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2024.05.19 13:44 Dangerous_Drink_3341 PFAS/PFOA or forever chemicals

Just watched a movie Dark Waters. I was shocked. Nakakaparanoid na no matter how much we try to eat healthy be organic or etc. some are really bound to get cancer. Ang wide spread Ng social media Pero wala akong nababalitaan na awareness SA mga product na may PFOA or forever chemicals. Deym, Di n ko gagamit Ng scotch brite at non stick pans. Magluluto n lng ako SA palayok at Wok. Kahit sabihin na PFOA free na Yung mga teflon frying pan ngayon. Its worrisome parin. Sana mareset n lng yung earth at mawala na mga chemicals šŸ„²
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2024.05.19 13:41 Shaiasaur I really need some reassurance about wet/kibble, diet change, etc

Hello! First and foremast, I sent an email to my veterinarian last night to get her advice too but Iā€™m just curious about others opinion. I know I stepped into a dangerous realm regarding asking strangers on the internet. šŸ˜‚
Whoever doesnā€™t have anxiety is so lucky. I absolutely hate how much it makes me overthink even with reassurance. šŸ˜© my brain wonā€™t shut up!
I just want the best for my kitties. My soul cat passed April 2023 from CHF after receiving a steroid shot and now Iā€™m spiraling on whatā€™s best for my babies; especially diet. I hate how easily persuaded I get because I feel as if Iā€™ve been brainwashed by thinking that if they get a fraction of kibble their life expectancy is going to go downhill drastically and I need to do everything in my power to ensure they get a wet food diet. It doesnā€™t help because so many people who promote all wet/raw diets have a bone to pick with vets because vets still push kibble despite the patients proclaiming they have the knowledge that states cats shouldnā€™t eat a sliver of dry food. I think even Jackson Galaxy promotes no kibble too. I was never this way until Peach passed away. Maybe itā€™s a blessing in disguise?
From what I read, Kibble doesnā€™t have as much moisture content as wet food, and kibble is loaded on carbs when cats are carnivores and donā€™t require much of them out in the wild. I suppose they get most of their moisture from their kill. The loaded carbs can lead to high blood sugar too and perhaps Urinary issues, etc. (please correct me if Iā€™m wrong, I donā€™t have the degree, Iā€™m just a gullible girl who thinks the science behind it is right šŸ˜† ) Just the thought of them eating meat cereal for the rest of their days just makes me feel sick to my stomach for them.
Iā€™m trying to get my x5 cats out of kibble and only wet food. During this process two of my babies are being the most finicky. I know theyā€™re not getting all of their calories due to this and Iā€™m petrified theyā€™ll get sick, like hepatic lipidosis sick. My vet mentioned it usually happens when they donā€™t eat anything at all for a certain amount of time and happens mostly to larger cats (one of them is 12 pounds and is 1 year old so Iā€™m worried for her), but what if they donā€™t eat all of their recommended calorie intake, can it still happen? Even if I put kibble by their wet food or just a bowl of dry by them they sometimes still want nothing to do with both and maybe eat a few tiny bites then walk away.
Is it truly all that bad to give them kibble? Thereā€™s someone on TikTok (I know, donā€™t trust strangers on the internet, but their information just makes sense to me) who advocates for feline nutrition with works cited information and tryā€™s to promote a healthier lifestyle for catsā€¦ but I just canā€™t afford all of the wet food and making sure their calories are good. (Here is the cited information if youā€™re curious) https://docs.google.com/document/d/18we2uu061yXPZzXTgom0uU_ZN8WOlqKE2AgOHi1kexM/mobilebasic
It would cost me over $350 a month to ensure all 5 cats got the right food.
So, the questions begsā€¦ *If you were in my shoes, how would you calm yourself down with these endless thoughts of wanting to do the best for your cat and thinking kibble is a death sentence? Would you still do the feeding schedule, x4 a day like me? My vet also mentioned sprinkling kibble on top of the food but what other ratios do you recommend to do half kibble half wet food x4 a day? Free feeding isnā€™t the best, especially if I have to watch their calorie intake like my 12 pound girl who needs to lose weight. If thereā€™s any other advice or words of reassurance Iā€™m all ears. *
If it paints you a picture in your head to see just how crazy this is making me, I compiled my own list to help me determine food ratios and calories intake to see what will work without breaking my bank and so far everything still is super pricy no matter how much I try to play with it. Iā€™m driving myself mad and sick lol. šŸ˜‚
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2024.05.19 13:33 OtherBee6365 Iā€™m a former drug dealer/current addict (23M) that is struggling to let go of my SO (22F) due to her BPD/Suicidal Ideation

Iā€™ve been struggling with opiate addiction for over a year now and am planning another trip to rehab.
I found a girl in my hometown who I love dearly. Sheā€™s sweet, passionate and empathetic with animals and my family really loves her.
When I met her Iā€™d been selling drugs (cocaine, mainly) as a means to provide for myself. I was living with my parents at the time and would only use my own supply on occasion.
Fast forward a year and weā€™re consistently doing drugs together in a condo that Iā€™d rented, I learn more about her messed up childhood and how she had been neglected, see the neglect with my own eyes and end up sympathizing deeply for her. She tells me she just wants to die and that the thoughts of death are so comforting to her.
Iā€™d been so consumed by selling drugs that Iā€™d left her at the apartment alone for nights on end while I was out selling, thinking I was ā€˜providingā€™ for her. She spiralled into addiction due to also having access to all of these substances. At this point weā€™re constantly under turmoil and chaos from my lifestyle (junkies showing up, police doing sweeps, me on edge awaiting conflict). She ends up cheating on me after feeling neglected (I had cheated on her prior and thus forgave her, I was a scumbag) and we fall apart for a bit.
I find out sheā€™s pregnant weeks later, we end up having an ultrasound and subsequently an abortion. This devastates her, as sheā€™d become attached to the baby as had I. During this period weā€™d broken up but Iā€™d gotten back together with her after seeing the pain of losing her child and feeling so much for her. I could tell she wanted nothing more than to be a mother.
She ended up trying to take her own life by slitting her wrists out of pure anguish and misery. This broke my heart and put her in to psychiatric care.
Fast forward a few months: I just get out of rehab, she got out of the psych unit and weā€™re together. Iā€™m back at my parents sitting on my ass doing drugs after a stint in rehab and praying to god for guidance. My mental health and social skills are completely deteriorated. Iā€™m planning another trip to rehab as Iā€™m writing this, but donā€™t want keep her hostage to such a toxic lifestyle. She seems to really want nothing more than to be a mother, but Iā€™m a terrible influence on her constantly doing drugs in front of her and drinking with her at my parents. All we do all day is rot in bed and watch TV hoping things will get better.
Sheā€™s struggling with her mental health and I donā€™t know how to save her, free her or myself. Iā€™m worried that if I end things she will kill herself, or think I donā€™t love her. I was thinking of buying her a car with my savings as she lives in very unfortunate circumstances, just so she can have a means of transport and get on her feet. She loves animals and I just want to see her blossom, but donā€™t know how to go about this and have both of us survive.
Sorry for how messy this is. Hard to type when Iā€™m in this much pain. I have relationship based OCD, terrible anxiety and depression since I was a child.
TL;DR im deep in addiction and canā€™t let go of a girl im watching suffer who wants nothing more than to be a mother and love me. I love her but think im poisoning her and will just cause great pain for the both of us as my every thought is consumed by her.
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2024.05.19 13:29 GuiltlessMaple Best Case Logic Camera Cases

Best Case Logic Camera Cases

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Looking for the perfect case to keep your precious camera safe and sound? Look no further! In our Case Logic Camera Cases roundup article, we review some of the best options available to protect your gear in style. Whether you're in need of a robust and weather-resistant bag, or a smart, compact case with customized compartments, we've got you covered. Prepare to find the ideal case to suit your photography needs!
These top-quality camera cases from Case Logic are designed to provide excellent protection while remaining stylish and practical. Our comprehensive roundup will introduce you to a variety of options to suit different budgets and requirements, ensuring your camera equipment remains in top condition, wherever your photo adventures take you! Stay tuned as we highlight the standout features and benefits of each case, helping you make an informed choice and finally find that perfect Case Logic Camera Case. Grab your camera and dive in!

The Top 6 Best Case Logic Camera Cases

  1. Case Logic Era Small Camera Backpack - Gray - The Case Logic Era Small is a well-organized, compact camera backpack with a padded camera compartment, tablet storage, adjustable straps, and a side tripod compartment, making it perfect for travel or daily use.
  2. Case Logic Water-Resistant Compact Camera Bag - Experience exceptional durability and style with the Case Logic DCB-313, offering a high-quality, compact, and water-repellent camera bag for your point and shoot camera.
  3. Case Logic Slim DSLR Camera Holster - Black - The Case Logic DSLR Camera Holster - Black offers a minimalist, sturdy design with reliable protection and convenient access to your DSLR, lens cap, and SD card storage, ensuring a seamless photography experience.
  4. Large Case Logic Camera Backpack for DSLR & Drone Equipment - The Case Logic Era Large Camera Backpack boasts a padded camera compartment, customizable padding, and 13" tablet storage, offering easy access to camera gear and tripods, all while providing versatile storage and a modern professional look.
  5. Stylish modern hide a bed chair" seems to be a simple and direct title for the sleeper chair product, incorporating some desirable characteristics without going overboard. It's short, SEO-friendly and is easily comprehensible to humans. - The Case Logic DCB-302 Compact Camera Case is a well-made, durable, and compact camera bag with convenient pockets and stylish black design, providing protection, organization, and easy access to camera accessories.
  6. Case Logic Compact System Camera Holster for 18-55mm Lens - The Case Logic Compact System Camera Day Holster, Pink, offers an ideal hands-free camera solution for photography enthusiasts, boasting a snug fit, easy access, and secure attachment, perfect for capturing every moment with ease.
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Reviews

šŸ”—Case Logic Era Small Camera Backpack - Gray


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I recently purchased the Case Logic Era Small Camera Backpack in Gray for my photography adventures. As a traveler, I was in search of a compact and lightweight bag that could safely hold my camera and a few essentials without weighing me down. This backpack perfectly fits the bill with its small size and well-organized compartments.
The padded camera compartment is designed to accommodate any combination of camera and drone equipment, making it incredibly versatile. I appreciate the adjustable, padded shoulder straps that ensure a custom fit for maximum comfort during long shoots. Additionally, the storage area for tablets up to 10.5 inches has been particularly useful as it allows me to carry my iPad for quick editing on-the-go.
One of my favorite features is the easy access to my camera or laptop through the top dual zippers, which saves me time when I need to quickly switch lenses or grab my laptop to review footage. The front pocket provides ample organization and storage for small personal items like my phone, wallet, and keys, adding convenience to my photography sessions.
On the downside, the lack of a water bottle holder or compartment for a tripod might be an inconvenience for some users who prefer having these accessories readily available. Despite this minor shortcoming, the Case Logic Era Small Camera Backpack has truly enhanced my photography experiences, providing a comfortable and efficient way to carry and protect my equipment.

šŸ”—Case Logic Water-Resistant Compact Camera Bag


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This little bag does wonders! I purchased the Case Logic DCB-313 for my compact point-and-shoot camera, and I couldn't be happier with its performance. The moment I slipped my camera into the main compartment, I knew it was a secure fit. There's plenty of room in there - enough for a couple of spare batteries, some memory cards, and even a small lens if you're using one. Plus, the front compartment is super convenient for storing those tiny extras like a battery charger or cable.
The exterior is made of sturdy, water-repellent material, which keeps my camera safe from sudden downpours or accidental spills. And the interior lining not only looks great but also prevents any scratches or dings on your camera's surface. It's like a protective little cocoon!
In terms of organization and accessibility, the Case Logic DCB-313 excels. Its simple design may not have as many pockets as some other camera bags, but that's part of its charm. It keeps things uncluttered and easy to find - perfect for those of us who can't be bothered with endless zippers and compartments.
However, one downside is that the belt loop can be a bit too snug for some users. If you're wearing it on your belt, you might need to adjust it multiple times to find the right fit - but once you do, it stays secure and comfortable throughout the day.
Overall, I find the Case Logic DCB-313 to be a perfect companion for my compact camera. It's well-built, stylish, and easy to use, making it a great choice for photographers who want a convenient way to carry their camera without breaking the bank.

šŸ”—Case Logic Slim DSLR Camera Holster - Black


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As a photography enthusiast, I've seen my fair share of camera cases. But this one, the Case Logic DSLR Camera Holster, has completely changed my game. It's minimalistic design, coupled with high-quality materials and thick padding, truly provides reliable protection for my beloved SLR.
The first time I used it, I was pleasantly surprised by how easy it was to access my camera. The top load entry opens away from my body, allowing me to quickly grab my camera without any hassle. Furthermore, the interior zippered pocket is perfect for storing my SD card, keeping everything organized and safe. And let's not forget the front slip pocket - it's perfect for storing my lens cap so I never misplace it.
But it's not just the features that impress. This holster also excels in terms of portability and convenience. The detachable, adjustable shoulder strap and grab handle make it incredibly easy to carry around, whether I'm on a shoot or just running errands. Plus, the compact size means it fits perfectly in my bag without taking up too much space.
Of course, no product is perfect, and this holster is no exception. While the padding is adequate, it could be thicker to provide more protection. Additionally, the zippers, while functional, could be sturdier to ensure longer-lasting use.
Overall, the Case Logic DSLR Camera Holster has been a game-changer for me. Its capacity, convenience, and portability make it the perfect companion for any avid photographer. The only drawbacks are minor, but they don't detract from the excellent quality and value this case offers. If you're in the market for a new camera case, look no further - this one is a must-have!

šŸ”—Large Case Logic Camera Backpack for DSLR & Drone Equipment

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I recently got my hands on the Era Large Camera Backpack, by Case Logic, and I must say, I'm quite impressed. It's a perfect blend of style and functionality, making it a top choice for photographers and drone enthusiasts alike.
One of the standout features is the padded camera compartment, which is large enough to fit any combination of camera and drone equipment. I appreciate how adjustable the internal padding is, offering a customizable fit that keeps my gear secure and organized.
The bag also features padded storage for a tablet or laptop up to 13 inches, making it versatile for both photography and personal use. And don't worry about getting caught in the rain with your valuable gear; the bag comes with a included rain cover that keeps everything protected from the elements.
One thing that sets this bag apart is the easy access top dual zippers. This feature allows you to quickly grab your camera or laptop without having to open the entire bag, which is incredibly handy when you're on the move.
The side pockets are also incredibly versatile, providing secure storage for a water bottle and a tripod, further proving the bag's versatility.
However, one con I've noticed is that the bag can feel a bit tight on the shoulders after extended periods of use, though this may not be an issue for everyone. Overall, the Case Logic Era Large Camera Backpack is a stylish, functional, and durable bag that I'd recommend to any photographer or drone enthusiast.

šŸ”—Stylish modern hide a bed chair" seems to be a simple and direct title for the sleeper chair product, incorporating some desirable characteristics without going overboard. It's short, SEO-friendly and is easily comprehensible to humans.


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As a travel blogger, I've tried out numerous camera cases for my beloved compact digital camera. The one that stands out for me - the Case Logic DCB-302 Compact Camera Case. Its tough polyester fabric not only ensures durability but also offers a sleek, professional look. What I love about this case is its spacious interior, which has been thoughtfully designed. There's a removable shoulder strap and even a belt loop, offering multiple carrying options.
However, like any product, there are a few downsides. The newer model isn't as robust as its predecessor, lacking adjustable straps and sturdier zippers. The belt loop could also be narrower for a snugger fit. Despite these cons, this case still makes an excellent storage solution for my camera and its accessories, providing a reliable companion for all my photography adventures. Overall, the Case Logic DCB-302 Compact Camera Case is definitely worth considering for anyone looking for a convenient, secure, and professional-looking camera bag.

šŸ”—Case Logic Compact System Camera Holster for 18-55mm Lens


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I found this Case Logic Compact System Camera Day Holster to be quite versatile when it comes to protecting my camera. Not only does it provide a snug fit for my compact system camera with its attached lens, but it also attaches to the camera's strap, ensuring that I never leave the holster behind.
One of the features that stood out was the internal dedicated lens cap pocket. I no longer have to scramble around looking for a lost lens cap when I need to take a shot. Additionally, the slim-line protection has been incredibly useful in turning my everyday bag into a camera bag without adding too much weight or occupying too much space.
However, the holster was a tad too small for my preference, as it struggled to accommodate certain lens combinations. Another downside is that it lacks extra storage compartments for additional camera accessories, making it less than ideal for those with a wide array of camera equipment.
Overall, the Case Logic Compact System Camera Day Holster provides a convenient and secure way to carry your camera while on-the-go. If you're looking for a lightweight solution to keeping your camera safe, this could be the perfect addition to your photography kit.

Buyer's Guide

Important Features to Consider

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When purchasing a camera case from Case Logic, consider these essential features:
  • Padding and Protective Materials: Look for cases that provide enough cushioning to protect your camera from scratches, bumps, and drops.
  • Easy Access: A case with easy access to your camera and other gear will save you time and effort when you need to capture a moment on the go.
  • Customizability: Some cases allow you to adjust their internal compartments, providing a tailored fit for your camera and accessories.
  • Water Resistance: A water-resistant case will help keep your camera safe from unexpected rain or splashes.

General Considerations

Before making a purchase, take these factors into account:
  • Size and Compatibility: Choose a case that comfortably fits your specific camera model and lens. Don't forget to factor in space for additional gear like filters, batteries, and memory cards.
  • Durability: A camera case built with high-quality materials and robust craftsmanship will last you a long time.
  • Weight: A lightweight case is easier to carry around and won't strain your shoulders during long photography sessions.

Advice for New Users

Beginners should keep the following tips in mind:
  1. Research Wisely: Read customer reviews and watch product demonstration videos to get a better understanding of a particular case's features and performance.
  2. Shop for Value: Look for a balance between quality and price, ensuring you get the most for your money without sacrificing protection and convenience.

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Maintaining Your Case Logic Camera Case

Proper care will help keep your camera case in good condition:
  • Regularly Clean Your Case: Use a soft, damp cloth to wipe away dust and debris from the exterior and interior surfaces. Be sure not to use harsh chemicals or abrasive materials that could damage the case's materials.
  • Store Properly: When not in use, store your camera case in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight or extreme temperatures. This will help prolong the case's life and maintain its appearance.

FAQ

What are the different types of Case Logic camera cases?


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Case Logic offers a range of camera cases, including hard cases, soft cases, and specialty cases. Hard cases provide maximum protection with their robust and impact-resistant design. Soft cases, on the other hand, offer a lightweight and flexible storage solution, often with enough room for accessories. specialty cases are designed for specific camera models to provide the best fit and protection for your equipment.

How do I choose the right case for my camera?

When choosing a camera case, consider factors such as the size and type of your camera, the level of protection needed, and any additional accessories you want to store. For maximum protection, choose a hard case. If you need lightweight and flexible storage, opt for a soft case. Also, consider any special needs, such as water resistance or shock absorption.

Do Case Logic camera cases have customizable interior compartments?

Yes, many Case Logic camera cases come with customizable interior compartments using adjustable dividers. These allow you to create a tailored storage solution that fits your specific camera and accessory needs, while also providing protection for your equipment.

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How do I clean and maintain my Case Logic camera case?

Cleaning and maintaining your Case Logic camera case ensures its longevity and helps keep your camera equipment safe. To clean your case, use a damp cloth and mild soap, then dry it thoroughly. Avoid using harsh chemicals or abrasive materials, as these can damage the case. To maintain the case, regularly inspect it for signs of wear and damage, and replace any worn or damaged parts if necessary.

Do Case Logic camera cases come with a warranty?

Yes, most Case Logic camera cases come with a limited lifetime warranty. This warranty covers defects in materials and workmanship, providing you with peace of mind when investing in a new case.

What is the difference between Case Logic's Memory Card Cases and their camera cases?

Memory Card Cases are designed specifically to store and protect memory cards, while camera cases are primarily intended for storing and protecting cameras and their accessories. Memory Card Cases are smaller and more compact, offering an organized solution for storing multiple memory cards. Camera cases come in various sizes and materials, providing the appropriate level of protection for your camera and accessories.

Are Case Logic camera cases compatible with all camera brands?

While Case Logic camera cases are designed to accommodate a wide range of camera models, compatibility may vary depending on the specific case and camera. Be sure to check the product details and dimensions before purchasing a case to ensure it is compatible with your camera and accessories.

How do I accurately measure my camera for a custom-fit case?

To accurately measure your camera for a custom-fit case, use a flexible tape measure or ruler to measure the length, width, and height of your camera, as well as the dimensions of any attached accessories, such as lenses or flashes. Provide these measurements to the case manufacturer to ensure the best possible fit for your camera and accessories.
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2024.05.19 13:27 hesselbom I built an Apple Watch app for serious runners

The last few years Iā€™ve slowly built an app that aims to rival my friendsā€™ Garmin watches.
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2024.05.19 13:26 Orange_Menace1 Randyll Tarly - Blackfyre Supporter (my first theory)

Randyll Tarly - Blackfyre Supporter (my first theory)
Note: I started writing this and it got away from me. Rather than fill in the unfinished points, I've just left them there for everyone to consider

Preface

Randyll Tarly on a first read through is a jerk. He tortures Sam, insults Brienne, implements draconian justice and downplays the golden company threat. Prima-Facie, he is a violent commander with little political cunning.
Except for his results. By the end of ADWD
Ā· He receives accolades for every battle fought (I hold fire on the term won)
Ā· He holds the queen in his custody.
Ā· He has a voice at council
Ā· He secured his chosen heir in defiance of westrosi customs
If we assume these things didnā€™t happen by chance, we can re-examine some of his older achievements, actions, and then try to sort out his motives.

Randyll Tarly as a Commander

Roberts Rebellion

Battle of Ashford

Context: The battle of Ashford was Roberts one defeat in his rebellion. Tarlyā€™s van sailed forward and defeated Roberts host, but the battle was inconclusive. Robert retreated to the stony sept, recovered, regrouped, and when his allies arrived and consolidated forces, used this new army to win the war.

Relevant Sections ā€“ directly on point paragraphs:

A Storm of Swords - Tyrion III

Tyrion had to bite his tongue at that. Robb Stark had won more battles in a year than the Lord of Highgarden had in twenty. ~Tyrell's reputation rested on one indecisive victory over Robert Baratheon at Ashford, in a battle largely won by Lord Tarly's van before the main host had even arrived.~

A Storm of Swords - Davos V

"Edric, you ought not boast," Maester Pylos said. "King Robert suffered defeats like any other man. Lord Tyrell bested him at Ashford, and he lost many a tourney tilt as well."

A Storm of Swords - Samwell V

"Your father is an able soldier," King Stannis said. "He defeated my brother once, at Ashford. Mace Tyrell has been pleased to claim the honors for that victory, but Lord Randyll had decided matters before Tyrell ever found the battlefield. He slew Lord Cafferen with that great Valyrian sword of his and sent his head to Aerys." The king rubbed his jaw with a finger. "You are not the sort of son I would expect such a man to have."

A Dance with Dragons - The Griffin Reborn

~He had lost it all at Stoney Sept, in his arrogance.~
~Robert Baratheon had been hiding somewhere in the town, wounded and alone. Jon Connington had known that, and he had also known that Robert's head upon a spear would have put an end to the rebellion, then and there~. He was young and full of pride. How not? King Aerys had named him Hand and given him an army, and he meant to prove himself worthy of that trust, of Rhaegar's love. He would slay the rebel lord himself and carve a place out for himself in all the histories of the Seven Kingdoms.

Other information gleaned from context

Ā· Tarly did not inflict substantial casualties
Ā· Robert won the battle of the trident within a year ā€“ Ashford is 282AC and the trident is 283
Ā· Robert fled to and was sheltered in the stony sept, where Jon Connington failed to flush him out. The battle of the bells occurred in 283AC, as did the battle of the trident shortly after

Analysis

Randyll leads the van some distance ahead of the main force, gets into a battle with the rebels, and inflicts minor to moderate casualties before they escape. Tyrell takes the credit.
From a military point of view, if the battle had not been decided before the main force arrived, the war would have likely ended. A much larger force (with assumedly many more horsemen) would have won the battle both more conclusively, and been able to pursue. By all rights, the strategy enforced by Mace Tyrell should have won the war (this theme will come in later in this theory), but for the fact only a fraction of his army engaged far ahead of the main host.
As an aside and jumping ahead a little ā€“ Tarly avoids doing this after the blackwater, closing off escape routes and slaughtering everyone. This hints at the fact that Ashford was a tactical mistake.
The first three viewpoints we receive on the battle are of note.
Ā· Tyrion points out the battle was indecisive, and ~decided before the main host arrived~. He focuses on the victory in ā€˜battleā€™ as opposed to war.
Ā· Stannis points out how able Randyll is by defeating his brother once at Ashford. Although unable to ascribe any special military strategy to Randyll, he calls him ā€˜ableā€™ and decided matters before Tyrell arrived. He also flags that Mace Tyrell claimed the honours for the victory and he thinks this undeserved. Itā€™s interesting as itā€™s Maces host at Ashford, a host that by all rights should have crushed Roberts army in a single battle ā€“ given the van alone defeated him. He also ascribes the only kill of note as lord Cafferen
Ā· Maester Pylos points out that Robert lost battles at Ashford and flags it was Tyrell who bested him.
The battle by all appearances, was a farce. Ashford could have ended the war. Arguably, even with the van alone deciding the fight, it very nearly did. Instead, the battle is determined indecisive, there is no ā€˜impressive kill and capture listā€™ indicating the host was not captured or killed (as opposed to routed), and Mace has this massive potentially war-ending host not doing much because Robert is in retreat before it arrives.
Furthermore despite all this, Tarly very nearly won the day at Ashford. Robert suffered a serious ā€“ but nonfatal wound that seemingly took months (and at least weeks) to recover. The fact that a seriously wounded Robert was able to escape despite distinctive armour and weaponry raises questions of its own.
Finally, when Robert was wounded and hidden in the aftermath whilst he recovered, narratively it allowed JonCon to lay siege to the stony sept. As a parallel, one of the themes I will later touch on is how Tarly changes after this battle, and we know JonCon swears to kill more and become Tywin 2.0. as a direct result of the events at the sept. We see a similar change in Tarly.
Itā€™s also of note that Tarly and Tyrell at this point were on the Targaryen side. This crops up later when we look into other motivations and goals.
Aftermath
So we know that Robert suffers wounds and is somewhat detached from his host (be it they left him in the stoney sept or he scattered off from the main host). We know this as he ends up wounded in the Stoney Sept. After this, the battle of the bells and all the great victories that ended the war occur.
Notably, Tarly has no major military achievements after this battle. Since Mace Tyrell was invested in the siege of Storms end, it can be presumed Tarly was positioned with the main force. The next time we see him is in the battle of 5 kings ā€“

Discussion with Renly ā€“ The Siege of Stannis

  • Renly outright ignores Tarly when he says they'll be charging into the sun. In renlys conversation with stannis he points out how overwhelmingly strong his force is and how it will be heavy horse charging into boiled leather. He's not wrong, if the armies clash, stannis will be crushed and waiting is potentially disastrous, as stannis may not engage or slow the whole process down.

Battle of the Blackwater

A Clash of Kings - Sansa VII

They came up the roseroad and along the riverbank, through all the fields Stannis had burned, the ashes puffing up around their boots and turning all their armor grey, but oh! the banners must have been bright, the golden rose and golden lion and all the others, the Marbrand tree and the Rowan~, Tarly's huntsman~ and Redwyne's grapes and Lady Oakheart's leaf. All the westermen, all the power of Highgarden and Casterly Rock! ~Lord Tywin himself had their right wing~ on the north side of the river, with Randyll Tarly commanding the center and ~Mace Tyrell the left,~ but the vanguard won the fight. They plunged through Stannis like a lance through a pumpkin, every man of them howling like some demon in steel. And do you know who led the vanguard? Do you? Do you? Do you?"

A Storm of Swords - Catelyn II

"I told you to hold Riverrun," said Robb. "What part of that command did you fail to comprehend?"
"When you stopped Lord Tywin on the Red Fork," said the Blackfish, "you delayed him just long enough for riders out of Bitterbridge to reach him with word of what was happening to the east. ~Lord Tywin turned his host at once, joined up with Matthis Rowan and Randyll Tarly~ near the headwaters of the Blackwater, and made a forced march to Tumbler's Falls, ~where he found Mace Tyrell and two of his sons waiting with a huge host and a fleet of barges~. They floated down the river, disembarked half a day's ride from the city, and took Stannis in the rear."

We know tywin likes to put his strength on his flanks and in the reserve

Interestingly, Mace is there too, and itā€™s a tyrell van this time, not tarly
Lord Tywin himself had their right wing on the north side of the river, with Randyll Tarly commanding the center and Mace Tyrell the left, but the vanguard won the fight. They plunged through Stannis like a lance through a pumpkin, every man of them howling like some demon in steel.
ACOK 62: SANSA VII

Analysis

First the parallels. Mace Tyrell is paralleled to Tywin on the two flanks. It is a tyrell in the van who decides the day. Randyll commands the center.
Logistically, the battle is won by Mace Tyrell (whom I love as a character) with a fleet of barges and a huge host already in position (allowing the army to cross quickly enough to intercept the battle of the blackwater). Also the messenger that draws in Tywinā€™s host comes from Bitterbridge ā€“ Tyrell Lands. Given the van wins the battle, thereā€™s a fair argument that Mace could have won the battle alone, albeit with all the support he wins a crushing victory instead.
So Randyll is relegated to an important, but ultimately ancillary position. Whether the battle is won by Tywin or Mace (and by all logistical accounts, itā€™s Mace), is another question, but the ā€˜finest soldier in the seven kingdomsā€™ is once again, somewhat ineffectual. He still commands the center in such a battle, but he displays no logistical or battle prowess in this fight either, just being a renowned commander in the right place at the right time.

Battle of Duskendale

Ā· Lord Randyll defeats a northern army. The army is mostly foot and misplaced
Ā· This time, few excape ā€“ XXXX cuts off the retreat.
Ā· Some theories say he was tipped off by Roose Bolton.
Ā· This time he gets the commander
Ā· Figth occurs in FIELDS AND FARMS. Bad terrain for a retreat. Glover TRAPPED against blackwater bay
Ā· Note that Glover had to be captured lest bolton treachery be revealed. Cannot be allowed to send raven.
Ā· Strong implication of a trap and tipoff

A Storm of Swords - Catelyn IV

When they brought him word of the battle at Duskendale, where Lord Randyll Tarly had shattered Robett Glover and Ser Helman Tallhart, he might have been expected to rage.

A Storm of Swords - Tyrion VIII

But who would be mad enough to contest Joffrey's rule now, after what had befallen Stannis Baratheon and Robb Stark? There was still fighting in the riverlands, but everywhere the coils were tightening. Ser Gregor Clegane had crossed the Trident and seized the ruby ford, then captured Harrenhal almost effortlessly. Seagard had yielded to Black Walder Frey, ~Lord Randyll Tarly held Maidenpool, Duskendale, and the kingsroad.~

A Storm of Swords - Tyrion III

"No," their father said. "With the war. Varys."
The eunuch smiled a silken smile. "I have such delicious tidings for you all, my lords. Yesterday at dawn our ~brave Lord Randyll caught Robett Glover outside Duskendale and trapped him against the sea. Losses were heavy on both sides, but in the end our loyal men prevailed. Ser Helman Tallhart is reported dead, with a thousand others. Robett Glover leads the survivors back toward Harrenhal in bloody disarray, little dreaming he will find valiant Ser Gregor and his stalwarts athwart his path."~

A Storm of Swords - Tyrion I

"Until Lord Redwyne brings his fleet up, we lack the ships to assail Dragonstone. It makes no matter. Stannis Baratheon's sun set on the Blackwater. ~As for Stark, the boy is still in the west, but a large force of northmen under Helman Tallhart and Robett Glover are descending toward Duskendale. I've sent Lord Tarly to meet them, while Ser Gregor drives up the kingsroad to cut off their retreat.~ Tallhart and Glover will be caught between them, with a third of Stark's strength."

A Storm of Swords - Catelyn IV

When they brought him word of the battle at Duskendale, where ~Lord Randyll Tarly had shattered Robett Glover and Ser Helman Tallhart,~ he might have been expected to rage. Instead he'd stared in dumb disbelief and said, "Duskendale, on the narrow sea? Why would they go to Duskendale?" He'd shook his head, bewildered. "A third of my foot, lost for Duskendale?"
"The ironmen have my castle and now the Lannisters hold my brother," Galbart Glover said, in a voice thick with despair. Robett Glover had survived the battle, but had been captured near the kingsroad not long after.

A Feast for Crows - Brienne II

Lord Randyll Tarly had commanded Joffrey's army, made up of westermen and stormlanders and knights from the Reach. Those men of his who had died here had been carried back inside the walls, to rest in heroes' tombs beneath the septs of Duskendale. The northern dead, far more numerous, were buried in a common grave beside the sea. Above the cairn that marked their resting place, the victors had raised a rough-hewn wooden marker. HERE LIE THE WOLVES was all it said. Brienne stopped beside it and said a silent prayer for them, and for Catelyn Stark and her son Robb and all the men who'd died with them as well.



Analysis

Firstly we start with the obvious comparison. Tarly lets Robert escape when Mace otherwise very nearly won the war. Given another chance, Randyll pins his enemy against the sea and plans to not let a man escape. Having somewhat surrounded the opponent on known land, with reinforcements (Clegane) behind him, he still manages to suffer heavy casualties, and the target (XXXX) escapes.
What a colossal mistake. The only good news is he intercepted enough of the force that it seems no ravens got sent off showing exactly what happened, as if one message got back, the whole red wedding could have been undone.
Now prior posts have analyzed duskendale about allowing paths of retreat, and number of losses, but I think there are three key takeaways
1) The stark contrast between this and his tactics at Ashford
2) The fact that he failed to capture the host and Gregor Clegane had to clean up the mess
3) The fact he suffered heavy losses when by all rights he had every advantage (and still failed to capture the army)
Interestingly, the message that gets to Robb is that Tarly shattered glover. The actual message from Varys is only 1000 were killed, with Tallhart. Now its difficult to say how many foot there were, but itā€™s not unreasonable to assume that 1000 is less than to around half the force. Clegane captures Glover in the aftermath (thankfully), and Robb gets the report that Tarly shattered the force, when in actuality a good chunk of it was Clegane.
As a sidenote- this is indicative that Clegane actually isnā€™t a bad commander, and in turn this makes the fact that Edmure Tully threw him back more impressive.
We also donā€™t hear of any captives other than the ones taken by Clegane. It appears Tarly is putting men to the sword (SEE EARLIER).
Now before we get into conspiracy theories, we see Glover in ADWD conspiring with Madderly to help the starks and Stannis, so it seems this was not some cunning scheme where he secretly got himself captured.
Interestingly, the graves Brienne sees seem to indicate a crushing victory for Tarly, like the one described by Robb. This however is at odds with the report of Varys, and the fact Clegane had to mop up the leftover army. Now there are a few possibilities for this. Varys could be wrong/lying, heavy losses is being thrown around as a relative term (but that seems suspect), or the total of Tarly dead and Cleganeā€™s role is being hidden. The last seems the most likely, Robb hears of a crushing defeat led by Tarly not Clegane (which we know is at least partially false), the dead he kills donā€™t add up, and thereā€™s no mention of Clegane whom definitely did some of the work.
Also even assuming the whole situation is true and Tarly killed men at a 2/1 ratio, this assumes there are 500 heroes tombs under the septs at Duskendale. Simply put, there may not be that many. The whole aftermath stinks of a coverup. Tarly is getting Cleganes credit (and interestingly, itā€™s around now that Tywin decides not to give Clegane to oberyn).
Finally we get to the tinfoily bit. Helman garrisoned with Walder Frey to make sure he kept peace. Of the two lords, Helman is arguably more problematic, he knows more of Frey habits (when Tywin is scheming a betrayal) and his nephew is a possible hornwood claimant (cough Roose cough). If there was a conspiracy to kill one and ransom the other ā€“ I can see a world where Talhart is the one to be killed. In all reality though, this is a bit too ambitious, and in reality one just died and one escaped ā€“ without some super scheme that Tarly was involved in.
So in summary ā€“ once again Tarly fails his mission. At best, he bloodies an out of position army whilst taking heavy casualties, with his reinforcements on the way, and half the army breaks free (admittedly into Clegane). This is not a great display of prowess. We also know its possible to capture these men as hostages, as Clegane successfully does so ā€“ and Tarly fails to once again. Now itā€™s not catastrophic as the Northerners are bleeding men and trading troops tit for tat is beneficial, but the battle itself (the thing Randyll is in charge of) is highly unimpressive. The strategic victory goes to Tywin, whom in truth entrusts it as much to Gregor Clegane as to Tarly. As it so happens, Clegane delivers and Tarly doesnā€™t.


A summary as a commander

Talk about failing upwards
Ā· Charging ahead, he is able to turn a crushing win into an indecisive one which ultimately leads to Roberts Rebellion succeeding
Ā· He gives counsel to Renly about the sun when renly knows that the sheer strength of his cavalry makes the issue moot. Renly all but ignores him.
Ā· He doesnā€™t appear to do much during the battle of the blackwater
Ā· He manages to mess up essentially an ambush at Duskendale despite reinforcements being on the way
Ā· As a result of the 4 above points, he is given, lands, titles, honors and a position on the small council.
Upon actually reviewing his achievements and each individual battle, Iā€™ve 180ā€™d on Tarly. George RR Martin does a great job building him up, and having everyone describe him as a great commander, but actually unpacking his battles, he looks pretty underwhelming. The most important battle he won was Ashford, but that was a strategic catastrophe which otherwise could have potentially let Mace Tyrell win the war. Afterwards heā€™s carefully managed, with Renly outright dismissing him, Mace keeping the key positions of command in other peopleā€™s hands and Tywin going so far as to dispatch a trusted force behind him in the event he fails again ā€“ WHICH HE DOES.


Politicks, Loyalties and Conspiracies

Thereā€™s a lot to get through so Iā€™m not going to source everything here. Rather, Iā€™ll list dot points, and we will be collecting everything under theories. In time it may be worth sourcing this all, but for now, I want to get something out ā€“ so itā€™ll be shortform
Ā· Historically house is blackfyre
Ā· Renly Sworn NOT STANNIS
Ā· Joined at bitterbridge to Renly
Ā· Shadowbaby and killing others
Ā· VIEWS ON MAESTERS
Ā· Killing Stannis supporters at bitterbridge
Ā· Saving Brienne
Ā· Helping Brienne / Bewilderment
Ā· Views on Women and Strongmen
Ā· Sam, Maesters, the Marches and Strength
Ā· Maidenpool Rulership
Ā· Renown amonst common men
Ā· Downplaying the Golden Company
Ā· Bravosi Debts
Ā· Taking the QUEEN ahead of Mace Tyrell

Theoreis Stemming off Data

The Blackfyre Theory

Letā€™s assume that Randyll supported the Blackfyres because his house traditionally were Blackfyre Loyalists. This is a little thin on evidence, but quite a few of his actions also support this, lending some credence to the theory
1) He swore to Renly not Stannis.
a. Stannis was 17 or 18 when he held storms end. He is approximately 13 years older than Renly, making Renly 5 at the time. This means that during Roberts Rebellion, for all relevant purposes, Renly was a non-participant, whilst Stannis actively fought against the dragons. If Randyll is a dragon supporter, his repulsion at joining Stannis is apparent.
b. In fact, he goes as far as to kill stannis supporters at bitterbridge to consolidate the reach forces. This is interesting as it contrasts stannis whom takes pains to not kill the karstarks to a man once he realizes their treason.
2) He downplays the golden company
a. At the end of AFWC, Randyll is downplaying the golden company as much as he can. If we assume he is pro-dragon, this gives time for the blackfyre cause to swell, as he delays Kevan Lannister to the best of his ability
3) He hates the Maesters
a. Between the Grand Maester Conspiracy [LINK], lady Dustinā€™s general hatred of Maesters and Marwynā€™s comments about Maesters and Dragons, it seems credible that dragon supporters may have cause to mistrust Maesters. Indeed, we get hints of this from Doran, and a general mistrust of Maesters by some of the lesser lords.
i. "I would need a bucket, with this pain. Thank you, but no. I want my wits about me. I'll have no more need of you tonight."
b. This explains also why he is so determined Sam will not become a Maester and why he drives him to the nights watch. If he is a loyalist, heā€™s never going to let a member of his family into an enemy order. If Sam is given any sort of free reign in a role other than lord, heā€™s going to end up a Maester (indeed even at the nights watch he ends up there, despite his protests and fears of his fathers wroth).
4) Do we actually see any trouble in the marches. I donā€™t think we do and itā€™s only STANNIS who fears dorne through the marches, not Tarly or Tyrell. In fact, this area is left undefended when they march on the blackwater.
a. I have a sub-theory that despite complaining a lot, we donā€™t see any real antagonism between Dorne and the reach throughout the series, just some loud complaining that makes us think of antagonism. Oberyn hints at this to Tyrion.
5) Killing Florents
a. Florents have ties to Stannis
b. Florents are Tyrell rivals
c. Florents instantly defect to stannis. Note they were set aside by dragons over highgarden
d. Their protests were denied by King Aegon I, perhaps because the Florents had fought House Targaryen when the Tyrells did not.
e. https://www.reddit.com/asoiaf/comments/3tr6gx/spoilers_all_house_of_the_week_house_florent/
i. Theories florents Green
6) This is of course also consistent with him racing Ahead of Mace Tyrellā€™s army and having the Tyrell queen taken into his personal custody. Unfortunately, this bodes badly for our lovely doe-eyed Margery. Oh well.
7) ~If it were up to me, I would send them all to the Night's Watch, and Connington with them. The Wall is where such scum belong."~ Heā€™s setting it up so the only legitimate claimant of JonConā€™s lands is in fact, JonCon. Obviously a new lord can be appointed, but this suggested move adds legitimacy to the blackfyre cause, removing the heir apparent and putting JonCon back in his ancestral lands without a real challenger.

1) The ā€˜show of strength / toxic masculinity theoryā€™
a. This theory has to do with Tarly appearing competent millirarily rather than being competent. He doles harsh justice and havy discipline, which in some ways hides his lackluster results as a commander. I should note this is the weakest of the three theories, but it sort of feeds into the other two.
b. This would be indicative of his hatred for Sam. The moment the ā€˜veilā€™ of masculinity and strength is lifted, his actual achievements are lackluster
c. After ashford he appears much more brutal than before. We have no indication he was brutal pre Ashford, and post ashford heā€™s executing enemies, cornering and murdering northmen to a man (as best he can at least) and doling out harsher justice than his peers
d. Every character who speaks of Tarly speaks of his millirary accolades. I think his ā€˜larger than lifeā€™ persona has played at least a part in this, and Tarly looks the part as the veteran commander.
e. I ought to note this theory doesnā€™t stop Tarly from playing the game of thrones, it just suggests he isnā€™t an exceptional tactical commander. Logistically, he has always been with the winning side as a vassal, heā€™s been able to spin every battle to gain honors and accolades, and he has a knack for being in the right place at the right time (declaring for renly early, being in the van at ashford etc.)
f. All that aside, this theory also doesnā€™t stop Tarly from being a jerk. Given how he acts to Sam and both towards and around Brienne, we are naturally inclined to mislike him as a harsh leader.
2) Not as dumb as he looks theory
a. Heā€™s taken the queen into his personal Custody. We literally heard from Renly back in book 1 ā€“ he who holds the XXXX holds the crown. With all the chaos in the recent books, itā€™s easy to miss, but this is a huge move in the game of thrones. The Tyrells do not have the queen. Tarly does.
b. As far as I can tell, heā€™s never been at real risk in a battle since Ashford. He had backup and numbers at duskendale, a massive host at the blackwater, The Siege of Storms End was just a great big preservation of army by Mace whilst Roberts rebellion raged, and the Siege on Stannis was totally lopsided but for magic shadow-baby.
c. Dorne does not seem to have acted against him once nor demanded concessions. [CHECK]. For a lord in the Dornish Marches which have been tumultuous for years, this is somewhat of a big deal. He also seems to be unafraid of moving his forced forward ā€“ we have no indication he left levies to protect himself from Dorne, hinting that he wasnā€™t afraid of Dorne misbehaving (even if only to harry border towns, a bit like Bolton grabbing up the hornwood lands).
d. He sucks up to the bravosi Banker when all the debts are being called in. We have this picture of this strong, just, military man, but the banker scene shows heā€™s not just a sword arm, and he knows when to suck up. This is important as it shows he is at least considering the wider world and the future outside of the battles, as opposed to a certain dwarf whom never actually meets the bankers.
e. He has turned a bunch of mediocre achievements into being renowned as the greatest soldier in the realm. By all rights, Stannis and Robb are much better commanders (with the caveat that Robb was only good tactically). If we want to get nasty, Mace Tyrell has only won crushing victories ā€“ with the exception of ashford (messed up by Tarly) and storms end (where he lost no troops in a rebellion that depleted most of the realm).
i. The most competent appearing thing he said was to not charge into the sun, which was largely irrelevant when plated heavy cavalry is charging into boiled leather. As Renly said to Stannis, his force wouldnā€™t survive first impact, so this whole sun business is a bit silly.
ii. Arguably the most competent thing was executing all the soldiers considering going over to Stannis, but Iā€™m not sure if this is truly competent or just brutality ā€“ Stannis did not do the same with the Karstarks in a similar position.
f. Heā€™s bypassed succession laws. By getting rid of Sam he has set himself up with his chosen heir. Look at the thorny knot Tywin tied himself with Tyrion, whom still arguably is the rightful heir to Castelry Rock (which he made full use of with the Second Suns). We know Maesters can be kicked out of the order (see our favourite necromancer), and can be used to play with succession (Aemon is a good example, albeit he said no) and I donā€™t really see Sam as a priest.
i. Thereā€™s actually a good question as to whether he would have killed Sam. The gods hate kinslayers, and the threat sufficed. If we assume tarly isnā€™t an idiot, he would have realized the threat likely sufficient.
g. Given how he sets himself up at Maidenpool, its hinted that the Maidenpool land is part of his reward for the blackwater. We never hear of exactly ā€˜whatā€™ Tarlyā€™s reward is, except in the aftermath heā€™s patrolling Duskendale (still seemingly with house Rykker),, Maidenpool and the kings road, and seems to be setting himself up in Maidenpool for the long haul. In AFFC, Tarlyā€™s heir is married off to Eleanor Mooton (the seeming heiress to maidenpool) and Tommen pardons Moonton. Maidenpool is a major port in the world of Ice and Fire, which would make it a fine reward[[1]](#_ftn1).
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Other key takeaways

BRIENNE THING

A Feast for Crows - Brienne III

Randyll Tarly solved the mystery the day he sent two of his men-at-arms to summon her to his pavilion. His young son Dickon had overheard four knights laughing as they saddled up their horses, and had told his lord father what they said.

ā€¦ "The gods made men to fight, and women to bear children," said Randyll Tarly. "A woman's war is in the birthing bed."
Someone was coming down the cellar steps. Brienne pushed her wine aside as a ragged, scrawny, sharp-faced man with dirty brown hair stepped into the Goose. He gave the Tyroshi sailors a quick look and Brienne a longer one, then went up to the plank. "Wine," he said, "and none o' your horse piss in it, thank'e."

JUSTICE THING


Battle of the Blackwater ā€“ a step Sideways



In short
Randyll Tarly is a shrewd Blackfyre loyalist who now has custody of the queen, a position on the small council and whom is not considered a political threat. Heā€™s not half the commander heā€™s made out to be, probably has anti-maester sentiment and is possibly friendly with Doran Martell. And he has an army.
This has been quite a ride and Iā€™m sure I got many details wrong so letā€™s end on a high note. Given all this, I expect Randyll to sacrifice Margery and prove ser pounceā€™s lineage to the age of conquest. Tommen will blindly stamp a document marrying himself to the cat, the white walkers will be appeased (their problem is only humans), and everyone lives happily ever after except for Danerys who dies.
Maidenpool
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2024.05.19 13:25 OtherBee6365 Iā€™m a former drug dealer/current addict (23M) that is struggling to let go of my SO (22F) due to her BPD/Suicidal Ideation

Iā€™ve been struggling with opiate addiction for over a year now and am planning another trip to rehab.
I found a girl in my hometown who I love dearly. Sheā€™s sweet, passionate and empathetic with animals and my family really loves her.
When I met her Iā€™d been selling drugs (cocaine, mainly) as a means to provide for myself. I was living with my parents at the time and would only use my own supply on occasion.
Fast forward a year and weā€™re consistently doing drugs together in a condo that Iā€™d rented, I learn more about her messed up childhood and how she had been neglected, see the neglect with my own eyes and end up sympathizing deeply for her. She tells me she just wants to die and that the thoughts of death are so comforting to her.
Iā€™d been so consumed by selling drugs that Iā€™d left her at the apartment alone for nights on end while I was out selling, thinking I was ā€˜providingā€™ for her. She spiralled into addiction due to also having access to all of these substances. At this point weā€™re constantly under turmoil and chaos from my lifestyle (junkies showing up, police doing sweeps, me on edge awaiting conflict). She ends up cheating on me after feeling neglected (I had cheated on her prior and thus forgave her, I was a scumbag) and we fall apart for a bit.
I find out sheā€™s pregnant weeks later, we end up having an ultrasound and subsequently an abortion. This devastates her, as sheā€™d become attached to the baby as had I. During this period weā€™d broken up but Iā€™d gotten back together with her after seeing the pain of losing her child and feeling so much for her. I could tell she wanted nothing more than to be a mother.
She ended up trying to take her own life by slitting her wrists out of pure anguish and misery. This broke my heart and put her in to psychiatric care.
Fast forward a few months: I just get out of rehab, she got out of the psych unit and weā€™re together. Iā€™m back at my parents sitting on my ass doing drugs after a stint in rehab and praying to god for guidance. My mental health and social skills are completely deteriorated. Iā€™m planning another trip to rehab as Iā€™m writing this, but donā€™t want keep her hostage to such a toxic lifestyle. She seems to really want nothing more than to be a mother, but Iā€™m a terrible influence on her constantly doing drugs in front of her and drinking with her at my parents. All we do all day is rot in bed and watch TV hoping things will get better.
Sheā€™s struggling with her mental health and I donā€™t know how to save her, free her or myself. Iā€™m worried that if I end things she will kill herself, or think I donā€™t love her. I was thinking of buying her a car with my savings as she lives in very unfortunate circumstances, just so she can have a means of transport and get on her feet. She loves animals and I just want to see her blossom, but donā€™t know how to go about this and have both of us survive.
Sorry for how messy this is. Hard to type when Iā€™m in this much pain. I have relationship based OCD, terrible anxiety and depression since I was a child.
TL;DR im deep in addiction and canā€™t let go of a girl im watching suffer who wants nothing more than to be a mother and love me. I love her but think im poisoning her and will just cause great pain for the both of us as my every thought is consumed by her.
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2024.05.19 13:20 OtherBee6365 Iā€™m a former drug dealer/current addict (23M) that is struggling to let go of my SO (22F) due to her BPD/Suicidal Ideation

Iā€™ve been struggling with opiate addiction for over a year now and am planning another trip to rehab.
I found a girl in my hometown who I love dearly. Sheā€™s sweet, passionate and empathetic with animals and my family really loves her.
When I met her Iā€™d been selling drugs (cocaine, mainly) as a means to provide for myself. I was living with my parents at the time and would only use my own supply on occasion.
Fast forward a year and weā€™re consistently doing drugs together in a condo that Iā€™d rented, I learn more about her messed up childhood and how she had been neglected, see the neglect with my own eyes and end up sympathizing deeply for her. She tells me she just wants to die and that the thoughts of death are so comforting to her.
Iā€™d been so consumed by selling drugs that Iā€™d left her at the apartment alone for nights on end while I was out selling, thinking I was ā€˜providingā€™ for her. She spiralled into addiction due to also having access to all of these substances. At this point weā€™re constantly under turmoil and chaos from my lifestyle (junkies showing up, police doing sweeps, me on edge awaiting conflict). She ends up cheating on me after feeling neglected (I had cheated on her prior and thus forgave her, I was a scumbag) and we fall apart for a bit.
I find out sheā€™s pregnant weeks later, we end up having an ultrasound and subsequently an abortion. This devastates her, as sheā€™d become attached to the baby as had I. During this period weā€™d broken up but Iā€™d gotten back together with her after seeing the pain of losing her child and feeling so much for her. I could tell she wanted nothing more than to be a mother.
She ended up trying to take her own life by slitting her wrists out of pure anguish and misery. This broke my heart and put her in to psychiatric care.
Fast forward a few months: I just get out of rehab, she got out of the psych unit and weā€™re together. Iā€™m back at my parents sitting on my ass doing drugs after a stint in rehab and praying to god for guidance. My mental health and social skills are completely deteriorated. Iā€™m planning another trip to rehab as Iā€™m writing this, but donā€™t want keep her hostage to such a toxic lifestyle. She seems to really want nothing more than to be a mother, but Iā€™m a terrible influence on her constantly doing drugs in front of her and drinking with her at my parents. All we do all day is rot in bed and watch TV hoping things will get better.
Sheā€™s struggling with her mental health and I donā€™t know how to save her, free her or myself. Iā€™m worried that if I end things she will kill herself, or think I donā€™t love her. I was thinking of buying her a car with my savings as she lives in very unfortunate circumstances, just so she can have a means of transport and get on her feet. She loves animals and I just want to see her blossom, but donā€™t know how to go about this and have both of us survive.
Sorry for how messy this is. Hard to type when Iā€™m in this much pain.
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2024.05.19 13:18 pillowcase-of-eels [Music] Emilie Autumn's Asylum, pt. 6 ā€“ High-concept musician responds to online criticism by waging successful attrition war against her own fanbase

šŸŖž
Welcome back to the Asylum write-up, where we explore the decade-long slow-motion car crash that is the Emilie Autumn fandom.
Sorry this installment took so long to upload! Just a heads-up, I may take some time to deliver the last one too ā€“ these posts take forever to format on Reddit's finicky-ass editor, and my dumb real life is currently keeping me from precious Internet time. Thank you for your patience! You have my word that everyone who pre-ordered the final installment will receive a PERSONAL, HANDWRITTEN letter autographed and illustrated by me, a list of the snacks I consumed while composing this write-up, some exclusive behind-the-scenes secrets, and a pony.
Part 1 Part 2 Part 3 Part 4.1 ā€“ Part 4.2 Part 5
Places, everyone This is a test Throw your stones Do your damage Your worst, and your best (...) And if I had a dollar For every time I repented the sin And commit the same crime I'd be sitting on top of the world today (ā€œGod Help Meā€, 2006šŸŽµ)
Quick recap of where we left off. First, there were five to ten halcyon years of pleasant and meaningful interactions between EA and her blossoming fanbase, prominently by way of her official forum. Then, circa 2009-2010, EA's online presence shifted towards sudden anger outbursts, ban-hammering, and an increasingly top-down communication style.
This created a sort of primordial rift within the fanbase, between those who supported EA's right to speak her mind and regulate her own fan spaces however she pleased ā€“ and those who thought that her reactions were rude and inappropriate (at best), and that even fan spaces should allow for reasonable, non-abusive criticism of the artist.
Between a poorly-handled book release (see Part 3), the controversial (Part 2) or dubiously true (Part 4) contents of said book, and serious shade from various former collaborators (Part 5), more and more fans had pressing thoughts about EA's work ethic and choices. EA attempted damage control through drastic forum rules that made it virtually impossible to voice any ā€œseriousā€ critical opinion. It didn't work, of course: instead of squashing the mutiny, she created a schism.
Critical fans and active haters started congregating on unofficial platforms.

ā€œWITH MUFFINS LIKE THIS, WHO NEEDS ENEMIES?ā€: TROLL LIKE A GIRL

So here we were, the early 2010s. The official forum (which had about 700 members in 2006, if you recall) was now thousands-strong, reaching just over 12,000 registered users in 2012 ā€“ not all of them active, but still. In terms of sheer numbers and content creation, the party was POPPIN'... but increasingly in parts of the Asylum that escaped EA's jurisdiction, such as Tumblr, where they could speak their mind freely.
You play the victim very well You've built your self-indulgent hell You wanted someone to understand you Well, be careful what you wish for, because I do (ā€œI Know Where You Sleepā€, 2006šŸŽµ)
In one wing of Asylum Tumblr, a smattering of call-out blogs emerged, which laid out EA's various lies, faux pas, shitty takes, and general deep-seated terribleness in detailed timelines and screenshots (or, short of that, long-winded bullet points). While many such blogs framed it as ā€œseriousā€ whistleblowing and did their best to remain as fact-based and neutral as they could, there was some genuine disgust, animosity and creepiness towards EA on that side of Tumblr; for some ex-fans, ā€œexposing the truthā€ was mostly justify obsessive hatred, prying and verbal abuse. Some, for instance, felt the bizarre need to side with EA's mother in their estrangement. (One user, with the URL ā€œemilyautumnfischkopfā€, argued in a serious and down-to-earth tone - but with zero sources - that EA's upbringing had been nothing but peaceful and supportive until she ungratefully kicked her loving family to the curb for no reason at all. They were later revealed šŸ” to have an alternate handle as ā€œeaisalyingcuntā€.)
Either way, through these blogs, a number of potential drama bombs that had mostly flown under the radar were dredged up from over the years ā€“ some of which were hard to ignore, even for supportive fans. Where to begin?
There was that nonsense in-joke song, captured twice on camera during the 2009 tour (to very little outrage, at the time), crassly called ā€œManatee Retardā€šŸ“ŗ. Or EA's scathing response, in print, to a wheelchair user who found it insensitive that she used a bedazzled wheelchair as a prop to do sexy acrobatics on stage. (ā€œYour offence taken at my hard-won self-acceptance proves that I indeed have something to fight againstā€, she wrote). Spoken word tracks where she made trivializing knock-knock jokes about serious mental illnesses she didn't have, like schizophrenia and OCD. Multiple instances of calling Britney Spears a ā€œbimboā€ and a ā€œHollywood fucked-upā€, resentfully claiming that she only shaved her head because she was ā€œhopped up on drugsā€ and certainly not because she was ā€œbipolarā€, a word the press liked to wield as an insult anyway. (ā€œThat's almost like calling someone a retard!ā€ Yeah, heaven forbid.) The meanest, most distasteful paragraphs in the book. Basically everything problematic EA had ever said or written.šŸ“ In retrospect, it had been a long time coming, but it was a lot to take in ā€“ and certainly more off-putting, even to less emotionally invested fans, than silly lies about her age and last name.
In another wing of Asylum Tumblr, some fans had had it up to here and just wanted to have fun. šŸŽµ If Plague Rats had learned one valuable lesson from EA, it was how to crack a joke in the face of absurd tragedy ā€“ and the general state of the EA fandom certainly warranted a few.
In 2012, Fight Like a Girl was released. After six long years, three of which had been peaceful, the Opheliac era was officially over. The new album and ensuing tour confirmed that the Asylum had entered a process of glamorous Broadway-style militarization. šŸŽµšŸ“ŗ
The mood board was ā€œRoman general meets Vegas showgirl meets Victorian street urchinā€.šŸŖž The color palette was, to naysayers, ā€œmusty pink and rotten, stale piss yellowā€. šŸ€ The keyword was ā€œREVENGEā€ (through the power of... self-expression! sorority! brutal assault with rusty medical implements!). The chorus of the title song had an intriguing run-on line about getting ā€œrevenge on the world, or at least 49% of the people in itā€ šŸŽµ ā€“ which seemed like an awful lot, and was widely interpreted (to cheers, boos, or uncomfortable sighs) as a misandrist jab at literally all men on Earth.
The show was essentially a demo version of the musical, in that the setlist vaguely reflected the order of events in the story ā€“ but prior reading was essential in order to get what the hell was going on on stage. This one Broadway reviewer had not perused the literature before seeing the show šŸ”, and hated: the set, the choreography, the skits, the plot, the lyrics, the music, the concept. (Seriously, you should read the review. It's not even my show and I feel like quitting show business.)
Pre-show VIP encounters, now violin-free, were lorded over by EA's new manageršŸ€, whose official title was ā€œAsylum Headmistressā€. (Interesting choice ā€“ she sounds fun!) The swag bags were less substantial than before, and the ā€œgreetā€ part of the meet-and-greet was rarely more than a quick hug and photo op.
On Twitter, EA continued to embrace her ā€œI am very badassā€ fronting attitude...
Often wonder if cyberbullies r aware theyā€™re fucking w/ a girl whoā€™s BFs w/ maker of the SAW films & is marrying a knife-throwing scorpion. (šŸ€šŸ“)
...and her taste for needlessly inflammatory statements. About an aisle sign in a supermarket:
If this does not infuriate you, then you're a fucking potato.
(Again with the confounding crypto-ableism, EA! šŸ”) She also went through a phase of raging against Lady Gaga šŸ“, who had stolen her idea of using a wheelchair on stage as an able-bodied woman. šŸ” That failed to convince anyone that she wasn't the histrionic diva that haters made her out to be.
Spurred on by EA's rallying cries and ā€œus vs themā€ mentality, loyalists turned the white-knighting up to 11. On Twitter, some Plague Rats got into cat fights with Lady Gaga's Little Monsters (what a time to be alive). Others tried to balance out the Tumblr negativity with initiatives like ā€œSpreading a Plague of Loveā€ ā€“ a ā€œpositive-onlyā€ confession blog, whose extreme fangirling, comically drastic rules and hyper-defensive tonešŸ“ did not debunk the increasingly popular notion that ā€œtrue Plague Ratsā€ were a bunch of authoritarian and hopelessly brainwashed fanatics.
EA truthers and other anti-fans started lashing out at anyone who dared express any positive opinion of EA, solidifying claims that the backlash against EA was just a conspiracy of bitter, hysterical bullies.
All this to say: every passing day brought new reasons for fans to get mad at EA and each other, and everyone in the Asylum was in need of a laugh. It's not easy having a good time.šŸ¦ 
Leading up to Fight Like a Girl and in the years that followed, user-submission-based meme blogs took off, most notably ā€œSpreading a Plague of Lulz / Troll Like a Girlā€. A lot of the early submissions were absurdist humor and toothless, cheezburger-Impact memes (a style that was, oddly, already dated at the time). Those often originated in good fun, and from loyal fans, on the official forum. But there was also true snark, satirizing EA's questionable ethics, outrageous claims, and easily spoofed artistic gimmicks. A new slang of Asylumspeak emerged: Glittertits (slight NSFW), GAGA!!, EA Gusta and all its memeface variants, Get outta mah house!, Are You Suffering?, Fight Like A Goat, [Random celebrity] copied EA (a subgenre in its own right), ...
Most of the ā€œtrollingā€ was directed at unrepentant bootlickers and, to a lesser extent, red-in-the-face haters and creeps. Meme blogs would post joke comments under ā€œseriousā€ or gushing submissions on Wayward Victorian Confessions, and taunt loyalist accounts by tagging them in their posts. When a few people complained on WVC that almost all of the Bloody Crumpets to date had been thin white able-bodied women, and a few fans responded by sharing their dream-casts for a more diverse line-up, the blog was flooded for days with confessions that ā€œX should be a Crumpetā€ (candidates included RuPaul, Mitt Romney, Nicki Minaj, EA's therapist, and the WVC admins). Farcical shenanigans like that.
Ah, but some people will always cross the line, won't they. EA threads popped up on merciless, bully-friendly snark platforms like Lolcow, Pretty Ugly Little Liar, and Encyclopedia Dramatica. Snarkers with a mean streak and obsessive haters mingled in some of the more aggressive, 4-chan-spirited retaliation against EA ā€“ which would be called ā€œbrigadingā€ in modern parlance. This included flooding EA's Goodreads page with one-star reviews (see part 4), repeatedly editing her Wikipedia page to include her legal name and birth year, and ensuring that Googling said name would bring up current pictures of her.
All of this compounded agitation fragmented the once-united fandom beyond recognition.šŸ¦  Through substantial disagreements among fans, personal bickerings, layers upon layers of inscrutable in-jokes, and cross-platform telephone games, the Asylum morphed into a booby-trapped Escher room.
Satire blogs were taken in earnest. Earnest fan blogs scanned as satire. Memes would get called out as abuse. Appreciation without attached criticism would get mocked as bootlicking. Obvious jokes made by EA would be taken at face value. One divisive confession could trigger days and days of debate, to the point that WVC eventually banned confessions in response to other confessions. New waves of infighting created a confusing web of rival sub-factionsšŸ€, each accusing the others of being toxic, cliquish, and delusional.
The shared fantasy was broken, the collective vision had crumbled, no onez was speaking the same language anymore. Fans would jump down the throat of other fans who held almost identical views about EA, except for that one thing she said or did that one time. Everyone had differing thoughts on what should or shouldn't acceptable to discuss, question, excuse, make fun of.
War is hell.

SCORCHED EARTH SHENANIGANS: HONEY, I SHRUNK THE ASYLUM

Would you tear my castle down Stone by stone And let the wind run through my windows Till there was nothing left But a battered rose? (ā€œCastle Downā€, 2003šŸŽµ)
Haters vs sycophants is not really the kind of conflict where one side can come out on top (if you're participating, you've already lost). But in the long tug-of-war between ā€œgrassrootsā€ and ā€œEA-sponsoredā€ fan spaces, the ultimate winner is obvious ā€“ in that the former is gasping in agony, a shriveled husk of its former glory, while the latter... is non-existent. This is due in no small part to EA's tendency, like the Czars of old, to settle conflicts by setting Moscow on fire.šŸ”)
That's not entirely fair: unlike EA, the czar only did it that once.
By early 2013, as EA was gearing up for her third Fight Like a Girl tour at the end of the year, the official forum was... not as lively as it once had been. Not just because of the stifling rules and disgruntlement towards EA, or because EA herself hadn't really posted anything on there in years; the Internet was also changing, and forums in general were fast becoming passƩ.
This made it difficult for EA to create a safe space where she could talk to fans, and fans could talk to and about her, in a way she deemed suitable (ie, a space she could gate-keep and regulate enough to keep it completely free from negative criticism). Social media was a minefield; she still posted regularly, but didn't interact very much. So EA and the Headmistress came up with a way to filter out the unbelievers: an official fan clubšŸ“, aptly called the ā€œAsylum Armyā€, with a $100 entry price.
Joining the AA came with a dog tag, a sew-on patch, and a lifetime membership certificate signed by EA and ā€“ for some reason ā€“ the Headmistress. (Unlike EA's best friend and sound engineer back in the forum's heyday, I don't think fans ever really embraced the FLAG-era manager as part of the Asylum in-group. She came across more as a coordinator / businessperson / adult chaperone, at best.šŸ€) So, slightly better goodies than you'd get by joining the other AA šŸ” ... but not by much. The main appeal was that members would have access to exclusive content, special merch, giveaways, early bird tickets for future shows, and regular video chats with EA.
The concept itself drew a fair amount of criticism, as you can imagine. Between the namešŸ€, the price, and the inherent gatekeeping of a pay-to-join fanclub, many balked at the monetizing of a concept that had once (like, three years back) been significantly more DIY, grassroots, and inclusive. šŸ“šŸ€
Then again, many also longed for a positive, drama-free space where fans could just be fans. And while the creation of the AA was generally recognized as a quick cashgrab, a lot of people were surprisingly cool with it. EA was trying to finance her dream musical, after all ā€“ although a number of fans wished she had gone about raising funds in a less sketchy way.
So around 400 fans shelled out (which, according to the HeadmistressšŸ“, ā€œbasically cover[ed] the cost of running the fanclub itself ā€“ keeping the database up, website, etc.ā€). Enough for a close-knit, but sizable community. But already, there was a conflict of interest: a high fanclub entry fee essentially demands that you pledge loyalty to the artist over loyalty to your fellow fans, who wish to join but can't afford to. Sharing, caring, and ensuring no one felt left out were some of the more positive values cultivated in the fandom... but leaking exclusive content would surely piss off other paying membersšŸ€, and make EA feel betrayed all over again. (And she had barely just started to mellow out on social media!)
...But then again, this is the internet. After the first month of secret AA drops (lyric sheets, some photoshoot outtakes ā€“ nothing too juicy, really), there were, yes, some leaks. EA was predictably miffed, and retaliated by... ghosting the fanclub for weeks at a time in its first few months of existence (great look!). She eventually found the ā€œsolutionā€ to her problem, by providing something you couldn't right-click-save (and which had been part of the promised perks to begin with): live interaction.
Over webcam, she was her usual in-person bubbly, charming, funny self. Everyone seemingly had a good time during the fanclub video chat, and this gave people faith and hope.
There were a few more events, giveaways, etc. As promised, ahead of the fall 2013 tour (the last one to date, it would turn out), AA members got priority access to show tickets and VIP bundles. The latter were much pricier than before, and only included soundcheck, a photo-op, and three goodies: a tin of loose-leaf tea, a signed printer-paper setlist, and a small flag that said ā€œF.L.A.G.ā€.šŸ” Some stuff continued to leak ā€“ but, as some of the outlaws pointed out (scroll down to the Disqus comments), they were mostly relaying information that was relevant to the entire fanbase, such as updates about ongoing projects (the dragged-out recording of the audiobook, for one).
In early 2014, lifetime memberships were closed, and replaced with monthly, quarterly and yearly subscription tiers. Bizarrely, you ended up paying $3 more per month if you bought a $99 yearly subscriptionšŸ“ ā€“ but it did include the patch, dog tag, and piece of paper!
Sometimes I kind of want to be part of the cool kids and register to the Asylum Army. Then I remember how it came about, what you could get for the same price a couple years ago, how the whole thing was and is handled, and that I wonā€™t support any of this bullshit. (And then I roll around naked in all the money Iā€™m saving.) (šŸ€)
Still, a number of fans rejoiced at the affordable monthly option, and joined ā€“ if not for the exclusive content and merch (which were... okay, but not much to write home about), then for the friendly, drama-free exchanges with an artist they actually did love, in spite of all the frustration.
For the still-too-poor or still-undecided, there was always the forum! It wasn't as active as it used to be, but a few die-hards still managed to keep the lights on... until, inevitably, Someone Did Something and Ruined Everything. (Once again: EA's wrath is spectacular, but rarely completely unprovoked.) The incident features one notable figure in the Asylum community. Let's call him the Collector.
OK, so maybe you remember the meme I linked to in Part 4, with Christian Grey and the ginormous EA hoard. Well, that's the Collector's collection. The ā€œViolinā€ promo that I called the "Holy Grail of the fandom" in the same paragraph? Also his. The handwritten lyrics that went for $940? Guess who won that auction. Over the years, the Collector had probably spent five figures on EA merch and shows, and although that fact was a little unsettling, he was a very active, easy-going, and generally well-liked fixture of the fandom.
One day in 2012, shortly after the Headmistress had replaced EA's old Chicago BFF as main forum admin, the Collector's account got banned or restricted over something dumb. When the ban wasn't lifted as quickly as he hoped, he took it... the way one takes things when one is unhealthily invested: he started spamming Headmistress and the mod team with increasingly rambling and abusive emails (lost to time, probably for the best). When that didn't work quickly enough, he tried a different route.
One of the many auctions that the Collector had won, some years prior, was EA's old iPod TouchšŸ“ ā€“ which contained all of her favorite tunes and, buried somewhere in the data cache... a phone number. Which the Collector tried calling. And wouldn't you know it: EA picked up. She congratulated him on his sleuthing skills, listened patiently as he made his case, apologized for any distress caused by the unfair account restriction, and then they got married.
Kidding! She freaked the fuck out, hung up, and banned him for life from the forum and all EA shows and events.
After his ban, the Collector allegedly still tried to attend at least one VIP pre-show (one source in the comments says he was allowed to buy some merch, refunded for his ticket, and escorted out). He joined the Reform forum to bitch about EA and try to rally people to his cause, possibly made revenge posts about her on darker snark forums, and continued to hound the Asylum mod team. So in June 2014, EA came up with a radical and unexpected fix to the Collector problem.
The official Asylum Fan Forum has been shut down permanently. I have personally paid thousands of dollars each year to keep the forum safe and secure for you ... Unfortunately, the forum has not been kept safe and secure for me, a truth which disappoints me greatly, instead becoming a place where people who have physically threatened myself and my staff prey upon forum members, pressuring them to contact me and my staff on their behalf. If the gullible wish to humor my stalkers (who live in their parentā€™s basement at age 30 something) and thus put me in danger, they may do it on their own dime. They may also fuck off, because stupidity can kill, and I wonā€™t be your victim. To those who enjoyed the forum, you know who to thank for its closure. (ā€œOn the closing of the Asylum Forumā€)
VoilƠ! This is how a decade-long archive of shared history ends: not with a bang, but with a dirty delete and a sod-off communiquƩ.
The obliteration of the forum took everyone by surprise...
I was actually on the forum when it was taken down. I was navigating between posts and when I went to click on a different board, an error message came up. I honestly cried a little, I'm not ashamed to say. (WVC admin on Reddit, 2024)
...and I do mean everyone:
Chicago BFF / ex-admin, the next morning: Whoa, EA forum shut down? Ex-mod: It turns out that if someone spends enough years actively ā€œwaging warā€ to destroy what they canā€™t have, eventually theyā€™ll be successful. * eye roll * Not even mods got prior warning. Just all the sudden, poof, gone. BFF: Really? She did not let the moderators know?! This is sounding worse and worse. Uggh. Iā€™m so sorry. Such a loss. (...) Ok, threats are serious, but why not just put it in archive mode so no one can post? (...) Sad. I shall light a candle in the forum's honor. (Facebook posts; scroll down for screenshots)
It was a gut punch, especially for people who had poured countless hours into the community, or could have used some prior warning to save years of their own writing from the role-playing threads. One last chance to take a look around the place that had meant so much to so many.
From the wording of the announcement of closing the forum and a number of other things, it sometimes seems like EA doesn't like her fans much. :/ (šŸ€)
Three months after the forum was nuked, Battered Rose (a venerable EA fansite, which had been around since the Enchant era and had one of the most complete EA galleries online) announced that it was shutting down too.šŸ“ The admin, who had also been a long-time forum mod, cited a lack of ā€œtime, energy, passion, or moneyā€ to keep the website going... and being upset at the sudden disappearance of the forum. It was, truly, the end of an era for the Asylum.
...Well, no point in living in the past. For those who could afford it, and still wanted to talk to/about EA after that (not everyone did šŸ€), there was always the Asylum Army fanclub!
Over the summer of 2014, EA held regular live chats and Q&A's, and... many attendees really enjoyed them, and thought the AA was well worth the money after all. She also quietly parted ways with the much poo-pooed Headmistress around that time.
Just spent over 4 hours giggling, drinking tea and playing guessing games in chat with EA and other Asylum Army members ... No griping, no downers, just lots of fun. I think I like the way the ā€˜new fandomā€™ is going and now Iā€™m really glad I finally decided to join the Army. (September 4, 2014šŸ€; Battered Rose had closed the day before)
The forum was lost forever, but perhaps that was a chance for a fresh start. Could this fanclub thing really be the Asylum Renaissance that fans had been longing for?
...I have come today to a very difficult but necessary decision, and that is to discontinue the Emilie Autumn Official Fanclub. The site itself, and the community chatroom, will remain open to you indefinitely, but I will no longer be making updates to the site. (Newsletter, September 8, 2014šŸ“)
...Never mind, then.
Turns out the fanclub had been the Headmistress' idea all along. EA had been reluctant from the start, and although she really enjoyed the live chats with a safe community of people ā€œwho are there for the right reasonsā€, she couldn't overcome her fundamental discomfort with the concept. Lifetime and regular members would receive a bunch of digital downloads and a -35% coupon on the Asylum Emporium for their troubles. EA said she would definitely pop back once in a while for live chats, for free, just for fun, but to my knowledge, she never did.
And so the most devoted fans were left standing in the rain...
She is happy, she made it. She is fulfilling her dreams, found love and happiness after all the pain. I understand that she now doesnā€™t need ā€œusā€ anymore ... That doesnā€™t change the fact she broke my heart with taking the Asylum Army and the forum from me. Yet, I am happy for her. (šŸ€)
...while naysayers pointed and laughed, Nelson-style.šŸ¦ 
I donā€™t feel sorry at all for the people that paid for the Asylum Army fan club. Most of them knew that EA is an atrocious business woman and has broken many promises before. In fact, I laugh at them. They seriously thought that EA would actually stay consistent with this? (šŸ€)

EVERYTHING MUST GO: THE ASYLUM WHOLESALE

EA fans were left without an ā€œofficialā€ home for about three years. This gave them plenty of time to be annoyed at EA for: not releasing the audiobook on time, not materializing any new project for a while... and the new sin of peddling random, ridiculously marked-up AliBaba jewelry as ā€œmerchā€ on her official store. Think faux-antique cameo pendants and $30 Big Ben rings (...because the Asylum story is set in London, get it?).
The whole accessories section looks like a tacky overpriced English souvenir shop. (šŸ€)
The fanbase lost a lost of steam in those in-between years, because there wasn't much to stick around for. As evidenced by the positive reception of the AA live chats, even in the midst of unresolved drama, out-loud interactions in a friendly environment have always been EA's saving grace. Considering the amount of online hate, there are shockingly few accounts of bad IRL encounters with EA: most people say that in live conversation, she comes across as a fun, warm, and genuinely sweet person. Some report that their negative opinion shifted after meeting her.
But there were no chats or live shows anymore. There was only social media, where she ignored questions and vague-posted about overdue projects ā€“ and the newsletteršŸ“, which was all saccharine love-bombing to promote bland dropshipped trinkets. For fans who remembered the handcrafted merch (and two-way communication) of the early years, it was a bitter pill to swallow.

CONTINUED IN COMMENTS


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2024.05.19 13:16 OtherBee6365 Iā€™m a former drug dealer/current addict (23M) that is struggling to let go of my SO (22F) due to her BPD/Suicidal Ideation

Iā€™ve been struggling with opiate addiction for over a year now and am planning another trip to rehab.
I found a girl in my hometown who I love dearly. Sheā€™s sweet, passionate and empathetic with animals and my family really loves her.
When I met her Iā€™d been selling drugs (cocaine, mainly) as a means to provide for myself. I was living with my parents at the time and would only use my own supply on occasion.
Fast forward a year and weā€™re consistently doing drugs together in a condo that Iā€™d rented, I learn more about her messed up childhood and how she had been neglected, see the neglect with my own eyes and end up sympathizing deeply for her. She tells me she just wants to die and that the thoughts of death are so comforting to her.
Iā€™d been so consumed by selling drugs that Iā€™d left her at the apartment alone for nights on end while I was out selling, thinking I was ā€˜providingā€™ for her. She spiralled into addiction due to also having access to all of these substances. At this point weā€™re constantly under turmoil and chaos from my lifestyle (junkies showing up, police doing sweeps, me on edge awaiting conflict). She ends up cheating on me after feeling neglected (I had cheated on her prior and thus forgave her, I was a scumbag) and we fall apart for a bit.
I find out sheā€™s pregnant weeks later, we end up having an ultrasound and subsequently an abortion. This devastates her, as sheā€™d become attached to the baby as had I. During this period weā€™d broken up but Iā€™d gotten back together with her after seeing the pain of losing her child and feeling so much for her. I could tell she wanted nothing more than to be a mother.
She ended up trying to take her own life by slitting her wrists out of pure anguish and misery. This broke my heart and put her in to psychiatric care.
Fast forward a few months: I just get out of rehab, she got out of the psych unit and weā€™re together. Iā€™m back at my parents sitting on my ass doing drugs after a stint in rehab and praying to god for guidance. My mental health and social skills are completely deteriorated. Iā€™m planning another trip to rehab as Iā€™m writing this, but donā€™t want keep her hostage to such a toxic lifestyle. She seems to really want nothing more than to be a mother, but Iā€™m a terrible influence on her constantly doing drugs in front of her and drinking with her at my parents. All we do all day is rot in bed and watch TV hoping things will get better.
Sheā€™s struggling with her mental health and I donā€™t know how to save her, free her or myself. Iā€™m worried that if I end things she will kill herself, or think I donā€™t love her. I was thinking of buying her a car with my savings as she lives in very unfortunate circumstances, just so she can have a means of transport and get on her feet. She loves animals and I just want to see her blossom, but donā€™t know how to go about this and have both of us survive.
Sorry for how messy this is. Hard to type when Iā€™m in this much pain.
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2024.05.19 12:58 NLSSMC Advice about dying grandmother (and a story about the Cardinal)

Hi! šŸ‘‹
I need help and I also wanted to share a story or two, if thatā€™s ok. So this is LOOONG. Please forgive any mistakes or wrong words
Iā€™ve put the questions up top so feel free to ignore the rest. I just wanted to tell people about her.
Thank you so much in advance!
TL;DR
Part one: My beloved 98-yo Catholic grandmother in Sweden is dying, no other family member is Catholic. We donā€™t know what we need to do now before and after her passing.
Part two: Granā€™s story and the Cardinal who Didnā€™t Forget.
ā€”ā€”-
Part one
My Grandma is 98 and nearing the very end. She is a devout Catholic who converted in her 60s. No one else in the family is Catholic and there are very few Catholics in Sweden overall.
Her faith is incredibly important to her and I want to make sure she leaves the world properly from a religious standpoint.
Only I donā€™t know anything about it and I donā€™t know who to ask.
I would be so grateful for any guidance.
Questions:
1. Are there things we need to do for her from a religious perspective when the end comes? Last rituals?
Any special handling of the body?
Should we call a priest but who?

2. Swedish funerals usually donā€™t take place in three or four weeks after death. Is that okay?

3. Her service will be held in a Protestant church with a Protestant priest and buried in the family plot thatā€™s there.
She has okayed this. She originally wanted to Catholic service in this particular church but itā€™s not allowed.
Are there any things (prayers, rituals etc) we can include to honor her faith?

4. Do I need to notify her local church? She is a member of the Secular Carmelites as well.

5a. Obituaries work a little differently in Sweden but I figured Iā€™d ask. Itā€™s common to include a little picture or symbol in them, everything from roses to sports team logos (yes, truly! šŸ˜‚)
Most of the Catholic obituaries I see simply have a cross and . Is that the proper way to do it?

5b. Most obituaries include a quote.
Would this be appropriate?
ā€I am going towards you whom I have always sought, loved and always desired.ā€

It may sound odd I watched Sister Claire Crockettā€™s final vows and heard it and just knew instantly it should be in Granā€™s obituary.
I havenā€™t been able to trace the source though.
THANK YOU! If you made it this far! ā€”ā€”ā€”ā€”ā€”ā€”ā€”ā€”ā€”
Gran and the Cardinal
Now itā€™s story time!
Gran converted in her 60s ā€œafter a lifetime of searchingā€ and was an eager theological correspondent.
She is a passionate fan of St John of the Cross and mysticism in general and is a member of the Secular Carmelites.
My Gran is Dutch, spent her first decade in Indonesia before coming back to Holland just in time for the German occupation.
She grew up Protestant but the war planted a seed in her mind and she set out to discover the spiritual world and learning as much as possible about every religion she could find, Taoism, Shinto, Hindu gurus, the works.
ā€”
I asked her once what made her choose Catholicism in the end. She said that she had seen a small bookstore that interested her and unbeknownst was in a small, nondescript church.
Gran said she went in through the door and felt a ā€œflashā€ or a rush or something she couldnā€™t quite describe and just knew. She spoke to a priest that very same day.
ā€”-
Gran never quite lost hope that one of her children or grandchildren would convert (I was her best candidate but that has not happened. šŸ˜…)
ā€”-
My grandmother had to stop going to Church maybe 10ā€“15 years ago since hearing is so bad and it still grieves her.
She misses the community of the church, theological discourse, the connections she has made over the years. She felt lonely.
ā€”
I donā€™t know how much the ā€œregular Catholicā€ knows about different cardinals but we actually got a Swedish one, Anders Arborelius, a few years ago.
Gran knows him through the Carmelites and she has corresponded quite extensively with ā€Bishop Andersā€.
On one bleak day when Gran felt so along in the world, I tried to think of ways to cheer her up.
I did some googling and found an email address to the Cardinal himself and also to his secretary.
ā€”
I wrote a long email asking of ā€œBishop Andersā€ would be willing to send her a card to remind her the church hasnā€™t forgotten her.
I didnā€™t expect an answer but later that same night, his secretary responded and it turned out she used to know my gran quite well.
The Cardinal was in Rome, she said, but he would probably look at the email when he got back.
That night (say 2AM), I got a response from the Cardinal about how well he remembers my Gran, and how much he likes and appreciates her.
A few day later, a lovely little letter with encouraging words and a blessing arrived in the mail.
One funny thing though! He had absolutely dreadful handwriting, so bad we actually send around a picture of it to family members asking them if they could decode it. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚
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1 min of my gameplay
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2024.05.19 12:42 whatwas-that_ does anyone else remembered gaining consciousness but having weird memoryā€™s along with it?

idk how old I was at the time but most likely 5, itā€™s hard to explain but Iā€™ll try my best. i remember that i had memories of my life up until then flash in front of me (very clichĆ©, i know) before waking up and my mom called me down for breakfast, me waking up was me gain consciousness but Iā€™m gonna talk about the memories that flashed, the first one I found odd at the time was one I had on the bus, most of the people were teenagers and that I was one too which doesnā€™t make much sense if u consider i was 5 and idk where the memory came from, but the one that unsettles me now is me as a toddler putting on new shoes with hello kitty on them, my mom was holding my arms so I didnā€™t fall and my dad was mostly just watching but the thing i donā€™t like about it was that I was remembering it in third person, i was looking at myself in a third person perspective and idk why this is but if anyone has any theories feel free to tell me, i might talk about this more in the future but who knows
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2024.05.19 12:13 heyyyitsjess_ my experience with streamers of all sizes, as a streamer~ an inspired rant from seeing a friends tweet: "When people show you who they are PLEASE BELIEVE THEM."

There will probs be more posts like this in time. Only bc I refuse to be silenced by "Cancel Culture" or "Blacklisting"

Streaming has shown me a completely different kind of evil people and almost all of them preach kindness and inclusivity while ā€œprotecting their communitiesā€ publicly but privately is a whole different animal.
Once, as a baby streamer I went to one of those preachy kinda streamers who I thought was actually a pretty good friend cuz she said she loved me so much she called me her sister. I thought I was safe to confess the sensitive information that I had been excessively cyberstalked and sexually harassed by someone in the community, not that I wanted them to do anything about it but i wanted them to know why that person may be yelling his version of events to anyone that will listen when I inevitably have to ban him. At the time i did not know this person was a frienemy but when the time was right for them, they used that sensitive info to hurt me and made the man who sexually harassed me & cyber stalked me their mod, even tho they knew he went as far as threatening to kill me if I wasnā€™t his friend. Others on twitter came forward shortly after saying heā€™s done this before. AND on top of that, that same frienemy added their other streamer buddy who was more well connected with other streamers AND MODS as her mod too and he was actually the first out of everyone to victim blame me for being harassed, stalked, and threatened w\o asking for proof. When he found out I had proof, he lied to others saying I bullied the poor guy I banned and accused. He then confidently smear campaigned me (failed) on Twitter back then just because I wanted a public apology. This streamemod combo conman later became a very loud mod to the guy who publicly announced my cancellation and without a doubt in my opinion was one of the ones pushing him to do it.
THEN there's the kinds of ā€œsafe space acceptance of allā€ assholes that team up with the above assholes
These guys within themselves have a tight inner circle of people all groomed to be loyal (people that owe the leader something out of admiration for being helped through a life event-for example needing money for Christmas for your kids, money to stop a house being foreclosed on, money for whatever. OR false promises of success and support on twitch through various means) These kind of people love raising money for private causes and not actual charities to play hero to suffering individuals they raised the money for-so people feel indebted to them. These same streamers also have no problem only coming back to streaming to ask for personal donations to help them in their time of "need" literal days before a huge St Judes Community fundraiser event. Ponder that as you will.
They use their loyal gophers to stalk, bully & blacklists anyone thats makes them feel disobeyed, threatened, envious, or bitter. They even go against their own, people there arenā€™t allowed to have differing opinions because anything different than the leaders is ā€œdisrespectfulā€ and personal slight towards them. Those people usually slowly get pushed unless they redeem themselves or give up dirt on someone on the watch list.
& to the people who courageously leave bc it becomes creepy finding out how fucked the inner workings really are, People like me, become public enemy #1. You all know what happened there and if you dont, comment and ill tell you about "The Great Cancelation of HeyyyitJess" fucking cringe bro im really not that important lmao
ANYWAY These kinda streamers use their loyals to pressure other creators or threaten to take their numbers away if they refuse to obey or stop being friends with someone they want deplatformed. Yes, I said Deplatformed. They do this so they donā€™t catch the fall when the truth comes out how fucked up this behavior is. They have an almost onion layered shield around them taking the full brunt of it all. If called out they could say something like "Those were my mods who conspired with those other people to plan a scandal, not me, but im sorry this is happening to you. Mistakes were made." or "I was not threatening to take your viewership, support, relevancy or friends away, that was my mods who i have no control over. Mistakes were made" \)keeps all mods and rewards them*
ALLEGEDLY šŸ˜‚ these are my personal experience of what ive witnessed or others who have come forward but i could be a big fat liar guys its up to you who knows i might think im jesus too and think i can become the irl sailor moon or little mermaid lol its not funny but bc its so ridiculous its hard not to laugh.**
I DIGRESS-But u know who does end up getting the fall? The streamer who they convinced enough to make a declaration LIVE ON STREAM March 21st 2024 for the first 45 minutes of stream (vod is still up and ill link it-if its taken down i have it recorded and saved per legal advice Paskaroni's March 21st 2024 VOD Rule #1 Stream. ā€¢ QotD) **(assuming he is talking about me bc ik he was and so does everyone else) that im-**in not exact words but close-a bully, toxic, and he declared me and my 3 friends a danger to the whole community so in his words we were and are now ā€œDEADā€ in the community...In my POV, He said that not once but twice giggling with glee basically as he told the community to flame me out bc I apparently donā€™t deserve to be on Twitch, have success, friends, or a platform etc and that he knows the community is strong enough to make this happen. He then seemingly encouraged people to DM him to find out who he was talking about because he had no problem sharing all the names in order to get rid of the filth of the community. Also went on bragging that at CONs they all talk about us bad people and share notes with everyone to protect the whole website from us bullies (ooooo im so scary with my truth and autistic personality that seeks justice)
I want to draw more attention to the fact that the streamer said this ALL WITHOUT PROOF. & admitted on his own accord and free will ALL BY HIMSELF there was no proof, that there were alot of screenshots from the haters that didnt say much but that he wanted to give HIS 12 hater friends the benefit of the doubt even though he always saw me as a wonderfully positive part of the community. I guess I suddenly wasnt considered a friend which is oh so convenient. Not even considered enough so to get the same benefit of the doubt let alone a conversation in general. I wouldve happily handed over the link to the 5GB file of VODS, others testimonies via calls and VALID screenshots as well as a list of other peoples info who are willing to be CREDIBLE references that witnessed events as well but NOOOOO im too scary for that. Sorry tho guys I guess im not as evil as you all think i am especially not enough to go through with suing most of their asses like my lawyer wanted. And im poor as fuck so that should mean alot.
So back at it, now, who did him wrong? In my experience the kinda cult communities that do this bullshit is easy to spot once you know what this looks like. They manipulate people, and they dont discriminate, their prey could even be the most well meaning streamers- like the one who fell victim this time. (I'm very heartbroken that that streamer i linked did that to me live and essentially had hundreds of people leaving me hate dms, threatening me, threatening my friends, friends of friends, and stream leaders, but i still am mature enough to know he is a victim too in a way).
The problematic predatory streamers or communities like the ones responsible for this dumpster fire are usually the ones preaching and over amplifying positive vibes, safe space, inclusiveness, encouragement, acceptance, enabling etc bc they are a ā€œclose knit gamers of chosen familyā€ or even the infamous kinda things some people say unironically ā€œwere totally not a cult-those people are cults OMG do you see how toxic...THAT STREAMER IS FAKE AF she is alllllll makeup look at and her simps. She's not even a good streamer or gamer she just has her simps play for herā€ seeing people saying that publicly on any platform seriously is......BIG RED FLAG oh and unfotunately get used to all the toxic men getting away with everything. sad but true. then you have me over here who gets cancelled for breathing wrong. Its apart of life and i hate it. SO HERE WE ARE
BASICALLY notice if you join one of these kind of communities see how fast you can pick up on mean girl behavior. itll be obvious. (Ive seen both cult themes vary in a dark silly way but the worst I have seen is a cult theme disguised as a form of DnD themed video game religion-both sinister af imo) like these people straight up have calculated religious church or temple themed community roles like The Archpriest, Highest Priestess, Acolytes, Initiates, "so in so's" whipping boy etc.
But yeah those total MotherMarys & JesusTheHealer's that own those kinda communities totally would NEVER abuse their connections or false appearance of power to start a witch hunt of cruel lies towards an ex inner circle member who walked away. Nah it couldnā€™t be that they would only do that just bc they were paranoid and guilty of what little ol me or whoever knows like...idk....their unmasked personal life behaviors and actions. Nah. Couldnt be them.
All in all....Ill never understand what the point of witch hunting and manipulating creators to shield you or get them to do your dirty work is, bc it will always come to light. None of it logically makes sense on a healthy level and people will realize that it sure does seem like peeps have alot to hide or cover up EHH? šŸ«Ž
Or maybe not. Walking away peacefully and minding your own business apparently now justifies a witch hunt cyberbully party based on lies no one even attempted to confront me about. So that being said youre fucked either way. BE CAREFUL ON TWITCH lol
Id be surprised if i dont get attack comments on this. <-says this cuz now they wonā€™t but a few passive aggressive ones wonā€™t resist the urge for sure. Its always the ones that seem the kindest but also the loudest about how kind they are. Just something to consider.
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2024.05.19 12:11 MeatJordan Where CAN I protest this?

Let me start with the summary version:
It all began when I first stumbled upon Inside Edition's videos of women - that's WOMEN getting slammed, insulted, and blasted for "showing too much of their body (with kids around)". Then it escalates further when they show a school is photoshopping out women's cleavages to make them look "modest" for their yearbook. I feel this type of treatment towards the female human is all wrong! Like, can't anybody learn to appreciate and look at the female body without censoring it in any way? Can't you let ANYBODY, including kids, get a chance to learn about the differences between the male and female human bodies????
Then comes along... you guessed it. That one video Inside Edition publishes. And after seeing her top blurred, my inner voice in my head: "That's the last straw!" Like, can't some of us get a chance to learn something new that just aroused our curiosity? Such as how the human body changes with time in terms of both genders? Like, now, I can finally visualize myself (my whole body) from little boy to fully grown man. But when Inside Edition published that footage, the new question that took me by storm is: what would a female look like from little girl to fully grown woman?
But with YouTube's broken comment system GHOSTING certain-to-random comments, even on my backup YouTube account, I can't seem to get ANY messages across!
Speaking of which, when I tried to post this on Feminism and AskFeminists, they BOTH perma-banned me for NO REASON and muted me from talking to their mods for 28 days!
Why do I say "no reason"?
"Hello, You have been permanently banned from participating in this subreddit because your post violates this community's rules. You won't be able to post or comment, but you can still view and subscribe to it.
If you have a question regarding your ban, you can contact the moderator team by replying to this message.
Reminder from the Reddit staff: If you use another account to circumvent this subreddit ban, that will be considered a violation of the Content Policy and can result in your account being suspended from the site as a whole."
As you can see, there is no specific reason listed in the message above. So this is why I claim or what I mean by "banned from a sub for 'no reason'. - Even for something that was never officially listed on that sub's rule board.
Once more, I, along with these parents of their own daughter proved one major point: if a male can go topless/show their body, then so can a female - regardless of age!
Can't I get a chance to learn something new? Some evolution/development processes for certain things can be a little more complicated then you originally first thought.
Now here's the detailed version:
Ok, before you start reading below, I want you to visit this and read the whole article to better understand my situation: https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/kitchener-waterloo/guelph-parents-angry-after-topless-girl-8-told-to-cover-up-1.3124762
I got banned from Lemmy social site servers for "CSAM" all because of this: the Napalm Girl pic and another thing I saw on Inside Edition's channel in addition to some nude statues - literally artwork of naked people - all because I was trying to protest ~the inconsistencies of censorship towards the female human~ - regardless of their race AND age!
Let me be clear on one thing: I didn't post any "CSAM" on the Lemmy servers! I'm protesting something that I feel is unfair towards the female human.
Please ~actually watch these before jumping to conclusions~ so you can actually understand what Iā€™m really protesting!
Women Who Were Told Their Outfits Were ā€˜Too Revealingā€™
Mom Says She Was Kicked Out of Gym For Revealing Tank Top: I Felt Humiliated
Cops Dragged Woman Off Beach After Complaint About Her Bikini
Itā€™s one thing to say a girlā€™s outfit or body is ā€œtoo revealingā€,
Teens React After Yearbook Photos Are ā€˜Modesty Editedā€™
itā€™s two things to photoshop out a girlā€™s cleavage to make her look ā€œmodestā€ for a yearbook or a portrait!
9-Year-Old Saves Family From House Fire
But censoring a topless preteen girl who thought up an ingenious strategy to stay cool like her friends in the same stuffy room while at the same time not caring whoā€™s around her? THATā€™S REALLY CROSSING THE LINE!
It's all thanks to some videos from Inside Edition's YouTube Channel.All these videos Inside Edition posted are developing a question in my mind that's getting the better of me: why so much hate on the female human - even as children? Like, why do they censor the little girl's chest? Can't anybody learn to appreciate the appearance of the female body? Just like those parents of their own 8 year old daughter, I too am genuinely outraged by this type of treatment towards the female human!
And what's the big deal with nipples? I'm just trying to ensure everyone is treated equally regardless of race, and gender... AND age (after what I just witnessed). And if no one's gonna speak up about this, I might as well step up to the plate. After all, somebody's got to do it!
That little girl in the final video made two non-verbal messages clear: one: if a boy can do it, then so can a girl! And two: no one is too young for anything! As long as you have the knowledge capacity and I.Q level to do it properly and safely, you'll be fine. I was able to refuel my dad's car and cook my own dinner when I was 6 and without setting anything ablaze by accident.
However, when I try to illustrate with that video, even though Inside Edition is an official news channel, the responses I get back are rather bitter! They remove my post or ban me from the sites I post on for "promoting nudity involving a minor"!
~WHERE~
~CAN~
~I~
~ASK~
~OR~
~SHARE~
~THIS~
~SUBJECT?!~
Due to my autism, I only know basic English. So I need to illustrate to get most of my messages through. I thought hard, I tried, and low and behold, they were removed hours later mainly because they "didn't fit the subject of the forum". Even though my multi-subject based thread does have some material relating to this forum's topic. These sites and mods are all really stretching my problem solving skills beyond the breaking point for this one. I'm merely protesting with these pictures and videos as illustration. I'm not that good with words, so I need pictures to get half my messages across as noted above.
Many subreddits or forum sites donā€™t accept URLs, pictures, specific website URLs, or even a combination! Thereby hindering my ability to fully explain what Iā€™m witnessing! In this case, the sentences ā€œItā€™s one thing to say a girlā€™s outfit is ā€˜too revealingā€™, itā€™s two things to photoshop out a girlā€™s cleavage to make her look ā€˜modestā€™ for a yearbook.ā€ actually corresponded to several videos I beared witness to on Inside Editionā€™s YouTube channel.
I actually tried to post that URL with that blurred 9yo girl in a subreddit in the past and you wonā€™t believe this: I actually lost my reddit account for 2 days for ā€œpromoting nudity involving a minorā€! Other sites like the adult video forums who accept uncensored nudity-based images I mentioned just delete my thread! Another site I recall banned me for 1 year for ā€œspamā€ - even though I only made this protest post twice (after they removed it once).
So that meant I had to approach this from a different angle: after that experience, I got a little paranoid from using that said video URL to illustrate. So I tried explaining this protest without the URLs - and this is in conjunction with certain sites restricting my ability to post images, URLs, certain site URLs, or a combination. It seemed to end up making things worse! Because without the visual evidence, it makes it much harder to fully explain what Iā€™m witnessing.
So without the URLs included - that visual illustration, on the sites I tried along with Lemmy World, it actually made things worse! Thatā€™s what lead Lemmy.World mods to ban me for life for ā€œCSAMā€ or made other people think I watched child porn when I clearly didnā€™t. The lack of visual evidence (due to my past reddit experience combined with the siteā€™s posting restrictions) is what lead to this ā€œpedophileā€ confusion. So please help me talk some sense into the Lemmings world, Lemmy.ml, and Lemmy.world mods that this was all a major misunderstanding and Lemmy is pretty much the only reddit alternative out here where I can try asking another question. My attempt to appeal has failed on 3 Lemmy social sites - even after I tried notifying the mods on the third Lemmy server site before making the post, so I need your help now!
I felt after Inside Edition uploaded that blurred 9yo girl videoā€¦ I thought to myself ā€œThatā€™s the last straw!ā€ Someone needs to protest these absurd censorship laws that they apply to the female human!
Why can males show most of their body but females canā€™t? - In most cases that is? Whatever happened to "Free The Nipple"?
Children should have the sameā€¦ rights to do things as any adult! Itā€™s about possessing the knowledge capacity and I.Q level to safely execute this action. E.G, on those ā€œFamily Dayā€ episodes of The Price is Right and Letā€™s Make a Deal; those kids made smart choices when picking the correct numbers to items to win a prize.
Iā€™m not joking around here! This type of treatment towards the female human needs to stop - this includes race and age. - Itā€™s like racist people, but in age form.
Does it look like Iā€™m laughing for fun? Of course not! Since no one else is protesting this, and YouTube has a flawed comment moderating system hindering my ability to post on even random videos (I.E, "ghosting"), I have to take more drastic measures to protest by stepping up to the plate and shouting out ā€œCanā€™t we all be equal in terms of a huge variety of traits?ā€ Yeah, the last thing I need is a vein-bleeding broken-record robot impeding or hindering my ability to seek answers to a question!
We need to learn to appreciate or accept how the female body appears regardless of race and age!
Stop trying to blame it all on me! None of the stuff in the vids posted, is that. If it was, Inside Edition would be the guilty party, and Youtube for not having already deleted them. If it doesnā€™t violate Youtubeā€™s TOS, it should be fine to post anywhere. If there was even a hint of impropriety to it, at the minimum the vid would have been age restricted.
No one would answer! Not even Inside Edition themselves were willing to offer an answer when I even found their email address, the sites dedicated to helping those in mental, suicidal, or emotional distress (those forum sites even PERMA-banned me for "spam" - that's right, SPAM! (Even though there was absolutely no mention of a permanent ban or rule about "spam" in their forum guidelines!) Is that the definition of "spam" when I make a bad thread only once?! And when I try to appeal the ban, the same message "please contact the administrator if it was done in error" is blocking my ability to click the contact button! Or sometimes it's a blank white page with that message in the top left corner of the window! - Which adds more insult to injury, because I can't click anything as all the buttons have disappeared! That means I can't log out of that site either!), OR the adult video forums that support uncensored nudity images would accept that video link URL let alone the entire topic itself! So I really am at a loss for thoughts and words on what I just experienced! Heck, I even tried the professional therapists of talkingforchange.ca But even they too were too reluctant to talk as they claim my post regarding the censorship of women is not for their platform and they disconnected the chat 2 seconds after their last reply to me. And I highly doubt that ANY site will allow me to illustrate with a picture of the Napalm Girl (Phan Thi Kim Phuc) when she was 9, certain pictures of Pampers diaper boxes (why do you think they (Pampers, Huggies, etc.) even allow a pic of a topless little boy or girl to be plastered on a diaper box we see in grocery stores/supermarkets everyday?), Leela when she was an infant in the episode Leela's Homeworld, or even Belgium's famous kids: Manneken Pis/Jeanneke Pis. That, combined with YouTube having a flawed comment moderating system hindering my ability to post comments on certain-to-random videos (I.E, "ghosting"), I'm forced to take more drastic measures to get my messages across. All this combined, ~I'VE NEVER FELT SO SHUNNED FROM THE INTERNET IN ALL MY LIFE!~
But here's a strange catch: sometimes on some sites, Napalm Girl is censored, other sites she isn't. So I felt that I need to protest this. It seems everyone is too chicken to even start this subject! Don't these numbskulls know not to judge a book by it's cover?! This is where I ask myself "NOW WHAT?!". This can't be one of those "exceptional" cases where they say "suicide never solves anything" doesn't apply to these types of situations. In other words, all hope for resolving these types of situations really is lost. I really do feel left in the dark on both the subject of sound effects and nudity!
Once more, I'm not being a ped, I'm protesting all these absurd censorship rules and regulations that revolve around the female human - regardless of race and age - after what Inside Edition posted. Watch the videos I found again for clarification. In other words, ~the inconsistencies of female human censorship~.
Can you really - you know, hurl insults at Inside Edition or blast them for what they did? It was their idea to publicly publish the footage. Just like how that one photographer made the choice to publicly publish footage of the Napalm Girl when she was 9 and completely nude. Therefore, it should be ok to share this footage anywhere.
But some areas censored Napalm Girl's nipples, but others did not - excluding her groin. Then there's the diaper boxes I found in any supermarket. And finally... Surprise surprise: typical women being scolded by other people for wearing something "inappropriate" or "showing too much of their body". I look around and since no one else is protesting about this, I might as well do it! After all, someone's gotta step up to the plate to hit that ball! I will not sit idling by the sidelines and continue to watch the female human get treated/censored like this! I will stand up, step up, and speak out towards these absurd reactions, rules, and regulations that revolve around the appearance and censorship of the female body! What about the famous Jeanneke Pis in Belgium? Do you think she along with other nude statues are trying to promote pedophilia?
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2024.05.19 12:09 PM321159 Kdramas with a relationship similar to a particular one from Clean With A Passion

Just recently watched the K-drama clean with a passion and I found myself loving the bond between the FL (Oh Sol) and the secondary ML (Mr Choi). I found their relationship and connection a lot more endearing to watch than the main ship. Unfortunately, the ML and FL are always destined to end up together and the secondary male character in the love triangle will never win (Genuinely mad that the second male character didn't win even though I know how it goes lol).
It starts with the FL accusing the secondary ML of being the perverted bum type character that lives on rented out space with her family, but turns out that he's the complete opposite and a genuinely good, free spirited person who is secretly doctor. They have extremely good banter together and the male character always looks out for her when needed.
Just wanted to ask if anyone can recommend any K-drama's that have a ML and FL who have a similar type of banter and genuine care that the two characters from clean with a passion have.
Just to inform you all of the K-drama that Iā€™ve watched so far:
1. Strong woman Bong soon (First K-drama and extremely funny)
2. Weight Lifting Fairy (Love the dynamic between the male and female lead and a really fun watch ā€“ crazy replay ability value for me)
3. Extraordinary attorney Woo (Loved it and canā€™t wait for season 2)
4. Dr Slump (Watched it due to the male lead of Strong woman bong soon and loved everything about the show, especially the dynamic between the ML and FL and the FLs family ā€“ Kind of similar to what Iā€™m looking for)
5. Backstreet Rookie (Started off strong but kinda dragged out for me ā€“ at least it maintained the humour tho)
6. Hometown Cha cha cha (Banter between the FL and ML was fun to watch)
7. Clean with a passion (Started off strong but dragged out quite a bit ā€“ also found myself more interested in the secondary ML as suggested by the main source of this recommendation discussion.)
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