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hiiii BWT, i just got my first big promotion at work and want to buy myself a piece of jewelry as a memento, something where i can wear for a really long time and look back and remember that i bought it to celebrate this moment. my budget isn’t huge (i’m only 23) so i’m thinking around $200-$300. i haven’t found anything i love but i do mix metals so i can do gold or silver. does anybody have suggestions?

Most of my life I’ve smoked weed (since I was about 12) for extended periods of time, quit a few times for months to a year or so at a time but always ended up back to it. Last time I quit I experienced extreme anger for about a week and it didn’t last too long before I started smoking again but recently decided to try again. It wasn’t as difficult to actually quit but lately I’ve just been dealing with so. Much. Anger. I’m just getting tired of being pissed off to the point where I can’t even handle my dog misbehaving, shitty traffic, people being in the way at the grocery store, etc…all things I never was triggered by when I was stoned. Just wondering if it’s worth it to stick it out, or how to even deal with this extreme emotion. Weed always calms it down for me - always has - I grew up with a parent who had pretty bad anger issues and bipolar. So at the root of it I know it’s something I need to learn how to cope with in a healthy way regardless, but I’m just exhausted and want to smoke again. Any advice or helpful info/experiences that are similar?
I am in counseling weekly and have been for almost three years now. I’ve brought this up and we’ve talked about learning how to sit with the emotion but frankly I don’t want to just let myself be angry all the time. I am tired of feeling like destroying stuff.
I appreciate any feedback.

I have been dating this guy for around 9 months and I want to break it off. I actually broke up with him a month ago but we talked everything through and I decided to give him another chance. Recently, however, I'm starting to regret my choice because I believe I gave him another chance because I didn't want to hurt him.
I'll explain the main problems I had while I was in the relationship. I didn't feel like he was actually interested in who I was because he would never ask questions about me and everytime I would talk about my interests I felt like he wasn't really listening. I also just don't think he's the right fit for me in the long run and I really don't want to give him my full commitment anymore.
There are also more serious things in the relationship that happened. I tend to be too curious and I was feeling insecure at one point which led me to look through his phone. This girl in his DMs asked if he would like to go to this bar with her and have a drink. I believe that if you're in a relationship, the answer to an invitation like that should be no. However, he said yes. I confronted him about it and he said that he didn't actually go and that he was friends with her because they're in the same major. But I don't think he was actually friends with her because I've heard him complain to me about her because she's annoying in class. So it's just weird to me that he would say yes to that invitation. Another serious thing that I found was a box in his closet that contained a bunch of stuff from his ex. And I mean PERSONAL stuff. There was a sex toy, photos of them together, and a mug that she painted for him. I found this 5 months into our relationship and it was very discouraging to see. I checked the box again a month later and he did throw everything out except for the photos. Because he threw most of the stuff out, I didn't feel like bringing it up to him plus I just feel like that's such an awkward subject to talk about so I kind of brushed it off.
Now that we're back together, he's been very sweet but very clingy. He's doing a lot of stuff right because I communicated what I was feeling but I can't seem to love him back like he loves me. I want to break up again because I feel like I made the wrong choice of getting back together. However, he recently has moved out and is now living alone and a bunch of his friends don't live near him anymore. He seems really lonely right now and sort of depressed because he's not used to living alone. But I don't know if I can give him the support he needs because of everything that's happened in the past. What do you guys think I should do?

just a tired insider ranting after a long night. we are a very high volume store (around 50-60k a week) and with the business comes a fair share of grumpy customers who complain to get free food, or who cuss me/my coworkers out over 30 dollars worth of dominos. i understand being unhappy if the food is taking a while, but if you order for delivery on a friday night when we're 40 pizzas down and short on drivers with a delivery time of 2+ hours, then just... order somewhere else. i simply dont understand.
i just had a man scream and cuss me out over the phone due to the fact that during a delivery, if the driver calls you and you dont answer, they bring it back to the store and you either have to pick it up or we can cancel + refund the order if youd like. his order got brought back to the store and he was extremely mad. i get its an inconvenience, but to be fuming raging like that over very very mediocre pizza is beyond me. customers, do better!!!

I have an internship offer I was given last week and I told them I would let them know by early this week because I am waiting to hear back from another company, who was supposed to let me know by noon yesterday according to the recruiter who I have been communicating with throughout (initially it was supposed to be done last week at the start of the week, so the decision was pushed back a week already, which is normal, but slightly annoying).
I would prefer the internship at the company I am waiting to hear from, but do not want to wait too long to respond to the other company in accepting the offer. I emailed the recruiter yesterday in the afternoon around 2:30p just asking if there is any update, as I was supposed to hear by noon yesterday. She has been super responsive the entire time and even asked when I need to know by and if I had other offers, interviews, etc. She hasn't answered yet since my email at 2:30p yesterday so I'm wondering if it is appropriate to give her a call or not and ask for an update that way?
Any advice appreciated as I'm just starting out my career, thank you!

I posted this in legaladvicecanada, but I wanted to see if anyone here also had help to offer!
Hey everyone,
I live in a house, divided into 3 apartments, one on each floor. I have the basement unit, and I've lived here around 2-3 years now. Recently, one of the long-term tenants on the top floor moved out, and the landlord did renovations to fix the apartment. They turned it from a 1 bedroom to a 2 bedroom, and changed the rent from $800 to around $1800 a month.
The apartment was vacant for the better part of the year, and we didn't know much about what was going on. Suddenly, the other tenant came up and told me she'd met the new tenants (roommates, fun), and our landlord had asked her opinion on them. I was given no such courtesy, because I would've taken one look at these guys and said "no".
They moved in around March 1st, in the middle of the night, with a riding mower attached to a trailer. That went on for about 2 & a half months. Non-stop moving, yelling, dog feet, bad smells, ants (we never had them before), and inability to access public spaces I'd previously had no problems with. I documented incidences of things like my entire apartment smelling like cigarette smoke, or times he left his dog out, and reported it to my landlord, who didn't even respond. But, I knew she reached out.
Around 2 weeks ago, this guy leaves his dog on the porch, and goes to mow the lawn. I come back, and attempt to enter my apartment, but I'm impeded by his poorly constructed gate. I stepped over it, not wanting to let their dog out (this guy's a nut, I don't want to deal with him when his dog runs away), and ripped my very nice pants. I went to the back, vented to the tenant who was also long term, and she told me "she'd deal with it".
The new guy comes and pounds on my door, freaking out, saying I shouldn't be freaking out on her, but on him. I told him all the issues, including some the other tenant had with him. He got in my face and wanted to involve her. I kinda smiled because I knew I'd have a witness now. We went to the backyard, he vented a bit, and I started making really good points about the noise, smoke alarms always going off, & cigarette smoke smell. His response was to say "you better shut the f*** up before I punch you in the face". I immediately shut it down, confirmed he threatened me, and went to call the police.
I decided I'd be an adult instead, and came back out, but the conversation had just devolved to him insulting me, while I tried speaking with him. I went inside, told the landlord. Who didn't speak to him for around a week, and I still haven't heard back from her.
I've made a police report, contacted the bylaw, tried to get help through a legal clinic (their voice-mail is like a void), and even tried to get my landlord in contact with the bylaw to get him for at least the un-leashed dog. My landlord has been oddly silent on this since we spoke about it. We had a relatively great relationship, but ever since this guy and his roommate moved in, it's just constant complaining because he breaks all the lease rules.
I'm looking for advice, because I want to file an T2 against my landlord for failing to issue an N5, but I'd rather not ruin the relationship. I pay close to $1000 in rent, so I have a funny feeling she isn't doing her job, because she doesn't want that loss in revenue.
Any advice would be amazing, this has been a big stress on the neighborhood for weeks, and I'd be more than happy to provide more details. I'm tired of being punished for being a good tenant.

(i don't know if i should add a flare for one small thing mentioned here, but it's brief and in passing. i am sorry, i don't use reddit much, please let me know if i need to add one. i also apologize for any grammar weirdness, english is not my first language.)
its 11pm. my birthday, the 22nd, is only in an hour here. i'll be 23.
none of my friends really live near me, they've all since moved. for family, they either hate me for being gay, hate me for being trans, hate me for some other reason, or live far away. i'm stuck living with my father and stepmother, who both hate my guts. they're probably not going to get me anything, except for maybe candy they think i like (that i actually don't) and make fat jokes about me when i open it. at least it wouldn't be a 5$ rape whistle like last time.
everyone else in my family gets a whole lot of prep time, everyone else asks them what they want for their birthdays, and have a couple weeks to figure out things like what they want, if they want to do anything, etc. i get a half-assed "do you want to do anything" 2 hours before midnight. and honestly? i would like to do something, but we're pretty rural and there's nothing going on, and the city (the only place in the province that ever has anything going on) is 2 hours away.
earlier today my stepmother asked me what cake i wanted. i said that if possible i'd like my favourite, which is key lime cheesecake, but if she couldn't find that it is okay, and that i'd be okay with pretty much anything as long as it's not too rich. she got upset with me about it. she does with everything.
i know my birthday hasn't even happened yet, so i know everything might be okay and i'll have a perfectly fine day. but i can't shake this feeling of sadness and dread i have about it. i don't even want much. i just want to be able to see a few people i actually care about, and who care about me, maybe get a cool tshirt or something. but i can tell that i'll be miserable and disappointed tomorrow.
i know my boyfriend will try his best tomorrow. and i'll appreciate it, and i know he'll probably take a little bit of the edge off. he's been trying to help me figure out some plans for tomorrow for a little while now. but as much as i adore him, and as happy as he makes me, we both know that he alone can't fix a lifetime's worth of being the least favourite child.
i can't even really get myself anything. money is really tight, my job burned down at the end of january (and yes, that is literal) and i haven't been able to get one since. and since i'm getting surgery in july, there's not even a point in searching anymore. i'm a freelancer, but it really only covers pet care and some of my medication. the only thing i truly, honestly, sincerely want is far too expensive for me to ever justify asking for. (...or, if i can be a little lighthearted, for silksong to finally come out.)
i don't really know where i'm going with this, to be honest, or how to end it. i guess i'm just dreading the lonely, sad, disappointing birthday i'll be having again this year. it never gets easier. i'm trying to be optimistic but the feelings just keep sinking back in. im not really tired, and it'll take me hours to fall asleep like it always does, but i might try to go to bed soon or something. i dont know what else to do.

So I’ve had a long road of more than half of my life with chronic depression PTSD anxiety and OCD.
Tried almost every single antidepressant along with some anti-convulsants. I majorly treatment resistant and if the medication does work, I have horrible side effects.
I was on Zoloft for 10 years up until six months ago when I finally decided to start 25 mg of Pristiq.
This is the longest I’ve ever been off Zoloft since I started it at the age of 14.
Nearly a decade of talk therapy, EMDR, brain, spotting, DBT and more, I still find myself with a long road of recovery ahead.
I’ve also tried various microdoses and supra doses of ketamine and psilocybin with no sustainable positive effect.
As of the last three weeks, I’ve noticed a huge spike in general, social anxiety. To the point to where I don’t even feel like myself. I get anxious and nervous to even hang out with friends and feel like I’m always frowning, and I can’t control it.
I’ve really wanted to wait this out and see if my brain will recover after 10+ years of being on Zoloft and then eventually being able to get off Pristiq, but the suicidal ideation is starting to creep in here and there which is very worrisome.
If I go out and have maybe two or three drinks, even, I have a near three day hangover where my anxiety is absolutely insane. My racing thoughts and self doubt hit an all-time high.
Unfortunately, the doctors don’t think TMS will help my case, and the only other med options I haven’t tried are antipsychotics.
I was in a treatment center for two days and tried Latuda and immediately got freaked out because of the way it made me feel and especially after doing research, I realized the risk.
At this point, the ideas that come to mind are possibly a combination of two SSRIs at a low-dose, continuing to wait it out and see what happens, go back on Zoloft, or other out of the box ideas. I get very sensitive to weigh gain and especially sexual side effects, which is why I’m only taking 25 mg Pristiq. I’m also scared to increase the Pristiq because of the withdrawal that I experienced getting off of Effexor.
Any feedback or thoughts would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

Ok so this is gonna be word vomit and I know other Catholics are gonna downvote me but I’m so tired you guys. I’m so tired.
I fell away from Christianity at 13. Raised Catholic. Baptized. Communion. I just never got confirmed. I didn’t like the hypocrisy and that’s why I left. I was bullied so horribly I self harmed. Was hospitalized multiple times in from 14-15. Was sent to a “troubled teen program” in the wilderness and was forced to go to a boarding school for “Troubled kids” and by troubled I was suicidal and self harming from the bullying and then ended up getting R*aped multiple times and never told anyone.
And then it turns out on top of all this depression and bullying I was diagnosed with autism so no wonder I didn’t know how to cope with any of this and my brain is just wired different not to mention all the trauma from being touched when I was 8 by a family member and to this day I still never told anyone and so much more trauma I can’t even say it all and the point of this damn post is due to my mental health issues…anxiety disorder, panic disorder with agoraphobia, depression, autism, adhd, as well as two autoimmune diseases I don’t want kids. I don’t want to be pregnant.
I would end up with PPD or worse. I’ve been pregnant. I was so crazy I would be crying for hours one minute and then catatonic in the shower staring at the ceiling until the water turned cold. I miscarried in the end anyways.
And I’m so tired of being told I can’t be a fucking Catholic because I don’t want to grow a human being in my body. I’m so tired of being told I can’t ever get married because I don’t want kids. I’m ok with adoption but I make like no money I can’t afford that. I’d even do surrogacy with my own damn eggs if I could afford it but pretty sure that is anti Catholic too idk where we stand on that currently and again no money for that.
But y’all im so over it. I had been feeling a calling back to Christianity for a couple years and finally a couple months ago in January actually, I decided to go to church for the first time in over 20 years and I was so happy and I felt so good , and I felt so welcomed? I loved going to mass I even went to my first confession I even started going to adoration. I’d never even heard of adoration before believe it or not but then again I did stop going to church at age 13.
I even bought a veil because the idea of veiling during adoration just seemed beautiful to me And I started going once a week m. I joined 24 seven adoration chapel. I joined a bunch of Facebook groups for Catholics and started following Catholic subs. I threw away everything occult I owned. I started saying the rosary every day or at least a couple times a week. I really for the first time in a long time. Thought I fucking found some peace.
But instead, I started to realize that while I love Catholicism, I just can’t stand so many Catholics . So many people judging and that’s all they do in these groups is fucking judge. My best friend in the entire world her wife is trans. My aunt is married to a woman because she fell in love with her best friend friend. People make jokes about the LGBTQ community and it’s fine to believe that something is sinful, but that doesn’t mean you have to continuously insult the sinner. And it’s like that’s all they do in these groups. They only ever talk about abortion and how everyone should be a mother and how gay people are basically destroying the world so essentially all I get bombarded with all day is that the people I love are terrible people and I’m a shit human being for not wanting to have children because of all the shit that’s happened to me.
I have been crying off and on and have almost really regretted reverting , and I hate to even say that it makes my heart sick to say that, but my pagan friends, my atheist friends have never been as cruel and cold as the people in these Christian groups. All they ever do is hate on each other and hate on other people had to leave because it was just destroying my mental health. Now I remember why I left all those years ago it hasn’t changed if anything it seems like it’s got even worse.
I’m probably gonna end up deleting this and I’m sure no one’s gonna read this but I just don’t know who to turn to, but I’m really scared. I’m going to make the wrong choice and end up going back to paganism because I’m tired of being hurt every day because of things that I can’t help .

I worked with kinder student who was in the process of being testing for autism. I didn’t work every single day, I was 3 days a week, and one day I came into work and was met in the office and told that me and the student wouldn’t be in class today.
The sped teachers and principle, were all rushing around they had me follow them to a classroom where we picked up a tote of kindergarten level books, and to the classroom to get some paper work for the student.
They explain to the student who was confused why he didn’t get to stay in class when we picked up the papers that “ he wouldn’t be with his class today”
Then they took us ( me and the student) and our “supplies” to a room and the back of the school with no windows. I don’t think they left me radio, (could be wrong) this was months ago. I was told we would be staying in that small windowless room all day, and we did. I had to ask around to see if the kid could eat lunch and go to recess. And I took him, when it was time for my lunch he waiting for me at the office
I spent the day reading to him and doing his work, trying to stretch it out as long as possible. I probably read 15 books that day.
He didn’t get to upset and was relatively in good spirits with me, I was informed he had been hitting kids and staff the day prior to the “detention” and then the bell rang and we went home.
I took him to his mom, I told her he has a good day, which he did, and I went home.
The next day after detention I find out mom didn’t know her 5year old was isolated alone with me the entire previous day. She was very upset rightfully so, and was threating to sue the school. Keep in mind I am a sub, who took a job assignment at a school, that turned into a sub para position long term, but I am still not an employee of this school.
I quit very shortly after and blacklisted the school from my frontline.
Turns out they had some serious legal issue in the past for the way they were isolating kids in a similar manner.

Working long hours, pretending your committed to the cause except for those random times when you lose your **** and then have to get your composure back. Always trying to figure out ways to escape. Having that one or two friends that get you and are also trying to find their own way to come to terms with a horrible situation. Having that supervisor that is both trying to inspire and support you in their weird way but you also are wary of and don't really want anything to do with but pretend to go along with it anyway. Rick was basically working retail.

not sure if this scenario is relatable to anyone but I’m doing an internship across the country soon and I’ve never lived anywhere other than the town I grew up in. I feel grateful for said opportunity but have been struggling with anxiety about living somewhere new by myself for a summer and also sadness that I will be away from my partner and friends for a summer and spending my birthday alone.
my Nparent asked me if I’m excited to start my internship and I told them yes but that I’m feeling stress about the things I just listed above. this turned into an hour long lecture about how instead of focusing on this great opportunity and putting my all into it I’m prioritizing stupid things like my birthday and having fun with my friends. then turned into a draining back and forth of me trying to explain that while I see the value of the internship and I’m doing it for a reason, it’s also not easy being away from everyone in my life and that I think I might struggle mentally with that.
then turned into me being told that no one at the internship will take me seriously because my priorities are out of order and I clearly don’t even deserve the opportunity because I’m so negative and don’t appreciate it. this made me feel so guilty and just shitty about myself

I'm 20 years old and my girlfriend is 19 years old we just went to a Hyundai dealership 1 week ago to look at a 2024 Elantra N. This is one of her dream cars a car I've been hearing about for over a year. And a car we both had our eye's on so we wanted to test drive it. The Salesman was practically chattering his teeth along with higher staff I assume because it was taking a while to get in the car. But after running my girlfriends credit and filling out a form of information they let's go on a test drive down the street and back. The Sales Manager comes into the dealer behind us ultimately trying to negotiate a sale without even introducing himself as a Sale Manager. I had to read this title on his name tag. This Sales Manager made my girlfriend extremely uncomfortable by saying comeback with "daddy so he can help you get this car." This Sales Manager went on saying this about 10 times repetitively leading with "daddy" in different phrases. Some examples that he said are "talk to daddy when you get home so you can get this" , "beg daddy for the car and he will help his girl", "daddy loves his girl and will spoil you". "I'll talk number with daddy bring him in here." "Give daddy a big hug when you see him" I was about to blow steam out my ears. This guy was a full on weirdo let me tell you. The Sales Manager also goes on to demonstrate how she should persuade her dad into getting her this car by giving a salesman a long hug infront of us.

 The Salesman In a uneasy kind of tone also asked the Sales Manager why is he hugging him. The Sales Manager goes on saying "well I didn't want to hug her in front of him" as in ( Me her boyfriend) and the result of that would of lead this guy to a very bad day. This Sales Manager is in his mid to late 50s I assume. A real oddball kind of guy we both had a serious bad feeling about him. The Sales Manager finally disappeares after this with a last comment saying "comeback with daddy so we can talk some numbers." Speaking to my girlfriend as he walks away. We then were lead to a desk with a salesman to get a ballpark number on the Elantra N and the car was marked up 3k over msrp + taxes as a market adjustment charge. I was ready to leave the dealer after what just happened screw the car at this point. The result of this happening caused us to leave the dealer. This situation has really bothered my girlfriend to the point were she was balling her eyes out that someone would speak to her this way and that she couldn't say anything about it because she was extremely uncomfortable. 

This Sales Manager didn't even acknowledge that we might be able to pay for this car out right if we really wanted to. He just assumed we couldn't because we are younger which is unacceptable. We never went back nor plan to but this has really effected my girlfriend and me to this day. Any suggestions if I should take some kind of action or just let it be at this point.? We haven't told anybody about this.
The Dealer is Healey Hyundai Fishkill/Beacon NY Eddie Rullo Is The Sales Managers Name

I (27M) often let my mother borrow money. She typically pays it back but it's gotten to the point where I think it's too much to handle. I'll give an example. This is going to be long. I put in for time off for 10 days to help her move since her old place was too expensive and she couldn't afford movers. In the old place, she and my older sister were supposed to be splitting the bills but my older sister quit her job and failed to find another. My older sister eventually moved to another state. Anyway, when I get down there she doesn't have any money for the truck so I have to rent out a truck. She knows I get paid on the weeks she doesn't, this is something else that's become a constant thing when it comes to borrowing money. Whatever I pay for the truck. Well, a few days goes by and we move most of the stuff into the new place.
My older sister, the same sister that moved away, needs $300 by Wednesday or she's getting put out of her place. I offer the money since I worry about my niece and nephew, she has 2 kids btw, but my mom is unsure about the validity of her claims. She does some calling around and it seems my sister was asking other family members for the same amount and had received the amount already.
When my mom is telling me this she goes "Yeah your sister got the money from another family member, but can you pay off the amount on my furniture, refrigerator, and stove? The new place she's moving into doesn't have a refrigerator or stove. I'm thinking sure whatever not that big of a deal. I forgot to mention my younger sister, niece and grandmother live with my mother as well. We get to the place keep in mind I'm thinking it's just $300 is the payoff amount. In actuality, it's around $1200. I told her I didn't have that much money on me. When we get in the car she goes "Well how much did you think it was?" in a very snarky tone. We never discussed how much it was beforehand. I just assumed it was no more than the $300 my sister previously needed.
Since this was said I've been in a bad mood ever since. I'm here with mom for a few more days but I'm just exhausted. I paid for my plane tickets out of my pocket, on top of paying for the truck and other things. She let me know a few weeks ago that things would be tough financially for her since she decided to move and that she would need my help but things have been tough for me as well financially. Since graduating college, I've been struggling to gain a footing financially. It may have to do with the fact I don't have a spouse or any children on top of her raising us kids as a single parent which makes her feel entitled to any money I earn but I'm not sure. I don't have anyone to talk to so any advice is welcomed.

I went to the doctor today for the first time in a while, picked a primary care doctor with a background in osteopathy because my joint pain has been getting worse. When she asked about my range of motion, I showed her my double jointed elbows and told her a lot of my other joints did that too. after that she seemed a bit concerned… ordered labs, started asking if I have issues with a few different vital organs, asked about my family’s health history, referred me to a physical therapist, and scheduled a follow up in a few months.
She seems like a great doctor and I’m beyond grateful to have my pain taken seriously but I hadn’t really thought this far ahead. I thought it’d be another long shot like the last time I tried to get help for pain. Now I’m coming to terms with the fact it is definitively not in my head and all of the possibilities are chronic illnesses.
I don’t have an answers yet but wanted to start here because marfan syndrome was the one she mentioned. I’m also very tall with long limbs so there’s that too. I have so many questions but was too stunned in the moment to ask. Are kneecaps not supposed to move? I have a core memory of playing with mine by jiggling it side to side as a child so i just assumed everyones’ did that till my doctor made a note in my chart because of my knee. How long does it typically take for labs to get back? What happens next? Does physical therapy help and if so how much of a difference does it make? Is there anything you wish you knew when you first found out something was wrong?

hey! ive been concerned about the possibility of cushings for about a year, and i thought i would come here to ask for advice or opinions as spaces such as this have always been the most helpful in figuring out the next steps.
i first found out about cushings not too long after i was put on prednisone at a dose considered to be high (50mg) for a few months to help handle my indeterminate IBD which i was diagnosed with at the same time. the tapering of my dose was rushed right at the end due to extreme constipation caused by the medication, but i had also experienced weight gain of about 60 pounds that has not budged since. i went from 130 to 190, and most of the weight went to my midsection, as well as my thighs and upper arms, and the rest of my legs and arms are quite muscular but still much thinner in comparison with no additional growth there, and i developed a hump on my neck that is quite solid. the hump was my first sign that pushed me to look into cushings as i noticed it when trying to lay my head back, it blocks most motion, which i typically would have a lot of in that area as i have EDS, which also complicates this even more as all of the skin symptoms from cushings other than the purple stretch marks are also caused by that. we never really looked into cushings during that time as it was pure chaos trying to get my IBD and other gi issues under control after prednisone, and i was in the hospital for treatments, scans, or tests almost constantly for a few months. even now things are still crazy, but its been sitting in the back of my mind for so long.
i am happy to provide more details if needed, but i’d like to know if people think this is reasonable to look into still, and where to go from here if so?

Hey everyone! My Husband is being super awesome and supportive as we plan this family vacation to Kauai. He is going to be hanging with my mom, brother, and brothers family for a week so I want to take him out on a date one night. He is a laid back kind guy, who loves good food and beer. Is there a relaxed place that has good food and beer, that's on the south side of the island? Low on the tourist vibes and good views are a bonus but not required. I kind of figured you can't get one with out the other. I know from other posts to avoid Bubba Burgers. How do these locations hold up? Sueoka snack shop, Kenji Burger, and Kapaa, Kauai Beer Co. Any input is appreciated. Thank you from Minnesota.

Hi all!

 Seeking advice and thoughts. So I’ve got a 2009 GX 470 with 157k miles on it. I do some “light” overlanding right now but I am rapidly getting more into it. I also use the car for deep snow snowboard and ski trips with the back completely full (Removed 3rd row seats) and long cross country road trips. 

I know the car still has a lot of miles left to give as I take care of her well, but I’ve been considering a 2024 Toyota Tundra for extra and easier to use storage space but I’m worried I’d be sacrificing reliability and capability off road and snow without AWD. Comfort might be a draw idk. GX might be more smooth but Tundra will have updated tech.
Any thoughts? Open to all ideas.
PS, I like the Tundra because I have loved my GX engine so wanted to stick with Toyota reliability and it has a powerful engine so not sluggish. Sluggishness is something I did not enjoy about the 4Runner having driven it many times.

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Winner	Loser	Match Finish	Stipulation
Fallon Henley	Thea Hail w/ Chase U	Big Boot	Women's North American Championship Qualifier
Axiom and Nathan Frazer (c)	Luca Crusifino and Stacks w/ The Family	Inside Cradle after the NCQC attack the Family at Ringside	For the NXT Tag Team Championships
Wes Lee and Joe Coffey w/ Gallus	Briggs	Double Pinfall	#1 Contender for the North American Championship
Jaida Parker w/ OTM	Brinley Reece	Hip Check	Women's North American Championship Qualifier
Dante Chen w/ Robert Stone	Lexis King	Roll-Up counter to the Coronation
Natalya and Karmen Petrovich	Lola Vice and Shayna Balzer	Hart Attack

IMPORTANT NOTES

• The Family arrive to the arena when they are confronted by Nathan Frazer and Axiom, Nathan Frazer congratulates Tony on winning the cup and says he remembers winning it himself while Axiom regrets having never won it. The Family goes down the winners of the cup and wonders what the hell happened to A-Kid? Tony accuses Axiom and Frazer of ducking Gallows and Anderson but Nathan says they are willing to defend the titles against any NXT superstars and Tony says they should defend them against Luca and Stacks and the two agree.
  
• Joe Coffey says the only things people were talking about the end of last week was Gallus and they took out Ivar but Wes Lee and Josh Briggs were tougher than expected but he's going to finish the job tonight then show Oba Femi what Gallus is about at Battleground.
  
• Robert Stone is telling Waylon Dix that she impressed him in the combine, Lexis King walks in and tells Stone that no one wants anything to do with him lately, even Chelsea Green didn't want him to help her anymore and he's shooting to the top. Ava walks by and tells Lexis to get ready because he has a surprise opponent tonight, Stone says he'd love to teach Lexis something but Ava reminds him last time he stepped in the ring it didn't end well.
  
• Riley Osborne calls Ridge a liability but Ridge tells him to back off and says he couldn't just stand there and see Thea get hit with a chair so he had to step in. Riley says it cost Thea the match and the two argue. Andre says if they have something to settle settle it in the ring.
  
• Karmen Petrovich says she's nervous since this is her first main event but Nattie is the BOAT, Nattie says she's been impressed by how much Karmen has grown and tonight they'll be a well oiled winning machine.
  
• Edris Enofe says he's cooked after all his bad luck but Brin still wants him and Blade in her corner tonight. Edris isn't sure as Brin cartwheels out of the room.
  
• Oba Femi asks Ava what the decision of the triple threat match, she says it's clear that both Joe and Wes made their pins at the same time so Oba will have to face both at Battleground.
  
• Fallon Henley is approached by Jazmine Nyx and says she knew that friends were just holding her back and that's why she waited until after Fallon's win to get her revenge on Thea for breaking Jacey's nose.
  
• Wendy Choo wakes up!
  
• Roxanne Perez says the NXT Women's Championship has always been her "why" and it is the two of them against the world. It doesn't matter if it's NXT, the main roster, or the fans, all she cares about is her title and you better get used to this sight because when she looks in the mirror she doesn't see a hero or a villain she just sees a prodigy.
  
• Ava is on the phone and says she worked out things with Nick and Adam and that next week Roxanne's next challenger for Battleground.
  
• Lexis King comes down to the ring and says the king has been a bit of a hot streak lately and whoever comes through that curtain is about to join a long list of gentlemen who have fallen to him. Robert Stone makes his way out and points to the entrance where Dante Chen makes his entrance.
  
• Lola tells Shayna that together they are unstoppable but Shayna tells her to keep the dancing back here and tonight is all about business.
  
• NXT Champion Trick Williams makes his way to the ring, he says he's got to get straight to business. Two weeks ago Noam Dar dropped him from behind, now last week Dar got dropped backstage and he wouldn't wish that on nobody so he wants to be crystal clear that he did not attack Noam Dar. If he did want to attack Noam he'd be unconscious and he'd have a size 15 Jordan printed on your forehead. Meta Four Come out and Jackson says Trick isn't tricking them and it was likely Trick and Je'von working together. Ora tells Trick to grow up and admit to what he did while Lash Legend argues that Trick couldn't have done it since Trick actually has been through this. Trick threatens to slap Oro's tap dance loafers right off his ass. Joe Coffey makes his way out and says everyone is probably wondering why the guy who just earned a shot at the North American Championship is talking to the NXT Champ, but he's about to find out why. The rest of Gallus ambush Trick from behind and Joe joins in until Je'von Evans to try and make the save but the numbers game is too much and Gallus lays out Je'von. Trick is able to recover and mounts a come back but Gallus gang up and puts down Trick with For the Bells.
  
• Backstage Robert Stone tells Dante Chen he did great and Ava comes by to congratulate him. Dante thanks her for the opportunity but she tells Dante that it was Stone who convinced her that this was his time. Dante thanks Stone and Ava tells him he made a star tonight.
  
• After the main event Shayna looks at Lola with disappointment but Lola strikes with a spinning kick before shaking her ass over Shayna's body. She goes to leave, still shaking, as Shayna gets to her feet and grabs Lola, locking her in the Kirafuda Clutch until officials run down to free Lola. The two brawl at ringside until Ava comes out and says it's clear the two of them are looking for a fight then they can do this at Battleground. Shayna grabs a mic and says she wants it in NXT Underground!
  

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