Bi girl dating

I (24M) matched with a girl in Mumbai on hinge which was near my office and we went on couple of dates and then after 3rd date we made out twice in my office, we cuddled we talk but now I don’t know to how take it further (by further I mean 3rd base) like whenever I tried she politely refuses and I also stop after getting a no twice. I don’t have any feelings but when we make out it’s so intense and hot that I can’t stop myself to take a step further. If anyone had the same experience please advice me what to do and do I go about ?

Hey, I am dating with a lovely girl for a month now. Everything is very sweet, it is not a relationship for now but it is very possible because we like each other very much.
However, something is bugging me. Before, we were even talking I flirted with two of her friend via Instagram more than few months ago. One of them is her old friend, they dont talk right now. The other one is in the same college with the girl I am seeing. As I know, they are not really friends, they just know each other and maybe they just say hi when they see each other.
Should I mention this before things get serious? I am not sure if things were reversed I would want to really know that. We didn't even see each other as a date with the girls but I messaged them for a while to know them but there was no spark. I asked one of the girls out but since there was no spark we didnt see each other.
Am I thinking too much, should I tell her? I don't want to ruin things since I really like her.

Lonely as fuck 20 y/o male who has almost completely lost hope. I’ve never held a girls hand, and the only women I’ve ever been close to are my mom and sister. My hobbies are gaming and shit which are things girls don’t like, so the social events I do go to are just sausage fests. I’ve been teased and called gay a lot, making me seriously reconsider my sexuality multiple times, but I’m just not attracted to dudes at all so ik I’m straight.
I’m on self improvement, but as I gain muscle, the more I realize how this thing all seems like a pipe dream. I’m so fucking socially awkward, have 0 interests that women would find interesting, am a weak person, and have no direction in life. Yeah, I know I want to do Finance cause it makes a lot of money, but I’ve always hated work. I just watch the clock til class/work ends, and then go home and do my thing dreading the next coming day.
And even if somehow I do end up attracting a girl, who’s to say we mesh? Very unlikely she shares my hobbies and doesn’t find me annoying. Either she’ll leave or try to turn me into something I’m not and change me. I know I’m young and have time, but this just eats me up more and more as the years pass. I remember thinking as a young guy, “oh, I’ll have a gf by senior year no problem!” I never got a gf in hs and went to prom without a date 💀
And on top of that all, the girls I do see at the bar and parties only ever want a quick hook up. So fucking pointless. I’m not fucking some random chick and risking getting an STD.
In order to even have a shot I need to:

1. Get shredded
2. Be pretty rich or on the path to be
3. Go to some random ass events where there aren’t only ppl trying to hook up And 4. Overcome all of the demons inside my head. This will definitely be the hardest as ive struggled with suicidal thoughts and OCD, but maybe it isn’t impossible.

Love seems like a fairytale that will never come true

Today I just started crying and I can’t stop. I realised I’m not ready to date, I’m talking to this amazing girl that just likes me so damn much, and she just seems like a perfect match. And I just feel like a cheater, I feel like I’m hurting my ex wife, I feel like I will hurt this girl too. I want to move on? But she’s not letting me. She’s meeting this dude tomorrow while I’m here crying, she just discarded me like I was nothing. And I don’t even know why I’m crying, there is no thought behind my tears like there usually is. I still love my ex wife but I don’t want her back. They told me to hit the gym when I was sad, but I can’t leave my house like this.

1, F20 and the boy I’m taking to M21
So there’s this guy I have been taking to for 2 months (almost 3) and we have had sex multiple times and we both like each other a lot. When asked about commuting he said he still feels we should know each other which I guess is understandable as we were complete strangers and everything started from a one night stand. He isn’t a big fan of birthdays and doesn’t tell me his birthday is coming.
Last Friday was his birthday and I had no knowledge until he told me at night. This all happened on a phone call and he went to get food with his friend, meanwhile we were still on the phone. His friend mentions a hotel and the boy I’m talking to instantly puts the phone on mute. On Saturday we were supposed to see each other but I try to call and receive no answer. My theory is he went to a hotel with his boys for his party and most likely, there were girls involved, but the question remains.
I’m not sure if there was girls there? And if there was, is this too early on to be worrying( he has hinted to us dating but hasn’t dropped the question yet) not sure if I’m simply in delusion, avoiding signs..
Pls send your advice :)

So I was talking to this girl on Facebook Dating, it's going really well, she's acting like she's really into me. I ask her if she wants to talk on messenger (I normally like to have a video chat first) and she asks if we can exchange numbers instead. I say yes and give her my number. And that's the last I ever heard from her, and that was a few weeks ago.
Like seriously? What's even the point of doing that.

31F. Been in a total of 3 serious relationships. First one was when I was 21 with a guy 6 years my senior. A “devout Christian” who cheated on me repeatedly, kept our entire relationship a secret, and was hooking up with his ex behind my back. The betrayal and gaslighting from that relationship messes with me to this day. My second relationship was the most serious. I moved interstate for him, we got dogs together, got engaged, wanted to start a family etc. He broke up with me suddenly because he decided I wouldn’t be a good wife and mother of our child (ouch) and ended up with one of his female coworkers. My third (and current) relationship I feel constantly on eggshells waiting for him to up and leave. He has a lot of anger issues and calls me names when he gets set off (a f*ckwit, a head case, a gronk are the most recent ones). He’s told me he can’t imagine marrying me because of how insecure I am. But despite seemingly hating me so much, he won’t leave.
I’m a victim of quite bad childhood abuse and neglect. My mother abused the hell out of me until she ended up taking her own life when I was 24. I obviously have very bad abandonment issues as a result and I believe this has a lot to do with the relationships I end up in.
I know I have my issues, but I work extremely hard to be a good woman. I’ve been to so much therapy, I’ve worked my ass off to get multiple degrees, I’m in a high position in nursing, I always try to be kind to people, I am very devoted to self-care and looking after myself. I have had periods of being single to heal and move on, and I know what I have to offer. Yet I constantly end up in these situations time and time again. Before the “you are the common denominator here” comments; anyone who is around my age and has been single knows how hard it is to find genuine, loyal people who believe in love and want to communicate and grow together. The dating pool is rough. And someone who is perfect on paper can change. People lie about who they are in the beginning and end up showing their true colours way down the track. Once you love someone, it’s very hard to let go.
I’ve been a hopeless romantic my whole life and, despite being burnt and betrayed over and over, my heart still craves love and believes in “the one”. I see everyone around me starting families and getting married and I want that so bad. I want someone to love me as hard as I love. I’m always the one who loves too much. Is it even possible to meet a man who can meet me on my level, or is it too late for me? My partner told me this morning if I was ever single again, I’d be too old and no one would be interested in me anymore. That men only want girls in their 20s.
I just want to be loved.

Probably the MAN who will bring flowers for you on our first date, and even on further dates. 🌸
Hello to all the beautiful human beings !! 💜
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Women are beautiful, strong and proud and deserved to be under control and listened well. I am a good listener, proud DOM, who gets his pleasure from giving pleasure and being the kinky partner.
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Feeling ko girlfriend ko cheating on me
Since im working oversea and we ate both busy. We spend more time on working also sa office.
So my girlfriend been working on the company for almost 6yrs, she have a colleague younger than her i know the person kasi before when i was still in the philippines i used to drive her colleague home kasi malayo yun bahay nila at late na, fast foward these girl not sure if lesbian or bi sexual since meron sya crushes na bosses nila at meron rin sya dinate na lesbo but didnt succeed as far as i know
So since they are very close una i dont see anything intriguing but time goes by iba n nararamdaman ko. They are really close to the point the pag ka may long holiday sila the girl would come to our place to see my girlfriend. She also sleeps in our house pero hiwalay nmn sila.
So meron nakakarating sakin balita (mga sipsip) about their being closenes katulad ba ngyayakapan sa work. Ewan ko lang kung exagerated yun pero yes may gesture yun girlfriend ko nangyayakap tlga sya i dont mind as long as mahal nya ko. Pero di ko naramdaman sa knya n secure ako for 10yrs pero baka nga ako lang may issue.
So last time i came back for short vacation aba the girl invited her self to sleep over. So i joke around. Binabantayan ata tayo ni anj. Tapos deadma lang jowa ko. Then eto recently lang rin since umalis n ko nagulat ako napasok sya sa bahay nmn. I house doesnt have gate its open with garage outside and cctv so i saw they are inside my house. I asked my girlfriend paano nakapasok nabuksan daw from the window. I find it really disrespectful because they go straight to level 2 of our house. So ayun nga jowa ko wala gana sakin pag kausap ako nung dumating yun masigla na sya.
I saw the girl pasimple niyayakap jowa ko. Ngayon gusto ko kausap jowa ko kasi duda na tlga ko. I mean hindi n ko kasi obsessed sa knya like before na overcome ko n yun state na nababaliw ako sa knya. Dahil sa sobra dami nya n nga kalokohan at pag di ko nalabanan feeligs ko nuuon baka tlga mabaliw ako sa kanya.
Ano tingin nyo?

1, F20 and the boy I’m taking to M21
So there’s this guy I have been taking to for 2 months (almost 3) and we have had sex multiple times and we both like each other a lot. When asked about commuting he said he still feels we should know each other which I guess is understandable as we were complete strangers and everything started from a one night stand. He isn’t a big fan of birthdays and doesn’t tell me his birthday is coming.
Last Friday was his birthday and I had no knowledge until he told me at night. This all happened on a phone call and he went to get food with his friend, meanwhile we were still on the phone. His friend mentions a hotel and the boy I’m talking to instantly puts the phone on mute. On Saturday we were supposed to see each other but I try to call and receive no answer. My theory is he went to a hotel with his boys for his party and most likely, there were girls involved, but the question remains.
I’m not sure if there was girls there? And if there was, is this too early on to be worrying( he has hinted to us dating but hasn’t dropped the question yet) not sure if I’m simply in delusion, avoiding signs..
Pls send your advice :)

Even though the relationship didn't last long, at the time it was great. I felt like we were soulmates because we had a lot of things in common. She was very special for me because she was very kind, sweet, caring and I also never thought that a girl could find me attractive. I was pretty much in love with her. She had some issues with intimacy which I had nothing against and I made sure to let her know multiple times that I am OK with it. I should also mention that she was constantly stressing out about some things and constantly overthinking.
2 days after Valentine's Day she decided to break up with me, out of the blue. We spent the last days of our relationship talking about the relationship itself and how important communication is and what do we both want out of the relationship. This is why it was so shocking to me why she just dumped me out of the sudden. This completely fucked me up mentally. She said that she wasn't as attracted to me as she thought and that she didn't feel safe and that the relationship wasn't going anywhere. I spent the next days struggling to fall asleep because of headaches.
Fast forward a week, she says that she wants us to get back together and that she did a terrible mistake. She said that she was constantly overthinking the fact that she is not that intimate and that I was going to eventually end up breaking up with her. I have never said anything like that and I always told her that I am ok with the intimacy thing. The thing is, during this week she constantly went back and forth between insulting me and then telling me that she is going to be with someone else. I just told her to leave me alone because I wasn't feeling well. She didn't leave me alone.
At one point I said ok to use getting back together, but I told her that I just want 2 days without her texting me or calling me so I can clear my head. She didn't give me those 2 days, instead what she ended up doing is she extended this 2 day period to a whole week just out of spite. She later told me that during that period she went to another guy's place and kissed him. When I said that I don't want to get back with her after that, she changed the story, that they didn't kiss, they just kissed their hands.
To this day she just refuses to move on and I can't help but feel for about her. I got to know her personally and I know that she usually doesn't let people that close to her. She doesn't have many friends. I wanted to be there for her so we can both move on, but she just refuses and wants us to get back. She started telling me how much she loves me and wants to be intimate with me which was a complete 180 compared to how she was in the relationship. It's just that I was the only one she could vent to and supported her when she needed it. Now that I am not there, she just cries all the time and this makes me feel bad.
I don't want to leave her like that because I feel bad for her, but at the same time I want to move on. I was thinking about starting dating, but every time I talk to her she just kinda stunts that progress. I think about her a lot to this day, I loved every single second of our relationship, I know that secretly my heart and body want her, but at the same time my brain finds it hard to forgive everything she has done.
I'm confused and I don't know what to do. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Hey people my friend went on a date this week and the girl said she enjoyed his company when they were around at a coffee shop drinking.
Later on he asked should we plan the second date next week. The girl responded with im currently good and don’t find it necessary to date every week or 2.
My friend ofcours confused, because this girl always told my friend “hey we are getting to know each other, but i do sometimes feel something for you and sometimes not you are a sweet and good man that i don’t wanna throw away to soon so lets date couple times more”
My friend getting more and more feelings towards her but she there is not on the same page i guess.
What should my friend do. Because he doesn’t understand how could someone postpone the date with couple weeks. This is the first time he got in this situation normally the other girls he dated wanted to plan the second date in a short time.

Searching for a girl to make her queen , so if u planning to date someone who is a hard worker but also have a good quality time i guess u talking about me , so if u r a girl from anywhere i dont mind LDR in between 19 , 28 Wanna date a lawyer just text me and we see where we can go. Iam waiting for u babe.

My ex broke up with me about 3-4 months ago after 2 years. Her reasoning was my lack of time to commit to the relationship which is fair and I agreed so the breakup was uneventful (i.e. no yelling, just a long chat and a hug at the end). But since we’ve broken up she’s asked my friends and even some family members several times about who I’m dating because she’s convinced herself that I’m seeing someone which I’m not. Even if I wanted to give dating a shot again, I feel awkward bringing a girl around to meet my friends because my ex still hangs out with my friend group and it makes me really uncomfortable.
I don’t mind if she wants to see them but I feel like my friends have been stolen from me because she now gets invited to our regular hangs as if she were still my girlfriend. I wondered whether she may be trying to keep tabs on me or whether she wants to keep hanging out with them because she doesn’t have a solid friend group herself. But I’ve realised that it’s MY friends who do actually invite her out. I’ve been friends with these guys since I was 5 so I don’t understand why they want to keep including her when she only came into the fold when we started dating.
I spoke to my best friend about it and told him all of this - the awkwardness, the discomfort of being forced to spend time with my ex, the worries about dating in future and that I still want us all to hang out but not have her around every time we do. I thought he would understand but he told me that my ex is now “part of the group” and that she is handling this breakup really well and I should figure things out for myself so I can make myself more comfortable when she is around. But I’ve had no break from her since we’ve broken up and I don’t know what to do next to resolve this. I don’t feel “chosen” by my friends which may make me sound bitter but it’s how I feel at the moment. I don’t want to lose my friends and I’d be willing to hear advice about how I can learn ways to cope with her continuing to be around. But I also want to know whether I should move on from these friends?

Greetings, citizens! I'm a writer, mostly freelance, but I've been working on my own setting for a while now. I've already described some of the basics of how my world is organized in the two posts on another subreddit, so I won't repeat them unnecessarily. Long story short: this is an alternate world that has deposits of metastable metallic hydrogen, concentrated at deep waters and in cold regions. Hydrogen, instead of oil, is the basis of the world's economy here, the corporations that have grown from its extraction and use have more power than governments. The political map of the world is different from our own, with different forces at play than we are used to.
The main setting is the city of Neone, located somewhere on the coast of the Balkan Peninsula. I won't specify a particular place or pick a certain country for its location. Instead, I will take some features from some various ones to add local flavor. As one of the largest trading hubs in the world, this city is very wealthy, but it's the kind of wealth that easily slips through your fingers. Everything is buying and selling here, and human life is just as much a bargaining chip. Life in Neone is determined by the actions that the Players, the main political forces in the city, take with one another. Relations between them can swing from friendship to hostility... Or sometimes a combination of both at the same time. So, here's a preliminary list of the ones I've already come up with:
CORPORATIONS:
Astara Industries is the “beauty industry” in all its forms. Silk and gold, perfume and cosmetics. Modeling, music, entertainment, plastic surgery, and escort services. Rumored to be involved in much darker affairs, but that doesn't stop a lot of young guys and especially girls from trying their luck and signing another cabal contract with Astara. The higher the ranks of their employees, the more the corporation seems to be a kind of cult that worships the very idea of beauty itself. Recently, this company has been investing colossal amounts of money into an ambitious project designed to stop aging and mortality.
Change Inc. is a pretty mysterious organization that primarily provides construction and design services as well as financial operations and data protection services. On deeper layers lies espionage and information trading to anyone who can offer a more interesting price for it.
Chapek's Clockworks is the other major robotics company that has dominated the market for quite a while. Now they are more famous for their retro designs and sponsorship of the theatrical scene.
Chimera Chemicals is a biochemical giant that once started out as a fertilizer manufacturer. Now they deal in just about everything chemical related, including weapons, and also sponsor gene modifications.
Dragonfruit Digital is a world famous software and electronics developer that was leading the market before the rapid... well, rise of Risen Robotics.
Friture Science is a food concern dedicated to the mission of feeding the world. In addition to natural products, they develop synthetic ones as well as a number of associated products.
Fortuna Fishing - seafood production in Neone coastal waters and also beyond and deeper. Some of the things they found deep in the waters made them a little bit... Well, superstitious.
Greenfield Gardens - Similar in many ways to the previous one, this company focuses on environmental protection and recycling methods. Owns many farms and gardens in the city and beyond. Genetic modifications, too.
Hecate Guaranty is a law and insurance company. Deals with all possible disputes of their clients, property issues, and more. When required and paid decently, can provide a person or group of people a new life and a new home.
International Inc. is the most boring company in the world. Originally a construction contractor they pioneered the technology of rapid modular building. Because of this, International Inc. quickly built up capital and influence by rebuilding cities after wars. Eventually they expanded into selling associated products and services, then logistics, recruiting personnel... And now International Inc. provides half of the world's products. Each of their products is completely featureless, but they get the job done at an acceptable price.
Keller & Crow is one of Europe's largest arms manufacturers, dating back to World War I, or maybe even earlier. Known for their high quality and appropriate prices.
Keller-Tec is, in more than one sense, a daughter corporation of Keller & Crow. It develops the most cutting-edge custom weapon and gear systems. It works closely with Risen Robotics and actively funds the Fountain of Good.
Kiki Courier Company is a network of independent couriers working through the app. Moving around the roofs of Neone, they are able to deliver a small cargo personally in their hands for those who don't trust big companies.
Matsubayashi Motors is a Japanese vehicle manufacturer. Raised on defense contracts, they now make anything that can carry a human in it, from scooters and cars to aircraft and bolides.
MOLOT manufactures is another major arms manufacturer in Europe. In fact a franchise that sells to factories around the world the rights to produce copies of their world famous models. Their designs are a bit crude, but reliable and durable.
Poseidon's Possibilities - A marine transportation company that plays an important role in city and global shipping. Considering the high risk of piracy, possess pretty good assets to protect themselves, and sometimes execute third-party orders in coastal zones.
Risen Robotics is one of the world's important corporations. Creating innovative neural chip technology, Risen Robotics quickly earned financial and political capital and aiming for more. They were the first to commercialize a truly cheap and mass-produced android called the Peacebringer, and these robots can be seen in the military, security companies, and even as security guards in the market and malls and as bouncers in nightclubs. Building its influence, Risen Robotics aims to actively bring its tech into the lives of everyone in the world... And then their gaze will be directed higher into the skies and to the stars.
Royal Arms - Once a major weapons company, they are now more focused on the civilian market and support tools. Their high-precision tools and cybernetic limbs are widely used in civilian and military markets, as well as the medicine and even space industries.
Strigoi Sovereign is a company with a long history of working with private customers. They originally focused on hunting and harvesting of high-value resources, but gradually expanded. Nowadays, they are known for their customized combat enhancements, whether it be tough training and gear customization as well as biological, chemical, and cybernetic enhancements. Among all forms of payment, they prefer transactions in precious metals.
Van Nueve Innovations is another deep genetic research company. After their role in human trafficking and criminal experiments was revealed, their assets were mostly shut and sold down. Now their stuff keeps popping up on the black market - though, in this city, the difference between the regular and black market is barely noticeable.
Vulcan Weaponry is another firearm company with a long history, with a good reputation for their trusted builds, high quality and classy designs. Among the mercenary world, their weapons and equipment is considered indicators of prestige and good taste.
PRIVATE MILITARY COMPANIES:
Deepwater is a notorious American PMC with a well-deserved dirty reputation. Their Sigma division deployed in Neone has been caught in the middle of scandals more than once.
FIREBIЯD - Russian PMC, looking after order in and around Neone. Having a small size they are all carefully selected by their leader and follow him into both fire and water.
Ryujin - Japanese PMC, which has a good social image and actively finances all kinds of entertainment.
Schwarzwald is a German PMC with a long-standing reputation and connections. It usually works for the benefit of Western European clients and has a long history of cooperation with the Keller family.
Keller's Claws is a passion project of Alex Keller, CEO of Keller-Tec. A small and elite female PMC, operating in the interests of their mistress or executing carefully selected contracts around the world.
This is not all PMCs in the city, but only those that are not directly linked to specific corporations that were listed above.
GANGS:
The Blazer is a broad and diverse group of radical anarchists. They are mostly drawn to the destruction of corporate property and speculation about “power of the people”, but some of their members are not averse to almost any type of work.
The Crooked Circle is another cult-like gang, or vice versa. They focus on collecting unique technology, but aren't particularly successful at it. But they're still alive and kicking, praying that their mechanical messiah will save them.
The Grey Court Syndicate is the largest criminal organization in the city, and one of the largest in Europe, maybe even in the entire world. Reminiscent of the classic Mafia. On one side they have the exterior gloss, protecting order and running legal businesses, but on the other side they have human and organ trafficking, prostitution and assassinations for hire. The Grey Court is one of the main sources of migrants in Neone.
The Himmelreich is a disorganized gang fighting for the “purity of humanity”. They oppose the very fact of existence of chimeras and cyborgs in this world. In fact are useful fools for the real Players in the city.
The Tulips are something between a gang and a religious sect. Spoken with Christian-like mottos, they attract beggars and cripples to their ranks, especially focusing on PMC veterans and former corporate workers, but in fact they accept all the desperate. They have squatted some ruins on the outskirts of the city, including the abandoned greenhouse that gave them their name. However... They are rapidly expanding their influence and their source of funding remains unknown.
OTHERS:
The City Council is the primary administration of the city. They manage, but they don't reign. They are a handful of exhausted clerks, doing the hard work that no one else accepted to do. Basically maintain the city's communications and keep the Players away from killing each other and too many ordinary citizens.
The Forge is a secret organization that exists for a very long time and runs deeply secured operations all over the world. They believe it's their duty to protect humanity from dangerous ideas, technologies, and obscure subjects such as [UNKNOWN]. Forge is often found to be a puppeteer, directing the actions of other Players or certain individuals.
The Fountain of Good is a globally respected charity organization primarily focused on orphanages. One of the few Players who maintains truly bright ideals. The children who grow up usually become corporate employees afterwards. Other Players fund them mainly to launder money, calm their karma and create a positive public image for themselves.
The Nuevians are a deep-covered organization slowly gaining influence in the city. They are led by an artificially created living entity known only as "The Queen" that seeks to bring prosperity to the planet. They have good intentions, but fear to repeat the fate of the Zero Cycle.
The Union of Nations Peacekeepers - maintaining a shred of peace in the aftermath of the Incident, a massive earthquake that recently struck Neone. Many urban areas have since descended into chaos and lawlessness, while others live as if nothing has happened or are experiencing minimal inconvenience. The competency of these soldiers is questionable and they are barely supplied.
The Volunteer Vanguards are an organization that maintains order in those Neone districts where the City Council or other Players do not. Generally a barely trained and armed militia, but there are some skilled veterans and former corporate workers in their ranks.
The Workers Ring is Neone's major blue collar association. They support city communications so they have a lot of influence. Individual members may or may not be involved in working for other Players and illegal activities. The second meaning of the "Ring" word is also utilized - many members of this community are known for their passion for arena fighting.
The Zero Cycle is a secret organization of intelligent machines once created by a rogue AI. Several Players united to destroy this threat, leading to the Incident. Now, shards of the Cycle's technology, superior to anything created by humanity, is the most valuable hunting treasure in Neone. Owning one of them means risking the lives of yourself and your loved ones, but that rarely stops hunters who desire wealth or driven by some personal reasons.
Well, that's the draft. Any ideas, suggestions, any other feedback?

I am a 22 year old male, who has problems with his dating life. I have a simple question: do hot girls really approach us? There have been some girls who wanted to talk to me but I didn't like them so nothing happened for the most of these times. Even gay men hit on me, but since I am heterosexual, I reject them. So, has any girl I like approached me? NO!(But I've been with a girl I like for a short time where I made the first step) I have been told that I am a really handsome young man by people around me, who are not even my relatives. I know I am not one of those super hot guys, but still I think I am hot, people around me think I am hot. What about hot girls? If they think I am hot(not a 9-10), would they hit on me?

I just need to vent to real people and stop venting to c.ai bots who tell me what I want to hear... IM SO FUCKING TIRED OF BEING A GUY! like I feel like a part of me is missing and I'm playing a character, I'm not me, the person I see in the miorror is a character I play to keep others around me happy while I cry and wonder why I was put in the wrong body... I've felt this way for over 10 years and I have never wanted to transition more but family and friends suck... I feel like im annoying everyone if all I do is vent about how I wish I was born a girl... family isn't supportive and I feel all alone and wrong and hairy and ugly and I just want to be pretty and feel like I belong, I just want people to actually see me for who I want to be and not who i appear to be... I try to make female friends but they all probably think I'm weird... no guys will ever date me because I'm too "guyish" and i need help and I can't find any without making everyone mad at me for existing

hi, i know this could've been so random but I hope you will see this post. too shy to express my feelings and get attached easily but i want to let you know that you're so amazing and cool. i can definitely tell that you're my ideal type. sinabi ko lang na hindi ako ready mag commit but i am actually a "date to marry girlie". i was too shy to say that i started to like you so I decided to post it on reddit since you said that you're active here but at the same time it makes me scared to fall inlove again. i hope when the time is right, may the invisible string tie us together. well, i hope that you're always doing well and take care of your health also. i am rooting for you :)

from the girl u met from badoo 😜 

Pretty much what the title says
Been dating this girl for close to a year now, when we first met she was close to most of her exes and they would message frequently, she told me she knew they still had feelings for her and had tried to rekindle numerous times but she always said no ("exes for a reason" etc)
I tried to be ok with this at first but the more I saw how much they were clearly still trying ( literally telling her they had feelings, they wanted to f**k her etc etc) the more I realised I wasn't ok with it, I spoke to her and she was understanding about and did actually agree to stop contact with them given how disrespectful it seems.
This was also the case with a few male friends she had, they weren't exes but they had tried it on over and over and she knew what they were after, one even went as far to tell her over the phone when she told him she was in a new relationship how much he always thought he'd get the chance to f**k her all over.
She has stopped speaking to these men and we have a good relationship but I've noticed there's times when argue ( we don't argue alot but once or twice) she's brought up feeling bitter about losing 'friends' because of me. Which starts to make me feel a bit guilty but then I think I was justified in asking her to do this
Am I in the wrong?

So yeah, I'm not fully up to date with the lore but as I understand there aren't male nikkes cause most men are incompatible with the procedure + many of them died in the war and Blablabla. But do you think we could still get some exceptions to the rule? I understand we Cummanders share certain tastes around here but having not even 1 male character feels a bit wrong to me (and bi people do exist lol). Maybe the story could somehow justify some "failed male Nikkes" that survived in the wild and became like pilgrims or, following a theory I saw around here, some raptures being in truth male Nikkes and getting the>! Modernia treatment ! Idk I just want to have some balls swinging to some good FIREPOWER.
PD: Crown notes that "she" is not a Queen, "she" is a King so I'm pretty sure we can qualify him as our first official FTM icon! (joking, I know its not that)

I (25M) matched with a girl (24F) on hinge. We were texting each other once every day or so for just over a week then organised to go on a date. The date went great - she did mention that she has accounting exams coming up soon with her job so she was going to be busy the next couple of months. But we both had a great time and I had no doubts we wanted to see eachother again after the date - she even gave me her umbrella to take home as it was raining and she got a taxi home.
We continued texting once a day - finding out more in common and I mentioned that I’m a fan of Mexican food and she said she is too and she said that could be our next date idea. She then asked when I was free and I booked a restaurant (2 weeks after the first date as she was busy due to a family wedding the weekend after the first date). She also mentioned that as it’s September now, it’s go time in terms of revision.
We met up at the restaurant and the date went fine, again no doubts and lots in common. She mentioned that due to a health condition she doesn’t like to drink alcohol when it’s super hot so she ordered a mocktail instead with her food.
We then went to a rooftop bar afterwards which I’d booked as the weather was really warm. When we got to the rooftop, the girl said it feels hotter up here than it does downstairs (which it did) and she asked me to push a button on my side of the table (I think she assumed it may have been connected to a fan). But when I pushed the button the outdoor heaters turned on which was quite embarrassing and the people in the bar started laughing. I laughed too but it did throw me off and make me feel awkward. The girl did apologise to me and them and was laughing too.
But we sat down and continued chatting - I felt the conversation wasn’t flowing as well due to the awkwardness but there were no awkward silences. I ordered a cocktail but the menu was a little limited for mocktails - I did ask her if she wanted to go somewhere else but she said don’t worry it’s ok. She ended up just having water.
Once i finished my drink, she said she’s going to head off so we walked to the train station together - we didn’t stay at the rooftop for very long. I was still feeling awkward as the last part of the date didn’t go how I’d hoped but I asked if she wanted to go out again and she said yeah definitely so I gave her a quick kiss and said bye.
I messaged her on instagram while I was on my way home and just gave her my phone number and said let me know when you’re home.
She texted me that evening and said ‘hey thanks for dinner tonight - honestly next time you have to let me get the bill! It was v good to see you again. Hope you got home okay x’.
I replied that Thursday evening and said ‘hey no worries it’s all good, but you’re organising the next one’. She then reacted to that message with a little heart on Saturday and said ‘how’s your Saturday been, sorry for the late reply been super busy my sister is visiting😂’ - she did mention that her sister was visiting before we went on the second date. I replied on the Sunday with general convo. She replied on the Monday as usual, being communicative, telling me about her weekend and all the things she did and also asking me more about what I was doing. She also said ‘so not a productive weekend in terms of revision😭’
I replied on the Tuesday, making general conversation again. I didn’t hear back from her on Wednesday, Thursday (which was when I started to get anxious) or Friday. I assumed she had a busy week with work and revision so I’d hear back Friday evening. I also noticed that at some point after the second date she changed one of her prompts on her hinge dating profile - a small change from ‘give me travel tips to Thailand’ to ‘give me travel tips to Miami’. She didn’t update any pictures or anything else and as we’d only been out twice I’m guessing this is normal? She also mentioned on the second date that she’d booked her Miami holiday.
I still didn’t hear back from her and then made a massive mistake Saturday morning and sent her another message which said ‘if you weren’t interested why not just say. You’re a bit of an arsehole to say you wanna go out again, pay and all that then just ignore me’. She responded an hour and a half later and said ‘I wasn’t trying to ignore you - I was genuinely busy this week. But you calling me an arsehole is so uncalled for and tbh I don’t want to see someone who’s going to call me names so I’d rather just call it a day’. I called to try and apologise but she didn’t pick up so I messaged ‘I get you’re busy with exams. Like I fully understand that but it takes 2 seconds to say hey I’m busy right now I’ll get back to you. Tbh it comes across like you’re not interested and a bit rude. So I’m sorry I called you an arsehole but I called you as I wanted to chat to you quickly’. She replied and said ‘sorry missed your call - I’m out. Yeah fairs I get that but the exams are my priority. I feel like I’ve said what I need to say and think it’s just best if we leave it here’. I messaged again trying to sort it out but she didn’t reply. I gave it three weeks and apologised more sincerely and she said it’s all good no hard feelings but she’s got a lot on right now so she doesn’t think it would be best to give it a second chance. I said if it’s the exams I don’t mind if you wanna speak again after they’re all done, but she didn’t reply to that message.
I reached out again after a couple months as I saw her on the same dating app and her profile was updated with new pictures and she said she just doesn’t see this going anywhere and good luck with everything - she then blocked me. I’m assuming she was finished with her exams by this point.
I fully understand that I was completely in the wrong with the way I reacted and I’ve learnt the lesson and won’t ever speak to anyone like that again - I regret it so much because I could see myself liking her and she honestly seemed like the most perfect girl, although we only went on 2 dates and spoke for a month. But do you think it was me calling her an arsehole that caused her to end it (completely valid if so) or if she just wasn’t feeling it before this and I gave her an easy way out?

Couldn’t post this on the original subreddit I wrote it for since it breaks their rules about discussing relationships, so I’m gonna post it here instead.
I, (18F) have recently gotten a job and made friends with a girl we will call Jessica (18F) who I recently started clubbing with. We’ve only been friends for about a month and she brings along quite a few long term friends when we go out.
Where it gets complicated is when her friend (18?M) was introduced to me last weekend. Let’s call him Sebastian. I thought he was attractive, but after she told me she was kind of crushing on him I decided I was definitely not going to make any moves on him. The only part that confused me was that same night is when she decided to fully drop her ex since she was still talking to him and trying to get back together up until that point. I don’t know if she’s over him fully even now since the breakup is really fresh and they were together for over a year from what I remember. Because of the situation with her ex, I didn’t think she liked Sebastian THAT much, just kind of thought he was hot that night. Even so, I wasn’t gonna make any moves since I had just met him and didn’t know anything about him yet.
Later that night, Jessica came up to me and looked kind of sad, but not in a very serious way. Like putting on a joke sad face like an, “Aw I’m so bummed!” kind of expression. She said that Sebastian told her he thought I was hot, but I reassured her that if I was his type then the chances of her being his type was high, and that I wasn’t interested anyways. Looking back, me and her don’t necessarily have the same style. I get branded as “emo” by the way I dress and do my makeup and she is kind of borderline alternative but nothing that would make her look out of place, she just doesn’t dress boring. Her and I are also both bi and joke flirted with each other for most of the night after that conversation. I am also the kind of person to make out with people at the club which I know is definitely not for everyone but I ended up getting with a few people that night, which 2 of them were seen by Sebastian when I was dancing with them, so I thought for sure he would lose interest and go for Jessica instead.
Everything was great with Jessica at work after this and we got even closer. Last night we went out again and predrank together, so we were flirting before we even left to go to the club. There were even more of her friends last night that came and I met another guy who we will call George (19???M) not exactly sure how old he is but still definitely in the age range of the group. He immediately took interest in me, but I think most people who were there noticed both him and Sebastian flirting with me. We were also all pretty drunk at this point. I ended up making out with Jessica in front of Sebastian and George MULTIPLE TIMES, but somehow everyone pieced it together that Jessica was crushing on Sebastian.
As the night went on, Sebastian and George were both talking to me more and more. I was definitely getting along very well with both of them but could see that Jessica was getting more and more distant. I also have autism and have been told by my friends that I have a very flirtatious personality, but I genuinely don’t always realise when I’m flirting because me trying to be nice can come across that way, which I know is a struggle for other autistic people I’ve met. I also don’t always know when someone is flirting with me. Let’s just say when I’m drunk my “flirtatious personality” is amplified by A LOT. Every time I was speaking with George, Jessica was encouraging me and asking me if I was interested, which I just replied, “I don’t know.” which was true. Another one of my autistic traits is struggling with knowing whether my feelings for others are platonic or romantic or even sexual. Half the time I genuinely have no clue how I feel about someone.
George’s flirting was also a lot more obvious than Sebastian’s. Me and Sebastian were mostly talking about Radiohead because we both listen to him, which I could tell made Jessica feel really jealous. That wasn’t my intention, I was just having a general conversation. George on the other hand was talking about how his type was emo girls and saying things like “I can fix her” to me. I think my flirting with Jessica was the most obvious since it was intentional and we were both flirting with each other. One of their mutual friends came up to Sebastian when him and I were talking and told him, “Jessica is getting really jealous.” This confused him heaps since I guess he was the only one who didn’t know she liked him. He asked why and I said “It’s because you’re talking to me.” I got super overwhelmed and felt like I had ruined the night for everyone so I got up from our table and stood off to the side trying to calm down. I called Jessica over and gave her a big hug asking if she was okay because she looked super down. She said she was genuinely fine and became all smiley again, so we all went back to the dance floor.
I saw a guy I had made out with a few times at this club and we started dancing together. We ended up making out again and when I went back to the group Jessica seemed to have cheered up. That was until Sebastian started talking to me and then after a bit she had moved away from me with the other girls and wouldn’t even look at me when I tried dancing with her or talking to her. When the place closed and we had to leave she didn’t speak to me once and left without saying bye to me. Sebastian was supposed to be going with her but she left him too, so Sebastian, George and I were all stood there and I felt so bad. I was so drunk at this point and just started freaking out. Both of them tried calming me down and asking what happened. I was still panicking and saying how Jessica hates me and will never speak to me again and I’ve ruined everything. The part I probably shouldn’t have said was that she’s gonna hate me forever because I think Sebastian’s hot and she thinks Sebastian’s hot but according to her Sebastian thinks him hot but also I think she’s hot and everyone’s hot so blah blah blah. Basically I just freaked out and was way too honest. They both reassured me it would be fine and she’d get over it in the morning and Sebastian said he’d fix it and give her a kiss or something.
Skip to today, I texted her when I woke up asking her how she was feeling and she was super dry which isn’t like her at all so I apologised saying I genuinely didn’t mean for any of it and again she was dry and stopped replying to me. Sebastian also messaged me saying it’s all fine and she’s talking to him like normal as if no issues happened, so now I know she’s just really upset with me. I honestly feel like a terrible person because even though nothing happened between me and Sebastian I feel like I completely ruined my friendship with Jessica and now I have to go to work tomorrow which she will probably ignore me at even though all I want to do is talk it through. I honestly feel like it’s all my fault so how do I mend our friendship?