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Hello everybody,
Next August i will be in Iceland and i have a question about going from the KEF aiport to Reykjavik I know there is the option of FLYBUS, but i wanted to know if there is other bus transportation.
For what i saw there is a bus 55 that does this, but i wanted to check if its goines from the airport itself or from the town next to the airport, also is not clear if i have to do a connection with other bus. Cos in straeto it mentions something about R1 bus
Does anyone have info about it?
Thank you in advance.

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Hello! I’ve heard that whenever you want to retire a spell you should bury it’s contents in the ground as a way to sort of return it to the Earth (which I have done once before) however I have a spell that I’ll have to retire eventually that contains a lot of salt and I’ve read that burying salt is like terrible for the soil 😬 my main question is if I can’t bury that spell what other ways are there to retire it respectfully? Thank you ^_^ <3

Good afternoon, hopefully someone can help me out. I am (27F) currently dealing with a really bad bout of health anxiety, it started in January after having a series of medical misfortunes.
November I had my second hemiplegic migraine in my life. I was put on topamax for a short time my body seemed to have a weird reaction to it where it aggravated my nervous system and my heart rate shot up and I was shaking and having heart palpitations. After going to the ER the doctor told me the topamax shot my nervous system.
December I was started on propanolol to replace the topamax to keep my hemiplegic migraines from happening (again I have only had two in my life and they were 5 years apart)
January I stopped the propanolol due to heart palpitations. During this time I was diagnosed with GERD. I personally believe this was due to stress. This also caused a lot of anxiety and worry for a while as I have a very big fear of getting cancer. One thing that scares me is I am very aggressive when I throw up, sometimes when I throw up super aggressive I will see little specks of blood in my spit afterwords as I try and clear my throat.
My mother had thyroid cancer in her 30s and aside that the next closest major illness was my paternal grandfather had lymphoma which he beat. I still have this really big overwhelming fear of cancer and health anxiety.
Over the last few days I’ve been dealing with a lot of head congestion, dizziness, feeling like I’m on a boat, as well as headaches. Part of me is not sure if this is just my anxiety getting the best of me or if this is an actual physical thing I need to address with my doctor. It is also noted that I have really bad allergies.
So I guess my three questions are: 1. Is this allergies, anxiety, or something neurological? 2. What are my chances of getting cancer with no major familial history? 3. How can I help heal my health anxiety?
Any help would be greatly appreciated and thank you in advance.
-A.M.

I've been questioning this for a pretty long time now

i’d like to start out and say thank you so so much to everyone in this sub, helping me on my journey for answers.
years ago i was diagnosed with lupus, but as time goes on , i’m wondering if i could have hEDs, or something else i’m completely unfamiliar with. i’ve dealt with chronic pain my whole life, reaching the point where im “used” to it?— it’s never stopped.
** long list incoming, im so sorry 😭** i have blood pooling, GI issues, stability and balance issues, extreme weight loss, dislocation/subluxation of my joints and limbs, extreme hypermobility, bruises everywhere.. ALL THE TIME, POTS, stretchy skin, dermatagraphia, those silly lil bumps on my heels when standing, elephant track knuckles, high narrow palette and much more.
im friends with someone who was diagnosed and we’ve discussed symptoms often. im coming here to share what im experiencing , and see if anyone has ANY reccomendations of steps i should take, questions i should ask, and just general support.
any and all words are much appreciated. just a sickly gal trying to navigate my body, and the world around me.

Pardon me if this is a silly question, but has there been any research on whether eliminating seed oils improves one’s eyesight? I’ve been wearing glasses for over 20 years and during that time, my eyesight has only ever become worse or stayed the same. I started cutting out seed oils as much as possible over the last 3-4 months and my optometrist told me today that my eyesight has actually improved since my last visit. My family has a history of Macular degeneration and glaucoma, so I’ve been particularly interested in vision care.
Any ideas if this is related to seed oil consumption?

I (29F) and husband (32M) have been together for five years. He's the love of my life: attentive, empathic, proactive, intelligent, funny, caring, interesting, and much more. I still cannot believe someone like him exists. He deserves the best in the world. I've always been a hopeless romantic and very affectionate to people in my life. I've always given more than I've received (emotionally, materialisticly and physically) and was fine with that, because it is in my nature.
Well, when I met my husband, he was the first person who matched my vibe. He was even worse than me which I had to learn to accept in the beggining because it was all new to me. I still have a lot of trouble not feeling discomfort or appreciating his gestures. Nonetheless, he made me feel seen, loved, and I've experienced and got things I could have never imagined. I knew he was the one for me, I've never doubted that and I still don't. If anything, I feel like I am lacking and the lesser one in the relationship.
I feel ashamed, disappointed, and dumb. Somehow along the way, I've started feeling smothered by the things I appreciated so much before. I feel like I have lost myself, the affectionate person I was. The best way I can describe it is there is no need to anymore, since he does all the work.
As background, I think I show my love in gifts, gestures and acts of services: buying him flowers and a cake when he comes back home after leaving for a while, or buying him something he wanted for a while, or something that made me think of him, writing him a heartfelt specific message about what I love about him, preparing a special night, cleaning the house before he gets home after a long shift/when he's busier, or making a new three services meal just because. I've never doubted that my mom loved me because of all the gestures and help she gave me. She didn't need to tell me she loved me constantly or give me physical affection, because I already knew. Therefore, those are not my automatism and I've had to learn to incorporate them inside our everyday life, even if they don't mean much to me. As far as I've known, words and closeness can just be a facade and the formers demand more thinking and personnalization (not bashing anyone who prioritize those love languages, just trying to explain how they make me feel on a personnal level).
I know the next paragraph is a lot of people's dream, and these "bad" scenarios even sound silly to me. Boohoo, my significant other loves me, but I feel confused about these new feelings. For examples: he always wants to be with me. He loves me very deeply and lets me know he does by telling me multiple times a day. He always compliments me, even in front of others, but I don't appreciate PDA. He wants to hug me when he comes back home or I do, but I often feel overstimulated/overwhelmed. He wants me to aknowledge everything he says or do, and finds it odd how silent I am. He uses my slangs, eats what I eat, do what I do. He wants to know how my day was, and he most of all never wants to disappoint me in any way. This means asking me if I want a spoon or fork with a meal, in a bowl or a plate, to eat at the table or on the couch, if I want water or if I'm good. Asking me if the food is good the second I put it in my mouth. He also has terrible earing which means I have to repeat my answers a lot. This has the exact opposite effect of what he's trying to achieve, because it is all these questions that makes me annoyed.
I do get writing this that it's a toxic cycle: he tries to gain my affection, it ends up doing the opposite, he doubles down, and so on and so forth.
As far as what I've tried: I do ask for time alone, but feel it breaks his heart everytime. He feels rejected and I know it. I've tried to explain to him my feelings, but for him it is foreing. He thinks it's a lack of love on my part, that I don't like him as a person...
I now do get short-tempered and annoyed. Something as simple as kissing my head makes me want to move my head so he can't reach it. I hate myself. I hate what I have become, and I need therapy ASAP before it ruins a good marriage.

Hello my dear friends i have a question what are some tips and tricks to keep hair straight for a really long time and for summer i have tons of events to attend to and keeping it straight is something i want for hours can anyone help please ? Much appreciated to who ever responds ! Have a great day everyone!

So I’ve just started this about a week or so ago, and I’ve been having the worst blurry vision. I don’t have glasses, which I know I need to get some but I never had this so bad beforehand and I know it’s a common symptom. My question is did anyone else have this and if they did was this a temporary symptom or is this something I can expect to just kinda have to deal with? It’s the absolute worst at night. I have kids and it’s the only free time I get to either catch up on TV or game and I can’t do it for very long because I literally can’t focus on the screens and gives me a headache fast

I graduated recently and I'm currently working as an entry level mechanical engineer. I am a woman and there are basically only men around me all day. I'm still a begginer and I'm working at prestigious company and feel like everyone's smarter than me. A few days ago I had a meeting with one of the head engineers and he asked a question, I won't give details but basically my answer was very embarrassing as I misunderstood his intention. He basically asked sth along the lines of if I learned how to use a specific software a certain way, and I misunderstood him to be asking about how I'm feeling in general about the office and talked about how nice everyone is and so on, and he stared blankly at me until one of my colleagues answered for me and said that we have started training on it. I'm kind of already insecure for various reasons and it was terribly just sitting through the rest of the meeting, it also happened in front if like 5 people so it was even more embarrassing.

Been in my apartment for over 3 years now. Started working where I am now a bit over a year ago. Over the last few months my employer has been moving temporary foreign workers (TFWs) into my apartment building. By the end of next month we'll have almost 10 new co-workers moved into our apartment building.
My concern doesn't lie with my co-workers but rather my boss. I hear her in the hallway. I run into her in the hallway. When they were moving in some folks into the second apartment (out of 4) she accidentally started trying to get into our unit which woke us up. They've known where we live since we started here, and even asked how the building was before she rented any units out.
I guess my question is, is this legally infringing on our reasonable expectation of privacy? I imagine the TFWs have forfeited that expectation by allowing her to sublet each of their apartments, but what about how this has and will continue to affect us? I am not comfortable with my employer being across the hall, below us, or down the hall at any given moment and certainly didn't sign up for this with this job, but it feels like the only way to escape the situation is to either find a new job or move elsewhere, which is near impossible in our small town given all the apartments and jobs are getting swallowed up by TFWs.
Thanks for your time

Currently reading House of Hush where Tommy Elliot is impersonating Bruce Wayne while he is “MIA” and making all these questionable decisions.
My question is, Why is Tommy being allowed to make these decisions as Bruce. It seems like they’re just letting him do this. I know Dick initially says it’s “ for the people of Gotham” to have them look up to someone, but he’s just straight up spending billions of dollars (with the intent of just running through Bruce’s money), and is consistently trying to get criminals out of Arkham (and is successful) , it just seems like a huge plot hole and i dunno if im missing something or if it’s just bad writing. His whole motive is to kill the Bat Family & Catwoman eventually? Just doesn’t make sense to me. & babysitting him (Zatanna for example) while he makes these questionable choices also doesn’t make sense to me. Can someone pls explain ? What am i missing here?

Good day po sa lahat. Bale kuwento ko po muna lahat bago po ako magtanong para may context din po kayo. I am a graduating student of BS Psychology, in these 4 years na nagtatake ako ng Psych course, somehow nanotice ko na nagiging malala yung ugali/situation ng grandparents ko. Hindi ko po alam kung saan po kasi ako pupwede magtanong about sa aking lolo at lola, so I'm taking my chance here po.
Ito po yung parang characteristics and family history ng lolo ko tsaka lola ko: 1. Lolo - Yung tatay niya kastila, yung nanay niya from Bicol. Pag apat po siya sa magkakapatid, siya po ang bunso na lalaki. As far as I remember po, yung mga kapatid (at nanay) ay binubugbog po ng tatay niyang Kastila (pinanganak po kasi siya after ng war po). Yung panganay po na babae yung nagpaaral po sa lolo ko, since ayaw po ng tatay niya na pag-aralin po siya. Based po sa stories ng lolo ko, he likes questioning his teachers noong nag-aaral po siya, which sometimes makes his teachers & professors irritable towards him. Noong siya naman po yung nagtuturo, ang alam ko po medyo kinaiinisan siya ng ibang mga estudyante since parang pilosopo siya sumagot. There were several instances na sinasabi ng lola ko na he never said "sorry" even once tuwing may kasalanan siya (I personally seen and experience this). There were also a LOT of instances na gusto niya na siya lang nasusunod to the point na he risked losing his job habang nasa college pa yung tito ko, and made an excuse na "tinatamad na siya magtrabaho" mind you wala pa siyang 55 noon. Marami siyang nakakaaway, kung minsan noong bata ako ayaw ko siyang makasama kasi kahit tryc driver or cashier sa grocery minsan pinipilosopo niya. Kahit kwento rin ng lola ko, sinasabi na marami daw may away sa kanyang maka interact.
Ang parang problema kasi ngayon sa lolo ko, dahil 30 years na yung bahay need na irepair pero ayaw pa rin niya. Yung lugar namin lately naging bahain as in hanggang waist, ayaw pa rin ipaayos ng lolo ko kesyo siya raw gagawa kahit hindi naman siya gumagalaw sa bahay. Marami siyang sinasabi na siya gagawa, siya magaayos, pero nakahilata lang siya. Di nga siya tumutulong sa bahay. Kaya naman ng pera noon, pero ayaw talaga ng lolo ko, eh ngayon need na talaga ipaayos since naaksidente lola ko eh hindi PWD ready yung CR namin).
I came across po yung terminology na Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) during my internship. Like the name implies, gusto lang niya siya lang nasusunod at lagi siyang nagooppose. And somehow the symptoms fit po sa kaniya as well as yung causation na it might be from exposure to his family na puro binubugbog sila. Eh given na may edad na po, there might be sobrang little chance na i can still take to therapy, so im kinda opting po for non therapy advices po. I am aware that I CANNOT, at all means, diagnose since wala pa akong RPsy license, let alone hindi pa po ako nagtake ng MA. Pero the symptoms fit all through well po.

1. Lola ko - Batangueno yung nanay at tatay niya, pero nanirahan sila sa Manila. She was not a favorite of her mother, tinatawag siyang "ipot", tapos yung mother niya in favor dun sa kapatid niyang sugarol (gambler). Yung lola ko sumunod lang sa nanay niya (magtapos ng kursong education ganon), to the point na nawalan ng opportunities yung lola ko. Ayaw ng lola ko sa conflict since yung tinirhan nilang bahay dati puro nalang conflict. Nung nakilala ng tatay ng lola ko yung lolo ko, somehow nagapprove siya (hindi naman siya manliligaw pero parang sa lolo ko lang nagapprove yung tatay ng lola ko, kaya parang nagpakasal sila ganon). Take note na parang hindi out of 'love' yung nangyari, parang out of convenience lang; medyo nagwoworry kasi yung tatay ng lola ko sa magiging condition niya kung magstay pa siya sa bahay since yung kapatid niya sugarol and minsan nagddrugs pa, eh nung nakita niya na parang "malakas" (di ko sure kung tama term ko) yung lolo ko parang pinush niya na sila nalang dalawa.

Flash forward, nung Jan. 2023 naaksidente lola ko, narealize niya yung mga mali sa buhay niya (hindi kasi siya observant, or parang hindi niya naiintindihan yung bigat ng nangyayari). Please take note na noong naaksidente lola ko, bibihira lang po tumulong lolo ko, SOBRANG bihira lang po. Doon po nagsimula magdamdam lola ko aside sa mga realizations niya, kasi para saan nga ba yung marriage vows na 'in sickness and in health' kung ngayong tinetest yung challenge na yon, palpak yung resulta. Doon din niya narealize na ayaw sa affection nung lolo ko (ayaw niya yung may humahawak sa kamay o arm niya). Minsan nakikita ko yung lungkot when it comes doon sa nakikita niya mga co-worker niya sa fb na masaya parin sa marriage nila. Gusto ko lang din po inote na parang sinisisi pa ng lolo ko kung bakit naaksidente lola ko, tsaka tuwing tinatanong namin kung bakit hindi tumutulong yung lolo ko ang sabi niya "80 years old na ko, di ko na kaya yan" or "hindi ko na responsibilidad yan". Minsan tinatawanan na nga lang niya lola ko, ako nalang din naaawa para sa lola ko. Sobrang nalulungkot na yung lola ko, to the point na sinabi na niya na inaantay nalang daw siya kunin ni Lord at liability siya sa bahay; yung mga kaibigan at nakakausap na rin kasi niya sumakabilang buhay na.
Yung lola ko dahil naaksidente, hindi naman siya bed ridden pero nahihirapan magbanyo kasi hindi PWD ready yung CR, sobrang liit kasi ng cr. So may commode kami tas doon nalang naglilinis, yung nanay ko (panganay niyang anak) yung nagpapaligo sa kaniya sa pamamagitan ng towel ganon tas nagagawa naman nilang linisan yung buhok. Nagkakaroon na ng dysfunction sa bahay, yung nanay ko po kasi nagaalaga sa lola ko. Need po ng nanay ko magtrabaho dahil unti unti na kaming nababaon sa utang dahil sa kailangan ng lola ko (diapers, underpads, wipes, etc) isama pa yung pagkain kasi hindi lahat ng pagkain pwede sa amin lahat (may gout isa, hypertension, allergies, mga remarks ng doctors sa pagkain). Eh naisip namin parang hindi namin kaya na iisa o dadalawa lang magtatrabaho, given na napakalaki na ng bilihin ngayon.
I need advice po sana, or baka may kilala kayo na pwede ko pagtanungan:

1. Ano po kaya pupwede ninyong maiadvise na gawin ko po sa lola ko na may symptoms po ng depression para maiprevent po fully yung pagdevelop?
   
2. Ano po kaya pupwede ninyong maiadvice na gawin po sa lolo po na may symptoms ng Oppositional Defiant Disorder po?
   

Since I was in JHS I know I'm unstable (undiagnosed ADHD and depression), I wanna take some tests din pero ang expensive lang din (wanna take exam when I start saving from work). I noticed I'm really unstable and I really wanted to cry, hindi ko na po alam gagawin ko sa bahay. Naawa na rin ako sa nanay ko. I really don't know what to do. Syempre meron din ako mga problems sa school, pero grabe it's really piling up and I really can't give up now lalo na graduating na. Thank you po sa lahat na sasagot.

Hi, I’m looking to sublease my single bedroom, shared bathroom at Plaza Verde $1112 per month utilities not included for the period from 6/12 - 8/31. The apartment is on the fifth floor on the street side overlooking Puerta Del Sol.
Plaza Verde is a two minute walk from both the ARC and Campus Plaza which has a Starbucks, an Albertsons, as well as a Chase bank, the Habit Grill and other restaurants. There is parking at the Plaza Verde parking structure with a permit as well as parking available at the ARC parking structure. Utilities are not included in this price and will have to be sent every month.
If you are interested or have any questions, please contact me by email at jadenmc@uci.edu. I can also show you the place if you would like, and we can schedule a time to meet if you are interested.

Hello everyone! I am relatively a beginner in programming. I have worked with Java, PHP, JS, C and C++ in my college and also have at least 1 project for each (3-5 in PHP). But now I want to start something and stick to it for a long time. I have recently discovered about Golang. Can you please answer these questions about Golang: 1. What is it mostly used for? 2. How is WebDev and Mobile App Development experience in Golang? 3. Is it still used and will I be able to find jobs? 4. It's merits and demerits. 5. Should I go for any other language, if yes, why?
I'll be starting to learn a new language after a day, so hope I can get some suggestions till then and get started with it ASAP!

Hello! I've been in a bit of a pickle for the last 3 years with someone who I had a least agreement with. This person ended up moving to California halfway into the lease, without removing their name off of it which left me to take care of paying the rent of a two bedroom apartment on my own. Long story short, by the end of it I was left with a 7000 dollar debt, which ended up going into collections. This person recently showed back up into my life a year or so ago, and promised to fork up their half of the debt, and has now ghosted me a second time. At this point I'm in negotiations with the collections agency to settle on the debt, but I was wondering what choices I have legally to make up for the fact that this person has not kept to their side of 1. The lease and 2. The debt both under both of our names.
Apologies if this seems to be a stupid question, I'm absolutely clueless about anything legal, but I just need to know it there's absolutely anything I can do here in or out of court to maybe get some sort of reimbursement for getting put in both of these situations. Thank you for any information.

After the long CRP wait, "New card being produced."
Sharing my timeline: EB2-NIW (ROW)
I-140

• Priority date I-140: 11/17/2022
• I-140 approval: 02/08/2023

I-485, I-765, I-131, I-693: RD 03/10/2023 (MSC239035xxx)
Biometrics date: 06/21/2023
I-765:

• Approved: 8/25/2023 [2-year EAD card issued]

I-131:

• SR for I-131: 1/29/2024
• Response for I-131 SR: 2/29/2024 (boilerplate response).
• I-131 approval: 03/18/2024

I-485 updates

• CRP: 11/08/2023
• First SR for I-485: 03/12/2024
  • Response received: 03/27/2024 (Boilerplate response)
• 04/04/2024: Sent an unsolicited errata letter for I-485 about the inadmissibility question. I answered No instead of Yes. I sent a new I-485 form and included my initials in the missed questions. Delivered to NBC 04/08/2024.
  • I called the USCIS contact center several times about the unsolicited evidence and was told it's difficult to track since they did not request that from me. They don't see it on their system.
• Second service request for I-485: 04/20/2024
  • I appreciate u/Virtual_American for sharing his SR info idea. I wrote my second SR based on the idea that he shared here. Here is the link to that thread for those who may be interested [ https://www.reddit.com/USCIS/comments/1bua97current_pd_and_stuck_in_case_remains_pending_crp/ ]
  • SR assigned to officer 05/13/2024 [Case tracker app]
  • Another update was received that SR was assigned to an officer for response on 05/15/2024. I guessed that was when the SR was assigned to a Tier 2 ( speculation).
• Status changed to NCBP: 05/21/2024
• The second SR not completed.

From writing the petition myself to filing everything, with no premium processing, no RFEs at any point, and no interviews, I am glad the journey is over.
If you have any questions, feel free to ask, and I'll answer to the best of my ability.

How do people tell if someone likes them, especially if you have a crush on them? I (16m) have liked a girl for the past few months who I now have some hints that she might like me. We will often look at each other in class and she’ll smile at me. Also, when we’ve texted or DMed she’s given me compliments a few times that I feel like I don’t usually get from friends. There was also one time when a bunch of my classmates and I went out together; it was raining and she refused her friends’ requests to share her umbrella but asked me to join her. Are there any strategies I could use or questions I could ask to find out if she likes me or if I’m just reading too far into things?

Hi everyone,
I’ve finally started therapy and had my 2nd session today. So far, we’ve gotten to know each other, we went over my life story and the things I want to address, basically . Based on that, my therapist has asked a lot of questions and she always formulates them in a way that make me think about that question myself and giving the answer myself, rather than giving her own theory. She also has validated some of my feelings and so far, I’ve really liked our sessions.
However, I am a bit surprised as I was expecting therapy to be more of an explanation of patterns like “you act this way in this kind of situations because of that thing”. I haven’t gotten to that point and I am wondering if that is normal? I am aware that it’s only been 2 sessions and that I must give it time for it to really take effect. Still, I am wondering.

Hi - hoping some intelligent doctors can help.
37 / male
I badly injured my back/neck at the gym yesterday. I couldn’t - literally - walk this morning. Pain has traveled from my upper back to my neck and along my right arm - which is now tingling - feels like nerve issue.
Went to doctor in NYC - specialist who l suggested the below for pain, plus MRI and X - Ray pending my insurance. Diagnosis, he said, is muscle spasms and potential pinched nerve but won’t know for sure until we do images.
I was just prescribed steroid / Medrol (Methylprednisone) - 4MG pack over 6 days, plus 500mg of Naproxen (2x daily) and 10mg Cyclobenzaprine/Flexeril / muscle relaxer (which I will take only at night).
He also said to ICE for the first 24-36 hours from start of injury then switch to HEAT.
QUESTION - is it safe to take the 3 meds together? Pharmacist says yes.
I’ve been reading taking NSAIDs like Naproxen plus steroids is bad for GI issues. Are those two often prescribed together? I am not a big pill taker but I’ll do anything to help - most pain I have been in.. maybe ever.
Does the benefits outweigh the risks? I only hope to take this until the pain cools down.
Thank you.