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We're currently broke rn. And were in debt so we had to sell our car last year and just booked a new one. And me and my mom thought that everybody already knows about that. But apparently my dad lied to everyone to not damage his reputation. So we had a family wedding to attend today evening and we were outside our house waiting for an uber because we don't have a car. It was very awkward and the cherry on top was the lightning. It was about to rain and my mom was really looking forward to this wedding. Then two of the neighborhood ladies who were taking a walk saw us and asked my mom where were we going so dressed up and my mom said that we're going to a wedding, then they asked for what were we waiting and my mom just told the truth that we sold our car due to financial issues so we're waiting for an uber. Then the two ladies awkwardly laughed and continued their walk. My dad got extremely angry at this because the husbands of the two ladies aren't rich and my mom just lowered his "value" in front of the two ladies by just saying the truth. He threw the wedding gift on the road, cancelled the uber and said that he won't go to the wedding. Then he started screaming vulgar language and "revealed" to everyone (all the houses' front doors were open) that my mother is six years older than him. Now this is a very sensitive topic to my mother. Whenever the word "age" is mentioned in front of my mother, she starts fidgeting. Apparently it's a big shame. A few people even came outside to see what was going on but they didn't interfere. I'm pretty sure someone recorded. My mom was very embarassed but still wanted to go to the wedding, so she tried to convince dad to book an uber again and then we went to the wedding. He refused to come inside and just waited outside and a thunderstorm started. Me and my mom went inside with dull faces and I ignored everyone who tried to talk to me. Idk why I did that, it just made it very apparent that something bad happened. Everybody started asking where was my dad and my mom just had to reveal that this and that happened. There was family who lived close to our house and they offered to take us home if our dad refused to which he did. He sent a message saying he's leaving. We had our food very quickly. I literally couldn't eat anything. Then we were about to leave when my dad texted that he doesn't have the house key and to give it to him. My mom and I walked to him during the thunderstorm and then he said that he booked an uber and we're all leaving. My mom had to say that we're going with dad so they don't keep waiting for us but they just wouldn't pick up the phone. So my mom had to walk back again and tell them. My dad then cancelled the uber. Said some things and then told us that he's leaving alone and to manage somehow and that he won't even open the door for us when we reach home. But then he came back with an uber. So we get in. He told my mom how he's going to reveal to everyone how she's six years older because my mom embarassed him in front of people who aren't up to his level (his words). Then he told my mom to go the houses of the two neighborhood ladies and tell them the lie which my dad told everyone else. We went to both the houses and the two ladies just laughed. One of them said she didn't even remember it and the other one said that my father had the right to be angry. He didn't enter along with us and when we left the house, he wasn't outside. He went home. My mom and dad then started arguing really loudly and my mom told him that she's going to the police to "scare" him but it just made everything worse. He took a heavy chair and was about to hit her with it. But he didn't, he just used his hand and he did it so hard, my mom started bleeding from her mouth. But he didn't care. He then took a photo of her while she fell down on the floor and sent it to everyone we had on WhatsApp. Even people from my school. I deleted it soon after and blocked everyone's number but I'm sure some of them saw the picture. He said he's going to embarass her ten times worse than she did. Then he also told me that he will not let me go to school again. And that he would kill both me and my mom and then glady go to prison. He won't let mom divorce him or report him to the police. He would kill us instead. I don't think life will ever get better. I've posted so many times on Reddit always hoping maybe it will get better one day but it never does. I feel really bad for my mother. She may be older but she's the prettiest woman I know. Her beauty will never fade. And we literally never have anywhere to go and my mom spent hours trying to look perfect because she wanted many pictures to post but it couldn't happen. She didn't get to take a single picture. I really really want to give her the life she truly deserves. She was so excited for today. She was planning her outfit and everything like two months ago.

i’m 25f w no family or close friends. everywhere i go people seem to think im weird or standoffish. i have BPD so i constantly feel empty & worthless. i dont think there is such thing as unconditional love since my parents left me, my old friends stopped talking to me, and as a woman men only want to talk to you if you look like their favorite pornstar.
on the outside i seem relatively successful but deep down im barely able to function. my room is a mess, i constantly obsess over my appearance, i compare myself to others, and i have no real interests or hobbies besides rotting in my bed and obsessing over which plastic surgeries to get so maybe someone will actually love me.
i also want to dress pretty etc but i have been sexually assaulted multiple times and have trouble looking & acting feminine. i am jealous of all the girls who are comfortable in their femininity because i am not.
ive tried to fill the void by hooking up with randos off of the internet but its just made my depression worse because i know im just a number to them and i will never be loved. seeing the way all these porn addicted men my age treat women is disgusting and gives me zero hope of ever being happy.
i don’t do anything right. the only time people talk to me is when they want something from me. i am running out of steam and don’t see the point of living. am i just going to work, sleep, and repeat until a die? just seems like a waste of time…

Hi. I have a 10 years old girl who has witnessed her father being abusive with me, never physically, but verbally, mentally, physically, emotionally and financially. She makes it very clear she doesnt like daddy and would like to live with just me. I am in a very complicated situation, I had an accident that left me with long term injuries. He tells me I’m dead weight for him. Since my injury I’ve gained some weight due to not being able to exercise as I used to, he calls me a fat pig, a slob, because I don’t dress nice anymore, I don’t have the money to take care of myself. He gives me a roof over my head and food. Nothing else. We haven’t slept in the same bed in over 3 years and since then I’ve been sleeping on a mattress on the floor in my kid’s room (she’s happy about that). I had an amazing career, made more money than him, always paid my own bills and half of the house bills, I always spent more on our kid than he did until my accident. Now I’m trying to tough it up and go back to work but he won’t allow anyone in my house to watch my kid while I’m gone (before and after school), he says he won’t commit to “watching” her because of his job and she begs me not to leave her with him. He makes it impossible for me to have a full time job. I’ve been asking him to move out, I can then have family members come and watch my kid but he says he won’t because I don’t have a job to pay the bills but I can’t work if he’s still in my house and won’t allow child care. We’ve had this conversation 50 times and he never has an answer or a solution. I’m now to the point of desperation, I hate him, I feel worthless and defeated. I wanna go to family court and have him removed from our home (it’s a rental, lease is on my name). He has no relationship with any of his family members, only his mother who also can’t tolerate him (so she says) but when poop hits the fan, she ticks to him, which is expected but since she knows and agrees that he’s not a good dad, shouldn’t she stick to what’s best for her only grandchild? She has money and manipulates him because she helps him when he needs something, she does the same to my daughter. I have a good relationship with her but won’t hide the fact she was abusive towards him as a child, an alcoholic, crack head who had multiple men moving on and out of her house. I used to feel bad for him but I can’t excuse his behaviors towards me any longer. This post could not be written if I had to explain how many horrible things he’s done to me but I am without a doubt at my lowest. When is it ok for me to have that conversation with my child and explain why I’m doing what I’m doing? Although she asks me to live with just me, having a parent removed from the home can be traumatic and she may think I didn’t have to do that. His mom at that point will not talk to me anymore, she knows all about his abuse and says she feels bad but she won’t stick to me when it comes down to it. I’m afraid at that point, she will start manipulating my child to feel bad for him and making me the bad one. That’s why it’s so important to me that my child knows the truth but how do I do that? I don’t know that she can handle the truth at 10 years old. The moment I do that, they’ll try and buy her opinion of me. They’ll manipulate her with gifts and if she doesn’t know the truth, I may very well be the loser in this situation. Please let me know what you think I should do. Thank you

I got a bunch of old branded bags such as moschino, Tory Burch and etc and I want to sell them and buy new stuff instead. Is there any website to do this quick? ( I posted them on dubizzle but ad didn’t even get a view)

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Base prices are as follows (per each mon):

• Gen 3-5 Wild RNG: 2€
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I had prom last night, and I was super excited to go. It was my first time. I spent 5 hours getting ready with my friends, showed up..
And someone had the exact same dress on.
Normally, this wouldn’t have been a big deal. Oh well! Right? The problem is this person has been annoying toward me for the past three years. She’s weirdly obsessed, and has kinda stalked me a few times in school. She used to run up behind me and hug me when I wasn’t expecting, and grab my hand in the hall randomly. Super uncomfy. But I just ignore her.
Anyway, about a week ago, in class, she asked me what I was wearing to prom. To be nice I obliged her, and showed her a picture. I didn’t think it was that big of a deal. Anything to not deal with her.
AND THEN she shows up wearing this exact same dress. I just thought ok I’ll ignore her but she walks up to me, shoves the fabric of her dress against mine and screams “OMG ARE WE WEARING THE SAME THING”
She tried to follow me around for the rest of night and i promptly told her to fuck off. She looked depressed for the rest of the night, and left early.
I don’t know if this was truly on purpose, but I kinda feel bad for yelling at her. But then again , purposely copying my dress would not be out of character for her.
AITA?

I want to try chemical treatment of my water. However, I don't want to use a bandana to remove larger particles -- but something like a wide mouth water bag with a metal mesh filter cap. Anybody know of such a product?

Hey everyone! I’ve gotten a lot of messages recently asking how I fixed my dolls that had been exposed to mold in my storage unit. I figured I would just make a public post and tag people in it when they need assistance! This is just what worked for me so if you have a different process, that’s totally fine.
None of the dolls I treated had visible mold on them, they just smelled awful and were damp, but I think this treatment would work on visibly moldy dolls as well.
I started by taking all of the dolls completely apart and throwing the stuffing away. You can wash and dry it in a garment bag, but I had 15+ dolls to work on, so I wanted to simplify things.
I soaked the empty torsos and limbs in warm water with a mixture of a nicely scented dish soap and white vinegar. Vinegar is KEY because this is what kills the mold. Since the heads cant really be soaked, I dipped the hair in the same mixture and then washed it with a gentle shampoo. If you know how to restring, this is your best option cause the limbs will dry a lot faster when fully removed. If not, the body will need to be hung upside down for several days to fully dry. Putting them in front of a fan or even out in the fresh air will help speed up the drying process. Fresh air and sun do wonders for mold!
The final step in the process really seals the deal in killing the odor. A user on here recommended the D-Stinker spray from Twin Pines of Maine and it’s incredible! It’s specifically made to get mildew odors out of vinyl dolls. It can be a little sticky so use it sparingly on the hair, avoid the eyes, and be prepared to wipe down the vinyl after it does its thing.
For very moldy dolls you may need to repeat this process multiple times. You also may need to do things like removing the eyes and wig so the whole head can be soaked, but thankfully I didn’t need to do this.
Good luck, and feel free to comment any questions you may have!

I want to try chemical treatment of my water. However, I don't want to use a bandana to remove larger particles -- but something like a wide mouth water bag with a metal mesh filter cap. Anybody know of such a product?

Please disagree in the comments.
Gale - some playlist of songs you’ve never heard of compiled by an obscure online DJ. When you comment that it’s surprisingly pretty good he remarks that “you should have heard them on their first album, before they were famous.”
Karlach - crowd pleasers all the way. She’s got a mix called “summer heat” or something and it’s full of upbeat hit it songs from the last 50 years.
Shadowheart - religious metal music. Maybe some Evanescence. She bangs her head and mouths the words.
Wyll - a mix of old R&B songs, sentimental pop songs and Disney show tunes. He knows all the lyrics.
Astarion - some edgy remix of a really old song that reminds him of his youth
Jaheira - some really old songs that remind her of her youth. Thinks Fleetwood Mac is “what the kids are listening to” but really likes them.
Minsc - unironically plays anthem rock tunes
Halsin - some folk album that he brought a CD for. Listens to it on repeat.
I still haven’t figured out what Lazael or Minthara would play.

I don't consider myself the greatest dad in the world, but l always make an effort to be the best I can be. Lately, l've noticed that my wife has given up on her household duties. As a tattoo artist, I often stay up late drawing until 1-2 in the morning, and some nights I get very little sleep. Despite this, my partner doesn't make an effort to wake up when our daughter does, leaving me with only 4 hours of sleep to go and permanently mark people's bodies. While I wake up at 5:30 or 6am to take care of morning duties like getting our daughter dressed, making breakfast, and taking her for a walk or to the park, my wife sometimes sleeps in until 9 or 10 o'clock. On top of that, I work 8-10 hours a day, five days a week, and on my only two days off, I spend them with my daughter because I love her so much. It brings me joy to be around her and see her laughing, playing, and smiling.
I'm at a loss as to what to do because we've tried therapy, but my wife stormed out in a rage during our session. Initially, she agreed to therapy and even chose the therapist, but later she stated she chose the therapist for me because she thought "we would get along" she weaponized this later. My wife used to be a stay-at-home mom, but when I realized things weren't getting done, I asked her to get a job to contribute to the rent. Now she works at a retail store for 3-4 days a week, with 4-hour shifts. Despite setting boundaries, when she comes home, she claims to be too tired to do any housework, even though it wasn't getting done before and the duty has always fallen on me. Additionally, there is no intimacy in our relationship, which probably goes without saying. After our daughter was born, my partner confessed that she had our baby so that I wouldn't leave the relationship. I've lost all attraction to her, and I don't want to live like this forever. I know this sounds like a victim mentality but It feels like l've been taken advantage of under the pretense of love. I'm lost and seeking advice on what to do.
TL;DR;: I feel like my partner is a bad mother who isn’t upholding her end of the parenting and I am seeking advice because I feel like I’m being taken advantage of.

it’s not uncommon for this fanbase in general to complain about the audience etiquette and age of people attending the twins shows, and i can even understand a lot of the complaints. however! as someone who has attended 2 the garden shows and 2 enjoy shows, (and a handful of other punk/metal shows), you guys gotta chill out a little bit. respect the kids and they’ll respect you back! i’m 21, not quite a kid and not quite an “older” fan. but i have been a vada vada fan since around 2019, maybe 2018. there will be “annoying” fans, drunk weirdos, and people who don’t know how to be courteous in a crowd at pretty much any rowdy show. but honestly, i’ve never had a bad experience at any of the shears’ shows. they’ve always been memorable and fun as fuck. it’s valid to criticize and have disdain for the folks who are assholes. but have a little bit of patience for younger folks, and remember we all started somewhere. vada fans could use a little more camaraderie these days! (see ya at the Tampa show next month!)

Have had inner ear discomfort both sides, neck discomfort, inflammation, slightly swollen feeling, for over a year straight. Tinnitus and hyperacusis started 3-4 months ago. Tinnitus has slowly been increasing in loudness. Gets louder when I turn, move my head, open mouth wide. Have had extreme fatigue, heavy brain fog for over a year. Dizziness for about 3 months. A nuero ordered mri of brain which showed nothing. They were ruling out stroke, etc.
ENT did vestibular testing after 4 visits over 3 months of not getting better, got diagnosed a month ago with vestibular neuritis. Seen 3 different practitioners as same ent clinic. They don’t have much to offer or seem willing to help much further other than vestibular physical therapy order. One PA says Eustachian tube dysfunction as well, and says the tinnitus, hyperacusis, inner ear discomfort both sides, occasional distorted sound and slight sound fluctuation in right ear, which tested weak on VNG vestibular test, is probably from ETD. He prescribed nasal sprays and a month after starting fluticasone is when tinnitus started followed by hyperacusis. If it is etd it’s affecting both ears. Blood Allergy tests didn’t show much. Hearing test 4 months ago was normal, tho the test seems biased and not great and was before onset of T and H. Have had jaw discomfort and crackling more frequently the last 2 months. Neck muscle pains as well. Seeing dentist this week about tmj.
Feel like I’m in constant motion, dizzy, which lessens when laying down.
Current pcp said it was all mental, mentioned anti depressants, which I was on for years prior to health issues and it stopped working. He would only refer to a mental health counselor who knew something was not right and then I got VN diagnosis. Pcp makes me feel like a bad person, him and PA dismissed me at every one of 4 visits, so I can’t go there anymore and am waiting for new pcp.
Another un linked issue is heavy eye floaters both eyes, strange vision sensation, light sensitivity. This came on within weeks of feeling inner ear issues. Ophthalmologist did not see anything alarming. They are saying floaters with age. I am 35, nearsighted. He did not know much about autoimmune, Lyme, other possible causes, so he Agreed to send me to a retina specialist, which is in a few weeks.
I’m lined up to get a different opinion from a different ENT clinic, tho I don’t have my hope up for much help.
Was originally told I had mold toxicity.
Have had 2 aura migraine type events in the last 2 months. Some days wake up with headache at back of neck, head joint area. I’ve been to so many doctors and practitioners in Tx and Massachusetts, where I am now. My life has been destroyed for over a year and getting new issues and symptoms as time goes on vs better. Working with a dr on possible late stage Lyme, tho no 100% diagnosis. I am beyond exhausted and desperate to get better. I haven’t been able to work, given up my second job and big love of playing live music, singing, guitar. And my life career of woodworking has been impossible. The fatigue and brain fog, cognitive issues are terrible. Exertional malaise mental and physical activities happens quickly. Feel like I’m in a daze. Weak and achey busy. At the beginning of health downturn I had soow onset of fatigue turn heavy pain from herniated low spine discs 18 months ago. That nerve pain still exists most days, especially if I try to be even lightly active and lift anything over 15 pounds. I’m not overweight. All lab tests that have been done have been normal aside from a vibrant labs test showing 5 bands reactive igg Lyme. And 2 bands igg Babesia. Have tried so many supplements, clean organic diet. If you’ve read this far thank you. Any insight would be appreciated.

Most of the time I dress masc but sometimes dress fem and use she/her pronouns only, including at work. I live in the college dorms with community bathrooms- one male and one female on the other side.
I’m curious if anyone has came out as trans in college, and in more particularly if anyone has came out while living in the dorms. If you’re willing to share, what was that experience like? Did you have a personal bathroom or did you have community bathrooms, and how long did it take you to use the community bathroom that you more closely align with?
I’m mtf with no HRT or surgery and want to start dressing more fem presenting- including wearing dresses, skirts, heels, etc (growing out my hair to be about the top of my rib cage, it’s currently been almost 8 months since my last haircut where it was similar to a military cut). I’m scared to use the fem community bathroom because I don’t pass as a woman.

I just took my second shot yesterday, but my appetite is practically nonexistent. I have to force myself to eat. Yesterday, I only had a bag of chips and couldn’t finish half. Is it normal to have this much loss of appetite? I get this disgusted feeling and can’t/won’t eat. Is this normal? Has anyone else experienced this?