1 day before the exam is magpunta ng church para magsimba and manghingi ng guidance. Also, this is the time din to check if pano ba yung way of commute papunta sa testing site mo if malayo distance sa bahay nyo (you can do this naman pala kahit 2 days before the exam kayo na bahala)
During the 3 days straight CPALE ito naman yung mga ginawa ko.
General Tips
Please kumain kayo ng bfast. This is non negotiable kahit light lang basta magkalaman lang yung tyan nyo. Mahirap mag isip kapag gutom kaya kumain ng bfast.
Sa first day, need na maaga kayo as per the memo from PRC. If you will be having your commute at alam mong malayo distance ng bahay mo sa testing site mag allocate ng extra time for the traffic and unexpected happenings sa daan. Wag malelate at baka di na makapasok sayang naman yung chance na makapag take ng boards.
Arrive early sa testing site para magpagpag ng kaba (if kinakabahan) and para ma feel mo din yung testing center mo. As you enter sa room assign sayo please lang alisin mo na yung kaba/nerbyos sa katawan mo since di ito makakatulong sayo habang nag eexam and it will cause you mental block.
DAY 1 (CPALE)
MS first subject and AUD second subject. Before the exam, sinasabi ng proctor kung ilang pages yung exam and naka set A at set B ito. Kapag narinig nyo kung ilang pages wag kakabahan utang na loob! Kaya dumadami yung pages kasi malalaki yung font na gamit nila kaya mostly 1 to 2 problems lang nagkakasya sa isang page. Pagkatanggap ng questionaire bilangin agad if complete ba yung pages tapos scan nyo simula hanggang dulo para ma check nyo if saan ba maganda mag simula na makaka kuha ka ng momemtum sa pagsagot. Also, manage your time wisely since this is a 3hrs exam. Kung ako sayo, sasagarin ko na yung 3hrs if ever maaga ako matapos magsagot irereview ko ng paulit ulit yan and make sure na tama yung na shade ko na answer. Pwede nga pala sulatan yung questionaire, ang ginagawa ko non is sinusulat ko sa gilid ng # sa questionaire yung sagot ko if sure na ako. Then sa mga items naman na di pa ako sure, naglalagay lang ako ng initial answer para just in case di ko na mabalikan eh medj may chance yung hula ko.
During lunch break na for sure yung pinaka mabagal na oras ng buhay nyo hahahahaa kasi 2hrs yon and after mo kumain wala na kayo gagawin kasi bawal din magreview and bawal mag usap. So eat your lunch and power nap na lang.
DAY 2 (CPALE)
Ito kahit di na kayo maaga dumating sa testing site, kahit mga 7am pwede na pero be mindful pa rin sa traffic kasi Monday ang araw na ito. First subject here is Tax and second naman is RFBT. I highly suggest na umuwi agad after day 1 and day 2 para makapag pahinga.
DAY 3 (CPALE)
Dito sa last day bigay nyo na lahat. Dapat kondisyon ang daliri mo dito pati calcu mo kasi puro compute since FAR ang first subject at AFAR naman ang second subject. After this day, makakahinga na kayo ng maluwag since its over tapos na ang board exam.
Sa 3 days straight na board exam labas mo na lahat ng alam mo sa accounting.
Good luck to all May 2024 CPALE takers! Can't wait to welcome you all sa profession. Advance congratulations and god bless. Fighthing! 🫶
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2024.05.18 16:50 anewmarvelfan 32[M4A] Kausap, Kaibigan, Kalaro

Heey! Baka hanap mo rin yung hinahanap ko? Tara, G?
About me: - Mataba - Mabilis magreply kapag hindi busy - Decent naman kausap - Into gaming (gacha and pc games), kdramas, music, skincare, piercings
About you: - Willing kumausap and kumilala ng taong person - Hindi sabaw kausap - Yung maraming letters sa keypad/keyboard
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2024.05.18 13:22 BladedSceptile Driving a motorcycle owned by a family friend, huli or no huli?

Hi, everyone! I lost my scooter and fortunately for me, a family friend has offered to lend their extra motorcycle for my daily commute. Registered ito and obviously, I'm a licensed driver. Di naman ako lumalabag sa traffic rules, pero sometimes, may mga routine checkpoints in my route to school and back. Considering na we don't have the same surname, middle name, or even address, medyo kabado ako.
Mahuhuli po ba ako sa checkpoint if hindi sa akin nakapangalan yung papers? Kailangan po ba ng authorization letter? Dadalhin ko pa po ba original ORCR as proof?
NOTE: This is temporary, got a new scooter secondhand from the same family friend pero I'm still saving up for finalizing the deed of sale and transfer of ownership
TIA!
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2024.05.18 11:10 chilichiji Revocation of Deed of Donation

Hi po. Mag ask lang po sana ng advise. Yung lupa po kasi was transferred sa amin ng kapatid ko via deed of donation. Ngayon po, lumayas po yung lola ko sa bahay and one week after nakareceive po kami ng letter from the Barangay na nagrerequest sya ng Revocation of Deed of Donation on the grounds of Ingratitude.
Lahat po ng paratang nya sa amin sa letter was all a lie po and we have video evidences to show against her. Ask ko lang po if this is worth fighting for pa po ba? Or mas malakas pa dn po talaga yung laban if yung tito at tita ko nagcontest? May transfer title na po.
If ever po hindi ako pumayag na magparevoke, ano po yung mga need ko paghandaan? also, if papayag man po ba ako, ako pdin po ba magshoshoulder ng pagprocess? Maraming salamat po.
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2024.05.18 10:12 Sea-Signature9357 Extra Bluetooth keyboard and mouse lying around na di na ginagamit?

HI PO PLS HEAR ME OUT
First time ko po makakuha na ng client sobrang tagal ko po to hinintay grabe 🥹 I use keyboard sa laptop ko and mouse kasi sira na yung yung ibang letters na sa laptop mismo di na napipindot. Ayun lang mukang maluwag na rin yung USB port sa laptop ko di ma gumagana pag sinasaksak yung keyboard and mouse 😭😭😭 Unfortunately wala na po akong extra na pambili ng bluetooth keyboard and mouse.
Just wondering if may extra po kayong Bluetooth mouse and keyboard na hindi nyo na ginagamit 😭 I longed for this client so much and I don't wanna throw away this opportunity sana :(((( maybe i can pay for it this 30th if pwede po huhu. Nag babakasakali lang po ako dito sa sub baka lang meron, baka lang talaga 😭😭
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2024.05.18 09:33 LR_boilimlim I WANT TO K#LL MY PROF?

idk if this the perfect place to say everything
So nag start to after kami hindi bigyan ng chance mag defend ng professor namin dahil may proposal defense kami sa mga panelist on Saturday and Thursday nag mock defense kami sakanya par rin alam namin if need ba ng revision and if may kulang pa sa ipepresent namin na proposal and btw prelim palang naman. Kaso unfortunately biglang ayaw nya kami ipag resent dahil may kulng daw sa data nd masyado daw text heavy ang ppt namin, ang sabi nya samin ay "I'm sorry, pero hindi kayo pwede tumuloy sa sabado plss paki prepare ng dropping letter" and nagulat ko kasi sobrang confident namin sa proposal and mahaba pa ang time my 1 day pa kami para mag revise tapos gusto nya mag drop kami? Tangina ano yun? Mas matatanggap ko p kung mga panelists mismo nag sabi ng "No" samin kaso hindi eh. Grabe sobrang nasayang effort namin kasi madamk na kaming nakausap na tao para sa propsal nmin lahat ng groupmates ko naapektuhan mentally like nawalan na kami ng gana pumasok kasi prelim palang tapos isang subject na agad yung for us "bagsak" at need pa namin iretake next school year so basically iregg students na kami. After non mga bandang midterm kinausap kami ng adviser namin ati and sabi nya re defense nalang daw para isummer namin edi sabi namin sige tapoa this time di n kami nag pa consult and mock defense and I present the same paper and Ppt as in wala akong pinalitan tapos pumasa sya sa panelist and ayun nagulat ako bakit sakany hindi pero hindi nalang kmi nag salita kasi binigyan nya daw kami ng so called -"second chance" tangina diba tapos gusto nya ituloy namin yung paper ngayon at itake namin ng summer parin so bali sa summer na daw ang defense at pa book bind namin. So napaiisip ako kasi sya lang ang prof na nag tuturo ng subject na to feeling ko planado nya para extra income sa summer kasi sya parin magiging rof eh ang weird lang kasi madami kaming pinadrop nya. Halos isang section and enough yung number ng student para mag take ng summer class. So sobrang fucked up nito gusto ko sya isumbong sa dean kaso baka ako naman mapasama sinabihan ko na grouomates ko na samahan ako gumawa ng action kaso lahat sila takot. sobrang nagagalit ako sakanya kasi need ko i retake yung subject and hindi naman kami mayaman ginagapang ng mom ko yung school na to kasi hindi kaya yung tuition pero ganito nangyari sakin sobrang down ko prelim palang lahat ng subject ko na aapektuhan nawawalan ako ng gana pumasok kasi feel ko I failed. I want to kill him para matapos na to sana mamatay na sya para hindi na to mangyari sa iba png student
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2024.05.18 08:25 SideEyeCat Ano pwedeng common convo kapag kasama mo sa car yung isa sa mga boss mo

So sa monday inutusan ako na kunin yung package sa division office ng deped, at since pareho kami ng town nung isang head teacher, sya ang susundo sa akin sa division office, kasi mabigat yung box at wala pa akong motor.
Ano ang mga pwedeng casual convo sa sasakyan. Lalo na at 1 hour commute papunta sa school station namin.
5 months palang ako sa school, pero tahimik kasi akong tao at wala akong pake kung kakausapin ako o hindi, pero pag sa sasakyan kasama ang mga tao na alam ko mahilig magsalita, di ko alam paano magcontinue ng convo, laging dead air, kakaoverthink ko kung tama ba or mali pinagsasabi ko, tapos iooverthink ko na naman yung kinwento ko ganun haha.
Ps. Isa syang coach sa basketball, at pamilyado sya with apo na rin ata. Chickboy din ata sya, (pero pangit kasi ako na girl) kaya di rin nya ako kinakausap sa office.
Konti lang alam ko sa basketball or about family eh, kasi single ako haha.
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2024.05.18 02:17 AspectInteresting836 May chance ba na bawiin ang JO after signing it?

1 week na since pumirma ako. Done na ko sa medical, requirement, pero lately, may mga assessment silang pinagagawa sakin which is weird kasi nakapirma na ako. Sinabi sakin na parang welcome talk lang daw pero bigla ba naman akong ni-language assessment on the spot. I mean, di naman ako takot bumagsak assuming na di pa ako nakakapirma. I would understand naman kaso minadali nila akong magsubmit ng resignation letter which I did kasi nagpromise sila and the JO is right in front of me. This is for a Spanish post btw.
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2024.05.17 21:49 batang_batangueno Depektibong Bahay ni C

Dear All, I would just like to seek some advice on what I should do next regarding my current situation.
For context, last March 2018 I signed a contract for a Pre-Selling House and Lot from the Big C Developer. The property was handed over to us on February of 2019. Prior hand over, a punch listing of issues was done together with an engineer representative of the developer. Punch items included a minor crack on the slab of the 2nd floor which was repaired(patched with filler and paint) prior the acceptance.
Five years later(last quarter of 2023), the same crack on the slab resurfaced and was worse than what it used to be during the punch listing. Three five peso coin stacked up can be inserted to the crack. We also noticed that the tiles on the 2nd floor also cracked andsome tiles loosened from the tile adhesive. A visible thin line crack was also visible from the beam supporting the 2nd floor slab. The steel deck beneath the slab also corroded and in now also loose from the slab.
Upon consultation with some Civil Engineer friends and some persons who knows structures, they advised me to write a letter demanding the developer for action regarding the house. They told me that the house is crooked and unsafe for us to live in.
I wrote a letter to the developer stating the condition of the house which by the way was already fully paid some time in September 2023. Three days later, the developer sent a crew headed by their structural engineer to inspect the house. The engineer told me that the concrete mixture used was not up to standard. The crew who took sample from the slab and beam said " Sir, mas mastigas pa yung plastering kesa sa mismong buhos"
"Mukhang buhanging dagat po ang ginamit dito kaya nagkaganito, may maliliit pa po akong shell na nakita sa tinipak namin semento."
Another guy who took sample from the 2nd floor said "Sir, mas matigas pa yung dry pack ng tiles kesa sa buhos ng slab"
The concrete mixture indeed was porous contrary to what supposed to be a very hard concrete mixture intended to be used on slabs, beams and columns.
The column and beam of the house was also taken sample and the same consistency of concrete was found a porous concrete just like on the slab.
As of now, only the slab and the beam have visible cracks, the columns were OK but since the same consistency of a porous concrete was found, I doubt that it would last and maybe the rebars on the column will eventually corrode given that buhanging dagat ang ginamit. The structural engineer who inspected our house recommended to their office that the entire house be demolished and a new house be constructed.
The big C developer engineer said that I have the right to demand because there is a 10 year warranty on structural components of the house(column, beam, slab). The big C developer transferred us to a temporary unsold house on the next block.
Here comes now my dilemma, The mere fact that the Big C developer transferred us to a temporary house is for me considered as their admission of liability considering the 10 year warranty of the slab, beam and column. Also considering the undeniability that the concrete used in slab, beam and column was not up to standard. But the office superior only wants to reconstruct only the slab of the house contrary to the recommendation of the structural engineer. They only want to repair the slab and beam even though there is an undeniable fact that the concrete on the column was also not up to standard.
Please, I need some advice here guys. No one in their sound mind would accept a house like this. I have no intent of gaining any money from this but I just want to demand the proper house I paid for, the house the developer promised to deliver.
Gusto ko lang naman ang peace of mind sa bahay na pinangarap namin at pinaghirapan bayaran. Gusto ko lang naman maibigay sa amin ang bahay na nararapat akma sa aming binayaran. Ayaw kong tanggapin ang repair lamang ng slab gayong nalalaman naming depektibo rin ang mga poste nito.
Sana matulungan nyo ako kung anong aksyon ang nararapat kong gawin.
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2024.05.17 19:24 Saca312 [FS][USA][CAN] VOUCHED SALE! DÜJ@ V£, M@1$0N K1TSÜN£, TH1$1$N3V£RTH@T, ŁV ȚŘÅ1N€Ř$, T$1 HIGH M0CHÂ, R3V3RS3, G0LF, PH@NT0M, ¥Z¥ BR3D, ÄJ1 ÜN10N BLK T0E, RUST, ÄJ4 M1ÐŃ1ĞĦŤ Ņ@V¥, M1L1T@RY BLÜE ,0R30, BR3D REIM@GINED + MORE

Hey all! Got some great stuff all around!
With the status of agents in limbo, get these for a great price and fast domestic shipping!
CURRENT VOUCH THREAD: https://www.reddit.com/RepVouch/comments/ntvbpw/usaca312_part_3/
TAGGED PHOTOS W/ TIMESTAMP
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CLOTHES
1.) DÜJ@ V£ BLACK JACKET SIZE M TTS - $55 SHIPPED
2.) TH1$1$N3V£RTH@T CREAM QUARTER ZIP SIZE M TTS - $40 SHIPPED
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SHOES

I have a certain process with shoe orders to best serve you, the consumer. The following is a breakdown of important things to note:
  • CONDITION: All shoes are in pristine deadstock condition, fit TTS and complete with their original boxes and laces unless otherwise specified.
  • PRICING: Pricing is determined by the acquisition cost (batch), convenience of domestic shipping, popularity and subjective assessment of quality.
  • DESCRIPTIONS: Anything of necessary note will be provided in imgur albums to highlight any notable features. If none exist, assume I see no issues of note and consider both condition and quality to be of solid note reflective of its pricing.
  • BATCH VARIABILITY: Please note that due to batch restocks and material supply constraints, I cannot guarantee a specific batch will have equivalent materials to oldenewer restocks. Therefore, I'm no longer listing the batch name. However, I'm here to provide my best interpretation + the batch supplier claims it is upon request. Typically, price is reflective of whether its a high quality batch or lower quality.
  • ORDERING PROCESS: The pictures provided are an accurate representation of the item you'll receive, specific to your pair. Please include the specific size and pair letter desired (i.e. Size 11, Pair B, Basketball 1 Black Toebox) and I'll ensure that will be the exact pair ordered.
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3.) ÅJ1 1 x B@SEL PINK
4.) ÅJ1 1 x T$ OG HIGH BROWN
5.) ÅJ4 M1DN1GĦT NÄV¥
6.) ÅJ1 x T$ R3V3RSE M0ĆH@ LOW
7.) ÅJ1 x T$ OG L0W M0CHǍ
8.) ÅJ4 1NDÜ$TR1AL / M1L1TÄR¥ BLÜE
9.) ÅJ4 0R£0
10.) ÅJ4 BR3Ð R3IM@G1NED
11.) ÅJ1 x UN!0N BL@ĆK TOE
12.) ¥Z¥ B00$T TREE-FIDDYv2 BR3D
13.) ÅJ1 x T$ "PH@NT0M" L0W
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SOLD.) TAN CARGO F0G £$$€NT1@LS PANTS SIZE S (FITS S-M) - $48 SHIPPED
SOLD.) N!K£ DŨŃĶ L0W GR3Y F0G
SOLD.) DEADSTOCK G0Y@RD CARDHOLDERS
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SOLD.) B0TT3GA V3N3TA 0RBIT METALLIC
SOLD.) ÅJ1 x BAS3L IGL00
SOLD.) ǍJ1 x B@S3L ŘÚ$Ț P1ÑĶ
SOLD.) ÅJ1 1 x T$ OG HIGH BROWN
SOLD.) ÅJ4 BL@CK C@T
SOLD.) ÅJ1 x T$ R3V3RSE M0ĆH@ LOW
SOLD.) ÅJ1 UŅ1V3RS1TY BLUE
SOLD.) ÅJ4 1NDÜ$TR1AL / M1L1TÄR¥ BLÜE
SOLD.) ÅJ4 P1N£ GR3£Ņ
SOLD.) ÅJ4 BR3Ð R3IM@G1NED
SOLD.) ÅJ4 BLUE T$ C@ĆTÜ$ J@ÇĶ
SOLD.) ÅJ1 x T$ "PH@NT0M" L0W
SOLD). ÅJ1 x T$ "0L1V£" L0W
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SOLD.) ÅJ4 M1L1TÄR¥ BL@CK
SOLD.) ¥Z¥ B00$T TREE-FIDDYv2 BR3D
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SOLD.) ÅJ1 M1D SM0KE GR3Y
SOLD.) ÅJ11 LOW "SN@KE N@VY"
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SOLD.) ĀJ4 R3D THÜND£R
SOLD.) ǍJ3 RÆC£R BLÜ£
SOLD.) ÅJ1 x T$ G0LF "N3UTR@L 0LIV3" L0W
SOLD.) ÅJ4 UŅ1V3RS1TY BLŨ£
SOLD.) ǍJ1 ÜŃ10Ņ $T0ŘM BLÜ£
SOLD.) RETAIL (USED) ÄJ4 BL@ÇĶ CÃT$ SIZE 11 (eB@y Authenticated) - $335 SHIPPED
SOLD. ĄJ4 M3T@LL1C PÚRPL3
SOLD.) M@1$0N K1TSÜN£ WHITE CREWNECK SIZE M TTS - $50 SHIPPED
That is all for what I have! Feel free to reach out if you have any questions!
If you ever encounter any issues, please don't hesitate to reach out to me via PM or chat. I'll do my best to resolve them for you. If anything falls short of your expectations, please send me a message, as I'm committed to ensuring your satisfaction with your purchase. However, please understand that certain factors like shipping delays are beyond my control, and I won't be able to provide refunds in those cases. Your satisfaction with your purchase is my top priority!
Thank you for your understanding, and thank you for taking the time to browse through my items. If you're interested, feel free to PM, chat, or comment!
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2024.05.17 19:24 Imaginary_Map7771 Demolition without court order

May lupa kami sa quezon city. Lupa siya ng lolo ko na pinamana sa tatay ko. Sa kasamaang palad ay pumanaw na ang tatay ko 12 years ago. Ngayon ay pilit saming kinukuha ng 7 niyang mga kapatid ang lupa na pinamana sa tatay ko. Take note na 3 nalang sa magkapapatid nila ang nabubuhay. Ngunit ang lahat naman ng mga kapatid ng tatay ay may sariling lupa na minana rin nila galing sa lolo.
Ang sabi ng mga tita ko ay pipilitin nilang ipagiba ang bahay namin para hatiin sa 8 magkakapatid at sa 4 pa na pamangkin nila which is pinsan ko na tumutulong sa kanila para mabawi ang lupa.
Second family lang kami and yung first family ay hindi na nakielam sa lupa. Kinukuha ng mga tita ko yung lupa dahil galit sila kay mama sa kadahilanan na may bago na siyang pamilya.
Binigyan na kami ng 3 months verbally para umalis. Ngunit ang sabi ng mga attorney na nakausap ni mama ay kailangan dumaan sa korte ang desisyon at magkaroon ng written letter bago matuloy ang demolition.
Gusto nila na gibain ang bahay ng walang proseso, sa madaling salita at pwersahan. Tinatakot nila yung mga boarders namin na umalis. Ang gusto pa nila ay kami ang mag demanda sa kanila kapag giniba na nila ang bahay namin.
Tanong ko lang po kung may laban ba kami kapag giniba nila ito ng walang proper letter galing sa korte?
Pwede po ba kaming mag matigas kung sakaling sapilitan nila itong gibain at walang maipakitang papel na nagsasaad ng proper demolition?
Thank you in advance!
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2024.05.17 17:16 trinkiethinks i confessed to my 8-month crush

bare with me pls, this is my first time being head over heels for a guy.😭
i have this guy in our class who's exactly my type, nasa magkaibang sets kami last school year kaya hindi ko siya na-befriend agad. since pinagsama na both sets this sy, i decided to make the first move and get close with him.
we clicked sa unang convo palang since we share the same interests and andami na agad naming naging topic. by that time alam kong may idea na siya na crush ko siya since chinat siya ng mutual friend namin about dunㅜㅜ
fast forward, we became seatmates on the first sem and mas lalo pa kaming naging close in-person dahil don. my friends and his friends would tease us since masyado na akong halata, pero during those pang-aasar, tahimik lang siya at parang walang maririnig kaya i figured na baka hindi lang siya interested sakin.
months later, madalas na kami nag-uusap, nag-aasaran, and may inside jokes na rin. akala ko hindi ko siya makakaclose nang ganon since introverted siya kaya anlaking achievement for me na umabot kami sa ganong stage HAHAHAHAHAHA. habang tumatagal din, mas lumalim pa yung feelings ko for him.
just when i was fighting my inner demons na wag magconfess, tsaka naman mas lumevel up yung interactions namin and "friendly" gestures niya.
there were times na nagkusa siyang bitbitin yung bag ko pag maglilipat ng chairs/room without me knowing. when i asked our mutual friend abt it, she said na hindi niya raw yun ginagawa sa ibang close girl friends nila from their circle, kaya kahit siya nasurprise rin.
when he went to baguio w his fam during the holidays, we were talking about a project when he randomly told me na he bought a strawberry keychain for me, and wala raw akong choice kundi tanggapin. fyi, never ako nagmention abt pasalubongs whatsoever:'> (binilhan naman ata niya ibang friends niya, kaya sige baka assumera lang ako sa part na toh hshshshs)
then, may assignment kami one time for a certain subject na need namin gumawa ng parang family tree, pero pwede mo iinclude yung mga closest friends mo and significant others ganon. i didn't put him sa tree ko since wala nang space and naisip ko na baka hindi rin naman niya ko ilagay sa gawa niya. to my surprise, another mutual friend exposed him and told me if alam ko raw ba na nakalagay ako sa tree niya. nalaman niya since sa kanya mismo nagpaprint yung crush ko. sa tree niya there was his parents, sister, two of his closest circles, and then me. nag-iisang friend niya na may solo pic, nuxx.
at yung mas nagpush pa sakin magconfess is when a friend of mine interrogated him abt his feelings towards me. she told him na maging honest and straightforward, and so he admitted na naaattract siya sakin.
with all of those "signs" na hiningi ko kay lord, i decided to just take the risk na and confess. in those 8 months puro ako overthink if may meaning ba yung mga actions niya or wala. he consumed the entirety of my mind kaya i thought it would be better if magconfess nalang and matapos na yung pagooverthink ko. i bought him a crocheted cat plush and wrote him a confession letter. he received it the day before valentine's since pinaabot ko lang. in the letter, i wrote all of the feelings i've bottled up in those 8 months that i like him. then sa dulo i asked him to be honest with me and to make it clear how he feels abt me.
i received a message from him the next day, and pagkabasa ko palang sa notif alam ko na agad na rejection yun HAHAHAHAHA una nagpasalamat muna siya ron sa gift then he proceeded to tell me that he's sorry na friends lang ang maiooffer niya AS OF NOW. he's focus is on his studies and not on romantic matters. he also admitted na aware siya abt sa feelings ko noong una palang and hindi raw siya nailang abt dun, kaya sana after ng rejection ay di rin ako mailang sa kanya. inexplain niya rin na kaya raw ganon yung actions niya towards me ay dahil want niya raw ako makaclose since last school year pa.
i was hurt syempre. kahit expected ko na i'll get rejected, a part of me held onto those false hopes. kaya i confronted him (after he sent the rejection) abt dun sa actions niya and his defense is he does that to his other friends. hindi ko na pinilit pa since paiyak na ko lolz.
so ayun. 3 months have passed since the rejection and halata mo yung awkwardness. he even changed seats since dati niya pa raw gusto lumipat and hindi lang niya nagawa agad nung first sem. we seldomly talk na sa chat, and we even went a month without chatting.
dapat by now nakakamove on na ko and nasa acceptance stage na, pero di parin nagsisink in sakin na di niya ko gusto. i have this close friend na kakwentuhan ko lagi abt sa crush ko since kinukwentuhan niya rin ako abt sa crush niya. ngayon, 5 months na siyang in a relationship with her crush tas eto ako HAHAHAHAHA. when she asked her girlfriend abt sa situation ko, akala niya rin may gusto yung crush ko sakin base sa mga kinuwento ko sa kanilang ganap namin. a few friends told me na mixed signals daw, but to me, he's too kind para gawin yun sakin.
i was left dumbfounded and i somehow blame myself for thinking too much into his actions. delulu kasi ako na self-aware lolz. ilan sa mga advice na nakuha ko from our mutual friends is dapat daw magalit ako sakanya para mawala agad yung feelings ko. pero idk, di ko kaya.
up until now i would reminisce sa mga interactions namin and nanghihinayang ako sa friendship. so many what ifs, but i kept on telling myself nalang na this happened for a reason, it was meant to happen, ganon ganyan. ang hirap niya kalimutan kasi hanggang ngayon nakikita ko parin siya sa school and nasa same room pa. hayyy.
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2024.05.17 17:12 Limp_Albatross1109 Im suffering because of a culture

I am a breadwinner. Typical na nababasa mo sa mga entries mula sa mga listeners mo. Baka nga napapagod ka na mag basa ng mga ganitong tipo ng letter-- but I'm sharing it anyway, kasi tulad nga ng sinabi ko, you're my safe space. Sa 6 na magkakapatid, pang apat ako. Now you might be wondering, bakit ako ang breadwinner. Simply because they have their own family already. Yun ang sabi sakin ng magulang ko. Ayaw na nilang guluhin pa yung mga may pamilya na kasi may mga binubuhay na silang iba, and at first I understand that. Gustung gusto ko naman talaga sila tulungan dahil naranasan ko yung hirap ng buhay dati at naranasan ko pano sila nahirapan. But now na tumatanda ako, I find it really unfair. I find it unfair kasi bakit ako di nila inisip na gumagawa din ako ng sariling buhay, kahit na wala pa kong pamilya. (I'm 26 years old) Ang unfair sakin na masyado nila akong kinukulong sa bisig nila para di ako makawala. Ayaw nila sa boyfriend ko for no apparent reason.. 5 years na kami pero yung treatment nila sa bf ko, wala pa ring improvement. Pag pumupunta o bumibisita yung bf ko samin, di nila pagbubuksan ng gate unless ako ang magbubukas. Di nila papansinin kahit nasa iisang lugar lang kame. They even call him names o kaya pag lalabas kami ng bf ko para mag date, di nila ako tatantanan kakatawag at gagawa sila ng issue na kesyo bat di daw nagpaalam, para lang mapagalitan ako o makagawa ng ikakagalit nila sa bf ko. I find it unfair kasi yung ate kong nabubugbog ng asawa nya, welcome na welcome nila yung abuser. Pero itong bf ko na walang ginawa kundi magbigay sa kanila ng regalo, o batiin sa mga espesyal na okasyon eh ang sama ng trato nila. One time I jokingly told them na magmu-move out na ko kasi gusto ko mamuhay mag isa pero ang sabi nila "wag ka na mag asawa, kawawa kame pag wala ka. Wala kaming makakain" It was just a sentiment from them pero di ko alam bat bigla akong nag break down noon kasi siguro naging wake up call sakin na ganun na lang magiging buhay ko for the rest of my life--- ang tumulong nang tumulong. Don't get me wrong.. I love providing for them, I love giving them what I think they deserve, pero yung tipong ayaw na nila akong palayain, parang ang hirap? Minsan iniisip ko na walking atm na lang yung tingin nila sakin. They will always ask me things, and I give it to them kasi nga, gusto ko silang napapasaya. Minsan naiisip ko baka kasalanan ko din na pinamihasa ko sila non, pero dapat bang gawin ng isang magulang yon? May mga times pa na ultimo pang abuloy nila sa mga malalayong kamag anak, hihingin nila dahil sa ako daw may kayang magbigay. Lagi din nilang dinadahilan sakin "Kasi anak mabait ka." Pag wala akong nabigay sa kanila at makikita nilang may mga parcel akong dumadating, sinasabi nila bat daw doon meron akong pambili. Gusto kong mag open up sa mga kapatid ko, pero miski kasi sila ayaw akong tulungan. Hindi sa wala silang kapasidad pero ayaw lang talaga nilang tumulong. Isa sa mga kapatid ko ay country manager ng isang sikat na company. Hindi kami okay non, at tinakwil nya ako bilang kapatid--another story to pero ang issue lang dito ay pag nag aaway kami non, wala akong nakakampihan dahil never akong kinampihan ng magulang ko. Actually TPC kahit hindi na kampihan e, kahit pag sabihan lang nila yung kuya ko na yon na wag akong sabihan ng masasakit na salita tulad ng "mayabang ka" "tatampalin kita ng pera" "paluluhurin kita puta*ngina mo" just because I stand on my belief (belief na walang karapatan ang sinumang partner na magbuhat ng kamay kahit pa gano sya kainsecure sa buhay. At bilang padre de pamilya, kailangan nya magcontrol ng emotion nya para di rin makita ng mga anak kasi nakikita ko yung mga anak nila na nagiging abusive na rin kahit maliit palang sila.) I told them that I was diagnosed of Major Depressive Disorder, pero ang kuya ko na yon ang sinasabi lang "nagpapaawa ka lang". At walang imik ang mga magulang ko don. Sa gitna ng away namin ng kuya ko na yon, wala ni isa sa pamilya ko ang kinampihan ako, inaassume ko na nga na baka kasi mas mayaman o mas maraming pera yung kuya ko na yon, kaya naoverpower na sila. Tinalikuran nila ako in a way na may family gathering pero di ako nakakalabas kasi andun yung kuya ko (na at first tinatry kong lapitan pero nilalayuan ako na parang nandidiri sakin-- na ginawa nya sa harap ng maraming tao), tinalikuran nila ako in a way na one time naghanda ako sa kapatid kong fresh graduate pero ni isa walang tumawag sakin para kumain kasi andun yung kuya ko, lahat sila sa sala nag tatawanan na parang buo yung pamilya, habang ako nagugutom at umiiyak sa kwarto habang nag tatrabaho. Grabe TPC, pagkagising ko kinaumagahan non, ang nareceive kong mga messages sa magulang ko, "nak wala nang pamalengke" "nak, wala na kong gamot". Don ko narealize na baka yon lang talaga role ko sa pamilya ko. Kasi TPC kung tutuusin, di ko naman na dapat nirereklamo to or di mabigat sa pakiramdam to kung gustong gusto ko tumulong sa kanila, pero over the years, feeling ko kasi ginagamit lang nila ko. Tipong gising ako 18hours para magtrabaho, yayakap lang ako sa kanila para humingi ng pahinga, pero ang sasabihin nila "oh maggo-grocery na ba tayo?"... Di ko na alam.. bukod sa problemang to, may sarili din akong problema na kinakaharap. Na pano kung nawalan na ko ng trabaho, o career? Kasi di na ko masaya sa ginagawa ko pero dahil nakakakuha ako ng income dito at kelangan ko mag provide, kelangan ko mag patuloy. Ang dali kasi sabihin TPC na umalis na ko, pero di ko talaga magawa. Di ko sila kayang iwan, iniimagine ko palang yon parang di ko kayang makita o malaman na magiging ganon buhay nila... Ano ba dapat kong gawin?
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2024.05.17 16:09 AdTop8713 Love letter

Hi! Hopeless romantic and materialistic person here! I need someone who could write a love letter for me. Malapit na birthday ko and I would really love to receive a handwritten love letter 🥹
About me: -Indecisive -Slightly nonchalant -Ambitious -Always busy -Motivated -I love to volunteer (teaching kids) -Loves to cook (I feed my friends ng mga xperimental luto ko) -You can’t talk to me when I’m working -I love to swim and has an active lifestyle (jog/walk 5x a week) -listens to music all the time (it would be nice if you could recommend a song)
You can write it sa bondpaper hahaha. I’ll shoulder the sf. Around Pasig/Ortigas area lang sana para malapit lang.
150-200 pesos. Negotiable.
Thank you so much!
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2024.05.17 16:06 inviii_ peak ng hell month pero parant lanhg muna

Literal na hell month kasi isang buwan na kaming binibigyan nang maraming workloads for final term. Kasabay pa ng isang subject na kakastart lang ngayong final term mismo. Jusko! Hindi ba talaga matantsa ng mga prof na to yung mga workloads. Kahit minsan ba di sumagi sa isip nila na "ah hindi lang ako subject nila so katamtamang ganto lang, or sa ganto na lang muna ang due kasi may due sila sa ganto" lalo na magkakakilala at magkakasama naman sila sa iisang office. At aware naman sila sa binibigay ng mga kapwa nla prof kasi nakukwento rin naman nila mismo sa amin. "Manage your time" Lintek na time management yan. Yung pagmamanage ng time namin, di sapat para mareview yung limang topics na may ibat ibang concepts kasi ang ibibigay na exam yung problem na naman na kailangan ng isang araw para mamaster.
Bat ganto ako mastress ngayon? Monday -due ng plate -exam -duscussion ng ibsang subj)
Tuesday -exam (5 topics, solving) -quiz (subject na kauumpisa lang 2 weeks ago kahit final term na)
Wednesday -(quiz, 20+ pages to read kasi identification)
Thursday -exam, minor -exam (subject na kakastart lang) -due ng notebook (don pa rin sa subject na kakastart lang; well-handwritten)
Friday -due ng final req -due ng notebook (handwritten, containing the 5 topics na coverage ng exam ng tuesday)
"Madali lang naman notebook". Oh shut up. They require us to write ng eng'g lettering. May format ang border every page, bawal printed. Minus pts pag may bura, even using correction tape, minus points pag kulang example. Minus point pag di nakaruler amg drawings.
Parang mas pipiliin mo na kang ma-inc kasi kukuha lang ng completion form, magbabayad, tapos cocomply. Shuta. Saksakin niyo na lamg kami.
Pero ayon. Gusto ko kang ilabas tong stress na to. Gagrind pa rin ako kasi wala namang fvcking choice.
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