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Some context: My ADHD makes it difficult for me to stick to workout routines, and I'm looking for a technological solution to make things easier.
I've already created a custom YouTube playlist with multiple follow-along routines that cover all of the exercises I want to do. Once I start the playlist, I genuinely enjoy my workout and have no trouble finishing it. But because I work from home on a flexible schedule, it's extremely easy to procrastinate.
The solution I'm looking for: A home automation that turns on my Smart TV at a specific time, and then runs my YouTube playlist on the television. It will be easier to avoid procrastinating if the playlist runs automatically at the appropriate time, without me having to start it manually.
I have a TCL smart tv, but I would consider buying a new television for the ability to run this feature. A new TV would be far more affordable than hiring a personal trainer.
Ideally, I would want a solution that works with Apple Shortcuts. I've already setup Gmail to forward all of my calendar notifications to my iCloud address. So if this automation could work when my iCloud address receives a Google Calendar message that includes the word "workout" in the subject line, that would be ideal.

I have been seeing my therapist for almost three years. Trauma therapy. CPTSD.
She had very few boundaries around outside of session communication. I am not someone who easily needs or depends on people so she was very encouraging that I reach out to her when I needed. I struggled through the attachment because I really didn’t understand how deep my mothering wounds were until I had someone so supportive, nurturing and … available. Back in 2022 I went through a huge load of traumas back to back and our texting was pretty frequent…. And then got kind of blurry as well and got friendly.
And then one day out of nowhere she decided no more. She completely cut me off cold turkey. She also implemented more relational boundaries and all were sent in an email.
It caused a huge months long rupture. Huge. And it was messy. I regressed quite a bit too because I lost a lot of safety and security.
We are trying to make it through now but I really haven’t explained the level of emotional abandonment and pain it caused me for her to do that to me. At least I don’t think I have….. because her electric fence boundaries are still in place. I am not even welcome to reach out for support if I truly need it.
Is it uneasonable that I still feel so hurt? It feels a lot like my childhood when I was forced to be hyper independent and not expect anyone to show up for me. I had to detach too early and never got to work through a secure attachment and leave the nest because it was safe. Always because I wasn’t really wanted there. It seemed. It has opened up so many old wounds and they are screaming at me daily.
I don’t really know what to do. Leaving her isn’t an option. I am far too attached and I’ve worked too hard to open up and trust. I won’t start over…. but it is so so painful to have had a single person that I felt so safe with who I didn’t have to worry that I would be too much for and that’s all I feel.
I want to work through it in a healthy way but it feels overwhelming. It feels pathetic that I would be having such a hard time but I am.

(ENGLAND SPECIFIC - COLLEGE, A LEVELS, BTECS, AND AS LEVELS. EXAM BOARDS: AQA AND PEARSON. AGE: 17)
TLDR: gross misconduct during exams by invigilators. I reported a case where I could hear a students answers (he has access arrangements and needed to vocally say his answers and have someone else write them) which risks potential cheating. Do I risk losing my qualifications and everyone else’s (that was present)?
I’ve just finished by BTEC and AS exams at college and the conduct of the invigilators was gross. For context, I have access arrangements (extra time, rest breaks and access to a word processocomputer to type my work) for personal reasons so I’m in a smaller room with others that also use access arrangements (separate from the main exam in the main hall).
Here’s the misconduct seen in each of the 4 exams of this series:
1st (Applied Law - BTEC) - invigilator began playing music from his phone, presumably tiktok-like music.
2nd (Sociology Paper 1 - AS Level) - (1) invigilator didn’t provide me with a word processor and delayed the start of the exam by 20 minutes later than we should’ve started in order to check my eligibility for this and set up my computer when this was confirmed. (2) only one invigilator was present, meaning that he had to make several phone calls IN the exam room whilst the exam was taking place - not even whispering - in order to ask teachers to come and help with something quickly etc. (3) printing was done all throughout the exam which, when dealing with vulnerable people susceptible to distractions, is inappropriate as the printer was very loud. My high school had a separate room for printing because of this.
After this exam, I contacted my head of year to complain. She said she’d speak to the teachers.
3rd (Applied Psychology - BTEC) - phone calls were made again, teachers talking loudly when they shouldn’t be, half of the students taking different exams to me weren’t provided with the resource booklet they needed and students’ access arrangements were improperly recorded - all of this delayed the start time by 30 minutes.
4th (Sociology Paper 2 - AS Level) - this was today. Phone calls made all throughout AGAIN. And a student had tech issues with their laptop, this was dealt with inside the room instead of outside (whilst everyone else had started the exam) causing 30 minutes of running around, loud talking, etc. before the student was taken into a small room connected to the main room (I was sitting directly next to the door to this room) so he could vocally say his answers and have a teacher write them for him - I could hear everything, which is distracting and risks people cheating. The invigilator knew how much u could hear it as he checked on them by standing directly behind me.
I reported all of this - as the last issue involves a risk of cheating, do I risk losing my qualifications over the college’s misconduct? I also don’t want to be the cause of the other students’ qualifications becoming void either. (Note: the invigilators aren’t professional invigilators - they’re casual teachers at the college)

This is a throwaway account. This is not to the same level of abuse others have faced (if this is abuse at all), so I apologize if this is more of a nothingburger, but I need advice.
We’ve been married for 11 years, and have one child. As far as I’m aware, my spouse has hit themselves and objects since they were a kid. This would happen after they did something wrong or received criticism. They’ve always felt down on themselves, and didn’t have the I initiative to make anything of their life until I showed up. They also have ADHD (have Ben on medication for a year now) which can make things difficult. Their mom is also emotionally abusive. She can make you feel like anything is your fault.
Anyway, SO has issues like remembering appointments and cleaning up after themselves (these are just a few examples). If I bring something like this up, they will usually apologize (in the “please don’t criticize me anymore way). I try to have discussions about these issues, but it’s difficult.
If they get overwhelmed, SO may end up hitting objects (less often) or themselves (more often). Sometimes, if they’re still upset but have to leave for work, or we want to end everything on good terms, we’ll hug or kiss. But their hug will be really tight, or kiss will be too hard. This is not a “a love you so much and I’m really sorry” tight hug, I can tell it’s coming from that place of anger.
Common disclaimers: I love them, they’re a wonderful parent, we are best friends. They have never hit a person out of anger.
After 11 years they have never struck me or our child. This is the worst of it. But I need to know how much of a red flag this is. Thanks for reading, and any advice someone here could give.

I am coming from a vertical retro handheld (RG353VS) and did not like the ergonomics and the overall experience.
Personally, how is the ergonomics in RG353PS for you? Is it comfortable to play for long hours?
How easy is it to use both analogue sticks and shoulder buttons at the same time?
p.s. I have somewhat smaller hands I think.

Hello everyone. I am in my late 20's, due to a serious illness I had to leave college in the middle of my first semester. I really want to go back to school, my dream was always to be a professor, however I'm a bit uncertain about what to do with the mandatory essay. This is where my question comes in as the school I'm applying for only offers one topic; "Tell us your story. What unique opportunities or challenges have you experienced throughout your high school career that have shaped who you are today?". My hang up is the fact that it specifically says high school. My high school experience was incredibly uneventful, I did well academically but was painfully shy and not very involved. However my life since then has been a roller coaster, I've dealt with mental and physical health issues, I've taught myself how to paint and exhibited my artwork at notable local galleries, likewise through years of self study I've become extremely knowledgeable on several topics and regularly write about them for magazines and journals. Would you think it's safe to write about my post-high school life for this essay? Secondly, in the same vein, nothing on the college application itself really let me express where I am as a person today, it focused entirely on my high school performance which is about a decade old at this point. Is there any way I could express my achievements since graduating from high school? I'd appreciate any advice.

I’m so sorry if this is already common knowledge, but I did not know this until today (and I’m pissed about it bc I test 5/24). You can go back and basically retake your full lengths without having to reset them by clicking “hide solutions” when prompted. Redoing the problems with the correct answer and explanation right in front of me kind of defeats the purpose (for me personally) but this way you don’t have immediate access the answers. I’m literally redoing all the chem calculations from all the full lengths and it’s so helpful!!

It’s amazing in the last 10 years or so how much the brand has changed. It used to be a premium brand where products would be supported for years, hold their value for a long time and “just work”.
Today, my latest addition to my not-small system arrived, a £450 Move 2. I took it out the box and then spent 45 minutes trying to add it to the app, eventually clicked the “contact support” option to be greeted with a message saying the phone wait time to be answered was 2 hours.
LOL! What a transformation.

Since FNaF: Into The Pit was revealed to the public, there were a lot of theories about "What new things will this game bring that, perhaps, were not completely clear in the novel?" Well, after some leaked info about Jeff, the owner of Jeff's Pizza (Freddy Fazbear's Pizza in the past), some people (me included) think that is very possible that his true identity was Michael Afton all along. This even made more sense as a possibility when Mega Cat Studios revealed a glimpse of Jeff in the game; purple-skinned, for some strange reason, and that it was revealed since the Graphic Novel Edition that "Into The Pit" was set in 2020.
Now, Michael being Jeff make that some weird things about Jeff's original description in the novel make a lot of sense:

Today, like all other days, Jeff looked as if he hadn’t slept in a week. His dark hair was sticking up in weird places, and he had alarming bags under his bloodshot eyes. It was funny. Jeff’s expression never changed. He looked tired and miserable even when he was being extra nice. And when he thought about it, Jeff was kind of creepy, too. He looked a hundred years old but was probably just thirty. With those heavy-lidded, bloodshot eyes, the stained apron, and the slow speech and movement, he was like a zombie pizza chef.

The last description is the most important, because we all know since FNaF: Sister Location's Custom Night minigames that Michael ended up looking like a zombie with a slow pace, and from his monologue it is known that his intonation was also just as slow. And if you take a quick look at what a one hundred year old person looks like, they sadly fit to a zombie-like description (most of the time.)
The most interesting thing to me about that description is the mention of Jeff, probably, being a 30 year old guy, because... why did they draw such a direct conclusion, and on top of that, classify it as a "probability"? If I have to guess, it's because that description was meant to reveal the age Michael Afton had when he died.
This alone is not enough to draw a specific conclusion about the chronological location of FNaF: Sister Location, beyond the age one can assume of Michael in 1983, which still leaves us with a wide repertoire of options. But this is where a page from the Survival Logbook comes in that I had not given enough attention to at the time, but now makes me believe that it was always the answer; the page 32 39.
This is one of the few pages that Mike uses to draw something. At the time, most of us thought that it was only supposed to depict that this book was clearly meant to reveal Golden Freddy's soul name. And even if I still believe that's the case, there's still the question of "why would Mike draw a tombstone in the first place?" Perhaps we should take a look to what the page is about:

One way to find hope in a seemingly hopeless situation is to fast-forward and try peeking into the future. Let's give it a try-what will your like look like in five years?

Most of the people believe the book is meant to give us a better look at Mike during the events of FNaF 1, with several of us believing the same despite the book actually being meta (not an in-universe logbook). Since the strongest stance that FNaF: Sister Location takes place after FNaF 1, because Michael mentions having already met the Missing Children and the "Dittophobia" story revealing lore of Circus Baby's Entertainment and Rental, is very clear for most of us that Michael had his first death after FNaF 1.
If this page was meant to depict that he died five years later, and "Into The Pit" was meant to reveal that he died being a 30 years old guy, then not only we would reach the conclusion that FNaF: Sister Location is set in 1998, but also that Mike would have been a 25 year old guy during FNaF 1. Now, where we've seen that same age for Mike before?

At twenty-five years old, Mike was okay with his age. He was cool with his looks, too. He was five foot six and in pretty good shape, even though he didn’t have time to work out too much. He didn’t think his dark brown hair, hazel eyes, and regular features were particularly handsome, but they weren’t ugly, either.

Yes, FNaF: The Offical Movie Novel, where Mike Schmidt is a 25 year old guy. We have the right to question whether Mike's age during the year 2000 in which the movie takes place is appropriate for what he was in FNaF 1 for obvious reasons, but at the same time, it is a probability considering what Scott Cawthon said he had planned to do with these films during Dawko's interview:

and people who go to see the movie aren't gonna want to see a retelling of the books. They're gonna want to see the first game. They're gonna want to see a retelling of the story that got them interested in the first place, you know? The first game had the right atmosphere, the right characters, and that's what people are gonna want. And um, ideally, if the first movie does really well, I think it will work great as a trilogy. Um, Five Nights at Freddy's 1, Five Nights at Freddy's 2, and Five Nights at Freddy's 3, based on the first three games.

And since then, there were a lot of statements either from Scott and the people involved on the movie themselfs that FNaF: The Movie was clearly meant to reimagine the first game.
My conclusion would be that FNaF: Sister Location takes place in 1998 (not sure in what season tho, maybe Autumn?) and that Michael Afton was a 15 year old kid during 1983, a 25 year old guy in 1993, and finally, a 30 year old man in 1998. What do you think?

I can’t tell you how much it bugs me that Exley is able to seemingly hack into every single mobile provider, utility company, government organization, technology provider and corporate network on the planet. I know it’s just a show but this genuinely irks me, especially because it’s just him slamming his fingers across a keyboard for 7 seconds and … done!

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I am still here. I knew what I wanted. You do too. I was always straight up with you. I asked for you not to do two things so we would not have those problems in our relationship. I had so many hopes then and was looking forward. We had a pact. I am sorry I messed up back then and it appears its effects are still lingering. I lost you and it was devastating. Pretty much like it is now. We lost touch and I hoped that we would find each other again. I never thought we would have issues when it happened. It wasn’t supposed to be like this. I had no clue you’d come at me the way you did. I never knew it was you. Yes I made commitments to him(you) in 2005. That situationship died as it should have never been born. I apologize for not recognizing you or the attempts you made to connect with me. The reason for the stoic looks because I don’t know what the hell is going on!! I appreciate them in any event and the intent behind them. But I expected to be spoken to like you know me. I did not expect to be contacted via social media pretending to be people you have no clue about. And you wonder why I’m here. I’ll admit I indulged back in 2021. You had what almost 2-3 months communicating while I was recuperating from my surgery? I gave another him(you) opportunities(plural) to come clean. Instead the lies continued to perpetrate to no end. I wanted you, my family. I just wanted to hear it finally (sigh) so we could move on and cut the bullshit. But no. That was the last draw. I said the things I said to get rid of the person that wasn’t you playing and love bombing me on my line because the direct approach was not working. Now you want to admit it was you?? I am sorry you were/are hurt by what I said and you felt it. It was not intended for you and you know what I mean by that. I admire your persistence. You kept it up still pretending to be people you don’t know to connect. I straight up ask who they are and what do I get??? Crickets! Hence the reason for the blocks. Playing kiddie games. We too grown for that. I am and have been going through too much for something that was supposed to be so simple. I didn’t need any of it. All of that wasted time! It didn’t need to drag on like it did. If it were anybody else I would have cut my losses. All of the nonsense is so unnecessary but you listened to people that have no clue what we were. You don’t do family like that under any circumstances. We were supposed to be together and you know that. Stop feeling hurt. But what do hurt people do continue to hurt the people they say they love by spewing venom. Ain’t no theatrics over here. This is my life and I like to live it drama free. You know how it was growing up. That’s not what I wanted for us. Even though we are going through it, I still love you and want to work things out with you. I have not said or conveyed anything different. I want to go to you but I am going through changes over all of the nonsense among other things. What changes? Every fucking emotion under the damn sun! You’ve been watching what I have been going through. Did it not occur to you that I would be changed? All you saw was I was not responding to you the way you hoped and you said nothing. How many years has it been? You looking at me and me at you both waiting for responses that never come. Make it make sense. I’m sorry you felt rejected, abandoned and believed I lied to you or better yet I faked it. Seriously?? You know better. Do better! Unfortunately the state we are in now are the consequences of unchartered waters because this was never us. I am trying to ride this wave until it calms down. I’m throwing you your life preserver. Are you gonna take it or drown? I’m fighting for my life. I apologize for hurting you. I apologize that it appears that I don’t love you. I know you love me and want to be with me. I love you and want to be with you. You need to get it through your head that you trumped everybody. You still do. It is and always was you. Please don’t doubt that. I never wanted to nor would I try to hurt you. When I realized what happened last year I went looking for you to apologize. But you already know about that right? The distance between us is not what either of us want. We are strangers and we’re afraid because we have changed. You’re always on my mind like I am always on yours. After all of this time. I don’t understand why but you’ve made it hard to trust you. I am trying to preserve what we have left. I don’t want to be there feeling the way I do because that was never who I was when I was around you. But I have to get through things and want you here. You are not a spare (you never were) and I’m not trying to hold onto you until someone better comes along. So you can stop ruminating. There is no one better. I never lied to you. I wasn’t the one doing the lying. I say what I mean and mean what I say. But if you’re going to spew hate to make yourself feel better (which doesn’t happen btw) tell the whole fucking truth and your role in it. Play and you’ll be playing by yourself. I understand if you may have changed your mind on me or stalled out checked out whatever. But this is what it is. We are free people whether we are together or not. I’d rather be crying tears of joy than tears of pain. Thank you for all you have done and for loving me. But it’s all or nothing right? I always hope you make it back in one piece, mentally, physically and spiritually. Always love

We've been together for around 2 years and moved in together 6 months ago. Like all relationships, there have been some ups and downs, but generally, everything has been okay so far. (I will touch on this later in my post.)
Backstory relevant to the issue: About 1.5 years ago, my girlfriend and a female friend went on a 2-week vacation. They met a group of 3 brothers there, who were all their age and from the same country, so they got along well and exchanged contacts. One of the guys, let's call him Tim, was my girlfriend’s age, and they seemed to get along.
Since then, they met as a group a couple of times, nothing too crazy, just hanging out and catching up. Fast forward to yesterday, a festival took place in our city, and the group of guys was there. My girlfriend and our friend group went to the festival and met up with the guys.
They sat, chatted, and spent some time together. At one point, Tim started chatting with my girlfriend. She expressed to him that a female friend of hers (who was there that day) always takes all the attention, which makes her feel insecure. Tim assured her that she didn’t need to think that way and that she’s beautiful as she is. They then went silent for a bit, and he asked her if everything was alright. She proceeded to tell him that she felt some sort of connection and was “attracted to him in that moment.” After a bit of silence, she regretted what she said, told him it was the wrong thing to say, and maybe alcohol played a role. He assured her it was okay and that she might have felt this way because of what happened that day.
I should mention that I’ve been working a lot for the past 5 months on a project and have had very little time to spend with anyone, let alone my girlfriend. She later mentioned that she has been missing me and that might have played a role in her confusion of feelings that day.
Fast forward to today, he messaged her asking about the photos she took that day and engaged in small chat. She then told him that it would be better if they restricted contact because she loves me and if they happen to encounter each other, she wouldn’t mind saying hi but other than that, he shouldn’t expect anything. He said he understands, and that’s how the conversation ended.
I’ve been holding the opinion that she should block everything that has to do with him and the male group they met. She believes that what she has done is enough and there is no need to block him since he didn’t do anything wrong, and she already told him she doesn’t want further contact.
Furthermore, we’ve been having our fair share of discussions and differences. One major issue is that we have significantly different sex drives, which we've been trying to work on for a very long time. Another issue is her physical health; she has always preferred staying at home over engaging in physical activities, which has affected her weight, confidence, and self-esteem. Personally, I don’t care if she’s a bit overweight, but for her, it’s been a huge source of stress and insecurity. I’ve never forced her to do anything, but I always invite her to go to the gym with me or participate in outdoor sports if she’s interested.
I am not sure how to feel about the whole situation. She’s been very clear in telling me how much she loves me and that this was a huge mistake on her part. She wants to work to fix it and work on all the points I’ve mentioned. On the other hand, I feel like with regard to this situation, it’s been difficult to process. Regarding the other differences, I feel like we might’ve reached a dead end since she’s been saying she wants to work on these things but with no significant improvement yet. Recently, she went to the gym a couple of times with her female friend, but that’s about it. She’s asking for one last chance to work on everything.
Unfortunately, I have no one to talk to about this topic. This is why I need your help and feedback. I appreciate all the feedback I can get. Thank you all very much in advance.
TL;DR: My girlfriend confessed she felt an attraction to a friend at a festival due to feeling insecure and missing me. She restricted contact with him but didn't block him. We've had ongoing issues with different sex drives and her physical health. She wants to work on our relationship, but I'm unsure if we can overcome these problems.

So basically, I’m in high school and there’s this new guy who’s popular right now. But he makes me so uncomfortable. Two or three weeks ago were in pe and warming up and we had to do squats. So I did. I heard giggling behind me but didn’t think much of it since it wasn’t really any of my business. Well later on one of the girls in our PE group told me the new guy intentionally positioned himself behind me, for obvious reasons and kept making vulgar expressions. It’s not the first time I’ve received unsolicited attention from guys so I brushed it off. Well today I was sat next to him in IT class and we spoke for a bit. But then he touched my thigh. I didn’t remember at the time his little antics in pe a few weeks ago because I have loads of tests recently and again, I don’t really care or think much about the people in my school. So I didn’t think much of this gesture, just thought it was a body language habit of him mid conversation like how people playfully shove you if you say something funny that’s out of pocket or hold your wrist when they are excited about what they’re telling you. Well then I walk into homeroom and everyone is chanting this guy’s name. Then my friend told me it was because someone saw him touch my thigh and now they think he’s hitting or whatever. Obviously I was annoyed but all the guy did was smile and said he wishes he’d touched my ass instead and let the rumours continue. It’s starting to bother me. I don’t wanna report him because the teachers like retelling those sorts of reports to the student during personal development week. They think they’re being discreet by only refraining from saying the name. But obviously everyone knows who they’re on about. On the other hand, I don’t want to be alone with this guy to confront him personally because I don’t wanna get assaulted or worse. I don’t know what to do.

I thought I saw my face in the rivers reflection. Smooth icy skin, brown hair, green eyes. But the river revealed it was a mere recollection - in truth, just frost, and a mess of mud and moss.
I thought I saw my body in the Bodhi tree. Outstretched limbs calling out to the stars. But the bark spoke a growl that reminded me: if I live like a beast, I will never be free.
I meander through bramble, aimlessly. Not noticing the gnaw of the spikes and the thorns. This forest, moon looming and animals gathered - colosseum of the souls all battling themselves.
This forest, sun dawning on my flesh, now tattered - I'll need it no more, I'm free, I'm free.
I thought I saw myself in the forest outside, but the forest's final message: to live, I must die.
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I’m gonna try to make this as simple as possible. Basically I’ve been dealing with this woman since 2019 and at first I thought she was sweet, spiritual, and innocent, boyyyy was I wrong.. as time went on I started to see the real her. She’s very manipulative, a pathological liar, narcissist, and she has cluster B border line personality disorder. The night we met she fed me a bunch of lies which I uncovered overtime for example she told me the first night we met that she had been raped the year prior while she was in school(which I later found out was not true whatsoever. Months down the line she would even talk about exs that were “abusive” towards her which I later also found out wasn’t true. Fast forward to February of 2020 she ended up pregnant with our first child and a couple months into the pregnancy she just decided she’s not gonna deal with me anymore, so I ended up dating a woman I’ve known since middle school. She found out about this and next thing I know the sheriffs are serving me a restraining order accusing me of rape!!! When we showed up for court she immediately dropped the order before we even could talk to the judge. Fast forward to when my child was born in December of 2020 she texts me that she just had the baby and I asked if I could come up there and she said “no” and as time goes on she start’s blatantly keeping my child from me I didn’t meet my first born until February of 2021, and that’s when she tried to reconcile whatever situationship we had and would go on to apologize for the accusations saying her family foster her to do that so that I won’t be able to be in my child’s life which of course was a lie that was her decision. As time goes on the girl I was dating passed away and I was distraught so my baby mother comes around and I ended up coming up on money and decided to get us an apartment with our child two months into staying there I had a seizure while sleeping and instead of staying there to help she takes my child and leaves and proceeded to text my mom a picture of me in bed having the seizure and even tells my mom I was hitting her while having a seizure …. She blocked me again after that and a month later comes back around againnnn I guess basically to just have sex with me and then blocks me again and keeps me from my child, and at that point she was pregnant with my second child. I didn’t see my oldest for 6-7 months I had moved on to a nice relationship with a wonderful woman by that time and my second child was born, and that’s when I decided to take this stuff to court and the judge reprimanded her for isolating my kids from me and a custody order was placed for them to be with me every other weekend. During the custody court date she tried telling the judge I was abusive and all that nonsense and the judge seen right through it and didn’t pay it any attention, so two months after that she starts reaching out more and trying to have normal conversations and I would go along with it like a idiot and she wanted to hook up again and we did a few times, in which my girlfriend found out and we broke up and then weeks after that my baby moms ghost me again, still following the order tho. A month later my girlfriend and I got back on good terms and she notices and tries to get me to sabotage my relationship again! It doesn’t really work and I came to find out she would tell her family I was abusing her and a bunch of other ridiculous lies. This time CPS gets involved and investigates me for DV, which didn’t work. Now let’s fast forward to two years later, my babymom keeps coming in and out of my life(I don’t know why I let her honestly) she thinks about leaving to the military and I took the kids while she tries to go to the recruiting camp or whatever to see if she can enlist which she can’t because apparently she’s been committed by her mother a few times.. I stopped dealing with her for a while until some months back, she calls herself apologizing for everything she’s done to me and we start hanging out again but at this point I no longer am in love with her I wanted to go be with the woman I was still in love with that she thought she Sabotaged, and when I confessed this to her and that I can’t deal with how much she lies and plays these mental games and before I try to go home she tells me she’s gonna kill herself when I go home and I had her committed at her own request, she stayed for about a week and a half. Gets out and was put on meds and therapy which she stopped using after a couple of months. Me and the girl I’m in love with are still seeing each other and me and my babymoms stopped dealing with each other yet again. I get a knock on the door about a month or two later with getting served another restraining order falsely accusing me of abuse yet again I didn’t fight it cuz I’m really tired of her at this point. We started hanging out just taking the boys to the park and stuff like that just to try to bond with our kids as a family despite everything… she starts wanting to get intimate and I actually didn’t want to this time and then she starts telling me a bunch of lies about how she hasn’t been with anybody and a whole bunch of non sense that I know is false, and I snapped on her and called her out on all of it, I went wrong in the conversation and threw her phone back at her but it wasn’t in a aggressive way it hits her on the eye and I apologized and everything and I still say I don’t wanna be intimate with her and wanna be with the same woman that I’m in love with still, and then she begins to start that “I wanna kill myself” bullshit again except this time I don’t commit her cuz I realize she just tries to get pity from me and everybody else however she can. The next day she texts and asks for a bag she left at my house I told her I’d leave it on the porch for her. When she pulls up me and my girlfriend and her son are outside playing, out of nowhere her uncles jumps out her car and attacks me while my kids are watching from her car and my girlfriend’s son was right there in front of all this he then runs back to her car and they pull off quickly. The phone left her eye a lil black when I threw it at her and she even admitted that to my brother through text and to me in text that it was the phone, but typical crazy girl fashion she even texts my girlfriend after her and her uncle left a picture of her eye and says “you better leave him alone before this happens to you” she reported the incident to police weeks later but no charges were filed, CPS reached out to me yet again and I explain to them what happened over the phone and they didn’t seem to adamant about opening up a case. After the attack from her uncle I go to the courts and filed for motion of contempt for not following the custody arrangement on a few occasions, one of being that she had her u cake attack me with my kids present and one of the requirements on the order is to not let the other parent be harmed in any way in front of the children which the judge signed off on and we have court later today for. So yesterday she reaches out after it’s been almost two months since that whole attack from her uncle saying how she misses me and she wants to get the restraining order dropped, and she wants to sleep with me, and see me, and all that. And I actually let her come meet up with me at the mall just to kind of see where her headspace is. Long story short came to find out she was dating some guy and I told him all about her in which he agreed that she lies about every single thing and it’s almost impossible to believe a word out her mouth. this girl has some serious issues and I really want full custody of my boys because I’m scared for their safety being with her as she’s really unstable and flat out crazy, I know hiring an attorney would be the easiest route and me and my family are willing to go in on one but it’s so expensive that if I can do it without an attorney I would like that, would the judge wnat to hear about any of this at this custody violation hearing? Or should I open another case for that separately? I did mention to CPS when they asked me if I had any concerns about my kids being with her I didn’t really want to say too much because I was going to court anyway but I did tell them she smokes marijuana often and drinks very often. I know I should’ve just told them about her mental health problems right then and there but I was still kinda in shock they called me in the first place. Now most of this stuff is documented in texts and pictures, what would you do in this situation? Like what’s the best way of going about fighting her for full custody? This is in North Carolina btw.