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Prostatitis & Chronic Pelvic Pain Syndrome: Stories, Experiences, and News

2013.08.05 22:45 Prostatitis & Chronic Pelvic Pain Syndrome: Stories, Experiences, and News

Urologic chronic male pelvic pain syndrome is commonly called Prostatitis. Other names are Pudendal Neuralgia, Chronic Non-bacterial Prostatitis, Levator Ani Syndrome. Many men with Prostatitis actually have Interstitial Cystitis/Bladder Pain Syndrome
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2009.12.06 05:16 bowuuuu Back Pain

Creating a space for people to ask questions about their back pain (whether acute or chronic), giving meaning, and providing hope for those suffering. This is a place that does not tolerate misinformation, outdated notions/ideas, BUT promotes anti-fragility and hope. The human body does heal. The human body can overcome pain. The goal for you is to vent, receive advice on navigating your pain, and leave feeling hopeful instead of weak, lost, fragile or broken.
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2018.02.04 21:42 askdoctorjo Physical Therapy stretches & exercises for common injuries and syndromes.

Hi, I'm Doctor Jo, a Physical Therapist and Doctor of Physical Therapy. I hope you enjoy this subreddit of physical therapy stretches & exercises for common injuries and syndromes.
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2024.05.07 20:09 healthusefulinfo How is the schedule following nasal polyps removal surgery ?

Nasal Polyps Removal Recovery-various aspects-
Introduction -Recovery time after nasal polyps removal surgery can vary depending on the individual's overall health, the extent of the surgery, and any complications that may arise. In general, most people can expect a recovery period of about one to two weeks.
During the first few days after surgery, it's common to experience some discomfort, nasal congestion, and drainage of mucus and blood. Pain medication prescribed by your doctor can help manage any discomfort. You may also need to use saline nasal sprays or irrigations to keep the nasal passages clean and moist.
It's important to follow your doctor's post-operative instructions carefully, which may include avoiding strenuous activities, refraining from blowing your nose, and taking any prescribed medications as directed.
After the initial recovery period, you should gradually start to feel better, with improvements in breathing and a reduction in symptoms such as nasal congestion and sinus pressure. However, it may take several weeks for full healing to occur, and you may continue to see improvements over the following months.
If any patient is taking more than the usual time to recover from this surgery or is facing recurrence of nasal polyps ,then he may take appointment from ENT specialist doctor Dr Sagar Rajkuwar (MS-ENT) at the following adress -Prabha ENT clinic, plot no 345,Saigram colony, opposite Indoline furniture Ambad link road ,Ambad ,1 km from Pathardi phata Nashik -Dr Sagar Rajkuwar (MS-ENT), Cel no- 7387590194, 9892596635 , Clinic website- www.entspecialistinnashik.com
-for further information in great detail on nasal polyps removal recovery pl click on the link given below -
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2024.05.07 20:06 Mindless_Shopping_87 Looks like I won’t be winning the US Open this year. (Again.)

Hey everyone. I have a general question for any of you hip brainiacs out there. (Thank you in advance.) I had my left hip replaced in mid-March. I’m 68 and I’ve had a few surgeries in my life… and by comparison, my hip surgery and recovery has been a breeze. The first 2 weeks were more annoying than painful. (Tylenol and Advil took care of any and all pain, even on day one, which was surprising to me.) Now, closing in on 2 months out, I feel like I’m 100%, though I’m technically still healing and I have a ways to go. My wife will see me about to pick up something heavy, or do something I shouldn’t, and she has to remind me, “you know you have a new hip, right?” Things couldn’t be better. But but but…
I love tennis. Not doubles tennis, not pickleball –– one on one hard court tennis. Obviously, I haven’t been able to play (going on 2-3 years now) but I’ve been very excited to get back on a court. Before the surgery, I Googled “can I play tennis after a successful hip replacement (given I do all the recommended PT). I saw maybe 4 or 5 articles all saying “yes you can play real tennis after a hip replacement.” So…. yesterday I went to my 60 day, post-surgery check-up with my hip surgeon, and he gave me an A+ for my progress thus far… apparently I’m in the “best case“ category. But when I told him I was looking forward to playing tennis again, he said no – even after I finish all the PT and whatever else I need to do, he said tennis is and always will be too “high impact” for anyone with a hip replacement. Period, forget about it, end-of-story.
I’m very very thankful for the surgery, it’s like a miracle… but I’m also seriously bummed out. Does anyone know, is this for real? Or maybe my doc is too conservative?
tldr: No tennis ever again after hip surgery? Is that true?
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2024.05.07 20:06 adondshilt Conquering PICOT: A Guide for Nurses

Conquering PICOT: A Guide for Nurses
PICOT (Patient/Problem, Intervention, Comparison, Outcome, Time) is a powerful tool for nurses to frame focused clinical questions. Mastering PICOT helps you find the best evidence for patient care. Here's how to handle them:
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1. Deconstruct the Problem:

  • P: Identify your patient population or specific clinical issue. Is it "postoperative pain management for elderly patients" or "preventing pressure injuries in bedridden patients"?
2. Craft the Intervention:

  • I: Define the nursing action or treatment you're considering. This could be a medication, a new wound dressing, or a specific educational program.
3. Establish the Comparison:

  • C: Identify the alternative intervention or the current standard practice. Are you comparing a new pain medication to morphine or evaluating the effectiveness of repositioning versus a pressure-relieving mattress?
4. Determine the Desired Outcome:

  • O: Specify the measurable results you expect. Is it a reduction in pain score, improved wound healing, or a decrease in pressure injury incidence?
5. Set the Time Frame:

  • T: Define the timeframe for observing the outcome. Will you measure pain scores hourly, assess wound healing weekly, or monitor pressure injury development over a month?
Using PICOT:
Once you have a well-formed PICOT question, you can effectively search for relevant research. Reliable sources like academic journals and databases use PICOT terminology.
Example: "Will implementing hourly repositioning (I) compared to standard turning schedule (C) reduce the incidence of pressure injuries (O) in bedridden patients (P) within a two-week period (T)?"
By using PICOT, you become a more effective evidence-based practitioner, ensuring the best possible care for your patients. Here’s how
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2024.05.07 20:04 lotuslov3 pain

it’s been 4 days since i got my helix pierced! it’s been fine since then and would only hurt when i would snag it, since this morning it’s been hurting so much and the pain still hasn’t stopped. i’ve been spraying it with saline twice a day morning and night and am not touching it or rotating it! im worried about its healing :(
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2024.05.07 19:58 whenthedont I could use some stoic guidance right now

I’m 23, once traveling the world with tons of people I loved in my life, then I lost everyone due to religious shunning, became homeless, had a slew of toxic damaging relationships, unstable to violent living situations, and ultimately falling into drugs and having a horrible work injury which ripped half my ear out and gave me a TBI. My ear is now healed fully from the injury.
For the past 7 months, I now have some family support to live, in a new city, and am medicated for bipolar which has helped. However, the job I thought would advance my career quickly turned south, I’m barely making enough money to pay all my bills so I don’t see a way out of my living situation. As if this week, my mother who has always had debilitating health problems has taken a turn for the worst, and for the first time I truly don’t know if she will live much longer than this. Last night she threw up and kept returning to the toilet to remove pure yellow bile from her. Doctor’s have been failing her on this yet all know it is liver related. She was the only person who came racing across the state to the ER after I was crushed beneath an engine, she’s my mother…
I’ve overcome so much. I’ve been looking forward to so many of the things I once loved to do again. And now it feels like the pain of life for me will be inescapable. I have no friends, I’m not in the place to keep up with a woman as I’m just not mentally well, so I’m alone in this. Other men I’ve known have consistently always perceived opening up about problems to be weakness, so I’d rather not even try.
Two years ago I dove heavily into stoicism, but I don’t remember any of the specific modes of being or thinking anymore, and I’m certain this will be of use now as much as it once was. If this is what my life will be, I have to learn to be stronger. I cannot fail myself by alcohol, falling into despair, missing the gym, and taking care of my body. If I can’t maintain these fundamentals, I have no chance of forging a better life for myself where I have overcome the past.
Any words of advice in the ways of stoicism will be greatly appreciated.
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2024.05.07 19:58 KatyPhoenix Help needed with new industrial

This is my first piercing ever and I try my very best to followall the aftercare meassures I have seen on the internet, etc.
For background info: I got the industrail 3 days ago. It was at a tattoo/piercing convention and "relatively" cheap for the usual cost of it. The piercer seemed nice, she kept everything clean, steril and such. However she didn't give me much intell on aftercare, what not to do or what the healing process might look like. It was an impulsive desicion I must admit, but I went for it and now I shall also commit to it. They did gave me an info paper, even tho it was very generalised and didn't give the info I needed. Day 1 went flawlessly with actual no pain at all unless I accidentally bumped it while pushing my hair our of the way. I used a medical desinfectant, a desinfectant my piercer gave me and only slept on my non-pierced side. I also used a hot compression (cloth in microwave technique). Day 2 was were I started to get worried. The already swollen area got more swollen, deep red and throbbed painfully. The back of my ear became so tender to touch I couldn't wear my glasses right without pain. No pus or anything in that direction ozzed out. I continued with the desinfectant, took a warm shower and rinsed the area carefully, also putting some medical, non-fragance soap on the surrounding area. Afterwards (in a fit of panic of an infection) I put an antibiotic oinment onto it and covered the ear with a paper towel for some time. This morning I cleaned again, carefully removed some of the crusted oinment and desinfected with the medical woundspray. The pain did stay. It's a little less red than yesterday but still clearly swollen, the throbbing pain continues while I'm typing this. It only stopped temporary when I took a 600 ibuprofen.
Am I overreacting? I really don't know, since this is (as I said) my first piercing and 1 wanna do this right. Further info would be: Black bar, conecting the two holes. One ball is touching the swollen skin on one side. Discharge has crusted this afternoon, no pus. Told piercer to not use medical steel or nickel beforehand. Bought Saline solution in my pharmacy today, together with a neckpillow.
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2024.05.07 19:53 Rogersmith3142 Dentist with herniated disk

This February I showed symptoms of sciatica while moving christmas decorations to the garage. For a full month my leg hurt from my glutes all the way down to my knee. Taking anti-inflammatories helped so I can go to work. But after a full month of not getting any better I decided to get an mri on my back. Turns out I have a disc herniation on my L5-S1 to my right side. Not to big, but noticeable. However, here's the kicker. My second month my mental health took a dive (panic attacks) been taking zoloft to control them. Then work was beginning to get harder to do because of my sciatica. I don't want to be dependant on just taking anti-inflammatories. I decided to get a few days off work. My wife was not happy about this and told me I'm overacting and so does my family. I told them I at least wanted a month off so I can properly heal and do some light exercise. It's been 3 months and I noticed that my pain has went all the way up to just my upper hip and tail bone. I have no idea if this is a good sign or not, but it does feel alot more painful then usual. I want to get better, but my family constant pressure to get back to work (btw, I'm a dentist and my wife is soon to be one as well in a matter of weeks) is just too much. I wish my wife whom I love with all my heart can understand what I'm going through and just support me. Everyday i walk for about 20 min 3x a day followed by planks, reserve leg straight stretch, dead bug, and sometimes cobra stretch. I hope somebody can tell me things get better.. I want to continue on with my life but I'm only 3 months in.. maybe somebody has been in a similar situation like me and would like to tell me how they got through it
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2024.05.07 19:48 Parking_Wolf_4159 Neurologist I saw today was great but essentially said all I can do is wait and see if my (what seems like) small fiber neuropathy improves. It's been years of this. There a point to keep waiting?

Post explaining my issues in great detail.
I wish this neurologist was here years ago. He seemed genuinely interested in what had happened to me and found the symptoms frustrating because of how vague they were/are, but it was in a "I wish i knew so I could help you" way, which I've never seen with a previous doctor I've seen. He said a spinal tap in 2021 may have been useful but didn't think it was essential testing for my issues, said he might have tried Prednisone for a couple of weeks to see if it helped with inflammation, but that was it. He said since I'm still seeing very slow improvement, my nerves may still heal, but I'm just tired of waiting. I feel the previous neurologists I saw didn't care at all, and I finally found one that does, but it's too late to make a difference. He said trying B12 supplements and Cymbalta might help. He wants me to get a lumbar MRI to see why I have nerve issues in my genital area.
He didn't think I had GBS or something like that either, but he did think a viral cause could be possible. He was all I could ask for a specialist like this, but again, seems too late to matter. I just don't know what to do.
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2024.05.07 19:46 Parking_Wolf_4159 Neurologist I saw today was great but essentially said all I can do is wait and see if my (what seems like) small fiber neuropathy improves. It's been years of this. There a point to keep waiting?

Post explaining my issues in great detail.
I wish this neurologist was here years ago. He seemed genuinely interested in what had happened to me and found the symptoms frustrating because of how vague they were/are, but it was in a "I wish i knew so I could help you" way, which I've never seen with a previous doctor I've seen. He said a spinal tap in 2021 may have been useful but didn't think it was essential testing for my issues, said he might have tried Prednisone for a couple of weeks to see if it helped with inflammation, but that was it. He said since I'm still seeing very slow improvement, my nerves may still heal, but I'm just tired of waiting. I feel the previous neurologists I saw didn't care at all, and I finally found one that does, but it's too late to make a difference. He said trying B12 supplements and Cymbalta might help. He wants me to get a lumbar MRI to see why I have nerve issues in my genital area.
He didn't think I had GBS or something like that either, but he did think a viral cause could be possible. He was all I could ask for a specialist like this, but again, seems too late to matter. I just don't know what to do.
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2024.05.07 19:42 Immediate_Shock_554 How difficult are bottoms?

Hi! I am set to get 4 implants in each arch this month for snap on dentures, however, it will be 4-6 months of healing before I get my snap ons. In the meantime, I will have regular dentures. If I go for the fixed denture instead of the snap ons, I will have implant supported dentures the day of surgery. It is a lot more expensive to do the fixed denture, but I am considering getting it on the bottom and sticking with the snap on for the top because I have just heard the regular bottom denture is such a pain to keep in place and eat with. I know it should only be a few months of dealing with it anyway, so maybe I should just suck it up and save $5k but the thought of them not staying in has me dreading it all and I really just want to have a positive experience
Any advice is appreciated!
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2024.05.07 19:35 iam_wtviam 5 months post BU and i just feel exhausted.

It's been almost 5 months since the breakup, and I'm not sure if I'll ever feel better. He took everything from me, leaving me feeling lost, with no self-esteem, and completely disrespected. I'm struggling with depression and feelings of rejection. He betrayed and mistreated me, yet he seems to be doing well and has moved on completely. I feel hopeless and paralysed, exhausted by these emotions. I know healing isn't a linear process, but it's especially challenging when you feel so alone. Being hurt by someone you loved deeply is incredibly painful. I’m feeling completely powerless
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2024.05.07 19:30 Particular_Return166 Still red 3 weeks later?

Still red 3 weeks later?
I normally heal fully in 2 weeks regardless of placement or amount of color. But I'm 3 weeks out and this is still really red on the blade. It does not hurt and is not hot to the touch so I don't have any reason to suspect infection but this is still bizarre for me.
I will say this was easily my most painful piece and I bled more than any another tattoo. This was also not from my normal go-to artist so maybe this lady was just rougher?
I know it will need a touch up regardless as some of the lines faded but wanted to see what else I need to be aware of or concerned about.
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2024.05.07 19:29 BluesManFreedom 33(m) and mixed up about her 36(f)

Hey Guys.
So i would be interested in hearing your opinion on this. Maybe it helps to clear my mind even better.
Three months ago I have met a woman randomly whilst going for a bike ride. The way we encountered and started talking was really unique. It was funny and cute. We exchanged phone numbers.
By the time going by, we have watched movies, going for walks and bike rides and just spent time together. She is a divorced single mother of 2 boys (12 and 15) and she seems to be done with relationships after a violent marriage with her ex. Now she is having a guy who she sees and have sex with. That guy is in an open relationship with his girlfriend. They claim to be polyamorous. She told me that he has a crush on her and she likes him too.
I am a tolerant guy and respects other peoples way of life. I am interested into her though to an extent. She is funny, attractive, easy going, intelligent and she is up for a lot of activities.
Last friday and saturday she visited me again and I asked her, if its okay that I kiss her. After a moment she said yes and we kissed. We had two very nice nights together of intimacy but no sex.
She told me now to better not fall in love with her and that she is scared that I gain faith that we two could have a future together. She is literally telling me that straight into my face. She also told me that she has betrayed her ex boyfriend several times. She seems to be sexually very active with mutliple guys.
Despite all those facts I feel like I got too attached after those two nights of intimacy. It is like playing with fire and you know that once you get burned, the pain is awful and the wound would take time to heal and would also leave a scar.
Sex is where I draw the line to make this "friendship" work out without getting emotionally too involved.
What are your thoughts about this?
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2024.05.07 19:28 BluesManFreedom 33(m) and mixed up about her 36(f)

Hey Guys.
So i would be interested in hearing your opinion on this. Maybe it helps to clear my mind even better.
Three months ago I have met a woman randomly whilst going for a bike ride. The way we encountered and started talking was really unique. It was funny and cute. We exchanged phone numbers.
By the time going by, we have watched movies, going for walks and bike rides and just spent time together. She is a divorced single mother of 2 boys (12 and 15) and she seems to be done with relationships after a violent marriage with her ex. Now she is having a guy who she sees and have sex with. That guy is in an open relationship with his girlfriend. They claim to be polyamorous. She told me that he has a crush on her and she likes him too.
I am a tolerant guy and respects other peoples way of life. I am interested into her though to an extent. She is funny, attractive, easy going, intelligent and she is up for a lot of activities.
Last friday and saturday she visited me again and I asked her, if its okay that I kiss her. After a moment she said yes and we kissed. We had two very nice nights together of intimacy but no sex.
She told me now to better not fall in love with her and that she is scared that I gain faith that we two could have a future together. She is literally telling me that straight into my face. She also told me that she has betrayed her ex boyfriend several times. She seems to be sexually very active with mutliple guys.
Despite all those facts I feel like I got too attached after those two nights of intimacy. It is like playing with fire and you know that once you get burned, the pain is awful and the wound would take time to heal and would also leave a scar.
Sex is where I draw the line to make this "friendship" work out without getting emotionally too involved.
What are your thoughts about this?
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2024.05.07 19:28 Magicalfirelizard Cat is in constant pain. All efforts to help met with tooth and claw.

Meet Mika. Beautiful isn’t she? You wouldn’t know from looking at her the absolute menace she can be. I’ve been scratched for offering treats. Hissed at for invading her space to collect tools she’s claimed as hers etc etc. she’s constantly on a hair trigger and she’s not mine. She’s the landlords.
Well, for two years I’ve made the mistake of thinking she’s an absolute demon spawn from Hell. Turns out the truth is far simpler and more worrisome. She slow blinks at me whenever I enter the room, watches warily as I cross it, and hisses and spits if I get too close. I’ve pet her exactly once and that was after her sister died.
Turns out she has an ear infection that doesn’t heal. It doesn’t spread either. She scratches and scratches, washes and washes. I find her blood on the tablecloths and blankets she sleeps on.
The landlord says he’s taken her to every vet in the city. They all refuse treatment because there is exactly zero chance of getting her to calm down. She will scratch and absolutely will bite HARD. She also won’t eat food unless it smells exactly like food and nothing else (can’t give her pain meds).
We both care about Mika. I’m new to the scene now that I know she’s not mean, just in constant pain. And we really want a way to help her. Are there painkiller treats we can give her? Stuff that smells like food or catnip we can fool her into eating? Other ideas/strategies that don’t involve a trip to the hospital for one of us or increased stress for Mika?
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2024.05.07 19:18 JustFasting Eardrum burst and the strongest OTC painkillers aren't working, am I really gonna have to put up with 2 months of this?

25F, UK. My eardrum burst 3 days ago and I've been reading online about it. NHS website says to take painkillers for pain and wait 2 months to heal, and to see a doctor if there's an infection. I'm 99% sure there's not an infection but I'll see a doctor as soon as I reasonably can (very busy this week, and I'm not registered with a GP yet since I moved recently so it'd have to be urgent care which is quite far away).
Ibuprofen stopped working after the 3rd dose, I checked if I could get anything stronger and the NHS website said you can get 500/8mg co-codamol OTC, but I managed to get 500/13mg, and it's still not working. I'm on the third dose of that and I'm just in agony.
Obviously it'd be recommended to see a doctor ASAP, but until then I wanna know what to expect? The guideline of "just take painkillers for 2 months" clearly isn't doing it for me
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2024.05.07 19:16 whatfieryhellisthis0 King of Kings (Take it to the cross)

Looking back on all my mistakes
Feeling lost, feeling so displaced
But I know there’s a way to find some peace
So I lifted my hands and dropped to my knees
They told me to pray, to let it all go
But that’s a lot harder than people know
They told me it’s all a part of His plan
Even if you don’t understand
They told me:
Take it to the cross, lay it down at His feet.
Let Him do with it what He wills and He’ll set you free.
Let go of the hurt, the anger, and the pain.
Let Him take all of your regrets, the fears, and the shame.
He will make you whole
He will cleanse you of your sins
He will call you by your name
There’s no force like the power of His claim
So take it to the cross where hope and mercy reigns
He will heal your wounds, again and again.
Because there’s nothing that the King of Kings can’t do
The devil tries to make us hesitate, stumble, and fall
He tries to make us ignore the Lord’s call
By distracting us with persuasions of temptations of things he doesn’t even own
He promise name and status, fame and fortune, power beyond our imagination
But every deal he’s ever made comes with a price
The Lord’s love comes from blood and pain, tears and sacrifice
There’s no other jealous God, vengeful God, loving God
He’s met us in the darkness, met us in the fire, and in the flood
Because there’s nothing that the Kings of Kings won’t do.
Though dangers lurked and darkness pressed,
He kept me close, His love never rest.
His watchful eye protected me from it all,
His wings of grace, a shelter where I could call home.
In the stillness of the night, His voice was clear: I’m never alone.
He protected us from giants and from lions
He risen up valleys and crushes down mountains
He’s lead us to victory with every battle won in the power of His name
Because there’s nothing that the King of Kings can’t do.
He is the Shepherd; and I was the lost sheep
He chased me down in the wilderness
He has taken control of every fiber of my being
Silencing the demons in my head
There’s no peace like the one He gives
So take it to the cross
Lay your weary head to rest
There’s nothing left to give, there’s nothing left to prove
Because there’s nothing that the King of Kings won’t do
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2024.05.07 19:16 AdventurousStick1990 chrons/perianal chrons

I have been having issues with my stomach and anus and put off going to dr. I just went and they said it was concerning and scheduled me for colonoscopy next week. my brother who passed away had severe chrons and that is another reason they wanted me to get a colonoscopy so quickly. I have hashimoto’s disease and my endo was worried last year I had an absorption issue. I got an endoscopy and all was well. I just got bloodwork back and everything looks good. I am wondering if you can still have chrons when bloodwork is all normal? Stared in dec when I started to bleed thinking it was just hemorrhoids. I have had symptoms of itching, shooting pains, bleeding occasionally when going to the bathroom, fissures, some mouth ulcers, back pain, dry eyes, and tearing between anus and vagina that does not heal and will bleed. I just want them to find someone or diagnose me so I can stop having these symptoms. Thanks in advance.
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2024.05.07 19:11 Hot_Effort1223 Dear Friend.

Hello old friend, how have you been? Once so familiar- and now, where to begin.. Distance, time and space, gone from all- without a trace A vision once shared, a life to live, fully prepared, gone now But not forgotten.
Not forgotten.
How could it be, truly, that you and me, were never meant to be when we both believed we were so earnestly.
Youth? Inexperience? Naitivity?
Perhaps it was a wish, a dream that our heart made And then we woke up, too afraid to see the writing on the wall A poem too hard to bear and now, and now were’ fully unaware of the other- too afraid to write, to call, so instead, blinded by the hurt we say nothing at all.
Nothing at all.
I do not regret the nights spent in your arms, the warmth and bliss. The way you encapsulated my world, entranced my mind, completed me with every kiss.
I believed you, truly I did- when you said you never wanted to wake up without me, that you’d never leave me-
And then you did.
Then you did.
My world was ripped apart, torn upside down- I was left grasping for straws, gasping for breath.
I went falling, falling, falling into the pit of despair- how could I enjoy life without you being there.
And then, after a whole long time of hurting, yearning to find you in the wild again, I saw, through it all, the most painful thing I could.
There you were, clear as the day, shining bright as the sun. Happy, peaceful, completed- in the arms of another ‘one’.
At once my world was both shattered and freed, when I realized that you had given to him, gotten down on one knee, asked someone else ‘will you marry me’.
And he said yes, of course he would.
There aren’t many like you, marry you he should. For weeks; No, Days; No, Hours; No- Minutes No. Moments.
Yes, for moments I mourned you. Moments that were both everlasting and never existing.
Moments that cut you from my heart, finally mine for me again, yet here I am with tears streaming, masking the fears, the hunger, the urge, the overwhelming desire to know you again and the wish that I’d never known you at all.
That’s not fair. I know that.
The loves we love help us love the loves that come next. Prepare us for what’s in store, if only to love deeper then because not in spite of our loves before.
Years have passed now, I’ve lived lifetimes between writing this and realizing I no longer had you to miss, and yet-
And yet.
The thoughts, the wondering, the thinking and feeling, the needing and blinking, the writing and typing and erasing and courage working up, only to fall, the deeply wishing ‘Please. Please… just call’....
Time, they say ‘heals all wounds’.
This isn’t true, of course. Some wounds cannot be healed.
But instead, they fill in, and age, and fade, and scab, and their pain becomes less and less until there is nothing left but a drab reminder- of what once was, and all that could have been.
I think that, perhaps, is the most telling of all-
These tears are not for you, not for what I had, but for the life I wanted to live so bad.
So bad.
The dreams that once filled every part of me, the world with you I wanted so desperately to see- I know now, never will be.
I take great pleasure in this, for once, it is certainty.
That life is gone, there is release in the finality.
I do wish you the best. I want only for you happiness, and success, and all the rest- the same wishes that best friends give when it is time to lie each other to rest.
And for me. I hope you can get me off your chest. Clear me from your mind, and too, wish me the best.
Maybe, some day, in another life, there will be another chance, another circumstance where two lovers who say they never want to wake up without the other will not be afraid to give that love a chance.
And then and there- they, they- not us, but they can figure out the rest.
Be blessed.
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2024.05.07 19:11 lyricnova Wasted, Jaded (lyrics)

They say every cloud has a silver lining I thought that was you Until you turned into lighting
Everything started simple But every drop leaves a ripple We can't go back To what we used to be
Everything around us changes we're the moon caught in Phases I'm taking our story and burning all its pages
I'm wasted all I wanna do is... erase it And leave it in the past But looking back I can't do that You left me here
Wasted Jaded Fading hating My own memories Of all the shit you did to me Wasted Jaded Fading hating Wasted Jaded Fading hating Wasted Jaded
They say time heals all but time isn't mending The parts of you that left me bruised I am still stuck... fending Every thing we touched, It splintered Leaving marks and painful blisters We can't go back To Who we used to be
all the times you'd left me pleading you turned on me without a feeling I'm packing my bags Now it's you who's left ....bleeding
Your wasted all u wanna do is erase it And leave it in the past But looking back U can't do that cuz I left u there
Wasted Jaded Fading hating Your own memories all the shit you did to me Wasted Jaded Fading hating Wasted Jaded
First it was the package of pain Then a love note signed your name A month or two of the love game Then youd flip on me and place the blame Til there was no love to be found We left it somewhere in the crowd In this mess that we created Now we're left here Wasted Jaded
Your wasted all u wanna do is erase it And leave it in the past But looking back U can't do that cuz I left u there
Wasted Jaded Fading hating Your own fallacies all the ways you buried me Wasted Jaded Fading hating Wasted Jaded
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2024.05.07 19:07 Hot_Effort1223 Dear Friend.

Dear Friend. Hello old friend, how have you been? Once so familiar- and now, where to begin.. Distance, time and space, gone from all- without a trace A vision once shared, a life to live, fully prepared, gone now But not forgotten.
Not forgotten.
How could it be, truly, that you and me, were never meant to be when we both believed we were so earnestly.
Youth? Inexperience? Naitivity?
Perhaps it was a wish, a dream that our heart made And then we woke up, too afraid to see the writing on the wall A poem too hard to bear and now, and now were’ fully unaware of the other- too afraid to write, to call, so instead, blinded by the hurt we say nothing at all.
Nothing at all.
I do not regret the nights spent in your arms, the warmth and bliss. The way you encapsulated my world, entranced my mind, completed me with every kiss.
I believed you, truly I did- when you said you never wanted to wake up without me, that you’d never leave me-
And then you did.
Then you did.
My world was ripped apart, torn upside down- I was left grasping for straws, gasping for breath.
I went falling, falling, falling into the pit of despair- how could I enjoy life without you being there.
And then, after a whole long time of hurting, yearning to find you in the wild again, I saw, through it all, the most painful thing I could.
There you were, clear as the day, shining bright as the sun. Happy, peaceful, completed- in the arms of another ‘one’.
At once my world was both shattered and freed, when I realized that you had given to him, gotten down on one knee, asked someone else ‘will you marry me’.
And he said yes, of course he would.
There aren’t many like you, marry you he should. For weeks; No, Days; No, Hours; No- Minutes No. Moments.
Yes, for moments I mourned you. Moments that were both everlasting and never existing.
Moments that cut you from my heart, finally mine for me again, yet here I am with tears streaming, masking the fears, the hunger, the urge, the overwhelming desire to know you again and the wish that I’d never known you at all.
That’s not fair. I know that.
The loves we love help us love the loves that come next. Prepare us for what’s in store, if only to love deeper then because not in spite of our loves before.
Years have passed now, I’ve lived lifetimes between writing this and realizing I no longer had you to miss, and yet-
And yet.
The thoughts, the wondering, the thinking and feeling, the needing and blinking, the writing and typing and erasing and courage working up, only to fall, the deeply wishing ‘Please. Please… just call’....
Time, they say ‘heals all wounds’.
This isn’t true, of course. Some wounds cannot be healed.
But instead, they fill in, and age, and fade, and scab, and their pain becomes less and less until there is nothing left but a drab reminder- of what once was, and all that could have been.
I think that, perhaps, is the most telling of all-
These tears are not for you, not for what I had, but for the life I wanted to live so bad.
So bad.
The dreams that once filled every part of me, the world with you I wanted so desperately to see- I know now, never will be.
I take great pleasure in this, for once, it is certainty.
That life is gone, there is release in the finality.
I do wish you the best. I want only for you happiness, and success, and all the rest- the same wishes that best friends give when it is time to lie each other to rest.
And for me. I hope you can get me off your chest. Clear me from your mind, and too, wish me the best.
Maybe, some day, in another life, there will be another chance, another circumstance where two lovers who say they never want to wake up without the other will not be afraid to give that love a chance.
And then and there- they, they- not us, but they can figure out the rest.
Be blessed.
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2024.05.07 19:06 agrumitristi Pimple on my eyebrow piercing?

My eyebrow piercing hasn't healed yet and today I've been in pain for hours, I was scared it got infected overnight. When I got home I cleaned it and realized a pimple grew on top of it. I have no idea what to do, I can't get it checked by a piercer at the moment and it hurts. Any advice?
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